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Part
Part 2: Starting Down the Treatment Path
Part 3: Overcoming OCD
11: Considering Medications or Brain Stimulation for
Part 4: Targeting Specific Symptoms of OCD
CHAPTER 16: Messing with “Just
Part 5: Assisting Others with OCD
Part 6: The Part of Tens
Step
Step 4: Preparing to engage in ERP
Step 5: Moving through your triggers with ERP
Knowing what’s
Concerning Counting
Taking Charge of Touching
Messing with your touching
Introduction
Obsessive compulsive disorder affects about 2 to 3 million American adults. Since the first edition of this book, new research-backed strategies have been introduced for treating OCD. However, the most well-researched standard treatment, exposure and response prevention, has remained essentially the same with only a few minor changes. This book updates the standard treatment and explains some of the newer, emerging strategies.
The introduction to the first edition of this book described the experience of being delayed on a flight. After finishing a movie or a novel, people tended to mindlessly look at the inflight magazines and catalogues. Many of those catalogues were filled with gadgets. Some of those gadgets were for sanitizing devices. Handheld wands were offered for sale that disinfected areas in the plane that others may have touched.
After reading about bacteria, germs, and microbes in the catalogues, the text described the feeling of discomfort one might have on an airplane. That would be especially true when other passengers were sneezing and coughing and the person next to you had bad breath. That experience was somewhat like what people with OCD feel all of the time.
Well, since then, those magazines are no longer in the pockets of the seat in front of you because they could be contaminated. And I wouldn’t dismiss someone who was concerned about germs on airplanes. The world changed over the course of a few months in the spring of 2020.
Many people experienced the fear of contamination during those first few months of the worldwide pandemic. And those with OCD tended to suffer the most. In spite of the challenges posed by pandemics, people with OCD can expect to improve with appropriate treatment.
About This Book
This book is about OCD. My goal is to help you understand OCD as well as give you strategies for getting help and getting better. I also tell you what you can do to help a child or someone you care about who has OCD. In addition, I describe the symptoms of other conditions, such as anxiety or depression, that can occur at the same time as OCD. Finally, I explain the differences and similarities of disorders that can be considered related to OCD.
This book covers the primary strategies used to treat OCD, including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), metacognitive therapy (MCT), mindfulness, exposure and response prevention (ERP), and medication. The information is based on the latest scientific research.
Throughout the book you’ll receive tips on when to consider getting more help from a mental-health professional. I provide sources and ways for you to choose the right person to assist your recovery.
Case examples are used throughout this book to illustrate points. These stories are based on symptoms, thoughts, and feelings from real people with OCD. However, the individual illustrations are composites of people rather than recognizable examples. The case examples leave out or change many details so that privacy and confidentiality are protected. Any resemblance to any person, whether alive or deceased, is entirely coincidental.
This book is full of information, and every word is well worth reading (and recommending to your family and friends). But you really don’t have to read every single word, sentence, or chapter to benefit. You can use the table of contents or index to look up what you want to know. There is no predetermined order to the chapters; you can read them in any order you choose. Sometimes, I suggest going back or checking out certain chapters or sections for more information, but that’s up to you.
Foolish Assumptions
If you’re reading this paragraph, I suspect that you may be holding this book (or device) in your hands (now that was a brilliant deduction). Maybe you’re interested in OCD because you think you have some symptoms. Or maybe you worry that someone you care about has OCD. Perhaps you’re simply intrigued by this very interesting disorder (possibly having seen it portrayed in movies or on television).
You may be a mental-health professional who wants to find out more about specific treatment options for OCD or look at books that may be helpful to your clients. Or you may be a student of psychology, counseling, social work, or psychiatry hoping to get a clearer picture of this complex problem, without getting bogged down in the weeds of technicalities.
Whatever reason you have for picking up this book, I promise a comprehensive depiction of everything you need to know about OCD.
Icons Used in This Book
This icon highlights a specific strategy or tool for beating OCD, or an idea that can save you time and effort.
Watch out for this icon. It alerts you to information you need to know in order to avoid trouble.
This icon gives you information that you want to take from the discussion and file away in your brain, even if you remember nothing else. It’s also used to remind you of important information that appears elsewhere in the book.
This icon lays out material that I think is rather interesting or cool, but not needed for understanding the essentials.
Beyond the Book
For some quick tips about obsessive compulsive disorder, go to www.dummies.com and type “OCD For Dummies Cheat Sheet” in the search box. There you can access quick information about what is OCD, living with OCD, and the types of OCD.
Where to Go from Here
I expect that reading this book will thoroughly inform you about OCD and related disorders. The book spells out the major treatment strategies for OCD. I hope you find the text interesting and, at times, entertaining.
If you are reading this book to help you overcome OCD, I encourage you to get a notebook or keep a file, write out the exercises, take notes, and reflect upon your efforts.
Unless you’re reading this book for your own interest or education (and not because you have OCD), you’re likely to want to consult a professional as well. I anticipate that most trained mental-health professionals will welcome the opportunity to work with you on the strategies outlined in this book.
1 The Ins and Outs of OCD
IN THIS PART . . .
Take a look at the symptoms of OCD.
Find out what kinds of treatments work for various types of OCD.
Recognize the emotional problems related to and sometimes accompanying OCD.
Check out the causes of OCD.
IN THIS CHAPTER
» Finding out about OCD
» Seeing how media influences OCD
» Discovering treatments for OCD
» Helping others who suffer from OCD
Chapter 1
Facing ObsessiveCompulsive Disorder (OCD)
Depending on how you define the terms, almost everyone has a few obsessive or compulsive tendencies. Obsessive is a word often used to describe someone’s intense interest in something. For example, a person could be obsessed with making money, putting money ahead of all other goals in life. Someone could have an intense interest in collecting coins or stamps, spending hours looking through catalogues, dreaming of the next rare find. Some people are obsessed with sports teams, never missing a game. Obsessions are common in everyday life and are not necessarily reflective of a mental health problem.
Compulsive refers to rigid patterns of behavior. For example, someone could be compulsive about always cleaning the house on Saturday — never on Monday, only on Saturday. Another person could compulsively walk the dog on the same route every day. Yet another compulsion could involve never stepping on cracks in the sidewalk. Compulsive behaviors are not deemed abnormal when they don’t cause harm or distress.
Thus, some people with ordinary obsessions or compulsions manage quite well. For example, many major-league sports figures have elaborate good-luck rituals that look pretty strange. Some feel compelled to listen to the same song prior to the game; others eat exactly the same food. You’ve probably watched pitchers straighten their hats, smooth out the dirt on the mound, and spit in the sand before each pitch. Many baseball hitters have elaborate rituals they carry out with their bats. Other athletes have strange beliefs, good-luck charms, or compulsive acts that they must perform, allegedly to help their performance. If you are a major-league sports player making zillions of dollars to play a game, you can indulge in a few weird behaviors. No one will question you.
But mental-health professionals define these terms quite differently. In the mental-health field, obsessions are considered to be unwanted thoughts, images, or impulses that occur frequently and are quite upsetting to the person who has them. Compulsions are various actions or rituals that a person performs in order to reduce the feelings of distress caused by obsessions. These obsessions and compulsions consume hours of the day and interfere with essential tasks of life.
Anyone can have a few obsessions or compulsions, and, in fact, most people do. But it isn’t obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) unless the obsessions and compulsions consume considerable amounts of time and interfere significantly with the quality of your life.
This chapter introduces you to OCD. The disorder debilitates individuals who have it and costs society plenty. The chapter also provides an overview of the major treatment options. With guidance and assistance, much can be done to help those with OCD. Finally, because OCD treatment can be enhanced by the help of friends and family, this chapter offers tips on what you can do to help someone you care about who has OCD.
What Is OCD?
OCD has many faces. Millions of people are held prisoner by the strange thoughts and feelings caused by this disorder. Between 1 and 2 percent of the worldwide population has OCD. Most people with OCD are bright and intelligent. But doubt, uneasiness, and fear hijack their normally good, logical minds.
Whether or not you have OCD, you can probably recall a time when you felt great dread. Imagine standing at the edge of an airplane about to take your first parachute jump. The wind is blowing; your stomach is churning; you’re breathing hard. Suddenly the pilot screams, “Stop! Don’t jump! The chute is not attached!”
You waver at the edge, terrified, and fall back into the plane, shaking. That’s how many people with OCD feel every day. OCD makes their brains believe that something horrible is about to happen. Some people fear that they left an appliance on and the house will burn down. Others are terrified that they may get infected with some unknown germ. OCD causes good, kind people to believe that they might do something horrible to a child, knock over an elderly person, or run over someone with their car.
Those with OCD almost always struggle with one or more of the following concerns: shame; the intense desire to avoid all risks; and constant, nagging doubt. The next three sections describe these issues.
Suffering shame
Because the thoughts and behaviors of those with OCD are so unusual or socially unacceptable, people with OCD often feel deeply embarrassed and ashamed. Imagine having the thought that you might be sexually attracted to a statue of a saint in your church. The thought bursts into your mind as you walk by the statue. Or consider how you would feel if you stood at a crosswalk and had an image come into your mind of pushing someone into oncoming traffic.
However, the frightening, disturbing thoughts of OCD are not based on reality. People with OCD have these thoughts because their OCD minds produce them, not because they are evil or malicious. It is extremely rare for someone with OCD to actually carry out a shameful act.
Throughout this book you’ll see references to the “OCD mind” rather than you or someone you care about with OCD. The purpose of doing that is to emphasize that you are not your OCD. You have these thoughts, urges, impulses, and rituals because of a problem with the way your brain works. OCD is not your fault, and it doesn’t make you a bad person.
Wrestling with risk
The OCD mind attempts to avoid risks of all kinds almost all the time. That’s why those with contamination OCD spend many hours every single day cleaning, scrubbing, and sanitizing everything around them. People with superstitious OCD perform rituals to keep them safe over and over again. Interestingly, most OCD sufferers focus on reducing risks around specific themes such as contamination, household safety, the safety of loved ones, or offending God. But those with contamination fears don’t necessarily worry about damnation. And those who worry about turning the stove off usually don’t obsess about germs.
Risks of all kinds abound in life. And no one can ever know when something horrible might happen. All people eventually suffer from a variety of risky situations and outcomes such as illness, accidents, tragedy, war, grief, and ultimately death. But the OCD mind tries to create the illusion that almost all risks can be anticipated and avoided.
In truth, OCD doesn’t provide significant protection in spite of extraordinary efforts to reduce risks. In chapters to come I give you many ideas about how to accept a certain amount of risk in order to live a full life, no matter how long or short that life is.
Dealing with doubt
Doubt permeates the OCD mind. It’s difficult to be 100 percent certain of almost any situation in life. The OCD brain takes advantage of that fact and goes to town. Someone with OCD often has worries such as:
» Am I sure I locked the door?
» Is it possible that I might lose control and shout obscenities?
» Could I actually be sexually attracted to animals?
» Might this be dirty and make me sick?
» If I don’t count by 3s, will bad luck follow me?
» If I don’t alphabetize my cans, will I be able to function?
» Am I sure I won’t harm my children?
» Am I positive I won’t get sick if I touch that dish?
With thoughts like that, who wouldn’t be worried all of the time?
Counting the Costs of OCD
People with OCD suffer. They are more likely than others to have other emotional disorders such as depression or anxiety. Due to embarrassment, they often keep their symptoms secret for years, which prevents them from seeking treatment. Worldwide, it is estimated that almost 60 percent of people with OCD never get help.
