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To carry out the ministry of Christ the Priest with constant joy and genuine love.

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Reverend Brian Christopher Maxwell, Ordained to Priesthood on May 25, 2013, by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich at the Cathedral of saint Patrick, Norwich


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The Most Reverend

Michael R. Cote, D.D.

Bishop of Norwich

A Legacy of Faith & Hope My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ: This has been quite the year of recalling the history of the diocese dating back to its inauguration in 1953. It has been a time to reflect on who we are and how much we have grown in numbers, outreach and spiritual strength over these sixty years. Our jubilee anniversary and the Year of Faith remind us how everything we have experienced, overcome and celebrated has made us stronger and more appreciative of the Lord’s mercy and kindness. Looking back to the earliest moments, we began as a rural community of faith with 55 parishes serving 120,000 parishioners. Today, we are a diocesan family of 76 parishes with more than double the original number of parishioners, and a diocesan school system educating nearly 5,000 children a year. We live, of course, in challenging times. We must face the complexities and distractions of technology, the violence and disrespect for precious life in our culture, the erosion of family values in an increasingly secular society, a struggling economy and labor market, and encroachment on our religious liberty. Formidable challenges. Resilient and faith-centered as we are, however, we live in hope and are up to the challenges. We will let faith lead the way. It will sustain us.

There is much for us to cele- and many more acts of charity and a.m. in the newly restored Cathebrate and so much for which we love of neighbor across the diocese dral of St. Patrick. Please join me are grateful. Amid the social tur- reflect the loving Ministry of Jesus. and your pastors, religious, fellow moil, we the Diocese of Norwich Faith in action is a joy to behold. parishioners and invited guests in have steadily inthis special diocecreased our outsan Eucharistic reach to those Celebration. How most in need in fitting to have the our communities. opportunity to exCatholic Charities perience the magis now providing nificently restored assistance and Cathedral as we recomfort to over member the 7,000 households founding of the a year – helping Diocese. Together, Catholic and nonwe will pray that The Diocese of Norwich to celebrate Catholic families we will stay everwith basic needs, resolved to bring behavioral health, the Light of Christ adoption services, our Savior to housing assistance wherever shadows and The and expanded imand darkness need Rededication of the Newly Restored migration services. the illumination of Cathedral of Saint Patrick At the same time, compassion and we are continuing understanding. to reach out to our This we pray. twinned parishes We also celeCathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich in Haiti to save brate the recent or10:30 a.m. lives and nourish dination to the spirits. Closer to Holy Priesthood The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote D.D., home in Middleof Father Brian Bishop of Norwich, Principal Celebrant and homilist. town and NorMaxwell. We welwich, the St. come Father Brian All parishioners and friends of the Diocese are welcome to Vincent de Paul into the presbyterattend and experience the unity of faith that has made the ministries are servate at this imporDiocese of Norwich a vital and loving community these 60 years. ing over 450 hot tant time in our meals a day to the continuing hishungry and jobless. Their food With joy and thanksgiving, our tory. We pray Father Brian will, pantries and Project Northeast are Diocese will celebrate a special through the years, manifest God’s providing food supplies daily to 60th Jubilee Mass of Thanksgiv- love for every person. hundreds more families. These ing, Saturday, July 27, at 10:30 We are further grateful for the

A 60th Anniversary Mass of Thanksgiving

Saturday, July 27, 2013

ordination this past weekend of Deacon Martin J. Noe to the Transitional Diaconate. Our prayers and congratulations are with Deacon Martin on this happy occasion. This is a new beginning for the diocese with respect to the replenishing of priests we so need. Another reason we remain filled with hope going forward, whatever the challenges of the day. One of the joys of honoring the past is knowing that the efforts of those who came before have created a legacy on which to build and derive hope for the future. So it has been with the determined and generous founding efforts of the laity, clergy, educators, those who serve in ministry and Bishops before me in the now 60-year old Diocese of Norwich. I am honored to have this significant tribute to the good people of the Diocese take place while I am the diocesan shepherd. I look forward to expressing my gratitude and that of the entire Diocese at the Jubilee Mass of Thanksgiving on July 27. I am further grateful to be with you on that day within the welcoming sanctuary of the restored Cathedral of St. Patrick, a standing tribute to love of God and the joy of being in service to Him. Sincerely yours in Christ’s love, Bishop Michael R. Cote

Un Legado Fundacional de fe y Esperanza Queridos Hermanos y Hermanas: Este ha sido verdaderamente el año para recordar la historia de la diócesis que se remonta a su inauguración en 1953. Ha sido un

tiempo para reflexionar sobre lo que somos y lo mucho que hemos crecido en números, extensión y fuerza espiritual sobre estos sesenta años. Nuestro aniversario

de conmemoración y el Año de la Fe nos recuerdan cómo todo lo que hemos experimentado, superado y celebrado nos han hecho más fuertes y más capaces de apre-

ciar la misericordia y la bondad del Señor. Mirando hacia atrás a los primeros momentos, empezamos como una comunidad de fe rural

con 55 parroquias sirviendo a 120.000 feligreses. Hoy en día, somos una familia diocesana de Fundacional de fe y Esperanza

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Fundacional de fe y Esperanza Continued from page 3 76 parroquias con más del doble del número original de feligreses, y con un sistema de escuelas diocesanas educando cerca de 5.000 niños al año. Por supuesto, vivimos, en tiempos difíciles. Debemos enfrentar las dificultades y las distracciones impuestas a nosotros por la tecnología, la violencia y la falta de respeto en nuestra cultura por la valiosa vida, el deterioro de los valores de la familia en una sociedad más secular, una constante lucha en la economía y en el mer-

cado de trabajo, y el abuso a nuestra libertad religiosa. No es exactamente 1953. Resistentes y centrados en la fe como somos, no obstante, vivimos en la esperanza y estamos a la altura de los desafíos. Dejaremos que la fe conduzca el camino. Nos sostendrá. Para nosotros hay mucho por celebrar y mucho por lo que estamos agradecidos. En medio del desorden social, nosotros la Diócesis de Norwich constantemente hemos aumentado nuestra extensión a los más necesitados en

nuestras comunidades. Caridades Católicas ahora están prestando asistencia y consuelo a más de 8.000 hogares al año-ayudando a familias católicas como no católicas con necesidades básicas, salud mental, servicios de adopción y ampliados servicios de inmigración. Al mismo tiempo, para salvar vidas y alimentar almas continuamos llegando a nuestras parroquias hermanadas en Haití. Más cerca de casa en Middletown y en Norwich, los ministerios de San Vicente De Paul están

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través de los años, Padre Brian manifestará el amor de Dios por cada persona. Este es un nuevo comienzo para la diócesis para iniciar la reposición de sacerdotes que tanto necesitamos. Otra razón por la que seguimos llenos de esperanza en el futuro, independientemente de los desafíos del día. Una de las alegrías de honrar el pasado es saber que los esfuerzos de aquellos que vinieron antes han creado un legado en el cual construir y obtener esperanza para el futuro. La Diócesis de Norwich de ahora 60 años así ha sido fundada con el decidido y generoso esfuerzo de los laicos, clero, educadores, profesionales del ministerio y obispos antes que yo. Me siento honrado de que este significativo homenaje a la buena gente de la diócesis tenga lugar mientras yo soy el pastor diocesano. Espero con ilusión expresar mi gratitud y la de toda la diócesis en la misa de aniversario de Acción de Gracias el 27 de julio. Además agradezco el estar con ustedes en ese día dentro del santuario de bienvenida de la majestuosa restaurada catedral de St. Patrick, un vigente homenaje al amor de Dios y a la alegría de estar al servicio de Él. Sinceramente, en el amor de Cristo, Obispo Michael R. Cote Translated by Paulina Angulo

Clergy Appointments The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, has made the following clergy and diocesan appointments in the Diocese of Norwich:

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sirviendo más de 400 comidas calientes al día a los pobres y a los sin empleo. Sus despensas y Proyecto Noreste están proporcionando suministros de alimentos diarios a cientos más familias. Estos y muchos más actos de caridad y amor al prójimo a través de la diócesis reflejan el amoroso Ministerio de Jesús. Es una alegría contemplar la fe en acción. Con alegría y agradecimiento, nuestra Diócesis celebrará el sexagésimo aniversario con una Misa especial de Acción de Gracias el sábado, 27 de julio a las 10:30a.m. en la recién restaurada Catedral de St. Patrick. Por favor, únanse a mí y a sus sacerdotes, religiosos, feligreses e invitados en esta especial celebración eucarística diocesana. Que adecuado tener la oportunidad de experimentar la catedral magníficamente restaurada al recordar la fundación de la diócesis. Juntos, oraremos para que se nos de la gracia para continuar sosteniendo nuestra familia diocesana y permanecer por siempre resueltos a llevar la luz de Cristo nuestro Salvador, a donde las sombras y la oscuridad necesitan la iluminación de la compasión y la comprensión. Esto pedimos. También, celebramos la reciente ordenación del Padre Brian Maxwell al Santo Sacerdocio. En este importante momento en nuestra continua historia damos la bienvenida a Padre Brian al presbiterado. Oramos que, a

Reverend John Gallagher, OFM Cap, Administrator, Saint Francis of Assisi Parish, Middletown, while continuing as Pastor, Saint Pius X Parish, Middletown. Effective: June 3, 2013. 2012 ~ 2013

Reverend Brian Maxwell, Newly ordained, to Saint Bernard Parish, Rockville, Parochial Vicar. Effective: June 13, 2013. ~ Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor ~


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Reverend Gregory Galvin Praised be Jesus Christ the great High Priest! Praised be God our Father through whom in unity with the Holy Spirit our prayers have been heard and continue to be answered! On Saturday, May 25, 2013 at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick in Norwich, the Diocese of Norwich celebrated the priestly ordination of Father Brian Maxwell. It was a glorious day for Father Maxwell and for his family and friends as well as for our diocesan family. In a nearly completely renovated Cathedral, awash with spectacular color and brightness, more than three hundred people gathered to celebrate the first of three ordinations for men who have been dedicating their time the last few years in preparing to answer God’s call to serve His Church and family as one of his priests. Following the Ordination Mass, Father Maxwell remained at the Cathedral giving his first priestly blessing until three in the afternoon.

On Sunday morning, May 26, at the 11:30 a.m. morning Mass at Saint Bernard Church in Rockville, Father Maxwell celebrated his first Mass as the main celebrant with seven priests concelebrating and several of the seminarians of the diocese serving. Father Maxwell commented to me that morning that all day Saturday he felt like he was in a cloud! He was so very happy and you could see it in his face and hear it in his voice. The excitement continued as on June 8, 2013, at the church of Saints Peter and Paul in Norwich, Mr. Martin Noe was ordained to the transitional diaconate by Bishop Cote. Martin has worked hard the last three years and now will take the first step of Holy Orders as he continues to prepare to ready himself for priestly ordination sometime in 2014. This coming October, Jonathan Ficara will hopefully also be ordained a transitional deacon and will, God willing, be called to priesthood along with Martin. Each of these men and each of

our other seminarians has opened his heart and mind to the Father’s Will. As a diocese we must continue to pray for the men God is calling to accept His invitation to share in His Son’s Holy Priesthood. Our Holy Father Pope Francis spoke early this month about the importance of completely trusting and being open to the Father’s Will when he said; “It is hard to abandon ourselves

to him with complete trust, allowing the Holy Spirit to be the soul and guide of our lives ... We fear that God may force us to strike out on new paths and leave behind our all too narrow, closed and selfish horizons in order to become open to his own.” This is why it is so important to pray for those who are being called by God and may hesitate to answer. It is also a good reminder for each

seminarian, priest, religious, bishop and lay person to work at always remaining open to the words we pray daily which our Lord taught us, “thy kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven”. May the Harvest Master continue to send us good men who trust in God’s Will for them and are willing to lay down their life for God and for His family the Church.

Holy Hour for Vocations The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour: June 20, 2013 • 5:00-6:00 p.m. Saint Joseph, Willimantic July 18, 2013 • 5:00-6:00 p.m. Saint Patrick, Mystic August 22, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Sacred Heart, Vernon September 19, 2013 • 4:00-5:00 p.m. Saint Mary, Clinton October 17, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Saint Mary, Baltic Father Greg Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations

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Kurt O Brien 2nd Year College Holy Apostles Seminary Cromwell, CT

Jeffrey Ellis 1st Year Theology Mt. St. Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Juan Palacio 1st Year English Studies Clark University Worcester, MA

Martin Noe 3rd Year Theology Holy Apostles Seminary Cromwell, CT

Jonathan Ficara 3rd Year Theology Pontifical North American College, Vatican City State

Ruben Sanchez 1st Year English Studies Clark University Worcester, MA

Brian Maxwell 4th Year Theology Blessed John XXIII National Seminary, Weston, MA

Peter Langevin 1st Year Theology Mt. St. Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Thomas Griffin 1st Year Theology Blessed John XXIII National Seminary Weston, MA


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June is “Leave a Legacy” Month The Cathedral of Saint Patrick, the see Cathedral of the Norwich Diocese, has undergone an historic restoration and is now beautifully adorned with images from the life of Christ. If you would like to make a gift towards the enduring legacy of our Cathedral, you can learn more by visiting www.stpats A SPIRIT gift is a wonderful way to preserve your family legacy, or honor a loved one through a gift in memoriam. “Leave a Legacy” month also provides a wonderful opportunity to honor your own beloved parish or the Diocese. To learn more about legacy giving, contact MaryLou Gannotti, Director of Planned Giving in the Diocesan Development Office at 860-886-1928 ext. 15. Fridays, July 12, 19, 26 Marriage Preparation Class for Engaged Couples God’s Plan for a Joy-filled Marriage on July 12, 19, 26, from 6:30-9:00pm at Our Lady of Lourdes, RT.12, Gales Ferry. To register for the 3-session class please call Family Life Office at 860-889-8346 ext. 283. Thursd y Sund y August 8 10

mation please call 800-228-9290 or log onto Saturday, September 14 Annual Gift of Grace Prison Ministry Volunteer Training Program The Office of Prison Ministry is now recruiting volunteers for the annual Gift of Grace Prison Ministry Volunteer Training Program. The dates are as follows: Saturdays, September 14, October 5 & 26, November 9, and Retreat Day Sunday, December 8.For more information, please contact Sheree Antoch at 860848-2237 ext. 211. Tuesday September 17 Internet Safety Informational Session St. Thomas Aquinas ParishStorrs from 1:00-2:30pm or 7:00-8:30pm. Open to all clergy, parishioners, diocesan employees and volunteers. Sponsored by the Office for Safe Environments. Tuesday, September 17 Annual Diocesan Mass of Remembrance A Mass in memory of our children who have died from stillbirths, miscarriages or abortions. A remembrance of children who have died recently or years ago.

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A 60th Anniversary Mass of Thanksgiving and The

Rededication of the Newly Restored Cathedral of Saint Patrick

Saturday, July 27, 2013 Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich 10:30 a.m. The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote D.D., Bishop of Norwich, Principal Celebrant and homilist. All parishioners and friends of the Diocese are welcome to attend and experience the unity of faith that has made the Diocese of Norwich a vital and loving community these 60 years.


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‘There is No Happier Day’ NORWICH - In an ancient and sacred rite of great solemnity, divine power, and By Shelley Wolf Four County Catholic Contributor

brotherly love, the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., the Bishop of Norwich, called upon the Holy Spirit to ordain Brian Christopher Maxwell, welcoming him to the priesthood in the Diocese of Norwich on Saturday, May 25 at the Cathedral of St. Patrick. Friends and family from throughout New York and New England, parishioners from throughout the diocese, seven seminarians, and more than 50 priests and deacons from the diocese gathered in the newly restored cathedral for the

Celebration and Mass of Ordination to the Holy Priesthood. The lofty voices of the Norwich Diocesan Choir, dramatic music on the pipe organ, trumpets, and timpani drums added to the celebration and sent spirits soaring. Bishop Cote, the ordaining celebrant, welcomed the ordinant Brian Maxwell, his family and friends, and all attendees to the celebration. “We thank God for the gift of his vocation,” Bishop Cote said. “Let us look upon the image of the crucified High Priest,” he said, referring to Jesus Christ. During the Rite of Ordination, Reverend Gregory P. Galvin, Vocations Director for the Diocese of Norwich, presented Brian Maxwell to the Bishop. “Do you know him to be worthy?” Bishop Cote asked. Father Galvin responded by saying that the ordinant was worthy. The Bishop then agreed to elect the candidate, and the congregation stood and applauded to show their consent. “There is no happier day,” Bishop Cote told the crowd. “We rejoice over God’s latest manifes-

tation of mercy as we ordain a new priest.” The Bishop extended thanks to Reverend Thomas F. Schmitt, the Dean of Men at Blessed John XXIII National Seminary in Weston, Massachusetts, where Brian Maxwell received his education, and to all of his family and friends who supported him on his journey. Then the Bishop directed his comments to Brian Maxwell. “Remember that you are called to protect the spiritual sacrifices of the faithful by uniting them to the sacrifice of Christ through the Holy Mass,” Bishop Cote said. “You will walk in a new life of Christ, baptizing parishioners, forgiving sins, comforting the sick, and offering praise to God, all

through the sacred power of Jesus Christ,” the Bishop told the ordinant. “Attend to his concerns before your own. Assist the faithful in becoming a unified family and lead them to Christ,” the Bishop commanded. “Your call came late in life but your call was genuine and you responded graciously,” Bishop Cote said. During the Promise of the Elect, Brian Maxwell rose and promised to celebrate the mysteries of Christ, to pray without ceasing, and to respect the Bishop and his successors. Then, in one of the most movOrdination Continued on page 8

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NDCCW Women’s Conference 2013 On May 4, 2013 at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Gales Ferry, the Norwich Submitted by Anne King

Diocese Council of Catholic Women held its 58th annual convention. The day began with registration and a coffee hour, followed by the annual meeting at which time Anne King, President of the Council, welcomed over 60 women from the seven districts of the Norwich Diocese. Following a short meeting, Reverend Ron Meyer, OMI, from the Immaculata Retreat House in Willimantic gave a talk entitled “Catholic Women: A Voice of Faith.” Father described women in their various roles and listed the steps of action that women can use to express the Roman Catholic faith today. 1. Pray, Pray, Pray and Pay attention (talk to God and Listen for God’s Reply) 2. LISTEN; Prepare Well (educate yourself in spiritual matters) 3. Do Something; show by example...let people know you

make the sign of the cross and say grace at meals, or that you attend Mass on Sundays, that you have pictures of Jesus or a crucifix in your homes. Small ways to be a VOICE..the total expression of the human being…. After the meeting concluded, the Eucharist was celebrated by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, along with the Reverend Brian Converse, Pastor of OurLady of Lourdes Church, the Very Reverend Charles LeBlanc, Spiritual Diocesan Moderator, and other guest moderators. A luncheon followed the Mass. Each year the Norwich Diocese holds its annual membership drive throughout the diocese. Sixty percent of the money collected is given in a check to the Bishop who, in turn, presents this check to Catholic Charities. This year the new director of Catholic Charities, James Maffuid, was present to accept a check in the amount of $18,216.26.

ing and symbolic moments of the rite, the ordinant laid face down on the sanctuary floor with arms outstretched, publically surrendering his whole being and laying down his life for his friends, just as Jesus commanded. In response, and to plead for God’s graces for the candidate, the entire congregation along with the 50 priests and deacons of the diocese fell to their knees and began to pray The Litany of Supplication, commonly known as The Litany of the Saints. The cantor chanted the names of dozens of saints one by one as the congregation responded with the chant “Pray for us.” In the most powerful moment of the sacred rite, Brian Maxwell knelt on the floor as Bishop Cote, acting as a direct successor of the Apostles, laid his hands on the ordinant’s head and silently prayed to God for an outpouring of the Holy Spirit and his gifts. Then, one by one, each of the 50 priests also laid their hands on the ordinant’s head. After the Laying on of Hands,

Father Schmitt of Blessed John XXIII National Seminary removed Brian Maxwell’s stole and vested him in a new cream and gold stole and chasuble, the vesture of the Office of Priesthood, publicly signifying his ministry in the Liturgy. The Bishop also anointed the hands of the ordinant with holy chrism oil, symbolizing his distinctive participation in Christ’s priesthood. Then Bishop Cote gave Brian Maxwell the fraternal kiss of peace, sealing his admittance into the ministry. All 50 priests also extended the fraternal kiss of peace to the ordinant. The newly ordained Reverend Brian Maxwell then joined in concelebrating the Eucharist side by side with the Bishop. Father Maxwell also gave his first blessing to Bishop Cote and, in a touching moment, extended his blessing to his siblings, nieces, and nephews as the Norwich Diocesan Choir sang acappella “The Lord Bless You.” At the conclusion of the service, Bishop Cote announced that Fa-

ther Maxwell will serve as a priest at St. Bernard Church in Rockville, where he last served as a transitional deacon. The audience, which included many members of the Rockville parish, burst into loud, spontaneous applause. Following the ceremony, a reception was held in the Cathedral hall, where Father Maxwell greeted guests in a long reception line, imparting his blessing on all who desired it. At age 54, Father Maxwell’s service to God and the Roman Catholic Church is just beginning. “It’s one of the happiest days of my life. It’s all grace,” a visibly tired but grateful Father Maxwell said after spending two hours imparting his blessing to the entire receiving line. “I was very blessed by all the wonderful people who supported me by their attendance and prayer today and over the last five years.” The next morning Father Maxwell concelebrated Mass at his new parish, St. Bernard Church in Rockville, where he was treated to another reception in his honor.

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Reverend Mr. Martin John Noe Ordained to the Diaconate Let us pray that God the all-powerful Father will mercifully pour out the grace of His blessing on this, his servant, whom in his kindness He has raised to the sacred Order of the Diaconate. Bishop Michael R. Cote NORWICH - In a joyful ceremony at the magnificent Saints Peter and Paul Church in NorFrom the FCC News Desk

wich, Saturday, June 8, 2013, Reverend Mr. Martin John Noe was ordained to the Transitional Diaconate by The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich. On a day forecasted to have torrential rain and wind, the sun broke through as if to signify the blessings granted this day to Deacon Noe, family, friends and the diocesan faithful. As expressed to Deacon Noe by Bishop Cote, “May God, who has begun the

good work in you, bring it to fulfillment.” It was a day of significant beginnings, of anticipation, of great happiness. The prayer of ordination captures the essence of the sacred service to which Deacon Noe has been called: “May there abound in him every Gospel virtue: Unfeigned love, Concern for the sick and poor, Unassuming authority, The purity of innocence, And the observance of spiritual discipline.” A grateful diocese community congratulates Deacon Martin Noe.

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Venerable Pierre Toussaint, 1766-1863 As the Year of Faith continues, we are presented with another virtuous person who, By Sister Elissa Rinere, CP, JCD Office of Worship

under extraordinarily difficult circumstances, never failed to put Faith into action. Pierre, of no known lineage or family, was born a slave in the French colony of SaintDomingue, which is now the country of Haiti. At the age of 21 he was brought to New York City by his owner, and apprenticed to a hairdresser in Manhattan. Evidently, in the late 18th century, wealthy women spent quite a bit of money for the creation of very complex coiffures. Pierre was quite adept at this trade, and eventually was earning a very comfortable living. After a few years, Pierre’s owner returned to Saint Domingue for business reasons, became ill and died there. Pierre’s income was used to support his owner’s widow, who at that point was destitute. When she died in 1807, Pierre was given his freedom. Having no family name of his own, Pierre adopted the surname “Toussaint” as a tribute to Toussaint Louverture, a leader in the revolution against colonial forces in San-Domingue which eventually led to the freeing of all slaves

and establishment of the country of Haiti in 1804. Now a free man with a steady and substantial income, Pierre Toussaint became a philanthropist. His funds went, first of

all, to buying the freedom of as many slaves as possible. He and his wife, Juliette, also supported orphanages, shelters and schools in New York. They took in foster children who would otherwise have lived on the streets, providing them with education and stability. Because Toussaint spoke both French and English, he was particularly helpful to refugees from Haiti who came to New York seeking a better life. He and his wife established a credit bureau, and employment agency and a shelter to assist them. As “Saint Toussaint,” as he was called, grew older and continued working, friends urged him to retire and rest. His reply was “I have enough for myself, but if I stop working I have not enough for others.” So, his charity and philanthropy continued. As a devout Catholic, Pierre at-

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humed and reinterred in the crypt of the present St. Patrick’s Cathedral in Manhattan. In 1996 Toussaint was declared “venerable” by Pope John Paul II, which is the second step in the canonization process. As one writer has stated: “One day, and perhaps soon, as these things go, the former slave and hairdresser will be proclaimed a saint by the Church.” Although he came from a place of severe deprivation, lacking even a name, Pierre Toussaint never hoarded riches for himself, but reached out in compassion to anyone in need. May his fortitude and generosity inspire us, especially in this Year of Faith, to reach out to others and to fulfill Christ’s commandment that we love one another.

Unfailing Prayer to St. Anthony O Holy St. Anthony, gentlest of Saints, your love for God and Charity for His creatures, made you worthy, when on earth, to possess miraculous powers. Miracles waited on your word, which you were ever ready to speak for those in trouble or anxiety. Encouraged by this thought, I implore of you to obtain for me (state request here). The answer to my prayer may require a miracle, even so, you are the Saint of Miracles. O gentle and loving St. Anthony, whose heart was ever full of human sympathy, whisper my petition into the ears of the Sweet Infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your arms; and the gratitude of my heart will ever be yours. Amen. Promise publication and for nine consecutive days, pray one Our Father, one Hail Mary and one Glory Be.

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June is “Leave a Legacy” Month O Holy St. Anthony, gentlest of Saints, your love for God and Charity for His creatures, made you worthy, when on earth, to possess miraculous powers. Miracles waited on your word, which you were ever ready to speak for those in trouble or anxiety. Encouraged by this thought, I implore of you to obtain for me (state request here). The answer to my prayer may require a miracle, even so, you are the Saint of Miracles. O gentle and loving St. Anthony, whose heart was ever full of human sympathy, whisper my petition into the ears of the Sweet Infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your arms; and the gratitude of my heart will ever be yours. Amen. Promise publication and for nine consecutive days, pray one Our Father, one Hail Mary and one Glory Be.

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interested in learning more about legacy giving, to retirees seeking to update their wills to remember their beloved parish. Event presenters included Angela Arnold, Executive

worked during the day. There was a wide range of information presented to parishioners, covering such topics as charitable bequests, charitable gift annuities, gifts of life insurance and other vehicles available for philanthropy through estate planning. In addition to the great information on hand, a highlight of the event was the wonderful food catered by parishioner Roseanne Murphy of New London. Father Washabaugh opened and closed with a beautiful prayer, welcoming the beauty of spring and giving thanks for the wonderful community at St. Mary’s. All in attendance seemed to have a great time, reminiscing, sharing stories, fellowship and a common love for their parish. Jacquie noted St. Mary’s future is just as important as its past, and the spring gathering served as testament to this. Those parishes, ministry representatives or individuals wishing to learn more about legacy giving through estate planning or looking to host a Planned Giving seminar should contact MaryLou Gannotti by telephone at 860-886-1928 ext. 15, or by e-mail at

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clients of Catholic Charities. “Charity is giving of yourself without expecting to receive anything tangible in return,” one staff member reflected. Another employee explained that she sees charity as, “Selflessly giving of yourself and of your heart.” “Charity starts with loving your neighbor unconditionally,” offered one individual being served by the agency. “Charity is offering hope to someone who has lost it- and that is exactly what Catholic Charities has done for me,” answered a client from the Willimantic office. This question was part of a Catholic Charities video project that was led by Tristan Case of Ledyard, Connecticut. Tristan recently graduated from a 3-year accelerated Digital Recording Arts Program at Rhode Island’s New England Institute of

Technology. As part of his final Capstone project, Tristan was challenged to create a video from scratch to a finished product. Knowing the good work that occurs every day at Catholic Charities, Tristan approached the agency to see if they could use his help in producing a video that would promote the program and services offered to the community. He offered these services free of charge. Catholic Charities was thrilled to accept the offer. Beginning in February, Tristan worked closely with staff at multiple program sites to create a plan for the video that would meet both his final project requirements and Catholic Charities’ needs. The video specifically highlights the Emergency Services Program, Adoption Services, Behavioral Health, and Mortgage Counseling Services. Tristan grew up in Ledyard, where he still resides. He was confirmed at Our Lady of Lourdes

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WILLIMANTIC - Firefighters spraying water on St. Mary’s Church on Valley Street, Willimantic, late into the night, May 16, 2013, trying to contain a blaze that burned for hours, sending clouds of smoke into the air. All indications from inspections to date are that the church will survive structurally. Details regarding the cause of the blaze are still being investigated. At the same time, structural engineers and building contractors are determining the extent of the damage and estimated time to repair. While the church is closed for repair, two weekly Masses at St. Joseph Church have been arranged for St. Mary Parishioners: 5:00 Saturday evenings and 11:30 Sunday mornings. Father Roger Lamoureux, OMI, Pastor at St. Mary will celebrate both Masses. Photo by Mark Mirko/Hartford Courant.


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Father Ray Introvigne Retires Will Continue as Co-Director of Spiritual Renewal Services in Norwich Bishop Michael R. Cote has accepted the resignation of Father Ray Introvigne from St. From the FCC News Desk

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Catholic Community of Windham Celebrates Feast of Corpus Christi On Saturday, June 1, at 5:30 p.m., the three parishes of Corpus Christi, the Catholic Community of By Anne Pappalardo

Windham, celebrated the Feast of Corpus Christi together at an outdoor Mass at Jillson Square in Willimantic. The parishioners, pastors, seminarians and deacons of St. Joseph’s, St. Mary’s, and Sagrado Corazon de Jesus churches in Willimantic attended the Mass, which was celebrated by Rev. Roger J. Lamoureux, OMI, pastor of St. Mary’s Church. It was followed by a Eucharistic procession that was shared by Father Lamoureux, the Very Rev. Laurence LaPointe, pastor of both St. Joseph’s and Sagrado Corazon de Jesus, Rev. George Richards, and Rev. Henry Agudelo. As part of the procession, parishioners stopped for veneration of the Blessed Sacrament at three shrines, representative of each parish, at stops along Valley and Jackson Streets.

Parishioners celebrated a final benediction at St. Joseph’s Church before joining together for a community dinner at St. Joseph’s Church hall. According to Father Lamoureux, “The churches comprising Corpus Christi, have worked diligently toward our goal of finding meaningful ways to benefit our spiritual growth and welfare. We strive to create activities and events that promote and nourish our spiritual population. The Feast of Corpus Christi presented us with an occasion to present a spiritual celebration with the parishes that comprise all three communities and strengthen our bonds. This event assisted in nourishing our spiritual lives and building desired unity within our three parishes.” The Very Rev. Laurence LaPointe, pastor of both St. Joseph’s and Sagrado Corazon de Jesus Churches said, “This feast challenged us to think outside the walls of our respective churches. We may pray in French or Italian, in Spanish or English or Polish, but we share

one faith and we follow one Lord.” Corpus Christi was formed in spring 2010 in response to Bishop Cote’s request for churches to work together more closely. Priests and parishioners of all three churches hope to make this an annual event.

Mary Church in Coventry, CT. Father Ray was ordained in 1964 and served as an Associate Pastor at St. Bridget of Kildare Church in Moodus, St. Agnes Church in Niantic, St. Joseph Church in Chester and St. Sebastian Church in Middletown. In 1977 he was assigned by Bishop Reilly as the Director of Spiritual Renewal Service for the Diocese. After fourteen years at St. Mary Church in Coventry, he leaves to continue his work as a full-time Co-Director of Spiritual Renewal Services for the Diocese of Norwich, CT. He has relocated to Sacred Heart Rectory, Taftville, CT. Father Ray was honored Sunday, May 5, 2013 with

a surprise celebration and dinner reception that was attended by more than 400 friends, relatives and acquaintances. Father Ray has enjoyed the privilege of being able to minister to so many people in the Norwich Diocese throughout the years. Father Ray thanked God for the beautiful day. He thanked the Knights of Columbus, Frank Kupiec, parishioners throughout the Diocese, Attorney, Jim Percy, Bill Thurston and his outstanding team for the buying, cooking, preparing and serving, and to all those who worked so hard to make the day so special. Mike Witham was Master of Ceremonies. To everyone who touched his heart through prayer and love, he will continue to pray for you and asks for your prayers in return.

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Letter to the Editor I am writing in response to the editorial by Sister Mary Ann Walsh published in the April Four County Catholic – suggesting that a ban on assault weapons is part of the broader Catholic prolife position. With all due respect, Sister Mary Ann, guns can save lives as well as take them. I am certain the Holy Father himself, Pope Francis, is protected by men with semi automatic rifles and high capacity magazines. Unlike Pope Francis, President Obama and other high-ranking people, my family does not have the privilege of armed protection. I am my family’s armed protection. All firearms in the hands of criminals are instruments of death. We wouldn’t want to let that fact be clouded over by arguing over what is or isn’t a so-called assault rifle. I think the Jhadist terror attack in Boston shows that evil lawless men determined to take life will find a way regardless of any laws. Do we now need to ban pressure cookers? Or kitchen knives that can also kill? Or baseball bats? The perpetrator is the problem, not the size of the knife or rifle. Instead of focusing on law-abiding citizens exercising their constitutional rights,we would be better served focusing on the culture of violence being bred into our lives by Hollywood, and the ensuing moral decay of society. Take a look around! Over the years, mental institutions have been closed and the mentally ill are released into the general public with a bottle of pills and a “good luck”. Mental health and Hollywood-promoted violence are the root causes of the tragedies of violence. Since the Sandy Hook tragedy, many Hollywood celebrities have been outspoken about gun control; yet these same celebrities continue to ramp up the violence in movies and television. This group has the luxury of armed security; meanwhile, gun owners and organizations like the NRA are being demonized and blamed for the Sandy Hook tragedy. The anti gun activists will have people believe it was because the shooter used an AR15 that there was so many more innocent lives taken. The truth is the shooter attacked young children in an unprotected environment with the element of surprise. Until we as Americans wake up to the reality of our increasingly dangerous and pervasive culture of violence, we all remain vulnerable to these attacks regardless of gun bans. We have long known schools are an easy target and little has been done about it. Our politicians had a chance to address the real problems of violence and mental illness, but failed miserably and instead used the opportunity for their own political gain. The recent gun control bill SB1160 passed in Connecticut would have done absolutely nothing to stop Sandy Hook. The shooter’s mother would still have lawfully possessed firearms and her disturbed son still would have stolen them. Perhaps as parents we need to look at what we teach our children or what video games we buy them or what we let them watch on TV or the Internet. There will always be firearms, the mentally ill, evil and criminals. All gun bans do is disarm lawabiding citizens. The Obama Administration wants ALL citizens disarmed and that type of tyrannical power is exactly why we fought for our independence from Great Britain. Many of the Founding Fathers were good Christian men who felt it so important we have the right to bear arms that it was written only second to free speech. Many Catholics in this country own so-referenced assault weapons, which is a label given to cosmetic features of a rifle. Many Catholics own firearms for personal protection, hunting and sporting. Kenneth Deal Stafford Springs, CT

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Nature’s Testimony: Life Beyond Death When I was a child, a year seemed like a reeeally long time. Life was just beginning – and time By Mary Tunison

was in abundance. Consequently, the focus was on living. As we mature, and the place mark on the continuum of life edges closer to the end than the beginning, our perception of life begins to change. Neck aches, back pain and creeky joints remind us that our bodies are temporary shells in this passing world. Like cars, sometimes we’d like to trade them in for newer models – but we can’t. Modern medicine may be able to replace certain parts but eventually they wear out too! When I lived in Florida, I would visit the beautiful cemetery grounds where my parents were laid to rest. Somehow, I felt close to them there. A beautiful place, complete with a large pond, rose gardens and various winding walkways, I’d spend many a summer’s evening strolling around and pondering some of life’s great mysteries. Like, “Why did we have to pay the price for Adam and Eve’s mistake?” Or. . .”Couldn’t there have been a way for God to provide heaven for us and bypass the misery of this life?” After all, God can do all things. As I meandered around, I would take note of names, birth and death dates, and some interesting one-liners. But I remember one grave, in particular, with a glass encased photo of a young man, in his late teens. Donned in his baseball cap and jersey, he smiled back as if to say, “Life is short, live well.” As I walked on, I began to realize the fragility of life. “People die at all different ages,” I thought, – a reality I already knew yet somehow now held greater impact. God created this world, exactly as it is, for a reason. True -- Christ didn’t have to suffer and die on the cross to save us but he chose this path to show us the depth of his love. Through his passion, excruciating suffering and death on the cross, he paid our sin debt in full and opened the door to eternal life. There’s something very important about believing without see-

ing all the evidence. There’s something intrinsically connected between trust and love. God desires that we discover Him as we journey through this “physical vale” of life. Through this discovery comes wisdom, insight suffering, joy, and growth – all of which nurtures and develops the spirit and lifegiving force deep within. Hints and clues of heaven and life after death abound in nature. While Jesus walked this earth, he often pointed to examples of it in nature to illustrate these spiritual truths. Consider the butterfly. Scientists have discovered that inside the chrysalis, the body of the caterpillar is completely destroyed. When the caterpillar enters the cocoon, it isn’t simply growing and developing with a few body parts being rearranged or a few new and improved appendages added on.

Virtually every cell that made up the caterpillar is torn apart until all that is left is a kind of nutrient soup with cells that contain all of the information needed to build a new, transformed life – a butterfly. I believe that G o d p u t

such an amazing phenomenon in nature to assure us that life doesn’t end with the death of our physical bodies. Something survives, fundamental to who we really are as a person made by God. Like the chrysalis, our human bodies are destroyed, but our intrinsic nature and spirit live on in a new form. Another example of how some-

thing dies yet lives on is the seed. Once the seed falls into the soil and meshes for a time with the various elements contained in the soil, the outer shell begins to open as it dies. Inside the dying seed, though unseen, a life force remains. Although the entire original physical composition of the seed is destoyed, new life emerges. Soil is a paradox, representing both life and death. It puts to death the old and brings to life the new. Coupled with the nurturing and sometimes dark, abrasive elements of the soil, along with the sunlight and rain which also affect its transformation, the seed resurrects into new life. Our life, here in this material world, is comparable to the seed in the dynamics of the soil. Here, we are exposed to both nurturing and abrasive


experiences – light and dark nights of the soul, joys and the storms of life – all of which serve to nurture and prepare the soul for new life in our eternal home. In his work, The Weight of Glory, C.S. Lewis puts it this way, “At present we are on the outside of the world, the wrong side of the door...But all the leaves of the New Testament are rustling with the rumor that it will not always be so. We shall get in...It is in the light of these overwhelming possibilities that we should conduct all our dealings with one another, all friendships, all loves, all play, all politics.” Mary Tunison works for Catholic Charities, Archdiocese of Hartford, and is a freelance writer, photographer, artist, and graphic designer. She can be contacted at

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Fortnight for Freedom Planned for June 21 to July 4 WASHINGTON - The second annual Fortnight for Freedom will take place from June 21 to July 4, By USCCB and the Four County Catholic News Desk

and will address the challenges to religious liberty both at home and abroad. As with last year’s Fortnight, the event will begin and end with a special Mass. Archbishop William E. Lori of Baltimore, chairman of the USCCB Ad Hoc Committee for Religious Liberty, will open the 2013 Fortnight for Freedom by

celebrating Mass at Baltimore’s historic Basilica of the National Shrine of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary, scheduled for June 21 at 7 p.m. EDT. Cardinal Donald Wuerl of Washington will celebrate the closing Mass at the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington on July 4 at 12 p.m.

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weeks before August 1, when the administration’s HHS mandate

Defending Religious Liberty The U.S. bishops have called for a Fortnight for Freedom, a two-week period of prayer and action, to address many current challenges to religious liberty, including the August 1, 2013 deadline for religious organizations to comply with the Human Health Service mandate. Supreme Court rulings that could redefine marriage and religious liberty concerns in areas such as immigration and humanitarian services will also be remembered during the fortnight. To voice your opposition to the federal health care mandate, call the Capitol switchboard at 202-224-3121 and ask for your Congressmen and/or U.S. Senators. Ask them to support legislation that will overturn the mandate.

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coercing us to violate our deeplyheld beliefs will be enforced against most religious non-profits. During the Fortnight, the Supreme Court’s decisions on the definition of marriage will likely be handed down as well. Those decisions could have a profound impact on religious freedom for generations to come. Bishop Cote reminds us that

“It is through prayer, study, and peaceful public action during the Fortnight for Freedom, that we in the Diocese and across the Country will help preserve the fundamental right of religious freedom.” Bishop Cote asks that each day during the Fortnight, we pray the following Prayer for the Protection of Religious Liberty. “Prayer,” Bishop Cote stresses, “…is the most powerful tool we have among the many responses to the crisis we face. Let us pray that those who govern will trust and uphold the First Amendment.”

Prayer for the Protection of Religious Liberty O God our Creator, from your provident hand we have received our right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. You have called us as your people and given us the right and the duty to worship you, the only true God, and your Son, Jesus Christ. Through the power and working of your Holy Spirit, you call us to live out our faith in the midst of the world, bringing the light and the saving truth of the Gospel to every corner of society. We ask you to bless us in our vigilance for the gift of religious liberty. Give us the strength of mind and heart to readily defend our freedoms when they are threatened; give us courage in making our voices heard on behalf of the rights of your Church and the freedom of conscience of all people of faith. Grant, we pray, O heavenly Father, a clear and united voice to all your sons and daughters gathered in your Church in this decisive hour in the history of our nation, so that, with every trial withstood and every danger overcome— for the sake of our children, our grandchildren, and all who come after us— this great land will always be “one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.” We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.


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Values Are What Keep Us Together Over the Years Philomena Buscetto, SBS Class of 2013 NORWICH - On May 31, 2013, “four years of By Kelly Catalfamo Reprint from The Day

memories, friendships and life lessons” came to a close

for the St. Bernard High School Class of 2013, as class orator Philomena Buscetto put it in her address to fellow graduates. At its commencement exercises, Saint Bernard

School celebrated the graduation of 71 students at the Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich. Family members packed the pews to watch and cheer students in gowns of gray (for men) and red

(for women). Headmaster Thomas J. Doherty III praised the test scores and volunteer work of the graduates and said he SBS Graduates Continued on page 23

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looked forward to hearing the stories of what they accomplished after high school. Buscetto opened her speech by recalling a moment in her sophomore year theology class, when the teacher turned to his sleeping and distracted students and noted that “days drag, but time flies.” He was right, she told her fellow classmates, because suddenly they were here, coming together as a class for the last time. Later, Buscetto reminded the Class of 2013 that they were the last to have Marie-Pierre Diana - whom they called “Ms. Pam” as a teacher. Diana died in 2010 from a complication of lung surgery. “Through example, Ms. Pam taught us love, strength and hope,” Buscetto said. After hearing the news that Diana had passed away, she said, “for the first time, we came together as a community.” Eighteen of the graduates had a parent who attended St. Bernard; and toward the end of

the exercises, those students presented alumni medallions to their parents. Mary Beth Baillargeon and Cynthia DeLucia, senior class moderators, presented academic awards to several graduates. A medal was presented to seven students for their place in the top 10 percent of the graduating class. St. Bernard also recognized two students with the highest academic achievement in the subjects of English, social studies, theology, Spanish, visual arts, science, math, French and music. The school’s graduates will “meet the future as young adults who have been well-versed in Christian values,” and those values will help them with future success, said the Bishop of Norwich, the Most Rev. Michael R. Cote, in his message. Bishop Cote advised them to “give yourselves wholeheartedly to service for your brothers and sisters in the human family.” Photos by Sean D. Elliot/e Day

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Love, Marriage & Pizza Delivery It should come as no surprise that the story of how the Domino’s Pizza founder met his wife involves By Christina Capecchi Four County Catholic Contributor

pizza. But indulge me in the details. It was a Monday night in early February, 1962, and the phones weren’t ringing at Tom Monaghan’s pizza store in Mount Pleasant, Mich., so the restless 24-year-old decided to change things up by taking a delivery himself, leaving a trainee to manage the store. The order had come from Sweeney Hall, an all-girls dorm at nearby Central Michigan University where men weren’t allowed, so Tom stopped at the switchboard operator. The curly-haired brunette wore a white sweater and a red skirt – “cute as a bug’s ear,” he would later say. Their conversation was brief, but Tom drove away on Cloud Nine. Normally he was shy around

girls – he hadn’t been on a date in months – but Tom was convinced he shouldn’t let this one pass him by. Back at the store, he forced himself to dial the Sweeney switchboard. “I’m the guy who just delivered a pizza,” he said. “Would you go to a movie with me?” “Who are you?” the young woman shot back. Not the response he was hoping for. And then, relief: “Oh, I just came on duty.” The operator said she’d replaced Bonnie Hula and rang Bonnie’s room. Tom worked up his courage a second time. “I’m the guy who just delivered a pizza. Would you go to a movie with me?” “Who are you?” the young woman stammered. “Oh, another girl took my place today, Margie Zybach.” Tom was transferred once more and finally his invitation was met with a yes. Margie was the one.

A senior majoring in library science, Tom liked the woman who emerged on their first date: “very pretty, wholesome, good, old-fash-

the 20-something Catholic to his wife. Day after day, the Holy Spirit works in amazing ways, and one of my favorite examples is when we

ioned,” he told James Leonard, author of the book Living the Faith: A Life of Tom Monaghan. Tom brought a $400 half-carat diamond ring to their third date – the most expensive he could charge with no money down – and a week later, he convinced Margie to accept. Tom and Margie have now been married 50 years. I marvel over the two departures from the norm – Tom’s decision to deliver a pizza and Bonnie’s absence at the switchboard – that led

see it connect a man and a woman and carry them to the altar, where they whisper life-long promises before God. Wedding season is now upon us, and you’re likely to soon witness these sacred vows firsthand. The problem, as the kids-thesedays gripe goes, is that not enough couples view marriage the way young Tom and Margie did. Increasingly, it’s treated as a hope-forthe-best pact rather than a


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death-do-us-part pledge, as Brad Pitt infamously expressed in a Vanity Fair interview while he was married to Jennifer Aniston. “Jen and I always made a pact we’ll see where this is going,” he said. “I’m not sure it really is our nature to be with someone for the rest of our lives.” But rather than lament the state of marriage, I’m taking the long view and focusing on the positive, the way the Holy Spirit still operates and sacramental grace still seals a Catholic wedding, where the same words uttered by Tom and Margie half a century ago will be spoken this month at prairie churches and urban cathedrals. Something beyond the human realm happens at the altar, and the church describes it well in its nuptial blessing: husband and wife enter into “so holy a mystery.” From honeymoon to 50th anniversary, the butterflies may flee, but the holiness and the mystery only deepen. Christina Capecchi is a freelance writer from Inver Grove Heights, Minn. She can be reached at

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“What Charity Means to Me” Essay Winners During this Year of Faith, we celebrate the 60th Jubilee of the Diocese of Norwich and the tenth anniversary of the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote as Bishop of the Diocese of Norwich. Bishop Cote’s motto “Above All Charity” was the underpinning of an essay contest among the sixth grade students. Each student wrote an essay entitled “What Charity Means to Me”. The winning essays from each school have been submitted for publication in the Four County Catholic. The following winners are from Saint John School in Middletown. Catryn Rhoden, Grade 6 Charity is something that needs to be practiced every day. People should donate to the poor, homeless, and those struggling all over the globe. Imagine a world where everyone had a home, a world where no one went to bed hungry. We can help build that world peace through charity. At Saint John School, we practice charity by donating money to the church and food to local pantries. Items and money we collect could change the lives of others. Right now, we are currently working on a project

called Pennies for Patients. The purpose of this fundraiser is to help kids with Leukemia who can’t afford treatment. It’s great to know that I’m helping children somewhere who are ill. Charity gives you a warm, good feeling inside! Charity can come in many different ways. It’s not just giving money away, but we can also provide spiritual help too. Priests, bishops and pastors pray for those in need so that God will bless them and give them strength. We can also participate in this form of charity by praying along with them.

In conclusion, charity is a great way to help others and participate in Christian kindness. Without charity there would be less kindness and peace in the word. We are helping someone in the world every day. The best part about charity is that it helps the person learn to give willingly. Thank God we have something called charity!

Kasey Goggins, Grade 6 To me, charity means to be generous and loving to people in need. Charity is giving your time, money, extra clothing, and other possessions to the needy. Charity can also be participating in fundraisers and giving the money to a soup kitchen such as Saint Vincent de Paul. You should remember to treat others as you would like to be treated. At Saint

John School, we have a Student Council. We think of fundraisers for the poor, sick, needy, and homeless. Our most recent fundraiser is Pennies for Patients. We collect all our spare change and combine it with our class. The class with the most money wins. We also set a goal for the amount of money the school has to raise. We have also donated to other funds such as the ASPCA, written letters to people who are lonely, and more. My friends and I recently made a blanket to donate to the poor. It was fun to make and made us feel

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Mercy High was a question: “What is talent?” And according to Femc, “We are talented at being sisters, daughters and friends. We are talented at forming unwavering support systems that are grounded in the Catholic faith, especially during the emotional events affecting Connecticut and the Mercy community in the past year. And lastly, we are talented at being classy young women who will forever remember to be Sister Mary appropriate in all that we do.” As 157 girls walked their final

walk as seniors in high school, they were reminded of the importance of the belief in the impossible by Salutatorian Catherine Kannam. “As women of Mercy, we don’t give up,” Kannam said in her speech to her class. Kannam, who is headed to Dartmouth College in the fall, not only achieved success in her academics and extracurricular activities, but also the prestigious Girl Scout Gold Award. “Believe in yourself,” Femc said in an interview. “It’s hard in society. Have faith in yourself.” Femc, who is headed into the honors program at Northeastern University for nursing, also completed many hours at Middlesex Hospital and Christ Church Cathedral Soup Kitchen in addi-

tion to many AP classes, a parttime job and extracurricular activities. “Be strong in what you do. Have a lot of heart behind it,” Femc said. Sister Mary A. McCarthy, president of Mercy High School, reminded the class of the steps they have taken toward each other and others in the community. “You have done so with confidence, compassion and great generosity,” she said. As the Chamber Choir sang “Showing Us the Way” — a Mercy tradition — Kannam picked out a line that had a lasting impression on the Class of 2013: “Where we’re going to, it’s still hard to say, but I know we’ll come back someday.”


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Groton’s Sacred Heart School Artists Shine The CT State Council of the Knights of Columbus holds two poster contests each year. One is for By Cris Cruz, Grand Knight Council 4314, Sacred Heart Parish, Groton

Vocations; this year’s theme was “Religious Life – Vocations in the Catholic Church”. The contest is open to children in 1st to 8th grades. At this year’s CT State Convention, the winners for the Vocations Poster Contest were announced. Two students from Sacred Heart School in Groton were chosen as winners in their category. For 1st and 2nd grades, the winner was Payton Noe. Payton’s poster was a beautifully colored work of art with the theme being “Pray to the Holy Spirit so you can be a better listener to God”. The poster was highlighted by praying hands, a heart, an angel, and Our Lord Jesus on The

Cross. For 7th and 8th grades, the winner was Edyta Wolk. Edyta’s poster had someone approaching a fork in the road and in the middle was the sign “Vocation Road”. It was colored in lightly so that the theme of the poster stood out – “When life gives you choices and you can’t find your way, God will light a path for you and lead you through the day”. The other poster contest that the Knights of Columbus holds is the Substance Abuse Awareness Con-

tests. The winners of this contest were also announced at the CT State Convention. For the Alcohol Abuse Awareness Contest, ages 8 to 11, the winner from Sacred Heart School was Molly Lebovitz. Molly’s poster was eye-catching. The background was bright yellow with two prominent items. The first item was a martini, along with olives, placed inside a red circle with a line through it meaning DON’T. The second was a bottle of milk inside a blue circle meaning YES. The theme of her poster was “Feel good about what you drink!” The winners’ submissions are forwarded to the Knights of Columbus Supreme Council for their International Contest. Good Luck to Molly in

that contest. A special thank you should be given to the Principal of Sacred Heart School, Larry Fitzgerald, and Art Teacher, Ann Griffin for their leadership and guidance.

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Mount Saint John to Become The Academy at Mount Saint John On April 26th, the Board of Directors of Mount Saint John, Inc., approved a new business model which allows the agency to continue its mission which it began over a hundred years ago. While Mount St. John School, in operation for over 100 years as a residential treatment facility for at-risk boys and young men, will close its residential program effective June 18 , 2013, it will continue its mission as a clinical day school named, “The Academy at Mount Saint John�. There will be a grand opening in September, 2013. The mission of the Academy is “to provide high quality clinical and educational experiences to empower individuals and families with the skills, confidence and fortitude to achieve their full potential “. Utilizing a multi-disciplinary team approach, the focus is on the coordination of cognitive, emotional, physical, educational, vocational and spiritual development of young men struggling with academic success, school avoidance and benefitting from non- traditional educational options. It will serve young men from 11 to 21 years old in a flexible schedule including partial day, full and extended day and school year. For further information, an informational tour or preplacement interviews, please contact Ms. Kathy White at or (860)343-1357 or visit our website






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2013 Graduates Reflect on Time at Xavier High School in Middletown MIDDLETOWN - In a dignified and respectful ceremony led by Brother Thomas Ryan, Francis By Julie Anne Rancourt Reprint from the Middletown Press

Xavier High School held graduation exercises for 192 young men this Sunday morning, May 19, 2013. The forty-seventh graduating class received their diplomas from the Most Reverend Bishop Michael R. Cote. “(Graduation) seemed like it was always so far away and now that it’s here, it seems to have gone by so quickly. We’ve all grown as Xavier men,” Class President, Gavin Clemmey said before the ceremony. The idea of growing from boys into men was a common thread among the speakers and guests at the ceremony. Eileen Strom, whose son Peter was graduating, lauded the school for giving her son the best education possible and said the school turned them into “men, men like Christ.” Peter Strom will be attending Fordam University with four other classmates in the fall. Salutatorian Mark K. Breault, of Ivoryton, delighted the crowd with a humorous anecdote about his first days at the school and the random dress-code checks, one of which a classmate failed by not only wearing illegal shoes, but forgetting to wear socks. Breault said he found the dress code, and resulting punishments for being out of compliance, trying, but has grown to realize that they were being trained to display themselves outwardly in a way that reflects their inner man. Breault, who will be studying Chemical Engineering at Villanova University in the fall, went on to express his appreciation to his parents, teachers, and God. Representing the class as the top academic achiever, Mario J. Chris, spoke about the sacrifices his family made which allowed him to attend Xavier High School. From Storrs, Connecticut, he thanked his mother, Sagaya Mary V. Rayappan, for leaving her job in Storrs for one

in Middletown, so he could commute an hour each way with her every day. In his introduction, Brother Ryan equated all the time Chris spent commuting to Xavier with traveling to the west coast more than nine times. Chris, who will be studying Aeronautical and Astronautical Engineering and Computer Science at Stanford University, said today was about celebrating the impact that they will have on the world. The Valedictorian said he is most proud of doing his best and letting God do the rest, saying that Xavier men are above all, confident. Chris said that the experience he valued the most was “seeing Jesus every day through each one of you.” Chris closed his remarks with a quote from Ralph Waldo Emerson, “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” Bishop Michael R. Cote, spiri-

tual leader of the Diocese of Norwich, referenced the newly elected Pope Francis and his tendency to speak briefly and simply. The

bishop quoted the Pope by saying “we need to see the light of hope and bring it to others.” In his brief remarks, Bishop told

the graduates to “listen carefully to your individual gifts. They will guide you where to go” and offered his congratulations.

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On A Mission in Nicaragua A Life-Changing Experience During our Spring Break this year, 10 students and two teachers from Saint Bernard School had By Victor Calle Senior, Saint Bernard School

the amazing privilege and opportunity to go on a mission trip to Nicaragua. There were a variety of reasons for our decision to go, which included the opportunity to learn, mature and grow in our


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faith while immersed in a different culture. We were all excited for the opportunity to improve the lives of others and allow God to use us as instruments to do His Will. This was a trip that required many months of planning and was done in conjunction with the Mustard Seed Communities Organization (MSC). MSC is a nonprofit organization dedicated to caring for the most vulnerable populations in society, with facilities in Jamaica, Nicaragua, Dominican Republic and Zimbabwe. They work primarily towards the care of children with serious mental and physical disabilities, but also have programs offering jobs and training for people who would otherwise have no opportunity to break out of the cycle of poverty. Our mission team worked in their two Nicaraguan facilities at Hogar Belen Managua and Hogar Belen Diriamba. Along with MSC, we as individuals reached out to our communities in search of spiritual and prayer support for the success of our mission trip, as well as for donations to bring with us for the facilities. When we arrived, we were not prepared for all that we would see and experience. The culture and social situation there were so drastically different from anything we knew that for the first few days when we were traveling, we would sit in near silence, just trying to wrap our heads around all that we saw, smelled and heard. The poverty was apparent everywhere and many places were very dirty. Oddly enough, the people there

were really quite happy and kind. Despite the obvious difficulty of their lives and the suffering they endured, they maintained great faith and joy. This was something that impacted us greatly, as we knew that in the U.S. many would not do nearly so well in overcoming such a harsh situation. The work we did while in Nicaragua consisted of spending time with the children of Hogar Belen Managua and Diriamba, and also doing construction work, including building a new kitchen at the Managua site. For several hours we worked - mixing concrete, carrying buckets of concrete to pour a foundation, digging, breaking/moving rocks and many other tasks. But after that, we were able to spend time with the children. It was the most wonderful and beautiful part of our experience there. The children, with all their disabilities were still so happy and loving and lovable in a way that touched each and every one of us deeply. In them you could truly see the free, pure and innocent love of God. Many of our peers were surprised at our decision to give up our breaks for the experience. Some of us, ourselves, were of course aware of what we might be missing as far as free time to rest, relax and be with friends. But it was easy to justify to ourselves that the good we might accomplish would be well worth the sacrifice. Speaking for the entire mission team, we had infinitely more fun, excitement and growth that week in Nicaragua than we ever would have at home.


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Did You Know? June 14 Flag Day. Wear red, white, and blue. June 16 Father’s Day. Say the Our Father to honor God, your heavenly Father. June 19 Freedom from slavery day. Pray for people who are slaves. June 24 Feast day of the birth of John the Baptist. Read about him in the first chapters of the Gospels Luke and John in your Bible.

Honor Your Dad June 16th is Father’s Day. Honor your dad and make the day fun. If you don’t have a dad in the home, then honor a man in your life who is special. Father’s Day became a real holiday across America in 1972. But, Father’s Day celebrations began over 100 years ago by daughters. In West Virginia many children lost their father’s in a coal mining accident in 1907. The following summer, Grace Clayton and her church held the first Father’s Day service. In Spokane, Washington, Mrs. Sonora Dodd, the daughter of a man who fought in the civil war wanted to honor her dad and others. Her father raised his six children by himself after his wife died. The governor of her state declared the first official Father’s Day in 1910. Plan and make the day special with some of these ideas: • Collect jokes to tell dad and laugh together. • Write a letter or draw a picture of what’s special about your dad. You can even make a booklet of great deeds your dad has done. • Make hero sandwiches for Dad and let him know why he’s your hero. • Play a game together inside or play ball outside. • Have someone take a picture of you with your dad. Then frame the photo. • Have a knighthood ceremony and knight your dad as your hero. You can even use long balloons as a sword and have a balloon sword fight. • Make or print a card. Here are two places to check out: • Write promise notes of things you’ll do for dad for him to use (suggestions: play a game, be quiet, obey a rule, wash his car, make a snack for him)

Famous Bible Dads Unscramble these names and check out the passages on some famous fathers in the Bible.

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Vdiia 2 Timothy 2:8 & 1 Kings 2:12 Brhaaam Genesis 18:18-19 Crazaasth Luke 1:62-63 Mdaa Genesis 5:3 Scaia Genesis 26:12-13 Dgo Ephesians 5:20

7. Semos Acts 7:29 8. Usairj Luke 8:41, 49-56 9. Phojse Genesis 10. Uasjho Joshua 24:15 11. Eessj Ruth 4:22 12. Onha Genesis 9:18-19

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