Dr. Dirk Kancilia's Guide to Staying Consistent Permanently

Dr. Dirk Kancilia Guide | Recognize the Reasons Why Are You Failing to be Consistent and How to Win It? I’m Dirk Kancilia love to write the medical information and related blogs articles so the people can trust, apply in their lives for better change and next level health outcomes.

Simply, The whole below given knowledge will be based upon my personal writing journey and you’ll easily get the ideas how I became a super writer with exact tips and what was the distractions in my path. Be inspired  You become fixated on some desired outcome: a healthier body, better relationships, or new skills.

You join the gym, buy a personal development course, or take up the cello.

For the first ten days or so, driven by your motivation to meet your goal, you work on your new passion every single day. But then you gradually start skipping your practice. A day here. A day there. Before you know it, the gym membership has lapsed, you’ve given up on your coursework, and your cello is in the closet collecting dust.

And the cycle begins all over again.

This is how most of us live our lives, including me. Our lack of consistency can be incredibly frustrating and painful. We know that consistency is the key to progress in all areas of our lives, but somehow we continue to falter. The only thing you find yourself being consistent at is starting something, then stopping before you get any results.

You may beat yourself up for this, but there’s hope. Hope comes from first understanding why we fall into these cycles and then taking the necessary steps to overcome the potential pitfalls.

The reason why you’re struggling to be consistent Ready for the answer?

You’re focused on the outcome rather than the process.

This is not to say that the outcome is not important, but if we become fixated on outcome, it will work against us, no matter how compelling. Why? Because any outcome compelling enough to excite you is probably one that won’t be achieved without hard work and sacrifice over a long period of time. Without certain processes in place to help us, most of us aren’t able to maintain the effort needed to accomplish these outcomes.

The plan

If you want to achieve your desired outcomes, you must build consistency into your plan.

But before we get to that, we need to define the plan. For me the plan consists of four parts: Identifying the desired outcome (e.g. “I want to become fit”).

Identifying the big “why” behind your desired outcome (e.g. “By becoming healthy in mind and body, I will have the energy to meet the physical, spiritual, and emotional needs of my loved ones”).

Setting goals that will gradually get you to your desired outcome (e.g. Lose 10 pounds in 30 days).

Developing processes to accomplish these goals. (e.g. 3 mile run 5 days a week).

For the purposes of this post, I’ll focus primarily on the fourth step of the plan because it’s most relevant to the idea of developing consistency. It’s in this fourth step where most good intentions fall apart.

How to become more consistent Here are the steps: 1. Be present In the simplest terms, being present means being fully engaged in the task at hand. It means quieting our tendency to waste mental, spiritual, and emotional energy worrying about past or future things — none of which we have the ability to control.

As a physician, being present begins with minimizing distractions. This means waking up early before the rest of the household. It means staying away from the internet and putting away my phone or setting it to “do not disturb.”

2. Anticipate the Dip Most of us go into new endeavors believing that the path to our desired outcome is straight and clear. The amazing thing is that we believe this even when we know better from past experience. In his book The Dip, Seth Godin says that anything worth pursuing will have a messy middle.

What makes the Dip even more challenging is that it typically hits after a period of initial success. This serves as a natural barrier to separate the quitters from those who go on to experience extraordinary success. Quitting is not a bad thing in itself. In fact, the whole purpose of the book is to help the reader know what to quit and when so they can focus their efforts on the things worth pursuing.

3. Uninspired? Do it anyway

Here’s an example of what it’s like when I’m trudging through the Dip. I wake up at 5:30 a.m. After a few minutes of prayer and meditation I sit at my computer to write medical blogs. Thirty minutes later, the page is still blank because I can’t decide what to write about. I start surfing the web looking for anything that would spark an idea or inspire me.

Another thirty minutes pass. I’m still surfing the web. And I haven’t written a thing.

This happened to me a lot in the beginning of my blogging journey. I would go for days like this, with very little to show for the effort.

Now, instead of waiting for inspiration (or looking for it on the internet) before giving myself permission to write, I just write. Every single day. I’ve tried doing this before but did not keep it up because if I did not reach 1000 words a day, I would consider that effort a failure.

Now, I worry less about word count and more about developing a rhythm of writing daily.

Sometimes it’s 100 words, sometimes it’s 300, and sometimes it’s 1000. Some days I write complete nonsense. Other times I can write a post worthy of publishing (in my mind) in one sitting.

In the end, the only thing that matters is that I write every single day, rain or shine.

Uninspired? Hit the gym anyway.

Uninspired? Kiss your spouse anyway.

Uninspired? Write that report anyway.

Do this long enough and inspiration will come rushing in behind you and knock you off your feet.

4. Go back to basics In any pursuit, most of us are eager to rush through the basics to get to the more exciting advanced stuff. But when we don’t spend enough time mastering the fundamentals, we can easily become discouraged by advanced tactics and strategies.

These things are undoubtedly important, but they can often distract us from the basic skills that must be mastered in order to gain traction and experience success.

When it comes to blog writing, I go back to the basics regularly. How do I write a compelling headline? Or an opening that will draw the reader in? Or good subheadings to make sure the reader keep reading? Doing this allows me to continually hone my writing craft. The measurable progress I make keeps me inspired and keeps me writing.

5. Forgive yourself and move on

This one is so important because we often beat ourselves up when we fail to follow through on our plan. Some resist setting goals and making plans to avoid this unpleasant experience altogether.

But instead of avoiding this reality, understand that it’s simply part of the game. For instance, as I mentioned above, my goal is to write medical content at least 100 words every single day. The bragging rights alone is a powerful motivator to nail this goal 100% of the time. But I don’t.

I miss days here and there when life happens. I used to beat myself up over those missed days. Now I just say, “Ok, you’ve missed a day of writing. Start writing again tomorrow.”

If I happen to have ten minutes to spare in that moment, I open up my laptop and begin writing.

In the past, missing a day of writing could demotivate me to the point where I wouldn’t write for 3 or 4 days. I was effectively punishing myself for missing the first day by missing even more days. It made no sense. Forgiving myself and moving on allows me to recover from setbacks faster than before.

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Are you ready to start making traction in your endeavors?

Be consistent.

Be present, expect hardships, and do the work.

Take your health, your relationships, your career to the next level.

And enjoy the ride on your way there.