STELA JANTZEN
Stela Jantzen was born and raised in Enid, Oklahoma. In 2003, she graduated from Enid High School, and she went on to Oklahoma State University where she earned a degree in Apparel Merchandising. Now she’s married to Riley Jantzen, and together they have a son whose name is Owen.
In Enid, Stela is well-known and adored by many. With her current position at Park Avenue Thrift, it’s safe to say she is making a difference as she works tirelessly to run one of Enid’s most well-known philanthropic organizations. Park Avenue Thrift is a nonprofit organization, and as Executive Director, she runs things seamlessly! She has served as the Executive Director of Park Avenue Thrift since 2019, and “her leadership
has helped the nonprofit contribute over $2 million to Enid’s nonprofits and schools,” Riley states. Not only is Park Avenue thriving, but the community is also thriving as well. After all, $2 million is no small feat. However, her journey didn’t start at Park Avenue. Before taking on the role of Executive Director, she was the co-owner of The Felt Bird, and she was also the Assistant Director of Main Street Enid.
In her current position, Stela has her hands in many baskets, and she still manages to always be a bright spot for those around her. Kelly Tompkins states, “I am SO proud of Stela and the impact she is having on the community through Park Avenue Thrift!” She continues with, “Stela doesn’t seek the spotlight, but her work has enriched Enid’s quality of life in immeasurable ways!” In addition to running a phenomenal nonprofit, Stela also prioritizes the day-to-day aspects of life too. From maintaining a safe, welcoming environment at Park Avenue for those who work there and those who shop there to be-
ing an outlet for so many, whether you know her personally or not.
Riley states, “Stela is a ‘Local Legend’ because she has dedicated herself to enriching Enid… she has consistently used her talents and work ethic to make Enid a welcoming and dynamic place to live, work, and grow.” Stela embodies every aspect of the word’s kind and charitable, and she conducts herself so positively you can’t help but share her joy when you’re around her. Whether you get to share a laugh with her or see her light up a room, it’s evident when she’s present because she makes a difference in the lives of those she’s around, and that, in addition to many other reasons, is what makes her a Local Legend.
BLAK E REESE
As 2024 comes to a close, I feel many emotions. The past year has been intense, overwhelming, and exhausting, but it’s also been full of joy, love, laughter, and so many precious moments. And that’s life, the good and the bad and the ups and the downs. As the new year approaches, it’s important to reflect, but it’s even more important to be intentional. Be intentional with your actions, your goals, your choices, and your ambitions – be intentional with your time and your life. Set yourself up for success as much as you can with the new year incoming, and think about what you want to do, where you want to go, who you want to be, and why you want to do and be all of that. And as you reflect and look ahead, don’t forget to be present. After all, being present is a present. And, speaking of presents, give the gift of giving this holiday season! For this month’s cover story, we chose to shine a light on some of the charities and organizations within Garfield County that make a difference for those who need it. And, as you read along and learn about each charity, please keep in mind anything you may be able to give or gift – one act of generosity could be enough to make a family’s Christmas, a kids’ year, or a struggle not so hard. And that kind of kindness and selflessness is exactly what the world needs. So, whether you decide to give back, be present, or be intentional, be grateful. Keeping with the theme of thankfulness from last month, appreciate what you have and what you’ve had. Anything can change in an instance. And on behalf of us here at Enid Monthly, Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and Happy New Year!
By Alita
Have you ever bought gifts for a charity Christmas tree at the office? Maybe you’ve purchased a meal donation at the grocery store around Thanksgiving? Or perhaps you’ve dropped some change into one of those ubiquitous red kettles that serve as an annual reminder that yes, Enid, there is a Salvation Army.
When Enid folks purchase gifts, a meal, or donate change, they are contributing to just a few of the over 300 registered charities here in Garfield County. Enid may not have the large population of OKC or Tulsa, but one thing is certain: Enid has a huge wellspring of community generosity. In the spirit of the holidays, here are a few of the wonderful organizations that work tirelessly to brighten the season for local residents.
You know the Salvation Army by sight, when every year, bell ringers take to store entrances and the shiny red kettles beck on for change. But did you know that the Salvation Army also runs two other holi day programs, Spruce
Up a Life and Angel Tree? The former “provides fully decorated trees and gifts delivered by our partner UPS,” and the latter works with businesses such as “Walmart, Atwood’s, Stride Bank, and Evan’s Drugs” to host wish list trees to provides gifts for children in need, according to Salvation Army Captain Amanda Brittle. She reported that “Last year, we were able to provide gifts for 615 kids, plus 50 Spruce Up a Life families.” What is even more amazing is the longevity of these programs: this will be the 35th season that Spruce Up a Life has operated in Enid, and Brittle says that Angel Tree has been going at least that long (the exact start date is unknown).
One program that you may not be familiar with is Christmas 911, which brings together area first responders to take children shopping for Christmas presents. The event “includes the fire department, the rural fire departments… Life EMS usually comes out, the Garfield County Sheriff’s Office, and of course our officers like to participate as well,” said Cass Rains, public information officer for the Enid Police Department. Rains said that usually “50 to 60 first responders” participate. With support from public donations, departmental donations, and the Fraternal Order of Police, Lodge 144, they can usually help about 40 children per year. The children meet at First Assembly of God Church
they head back to the church, where Rains said, “They get to meet Santa Claus, there’s coffee for the parents, cookies for the kids and cocoa, and it’s just kind of a good morning!”
Enid PD also works with the Department of Health & Human Services every year, hosting an Angel Tree in the building lobby. “It’s for children that are in foster care in the area,” according to Rains, and while many are “taken care of by those in the building,” the public is always welcome to stop by and pitch in. Overall, Rains wants readers to know that the department is just “happy to give back to a community that supports us so much and supports first responders.”
Another holiday event that officers look forward to is not exactly written in stone, but it does seem to happen with
gifts to random Enid folks. Recounting one memorable distribution, Rains said, “Typically, we drive out to the grocery store parking lots and try and catch people on their way in…. we had some good luck where we stopped a family one time, and the gentleman told us that he was going in to buy his holiday meal and was really concerned. That donation from that person allowed him to
Christmas to area youths for 22 years (the three organizations form Enid’s “Christmas Coalition”). Aside from expensive items like iPads and gaming devices, everyone tries very hard to fulfill children’s wish lists. Director Stacy Kurtz said, “We’re really, really good at shopping!” Purchasing goes on year-round, with staff taking advantage of sales to get the most bang for donors’ bucks. In 2023, 78 children were helped, with each child receiving “a new outfit, shoes, and three toys/gifts,” according to Kurtz. A unique aspect to their program is that recipients are invited to perform one hour of volunteer service for each child served
Enid community far beyond Christmas, including operating an emergency youth shelter and providing counseling services for at-risk children and families. During the holidays, they mobilize their annual “Project Santa”, and in 2023, they were able to help “just a little over 500 kids,” according to Board Member Amy Clements. Working with a long list of community partners, YFS distributes trees around town, with Vance AFB having “become a huge supporter over the years,” said Clements. In fact, in 2023, donations from Vance provided for over 300 children.
the holiday season.”
One of the most remarkable parts of this story was discovering how smoothly different organizations in Enid work with each other. As Stacy Kurtz said, “The nonprofits work together really well—not just at Christmas, but in everything.” The Christmas Coalition groups collaborate among themselves to prevent duplication of services, and in addition, the organizations participate in the United Way Charity Tracker Program. Since names are cross-checked, this ensures that everyone’s resources go as far as possible. Amanda Brittle said, “When you participate in the Angel Tree Program, [you] are truly helping a family in need…we are being good stewards of their donations.” Kurtz echoed this sentiment, emphasizing for the Enid community that “We do check that their dollars are well spent.”
Although most of these efforts start well in advance of December, there is still time for the community to pitch in. Readers may stop by the Enid Police Department and check out any remaining
Tree. The Salvation Army invites people to visit Oakwood Mall, where they also have an Angel Tree. Brittle said, “Donors can come and pick out angels, as well as drop off gifts.” The Salvation Army will gratefully accept gift donations until Tuesday, December 17. Of course, the red kettles will be out until Christmas Eve.
And on Monday, December 9, Youth and Family Services will be hosting an open house at their offices at 605 W. Oxford. From 4:00 –6:00 PM, YFS invites the public to the join in celebrating their annual “Nights of Shelter” fundraiser, which runs November through January. “People are welcome to come and tour the shelter and the office… and kind of really understand where your money’s going,” said board member Amy Clements.
The holiday charity efforts that have been profiled are successful because of a powerful combination of factors: the organizations themselves, the countless volunteers who help, donors of both financial and tangible gifts, and counselors who make referrals to the programs. All of it requires substantial resources and time, and it is easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle. Even so, there are plenty of moments that pierce the operational machinery and bring a tear to one’s eye. Brittle said, “My heart does break when I see requests for beds for kids.” The staff at RSVP said that they regularly see requests for “Socks [or other small items] for my wife. I don’t need anything.” And YFS Executive Director Hannah Fryer reminds the community that “Lots of our kids that we’re serving through Project Santa are kids who
Such moments serve as stark reminders of the reality of everyday challenges, which extend well beyond the holiday season.
All of the featured organizations offer a tremendous amount of services to Enid residents, all year long. Many others in Enid have a strong, abiding presence, too: from Enid Street Outreach Services to Loaves & Fishes, to YWCA and the ministries of HOPE Outreach, there is a helping hand for those in need. Unfortunately, there are more who need it than one might initially realize; Garfield County’s poverty rate of 15.6% is similar to that of Oklahoma County, home to OKC, which has a poverty rate of 16%. On a positive note, though, all of the aforementioned groups are quietly helping people to transform their lives and make a better future for themselves and by extension, for Enid as a whole. And while the goals of the Angel Trees, anonymous cash gifts, Very Giving Christmas, and Santa for Senior programs are spreading holiday cheer and making children happy — not, strictly speaking, combatting poverty — the fact remains that they are indeed performing an invaluable public service by providing that most vital resource, without which there is no future:
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Adult Book Review
Reviewed by Chloe Fuksa, Putnam Six
Bright Lights, Big Christmas
Author: Mary Kay Andrews
Going into the month of December, I knew I wanted to read a Christmas book – and after having read a string of rather heavy books, the lighter and cheesier the better. I also recently stumbled upon the fact that I had never read anything by author Mary Kay Andrews. Her 2023 release, Bright Lights, Big Christmas, was therefore an ideal choice.
For decades, the Tolliver family has been transporting Christmas trees from their farm in western North Carolina up to New York City to sell for the season. When the patriarch of the family falls ill though, the usual father-son team must become son-daughter instead if the farm has any chance of staying afloat. Unfortunately, Murphy and Kerry are very different from one another and haven’t talked in years. On their street corner in NYC though, huddled around a steel-drum firepit, working from before sunrise to well after sunset, the two siblings gradually start to reconcile their differences. Before they know it, and with the tremendous support of the people in the neighborhood, not only have they sold all of their Christmas trees, but they are having to go home and pick up even more.
Bright Lights, Big Christmas was just what I was looking for. Yes, the romance between Kerry and a single dad living nearby is forced. Yes, there are too many storylines for a book that is only 280 pages long. But, the characters, especially the secondary ones, are fabulous. The setting of the tree stand, complete with a 50-year-old travel trailer and freshly fallen snow, is picturesque. And most importantly, how everyone comes together to help each other out – from a simple cup of coffee and bowl of minestrone soup to nursing an elderly man back to health – is a perfect reminder for the Christmas season. So, grab some hot cocoa and enjoy this feel-good holiday read.
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Children's Book Review
Reviewed by Chloe Fuksa, Putnam Six Bookstore
The Vanderbeekers of 141st Street
Author: Karina Yan Glaser
I’ve wanted to start the Vanderbeekers series for a while now, and it just so happens that the first book takes place around Christmas time.
The Vanderbeekers of 141st Street was actually author Karina Yan Glaser’s debut novel back in 2017, and since then, she has published six more books in the series. They are all geared toward kiddos aged 8-12, and the lengths seem to range from about 320 to 420 pages each.
In The Vanderbeekers of 141st Street, we meet the family: Mama and Papa; their five children, ranging from 4 ¾ to 12 years old; and the three pets, a dog, a cat, and a
rabbit. They have lived in their beloved brownstone in New York City for six years, but just a few days before Christmas, they learn that their landlord is not going to renew their lease. They are all heartbroken at the thought of leaving, so the kids devise different ways to try to get the curmudgeonly Mr. Beiderman to change his mind. They try giving him cookies and making him a CD and writing him a haiku, but nothing seems to be working – until a Christmas miracle happens.
I thought this book was very cute and sweet, with excellent themes of kindness and community as well. The family, and all of their friends in the neighborhood too, are just fantastic, and I think the author really created a strong foundation for the series to grow upon. I can’t wait to pick up the second book and see where the family’s story goes next.
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Defusing Holiday Stress: Put Self-Care at the Top of the Season’s To-Do List
The holidays are among the most joyous dates of the year, but also the most hectic. Taking time to take care of yourself can often be forgotten amid the long to-do lists surrounding festivities.
However, taking time to deal with stress in healthy ways can make these dates more enjoyable.
Kay Khamvanthong, MD, primary care physician with St. Mary’s Family Physicians, offers some helpful advice on stress reduction as we usher in the new year.
How does stress affect you?
The demands and obligations of the season can make it hard to notice when stress is affecting you mentally and physically. Common signs that you’re stressed include:
• Headaches
• Change in sleeping pattern
• Back pain or neck stiffness
• Change in appetite
• Mood swings
• Difficulty concentrating
What can you change?
Make rest and self-care a priority. Taking a breather can make a big difference. The American Psychological Association reports that regularly detaching from your long to-do list can restore energy and help you be more resilient when difficulties arise.
As you deal with stressful times, consider:
• Aromatherapy - candles or lotions
• Listening to music - 5-8 songs uninterrupted
• Meditate - quiet environment, use of visualization
• Journaling - whatever comes to mind
• Laugh more - lightens the mental load
How can physical health play a factor?
When you take care of your body, your mental health improves. Being active boosts your feel-good endorphins, while an anti-inflammatory diet can lower the stress hormone cortisol. By exercising regularly and eating foods high in vitamin B, protein, and magnesium, you are effectively helping your brain cope with stress. Additionally, try to avoid alcohol and drugs. According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, the use of drugs or alcohol in itself can negatively impact your ability to manage stress.
What to remember
• Managing stress can be a difficult task. Being kind and compassionate towards yourself can be the first step towards mental well-being.
• You don’t have to do it alone. Reach out for help.
To make an appointment with Dr. Khamvanthong, call 580-2335553 or schedule online at stmarysphysicianassociates.com.
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Teen SCENE
I A FAULK Christmas
Hey y’all, and welcome back to Teen Scene in Enid Monthly. We have finally made it to Christmas, my favorite holiday season, so let's talk about it!!
Christmas is my favorite holiday for many reasons. The food, sweets, music, snow, joy, movies, hot chocolate, decorations, uggs, blankets,
cute outfits, and, of course, PRESENTS!! Did you know that about onethird of Americans say Christmas is their favorite day of the year? Crazy right!! My favorite things to do during this time have to be skiing and watching every new and old Christmas movie. Last month, I traveled to Colorado to watch the Oklahoma State vs. Colorado University Boulder football game with my dad and my best friend. We went skiing and had a blast!! Me and Aspen loved dressing super cute in our warm clothes and taking pictures for Instagram!!
I have seen every single Romantic-Comedy Christmas movie on almost every streaming service we have available. I LOVE Christmas movies. My favorites have to be the Christmas Prince trilogy and the Princess Switch series. I have seen a lot more new than old, but I do enjoy some classics every once in a while. The little baker in me always comes out at Christmas. I try all different kinds of recipes, my favorite being cookies, and I let my creative freedom fly! Every year, we take a couple of months to learn a whole new set for Christmas for the Show Choir. This year we are performing 3 songs, This Christmas, Holly Jolly Christmas, and Oh, Santa! Girls in our class choreograph everything, and we usually get to dance with partners as well. Aspen is one of my partners for one of our dances, so I am super excited to get to dance with her!!! We always wear Ugly Christmas Sweaters (I bought a cute one) and leggings to get the whole effect of the holidays.
Last Christmas, my dad and I got to spend the break in Houston and Galveston, so it was fairly warm. I am hoping OSU football makes a bowl game close to home, so we can go watch it. We also get matching pajamas to wear while I open my presents. It's such a cute tradition, and I hope it carries onto my future family. Last but not least, Christmas Day! I always go out to my grandma’s early in the afternoon, and we eat a feast and open presents. I love spending time with my family and friends and can't wait for the day to come!!
Thank you for reading this month's article. I hope you enjoyed it! I would love to hear about your family's traditions so please email me at tweensceneenid@gmail.com. Have a very Merry Christmas and please stay warm!! See you next month. <33333
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RE al Life
Winter Is Coming……
Winter is coming, so when the weather turns chilly, your house needs to button up, too. The best way to do that is to winterize your house. No, not once the snow starts falling, but NOW! Trust us, you’ll want to nip any issues in the bud before the temperature drops too much. Here’s a handy list of things to check on your house to keep it cozy, save on energy bills, and prevent a nightmare’s worth of damage you’ll have to tackle come spring.
Conduct a pre-winter inspection First, size up how prepared your house is for winter by taking a walk around its perimeter and eyeballing these features recommended by members of the National Association of Home Builders.
1. Check the ground to make sure it slopes away from your house, which helps prevent melting ice and snow from seeping into your home.
2. Look for gnawing marks on vents and trim, which signals that critters are trying to make their winter home in your attic. If you see teeth marks, patch holes to discourage unwelcome visitors. The animal type, that is.
3. Inspect caulking around doors and windows to make sure it’s not cracking or peeling, which will let cold air in and heated air out, increasing winter energy bills.
4. Check roof shingles and replace any that are curled or missing.
How to protect pipes in winter Mother Nature laughs at the calendar and can create a hard frost weeks before or after you expect. So, it’s a good idea to protect outside garden hoses by detaching them and turning off the water to outside spigots by Thanksgiving. After you shut off water valves, open spigots to let water drip out and prevent freezing, which can burst pipes. While you’re disconnecting garden hoses, hold them waist high as you’re coiling them. That will let water drip out, keeping your basement dry if you store hoses there in the winter, or prevent cracks from frozen water if you store hoses in an unheated garage.
How to save on energy bills this winter Another essential aspect of winterizing is making sure your home keeps heat in and cold out! Here are some ways to make that happen:
5. Cut back tree branches overhanging the roof, which could cause damage during storms.
Ice dams, however lovely they may sound, are ice mounds around the edge of your roof created when melting snow can’t drip into gutters, through downspouts, and away from your house. Ice dams are not your friends.
Adequate and properly installed insulation helps prevent ice damming, but so does making sure gutters and downspouts are unblocked by leaves, bird nests, and other debris.
Clean or replace filters: Before temperatures drop, make sure your furnace is blowing hot air. Clean or replace filters. Also vacuum burners to remove dust and debris and be sure drapes and furniture don’t block floor vents. It’s also a good idea to hire an HVAC professional to inspect the blowers.
• Seal leaks: Sometimes stopping hot air from escaping your home is as easy as stuffing a draft snake (a tubelike cushion) under doors. You can make your own by filling a knee sock with dried beans or popcorn kernels. Other ways to stop air leaks are to replace weatherstripping around windows, replace door and window screens with storm doors or windows, or replace old door sweeps on exterior doors.
• Cover water heaters: If your water heater is located in a garage, attic, or other unfinished space, cover it with an insulated water heater blanket that will help prevent heat loss.
• Maintain fireplaces: If your wood-burning fireplace is just decorative, plug and seal the chimney flute to make sure heated air doesn’t, literally, go up the chimney. If you still burn wood, close the flute when you’re not making a fire.
Winter is definitely coming, which means more time being spent at home. Make these moments count by being prepared and avoiding unnecessary repairs and maintenance emergencies.
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THE LAW OF THE Land Drone Deer Recovery – The New Thing?
Hello again sportsmen! Isn’t technology incredible? If you are like me, there is almost nothing as bad as not being able to successfully track a mortally wounded deer. There have been times that I’ve searched half the night, only to return in the morning with no success (right Ewbank?). There have been times I’ve bumped into deer that had yet to expire, only to never see them again. There have been many hours sitting and fretting about whether a shot was properly placed. I’ve also had a dog recover a couple for me (thanks Marley!), which is tremendously fun to watch.
I remember as a youngster how difficult it was to not immediately get out of your stand and go look for blood. Last year, my oldest shot a good deer that ran onto an adjacent property. I didn’t know who owned it, but before getting out the onX app, I saw orange out in the field. We saw the buck do down about 10 yards into the tall grass, but we weren’t going to trespass. We saw the hunter’s vehicle, so we sat in my pickup for almost three hours until he exited the field. He was a young man from Tulsa who had leased the place, and he was more than happy to let us get the deer. He actually stood in the back of his truck with binoculars to watch just in case he ran off. Good fella he was (like most outdoorsmen).
Using a thermal drone at night or under cloudy skies seems to be the new craze to find dead deer. While I’ve not had to do it yet, I’ve seen several videos online, and it is quite incredible. I read that unless there is tremendous cover, then there is over an 80% recovery rate in Oklahoma. While I personally would rather track or watch a
dog track (just because it’s fun), I’d certainly not hesitate to call in a drone, even for a doe. I’m not too keen on wasting animals. Just like trail cameras and crossbows, the new technology has been criticized by some, but it appears to be here to stay. While I don’t know any of them personally, I know there are drone trackers you can find online for Garfield and neighboring counties. Hopefully you’ll make a good shot and won’t ever need to hire a drone operator, but the option is there for when you are torn up about not locating that monster buck. As always, get the kids outdoors and away from the gaming systems. You’ll find out it’s some of the best bonding experiences a family can have. Happy Hunting!
Pride Bounce Back PLAINS of the “Live the Creed"
The 2024-25 edition of the Enid High girls’ basketball team has a new coach, new players, and a new style of play, and they hope to bounce back from a few seasons where they haven’t done as well as they have hoped.
At the top, the team is welcoming back Aly Seng, who played for the Pacers at a time when they were very competitive. After stints coaching at Hennessey, where they made regionals, to NOC as an assistant, and a couple of years at Chisholm, where they won district, she is excited to return to her alma matter to help get them back to where they once were.
“My goal is to build this team back up and gain the kids back that have been slipping through the cracks. There are a lot of kids here at school that could help the team. Since I just got here in October, we are just getting ready to play with this team, but I’d like to build a little more of the pipeline from the little leagues to the high school team,” said Seng.
As for this year’s team, while they do have 3 seniors who will contribute, there will be times when there will be three freshmen and two
sophomores on the court, which shows their youth. But that’s not to say they don’t have some good players. Sophomore Power Forward Anabelle Miller is a budding star that the team will rely a lot on. “Anabelle is a competitor. She’s strong, she rebounds like crazy, she can score pretty much any time she wants to, and we will need the ball to go through her to be successful,” said Seng. The team will also look to Amarianna Solomon, a freshman guard for some minutes. “She’s tough, also a competitor, great at getting to the rim to score, and just an overall dynamic player,” Seng said. Junior Guard Olivia McCoy is also a key to this year’s squad. Seng said, “Olivia is probably our best outside shooter, tough as nails, and really brings a lot of fire to the court.”
“We are going to play fast and get the ball up the court quickly, which hopefully gets us some easy baskets. We will be fun to watch. We want to be gritty and play intense, which they are doing a good job at. We need to improve our outside shooting, but the girls have been in early every day to get up some shots, so that will come,” said Seng.
The team would love to have the support of the community and just asks to be given a chance. “If you come out and support these girls, it would mean so much to them. They are working so hard, and we are going to put an entertaining product on the Court. We have a way to go, but people in the stands will help these girls know they are supported. And in turn, we want to be out in the community giving back as well,” Seng said.
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6 – 9 pm
BAT Express and Mini BAT
400 S. Independence Army truck and barrel train decorated for Christmas and giving rides.
DECEMBER 1
2 pm – 5 pm
Christmas at the Farm
Red Bird Farm (8812 N. Hwy. 81)
U-cut Christmas trees, decorations in the barn store, Play Land, much more
3 – 6 pm
Live Music: Kenny Pitts Alibi (224 W. Broadway)
6 pm
Opening Ceremony, The One: Bright Lights
The One Campus (150 W. Park)
DECEMBER 2 – 31
6 pm – 12 am
The One: Bright Lights
The One Campus (150 W. Park)
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December
Events
DECEMBER 3
6:30 pm
Trivia
Enid Axe (104 N. Independence)
6:30 pm & 8 pm
NOC Mackie Planetarium presents Star of Bethlehem
NOC Mackie Planetarium (Randolph & Hedges)
DECEMBER 4
3:15 – 4:15 pm
Sensory-Friendly Family Day Spirit Express (3104 N. Van Buren)
7:30 pm
Trivia
Settlers Brewing Co. (202 E. Randolph)
DECEMBER 5
11 am – 12 pm
Veterans Coffee Social
OK Military History Exhibit (4125 W. Owen K. Garriott)
6 – 8 pm
Trivia
Enid Brewing Co. and Eatery (126 S. Independence)
7:30 pm
Singo
Settlers Brewing Co. (202 E. Randolph)
DECEMBER 6 – 8
7:30 pm Friday, Saturday; 2 pm Sunday
Gaslight Teens present “White Christmas” Gaslight Theatre (221 N Independence)
DECEMBER 6
5 – 7 pm
Leonardo’s Night of Lights
Leonardo’s Children’s Museum (200 E. Maple)
6 – 9 pm
Christmas in the Village
Cherokee Strip Regional Heritage Center (507 S. 4th St.)
Experience a Victorian Christmas inside Humphrey Heritage Village.
6 pm
Piece Around the World
Tasting Party ($40)
Central Christian Church (1111 W. Broadway)
6 pm
Live Music: Rocky Kanaga Enid Brewing Co. (126 S. Independence)
7 pm
Live Music: Robert Allen Chicarro’s Happy’s Place (117 W. Oxford)
DECEMBER 7 – 8
10 am – 5 pm Saturday, 2 – 5 pm Sunday
Christmas at the Farm
Red Bird Farm (8812 N Hwy. 81)
U-cut Christmas trees, decorations in the barn store, Play Land, much more
DECEMBER 7
TBA
Big XII Championship
Watch Party
Enid Brewing Co. (126 S. Independence)
Times TBA Waukomis Welcomes Christmas Main St., Waukomis
10 am – 11:30 am
Holiday Adopt a Dinosaur ($18) Gathered (223 S. 30th)
11 am – 1 pm
Christmas Cruise
The One: Bright Lights (150 W. Park)
11 am – 3 pm
History Alive!
Cherokee Strip Regional Heritage Center (507 S. 4th St.)
Re-enactment characters portray life at the time of the Cherokee Strip Land Run of 1893
5 pm
Christmas Pajama Pool
Tournament (601 N. Independence)
6 pm
JWL Gala: Welcome to Wonderland
Stride Bank Center (302 S. Grand)
7 pm
Live Music: Knight Ryder
Chicarro’s Happy’s Place (117 W. Oxford)
8 pm
Extreme Dwarfinators
Wrestling
Chisholm Trail Expo Center (111 W. Purdue)
9 pm
Naughty or Nice Party RED (302 E. Maple)
9:30 pm
Karaoke
Enid Axe (104 N. Independence)
DECEMBER 10
11:30 am – 1 pm
Red Carpet Country
Legislative Luncheon
Northwestern OSU-Enid, (2929 E. Randolph)
Includes catered lunch from Heydy’s Place
4 – 6 pm
Sensory-Friendly
Family Night
Leonardo’s Children’s Museum (200 E. Maple)
6:30 pm
Trivia
Enid Axe (104 N. Independence)
7:30 pm
Candy Cane Cash
Drawing
Chisholm Trail Expo Center (111 W. Purdue)
DECEMBER 11
7:30 pm
Trivia
Settlers Brewing Co. (202 E. Randolph)
DECEMBER 12
6 – 8 pm
Trivia
Enid Brewing Co. and Eatery (126 S. Independence)
7:30 pm
Singo
Settlers Brewing Co. (202 E. Randolph)
DECEMBER 13 – 14
If you would like a free listing for your event, please email robert@enidmonthly.com by the 5th of the month PRIOR to your event! Events are as accurate as possible as of print date. Please see VisitEnid.org for any updates/changes, or scan this QR code.
10:30 am – 9 pm Friday; 10 am – 5 pm Saturday
Wrestling: Mid-America
Nationals
Stride Bank Center (302 S. Grand)
DECEMBER 13 – 15
7:30 pm Friday, Saturday; 2 pm Sunday
Gaslight Teens present
“White Christmas”
Gaslight Theatre (221 N. Independence)
DECEMBER 13
5 – 7 pm
Leonardo’s Night of Lights
Leonardo’s Children’s Museum (200 E. Maple)
6 pm
Live Music: Stacey Sanders
Enid Brewing Co. (126 S. Independence)
9 pm
Friday the 13th
The Spot Sports Pub (417 N. Grand)
DECEMBER 14 – 15
10 am – 5 pm Saturday, 2 – 5 pm Sunday
Christmas at the Farm
Red Bird Farm (8812 N. Hwy. 81)
U-cut Christmas trees, decorations in the barn store, Play Land, much more
DECEMBER 14
4 – 6 pm
Christmas Critters
The One: Bright Lights (150 W. Park)
Reindeer, camel, face painting, more
5 – 9 pm
Christmas in the Park
Meadowlake Park (1200 W. Rupe)
7 pm
Live Music: Robert Allen
Moose Lodge (302 E. Purdue)
7 pm
Live Music:
Backstage Pass
Chicarro’s Happy’s Place (117 W. Oxford)
7:30 pm
Michael Martin
Murphy’s Cowboy
Christmas Ball
Chisholm Trail Expo Center (111 W. Purdue)
9 pm
Live Music: Van Damage
The Alibi Bar (224 W. Broadway)
9 pm
Bad Santa X-Mas Party RED (302 E. Maple)
9:30 pm
Karaoke
Enid Axe (104 N. independence)
DECEMBER 16
5 – 8 pm
Sensory-Friendly
Family Night
Enid Axe (104 N. Independence)
DECEMBER 17
6:30 pm
Trivia
Enid Axe (104 N. Independence)
DECEMBER 18
7:30 pm
Trivia
Settlers Brewing Co. (202 E. Randolph)
DECEMBER 19
11 am – 12 pm
Veterans Coffee Social
OK Military History Exhibit (4125 W. Owen K. Garriott)
6 – 8 pm
Trivia
Enid Brewing Co. and Eatery (126 S. Independence)
7:30 pm
Singo
Settlers Brewing Co. (202 E. Randolph)
DECEMBER 20 – 22
6:30 – 8:30 pm
Living Driving-Through Nativity
First Church of the Nazarene (324 N. Cleveland)
DECEMBER 20
5 – 7 pm
Leonardo’s Night of Lights
Leonardo’s Children’s Museum (200 E. Maple)
6 pm
Live Music: Seth Carlson
Enid Brewing Co. (126 S. Independence)
7:30 pm
Rocky Mountain Christmas: A Tribute to John Denver starring Ted Vigil
Stride Bank Center
Grand Ballroom (301 S. Independence)
DECEMBER 21 11 am – 3 pm
History Alive!
Cherokee Strip Regional Heritage Center (507 S. 4th St.)
Re-enactment characters portray life at the time of the Cherokee Strip Land Run of 1893
4 – 6 pm
Storybook Night
The One: Bright Lights (150 W. Park)
An evening of storytelling and characters coming to life.
7 pm
DJ Dance w/Dale
Moose Lodge (302 E. Purdue)
9 pm
Santa’s Ho Ho Ho Party
The Spot Sports Pub (417 N. Grand)
9 pm
Santa Rave RED (302 E. Maple)
9:30 pm
Karaoke
Enid Axe (104 N. Independence)
DECEMBER 22
5 pm – 9 pm
Customer Christmas Party
The Spot Sports Pub (417 N. Grand)
Dirty Santa, Live Music (The Revolt) and free food!
6 pm
Christmas Dinner Drive Thru RED (302 E. Maple)
DECEMBER 24
9 pm
Xmas Eve Karaoke Party RED (302 E. Maple)
DECEMBER 26
6 – 8 pm
Trivia
Enid Brewing Co. and Eatery (126 S. Independence)
7:30 pm
Singo
Settlers Brewing Co. (202 E. Randolph)
DECEMBER 27
6 pm
Live Music: Jazz Daddies
Enid Brewing Co. (126 S. Independence)
DECEMBER 28
9 pm
Drink, Dance and be Ugly (Sweater) Party RED (302 E. Maple)
9:30 pm
Karaoke
Enid Axe (104 N. Independence)
DECEMBER 31
11 am – 12 pm
Leonardo’s Noon Year’s Eve
Leonardo’s Children’s Museum (200 E. Maple)
11 am
New Year’s Neon Dance and Play Party ($10) Gathered (223 S. 30th)
6:30 pm
Trivia
Enid Axe (104 N. Independence)
8 pm
Live Music: NW Passage Band
Moose Lodge (302 E. Purdue)
Breakfast for Dinner!
9 pm
New Year’s Eve Masquerade Party
The Spot Sports Pub (417 N. Grand)
Live Music (Hidden Agenda)
Aging Matters
Sharing the Gift of Memories
We all have cherished memories of past holidays. Some of us remember family gatherings with rooms filled with loved ones. Some remember traditional holiday meals and tables piled high with old family recipes. Others relive the joy of long-coveted gifts opened on Christmas morning. On occasion, holiday memories include the tragic, funny, or unexpected elements that give them a special poignancy.
Reliving these memories is especially meaningful for senior adults. What a wonderful gift it is to share stories about past experiences during this very special season, both for the elders being asked to share and the recipients in hearing. Often, older adults feel that they have little to contribute to the holidays. Younger family members may struggle to think of something to gift their older loved ones or include them in the festivities. One almost universally successful gesture is giving the gift of time and the interest in learning about their life stories.
During a recent conversation with Greenbrier Assisted Living residents, the topic was presented “What are some of your favorite holiday memories?”. Smiles appeared, bodies leaned forward, and we were off!
“We lived on a farm and would all go out together to the pasture to cut our Christmas cedar tree,” recalled one resident. “I still remember the smell... and the allergies!” Several heads nodded.
“We strung popcorn and cranberries to decorate the tree. I’d have sore fingers for days from pushing
the needle through,” another reported as she wiggled her fingers. “And my sister would eat the popcorn faster than we could string it.”
One resident remembered a favorite glass ornament shaped like a pear that was always on her family tree. When her mother died, it was the one item she asked for. Years later, it was broken while decorating another Christmas tree, but she still remembers it fondly.
“I loved the turkey! Mother would put it in the oven and night, and we awoke to the smell of roast turkey.”
“We had chicken. It was what we had, and we couldn’t afford to buy a turkey. But it was always delicious.”
“We were a large family. Each of us kids would receive one gift. Our parents would hide them around the house, and we would try to find them before Christmas.”
“We had programs and plays at school. We each received a bag of candy.”
“My brother and I each got one apple and one orange. And we were thrilled to have them.”
“My brothers would always come home for Christmas. One year, one of them brought me a pair of white majorette boots. I marched around the house all day!”
“The men would hunt quail in the early morning while the women started preparing Christmas dinner. When we got back and cleaned the birds, we had quail gravy for breakfast.”
“We took Saturday night baths in those days. My dad got up in the early hours of morning to put the presents under the tree and tripped over the tub that was still full of water. So much for sneaky Santa!”
The atmosphere in the room was filled with smiles and laughter as the memories were shared. In parting, the group was asked to share what suggestions they might give for people struggling with how to include older loved ones in the holidays.
“Remember the older people! Come visit,” said one. “Decorate a tree together for their home or room.”
“Take them out for a drive to look at Christmas lights and decorations,” suggested another.
A third chimed in “Slow down and enjoy each other. It’s all about family and getting together.”
Conversation topic ideas for sharing holiday memories:
• What is your earliest Christmas memory? Who was there?
• Did you have a Christmas tree? How was it decorated?
• What special ways did your school celebrate the holiday? Your church?
• Do you remember a favorite gift you received as a child? A gift you really wanted but did not receive? A special gift that you gave to someone?
• Did your family have holiday traditions? Did you keep them with your family as an adult?
• Did you do anything special on Christmas Eve?
• Where did you celebrate Christmas? What time of day?
• What did your family eat during holidays? Any recipes that were always served? Any that were served but you did not like?
• How are the holidays different today than they were when you were younger?
BYEMILY L EBARON
Hello friends! With Christmas being such an important holiday to many, the question is how to level up your big meal? This month's Now Serving suggestion is sure to impress with a unique, holiday themed adult beverage and an easier-than-you-think dessert! With Chocolate Peppermint Martinis and Caramel Mousse Puffs, you're sure to impress! Peppermint Martinis are a holiday twist on a classic - chocolate liqueur, vanilla vodka, crushed peppermint candies, peppermint schnapps, and marshmallow sundae topping - it's easy to personalize this drink to how strong (or not) as you prefer! Caramel Mousse Puffs are a twist on the original cream puff. If you prefer the original, you're certainly welcome to whip up some cream with powdered sugar and vanilla or change it up a bit with the caramel mousse. Either way, they're going to be a hit! Now Serving, Chocolate Peppermint Martinis and Caramel Mousse Puffs!
Chocolate Peppermint Martinis and Caramel Mousse Puffs NOW SERVING!
Chocolate Peppermint Martinis
Makes 1 drink
Ingredients
• 1 jar Marshmallow creme or sundae topping
• Ice
• 1 Tbsp Peppermint Schnapps
Directions
• 2 Peppermint candies, crushed
• 1/4 cup vanilla vodka
• 1/4 cup chocolate liqueur
1. Dip the rim of martini glass in marshmallow creme, then dip it in crushed peppermints.
2. Drizzle the marshmallow topping inside of the martini glass.
3. In a shaker with ice, add vodka, schnapps, and liqueur. Shake until mixed.
4. Pour into martini glass and serve!
Note: 1 oz equals 2 Tbsp. Drinks can also be mixed in a pitcher for multiple drinks!
Caramel Mousse Puffs
Makes 6 to 8 puffs
• 6 oz Cool Whip Caramel Mousse
• 25 Kraft caramels, unwrapped
• 1/4 cup milk
1. Place unwrapped caramels in a small saucepan with the milk and stir over low heat until smooth and mixed well.
2. Pour into a medium bowl and allow to cool for at least 30 minutes, or while you prepare the puffs.
3. Add the Cool Whip to the caramel mixture and combine well, refrigerate until ready to use.
Pastry Puffs
• 1 cup water
• 1 Tbsp sugar
• 1 cup flour
• 1/2 cup butter
• 1/2 tsp salt
1. Bring water, butter, sugar, and salt to a boil in a medium saucepan.
2. Add flour all at once. Stir vigorously with a wooden spoon until mixture leaves the sides of the pot and forms a smooth ball (about 3 minutes).
3. Remove from heat and quickly beat in eggs, one at a time, beating until smooth after each one. Continue to beat until smooth and shiny.
4. Drop mixture by Tbsp onto a lightly greased baking sheet, about 2 inches apart.
5. Bake in a preheated oven at 350 for 30 minutes, or until golden brown.
6. Remove from oven to a rack and cool completely.
7. To assemble, if you have a
• 4 eggs
• 6 oz semi-sweet chocolate
• 1/4 cup milk or whipping cream
filling piping tip, you can fill a piping bag with the tip and fill the puff with the cooled caramel mousse. If not, you can cut the puff in half horizontally and spoon the mousse in between the top and bottom halves.
8. Heat the 1/4 cup milk or whipping cream in a microwave safe bowl and microwave it for a minute to a minute and a half, until it's boiling. Carefully remove from microwave and add the chocolate chips. Let the chips soften in the milk for about 30 seconds. Stir until smooth and well combined.
9. Gently spoon the chocolate in a drizzle over the filled pastry puff. Serve, or store in the refrigerator until ready to serve. Enjoy!
