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SETTING LIMITS Dr. Michael Bradley, a psychologist and author, recommends that you talk to teenagers about your expectations and what the consequences will be for ignoring them. Also discuss - a clean room, decent grades, 9 hours of sleep, and remind your teenager that with responsibility comes privilege (for example, decent grades means you’re more likely to let them go to a concert on a school night). Lastly, with the transition from middle school to high school, parents should be willing to backoff just a bit for things like clothes, non-offensive slang, hair styles, music …“Your teenager is just trying to figure out who they truly are.” adds Bradley

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Whether this is your first year with a kid in school or your last, be sure to join the PTA. You may not be eager to attend another meeting, but when you do, good things happen. First, you set a great example for your child as you show them your commitment to their education, whether it’s just starting or coming to an end.

You also get to connect with teachers and other parents. Plus, you’ll stay in the know about what’s going on at school. Then, there’s the opportunity to put your skills to good use for a good cause. Who knows, you may even develop some new ones. Sign up!

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Back to school means back to school pictures. Here are some tips to get good portraits of your kids this year. First, dress them cute, but comfortable.

Uncomfortable clothes make for uncomfortable poses. Boys, schedule haircuts at least a week in advance. Girls, wear only age appropriate makeup. And finally, have fun with it. Missing some teeth or just got braces? Sporting a new set of specs? Show ‘em off! You want to capture this age and stage in all its glory.

Besides, what good is a “Remember Them When” picture if it’s not even funny?

Well-rested children are happy children. They’re also healthier, better behaved and better learners too. With school starting again soon, make sure you’re aware of the most recent sleep guidelines given by the experts at the American Academy of Sleep Medicine. 12-16 hours for children 4-12 months; 11-14 hours for children 1-2 years; 10-13 hours for children 3-5 years; 9-12 hours for children 6-12 years and 8-10 hours for teens 13-18 years.

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August is Children’s Eye Health and Safety Month – a great reminder that it’s important to have a good eye health check-up for your child so they can perform at their personal best in academics and sports. The American Optometric Association (AOA) recommends the first comprehensive eye exam at 6 months of age, then again at 3 years of age, and just before they enter kindergarten or the first grade at about age 5 or 6 years.

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JAMIE, CONCERENED MOM Q. Do I need to have my child visit an eye doctor? I was not sure if I should rely on the School’s eye exams.

A. Montessori education founded in 1907 by Dr. Maria Montessori, who based her educational methods on scientific observation of children’s learning processes. The Montessori process emphasizes learning through all five senses, not just through listening, watching, or reading. Children in Montessori classes learn at their own, pace and according to their own choice of activities from hundreds of possibilities. Research studies show that Montessori children are well prepared for later life academically, socially, and emotionally. Ask: If they are affiliated with AMI or AMS and teacher training. Visit the School and observe a classroom in action; ask a prospective teacher about child development and education to see if it’s compatible with yours.

A. There are common misconceptions of why eye exams in children are not important. Like, my son doesn’t complain of blurry vision, or my child’s grades are good…. School screenings don’t qualify as an eye exam; and they were never intended to replace a professional eye exam. It’s important to know that the American Optometric Association, American Academy of Ophthalmology and Prevent Blindness America has begun to recommend that your child receive their first eye exam at 6 months of age. So go ahead and get that on your calendar as a to-do!

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It’s important for a child’s success to see that his parents are involved in the school; like volunteering, library duty, fundraising, participating in parent/teacher conferences, etc. There is research that indicates there are many benefits for students when parents make the effort to develop good parent-teacher relationship. An added bonus! When you’ve established that parent-teacher relationship, it’s much easier to trust your child and teacher to work through any classroom issues on their own. And at a scheduled conference with the teacher you can gain more insight into his development.

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Q. My kids want to download Pokémon Go. What do other families think of the hunt?

A. Several requests came in on this topic here at Suburban Parent headquarters, and there are several important aspects to consider. *Know that in-app purchases range from 99-cents to $99.99 for Pokécoins. *This game consumes a lot of mobile data, keep a close eye on it to avoid overages. *Safety-kids running around with phones in hand and watching screens can be dangerous. *The real opportunity with this “trending” hunt is the chance to explore together, to learn from one another, and engage in your broader community. *Children 5th grade and up probably have the capacity to explore familiar areas on their own, although the idea of a two-person team, one acting as a safety spotter, is a good idea. *Teaching the value of teamwork and taking turns has many benefits even beyond Pokémon Go. Children younger than 5th grade can be part of a parent team. You can find much more info online.

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MOMENTS { BY PATRICK HEMPFING }

The Half Way Point

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unscrewed the child safety cap from the white,

orange juice, ate her yogurt and oatmeal, and then

plastic bottle, and turned it upside down. A single

went to get dressed. While she prepared for her big

Flintstones chewable vitamin, the last one in the

day, I packed her lunch and wrote a little note to

bottle, dropped into the palm of my left hand. Since

include in her lunch bag, wishing her a great first day

Jessie turned two, my days have begun this way. This morning though, the empty pill bottle feels a bit more significant. It’s Jessie’s first day of 5th grade.

Except for the early wake-up call, Jessie says “Hooray.” She likes school and is anxious to see her friends. After a wonderful summer with lots of

the rear seat to the front passenger seat when it’s just it’s easy for her to change the radio station to songs I

in school. It’s important that a writer writes.

can barely understand, but that’s a different column.

As I drove Jessie to school for the first time as a

grader, I’m at the halfway point.” I quickly did

front-seat passenger, it felt strange. I couldn’t help but

the math in my head. Pre-K plus kindergarten

think that I was just buckling my baby in her car seat. I

plus grades 1-12 totals 14, divided by 2

recalled the days I carried my little girl into the house

equals seven. Pre-K done. Kindergarten

when she fell asleep in the car, or pretended to, which

at the halfway point.

we called “playing possum.”

This morning, however, I didn’t see my baby. I didn’t see the little girl with the squished-tight eyes and smile

I mentally walked

playing possum, though Jessie would have enjoyed an

to the bedroom,

extra hour or two of sleep. No, today, I saw a girl who

grabbed a pillow

could easily pass for a teenager.

for over my

During the drive, I shared my standard lines, “Give

mouth, and yelled,

it your all,” “keep a positive attitude,” and “tell the boys

“Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!”

your dad has golf clubs” (to chase them away from my

I didn’t do it, but the thought definitely crossed my mind. How can Jessie be a 5th grader? I just read, “Children 2 to 3 years

little girl). Reluctantly, I dropped her off at the carpool lane, rather than holding her hand and walking her to class as we had done in previous years. The wheels of her coral-colored book bag hit the sidewalk, and she headed off to 5th grade.

of age – Chew one-half tablet

I’m confident Jessie will have a great year in school.

daily with food” on the back of

She’ll need some more vitamins, though. On my way to

the Flintstones bottle. We went from a half tablet to a full tablet to empty bottle after empty bottle way too quickly.

Jessie chewed her vitamin, drank her

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Over the summer, I allowed Jessie to move from

have more quiet time to write while Jessie is

Jessie completes 5th grade, indeed, she’ll be

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photo. Moments like this are meant to be captured.

the two of us in the vehicle. She loves to sit up front as

complete. Grades 1-4 in the books. When

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Prior to driving Jessie to school, she rolled her book bag out to the driveway. Of course, I had to take a

cherished moments, Dad says “Hooray,” too. I

Last night Jessie said, “Dad, as a 5th

FOLLOW PATRICK

of 5th grade.

pick up a bottle, I might need to stop at the donut shop for some “glazed comfort.”

Until next month, remember to cherish the moments. SP

Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting, and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad, and writer. If you enjoyed this column, you’ll like Patrick’s first book, MoMENts: A Dad Holds On. The book compiles favorite stories and new material and is for sale on Amazon.com. facebook.com/patricklhempfing

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A PA R E N T P E P TA L K

BY C H R I S T I N A K AT Z

Middle School Years...

Expect Memories, Not Mayhem

ny parent who has survived the middle school years will assure you that you can navigate them, too. Although the honeymoon period of elementary school is over and middle school comes with ample trials and tribulations for most kids, try not to expect the worst. Parents who welcome the challenges of middle school as opportunities for growth will be still be smiling by the time they attend the eighth grade promotion ceremony.

Expect your child to face and overcome hurdles in middle school. Middle school is supposed to be about making mistakes and bouncing back from disappointments. Kids who navigate turbulence with spunk will mature in middle school. Kids who struggle with self-awareness and assertiveness are going to need extra support to develop skills they will need in high school.

If you want your kids to thrive in middle school, don’t leave them to their own devices. Parents who expect everything to be hunky dory all the time will likely be disappointed. Parents who think

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kids can figure everything out for themselves at this age with little adult supervision may want to wake up. This is middle school, the preparation for high school, which is the preparation for college, which is preparation for adulthood. Your child is going to need you each and every day.

Middle-Schoolers are embarking on a two or three-year journey and they will come out the other end of the process transformed. Whether or not they are changed for the better is largely up to you, parents. Here is a list of some of the challenges middle school kids face and how tuned-in parents can help.

kids about how they are adjusting to these new learning modes so you can help smooth the way.

DEALING WITH SOCIAL PRESSURES .

How much social pressure exists in middle school?

Tons. So role up your sleeves, parents, and always be ready to trouble-shoot. The best advice takes your child’s personality into account and eschews going along with all the crowds all the time. Middle school is a great time for kids to learn how to say, you do things your way and I’ll do things mine.

EXPRESSING INDIVIDUALITY . At the

KEEPING UP WITH SCHOOL ASSIGNMENTS & PROJECT DEADLINES . Kids tend to procrastinate.

end of the summer, sit down with your child and make a list of words that describe who he is. Do this every year before heading back to school to remind your student that he has interests and he’s allowed to like whatever he chooses. This list will evolve over the years, and that’s great, too.

EXPANDING LEARNING ABILITIES .

Middle school is an opportunity to try new ways of learning. Kids will get to do science labs for the first time, peer edit each other’s writing, work on projects with partners or in groups. Talk to your

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Some have trouble understanding that projects and papers must be worked on incrementally to be adequately prepared. A little bit of planning support goes a long way until dreamy tweens can get the hang of due dates.

NAVIGATING THE ONLINE WORLD. Your child is carrying a phone, a camera, and a computer in her pocket. Giving kids too much responsibility too soon can lead to extra expenses

and shaken confidence. So trust your instincts, parents. You will know when your child is ready to embrace the job of caring for a phone.

FINDING HEALTHY TRIBES .

Kids will be kids but no parent wants their child hanging out with a bunch of troublemakers. Your child’s peer group has a huge influence on his daily life. Teach your kids to choose friends wisely and to distance themselves from those who make consistently unhealthy choices.

COMMUNICATING WITH TEACHERS AND COACHES . You know how to do this, but now it’s time to let your child step up and converse with authority figures.

You can encourage her, confirm it’s happening, and even follow up with adults to make sure your child isn’t blowing you smoke. But let her do it or she won’t learn how.

CONFRONTING BULLIES. Not avoiding bullies. Not hiding from bullies.

Not doing whatever bullies want so they won’t pick on you. Confronting bullies means being able to stand up to someone being mean to your child whether his friends will back him up or not. Let your kids know you expect them to stand up for themselves and for others in need of assistance and watch them do it.

BECOMING A POSITIVE CONTRIBUTOR . Everyone hates substitutes. No one likes the new math teacher. That kid is so weird. But guess what, kiddo? It doesn’t matter because you are expected to be kind and respectful to everyone at your school, including teachers and substitutes. Furthermore, you will actively contribute in your classes and make positive contributions to your school on an ongoing basis. Got it?

BOUNCING BACK FROM FAILURE AND DISAPPOINTMENTS . Perhaps the toughest days in middle school are the not-making-the-cut days or the performing poorly on the test days or the getting sent to the principal days. How you respond to this is important. Kids need to process their feelings before they can bounce back and do the right thing. Be calm and patient as you help them figure it all out.

TEST-DRIVING ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS . Some kids will dive right into relationships in middle school.

Others will stay on the sidelines so they can spectate and speculate. Others may not seem interested at all. This is the beginning of practicing intimacy, so be sure to have lots of conversations with your child about the differences between healthy and unhealthy romantic relationships.

PRIORITIZING NEEDS . Kids have needs and those needs matter even when life is hectic. Maybe your daughter needs a jog bra for gym class.

Maybe she needs a new notebook for algebra. Maybe she needs you to sign a field trip form and write a check. Have a regular plan-the-week meeting on the weekend to discuss what your child is going to need from you and avoid lastminute crunches that create needless stress and bickering.

LEARNING ABOUT THE WORLD .

There is a whole wide world out there, and now your child is old enough to start learning about all of its complexities. What a great time to teach your child about respecting diversity, tolerating differences, and envisioning a more peaceful world.

They can practice all of these principles right in middle school.

REMEMBERING TO REST. Taking nice long baths with soft music and candles. Pulling the black-out curtains for a three-hour afternoon nap. A six-episode, BBC Pride and Prejudice binge-watching sessions to recover from the sniffles.

Growing kids need to unwind sometimes, but they may have trouble recognizing this. When this happens, give them a nudge in a decompressing direction.

SHINING DESPITE SPEED BUMPS . Guess what, parents? Your kid is going to stumble, fall, and maybe even face-plant in middle school. But he will still have plenty of shining moments, where he is ecstatic and in his element. If your child isn’t having enough moments like these, call a family meeting, put your heads together, and look for new opportunities where he is more likely to succeed. SP

Author, journalist, and writing coach Christina Katz is actually a bit sad that the middle school adventures are over. But she’s looking forward to the challenges that high school will bring.

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TEMPLE CHRISTIAN ACADEMY......................... 17 Learning Center (Infant to Pre-K) 972-539-1298 Academy 972-874-8700 www.templechristian.com

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SEEDS OF SCHOOL SUCCESS

NURTURING THE PARENT-TEACHER RELATIONSHIP

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ids are notoriously reticent when it comes to divulging details of their school lives. Questions from parents often receive a single-word response. Or a shrug. The first indication of a problem may come via an unexpected call or email from the teacher. Want better insight into classroom dynamics? There’s a solution: Get to know your child’s teacher. Research shows that a solid working relationship between teacher and parent can lead to fewer behavioral problems and better academic performance for the child. Sally McEntire, mother of two, has made a practice of nurturing the parent-teacher relationship early on. She says, “I don’t want the teacher to hesitate talking to me if they have concerns regarding my child.” My son’s elementary teacher, Ms. Isabel, who has been teaching for nine years, sends a memo to parents shortly after school starts, noting times when help is needed. She’s aware that many parents are unable to volunteer during the school day, and lists many tasks that can be done off site. She laughs, “It was one of my parents who set up the online volunteer sign-up system for my classroom last year!” Following are “building blocks” for that parent-teacher relationship.

VOLUNTEER

INTRODUCE YOURSELF

Let the teacher know if you have particular strengths, interests, and preferences. Do you like working directly with students? Or would you rather prepare materials? If your schedule doesn’t allow you to be in the classroom, can you chaperone an occasional field trip?

Face-to-face contact is best, but a brief email or handwritten note works, too. You want the teacher to connect your child specifically to you.

HELP WITHOUT HELICOPTERING

You can volunteer in the classroom without being your child’s personal assistant. Look for opportunities to help other students or prep materials while observing your child. If your presence distracts your child, perhaps you can assist in the library, lunchroom, or another classroom.

DEFINE COMMUNICATION

Some teachers prefer to correspond via email. Others like a quick handwritten note, and still others prefer an after-school phone call. Pay attention to specifics. As Ms. Isabel says, “Don’t send an important email before school starts in the morning—I won’t be able to read it.”

KEEP THE TEACHER IN THE LOOP

Convey circumstances likely to affect your child’s classroom performance. A recent illness, lack of sleep, side effects from medication, an impending move, a death or divorce in the family—all can impact a child’s behavior and achievement. A heads-up allows the teacher to be proactive. As McEntire concludes, “Because I have spent time building a relationship with the teacher, it’s much easier to approach her when difficulties arise.”

IDENTIFY CHALLENGES

Approach the teacher as a partner, rather than relieving your child of responsibility. Instead of, “Danny has trouble keeping track of things, so don’t be surprised if he loses his homework,” try, “Danny has difficulty with organization. Here’s what has helped at home, and I’d be happy to hear your suggestions.”

RESPECT THE TEACHER'S TIME

Remember how many other students are in the class, and understand that the teacher simply doesn’t have time for extended daily conversations with parents.

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BUILD YOUR IMAGINATION™ 9:00am-5:00pm. A new educational exhibit that combines the open-ended and inventive play qualities of the timeless TINKERTOY® construction set with GE’s innovative technologies that enrich our lives and our global community. C.R. Smith Museum, 4601 Hwy 360 at FAA Rd, Fort Worth, www.crsmithmuseum.org

DOLLAR DAYS-EVERYDAY IN AUGUST 12:30pm-2:30pm. $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www.dallasarboretum.org

PICTURES AND PAGES 10:30am-11:45am. Museum learning begins early with this special program for preschoolers (ages 4–6) and their adult partners. Space is limited for this free program; sign-up begins one month prior to each session. Maximum two children per adult. Kimbell Art Museum, 3333 Camp Bowie Blvd, Fort Worth - 817-3228451 ext. 351 www.kimbellart.org

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ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS 10:00am-4:00pm. Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo!

Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, www.fortworthzoo.org Make it fun – Ride on DART!

RINGLING BROS. AND BARNUM & BAILEY: CIRCUS XTREME 7:30pm-7:30pm. High-wire wizards, powerful strongmen, BMX trick riders, trampoline daredevils, inconceivable contortionists, a high-flying human cannonball, and a bungee aerial skydiving display provide thrilling entertainment for circus goers. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Ave., Dallas, www.ringling. com/tickets-schedules/

COOL DOWN THURSDAYS

11:00am-2:00pm. First Tuesday programming is designed for children of all ages and their families. Enjoy thematic art-making activities, story times, performances, and gallery activities. Dallas Museum of Art, 1717 N. Harwood, Dallas www.dma.org

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2:00pm. Aug 2-4. Admission is free and open to the public. Take a break from the Texas heat for Modern Kids - Summer Flicks! Share the art of the screen with your children as they watch stories unfold and ideas form in delightful and innovative films. The bonus for seeing these films at the Modern is the opportunity to visit the galleries before or after. Enjoy a selective slate of the best animated shorts from the 2016 New York International Children’s Film Festival as well as the critically acclaimed feature films Nocturna and Mia and the Migoo.

The Modern Art Museum of Fort Worth, 3200 Darnell St., Fort Worth. www.themodern.org Visit for more info.

1:00-2:00 pm. Join us for a tour and learn some old-fashioned tips and tricks for staying cool in the hot, hot Texas summer.

After the tour, play games in the shade or relax and enjoy some cold treats on the front porch. Pre-registration by 7/12 is required. Cost is $5 per family, up to five

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THE MODERN ART MUSEUM 2:00pm. Admission is free and open to the public. Take a break from the Texas heat for Modern Kids - Summer Flicks!

Share the art of the screen with your children as they watch stories unfold and ideas form in delightful and innovative films. The bonus for seeing these films at the Modern is the opportunity to visit the galleries before or after. Enjoy a selective slate of the best animated shorts from the 2016 New York International Children’s Film Festival as well as the critically acclaimed feature films Nocturna and Mia and the Migoo. The Modern Art Museum of Fort Worth, 3200 Darnell St., Fort Worth. www.themodern.org

FRI 5 SPLISH SPLASH STORYTIME 11:00am - 12:45pm Runs through Aug 12th. Meet at the pool for stories, songs, splashing, and fun! Storytime is free and will take place in the outdoor pool.

Those who wish to stay and swim can do so until 12:45 PM. If you would like to stay and swim after this time, you will need to have a CORE membership, punch pass, or pay the regular day pass rate.

For parents and children up to age 8.

The Core, 234 E. Parkway Blvd, Coppell, Texas, www.coppelltx.gov

FRIDAY NIGHT PORCH MUSIC 6:30-9:30pm. Live Performances from DFW Musicians Every FRIday Night this Summer on the Carrollton Square! Music Institute at Carrollton Square, 1201 S. Broadway, Carrollton, 469-892-6936, www.micsquare.org

SAT 6 SHOP LOCAL. EAT LOCAL 8am -12pm. The Coppell Farmers Market is conveniently located in Old Town

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Coppell at 768 W. Main St, Coppell, Texas 75019. It is easily accessible from SH121 and I635. The market has parking along the one way streets around the square. The farmers market has a shaded pavilion with inside and outside booths, a playground, interactive fountain area, and restrooms. Several restaurants are within walking distance.Rain or shine, but not ice. www.coppellfarmersmarket.org

18TH ANNUAL NORTH TEXAS WELLNESS FAIR PRESENTED BY THE HISPANIC WELLNESS COALITION 8am-1pm. Free health screenings for children, parents, and grandparents, plus vaccines, mammograms, body fat analysis, hearing tests, school physicals, cooking deMONstrations, exercise deMONstrations, a blood drive and more.

Forest Hill Civic & Convention Center, 6901 Wichita Street, Forest Hill, 817-7352784 www.hispanicwellnesscoalition.org.

DOLLAR DAYS-EVERYDAY IN AUGUST 12:30pm-2:30pm. $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www.dallasarboretum.org

DENTON COUNTY FARMERS MARKET 7:00am-to sell out. Open SATurdays through November, 420 W. Sycamore St., Denton, dentonfarmersmarket.com

DENTON COMMUNITY MARKET 9:00am-1:00pm. Open Saturdays through November. Denton County Historical Park, 317 W. Mulberry St., Denton, dentonmarket.org

SUN 7 FOUR SEASONS MARKET CARROLLTON 9:00am-2:00pm. Four Seasons Markets was established to develop and manage European style markets where ranchers, farmers, specialty food producers and artisanal craftsmen can interact with customers and other vendors in a colorful, exciting, family-Friendly atmosphere that mimics the village markets popular throughout Europe. 2722 N. Josey Lane, Carrollton

SADDLE UP SUPER SUNDAY! 9:30am-1:30pm. Beachbody - Saddle Up Super Sunday. Once a quarter, thousands of Team Beachbody Coaches gather across the continent to recognize success, share tips, and MAKE THINGS HAPPEN. And since everything is bigger in Texas, you know we take Dallas Super Sunday to a whole different level! Join us as we host celebrity trainer Autumn Calabrese and Beachbody CEO, Carl Daikeler, for motivation, training, and exciting product announcements before closing it all out with a massive live workout with Autumn! Buy your ticket early and save!

Embassy Suites Dallas Frisco Hotel Convention Center & Spa, 7600 John Q Hammons Drive, Frisco, Danielle Natoni danielle@iamfitandfunky.com http://tbbdallas.com

MODEL TRAIN EXHIBIT 12:00pm-3:00pm. Unique hi-rail O gauge model train layout built inside an authentic vintage baggage car and located less than one block from the Cotton Belt Depot. Lone Star Hi-Railers Model Train Association, 410 W. Dallas Rd, Grapevine, www.lonestarhirailers.com

MON 8 FAMILY FUN NIGHTS AT THE JOSEY RANCH LAKE LIBRARY 7:00pm-8:00pm. Come to the Library for a night of free fun games and crafts.

For All Ages Carrollton Public Library at Josey Ranch Lake, 1700 Keller Springs Road, Carrollton, Texas, www.cityofcarrollton.com

THE BIG FEAT – THE WORLD’S LARGEST SHOE DRIVE, A RINGLING BROS. SPECIAL EVENT 12:00 am - 12:00 pm. Circus fans across North Texas are invited to participate in

a Guinness World Records attempt for “Most Shoes Donated to a Charity in a 24-Hour Period.” On Aug. 8-9, Ringling Bros. will be accepting shoe donations on the Plaza at American Airlines Center. There will be a circus party on Aug. 9 from 5-8 p.m. on the AAC Plaza with a host of fun activities for kids and families including performances by the Ringling Bros. Clown Alley, face painting, circus games, and more. Once counted, the shoes will be donated to Rockwall-based The Shoe Bank, a non-profit providing shoes to families locally and throughout the world. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Ave., Dallas, www. ringlingcharityshoedrive.com

TUE 9 TEENS TAKE OVER TUESDAY 6:30-8:30pm. Hang out with Friends, play video games, watch movies, craft, and generally goof around at this TEENS ONLY after-hours program. This won’t be the Library you’re used to seeing.

Pick up your permission slip at either Library location or print it out online.

Carrollton Public Library at Josey Ranch Lake, 1700 Keller Springs Road, Carrollton, Texas, www.cityofcarrollton.com

FIRST FREE TUESDAYS AT THE MUSEUM 11:00am-2:00pm. First Tuesday programming is designed for children of all ages and their families. Enjoy thematic art-making activities, story times, performances, and gallery activities.

Dallas Museum of Art, 1717 N. Harwood, Dallas, www.dma.org

WED 10 ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS 10:00am-4:00pm. Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, www.fortworthzoo. org Make it fun – Ride on DART!

DOLLAR DAYS-EVERYDAY IN AUGUST 12:30pm-2:30pm. $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more.

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KNOW IT ALL August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www. dallasarboretum.org

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PrimeTime Half-Price Sale $5/person, 10am-7:00 pm Half-Price Sale FREE ADMISSION, Sunday, August 14th 9am-Noon Half Price Sale & 75% off donates FREE ADMISSION Grapevine Convention Center, 1209 S. Main Street, Grapevine, http://jbfsale.com/ http:// jbfsale.com/

LIVEFIT SUMMER LECTURE SERIES

ME AND MY AMERICAN GIRL DOLL CLASS

6pm-7pm. “Hormones and Your Brain” presented by Mark Anderson, MD, DABFP Feeling a little foggy lately? Gaining weight and lacking energy? Too many people are being misdiagnosed and put on medications they don’t need. Learn the symptoms, proper diagnosis, and available treatments for hormone imbalances. This talk is for both men and women.Refreshments and registration begins at 5:45 PM - Lectures will begin 6 PM and last 45 - 60 minutes each -Free childcare services will be provided The Marq, 285 Shady Oaks Dr., Southlake, 817-748-8019 www.southlakeparksandrec.com

FRI 12 SPLISH SPLASH STORYTIME 11:00am-12:45pm. Meet at the pool for stories, songs, splashing, and fun!

Storytime is free and will take place in the outdoor pool. Those who wish to stay and swim can do so until 12:45 PM. If you would like to stay and swim after this time, you will need to have a CORE membership, punch pass, or pay the regular day pass rate. For parents and children up to age 8. The Core, 234 E. Parkway Blvd, Coppell, Texas, www. coppelltx.gov

FRIDAY NIGHT PORCH MUSIC 6:30-9:30pm. Live Performances from DFW Musicians Every FRIday Night this Summer on the Carrollton Square! Music Institute at Carrollton Square, 1201 S. Broadway, Carrollton, 469-892-6936 www.micsquare.org

BACK TO SCHOOL SALE! JUST BETWEEN FRIENDS CHILDREN’S CONSIGNMENT EVENT 9:00am-7:00pm. Just Between Friends Children’s 3-DAY Consignment Event!

Go Early and Save! Find everything your kids will need for Back To School.

Get ready now for Fall and Winter too. Friday, August 12th, 9am-Noon PrimeTime Shop $10/person; 12pm7pm Regular Shop FREE ADMISSION. Saturday, August 13th 9:30am-10am

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4:30pm-6:30pm. Mosaic a plaque of your first initial & paint a mini initial for your favorite doll! $25 per child.

Ages 5 & up. Reservations required.

Sunshine Glaze, 405 North Carroll Avenue, Southlake 817-424-1417 www. sunshineglaze.com

SAT 13 SHOP LOCAL. EAT LOCAL 8am -12pm. The Coppell Farmers Market is conveniently located in Old Town Coppell at 768 W. Main St, Coppell, Texas 75019. It is easily accessible from SH121 and I635. The market has parking along the one way streets around the square. The farmers market has a shaded pavilion with inside and outside booths, a playground, interactive fountain area, and restrooms. Several restaurants are within walking distance. Rain or shine! www.coppellfarmersmarket.org

DENTON COUNTY FARMERS MARKET 7:00am-12:00pm Open Saturdays through November 7am until sellout, 420 W. Sycamore St. dentonfarmersmarket.com

DENTON COMMUNITY MARKET 9:00 am-1:00pm. Open Saturdays through November. Denton County Historical Park, 317 W. Mulberry St.

SUN 14 FOUR SEASONS MARKET CARROLLTON 9:00am-2:00pm. 2722 N. Josey Lane, Carrollton, fourseasonsmarkets.com

FREE FEE SUNDAY AT SUNSHINE GLAZE 12:00pm-5:00pm. No studio fees on ceramic painting all day plus 20% off mosaics & glass fusion. We do not take reservations for Free Fee Sunday.

Sunshine Glaze, 405 North Carroll Avenue, Southlake, 817-424-1417 www. sunshineglaze.com

• Montessori Certified Director, Certified Teachers and Comprehensive Academic Montessori Curriculum

• Preparatory work for Analytical Thinking and Testing Skills with the Stanford

Test administered at the end of the school year for transfer to traditional schools

• Spanish Immersion on a daily basis as part of our bi-lingual program • Optional Enrichment Classes include Suzuki Music Lessons, Ballet, Soccer, Basketball, Enlightened Tutors, Lego, Robotics, Chess and Taekwondo

• New Facility and Playground Area, Warm Meals and Healthy Snacks included in tuition

• Open All Year, Full and Part Time Programs, Before and After School Care, Summer Camp

• Tours Available Daily by request

Valid until 9/30/2017

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KNOW IT ALL MON 15 MONDAY MOVIE MADNESS FERRIS BUELLER’S DAY OFF

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7:30pm-9:00pm. Bring your family, FRIends, and floats to the CAC to enjoy MONday Movie Madness in the indoor pool! Movies begin at 7:30pm. Children 10 and older are welcome without an adult present. Activities are FREE with paid admission. Scheduled movies may change without notice. CAC Indoor Pool, 1200 Gerault Rd, Flower Mound, 972-874-6280, www.flower-mound.com

DOLLAR DAYS - EVERYDAY IN AUGUST 12:30pm-2:30pm. $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items,and more! August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www.dallasarboretum.org

TUE 16 GUARDIAN SWIM SCHOOL 1033 KINWEST PARKWAY IRVING, TX 75063

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2 heated indoor swimming pools Year round operations Programs for all ages Open swim time Weekend Private parties

FIRST FREE TUESDAYS AT THE MUSEUM 11:00am-2:00pm. First Tuesday programming is designed for children of all ages and their families. Enjoy thematic art-making activities, story times, performances, and gallery activities.

Dallas Museum of Art, 1717 N. Harwood, Dallas, www.dma.org

TEENS TAKE OVER TUESDAY 6:30-8:30pm. Hang out with Friends, play video games, watch movies, craft, and generally goof around at this TEENS ONLY after-hours program. This won’t be the Library you’re used to seeing.

Pick up your permission slip at either Library location or print it out online.

Carrollton Public Library at Josey Ranch Lake, 1700 Keller Springs Road, Carrollton, Texas, www.cityofcarrollton.com

WED 17 ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS

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10:00am-4:00pm. Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth fortworthzoo.org Make it fun – Ride on DART.

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THUR 18 DOLLAR DAYS - EVERYDAY IN AUGUST 12:30pm-2:30pm. $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www.dallasarboretum.org

FRI 19 BACK TO SCHOOL BASH 6:00pm-9:00pm. Experience a night full of music, food, and fun! Students will enjoy a night at the Outdoor Waterpark with entertainment, free food, games, and prizes. This is a fun, energetic, and supervised evening of programs that will give parents an opportunity to relax. Kids will have a blast getting together with their Friends or meeting new ones. CAC Outdoor Waterpark, 1200 Gerault Rd, Flower Mound, 972874-6280 www.flower-mound.com

FRIDAY NIGHT PORCH MUSIC 6:30pm-9:30pm. Live Performances from DFW Musicians Every FRIday Night this Summer on the Carrollton Square! Music Institute at Carrollton Square, 1201 S. Broadway, Carrollton, 469-892-6936, www.micsquare.org

DOLLAR DAYS - EVERYDAY IN AUGUST 12:30pm-2:30pm. $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www.dallasarboretum.org

SAT 20 SHOP LOCAL. EAT LOCAL 8am -12pm. The Coppell Farmers Market is conveniently located in Old Town Coppell at 768 W. Main St, Coppell, Texas 75019. It is easily accessible from SH121 and I635. The market has parking along the one way streets around the square. The farmers market

with a visit of 4 hours or more!

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LAKELAND

PRESCHOOL LAKELAND CHRISTIAN ACADEMY PRESCHOOL

has a shaded pavilion with inside and outside booths, a playground, interactive fountain area, and restrooms.

Several restaurants are within walking distance. Rain or shine. www.coppellfarmersmarket.org

DENTON COUNTY FARMERS MARKET

NOW ENROLLING FOR 2016-2017 ACCEPTING NEW FAMILIES 12 MOS.-PRE-KINDERGARTEN - TOURS DAILY -

Celebrating God’s Greatest Creation ... a Child.

• ABeka Reading Curriculum • Academically Accredited Preschool • Hands-on Exploring and Learning • On-site Library & Gymnasium

• Art and Music • Computer Lab • Hands-on Math Lab • Hands-on Science Lab • Call for a Tour

397 S. STEMMONS FWY. • LEWISVILLE, TX 75067 972-219-3939 • LCAPRESCHOOL.ORG www.facebook.com/LakelandChristianAcademyPreschool

7:00am-12:00pm. Open Saturdays through November, 7am until sellout, 420 W. Sycamore St., Denton, dentonfarmersmarket.com

URBAN ACRES MARKET 9:00am-11:00am. Urban Acres, the goal is to provide the community with the very best local and organic foods while supporting Texas farm families and artisans. So they created a “co-op style” produce system with pick-up locations all over Dallas that makes shopping easy, and trying new veggies fun! The “farm stand” pick-up locations throughout Dallas allow people from all different neighborhoods to be involved. The best thing is that they shop for your produce for you; all you have to do is pick it up. Vitruvian Park, 3966 Vitruvian Way, Addison, Texas, urbanacresfarmstead.com/co-op

DENTON COMMUNITY MARKET 9:00am-1:00pm. Open Saturdays through November. Denton County Historical Park, 317 W. Mulberry St., dentonmarket.org

ICE CREAM SOCIAL 6:00pm-8:00pm. Celebrate the new school year with ice cream in Old Town Coppell! Cool down with icy treats and toppings galore! Enjoy music, the Old Town playground, and splashing in the Main Street Interactive Fountain with Friends. The Square at Old Town Coppell, 768 W. Main St., www.coppelltx.gov

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FOUR SEASONS MARKET CARROLLTON 9:00am-2:00pm. 2722 N. Josey Lane, Carrollton, fourseasonsmarkets.com

MON 22 BE INSPIRED! DOLLAR DAYSEVERYDAY IN AUGUST 12:30pm-2:30pm. $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to

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all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www.dallasarboretum.org

TUE 23 FIRST FREE TUESDAYS AT THE MUSEUM 11:00am-2:00pm. First Tuesday programming is designed for children of all ages and their families. Enjoy thematic art-making activities, story times, performances, and gallery activities. Dallas Museum of Art, 1717 N. Harwood, Dallas, www.dma.org

WED 24 ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS 10:00am-4:00pm. Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth www.fortworthzoo. org Make it fun – Ride on DART!

DOLLAR DAYS-EVERYDAY IN AUGUST 12:30pm-2:30pm. $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www. dallasarboretum.org

THUR 25 COOL DOWN THURSDAYS 1:00-2:00 pm. Join us for a tour and learn some old-fashioned tips and tricks for staying cool in the hot, hot Texas summer. After the tour, play games in the shade or relax and enjoy some cold treats on the front porch.

Pre-registration by 7/12 is required.

Cost is $5 per family, up to five people.

A.W. Perry Homestead Museum, 1509 N. Perry Road, Carrollton, 972-4666380 cityofcarrollton.com/museum

THE MODERN ART MUSEUM 2:00pm. Admission is free and open to the public. Take a break from the Texas heat for Modern Kids - Summer Flicks! The Modern Art Museum of Fort Worth, 3200 Darnell St., Fort Worth. www.themodern.org

Where children take their first steps in education and faith!

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KNOW IT ALL FRI 26 STARS ON THE PRAIRIE 8:15 pm-10:15pm. This is a special after-hours event. Arrival time and dismissal times are therefore less flexible. LLELA Nature Preserve staff will send you important information 24 hours before the program, including where to meet and what to bring. Full participation in Stars on the Prairie may require standing, sitting, and walking over uneven ground for up to 2 hours.

Occasionally, Stars on the Prairie requires attendees to drive on a gravel road for over a mile. Registration is required at bit.ly/COLsplash. Search activity code 800001. LLELA Nature Preserve, 201 E. Jones St., Lewisville, Texas, www.llela.org

ART MAKING! STUDIO FIVE 90: UNEXPECTED INTERIORS 5:00pm-6:30pm. Open-format sessions for teens and adults join art-making and gallery activities to encourage fresh ways of looking at and responding to featured artworks and themes. Space is limited; sign-up begins one hour prior to the program. Kimbell Art Museum, 3333 Camp Bowie Blvd, Fort Worth www. kimbellart.org

HOT AIR BALLOON FESTIVAL Runs through the 28th. Enjoy the majesty of hot air balloons at Grand Prairie’s new Balloonapalooza Hot Air Balloon Festival. From morning and evening glows, food vendors, concerts and rides, the festival also offers the chance to get up close with the balloons and balloonists to see how they operate. Rides are available through the balloonists for a fee. Information: 1000 Lone Star Pkwy, Grand Prairie www. lonestarpark.com

SAT 27 SHOP LOCAL. EAT LOCAL 8am -12pm. The Coppell Farmers Market is conveniently located in Old Town Coppell at 768 W. Main St, Coppell, Texas 75019. It is easily accessible from SH121 and I635. The market has parking along the one way streets around the square. The farmers market has a shaded pavilion with inside and outside booths, a playground, interactive fountain area, and restrooms. Several restaurants are within walking distance.

Rain or shine, but not ice. www.coppellfarmersmarket.org

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DENTON COUNTY FARMERS MARKET 7:00am-12:00pm. Open Saturdays through November, 7am until sellout, 420 W. Sycamore St., Denton, dentonfarmersmarket.com

DENTON COMMUNITY MARKET 9:00am-1:00pm. Open Saturdays through November. Denton County Historical Park, 317 W. Mulberry St., Denton, dentonmarket.org

SUN 28 FOUR SEASONS MARKET CARROLLTON 9:00am-2:00 pm. 2722 N. Josey Lane, Carrollton, fourseasonsmarkets.com

FREE VISION SCREENINGS 1:30pm-3:30pm. The Lewisville LIONS Club is offering free vision screenings for all ages the last Sunday of each Month at the Lewisville Public Library. Vision screenings are quick, non-invasive, and available for all. Screenings will determine if there is a need to follow up with an eye doctor for glasses or other vision treatment. Registration is not required.

Lewisville Public Library, 1197 W. Main St., Lewisville, www.cityoflewisville.com

MON 29 BUILD YOUR IMAGINATION™ 9:00am-5:00pm. A new educational exhibit that combines the open-ended and inventive play qualities of the timeless TINKERTOY® construction set with GE’s innovative technologies that enrich our lives and our global community. C.R. Smith Museum, 4601 Hwy 360 at FAA Rd, Fort Worth, www.crsmithmuseum.org

TUE 30 DOLLAR DAYS - EVERYDAY IN AUGUST 12:30pm-2:30pm. $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www.dallasarboretum.org

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Visit BIGTEX.COM. See ad in this issue.

ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS

OCT 1

10:00am-4:00pm. Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, www.fortworthzoo. org Make it fun – Ride on DART!

SAVE THE DATE… SEP 24 HEROES FOR CHILDREN HEART OF GOLD 5K & FUN RUN Heroes for Children advocates for & provides financial and social assistance to families with children 0-22 battling cancer. The Plaza at Galatyn Park, Richardson. Register at thedriven. net/2016heroes5K. See ad in this issue.

SEP 30 STATE FAIR OF TEXAS OPENS The Fair runs from Sept 30-Oct 23.

Come enjoy a celebration as big as Texas. New this year, print-at-home tickets

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1pm. In commemoration of National Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness MONth, M.E.N.D. (Mommies Enduring Neonatal Death) is hosting a cereMONy for parents who have lost a baby to miscarriage, stillbirth or early infant death.

We’ll also unveil and dedicate the Garden of Hope, a place of solitude to reflect and remember loved ones who have died. Calvary Church, 4401 State Hwy 161, Irving, 972-506-9000, www. mend.org. See ad in this issue.

OCT 11 OPEN HOUSE AT GRAPEVINE FAITH CHRISTIAN SCHOOL 7pm. Join us to learn more about our school for Pre-K – 12th Grade. We develop and graduate authentic Christian leaders. Other Open House dates 11/1 and 12/6. High School Campus, 729 E Dallas Rd, 817-442-1605 GrapevineFaith. com. See ad in this issue.

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FUN STUFF { LIFE IS BETTER WHEN YOU’RE LAUGHING }

WHAT IS THE SMARTEST STATE?

WHY WAS THE TEACHER CROSS-EYED?

WHERE DID THE MUSIC TEACHER LEAVE HER KEYS?

SHE COULDN’T CONTROL HER PUPILS!

IN THE PIANO! Source: enchantedlearning.com

ALABAMA, IT HAS FOUR A’S AND ONE B!

A Lunch Full

GOTTA LOVE ‘EM My daughter wanted to take my picture.

“Mommy! Chin up, not too much, just like a princess” and continued, “When I grow up, I’m going to be a princess.” My reply – “Yes honey, you could be a princess.” Her reply – “Mommy, why didn’t you choose to be a princess instead of a Countess?” Laughing – I replied “Anna Elisa, I’m an accountant!!! She must be thinking, Silly mommy, what were you thinking!!! Wonder how many of her friends and their parents have been told I’m a Countess!

— ELSIE VILLANUEVA, MOM TO A FUTURE PRINCESS

of Encouragement!

As we get ready to send our kids off to another year of school, let’s remember to remind them of who they are, and how strong they are.

Tell them that even when things are bad, they will get better, and that sometimes it’s our attitude that makes the difference in a situation. You can put these words of encouragement in your kids’ lunch boxes, slip them in a pocket or tape onto the bathroom mirror.

Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying I will try again tomorrow.

– Unknown

– Mary Anne Radmacher

LOL WITH JAMES ESTES!

It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities. – Dumbledore You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.

Become a possibilitarian.

No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see possibilities — always see them, for they’re always there.

– Art Williams

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– Socrates

There are far better things ahead than any we leave behind.

– C.S. Lewis

We all must make the choice between what is right, and what is easy.

– Dumbledore

– Norman Vincent Peale

Be curious, not judgmental. – Walt Whitman

– Dr. Seuss

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Wisdom begins in wonder.

You are allowed to scream. You are allowed to cry. You are allowed to scream. But, you are not allowed to give up.

When something goes wrong in your life, just yell, “PLOT TWIST,” and move on. – Unknown

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BACKTALK { BY KEN SWARNER }

THEY ALL CAN’T BE SPORTS STARS

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ot all boys march to the same whistle. They can’t all be

I was particularly eager to hear how the game went last week because

the star athletes at their schools or neighborhood sports

I knew Drew asked his dad to take him out over the prior weekend to

programs. Some boys are just the average kids on the field

work on his ball handling skills. Bill, being the great dad he is, drilled

or court. They do their part for the team but never receive the

Drew’s passing game.

accolades that are saved for the mighty few.

And then there is my nephew Drew. Bless his little heart. Drew is eight.

He’s a sensitive kind of kid. The boy you’d expect to grow up and become anyone who can’t do a lay up or catch a fly ball or keep the ball inside the

That next Monday morning, Bill announced Drew had successfully caught several passes and then dribbled down the court and made the shots - after several attempts and a juice break.

Tuesday morning, Bill announced that the first pass Drew received at

box at the Putt-Putt Golf Course. They say white men can’t jump? Drew

the team practice that night went like clockwork. Drew deftly held up his

can’t even get his GI Joe to do it.

hands to catch the ball, and then, at the very last minute, ducked. Tuesday

Some dads would think the world came to an end if they had Drew as

night, at Drew’s insistence, Bill worked with Drew some more. At the game

a son. They would brow-beat their kid - ask him why he can’t be like the

Wednesday, Bill said Drew was pumped up and ready to play. In fact, run-

other kids - look to the heavens and say “God, why me?”

ning up and down the court, Drew was in the face of the opposing team

Drew’s dad is an avid sports fan and played quite a number of sports while growing up. I work with Drew’s dad - my brother-in-law Bill.

member. Bill said he was certain some parents who didn’t know Drew were quite impressed.

Thankfully, Bill is cool with Drew’s lack of game.

Bill isn’t trying to make Drew anything that Drew is not.

talking trash with the other player,” Bill said.

In fact, it’s Drew that has

“Of course, what Drew was really saying

been eager to join sports.

to the other player was “do you like Legos too?”

Right now, Drew is in the middle of basketball

The world needs kids like Drew.

season. Seeing that

Those boys and girls who despite

he has yet to score

being uncoordinated still show up to every practice and

a basket, Drew has been asking his

game and do their best.

dad for help on his

They remind us that it’s not

skills. And, luckily

about winning and losing games - it’s about measuring

for my column, Bill

success by perseverance

has been providing me

and having fun. I know Drew

with the post-mortem,

will grow up to be brilliant in

the play-by-play of sorts,

some way, and though ESPN will

for Drew’s regular Monday night practices and Wednesday

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never cover it, I for one will wish I had a bubblegum card with Drew’s picture on it. SP

night games.

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