Eid ul-Fitr 2021
The Legacy of Ramadan Dr. Munir El-Kassem
Adapting to Eid in 2021 Zeba Hashmi
Hope and Optimism in Islam Diana Suleiman
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Inside 1 Editor's Letter 2 Message from Mayor Ed Holder 3
The Legacy of Ramadan
Dr. Munir El-Kassem
5 Adapting to Eid in 2021
Zeba Hashmi
6 Stop Talking About Other People (Backbiting), Really.
12 Hope And Optimism In Islam
Diana Suleiman
14 After Ramadan
Sara Elsadik
15 On Anxiety Omar Rajeh 18 My Ramadan, My Eid
Lila Tarek Soufan
Ridah Asghar
19 St. Thomas Islamic Center
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Greetings
20 Eid Reminders
Maurice Lacerte
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Virtual Interfaith Iftar 2021
22 Interview with Dawud Wharnsby
9 Kindness and Respect For Parents
Michael Vader
10 Palestine…
Ali Abdul Rahim Chahbar
Imam Dr. Jamal Taleb
25 Recipe 20 In Memoriam 28 Forest City Islamic Organizations 29 Eid Events
In the spirit of unity and collaboration, leaders from the London Muslim Mosque, Islamic Center of Southwestern Ontario, Muslim Association of Canada London Chapter, Muslim Youth Association of London, Bosnian Canadian Islamic Centre London, North London Islamic Center, Hyatt Mosque and AlTaqwa Academy formed a City-wide COVID-19 Muslim Organization Task Force. The mandate of this Task Force was to establish evidence based guidance and coordination of a unified response among all Muslim organizations in light of the evolving situation with the COVID-19 pandemic. As we continue in a provincial lockdown, with hospitals still operating at full capacity in terms of caring for Covid patients, we must continue to stay vigilant and follow public health guidelines to ensure our safety, the safety of our community, and the safety of those on the front lines of health care, who are risking their lives to keep us safe
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and healthy. Yes, we feel upset the more we are away from our Mosques and each other, but it also gives us time to self-reflect, self-study and work on our iman in person. There are many online resources to use for this, and our Institutions are putting a lot of programming online. Please focus on medical best practices, and not what might be sent to you through social media. There is a lot of disinformation out there and we cannot afford to be distracted by those whispers. Muslim Health Care experts and scholars from across Canada and North America have confirmed that the vaccines are halal, safe and effective. If you are concerned about any side effects, please speak to your doctor, who will know your personal situation the best. The Canadian Muslims Covid-19 Task Force (cmcovidtf.com) reminds us that it is the collective duty of Muslims towards those who are vulnerable and to protect our community - that is the Prophetic way. May Allah swt bless us with His bounty and mercy and give us the strength to stay united and to stay safe. Jazaka Allah Khairan, Br. Nawaz Tahir Chair, London Muslims Covid-19 Task Force.
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Editor's Letter Last year, when we celebrated Eid during a lockdown, never could we have imagined that one year later, we would spend another eid in lockdown. It is something we can never get used to, but with each test that comes to us we iron out the wrinkles and get another chance to find a way to get closer to Allah (swt). So, InshaAllah, we use our experiences from the past year to make things easier and less inconvenient and try to build on what we are doing. This Eid comes to us with another element. It is not just the anguish of the pandemic, but also the stories of tragedy and atrocities being committed against our Brothers and Sisters in the sacred land and in particular at Al Aqsa Mosque. So, Eid becomes a reminder of our faith and a time to remember our Brothers and Sisters, also in places like Yemen, Myanmar, Syria, Kashmir and our Uyghur Brothers and Sisters too. Our faith tells us to be generous - with our duas, our hearts, our wallets and our advocacy. Doing this allows us to let the legacy of the month of Ramadan continue and stay close to us. Your generosity and continued and sustained awareness and support will be rewarded. We are pleased to bring you this edition which relates to Eid, but also takes a glance at other issues that relate to us on a personal level and to our collective. Issues that we hopefully worked on during Ramadan that we can continue to work or maybe start addressing through self-reflection. Eid is a celebration. So, let's celebrate what we have accomplished over the last 30 days and let us try to make this Eid as enjoyable as possible for our kids. Eid is a well earned reward for all of us, but in particular it is the kind of event that should infuse great pride and faith in our kids. On behalf of Forest City Muslim, Eid ul-Fitr Mubarak. Ali D. Chahbar
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Beyond Ramadan: A River of Hope
Sh Aarij Anwer
So This Is Eid And What Have We Done?
Reflections on Ramadan Past
Lena Hassan
Zeba Hashmi
Eid Reflections
Filling The Void
Yasin Dwyer
Zoltan Kiss
Faith Into Action
Youth Have A Unique Edge With Ramadan
Faisal Joseph
Omar Sallam
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Assalamu Alaikum,
Dear Friends,
Thank you for inviting me to share in this wonderful celebration with you. A very blessed and Happy May 2020
On behalf of London City Council, it’s my sincere pleasure to extend my warmest greetings to everyone celebrating Eid-elDear Friends, Fitr. As Ramadan comes to an end, it’s a time when Muslims in It is wellour earned and so richly deserved. I believe thatcelebrate this time next year we’ll beof able to gather and community come together and the fasting On behalf of London City Council, it’s my sincere pleasure Ramadan. is seen spiritual celebration of Allah’s provision celebrate together in It person. I had theagreat pleasure of Eid-elspeaking late last month at your virtual to extend my warmest greetings toas everyone celebrating strength and endurance. Fitr. As of Ramadan to an end, it’sto a join timeyou when interfaith iftar, so comes it’s an honour again on Muslims this veryinspecial occasion. Eid Mubarak.
our community come together and celebrate the fasting of Ramadan. It is seen as a spiritual celebration of Allah’s provision Ramadan is a month of spiritual renewal and recommitment to the of strength and endurance. Beyond discipline, Ramadan instills a sense of heartfelt empathy and we extend that empathy to our
values of gratitude, charity, and compassion. As you rejoice to
brothers and sisters in India who are now facing unimaginable pain and heartache as a result of this Ramadan is a monththe of spiritual renewalIand recommitment to the delight welcome new moon, hope you find much awful virus. I know that Ramadan teaches how strengthen values of gratitude, charity, and compassion. Asto you rejoice toour brotherhood and that brotherhood and fulfillment in this sacred celebration. welcome the new moon, I hope you find much delight teaches how to be welcoming to all who share this land. Those traits are needed now more than and fulfillment in this sacred celebration. ever. With heartfelt enthusiasm and pride, I applaud you for your With heartfelt enthusiasmtoand pride, I applaud for your commitment preserving the you significance of Eid-el-Fitr. A time to commitment to preserving the significance of Eid-el-Fitr. A time to appreciate the freedom we have to and celebrate cultural andanother religious Ramadan is a month of mercy bonding. Muslims all over the world help one and help appreciate the freedom we haveand to celebrate cultural religious tradition in Canada. tradition in Canada. those outside their community, spreading that spirit of mercy and love to others. The same is true right here. London Ontario all community of us know and love would Diversity is The our greatest strengththat - your initiatives and simply not be the city today it Diversity is our greatest strength your community initiatives and cultural outreach have madecommunity a tremendously impact in is without you. Our Muslim feedspositive the hungry, generously supports those in need and cultural outreach have made a tremendously positive impact in our community. there’s no greater gift than to give freely of oneself. our community. Let me also thank you for diligently working and finding ways during this pandemic to maintain fasting, spiritual reflection and To you,Let letthose me say how personally grateful I am, and on behalf ofand London City Council, me also thank you for diligently working finding ways I am honoured service to less fortunate.
during this pandemic tosisters, maintain reflection to join you, my Muslim brothers and as wefasting, celebrate spiritual this most holy occasionand together. I wish Best wishes for continued peaceful prosperity, and Eid Mubarak. service to those less fortunate. you all a very happy Eid Mubarak. Shukran.
Kind regards, Best
wishes for continued peaceful prosperity, and Eid Mubarak.
Kind regards,
Ed Holder Mayor, City of London Ed Holder
Mayor, City of London
Ed Holder Mayor, City of London
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The Legacy of Ramadan Dr. Munir El-Kassem with Allah Subhanahu Wat’ala.
Prophetic Sunnah, fasting during Ramadan should develop in us the
Yahya Ben Abi Katheer mentioned
tendency to do all acts of worship
that among the most popular
close to perfection.
supplications of early Muslims was: “O Allah deliver me unto Ramadan,
The Prophet (s) taught us that
and deliver Ramadan unto me,
fasting was one of the three
One of the most common
and receive it from me having
gateways of goodness (Abwaab Al-
admonitions delivered by Imams
accepted my worship therein.” Our
Khair) that should be kept wide open
during the Eid-ul-Fitr Khutbah is
predecessors used to understand
throughout the year, not only during
reminding the congregants not to
the value and unmatched status
Ramadan. That is why fasting was
waste the legacy of Ramadan. To
of Ramadan. They used to wait for
prescribed as a penance (Kaffara)
revert to a lifestyle that does not
its advent with excitement. They
for committing undesirable deeds
conform with Islamic teachings after
would get ready not by packing
by mistake. It is also recommended
spending an entire month trying to
special food items and scanning
on certain days of the week and
fix that lifestyle is certainly a waste of
television entertainment lists for
the lunar months, as well as during
valuable energy. Thus, Imams remind
the programs they would watch,
certain seasons of specialized
us not to limit our acts of worship
but rather by extra prayers, fasting,
worship like the ninth and tenth
only to Ramadan (Ramadaniyyin),
and charity especially during the
of Muharram and the ninth of Zul-
but rather spread it throughout the
pre-Ramadan months of Rajab and
Hijjah. These Prophetic recipes were
year and qualify to be categorized
Sha’aban. My words are meant as
made to keep the spirit of Ramadan
as consistently God conscious
a sincere reminder to emulate the
alive throughout the year.
(Rabbaniyyin).
example of those early luminaries (As-Salaf As-Saleh) and rediscover
At-Tirmithi reported on the authority
Al-Mu’alla Bin Al-Fadl narrated that
the divine bounties within the month
of Ma’ath Ben Jabal that he had
early Muslims used to implore Allah
of Ramadan. Such bounties need to
asked the Messenger of Allah (s)
Subhananu Wat’ala for six months
be enjoyed throughout the year.
to tell him of a deed that would grant him entry into Jannah and
to favour them with Ramadan, and they used to maintain its legacy for
Ramadan is meant to be an annual
keep him away from the Fire. The
the following five months before they
training camp that ends up placing
Messenger answered by saying: “You
would repeat the cycle all over again.
us firmly on the Straight Path (As-
have asked a very serious question
It is clear from this narration that
Sirat Al-Mustaqeem) leading toward
whose answer could be made easy
Ramadan used to be the focal point
Jannah. Psychologists maintain that
for someone blessed by Allah: You
for early Muslims. There is no reason
doing something consistently for
should worship none but Allah
why it should not be the same in
21 days or more will lead to habit
without associating any partners
modern times, especially that we are
formation. Based on this scientific
with Him, and you should establish
more than ever in need to reconcile
fact, if done properly as per our
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charity and fast during the month
predict what comfort to the eyes
death befalls you.” The hint
of Ramadan and make pilgrimage
has been concealed from them (by
here is that we shouldn’t worship
to the House of Allah in Makkah if
Allah) as a reward for their good
Allah intermittently but rather
you are capable of undertaking the
deeds.”
continuously. And in the authentic
trip. Then the Prophet (s) went on
Hadeeth reported by Bukhari
to say: “Shall I guide you to the
There is a beautiful hint in the
through the authority of ‘Aisha: “…
gateways of goodness?: Fasting
Qur’an (Surat Al-Sharh: 7,8) that
and the most beloved deeds to
is a shield (from evil), and charity
Allah Subhanahu Wata’la does not
Allah are those that are consistent
extinguishes sins similar to water
only avail of Himself during certain
even if they are few in number.”
extinguishing a flame and one’s
seasons, but He is permanently
prayer in the middle of the night.”
available for us to reach out to Him:
So, let us not waste the legacy of
Then he recited from the Qur’an:
“So once you have fulfilled your
Ramadan, after Ramadan has left us,
“They do not rest on their sides (in
duty, strive in devotion and turn to
but instead keep the spirit and flame
sleeping) as they are engaged in
your Lord with hope.”
of this blessed time of year burning
calling their Lord out of fear and
within us, long enough for it to reach
hope. Such are those who spend
Also, in Surat Al-Hijr (99): “Worship
out of our sustenance. No soul can
your Lord continuously until
us once again, inshaAllah.
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Adapting to Eid in 2021 Zeba Hashmi
SubhanAllah, another month of
over time that we could adapt. Work
handed candy and other delights
and schooling tailored themselves to
by friends and family members is
remote methods of operating, even
no longer a vision to be seen. We
though it has not been optimal. We
have re-organized our abodes as
are still in the process of customizing
the venue for daily prayers, Jumu’ah
our lives differently as to how we
prayers, and Eid prayer. We have
knew it and working with the new
created beautiful prayer spaces and
reality.
nooks for our children to read in, and we have embellished our homes
Ramadan in isolation has come to an end. Once again, we have obtained
Ramadan is a time known to be
with meaningful décor to bring a
a renewed understanding of our
structured and disciplined but also
somewhat semblance to the old
priorities and an improved spiritual
a time of jubilant gatherings when
normal.
connection.
we break our fasts. Throughout these difficult times, when the health
Our adaptation requires imagination
As time continues to progress with
and safety of everyone is of utmost
at times. A simple item such as
the limitations of the pandemic, we
importance, we have adapted to
a gift bag is no longer available
have had to adapt. Through Allah’s
remaining in the company of our
due to provincial mandates on
(swt) will we have been able to
immediate family within our four
restricting all party related items to
continue throughout the challenges.
walls for mandated durations.
the public. However, upon perusing the stationary isle (still permitted)
Some of us have had to experience illness, or witness suffering of loved
As we celebrate Eid-ul-Fitr, we do so
and using a little imagination, an
ones, or a more difficult experience
knowing that we cannot gather for
alternative method of gift packaging
of seeing loved ones pass away. The
prayers nor with extended family
was found. Whether we realize it or
pandemic has increased distance
members. We have experienced
not, we have the capability to adapt
between families and friends but
the challenges of Ramadan 2020
to the changes in our environment.
at the same time has increased the
and that has orientated us for the
We must adapt for the purpose
fondness for each other.
expectations of Ramadan 2021.
of, firstly, our health and survival.
The hardest aspects are not being
Secondly, we must adapt for the
When the pandemic began, we were
able to see hundreds of people
welfare of society; to continue to
insufficiently equipped with lack
gathering at a park, hall, or at the
educate our children, to continue
of personal protective equipment
masjid for the morning Eid prayer.
to provide services, to continue to
available. Overtime we were able to
Not being able to see the flurry of
offer hope and maintain a somewhat
acquire the masks and sanitizers to
worshippers dressed in their best
normal routine.
assist in our daily tasks and protect
attires or the radiant smiles, the
us. Initially, the concept of distancing
hugs, and greetings after the Eid
Despite the limitations, this Eid-al-
and isolating appeared to be an
prayer are no longer a reality this
Fitr 2021 will inshaAllah still bring us
arduous task, however, we realized
year once again. The children being
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thankfulness, appreciation, and a
any situation that is presented. For
resilience and ability to support
heightened sense of value for the
those of us who can adapt it is also
others, we can continue to adjust
most important aspects in life.
incumbent upon us to reach out
ourselves and navigate through
With this shift in expectations and
to those facing difficulties. Firstly,
these times.
attitude, we can, inshaAllah, tackle
with Allah’s Mercy, then with our
Stop Talking About Other People (Backbiting), Really. Ridah Asghar We’ve just fasted the blessed
you mention that which is not in
about people, you become
month of Ramadan and the lessons
him, then you have slandered him.”
suspicious of their every behaviour
and principles we’ve learned and
[Al-Hurr al-`Amili, Wasai'l al-Shi`ah,
and this brings you down the path
practiced cannot be forgotten.
vol. 8, hadith no. 16312]
of evil that Satan wants. We all know
Hopefully one of the lessons we’ve
how hard it is to keep a secret, so
learned and will continue working on
Gheebah is the term that is used in
when information about someone
is not to talk about people behind
Islam to refer to backbiting. Whether
we are having a problem with is
their backs, or backbiting.
this person portrays the qualities
discovered, imagine how hard it
that you accuse him of or not, the
would be to keep this ‘secret’ to
We’ve all had those moments when
very act of engaging in this behaviour
ourselves.
we are upset at a friend or family
causes damage to this person’s
member and want to complain about
reputation and humiliates them.
Cleanse your Heart
them to someone that we confide
Rather than spreading peace the way
When we understand that Allah is
in. While it may not seem like it
Islam has intended for you to, you are
all-knowing and that we will be held
wouldn’t cause any damage to the
increasing hatred in the world and
accountable for every sin that we
person since they are not present,
creating room for hostility.
commit, we will then begin to realize the consequences of our actions.
the implications of engaging in these conversations are damaging more
Allah has emphasized the severity
While backbiting is so widespread
than we think. Following are a few
of this sin and outlined heavy
and has become a part of people’s
areas I felt are important to cover
punishments for this distasteful act.
daily conversations, here are a few
pertaining to this topic.
The words that come from a person’s
ways you can free yourself from this
mouth can be just as destructive as
habit:
Gheebah
the actions they take. These words
●
“It is to mention about your
can cause blood relationships to end
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brother that which he detests.”
and turn friends into enemies.
“Know that when you mention that which is in him, you have committed his gheebah, and when
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The Problem with Assumptions When you start assuming things
Avoid surrounding yourself with people that validate this kind of behaviour and encourage you to continue gossiping about others. As they say, the company you
keep defines you. Make friends
•
Make it a daily habit to take some
recommend that you do your own
who bring you closer to the path
time out for yourself and focus
research to learn more about the
of Islam rather than deter you
on what you are grateful for. You
Islamic rulings that govern this nasty
from your destination.
can write these down or take
act. The more we know, the less
note mentally. Focusing on the
tempted we are to engage in it!
Master the art of patience through remaining silent when you have negative opinions about someone. The Prophet Muhammad (s) said “whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, should speak what is good or keep silent” [Sahih al-Bukhari 6136, vol. 8, hadith no.163]
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good in our life helps us replace our negative thoughts and stops
Wishing you and your families a
us from comparing ourselves to
blessed and healthy Ramadan
others.
inshaAllah!
These are just a few tips that can
“Indeed, Allah is accepting of
help you on this journey of personal
repentance and merciful.”
and spiritual development. I highly
[Surah Al Hujurat, Ayah 12]
aware of any Muslims anywhere in
have made it my business to attend
the city.
(virtually, since COVID) various
Greetings Maurice Lacerte
houses of prayers, of diverse However, during my lifetime, I have
denominations, and to meet some
had the privilege to study and
of those in attendance. As a result,
work closely in communities with
I have learned to appreciate and
individuals of various races, cultures
celebrate the common heritage of
and religious beliefs. Furthermore,
the three Abrahamic Faith Traditions:
Let there be peace on earth and let it
today my neighbourhood is also
Islam, Judaism, and Christianity. And
begin with us working together
highly diversified; a richness to be
today, many of those individuals are
appreciated.
now highly valued friends. We share
I was born in Manchester, N.H. of
a deep sense of gratitude for the
white French-Canadian parents and
I firmly believe that every individual
many blessings received, as well as, a
raised as a Roman Catholic; to this
on this planet has been created by
common interest to work together to
date, I remain a faithful practicing
God. As such, we are all brothers and
assist less fortunate individuals and
Roman Catholic.
sisters deserving to be respected.
families in our community.
Furthermore, God has taught me to Back then, 99.9% of my friends and
love God and to love my neighbours.
Let there be peace on earth and let it
acquaintances where decedents of
God did not tell me only to love my
begin with us working together.
white French-Canadian Catholics. I
white Catholic neighbours.
knew the one black family that lived
Alhamdulillah.
nearby and one Jewish family that
While firmly rooted in my Roman
was very kind to my father. I was not
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Virtual Interfaith Iftar 2021 Ramadan 2021 has brought forth another year of worship, discipline, and giving, all done in isolation. For the second time, the virtual inter-faith iftar provided an opportunity to engage, connect, and share, with our beloved community friends and leaders in London, Ontario. Community, faith, and political representatives joined together to share greetings and reflections. The hour-long event prior to the breaking of the fast or Iftar provided an opportunity for the panelists to connect. Thoughts on the spirit of Ramadan, on the pandemic, and hope for the future were shared throughout the evening. Guests of the event were presented with iftar meals delivered to their doors by volunteers. The event was a community collaborative event primarily organized by Ali D. Chahbar and Forest City Magazine. The event consisted of an extensive line-up of twenty-three panelists with Ali A. Chahbar, LLB (cousin to Ali D. Chahbar) as host. A live athan (call to prayer) by Br Omar Ghathban was broadcasted from the MAC Westmount Center at sunset time. We thank our friends who participated in the fast, such as MPP Peggy Sattler and Diversity Officer Anthe Fordyce. We were truly blessed to be in the surrounding of friends at the virtual iftar. Please see our list below: •
Dr Munir El-Kassem (Islamic Centre of Southwest Ontario)
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Mayor Ed Holder
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Canon Kevin George (St.Aidan's Anglican Church)
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Diversity Officer (Diversity Officer, London Police Service) Anthe Fordyce
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Sr Sally Kaloti (Taqwa Academy)
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Sheikh Aarij Anwer (London Muslim Mosque)
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Imam Abd Alfatah Twakkal (Muslim Community Faith Leader)
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MP Peter Fragiskatos
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Dr. John Dool (St. Peter's Seminary)
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Rabbi Debra Dressler (Temple Israel of London)
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Sr. Saimah Sarwar (Islamic Relief Canada)
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MPP Peggy Sattler
•
Sr Zeba Hashmi (Muslim Outreach Committee)
•
Mr Maurice Lacerte
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Br. Nawaz Tahir (HIKMAH)
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Imam Avdija Ramic (Bosnian Canadian Islamic Centre)
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MPP Teresa Armstrong
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Br. Samer Abusweid (Muslim Association of Canada)
•
MPP Terence Kernaghan
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MP Lindsay Mathyssen
•
Br. Omar Ghadban (Athan)
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MP Kate Young
Kindness and Respect For Parents Michael Vader
For your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And honour your parents. If one or both of them reach old age in your care, never say to them even ‘ugh,’ nor yell at them. Rather, address them respectfully.And be humble with them out of mercy, and pray, “My Lord! Be merciful to them as they raised me when I was young.” (Surah 17 Ayah 23-24) Disclaimer: I will be discussing parents in Islam from an ideal perspective. If your living conditions are legitimately abusive/toxic, I encourage you to seek out supports that are available within our community and city. I feel that I have a unique perspective on the topic of parents, which I will be sharing. My mother died when I was a young child. Subanallah, it made me ponder existential questions and think about the afterlife from a young age. It sparked a spiritual journey within me, which then led me to converting to Islam when I was 19 years old.
There were some trying times initially
a wide range of emotions you go
after my conversion. My family was
through when you have a child. One
hesitant about whether I was making
emotion that kept recurring for me
a good decision by becoming Muslim
when I first became a parent was
and they wondered if this would
regret and shame. Regret and shame
be a phase or truly a part of my
because you quickly learn parenting
identity. Frankly, I don’t blame them
is hard work and it made me reflect
for their hesitation because based
and feel terrible about how I treated
on previous poor decisions I made
my father growing up, not always
throughout my teenage years; it was
making the wisest choices, nor
reasonable to question my decision-
listening.
making when I converted to Islam. For any young people reading It can be awkward and challenging
this, I hope you can learn from my
living in a house with parent(s) who
mistakes. As someone who lost a
have a different faith than yours. I
parent at a young age, cherish your
remember my first Ramadan and
parents and always be kind to them
how it showed the differences in
– you never know how much more
lifestyle between my father and I. I
time you’ll have with them. Whether
would wake up by myself for suhoor
you are a convert or a born Muslim,
and would not have dinner with my
or you are growing up in a different
family as I waited until iftar. It felt
country than your parents grew up
rude not partaking in dinner with my
in: always be respectful! Especially,
family.
if your lifestyle differs from your parents, try to get them to accept
As a result of lifestyle differences
your decisions by being dutiful to
due to faith between my father and
them. Complete chores as soon as
I, I tried to be a very dutiful son in an
you’re asked, or better yet, try to be
attempt to show Islam in a positive
proactive and identify what needs to
light. Alhumdullilah, I preserved and
be done in the house without being
have remained steadfast in the faith.
asked. Lastly, be kind to your parents
Further, I am grateful to have been
now so you don’t end up feeling
able to marry an amazing woman
guilty before it’s too late.
who has been an incredible model of Islam for my family to witness.
Remember how revered parents are in Islam. Be merciful to them as they
Now, recently, I have become a father
raised you when you were young.
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Palestine… Ali Abdul Rahim Chahbar We will fight. We will awake. The tyranny of our occupier Until we are free or we are no more For oppression is worse than death And subjugation is worse than extinction We will fight and never concede We will raise. Our voices in defiance Against those who seek to silence us And speak aloud the words that our muted leaders Who cower, like cowards, refuse to utter And raise a new generation to carry our banner We will raise a new tomorrow and never forget We will educate. The unlettered and scholars alike About the theft of our land and identity Our culture appropriated along with our homes Our existence denied as an inconvenient truth We will educate and never stop teaching We will endure. Despite the attempts of our colonizers to erase us To deny our existence and our history To dehumanize our humanity and disconnect us One checkpoint at a time They can evict us from our homes but can never evict Our homes from our hearts and our history We will endure and never relent. We will pray Masses amassed prostrating at the launch point of ascension The noble sanctuary our pulsating and beating core The furthest mosque most near to our hearts We ask the All Mighty for faith and strength So that we may rise and resist We will pray and never lose faith. 10
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From our collective slumber And cast off our fragmented identities Artificial lines creating imagined borders A secret agreement to foment divide of a united people Across a Sykes-Picot line. We will awake and never sleep again. We will laugh. In the face of our oppressors As they arrest and brutalize us We will smile as they carry us away For we know what they do not That we will never be broken That we will never forget That we will never kneel We will laugh and never despair We will not equivocate. As our elected members do We will mass, mobilize & vote For leaders who are not silent For politicians who do not pander For representatives who don’t succumb We will vote and never not matter We will stand. Tall and strong despite the weight of occupation And carry the burden of history and mass of injustice On our backs and shoulders and never buckle We will stand and will never kneel. We will triumph Over the forces of tyranny and cruelty Casting off the shackles of occupation and oppression And shall remain steadfast and resolute in our faith In both God and our humanity
That justice shall prevail We shall triumph and never surrender. We will imagine A world without a separation wall A contiguous nation connected and bound Devoid of checkpoints and roadblocks And soldiers with guns drawn We will imagine and never stop dreaming
A future where our freedom is secured And occupation is no more When we can return to our homes And live in peace and freedom once more We will envision and never stop believing. We will Fight Raise Educate Endure
We will never forget. The names of our erased villages and The silence of our so called ‘leaders’ Bought and sold like chattel We will never forget our uprooted olive groves And the addresses on our titles and deeds. We will remember and never forget. We will envision.
Pray Awake Laugh Equivocate (never) Stand Triumph Imagine Never forget Envision
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Hope And Optimism In Islam Diana Suleiman hardship and the powerful mentions
think that this verse meant that
of the stories of the Prophets,
after every hardship follows relief,
highlighting their patience in times
but was surprised to learn that it
of difficulty and their unwavering
actually meant that ease comes
hope in Allah’s relief. Allah constantly
paired with every hardship, so no
reminds the believers of His mercy
matter how dark times get, there is
in the Qur’an and a Merciful God
always a silver lining underneath.
would never test His servants with
Our minds and hearts just need to
something that is not good for
be open to understand this. Lastly,
them, even if we might not always
Allah narrates the stories of the
understand the wisdom behind
Prophets in the Qur’an, as a reminder
life’s trials. Firstly, Allah begins all
that each difficulty will come to
the chapters in the Qur’an with
pass eventually, regardless of how
the words, “In the name of Allah,
hopeless the situation might seem.
the Most Compassionate, Most
Whether it involves loss, illness
Merciful”, which alone should
or isolation, the Prophets have all
inspire hope in the believer. He then
patiently endured through these
continues to give us hope through
trials and as a result, Allah rewarded
multiple verses in the book, such
them with the ultimate relief for their
as “…My mercy encompasses
perseverance. Among such stories
everything…” (7:156) and “Truly
of hope, Prophet Jacob (as) was
God is compassionate and gentle
eventually reunited with His son after
to mankind” (2:143). Having said
a long period of separation, Prophet
this, it is important to mention here
Ayoub (as) was relieved from his
that hope in Allah’s mercy should
illness after years of suffering and his
be always balanced by fear of His
blessings were multiplied as a result,
punishment, like the two wings
and Prophet Yunus (as) was released
of a bird, where one should never
from the belly of the whale after days
overpower the other or we would
of isolation and uncertainty. All of
lose balance in our faith. One of
these stories serve as a reminder,
Some of the most powerful
my personal favorite verses of
that if God tested His most beloved
messages of hope and optimism in
hope in the Qur’an is when Allah
servants with such trials, then we are
Islam are found in the book of Allah.
comforts His Messenger (s) in a
even more bound to be tested and
These messages encompass the
time of difficulty by repeating twice,
our main task is to remain hopeful
scope of Allah’s mercy, as well as
“for indeed, with Hardship will
and to never despair in Allah’s mercy!
the glad tidings of relief with every
be ease; indeed, with hardship
Hope is a universal concept among different nations, but it is especially synonymous with the teachings of Islam. During times of uncertainty, fear and challenges, hope is the only thing that keeps us going in life. Coupled with faith, it becomes a powerful force that can guide us through the darkest of times. In Islam, the messages of hope and optimism are continually instilled in us through the words of Allah in the Qur’an and the Prophetic example of His Messenger (s). Perhaps, it is only fitting now, to be reminded of these beautiful messages as many of us are struggling to stay positive during these difficult, isolated and uncertain times in our lives.
The Qur’an as a beacon of hope
will be ease” (94:5-6). I used to 12
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Prophet Muhammad (s) as a Messenger of hope
and is more lovable to Allah than a
is bound to follow and even in the
weak believer, and there is good in
midst of struggle we are rewarded
The Prophet (s) was sent by Allah
everyone, (but) cherish that which
with goodness and blessings from
not only to spread the message
gives you benefit (in the Hereafter)
Allah through His infinite wisdom.
of Islam and to warn of Allah’s
and seek help from Allah and do
Allah says in the Qur’an: “Or do you
punishment, but also to instill hope
not lose heart, and if anything (in
think that you will enter Paradise
and optimism in the believers.
the form of trouble) comes to you,
while such [trial] has not yet
Through his own example and
don't say: If I had not done that, it
come to you as came to those who
cheerful demeanor, the Prophet (s)
would not have happened so and
passed on before you? They were
embodied the concepts of hope and
so, but say: Allah did that what He
touched by poverty and hardship
optimism for the believers, despite
had ordained to do and your "if"
and were shaken until [even their]
his many struggles and challenges
opens the (gate) for the Satan”
Messenger and those who believed
in life. He also instilled hope in us
(Sahih Muslim). In this hadith, the
with him said, ‘When is the help of
through his Prophetic sayings,
Prophet (s) connects hope and
Allah?’ Unquestionably, the help of
as in one of his authentic hadiths
optimism in difficult times to a
Allah is near" (2:214).
were he says, “Wondrous is the
strong belief in Allah and reaffirms
affair of the believer for there is
the fact that everything that happens
Thus, by reflecting upon Allah’s
good for him in every matter and
to us is part of Allah’s ultimate plan
words in the Qur’an and the example
this is not the case with anyone
and wisdom.
of His Messenger (s), a true believer
except the believer. If he is happy, then he thanks Allah and thus there is good for him, and if he is harmed, then he shows patience and thus there is good for him” (Sahih Muslim). This hadith gives glad tidings to the believers in both good and difficult times and shines light on the significance of hope in a Muslim’s life. The Prophet (s) also said, “A strong believer is better
should never despair or lose hope in
Eid as a symbol of hope and optimism With Eid Al-Fitr upon us, it is perhaps beneficial to reflect on the deeper meaning and significance of this joyful occasion. After a month of fasting, patience, and physical struggle, we are rewarded with relief, ease and happiness through Allah’s blessings upon us. Just like that, with every struggle in life, relief
difficult times. Instead, we should be always reaching towards the beam of light at the end of the tunnel, until it overpowers the darkness in our struggles. May this joyous occasion be full of blessings for the Muslim community and may it instill in us hope that better days are coming, regardless of how many challenges we might face!
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As we come to the end of the blessed
to maintain a level of mindfulness
us to pause, to return back to
and continue to contemplate on
ourselves, and notice our feelings
matters of importance. For instance,
and thoughts about things that are
in the midst of our happiness and
happening around us. In today’s
celebration, we must also remember
world, the constant onslaught of
those who are less fortunate than we
new information makes it harder to
are by giving ‘sadaqah’/charity in the
take time to go inwards, for much
form of gifts or monetary means.
needed moments of seclusion and meditation. Pausing gives us time to
month of Ramadan, Muslims all over the world will engage in the
One thing to point out is that in over
think about our purpose in the world,
celebration of Eid ul-Fitr, the holiday
750 places in the Quran, Allah tells us
and whether we feel like we are
that marks the beginning of Shawwal
to think, reflect, and observe in order
headed in the direction of actualizing
and the end of obligatory fasting. It is
to use our intellect. Our brains are
it.
a time when Muslims come together
remarkable organs, with capabilities
for Eid prayer, festive gatherings, and
that still remain a mystery to
Thus, Islam reminds us of the
food to commemorate the previous
medical and research experts today.
importance of balance in all of our
month of worship.
Modern psychology points out that
actions. It reminds us that even
mindfulness is a powerful tool that
when we are told to celebrate, we
Although the month of Ramadan has
not only unlocks creativity, but also
should still strive to maintain a level
ended, it’s important to remember
plays an important role in one’s
of mindfulness. So, as we embark
that our worship and connection to
mental health. As such, when Allah
on the remainder of the year, post
Allah (swt) is not something that
tells us to reflect and ponder on the
our Ramadan spiritual cleanse,
should end, but something that we
universe so that we may find signs of
let us pray that Allah gives us the
should strive to maintain. In the
his being and our purpose – we do
wisdom and patience to pause, and
midst of celebrations, we should
so knowing that there is benefit in it
to engage in necessary moments
challenge ourselves to remain
for us.
of contemplation. To ponder on meanings, check our intentions, and
cognizant of what is permissible and non-permissible. In that, we strive
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The very act of reflection causes
to set ourselves anew.
On Anxiety Omar Rajeh personal freedom one begins to
all along.
realize that the line between freedom and disorientation is a thin one, as
The heart is simply unsettled while
well as the emergence of a dilemma
the brain constantly analyzes
called opportunity cost.
thoughts in search of an antidote. If I dare define anxiety, that would be
One form of anxiety is feeling
it. Furthermore, we are so detached
Anxiety is not a millennial invention.
constantly bombarded by questions.
from nature’s beauty residing in
It is rather innate and inherited.
Such as, which field should I study
concrete jungles our eyes yearn
Perhaps anxiety is as complex
or work in? Do I follow my passion
for colors. The world is crumbling
as love in terms of ascribing it
or walk a secured path? Am I living
to pollution and bloodshed with
a suitable definition. The world
my best life, or could there be more?
consistent bitter news. Can
is technologically advancing at
These questions are not new or
millennials be blamed for a situation
an unprecedented rate whereby
exclusive to millennials, however,
they were not prepared for mentally?
everything is becoming automated,
the options available have become
Everything millennials touch is metal
smaller, and faster with nature
overwhelming so much so that
or glass. One fears the hearts are
fading into the background. Such
FOMO - a new word - was invented.
adopting the same properties of
speeds have given rise to unforeseen
FOMO stands for Fear of Missing
rigidity, bitterness, and brittleness.
emotional turmoil. Along with
Out. How can one feel secure in their
technological trends, what were once
choice when the choice was made
Where does Islam fit into this jungle
pragmatic issues of life have become
out of a hundred other choices?
of words, thoughts and questions?
chip-sized mental processing issues.
What’s behind the other doors
The modern metropolitan life spurs
and am I getting the best return
Islam came to calm the
a lot of leisure time to be spent in
on investment? Is there such a
mental diaspora of the human
one’s own head. With thoughts and
thing as the right choice? The fear
consciousness. I recall being in
questions for no one else to be aware
that the wrong choice was made
awe as a child when I learned that
of their crossing.
is debilitating and is often tagged
Prophet Mohammad (s) withdrew
with regret and guilt. So, is anxiety
to a cave high-up in the mountain to
When early man was consumed by
real? I believe we are beyond passed
seek seclusion and contemplation.
the struggle for survival - note my
that point now. As teens, we might
Was he too overwhelmed by the
acknowledgment of the struggle
have truly believed that we were the
magnificence and potential of
– there was little time to think life
only ones experiencing anxiety until
life? What was on his mind that
over a thousand times. Options were
we became adults and recognized
he took such extreme measures
thin and energy was even thinner
that anxiety simply took a different
to find peace? Could it have
to contemplate much beyond a
form in adolescence. We can easily
been anxiety in a different form
secure dinner table or a roof over
observe it in our own parents and
from what it is today? I wonder
one’s head. However, with increased
mentors now, Indeed, it’s been there
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crossed his mind. It’s assuring
you to your expectations for you have
expectation from the choices you
and heartwarming to know that he
learned a great deal. Simply, retrace
make.
thought of our struggles alongside
your steps and make another. Where
his own.
one chapter ends, another can begin.
Recall that Islam came to empower
No one was given a plan for what
us not to be a power over us. It came
Islam, the message of reminder,
choices to make in this life, otherwise
to empower our choices not to
came to verify your right to freedom
there would be nothing worth living
dictate our way of life.
of choice.
for. Recognize this anxiety within is
1)٥٥( ) فمن شاء ذكره٥٤( كال إنه تذكرة
Indeed, this [Quran] is a reminder
(54). So let whoever wills be mindful of it. (55)
) لست عليهم٢١( فذكر إمنا أنت مذكر 1)٢٢( مبسيطر
the blessing of personal freedom
If you have read this far and do not
and calling for a greater purpose.
seem to understand other’s anxiety.
Trust in God that not only can you
It is okay to say, “I don’t understand,
handle these choices and the current
and I can’t relate” Because after all
situation you find yourself in, but that
we may not, and that’s absolutely
you will also make the best of it.
allowed. However, the appropriate response is to be receptive and
So, continue to remind all, O Prophet,
Do not pay mind to those who shame
supportive. Give those struggling
for your duty is only to remind (21).
you for your choices for they are in
with anxiety the option to speak their
You are not there to compel them to
fact shaming the mental capacity
mind, to be aided and empowered
believe (22).
and courageous heart given to you by
to make their own choices, rather
your Lord. Do not await permission to
than making choices for them or
So long as your choices do not
be unique and follow your heart, after
criticizing them. Do not rob them of
qualify as harmful, sinful and are the
all, has it not already been given to
the opportunity to become confident
best choices you have arrived at then
you by the highest of Powers and the
individuals.
they are the right choices.
only Power? If you are struggling with anxiety,
So long as you have arrived at your
Anxiety is not a weakness but rather
recall that Islam has affirmed your
choices after due diligent research,
an affirmation of personal freedom
freedom but does not grant you
I say to you, without equivocation,
and an innate calling for movement
the right to play the role of victim.
do not shy away from following
in the direction the pure heart calls
Rather, it expects you to utilize your
you heart, for that is the purpose it
for.
resources to make informed choices
serves.
and lead with your heart. If you live Make a choice. When you lose, learn
in anxiety, it is your responsibility to
After consultation and research, rest
from your mistakes and start again.
actively pursue a resolution. Reach
assured that your own opinion of
Most often than not, the worst that
out to a parent, sibling, life coach,
your choices is what matters most.
could happen is that you get to make
guru, or medical professional if you
Your choices will impact you directly
a different choice in due time. Live
need to. Seize your freedom and
and stay with you forever. Do not
life with confidence in your ability
trust your heart.
despair if your choices do not lead
to overcome any failure or unmet
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My Ramadan, My Eid I can’t believe that Ramadan will
remember Eid is not just about
soon be over. Even though It's hard
presents it's also about giving to
to fast, remember that you're getting
the poor.
a big good deed from Allah. When I fast, I like to not think of food or
I wrote a poem to remind you about
watch food shows because that
all the things that are important in
will make you hungry. I like to keep
Ramadan and I hope you like it.
myself busy by drawing, painting, helping around the house, and
Ramadan is a special month
reciting surahs from the Quran. I
Always be kind and help others
thought fasting would be hard, but I surprised myself and it was easy because I put my mind to it. I learned
Make sure you give to the poor And read Quran each night
I hope this beautiful day brings
Do good deeds
you peace and happiness always.
And fast and pray
that if you have a good intention
Never forget the things you learned
in your heart that Allah (swt) will
from this special month
help you and make it easy on you.
I hope you have a safe and happy
Some kids get presents for Eid, but
Eid.
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Happy Eid Mubarak 2021! By Lila Tarek Soufan, Grade 3 student at White Oaks P.S.
St. Thomas Islamic Center A building in St. Thomas started
and upkeep costs of the masjid.
daily prayers as well. There are
construction in 1877 as the Trinity
The St. Thomas Islamic Center
currently approximately 30 Muslim
Anglican Church. In 2021, 144 years
is a separate entity registered as
families residing in the St. Thomas
later, the building is called the St.
a non-profit corporation and has
area with diverse backgrounds.
Thomas Islamic Center. This building
applied to the Canada Revenue
Jumu’ah prayers in St. Thomas
is located at 55 Southwick St.
Agency for charity status. Day-to-
have previously been conducted
day management of the center is
at offices and church basements.
A group of philanthropists from the
being run by a committee of local St.
This center provides an opportunity
Al-Nadwa Center, Richmond Hill,
Thomas residents. The committee
to accommodate the needs of the
decided to purchase the building
includes Br. Hassib Zabian, former
Muslim population. The St. Thomas
when it came up for sale to the
Director of the London Muslim
Islamic Center hopes to serve the
public, due to increasing bills and
Mosque Board and President, Javaid
growing Muslim population of St.
insufficient revenue. The building was
Master.
Thomas. The Center hopes to serve
purchased in early 2021 at the cost
any resident of St. Thomas who is in
of $511,000 with a cash payment
The St. Thomas Islamic Center is
need by serving warm meals in the
and ‘qard-e-hasna’ loan (generous
situated close to downtown and
near future.
and interest-free loan). The Al-
has a spacious interior. Prior to the
Nadwa Center is currently taking
lockdown, the center was offering
More information can be obtained at:
responsibility for the maintenance
Friday prayers and will be offering
https://stislamiccentre.ca/
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Eid Reminders Imam Dr. Jamal Taleb eternal abode, inshAllah. Prophet
by the door of any one of you, and
Muhammad (s) said: “A Muslim who
he bathed in it five times each day,
fasts has two joys: the joy of Eid
would there be any trace of dirt left
Al-Fitr and the joy of meeting his
on him?" They said: "No trace of
Lord.” So, ensure you visibly express
dirt would be left on him." He said:
your joy on this beautiful occasion
"That is the likeness of the five
and spread happiness around you,
daily prayers. By means of them
It is a blessing to have successfully
particularly to your family. Allah
Allah erases sins."
completed fasting during the blessed
(swt) says, "In the bounty of Allāh
month of Ramadan, as it is proof
and in His mercy - in that let them
5. Fulfill the requirements of your
that Allah (swt) loves us all to have
rejoice; it is better than what they
zakah and ensure that the poor get
enabled us to get through this busy
accumulate."
their due right. Prophet Muhammad (s) said, “the way to better your
yet rewarding month. 3. Spread happiness and love on
Islam is by giving your zakat.”
1. As a result, we must go above
this day to your parents, spouses,
and beyond to ensure that we
children, siblings, and neighbours,
6. Increase your nafl (non-
appreciate Allah’s (swt) love and
for today is a day of celebration!
obligatory) prayers to get closer
strive to achieve His approbation.
A man once came to Prophet
to Allah (swt) alongside other
Prophet Muhammad (s) said:
Muhammad (s) and asked, “Oh
acts of ibada like prayer, fasting,
“Whoever fasted the month of
messenger of Allah (swt), which
charity, pilgrimage. The purpose
Ramadan out of sincere faith
kind of people does Allah (swt)
of nafl prayers is to supplement
and hoping for a reward from
love the most? And which deeds
any shortcomings with obligatory
Allah, then all his past sins will be
are most beloved to Allah (swt)?
aspects of our religion. Prophet
forgiven, and whoever stood for
Prophet Muhammad (s) replied,
Muhammad (s) said, “The first of
the prayers in the night of Qadr
“the most beloved people to Allah
man's deeds for which he will be
out of sincere faith and hoping
(swt) are the ones who are most
called to account on the Day of
for a reward from Allah, then all
beneficial to people, and the most
Resurrection will be Salat. If it
his previous sins will be forgiven.”
beloved deeds to Allah (swt) are
is found to be perfect, he will be
This hadith emphasizes Allah’s
the deeds that cause happiness to
safe and successful; but if it is
(swt) infinite mercy and forgiveness
enter into the hearts of your fellow
incomplete, he will be unfortunate
and, our need to acknowledge this
Muslims.”
and a loser. If any shortcomings are found in obligatory Salat, the
through our fasting and qiyam. 4. Continue fulfilling your five
Glorious and Exalted Lord will
2. Your joy and genuine happiness
daily prayers on time for it is a
command to see whether His slave
when Eid Al-Fitr arrives is an
link between you and your Lord.
has offered any voluntary Salat so
infinitesimal sample of the joy you
Prophet Muhammad (s) said, “Do
that the obligatory Salat may be
will receive when you enter His
you think that if there was a river
made up by it. Then, the rest of his
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9. Perfect your character so that
actions will be treated in the same 8. Increase your thikr as Allah
your Prophet (s) can make you
(swt) loves the one who praises
among his close companions on
7. Remember the advice and
Him. Prophet Muhammad (s)
the Day of Judgement. Prophet
warning given by our beloved
said, "The Mufarridun have gone
Muhammad (s) said, "Nothing is
Prophet Muhammad (s) to his
ahead." He was asked, "Who are the
heavier on the believer's scale on
Ummah. He said, “O people!
Mufarridun?" He (s) replied, "Those
the Day of Judgment than good
Spread (the greeting of) Salam,
men and women who frequently
character.” Prophet Muhammad
feed others, uphold the ties of
celebrate the remembrance of
(s) also said, “The most perfect
kinship, and pray during the night
Allah." Prophet Muhammad (s)
believer in respect of faith is he
when people are sleeping, and you
also said, “Two words which are
who is best of them in manners.”
will enter Paradise with Salam.”
light on the tongue and heavy in
Finally, Prophet Muhammad (s)
Prophet Muhammad (s) warned
the balance, and beloved to the
stated, "Indeed the most beloved
his companions, “Oh servant of
Most Merciful: Subhan-Allah wa
among you to me, and the nearest
Allah (swt), don't be like so and so
bi hamdihi, Subhan-Allahil-'Azim
to sit with me on the Day of
who observed prayer during the
(Glory and praise is to Allah, glory
Judgment is the best of you in
whole night and then abandoned it
is to Allah the Almighty)."
character.”
manner."
(altogether).”
Eid Mubarak!
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Interview with Dawud Wharnsby Dawud Wharnsby--- is a Canadian
poetry in sacred sittings. We have
a “Muslim music market” and no
Universalist Muslim singer-
record of several poets who were
idea that, within a year or two, others
songwriter, poet, performer,
companions of the prophet, but even
would begin to turn the singing of
educator and television personality.
those individuals did not make their
anasheed into a “business”, akin to
A multi-instrumentalist, he is best
recitation of poetry or song into
the Christian pop music scene. In
known for his work in the musical/
“business”.
fact, I thought Muslims would be far
poetic genre of English Language nasheed.
How Did You Get Into The Nasheed/Song Business? The very phrase “Nasheed/song business” is so painful and foreign to me! “Anasheed” are simply “spiritual hymns”, traditionally sung with little musical accompaniment or set to the rhythm of basic hand-drums. For over 1400 years anasheed have been written and sung by Muslims in numerous languages and regions. Like most religious music, anasheed have been predominantly sung in congregational gatherings. Historic documentation tells us that the companions of the prophet (s) sang while they worked, sang at times of celebration and sang their
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too classy to do that! Sadly, I was Almost thirty years ago, when I
wrong. Before I knew it, there were
began writing anasheed, they came
demands for more recordings and
to me very organically ~ simply
tours. It was very uncomfortable
as a means of expressing my faith
to watch unfold and even more
through song in my own, native
uncomfortable for me to be wrapped
English language. Having been a
up within.
musician for several years, I recorded a few of the hymns to share with
Now indeed, as you say there is a
children and families at my local
“Nasheed business” which I am
mosque in Waterloo, Ontario. Later,
no longer very familiar with or
I sent a copy to educational Muslim
connected to.
media pioneers Sound Vision, to see
speaking Muslim families across the
What’s The Hardest Part Of Writing And Recording A Song---And What’s The Easiest?
USA and Canada. They were happy to
To me, the hardest part of writing and
do so and suddenly the songs were
recording songs is when the pressure
spreading around the world through
to please others replaces the original
piracy. I had no intention of fostering
desire to write and sing out of sheer
if they would be interested in making the songs available to other English
love. Writing and singing have always
out” or “lead forth”. To me there is
became one of many valuable
been very emotional experiences for
a big difference. Lately I’ve heard
personal mentors to me.
me ~ arising out of a personal need
Sound Vision and others uses the
Over the years, I personally watched
to express my feelings, thoughts
phrase “Edutainment”, which is a
Brother Yusuf struggle with easing
or concerns. I’ve often said that,
cute hybrid.
back into mainstream music with the
the only reason I write is because
support of his family, close friends
I cannot afford a therapist! The
Over the past twenty-five years
and numerous scholars. It was a
word “amateur” means, “for the love
that a “Muslim pop music niche”
decision he didn’t make or take
of” and a “professional” is one who
has developed, we’ve not only
lightly.
“professes” to be something. When
seen a growing number of Muslim
I do something out of love, it helps
artists, we also find a whole gamut
Given Brother Yusuf’s history and
my heart and hopefully, the hearts of
of managers, agents, music labels,
affluence, he naturally has a different
those who share it with me. Ideally,
publicists and PR firms! None of
set of opportunities to reach people
if we “profess” to be something we
that is my cup of tea.
than someone like myself, who takes
should also remain an “amateur”
a more grass-roots approach to
and do it “out of love”. Whenever
Though there are many wonderful
music. Yusuf’s circles of influence
I have felt that I am only writing,
new songs circulating by Muslim
enable him to inspire social change
recording or singing publicly to fulfill
singers, a few of those well intending
to a degree that most independent
some expected “role”, I’ve backed off
artists have been sadly taken
artists or writers never could. With
to reassess my intention and path
advantage by the “industry” building
that comes great pressure, great
forward.
up around them. In some cases their
responsibility and very difficult
creativity, their idealism and even
choices.
Has The Anasheed/Music Industry Changed A lot Since You Started? As I mentioned earlier, when I began sharing my songs with muslim families in the mid 1990’s, there was no commercial “nasheed industry”. There were just families hungry for new ways to help inspire their children spiritually. In those days I intentionally chose to have my songs distributed by Sound Vision because their media outreach was focussed on “education” and not “entertainment” and I respected that. The word “entertain” comes from the Latin, meaning “to hold” ie. to hold people’s attention. But the word “education” means to “lead
their faith has been crushed. That worries and saddens me.
Yusuf Islam/Cat Stevens--his return to music was much talked about, mostly positively---would you like to comment
What Is some good advice to attract Muslims, especially the youth, to chose to listen to anasheed over listening to the questionable stuff out there ? My dear friend and teacher Abdul
As a teenager I was deeply moved
Malik Mujahid of Sound Vision often
by the music of Cat Stevens/Yusuf
says, “If it is haram to do, it is haram
Islam. What inspired me more than
to watch or listen to.” Simple advice,
his songs however, was learning that
but clear and true. It is important
he had left the commercial music
for us to be critical thinkers ~ not
business, embraced the Qur’an and
just take what we see or hear at face
shifted his focus toward establishing
value. I would advise music lovers ~
schools for Muslim children in
young or old ~ to really think about
the UK. Around 1993, when I too
what they are consuming with their
embraced the Qur'an, I met Yusuf
eyes, ears and hearts. There is
and within a couple of years he
indeed a lot of mainstream music
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out there that is very destructive to
attention there. This special month
to sensory overload. Though I love
the soul, but there is also a lot that
was, therefore, an even more somber
people, crowds are very hard for me
is well crafted, inspirational and
and solitary time for me than last
to maneuver through. After public
motivational ~ being offered up by
year. But the quiet was beneficial and
events I require a great amount
people with great integrity and social
gave me much time for reflection.
of down-time alone to sleep and
concern.
My 85 year old father and I are in the
process all I have experienced.
same “bubble” and we’ve had some In like fashion, there is some
wonderful quality tome together
In addition to that, my musical
wonderful spiritual music available
during these past weeks as well.
tradition, as I have mentioned,
by muslim artists which is well
is rooted in Community Song ~
composed, rich in meaning and
Do You Have Any Eid Songs?
where people gather intimately
offered up with great dignity… AND
The only Eid song I’ve recorded was
to sing together. Being the centre
there are also a lot of commercial
one called “Days of Eid”, which was
of attention on a stage in front of
“nasheed” out there that aren’t
really just an English adaption of the
people is pretty contrary to that
so well done, being offered up by
traditional Takbirat often chanted
tradition. In order to find a balance,
individuals who should read the ayah
on Eid day. Many years ago (about
over the years, I have tried to
about “the poets” in the Qur’an.
2004) I also produced a full album
adopt the “sing-along” approach of
called “The Days of Eid” which
performers like Pete Seeger or Raffi
My recommendations: Subscribe
included the Eid songs of many
by getting audiences to sing along
your young children to wonderful
Muslim artists from around the world
with me instead of just performing to
sites like the Adam’s World App
~ including Irfan Makki, Zain Bhikha,
them ~ creating the atmosphere of a
and Muslim Kids TV, and get your
Qatrunada and others. That album
“Song Circle” instead of a concert.
family hooked on the programming
also included an Eid song written
of Muslim Network TV and Deen TV.
by my dear friend Saad Omar called
Balance those platforms with the
“Days of Joy”, which I also sang.
Are You Making A Big Plan For Post-Covid, Career-wise And Otherwise That You’d Like To Share
How Do You Deal With Performance/Stage Anxiety?
About a year before the pandemic
music of dignified artists ~ Muslim or otherwise ~ who put deep thought into their lyrics and melodies, while also speaking out for causes of great concern in our world.
Not well. A Social Anxiety Disorder has plagued me for over three decades and at times has been
How Was Ramadan For You--And How Different Was It From Last Year’s Lockdown?
quite debilitating. Before it’s
This year Ramadan flew past faster
being on the road and in social
than any year I can ever recall. On
gatherings. What I have learned is
the first day of Ramadan, just before
that, as an introverted individual
the most recent COVID “Stay at
with very sensitive hearing, I am
Home” order, my wife and daughters
deeply impacted by what goes on
left Canada for the USA due to a
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formal diagnoses, I had no idea why I was struggling so hard with
hit, I actually embarked upon personal hiatus from touring and performing, with the exception of occasional Abraham Jam events. The lock-downs and stay-at-home orders have not really impacted me emotionally very much as I was already preparing myself for some quiet time to assess my professional and personal path forward. These days I have been focussing on caring for my father, homeschooling may daughters and puttering with
my experiments in urban farming.
songs with me. She explained that,
along with me and pray for me from
Post pandemic ~ we’ll see where my
growing up with with Aspergers
afar. I do not take that lightly. The
heart and creativity take me. One
Syndrome she often felt (and feels)
songs connect us. Their prayers
thing I am certain of is that, I am
“different” from others ~ causing
and knowing that they are singing
embarking upon a new season of life.
anxiety and depression. She told me
along helps me with my anxiety and
That excites me and has me looking
that, somehow my little songs have
depression when life’s test get to be
forward to what rests ahead ~ insha
helped her over the years. I keep
too hard to handle sometimes. We’re
Allah.
every note and letter that I’ve ever
all helping each other to change the
received over the years. They are
world for the better. . . one song at a
A Touching Fan Story?
treasures to me and I try my best
time.
Oh, there are too many to share.
to respond to them all personally. . .
Just a few days ago I received a
It’s hard sometimes, but I try. These
lovely note from a young lady in
letters don’t come from “fans”, they
the UK who grew up sharing my
come from “friends”, folks who sing
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In Memoriam After battling COVID-19 for five
and actions. When he immigrated
weeks, a brother and friend to me
to Canada in the 1980’s from
and others, Sami Kadri, passed away
Lebanon, it was through the love
on Friday April 23, 2021/11 Ramadan
of Allah and this religion that we
1442. His soul left this physical
were introduced in His house at the
world to a Merciful Lord, leaving us
London Muslim Mosque. It was the
with fond memories and images
only mosque in London, and the
of his beaming smile embedded in
community still had a small-town
our minds and hearts. I recall my
feel and innocence. It was easy
own memories and those of close
and common to introduce yourself
friends like Abdul Naser Tweel,
to others and connect socially
Jamal Aburawi, Salah Al-Ansari, Abu
and spiritually without formalities
Tarik Kadri and Ali Chahbar, which
or distraction from technology.
transport me back to my youth, when
Sami excelled in this space as he
Sami moved to London, ON, in the
was a soul that flowed through the
1980’s and early 1990’s. Borrowing
community and you felt his presence
from Br Abdul Naser’s words, ‘I teeter
and uncanny ability to shake and
between smiles and tears’.
wake people up and move them (sometimes even physically…I’ll leave
For those who do not know Sami,
the wrestling for another time).
upon himself to pick us up in his Taxi, after calling our homes to ensure we woke up and were ready to go. As there were no cell phones at the time, the whole household got the wakeup call. He built relationships with the young and old, including my parents (May Allah shower them and
he was a bundle of energy, with a courageous yet sincerely, brotherly
I remember his encouragements to
personality. His love for Islam was
meet up at Fajr prayers on weekends.
evident in his very being, words
Once we agreed, he would take it
Sami with His mercy). He would point to me and say to my father, ‘Kayf redaka ala hal-3ayntayn’ (roughly translated as ‘are you pleased with
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this guy’) and my dad would smile.
left a positive impact. He practiced
To Allah we belong and to Him is our
Sami broke artificial generational
what he believed, was not limited
return. May Allah shower you, my
boundaries and established lifelong
by formalities, and was a brother
brother Sami, with His mercy. Our
relationships. He encouraged
to many through his actions, rather
eyes are filled with tears, and hearts
people to do what is right and build
than words alone. He sacrificed
are filled with sorrow, but we only
themselves for the sake of Allah and
building worldly wealth in his early
say what pleases Him. We will miss
community. He knew Islam had a lot
years for the sake of Islam and
you, my dear brother and friend.
to offer and encouraged the young
sincere brotherhood. Later on, as he
You passed away struggling against
and the old to take their religion
established himself on a personal
a disease and left us during Allah’s
seriously. He motivated us to use this
level, he represented several Islamic
best month of Ramadan and on a
short life to improve our stations in
organizations like WAMY and MAC in
Friday, the best day of the week. May
front of Allah and to offer Islam to
different capacities. He realised their
these signs be an indication of Allah’s
our community in its comprehensive
true worth and purpose which is to
pleasure with you and may you be
and well-balanced view.
help develop people and be vehicles
accepted amongst the righteous
dedicated to improving the state of
and the martyrs. May your resting
our community and Ummah.
place be a garden from the gardens
Sami was not a scholar nor an Imam, but loved sacred knowledge. When
of paradise and May Allah gather
I would ride with him in his taxi, I
Later on in life, Sami and I moved
us again with our beloved Prophet
noticed it was always filled with
to different cities, but he never lost
Muhammed (s), with our families,
Islamic books and cassettes. Thirty
connection with me. In fact, he was
friends and the righteous, in the
years ago, he gifted me a ‘Seerah’
an example of ‘Silat Al-Rahim’ and
highest level of Heaven, Ameen.
book, written by Abu Hassan Al-
‘Silat Al-Ukhuwa’. Through him, I
Nadawi, written in simple Arabic
was introduced to many scholars,
My sincerest condolences to Sr.
that I still cherish and lend to my
teachers, and activists and regular
Mona, their children, the Kadri family
children to read. Sami was a genuine
good brothers; all solid people with
and the community at large.
human who interacted with people
the same concern and zeal for Islam
and invested in them with a sincere
and betterment of our community
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