Four States Living Magazine October 2022

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ON THE COVER OCTOBER 2022

By day, Dr. James Ward can be found at his local veterinarian practice, The Vet. But when Dr. Ward isn’t treating pet patients or spending time with his family, he can be found creating, sampling, and sharing his home brews.

See “Brewin’ Ain’t Easy” on page 18.

TABLE OF CONTENTS

World

ALSO IN THIS ISSUE

The Way I

It An

INSIDE :

Chalissa Russell turned a holiday gift idea into a national, and now even international brand based locally in Texarkana, Texas.

See “World Domination” on page 10.

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VOLUME 29 • ISSUE 10 • OCTOBER 2022
WORLD DOMINATION
Domination 10-14 Brewin’ Ain’t Easy 18-25 We Are Washington 30-36 Soar Like an Eagle 40-46 A Judge for the People 50-51 Reflecting on 20 Years 52-58
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op-ed piece from the publisher 6 History Happens 60-61 Exquisite Interiors 62-69 Events 70-71 Ask the Experts 71 The Friends’ List 74
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The way I see it ...

PUBLISHER’S LETTER

Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

When I was growing up, my grandparents were divorced. I don’t remember many of my friends having divorced parents, much less divorced grandparents, but it was what it was. I was really close to my maternal grandmother, so I spent lots of my free time with her.

Only in photographs was my grandmother ever young; smoking, drinking, and the stress of not one divorce, but two, kept her working hard into her sixties until she could retire to a meager social security check. I think back on all of the societal stigmas she must have faced as a divorcee; both of her husbands left her for whatever was greener in the pasture across the way, but the women back then really caught the flack. I always thought she was cool. She listened to me. She loved to cook and always fed me whatever I requested. She was always telling stories about her childhood, her grandmother, or when she worked “on the homefront” during World War II. I hung on her every last word. She was “my person” growing up. Don’t get me wrong; I have an amazing mother, but I was a hellcat as a teenager, and moms aren’t cool until daugh ters become mothers themselves.

Thinking about my grandmother reminds me how much life she lived on a monthly check that was around $800. That woman never went without, unless you feel like a Whopper sandwich once a week isn’t satisfactory as a treat from a “restau rant”. But Grandma liked her own cooking better than anything she could buy at a restaurant. If we did get her to go out to eat for a birthday or a holiday celebration, she couldn’t find a nice thing to say about the food.

Her passion was cooking. She tootled around to every grocery store on Wednes days, the day that the grocery store sales flyers came in the Texarkana Gazette, and she stocked up on items that were bargains from each store. Careful planning went into her weekly menus. She cooked Monday - Thursday at lunch for her only son. For decades, he left his office about 11:45 to arrive at her house at straight up noon for a perfectly balanced meal that she had made from scratch. Her daughters were rarely invited for lunch. Those lunches were their special time. Now that I’m older, I understand wanting more personalized time with each of my kids alone. After he left at 12:45 prompt, she would watch her soap opera, clean up the kitchen, play solitaire on the floor, or read a book. I’m just so grateful for all of the things I learned from a woman who never intended to live out the last twenty years of her life alone, but she sure did make the best of it. Her happiness came from food, cooking, watching people enjoy the efforts of her cooking, and of course, sending us home with leftovers. My biggest scoldings from her came from my failure to return her jars and containers.

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PUBLISHER

Dr. Robin Rogers

EDITOR

Suzy Turner

GRAPHIC DESIGNER

Shane Darby

SALES REPRESENTATIVE

Victoria Herman

On $800 a month, Tupperware was a luxury in other folks’ houses, and leftovers were packed in recycled containers that had first held sour cream, or margarine, or miracle whip, or cool whip. Her containers were precious to her, so you had better wash them out and bring them back if you ever expected more of her cooking.

As I said, in my teens and early twenties, I was too busy to learn how she made hot water cornbread. I can still see her patting out that bread and dropping it into the grease. She loved smearing it with butter and feeding me a first bite, always to a moan of approval. If I could tell that younger version of me anything it would be to pay attention more. Learn how to cook like she could. But then I come back to reality. Cooking and food are not my passions.

I truly despise the grocery store. Dirty dishes gross me out. And, the whole process is exhausting. Who wants to go to work to come home and work? Nope. Nope. Nope.

My grandmother has been gone 23 years now, but I still think of her sometimes daily. She never had nice things, but she was passionate about family and feeding that family her food.

I can see my oldest daughter Ellen being more like her great-grandmother than I ever was, and that’s great. I do wonder what my passions will be when I get older, and stop coloring my hair, and have grandchildren. All I know is that anything worth do ing is worth doing right, and that means you have to put the time in.

That’s what Dr. James Ward, veterinarian by day, and brewmaster extraordinaire by night and weekend says. You have to put in the time to brew good beer. Dr. Ward is so unbelievably passionate about brewing great beer that he HAD to be this month’s cover. He’s also an extraordinarily good guy, who, along with the other Four States Fer menters, will be pouring tastings of 20-40 homebrews in the Biergarten at Oktoberfest on October 15th for Main Street Texarkana. He says that the Four States Fermenters is a group of “mostly bearded men who love to talk beer.” The one thing I know is if my grandmother was still around, she would find a way to feed these guys in trade for drinking their beer. That was the other thing my grandma loved - a couple of good beers - every single night.

Cheers to her, cheers to them, and cheers to Oktoberfest on the Line on the 15th. There will be vendors, children’s activities, live music all day long, and food, and did Dr. James Ward say beer? YES! Prost!

Hope you enjoy the passion projects of all the people we highlight this month. It’s amazing to see people create greatness where nothing could have remained. I’m proud of the stories. And as always, thanks for reading FSLM.

FEATURE PHOTOGRAPHER

Shane Darby

Makayla Jones Photography

Dr. Robin Rogers

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Kyle Barrett

Velvet Hall Cool Jennifer Jordan Lindsey McMillan

Kelsey Rankin

Suzy Turner

Lisa Thompson

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UNITED WAY OF GREATER TEXARKANA 2022-2023 CAMPAIGN KICKOFF United Way of Greater Texarkana held it 2022-2023 Campaign Kickoff on September 9 at the Texarkana Convention Center. This year’s campaign chair is David Mims, Farmers Insurance agent, and the campaign goal is $900,000.

Emily Green and Ana Willis Summer Nelson, Keely Bledsoe and Cheryl Gildon Dr. Becky Kesler, Dena Youngblood and Dr. Genia Bullock Jamie Branson and Pam White David Mims, Rich Walker, Mark Bledsoe and Mike Mahone
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WORLD DOMINATION

How one local business owner went from small town girl to international distributor

Chalissa Russell met her husband Garreth on a cruise in August of 2007. The two were on family vacations and their families sat at the same dinner table together one night. Chalissa and Garreth hit it off, and the rest, as they say, is his tory. Fast forward a decade and a half, and the Russells are now happily married, living in Red Lick with two boys, Garren and Stryder, ages 8 and 7.

Chalissa grew up in Central Texas, the oldest of eight siblings. She graduated high school in 2005 and held two jobs by the time she was fifteen.

“I believe my main reason for being so successful is my work ethic,” Chal issa said. “I’ve worked a minimum of 2 jobs from the age of 15 up until last year, so for 20 years. When Garreth was in pharmacy school, he couldn’t work. I worked 4 jobs for those 4 years.”

Chalissa’s work ethic is evident in many ways in her life—both as a full-time mom and a business owner.

In 2017, around the Christmas holidays, Chalissa started making bath bombs for gifting. By February of the next year, at the request of many, and to meet de mands for supply, she created a brand-new business: Fizz Bizz. What started as a creative way to treat her bunco group during the holidays turned into a national, and now even international brand based locally in Texarkana, Texas.

“Most of our businesses is wholesale,” Chalissa said. “We are carried at various stores within Texarkana, and we are in all 50 states, as well as many international locations from the Caribbean to Europe. Our most recent location to pick up is Australia.”

Chalissa has lofty goals for her business, but not the kind that most would expect.

“My main goal is to maintain a healthy work environment and make Fizz Bizz the best company to work for,” she said. “Originally, when I started Fizz Bizz, my goal was to take my boys to Disney. Since then, we’ve taken them, our extended family, and even employees.”

Travel plays a big part in the Russells’ lives.

“Our whole vibe is travel,” Chalissa said. “We want to see and do as much as we can. Enjoy life to the fullest. We feel that the boys are only this little today, and tomorrow they will be bigger. We love to hike, snorkel, and adventure. Universal Studios in Orlando is our happy place, and we also love the beach and love to cruise.”

Chalissa and Garreth travel in any spare time they have.

“Even if it’s just a weekend trip to Knoxville or Dallas, we get away when we can,” she said.

But Chalissa also spends her free time dreaming up new ideas for her business.

“My biggest hobby would be trying to come up with new ideas for Fizz Bizz,” she said. “This company has sparked my creativity in a way that I didn’t know was possible, and the idea of coming up with the next big thing is what drives me the most.”

photo by SHANE DARBY
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One of Chalissa’s favorite things is scratching a new location off the map when they pick up a new sales region.

photo by SHANE DARBY

The boys love to pitch in and keep things fun in the Fizz Bizz shop!

At the time of the writing of this article Chalissa was able to scratch off an area in Australia!

“Our whole vibe is travel.”

Fizz Bizz pushes the envelope on bath bombs, incorporating shapes, bright col ors and creatively themed bath bombs into their product line along with sugar scrubs, bath soaks, shower oil, and linen spritzes. Their social media presence and website are fun, trendy and inviting. It is easy to see why Chalissa has been successful, and why the business has taken off, growing from a DIY project to an international company sold in 13 countries around the world.

“It was a lot harder in the beginning,” Chalissa said about balancing work and family. “Now that the boys are both in school, it’s become a lot easier to balance. I have a fabulous team at Fizz Bizz. The core to a good company is no doubt built on a foundation of employees that help support it to grow. We wouldn’t be here today without them.”

Chalissa gives a lot of credit to others, but the company and its success was undoubtedly built on her work ethic.

“I believe the experience from all those jobs I worked when I was younger is what helped me the most creating and running Fizz Bizz,” she said. “I give every thing 1000%. I have an off or a full throttle mode—there is no in between.”  Chalissa and her family are also very involved in their community when they aren’t keeping up with demanding work/school schedules and traveling.

“Family is what brought me to Texarkana,” she said. “We love Red Lick Elementary and the community that surrounds it. We’re very involved with the boys’ school and the community. It’s just on a different level.”

Chalissa’s sons are often an inspiration to her in her business. “Garren loves Roblox, soccer, and spending time with his family,” Chalissa said. “Stryder is into dinosaurs, drawing, singing anything, and playing in his room. We have music going in our household 24/7.”

A creative at heart, Chalissa’s passion for life, family, friends and Fizz Bizz is evident in everything she does. While no one can see the future, if Chalissa Rus sell is around, you can be sure that her business will be growing; what once was a hobby for her has now become an international endeavor.

photo by SHANE DARBY Ti’erra Lee, manager of Fizz Bizz’s Shower Department, gets orders filled to ship out.
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LITERACY COUNCIL OF BOWIE AND MILLER COUNTIES SPELLING BEE

On July 23, the Literacy Council of Bowie and Miller Counties held its annual Spelling Bee in the Truman Arnold Center on the Texarkana College campus.  Winners included: first place – Texarkana College; second place – the Children’s Advocacy Center; and third place – Fab/Co and Texarkana Parent Magazine.  Other awards were given for: Best Dressed – Fab/Co and Texarkana Parent Magazine; Most Facebook Likes –Children’s Advocacy Center; Silent Auction Sales – The Literacy Council Tutors; Most Spirited Audience – Kiwanis; and Buzz Out Award – Friends for a Cause.

Texarkana College Team - Jesse Hausler, Joe Stark, Sawyer Jones (bee) and Madeleine Russell Literacy Council Tutor Team - Brenda Pharr, Jackie Hudson, Sawyer Jones (bee) and Beth Carlton Fab/Co. and Texarkana Parent Team - Jill Whittington, Sawyer Jones (bee), Dani Hamblett and Traci Pitman Children’s Advocacy Center Team - Kaleigh Dodson, Savannah Quinn, Sawyer Jones (bee) and Sharnell James Kiwanis Club Teams - Trinity Godwin, James Syler, Lauren Layne, Brenda Rochelle, Sawyer Jones (bee), Jennifer Lewis, Barbara Walker, Jaxson Walker and Heather James
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BREWIN’

AIN’T EASY

George Bernard Shaw said, “Imagination is the beginning of creation. You imagine what you desire, you will what you imagine, and at last you create what you will.”

Desire, imagination, and creativity are the heart of Dr. James Ward’s personal passion: homebrewing.

By day, Dr. Ward can be found at his local veterinarian practice, The Vet. He has lived in Texarkana for sixteen years, but he is originally from Osceola, Arkansas. On Texarkana, he says, “I met my wife here, so I love Texarkana!” James is married to Tammy Ward, a CRNA and health and wellness coach. Together they have two children, Sara and Spencer. The family also has three dogs: two long-haired dachshunds, Oliver and Ginger, and Journey, a goldendoodle.

When Dr. Ward isn’t treating pet patients or spending time with his family, he can be found creating, sampling, and sharing his home brews. James began homebrewing roughly eight years ago, when at a party he met local attorney Jim Cook, who “taught him how to brew.” Jim won several awards for his home brews in Mississippi, and wanted to bring the art of homebrewing to Texarkana by teaching others the craft. Along with his friend Clifton Matthews, James sat down with Cook and learned how to brew. James says, “we took the basic things Jim taught us, and then we went crazy with it!” James has what is truly a “small microbrewery” set up in his garage with ten beers on tap and ready to serve. When he began brewing, he attempted to recreate known beers, “My first original recipe was Big Tam, and it was an attempt to make a better Budweiser in the style of a Blonde Ale.” Big Tam is lovingly named after Dr. Ward’s wife, Tammy, and she named it - not him. The ‘big’ in Big Tam comes from this beer having a higher starting gravity, which leads to a higher level of alcohol or being “heavier” in the finished product than a typical Blonde Ale would be.

Per Tammy’s suggestion, James began competing with his beers at brewing competitions, winning ten medals. Not long after being success ful in the competition sphere, he wanted to share his beer with a wider audience and began working with the owners of local Texarkana breweries. He first worked with restaurateur Bill Scurlock, and together, Dr. Ward’s

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Dr. Ward shared his Imperial Oatmeal Stout with our photographer, Shane, and he confirmed it was delicious! photo by SHANE DARBY

recipe for Night Night brewed at Pecan Point and saw great success. James then brewed professionally with four taps at 30 Burger. Although he has won various medals, James is most proud that “The Octagon,” his take on the Oktoberfest style of beer, received 100% acceptance from the customers at 30 Burger. He says, “I was just interested in it. Brewing is a lot of work, but when you get finished, you’ve got beer.” The ability to learn the process with a mentor was key to his competitive and commercial success.

Learning and perfecting the craft was essential, and Dr. Ward believes learning how to brew is easiest with a mentor, so he is grateful for the time he spent learning under Jim Cook. As a passion project, James believes, “you can learn to make really good beer really quick, but it’s not how long you do something. It’s about how much of your time you’re willing to devote to it.” He devotes six hours to his craft on a brew day, and countless hours reading and researching methods, ingredients, and new brews he would like to create.

On the actual process of brewing, Cook emphasized that “keeping your stuff [pots, pans, equipment] clean” is the most important part of homebrew ing. “If you keep your stuff clean, you’ll get good beer. That’s the number one rule,” James says. He uses a three-vessel system beginning with a hot liquor tank. Filtered water is heated in the hot liquor tank before the grain is ground and added to the mash tun. The hot water circulates through the grains. Then, “through an enzymatic process, you release the sugars” which creates wort, James explains. Next, it is collected in the brew kettle where it is boiled and hops and other ingredients are added. After sixty minutes, the brew is sterile, and maintaining the sterility throughout the rest of the process is of high importance. From the boil kettle, it is pump-circulated through a counter exchange to cool it down, and finally into the fermenter to hit pitching temperature. He says, “brewers make wort, and yeast makes beer. The yeast

Dr. Ward’s beers have won several medals, of which he is very proud. photo by SHANE DARBY
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Dr. Ward builds his own kegerators to keep his beers at the perfect temperature. He brings them to events so he can pour like a pro.

photos by SHANE DARBY

does all the rest of the work.” James says the yeast needs to be kept happy, and they will turn the wort into alcohol and carbon dioxide, creating bubbles. After the yeast finishes its work, cold crashing and force carbonating both impact the clarity of the beer in the finishing process. “And then you drink it,’’ he adds with a smile.

Dr. Ward also has a glycol chiller, which allows him to set uniform temperatures. “With that,” he says, “I can turn beer from grain to glass in two weeks which is highly efficient.” A traditional Oktoberfest or Märzen beer was brewed in old Germany in March to be enjoyed in September. This beer would take so long to brew because it was being brewed with the ambient temperature. With the use of the glycol chiller, James can shorten the process from six to seven months down to a short two weeks.

In addition to his own homebrewing craft, James leads the Four States Fermenters, a group of primarily, as he says, “men with beards who enjoy beer.” Although COVID-19 and the death of a beloved founding member, Roy Rocholl, slowed the Fermenters down, they now try to meet about once a month to talk all things beer, to sample one another’s new brews, and to plan for events at which they will showcase their beer.

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The Four States Fermenters will showcase 20-40 of their beers at Oktoberfest ready for attendees to sample. Along with Dr. Ward, Jeffrey Judge of Flying Heart Brewing & Pub in Bossier City and Jeff Pieper of Red River Brewpub will be in attendance. James is as passionate about beer culture as he is about homebrewing. The comradery of the group and sharing his passion with others is a huge part of the homebrewing for James. Although learning and studying beer is important to him, creating beer is where his passion lies.

Sharing that passion with others through beer culture is highly important to Dr. Ward. When offered a sample by a home brewer, James says, “you should try it, and you should be very honest, but if you don’t like the beer, simply say that you can tell it is made well but isn’t to your taste.” Home brewers understand that their beers will not be liked by everyone, but they still want their craft to be appreciated.

Dr. Ward encourages anyone interested in the craft of homebrewing to find and learn under a mentor. His imagination, desire, and creativity are evident, and he is happy to share his wealth of knowledge with newcomers to the world of homebrewing in Texarkana. Cheers!

There’s nothing better than getting together with fellow beer enthusiasts to talk about ... what else? BEER!
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FRIENDS FOR A CAUSE KICKBALL TOURNAMENT

On Saturday, September 10, Friends for a Cause held its fourth annual Kickball Tournament at Karrh Park in Texarkana, Texas. Businesses, organizations and individuals entered the tournament in hopes of winning money for the charity of their choice.

HealthCARE Express took home the gold, winning $1,200 for the Alzheimer’s Alliance. Second place went to The Rancher’s Wife; they won $500 for CASA. Third place winner was a local team called the Texarkana Toe Jammers; they won $250 for the Alzheimer’s Alliance.

Friends For a Cause is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization that supports causes in the  community by creating awareness where it needs attention, volunteering their time and services to those in need, and connecting people so that they can add value to one another.

HealthCARE Express Team The Rancher’s Wife Team Texarkana Toe Jammers Team (front row) Layton Jackson, Dianne Martin, William Bracewell and Jo Neel; (middle row) Brittney Frost, Lacy McMillen, Kelle Smallwood and Lauren Boyd; (back row) Becky Thompson, Justin White,Robert Irwin, Jana Green and Laquisha Harris Adam Mullens, Steven Baker, Wesley Canipe, Easton Smith, Corey Williams, Sylvester Parker, Troy Browning, Chris Thomas, and Jamell Foate. Robin Rhodes, Suki O’Neal, Reagan McDaniel and Keith Beason Chrissy Gonzalez and Elyssa Teel Bryan Prinsen and Dr. Cindy Porter
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Lindsey Duren, Sarah Fowler holding Sawyer Thompson, Natalie Starkey and Kendal Thompson Jaxson and Barbara Walker with Cody Adams
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WE HAVE TO DO BETTER.

With over 7000 students on 13 campuses, Texarkana Independent School District is the largest school district in the Texarkana region, and its 4th largest employer.

These photos show the current conditions some of our students and teachers are forced to tolerate now.

WE CAN DO BETTER. A YES vote on Prop A and Prop B is a vote to do better for our students and teachers in the TISD. Because they deserve better. • New 600-student Dunbar Early Education Center (Pre-K) at Central District Location TBD • Combined Spring Lake Park and Highland Park Elementaries at new 800-student elementary campus on existing Pine Street property • Additions and renovations to Wake Village Elementary • New career and technology facilities at Texas High School • Improved safety and security systems • New buses POLITICAL AD PAID FOR BY TISD TOMORROW PAC, PAUL MILLER, TREASURER. BOWIE COUNTY GENERAL ELECTION NOVEMBER 8, 2022 EARLY VOTING OCTOBER 24-NOVEMBER 4, 2022 VOTE FOR THE KIDS! For more information visit tigersforthekids.com PROPOSED IMPROVEMENT PROJECTS

WE ARE

WASHINGTON

Donnie Reid took a historic school and turned it into a multi-purpose community center that is making a difference is Texarkana

photo by MAKAYLA JONES PHOTOGRAPHY
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Alarge, colorful mural along a wall in the courtyard is a bold proclamation of what the place stands for. It reads, “We Are Washington” and within the walls of this historic Arkansas school, the community is being aided in many ways. As stated in their pamphlet, the Washington Community Development Center has a “mission to help those in the community improve their lives by creating aware ness for both children and adults and funding/supporting the needs of families residing in the community by utilizing the center as a hub for classes, programs, and community events.”

In early 2022, Booker T. Washington High School, formerly known as Wash ington Charter School, was purchased from the Texarkana Arkansas School District. Built in 1926, the school served as an area high school until 1969 when integration of local schools began. In conjunction with the Washington Alumni Association and local volunteers, a new community center was born. It is the brainchild of Mr. Donnie Reid, Executive Director of We Are Washington and I Am a Hero, Inc., a non-profit organization he started in 2017. Donnie had been wanting to open a multi-purpose community center, and when the school property became available, he jumped at the opportunity. The center hosted an open house last March, and organizers have been busy promoting and creating various programs for all ages. They work in collaboration with a variety of non-profit organizations which provide resources, classes, meals, and many other events. This valuable outreach program provides services free of charge and aims to create awareness for all ages while supporting the community.

The recreation w ing is in the area of the school which encompasses the gymnasium. The gym floor has recently been resurfaced using the original wood. Newly remodeled classrooms now house various recreation equipment such as pool tables, arcade machines, xbox gaming, as well as a theatre room complete with bean bag seating. There are also quiet study areas and rooms for tutoring. New paint, inviting decor, and state of the art equipment create entertaining areas for children and teenagers. More unique rooms are being added and renovated, such as the podcast and music recording rooms. Volun teers are in place to assist the kids who come, and all ages are welcome, with recreational areas catering to different age groups. The recreation wing is open after school Monday through Friday from 3:30-7:30 p.m. and Saturday from 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

This past summer, We Are Washington hosted a thriving daily program where approximately 130 children attended. An active sports program is in place thanks to one community partner, Texarkana League of Champions. Football, basketball, and other sport teams are busy year round. Mr. Donnie Reid is proud to showcase the center, wanting to give back to the community. A native of Hooks, Texas, Donnie is a self-proclaimed “second chance kind of guy,” who always enjoyed working with children by coaching and teaching, and noticed a great need in the area for kids to have something to do and get direction and support outside of their home. Says Donnie, “I want to help give more opportunities and direction to those born into tough circumstances.”

We Are Washington employs six full-time employees and varying part-time staff, including teenagers in the recreational programs. Two people taking the lead at the center are Mondo Barry, Center Site Director and Chasity Russell, Director of Finance and Programming. They stay busy with programming, fundraising, and working closely with the community partners. Adjacent to the recreation wing is the cafeteria. Monday through Friday from 3:30-4:30 p.m., meals are served here, thanks to United Families of America-AR. This organization provides nutritious meals on site, as well as monthly meal boxes to disperse to those in need. The center also has a spacious outside courtyard with areas for large blow ups, recreation, and quiet spaces.

On the opposite side of the center is the Life Skills Wing with more classrooms, a library, and space for various programs including those hosted by the Literacy Council of Bowie & Miller Counties, J.C. Center of Empowerment, Hope for Texarkana, and Pink Behind the Thin Blue Line. These non-profit entities provide classes, support, and meetings for all ages. The ability to have these programs under the same roof is beneficial in many ways. As Chasity says, “To be able to get the word out about the center and to have all available resources that the community needs in one place.  That is what is so wonderful about having so many different nonprofits and community partners. It’s easier to get all the various services if they have a common connection, and Washington is that connection.”

Most of the programs held at the center are faith-based and in partnership with other outreach programs which aim to strengthen the community as a whole. For example, certain classes are aimed at teenagers to instill money management and leadership skills. Others are focused on crafts like quilting, teaching others to sew or knit, and various cooking classes have been offered featuring different ethnic cuisine. Additional non-profit agencies represented include The Scholars, Package of Love, and Acclimation Change Transformation & Sustainability (ACTS). The classrooms and other spaces throughout the center are uniquely decorated to encourage people to come and learn. Line dance instruction, along with fitness and nutrition classes are also offered.

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“We have to build bridges to fix our problems, not walls.”
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A bonus to We Are Washington is the fact that it is the home of the Booker T. Washington High School Alumni Archives, located in the front original building of the former school. The school’s history is evident throughout the center from the original bleacher benches in the gym to the lockers which line the hallways. Donnie praises how fortunate they were to get the building in good shape. He credits many people who have helped this dream become a reality: “The smart thing is to invest in this community. I want it become an example of how to change a community and city as a whole for the better.” It is his hope that We Are Washington can continue to help the community by offering services to all who wish to participate. He applauds others with helping this passion come to fruition, including Texarkana Arkansas Mayor Allen Brown, City Manager Jay Ellington, and Dr. Becky Kesler and Dr. Robin Hickerson with the Texarkana Arkansas Independent School District. Donnie praises how seamless the transition has been to convert the 56,000 square feet space into a multi-faceted center.

Also located in the front of the school building is the Pathway Resource Center, which provides free services for expecting parents and includes ultrasounds, preparation classes, a Baby Boutique, and other resources. In addition, there is a strong presence and support from the Texarkana, AR Police Department. Former Chief of Police Kristi Ben nett and Bobby Jordan, Interim Chief of Police, support the center and outreach programs. The Pride Academy operates out of the center. All of the non-profit partners are actively working to bring more resources and programming for the community center.

Donnie is passionate about We Are Washington’s growth and is eager to help make more things happen: “I believe

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that we all are created with a purpose and to help others. We have to build bridges to fix our problems, not walls.”

There are various ways to help and get involved at We Are Washington. They are always looking for volunteers who can share their special skills and abilities by teaching a class, helping with the youth, or making charitable donations. To operate a facility such as this takes a lot of people and re sources. As Chasity states, “We are always looking for more ways to reach more people. With each new milestone and community connection, you can see Washington growing by leaps and bounds.” The center’s administrators are hard at work adding more community partners, as well as corporate and individual sponsors. Donnie agrees, adding, “We urge people to educate and invest. We need your help to make Texarkana a better place.” We Are Washington encourages those interested to visit the center and take a tour.

Several upcoming events are being hosted at the center, including National Night Out Glow Block Party on October 4th from 5:30-9:00 p.m. and a Fall Festival and Trunk or Treat on October 29th from 3:00 -7:00 p.m. For more information, visit their website at www.wearewashington.org or their social media presence on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. Donnie and We Are Washington are visibly making a difference in Texarkana, putting time, efforts, financial resources, and passion into We Are Washington, to make Texarkana a better place.

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SCENE ABOUT TOWN

OPPORTUNITIES, INC. HOSTS 33RD ANNUAL GOLF PRE-PARTY AND TOURNAMENT

Opportunities, Inc. held its 33rd Annual Invitational Golf Pre-Party and Golf Tournament on September 11-12 at Texarkana Country Club. The events featured celebrity World Long Drive Champion, Dan Boever, as the guest speaker.  This tournament has raised over $2.5 million over the years.  This year’s turnout was great with 112 golfers and 65 sponsors.

Sherry Young and Corie Woodman Texas High STUCO Bella Fuqua and Cole Gideon Matthew Steel and Bo Coffman Clay Roberts, Matthew Steel, Bo Coffman, and Dan Boyles
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Tim Asimos, Ty Patterson, Corie Woodman, Matt Wilson, and Josh Burks James Powell Joan Carter, Corie Woodman, Patty Smith, and Sherry Young Corie Woodman, Whitney Fuqua, and Amanda Willis Judy Morgan, Sherry Young, Patty Smith, and Megan Schroeder Chad Dowd and Joe Nichols Ryan Morgan and Judy Morgan Cary Patterson and Randy Schmidt
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SOAR LIKE AN EAGLE

There’s a new generation of Eagle Scouts and they are thriving

The Boy Scouts organization has been internationally renowned for 112 years as a character and leadership program for boys. Heralded as a premier youth civic organization, BSA claims leaders such as Neil Armstrong, Hank Aaron, Martin Luther King, Jr. and Bill Gates among its members. The Texarkana community, through our own Caddo Area Council, has taught hundreds of boys how to tie knots, build fires, and grow to become excellent citizens. Families have supported their sons’ troops, with Mom and me Cub Scout campouts, and dads serving as den, pack, and troop leaders. Girls have enjoyed some Scouting opportunities; they could join Cub Scout dens through the age of 10 and participate in the Ventur ing and Sea Scouts programs. However, they could not participate in Boy Scouts. Sisters would tag along on campouts, some of them wondering when they could participate in their older brothers’ adventures and earn their own prestigious Eagle rank, the highest rank possible in Scouting.

In 2019, these girls were granted their wish. BSA opened the Boy Scouts to include girls ages 11 through 17. The organization renamed itself Scouts BSA. Girl troops began to form within councils, as separate troops, to work alongside boy troops and complete the requirements to advance in Scouting.

Within the Caddo Area Council, three girl troops have been operating since 2019. Troop 1 welcomed its first group of girls through Scoutmaster Sigrunn Yost and Assistant Scoutmaster Phillip Jordan. Sigrunn’s two sons earned their Eagle rank, and Phillip also earned his Eagle rank, all through Troop 16, and they know the rigors of the Scouting program. Both wanted their daughters to experience the benefits of Scouting– the building of strong character traits and leadership skills that they can rely on for life. Originally, Sigrunn had to think through the idea of becoming a Scoutmaster. “When the Scouts recruit leaders they say ‘it’s only an hour a week’. I knew it was much more than an hour a week because both of

my boys’ leaders put in many hours a week,” she says. “The reason I finally gave in is that the men/leaders that asked me were the men that were my sons’ leaders (Mike Asher, Bill Miller, Steve Rushing, Fred Norton). These men put in a lot of work for my boys and if they thought I could do it I knew I could and I also couldn’t tell them no.” Phillip comments, “ In an era where women are now serving in the highest offices in the land– the Vice Presidency, the Speaker of the House, numerous Justices of the Supreme Court and countless other public and private leadership roles– it only makes sense to equip our young ladies with the same leadership training and life skills we’ve spent generations teaching to our young men. When the opportunity came along to help make that happen, I jumped at the chance, because I do not believe that we can ever have too many Eagle Scouts in this country.”

The five Scouts in Troop 1 have been earning merit badges, camping as a single troop and with other troops at Camp Orr and Camp Rockefeller in the summer, and volunteering in the community. Rosie Jordan, Olivia Kimmel, and Morgan Yost have so far earned the Star rank, and Payton and Ashlyn Shuman are First Class. Just like boys, girls need to complete 21 required merit badges for Eagle rank. Some of these required badges are more time-consuming than others. For the non-Eagle required merit badges, the Scouts can choose which ones they would like to earn. “Last summer I took the kayaking merit badge among others,” Olivia Kimmel explains. “I already knew how to kayak, so taking this class was very fun and relaxing. Except for the part where they flip you, I wouldn’t exactly call that relaxing, but I will say that part was the most fun. At Camp Orr we also hiked the infamous Antenna Pines– it’s straight up a mountain at 3 a.m.!” For Rosie Jordan, campouts are most enjoyable. “I love to wake up in the mornings in my tent at a campout; I love that feeling.”

Back Row: Troop 1 leaders Kandice Kimmel, Sigrunn Yost, and Phillip Jordan. Scouts on Front Row: Ashlyn Shuman, Peyton Shuman, Rosie Jordan, Morgan Yost, and Olivia Kimmel.
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“It only makes sense to equip our young ladies with the same leadershiptraining and life skills we’ve spent generations teaching to our young men.”
Back: Ashlyn Shuman and Olivia Kimmel. Front: Peyton Shuman, Rosie Jordan, and Morgan Yost.
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and served as Cubmaster for about 10 years. When He crossed over into Scouts, I began working with the troop along with being Cubmaster. When my son was in Scouts my daughter used to tag along. When she turned 14 I started a Ventur ing crew here so that she could be a part. Even after my children aged out of the program, I stayed in,” Karen explains. “When I heard they were going to allow girls I was ecstatic. Troop 5 has always had sisters going to campouts and trips from the very beginning of me working with Scouts. Having 3 granddaughters, it was just natural for me to want to be a part of the girls troop.”

Troop 5 attends campouts in Arkansas most months of the year and summer camp as well. “We float the Buffalo rIver and fish the White River in March; we stay at Camp Orr. We have attended summer camp at Kinsey in Louisiana, and we go to Lake DeGray and stay at the scout camp there every year,” Karen states. The girls have enjoyed earning their kayaking, canoeing, and small boat sailing merit badges at these locations. Aunna Golden and Emma Wright are pursuing their Eagle rank and should earn it by the end of the year, according to Karen. “I like the fact that I am learning leadership skills, responsibilities and to be honor able,” says Emma. Makenzi Golden adds, “I enjoy getting to do different stuff that I wouldn’t get to do without Scouts.”

Troop 5 out of Hope, led by Karen Smith, boasts six female Scouts–Aunna Golden, Makenzi Golden, Emma Wright, Mary Martinez, Melody Martinez and Dakota Greet. They meet weekly alongside the Troop 5 boys. The troop formed mainly out of Karen’s desire to teach Scouting to girls. “I was my son’s den leader Troop 5 Troop 5 cooking dinner at Camp Kinsey
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Scout Troop 5 of Hope, Akransas, at Kinsey Scout Reservation
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When Big Momma Phillips learned that BSA was opening to girls, she contacted Glenn Crowder, the Scoutmaster of the Troop 8 boys, and asked for her grand daughters to join Troop 8 as a separate female troop in early 2019. Currently, the girls’ Troop 8 hosts seven girls who love “anything to do with camping,” according to Big Momma, who serves as Scoutmaster. The troop participates in campouts or a service activity every month, and also attends summer camp in Kinsey, like Troop 5. Leighton Kelems has reached her Second Class rank; Lilly Kisselburg is a Tenderfoot and Nevaeh Matlock is Scout rank. Dakota Kisselburg, and Noami Creer have earned Star Scout rank, and Ashlyn Kelems serves as the Scout mascot.

Arianna (Anna) DePoi holds the distinct honor of being the Caddo Area Council’s first female Scout to earn Eagle rank. Anna was the first girl to be welcomed into Order of the Arrow and hold office as Second Vice Chief. She was also the first BSA girl to give a report to the State of Texas. Anna now serves as a Junior Scoutmaster adult leader for Troop 8.

Although some people were initially hesitant about having girls in Scouts, Karen says that “once I talked to them and explained that we have been having girls go with us and be a part of us for the last 20 years, but now they can earn the badges, people seem to look at it in a different light. The community here in Hope has been great.” Sigrunn Yost echoes this sentiment. “At first I heard a lot of grumbling but as time goes on and the more we do the more it’s being accepted. We have gone to summer camp the past two years and have had only positive experiences.” Big Momma Phillips adds, “The start had several learning curves and showed others we are here to stay and dedicated to the Scout way. There is a 92% acceptance of girls in Scouts now and the other percentage, well, they will learn what Scouting means one day. The few obstacles have helped the girls to work harder, be team focused, and do more to prove they belong.” Kandice Kimmel, a Troop 1 parent who also has a son in Troop 16, is thrilled to have her daughter in Scouting. “I am so proud of Troop 1 and my daughter. They had to overcome a lot of controversy concerning girls in Scouts, but they both have done it with humility and grace. Through Scouting, Olivia has learned she has the determination and grit to do

Troop 8 leader Ellon Phillips with granddaughters, Naomi Creer and Arianna Depoi.
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most things, and sometimes even better than the boys (twin brother included)!”

As for whether the girls can accomplish as much as the boys, the Scoutmasters give a resounding affirmation. “They are just as hard working if not more than some of our boys,” Karen comments. “They will push a boy that is being a little lazy. I can ask that boy, ‘are you going to let those girls out do you?’, and he will put in a higher gear. The men say that our group’s IQ increased when we allowed girls in. I say we do smell better now.”

All three Scoutmasters love their roles in these girls’ lives and they want all of their girls to earn Eagle. Karen remarks, “If through Scouting I can keep a child out of trouble or from going down that wrong path, then it is a good day.” Sigrunn adds, “I love seeing the look on their face when they have done or learned something for the first time. I love seeing them want to help and volunteer. It’s also a huge bonus that I get to have all of this time with my daughter.” Big Momma concurs, “all these girls amaze me every year, the growth and dedication to be the best is fascinating to watch.”

These three troops demonstrate that girls are thriving in Scouting. What an admirable task it is to help to train these girls to become future leaders and pro ductive citizens of our city, our states, and our country. Big Momma sums it up best: “our goals are to seek change in this ever changing world and learn to accept others on the merit of kindness, to learn the skills for life, to be willing to change ourselves, and to always have forever fun.”

Troop 8 Arianna Depoi and Ellon Phillips
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SCENE ABOUT TOWN

WOMEN OF HOPE & COURAGE HOST CHAMPAGNE SOIREE FOR CASA

The Women of Hope & Courage recently held a Champagne Soiree at Northridge Country Club benefitting CASA for Children and the Texarkana Children’s Advocacy Center. The event was a celebration of CASA Volunteer Advocates who advocate on behalf of children in the child welfare system. In 2021, CASA for Children and the Texarkana Children’s Advocacy Center collectively served 1,340 children.

Jacyln Thayne and Chase Magness Ginny Asimos, Kelli Phillips, Megan Menefee, Leah Orr, Mindi Pruett, Katie Andrus, Marianne Hawkins, and Clara Tengwall Melanie Cockerell and Collins Cockerell Debbie Schlonga and Caroline Woodward Missy Davison, Emily Green, Malenda Cree, and Misty Honea
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Sarah Long and Rachael Potter Missy Davison, Judy Morgan, and Kristi Kirkwood Cheryl Timmons, Dianne Martin, and LaMoya Burks Amy Mahadi, Pat Nance, Judge Jack, and Joan Carter
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A JUDGE FOR THE PEOPLE

To all, free time is precious. Many people find their weekends consumed with hobbies, like sports, golf, or fishing. Very few enjoy spending their time after work hours volunteering for people they don’t know. Yet, city council members, mayors, county commissioners, and judges are always on call 24/7 for neighbors, friends, journalists, and citizens. A thankless job for many, serving the community in political roles has been rewarding and exciting for local attorney, husband, father, and lifetime public servant, Judge Ed Miller.

Judge Miller came of age in politics when doing good for all overrode any political affiliation. Described by friends as an optimist, a thinker, and a man of many eloquent conversations, Miller’s concern with the bet terment of local, regional, and national laws started as a young student at Texarkana College. Following his education at Texarkana College, Ed left for The University of Texas at Austin, where he earned his law degree, and he also served in the military.

Commissioner Dale Barrett with Judge Ed Miller Judge Ed Miller, Melinda Miller Holt, Governor Ann Richards, and Dottie Miller Former U.S. Representative Ralph Hall, Judge Ed Miller, and Former U.S. Senator Kay Bailey Hutchison President Bill Clinton with Judge Miller and his grandsons.
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Many years later, Ed would come back to TC to serve the community college where he got his start as a college board member, serving several terms and even being elected president of the board of trustees. enjoyed participating in grassroots politics and uniting people for causes that served the betterment of all. Elected three times to serve on the Democratic National Committee from Texas, Ed represented Texans on a national level, but always kept Texarkana in mind. In the seventies, he was elected to the Texarkana, Texas, City Council, where he saw many fulfilling projects come to fruition.

Toward the end of the 1970s, Miller became more engaged, representing a larger group of area citizens of Bowie County in his elected role as county judge; this was a fun position for Ed, and he always enjoyed the elections process. Judge Miller understood what it took to get voters to the polls, and he could visit with laborers and lawyers with a similar individual respect and kindness.

Throughout this interview, Judge Miller never once claimed to have gotten something done for the city, county, or region on his own; however, Ed was known to go wherever the politicians were if it meant gaining their trust and bending their ears about the needs of Bowie County. Yet, when asked, “Judge Miller, how did you make that particular project happen?” Judge Miller replied, “I always enjoyed working together with the commissioners to get that done.” Or, “it wasn’t me. It was the entire board of Texarkana College.” Ed’s wish for the future is that both political parties at local and national levels put aside their differences and work together for the betterment of all entirely.

Judge Miller is no doubt passionate about politics, but even his love for the law and his love for his country couldn’t overshadow the love he has for his dear wife, Dottie, and daughters Melinda and Anna Marie, their husbands, and grandchildren.

I, Kyle Barrett, grew up watching my dad, Dale Barrett, work on the Commissioners Court with Judge Miller. They worked toward the betterment of our county and I am proud to call Judge Ed Miller a friend to me and all he served.

Left: Judge Miller with daughters Melinda Miller Holt, Anna Hornsby, and with Dottie. Below left: Back row: Dottie Miller, Jared Holt, Connor Hornsby, Lauren Hornsby, and Miller Hornsby. Front: Austin Holt and Judge Miller
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REFLECTING ON 20 YEARS BUT WHO’S COUNTING?

It’s so hard to believe, but July marked my 20th anniversary at Four States Living Magazine. I always said that I wanted to make it to the 20-year mark, but when I was saying that, 20 years felt like a lifetime away. Now it is here! Time flies when you’re having fun.

This summer, I found myself reflecting on this vicennial journey. I pulled years of magazines out of our files, looked through old photographs, and contemplated many decisions (hard ones and easy ones) our FSLM teams have made in the last 20 years.

Bear with me as I editorialize many of my favorite moments, magazines, and memories that have made an impact on me during my time at FSLM. I could fill an entire 76-page magazine just on my reflections, but I will just highlight a few of my favorites:

• I started working here during July 2002. As I remember it, I met Robin (and her daughter, Emily) out at Runnin’ WJ Ranch during June. I was dropping

Above: I saw this sign while vacationing at Universal Studios in Florida and immediately sent it to Robin for a laugh.

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my daughter, Fallon, off there for summer camp, and Robin was doing the same with Em. We immediately struck up a conversation, and she found out that I had previously worked for a newspaper, the Jefferson Jimplecute, and I found out that she was the owner/ publisher of a magazine, Four States Living. She was actually looking to add another team member, and I was looking for a career in my chosen field. Long story short, she hired me just a few weeks later.

• I believe that it was my first day working at FSLM that I mentioned to Robin that I had no writing skills ... or any interest in writing at all. My forté was organizing, typing, spelling, and editing. Well, if you follow FSLM at all, you know that writing quickly became one of my job duties, as well as one of my favorite things to do. (Did I mention that my mother was the editor/writer at the weekly newspaper where I had previously worked? Folks, the apple really doesn’t fall far from the tree!)

• After meeting Robin at the ranch that hot June day, I immediately began searching for a current issue of FSLM. I found one at Albertson’s, and lo and behold, H. Ross Perot was featured on the cover. I thought, “This is right up my alley!” My family had only been in Texarkana for two years, so I knew that if I was hired at the magazine, it would give me a chance to get to know people and become involved in the community. (The August 2002 issue was the last edition that we printed completely in news print. The following month, September 2002, the magazine had a beautiful glossy cover. Being a very small part of that positive change encouraged me!)

• My very first interview that impacted my life tremendously was when I interviewed Mary Katherine and Dr. Pat Weber for a cover story in the March 2003 issue. After suffering the tremendous loss of their son, I was surprised at how friendly and outgoing they were. I could not imagine their pain; however, they kept smiles on their faces and encouraged me to live life to its fullest. (After meeting her, Mary Katherine became a near and dear friend to me. Keep reading to see more about just how much she meant to me!)

• I’m not sure if there is a pattern of some of my favorite issues being in March, but another standout story that I wrote was in the March 2006 issue and featured Nedra Turney who, at the time, was the executive director of the American Red Cross here in Texarkana. I

Far right: Nedra Turney graced the March 2006 FSLM cover.

Above: Fallon and Emily (with country music artist Mae Estes). Our two girls are credited for Robin and I meeting that June day in 2002. Right: One of the most meaningful highlights of my career was becoming friends with Mary Katherine and Dr. Pat Weber.
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honestly believe that she is one of the classiest ladies that I have ever met. Her enthusiastic demeanor and gentle, encouraging words were just what I needed at the time. (After all, I honestly was STILL trying to wrap my head around the fact that I was not living in Jefferson anymore. The old adage was definitely true: You can take the girl out of Marion County, but you can’t take Marion County out of the girl!)

• May 2009 was FSLM’s first Tribute to Women issue, and it was probably THE highlight of my 20-year career. This issue was the brainchild of my publisher (and friend), Robin Rogers. In this issue, she highlighted 11 women whom she admired and loved. Some of the women were also people I admired greatly (Pat Rogers, Robin’s mother who also became one of my very best friends; Mary Ellen Young, who was one of my favorite teachers at Texarkana College; and Vicki Melde, one of the nicest, kindest ladies I know). Robin and I had a special bond from the start, but when I found out that she had chosen me as one of the honorees for this issue, I was flabbergasted. And the best part of the whole thing was that she chose me for this honor because of my skills as a mother. Nothing can top that! (Robin began this Tribute to Women tradition so that every May, the previous years’ honorees would choose who they would spotlight for the current year. This is where my previous comment comes into play about sharing how special Mary Katherine Weber is to me. For the 2010 Tribute to Women issue, I nominated Mary Katherine as the lady I wanted to honor!)

• My favorite person in the whole wide world was featured in the January 2014 issue of FSLM. Because no one knew this story as well as I did, I wrote an article about my daughter, Fallon. (If you look back at the issue, my name is not mentioned as the writer because I used a pseudonym! I am not going to mention the name I used in case I ever want to use that alias again! Ha!) Born with hydrocephalus and cerebral palsy, Fallon was (and is) the toughest, most positive person I have ever known. At the time

Me with Pat Rogers during FSLM’s 2009 Tribute to Women luncheon.
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Fallon, my “shero,” during a photoshoot for the 2014 health and wellness issue.
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that I wrote the article, she was traveling and competing as a wheelchair bodybuilder, eventually even becoming a professional in the sport. Fallon is the epitome of a champion. And she was/is living her best life ... which also means that her father, Mike, and I have/are, too.

• Here we go again ... in the (wait for it!) March issue of 2016, I had the privilege of interviewing artist Dean Lynn. Talented beyond measure, Dean just has natural skill, and we just “clicked” instantly. His incredible eye for color and keen sense of art styles has made him a master at his craft. Dean and I became steadfast friends, he always called me “kid,” and told me I was “special” on numerous occasions. Looking back through the years, I recently came across a text from him where he told me not to forget him when FSLM publishes the “Fantastic 80 and Older” issue. Oh, how I admire his humor!

• In October 2018, FSLM celebrated its 25th anniversary. Even though we worked day and night on this silver edition, it is probably my VERY favorite issue ever. It brought back so many great memories of people I have befriended and events I have attended. We even hosted a fun celebration party in the Regional Arts Center where we had all 25 years’ worth of covers made into posters and displayed on the galleries’ walls. It was like taking a trip down memory lane seeing the 300 covers that we have published during that quarter of a century.

• During 2019, my family planned a trip to Branson, Missouri, one of our favorite vacation spots. We knew that New Boston native Taylor Granberry was the host at Dolly Parton’s Stampede, so we quickly ordered tickets and messaged her with plans to meet up after the show. In a story I wrote about her in (yet again) March of 2019, Taylor talked about “being exactly where God intended her to be.” Her drive and talent really impressed me, and we love watching her expand and grow her dreams. (Since then, Taylor has gotten married and is a singer/dancer at Legends in Concert Theater in Myrtle Beach.)

• November 2021 ranks right up there in my list of favorites, too. After living through a crazy 2020, our staff decided to thank those whose lives couldn’t stop during that time when most of us were quarantined. We featured “30 Days of Gratitude” to show appreciation to firefighters,

Meeting Dean Lynn and interviewing him twice has been a highlight of my career.
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Since we have attended several Neal McCoy concerts, meeting him in person in 2014 was a highlight for me and Fallon.

Mike, Fallon and me during FSLM’s 25th anniversary celebration. Fallon, me and Taylor Granberry while at Dolly Parton’s Stampede in Branson. Robin Roberts visits with me during Wadley’s 2008 Bringing Hope Home event.
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nonprofit organization directors, physicians, pastors, linemen, and veterans, among other vocations. Looking back now, that issue really put into perspective just how many people have crucial occupations and keep our lives as “normal” as possible even in troubling times.

• Not only have I met and become friends with Texarkana locals; I have also been blessed to meet several celebrities. In 2005, I wrote a story about Dean Fearing who at the time was chef of The Mansion on Turtle Creek. In 2008, our staff met Good Morning America’s anchor, Robin Roberts, when she was the guest speaker at the Wadley Foundation’s Bringing Hope Home fundraiser. One of my favorite country musicians, Neal McCoy, was the entertainer for the CHRISTUS St. Michael Health

System Foundation Gala in 2014. Even though it was a shockingly snowy night in TXK, Fallon and I were fortunate to get some seats with Robin (my boss) and one of her friends at their table. We had a blast! During our #flashbackfeb issue in 2015, I interviewed country music singer/songwriter, Tracy Lawrence, who was born in Atlanta, Texas, and actress and native Texarkanian Molly Quinn, who played Alexis Castle on the television series, Castle. What an incredible journey for me!

While glancing back through the past 20 years, I have noticed lots of ... change. Deadlines have come and gone, some marriages (of story subjects) have come and gone, coworkers have come and gone, but the one constant colleague I have always depended on is Robin, our publisher. Twenty years ago, when she hired me, I really don’t think she realized just how sheltered I was. Other than traveling with my family as a child, I had never really been far from home. With her persistence and nudging, my family and I discovered a whole new world including Disney World, taking cruises to Honduras, Alaska, and the Bahamas (no more staycations for my family), furthering my education at Texarkana College, and realizing that spur of the moment decisions are often the BEST decisions. If I hadn’t run into Robin all those years ago at Runnin’ WJ Ranch, I never would have had all of these awesome opportunities and special memories. I never dreamed how far that one conversation would take me. And I look forward to flipping through the pages of FSLM 20 years from now and continuing to reminisce about all that I have been fortunate to be a part of. After all, 20 years is a very long time ... but who’s counting?

Side Note: If you ever want to make someone’s day, write them a personal note and let them know how you appreciate them. While cleaning out my desk recently when we moved our office next door, I came across notes from friends who have been featured in stories, Scene About Towns, Interiors, etc. Don’t ever let anyone tell you that the written word is a dying art form; I promise that reading each sentiment put a smile on my face for days!

Molly Quinn was featured in the #flashbackfeb issue in 2015. Publisher/editor by day; friends by night, attending a Luke Bryan concert. When boarding a plane to return home after a trip to Las Vegas, we were shocked when Robin was on the same flight.
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history happens

Board President of the Texarkana Museums System

History happens to be something that many people are passionate about. The memories and emotions that get wrapped in the quilt that a grandmother made for her first grandchild; the doctor’s leather satchel worn from years of house calls and trips to the hospital stored in a corner of his son’s home; the Mason’s sword secreted away with meanings known only to his fellow Masons. These items take on less of a tangible meaning and waft emotions to those who were passionate about their fam ily, careers, and friends.

Passion can drive each of us to hold our family closer, strive to achieve more in our careers, or forge tighter bonds with our friends. We may never know the rewards we seek and yet continue to reach out to grasp more of what we are passionate about.

This month, we will celebrate the anniversary of the birth of one man from Texarkana, Arkansas, whose passion drove him to create. To create music that, while little known for most of his lifetime, has proven to be remarkable in the world of music.

...Born on October 12, 1912, to Samuel Charles Nancarrow and Myra Brady Nancarrow, Conlon Nan carrow hailed from a family with strong influences on the history of Texarkana. When Conlon was in his teens, his father served as mayor of Texarkana, Arkansas from 1927 to 1930. During his early years, the trum pet and jazz would begin to ignite Conlon’s passion for music. He would go on to study music in Cincinnati and Boston with the likes of Roger Sessions, Walter Piston and Nicolas Slonimsky. Most names the aver age person will know very little about, but minds that exposed Nancarrow not only to the mechanics of play ing music, but the structure, composition, and theo ries behind music – perhaps leading Nancarrow towards the path his passion would follow for the remainder of his life.

During his years outside of Texarkana, Nancarrow also became exposed to politi cal beliefs that would greatly shape his future; he became a member of the Communist Party and joined the Abraham Lincoln Brigade to fight for the Spanish Republic in 1936. During this period of American history, Communist party members would be ostracized on many levels in the United States. Movie stars like Charlie Chaplin and Orson Welles would be blacklisted and Nancarrow’s fellow brigade members would have their U. S. passports delayed or rejected. Unwilling to be persecuted, Nancar row would find solace from political harassment by moving to Mexico in 1940 and becoming a Mexican citizen in 1956.

Passionate about composing, Nancarrow stumbled in his early works because his compositions were difficult for performers to play. The complexity of his work often required more than the hands could provide. Borrowing from ideas in the book New Musical Resources, Nancarrow sought out the player piano and found that

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it was capable of emulating the complex rhythmic patterns his mind was composing and at far greater speeds than the human performer.

Composition and mechanics would drive Nancarrow to become one of the first composers to use auto-playing in struments. Many popular bands and musicians of the 1980s like Herby Hancock, David Bowie, and Duran Duran owe a thanks to Nancarrow for delving into what would become “New Music.”

While using the influences of jazz, boogiewoogie, and classical music, Nancarrow would modify his player pianos to play more robustly.

He would experiment with leather and metal coverings for the hammers of the player piano and fashion his one devices to cre ate punch cards to load into the player pianos with his works.

Imagine the passion it must take to forge ahead in the world of music in a manner that is untested and tediously slow. The mechanics of Nancarrow’s compositions and creating his own punch cards was arduous and - for most of his career - rel atively unrewarding. Finally, at the age of 57, Columbia Records would dabble in modern music and release an album of Nancarrow’ s works. In 1975, in his sixties, Nancarrow would begin to garner more public attention. Peaking in the 1980s, he was awarded a presti gious MacArthur Award of $300,000 for his music.

Seemingly unmotivated by a de sire to be commercially successful, pure passion drove Conlon Nancarrow to compose music that would lead some to call him “the greatest discovery since Weber and Ives.…” To this day, how ever, many consider his music to be hard to enjoy. Nancarrow was driven by passion to the point that the approval of other listeners was a bonus for his works –not a necessity.

Born and raised in Texarkana, Velvet Hall Cool has strong ties to both Texas and Arkansas but will always consider herself a Class of ‘87 Razorback. She loves to share stories of her nine wonderful grandchildren. When it comes to listening, you can always perk up her ears with stories that speak to personal history and the lessons we learn during our lifelong journey.
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Nestled among 160 acres of gentle rolling hills, Gina and Scott Corley’s beau tiful modern farmhouse offers views of spectacular sunsets and gorgeous natural surroundings. Located in the community of Lanier, just outside of Linden, Texas, this two-story 3 bedroom, 2-1/2 bath homestead was built in 2020 on family land that Gina’s great, great-grandfather bought in the late 1800s. Currently, the 3,811 total square foot home is flocked by native and sapling pine trees and surrounded by spring-fed creeks running throughout the land.

Contractor Kevin Browning of Browning Homes and concrete finisher Woody Belcher of Belcher Concrete put their heart and soul into making sure this beauty provides plenty of space for Gina and Scott to make great memories with their two daughters, Grace and Jena. A blend of old and new abounds all throughout this refreshing home as clean lines, layered textures, natural materials, and neutral colors reflect the farmhouse flair.

A wooden bench in the entryway served as one of the original benches in the Lanier Baptist Church and has been repurposed and painted. A floor-to-ceiling

rock fireplace is the focal point in the cozy living area. Decorated with pumpkins and fall flowers, the dark mahogany mantel comes alive with shades of orange, yellow, and red, thanks to Grace’s artistry. The stained concrete floors, by Buddy Benson of Benson’s Concrete Cosmetics, bring in a contemporary vibe while the inlaid star allows a hint of rustic appeal. Plenty of natural light floods the room with custom floor-to-ceiling windows. A windmill ceiling fan adds an industrial ambiance while the rustic lighting matches the spindles on the staircase. A wall frame, made from the original wood out of the old country store in Lanier, holds a photo of Gina’s grandfather, great-aunt and great-uncle. This photo was given to Gina by her first cousin, Kyle Fant. The store was first owned by Gina’s great, great-grandfather, E. W. Fant, then run by her great-uncle for over 50 years. Later, Gina’s father owned it and turned it into a deer camp before it was demolished when Hwy. 59 was widened.

The Corleys’ homey kitchen blends farmhouse and contemporary styles seam lessly. Dark mahogany cabinets add a more modern look while the farmhouse

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sink embodies a simple, rustic feel. Tuscan Samsung appliances, granite countertops, stainless drawer and cabinet hardware, and oil-rubbed bronze faucets bring in a mixture of metals and textures while adding total functionality to the space. Gina fondly displays her mother’s apron and remembers her mother always baking and making the “best chocolate pies.” A treasured recipe from Scott’s Memaw is framed and displayed in the kitchen. He recalls her often making homemade biscuits at her home in McLeod when he was a child. To this day, the Corleys enjoy carrying on the family tradition of making biscuits.

Pops of color on the rug and an abstract painting bring the breakfast nook to life. Two-toned wood grains make up the table for four offering a quiet place for a good family meal. A large window offers the perfect views while quaint conversation takes place in the mornings.

Beautiful cedar beams lead guests into the open formal dining room. The table for six warms the space and is very sentimental to Gina since she and her late father, Jan Fant, traveled to Oklahoma to purchase the furniture. The traditional wooden table is perfectly decorated for the fall season with pumpkins, flowers, and plaid napkins in orange, white, and brown. An ornate bronze light fixture brings a modern element to the space. An antique curio cabinet, once belonging to Gina’s mother, houses family mementoes. A large lighted china cabinet holds several glassware collections that were favorite pieces once belonging to Scott and Gina’s grandmothers.

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A COZY OUTDOOR SITTING AREA, SITUATED CLOSE TO THE FIRE PIT AND SWIMMING POOL, AFFORDS THE CORLEYS GREAT VIEWS OF THEIR LAND, AND EVEN GREATER VIEWS OF GOD’S BEAUTIFUL SUNSETS.

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Natural light streams into the master bedroom, creating an open and bright focal point while a wooden sleigh bed takes center stage. Heavily grained wooden nightstands flank the bed while holding unique contemporary lamps. A tan and white comforter offers a tonal palette while throw pillows in muted tones of taupe, gray and burgundy bring depth to the space. Above the bed are photos of Gina and Scott and a sign that reads, “Always kiss me goodnight.” A wooden bench sits at the end of the bed, the perfect place for housing blankets and a Bible, while also offering a place to sit and unwind at the end of the day. The walk-in closet has plenty of storage for clothes and accessories and hosts a built-in dresser with a geometrically-shaped gold mirror.

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A crystal chandelier hangs over the sunken garden tub in the master bath. A tray rests over the tub, containing Gina’s essential items like bath oil and a good book – allowing her the perfect space to soak her cares away. The walk-in shower is situated beside the tub, constructed from natural elements like rock and stone. A granite bench provides a sitting option while relaxing after a hard day’s work.

Black iron balusters with white accents lead up the wooden staircase. Two bedrooms are located upstairs, as well as a bonus living area. Grace’s room features an upholstered panel bed and white distressed furniture – a dream come true for a typical girly-girl. Her frilly tasseled bedspread brings in a shabby chic vibe while numerous throw pillows provide comfort and a visually pleasing aesthetic. The spare bedroom features a gray etched wooden headboard and matching nightstand with white accent pieces used throughout. A decorative fur throw pillow adds a bit of whimsy to the space.

A cozy outdoor sitting area, situated close to the fire pit and swimming pool, affords the Corleys great views of their land, and even greater views of God’s beautiful sunsets. Whether relaxing as a couple or entertaining guests during a family get-together, Gina and Scott love being outdoors with nature while enjoy ing the peace and serenity that their home and property offers. This fun couple doesn’t have to venture out of town to enjoy a relaxing getaway. They have their own little piece of paradise right here in East Texas.

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OCTOBER 2022

OCTOBER 1

The United Way of Greater Texarkana will host its annual Battle of the Bands at 6 p.m. at On the Border Mexican Grill & Cantina. Journey tribute band, Escape, will be the featured entertainers with special guests, The Moss Brothers Band. Call 903-794-3105 for ticket information.

OCTOBER 1

Hospice of Texarkana will host Jeans & Bling 2022 beginning at 7 p.m. at the Texarkana Convention Center. Activities will include a lip sync battle, BBQ dinner, silent auction, giveaways, and live music and dancing. Call 903-794-4263 for more information.

OCTOBER 1

De Kalb, Texas, will host Oktoberfest 2022 in Downtown DeKalb. Vendors will be set up from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. A parade will take place at 10 a.m., and a variety show begins at 5:30 p.m. Visit the De Kalb Oktoberfest Facebook page for more info or www.dekalbtexasoktoberfest.org.

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Williams Memorial United Methodist Church will host its annual Pumpkin Patch daily. Hours are: Sunday-Friday noon to dark, and Saturday 9 a.m. to dark. Visit: www.williamsumc.org for special events.

OCTOBER 7

HandsOn Texarkana will host TAPAS & Wine from 6-9:30 p.m. on the grounds of the Collins Home for Weddings and Events. Live music will be provided by Chasing Rita and a silent auction will take place. Call 903-798-3211 for more information.

OCTOBER 8

The University of Arkansas-Texarkana will host Casino Night from 7-10 p.m. at the Texarkana Arkansas Convention Center. Wear your best Vegas attire for a festive evening of casino games, dancing, drinks, food and fun as UAHT celebrates 10 years in Texarkana. For ticket information, contact Anna Powell at anna.powell@uaht.edu or call 870-722-8516.

OCTOBER 8

The Texarkana Symphony Orchestra will present “Masterworks I: Zuill Returns!” at 7:30 p.m. in the historic Perot Theatre. Tickets are available by calling 870-773-3401 or visit: www.texarkanasymphony.org

OCTOBER 9

Temple Memorial Pediatric Center will host its third annual Cornhole Tournament at Crossties. Check-in will begin at 12 noon with play kicking off at 1 p.m. Call 903-794-2705 for additional information.

OCTOBER 14

The Texarkana Regional Chorale will present “Al Fresco with TRC” at 5:30 p.m. in the 1894 Gallery. Admission is free with donations accepted.

OCTOBER 14-15

The 13th annual Gathering of Authors will take place at Circle J Cowboy Church. A charity dinner will take place from 6:30-8:30 p.m. on Friday featuring a speaker and live auction. The gathering of authors will take place from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. on Saturday with vendors, silent auction, kids’ corner, refreshments and prizes. Proceeds will benefit Greater Texarkana Area Autism Awareness. For more information, visit: www.gatheringofauthors.com

OCTOBER 15

CASA for Children will host the 17th annual Edge of Texas Golf Tournament & After Party at Northridge Country Club. Golf registration begins at 8 a.m. with tee off at 9. The After Party features Austin-based ’90s cover band ZooDust, beginning at 6:30 p.m. Visit www.casatexarkana.org/events/ for more information.

OCTOBER 15

Visitors and townspeople will converge downtown on the State Line to celebrate Texarkana with a German/Texarkana twist. Oktoberfest on the Line will feature beer tastings, wiener dog races, stein holding contests, dancing, costume contests,

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music, and children’s activities. The event is presented by Farmers Bank & Trust and hosted by Main Street Texarkana Visit: www.mainstreettexarkana.org for more information.

OCTOBER 15

The second annual Katina R. Levingston Tough Kookie Breast Cancer Race will take place at Texas A&M University-Texarkana. Runners will begin at 9 a.m. with walkers starting at 9:30. Sign up at: www.toughkookie.org. For information, call 903-293-7093 or email: toughkookietxk@gmail.com.

OCTOBER 18

Fan Fare Boutique & Gifts will present Ghouls’ Night Out from 4-7 p.m. Refreshments, giveaways, and discounts will be enjoyed during the event. For more info, call 903-832-5196.

OCTOBER 27

Eternal Beauty Medical Aesthetics and Day Spa will host Witches Night Out from 4:30-6:30 p.m. with live music, hors d’oeuvres, and drinks. Call 903-278-9566 for event info.

OCTOBER 29

Landmark Pentecostal Church will host its Annual Fall Party from 4:30-9 p.m. Food will be provided and fun activities will include a cornhole tournament, basketball, foosball, ping pong and bounce houses. Call 903-794-6201 for more information.

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Experts

When is it time to consider Assisted Living?

When the simple tasks of everyday living (cooking, cleaning) and other activities of daily life (dressing, bathing) are becoming too much for you to handle alone, the time may be drawing near for you to consider Assisted Living. The stress and work that may be holding you back from living life to the fullest can now be in the hands of caregivers, which will allow you to enjoy your independence.  Just because you receive support, does not mean you have to surrender control over meaningful decisions.  This is YOUR life and it should be overflowing with joy.

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SCENE ABOUT TOWN

TEXARKANA COMMUNITY BALLET AUDITIONS

The Texarkana Community Ballet held auditions August 19-20 for its famous Christmas ballet, “The Nutcracker,” at Beech Street First Baptist Church. The productions will be held December 2-4 in the historic Perot Theatre. Tickets will go on sale in November at the Perot Theatre box office.

Candy Canes Snow Princesses Flower Petals Snow Angels Snow Chinese Snow Fairies Waltz of the Flowers Walts of the Flowers - Soloists Russians
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Party Children Clara - Zoe Potter, Nutcracker - William Porterfield and Sugar Plum - Norah Jordan Party Children and Fritz Bakers - Junior Mice Christmas Trees Peppermints Soldiers Bakers HarlequinDoll - Mollie Hemphill, Snow Queen - Reese Langdon, and Ballerina Doll - Lauren Friday Laliah Toubia - Mother Ginger and Dew Drop Fairy - Aimee Womack Arabians - Jillian Turner and Miriam Bougie Reed Flutes Spanish
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the f riends’ list

Each month, Four States Living will choose two people who have “liked” our Facebook page to be featured in The Friends’ List. Chosen randomly, these two “friends” will answer questions we provide so our readers can get to know them better. The bonus question (the last question) will be related to the theme of each month’s issue.

Age: 24

Occupation: Director of Marketing for DeKalb, New Boston, and Texarkana Physical Therapy

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do?

Mark a few bucket list trips off my list, open a winery, and then set up a scholarship or something philanthropic so I wouldn’t feel too self-absorbed!

ZACH CODY Age: 29

Occupation: Mechanical Engineer

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do? Pay off all of my debts.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time?

I try to answer text messages, Snapchats, and other things like that because I HATE having unopened notifications on my phone, but sometimes I get trapped on TikTok…

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be?

More wishes? I’m too indecisive for just one LOL

At what business could you max out a credit card?

On The Border for an endless supply of queso!

Choose a movie title for the story of your life.

I have no idea what it’d be called, but I feel like it’d be directed by Adam Sandler and be a wild ride!

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

American Horror Story… spooky season is near (and my favorite time of the year)!

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

Europe! I was actually supposed to go there for a Maymester in college, but COVID had other plans…

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? Snapchat, Pinterest, Spotify

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

Honestly, my favorite sport to watch is gymnastics, but that’s usually just during the Summer Olympics. On any given day watching ESPN, I’d probably say softball, with no specific team.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time? I enjoy reading on the back porch when the weather is a perfect 70 degrees.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be? There would be a cure for cancer.

At what business could you max out a credit card? Bass Pro Shops or Best Buy

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. Into the Wild

What are you currently watching on Netflix? Inventing Anna; that lady was such a con artist.

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go? Patagonia

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? Email, Spotify, New York Times Crossword

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for? College football, and I am a Razorbacks’ fan.

FOLLOWING YOUR PASSION

OUTSIDE OF YOUR WORK AND FAMILY LIFE, WHAT WOULD YOU SAY YOU ARE MOST PASSIONATE ABOUT?

I’m pretty passionate about community building and lending a helping hand! I actually joined Greater Texarkana Young Professionals and Junior League of Texarkana soon after moving to Texarkana because of my interest in those categories. Additionally, I’m in the 2022-2023 Leadership Texarkana class which shares a similar focus.

Fishing, hunting, and camping - the trifecta.

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