The Woman Today December 2021

WOMAN today the

Kelly Lake

• Serendipity — Lakeside gem is closing doors

• Volunteers share time, spirit of giving

• Homemade candles a great gift idea

• Fostering: The more the merrier

• Grand Rapids woman battles rare cancer

The only female sheriff in Minnesota

PROFILES

6 Kelly Lake

Local sheriff balances law enforcement and busy family life

10 Jolene Schlander

Cheaper by the dozen

14 Liz Schultz

Grand Rapids woman battles 'one in a million' cancer

18 Unique store in Lakeside closing after 15 years

22 Festive treats for holiday gatherings

26 Volunteering: Spirit of giving

32 Arts and Events Calendar

36 St. Luke’s

38 Fashions by Sam

CORRECTIONS:

A story published in the October/November issue of The Woman Today ("Overcoming breast cancer," Page 8) contained a couple of errors. The first error, located on Page 8, should have read as follows: After six weeks of treatment, two rounds of chemotherapy, her tumor was completely gone. The second error, located on Pages 9-10, should have read as follows: Mastectomy decisions

After a mastectomy, there are numerous options to consider from plastic surgery to prosthetics. Each decision someone makes is personal and uniquely theirs. Orbeck decided prostheses were her best choice. While the health care team offers advice and support, group members can share what worked or didn’t for them, ultimately it’s the individual’s decision.

The Woman Today regrets the errors.

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Hello, readers!

’Tis the season!

I think we hear that a lot this time of year. And the statement rings true with a multitude of meanings, from ’tis the season for giving, to ’tis the season in reference to the weather. Regardless of how it's used, ’tis the season for me is all things holiday.

This year, we have all heard and noticed that inventory has changed and we just don’t have all the selections we once did. I see this as a great opportunity to really get creative with gifts and gathering ideas. We have so many amazing local stores in the Northland that are ready for you to walk through their doors to shop. For instance, Serendipity, which is closing this year after 15 outstanding years of service, has been a staple in the Lakeside community. Be sure to stop by and show your support and thank them for their years of service.

Another important note I have to share is don’t forget to hold onto your traditions. For instance, on Christmas each year since I can remember, my mother gives my brother and I a traditional gift — a book of LifeSaver candies. One year she decided not to buy them, and did we ever notice! She may have thought we weren’t interested anymore. Since then, not a year has gone by that she hasn’t gifted us this book of candies. It's a cherished gift, and it's our tradition. Traditions can really bring us together. If you don’t have one, you are welcome to share my family's tradition — LifeSaver candies are simple and appreciated!

Another great way to show your holiday spirit is through volunteering. In this issue we showcase some of our wonderful community volunteers who demonstrate the spirit of giving. We thank you for all you do!

ON THE COVER: There's more to Carlton County Sheriff Kelly Lake than her job. On her family's small hobby farm, she nourishes one of her favorite hobbies, horseback riding.

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Also in this issue, we have three women who allowed us into their lives to share their stories. Our journey began in Barnum, where Sheriff Kelly Lake welcomed us into her home and shared her amazing journey with us. Lake is the only female sheriff in Minnesota and her journey is a must read. Our next stop was in Grand Rapids, where we had the opportunity to meet Liz Schultz who is battling, as she called it, the “one in a million” cancer. Liz shared her story with us, and we are honored she has. She is courageous and a fighter. Then we cruised into Saginaw to meet Jolene Schlander who always wanted a big family and did not initially anticipate a family of 14! Thank you, ladies, for sharing your compelling stories with us.

We have so many wonderful reads packed into our December edition. We hope you enjoy this issue. Thank you for your support! Happy holidays and have a happy New Year!

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Local sheriff law enforcement busy family life

By Andrea Busche

Manylocal residents are somewhat familiar with Kelly Lake, due to her high-profile position as Carlton County sheriff. She was initially sworn in April 2005 and has continued to be reelected every four years thereafter, but many people don’t know much about her personal life.

For instance, she owns and operates a small hobby farm. She is a “hockey mom,” and has four children. At one time, she was her husband’s boss. And one of her favorite hobbies is horseback riding.

Sheriff Lake recently granted The Woman Today the opportunity to share her story — both personal and professional — with its readers. After all, one of her favorite parts of the job is interacting with the people she serves.

“It’s fun to be able to interact with the community in positive times,” she noted. “It strengthens relationships between law enforcement and the community.”

Carlton County, born and raised

Lake, one of five siblings, was born and raised in Cloquet. Her parents divorced when she was a child, so she split her time between her dad’s home — which included a hobby farm with horses, cows and other animals — and her mom’s.

Lake’s father owned and operated the former Lemon Tree Liquor, Gas & Convenience Store in Cloquet. Lake’s mother worked at Potlatch, and she and Lake’s stepfather also owned the former Golden Gate Supper Club in Scanlon.

Lake acquired a strong work ethic at an early age.

“I worked at the Lemon Tree, cleaning and stocking, and when I was old enough I worked at the Golden Gate as a dishwasher, and later a waitress,” she explained. She also helped out on her dad’s farm.

Throughout high school, Lake was active in sports, too. She played basketball, softball, and was a member of the golf team.

Great opportunity

After graduating from Cloquet High School, Lake attended college at Western State College in Gunnison, Colorado, where she pursued business and marketing.

She moved back to Minnesota after a year and a half — mostly because she was homesick.

“I realized I missed home very much,” Lake said. “I didn’t know anyone out there.”

Upon her return home, Vern Hayes, a family friend who worked at the Carlton County Sheriff’s Office, got word that Lake was looking for work. At the time, the Carlton County Jail was looking for corrections officers. It wasn’t exactly what Lake had in mind, but she seized the opportunity.

“I don’t have anyone in my family who works in law enforcement, but the opportunity presented itself, so I took it,” she noted.

While working as a corrections officer, Lake went back to school — at Fond du Lac Tribal and Community College in Cloquet — where she earned degrees in law enforcement. She later attended Hibbing Community College for her law

Carlton County Sheriff Kelly Lake, the only female sheriff in the state of Minnesota, says one of her favorite parts of the job is interacting with the people she serves.

enforcement skills certification, and noted, “I was fortunate enough that the sheriff and the county allowed me to work part time on the weekends, so I could go to school during the week.”

During her work as a corrections officer, Lake was called by the Cloquet Police Department to handle clerical and administrative support while one of their employees was on maternity leave.

“I got to see the different facets of law enforcement, and decided I wanted to be a police officer on patrol,” she said.

Elected sheriff

Ultimately, Lake passed her test with the Minnesota Board of Peace Officer Standards and Training, and her next role was as a sheriff’s deputy out on patrol. In 2003, Lake was promoted to patrol sergeant. And when then-sheriff Kevin Mangan retired, Lake was recommended for, and voted in as, sheriff in 2005.

As sheriff, Lake oversees patrol operations, investigations, special enforcement duties, the Carlton County Jail, 911 dispatch, emergency management and administrative support. She mostly works out of the sheriff’s office in Carlton, but occasionally gets called out to attend to an incident.

Although her husband, Rick Lake, a former lieutenant in the Carlton County Sheriff’s Office’s Patrol Division, is retired, Lake has no plans to hang up her badge anytime soon.

“I still enjoy my job and the people I work with,” she said. “I still have things I want to accomplish. I enjoy making sure I am supporting and advocating for our employees who do this work every day, by getting them the tools and resources they need to effectively serve the citizens of Carlton County.”

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Kelly and Rick Lake live in Barnum and have four children, Landen and Taylor, and (not pictured) Hunter and Brendan.

Only female sheriff

It is interesting to note that Lake is the only female sheriff in the state of Minnesota. But she takes this distinction in stride.

“I don’t think of it as anything extraordinary, to be honest,” she said. “I don’t get treated any differently than the other 86 sheriffs in Minnesota. But it’s certainly an honor that it’s an elected position, and the citizens of Carlton County have confidence in me.”

Other professional affiliations

Lake belongs to a variety of law enforcement-related groups. She’s a current member and former president and board member of the Minnesota Sheriff’s Association; president of the Minnesota Triad Association; member of the Northeast Law Enforcement Administrators Council; and board member of the Carlton County Children & Families Services Collaborative.

She has also attended a variety of leadership and continuing education courses throughout the years. Additionally, Lake received a special award in 2014 when she was voted “Friend of EMS” by the Carlton County Emergency Medical Services (EMS) Council.

Home life

Lake, who lives in the Barnum area, has a very full life. She and her family own and operate a hobby farm with beef cattle and horses. Kelly and Rick have four children: Hunter, 23; Brendan, 21; Landen, 14; and Taylor, 12. The family has two German shepherds, Harley and Abel. Lake also enjoys horseback

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riding, hiking and swimming. Lake noted that her ultrabusy life is only possible due to her extensive support network, including caring friends and family.

As noted, Lake’s husband, Rick, is retired from the Carlton County Sheriff’s Office, and Lake was his boss for a time.

“He likes to joke that he had to listen to me at work and at home,” Lake shared with a laugh.

Lake recommends law enforcement as a career, but acknowledges that it requires a lot of grit and fortitude, too.

“Some of the hardest parts of the job are when staff are struggling or hurting. And it’s always hard to watch victims suffer from crimes and losses,” she said. “But there are fun parts, too, such as when we hear someone say, ‘You probably don’t remember this, but you helped me five years ago.’ And it’s very rewarding to see the successes of our staff.

“Law enforcement has been under the microscope in the last few years,” she added. “It’s a tough, but rewarding career. We are in the position to help people in their darkest hour. We need good people who are willing to stand up and protect people, and willing to keep public safety strong in our communities. I’d say, if you’re interested, don’t be afraid — it’s definitely something you can achieve.” D

Andrea Busche is a Duluth freelance writer.

At home, Kelly Lake manages a small hobby farm, with help from Landen and Taylor, of course.

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Saginaw woman shares glimpse into large family, foster system Cheaper BY THE Dozen:

By Abigail Blonigen

Jolene

Schlander had always wanted a big family, but did not initially anticipate a family of 14. Schlander and her fiancé are the parents of a dozen children: Lyrik (20), Elizabeth (17), Dezire (17), Isabelle (15), Erin (13), Jason (13), Jurney (11), Kendric (10), Bailey (9), Aleena (9), Morgan (7) and Kordelia (6).

Schlander began fostering after she had three children, never with the intention of adopting. The first family she fostered was a family of four, and Schlander was determined to keep the siblings together.

The kids ended up coming and going a few times, which isn’t atypical in foster care. However, when they left for the last time, it left a hole in the family’s hearts.

The family went on a vacation to Florida shortly after the kids left, and “it wasn't fun,” Schlander said. “The only thing we could think about is if the other kids were with us, how much fun it would be.”

When the four siblings came up for adoption, Schlander knew what she had to do. The family of five soon became a family of 10 after the adoption process went through and

Schlander gave birth to her fourth biological child.

“They played like siblings, like they had been together forever. … When (the foster kids) came back and reunited, it was really awesome to see,” Schlander said. “They were all super happy to see each other.”

Since then, the family has grown by four with the arrival of another biological child, the adoption of a niece, and another foster-to-adopt situation of two siblings, though they don’t bother making the distinction of who is biological.

“Our adopted we call our own; we normally don’t use the ‘foster’ or ‘adopted’ words,” Schlander explained.

Schlander grew up with caretaking in her blood. Her neighbors growing up did foster care, and her grandmother helped raise the grandkids in addition to taking care of her grandfather, who was a paraplegic.

Her grandfather in particular was Schlander’s idol.

“He had no feeling from the waist down, but he did things that most men with legs would never do,” she said. “He never said he couldn’t do anything. He always tried.”

Jolene Schlander

Above: Jolene Schlander's family smiles for a photo during a family vacation to Wisconsin Dells. Right: Jolene Schlander and her fiancé Calvin Wield smile for a photo.

Jolene Schlander smiles with her grandparents, whom she credits for inspiring her to take care of others.

In addition to raising a dozen kids, Schlander also tends to her 300-acre farm near Saginaw, Minnesota, with cows, horses, sheep, goats, chickens, pigs, dogs, cats, and a pet goose. Schlander breeds Labradors and weimaraners for sale and works as a farrier, trimming and caring for horses’ hooves. Her fiancé, Calvin, raises the cattle and pigs for butchering and works in construction. Schlander said the animals are often therapeutic for the kids.

Foster care is incredibly challenging, but Schlander has found it to be amazingly rewarding. She recalled taking a couple of girls dress shopping for the first time and seeing how overwhelmed they were with all of the choices they had. Another family of three they cared for had never had a Christmas tree or Christmas presents.

“It’s quite amazing what we take for granted,” Schlander said. “We don’t even realize that with the stuff we’re doing with our kids, that there are kids out there that don’t get that experience.”

Schlander has become a proponent of the foster care system, encouraging those who have the interest and the

means to look into it. Especially with the added financial and mental health stressors of the COVID-19 pandemic, there is always a need for foster homes.

Schlander wishes more people explored fostering and foster-to-adoption options within their county systems, emphasizing that it is not as expensive and complicated as one may think.

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“I think a lot of people that would be really good at (foster care) or could do it think that they couldn’t,” due to their income, housing situation, or relationship status, which isn’t necessarily the case, Schlander said.

As one could imagine, the pandemic has posed a unique challenge for Schandler’s large family as well.

“I don’t think I would have had a household of 12 if I had known I would ever do distance learning,” Schlander said in regard to the 2020 school year.

The kids had to take shifts with their online learning to not overload the family’s internet, and their internet was completely down for over two months last winter.

This school year, the kids are back in school in person, which comes with its own set of challenges, including frequent COVID exposures.

“With having 11 kids all in different grades — if one has a cough or a fever or a cold or flu, they all have to come home,” she said.

Despite the difficulties, the pandemic has had a few silver linings for the family. The switch to virtual appointments has saved them time and money on travel. They have become more efficient with their trips into town so they can go less frequently.

Overall, this time has served as a means to slow down and

Jolene Schlander also works as a farrier, trimming and caring for horses’ hooves.

Jolene Schlander says the many animals on the family farm are therapeutic for the kids.

focus on what is most important.

“You kind of learn to appreciate things a little bit more. You realize how much you took for granted when you had it, so there’s been some positives to it,” Schlander said. D

Abigail Blonigen is a Duluth freelance writer.

Jolene Schlander's family includes (front, from left) Bailey, 9, Aleena, 9, Kordelia, 6, Kendrick, 10, Morgan, 7, Jurney, 11, Erin, 13, (back, from left) Elizabeth, 17, Jason, 13, Dezire, 17, Isabelle, 15, and fiancé Calvin. Not pictured is Lyrik, 20.

‘one in a million’ Grand Rapids woman battles cancer

By Abigail Blonigen

Liz Schultz was dealing with a cough and tickle in her throat for several weeks, and it was driving her crazy. Thinking it was a residual effect from a COVID-19 infection a few months earlier, she decided to get it checked out.

On a wintery evening, Schultz drove to her local clinic in Grand Rapids, Minnesota. Since she previously had COVID, the medical team ordered an X-ray of her lungs to see if they had been damaged by the virus.

“I'm so grateful for (the provider) because at 7:30 at night, she could have just sent me home with some cough medicine and said to come back in two weeks if it’s not better, but she didn’t,” Schultz said. “She took the time and made sure that I was taken care of, and I really appreciate that.”

The X-ray revealed spots on Schultz’s lungs, an indicator not of COVID-19 damage, but of cancer.

The next day, Schultz went in for a CT scan, which confirmed there were nodules on her lungs and liver as well as a 4-inch mass on the adrenal gland near her kidneys.

Schultz was diagnosed with stage four adrenocortical carcinoma in January 2021, an incredibly rare “one in a million” cancer, diagnosed only a few hundred times a year in the United States.

“It was shocking,” Schultz said. “This mild little cough, and you go in and you’re like — what?”

Aside from the cough, Schultz had no other ailments indicating a larger problem. She described the lack of symptoms

Liz Schultz

Liz Schultz leans into her family — daughters Alexis and Lillah and fiancé Adam — and her faith to keep fighting stage four adrenocortical carcinoma.

as a “double-edged sword.” Her body was protecting her from feeling sick, but the lack of red flags gave the cancer time to metastasize.

Since the diagnosis, Schultz has seen numerous doctors and specialists, both in Grand Rapids and at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester. She has undergone six rounds of chemotherapy and several drug treatments. The tumors have shrunk substantially, but the odds of a true cure are slim.

A mother of two girls age 7 and 8, and a partner to her fiance, Adam, for 10 years, Schultz leans into her family and faith to keep fighting despite the prognosis.

“I just want (my girls) to see that I am me and that I tried as hard as I could, and that I fought as hard as I could,” she said. “And, you know, if it doesn’t go the way I want it to go, that we gave it all.”

Currently, Schultz has been advised to give her body a break from chemotherapy.

“It had taken such a toll. My blood platelet count was getting too low, and my hemoglobin was getting too low. So they said that they probably wouldn't do that again.”

Instead, Schultz is working with an endocrinologist at the University of Michigan Rogel Cancer Center on a few other treatment options, including use of the drug Mitotane. Her doctor there researches her specific type of cancer, which makes Schultz feel seen and valued.

“He is really taking an in-depth look at some of the rare cases of this cancer, so you’re not just a number there. You’re really their life’s work,” she said.

Prior to getting sick, Schultz had recently opened a dog-grooming business. Fortunately a colleague was able to help hold down the fort when she began treatment, and her clients have been overwhelmingly understanding and supportive. She has since been able to do a bit of grooming herself as well as hire and train a few new groomers. The business will be expanding to a bigger building in the coming months.

“It’s crazy to be able to grow my business while fighting this stupid cancer and help others learn this super fun career,” she said.

In order to keep her large circles updated on her cancer journey, Schultz created a Facebook page called “God and Liz’s Epic Team Up,” which has over 500 followers.

Faith has kept Schultz rooted during this trying time. Though she was raised a Christian, her faith “got away from her” as

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Liz Schultz and her daughters, Alexis, 7, and Lillah, 8, enjoy a day at the beach. “I just want [my girls] to see that I am me and that I tried as hard as I could, and that I fought as hard as I could,” said Liz.

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a teenager and young adult. Roughly a year before her diagnosis, she made the decision to get baptized and hasn’t looked back.

“A lot of people could be like, ‘Why did God do this? Why is this happening to me?’ But to me, it was more of, ‘You know, this is happening, but God can do this. We can do this together,’” she said. “I’ve not been pushed away from my faith by this — if anything I've been pushed more into it.”

Schultz also hopes the Facebook page can serve as a journal for her children to look back on. Despite their young age, Schultz has prioritized honesty with them from the start.

“If you try to hide it, they just want to know more,” she said.

Alexis, her younger daughter, tends to avoid the subject, coping through art by drawing and coloring. Lillah, the oldest, loves science and asks lots of questions about how cancer and the treatments work.

Schultz said she loves seeing her daughters grow into two different people with their own ways of understanding and coping. Spending time with them has been her primary focus since receiving the diagnosis.

“Before I was working a lot, I was constantly running, the kids were in activities. You just don’t focus on what’s really important, and what’s really important is being together and making memories. That perspective changes in the blink of an eye.”

Schultz is humbled by the support she has received from friends, family, her partner, her church and the broader Grand Rapids community.

To keep up with Schultz’s story and progress, visit her Facebook page. D

Abigail Blonigen is a Duluth freelance writer.

Over 300 people attended a benefit Oct. 9 at the Grand Rapids Moose Club, where 200 meals were served and 95 silent auction baskets helped raise $17,000 to help pay for Liz's cancer treatments.

Unique store in Lakeside

closing after 17 years

By Andrea Busche

Serendipity, a unique shop located in Duluth’s Lakeside neighborhood, featuring an eclectic mix of new and vintage items, is closing its doors after 17 years in business. The 2021 holiday season will be their last.

“It’s so bittersweet,” explained Gayle Healy, who co-owns the shop with her mother, Shirley Johnson. “We’re going to miss the people — our customers. The people have made it so special for us. That’s what it’s all about.”

“But Mom is 93 now,” Healy added. “She’s doing well, but she has stepped back in the last few years. This was always our dream — to open the shop together. So, it’s lost a bit of its luster; it’s just time.”

Healy becomes emotional when thinking about closing her

doors. But she also has exciting new adventures to look forward to.

As well as reflecting on Serendipity’s history as a staple in Lakeside, Healy also shared some of her future plans, including her continuing sales of unique vintage items in the area.

History

Prior to opening her shop, Healy, who lives in Duluth’s Hunter’s Park neighborhood, worked at Maurices corporate offices in Duluth for 23 years. Healy and her beloved mother had talked about opening a shop together for years.

As regular Serendipity shoppers know, the shop is located in a large, two-story house at 4407 E. Superior St.

“We found the house online,” Healy said. “I remember it like it was yesterday. We looked at it that night. We both looked at

Left: Gayle Healy (left) and her mother, Shirley Johnson, enjoy a beverage and a smile. The two have co-owned Serendipity since it opened in 2004.

Above: Gayle and Shirley are pictured here on their opening day, October 6, 2004.

This Christmas-themed display at Serendipity shows just a portion of holiday gifts as well as home decor available at the shop. each other and said, ‘This is it.’ We had a lot of fun naming every room — we have the cabin room, the clothing room, the kitchen, the dining room, etc.”

Serendipity opened its doors Oct. 6, 2004.

Together, the women worked hard to make their shared vision a reality. Healy also noted tremendous gratitude for her husband’s help and support.

“I couldn’t have done this without my husband, Roger Healy,” she said.

Healy and Johnson traveled regularly to major markets in Atlanta and Las Vegas to source their new items. They found their vintage wares at places like flea markets, vintage sales, estate sales and garage sales.

Healy described Serendipity’s style as “an eclectic mix of new and vintage,” and explained that the meaning of the word serendipity is “finding the unexpected.”

Merchandise

Serendipity offers a wide array of items, including:

• Clothing for women and babies.

• Seasonal items (holiday, fall, and Halloween décor).

• Garden items.

• Vintage décor.

• Home décor – with a special slant toward the lodge/cabin theme.

• Kitchen items.

• Gourmet food items, including marshmallows, popcorn, and peanut brittle.

• Jewelry.

The Christmas season has always been a busy one for Healy and Johnson.

“Our fourth quarter is always our biggest,” Healy said. “That’s when we make about 65% of our annual sales.”

Over the years, many shoppers have purchased jewelry, clothing and Serendipity’s decorative gnomes to give away as Christmas gifts.

“We sold over 2,000 gnomes just last year,” Healy said. “And we sell these plaid, flannel ‘shackets’ — a combination of a shirt and a jacket — that are really popular.”

When it comes to decorating a home for the holiday season,

Healy has a few trendy tips to offer.

“The natural look is really big. I personally really like the ‘nature part’ of decorating for Christmas, too,” she said, “wood, pinecones, deer, berries, things like that.”

Shoppers still have one more season to do their holiday shopping at Serendipity. The store will remain open through January 2022.

Future plans

After the holidays, Healy and Johnson will sell the brick-andmortar shop, along with everything in it. However, they are retaining their business name.

“I want to keep doing vintage shows, like the Duluth Junk Hunt and other pop-ups,” Healy said. “Going forward, all of my items will be vintage, though.”

Healy refers to her future as “semi-retirement.”

The future of

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The annual Sankta Lucia Celebration

the space at 4407 E. Superior St. will remain uncertain until the property is sold.

In addition to spending more time with her family, including her mom, Shirley, husband, Roger, and two adult sons, Matt and Jack, Healy is looking forward to traveling.

“I just love to travel,” she noted. “Eventually, when my husband retires, we are going to take trips to Italy and other places in Europe.”

Grateful for loyal customers

Looking back, Healy has many special memories of owning and operating her store. Most of them revolve around the relationships she has built.

“I keep hearing from customers that this is their happy place,” she said. “That’s really important to both of us — my mom and me.”

Healy also noted that several people who started out as customers ended up as dear friends. In fact, two of her closest friends are people she met at Serendipity.

Reflecting on what she’s most proud of, Healy shared, “It’s not the money or the success. It’s the happiness we’ve brought to people. We have a sign hanging over our check-out area that says, ‘Enter as strangers — leave as friends.’ That pretty much sums it all up.” D

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Serendipty in Duluth displays items for sale, including a wide array of cabin and natural-themed decor.

FESTIVE TREATS FOR

By Molly Milroy

Wewelcome the holiday season with decorated trees, glowing candles, lighted homes, gingerbread houses and perfectly wrapped gifts. Another festive way to celebrate the holidays is through delicious baked goods on your dining room table. If you’re looking for a bright and merry way to spruce up your holiday, try these local recommendations.

Traditional baked goods

Traditional holiday breads and cookies can be found at Johnson’s Bakery. Owner Scott Johnson, whose parents started the bakery in 1946, said, “We have a wide variety of Christmas cookies. Traditional spreads include Mexican wedding cakes, cutout cookies, rosettes, and fattigan, which is a fried Scandinavian cookie.”

The bakery, located in West Duluth, carries a collection of

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baked breads including julekake, a traditional Norwegian Christmas bread, which will be sure to fill your room with a sweet scent. Call a few days ahead to place an order or stop by to see what they have available.

“For a last-minute dessert, we try to always have fruitcake. It holds up pretty well. It’s what people want for a real old-fashioned type of Christmas,” Johnson said. And he would know.

“This will be our 75th Christmas season; we’ve been doing this for a while,” he said with a laugh.

Another option for a traditional holiday dessert is ordering a homemade pie from Rustic Inn Café. The types of pies to choose from include cream pies, crumb pies and fruit pies. Traditional favorites are pecan and pumpkin.

“The pies from the Rustic Inn are delicious and they even

have some gluten-free options,” Superior resident Alexandra Taylor said. “My son, Caden, always requests one for his birthday.”

Either take a drive up the shore and visit the café, located in Castle Danger, or pre-order through Whole Foods Co-op in Duluth and pick it up there.

Cookies, specialty cupcakes

Want to make your dining room table stand out this season? Twisted Pastries, located on Tower Avenue in Superior, provides an assortment of holiday baked goods, including holiday cookies and specialty cupcakes.

“The bakers switch up the cupcakes to include holiday versions,” owner Annette Jacobson said. “For example, pecan pie, apple pie, eggnog, spritz cookies, chocolate candy cane mint and more.”

Individual treats are becoming more commonplace at gatherings.

“People are moving to more individual sweet treats for dessert options. There is less touching and handling of the food,” Jacobson explained. “Plus, it gives the party a variety of flavors instead of just getting stuck with one type of dessert. Each one can look so beautiful and enticing.”

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Traditions holiday

Thank you Northlanders, for sharing your holiday traditions!

Santa Tradition

My family loved Christmas and celebrated with many great Scandinavian and American traditions. We especially were drawn to Santa Claus stories. We used to go to the department store, Glassblock, in downtown Duluth and have our Christmas postcard picture taken with my brother, David, my sister, Kathy, and myself sitting on the full-sized stuffed reindeer with Santa standing next to us.

My mom watched us giggle, laugh, and smile with delight. We loved it so…One day my cousin, Janie, seven years old, and I as a five-year-old were playing upstairs in my sister’s and my bedroom when we decided Mom and Dad’s bedroom would definitely be more interesting because they had a walk-in closet. It was the most stunning surprise! There it was! It was real! We could touch it! We did! It was Santa’s suit hanging on the back of the closet door by a hook. It was deep red with white fur coming down the front. The sleeves had furry white cuffs at the end of them. His wide black belt was hanging on the doorknob with his black boots neatly placed off to the side on the floor. We giggled and whispered and laughed. We were thrilled to think Santa lived in my house, yes, my house! He must be my dad!

Christmas ornaments

Christmas has always been my favorite holiday. I love to give gifts, and I have to admit, I love to receive gifts. Christmas becomes magical when you have kids. The joy on their faces when you decorate the house and the tree goes up. Touring the city to look at the many beautifully decorated homes always brought a smile to their faces. Leaving a snack for Santa was so much fun. I loved to see the reactions in the morning when the snack was eaten.

We have always bought our kids Christmas ornaments each year. I love picking out a Hallmark ornament to show

We ran down the stairs, giggling and screaming as little girls do. My mom put an instant stop on that. “What were you girls doing in my closet?” She could tell by the look on our faces. Santa lived here, 526 Fifth Street, Proctor, Minnesota! She made us immediately sit down on the couch and face her. She kept pointing and shaking her finger at us. We listened intently to her speech. “I made that suit for your dad. He is going to visit relatives and neighbors and bring presents with popcorn balls. Your sister still believes in Santa, don’t you tell her EVER or you will really be in trouble with a capital T! TROUBLE!”

She really scared us. We never told. At my dad’s funeral from the lectern in the eulogy, I finally told my sister who Santa Claus really was in our household. That was a long 42-year-old secret my cousin and I kept. What a great family tradition! We miss you, Dad, but love all our Santa memories. As he would say, “Uffdah, Merry Christmas.” As to my sister, she still believes in Santa.

By Kris Brenna Lyons Moose Lake, MN

what the kids are into that year. Whether it is sports, or action figures, Barbies, or activities they participate in, it still makes my heart happy to see their reactions. Did I mention, my kids are 31 and 28? We still buy them ornaments, and have added their significant others to the list. It's good to know they still enjoy the ornaments. I know this because I just asked them if they still wanted me to continue the tradition. I got an astounding YES. Merry Christmas to you all!

By Kathy Berndt Duluth, MN

Celebrating with cheesecake

A fun and festive dessert for your holiday table is cheesecake, which can come in a variety of holiday flavors. For a locally made cheesecake, try the spiced pumpkin or caramel apple from The Cozy Hen.

“They are all small-batch and the salted caramel sauce, fudge, and fruit toppings and fillings are all made from scratch,” owner Heather Birong explained.

This holiday treat is perfect for those looking for a flavorful and balanced dessert.

“Our cheesecakes stand out because they aren’t too sweet or overly rich, but yet have the feel of really being a treat,” Birong said.

When ordering close to the holidays, a week’s notice will suffice. To order and for more information, follow The Cozy Hen on Instagram or Facebook.

Make your holiday table festive with one or more of these delicious homemade, local desserts. Your dining room table will look cheery, and the baked goods will fill the room with a sweet aroma. Mix it up by having a traditional dessert and adding something new, allowing your guests to choose from the options. Whichever you decide, make sure to enjoy the treats yourself! D

Molly Milroy is a Duluth freelance writer.

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Volunteering: Spirit of giving

By Molly Ovenden

Each week faithful volunteers dedicate time toward making the Northland a better place to live. From feeding people, sending birthday cards and teaching classes to packing hygiene products and caring for orphaned kitties, the opportunities to embrace the spirit of giving this season are endless.

Through various organizations, the following women represent a wider collective of those who truly embody the spirit of giving. Each gal feels compelled to spend time making a difference in others’ lives, without desiring recognition, but to inspire others to do the same.

Bonnie Jusczak

A volunteer candy striper at St. Luke’s at age 15, Bonnie Jusczak realized she didn’t have to wait for

adulthood to make a difference.

Volunteering was “meaningful and helpful … even as a teenager,” she said.

“It's so much fun serving with Bonnie,” said Michele DeNoble, pastoral assistant at Duluth Vineyard. “She has such a big heart for welcoming people in and helping them feel comfortable in any environment, whether it’s here at Duluth Vineyard on Sundays, or with the moms at the Women’s Care Center. She truly cares for people with the heart of Jesus.”

Juwsczak’s involvement at church has included greeting, laundry and bookstore duties. What started as a church group bringing muffins for the WCC’s clients, resulted in Jusczak facilitating a twice-monthly parenting class at the WCC.

“She’s seriously the best,” said Jodi Sorvari, parenting class and volunteer coordinator at Duluth WCC.

“She really, truly makes (the clients) feel special,” Sorvari

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said.

“I was adopted through Lutheran Social Services in Duluth,” Jusczak said.

In 1960, the type of help offered through WCC wasn’t available.

“I just want them to know they’re not alone, whatever circumstances, planned or unplanned, I’m with them,” Jusczak said.

“If I can convey a heart that cares,” Jusczak said, “that’s a success.”

Candy Madich

Candy Madich, 71, moved to Duluth in 2010 to retire near family.

“After a 38-year career in education, and a life of blessings received, it was time to give back,” Madich said.

She’s volunteered with Animal Allies over 11 years, starting as a Cat Buddy (e.g.: cleaning, brushing, feeding, caring for cats and kittens) and is on the board of directors since 2016, currently the chair.

“Candy has always been a tremendous supporter of our mission and our work,” said volunteer coordinator Shirley De la Torre.

“I’m a lifelong, over-the-top animal lover!” she said. Madich’s favorite part is comforting “very shy or frightened cats, winning their trust and watching them realize that it will be OK,” she said.

Knowing how well the team cares for the animals gives her peace of mind, making it easier to leave at the end of the day,

and return the next time. She’s part of the wider team.

With such an affinity for animal well-being, Madich has actually adopted four cats from the shelter.

“We are so proud of our Candy and so very grateful for her!” said De la Torre.

She loves volunteering at the hospital’s research library and at her church.

“It’s kind of contagious,” she said.

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Candy Madich, known as "Cat Buddy," gives some enrichment to cats at Animal Allies in Duluth.

Candy Madich loves sharing her time; she believes it "creates a better world where people are volunteering and giving back.”

As a volunteer with CHUM, Lynn Schubitz has interviewed visitors to the food shelf and helped distribute nearly 200 food boxes each week over the last year during the pandemic. “I have to look at people in the eye. Greet them. Smile,” Shubitz said.

Lynn Shubitz

Retirement instigated volunteerism for Lynn Shubitz, 76. She’s served with CHUM ever since.

Shubitz consciously connects with people to honor and respect them, appreciating diversity in jobs, ethnicities and abilities.

Volunteering keeps her grounded. And the people she serves?

“Oh, I want to make them smile,” she said.

“Lynn Shubitz and all of our volunteers are the heart of the CHUM Food Shelf. I am grateful for all they do to help us continue to provide food, nutrition, dignity, health, hope and especially love to thousands of Duluthians every year,” said Scott Van Daele, director of distributive services.

For Shubitz, Duluth is home and it’s “where I want to give my money and time and connect with the people here,” she said.

“CHUM Food Shelf volunteers like Ms. Shubitz are truly our heroes, each and every one. We could not do the amazing work we do without their help,” Van Daele said.

Shubitz’s counseling background with Lutheran Social Services, through implementing a grant and managing Bethany Crisis Nursery, inspired her lifelong commitment to serve people in times of need.

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Walking alongside those she serves at CHUM, Shubitz listens to their stories and fosters relational connection with people, encouraging others to do the same.

“There’s such a need in the community to volunteer,” Shubitz said, ”There is a spot for you.”

Nancy Carlson

“I love people,” said Duluth resident Nancy Carlson, 66.

Carlson’s faith compels her to volunteer.

Hebrews 12:23 inspires her: “Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it!”

Carlson is thankful for her church family who have been there when she needed help in her life. Her gratitude and enjoyment of community compels her servant heart.

“Oh, somebody does see me!” Carlson said.

That’s how Carlson felt when she was a child and her friend stood up for her. She wants others to experience that same element of care and attention.

While attending her church, Duluth Vineyard, she’s helped with stuffing church bulletins, prayer ministry, kids ministry, the food shelf, and in-prison ministry writing and sending birthday cards to prisoners.

“It’s darn fun!” Carlson said.

Casey LaCore, associate pastor at Duluth Vineyard Church said, “Nancy has been a faithful volunteer for well over a decade. The quality that stands out the most to me is her compassion and selflessness. She has experienced difficulties in life and instead of letting that make her bitter, it has made her more compassionate.”

Carlson loves helping animals, too. She’s been a volunteer at

the Vince Shute Wildlife Sanctuary, helping take care of bears since 1995.

Jaci Christiansen

Jaci Christiansen, community engagement coordinator at Safe Haven, empowers volunteers to make a difference in the lives of those whom Safe Haven serves.

“(Christiansen’s) work to inspire others to share their time in service to survivors of domestic violence is a shining light in a field that can so often be very dark,” said Executive Director Brittany Robb.

Many volunteer roles aren’t glamorous, but valuable. Each survivor receives a hygiene bag, packed by a volunteer. With volunteers, survivors can pass the GED test, furthering education and higher-paying employment opportunities.

The “impact of something as simple as putting away a food order,” Christiansen said, means staff can reallocate time and energy to be more client-focused.

Christensen “helps volunteers recognize the wholeness of their contribution to our mission," Robb said.

Often children from families with domestic violence have lost key adults in their lives.

“Our volunteers provide another person for youth to look up to,” Christiansen said.

Volunteering changes lives, forever making the Northland area an even better place to be.

“It’s not just finding the work that matches with you, but the mission of the organization matches with you, too,” Christiansen said. D

Molly Ovenden is a Duluth freelance writer.

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Nancy Carlson (second from right) poses with friends Al Erickson, Tina Williams and Julie Erickson at the Vince Shute Wildlife Sanctuary in August 2007.

Jaci Christiansen poses with beloved volunteers at a recent towel drive event.

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Arts & Events Calendar

Christmas City Express

Now through December 19

The performance of the Christmas City Express begins in the Lake Superior Railroad Museum

(included with all tickets), where you’ll be treated to a reading of the new Christmas City Express story, enjoy carolers, and a visit from a special guest! Then climb aboard the train for a 30-minute ride up to Lake

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Superior. Onboard, enjoy complimentary hot chocolate, cookies and holiday tunes. Space is limited and reservations are strongly encouraged; visit https://duluthtrains.com/ event/christmascityexpress.

Pepperkakebyen: Gingerbread City

Now through December 20

This 10th annual event is now open at The Nordic Center, 23 N. Lake Ave., Duluth; made

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possible by the Nordic Center, Nortun Lodge 1-016 Sons of Norway, and UMD art education students. View the village and join us in celebrating winter in Minnesota! Register online for gingerbread decorating kits. For updates or changes, visit www. nordiccenterduluth.org.

Bentleyville Tour of Lights Opening Night

Now through December 27

Duluth’s free megalight spectacular is open for the season with free cookies, hot cocoa, popcorn and marshmallows to roast from 5-9 p.m. Sundays through Thursdays, and 5-10 p.m. Fridays and Saturdays at Bayfront Festival Park. Stroll under the glow of 4 million lights in the 20-acre park. Santa and Mrs. Claus, along with Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, will be on hand for photos and handing out candy canes. Parking is $10. Guests are encouraged to bring a nonperishable food item or new unwrapped toy to donate to the Salvation Army for those in need. See www.bentleyvilleusa.org for more information.

Duluth Winter Village

December 4-5

Duluth Winter Village is an outdoor community event celebrating local businesses during the holiday season. Enjoy this free twoday event, from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m., at a new location: Harbor Drive. The road behind the DECC, between the Great Lakes Aquarium and the William A. Irvin floating museum, will be closed, allowing attendees to take in the Duluth Aerial Lift Bridge, ore boats and harbor views. Local vendors will sell holiday gifts out of 29 wooden cabins, plus there will be food, beer, carolers, live animals, children’s activities, campfires by the lake, s’mores and more.

Get It Local Art and Gift Fair

December 4

This event will be held from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. at Peace United Church of Christ, Duluth, featuring Duluth and Superior artisans and authors only, who will be selling pottery, artwork, jewelry, handmade books, handcrafted bath and home products, and more. Masks are required. For details, contact Wendy Grethen at wendyupnorth@ gmail.com or visit www.wendyupnorth.com.

After Hours Holiday Party

December 7

The Duluth Area Chamber of Commerce’s After Hours Holiday Party features more than 300 business colleagues celebrating the season with networking, festive food and beverages, prizes and fun from 4:30-6:30 p.m. at the Greysolon Ballroom. Members and non-members are invited to attend; register by visiting duluthchamber.com.

Santa’s Market Craft & Gift Expo

December 10-12

This event features handmade crafts, collectibles and direct sales vendors from 10 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Friday and Saturday, and 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. Sunday at Miller Hill Mall, Duluth.

Arrowhead Ice Fishing and Winter Show

December 10-12

This annual event at the DECC features a wide variety of winter sports equipment and gear shown by a vast array of vendors and manufacturers. Hours are noon-8 p.m. Friday, 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. Saturday and 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Sunday, and admission is just $10 for ages 13 and older.

Christmas Cookie, Craft and Vendor Fair

December 11

This 10th annual event at Norton Park United Methodist Church will be held from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Buy a plate of a dozen homemade cookies; there will be hundreds to choose from with two kinds on each plate. Check out the homemade Christmas treats, dog treats and rock candy made by church members and friends.

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Neighbor-Made Art and Gift Fair

December 11

This event will be held from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. at Peace United Church of Christ, Duluth, featuring the Duluth Fiber Guild, handmade paper items, soap, glasswork, Duluth calendar, jewelry, and more. Masks are required. For details, contact Wendy Grethen at wendyupnorth@ gmail.com or visit www.wendyupnorth.com.

Antique Appraisal

December 15

Members of the public are invited to bring an antique or collectible to the Duluth Depot’s rotunda for a free appraisal. Denny Mager of Northern Specialty will offer opinions on the value of submitted antiques. People may bring up to two items for an informal oral identification and evaluation of each antique. If the piece is too large or fragile to be hand-carried, clear photographs with a description of any marks and labels will be sufficient. Those bringing antiques for appraisal are asked to arrive no later than 2:30 p.m. to register in person. See www. thehistorypeople.org for more information.

Great Hall Marketplace for the Holidays

December 18

This event will take place from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. throughout the St. Louis County Depot. It is free and open to all. The Marketplace will feature over 40 artists and makers throughout the building featuring local and regional vendors with original products and wide variety of items including art, jewelry, home décor, holiday décor, clothing, candles, and specialty food items. For more event information, visit www.experiencethedepot.org/ greathallmarketplace.

Behind the Mask New Year's Eve Gala

December 31

This fun fundraising event for Superior's Center Against Sexual & Domestic Abuse (CASDA), presented by MAC Sport & Marine, will feature a silent auction starting Tuesday, Dec. 28, and a free virtual program Friday, Dec. 31, from 5:30-7 p.m. Keep an eye out for advance features, such as a mask contest

and festive New Year's Eve party kits. Then, tune in on New Year's Eve for music, auction highlights, a drinkmaking tutorial, compelling stories from survivors and advocates, and so much more! Visit casda.org for more.

The Duluth Wedding Show

January 8

You said “Yes!” Now let the planning begin. This annual event will be held from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m., followed by a fashion show from 3-4 p.m. at the DECC. Tickets are limited; visit www.duluthbridalshow.com for details.

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Duluth Depot 506 W. Michigan St., Duluth 218-727-8025

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Douglas County Historical Society 1101 John Ave., Superior 715-392-8449

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Glensheen Historic Estate 3300 London Road, Duluth 218-726-8910

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Great Lakes Aquarium 353 Harbor Dr., Duluth 218-740-3474

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Lake Superior Zoo 7210 Fremont St., Duluth 218-730-4500

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North Shore Scenic Railroad 506 W. Michigan St., Duluth 218-722-1273

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The Lake Superior & Mississippi Railroad 6930 Fremont St., Duluth 218-624-7549

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6 thoughts for widows

By Michelle Buria

Whatcomes to mind when you hear the word “widow”? Do you envision an elderly woman biding her time in a rocking chair? The fact is, according to the U.S. Census Bureau (https://www.census. gov/data/tables/time-series/ demo/families/marital.html), the average age of widowhood is 59 with almost 2,800 women widowed every day in our country.

When my mom became a widow at my dad’s unexpected death at 65, as a financial planner, I knew we had my parents’ plan intact, insurance was in place, estate documents were current, and her financial picture was going to be OK. Unfortunately, helping my mom locate other necessary resources, put the focus on the stress and lack of coordination for anyone in this circumstance.

Meeting with women who have relied on a spouse to manage their family finances but then are suddenly in the situation where they are solely responsible, is a common and unfortunate practice. Not only are they grieving but also thrown into the depths of handling bills, cash flow, investments and future planning. It’s a heavy task with serious issues if not managed properly.

Suggested financial aspects for widows:

1. Everything is not urgent. Prioritize items as Now, Later

and Sometime to help stay on task.

2. Do not make any major purchases or decisions without consulting a financial planner. Short-term thoughts may have long-term consequences.

3. Organization is key. The amount of paperwork, particularly from financial institutions, is overwhelming. Seek the help of a financial professional to guide you and provide understanding.

4. Be aware of tax filing and social security benefit changes. Both could have an impact on your cash flow.

5. Your financial confidence will grow. You are not expected to be an expert, so lean on a financial professional to help educate.

6. It’s OK to look to the future. Life changed, but you are still allowed to plan for yourself.

Losing a spouse is a traumatic event, but know that you are not alone. Look to join a group of like-minded people. Other widows will understand your situation and be a place for support. Most importantly, you can do it. It will be difficult, and you will have bad days, but you will eventually have the energy to regain your redefined future. D

Michelle Buria is the director of wealth management at RSM Wealth Management. She is a Certified Financial Planner and holds a master’s degree in personal financial planning. Participation in the quarterly WOW (Women of Widowhood) group is encouraged. Inquiries can be sent to michelle.buria@ rsmus.com.

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Life after perinatal loss

By Claire Kiger

Aftertheir first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage, Anndrea and Mark Johnson were understandably anxious when they became pregnant again. However, they made it past 12 weeks and their anxiety gave way to excitement. They started to make plans for the birth.

“I decided to go outside the hospital system for our care,” said Anndrea. “I wanted to do a home birth.”

Soon it was time for Anndrea to deliver their son, River. She pushed for five hours at home before she was rushed to St. Luke’s Emergency Department. There, she was met by OB-GYN Dr. Melissa Miller who had incredibly difficult news: their baby had gone too long without a heartbeat. When River was delivered, he wasn’t going to be alive.

“No mom ever expects the worst,” said Anndrea. “But how Dr. Miller cared for us is something we’ll never forget. She was calm, cool and direct, while also being so compassionate and respectful.”

Dr. Miller helped deliver River with vacuum assistance. Anndrea and Mark left the hospital a couple days later without their son, but the team at St. Luke’s continued to support them as they healed from their loss.

Grieving for River and postpartum care

“The death of a child is the lowest of the lows. It’s terrible,” said Anndrea. “On top of everything, my body didn’t know my son died, so I still had all my postpartum things to deal with. But through it all I felt so supported by everyone at St. Luke’s.”

St. Luke’s Birthing Center Lactation Specialist Jenny Nylund, RN, connected with Anndrea about her breastmilk. They made a plan for how Anndrea could donate it to another mom and baby in need. Dr. Miller also met with Anndrea regularly to see how she was doing mentally and physically. Eventually, they started to talk about conceiving again.

Six months after River’s death, Anndrea was pregnant. This time she knew she would be receiving all her care at St. Luke’s.

“Everyone remembered our story,” said Anndrea. “It was so helpful. I didn’t have to explain our tragic past over and over again.” After nine months, Anndrea was ready to deliver.

Braving a second delivery

“With all the anxiety I was feeling around the delivery, Dr. Miller recommended I be induced,” said Anndrea. “I’m so thankful for that. I was able to mentally prepare for the day and it made everything much calmer for me.”

Knowing her story, Anndrea’s labor and delivery team did everything they could to make her feel comfortable throughout the process.

“Everyone who cared for us was at the top of their class, especially my nurses,” said Anndrea. “They kept me in the loop with everything that was happening. They were so respectful and kind, to each other and to us.”

On a snowy day in late December, Gus was born.

“Mixed with all the anxiety, I started to finally feel some relief,” said Anndrea. “Dr. Miller put him on my chest. I got to look into his little eyes and hear his voice. I knew he was safe.”

Labor and delivery Care at St. Luke’s

It has taken a lot of grieving, support, and therapy for Mark and Anndrea to keep moving forward – as individuals, as a couple, and as parents to their deceased children. After everything they’ve been through, Anndrea has committed herself to becoming an advocate for laboring and delivering in a hospital setting.

“A hospital birth is safer – period,” she said. “Things can happen when you labor at home that you, as a patient and a mom, just don’t think or even know about. In a hospital, they’re prepared for the worst case scenario.”

Anndrea feels so fortunate to have chosen St. Luke’s.

“There was so much compassion in how I was cared for. That is definitely one of St. Luke’s strengths,” said Anndrea. “Most importantly, I knew I was safe at St. Luke’s. I believe that if moms knew they could have an empowered and safe birth like I did, they would choose that over delivering at home.”

To learn more about maternity care at St. Luke’s, visit slhduluth. com/baby. D

Mark and Anndrea hold their son, Gus. Baby River shortly after he was delivered.

Claire Kiger is a marketing specialist and writer for St. Luke’s.

How St. Luke’s helped one woman deliver after a miscarriage and the death of her second baby

Women and Investing

By Frandsen Investment Services

Women are a powerful and growing segment of the banking and investment world, controlling 51% of the estimated $40.1 trillion in investable assets in the U.S. Studies indicate that men and women are equal in financial literacy. While women are less likely to view themselves as knowledgeable, 92% of women are eager to learn about their own financial planning. Studies indicate women are more consistent and patient when following their investment plan. As a result, women investors tend to earn a slightly higher return than their male counterparts.

The first step on the road to financial security is developing a plan that defines your goals and sets realistic timelines. These will differ and will change depending on your stage of life. Having a plan and professional advice you can trust will clarify your options and guide your financial decision making.

A quality financial advisor should recognize the importance of their client’s individual needs and unique situation. In order to write a relevant and meaningful plan, the advisor must be willing to ask questions and learn from the client. Ideally, the client also asks questions and learns from the advisor to enable them to be an active partner in setting goals and monitoring progress.

When searching out a financial advisor to either start or refine your planning, we recommend the following:

• An advisor who listens to you and your needs.

• An advisor who strives to educate clients and focuses on planning vs investment picking.

• An advisor who is transparent about any and all fees.

• An advisor who will become your partner in putting together and monitoring your financial plan.

Typically, the planning process begins with an introductory meeting to determine if the advisor and client are a good fit for each other. When a decision to move forward is made, a fact-finding meeting to outline goals and collect pertinent information follows.

Once agreed to, the plan is implemented and then reviewed annually or as often as determined by the client.

No matter your age, relationship status, health or career, focus on making a financial plan your first goal. D

This article was submitted by Frandsen Investment Services. The Duluth office is represented by Heather Carey (client service associate), Michael Ritland (wealth advisor) and Rick Sall (wealth advisor). Combined, they have 66 years of experience and understand the importance of providing education so their clients can be knowledgeable when it comes to their investments and goals. Located at Frandsen Bank & Trust, 331 West Superior Street, they would love to start a conversation with you.

Michael Ritland (left), Heather Carey and Rick Sall of Frandsen Investment Services.

Samantha Roffers, a Moose Lake writer, believes it’s important to shop for things you love and feel comfortable in. Everyone’s style is unique and that’s what makes it so special.

By Samantha Roffers

Hello, dear readers! I hope you are all well. Just like that, summer has passed and we are right into the magic of fall. The leaves are changing and falling to the ground, pumpkins are for sale on every corner and the holidays are on our minds.

It was a beautiful, sunny day when we visited Burger’s Shoes in Cloquet; however, that didn't stop us from finding some warm and cozy footwear. I immediately noticed a wide range of boots, shoes and sandals for men and women. The store is laid out beautifully, and it is very easy to see the styles they have to offer.

Owner Carmen LaPlant was so kind and welcoming when we arrived. She immediately and enthusiastically began pulling out her favorite styles for fall and winter. She whisked me over to a chair, measured my feet and the try-on mania began.

The wonderful service that she provides to customers is something that is hard to find these days. In a world of online shopping and megastores, it is incredibly refreshing to work with a store owner who genuinely cares about everyone who walks through the doors of her store. Carmen provides customer service that feels so special I’m amazed it’s free. It was fun to watch her connect with customers of all kinds, and her knowledge about shoes is truly impressive.

Every single shoe I tried on, I wanted to wear out of the store and take home. Everything was of high quality and comfort, not to mention adorable. Here are some of my favorites … D

by Sam

These first boots are a perfect choice for fall. The mustard color, rounded toe and grippy soles are perfect for our wet fall days. These boots have endless pairing possibilities — jeans, leggings or dresses would all pair beautifully with these fun shoes. You could wear these all day and forget they are on your feet, until of course someone asks where you got your super cute shoes!

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The second pair of shoes I put on may look like your everyday, average sneaker, but they are so much more! These shoes are made with Italian weather, making them buttery soft and comfortable. They have a beautiful sheen and great feel. It's a step up from your classic sneaker and gives your look just a little more poise. These won't wear out the way a normal sneaker does so you will get many years of comfort and style from these. You could easily pair these with any outfit for a fun and casual touch.

These boots are a must have for me and The Woman

Today publisher Megan Keller. The warmth, comfort and beautiful buffalo plaid cuff had us both sold. These boots are perfect for any fall or winter outing, boasting a rugged sole and fantastic cold weather rating. They are cute enough to wear as an everyday boot while also being made to withstand the elements. Best of all, they come with a full side zipper! No more tying and untying; these are made for a quick giddy up and GO! You could wear these to work all week and then take them hiking and exploring on the weekend.

These final shoes are so dang cute and comfy. I remember my mom always had a pair of these house slippers when I was growing up. They feel so light on your feet but give you much needed support. I paired them with a cozy SmartWool sock and I was ready to snuggle up by the fireplace and drink hot cocoa! I think these would be the perfect gift for anyone. Once you have a great house slipper it's hard to imagine going without. These would be perfect as slip ons for the office too.

A labor of love

By Anthony Matt

Having children was always a dream for 33-year-old Nicole Everson of Eveleth and her husband, Preston — a dream that came true shortly after they married.

Nicole wanted the birth of their first child to be as holistic as possible.

“I’ve always had so much respect for people that give birth with no medication,” she said. “My mother gave birth that way and I admired her very much. I didn’t want to be medicated so I could be totally present during the first few hours of Emily’s life.”

At 39 weeks pregnant, Everson’s blood pressure had risen to concerning levels. Her plans for the birth of Emily started unraveling.

On May 9, 2019, the day before Everson’s late mother’s birthday, doctors decided an induction was necessary. Despite the change, she was excited about Emily sharing a birthday with her grandmother.

“Everyone knew my dream birth wasn’t going as planned, but Dr. (Kelly) Greenleaf and my midwife, Amity (Heinbuch), were so respectful and compassionate,” Everson said of her Essentia Health care team. “I was still in control of my labor, even if it wasn’t what I had envisioned.”

The labor lasted nearly 32 hours. Everson would have to dilate with the help of doctors, have her water broken, receive doses of Pitocin to induce contractions, push for three hours and eventually need a Caesarean section.

“Dr. Greenleaf sat on my bed and spoke to me with such kindness,” Everson said. “Her calm demeanor and knowledge reassured me that even though this isn’t what I wanted, I have complete trust in her.”

At 1:41 a.m. on May 11, Emily was born — just missing her grandmother’s birthday. She was immediately placed on Everson’s chest. The C-section delivery went well, but problems arose while closing the incision. There were several indicators that Everson likely had developed gestational diabetes later in

pregnancy — one causing an unexpected complication.

“I had developed polyhydramnios, something that is seen with gestational diabetics,” she said. “It causes high levels of amniotic fluid.”

This enlarged Everson’s uterus. During C-sections, the uterus is often removed, stitched back together and returned. Everson’s uterus was so large that it was challenging to return. Doctors think this caused incredibly rare breakthrough pain during surgery.

“It was so painful and traumatic; I blacked out,” Everson said. “Amity and my nurse reassured me that everything was going to be OK. That’s the last thing I remember.”

Dr. Greenleaf explained that because of the traumatic labor, delivery and immediate postpartum stage, Everson likely would experience postpartum depression and PTSD. As that became reality, Everson worked closely with her providers to overcome those obstacles.

Leaving the hospital, the Eversons were excited to begin life as a family. However, Everson encountered more problems.

“Giving birth usually cures pre-eclampsia,” she said. “In my case it initially did, but the first day home with my new family I had to rush to the ER for treatment of rare severe postpartum pre-eclampsia.”

Everson was admitted to Essentia Health-Virginia for 10 days as doctors and nurses stabilized her blood pressure. She was mostly separated from her new family until being discharged.

“The care I received from Essentia providers in both Duluth and Virginia is indescribable and unmatched,” Everson said. “The doctors and nurses in Duluth brought my daughter into this world safely and those in Virginia saved my life. The oneto-one mental health care was outstanding. Everyone remembered everything, and not just stuff you find in a chart but personal items. I felt so heard.”

Everson was advised to wait one year to have another baby.

“One year and three days later, I found out I was pregnant with Mason,” she said.

Due to her previous complications, this pregnancy was considered high-risk. That usually negates the option of working with a midwife. With Essentia, however, Everson’s care team again included both Dr. Greenleaf and Heinbuch.

Everson did develop gestational diabetes and pre-eclampsia again with her second pregnancy, which ended in an elective C-section at nearly 38 weeks. Leaning on what they learned from Emily’s birth, Everson and her care team avoided any significant complications.

Unfortunately, in his first moments, Mason developed respiratory distress syndrome. He spent nine days in the neonatal intensive care unit at Essentia Health-St. Mary’s Medical Center. In the end, both Mason and Everson made it home safely.

“The doctors and nurses showed my family they were our friends and our care providers,” said Everson. “They just did things they didn’t have to do to make sure we were cared for. The stories of the care I received could write a book.”

Now, Emily is a little older than 2 and Mason is 8 months. Everson said while her deliveries were traumatic, she never worried because the level of care provided at Essentia was exceptional. She wants to remind expectant mothers that birth can go differently than planned, but there are teams of highly trained professionals to make sure they are heard and cared for every step of the way. D

Anthony Matt is the media relations specialist at Essentia Health.

Craftsman on Moose Mountain

By Andrea Busche

This month’s home is all about the views. Located on Duluth’s North Shore, this 4,555-square-foot home sits high on a hill, with 3.42 acres of property overlooking Lake Superior.

“Our development is at the base of Moose Mountain,” the homeowner shared. “The view is fantastic, especially in the wintertime when the leaves have fallen off the trees. We have panoramic views of Lake Superior from nearly every room in the house.

“The sunrises are beautiful,” she added. “Our house faces east, so we’re perfectly positioned to see the sun rise over the lake. Sunsets are beautiful, too, when the sun illuminates the clouds over the lake, turning them brilliant colors. It’s also fun watching ships come and go, especially at night when they’re all lit up.”

Featuring six bedrooms and 3.5 baths, this “rustic craftsman with touches of modern farmhouse” is spacious enough to accommodate the entire family, including a married couple, three young children, two dogs, two cats and three geckos. Accommodations for an active, growing family were prioritized in the design of this home, including easy-care flooring — and even a dog wash.

New to Duluth

The homeowners, originally from the Twin Cities, moved to Duluth in 2018 for the wife’s job — as a physician at Essentia. Her husband works remotely as a data engineer. They shared why they chose Duluth for their new home.

“The North Shore has always been a special place for us,” she said. “We both

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spent many summers as children traveling to the North Shore with our families. And we spent our honeymoon at the AG Thomson House in Duluth before hitting the Superior Hiking Trail for a backcountry camping trip.”

Inspiration

The inspiration for this home came about through places well-loved, paired with functionality.

“The inspiration for our floorplan came from a vacation

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Taking inspiration from a vacation rental, this craftsman home features a vaulted living room and large picture windows overlooking Lake Superior. The wood-burning fireplace is surrounded by natural stone, with a custom-made mantel and corbels, and flanked by built-in shelving and storage space.

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Oversized windows and engineered hardwood flooring are featured throughout the home, including the master bedroom. The master bath includes a soaking tub and walk-in shower.

rental near Bayfield,” the homeowner shared. “It was a beautiful family home with a rustic vaulted living room and large picture windows overlooking the South Shore of Lake Superior.

“Functionality was also very important to us,” she continued. “With kids and dogs, we knew we wanted a large mudroom with lots of storage and a dog wash. And since we were moving away from family, we designed the lower level to be a comfortable space for family to stay when visiting from out of town.”

Team

When selecting a team to design and build their home, these homeowners selected Heather Hiner of Hiner Home Designs, LLC, and Mike Hoops of MD Hoops Construction & Contracting, Inc.

“We started with a concept of what we wanted, and Heather did an amazing job making our dream become a reality,” the homeowner noted.

“She took our descriptions, pictures and sketches and put the floorplan together in a way that was beautiful, functional and structurally feasible, while making sure it fit within our budget. We eventually landed on a final design that met all our requests and was the perfect home for our family.

In the lower level, a large family room is flanked by a kitchenette, guest room, bunk room and play room, as well as a walk-out patio space.

“And Mike did an amazing job with our house and gave 110% to the project throughout the build,” she added. “He was very flexible with any ideas or requests we had. We had an aggressive build schedule and Mike rose to the challenge and finished the project on time. Mike stayed in contact throughout the process and was always happy to show us around when we visited.”

The family bought their lot and started planning in September 2018. They broke ground in late winter/early spring 2019, and they moved in October 2019.

Layout and special features

The front door leads into a large, open space including a foyer, living area, kitchen and dining area. A door from the dining room leads to a covered deck with a fireplace.

The kitchen takes you past a walk-in pantry into the mudroom with a separate laundry room on one end and the entrance to the attached three-car garage on the other. Next to the foyer is an open staircase and entrance to the master suite.

The children’s bedrooms are upstairs, along with a loft/workspace area. The basement includes the family room with a walkout, a kitchenette, guest room, bunk room, play room and mechanical room, with plenty of space for storage.

Interior

The home’s interior features warm, gray walls (in the shade “Anew Gray” by Sherwin Williams), and white trim with rustic wood accents.

“All our interior wood accents — kitchen island, range hood, beams, mantle, built-in shelves, mirrors and

vanities — were custom-made by Resurrected Furniture & Cabinetry, using reclaimed wood,” the homeowner said. “We wanted rustic touches throughout the house, and each piece turned out beautifully.”

The countertops are a “leathered” granite from Duluth’s Granite Works. The kitchen island features a doublethick edge with a chiseled finish.

The kitchen appliance package, sourced from Johnson Mertz, includes stainless steel Monogram appliances: an induction cooktop, range hood, side-byside built-in refrigerator, double-wall oven, built-in drawer microwave and dishwasher. The other appliances are GE brand, including a smaller refrigerator and a microwave in the kitchenette, and a front-load washer and dryer.

The home also features a cozy fireplace.

“Our living room fireplace is a wood-burning unit by Quadra-Fire. The stonework was done by Elias Masonry,

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A large bunk room is located in the lower level, perfect for guests of all ages when they visit this large home on Moose Mountain on the North Shore.

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The homeowner shared some of her favorite features.

“The washing station — or ‘dog wash’ — in the mudroom has proven to be incredibly useful. It’s been super convenient having a place to wash muddy boots and dog feet, or to quickly rinse off after working outside,” she said.

“And our covered deck is a fun, cozy place to gather. We like to have dinner out there and roast marshmallows in the fireplace.”

Utilities

The homeowner explained how their utility systems operate.

“We have solar panels over the south-facing roof of the garage, and a geothermal loop field system for heating and cooling. These ‘green’ energy systems allow our home to operate efficiently and sustainably.

“We received local and federal grants and rebates to help offset the upfront costs for installation, and have saved significantly on our monthly utility bills,” she added. “We hope this demonstrates that it’s possible to thrive in our northern climate without relying on gas or oil, and inspires others to install similar energy systems in their homes, too.”

Exterior

The home’s siding, constructed of LP SmartSide, is a blue-gray shade called “Smoky Ash,” featuring white trim and cedar accents. There are a number of metal-and-glass sconces decorating the outside of the house, in addition to a hanging lantern-style light in the entryway, and recessed lights concealed in the gables.

The couple plans to install two flagstone patios — one in front of the basement walkout with room for seating, and a smaller, more private one at the bottom of the stairs leading to the deck. Boulder walls on both sides of the house were built by Saline Landscape & Design.

“The walls lend a terraced structure to the steep hillside around the house, providing nice planting areas we’ve been filling in over time,” the homeowner said. “We worked with Prairie Restorations, Inc., to prepare a drought-tolerant and pollinator-friendly lawn, and to re-establish native plants and trees in areas that were disturbed during construction. We’ve been working on the rest of the landscaping ourselves. It’s hard work, but satisfying to see it come together.”

The property is surrounded by quaking aspen trees, along with some birch, white spruce and balsam fir.

A dramatic chandelier anchors the vaulted space of the front entry and staircase.

A custom dog-washing station gets plenty of use for the homeowners’ two dogs – or muddy boots – along with the adjacent mudroom and storage area for the whole family.

The laundry room is located conveniently off the mudroom and near the attached three-car garage.

Inc., with ‘Rustic Rubble’ natural stone from Great Lakes Stone. The mantel and corbels were done by Resurrected Furniture & Cabinetry. We don’t technically need the fireplace for heating, but it produces ample heat for the living room when we use it in the winter,” the homeowner explained.

A variety of lighting options are utilized throughout the home, including chandeliers, pendants, under-cabinet and concealed lights.

“All of our lights use soft, white LED bulbs, which are energy-efficient, last a long time, and look great,” the homeowner noted.

The home features Andersen Windows, sourced from Hagen’s Glass in Cloquet.

Low-maintenance flooring

When selecting flooring, easy cleanup was a must.

“Spills and accidents happen all the time in our family, and we swore off carpet after our last home,” the homeowner noted.

“We wanted wood and stone throughout the house, and found a beautiful engineered hardwood. It has a real wood veneer with random saw marks that give it a rustic look. Overall, it looks great, feels great, and is easy to clean. The floors in the mudroom, laundry room and bathrooms are tiled with natural slate. One nice feature is that, unlike other types of tile, they don’t seem to be very slippery when wet. The dark, rustic slate creates a nice contrast with the clean, white subway tile found in these same areas.”

Team reflections

Hiner and Hoops reflected fondly on this ambitious project.

“The homeowners said they wanted a mix of architectural styles including rustic, farmhouse and craftsman, which are slightly different, yet share similarities,” Hiner noted. “I feel we were able to capture that combination into their home with a mix of gable roof ends, wide white trim, and timber and stone accents. Once inside, the white trim and wood accents continue throughout the house with interesting design details, including the rough-sawn wood island and range hood that make the home unique.

“One obvious feature of this home are the sweeping views of Lake Superior from every room in the home, which, of course,

is by design,” Hiner added. “The site sits high up on a hill overlooking the lake, so with the exception of the basement bunk room, all living spaces and bedrooms are situated on the lake side with oversized windows, capturing those magnificent views.”

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Hiner

“One of the things I think is really neat about this house is the covered porch off the kitchen, with access from the mudroom,” Hoops said. “And the large mudroom is perfect for a young family. The homeowners also wanted their own dog wash — it’s elevated and was custom-made.

“The family was very easy to work with,” Hoops added. “That really stood out to me. Many homeowners can get lost in the decision-making process, but this couple both really knew what they wanted.”

Enjoying their dream home

The couple is ultimately very pleased with their choices.

“Every space is beautiful and functional for our family,” the homeowner noted. “With most of the interior work done at this point, we’re shifting our focus toward patios and

The large kitchen is both rustic and modern, featuring a custom-made island with leathered granite, custom-made range hood and ceiling beams, under-cabinet lighting, and a GE appliance package. The dining space is flooded with natural light from the large windows, and has access to the covered deck with a fireplace, which is featured on pages 42-43.

landscaping so we can enjoy the nature around us even more. For me, it comes down to this place — the woods and the lake make this such a beautiful place to live. We love our home.

“We kept an inspiration board on Pinterest throughout our build, and it’s amazing to look back at the pictures

and see how closely Mike and all our subcontractors were able to recreate our vision,” she added. “It truly is our dream home.” D

Andrea Busche is a Duluth freelance writer.

LEFSE for the holidays E

By Renae Ronquist The Woman Today

"What is lefse?” asked some of my Indiana friends.

I was flabbergasted!

“How do you NOT know what lefse is?” I asked. “It’s only the best thing you’ll ever eat!”

As part Norwegian, I grew up eating lefse every winter holiday and, thanks to commercial businesses, throughout the year too. We always bought it at the grocery store growing up in Minnesota, but it wasn’t until my husband and our family moved to Indiana that I decided to try making it myself, since it wasn’t available locally. The first attempt was a bit daunting since I didn’t have all the special tools and grill. It took some trial and error but eventually I was able to make some pretty decent lefse to satiate my craving. I just had to make the rounds smaller to fit the skillet. So if you don’t have all the tools just yet, it is still

possible to make it.

Last year during Covid I finally broke down and bought all the tools. The grill, rolling board, rolling pin, lefse stick and even a T-shirt that says, “Lefse makes the world go round.” I was all in! (The stick makes for a fun decoration hanging on my kitchen wall.)

I bought a 20-pound bag of potatoes and got to rolling — I rolled out so many I got blisters! I will say, having the lefse grill and the special tools does make the process easier. And I was finally able to make bigger rounds.

Ingredients

8 cups russet potatoes, riced* (about 10 to 12 potatoes)

1 cup whipping cream

4 teaspoon salt

4 teaspoon sugar

½ cup butter

2 cups flour, plus extra for rolling out dough

Tools Ricer

Lefse rolling pin with lefse pin sock, or regular rolling pin with lefse pin sock

Plywood rolling board covered with a linen pastry cloth

Lefse stick or large spatula

Lefse grill or large frying skillet

Cloth dish towels

Directions

1. Wash, peel and cut potatoes into 1- to 2-inch pieces. Put in a large pot and cover with salted water. Bring to a boil and cook until you can easily poke the potatoes with a fork. Drain

and cool enough to work with.

2. Use a potato masher to mash the potatoes smooth. Once the potatoes are all smashed, fill your ricer one spoonful at a time and rice all the potatoes for very smooth potatoes. Ricing your potatoes is not required, but it does make the lefse dough smoother and easier to work with. I like to rice my potatoes twice.

3. In a large mixing bowl, combine potatoes, whipping cream, salt, sugar and butter. Add flour one cup at a time until thoroughly combined.

4. Roll the mixture into approximately 2 inch balls (this size will make about a 10-inch round of lefse), placing them on cookie sheets and set in the refrigerator, taking out a few at a time to roll out and cook.

5. Preheat the lefse grill to 475 degrees. Before purchasing the lefse grill, I used a large frying skillet and made the rounds smaller.

6. Generously flour your lefsa board and rolling pin. Flatten the ball out a bit, and roll in different directions until the lefse

ball is 10 inches. I usually flip the flattened ball about half way through.

7. Place the round on the grill. Use a large spatula or lefsa flipping stick to flip the round after about 2 minutes. Cook on the second side for about another 2 minutes or until each side has light brown spots on each side. It may bubble up while frying, but will flatten out.

8. Remove from the grill and place in a single layer on cloth dish towels until cool.

My favorite way to eat lefse is warm right from the grill with butter and sugar, rolled up, which I discovered is called “lefse-klining.” Nothing beats warm, comforting lefse! Other ways people like to eat lefse is with cinnamon sugar, jam or jelly, or my husband's favorite, with just butter. D

*I have substituted instant potatoes if you're short on time.

Note: Lefse may be frozen in zipper bags. Just make sure the rounds are completely cooled.

Megan's

Cranberry Holiday Punch

By Megan Keller The Woman Today

Looking for something fresh and fun for your holiday gatherings? This Cranberry Holiday Punch may just be what you are looking for. Though this is a little higher maintenance to piece together, the presentation is beautiful, festive and worth the effort — not to mention, it tastes so fresh! I was unable to find cranberry ginger ale, but honestly I think the cranberry juice covered plenty of the needed flavor. I highly recommend this fabulous drink. Treat yourself and your guests to something new, that's not from a can!

Ingredients

1 cup cranberries, frozen preferably

½ cup pomegranate seeds

1 cup cranberry juice, or cranberry vodka, if desired

750 ml prosecco or champagne, sparkling rose

⅓ cup simple syrup

2 cups cranberry ginger ale or more, as desired Ice

Rosemary sprigs, optional

Directions

1. Make plenty of ice, more than you think you’ll need

2. Fill your pitcher or punch bowl half full with ice and have more on hand for individual glasses.

3. Add in the cranberries and pomegranate seeds.

4. Add the cranberry juice, sparkling wine, simple syrup, and top off to taste with cranberry ginger ale

5. Pour or ladle into individual serving glasses and garnish with rosemary, if desired.

Notes

• Using cranberry juice allows this to serve as a casual brunch or midafternoon cocktail. If you prefer a stronger holiday drink, swap out the cranberry juice for cranberry-flavored vodka or cranberry wine.

• You can also substitute pomegranate juice, orange juice, or even some limeade for the cranberry juice.

• Sugared cranberries threaded onto a cocktail toothpick makes for a

festive holiday garnish.

• We use cranberry ginger ale in our holiday punch recipe. However, if you can’t find it, regular ginger ale, or a lemon-lime soda such as Sprite or 7-Up will work just fine. D

By Andrea Busche

We at The Woman Today love nothing more than supporting local, women-owned small businesses. Riverside Soy Candles, located at 10 North 21st Ave. W., checks all of these boxes.

So, it was an absolute delight when several members of our team, including advertising account executives Kim Quinones and Ali Carlson, and graphic designer Renae Ronquist and I paid a visit to the shop to take a candle-making class together. While candles and other wares can be purchased pre-made off the shelf, private, “make your own” classes are a great option for bachelorette parties, teambuilding experiences, birthday parties, girls’ nights and more.

Riverside Soy Candles, established in 2018 and owned by Danette Hagen

Riverside Soy Candles

Choose a candle off the shelf – or make your own

Thacker, is a delight for the senses. Featuring over 70 wonderful candle scents with clever, creative names, the shop sells not just candles, but also includes wax melts, room sprays, hand sanitizers, greeting cards, hats, decorative gnomes, crocheted items, shirts and magnets.

Currently, the store is reserved for private classes, but Riverside Soy products can be purchased at a variety of local businesses, including Northwoods Confections & Gifts, Duluth Antique Marketplace, Grandma’s Saloon & Grill, Casa Latte, Weeping Willow, Superior Finds, Bergquist Imports.

Beginnings

Before starting her business, Hagen Thacker worked in the dermatology field.

Riverside Soy Candles owner Danette Hagen Thacker stops for a picture with the finished candles.

When her mom, Donna Hagen, started making hats, Hagen Thacker had an epiphany.

“That’s how the business got started,” she said. “My mom was making hats, so I said, ‘I can try to make candles.’”

Donna Hagen also makes the sweet, decorative gnomes that are a big hit at the shop.

Hagen Thacker began making soy-based candles eight years ago out of her basement in the Riverside neighborhood, hence the business’ name. She explained that candles made from soy are cleaner-burning, burn slower and last a lot longer than traditional candles.

One thing led to another, and her business was officially born in 2018. She now operates from a shabby-chicthemed storefront in the Lincoln Park neighborhood. The production area is located in the back of the shop.

Other than Hagen Thacker, Riverside Soy Candles’ only other employees are her mom, Donna, and 18-year-old daughter, Ivy Thacker.

Our class

When attending a candle-making class, the first step is choosing your scent. For our group, this task was surprisingly overwhelming.

For Quinones, smelling the candles unearthed a bit of the past.

“It brought up a lot of memory triggers for me,” she said.

“It was a little overwhelming,” Carlson noted, “just because they all smell so good.”

“It was really fun to walk around and smell all the great scents,” Ronquist added.

We ultimately selected our scents. Carlson went with Shimmering Mermaid; Ronquist chose Toes in the Sand; Quinones selected Chai Tea, and I picked Lily of the Valley. Hagen Thacker said her favorite (and the shop’s bestseller) is the Minnesota White Pine scent.

Next, we all selected a jar. There are 8- and 16-ounce mason jars, and a variety of more “artsy,” decorative jars. Alternatively, customers can also bring in their own jars.

With Hagen Thacker’s help, we measured and poured the melted wax and mixed in our scents, with the cotton wick already in place. After the wax was poured, it took about 45 minutes for the candle to set.

The last step was to decorate our jars. Hagen Thacker keeps a wide variety of fun labels and stickers on hand, and we personalized our jars; ranging from a minimalist look to busy and colorful.

Holiday shopping, camaraderie, and more

We all agreed that Riverside Soy Candles is a great place to do some holiday shopping, but we enjoyed the camaraderie of taking a class together, too.

“It’s a great way to catch up with your friends,” Quinones said. “And you can create your own gifts, and put your personal touch on them by choosing the scent, jar and decorations.”

While the storefront is currently reserved for private classes, Hagen Thacker plans to begin offering walk-in hours soon. Until then, her products can be purchased at the local stores listed above, or on the Riverside Soy Candles website. Another fun option is the Candle of the Month Club, where a surprise scented candle is mailed to you

for $20 per month.

From browsing and smelling, to choosing your finishes and simply visiting, this was a very enjoyable teambuilding experience for our group. Quinones summarized the experience of our class with this mirthful comment: “Watching candle wax dry is a lot more fun than watching paint dry.” D For more information, visit riversidesoycandles.com, or find them on Facebook.

Andrea Busche is a Duluth freelance writer.

Various scents and jars to pick from for your candle.