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Education News Mastering positive learning language Don’t be afraid to ask about a bursary Primary school reports: what parents should know Open Day Directory - Autumn Term

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Child Development The importance of music in child development

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Clubs & Classes Clubs & classes news

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What’s On What’s on for families this autumn

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Halloween Fun Make skull cupcakes for Halloween

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Welcome to the autumn issue of the NEW Families South Hampshire & West Sussex edition. This brings together all the local content from our Families Hampshire West magazine AND our Solent East magazine into one fantastic title, offering you options for things to do across the entire South Coast.

We hope you all had a brilliant summer and are ready to take on the challenges of getting the kids back into the school routine again... remember it needn’t be the end to your family adventures! There’s plenty about the autumn season to like, including getting outside and enjoying all those autumn leaves. Take a look at our What’s On guide for lots of inspiration.

In this issue, we have a back to school education feature. Not only is it the season for children to start or change school, it’s also the season for planning the future education of your child.

You’ll find support to help your child embrace the language of learning, information on asking about a school bursary, what you should know about primary school reports, plus, an Open Day directory should you wish to visit some local independent schools.

Halloween and half-term will be the next holiday to enjoy. So cut out and keep our great Halloween baking recipe from The Great British Bake Off winner, David Atherton, taken from his book, My First Halloween Cookbook. It’s sure to be frightfully yummy!

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Start your child’s future with Walhampton School

Walhampton Prep School has always been passionate about an education that inspires and stretches every one of their pupils. Walhampton welcomes applications, from children in Year 6, for their scholarship programme. Children applying for a scholarship are welcome to join during Year 6 or at the start of Year 7. Applications open in October and assessments are carried out in November.

Walhampton awards scholarships in a range of disciplines Academic, Art, Drama, Equine, Music, Sport and Technology.

There is an expectation that scholars are exemplary ambassadors, not only modelling excellence but encouraging their peers and leading by example. Scholars benefit from tailored opportunities and are supported through Years 7 and 8 with their senior school choices, often alongside a further scholarship application for their 13+ journey.

Walhampton welcomes you to join for a private tour, or to an Open Morning on Friday 10 October, to see how they can inspire your family.

Find out more at www.walhampton.com

An education beyond the classroom at Prince’s Mead At Prince’s Mead School, learning goes beyond the classroom through a deep commitment to sustainability.

For the second year running, this Winchester school has been awarded the prestigious Eco-Schools Distinction, recognising pupils’ hands-on environmental action.

From nurturing their RHS Level 5 garden to crafting bird boxes, pupils play an active role in protecting and enhancing wildlife habitats within their school grounds in the South Downs National Park. Sustainability is not just a topic; it’s a lived experience - woven into lunch packaging choices, recycled uniforms and curriculum projects.

Whether writing poetry on climate change, debating global action at COP29, or welcoming eco-experts to speak, Prince’s Mead pupils are empowered to make a difference.

Prince’s Mead recently merged with King Edward VI School, taking pupils from age 3 in Nursery through to age 11 in Prep.

Find out more at www.princesmeadschool.org.uk where you can sign up for the Open Morning on Friday 10 October.

Curiosity-fuelled learning at PGS

Discover The King’s School in Fair Oak

At The Portsmouth Grammar Junior School, their dynamic thematic curriculum engages pupils from Pre-School through to Year 6, exploring broad, enriching themes that stimulate curiosity and enquiry.

Rated Excellent for pupils’ personal development, The King’s School in Fair Oak, offers independent, Christian education for children aged 4 to 16.

Their approach to teaching enriches subject learning by embedding it within a broader context, allowing pupils to make meaningful connections across different disciplines. This holistic strategy helps develop transferable skills and preparing children for success in all areas of life.

Cultural and global awareness are also at the heart of the curriculum, with broad themes that help pupils understand social, environmental and cultural issues. While specialist subject teaching further enriches the curriculum, with expert teachers in French and Music from Pre-School to Year 6, Art from Year 2 to Year 6, Drama and Science from Year 3 and PE and Games throughout. This combination of thematic and specialist teaching ensures a well-rounded, robust educational experience for every pupil.

The affordable annual fees make an excellent alternative for parents looking for an environment which will support their child to reach their full potential academically, socially and spiritually.

With small class sizes and dedicated staff, they offer a learning journey that inspires curiosity, confidence and a love of learning. The Christ centred curriculum blends academic excellence with creative arts, sports and biblical studies, ensuring a rich and balanced school experience.

You can arrange a visit with the Headteacher or come along to their next Open Morning on Saturday 27 September to discover how your child can thrive at The King’s School.

To book a tour or to find out more, call 023 8060 0986, or visit www.thekingsschool.org.uk

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Jamie’s mission to transform dyslexia support

Jamie Oliver, long known for his school dinner reforms, is now on a mission to overhaul dyslexia support in UK schools.

Drawing on his own experience with dyslexia, Oliver is partnering with MPs, educators and groups such as the British Dyslexia Association to push for urgent changes.

His campaign centres on three key reforms: mandatory dyslexia screening for all primary school children, better teacher training to recognise and support dyslexic students and wider use of assistive technology like reading pens and audiobooks.

Oliver argues these steps would ensure early intervention, boost pupil confidence and allow teaching to play to each child’s strengths. While his proposals have been praised by advocacy groups, challenges remain - particularly funding, teacher workload and slow policy change. Still, Oliver’s campaign could benefit all pupils by making classrooms more inclusive and adaptable and by improving literacy support for everyone, not just those with a diagnosis.

More information at www.bdadyslexia.org.uk

Inspiring minds and broadening horizons

Located in the heart of Southampton, The Gregg Prep is a nurturing independent day school where pupils flourish academically and enjoy exploring the world through a range of out-of-classroom experiences.

This small school combines individual academic challenge with a supportive environment and dedicated teachers, which enables Gregg Prep pupils to achieve their full potential, bringing confidence and happiness throughout their primary journey.

The range of enrichment opportunities ensures that pupils have interesting and memory-making adventures that enhance their classroom work… and keeps learning fun!

To discover more about the Gregg Prep, book a private tour, or visit one of their Open Events, email registrar@ thegreggschools.org or visit www.thegreggschools.org

Call for free code clubs in schools and libraries The Raspberry Pi Foundation, the UK’s leading digital skills charity, is calling for a free code club in every UK school and library, aiming to equip young people with essential digital skills for a future shaped by AI. An Opinium survey found sixty percent of parents see coding as important, while over seventy say their child isn’t taught coding regularly at school.

Already supporting two thousand free code clubs, the Foundation helps kids learn to code and build confidence, teamwork and resilience. It offers free training and resources which make it easy for anyone, regardless of experience, to start a club.

Teachers have seen code clubs open doors for all students to be creative and collaborative, breaking down stereotypes about who can code. The Foundation’s position is clear: every child should learn to code to shape an inclusive digital world.

Code Club has reached two million children worldwide, with a goal of ten million by 2035.

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Forensic Science Trail at Portsmouth High Prep and Pre-School in Southsea Discover life at Portsmouth High School GDST, where the Pre-School, Prep School, Senior School and Sixth Form will be buzzing with activity at their Open Morning on Saturday 27 September.

In addition, the Prep School is calling all young detectives to take part in a Forensic Science Trail around the school’s spacious grounds. Families with children aged 3 to 11 are invited to take part. Follow the clues, solve the mystery, and enjoy a morning of discovery and fun.

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Mastering positive learning language

By Zuzu Jordan How many times have you found yourself in a standoff because your child says they ‘can’t’ do a challenging piece of homework? That word - ‘can’t’ - creates an immediate mental block. It shuts down part of the brain that could otherwise be open and ready to learn. One word can be powerful enough to shape the success of a learning journey.

What if we could help children use more open, hopeful language? What if the words they used gave them the confidence to try again instead of giving up? Let’s look at positive learning language. The way children talk to themselves - and how we speak to them - can completely shift their mindset and learning outcomes. Language is not just about communication; it shapes beliefs, emotions and behaviours.

Here are some practical strategies to help develop this kind of language every day: Acknowledge emotions first To begin, acknowledge how your child feels. A simple: ‘I can see this is frustrating for you’ or ‘It’s okay to feel stuck sometimes’ can build safety and trust.

Practise positive affirmations Affirmations such as ‘I don’t give up easily’ or ‘I can work this out’ help your child rewire negative thinking. Repeating them regularly supports resilience and self-belief.

Praise effort over outcome Say: ‘I noticed how hard you tried’ and ‘You’re improving every time,’ even if the task wasn’t finished. This reinforces a mindset that values learning over perfection.

Use the ‘Three Bs’ Rule Teach your child to check: Brain – think independently. Book – look for clues or previous notes. Buddy – ask a peer. Only then, ask the Boss (teacher or adult). This encourages independence and self-reliance.

Ban the word ‘can’t.’

Replace it with: ‘I can’t do this yet’ or ‘I’m having difficulty with this.’ These phrases shift focus from finality to possibility, reminding children that ability grows with time and effort.

Start with what they know Confidence grows when learners begin from a familiar place.

Encourage the phrase: ‘Use what you know to figure out what you don’t.’ For example, using known multiplication facts to solve more difficult ones.

Break the task into steps Ask questions like: ‘What can you already do?’ or ‘How can we make this easier by breaking it down?’ This helps children realise that progress often starts with small, manageable actions.

Remind them of past ‘wins’ Say: ‘Remember when this was tricky and now it’s easy?’

Reflecting on past successes helps children see that challenges are temporary and progress is possible.

Celebrate mistakes Mistakes are mis-takes - opportunities to try again. Reframe

them by asking: ‘What can I learn from this?’ This teaches that every mistake brings a new chance to grow.

Retrain how they ask for help Encourage more constructive ways to ask questions: ‘Can you explain that a different way?’ or ‘Can we go over that part again?’

This keeps your child engaged and curious.

The learning journey Positive learning language develops understanding, resilience and confidence. Like climbing a mountain, the learning journey includes setbacks, discoveries and growth. But with the right words, the path becomes clearer and the climb achievable.

By modelling and encouraging this language, we help children build the mindset they need not only to succeed in school but to thrive in life.

Zuzu is a Mastery for Maths Specialist who has taught primary for eighteen years and is Director of Arnett International. For FREE resources and tips, find her on Instagram @edumate_uk

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Don’t be afraid to ask about a bursary

By Tanya Freeman My husband and I have always been committed to state education. We both thrived at state school and believed our son, Freddy would too. Besides, school fees were out of the question for our family.

So how did it happen that Freddy actually ended up being educated privately?

The answer is, quite by chance. After crossing fingers that Freddy would be offered a state school place in Reception at one of our top three choices, we were really disappointed to be offered our sixth school choice option. It wasn’t a bad school but it was very large. Freddy, an only child, was reserved and more comfortable with adults than children and we thought he would feel overwhelmed by so many small peers.

At this time, I was acting as a consultant to a small pre-prep school – the equivalent of an infant school - and the day after we received Freddy’s school offer, I happened to mention this in a meeting with them.

A few days later, I was astonished to receive an email from this school asking whether I would be interested in a fully funded school place for Freddy. Nothing like this had ever happened to my husband or I before. We are not people who are serendipitously in the ‘right place at the right time’ – in fact, if there’s any kind of sale, you can guarantee we’ve just bought the item full price the day before! So we were quite incredulous at this offer and felt that it really was too good to miss.

Did we have reservations? Yes. We weren’t sure if our son would ‘fit in’ (or whether we would). We were concerned about what would happen when Freddy turned 8 and returned to the state system. Would he get a place? The school reassured us that Freddy would take the 7+ (an exam for entry to prep school which I was hardly aware of) and that there was every likelihood that we would find a prep school willing to help assist us financially at the next stage of his education too.

Freddy thrived at this small school and received offers from four prep schools at 7+. We discussed financial assistance with each of them. Disclosing our income at one of these meetings, we were asked whether the figure we had mentioned was our total income or what we each earned individually. It was our total income. We wondered whether we might still have been eligible for financial support even if we had earned that amount each

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and whether perhaps you didn’t have to have an exceptionally low income to be considered for financial assistance.

We were offered a partial bursary by the prep school we all liked best where Freddy had an absolutely fabulous four years.

He was able to take advantage of so many opportunities that otherwise wouldn’t have been available to him, grew massively in confidence and made firm friends.

It was only when it was time to consider secondary school choices that we fully reviewed Freddy’s experience (and ours too) of the independent schools he’d attended and realised that it had been so positive overall that we would like to explore whether he could continue his educational journey in the independent sector.

Admittedly, we were lucky. Freddy is academic and was offered a place at a number of schools at 11+. Lucky too that the school we all preferred offered bursaries; and that, again we were accepted. This time though, the bursary application was a much more formal process which involved scrutiny of our income and expenditure in reasonable detail. Even so, we were astonished to actually be asked by the independent financial assessor what percentage of bursary we would like!

Many of our peers, who are earning above the average UK family income but can’t afford school fees (at least not in their entirety), don’t realise that a private school bursary could be an option for them too.

So my advice to anyone unhappy with their state school offer or wanting to cast the school net a little wider, is: ‘don’t be afraid to ask.’ The old adage, if you don’t ask, you don’t get has never been more salient.

Tanya Freeman is a writer and mother of Freddy, living in London.

Bursary essentials

Roughly one in three children at an independent school is on some form of fee ‘remission’ and private schools actively canvass for bursary applications. It’s not just senior schools that offer them; some prep schools do too.

A bursary may be taken away if your financial circumstances significantly improve or you might be granted one if you fall on hard times.

A bursary is not a scholarship. Scholarships are awarded to especially talent children but are rarely worth more than 10% of fees.

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Primary school reports: what parents should know

By Erin Miller Reading our own old school reports can recall all sorts of emotions, so it’s no surprise that receiving our children’s reports feels significant too. But setting emotions aside, what should we actually be looking for in our child’s school report?

A standard state school report should include a child’s academic progress, a brief summary of achievements, strengths and areas for improvement, attendance records and guidance on arranging teacher follow-ups.

For pupils in Key Stages 1 and 2, reports must also include results from National Curriculum assessments, such as SATs or the phonics screening check, along with comparative data showing how the pupil performed nationally and within the school. It is important to remember that progress matters more than attainment when evaluating your child’s report. As a teacher, I always stress that it is progress that truly counts.

The Department for Education (DfE) requires all state schools in England to provide parents with a written annual report by the end of the summer term, unless the pupil is receiving a school leaver’s report. Individual schools can decide whether to issue reports more frequently, such as termly.

Whilst both approaches have their benefits, I personally prefer termly reports as they allow more regular engagement and ongoing discussion with your child about their learning. Do note that public assessment results (e.g. SATS) are different from school reports and if they arrive after the report has been issued, schools must share them with parents within fifteen school days.

Writing reports is a major administrative task for teachers (as I know only too well) and the style and depth vary depending on school policy. Some provide detailed, subject-by-subject feedback and include pupil reflections, while others offer concise summaries using letter or number grades. As a teacher, I find shorter reports often give greater clarity on a child’s progress.

Schools may also use different styles, such as addressing the child directly to encourage ownership of learning. However, more important than format or length is the conversation the report prompts at home. Take time to review comments and scores with your child and listen to their perspective. Your attention to the report reinforces that school matters and that parents and teachers are working together to support your child’s growth.

Finally, while the DfE framework outlines clear requirements, if you feel something important is missing (even if not required by law), you can raise this with your child’s school to explore possible improvements.

Erin Miller is a teacher with a keen interest in how research can be used in the classroom to improve learning.

No surprises You should not encounter any major surprises when reading your child’s school report. Serious concerns about academic progress, behaviour or wellbeing should have already been raised with you through meetings, phone calls or regular updates during the year.

If you do see something unexpected, such as a sudden drop in performance or flagged behavioural issues, it may be a sign that the school’s communication with you has not been as effective as it should have been.

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In such cases, it’s important not to panic but to follow up promptly. Use the instructions provided in the report to arrange a meeting or conversation with your child’s teacher or a member of the leadership team. Asking for clarification or context can help you better understand the issue and how the school plans to support your child moving forward. Be specific about what you found surprising and where possible, bring any notes or past communications to the discussion.

Open and respectful dialogue between home and school is key to resolving concerns and ensuring your child is supported.

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Schools Open Day Directory

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Don’t forget, most open events need pre-booking. Please ensure you book your place online or scan the QR codes and to check that the event is still going ahead before you visit. Please also say you saw these featured in Families Magazine!

Bedales School (Petersfield) Open Morning: Saturday 27 September, 11am-1pm (Prep). Personal tours available. www.bedales.org.uk Boundary Oak School (Fareham) Open Evening: Tuesday 16 September (whole school). www.boundaryoakschool.co.uk Charlton House Independent School (Southampton) Personal tours available. www.charltonhouseindependentschool.co.uk

Ditcham Park School (Petersfield) Co-educational independent school for boys and girls aged 3 to 16 Open Morning: Saturday 27 September, 10am. Personal tours available. www.ditchampark.com Embley School (Romsey) Open Days: Wednesday 15 October, Friday 21 November, (whole school). www.embley.org.uk Forres Sandle Manor (Fordingbridge) Open Week: Monday 22 to Friday 26 September. www.fsmschool.com

Havant Academy (Havant) Secondary and post-16 education and part of TKAT: The Kemnal Academies Trust.

Open Evening: Thursday 25 September, 5-7pm. www.havant-tkat.org Kingscourt School (Waterlooville) Personal tours available. www.kingscourt.org.uk

King Edward VI School (Southampton) Selective co-educational independent School for boys and girls aged 11 to 18 Open Evening: Friday 3 October, 6-8.30pm. www.kes.school King Edward VI Prep School (Romsey) Open Day: Saturday 27 September, 10am-12pm (Nursery & Prep-Prep). www.prep.kes.school Meoncross School (Fareham) Open Week: Monday 22 to Friday 26 September, 10.45am-12pm. www.meoncross.co.uk Moyles Court (Ringwood) Personal tours available. www.moylescourt.co.uk Oakwood School (Chichester) Personal tours available. www.oakwoodschool.co.uk

Portsmouth Grammar School (Portsmouth) Co-educational independent school for boys and girls aged 2½ to 18 Open Events: Thursday 18 September, Wednesday 8 October, Tuesday 18 November. www.pgs.org.uk

Portsmouth High School GDST (Portsmouth) Independent girls’ school for ages 2½ to 18 Open Morning: Saturday 27 September, 10am-12noon. Family tours available. www.portsmouthhigh.co.uk

Prince’s Mead School (Winchester) Co-educational day school for boys and girls ages 3 to 11 Open Day: Friday 10 October, 10am. Personal tours available. www.princesmeadschool.org.uk Ryde School (Isle of Wight) Open Day: Saturday 4 October (whole school). Personal tours available. www.rydeschool.org.uk Sherborne House School (Eastleigh) Open Morning: Saturday 4 October, 9am-12pm. www.sherbornehouse.co.uk St Swithun’s School (Winchester) Open Morning: Saturday 4 October. Open Afternoons: Friday 10 October (Prep School), Friday 7 November (all years). www.stswithuns.com

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The Gregg Schools (Southampton) Independent day school for boys and girls aged 4+.

Activities Mornings: Saturday 27 September (Prep), Wednesday 19 October (Senior), Thursday 13 November (Prep), Open Evening: Thursday 9 October (Senior). www.thegreggschools.org

The King’s School (Fair Oak) Independent day school for boys and girls aged 4 to 16 Open Morning: Saturday 27 September, 10.30am-12noon. www.thekingsschool.org.uk The Prebendal School (Chichester) Breakfast with the Headmistress: Thursday 25 September. Early Years Stay & Play Open Day: Wednesday 15 October. Open House: Friday 21 November. www.prebendalschool.org.uk Twyford School (Twyford) Open Morning: Friday 10 October 9.15am-12pm. www.twyfordschool.com Walhampton School (Lymington) Co-educational boarding and day school for boys and girls aged 2 to 13 Open Morning: Friday 10 October. Personal tours available. www.walhampton.com Westbourne House School (Chichester) Open Morning: Saturday 4 October. Personal tours available. www.westbournehouse.org West Hill Park School (Fareham) Open Week: Monday 6-Friday 10 October. Personal tours available. www.westhillpark.com

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The importance of music in child development

By Lisa Wander and Catherine Noble

‘Music is a more potent instrument than any other for education because rhythm and harmony find their way into the inward places of the soul.’

This quote, often attributed to Plato, highlights the profound impact of music on a child’s emotional and intellectual development, emphasising its ability to engage the soul in a way that other subjects may not.

A core creative subject, it fosters creativity, engagement, cognitive and emotional skills, social skills and self-esteem.

Excellent music education opens opportunities that stay with children and shape their lives.

Playing a key role in brain development and impacting various areas of cognitive function, music engages both sides of the brain, thereby improving learning and memory, as well as supporting language acquisition and literacy development.

Songs with rhymes and repetition help develop vocabulary and phonemic awareness. Listening to music and melodies exposes children to a wider range of words and phrases and trains memory skills and recall. Did you know that music is the only thing that stimulates your entire brain? When children can’t hear you because they are concentrating on something else, try singing to them!

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Hans Christian Andersson wrote: ‘Where words fail, music speaks.’ This emotional outlet works on developing empathy and emotional intelligence. In addition, exposure to music has been proven to reduce stress and anxiety in children. It creates a calming, positive and engaging environment that enhances overall mental wellbeing and readiness to learn.

Touching hearts and minds, music is a cornerstone of the broad and balanced education that every child should receive; it celebrates and challenges, it connects and moves us.

In the same way that we teach children literacy and numeracy to prepare them for adult life, we must give them the musical tools they need for a lifetime of music-making and enjoyment.

For some, music will be the foundation of a career in one of the country’s most important and globally-recognised industries.

For others, it will provide experiences and skills which develop their creativity.

For many, music will simply be a source of joy, comfort and companionship throughout their lives.

Positive effects of music on the brain Music offers children a unique lens through which to explore cultures, traditions and even history, helping broaden their perspective and understanding of the world around them.

Musical rhythms introduce basic mathematical concepts, for example sequencing and analysing patterns. Research shows a strong correlation between musical training and improved mathematical abilities.

Activities like clapping, dancing and playing musical instruments require the integration of hand, eye and auditory co-ordination which improves fine and gross motor skills.

Musical improvisation, composition and interpretation all foster innovative thinking and problem-solving skills, crucial for overall intellectual growth.

At all our nurseries the warm and welcoming environment ensures that your child’s individual needs are prioritised, and their interests nurtured.

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Performing music nurtures self-confidence and provides a sense of achievement, particularly when children have the opportunity to perform in front of an audience.

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Education Through Music Fun music classes for ages 2-9.

Learn to read and write music in accordance with internationally recognised Kodály and Dalcroze principles. Classes run in Emsworth and Hedge End. Book a FREE trial today.

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Boost your child’s confidence this autumn with Perform As children head back to school after the summer break, a common challenge many face is a dip in confidence.

This can hold them back from reaching their full potential both socially and academically.

Whether your child needs a little boost or simply loves to socialise, Perform is the perfect weekly outlet for fun, energy and self-expression with its confidence-building classes in drama, dance and singing for ages 4-7 and 7-12.

“Perform is not a stage school,” says Perform Principal, Lucy Quick. “Our sessions are all about teaching life skills through fun, engaging activities. Every class is designed to develop what we call the 4Cs: confidence, concentration, coordination and communication.”

Each term ends with a performance, giving every child a chance to shine. And before your child even begins, Perform offers a FREE trial class, with time spent discussing your child’s specific needs; whether that’s speaking in a group or meeting new friends.

This autumn’s magical line-up: Ages 4-7: Join an adventure with Magical Merlin Ages 7-12: Star in Ebenezer, a fun twist on A Christmas Carol

Experts call for a ban on ‘no ball games signs’ A group of play experts is calling for an end to ‘no ball games’ signs and stricter protections for school playtime, arguing that children are being driven indoors and onto digital devices.

The Raising the Nation Play Commission, after a year-long inquiry, warns that outdoor play in England has halved in a generation. The commission blames increased street traffic, fears about crime and public spaces that discourage young people from gathering.

The group describes this trend as an ‘anti-play culture’ and urges policymakers to take action to reverse it, citing concerns about children’s physical and mental health. In response, the government says it is working with experts to create a framework that would improve access to activities outside of school. The commission’s report highlights the urgent need to reclaim public spaces for children and ensure that play remains a central part of childhood.

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Local classes are available at: Chandler’s Ford: Chandler’s Ford Methodist Church, SO53 2GJ Ages 4-7, Monday at 4pm & Ages 7-12, Monday at 5pm Hedge End: Underhill Centre, SO30 4AF Ages 4-7, Tuesday at 4pm & Ages 7-12, Tuesday at 5pm Romsey: United Abbey Reform Church, SO51 8EL Ages 4-7, Tuesday at 4pm & Ages 7-12, Tuesday at 5pm Southampton: Highfield Church Centre, SO17 1RL Ages 4-7, Wednesday, 4pm & 5pm & Ages 7-12, Wednesday at 6pm Winchester: Holy Trinity Parish Church, SO23 8DG Ages 4-7, Thursday 4pm & 5pm & Ages 7-12, Thursday at 6pm, Saturday at 2pm Visit www.perform.org.uk/try to book a FREE trial.

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ONGOING Stick Man Trail at Alice Holt Forest Throughout Sep & Oct Enjoy the wonderful world of Stick Man and complete lots of fun stick-based activities, discover tree-mendous facts and learn about forest wildlife in this interactive family trail. 9am-4pm. www.forestryengland.uk/alice-holtforest/the-stick-man-trail-aliceholt Family Saturdays at Aspex Gallery, Portsmouth Every Sat A different FREE creative activity workshop each week - fun for all the family. 11am-1pm. www.aspex.org.uk/event/familysaturdays Chitty Chitty Bang Bang: Celebrating 60 Years at Mottisfont Until Sun 2 Nov This immersive, family-friendly exhibition features playful displays where Chitty ‘flies’ across the walls, a selfie station and even an outdoor trail (£3) inspired by the book’s most unforgettable characters. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/ hampshire/mottisfont Early Years and Little Notes at Chichester Festival Theatre Tue, Wed and Thu (term time) Fun-filled workshops and activities for 0-5 year olds. Choose from Little Artists, Mini Movers and Boogie with Baby and Little Notes. Be prepared to join in as each child will need a grown-up partner to enjoy the session with. www.cft.org.uk/minimakers or www.cft.org.uk/littlenotes Family fun at Chichester Festival Theatre Thu and Sat during (term time) Bring your pre-schoolers and catch up with some parent pals at CFT’s expanded family fun areas. Children can discover toys, colouring-in, fancy dress and books in the nooks, while grown-ups can indulge in delicious coffee and cake, with healthy snacks and drinks are available for little ones. 9am–12pm. Ages 0–5. FREE. www.cft.org.uk/offstage/pop-upfamily-fun

NEARLY NEW SALES Little Pickles & Bigger Pickles Market at Totton Health & Leisure Sun 21 Sep & Sun 9 Nov NEW combined baby, toddler and children’s 0-13 years nearly new market. Buy clothes, toys, school uniform, books, nursery furniture, baby equipment and so much more.

Find out more and book online. www.littlepicklesmarkets.co.uk/ hampshire

Little Pickles Market at Brockenhurst Village Hall Sun 28 Sep & Sun 16 Nov 0-5 years baby and children’s nearly new market. Buy clothes, toys, nursery furniture, baby equipment and more. Find out more and book online. www.littlepicklesmarkets.co.uk/ hampshire Little Pickles & Bigger Pickles Market at Applemore Health & Leisure Centre Sun 5 Oct NEW combined baby, toddler and children’s 0-13 years nearly new market. Buy clothes, toys, school uniform, books, nursery furniture, baby equipment and so much more.

Find out more and book online. www.littlepicklesmarkets.co.uk/ hampshire

SEPTEMBER Baby Broadway at Chichester Festival Theatre Fri 5 Sep Enjoy a joyful celebration of song and dance, performed by talented West End singers. You’ll enjoy a magical time with bubbles, bells, flying babies and puppets too. Fancy dress is highly encouraged. 10am & 11.15am (45mins). www.cft.org.uk Family Festival Raceday at Fontwell Park Racecourse Sun 7 Sep A perfect day out for all the family combining horseracing, entertainment and fun! Under 17s go FREE. www.fontwellpark.co.uk The Romsey Show at Broadlands Park Sat 13 Sep There’s plenty to see and do for all ages from vintage and modern machinery to the mobile farm and equine classes, food zone, live music, floral art and more! Book online. www.romseyshow.co.uk Autism Friendly Day at Monkey World, Wareham Sat 13 Sep Monkey World opens an hour early at 9am, exclusively for neurodivergent visitors and their families. www.monkeyworld.org Rock the Pier Music Festival at Ewart Recreation Ground, Hythe Sat 13 Sep Hythe Pier Heritage Association invites you to join us at this years’ live music and fundraising event.

There is a full line-up of fantastic local bands, as well as children’s entertainment, street food, stalls and more. All funds raised will go towards our various Hythe heritage restoration projects. 11.30am-7.15pm. www.hythepierha.org.uk/events

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Family Autumn Spotter at Sir Harold Hillier Gardens Sat 13 Sep-Sun 30 Nov Self-guided family fun in the Garden.

10am-4pm. Drop-in. www.hants.gov.uk/thingstodo/ hilliergardens Taste of Wickham Festival Sun 14 Sep Discover talented artisans, feast on delicious food and drink, shop from over 80 unique stalls, enjoy all-day live performances and let the kids go wild in the dedicated children’s zone.

FREE. 11am-4pm. www.tasteofwickham.com Heritage Open Day at Gilbert White’s House Thu 18 Sep Celebrate Heritage Open Days and enjoy a visit for FREE. 10.30am4.30pm. www.gilbertwhiteshouse.org.uk Portsmouth Vegan Festival at The Mountbatten Centre Sat 20 Sep Family-friendly event with over 60 stalls, including a huge selection of foods and new, innovative products and food that isn’t available in the supermarket. FREE for under 16s.

10.30am-4pm. www.veganeventsuk.co.uk Equinox Viking Boat Burn – Saxon & Viking Fire Festival at Butser Ancient Farm Sat 20 Sep An incredible afternoon and evening of spectacular entertainment, straight from Valhalla itself. Witness live folk music, reenactor warrior battles, traditional crafts and the burning of a Viking longship at dusk.

Book online. www.butserancientfarm.co.uk/ equinox-viking-boat-burn-firefestival Ringwood Carnival Sat 20 Sep Activities, events and fun for all the family from noon until late, processions at 2pm and 7.15pm. www.ringwoodcarnival.org Autumn Colour Wheel and Garden Scent Challenge at Hinton Ampner Sat 20 Sep–Sun 2 Nov Young children will love exploring colour and scent in vibrant autumnal landscape in the gardens at Hinton Ampner. FREE activity. Normal admission applies. 10am-5pm. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/hintonampner A Journey Through Southampton at Tudor House & Garden Sat 20 Sep These family-friendly activities will take you on a journey through Southampton’s rich history. 10.30am.

FREE. www.southamptonmuseumsand gallery.co.uk

Heritage Open Day at Mottisfont Sat 20-Sun 21 Sep Explore the rich history from medieval priory to Georgian home; enjoy FREE guided walks, discover the National Collection of London Plane trees. 10am-4.30pm. FREE. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/ mottisfont Harvest Festival at The Brickworks Museum Sun 21 Sep A fun-filled day of autumn festivities and family fun that capture the magic of the harvest season.

11am-4pm. All ages. www.thebrickworksmuseum.org/ event/harvest-festival Mini Monet Art Club at Southampton City Art Gallery Sat 27 Sep Experiment with different art styles and materials in a fun and accessible way. A great way to encourage your child’s creativity without making a mess at home. 10.30-11.30am. Under 7s. Pre-book. www.southamptonmuseumsand gallery.co.uk Mini Ravers at Portsmouth Guildhall Sun 28 Sep Resident Mini Ravers DJ’s playing 90s & 00s, house, commercial, R&B, party and some kids sing-a-long classics. www.portsmouthguildhall.org. uk/whats-on/event/mini-raversportsmouth-zoo-party

OCTOBER Outdoor Cinema: Hocus Pocus at The Vyne, Basingstoke Sat 4 Oct For a spooktacular movie under the stars, don’t miss this screening on The Vyne’s north lawn. Bring a picnic and blanket - hot beverages and snacks will be available to purchase.

Gates open 5.30pm, film 7-8.32pm. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/the-vyne Agent 11¾ Spy Family Trail at Mottisfont Sat 4 Oct–Sun 30 Nov Inspired by Ian Fleming, this outdoor experience invites budding secret agents to crack codes, create disguises and take on undercover challenges. Packed with spy-themed fun and surprises. FREE. Normal admission applies. 10am-5pm. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/ mottisfont Outdoor Cinema: The Nightmare Before Christmas at The Vyne, Basingstoke Sun 5 Oct Don’t miss Tim Burton’s family favourite on The Vyne’s north lawn.

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WHAT’S ON Family Friendly Backstage Tours at Chichester Festival Theatre Sat 11 Oct This 60-minute guided tour is a brilliant way to explore how theatre is made! Discover the backstage spaces, how shows are created and experience the famous Festival Theatre stage. 10.30am. Ages 7-11. www.cft.org.uk

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Autumn fun at your local The National Trust!

There’s plenty to look forward to at your local National Trust property this autumn, including some wonderfully wicked events at Halloween.

At The Vyne, enjoy Outdoor Cinema (4 and 5 October) with Hocus Pocus and The Nightmare Before Christmas. Pre-book online. Don’t miss the Halloween Trail We’re Going on a Ghost Hunt™ (11 October to 2 November), 10am-3pm. Inspired by the bestselling children’s books, find ghosts hidden around The Vyne and there are exciting things to see and do along the way. FREE trail, normal admission applies.

Young children will love the Autumn Colour Wheel and Garden Scent Challenge at Hinton Ampner, while older children can explore self-led country walks. From 11 October, eye-catching pumpkin displays will be dotted around the garden making a great family photo backdrop. Young adventurers can help Wilma the Witch on the fun-filled Halloween mystery trail (18 October to 2 November) 10am5pm. £2 per trail. Normal admission applies.

At Mottisfont, enjoy a family adventure trail with Agent 11¾ Spy Family Trail (4 October to 30 November). Inspired by Ian Fleming, this outdoor experience invites budding secret agents to crack codes, create disguises and take on undercover challenges. Packed with spy-themed fun and surprises. FREE trail, normal admission applies.

Unless specified, no is booking required and all activities are included in property admission.

Visit www.nationaltrust.org.uk/hampshire to find out more.

Halloween fun at Exbury Halloween will soon be upon us and once again Exbury Gardens will be filled with the screams of unsuspecting victims aboard the infamous Ghost Train.

The Ghost Train will be running daily from 25 to 31 October inclusive and tickets will be on sale from 1 September. Garden admission tickets or a Friends of Exbury membership are also required to ride the Ghost Train (may not be suitable for younger or more sensitive children).

There will also be pumpkin carving and a FREE Gruesome Garden Trail featuring a spooky spiders lair, witches’ den and haunted graveyard.

Find out more at www.exbury.co.uk

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Autism Friendly Day at Monkey World, Wareham Sat 11 Oct Monkey World opens an hour early at 9am, exclusively for neurodivergent visitors and their families. www.monkeyworld.org We’re Going on a Ghost Hunt™ at The Vyne, Basingstoke Sat 11 Oct-Sun 2 Nov Based on the bestselling children’s books, this Halloween the bunnies are setting off on an adventure to find the ghosts hidden around The Vyne with heaps of exciting things to see and do along the way. The trail is ideal for pre-schoolers and young children. FREE with normal admission. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/the-vyne

OCTOBER HALF TERM Halloween Spooktacular at Paultons Park Thu 16 Oct-Mon 3 Nov Welcome to the friendliest, most frightful family Halloween theme park event in the UK. A range of activities will be available and a new interactive dark ride and late night openings (28-30 Oct). Book online. www.paultonspark.co.uk/ halloween Pumpkin Fun at Rogate Pumpkin Patch Fri 17 Oct-Sun 2 Nov Unleash your autumn spirit and celebrate all things Halloween.

Immerse yourself in a world of pumpkin fun and spooky delights at this magical outdoor event. www.rogatepumpkinpatch.com Halloween Half-Term at Carisbrooke Castle Sat 18 Oct-Sun 2 Nov Gather your little monsters for a ghoulishly good day out at Carisbrooke Castle on the Isle of Wight this half-term. Follow the

quest to solve creepy clues and gather round to listen to spooky stories. 10am-5pm. All ages. www.english-heritage.org.uk Petworth’s Academy of Witches and Wizards at Petworth House Sat 18 Oct-Sun 2 Nov The Academy doors are open for a week of magical adventures in the gardens. Join one of Petworth’s enchanted houses and begin your training in the mystical arts. Put your broomstick skills to the test on the obstacle course, hunt for hidden potion ingredients and spot magical beasts. Pick up your trail map and begin your journey. FREE with admission. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/petworth Halloween at Moors Valley Country Park Thu 23 Oct-Sun 2 Nov Step into the shadows this Halloween and enjoy the spectacular illuminated trail with brand-new installations that will turn the forest into a spine-tingling, spooky setting. www.forestryengland.uk/moorsvalley-halloween Wilma the Witch Halloween Mystery Trail at Hinton Ampner Thu 23 Oct-Sun 2 Nov Hinton Ampner’s gates are flung wide for two weeks of magical adventures in the gardens. Magic wands and pointy hats are welcome on this quest to find the missing feathers and you’ll meet mysterious beasts along the way. Tackle bean bag challenges, leap, jump and dash your way through the quest finding clues and solving puzzles to solve the mystery this half-term. 10am5pm. £2 per trail. Normal admission applies. Ages 4-7. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/hintonampner Fold Our City at Chichester Festival Theatre Sat 25 Oct Fold Our City returns offering families and friends a fun, FREE activity over the half term. So, come rain or shine, drop in to the Theatre and spend some time creating your favourite local landmarks (and people!) to add to the giant 3D map.

11am–3.30pm FREE. www.cft.org.uk

Blast-off into space The South Downs Planetarium in Chichester is an exciting place for people of all ages to visit.

Get lost in the stunning fulldome images and breathtaking videos whilst their experienced and enthusiastic lecturers take you on a mindblowing journey through space.

The Planetarium is putting on a range of exciting public shows and special events throughout the autumn, including stimulating Space Family Fun Days in the half-term holiday – a great experience for all ages.

For details of upcoming shows and the opening hours, plus a map showing you how to find them, visit the Planetarium’s website at www.southdowns.org.uk. All tickets must be booked in advance. For general enquiries, email sdownsplanet@proton.me or call 01243 774400.

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Cinderella Ice Cream Seller at Turner Sims Sun 26 Oct A delicious retelling of a fairy tale classic, featuring storytelling, stunning live music and theatrical magic! Ages 5+. £5. www.turnersims.co.uk/whats-on/ cinderella-ice-cream-seller

Mini Monet Art Club at Southampton City Art Gallery Sat 25 Oct Experiment with different art styles and materials in a fun and accessible way. A great way to encourage your child’s creativity without making a mess at home. 10.30-11.30am. Under 7s. Pre-book. www.southamptonmuseumsand gallery.co.uk

Museum, home of one of history’s more famous shipwrecks, lost beneath the waves in 1545. Enjoy a multi-sensory exploration of the story of The Mary Rose, an immersive 4D discovery of the raising of the Mary Rose and explore real Tudor objects, plus much more. www.maryrose.org/events/ october-half-term-at-the-maryrose

Halloween Ghost Train at Exbury Gardens Sat 25-Fri 31 Oct See the website for more details. www.exbury.co.uk/halloweenghost-train

Witches Marks and Hidden Secrets at Weald & Downland Living Museum, Chichester Sat 25 Oct-Sun 2 Nov Explore the museum looking for witches marks and hidden secrets and discover how these marks and objects were believed to protect homes from the evil spirits.

10am-4pm. www.wealddown.co.uk/events/ october-half-term

Spooky Halloween Treat at Sir Harold Hillier Gardens Sat 25-Fri 31 Oct To coincide with Halloween activities in the Gardens, enjoy some spooky cookies and Halloween bakes on the menu in the Courtyard Café. www.hants.gov.uk/thingstodo/ hilliergardens/whatson/TreatsOct25 Halloween at Exbury Gardens Sat 25-Fri 31 Oct Exbury Gardens will be filled with the screams of unsuspecting victims aboard the infamous Ghost Train.

There will be pumpkin carving and a FREE Gruesome Garden Trail featuring a spooky spiders lair, witches’ den and haunted graveyard. www.exbury.co.uk Half-Term at Mary Rose Museum, Portsmouth Sat 25 Oct-Sun 2 Nov Head back to Henry VIII’s England this half-term at the Mary Rose

Boo at the Zoo at Marwell Sat 25 Oct-Sun 2 Nov At Boo at the Zoo, there’ll be plenty of treats (and maybe a few tricks) in store for guests this half-term.

From broomstick flying to pumpkin carving, a visit to Marwell will be a spook-tacular day. www.marwell.org.uk/plan-yourvisit/zoo-events Wizard Week at The Watercress Line Sat 25 Oct-Sun 2 Nov There are lots of spooky activities to enjoy on The Watercress line along with a fancy dress competition with prizes available. 10am-4pm. Prebook online. www.watercressline.co.uk/wizardweek

Autumn at Monkey World Bring your little monkeys to meet their primate cousins at Monkey World Ape Rescue Centre!

The sanctuary in Wareham is home to over two hundred and forty rescued and endangered monkeys and apes, including young orphan orangutans, Kiwi and Sibu Jr. The pair have now graduated to living in the nursery fulltime, spending their days watching the grown-ups next door and showing off their strength and climbing skills to visitors!

From 25 October to 2 November, enjoy Halloween at Monkey World. The activity centre will be offering extra fun crafts, competitions and trails for the kids to enjoy and on 31 October, there’s FREE entry for children in FULL Halloween fancy dress, plus a competition with prizes.

Open daily from 10am-5pm. Book online to save on prices.

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Halloween and Autumn Steam Up at The Brickworks Museum Sun 26 Oct As the nights darken and the season draws in, don’t miss the chance to explore the genuinely haunted museum. Featuring traction engines, train rides, Halloween decorations, miniature railway layouts, craft stalls and more. 11am-4pm. All ages. www.thebrickworksmuseum.org Kids Halloween Pottery at Forest Arts Centre, New Milton Mon 27 Oct Children will hand-build and sculpt mini clay pumpkins. Ages 8+. www.forest-arts.co.uk Wizard School at Tudor House & Garden, Southampton Mon 27 & Tue 28 Oct Meander to magical Tudor House and create your very own magic wand, witness magic and search for the magical characters in the garden! This family session will be happening at 10.30am, 12pm and 1.30pm and will last about an hour.

Ages 5+. www.southamptonmuseumsand gallery.

Art for All: Clay Cats and Witches’ Hats at Southampton City Art Gallery Tue 28 Oct & Thu 30 Oct What could be more fun this Halloween than getting stuck into your very own clay creation? You will love designing your own cat, in the position of your choice, and moulding your very own accessories! Various start times from 10.30am. Ages 4+. www.southamptonmuseumsand gallery.co.uk Spooky Half Term Fun at West Dean Gardens, Chichester Tue 28 Oct-Sun 2 Nov Calling all Witches and Wizards, come and create spine chilling spells using your magic to mix together ghoulish ingredients and eerie textures. Enjoy spooky crafts,

a haunted garden, fancy dress and activities. £5 entry. www.westdean.ac.uk/gardens/ events/halloween-activities Art for All: Spooky Luminaries at Southampton City Art Gallery Wed 29 Oct Let your imagination run wild and create your very own luminary to put in your window this Halloween.

Working with card and paper you will create a light up 3D spooky scene to be proud of. Various start times from 10.30am. Ages 6+. www.southamptonmuseumsand gallery.co.uk Characters Through History at Arundel Castle Wed 29-Thu 30 Oct Meet characters from the Castle’s history, with a focus on the 12th Century and in particular the first two sieges at the Castle. Meet a Crusader, Knight, Archer and The Master Falconer. Listen to the storyteller, listen to Medieval tunes and enjoy demonstrations and havea-go at archery. Book online. www.arundelcastle.org/events/ characters-from-history Pumpkin Carving at Sir Harold Hillier Gardens Wed 29-Fri 31 Oct Join in this Halloween for a fun-filled family pumpkin carving event. Come and create spooky masterpieces!

10.30am-2.30pm. Sessions every half hour. Booking is required. www.hants.gov.uk/thingstodo/ hilliergardens Halloween at Monkey World, Wareham Fri 31 Oct Have a spook-tacular Halloween at Monkey World. FREE entry for children in full Halloween fancy dress. Fun activities for children and fancy dress competition. www.monkeyworld.org/events/ halloween-at-monkey-world-2025 Family Silent Disco at The Great Hall with Westgate Museum Fri 31 Oct Get on your best fancy dress for this family-friendly Halloween-themed silent disco! Enjoy a complimentary treat for the kids… or a trick.

5-6.30pm. Ages 3+. www.hampshireculture.org.uk/ event/family-silent-disco

Santa’s Winter Wonderland Stewarts Santa’s Winter Wonderland returns at Stewarts Abbey Garden Centre in Fareham from 22 November to 24 December.

Explore the snowy Elf Village, stop at the Grotto for a chat and professional photo with Santa, then borrow Santa’s key to choose your own toy from the toy store (ages from 7 months. Babies 0-6 months receive a small cuddly toy).

Tickets are available from 10am on 1 October.

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Find out more at santa.stewarts.co.uk

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The Sleeping Beauty at Mayflower Theatre, Southampton Wed 26-Sat 29 Nov English National Ballet’s take on the classic fairytale. Brimming with beautiful choreography and sumptuous sets and costumes you’ll be whisked away to an enchanted land of fairy tale characters and good versus evil. Book your tickets online now. Ages 5+. www.mayflower.org.uk/whats-on/ enb-sleeping-beauty-2025

Mary Poppins at Mayflower Theatre Until 20 Sep Based on the stories of P.L. Travers and the Walt Disney film, the story of the world’s favourite nanny arriving on Cherry Tree Lane is even more magical than ever before featuring dazzling choreography, incredible effects and unforgettable songs. www.mayflower.org.uk

A Boy Called Christmas at Chichester Festival Theatre Mon 15–Wed 31 Dec An enthralling, charming and magical tale that tells the true story of Father Christmas. Join Nikolas on this life-changing adventure, full of fantastic characters and beautiful moments and watch how one little boy comes to be the very symbol of Christmas itself. www.cft.org.uk/events/a-boycalled-christmas Santa’s Winter Wonderland at Stewarts Garden Centre, Fareham Sat 22 Nov-Wed 24 Dec Meet Santa and his Elves. Explore the snowy Elf Village, stop at the Grotto for a chat and professional photo with Santa, then borrow Santa’s key to choose your own toy from the toy store. Sen sessions available and more. Tickets are available from 10am on 1 October. santa.stewarts.co.uk

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The Dinosaur That Pooped a Rock Show! at New Theatre Royal Sat 20 Sep Adapted from the number one bestselling books by Tom Fletcher and Dougie Poynter, the whole family will have a poopy good time enjoying this brand-new story for the stage. www.newtheatreroyal.com Pirates Love Underpants at Theatre Royal Winchester Sat 20 & Sun 21 Sep Join a swashbuckling party of pirates on their quest to find the fabled Pants of Gold. Filled with music, puppetry and glittering pants of gold, arrr you ready to set sail for a family adventure? Ages 1+. www.theatreroyalwinchester.co.uk Cirque: The Greatest Show – Reimagined at Fareham Live Sun 21 Sep Get ready for a dazzling fusion of musical theatre and jaw-dropping circus acts, taking the original Circus meets Musical Theatre spectacle to thrilling new heights. Featuring stunning vocalists and world-class circus performers, this family-friendly extravaganza is a must-see. www.trafalgartickets.com

The Smeds and The Smoos at Theatre Royal Winchester Fri 3-Sun 5 Oct A stellar show based on the book by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler.

Music, laughs and interplanetary adventures. Ages 3+. www.theatreroyalwinchester.co.uk/ whats-on/smeds-and-smoos The Colour of Dinosaurs at Mayflower Studios Fri 10-Sat 11 Oct The Colour of Dinosaurs brings the story of Jakob’s extraordinary science to life and celebrate everyone’s identities, including disability, cultural identity and of course, how much we all love dinosaurs! Ages 6+. www.mayflower.org.uk Peppa Pig’s Big Family Show at Fareham Live Fri 10-Sat 11 Oct With a new arrival on the way the whole family are busy getting ready.

Packed full of music, adventure and surprises for little ones. www.trafalgartickets.com

Amazing Animals at The Point Sat 18 Oct A show dedicated to and celebrating all creatures great and small. The heart-warming show packed full of music, comedy and amazing animal effects for all ages. www.thepointeastleigh.co.uk Horrible Histories: Gorgeous Georgians and Vile Victorians at New Theatre Royal Sun 26 Oct We all want to meet people from history! The trouble is everyone is dead! Don’t miss this horrible history of Britain with the nasty bits left in!

Ages 5+. www.newtheatreroyal.com The Littlest Yak at Mayflower Studios Fri 31 Oct-Sat 1 Nov This musical adaptation of the award-winning children’s book will delight audiences young and old with beautiful puppets, catchy tunes and an uplifting tale of selfacceptance for all the family.

Ages 4+. www.mayflower.org.uk/whats-on/ the-littlest-yak-2025

DON’T MISS England’s largest festival of history and culture with thousands of FREE events and experiences. Heritage Open Days will focus on our diverse architectural heritage running from 12 to 21 September.

From historic houses to factories, museums to music halls and formal gardens, places, spaces and communities across the country will host hundreds of FREE events this autumn.

Visit www.heritageopendays.org.uk for more information.

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A magical Christmas at CFT Christmas is coming (oh yes it is!) and Chichester Festival Theatre has plenty of magical festive moments for families to enjoy. From Saturday 6 to Tuesday 23 December, visit the Elves’ Workshop and meet Father Christmas himself in Santa’s Grotto.

The Three Little Pigs from the award-winning Stiles and Drewe (The Billy Goats Gruff, Honk!) is a charming adventure full of catchy songs and clever rhymes. Running Saturday 6 to Sunday 28 December, it’s a perfect musical Christmas treat for ages 3–7.

Chichester Festival Youth Theatre bring their magical gifts for storytelling to A Boy Called Christmas, for ages 7+. Join 11 year-old Nikolas on a life-changing adventure, full of fantastic characters and beautiful moments, as one little boy comes to be the symbol of Christmas itself. Running from Monday 15 to Wednesday 31 December, this story from award-winning writer Matt Haig will warm the hearts of audiences young and old.

Visit www.cft.org.uk for the full line-up, tickets and more information.

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The Sleeping Beauty at Mayflower Theatre For wonder and enchantment, look no further than this classic fairy tale ballet from English National Ballet - The Sleeping Beauty at Mayflower Theatre from 26 to 29 November. Sir Kenneth MacMillan’s exquisite production will leave you spellbound.

As a baby, Princess Aurora is cursed by the wicked Carabosse: on her 16th birthday, she will prick her finger and die. Her godmother the Lilac Fairy alters the spell so Aurora will not die, but sleep for 100 years. Only a true love’s kiss can break the spell and awaken her.

From Aurora’s christening in the grand hall of the palace, to her jubilant wedding celebrations, the bewitching fairy tale is brought to life before your eyes.

Brimming with beautiful choreography, sumptuous sets and costumes, you’ll be whisked away to an enchanted land of fairy tale characters and good versus evil.

Book your tickets today at www.mayflower.org.uk/whatson/enb-sleeping-beauty-2025 September/October 2025

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Make Skull Cupcakes for Halloween

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Cupcakes are usually round but with a clever trick we can make them skull shaped. If you want to be very fancy, you can get some tubes of coloured icing and decorate your cakes with colourful patterns.

Top tip: it’s important to use really ripe bananas for this recipe because they’re soft and sweet. The best ones are brown or almost black.

Makes 12 cupcakes

Cupcakes: 2 ripe bananas (peeled) 100ml vegetable oil ¼ tsp grated nutmeg 50g caster sugar 50g soft brown sugar 120g self-raising flour ½ tsp baking powder

Decoration: 150g icing sugar ½ tsp vanilla extract 24 raisins 2 tbsp flaked almonds

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Ingredients

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Preheat oven to 180°C (fanassisted).

Fill a 12-hole cupcake tray with 12 cupcake cases.

Add the bananas, oil, nutmeg and sugars to a jug and whizz with a stick blender until smooth.

Pour the mixture into a mixing bowl. Add the flour and baking powder and mix until smooth (do not beat).

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Fill each cupcake case threequarters full. Gently push a baking bean (or scrunched-up ball of foil) either side of the case. Bake for 15 minutes, until golden.

For the icing, mix together the icing sugar and vanilla, then add a tablespoonful of water at a time until you have an icing that is pourable.

Dollop a spoonful of the icing onto the cake and spread to the edges.

Gently squeeze each raisin between your finger and thumb until soft, then place on the cakes for the eyes.

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Break up the flaked almonds and add little pieces to each skull for the teeth.

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With thanks to David Atherton, winner of The Great British Bake Off 2019 for this recipe, which is featured in his new book My First Halloween Cookbook, part of the My First Cook Book series, available online and from all good book shops now. ©Walker Books 2025. Text © 2025 Nomadbaker Limited. Illustrations © 2025 Jess Rose. All rights reserved.

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Halloween half-term fun at The Vyne, Mottisfont & Hinton Ampner This autumn let's pack the diary with family fun.

There's Halloween adventures to be had and magical memories to make this October half-term. nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/hampshire

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