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COMPETITION IS GOOD BUT LET THE KIDS HAVE FUN!
Strike three! And the dejected ten year old walks away, head down, dragging his bat behind him. He looks up and sees an angry coach and parents in the stands throwing up their hands in dismay as they lose the game. They lost the game! (According to Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, a game is structured playing, usually undertaken for enjoyment and sometimes used as an educational tool.)
Playing sports is a great way for kids to burn up some excess energy in a positive way, as well as a way to develop some sport specific skills. There is more than physical skill at stake here, though. Sports can be very
instrumental in developing life skills, too. But, just as important is having fun. Kids need fun ‘cause well... they’re kids!
So much attention is given to college and pro athletes by the media and the enormous wealth and fame that accompanies them, that the benefits for kids can get lost. As a result, youth sports has become more competitive and with that, it seems, less fun.
Here lies the rub, and the question... What is more important? Competition or just playing for fun? These two valuable and important components of sports should be
balanced, but instead, they have become lopsided, with most of the emphasis on competition. Youth sports has, in many cases, gone over the edge when it comes to the importance of winning. Everyone has heard of, or seen, a crazed parent or coach having a meltdown on the diamond or in the gym because they lost the game. What results is a bunch of eight year old kids sitting on the bench in shock, as the wrong message is delivered by coaches and parents.
A new attitude has also permeated youth sports. The attitude is that kids, in order to excel at a sport, need to specialize at an early age and then play it year-round. First off, less than one 1/2 of 1% of high school players will ever reach the pro ranks in one of the four major sports (baseball, basketball, football and hockey). And to lower that percentage even more, not every kid on their little league team makes it on their high school squad. So the overall chance that little Johnny, although
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possessing a wonderful swing with that big orange plastic bat, will have a career as a professional athlete is pretty slim. However, the chance that Johnny will have a long career playing in a coed Sunday softball league is pretty good, provided that the fun of the sport is not drained out of
A study done by Michigan State University revealed that, “by age 13, about 70% of kids have quit sports.”
In many instances, fun is a few notches down on the priority list of coaches and parents. While fun is not so important, winning and the pressure that goes with it, is high on the list. Sometimes the emphasis on winning can overshadow the fact that sports is mostly about staying fit and healthy.
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However, going to the extreme in the opposite direction doesn’t really work either. In a well intentioned effort to keep it fun for everyone, some organizations play games where no score is kept and no winner or loser is declared. But if the kids are old enough to count, on the ride home, parents will be informed who won or lost, and the exact score, by the very kids who just played the game!
In youth sports, there are organized leagues and also what are known as “pick-up” games. But really, they are both organized, only the pick-up games are organized by the kids and the leagues are organized by adults.
There are advantages and disadvantages to each. Engaging in informal pick-up games allows kids to learn how to form teams, work with the other kids toward a common goal, develop rules, and take responsibility for following and enforcing them. When the adults are in charge, the right
adults that is, the game stays more structured and coaches can teach the fundamentals and strategies of the sport. It does seem that when the adults are in charge, the focus is more on competition and when the kids are calling the shots, it’s more about fun. Blending competition and fun is a win-win for all.
Some parents and community leaders have come to the conclusion that too much competition is not a healthy way to teach kids a sense of fair play. At the youth level, fun and competition should be more balanced than they seem to be. The main focus in youth sports should not be competition for kids who really just want to play for the sheer enjoyment of it. When coaches and parents focus on winning, they often lose the opportunity to really teach life skills.
However, competition is a fact of life and it is certainly a significant part of sports that should be valued even at the youth level. But, when it is overemphasized, problems arise.
Another problem with youth sports is that
not every kid has the opportunity to play or has limited time on the field. This is where parents need to determine what type of team is best for their child. If little Johnny plays on a competitive
Little League blends competition and fun as all kids get to play during the regular season, but only the best-of-the-best get to play in the All-Star Tournament.
“travel team,” there’s a chance he might be riding the bench if he’s not as talented as some of the other players. That “fact of life” is usually made clear up front at tryouts. Going into that situation, it’s important that everyone involved (parent, child, coach) are on the same page. Putting the team first and learning to be a role player and not the star, can help build character under the right circumstances. If sitting is a problem, then a recreational league might be a better fit. Most rec leagues have some sort of minimum play time requirement, but that can have its own set of problems. If it’s late in a game and a player at the end of the bench didn’t get their minutes or at-bats, a coach would be forced to put him in at a critical time of the game. If that kid strikes out with the bases
loaded or puts up an air ball with the team down by a basket, he or she could take some unfair abuse from over-zealous players, coaches or even some parents in the stands.
Some leagues take that decision out of the coaches hands by, for example, blowing the whistle every four minutes in a basketball game to put in the next group of players so all play equal minutes, regardless of the game situation.
Little League Baseball does manage to blend competition and fun as all kids get to play during the regular season but
only the best-of-the-best play on the competitive all-star teams.
Over the years, a handful of kids who were written about in this magazine have made it to the pros. Largo youth football player, Dexter McCluster, was profiled 1999 as a ten year old. His answer to future plans? To play in the NFL. He went on to play seven years in the NFL with the Kansas City Chiefs and Tennessee Titans.
Palm Harbor Little League AllStar Ryan Harvey was drafted in the first round by the Chicago Cubs in 2003. But these two
are the exception rather than the rule. By the way, both of those kids interviewed as 10-12 year olds, said playing sports was FUN! Although making it as a pro is very rare, for some talented kids, sports can be the ticket to college and in those cases, competition is the key... with a lot of fun on the side.
So, when evaluating your players, look not only at the vertical leap, fast ball speed or time in the 40... be sure to add the size of the smile... ‘cause they’re kids and sports should make kids happy!
For some high school competitive players, sports could be the ticket to college and in that case, competition is what is needed... with a little fun on the side!
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If baseball continues to be “America’s Pastime,” prevention of injury needs to become the number one priority.
For years, the arm injury rate in youth baseball has been on the rise. Due to this trend, several years ago, dramatic steps were taken by Little League Baseball® to make youth baseball a safer and healthier sport. This effort has been successful in curtailing many of traumatic injuries due to overuse. However, there is much more work to be done.
The initial step taken at Little League to decrease arm injuries was the development of the pitch count rules, with which everyone reading Family time news, needs to be familiar! The pitch count rules were generated after long periods of study and research at USA Baseball and the American Sports Medicine institute (ASMI).
With regard to overuse injuries that occur in youth baseball, fatigue continues to be the driving factor. There is a 36 to 1 increased incidence that players can injure their throwing shoulder and/or elbow. Parents should remember the jeopardy they’re putting their young players in when fatigue occurs. Little League International has done a lot to educate their coaches, players, parents and grandparents about the risks involving fatigue and arm injuries, and what steps need to be taken to play the game safely. It’s also
important to note that Little League also passed rules to limit “pitcher moving to catcher” and vice versa, in the same game, to limit additional throwing.
the number-one risk factor of arm injuries for our youth continues to be year-round baseball or softball. If parents understand the injury risk factors, it only takes common sense to be able to recognize what to do to decrease injuries. In the case of year-round baseball or softball, it is recommended that young players have at least 2 months off each year where they are not playing any type of overhead sports. Preferably, it is recommended 3 to 4 months off each year. Even professional baseball players get that period of time off, and certainly our kids are more vulnerable to injury than our mature professional players!
the second risk factor is playing in more than one league at the same time. Certainly, for those parents that have their children participating in Little League, they should try to make sure their children do not participate in more than one league at the same time. When multiple leagues are played in the same season, there are few safeguards and the chance of
overuse injuries goes way up.
Some showcases are very well organized and have the health and well-being of the young players as their top priority. There are other showcases, however, that are not well organized and carry a high injury rate. Today’s parents, unfortunately, and mistakenly, consider showcases as a way for their child to get scouted for both college scholarships and professional play.
Showcases don’t mean nearly as much as parents think they do, and they can produce serious injuries over a concentrated weekend period.
Youth pitchers should avoid curve balls. The problem with curve balls at an early age is that it is a highly sophisticated neuromuscular controlled pitch that is difficult to throw. Not throwing curveballs until old enough to shave is recommended. That means pitchers have gone through puberty and their bones have matured.
Poor mechanics continue to cause injuries, so working on good mechanics for any position in youth baseball is extremely important. While seeking out a pitch coach to learn good mechanics sounds like a good idea, there is a caution involved here as well. Pitching lessons add an additional work load that could cause harm.
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Enjoy live music, delicious food, art, clothing, jewelry, henna, handmade candles, soap, pet treats, home goods and more. Event is Located next to the City of Clearwater Municipal Services Building, 710 Court Street. Parking is Free and can be found throughout downtown. The closest parking garage is the city employee parking garage located diagonally from the field. The garage is Free on the weekends.
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For the latest updates to the train schedule or cancellations, visit Largo Central Railroad online or follow on Facebook. (Weather Permitting). Save some time and fill out the waiver online. (Note that this resets each day, so please only fill it out just before you arrive).
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inStRUC tiOnAL BASKetBALL LeAGUe ar the Gymnasium
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The St. Petersburg Science Festival is an annual regional celebration where families and the public can explore the wonders of hands-on science, technology, engineering, art and math (STEAM).
There are over 50 exhibits hosted by organizations from across Tampa Bay and beyond. The Festival is held in conjunction with MarineQuest, the open house of the Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission’s Fish and Wildlife Research Institute.
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SENIOR MUSINGS
With all this talk about youth sports and fun vs. competition, it’s about time us old guys get to weigh in.
Being a big baseball fan and long time Yankees supporter, the off season brings hope that next season they will raise that
29th world championship banner. It also creates an itch! It creates an itch that only donning a pair of cleats and digging into the batter’s box can scratch.
So, on a sunny Saturday afternoon, I took my old bones down to the softball diamond to play a little weekend warrior softball with younger guys that are all out of shape. My head tells me that I am in good shape and despite my age, can still run with the young bucks. However, my body has a slightly different opinion and therein lies the rub!
Hitting a softball that some fat guy hurls at you at a blazing
speed somewhere around 18 miles an hour, should be easy enough.
Well, the first couple of swings would seem to contradict that statement. After flailing away at a couple of slow moving pitches, the barrel of my bat accidentally crashes into the ball, sending it screaming down the third base line. I come flying out of the batter’s box and am really moving (in my own mind)! I round first while some middle aged accountant jogs after the ball in left field. As I approach second, I realize that a triple is within reach!
I make the turn at second and stare down the accountant in left, challenging his gun against my wheels and dash for the bag as the accountant uncorks a rocket towards third. As I arrive, so does the ball and I slide under the tag... Safe! is the call. The old guy legged out a three bagger!
The next morning I awake with great anticipation, I have defied father time and I feel great! As I arise from my slumber, my thighs begin screaming at me and the challenge for the day will be how will I ever be able to tie my shoes.
So, for this Weekend Warrior it’s not so much about fun vs. competition, it’s about walking vs. not walking!
‘til next month, thenThe Senior Muser
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