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s our children grow up and are socially active we need to understand that for them to comprehend the true value of kindness, its best when caught, not taught. Our children will only

understand how to be kind by witnessing it from parents, other adult role models, other children, and given opportunities I know most of us parents have said to our child, “oh, that’s not nice,” and your child looked blankly at you. Well, that’s when we explain what they did and how it was not nice; followed by what would have been nice. Teaching moments come throughout the life cycle; beginning with sharing toys, kissing boo-boos, and hugging a crying sibling.

Now with school starting it’s important that we too “play nice.” Being mindful of our own actions is important because everything we do — or don’t do — affects the way our children act. So keep in mind that our kids are watching (and learning.) So make sure to have your child bring their new teacher a small gift at the beginning of school (not an apple); and we should sign up to help out when

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SETTING LIMITS Dr. Michael Bradley, a psychologist and author, recommends that you talk to teenagers about your expectations and what the consequences will be for ignoring them. Also discuss - a clean room, decent grades, 9 hours of sleep, and remind your teenager that with responsibility comes privilege (for example, decent grades means you’re more likely to let them go to a concert on a school night). Lastly, with the transition from middle school to high school, parents should be willing to backoff just a bit for things like clothes, non-offensive slang, hair styles, music …“Your teenager is just trying to figure out who they truly are.” adds Bradley

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Whether this is your first year with a kid in school or your last, be sure to join the PTA. You may not be eager to attend another meeting, but when you do, good things happen. First, you set a great example for your child as you show them your commitment to their education, whether it’s just starting or coming to an end.

You also get to connect with teachers and other parents. Plus, you’ll stay in the know about what’s going on at school. Then, there’s the opportunity to put your skills to good use for a good cause. Who knows, you may even develop some new ones. Sign up!

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Back to school means back to school pictures. Here are some tips to get good portraits of your kids this year. First, dress them cute, but comfortable.

Uncomfortable clothes make for uncomfortable poses. Boys, schedule haircuts at least a week in advance. Girls, wear only age appropriate makeup. And finally, have fun with it. Missing some teeth or just got braces? Sporting a new set of specs? Show ‘em off! You want to capture this age and stage in all its glory.

Besides, what good is a “Remember Them When” picture if it’s not even funny?

Well-rested children are happy children. They’re also healthier, better behaved and better learners too. With school starting again soon, make sure you’re aware of the most recent sleep guidelines given by the experts at the American Academy of Sleep Medicine. 12-16 hours for children 4-12 months; 11-14 hours for children 1-2 years; 10-13 hours for children 3-5 years; 9-12 hours for children 6-12 years and 8-10 hours for teens 13-18 years.

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August is Children’s Eye Health and Safety Month – a great reminder that it’s important to have a good eye health check-up for your child so they can perform at their personal best in academics and sports. The American Optometric Association (AOA) recommends the first comprehensive eye exam at 6 months of age, then again at 3 years of age, and just before they enter kindergarten or the first grade at about age 5 or 6 years.

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JAMIE, CONCERENED MOM Q. Do I need to have my child visit an eye doctor? I was not sure if I should rely on the School’s eye exams.

A. Montessori education founded in 1907 by Dr. Maria Montessori, who based her educational methods on scientific observation of children’s learning processes. The Montessori process emphasizes learning through all five senses, not just through listening, watching, or reading. Children in Montessori classes learn at their own, pace and according to their own choice of activities from hundreds of possibilities. Research studies show that Montessori children are well prepared for later life academically, socially, and emotionally. Ask: If they are affiliated with AMI or AMS and teacher training. Visit the School and observe a classroom in action; ask a prospective teacher about child development and education to see if it’s compatible with yours.

A. There are common misconceptions of why eye exams in children are not important. Like, my son doesn’t complain of blurry vision, or my child’s grades are good…. School screenings don’t qualify as an eye exam; and they were never intended to replace a professional eye exam. It’s important to know that the American Optometric Association, American Academy of Ophthalmology and Prevent Blindness America has begun to recommend that your child receive their first eye exam at 6 months of age. So go ahead and get that on your calendar as a to-do!

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It’s important for a child’s success to see that his parents are involved in the school; like volunteering, library duty, fundraising, participating in parent/teacher conferences, etc. There is research that indicates there are many benefits for students when parents make the effort to develop good parent-teacher relationship. An added bonus! When you’ve established that parent-teacher relationship, it’s much easier to trust your child and teacher to work through any classroom issues on their own. And at a scheduled conference with the teacher you can gain more insight into his development.

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Q. My kids want to download Pokémon Go. What do other families think of the hunt?

A. Several requests came in on this topic here at Suburban Parent headquarters, and there are several important aspects to consider. *Know that in-app purchases range from 99-cents to $99.99 for Pokécoins. *This game consumes a lot of mobile data, keep a close eye on it to avoid overages. *Safety-kids running around with phones in hand and watching screens can be dangerous. *The real opportunity with this “trending” hunt is the chance to explore together, to learn from one another, and engage in your broader community. *Children 5th grade and up probably have the capacity to explore familiar areas on their own, although the idea of a two-person team, one acting as a safety spotter, is a good idea. *Teaching the value of teamwork and taking turns has many benefits even beyond Pokémon Go. Children younger than 5th grade can be part of a parent team. You can find much more info online.

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MOMENTS { BY PATRICK HEMPFING }

The Half Way Point

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unscrewed the child safety cap from the white,

orange juice, ate her yogurt and oatmeal, and then

plastic bottle, and turned it upside down. A single

went to get dressed. While she prepared for her big

Flintstones chewable vitamin, the last one in the

day, I packed her lunch and wrote a little note to

bottle, dropped into the palm of my left hand. Since

include in her lunch bag, wishing her a great first day

Jessie turned two, my days have begun this way. This morning though, the empty pill bottle feels a bit more significant. It’s Jessie’s first day of 5th grade.

Except for the early wake-up call, Jessie says “Hooray.” She likes school and is anxious to see her friends. After a wonderful summer with lots of

the rear seat to the front passenger seat when it’s just it’s easy for her to change the radio station to songs I

in school. It’s important that a writer writes.

can barely understand, but that’s a different column.

As I drove Jessie to school for the first time as a

grader, I’m at the halfway point.” I quickly did

front-seat passenger, it felt strange. I couldn’t help but

the math in my head. Pre-K plus kindergarten

think that I was just buckling my baby in her car seat. I

plus grades 1-12 totals 14, divided by 2

recalled the days I carried my little girl into the house

equals seven. Pre-K done. Kindergarten

when she fell asleep in the car, or pretended to, which

at the halfway point.

we called “playing possum.”

This morning, however, I didn’t see my baby. I didn’t see the little girl with the squished-tight eyes and smile

I mentally walked

playing possum, though Jessie would have enjoyed an

to the bedroom,

extra hour or two of sleep. No, today, I saw a girl who

grabbed a pillow

could easily pass for a teenager.

for over my

During the drive, I shared my standard lines, “Give

mouth, and yelled,

it your all,” “keep a positive attitude,” and “tell the boys

“Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!”

your dad has golf clubs” (to chase them away from my

I didn’t do it, but the thought definitely crossed my mind. How can Jessie be a 5th grader? I just read, “Children 2 to 3 years

little girl). Reluctantly, I dropped her off at the carpool lane, rather than holding her hand and walking her to class as we had done in previous years. The wheels of her coral-colored book bag hit the sidewalk, and she headed off to 5th grade.

of age – Chew one-half tablet

I’m confident Jessie will have a great year in school.

daily with food” on the back of

She’ll need some more vitamins, though. On my way to

the Flintstones bottle. We went from a half tablet to a full tablet to empty bottle after empty bottle way too quickly.

Jessie chewed her vitamin, drank her

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Over the summer, I allowed Jessie to move from

have more quiet time to write while Jessie is

Jessie completes 5th grade, indeed, she’ll be

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photo. Moments like this are meant to be captured.

the two of us in the vehicle. She loves to sit up front as

complete. Grades 1-4 in the books. When

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Prior to driving Jessie to school, she rolled her book bag out to the driveway. Of course, I had to take a

cherished moments, Dad says “Hooray,” too. I

Last night Jessie said, “Dad, as a 5th

FOLLOW PATRICK

of 5th grade.

pick up a bottle, I might need to stop at the donut shop for some “glazed comfort.”

Until next month, remember to cherish the moments. SP

Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting, and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad, and writer. If you enjoyed this column, you’ll like Patrick’s first book, MoMENts: A Dad Holds On. The book compiles favorite stories and new material and is for sale on Amazon.com. facebook.com/patricklhempfing

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A PA R E N T P E P TA L K

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Middle School Years...

Expect Memories, Not Mayhem

ny parent who has survived the middle school years will assure you that you can navigate them, too. Although the honeymoon period of elementary school is over and middle school comes with ample trials and tribulations for most kids, try not to expect the worst. Parents who welcome the challenges of middle school as opportunities for growth will be still be smiling by the time they attend the eighth grade promotion ceremony.

Expect your child to face and overcome hurdles in middle school. Middle school is supposed to be about making mistakes and bouncing back from disappointments. Kids who navigate turbulence with spunk will mature in middle school. Kids who struggle with self-awareness and assertiveness are going to need extra support to develop skills they will need in high school.

If you want your kids to thrive in middle school, don’t leave them to their own devices. Parents who expect everything to be hunky dory all the time will likely be disappointed. Parents who think

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kids can figure everything out for themselves at this age with little adult supervision may want to wake up. This is middle school, the preparation for high school, which is the preparation for college, which is preparation for adulthood. Your child is going to need you each and every day.

Middle-Schoolers are embarking on a two or three-year journey and they will come out the other end of the process transformed. Whether or not they are changed for the better is largely up to you, parents. Here is a list of some of the challenges middle school kids face and how tuned-in parents can help.

kids about how they are adjusting to these new learning modes so you can help smooth the way.

DEALING WITH SOCIAL PRESSURES .

How much social pressure exists in middle school?

Tons. So role up your sleeves, parents, and always be ready to trouble-shoot. The best advice takes your child’s personality into account and eschews going along with all the crowds all the time. Middle school is a great time for kids to learn how to say, you do things your way and I’ll do things mine.

EXPRESSING INDIVIDUALITY . At the

KEEPING UP WITH SCHOOL ASSIGNMENTS & PROJECT DEADLINES . Kids tend to procrastinate.

end of the summer, sit down with your child and make a list of words that describe who he is. Do this every year before heading back to school to remind your student that he has interests and he’s allowed to like whatever he chooses. This list will evolve over the years, and that’s great, too.

EXPANDING LEARNING ABILITIES .

Middle school is an opportunity to try new ways of learning. Kids will get to do science labs for the first time, peer edit each other’s writing, work on projects with partners or in groups. Talk to your

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Some have trouble understanding that projects and papers must be worked on incrementally to be adequately prepared. A little bit of planning support goes a long way until dreamy tweens can get the hang of due dates.

NAVIGATING THE ONLINE WORLD. Your child is carrying a phone, a camera, and a computer in her pocket. Giving kids too much responsibility too soon can lead to extra expenses

and shaken confidence. So trust your instincts, parents. You will know when your child is ready to embrace the job of caring for a phone.

FINDING HEALTHY TRIBES .

Kids will be kids but no parent wants their child hanging out with a bunch of troublemakers. Your child’s peer group has a huge influence on his daily life. Teach your kids to choose friends wisely and to distance themselves from those who make consistently unhealthy choices.

COMMUNICATING WITH TEACHERS AND COACHES . You know how to do this, but now it’s time to let your child step up and converse with authority figures.

You can encourage her, confirm it’s happening, and even follow up with adults to make sure your child isn’t blowing you smoke. But let her do it or she won’t learn how.

CONFRONTING BULLIES. Not avoiding bullies. Not hiding from bullies.

Not doing whatever bullies want so they won’t pick on you. Confronting bullies means being able to stand up to someone being mean to your child whether his friends will back him up or not. Let your kids know you expect them to stand up for themselves and for others in need of assistance and watch them do it.

BECOMING A POSITIVE CONTRIBUTOR . Everyone hates substitutes. No one likes the new math teacher. That kid is so weird. But guess what, kiddo? It doesn’t matter because you are expected to be kind and respectful to everyone at your school, including teachers and substitutes. Furthermore, you will actively contribute in your classes and make positive contributions to your school on an ongoing basis. Got it?

BOUNCING BACK FROM FAILURE AND DISAPPOINTMENTS . Perhaps the toughest days in middle school are the not-making-the-cut days or the performing poorly on the test days or the getting sent to the principal days. How you respond to this is important. Kids need to process their feelings before they can bounce back and do the right thing. Be calm and patient as you help them figure it all out.

TEST-DRIVING ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS . Some kids will dive right into relationships in middle school.

Others will stay on the sidelines so they can spectate and speculate. Others may not seem interested at all. This is the beginning of practicing intimacy, so be sure to have lots of conversations with your child about the differences between healthy and unhealthy romantic relationships.

PRIORITIZING NEEDS . Kids have needs and those needs matter even when life is hectic. Maybe your daughter needs a jog bra for gym class.

Maybe she needs a new notebook for algebra. Maybe she needs you to sign a field trip form and write a check. Have a regular plan-the-week meeting on the weekend to discuss what your child is going to need from you and avoid lastminute crunches that create needless stress and bickering.

LEARNING ABOUT THE WORLD .

There is a whole wide world out there, and now your child is old enough to start learning about all of its complexities. What a great time to teach your child about respecting diversity, tolerating differences, and envisioning a more peaceful world.

They can practice all of these principles right in middle school.

REMEMBERING TO REST. Taking nice long baths with soft music and candles. Pulling the black-out curtains for a three-hour afternoon nap. A six-episode, BBC Pride and Prejudice binge-watching sessions to recover from the sniffles.

Growing kids need to unwind sometimes, but they may have trouble recognizing this. When this happens, give them a nudge in a decompressing direction.

SHINING DESPITE SPEED BUMPS . Guess what, parents? Your kid is going to stumble, fall, and maybe even face-plant in middle school. But he will still have plenty of shining moments, where he is ecstatic and in his element. If your child isn’t having enough moments like these, call a family meeting, put your heads together, and look for new opportunities where he is more likely to succeed. SP

Author, journalist, and writing coach Christina Katz is actually a bit sad that the middle school adventures are over. But she’s looking forward to the challenges that high school will bring.

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GRAPEVINE FAITH CHRISTIAN SCHOOL........................................................................... 35 817-442-1605 www.grapevinefaith.com

HOLY FAMILY CATHOLIC ACADEMY............. 28 972-255-0205 www.hfca-irving.org

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ids are notoriously reticent when it comes to divulging details of their school lives. Questions from parents often receive a single-word response. Or a shrug. The first indication of a problem may come via an unexpected call or email from the teacher. Want better insight into classroom dynamics? There’s a solution: Get to know your child’s teacher. Research shows that a solid working relationship between teacher and parent can lead to fewer behavioral problems and better academic performance for the child. Sally McEntire, mother of two, has made a practice of nurturing the parent-teacher relationship early on. She says, “I don’t want the teacher to hesitate talking to me if they have concerns regarding my child.” My son’s elementary teacher, Ms. Isabel, who has been teaching for nine years, sends a memo to parents shortly after school starts, noting times when help is needed. She’s aware that many parents are unable to volunteer during the school day, and lists many tasks that can be done off site. She laughs, “It was one of my parents who set up the online volunteer sign-up system for my classroom last year!” Following are “building blocks” for that parent-teacher relationship.

VOLUNTEER

INTRODUCE YOURSELF

Let the teacher know if you have particular strengths, interests, and preferences. Do you like working directly with students? Or would you rather prepare materials? If your schedule doesn’t allow you to be in the classroom, can you chaperone an occasional field trip?

Face-to-face contact is best, but a brief email or handwritten note works, too. You want the teacher to connect your child specifically to you.

HELP WITHOUT HELICOPTERING

You can volunteer in the classroom without being your child’s personal assistant. Look for opportunities to help other students or prep materials while observing your child. If your presence distracts your child, perhaps you can assist in the library, lunchroom, or another classroom.

DEFINE COMMUNICATION

Some teachers prefer to correspond via email. Others like a quick handwritten note, and still others prefer an after-school phone call. Pay attention to specifics. As Ms. Isabel says, “Don’t send an important email before school starts in the morning—I won’t be able to read it.”

KEEP THE TEACHER IN THE LOOP

Convey circumstances likely to affect your child’s classroom performance. A recent illness, lack of sleep, side effects from medication, an impending move, a death or divorce in the family—all can impact a child’s behavior and achievement. A heads-up allows the teacher to be proactive. As McEntire concludes, “Because I have spent time building a relationship with the teacher, it’s much easier to approach her when difficulties arise.”

IDENTIFY CHALLENGES

Approach the teacher as a partner, rather than relieving your child of responsibility. Instead of, “Danny has trouble keeping track of things, so don’t be surprised if he loses his homework,” try, “Danny has difficulty with organization. Here’s what has helped at home, and I’d be happy to hear your suggestions.”

RESPECT THE TEACHER'S TIME

Remember how many other students are in the class, and understand that the teacher simply doesn’t have time for extended daily conversations with parents.

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Irving Schools Stadium, 600 E. 6th St., Irving, 972-721-2544

ART HOUSE 11:00am-12:00pm. ART house of Southlake will lead the group in creating penguin prints, while supplies last. Best for ages 4-10. Free Southlake Library, 1400 Main St., Southlake, 817-748-8243 www. cityofsouthlake.com

BUILD YOUR IMAGINATION™ 9:00am-5:00pm. A new educational exhibit that combines the open-ended and inventive play qualities of the timeless TINKERTOY® construction set with GE’s innovative technologies that enrich our lives and our global community. C.R. Smith Museum, 4601 Hwy 360 at FAA Rd, Fort Worth, www.crsmithmuseum.org

DISNEY’S THE LITTLE MERMAID JR. 10:00am-11:30am. Journey “under the sea” with Ariel and her aquatic friends in Disney’s The Little Mermaid Jr., adapted

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per individual class, $25 for 10 or more classes. Reservations Required. Sunshine Glaze, Southlake Town Square, 817-4241417 www.sunshineglaze.com

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10:15am-10:35am. This program is for children of all ages and their parent or caregiver. The storytime incorporates rhymes, finger plays, stories and puppetry. No registration is required for this free program. Bedford Public Library - Storytime Theatre, 2424 Forest Ridge Dr., Bedford.

Carrie Glindeman, 817-952-2373

PICTURES AND PAGES 10:30am-11:45am. Museum learning begins early with this special program for preschoolers (ages 4–6) and their adult partners. Space is limited for this free program; sign-up begins one month prior to each session. Maximum two children per adult. Kimbell Art Museum, 3333 Camp Bowie Blvd, Fort Worth - 817-3228451 ext. 351, www.kimbellart.org

STORY SPOT SESSIONS 11:00am-11:20am. This program is for children of all ages and their parent or caregiver. The storytime incorporates rhymes, finger plays, stories and puppetry. No registration is required for this free program. Bedford Public Library - Storytime Theatre, 2424 Forest Ridge Dr., Bedford, Carrie Glindeman, 817-952-2373

TUE 2 FIRST FREE TUESDAYS AT THE MUSEUM 11:00am-2:00pm. First Tuesday programming is designed for children of all ages and their families. Enjoy thematic art-making activities, story times, performances, and gallery activities. Dallas Museum of Art, 1717 N. Harwood, Dallas, www.dma.org

ARTRAGEOUS ADVENTURE CAMPS 1:00pm-3:00pm. Every Tuesday & Thursday through August 9th, kids will experience a world of arts & crafts using various mediums. Ages 5 & up. $28

2:00pm. Aug 2-4. Admission is free and open to the public. Take a break from the Texas heat for Modern Kids - Summer Flicks! Share the art of the screen with your children as they watch stories unfold and ideas form in delightful and innovative films. The bonus for seeing these films at the Modern is the opportunity to visit the galleries before or after. Enjoy a selective slate of the best animated shorts from the 2016 New York International Children’s Film Festival as well as the critically acclaimed feature films Nocturna and Mia and the Migoo.

The Modern Art Museum of Fort Worth, 3200 Darnell St., Fort Worth. www.themodern.org Visit for more info.

BACK 2 SCHOOL BASH 5:00pm-8:00pm. Get a jump start on the school year with us for this fun filled evening! Every child will receive a bag at entry. Take your Hall Pass with you to visit all vendors in the gym to receive more school supplies! Registration is required and open to the first 300 children. No online registration. Tickets given at registration; MUST have ticket for entry. A no-ticket line will begin at 6:45p.

All children must be accompanied by an adult. Back 2 School Bash is open to any child entering Pre-K through 8th grade. $5/child for residents, $8/ child for non-residents. Save $1 with a current MAC Card. Mansfield Activities Center, 106 S. Wisteria, Mansfield, www. mansfieldtexas.gov

WED 3 BRING YOUR DOG! TAILS N’ TRAILS DOG PARK The park is open for your enjoyment during daylight hours at no charge to you. Thank you to all of the citizens for your support and enthusiasm. 950 SE Green Oaks Blvd, Arlington

THU 4 TOUR NIGHT AT COVENANT CHRISTIAN ACADEMY 7pm. Come find out about our premier academics, exemplary fine arts, and championship athletics in our distinctly Christian school for students in grades PK3 –12. Next Tour Night is Oct 6. 901 Cheek Sparger Rd, Colleyville 817-2814333 x 1, www.covenantchristian.net. See ad in this issue.

GRAPEVINE FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-4:00pm. Eat healthy with locally-grown produce and products!

The Grapevine Farmers Market is held Thursdays - Saturdays, thru October, at the Town Square Gazebo, 325 S. Main Street, Grapevine.

FREE OPEN HOUSE AT DOGWOOD CANYON AUDUBON CENTER 9:00am-5:00pm. Imagine a place where every child – and the child within us all – can discover the joy and mystery of the world in which we live. A quiet place where families and friends can find their connection to nature and each other.

Enjoy FREE admission all day. Dogwood Canyon Audubon Center, 1206 W FM 1382, Cedar Hill, www.dogwoodcanyon. audubon.org

JUMPSTART STORIES AND ART: SUMMER SPORTS AND GAMES 10:00am. Join us we celebrate athleticism, the thrill of victory and the rewards of good sportsmanship. Create a takehome art project and then browse the galleries with your kids as part of this fun AND FREE morning activity. Ages 2 and up. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-2787- www.irvingartscenter.com

BABYGARDEN STORYTIME 10:10am-10:30am. Prewalker (Infants) storytime. This small-group setting provides parents/caregivers and babies with physical closeness and a shared enjoyment of reading which can be modeled at home.

Online registration is required for this program. Classes fill up quickly. Bedford

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BABYGARDEN STORYTIME 10:50am-11:10am. For walkers 24 months and younger. This small-group setting provides parents/caregivers and babies with physical closeness and a shared enjoyment of reading which can be modeled at home. Online registration is required for this program.

Classes fill up quickly. Bedford Public Library - Storytime Theatre, 2424 Forest Ridge Dr., Bedford, 817-952-2373

TWOZEES STORYTIME 11:45am-12:05pm. This program is for active 2 year olds (24 - 36 months). Join Ms. Carrie for a magical, musical good time using books, songs, finger-plays, flannel boards and videos. Registration is not required for this free storytime.

Parents/caregivers must attend with their children. Bedford Public Library Storytime Theatre, 2424 Forest Ridge Dr., Bedford, 817-952-2373

COOL DOWN THURSDAYS 1:00pm-2:00pm. Join us for a tour and learn some old-fashioned tips and tricks for staying cool in the hot, hot Texas summer. After the tour, play games in the shade or relax and enjoy some cold treats on the front porch. Cost is $5 per family, up to five people. A.W. Perry Homestead Museum, 1509 N. Perry Road, Carrollton, 972-466-6380 cityofcarrollton.com/ museum. Call in advance.

ARTRAGEOUS ADVENTURE CAMPS 1:00pm-3:00pm. Every Tuesday & Thursday through August 9th, kids will experience a world of arts & crafts using various mediums. Ages 5 & up. $28 per individual class, $25 for 10 or more classes. Reservations Required.

Sunshine Glaze, Southlake Town Square, Southlake,817-424-1417 www. sunshineglaze.com

ONE WORLD, ONE SKY: BIG BIRD’S ADVENTURE 2:00pm. Adventure begins on Sesame Street when Elmo’s friend, Hu Hu Zhu, visits from China. Use your imagination to explore the moon. Return to earth and discover that even though we live far away, we all live under the same sky. Intended Audience: Ages 5-8 University of Texas at Arlington Planetarium, 700 Planetarium Place, Arlington, 817-272-1183 www.uta.edu/ planetarium

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FRI 5 TAX FREE WEEKEND 12:00am-2:00pm. Shop your local stores and malls for tax free shopping!

Most clothing, footwear and backpacks priced under $100 students are tax free this week-end. Lay-away plans can be used again this year to take advantage of the sales tax holiday.

GRAPEVINE FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-4:00 pm. Thursday-Saturday each week through October. 325 S. Main Street, Grapevine. farmersmarketofgrapevine.com

STORYTIME WITH SUNSHINE AT SUNSHINE GLAZE 10:00am-11:30am. $20 per child. Ages 3-5. Reservations required. Sunshine Glaze, 405 N. Carroll Ave., Southlake, 817-424-1417 www.sunshineglaze.com

CHILDREN’S SUMMER SERIES 11:00am. The movies change on a weekly basis but include several classic movies such as Shrek and Horton Hears a Who. All movies begin at 11 am.

Ticket prices are just $1 Studio Movie Grill, 225 Merchants Row, Arlington

SPLISH SPLASH STORYTIME 11:00am-12:45pm. Meet at the pool for stories, songs, splashing, and fun! Storytime is free and will take place in the outdoor pool. Those who wish to stay and swim can do so until 12:45 PM. For parents and children up to age 8. The Core, 234 E. Parkway Blvd, Coppell, Texas, www.coppelltx.gov

GRAPEVINE FARMERS MARKET - OUTDOOR 8:00am-4:00pm. Located in the heart of Grapevine. Don’t miss out on the freshest produce and goods around.

From our family, to yours...Thursday-Saturday each week through October, The outdoor market located at 325 South Main St. in Grapevine.

SAT 6 18TH ANNUAL NORTH TEXAS WELLNESS FAIR PRESENTED BY THE HISPANIC WELLNESS COALITION 8am-1pm. Free health screenings for children, parents, and grandparents, plus vaccines, mammograms, body fat analysis, hearing tests, school physicals, cooking demonstrations, exercise demonstrations, a blood drive and more. Forest Hill Civic & Convention

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OPEN HOUSE AT NORTH RICHLAND HILLS MONTESSORI 10am-2pm. 8725 North Tarrant Pkwy, North Richland Hills 817-281-9992 www. nrhmontessori.com. See ad in this issue.

KELLER FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-12:00pm. 1100 Bear Creek Parkway, Keller, kellerfarmersmarket.com

TINKERTOY®: BUILD YOUR IMAGINATION™ 9:00am-5:00pm. A new educational exhibit that combines the open-ended and inventive play qualities of the timeless TINKERTOY® construction set with GE’s innovative technologies that enrich our lives and our global community. C.R. Smith Museum, 4601 Hwy 360 at FAA Rd, Fort Worth, www. crsmithmuseum.org

RINGLING BROS. AND BARNUM & BAILEY: CIRCUS XTREME 7:30pm. High-wire wizards, powerful strongmen, BMX trick riders, trampoline daredevils, inconceivable contortionists and more! American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Ave., Dallas. www.ringling. com/tickets-schedules/ $$

ANIMAL EXPLORATION 2:00pm-3:00pm. Discover the habits and adaptations of one of our native animals during a live animal observation with a River Legacy Naturalist at River Legacy Living Science Center.

Free. Space is limited, please RSVP to 817-860-6752. 703 NW Green Oaks Blvd, Arlington, www.riverlegacy.org

COWTOWN FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-12:00pm. Market is open Saturdays 8-12 year-round under the tents in the parking lot of Edelweiss Restaurant and Texas Outdoors, 3821 Southwest Boulevard, Fort Worth, 817-763-0193

KELLER FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-12:00pm. 1100 Bear Creek Parkway, Keller

located less than one block from the Cotton Belt Depot. Lone Star Hi-Railers Model Train Association, 410 W. Dallas Rd, Grapevine, Texas, www. lonestarhirailers.com

ONE WORLD, ONE SKY: BIG BIRD’S ADVENTURE 1:00pm. Adventure begins on Sesame Street when Elmo’s friend, Hu Hu Zhu, visits from China. Use your imagination to explore the moon. Return to earth and discover that even though we live far away, we all live under the same sky. Intended Audience: Ages 5-8 University of Texas at Arlington Planetarium, 700 Planetarium Place, Arlington, 817-272-1183 www.uta.edu/planetarium

KIDS DROP-IN STUDIOKIMBELL 1:00pm-1:45pm. This free program introduces children (ages 12 and younger) and their adult companions to fun and inspiring ways to enjoy art together. Each session features a brief gallery activity and a related studio-art project. Space is limited; sign-up begins one hour prior to the program. Piano Pavilion Education Studios Kimbell Art Museum, 3333 Camp Bowie Blvd., Fort Worth, 817-332-8451 www.kimbellart.org

ANIMAL EXPLORATION 2:00pm-3:00pm. Discover the habits and adaptations of one of our native animals during a live animal observation with a River Legacy Naturalist at River Legacy Living Science Center. Free. Space is limited, please RSVP to 817-860-6752.

River Legacy Living Science Center, 703 NW Green Oaks Blvd, Arlington, 817-8606752 www.riverlegacy.org

MESQUITE CHAMPIONSHIP RODEO 7:30pm-10:30 pm. Summer is here and that means the Mesquite Championship Rodeo is back! Check website to find out the exciting events for this year and to purchase tickets. Mesquite Arena, 1818 Rodeo Drive, Mesquite, 972-2858777 mesquiterodeo.com

SUN 7 SADDLE UP SUPER SUNDAY!

GRAPEVINE FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-4:00pm. Thursday-Saturday each week through October, 325 S. Main Street, Grapevine

MODEL TRAIN EXHIBIT 10:00am-4:00pm. Unique hi-rail O gauge model train layout built inside an authentic vintage baggage car and

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KNOW IT ALL host celebrity trainer Autumn Calabrese and Beachbody CEO, Carl Daikeler, for motivation, training, and exciting product announcements before closing it all out with a massive live workout with Autumn! Buy your ticket early and save!

Embassy Suites Dallas Frisco Hotel Convention Center & Spa, 7600 John Q Hammons Drive, Frisco, Danielle Natoni danielle@iamfitandfunky.com tbbdallas.com

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NEXT SESSION OF SWIM LESSONS BEGINS AT OFF THE DEEP END AQUATICS Evening classes held at indoor heated pool at Texas Health, Harris Methodist HEB in Euless. 4 to 1 student/instructor ratio with well trained, energetic and fun instructors. Other sessions begin Sep 6 & Oct 4. Register online at offthedeependaquatics.com or call 682-200-7865. See ad in this issue.

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SUNDAY FUNDAY 12:00pm-6:00pm. Laid back, family-friendly experience on the banks of, and in, the Trinity River at Panther Island Pavilion. Rent a tube or bring your own, try a variety of paddle sports, Stand Up Paddleboard yoga, disc golf and more. Bring blankets, chairs, games or anything else that would be fun in the sun. Food and drinks will be available for purchase. No outside coolers, food or drinks will be allowed on site. OK to bring pets on leashes.

Panther Island Pavilion, 395 Purcey St., Fort Worth www.sundayfundayfw.com/

MON 8 THE BIG FEAT – THE WORLD’S LARGEST SHOE DRIVE, A RINGLING BROS. SPECIAL EVENT 12:00am-12:00pm. Circus fans across North Texas are invited to participate in a Guinness World Records attempt for “Most Shoes Donated to a Charity in a 24-Hour Period.” On Aug. 8-9, Ringling Bros. will be accepting shoe donations on the Plaza at American Airlines Center. There will be a circus party on Aug. 9 from 5-8 p.m. on the AAC Plaza with a host of fun activities for kids and families including performances by the Ringling Bros. Clown Alley, face painting, circus games, and more. Once suburban parent AUGUST 2016

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12:00pm-3:00pm. Unique hi-rail O gauge model train layout built inside an authentic vintage baggage car and located less than one block from the Cotton Belt Depot. Lone Star Hi-Railers Model Train Association, 410 W. Dallas Rd, Grapevine, www.lonestarhirailers.com

12:00pm-5:00pm. No studio fees on ceramic painting all day plus 20% off mosaics & glass fusion. We do not take reservations for Free Fee Sunday. Sunshine Glaze, 405 North Carroll Avenue, Southlake, Texas, 817-424-1417 www. sunshineglaze.com

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counted, the shoes will be donated to Rockwall-based The Shoe Bank, a non-profit providing shoes to families locally and throughout the world. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Ave., Dallas, www.ringlingcharityshoedrive.com

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11:00am-10:37am. “Be the Dinosaur” - uses state-of-the-art video game technology in a hands-on exhibit featuring full-size dinosaur bones, a paleontology field station, a Safari Jeep and more.

Visitors of all ages can virtually “be the dinosaur” as they explore questions about dinosaur life. Grapevine Convention and Visitors Bureau, 636 S. Main St., Grapevine

STORY SPOT SESSIONS 10:15am-10:35am. This program is for children of all ages and their parent or caregiver. The storytime incorporates rhymes, finger plays, stories and puppetry. No registration is required for this free program. Bedford Public Library - Storytime Theatre, 2424 Forest Ridge Dr., Bedford, Carrie Glindeman -817-952-2373

STORY SPOT SESSIONS 11:00am-11:20am. This program is for children of all ages and their parent or caregiver. The storytime incorporates rhymes, finger plays, stories and puppetry. No registration is required for this free program. Bedford Public Library - Storytime Theatre, 2424 Forest Ridge Dr., Bedford, 817-952-2373

ARTRAGEOUS ADVENTURE CAMPS 1:00pm-3:00pm. Every Tuesday & Thursday through August 9th, kids will experience a world of arts & crafts using various mediums. Ages 5 & up. $28 per individual class, $25 for 10 or more classes. Reservations Required.

Sunshine Glaze, Southlake Town Square, Southlake, 817-424-1417 www. sunshineglaze.com

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KNOW IT ALL WED 10 TINKERTOY®: BUILD YOUR IMAGINATION™ 9:00am-5:00pm a new educational exhibit that combines the open-ended and inventive play qualities of the timeless TINKERTOY® construction set with GE’s innovative technologies that enrich our lives and our global community. Giant TINKERTOY® building pieces create a fantastic framework for all of the exhibit’s activities, and real TINKERTOY® construction sets take center stage in an awe-inspiring collection of TINKERTOY® pieces featured in a creative play area.

C.R. Smith Museum, 4601 Hwy 360 at FAA Rd, Fort Worth , Texas, www.crsmithmuseum.org

DYNAMIC EARTH AT THE PLANETARIUM 2:00pm. Visitors may come to see this amazing new show at no cost. Dynamic Earth explores the inner workings of Earth’s climate engine with visualizations based on satellite monitoring data and advanced supercomputer simulations.

Audiences will ride along on swirling ocean and wind currents, dive into the heart of a monster hurricane, come face-to-face with sharks and gigantic whales, and fly into roiling volcanoes.

Planetarium at UT Arlington, 700 Planetarium Place, Arlington, www.uta.edu/ planetarium

HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS 10:00am-4:00pm. Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo!

Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, www.fortworthzoo.org

LEGOS AT THE LIBRARY: FREEBUILDERS 3:30pm-5:00pm. Do you have a LEGO enthusiast who can spend hours engrossed in creative building? This is a great environment for your kids to make new friends, use their imaginations, and for the development of problem solving skills. Ages: 6-12, Admission: free, No registration required. Bedford Public Library, Storytime Theatre, 2424 Forest Ridge Dr, Bedford, 817-952-2374 www. bedfordlibrary.org

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weight and lacking energy? Too many people are being misdiagnosed and put on medications they don’t need. Learn the symptoms, proper diagnosis, and available treatments for hormone imbalances. This talk is for both men and women.Refreshments and registration begins at 5:45 PM - Lectures will begin 6 PM and last 45 - 60 minutes each -Free childcare services will be provided The Marq, 285 Shady Oaks Dr., Southlake, 817-748-8019 www.southlakeparksandrec.com

GRAPEVINE FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-4:00pm. Thursday-Saturday each week through October. 325 S. Main Street, Grapevine, farmersmarketofgrapevine.com

FRI 12 JUST BETWEEN FRIENDS CONSIGNMENT SALE 9:00am-7:00pm. Just Between Friends Children’s 3-DAY Consignment Event!

Go Early and Save! Find everything your kids will need for Back To School. Get ready now for Fall and Winter too. Friday, August 12th, 9am-Noon PrimeTime Shop $10/person; 12pm-7pm Regular Shop FREE ADMISSION. Saturday, August 13th 9:30am-10am PrimeTime Half-Price Sale $5/person, 10am-7:00 pm Half-Price Sale FREE ADMISSION, Sunday, August 14th 9am-Noon Half Price Sale & 75% off donates FREE ADMISSION Grapevine Convention Center, 1209 S. Main Street, Grapevine, www.jbfsale.com. See ad in this issue.

QUILT PLANO 9:00am-5:00pm. This year’s show will house over 300 quilts along with some very special exhibits. And with over 45 vendors, this can be your one-stop shopping event for everything quilting.

Filled with door prizes, free skill sessions and special kids activities, this will be an event you won’t want to miss. Plano Centre, 2000 E. Spring Creek Pkwy, Plano, Texas, www.plano.gov

STORYTIME WITH SUNSHINE AT SUNSHINE GLAZE 10:00am-11:30am. $20 per child. Ages 3-5. Reservations required. Sunshine Glaze, 405 N. Carroll Ave., Southlake, 817-424-1417 www.sunshineglaze.com

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6pm-7pm. “Hormones and Your Brain” presented by Mark Anderson, MD, DABFP Feeling a little foggy lately? Gaining

11am. The movies change on a weekly basis but include several classic movies such as Shrek and Horton Hears a Who.

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KNOW IT ALL All movies begin at 11am. Ticket prices are just $1 Studio Movie Grill, 225 Merchants Row, Arlington

ME AND MY AMERICAN GIRL DOLL CLASS 4:30pm-6:30pm. Mosaic a plaque of your first initial & paint a mini initial for your favorite doll! $25 per child. Ages 5 & up.

Reservations required. Sunshine Glaze, 405 North Carroll Avenue, Southlake 817424-1417 www.sunshineglaze.com

STUDIO FIVE 90: UNEXPECTED INTERIORS 5:00pm-6:30pm. Open-format sessions for teens and adults join art-making and gallery activities to encourage fresh ways of looking at and responding to featured artworks and themes. Space is limited; sign-up begins one hour prior to the program. Kimbell Art Museum, 3333 Camp Bowie Blvd, Fort Worth www.kimbellart.org

SAT 13 COWTOWN FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-12:00pm. Market is open Saturdays year-round under the tents in the parking lot of Edelweiss Restaurant, 3821 Southwest Boulevard, Fort Worth, 817-763-0193

KELLER FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-12:00pm. 1100 Bear Creek Parkway, Keller, , kellerfarmersmarket.com

GRAPEVINE FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-4:00pm Thursday-Saturday each week through October. , 325 S. Main Street, Grapevine, farmersmarketofgrapevine.com

CHAMPIONS DAY (SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN & ADULTS) 8:30am-10:00am. Champions will get in free on Champions Day. One family member or caregiver accompanying them can get in for only $5, while additional immediate family members are also offered discounted tickets. More importantly, the Champions and their families will have special access to the park before it is open to the public. The Champions, caregivers and families can stay all day for no additional charge.

During the special Champions Day hours, the music volume will be turned down for those who deal with sensory issues and extra staff will be on hand to create a more favorable staff-to-guest ratio. Hawaiian Falls Waterpark, All Hawaiian Falls Waterparks, North Texas, Texas, www.hfalls.com/championsday

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SUN 14 SUNDAY FUNDAY 12:00pm-6:00pm. Laid back, family-friendly experience on the banks of, and in, the Trinity River at Panther Island Pavilion. Rent a tube or bring your own, try a variety of paddle sports, Stand Up Paddleboard yoga, disc golf and more. Bring blankets, chairs, games or anything else that would be fun in the sun. Food and drinks will be available for purchase. No outside coolers, food or drinks will be allowed on site. OK to bring pets on leashes.

Panther Island Pavilion, 395 Purcey St., Fort Worth www.sundayfundayfw.com/

MON 15 EVERYDAY DOLLAR DAYS DALLAS ARBORETUM 12:30pm-2:30pm. For the month of August - $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www.dallasarboretum.org

GRAPEVINE FARMERS MARKET – INDOOR 8am-8pm Mon-Sat and Sundays 9am-6pm. The indoor market is at 520 South Main St. #203 in Grapevine and is open all year.

ART HOUSE 11:00am-12:00pm. ART house of Southlake will lead the group in creating penguin prints, while supplies last. Best for ages 4-10. Free Southlake Library, 1400 Main St.,, Southlake, Texas, 817748-8243 www.cityofsouthlake.com

TUE 16 STORY SPOT SESSIONS 10:15am-10:35am. This program is for children of all ages and their parent or caregiver. The storytime incorporates rhymes, finger plays, stories and puppetry. No registration is required for this free program. Bedford Public Library – 2424 Forest Ridge Dr., Bedford, 817-952-2373

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10:00am-4:00pm. Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, Texas, www. fortworthzoo.org

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Lessons for age 2 – adult, beginner – professional. Now enrolling. 12077 Katy Rd, Ste 713, Keller 817-428-8232 northcentralballet.com. See ad in this issue.

EVERYDAY DOLLAR DAYS DALLAS ARBORETUM 12:30pm-2:30pm. For the month of August - $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days.

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11:00am-5:00pm. Stop on in! “Be the Dinosaur” uses state-of-the-art video game technology in a hands-on exhibit featuring full-size dinosaur bones, a paleontology field station, a Safari Jeep and more. Grapevine Convention and Visitors Bureau, 636 S. Main St. $4/per person.

FRI 19 GRAPEVINE FARMERS MARKET – INDOOR 8am-8pm Mon-Sat and Sundays 9am-6pm. The indoor market is at 520 South Main St. #203 in Grapevine and is open all year.

SUN 20 GEORGE W. BUSH PRESIDENTIAL CENTER Runs through October 2nd. New, Fun, Interactive Exhibit. Test your handshake in a “Grip-o-meter, and more! BONUS: Sit behind President’s resolute desk in full-size replica of White House Oval Office for Facebook profile photo.

Check website for museum hours and to purchase tickets. 2943 SMU Blvd, Dallas, 214-200-4300. bushcenter.org

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7:00pm- 8:30pm. Thinking about homeschooling? Wondering what’s involved, how it works? Our “Getting Started” info meetings are designed to teach you the basics of homeschooling and help you get started on the right foot. Bedford Public Library, 2424 Forest Ridge Dr.

WED 24 ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS 10:00am-4:00pm. Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth www. fortworthzoo.org

THU 25 LADIES NIGHT AT SUNSHINE GLAZE 6pm-9pm. Ladies enjoy free studio fees on ceramic painting plus 20% off mosaics, canvas painting, & glass fusion from 6-9pm.BYOB. Reservations recommended for groups of 5 or more.

405 North Carroll Avenue, Southlake, 817-424-1417 sunshineglaze.com

LIVEFIT SUMMER SERIES 6:00pm-7:30pm. “Genetics, Epigenetics, and Mindset: The secret to Longevity” Secrets to a long and healthy life may be in your genes.

Learn what the research tells us about longevity, coupled with the experiences and accounts of multiple people who have lived past their 100th birthday. Refreshments and registration begins at 5:45. Free childcare services. The Marq - 285 Shady Oaks Dr., Southlake 817-748-8019 www.southlakeparksandrec.com

FRI 26 HOT AIR BALLOON FESTIVAL Runs through the 28th. Enjoy the majesty of hot air balloons at Grand Prairie’s new Balloonapalooza Hot Air

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KNOW IT ALL Balloon Festival. From morning and evening glows, food vendors, concerts and rides, the festival also offers the chance to get up close with the balloons and balloonists to see how they operate. Rides are available through the balloonists for a fee. Information: 1000 Lone Star Pkwy, Grand Prairie www.lonestarpark.com

SAT 27 KIMBELL KIDS DROP-IN STUDIO 1:00-1:45pm - This free program introduces children (ages 12 and younger) and their adult companions to fun and inspiring ways to enjoy art together. Each session features a brief gallery activity and a related studio-art project. Space is limited; sign-up begins one hour prior to the program. Piano Pavilion Education Studios, 3333 Camp Bowie Blvd. Fort Worth, 817-332-8451, www.kimbellart.org

SUN 28 DIVINE CONSIGN CHILDREN’S AND MATERNITY CONSIGNMENT SALE

Cowtown Coliseum in 1909. The shows are based on actual events and stunts that occurred in the original Pawnee Bill’s Wild West Show. Historical figures such as Pawnee Bill come to life and transport the spectator back in time. Cowtown Coliseum, 121 E. Exchange Ave., Fort Worth, 817-625-1025, www.stockyardsrodeo. com $15 adults, $9 Children

SAVE THE DATE… SEPT 10 NUTCRACKER AUDITIONS AT NORTH CENTRAL BALLET Open auditions for ages 5 and up. Age 5: 10-10:45am. Ages 6-8: 11:15am-12:15pm.

Ages 9-12: 12:30-1:30pm. Ages 13+: 2-3pm. Performance dates are Dec2-4 at Will Rogers Memorial Auditorium in Ft Worth. Auditions held at 12077 Katy Rd, Ste 713, Keller 817-428-8232 northcentralballet.com. See ad in this issue.

SEP 24 HEROES FOR CHILDREN HEART OF GOLD 5K & FUN RUN

12:00pm-5:00pm. Through August 30.

The Metroplex’s favorite twice-yearly children’s consignment sale specializing in the highest quality gently worn children’s and maternity clothing, toys, books, games, DVDs, baby equipment, baby and children’s furniture. 2000 E. Spring Creek Pkwy Plano, www.divineconsign.net

Heroes for Children advocates for & provides financial and social assistance to families with children 0-22 battling cancer. The Plaza at Galatyn Park, Richardson. Register at thedriven. net/2016heroes5K. See ad in this issue.

PAWNEE BILL’S WILD WEST SHOW

STATE FAIR OF TEXAS OPENS

2:30-4:30pm. Watch trick roping, trick shooting and trick riding during a historical re-enactment of the original show that toured the country some 90 years ago, first held in Fort Worth’s

The Fair runs from Sept 30-Oct 23.

Come enjoy a celebration as big as Texas. New this year, print-at-home tickets and coupon vouchers. Fair Park, Dallas.

Visit BIGTEX.COM. See ad in this issue.

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FUN STUFF { LIFE IS BETTER WHEN YOU’RE LAUGHING }

WHAT IS THE SMARTEST STATE?

WHY WAS THE TEACHER CROSS-EYED?

WHERE DID THE MUSIC TEACHER LEAVE HER KEYS?

SHE COULDN’T CONTROL HER PUPILS!

IN THE PIANO! Source: enchantedlearning.com

ALABAMA, IT HAS FOUR A’S AND ONE B!

A Lunch Full

GOTTA LOVE ‘EM

of Encouragement!

My daughter wanted to take my picture.

“Mommy! Chin up, not too much, just like a princess” and continued, “When I grow up, I’m going to be a princess.” My reply – “Yes honey, you could be a princess.” Her reply – “Mommy, why didn’t you choose to be a princess instead of a Countess?” Laughing – I replied “Anna Elisa, I’m an accountant!!! She must be thinking, Silly mommy, what were you thinking!!! Wonder how many of her friends and their parents have been told I’m a Countess!

— ELSIE VILLANUEVA, MOM TO A FUTURE PRINCESS

As we get ready to send our kids off to another year of school, let’s remember to remind them of who they are, and how strong they are.

Tell them that even when things are bad, they will get better, and that sometimes it’s our attitude that makes the difference in a situation. You can put these words of encouragement in your kids’ lunch boxes, slip them in a pocket or tape onto the bathroom mirror.

Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying I will try again tomorrow.

– Unknown

– Mary Anne Radmacher

LOL WITH JAMES ESTES!

It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities. – Dumbledore You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.

Become a possibilitarian.

No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see possibilities — always see them, for they’re always there.

– Art Williams

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– Socrates

There are far better things ahead than any we leave behind.

– C.S. Lewis

We all must make the choice between what is right, and what is easy.

– Dumbledore

– Norman Vincent Peale

Be curious, not judgmental. – Walt Whitman

– Dr. Seuss

ou I’m not telling y it’s going to be easy. I’m telling you it’s going to be worth it.

Wisdom begins in wonder.

You are allowed to scream. You are allowed to cry. You are allowed to scream. But, you are not allowed to give up.

When something goes wrong in your life, just yell, “PLOT TWIST,” and move on. – Unknown

You are br than you aver believe, stronger th you seem an and smarter than you think .

– Winnie the Pooh

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BACKTALK { BY KEN SWARNER }

THEY ALL CAN’T BE SPORTS STARS

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ot all boys march to the same whistle. They can’t all be

I was particularly eager to hear how the game went last week because

the star athletes at their schools or neighborhood sports

I knew Drew asked his dad to take him out over the prior weekend to

programs. Some boys are just the average kids on the field

work on his ball handling skills. Bill, being the great dad he is, drilled

or court. They do their part for the team but never receive the

Drew’s passing game.

accolades that are saved for the mighty few.

And then there is my nephew Drew. Bless his little heart. Drew is eight.

He’s a sensitive kind of kid. The boy you’d expect to grow up and become anyone who can’t do a lay up or catch a fly ball or keep the ball inside the

That next Monday morning, Bill announced Drew had successfully caught several passes and then dribbled down the court and made the shots - after several attempts and a juice break.

Tuesday morning, Bill announced that the first pass Drew received at

box at the Putt-Putt Golf Course. They say white men can’t jump? Drew

the team practice that night went like clockwork. Drew deftly held up his

can’t even get his GI Joe to do it.

hands to catch the ball, and then, at the very last minute, ducked. Tuesday

Some dads would think the world came to an end if they had Drew as

night, at Drew’s insistence, Bill worked with Drew some more. At the game

a son. They would brow-beat their kid - ask him why he can’t be like the

Wednesday, Bill said Drew was pumped up and ready to play. In fact, run-

other kids - look to the heavens and say “God, why me?”

ning up and down the court, Drew was in the face of the opposing team

Drew’s dad is an avid sports fan and played quite a number of sports while growing up. I work with Drew’s dad - my brother-in-law Bill.

member. Bill said he was certain some parents who didn’t know Drew were quite impressed.

Thankfully, Bill is cool with Drew’s lack of game.

Bill isn’t trying to make Drew anything that Drew is not.

talking trash with the other player,” Bill said.

In fact, it’s Drew that has

“Of course, what Drew was really saying

been eager to join sports.

to the other player was “do you like Legos too?”

Right now, Drew is in the middle of basketball

The world needs kids like Drew.

season. Seeing that

Those boys and girls who despite

he has yet to score

being uncoordinated still show up to every practice and

a basket, Drew has been asking his

game and do their best.

dad for help on his

They remind us that it’s not

skills. And, luckily

about winning and losing games - it’s about measuring

for my column, Bill

success by perseverance

has been providing me

and having fun. I know Drew

with the post-mortem,

will grow up to be brilliant in

the play-by-play of sorts,

some way, and though ESPN will

for Drew’s regular Monday night practices and Wednesday

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never cover it, I for one will wish I had a bubblegum card with Drew’s picture on it. SP

night games.

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