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We hope all our readers had a brilliant summer and are ready for the challenges of getting the kids back into the school routine again…. remember it needn’t be the end to your family adventures. There’s plenty about the autumn season to like, including getting out and enjoying all the events and activities in our What’s On guide!
In this issue, we have a bumper ‘back to school’ education feature. Not only is it the season for children to start or change school, it’s also the season for planning the future education of your child. You’ll find our new At a Glance feature profiling some top local independent schools, as well as Open Day dates, an article about independent school bursaries and advice on helping your child embrace the language of learning.
We also profile loads of kids’ classes in this issue if you are looking for a new activity for your child to start off the new school year.
Looking forward to Halloween in October, we also have copies to giveaway of My First Halloween Cookbook by David Atherton, winner of The Great British Bake Off. Apply inside.
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Mastering positive learning language
By Zuzu Jordan
How many times have you found yourself in a standoff because your child says they ‘can’t’ do a challenging piece of homework? That word - ‘can’t’ - creates an immediate mental block. It shuts down part of the brain that could otherwise be open and ready to learn. One word can be powerful enough to shape the success of a learning journey.
What if we could help children use more open, hopeful language? What if the words they used gave them the confidence to try again instead of giving up? Let’s look at positive learning language. The way children talk to themselves - and how we speak to them - can completely shift their mindset and learning outcomes. Language is not just about communication; it shapes beliefs, emotions and behaviours. Here are some practical strategies to help develop this kind of language every day:
Acknowledge emotions first
To begin, acknowledge how your child feels. A simple: ‘I can see this is frustrating for you’ or ‘It’s okay to feel stuck sometimes’ can build safety and trust.
Ban the word ‘can’t.’
Replace it with: ‘I can’t do this yet’ or ‘I’m having difficulty with this.’ These phrases shift focus from finality to possibility, reminding children that ability grows with time and effort.
Start with what they know
Confidence grows when learners begin from a familiar place. Encourage the phrase: ‘Use what you know to figure out what you don’t.’ For example, using known multiplication facts to solve more difficult ones.
Break the task into steps
Ask questions like: ‘What can you already do?’ or ‘How can we make this easier by breaking it down?’ This helps children realise that progress often starts with small, manageable actions.
Remind them of past ‘wins’
Say: ‘Remember when this was tricky and now it’s easy?’ Reflecting on past successes helps children see that challenges are temporary and progress is possible.
Celebrate mistakes
Mistakes are mis-takes - opportunities to try again. Reframe
Giving feedback
As parents, we naturally want to know our child is doing well at school. Homework often provides the clearest window into their learning. When we support them, we’re also giving feedback, sometimes without realising it. The language we use matters. Focus on their effort, improvements and what they’ve done well. Be specific and encouraging. If needed, gently suggest how they can improve, using kind and constructive language. Thoughtfully worded feedback boosts confidence, builds motivation and helps children feel supported in their learning.
them by asking: ‘What can I learn from this?’ This teaches that every mistake brings a new chance to grow.
Practise positive affirmations
Affirmations such as ‘I don’t give up easily’ or ‘I can work this out’ help your child rewire negative thinking. Repeating them regularly supports resilience and self-belief.
Praise effort over outcome
Say: ‘I noticed how hard you tried’ and ‘You’re improving every time,’ even if the task wasn’t finished. This reinforces a mindset that values learning over perfection.
Use the ‘Three Bs’ Rule
Teach your child to check: Brain – think independently. Book –look for clues or previous notes. Buddy – ask a peer. Only then, ask the Boss (teacher or adult). This encourages independence and self-reliance.
Retrain how they ask for help
Encourage more constructive ways to ask questions: ‘Can you explain that a different way?’ or ‘Can we go over that part again?’ This keeps your child engaged and curious.
The learning journey
Positive learning language develops understanding, resilience and confidence. Like climbing a mountain, the learning journey includes setbacks, discoveries and growth. But with the right words, the path becomes clearer and the climb achievable.
By modelling and encouraging this language, we help children build the mindset they need not only to succeed in school but to thrive in life.
Zuzu is a Mastery for Maths Specialist who has taught primary for eighteen years and is Director of Arnett International. For FREE resources and tips, find her on Instagram @edumate_uk
Safe learning environment
Parents play a vital role in making learning feel safe and supportive.
Start by creating a calm, distraction-free space where your child can focus. Use encouraging language and praise effort, not just outcome. Let them know mistakes are part of learning and it’s okay to ask for help. Listen without judgement and show patience, even when they’re struggling. When children feel emotionally secure and supported at home, they’re more likely to stay motivated, confident and open to learning.
Independent Schools: At
a Glance
Read profiles of local independent schools Blackheath High GDST and Sydenham High GDST, as well as an interview with the new Head of Dulwich College.
At a glance:
Sydenham High School
FACT FILE
Number of pupils 710
Nursery No
Selective entry Yes, main entry points are 4+, 7+, 11+ and 16+
Exit at age... 11 & 16 (for co-ed/relocation) and 18
Age range 4-18 years
GIRLS’ PREP GIRLS’ SENIOR
Key reasons to consider Sydenham High School
Sydenham High School offers…
…a unique environment where girls of all talents, abilities and backgrounds develop intellectual curiosity, a love of learning and an understanding of who they are. The school empowers girls to forge their future; opening eyes and hearts by educating the whole person to balance mind, body and soul.
Sydenham High School excels at…
…inspiring the future generations of creators, independent thinkers and trailblazers. Its diversity of academic and enrichment opportunities enables every girl to forge her own path, strive to be her best and excel. While no path is the same, each girl’s journey leads to valuable development and meaningful self-discovery.
Sydenham High School is perfect for…
…ambitious, kind, intellectually curious and open-minded girls, who want a rounded education that prepares them for wherever their chosen future path may lead.
Parent testimonial:
‘We are delighted with the confident, polite and charming daughters that have emerged from Sydenham High after 15 years. They have both loved their school days and have amazing memories. I know they will cherish these days.’
Future University Destinations
Girls follow a broad range of future pathways, from Oxbridge and Russell Group universities to Art Foundations and degree apprenticeships. The school tailors its award-winning Futures programme to ensure each girl finds the right path for her.
Transport links:
Sydenham Station (10 minutes). 450 and 122 bus routes stop directly outside.
Minibus fleet to: Balham, Beckenham, Bromley, Camberwell, Clapham, Dulwich, Forest Hill, Herne Hill, Norwood, Streatham, West Wickham. Minibuses arrive at school by 8.25am and leave at 3.45pm, with late shuttlebuses at 5pm.
Sydenham High School is loved for…
…being a place where everyone belongs and each girl matters. The school has received several education awards recognising its inclusive environment, which provides the foundation for girls to academically and personally succeed. Happy girls do better!
Sydenham High School celebrates...
…everyone! The school gets to know the strengths of each pupil, personalising each educational journey so that all students reach their full potential. The school is known to be warm and nurturing, ambitious for every girl within a supportive learning environment in which girls grow in confidence and knowledge.
Sydenham High School prioritises...
…future-proofing girls for an ever-changing world. The school’s dedication to a forward-thinking curriculum prepares girls to be adaptable and to think differently. Its pupils leave not only with ambition but with the insight, skills and networks to realise it. In a world of uncertainty, the school prepares girls not just to navigate change but to confidently shape it.
Open Events
Sydenham High encourages families to visit for its Whole School Open Day in September each year and then join a School in Action morning to see the girls in lessons. Following this, girls can try out lessons and find out what life is really like as a pupil at a Discovery or Exploration Session. Families are welcome to have a private tour at any point during the year. The Admissions team works yearround so please do get in touch.
Whole School Open Day
Saturday 20 September
Book at www.sydenhamhighschool.gdst.net/open-days
Address: 15 & 19 Westwood Hill, London SE26 6BL
At a glance:
FACT FILE
Number of pupils 751
Blackheath High School GDST
Nursery Yes, with Forest School
Selective entry Yes, Nursery and Reception (assessments), 7+, 11+ and 16+
Exit at age... 18 (Year 13)
Age range 3-18 years
GIRLS’ JUNIOR GIRLS’ SENIOR GIRLS’ NURSERY
Key reasons to consider Blackheath High School
Blackheath High offers…
…a balanced education designed specifically for girls, combining academic excellence and prestigious university destinations with an outstanding co-curricular programme and a strong pastoral culture. Inspiring teachers, a diverse community and an individualised approach to every student creates an environment which is grounded, forward-thinking and always ambitious.
Blackheath High excels at…
…creating an education designed for girls. Everything from its curriculum to its classroom culture, from its subject offer to an exceptional Futures Programme is designed to meet their needs. In a single-sex environment, girls aren’t limited by stereotypes or gender expectations – they are free to be brilliantly themselves.
Blackheath High is perfect for…
… girls who are creative, curious, collaborative and confident, fuelled by a love of learning and joyful, playful spirits. From poets to politicians, actors to astronomers, every girl will find her path in a culture of limitless learning where nothing is beyond reach.
Parent testimonial:
‘I am constantly amazed by how my daughter tackles challenges and engages with the world around her and am so grateful to the whole team at Blackheath High for creating such a welcoming and empowering environment.’
Future University Destinations
The school’s commitment to preparing girls for the future ensures they achieve outstanding results and secure places at prestigious universities across the UK. Leavers’ destinations include Oxford and Cambridge, Russell Group universities and creative destinations such as the Royal Academy of Music and Trinity Laban.
Transport links:
Junior and Senior Schools are well served by public transport including buses, trains and the DLR.
Private minibus fleet and coaches to: the City of London, Tower Gateway, Hackney, Whitechapel, Canary Wharf, Isle of Dogs, North Greenwich, Wapping, Canada Water, Rotherhithe, Deptford, Brockley, Lewisham, Greenwich, Blackheath, Woolwich, Eltham and Chislehurst.
Blackheath High is loved for its…
…outstanding academic outcomes - 2024 saw its best-ever GCSE and A-level results. A rich, diverse co-curriculum which offers an exceptional range of clubs, societies and trips. A warm, welcoming community where close relationships thrive.
Blackheath High celebrates...
…every girl. It educates brilliant girls to be well rounded, well qualified and well prepared, instilling in them a love of learning and of life. Its individual approach means every girl’s unique character and way of learning is known, supported by inspiring, passionate teachers, who offer open doors and open hearts. 11+ scholarships in Art, Music, Drama, Sport and Academic, celebrate a wide range of abilities, passions and ambitions.
Blackheath High prioritises...
… preparing young women for life beyond school. Its innovative Futures Programme embeds in them the qualities, ambition, confidence and skills they need to become the leaders and changemakers of tomorrow.
Open Events
Visit Blackheath High throughout the year. Join the school’s annual Open Morning on Saturday 27 September to experience the whole school in action, with lessons, clubs, taster sessions and student-led tours. School in Action mornings offer a glimpse into a typical day –upcoming dates are 9 October (Senior School and Sixth Form) and 16 October (Nursery and Junior School). All events and registration at www.blackheathhighschool. gdst.net/3751/open-days-1, email admissions@bla.gdst.net to arrange a private tour.
Families chats to Robert Milne, the new Head of Dulwich College.
What attracted you to the role of Head of Dulwich College?
Several things: it’s genuine community, which extends across age groups, locations and backgrounds; the commitment to accessibility and social mobility; the ambition of the teachers and warm attitude of the pupils.
How do you think its values align with your own?
I have always seen schools as about relationships and through them, the generation of feelings. If relationships are positive, people feel encouraged and tend to thrive. I’ve seen many instances of warm and good-humoured interactions at the College, which I value greatly.
In through-schools like Dulwich College, students transition seamlessly from Nursery to Juniors to Seniors and into Sixth Form. What are the advantages of this?
For a family and young person, the opportunity to grow up and develop on the same large school site creates a great sense of security, trust and confidence. Over time relationships at all levels are strengthened as a pupil is truly known, recognised and understood.
What is it that makes Dulwich College stand out?
I’d say its scale. Not so much physical scale, although the facilities and spaces certainly help everyone, it’s more the scale of the College’s society that’s so impressive. It allows connections to flourish between Dulwich schools across the world, between teachers from all sectors and between the youngest pupils and oldest alumni. There is a real sense that being part of Dulwich means something special for life.
What are the advantages for boys of a single sex education?
Having taught in both co-ed and single sex schools, I am not sure I could faithfully say that one is better. I can, however, suggest that some young people might enjoy being in a specific school environment and it’s great that parents have such choices. There is a potential value in being able to tailor the curriculum to boys only in the junior and senior years, seeking to specialise through really understanding how boys function best and what makes them happy and motivated.
What has been the biggest achievement and biggest challenge of your career so far?
Probably the pandemic years were the hardest. However, I’d like to feel that my last school, Emanuel, came through them well and even stronger in some important ways and also made great progress over the years. It has been an incredible team effort!
What’s your vision for Dulwich College?
Ask me again in eighteen months please! For now, I am keen to get to know the College and everyone in it. There is so much going on, so many exciting and well-intentioned initiatives and approaches; it will be great to listen, watch and get to know the school.
Describe a typical Dulwich boy.
I’ve now visited the College quite a few times and its biggest appeal, in my eyes, is that there is no typical Dulwich boy. I’ve met pupils from all walks of life, with different personalities, interests and ambitions; what impresses me is that they all seem to feel part of their school and are genuinely happy there. If there is a shared trait of the pupils, I’d suggest that they all seem independent in their thinking!
What co-curricular events are you most looking forward to?
I’ve always enjoyed the wider life of schools and have played active parts in various areas from sports, to Duke of Edinburgh to drama. So far I have met some outstanding colleagues in the creative arts at Dulwich and I am really looking forward to seeing the pupils’ performances. I love sport too, so it will be great to watch the fixtures.
What qualities do you look for in a teacher?
Always the same three qualities: truly know your subject; impart it with ambition, fun and creativity; show you care for the pupils in all ways.
How do you think a Head can make a real difference to an individual pupil?
In lots of ways - from a quick chat in a corridor, to a meeting, a note, assembly or simply being present at events. Pupils are quick to spot if a Head knows them and notices what they and their friends do. They also recognise when a Head listens to them and this can make a big difference, in my experience, even if you can’t always give the answers they want!
What is your most useless skill? Juggling!
What is your real-life superpower?
Not sure at all; I’d like to think that I get on well with pupils and colleagues.
Dulwich College is an independent boys’ school for ages 6 months to 18 years in south east London.
For more information, visit www.dulwich.org.uk
Our girls can explore possibilities that are simply out of this world, like studying GCSE Astronomy at the Royal Observatory. S p ace X are g oin g to M ars. I want to b e part of tha t .
WINNER
Don’t be afraid to ask about a bursary
By Tanya Freeman
My husband and I have always been committed to state education. We both thrived at state school and believed our son, Freddy would too. Besides, school fees were out of the question for our family.
So how did it happen that Freddy actually ended up being educated privately?
The answer is, quite by chance. After crossing fingers that Freddy would be offered a state school place in Reception at one of our top three choices, we were really disappointed to be offered our sixth school choice option. It wasn’t a bad school but it was very large. Freddy, an only child, was reserved and more comfortable with adults than children and we thought he would feel overwhelmed by so many small peers.
At this time, I was acting as a consultant to a small pre-prep school – the equivalent of an infant school - and the day after we received Freddy’s school offer, I happened to mention this in a meeting with them.
A few days later, I was astonished to receive an email from this school asking whether I would be interested in a fully funded school place for Freddy. Nothing like this had ever happened to my husband or I before. We are not people who are serendipitously in the ‘right place at the right time’ – in fact, if there’s any kind of sale, you can guarantee we’ve just bought the item full price the day before! So we were quite incredulous at this offer and felt that it really was too good to miss.
Did we have reservations? Yes. We weren’t sure if our son would ‘fit in’ (or whether we would). We were concerned about what would happen when Freddy turned 8 and returned to the state system. Would he get a place? The school reassured us that Freddy would take the 7+ (an exam for entry to prep school which I was hardly aware of) and that there was every likelihood that we would find a prep school willing to help assist us financially at the next stage of his education too.
Freddy thrived at this small school and received offers from four prep schools at 7+. We discussed financial assistance with each of them. Disclosing our income at one of these meetings, we were asked whether the figure we had mentioned was our total income or what we each earned individually. It was our total income. We wondered whether we might still have been eligible for financial support even if we had earned that amount each
Bursary essentials
Roughly one in three children at an independent school is on some form of fee ‘remission’ and private schools actively canvass for bursary applications. It’s not just senior schools that offer them; some prep schools do too.
A bursary may be taken away if your financial circumstances significantly improve or you might be granted one if you fall on hard times.
A bursary is not a scholarship. Scholarships are awarded to especially talent children but are rarely worth more than 10% of fees.
and whether perhaps you didn’t have to have an exceptionally low income to be considered for financial assistance.
We were offered a partial bursary by the prep school we all liked best where Freddy had an absolutely fabulous four years. He was able to take advantage of so many opportunities that otherwise wouldn’t have been available to him, grew massively in confidence and made firm friends.
It was only when it was time to consider secondary school choices that we fully reviewed Freddy’s experience (and ours too) of the independent schools he’d attended and realised that it had been so positive overall that we would like to explore whether he could continue his educational journey in the independent sector.
Admittedly, we were lucky. Freddy is academic and was offered a place at a number of schools at 11+. Lucky too that the school we all preferred offered bursaries; and that, again we were accepted. This time though, the bursary application was a much more formal process which involved scrutiny of our income and expenditure in reasonable detail. Even so, we were astonished to actually be asked by the independent financial assessor what percentage of bursary we would like!
Many of our peers, who are earning above the average UK family income but can’t afford school fees (at least not in their entirety), don’t realise that a private school bursary could be an option for them too.
So my advice to anyone unhappy with their state school offer or wanting to cast the school net a little wider, is: ‘don’t be afraid to ask.’ The old adage, if you don’t ask, you don’t get has never been more salient.
Tanya Freeman is a writer and mother of Freddy, living in London.
The process of applying
Research local private schools that offer bursaries. Don’t be afraid to call their Admissions offices and ask about bursaries if you see nothing on the school website.
Ask schools you are interested in about bursaries two years before you need one and prepare to be means tested.
Start your private school journey as early as possible - don’t wait for senior school as it can be hard for children to catch up.
Apply for 2026 Nursery and Prep places
Nursery (3+) Jan 2026 entry - Deadline: 22 Sept 2025 Sept 2026 entry - Deadline: 17 Oct 2025
P Prep (7+) Sept 2026 entry - Deadline: 1 Dec 2025
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Help with school fees
Find out more about bursaries and how to apply by scanning the QR code
Bursaries of up to 100% of fees are available
Parent
“I knew it was right for him when we visited the school. Something just felt right, like he belonged there.”
SCHOOL OPEN EVENTS
Autumn 2025
Sydenham High GDST
Girls’ independent prep, senior school and Sixth Form for ages 4 to 18.
Westwood Hill, Sydenham SE26 6BL
020 8557 7000
www.sydenhamhighschool.gdst.net/opendays
BOOK ONLINE
Whole School Open Morning
Saturday 20 September,
Discover what makes Sydenham High such a special place! Hear from the Heads and discover more about the school’s Prep, Senior and Sixth Form offering on a pupil-led tour.
Prep School Open Morning
Wednesday 8 October, 9am-10.30am
Wednesday 5 November, 9am-10.30am
View the Prep School site, hear from the Head of Prep and go on a pupil-led tour.
‘Big School’ Discovery Mornings (ages 4+)
Thursday 13 November, 9am-10am
Thursday 20 November, 9am-10am
Thursday 27 November, 9am-10am
Discover the school’s EYFS curriculum while future pupils make full use of the classrooms and outdoor play spaces.
Blackheath High GDST
Girls’ independent ‘through’ school for ages 3 to 18.
Saturday, 27 September 9am-12pm Juniors, 9.15am-1pm Seniors
Friendly guided tours and the Head’s talk provide a chance to learn how Blackheath High inspires girls with confidence and conviction within the specialised girls-only setting. Junior School and Senior School attendances need booking separately.
School in Action Mornings
Thursday 9 October (Senior School and Sixth Form)
Thursday 16 October (Nursery and Prep) 9am-11am
Experience life at Blackheath High School first-hand, as you take a tour during a normal teaching day. Listen to a talk from a member of the school’s leadership team. Admissions Team available for questions.
Blackheath Prep
Co-educational independent pre-prep and prep school for ages 3 to 11.
4 St Germans Pl, Blackheath, London SE3 0NJ
020 8858 0692
www.blackheathprep.co.uk
BOOK ONLINE
Open Day
Saturday 20 September
Tour the school’s facilities and extensive grounds, meet the senior leadership and Admissions team.
Tuesday tours by appointment
Tour the school on a normal school during term time.
Most Open Events require pre-booking. We have indicated this with BOOK ONLINE below.
Dalmain Primary
Co-educational state primary school and nursery for ages 3 to 11.
Grove Close, Brockley Rise SE23 1AS 020 8699 2675
www.dalmain.lewisham.sch.uk
BOOK BY EMAIL TO attendance@dalmain. lewisham.sch.uk
Stay & Play
Saturday 27 September, 10am-12pm
Tours of the school for parents and caregivers, while children enjoy a free morning of crafts, storytelling, music-making and face painting.
Open Mornings
Wednesdays from 10 September to 17 December (not Oct half term), 9.15am
Prospective parents and carers from all year groups are welcome for tours lasting approximately one hour, showcasing this Ofsted-rated Outstanding school.
Dulwich Prep & Senior School
Boys’ independent through school for ages 3 to 16.
West Dulwich SE21 7AA 020 8766 5500
www.dulwichpreplondon.org/admissions/ tours
BOOK ONLINE according to age of child
Saturday 27 September
Tour the school sites, speak with staff and pupils, hear a talk from the Head Master and discover the school’s bespoke senior offering. The school has two sites - for Nursery & Reception and Years 1 to 9.
Forest Hill School
Boys’ state secondary school and Sixth Form ages 11-18.
Open mornings showcase the school in action with the chance to speak to current students and staff, view the Library resources and hear an address by the Headteacher in the Theatre.
Herne Hill
Co-educational independent pre-school and pre-prep for ages 2 to 7.
A comprehensive visiting experience, with staff on hand to answer questions while visitors tour the highly rated setting.
In-Action Tours
Tours of the Kindergarten and main site during school hours. Email enquiries@ hernehillschool.co.uk for dates and details.
experience the buzz for yourself.
Dulwich College
Boys’ independent ‘through’ school for ages 2 to 18.
Dulwich Common SE21 7LD 020 8693 3601 www.dulwich.org.uk
Junior School Open Days (Years 3/4/5) Book at www.dulwich.org.uk/admissions/ years-3-4-and-5-entry
Saturday 11 October, 9.30am and 11.15am Tour of the school with pupils and talk from the Master and the Head of Junior School. Wednesday 15 October, 1.30pm to 3.30pm Tour of the school with staff, hear from the Head of Junior School and talk to Junior School pupils. Tours are available some Wednesday and Friday mornings. Contact 020 8299 8432 or email to junioradmissions@dulwich.org.uk
Year 7 Open Mornings
Primarily for families looking for Year 7 entry in 2026. Book at www.dulwich.org.uk/ admissions/year-7-entry
The Master and the Head of Lower School will speak at 10.45am, followed by a pupil-led tour. Admissions team available. Saturday 4 October, 8.45am, 10.15am, 11.30am
The Master will speak at 9.00am, 10.30am and 11.45am. All academic subjects and cocurricular activities will be showcased.
Year 7 Midweek Lower School Tours
For families who are looking for Year 7 in September 2026. Book at www.dulwich.org. uk/admissions/year-7-entry
The Head of Lower School will lead group family tours lasting approximately one hour during the school day.
Year 9 Open Afternoons
Primarily for families looking for Year 9 entry in 2028 via deferred/late entry to Year 9 in 2026. Book at www.dulwich.org.uk/ admissions/year-9-entry
Wednesday 10 September, 2.15pm-4.00pm
Tuesday 23 September, 2.15pm-4.00pm
The Master and Head of Middle School will speak at 2.25pm, followed by a pupil-led tour. Admissions team available for questions.
Year 9 Midweek Middle School Tours
Only for families considering Year 9 in September 2026 or September 2028. Book at www.dulwich.org.uk/admissions/year9-entry
Thursday 18 September, 9.45am
Thursday 25 September, 9.45am
The Director of Admissions will lead group family tours lasting approximately one hour.
Developing your preschooler’s literacy through play
By Sophie David
With early education reform continuing to evolve in the UK, there’s increasing focus on HOW children learn, not just what they learn. As the Early Years Foundation Stage (EYFS) continues to shift towards child-centred approaches, it’s essential to remember that play is not a distraction from learning; it IS learning. Especially in the early years, children make sense of the world, build language and develop communication through rich, hands-on, joyful experiences.
Young children thrive in environments that are safe, stimulating and full of opportunities for exploration. Whether it’s splashing in puddles, baking biscuits or chatting before bed, these reallife experiences are the true foundations of literacy. They spark curiosity, support social and emotional development and help children build the confidence to express themselves. Worksheets and screens have their place but they can’t replace the depth of learning that happens through meaningful, playful interaction.
Confidence before letters
Before children can read or write, they need to feel confident in their thoughts, their voices and their ability to make sense of what they see and hear. Literacy begins long before the first book is opened or pencil is held, it starts with expression and connection. When a child feels that their ideas matter and someone is listening, they become more motivated to communicate.
That’s where play shines. Whether they’re going on a ‘sound hunt’ through the house, forming letters in flour or retelling a favourite story with puppets, children naturally explore language through creative play. These playful moments lay the groundwork for phonemic awareness, vocabulary growth and narrative understanding, essential components of early literacy. Importantly, these skills develop in ways that are meaningful, relevant and fun for young learners.
From screens to scenes
In today’s world, screens are a reality for most families. However, passive screen time can limit children’s opportunities to engage in back-and-forth conversation, imaginative play and independent thinking. The goal isn’t to ban screens entirely but to find a healthy balance.
Real-world, interactive experiences offer far richer learning. A
trip to the park, helping to write a shopping list or building a cardboard post office provides children with valuable vocabulary, opportunities to problem-solve and space to imagine. These everyday experiences are filled with chances to use language with purpose, something even the best-designed app can’t fully replicate.
Conversations that count
One of the most powerful tools in developing early literacy is something every parent has: conversation. Talking with your child throughout the day helps develop both expressive (what they say) and receptive (what they understand) language. The more words and ideas children are exposed to, the more prepared they’ll be for future reading and writing.
These conversations don’t have to be elaborate. Describe what you’re doing as you cook. Ask your child to name objects as you tidy up. Tell stories about your day while on a walk. Encourage your child to share their thoughts, ask questions and invent stories. These interactions build vocabulary, deepen comprehension and foster a love for language.
Sophie David is the author of READ, WRITE, PLAY: 100 Easy Ways to Make Phonics Fun for Children Aged 3-7. Available in hardback (£22, Robinson).
Take a class at Grafton Dance Centre
The world’s top competitive ballroom dancers, including stars of Strictly Come Dancing – Shirley Ballas, Anton Du Beck and the late Len Goodman have all trod the boards of Grafton Dance Centre, historically known as Grafton. In 2019 Grafton’s heritage was recognised by Southwark Council’s Blue Plaque award and more recently by Herne Hill Society.
Under the current stewardship of Paul Burbedge, the studio offers so much more now than ballroom dancing alone. Ballet, yoga, pilates and dance fitness are just a few of the classes available to adults and children at Grafton. Tea dances provide company and exercise for the older generation, as well as the LGBTQ+ community.
The Centre boasts a second self-contained kitchen and studio available for children’s parties. With a superb patio and garden area, this is perfect for those summer birthdays which long to be held outside but which also require the convenience of kitchen and toilet facilities close by.
For more information, visit www.graftondancecentre.co.uk
Ignite your child’s passion at PSSA
PSSA (Pop School & Stage Academy) provides professional performing arts training for stage and screen across London. It offers fun and dynamic weekly classes in dance, singing and acting for ages 4-16, packed with incredible performance opportunities throughout the year.
Led by passionate Principal Amelia, PSSA creates a fun, nurturing space where every child can thrive, whether they dream of the spotlight or simply want a confidence boost.
Talented alumni from PSSA shine on TV, film and stage, with many progressing to top-performing arts colleges and careers in the creative industries.
PSSA does more than teach – it uplifts, encourages and inspires.
Ready to see your child shine? Get in touch to find your local PSSA and join the magic today!
For more information, visit www.pssa.co.uk, call 07535 121617 or email infor@pssa.co.uk
Develop acting skills with HAYA
Emerging talent meets world-class actor training at The Hunt Academy for Young Actors (HAYA).
Specialising in stage and screen (not musical theatre), HAYA focuses on developing essential actor skills, audition techniques and working with film, TV and theatre scripts. Its strong industry ties and exclusive actors’ agency offer young actors real professional opportunities. Not just a place to learn, HAYA is where young creatives grow, explore their passion and begin their journey to becoming standout actors.
For more information, visit www.thehuntacademy.co.uk
Help your child Take Flight!
Founded and led by West End professionals, Take Flight Academy provides top quality training in singing, dance and drama for children ages 4 to 18 in Forest Hill/Sydenham and Honor Oak Park/Crofton Park.
Take Flight is THE place for children who want to build life skills, creativity and confidence and it can also help provide a foundation for entry into the industry.
Classes cater for any ability and with everyone getting the most out of their experience. FREE taster available!
For more information, visit www.takeflightacademy.co.uk
Exceptional training at South London Dance School
South London Dance School in Herne Hill offers exceptional dance education for children from 18 months, taught in professional-standard studios.
The school provides exciting performance opportunities alongside high-quality training. Its recent show at The Broadway Theatre, Catford, highlighted students’ impressive technique, confidence and performance skills. Audiences also saw strong friendships and joy shine through each dance. Applications are now open for children to join in September 2025 or in January 2026. Apply through the prospective students’ portal at www.southlondondanceschool.co.uk
Join Razzamataz in Bromley
Razzamataz Bromley is a parttime performing arts school for children aged 4 to 18, offering fun, confidence-building classes in singing, dancing and drama. Students enjoy exciting opportunities, from performing in the West End to overseas trips.
Classes are held every Saturday during term time at Bromley High School.
You can book a FREE taster session by contacting Principal Beth at 07383 543345 or bromley@razzamataz.co.uk
50% sibling discount available.
For more information, visit www.razzamataz.co.uk
Enrolment at www.razzamataz.co.uk/schoo/61/ Bromley/#enrol
Let’s drum with School of Rhythm
Get ready for a spooktacular time in the kitchen with this fun and frightfully fantastic book!
Families is giving five lucky readers the chance to win a copy of My First Halloween Cook Book by David Atherton, winner of The Great British Bake O and beloved children’s cookbook author.
Packed with playful, easy-to-follow recipes perfect for little hands, this colourful book is full of spooky snacks, creepy cakes and ghoulishly good ideas to get kids excited about being in the kitchen.
Giveaway
The award-winning School of Rhythm has just opened two new drum studios in Penge.
Offering Trinity College accredited drum classes for ages 5 to 75, beginner to advanced, sessions run term time and school holidays.
School of Rhythm’s one-to-one drum lessons are as popular as ever but for a noticeably cheaper and tremendously fun alternative, consider a group session.
For more information, visit www.schoolofrhythm.com or text 07930 415185.
From monster mu ins to ghostly pizzas, David’s step-by-step instructions, beautifully illustrated by Jess Rose, make Halloween baking a treat for the whole family. Whether you’re planning a party, getting creative over half term or just want to enjoy some quality time together in the kitchen, this book is perfect. Don’t miss your chance to winenter today and let the Halloween magic begin!
Closing date: 17 October T&Cs at www.bit.ly/mfcbtcs
FREE music lesson and 10% off with Funky
Monkey
Funky Monkey Keyboard Classes return with a fun-packed autumn diary and is again offering a FREE trial and 10% off your first term’s fee!
Enter at www.familiesmag.co.uk/go
Funky Monkey teaches children how to play the electronic keyboard and read and write music, leading to a recognised grade. Designed for 4-8 year old beginners, well-balanced lessons of theory and practical work enable children to learn with their peers and develop confidence, co-ordination and a true love of music!
Register at www.funkymonkey.info or call 01732 457100.
The importance of music in child development
By Lisa Wander and Catherine Noble
‘Music is a more potent instrument than any other for education because rhythm and harmony find their way into the inward places of the soul.’
This quote, often attributed to Plato, highlights the profound impact of music on a child’s emotional and intellectual development, emphasising its ability to engage the soul in a way that other subjects may not. A core creative subject, it fosters creativity, engagement, cognitive and emotional skills, social skills and self-esteem. Excellent music education opens opportunities that stay with children and shape their lives.
Playing a key role in brain development and impacting various areas of cognitive function, music engages both sides of the brain, thereby improving learning and memory, as well as supporting language acquisition and literacy development.
Songs with rhymes and repetition help develop vocabulary and phonemic awareness. Listening to music and melodies exposes children to a wider range of words and phrases and trains memory skills and recall. Did you know that music is the only thing that stimulates your entire brain? When children can’t hear you because they are concentrating on something else, try singing to them!
Music can have a huge impact on a child’s social and emotional development. It allows children to creatively express emotions which may be difficult to articulate through words alone. As Hans Christian Andersson wrote: ‘Where words fail, music speaks.’ This emotional outlet works on developing empathy and emotional intelligence. In addition, exposure to music has been proven to reduce stress and anxiety in children. It creates a calming, positive and engaging environment that enhances overall mental well-being and readiness to learn.
Touching hearts and minds, music is a cornerstone of the broad and balanced education that every child should receive; it celebrates and challenges, it connects and moves us.
In the same way that we teach children literacy and numeracy to prepare them for adult life, we must give them the musical tools they need for a lifetime of music-making and enjoyment. For some, music will be the foundation of a career in one of the
country’s most important and globally-recognised industries. For others, it will provide experiences and skills which develop their creativity.
For many, music will simply be a source of joy, comfort and companionship throughout their lives.
Positive effects of music on the brain
Music offers children a unique lens through which to explore cultures, traditions and even history, helping broaden their perspective and understanding of the world around them.
Musical rhythms introduce basic mathematical concepts, for example sequencing and analysing patterns. Research shows a strong correlation between musical training and improved mathematical abilities.
Activities like clapping, dancing and playing musical instruments require the integration of hand, eye and auditory co-ordination which improves fine and gross motor skills.
Musical improvisation, composition and interpretation all foster innovative thinking and problem-solving skills, crucial for overall intellectual growth.
Performing music nurtures self-confidence and provides a sense of achievement, particularly when children have the opportunity to perform in front of an audience.
Lisa and Catherine are co-founders of Emparenting (www.emparenting.co.uk), supporting children, parents and families with the insights, skills and tools needed to nurture the development and well-being of the next generation.
Balham, Beckenham, Clapham, Dulwich, Herne Hill, Streatham
Top local kids’ classes
Funky Monkey Keyboard Classes in Blackheath, Beckenham, East Dulwich, Herne Hill and Sydenham
Fun-packed group electronic keyboard lessons for 4-8 year olds. Read, write & play music with its unique scheme! Term classes, holiday courses, online tutorials. FREE Trial + 10% off first term’s fees.
Contact: Mrs Ali Edwards 01732 457100 mail@funkymonkey.info
www.funkymonkey.info
Calling All Young Actors!
Hunt Academy for Young Actors (HAYA) in Brockley
Unleash your talent with industryleading acting classes! HAYA sparks imagination, develops real screen and stage skills and empowers young performers to explore, create and thrive in the exciting world of acting.
We are also an Agency!
Contact: info@thehuntacademy.co.uk
www.thehuntacademy.co.uk
Little Rackets in Herne Hill
Little Rackets runs group tennis coaching classes for children age 3+ in Brockwell Park throughout term time. The team teaches racket and ball skills in a sociable, fun and interactive environment, improving confidence, technique and sharing its love for the sport.
Grafton Dance Centre is a historic, warm and inviting space that provides opportunities to dance, keep fit and nurture your well-being, all under one roof. All ages welcome.
An award-winning music school, where children and adults can now enjoy exciting Group Drum Lessons on electronic drum kits! Save 30% compared to one-to-one tuition. These drum sessions are held all year including school holidays.
Pop School and Stage Academy (PSSA) in Beckenham and Crystal Palace
PSSA provides performing arts training for stage and screen. Classes for ages 4-16 year in Beckenham (Fri/Sun) and Crystal Palace (Mon). Students are working towards a professionally staged production of High School Musical Jr in July.
Contact: 07535 121617 info@pssa.co.uk
www.pssa.co.uk
forget to say you saw them
Take Flight Academy in Forest Hill/Sydenham, Honor Oak Park/Crofton Park
Founded and led by West End professionals, Take Flight Academy provides top quality training in singing, dance and drama for ages 4-18. Classes build life skills, creativity and confidence in every child. FREE taster available!
Offers ballet, tap, modern, commercial/ street and contemporary classes for children and adults. Fantastic teachers make classes for young children fun and inspiring. Outstanding care for each individual child ensures students develop confidence alongside skill.
Contact: 020 7978 8624
www.southlondondanceschool.co.uk
Charisma Gymnastics Club in Dulwich
‘Happiness Breeds Success’ at Charisma where children ages 3-18 learn gymnastics skills including tumbling, vaulting, bar skills and beam moves at Dulwich College Sports Centre and Dulwich Prep London. Fully qualified British Gymnastics Coaches, specialised equipment, safe environment.
Contact: charismagcmanagemnt@gmail.com
www.charismagymnastics.co.uk
DANCE
Razzamataz in Bromley Dance, sing, act, shine! At Razzamataz Bromley, kids ages 4-18 grow in confidence, creativity and make friends through fun performing arts classes. From musicals to street dance, drama and singing, learn skills for life. FREE taster. 50% sibling discount.
Contact: Alexandra 07383 543345 bromley@razzamataz.co.uk www.razzamataz.co.uk
Half term fun at Rackets Academy
Looking for an action-packed holiday camp this October? Rackets Academy returns from Monday 20 to Friday 31 October (weekdays only) in Dulwich Village, offering expert-led sports camps for children aged 5-11 years. Your child can enjoy full-day sessions focused on football, cricket, rugby and tennis at the Griffin Sports Club. Talented coaches use specially designed lesson plans that improve technique, boost confidence and most importantly - keep it fun!
now at www.racketsacademy.co.uk, call 07506 716418 or email sports@racketsacademy.co.uk
A whole new parenting world
By Ann Magalhaes
In the twenty-two years since I became a mum, parenting advice has shifted from trusty books like What to Expect and Gina Ford’s routines to sleek apps, algorithms and an endless stream of online advice. New mums today sip their much-needed coffees while scrolling TikTok and Instagram for information and inspiration.
What has changed?
For starters, once the baby phase passes, many parents are turning to evidence-based parenting classes. These offer practical, science-backed ways to help families thrive. Research continues to show that everyday routines, the words we choose and the way we say them and how we support our children through big feelings all contribute to nurturing their development.
And one truth remains: parents are still their child’s first and most important teacher.
Today’s parents benefit from easy-to-digest information about how a child’s brain develops and how that connects to their behaviour. Neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett, in her book 7½ Lessons About the Brain, says: ‘Little brains wire themselves to their world. It’s up to us to create that world … to grow those brains healthy and whole.’
It’s a good reminder that the little things matter. Reading, singing, snuggling, just being there still matter more than any educational toy ever could.
Emotional wellness
One big change (and it’s a good one!) is how emotional wellness is at the forefront of family life. Parents are learning about the
Older fathers on the rise
The number of babies born to older fathers is on the rise, says the Office for National Statistics (ONS). Notable examples include Rod Stewart, who became a dad at 65, and Robert De Niro at 79. Professor Allan Pacey, a fertility expert, notes men over 40 are about half as fertile as men in their mid-20s, making this trend particularly interesting.
Births to parents under 30 have dropped, as more people delay starting families. The biggest decrease is among mothers under 20, with births falling by nearly 5%.
Despite a global trend of declining birth rates, England saw a slight increase in 2024, with 567,708 live births - a 0.7% rise from the previous year. Wales, on the other hand, saw a 2% decrease. Greg Ceely of the ONS said the overall rise in England and Wales reverses a recent downward trend, though delayed parenthood is becoming more common.
More information at www.ons.gov.uk
‘4 S’s’ - making sure children feel safe, seen, soothed and secure. And that’s not just good for the kids, it’s great for the whole family.
Dads are more involved than ever, especially since the pandemic saw us working from home and figuring out how to balance work with family life. Today’s parents work more as a partnership, with both mums and dads actively in the mix. Is it perfect yet? No. But the progress is positive.
The rise of baby apps
Today’s 30-year-old mum was 12 when the iPhone came out. She’s tech-savvy - and now there’s an app for everything! One new mum uses Huckleberry, an app she describes as ‘super user-friendly’ and a ‘huge help during those overwhelming early weeks.’
At first, the app helped her track things like weight, sleep and feeding, data she could easily share with her GP. I asked if it ever made her feel like she wasn’t doing enough (because apps can sometimes make us feel that way!). She laughed and said: ‘I always feel like I’m not doing enough as a new mum but I wouldn’t say the app itself is contributing to that!’
So, yes, mum guilt is still a thing. No matter what, parents still feel like they’re falling short, even when they’re doing more than enough.
Positive discipline
One big shift I’ve noticed is in discipline. Thanks to social media and the abundance of advice floating around (some excellent, some less so), more parents are moving away from old-school punishments, threats, bribes and shouting. Instead, they’re learning that authoritative parenting, based on warmth, connection and firm boundaries, is the most effective way to support a child’s emotional development and learning.
In the 1960s, psychologist Diana Baumrind identified key parenting styles and. her ‘authoritative’ style - firm but warm, with clear expectations and positive relationships continues to be the sweet spot for raising well-adjusted kids.
Some things never change
Life today may be faster and busier than it was twenty-two years ago, but some things haven’t changed. Children of all ages don’t need the fanciest toys or the trendiest gear. They need you: your time, your love, your calm and steady presence.
We like to remind parents that they are enough, that their family is unique and doesn’t need to match anyone else’s. As children grow, learn, make mistakes, gain competencies and become independent, the best way to help them is by embracing positive, connected parenting. Yes, you may still feel exhausted (because parenting is really hard sometimes) but you’ll find greater calm and joy amidst the chaos.
As Gretchen Rubin wrote: ‘The days are long, but the years are short. So ... cuddle that baby, or toddler, or tween or teen ... because it goes by so quickly!’
Ann Magalhaes is part of The Parent Team (www.theparent. team), parenting educators offering classes, workshops and private sessions teaching evidence-based parenting skills and offering parents practical, effective support.
The Quality Time revolution: building a more connected family
By Rachel Jones
How many of us suffer from chronic over-scheduling?
Demanding jobs, childcare, school runs, social and extracurricular commitments leave little space for family life. On average, we devote less than half an hour’s quality time to our child each day. If they’re also spending a lot of time unsupervised on screens, it’s no wonder that parent guilt is very real.
Time spent on social media tends to compound that guilt. While giving us a big dose of the addictive hormone dopamine, it can also trigger feelings of inadequacy or emptiness. By contrast, oxytocin (the ‘love hormone’) is released during simple social interaction. It peaks during childbirth but plays a crucial role throughout life in family bonding and parent-child relationships.
I’m a great believer in encouraging lots of ‘offline’ activities. It doesn’t matter what - paddleboarding, cake decorating, wood whittling, drawing. Don’t just watch from the sidelines, join inshared play is excellent for adults too!
If you have two or more children and can manage ‘us’ time with each individually, it’s powerful. Regular, focused attention builds children’s self-esteem and reduces negative attention-seeking behaviour. Involve your child in everyday routines like cooking or gardening or create special rituals like a weekly games night or sharing a TV series.
When it comes to time spent with our children, quality invariably trumps quantity. According to bestselling author and pastor, Gary Chapman, quality time is one of a human’s five love languages. Simply making time for each other means more than words or gifts ever could.
The dinner table can be a powerful place for open connection, active listening and sharing opinions. Use mealtimes to
Quality tween time
The teen years steal the limelight but your child will need extra support between ages 8 and 12. It’s a time of huge emotional and social development as their bodies change and hormones undergo a big surge. Pressures pile in and selfesteem can be shaken.
When you as a parent feel pushed away, it can feel hard to encourage quality time without invading your child’s space. Don’t take their anger or frustration to heart – it isn’t aimed at you. Listen, REALLY listen, calmly and with empathy. Show you’re on their team and make them feel ‘seen.’
Give them more space but also express your love through tiny acts. A little message on their mirror, a note in their lunchbox or leaving a flower in their room can be really a simple way of connecting when life is busy.
Simple age-appropriate activities to enjoy together could be a home spa night, bike ride or café trip. And don’t feel you need to fill every silence either – sometimes just being together, quietly content, is more than enough.
celebrate achievements and ask open-ended questions. The following simple gratitude practice can be very effective; each person has to name their rose, thorn and bud from the day or week:
Rose: what was a highlight and what are you grateful for?
Thorn: what didn’t go so well?
Bud: what are you looking forward to?
By prioritising quality time with our children, we build stronger bonds and foster emotional wellbeing. Simple moments around the table or sharing activities have a profound impact on our relationships. Putting down devices and being present with our children will reap the rewards of a more connected family.
Rachel is the proprietor of Re:treat (www.retreat.me.uk) which runs family wellness retreats and parent and t(w)ween spa days in West Berkshire, providing parents and children with a unique opportunity to connect and enjoy new experiences together. Follow @retreatberks on social.
Sideways listening
Some children feel uncomfortable and clam up when you try to talk while staring into their eyes. When the words aren’t coming face-to-face, you could try sideways listening – starting a conversation when you’re side by side, such as in the car or on a walk. It also works well when you’re both absorbed in an activity together like arts and crafts, chores or cooking. It’s perfect at bedtime after lights out.
This approach can feel more natural and less intimidating, making it easier for your child to initiate conversations or share difficult topics. The lack of intense eye contact can create a more relaxed space for them to talk about anything that might be worrying them. You may be surprised how much children share when they feel less pressured.
The secret is actively listening and letting your child lead the conversation while you comment more than question.
Set up this routine in early childhood and you’ll be laying the foundation for a healthy and open relationship into the teen years and beyond.
What’s on
Compiled by Robina Cowan
All details are as provided when going to press. However, in case of changed plans, do double-check before setting out.
27-31 Oct
Charisma Gymnastics Club
Holiday Camps
27-31 Oct
Funky Monkey ‘Frightful Fingers’
Keyboard Classes
Waggle those witchy fingers in 3-hour workshops! Making music the fun way on keyboards, children learn to write and play music plus basic keyboard technique, in small classes with a spooky twist! All equipment provided. Ages 4-8. Herne Hill, East Dulwich, Beckenham and Streatham www.funkymonkey.info
20-24 & 27-31 Oct
Mother Nature Science Camps Award-winning week-long camps, filled with science sessions and experiments, indoor and outdoor science-based play. For October, things get spooky! Ages 5-12. SE1, SE3, SE16 and SE21 www.mnature.co.uk
27-31 Oct
Global Camps
A unique mix of foreign language learning, sports coaching, arts & crafts and outdoor adventure to keep young ones active and engaged during all school holidays. Ages 4-12. Kelvin Grove School SE26 6BB www.globalcamps.co.uk
Join the fun in a safe, happy environment with experienced, qualified coaches. Ages 5-16. Dulwich College Sports Centre SE21 www.charismagymnastics.co.uk
27-31 Oct
Pop School and Stage Academy Camps
Join PSSA this October half term for spooktacular singing, devilish dancing and awesome acting inspired by Broadway’s hits, with iconic songs from Wicked, Harry Potter and Addams Family, plus Halloween inspired theatre games. Camp finishes with a showcase for family and friends. Perfect for mini monsters aged 4-12. Beckenham, Fulham, Streatham & Wandsworth www.pssa.classforkids.io/camps
ONGOING
Daily Family Space at The National Gallery
The National Gallery is home to one of the greatest collections of paintings in the world. With a dedicated family space at weekends and holidays, there’s a place to
Family fun at Blackheath Halls this autumn
This autumn, beloved storybook characters come alive at Blackheath Halls with a magical season of live entertainment running from September to December. From enchanted forests to outer space adventures, the carefully curated lineup promises to captivate young imaginations. The season kicks off with Boppin’ Bunnies’ interactive music extravaganza (Sat 4 Oct), where little ones can shake maracas, bang drums and discover the joy of live music together. Journey into the deep dark wood with The Gruffalo’s Child (Sat 18-Sun 19 Oct), then be swept away by the captivating new ballet Hansel & Gretel (Tue 28 Oct).
Science enthusiasts will love Mark Thompson’s Spectacular Science Show (Sun 2 Nov), bringing jaw-dropping experiments to the stage, while The Smeds and The Smoos (Sat 8-Sun 9 Nov) delivers colourful intergalactic fun for all ages.
connect, play and find out more about some of your favourite paintings. FREE. Trafalgar Square WC2N 5DN www.nationalgallery.org.uk
Until 4 Jan
Pirates Exhibition at National Maritime Museum
Uncover the changing depictions of pirates through the ages and across the globe. Accounts of real pirates include Edward ‘Blackbeard’ Teach, William Kidd, Anne Bonny and Mary Read. Ages 10+. Greenwich SE10 9NF www.rmg.co.uk/national-maritimemuseum
WEEKLY
Mon
Stay & Play at Bellingham Family Hub
Parents and carers - help your child learn through messy play, craft activities, singing and more. 10-11.15am ages 0-18 months. 1-2pm ages 0-8. FREE drop-in. Randlesdown Road SE6 3HB www.lewishamfamilyhubs.org.uk
Tue
Rhyme Time at Forest Hill Library
Drop-in every week for joyful, hosted singing sessions. Suitable for babies, toddlers and pre-schoolers. 10am FREE, donations welcome. Forest Hill Library SE23 3HZ www.fhlibrary.co.uk/rhyme-time
Starseed Bump & Baby Soundbath at Stanley Arts
A gentle morning cocoon of crystal singing bowls, songs, chimes and other harmonic instruments. Rest, regulate and reconnect with your baby or bump. South Norwood SE25 6AB www.stanleyarts.org
Wed
Natter with a Nav at Bellingham Family Hub
Are you looking for a welcoming space to connect, chat and unwind? This weekly, navigated session is the perfect opportunity for parents, carers, children and young people to drop in for support and advice. 3.15-4.30pm, FREE. Drop-in. Randlesdown Road SE6 3HB www.lewishamfamilyhubs.org.uk
Thu
Baby Bounce at Forest Hill Library
Join Simone every week for songs, stories, nursery rhymes, play and bubbles. Mums, dads and carers welcome with under 5s. 2-3pm, FREE drop-in, donations welcome. Forest Hill Library SE23 3HZ www.fhlibrary.co.uk/baby-bounce
Fri
Family Fridays at Dulwich Picture Gallery
FREE, expressive art-inspired activities for families.
Cutty Sark Rig Climb Experience Climb the rigging of Cutty Sark to get a taste of what it would have been like to sail the historic ship, all the while enjoying views of the Thames and London like no other. Ages 10+.
King William Walk SE10 9HT www.rmg.co.uk/cutty-sark/ attractions/cutty-sark-rig-climbexperience
Sat Character Encounters at National Maritime Museum
Guided tours bringing to life stories from the museum. Ages 5+. Romney Road SE10 9NF www.rmg.co.uk/national-maritimemuseum
Family Craft Activities at Horniman Museum and Gardens
Learn about some of the 350,000 objects in the Horniman’s collections and discover more about music, nature, wildlife and the world around us as you get stuck into some crafts and have fun at these volunteer-run sessions for all the family. Ages 3+. FREE, drop-in.
London Road SE23 3PQ www.horniman.ac.uk
Sun
Art Sundays at Dulwich Picture Gallery
Be inspired to make art together as a family in these FREE monthly creative workshops at the Gallery. Book first.
Set in the stunning surroundings of the sculpture garden, this produceled market is a must-visit for lovers of fresh, organic food and artisanal crafts.
Meet historical characters connected to the Queen’s House and take part in exciting performances. FREE. Queen’s House SE10 9NF www.rmg.co.uk
WEEKENDS
Meet the Crew at HMS Belfast Delve into life onboard the ship through eye-witness accounts of sailors and hands-on objects. Ages 7+.
The Queen’s Walk SE1 2JH www.iwm.org.uk/hms-belfast
Family Activities at HMS Belfast
Step on board this iconic London landmark. Navigate your way around the rooms, climbing up and down ladders to visit all nine decks. Family activities run every weekend and every day during the school holidays. The Queen’s Walk SE1 2JH www.iwm.org.uk/hms-belfast
Story Seekers at Imperial War Museum
Every one of the objects at Imperial War Museum London has a story to tell. Follow a trail to discover compelling real-life stories of bravery. Ages 5+. FREE, drop-in. IWM, Lambeth Road SE1 6HZ www.iwm.org.uk
Meet the Characters at Cutty Sark
The annual celebration of the river’s vibrancy and importance. Events include dance, music, film, mudlarking, walks, talks, foreshore clean-ups, Thames cruises and The Great River Race. www.thamesfestivaltrust.org HALF-TERM CAMPS & WORKSHOPS
With affordable tickets and welcoming staff, enjoy the perfect family day out this season at Blackheath Halls. Full listings and tickets at www.blackheathhalls.com
Meet the captain, chat with the cook, and take a tour with Nannie the Figurehead!
King William Walk SE10 9HT www.rmg.co.uk/cuttysark
SEPTEMBER
1-30 Sep
Totally Thames Festival
5+12 Sep
Rug Rhymes at Southbank
Join a welcoming, playful session run by National Poetry Library staff, perfect for introducing under 5s to a love of stories and poems. Ages 0-5. Royal Festival Hall, SE1 8XX www.southbankcentre.co.uk
6 Sep Brassworks 2025 at Woolwich Works
The festival of horns returns and will feature a parade through Woolwich, and a full day of FREE outdoor concerts in the courtyard. The Fireworks Factory, 11 No 1 Street, SE18 6HD www.woolwich.works/whats-on
6-7 Sep
ArtPlay Festival at Dulwich Picture Gallery
A weekend of family fun to launch the Gallery’s brand-new ArtPlay Pavilion and Sculpture Garden. Enjoy a vibrant programme packed with activities designed to spark creativity and joy for families and little ones. FREE but book first. Gallery Road SE21 7AD www.dulwichpicturegallery.org.uk
7 Sep Mini Movers and Grown Up Groovers at Stanley Arts
These family dance workshops offer a fun and creative opportunity for children and their grownups to dance and move together!
12 South Norwood Hill, SE25 6AB www.stanleyarts.org/events
13 Sep
Wonder Day at Southwark Integrated Waste Management Facility
Ever wondered what happens to your recycling? Southwark Integrated Waste Management Facility (IWMF) opens its doors as part of Heritage Open Days for its annual fun-filled, family-friendly Wonder Day! FREE. 43 Devon Street SE15 1AL www.heritageopendays.org.uk
13-14 & 20-21 Sep
Sydenham Artists Trail
Now in its seventeenth year, follow the trail to discover the works of over one hundred local artists, filmmakers, printers, etchers, ceramists, jewellers and more in studios, public venues and family homes, including workshops. Across SE26
www.sydenhamarts.co.uk
13 Sep & 11 Oct
SENsory Sailors at National Maritime Museum
A monthly session for families with children with special educational needs and disabilities, led by a SEND specialist. Romney Road SE10 9NF
www.rmg.co.uk/national-maritimemuseum
18-21 Sep
Peckham Festival
A weekend of art, music, performances, markets, workshops and activities celebrating the area’s diversity and vibrant creativity. FREE. Copeland Park, Peckham Levels and surrounds, SE15 www.peckhamfestival.org
19-21 Sep
International Talk Like a Pirate Day Weekend at National Maritime Museum
Celebrate International Talk Like a Pirate Day by dressing up like a pirate and joining in with talks, character actors, prizes and a 2-for-1 discount on tickets for the Pirates exhibition. Ooh-aarr! Ages 7+. National Maritime Museum SE10 9NF
www.rmg.co.uk/national-maritimemuseum
20 Sep
Bermondsey Street Festival
Immerse yourself in a bustling atmosphere as the street transforms into one of London’s best FREE street festivals. It’s a car-free thoroughfare adorned with an array of arts and crafts stalls, tasty food, with onstage activities and music performances. Children can enjoy the community and wellbeing area in the Leather Market Gardens which includes the Maypole and Dog Show. Bermondsey SE1 www.bermondseystreetfestival.com
20 Sep Tudor & Black History Adventure for Kids
Interactive family adventure through Southwark exploring Black Tudor history. Help solve the silk thief mystery while discovering Reasonable Blackman’s story. Fun, engaging walk with riddles for children aged 7-11. Book first. Rose Alley SE1 9AS www.heritageopendays.org.uk
Enjoy Magical Merlin this half term
Families are in for a magical treat this October half term as Magical Merlin returns to the West End for a strictly limited run.
Presented by Perform Productions, this enchanting minimusical will play daytime performances at St. Martin’s Theatre from Monday 27 October to Sunday 2 November. With a spellbinding mix of magic, songs and dancing and uplifting themes of friendship and self-belief, Magical Merlin promises a fun family day out. For ages 3+, runs 1 hour. Book at www.magicalmerlin.show
20 Sep Safe Harbour at National Maritime Museum
FREE workshops within a friendly and welcoming space, run by support organisations for foster and adoptive families with children under 13. Romney Road, SE10 9NF www.rmg.co.uk/national-maritimemuseum
21 Sep
End-of-Summer Family Rave
Acclaimed DJ The Orb plays an eclectic rave set of proper club tunes with a strong festival vibe. Dance together on a dance floor filled with bubbles and balloons in an amazing outdoor venue. 2-4pm, adults with under 8s.
Fox and Firkin SE13 6JZ www.bigfishlittlefishevents.com
21 Sep
Heritage Open Day at Woolwich Works
Join Woolwich Works to celebrate Heritage Open Day with a brimming programme of activity, for all ages, taking place across the building. The Fireworks Factory, 11 No 1 Street, SE18 6HD www.woolwich.works/whats-on
27 Sep
Film100 Guinness World Records Event at Old Royal Naval College
Step into the spotlight and help make film history with a spectacular Guinness World Records™ attempt! Fans, families and film lovers of all ages are invited to dress as characters from films created at the Old Royal Naval College, in an official Guinness World Records attempt for the largest gathering of people dressed as screen characters - and best of all, it’s FREE!
Old Royal Naval College SE10 9LW www.ornc.org/whats-on/guinnessworld-record
27 Sep
Caribbean Takeover at National Maritime Museum
This annual festival celebrating Caribbean culture will be filled with talks, workshops, creative activities, food and dancing, curated by the Museum’s partners, the Caribbean Social Forum. All ages. FREE. National Maritime Museum and Queens House, SE10 9NF www.rmg.co.uk/national-maritimemuseum
27 Sep & 25 Oct
Ms Carry’s Storytime for Children
Join Ms. Carry each month as she brings a beautifully illustrated storybook to life in a fun, engaging environment. Storytime and crafts combine to spark a love of books and readings. 12pm. All ages. FREE. Forest Hill Library SE23 https://buff.ly/RxnTvcU
27 Sep & 25 Oct
Family Space at South London Gallery
On the last Saturday of every month, the gallery hosts FREE children’s art activities. Peckham Road SE5 8UH www.southlondongallery.org
OCTOBER
3-5 Oct
Fun Palaces 2025
A day out for all where members of the public share their skills, talent and knowledge for FREE, such as the arts, DIY, gardening and more. Various venues www.funpalaces.co.uk
3+17 Oct
Rug Rhymes at Southbank
Join a welcoming, playful session run by National Poetry Library staff, perfect for introducing under-5s to a love of stories and poems. Ages 0-5. Royal Festival Hall, SE1 8XX www.southbankcentre.co.uk
7+8 Oct , 4+5 Nov
Family Fun Weekends at Cutty Sark Climb aboard for family-friendly workshops and activities for all ages on the first weekend of every month. King William Walk SE10 9HT www.rmg.co.uk/cuttysark
11-12 Oct
Catford Arts Trail
Over one hundred local artists and makers will showcase their creations, offer FREE workshops and of course, provide the opportunity to purchase original one-off pieces. Various venues SE6 www.catfordarts.org
21 Oct-2 Nov
London Literature Festival
The eighteenth edition of the capital’s leading literary event. This year’s festival has a programme that promises unforgettable experiences. Southbank Centre SE1 8XX www.southbankcentre.co.uk
Discover Ocean Map at the National Maritime Museum
This autumn, families can navigate across the giant Ocean Map and dive into a transformed Ocean Court space at the National Maritime Museum.
While other maps focus on countries, the Ocean Map is all about water! Look closely and you can learn about major port cities and see the silhouettes of twenty different creatures, from the colossal squid to the wandering albatross – how many can you spot?
FREE entry from 10am to 5pm.
More information at www.rmg.co.uk/oceanmap
Now your little master builders can help you with DIY!
Practical storage case with:
Screwdirver
Wrenches
Nuts & screws
Construction elements
Screw together your own vehicle from the kit included
(Drill not included)
2 available
Use QR code or apply at familiesmag.co.uk/go
Connecting famiies with Creative Nature
In the hush of the woods, something ancient stirs. A rhythm older than cities, waiting to be remembered.
Join Creative Nature in the woods for hands-on workshops that celebrate ancient rural crafts. Through whittling, willow weaving, natural dyeing and woodland skills, families are invited to slow down, breathe more deeply and reconnectwith their hands, with the land and with each other.
From forest workshops in Lesnes Abbey Woods to its riverside studio in Woolwich, Creative Nature offers a space to make, mend and rediscover. Quiet, repetitive actions, like shaping wood, steeping plants and twisting fibers, are spells of a kind. They return us to something real.
This is more than a workshop. It’s a return to story, to rhythm, to self. And there are many ways to begin: attend a session, become a member or simply walk with us awhile.
Come home to your creative nature.
For more information, visit www.creativenature.info
rmg.co.uk/oceanmap
WHAT’S ON
25 Oct
Telling Tales with Michael Rosen at Shakespeare’s Globe
Michael Rosen leads a journey of storytelling, poetry and imagination as part of the Globe’s Telling Tales event, including an author Q&A. Shakespeare’s Globe SE1 9DT www.shakespearesglobe.com
25 Oct
Enchanted Cinema at Woolwich Works
An interactive screening of the classic Studio Ghibli film, ideal for children aged 4+ and their grownups who team up to become the magical orchestra!
The Fireworks Factory, 11 No 1 Street, SE18 6HD www.woolwich.works/whats-on
25-30 Oct
Alphabet Soup at Southbank
Get stuck into family workshops and activities to create delicious poems and stories with A Line Art. Clore Ballroom, Southbank SE1 8XX www.southbankcentre.co.uk
25 Oct–2 Nov
Halloween Half Term at Eltham Palace
Treat your little monsters to a ghoulishly good day out this half term. Follow the trail to solve creepy clues and gather round to listen to spooky stories.
Family Workshops at Shakespeare’s Globe Fun, get-involved family sessions exploring Shakespeare’s Macbeth, Twelfth Night and The Tempest. Ages 5-8 and 9-11. Shakespeare’s Globe SE1 9DT www.shakespearesglobe.com
1 Nov Blackheath Fireworks
Back for the first time in six years, bringing a fun-filled evening for the whole family, with an exciting programme of activities. Book first. Blackheath SE3 www.slamminevents.com
BLACKHEATH HALLS
Lee Road SE3 9RQ www.blackheathhalls.com
4 Oct
Boppin’ Bunnies Interactive Music Extravaganza
Little ones can shake maracas, bang drums,and discover the joy of live music together.
18-19 Oct
The Gruffalo’s Child
Follow the Gruffalo’s Child on her adventurous mission. Songs, laughs and scary fun for all! Ages 3+.
28 Oct
Hansel & Gretel
The Let’s All Dance ballet company presents this captivating new ballet, adapted from the original Brothers Grimm fairytale into a stage show about courage, family bonds and the power of love. Ages 2-12.
CHURCHILL THEATRE
High Street Bromley BR1 1HA www.trafalgartickets.com/ churchill-theatre-bromley
10 Oct
Baby Broadway Family Concert
A fun interactive family concert of songs from hit musicals and films featuring West End singers. Enjoy the bubbles, puppets, actions and dance moves together. Ages 0-7.
12 Oct
The Dinosaur that Pooped a Rock Show!
Have a poopy good time in this brand-new, song-filled stage show,
BELONG
At Creative Nature, families and friends gather to woodwork, whittle, weave, and more, under the trees of Lesnes Abbey Forest We reconnect to the land through hands-on and heart-full craft
adapted from the best-selling books by Tom Fletcher and Dougie Poynter.
25 Oct Justin Time to Rock
See CBeebies’ megastar Justin Fletcher live on stage, in an allsinging, all-dancing extravaganza packed full of well-known songs, lots of dancing, hilarious comedy and plenty of rocktastic fun!
SOUTHBANK
Belvedere Road SE1 8XX www.southbankcentre.co.uk
28 Sep
Meet the Instruments at Southbank Come along and meet Aurora Orchestra’s instruments in an all-singing, all-dancing interactive family concert. Ages 4-8.
29 Oct–2 Nov
Mog the Forgetful Cat
Join Mog and the Thomas family as the tale of everyone’s favourite cat comes to the stage. Ages 3+.
STANLEY ARTS
12 South Norwood Hill SE25 6AB www.stanleyarts.org
28 Sep
The Ultimate Bubble Show
Ray Bubbles, International Bubbleologist and Guinness World Record Holder, is on a mission to master the art of bubble-making and create the ultimate square bubble! Prepare to be amazed as Ray creates a volcano bubble, a soap bubble carousel, a bubble ghost and even a tornado inside a bubble! All ages. Tickets from £10.
THE BROADWAY, CATFORD Rushey Green SE6 4RU www.broadwaytheatre.org.uk
4-12 Oct
SEEN Lewisham
An exciting line-up of performances, workshops and FREE family activities featuring culturally diverse artists. On 11 October, SEEN Lewisham Market will celebrate local businesses’ fashion, crafts, food, books and more.
UNICORN THEATRE
Tooley Street SE1 2HZ www.unicorntheatre.com
27 Sep–2 Nov
The Three Little Pigs
Full of catchy songs, humour and fun, this ‘very curly musical tail’ will leave you squealing with glee and howling with laughter. Ages 3-7.
3 Oct–16 Nov
Anansi The Spider
Following a sold-out run in 2023, these classic West African and Caribbean folk tales about the mischievous spider who triumphs over larger foes are brought vividly to life. Ages 4-8.
15 Nov-3 Jan
How Does Santa Go Down the Chimney?
Join us for a thrilling fusion of physical comedy, live music and anarchic fun! Ages 2+.
VARIOUS VENUES
Bach to Baby Concerts
Critically-acclaimed live classical concerts for babies and their grownups.
16 Sep + 21 Oct in East Dulwich
18 Sep + 23 Oct in Blackheath
21 Sep + 19 Oct in Borough
5 Oct in Greenwich
29 Sep + 27 Oct in Dulwich Village www.bachtobaby.com
Bring Your Own Baby Comedy
A funny, friendly afternoon of top comedy, where baby can come too and join in with the rumpus. Shows feature a new line up of comedians each month. Grownups plus under 12mths.
11 Sep in Greenwich
30 Sep in Crystal Palace www.byobcomedy.com
WOOLWICH WORKS
The Fireworks Factory, 11 No 1 Street, SE18 6HD www.woolwich.works/whats-on
11 Oct
Baby Broadway Family Concert
A fun interactive family concert of songs from hit musicals and films featuring West End singers. Enjoy the bubbles, puppets, actions and dance moves together. Ages 0-7.
THEATRE
SKILLS TO LAST A LIFETIME
Give your family essential skills and confidence in and around water. Save a spot with Swimbies for babies and toddlers, Better Swim School for kids or swimming lessons for adults.
Learn to swim at Better leisure centres in Greenwich and Lewisham
