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COVER STORY Bonnie Deuschle Impacting The World Through Music & Ministry! 10 Editor’s Note 4 Letters To The Editor 5 FEATURES God’s Plans Vs Our Expectations 6 Overcoming Anger 28 Tips To Jumpstart Your Body Back To Health 30 Bible Verses On God’s Protection 32 Prayer Of Thanksgiving 38 COLUMNS PARENTING - Let’s Talk About Submission In Marriage 8 FINANCE WEALTH - Economic Masters 16 SINGLES - Let’s Talk About Sexual Intimacy 1 26 HEALTH AND BEAUTY - Summer Skincare Tips 40 INTERVIEWS One On One With Olinda Marowa 35 TABLE OF CONTENTS
As we embark on this new year, a strong message resonates within me: to embrace and express love toward everyone I encounter. The scriptures teach us that love is pure, capable of covering a multitude of sins. It is crucial to stay connected with our loved ones, even amidst the constraints of work and finances. Thanks to the accessibility of cellphones and platforms like WhatsApp, there is no excuse not to check in on one another regularly.
Regrettably, we often wait until someone’s
EDITOR’S NOTE
them in God’s grace. There’s much happening globally, and some individuals might not feel comfortable sharing their struggles. Prayers invite God into their situations. Apostle Paul, in 1 Thessalonians 1 verse 2, underscores the importance of consistent prayer for fellow believers, “We give thanks to God always for all of you, continually mentioning you in our prayers”.
Let the Holy Spirit prompt us to remember those we have forgotten so that we may reach out to them. Let us begin this new year by remembering those facing hardships and ministering to them. Whether it is buying groceries for the needy, visiting the sick,
BLESSINGS TO YOU ALL & A HAPPY 2024
passing to demonstrate love and care. We must break this pattern and show love consistently, not just when it’s too late. I recently lost both an uncle and a friend to cancer. My friend’s illness was unknown to many, and her sudden passing left me feeling guilty for not being there in her time of need. We get caught up in our careers, immediate families, and forget to extend care to those out of our sight. We should not hesitate to reach out; waiting for others to make the first move might mean missing opportunities to support those facing challenges.
As believers, interceding for one another is vital. Whenever someone crosses our minds, it might be a prompt to pray for them and cover
or sharing the message of salvation, let us extend compassion and care. I pray that God fulfills your needs, blesses, and protects you throughout 2024. May 2024 bring you divine acceleration and elevation in every aspect of your life!
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COLUMN
PARENTING
GOD’S PLANS VS OUR EXPECTATIONS
By Shamiso Patience Mbiriri
I had the privilege of listening to several women’s journeys to parenthood. I was amazed at how God has a unique way of touching each person’s life for His glory. Every woman had a unique testimony and each story felt like a redefinition of God all over again.
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As they narrated, I made attempts to draw similarities from their stories, but I realized that how God solved the teething problems that characterized other people’s road to parenthood was different from how He addressed my issues. It dawned on me that even though our stories were different, God’s faithfulness is the silver lining in every story. Somehow through the labor pains, the barrenness, miscarriages, stillbirths, maternal and infant mortalities, adoptions, and cesarean sections, women still wake up, and testify that God is good and faithful.
Up to this day, I have no idea what natural labor pains are. I had a different experience. The night before my C-section delivery, I had to go through the torture of hearing the agonizing screams of my peers in labor. Thoughts of whether I was going to walk the same road as theirs flooded my mind and I wondered if I was ever going to come out of the situation alive or I was enroute to becoming another maternal mortality statistic.
The anxiety was exhausting and so I decided to stop bothering myself about how things were going to turn out. I knew that God had a plan for me, but I guess the greatest question was whether I was going to trust Him to do what is best for me and accept His plans for me. I taught myself a mantra, “…if it does not happen today, it simply means it is not yet time or maybe God has different plans for me. In the meantime, I will keep trying until my plans are married to God’s will.”
The bible tells us of God’s faithfulness to different women over the years. The following women had different stories, but God attended to their points of need and gave them what they longed for. It is important to note that He accorded them what they prayed for in His time and His own way.
Sarah conceived for the first time at 90 years and gave birth to Isaac. Biologically, it is an impossible feat, but God made it possible because Sarah’s time had come. Isaac grew up to be a blessing and lived according to God’s law. According to Genesis 26, God blessed him, “…I will bless you and multiply your descendants for my servant Abraham’s sake.”
In another case, Jochebed, Moses’ mother, gave birth in difficult circumstances. Pharaoh wanted all newly born Israelite males killed upon birth as he saw the Israelites as posing a threat to his rulership. However, during the
massacre, Jochebed decided to protect her son from the rampaging Pharaoh. Fortunately, God had earmarked Moses for a special mission thus He protected him from the evil king. Resultantly, Pharaoh’s daughter found Moses, adopted, and raised him as her own and I believe that was God’s plan for his life.
Amazingly, God made a way for Jochebed to be reunited with her son as she was hired to be his nanny. Both Jochebed and Pharaoh’s daughter became mothers to the same child. Moses grew up to be God’s prophet and was instrumental in leading the Israelites out of the Egyptian bondage to the land of Canaan.
God’s power was also seen in the story of Elizabeth and Zechariah. These two were old and childless when the angel of the Lord appeared to Zechariah, telling him that his wife was going to bear him a son. Zechariah doubted the prophecy because he knew that it was biologically impossible since he was now an old man. Similarly, God has opened up opportunities for us so many times to make our stories better but instead of being grateful we doubt that His hand has finally delivered us.
For doubting the word of God, the Lord struck Zechariah with dumbness for nine months. His speech was restored upon the birth of John, his son. John was given the moniker; “John the Baptist,” the forerunner to the Messiah’s coming. According to Luke 1, his job was to, “…bring back many of the people of Israel to the Lord their God…to go on before the Lord, in the spirit and power of Elijah, to turn the hearts of the parents to their children and the disobedient to the wisdom of the righteous—to make ready a people prepared for the Lord.”
One of the major lessons from these stories is that God works differently with different people. His wisdom is undoubted. He is fully cognisant of what is good for everyone and treats each situation with the uniqueness it deserves. Jeremiah tells us that the Lord is alive to the plans He has for everyone, and these plans are not meant to harm us but prosper us, giving us hope and a bright future. God knows what you desire, and He has you in His plans. He will come through for you.
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LET’S TALK ABOUT SUBMISSION IN MARRIAGE
Submission in marriage is arguably one of the most controversial topics in marriage.
This is true for both Christian and Secular families. For that reason, we will stick to the timeless, most reliable and unchangeable, manual, the Bible. Lets start by visiting Genesis.
Genesis 1:27
So God created man in His own image, in the image and likeness of God He created him; male and female He created them.
Whatever your gender, YOU ARE CREATED IN GOD’S IMAGE. As a tripartite being, you are a spirit being, you have a soul and you live in a body, and God is a Spirit. As a spirit, you bear the Imago Dei. As spirit beings, both man and woman were created equal, and NO ONE can change that. This sets a good background for this topic.
The English dictionary defines submission as the action of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person. According to Genesis and therefore even in marriage, none is superior to the other. Let’s see what the Bible says about submission in marriage.
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Ephesians 5:21-22
21 submitting to one another in the fear of God. 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
The Greek word that was translated into submission is hupotasso, which means to get under and lift up, or to put in order. It refers to voluntarily raising someone to your own personal level of importance and worthiness. This is evidence that the original biblical concept of submission doesn’t condone subjugation or insinuate the literal meaning which suggests a woman totally relinquishing her will to her husband, positioning him as a superior.
The biblical concept of submission simply means to willfully deploy oneself in service to their partner. You will see that verse 21 is usually ignored. Why? BECAUSE IT TALKS ABOUT MUTUAL SUBMISSION. I am happy to say that my husband is a major proponent of mutual submission. Let me emphasize this, according to verse 21, as a couple you are called to mutual submission which calls for serving one another in love. Now watch this. After mutual submission, there is a special word for the woman: Ephesians 5:22
Wives, be subject (be submissive and adapt yourselves) to your own husbands as [a service] to the Lord.
For the sake of order in the home, verse 22 then instructs the wife to submit to her own husband. The wife willingly submits just like Christ did. Our Lord Jesus Christ, though He is God, He submitted Himself even unto death for the sake of the Church. While the woman is called to submission, the man’s role is twofold. He is called to mutual submission and to love his wife like Christ loves the Church. That is a greater assignment. Take note that Paul also says that this is a mystery. Why? He is talking about marriage but at the same time it is about Christ and His Church.
Let us now examine what submission is, and what it is not:
# Submission is not a call to slavery.
#Submission is not becoming someone’s doormat. #Submission is not throwing away your reasoning capacity as well as problem solving techniques, throwing away your skills or behaving like a blank slate.
#Related to above, submission is not accepting wrong decisions by your spouse or participating in your spouse’s ‘sins’.
#Submission is not about overlooking accountability, fidelity and veracity from your spouse.
#Submission is not accepting any form of abuse.
# Submission is not staying in a marriage for the sake of children. We could go on....
WHAT THEN IS SUBMISSION?
# Submission is voluntarily supporting the Mission of another. Even if you know your personal capabilities.
# Once again, Submission is about mutual respect.
#Submission is willingly serving one another for life.
#Submission is willfully allowing your spouse to make decisions or have a final say where you might fail to agree.
#Submission in marriage means selflessness, service, accountability, and respect for your partner, which should be mutual; it is not slavery or a woman’s call to lose her voice.
Conclusively, let us consider the Scriptures below:
Philippians 2:3-7
3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves,
4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
5 In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:
6 Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage.
7 rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.
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BONNIE DEUSCHLE
IMPACTING THE WORLD THROUGH MUSIC & MINISTRY!
Cover Story
Pastor Bonnie Deuschle is a Zimbabwean Pastor, gospel musician and an Author. She was born and raised in the United States of America but later came to settle in Zimbabwe after getting married to her husband Tom Deuschle. Renowned for harmonizing the melodies of faith and ministry, Pastor Bonnie Deuschle embodies the essence of spiritual enlightenment through both her soul stirring sermon and melodious compositions. As a revered pastor and accomplished gospel artist, her unwavering dedication to spreading the gospel through music has captivated audiences in Zimbabwe and abroad. With an unshakeable belief in the transformative power of music, Pastor Bonnie seamlessly intertwines her Pastoral calling with her musical prowess, inspiring countless souls along her remarkable journey. She narrates how music and ministry has impacted her life. Together with her husband she co-founded Celebration Ministries International which has attracted thousands of Zimbabweans from all walks of life and across the African continent. The Celebration Choir led by Pastor Bonnie has won numerous awards both locally and internationally and has shared the stage with countless established artists. Her choir has birthed some of the popular Gospel artists from Zimbabwe such as Janet Manyowa, Tembalami and Celebrate Africa; all are the fruits of her works. Living in Victory magazine’s Lifestyle and Online correspondent Keegan Chipato (KC) had chat with Pastor Bonnie Deuschle (BD) to discuss her musical journey. Below are some excerpts from the interview which were done in question and answer.
LIV: Pastor Bonnie, your influence precedes you! Your multifaceted
legacy as a musician, mentor and preacher is truly remarkable. Can you share how your upbringing and personal history have shaped the incredible path you have forged, enriching the lives of many through your music and ministry?
Pastor Bonnie: I began singing at an early age, my mum said I whistled before I could talk and sang harmony before I could walk. At 12 years of age, I had a routine of practicing voice and piano straight after school for 2 to 3 hours a day, eventually winning several Kansas State Awards in High School for vocal and piano skills.
I played the Trumpet and the French horn in school bands as well as in the national champions Argone Rebels Drum and Bugle Corps, like a marching band. The corps leader had a great standard of excellence scheduling us to practice from 9am to 11pm throughout the summer with music rehearsals, marching sessions, and choreography line ups. It was extremely disciplined but very productive. We were United States’ national champions. After High School, I sang with the worldrenowned Fred Waring and the Pennsylvanians. I became a Christian at 18 and went to Oral Roberts University where I became a first soprano for World Actions
Singers who appeared on television specials with Richard Roberts performing with many professional artists and well-known celebrities. After graduating from university with a degree in music education, I realized I needed a more in-depth knowledge of the word of God. The Lord answered my prayer, and He led me attend to Christ for The Nations Bible Institute where I ended up studying Praise and Worship. It was there I received the revelation of Isaiah 43:21. During that period, society was consumed with the quest to unravel the question ‘WHO AM I?’ I had the revelation that shifted my focus from ‘who am I’ to the profound realization of “whose am I?’ The shift in perspective became a cornerstone of my journey and understanding of identity.
LIV: The Christian walk often requires a lot of faith, courage, and sacrifice. How would you describe your journey with the Lord over the years?
PASTOR BONNIE: We often say, “my purpose is greater than my pain”. Early in my Christian walk, I had a revelation of perseverance and persistence, and scripture says, “through perseverance you shall gain your life”. I also realized the significance of never surrendering in the face of challenges. I remember that when I was in school, and we would have races, I was not fast, but I could outlast everybody and so, when we had the long marathons, I was the only one who remained. I just had a profound revelation regarding perseverance, which inspired me to write the song “Don’t Give Up”. This track encapsulates my personal testimony of resilience and unwavering determination in the face of adversity.
LIV: Breaking ground as a prominent female figure in any field is undeniably challenging, let alone sustaining that position. Can you shed light on some of the prevailing challenges women particularly in your position, encounter while striving to ascend the ladder of success?
PASTOR BONNIE: When I first came to Zimbabwe, I experienced culture shock, marriage shock, and all kinds of shock. I was a tall, white, American woman who had married one of the most eligible bachelors and who was bold enough to command people to raise their hands in worship to the Lord. It did not make me very popular, but I had a revelation. Those were indeed
very challenging times. However, in me grew a love for Africa, a passion for the people, and the courage to endure.
LIV: Throughout the years, you and Pastor Tom have established a highly esteemed Ministry in Zimbabwe and Southern Africa. Celebration Church is a haven for Believers from diverse walks of life. Could you share the inspiration behind the genesis of Celebration Ministries?
PASTOR BONNIE: When Pastor Tom and I embarked on our journey together in Zimbabwe, the country was grappling with severe economic turmoil, prompting thoughts of relocating to South Africa. However, on a ministry tour in South Africa, a divine directive altered our course. God instructed us to make a complete turnaround, veering away from the path toward South Africa, and instead, to return to Zimbabwe. The mandate was clear; plant a robust, Word-based church in Harare that would holistically address the needs of people – spirit, soul, and body. The night we arrived back in Zimbabwe and pulled into our driveway, two men were sitting on our veranda and said that God had
spoken to them about how we were going to start a church and that they were going to be the first two members. Of course, we had told no-one of our plans. That Sunday, the two men returned to our house with their families, and we started our church, and we’ve been going ever since.
LIV: It is evident that Celebration Church has served as the origin of some of the continent’s finest gospel music. It all started with you and the Celebration Choir and evolving into a nurturing ground for artists like Janet Manyowa and Tembalami. Could you elaborate on the emphasis placed on music within the ministry and the reasons behind its remarkable success?
PASTOR BONNIE: Anyone who knows me knows that I am passionate about Isaiah 43:21. We were created by God to worship Him, and He is seeking those who will worship Him in spirit and in truth. I have never considered myself a songwriter, but instead, most of the music that has come out of the church has come from prophetic moments in worship. Scripture says, “He surrounds us with songs of deliverance,” and we just need to pull them down. As to its success, I never set out to be an artist and I don’t consider myself one. Recording our music has always been in the spirit of sharing the music, which we believe is anointed, with our churches around the world and with anyone who is willing to listen. In the same vein, I encourage the congregation and worship team, including Janet and Tembalami, that it’s not about us, but it’s up to us, and that we serve an audience of one—our Yahweh.
LIV: Undoubtedly, you possess a multitude of talents and roles – from being an exceptional preacher, mentor, musician, wife, mother, to grandmother. Managing the pressures accompanying these diverse roles and demanding schedules must be quite challenging. How do you navigate and balance these responsibilities effectively?
PASTOR BONNIE: Well, you work with who you have, to do what they can, you do what you can with what you have, and then you make the best of it! We have a method of teams. Pastor Tom says that a people without a vision will perish, but a vision without a people will also perish. Despite the myriad of goals yet to be achieved, we attribute our accomplishments to the Lord sending individuals who share a profound dedication and love for establishing God’s Kingdom in this nation. In a nutshell, I take it one day at a time!
LIV: Sometimes your youthful glow makes it nearly impossible to believe that you could be a day over Forty. More so, you’ve been happily married for over four decades! What is the key to having such longevity in marriage?
PASTOR BONNIE: We often advise others not to follow our exact path but rather our advice! When I met Pastor Tom, our whirlwind journey included getting engaged in three days, married within three months, and relocating to Africa in just two weeks. Six months later, we established a church, a step I hadn’t anticipated taking. Initially, I hadn’t planned on being a Pastor’s wife, but I deeply admired Pastor Tom’s fervor for God and his unwavering commitment to the Lord. That admiration led me to embrace whatever the Lord desired. Despite numerous challenges, our commitment to addressing issues from the outset was unwavering. Seeking counsel, attending numerous marriage seminars (even to this day), and relentlessly searching for wisdom has been our constant pursuit. Even today, we continue discovering new tools for enhancing understanding and communication within our marriage.
LIV: Your remarkable career serves as profound motivation for millions around the African Continent and beyond, solidifying your status as a true role model. What advice would you offer to those aspiring to emulate your path and accomplishments?
PASTOR BONNIE: You don’t know where you are going until you know where you have come from. There have been many who have gone before me and influenced me in my journey. I have listened to and learned from as many teachers and teachings on the subjects of praise and worship as I could find. Some of these people I knew personally, others only through their teachings. However, nothing can replace the anointing that is imparted by a man or woman of God.
Deuteronomy 32:7 says, “Remember the days of old; consider the generations long past; ask your father, and he will tell you; ask your elders, and they will explain to you.
At the same time, we are a part of something far greater than ourselves, and we should bring worship that is acceptable to the Lord and not our culture, the latest trends, or social media.
LIV: Before we conclude, could you share with s your current aspirations and what you hope to achieve in the near future?
PASTOR BONNIE: It has remained the same for over 40 years: to declare the praises of my God among the people and to stir them up to do the same. The Lord said in Isaiah 13:2, “Lift up a standard on the bare hill; raise your voice to them; wave the hand that they may enter the doors of the nobles”. I pray I will be that standard.
LIV: Thank you very much Pastor Bonnie Deuschle, it’s been amazing chatting with you.
MASTERS
Training For Economic Mastery
In 2010 the Lord gave me an encounter that changed the trajectory of my life. In this encounter, the Lord called me and gave me an apostolic mandate to go and tell the church that there is come to the Body of Christ a financial revival. This revival was going to result in men and women rising out of debt and stepping into financial increase. Men and women would rise out of debt and become Kingdom Financier.
They would begin to Master Their Economies and break all economic barriers imposed on them by the enemy. This simple instruction has become the mandate that governs my life. I have invested over eighty thousand hours of the last twelve years of my life studying this subject. As a result, I have published my research in nine books revealing the Kingdom Economic Model. I want to take you on a journey to becoming an Economic Master. I want to take you by the hand and invest into your life the wisdom and tools that will redefine your life and move you into this space. It has become so clear to me that economic slavery is satan’s agenda, and Economic Mastery is God’s plan for His Kingdom citizens. A lot of what we will cover in this segment will be familiar, however, there is some content that we will share that will not fit in with the conventional methods and systems that you are familiar with.
Be a diligent student of the Word of God and invest time into your personal growth and development and you will see amazing results. I work with many people that I am coaching personally, and we have seen some amazing results, this has helped us know that the principles we are sharing work. So, buckle your seatbelt and stay connected. This magazine is truly interested in your success and well-being in all areas of your life.
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FINANCE AND WEALTH
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DR TICH TANYANYIWA
We define an Economic Master as follows, “A person who has developed outstanding knowledge, skill, and ability to manage, manipulate and train their household and its resources to fulfill a set vision.”. This is indeed a loaded statement that you may want to internalize and perhaps personalize as follows, “I am an economic master, I have accumulated the needed knowledge and developed the necessary skills, and abilities that enable me to manage or manipulate my household and its resources to fulfill a set vision”.
Please read this paragraph again. You will need to speak this repeatedly to yourself until it is a part of your vocabulary. Why is this necessary? Because many of us were taught wrong regarding our economic status. Many people have what I call the wrong frame of reference regarding their economic status. Whether by design or by default. We all have a frame of reference regarding our economic status. Because many of us are a product of a flawed economic model, we have inherited what we will refer to in these lessons as “systemic poverty” This is a model that says, “debt is the way to survive”. It is a model that is dependent on a fallen economic system that is modeled against the Kingdom of God. Scripture has established a vital principle, “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he” If the thinking is wrong the results will subsequently be wrong. This helps us understand that the real issue with our economic status has to do with our frame of reference (mindset) more than it has to do with our city or country. This then helps us presuppose that we
can change our city, country, or continent by changing the frame of reference. Having said this let me bring my first lesson on our journey to becoming economic masters.
Foundational scripture
“Train up a child in the way he should go: And when he is old, he will not depart from it. The rich ruleth over the poor, And the borrower is servant to the lender.”
Proverbs 22:6-7 KJV
Verses six and seven follow each other as naturally as day follows night. Meaning if what is in verse six is done correctly, we can manipulate the results we see in verse seven. Another way to say this is, because of the wrong training people find themselves functioning as financial slaves. Slavery is a product of wrong teaching or training. This is absolutely true. Slavery is taught and instilled in the mind of the slave, if slavery is going to be the default setting in the mind of the slave. This means to establish a culture of slavery one must be taught how to respond as a slave. Many of us have been trained so well, that we have lost any concept of the possibility of freedom. That means systemic poverty has been so well established in our lives that we will never walk free. Because we defined an economic master earlier in the article, let us define an economic slave. This is a person who has acquired knowledge and developed skills that are not serving their own vision and do not bring a return of economic value to the carrier of the knowledge and skills.
This definition is indeed a slap in the face of many people as they have knowledge and skills that are
not translating to growth in personal value or economic freedom. Rather, these skills and knowledge are serving someone else’s vision. For clarity, there is no problem in having knowledge and skills that serve someone else’s vision. This is a perfectly legitimate method by which we break out of economic slavery.
The difference, however, is in the value one receives as a return on investment. Being in business is about creating solutions that serve people and add value to humanity. Exploitation or slavery is when the solutions given are not rewarded adequately.
An economic master understands the value of what they bring to the table, and they confidently negotiate for a concomitant return. The principle here is, “Life will not give you what you deserve, it gives you
what you negotiate for”. As stated earlier, many have been trained wrong, therefore they cannot negotiate for the true value of what they possess. I am a firm believer that the art of negotiating must be a life skill that is taught in school. The reason this is important is, that learning to negotiate puts one at an advantage over the one who is not a good negotiator.
Life is lived in the marketplace. The marketplace is a place for transacting and exchanging goods and services. We define an economy as, “The production of, and the exchange of goods and services for value”. This means that when one comes to the marketplace, they are coming either because they have
goods and services, they want to provide for someone, or they are coming to solicit the services and or goods from a supplier.
The third category of people found in the marketplace is the slaves. These are skilled and knowledgeable people who may not be aware of their value, or they are bound because of systems that have been put in place to enslave them and they cannot find a way out.
Whichever category you fall under, learning to negotiate is a vital skill to your next level, whatever that level may look like. You negotiate with someone who needs your goods and or services, or with someone offering you the above. Your skill levels of negotiating will determine whether you get a good bargain. The slave will also need to learn how to negotiate and by so doing they can work themselves to freedom. Dare I say that 95% of the people reading this article are economic slaves? You are skilled and knowledgeable, and perhaps you may even be a subject matter expert, but your knowledge and skills are not serving your vision. They are developing someone else’s vision with little return to you.
God has never endorsed slavery, regardless of how whitewashed it may look. Your freedom is of great value to God. He wants you free so can serve Him by fulfilling the vision that He created you for. For this to happen, you have to work towards your freedom. You must develop yourself and move your life to economic freedom. In our foundational scripture, the writer states, “The borrower is servant to the lender” The word servant is taken from a word that means slave. In essence, if you owe your bank, retail store, or loan shark some money, you are a slave to them. This is the challenge we face with many believers. They are slaves to a system that has confined them in a prison cell, thereby rendering it difficult or impossible for them
to serve God with their money. If this is the case with you then you are a slave and God wants to set you free.
This article will walk you through a journey that will bring you to freedom, or better still, Economic Mastery. Here is the practical step I would like for you to do.
“Set your financial vision”. Write down some clear actionable financial goals that you want to achieve in the next twelve months. Create a vision board in line with the above and send that to your mentor or financial coach. “Where there is no vision, the people perish: But he that keepeth the law, happy is he.” Proverbs 29:18 KJV. Without a financial vision, you will remain broke. Vision is the tool that will drive you to action. Vision is not a passive picture of something you want. It is an active position assumed because you have a strong desire to see a change in your current reality. “And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it. For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it t by his faith.” Habakkuk 2:2-4 KJV. Write your vision clearly, set goals for the vision, and start acting on it now. Do not procrastinate and say,
“Wow, this article was powerful” Get us and act today. Visit my website www. successparadigms101.com and download my free gift to you Meditations Of A Kingdom Financier. This book will help you start your journey to Economic Mastery. If you would like to invest further you can buy some of the other books that are available on the website.
Your coach Dr. Tich Tanyanyiwa Economic Master.
LET’S TALK ABOUT SEXUAL INTIMACY 1
Sexual intimacy is a sensitive topic within the Christian circles, causing a range of emotions from indignation to embarrassment. Surprisingly, it’s a subject not often discussed among older singles, including divorced, widowed, or single parents. Yet, it is an area where many struggle with guilt or succumb to worldly ideas. You would think these singles have their sexuality well under wraps, locked and packed away to be opened when the right person comes along. It is a topic that needs to be discussed more openly and honestly, as it is an area where many struggle with guilt that emanates from failure to abstain as well as conforming to worldly views on sexuality. We need to renew our minds when it comes to sex, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 “For this is the will of the Lord, that you be sanctified (separated and set apart from sin): that you abstain and back away from sexual immorality; that each of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor (being available for God’s purpose and separated from things profane)”.
I was blessed to have a Pastor who, when I mentioned I was dating again, inquired if we had kissed and then offered an unusual but insightful precaution: “DO NOT HOLD HANDS.” Upon reflection, this advice makes sense as touching can lead down a slippery slope that can be challenging to navigate.
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Another analogy to consider is that when faced with temptation, you are standing on a hill surrounded by grease, except for where your feet are standing and you have a pole that you are holding onto that helps keep you steady if you lose your footing, you may slide down and struggle to regain your position. Even if you manage to steady yourself, the residual grease on your feet and the ground makes it challenging to maintain your stance. You must cling to the pole for support, exerting all your strength to avoid slipping further. Falling into sexual sin can be swift, and breaking free from its grip requires immense effort. This is why the Bible emphasizes the unique nature of sexual sin, which affects not just our actions but also our body, soul, and spirit.
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1 Corinthians 6:18, “Run away from sexual immorality (in any form, whether thought or behaviour, whether visual or written). Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the one who is sexually immoral sins against his own body.”
Those two scenarios, though sounding extreme, are necessary to help explain and understand the depth of the struggle, and I found them to be true. Today, I must thank God for His mercies and grace because I did find my way out of that rabbit hole and am desperately holding onto my pole, greasy feet, and all, and I can happily say I am celibate. (Remember, God forgives us and gives us another chance when we fail, so all hope is not lost when you slip and tumble to the bottom. God will pick you up and put you back at the top of the hill, as on your own, you cannot do it.) That’s why I’m happily celibate in God, I have found the intimacy that my soul was searching and longing for, and I am satisfied in a way that, though sexual desire may rear its head occasionally, it is not as much of a struggle to brush it off and move on as it used to be. I have experienced the battle of overwhelming sexual desire, which at one time could have led me to marry just for the sake of it, and I have friends who have done so, but I cannot blame them, as Paul does seem to advise if you are burning and cannot handle the sexual pressure, get married (1 Corinthians 7:9). It is worrisome that all the other relational needs get ignored when the physical becomes our primary driver for marriage, as there is more to this than the simple “get married if you want to have sex.” Not a question for today, however, so let’s leave it at that.
What I’ve learned through writing and researching on this issue is that something we’ve discussed previously in this column holds the key to this struggle. The deepest relational longing we all have, whether single or unhappily married, is intimacy with God. Knowing Him, loving Him, needing Him, and longing for Him in a way that words cannot fully describe is the ultimate fulfilment. Expressing our deepest desires and frustrations, including sexual ones, to God is not only acceptable but encouraged. If we look at David’s Psalms and consider that God called him “A MAN AFTER HIS OWN HEART,” it begins to make sense on the level of intimacy that God created us for.
Psalms 63:1-4 O God, You are my God; I earnestly search for You. My soul thirsts for You; my wholebody longs for You in this parched and weary land where there is no water. I have seen You in Your sanctuary and gazed upon Your power and glory; Your unfailing love is better than life itself; how I praise you……
I lie awake thinking of you, meditating on you through the night. Because you are my helper, I sing for joy in the shadow of your wings. I cling to you; your strong right hand holds me securely.
Doesn’t this resonate with the feelings of being in love? How our world becomes consumed by that person, and nothing else seems to matter as we lie on our bed, lost in thoughts of them, seeing them as ‘perfect’ and just right for us, fulfilling our every desire and need. But being human, the bubble of such infatuation is inevitably burst. Sadly, we often reach a point of questioning what we ever saw in them. This is why the human sexual experience can never fully satisfy our deepest longings; it pales in comparison to what we can experience in our relationship with God. Regrettably, many in the world increasingly turn to sexual perversion in pursuit of that high they think is the ultimate point of sexual intimacy. Only with God does intimacy deepen and improve, addressing the entirety of a person’s being, including the body. Psalm 84 verse 2 supports this notion: “I long, yes, I faint with longing to enter the courts of the LORD. With my whole being, body and soul, I will shout joyfully to the living God.”
So, how do we ensure we live pure lives without sexual immorality? How do we experience the intimacy we desire with God? Stay tuned to our magazine as we delve deeper into this subject in the next issue. Our part two of ‘Talk about Sex’ will explore the issue of sex and the single Christian, ensuring you don’t miss the next instalment.
Rutendo
xoxo
OVERCOMING ANGER
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Let us explore the subject of anger and its implications in our lives as Christians. I enjoy watching stories on crime, and I have seen the negative impact anger has on our lives. Many people in the videos I watch confess that anger had pushed them to commit heinous crime including murder. Anger is a natural emotion, but it is how we manage it and express it that matters. As Christians, we must be able to control our anger so that we do not end up in problems. The Bible offers guidance on handling anger in a way that aligns with God’s will.
In Ephesians 4:26, we are reminded, “In your anger, do not sin.” Anger is not sin however when it leads us to act and say words that hurt others, it becomes problematic. As children of God, we must master our emotions and never allow them to control us. It is sad that some people end up in prison because they failed to control their anger. I listened to a young man confessing that anger led him to commit murder. He failed to control his anger and picked up a thick rod made of steel and used it on his brother whom he was quarreling with. By the time he realized he had hurt his brother, it was already too late, his brother was dead. Proverbs 29:22 cautions, “an angry person stirs up conflict, and a hot-tempered person commits many sins.” Uncontrolled anger can lead us to harm those around us, it can harm relationships, create strife, and lead to regrettable actions. We must recognize its destructive potential.
The Word of God advises us in James 1:19-20, “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.” Our attitude in moments
of anger must reflect God’s righteousness. We must exercise selfrestraint and patience in moments of anger. Sometimes this may mean walking away from an argument even when we feel we are right, at times it may mean taking a few seconds to breathe and reflect on what you are saying. Many relationships were destroyed because of words exchanged out of anger. It is not easy to take back words uttered in anger, by the time you regret sadly the damage will have been made. Colossians 3:8 encourages us to “rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.” Instead, we are urged to embrace qualities like compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.
The Lord Jesus Christ taught in the book of Matthew 5:23-24, “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.” Reconciliation and forgiveness are pivotal in managing anger and fostering peace. Let us therefore strive to manage our anger in a way that honors God. May we seek His guidance as we replace anger with love and patience and pursue reconciliation where anger has caused division. Remember through God’s grace, we can find peace even amid our strongest emotions.
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TIPS TO JUMPSTART YOUR BODY BACK TO HEALTH
1. EAT LESS MORE OFTEN
Rather than eating large meals, eat smaller, more frequent meals throughout the day. Instead of three large meals, try spreading your food intake across five or six smaller meals or snacks. This approach can help regulate blood sugar levels, preventing overeating and maintaining energy levels throughout the day. Focus on nutrient-dense foods that provide sustained energy and keep you feeling satisfied, such as lean proteins, whole grains, fruits, vegetables, and healthy fats. Be mindful of portion sizes and listen to your body’s hunger and fullness cues to avoid overeating. By eating smaller, more frequent meal, you can support your metabolism, control cravings, and achieve better overall health and well-being.
2. HAVE YOUR LAST MEAL AT LEAST THREE HOURS
BEFORE BEDTIME
One healthy tip to consider is to have your last meal at least three hours before bedtime. Eating too close to bedtime can disrupt sleep patterns and digestion, leading to discomfort and difficulty falling asleep. By allowing sufficient time between your last meal and bedtime, you give your body a chance to digest food properly and reduce the risk of experiencing acid reflux or indigestion during the night. Additionally, avoiding heavy or spicy foods in the hours leading up to bedtime can further support a restful night’ sleep. Prioritizing this habit can contribute to overall well-being and promote better sleep quality.
3. QUALITY SLEEP
Quality sleep is a crucial component of a healthy lifestyle, yet it is often overlooked. Aim for 7 to 9 hours of uninterrupted sleep each night to allow your body and mind to rest, repair and recharge. Establishing a consistent sleep schedule, where you go to bed an wake p at the same time every day, can help regulate your body’s internal clock and improve sleep quality. Create a relaxing bedtime routine to signal to your body that it is time to wind down, such as reading a book, taking a
warm bath, or practicing relaxation techniques like deep breathing or meditation. Make your sleep environment conducive to rest by keeping your bedroom dark, cool, and quiet, and minimizing exposure to electronic devices before bedtime. Prioritizing quality sleep can improve your mood, cognitive function, immune system, and overall health, making it an essential aspect of a healthy lifestyle.
4. KICK THE SUGAR HABIT
One essential healthy tip is to kick the sugar habit. Sugar consumption, especially in excess, can lead to a variety of health issues, including weight gain, increased risk of heart disease, and diabetes. By reducing your intake of sugary foods and beverages, you can improve your overall health and well-being. Instead of reaching for sugary snacks, opt for whole foods like fruits, vegetables, and lean proteins, which provide essential nutrients without the added sugars. Additionally, be mindful of hidden sugars in processed foods and beverages and aim to choose options with little to no added sugars. Making small, gradual changes to your diet can help break free from the sugar habit and enjoy the benefits of a healthier lifestyle.
5. EAT VEGETABLES
One of the most important healthy tips is to incorporate more vegetables into your diet. Vegetables are packed with essential nutrients, vitamins, and fiber that are vital for overall health and well-being. They can help lower the risk of chronic diseases such as heart disease, diabetes, and certain types of cancer. Aim to fill half of your plate with a variety of colourful vegetables at each meal. Experiment with different cooking methods, such as roasting, steaming, or sauteing, to enhance their flavour and texture. Adding vegetable to soups, salads, stir-fries, and smoothies is also a great way to increase your intake. By prioritizing vegetables in your diet, you will not only improve your health but also enjoy a wider range of delicious and nutritious foods,
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6. GET USED TO LEFTOVERS
Getting used to leftovers can be a valuable healthy tip for busy individuals looking to maintain a nutritious diet. Instead of constantly preparing new meals, consider cooking larger portions and saving leftovers for future meals. Not only does this save time and effort, but it also reduces food waste and encourages mindful portion control. Leftovers can be easily repurposed into creative and delicious dishes, such as salads, sandwiches, soups, or stir-fries. By embracing leftovers, you can ensure that nutritious meals are always readily available, making it easier to stick to your healthy eating goals and maintain a balanced diet.
7. SHOP WITH CALORIES IN MIND
Shopping with calories in mind is a smart and practical healthy tip for anyone looking to improve their diet and overall well-being. Before heading to the grocery store, take a moment to plan your meals and snacks for the week, and make a list of the ingredients you will need. When selecting items at the store, pay attention to calorie labels and opt for nutrient-dense foods that provide essential vitamins, minerals, and fiber without excessive calories. Focus on filling your cart with fresh produce, lean proteins, whole grains, and healthy fats, while limiting processed foods, sugary snacks, and high calories beverages. By being mindful of calories while shopping, you can make healthier choices that support your goals for weight management and better nutrition.
8. MANAGE STRESS
Managing stress is important for maintaining overall health and well-being. Incorporating stress reducing techniques into your daily routine can help mitigate the negative effects of stress on both your physical and mental health. Practice mindfulness meditation, deep breathing exercises, or yoga to promote relaxation and reduce tension. Engage in regular physical activity, which can help alleviate stress and improve mood by releasing endorphins, the body’s natural stress relievers. Make time for hobbies and activities you enjoy, and prioritize self-care practices such as getting adequate sleep, maintaining a healthy diet,
and nurturing supportive relationships. Set realistic goals and boundaries and learn to say no to excessive commitments. Seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional can also be beneficial in managing stress effectively. By prioritizing stress management techniques, you can cultivate resilience and enhance your overall quality of life.
9. DRINK MORE WATER DURING THE DAY
Drinking more water is a fundamental healthy tip that often gets overlooked but can have a significant impact on overall health and well-being. Staying hydrated is essential for maintaining proper bodily functions, supporting digestion, regulating body temperature, and promoting healthy skin. Aim to drink at least eight glasses of water per day, or more if you are physically active or live in a hot climate. Carry a reusable water bottle with you throughout the day to make it easier to stay hydrated, and consider setting reminders to drink water regularly, especially if you tend to forget. You can also incorporate hydrating foods like fruits and vegetables you’re your diet to boost your water intake. By prioritizing hydration, you will not only feel more energized and alert but also support your body’s overall health and vitality.
10. EXERCISE REGULARLY
Regular exercise is a cornerstone pf a healthy lifestyle and it should be a top priority for everyone incorporating physical activity into your daily routine offers numerous benefits, including improved cardiovascular health, increased strength and flexibility, better mood regulation and enhanced weight management. Aim for at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise or 75 minutes of vigorous-intensity exercise per week, along with muscle-strengthening activities on two or more days per week. Find activities you enjoy, whether it is walking, cycling, swimming, yoga, or dancing and make them a regular part of your schedule. Remember that even small amounts of activity ad up over time, so focus on consistency rather than intensity. By making exercise a priority, you will not only improve your physical health but also boost your mood and overall quality of life.
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BIBLE VERSES ON
God is our protector, and He promises to keep us safe from harm. These Bible verses remind us of His promises of protection:
Psalm 91:1-2
“He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High Shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, ‘He is my refuge and my fortress; My God, in Him I will trust.’”
Proverbs 18:10
“The name of the Lord is a strong tower; The righteous run to it and are safe.”
Isaiah 41:10
“Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.”
Psalm 27:1
“The Lord is my light and my salvation; Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life; Of whom shall I be afraid?”
Psalm 34:19
“Many are the afflictions of the righteous, But the Lord delivers him out of them all.”
God’s Protection in Times of Trouble
Life is full of trials and challenges, but God promises to protect us through them all. These verses remind us of His protection during times of trouble:
Psalm 46:1
“God is our refuge and strength, A very present help in trouble.”
Psalm 91:15
“He shall call upon Me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him and honor him.”
Isaiah 43:2
“When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; And through the rivers, they shall not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned, Nor shall the flame scorch you.”
Psalm 138:7
“Though I walk in the midst of trouble, You will revive me; You will stretch out Your hand Against the wrath of my enemies, And Your right hand will save me.”
John 16:33
“These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.”
Trusting in God’s Protection
Trusting in God’s protection requires faith and belief in His promises. These Bible verses encourage us to trust in His protection:
Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.”
Psalm 56:3-4
“Whenever I am afraid, I will trust in You. In God (I will praise His word), In God I have put my trust; I will not fear. What can flesh do to me?”
Psalm 118:6
“The Lord is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me?”
Isaiah 26:3
“You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, Because he trusts in You.”
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Hebrews 13:6
“So we may boldly say: ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?’”
Protection from Evil God also protects us from the evil in this world. These verses remind us of His power over evil:
Psalm 121:7-8
“The Lord shall preserve you from all evil; He shall preserve your soul. The Lord shall preserve your going out and your coming in From this time forth, and even forevermore.”
Ephesians 6:11-12
“Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.”
2 Thessalonians 3:3
“But the Lord is faithful, who will establish you and guard you from the evil one.”
1 John 5:18
“We know that whoever is born of God does not sin; but he who has been born of God keeps himself, and the wicked one does not touch him.”
Psalm 91:9-10
“Because you have made the Lord, who is my refuge, Even the Most High, your dwelling place, No evil shall befall you, Nor shall any plague come near your dwelling.”
Finding Refuge in God’s Protection
In times of trouble, we can find refuge in God’s protection. These verses remind us of His provision and care for us:
Psalm 57:1
“Be merciful to me, O God, be merciful to me! For my soul trusts in You; And in the shadow of Your wings I will make my refuge, Until these calamities have passed by.”
Psalm 61:2
“From the end of the earth I will cry to You, When my heart is overwhelmed; Lead me to the rock that is higher than I.”
Psalm 62:8
“Trust in Him at all times, you people; Pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us. Selah”
Psalm 71:3
“Be my strong refuge, To which I may resort continually; You have given the commandment to save me, For You are my rock and my fortress.”
Nahum 1:7
“The Lord is good, A stronghold in the day of trouble; And He knows those who trust in Him.”
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Olinda Marowa is a Zimbabwean UK based gospel musician, Journalist, Co-Author, and a Pastor. Her interest in music began at a very tender age, and it was not so long before her talent was recognized by Kudzie Nyakudya in 2003. Kudzie Nyakudya took her to be part of his music group ‘Flowers of joy’ as a backing vocalist up until she went solo. In 2008 she released her first album titled “Nyasha” which was followed by her hit song “Ndinouya” which increased her popularity and influence in the gospel music circles. She is one of the best female gospel musicians to come out of Zimbabwe. Her achievements and influence are a testament of her career.
Olinda has received numerous accolades and awards over the years because of her music which has positively affected many people in Zimbabwe and across the African continent.
Living in Victory magazine’s Lifestyle and online correspondent Keegan Chipato (KC) caught up with Olinda Marowa (OM) to discuss more about her music journey.
ONE ON ONE WITH OLINDA MAROWA
INTERVIEW Interview By Keegan Chipato
INTERVIEW
LIV: Thank you very much for accepting our invitation for this interview. Who is Olinda Marowa?
OM: I was born on the 8th of March 1988; I grew up in Harare and currently I reside in the UK. I am a mother, a journalist by profession, Co-Author, Pastor, and a Gospel musician.
LIV: As a successful female gospel musician, share with us how your past has contributed to the person that you are today.
OM: Thank you for the acknowledging me as one of Zimbabwe’s successful gospel musicians. I grew up with the zeal to preach the word of God, but it was singing which paved the path for me to be able to spread the Good News. My family contributed a lot towards my music gift as we would sing a lot before going to bed during prayer time. In 2003 I got the opportunity to meet Kudzaishe Nyakudya who roped me in his musical group Flowers of Joy as a backing vocalist. I worked with him for a long time until I went Solo and started to record my own music.
LIV: You have worked with many household names in the gospel music industry such as Reverend T.T Chivaviro, Bethany Pasinawako, Sabastian Magacha, Rebecca Malope, the late Deborah Frazer, and many others. Looking back and reflecting, how did these relationships improve your life as a minister.
OM: Working with various renowned artists has made my musical journey quite interesting. I have learnt a lot from every individual I worked with. These are pace setters, who are not only determined but took their musical visions to greater heights and I was privileged to work with them, it was such a blessing and an honour. I learnt the importance of hard work, accountability, punctuality, humility, determination and putting God at the center of everything I do.
LIV: What are some of the lessons you have learned ever since you embarked on your musical journey.
OM: I have learnt a couple of things since I’ve embarked on my musical journey and this includes perseverance, patience, hard work, humility, running my own race to completion, accountability and acknowledging the importance of teamwork which saw me working with a lot of people in the music fraternity and gleaning so much from them.
LIV: As a gospel artist, it can be challenging and tiresome especially with the pressure that comes with shows, how do you manage to pull through?
OM: Indeed, there are challenges that come with being a Gospel Musician as people have a lot of expectations from you. Being focused as well as doing the right things has helped me overcome the pressure of the industry. As a Gospel Musician I have understood that it is Ministry work I am doing, and some people will be looking up to me therefore I should ensure I lead by example and fulfil the mandate I have of preaching the gospel. Nowadays because of the rampant increase of Social Media Platforms, a lot of trashing and insensitive comments come from people and one can be provoked to respond to negative comments, but I learnt not to focus on negativity and continue to preach and spread positivity. Our lifestyles should be reflecting Jesus Christ in us and the light we carry should shine and benefit those we minister to.
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LIV: You were nominated by the Zimbabwe Music Awards (ZIMA) as the best traditional gospel artist and the best female artist in 2016, you also won two awards for the best album at the Permican Gospel Awards and the Best Contemporary Gospel Musician. How do you remain humble when you have accomplished so much in the Gospel Industry.
OM: I thank God for enabling me to remain humble regardless of all the achievements. The word of God encourages us to stay humble so the Lord can lift us up. It is important to realize that God deserves all the glory and exaltation, and we are just vessels availing ourselves to be used in spreading the Good News.
LIV: What are some of your best moments in the gospel music industry?
OM: My best moments during my time in the music industry have been receiving testimonies of how my music has transformed people’s lives and the experiences they have whenever they listen to my music. It brings me so much joy to hear that there are souls being won for God through the music I sing.
LIV: What’s your advice to those that are following in your footsteps.
OM: My advice to everyone aspiring to be a Gospel Artist or those who are upcoming Gospel Musicians is that being focused, humility, patience, determination, accountability, hard work and being prayerful really pays. Competition will result in bitterness and unnecessary hatred therefore one should run their own race to completion.
LIV: Finally, may you share with us your future aspirations, what can we look forward to in the future from you.
OM: I will be releasing my 6th Album before the end of 2023 and on the 6th of October will be releasing a Single (Kana vanhu vangu) that is going to be part of the forthcoming Album. I look forward to doing live shows here in the UK, do some tours as well as having some visuals for the new album taken.
LIV: Thank you, Olinda. We look forward to the new album. God bless you.
Prayer Of THANKSGIVING
Heavenly Father, as we have just begun the new year, we are grateful for the countless blessings that You have released upon our lives in the past year. We thank You for the moments of joy that have uplifted our spirits, we thank You Lord for the challenges that have strengthened our resilience, and for the opportunities that have allowed us to grow and evolve.
We are grateful for the gift of life, for each breath that sustains us, and for the beauty of the world around us. Thank You Lord, for the love of family and friends, for their support and companionship through both sunny days and stormy nights.
In this time of reflection, we acknowledge our shortcomings and ask for your forgiveness. Grant us the wisdom to learn from our mistakes and the courage to embark on a path of righteousness and compassion in the coming year.
We seek Your guidance and blessings as we begin this new year. May Your light shine in our pathway, filling our hearts with hope, peace, and kindness. Help us to spread love and positivity, to be beacons of empathy in a world that often craves understanding.
We are thankful for the lessons learnt, the memories created and the experiences that have shaped us. May we carry the spirit of thanksgiving throughout the new year, cherishing every moment and expressing our gratitude through acts of kindness and generosity.
We are grateful for all that has been and that will be. May your peace and grace continue to be upon us, may you continue to guide and lead us in paths of righteousness. In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray.
AMEN
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SUMMER SKINCARE TIPS
by Hazel Nyere –Co-Founder Nakisa Skincare
HEALTH AND BEAUTY COLUMN
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In the summer months, as the sun’s intensity increases, it’s crucial to adapt your skincare regimen to shield and revitalize your skin. The heightened sun exposure during summer can lead to specific skin challenges like hyperpigmentation, greasiness, acne breakouts, enlarged pores, and accelerated photoaging. This necessitates extra attention and care for your skin. In this article, we’ll explore strategies to prevent skin damage and optimize your natural summer radiance.
Caring for your skin is a way of honoring your body, recognized as a temple of the Holy Spirit. To maintain its health, it’s crucial to nurture and enrich your skin with healing oils, creams, and gentle cleansers.
1 Corinthians 6:19 “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own”.
Here are some essential tips to preserve and protect your skin throughout the summer months:
1. Apply Sunscreen:
Incorporate sunscreen as a fundamental part of your daily skincare routine, especially in summer, opt for a broad-spectrum sunscreen with SPF 30 or higher, generously applying it to all exposed areas. Reapply every two hours, particularly if you’re swimming or perspiring. Consider using spray-on sunscreen products that won’t disrupt your makeup for hasslefree reapplication.
2. Stay Hydrated:
Hydration is key for both your body and skin. Elevated temperatures can lead to excessive sweating, potentially causing dehydration. Increase your water intake during the summer to counter this effect. Apart from external moisturizers, ensure internal hydration by consuming hydrating foods such as fruits and vegetables.
3. Cleanse Your Skin:
Heat and humidity open pores while increased sweating and impurities can clog them. Use a gentle cleanser twice daily to eliminate dirt, sweat, and excess oil. Opt for lukewarm water instead of hot water, as hot water can strip away natural oils from
your skin. Nakisa Skincare offers cleansers suitable for all skin types to help in this regard.
4. Exfoliate:
Incorporate regular exfoliation into your routine to eliminate dead skin cells and unclog pores, resulting in a refreshed and glowing complexion. However, ensure a gentle approach to exfoliation to avoid skin irritation. Opt for a mild exfoliator and limit its use to once or twice a week.
5. Moisturize:
Despite the heat, maintaining skin hydration is crucial. Select a lightweight moisturizer suitable for your skin type. If you have oily skin, consider using a gel-based moisturizer for effective hydration without excess oiliness.
6. Lip Protection:
Don’t overlook your lips during summer skincare. They are prone to dryness and chapping due to increased sun exposure. Apply a lip balm containing SPF to shield them from the sun’s harmful rays. Reapply the lip balm throughout the day, particularly after swimming or prolonged sun exposure, to keep your lips nourished and protected.
7. Limit Sun Exposure:
Minimize your time in the sun, especially during its peak hours from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., when the sun’s rays are most intense and damaging to the skin. Seek shade whenever possible and wear protective clothing like hats, scarves, and sunglasses to further shield yourself from direct sunlight.
8. Chlorine and Saltwater Care:
While swimming is a summer favorite, exposure to chlorinated pools or saltwater can dry out your skin. After swimming, rinse off to remove any residue and apply moisturizer immediately to replenish lost moisture. Ensure the moisturizer is applied while your skin is still damp for better absorption.
9. Adapt Skincare Routine:
Adjust your skincare regimen according to your skin’s changing needs in the summer. For instance, individuals with oily skin might benefit from using a toner containing ingredients like salicylic acid to manage excess oil production.
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10. Eye Protection:
The skin around your eyes is sensitive and prone to sun damage. Wear sunglasses equipped with UV protection to shield your eyes from harmful rays. Additionally, consider using an eye cream with SPF to safeguard the delicate skin around your eyes from sun damage and premature aging.
Remember, each person’s skin is unique, so it’s essential to pay attention to your skin’s responses and
adjust your routine accordingly. Skincare isn’t exclusive to any gender—both men and women have skincare needs. If you encounter specific concerns or persistent skin issues, seeking advice from a dermatologist for professional guidance is always a wise choice.
Nakisa Skincare stocks a number of products that are suitable for all genders. Visit our website at www.nakisaskincare.com
Contact us on +263772357239
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