Living In Victory

EDITOR’S NOTE

The spoken Word is powerful and can become the driving force behind our destinies. The Word of God confirms this truth in Proverbs 18:21 “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” We have the choice to speak life giving words into our lives but most times we find ourselves speaking negatively. We must choose to speak positively even in trying circumstances and our circumstances must not change our confession. From the very beginning the power of words is demonstrated when God spoke the World into existence. He spoke and it manifested. Every human being is created in the image of God, we also have the creative power in us and as such we need to be careful with the words we speak.

Matthew 12:37 “For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.” Our own mouths can keep us in spiritual prisons and at the same time they can elevate us to great heights. What are we saying out there? Are we not ruining our progress and falling into the trap of our confession? It is important to reflect on what we have been carelessly confessing.

Proverbs 18:7 “A fool’s mouth is his ruin, and his lips are the snare of his soul.” I have heard parents cursing their children through the words that they speak in moments of anger, others speaking negatively into their children’s future. Calling our children fools, ignorant, good for not]hing and many other words that are negative will not help them attain their destinies. We are encouraged by the Word of God in the book of James, to be slow with our words: James 1:19 “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” Our confession must always be consistent with the Word of God. Our Words are the programmers of our destinies. Let us make sure that we confess the Word of God even in difficult circumstances. The Bible says in Joel 3:10 “Let the weak say I am strong” In other words you confess strength during weakness, you do not wait to be strong then confess your strength, no, you begin to declare it while you are weak. When you are sick confess healing, when you lack confess abundance, this is how the spirit realm operates.

2 Corinthians 4:13 It is written: “I believed; therefore I have spoken.” Since we have that same spirit of faith, we also believe and therefore we speak.

Child of God do not be ignorant of the power of the spoken Word. I encourage you to speak positively over every challenging situation you might be facing right now, begin to speak the Word of God and align your confession to His Word. You are the Prophet of your destiny. “I am a conqueror; I am victorious through Christ! No weapon fashioned against me will prosper! You are an overcomer!

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COUPLE GOALS

Written By Noreen Munengoni

In December 2021 Meghan Good and Devon Franklin announced that they would be divorcing after 10years of marriage. There was a lot of talk about the breakup. People considered them the “it” couple especially considering how they abstained before marriage. Imagine a pastor marrying a woman from the “world”?! I recall reading a comment in which someone concluded with “#couplegoals”.

That got me thinking... what are couple goals? How do you define them? According to Dr Philip Chidavaenzi, “Couple goals” refer to actions or ideals that someone admires or desires, especially in a couple they look up to. Usually this would be a couple that demonstrates a strong bond or deep connection. So, the person who considers such a couple as “couple goals” simply means they also want a marriage like that. For example, if someone says Pastor Phil and Mama Lyn are my couple goals, what they are saying is they want a marriage just like theirs. What I got from other people is that “couple goals” is doing what works for you and your partner. It is being in sync with each other’s needs and being able to communicate those needs to each other. “Couple goals” is doing what works for the two of you and does not involve looking outside for a formula to make magic in your relationship.

The important ingredient for me is praying together. Having your partner cover you in prayer. Being able to worship God together. Unfortunately, so many of us

are star-struck. We idolize these celebrities, revere them, worship them even. We model our lives on their lives. Crazy thing is, we only see what they want us to see. And then we base our decisions on what to eat, wear and do on those little snippets of their lives we see. We decide how to handle our relationships based on how we have seen them handle theirs. We even choose who to date based on what their partners look like. But we tend to forget that they are only human just like you and me. We don’t know what happens behind closed doors.

As it is, there was and still is so much speculation as to why Devon and Meghan broke up. It’s a fairytale story but without the happy ending. But then again, happy for who? This could be their happy ending. While we’re crying foul and ranting and raving about how they did us wrong by breaking up, they’re breathing sighs of relief. We gave ourselves front row seats in their marriage and expected their marriage to last forever. Someone even went so far as to say, they modeled their whole relationship on that of Devon and Meghan. Now that they’re divorced, that person feels lost. They don’t know whether to continue or end their relationship, it is a sad situation.

I think it would make more sense to hashtag couple goals, people you know personally. How about that old couple down the road who have been together for as long as you can remember? How about your parents who have just celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary?

How about your sibling who’s been married for 10years or 5 years or even 2 years? Of course, you will never truly know what happens between two people behind the scenes. It is a risk that we take hash tagging any couple. I am reminded of when Jay-Z cheated on Beyoncé and when Jada Pinkett had an affair with August Alsina. Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, two amazing Hollywood actors, “Brangelina” became a brand, a household name. This successful Hollywood couple was seen adopting children from third world countries, having their own, appearing in blockbuster movies and still having time for their children. They were the model couple, the one we thought would be together for a long time. But hey, life happened. They divorced. And guess what? No one talks about them anymore. At the end of the day, it is important to have your own couple goals.

Define what makes you tick as a couple and what you want to achieve. In fact, before you get married, set standards for your marriage. The Bible says do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. When you get together with someone whose standards, values, goals, and beliefs do not match with yours, you tend to compromise to keep them happy. Do not get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with compromising in a relationship. Ultimately, you need to know whether compromising will improve your relationship and especially you as an individual or if it will simply make you bitter. Remember, you are fearfully and wonderfully made.

LET

ABOUT MENOPAUSE

Written By Rhoda Mafukidze

Why bother about this topic?

• Understanding menopause helps the affected woman to move through the process more smoothly than a woman who begins with little or no knowledge of the process.

• Everyone, male or female has to understand menopause so that they can be able to understand and empathise with a significant other going through this natural process.

Definitions

Perimenopause – The beginning of a process that may last 6-10 years. levels of estrogen production fluctuate over a period of +/-10 years.

Menopause - The physiological period in the life of a woman in which menstruation ceases, usually occurring between the ages of 45 and 55. Also called the CLIMACTERIC. The mean in western countries is approximately 51 years. It is diagnosed after 12 months of amenorrhoea.

Signs and symptoms and mitigation factors

• Some women experience very few symptoms, others severe symptoms. All these are linked to decreased oestrogen levels.

• Vasomotor – vasomotor instability leading to hot flashes, sweating and palpitations. Hot flashes can be alleviated by drinking cool water, avoiding heating up in the first place, wearing loose clothes and where possible avoiding stressors.

• Urogenital System –

• Atrophy and thinning of the mucosal lining of the urethra, urinary bladder, vagina and vulva. Loss of vaginal elasticity and distensibility.

• Decrease in urine pH leading to a malodorous odour because of increased bacterial growth and pruritus. Reduce sugar intake, reduce weight and make use of cotton rather than nylon pants.

• Reduced vaginal secretions leading to vaginal dryness, soreness, dyspareunia. One can use recommended gels such as K-Y jelly.

• Urinary frequency and incontinence - due to loss of pelvic muscle tone, and uterine and urethral prolapse. Try to see a gynaecologist or a urologist.

• Loss of libido. Like they say, sex is in the mind, remain positive and tell yourself that you can still enjoy sex even after menopause!

• On Pelvic Examination -The uterus is smaller, ovaries no longer palpable, fibroids shrink at this age which is an advantage.

• Bone Metabolism – Progressive bone loss leading to osteoporosis: eat well, exercise but do not overdo it. Fall-proof your home to prevent injuries.

• Cardiac Function – Increased susceptibility to heart disease, have your cholesterol checked regularly, be screened for hypertension, and take medication as prescribed. Once again, a good diet with less fat and carbohydrates is recommended. EXERCISE!

Cognitive, neurogenic and affective disturbances

• Decrease in estrogen also affects SEROTONIN, a neurotransmitter or brain chemical which causes women to feel good, energetic and to focus more clearly. Less estrogen= less serotonin = affective disturbances. All this can lead to the following:

• Mood Changes: take note of your moods and tell yourself, the Joy of the Lord is your strength! Keep in contact with friends and family, be busy, socialize, cultivate your hobby, go to church if you are a Christian like me, pray and meditate on the goodness of the Lord. If you feel overwhelmed do not hesitate to see a family doctor, a counsellor or a psychologist.

• Insomnia - so you cannot sleep? Be active during the day so that at night your body and mind are

tired and ready to sleep. Avoid fluids after 6pm so that a full bladder does not disturb your sleep. Do something that facilitates sleep when it’s bedtime, could be reading, listening to soft music etc.

• Hypersomnia - maybe you actually feel sleepy all the time? Make sure you have at least 6-7 hours of sleep every night. Do not be tempted to take too much caffeine and other stimulants as these can cause harm to your cardiovascular system.

• Feelings of worthlessness - self talk is very important. Once again for me as a Believer, I would tell myself that I am a child of the living God, above and not beneath, full of joy and peace, a mountain mover and I can do all things through Christ. If these feelings persist, see your Psychologist.

• Decreased concentration: Try to do activities that you enjoy, also activities that stimulate your brain.

• Indecisiveness: Because now you know that this is a side effect, when you feel like ignoring something, postponing a decision, push and encourage yourself to make that decision.

• Depression: This is time to definitely see a psychologist or even your GP. You might or might not need some medication.

• Anxiety - avoid where possible situations that you know are likely to induce anxiety. Cast all your cares and burdens upon the Lord!

• Headaches: You will need a health assessment to determine the cause of the headache. Is it associated with stress? Maybe dehydration? As people get older the thirst mechanism is no longer that active, whether you feel thirst or not, drink at least 2 litres of water per day. Of course your blood pressure and your eyes need to be checked out as well.

• Others • Increased or decreased appetite leading to weight changes - Once again be health conscious, eat well, eat with others.

• Mastodynia - This is breast pain and discomfort in this case caused by hormonal changes of menopause. With time the discomfort will just disappear. However, just have your breasts examined to make sure there is nothing else brewing. Why not go for a mammogram?

How can the effects of menopause be further reduced?

As a way of further mitigating the effects of menopause, your doctor can also prescribe:

Hormone replacement therapy (hrt) INDICATIONS ● To provide relief of vasomotor symptoms. ● To reduce risk of unwanted pregnancy, yes you can conceive during the perimenopausal period! ● To avoid irregularities of menstrual cycles

To preserve bone and prevent osteoporosis

To lower the risk of coronary artery disease. ● To improve urogenital symptoms

CONTRAINDICATIONS

● History of breast cancer

History of endometrial cancer

Severe active liver disease

Undiagnosed vaginal bleeding

EFFECTS

Bloating, weight gain

Fluid retention

Mood swings

Breakthrough bleeding

Breast tenderness

So there we are! You can make a choice, to go through menopause naturally or go on HRT. Talk to your doctor.

I believe this is helpful for those going through menopause. Husbands and all family members, please understand and walk with that special family member as she goes through menopause!

Yours Truly

Rhoda Mafukidze (Mrs)

Master of Science in Strategic Management, BSc Nursing, Diploma in Nursing Education, Diploma in Operating Theatre

Nursing, Diploma Registered General Nurse, Diploma in Theology.

Author of: 31 Secrets To A Fail Proof Marriage. +263773541458

HOW I BUILD MY INTENTIONAL WARDROBE

By Shamiso Patience Mbiriri

“Shamiso loves nice things. Every part of her outfit is well thought out and intentional. You can easily tell her mood by the way she is dressed…” These were my father’s opening remarks for my wedding day. I was shocked to hear him say that even though I knew he was right. I have a very intentional wardrobe but I guess I was just shocked that he noticed. I never imagined someone else paying attention to those tiny details about me.

Each day I step out of my house I want to communicate through my wardrobe choices. The dream is to be able to reflect my principles in the way I dress. Believe it or not, this is something I do for myself without even wondering what the rest of the world thinks. Building my intentional wardrobe did not happen overnight. I make choices every day, upgrade it every now and then, declutter as often as I can and I hold myself accountable for every choice I make. Each time I walk into a shopping mall I remind myself:

• You do not have to buy it just because it fits.

• Not every trendy outfit is meant for you.

• Its ok to leave it if it does not suit your style.

• You do not have to buy it just because it’s on sale.

• You do not have to buy it just because everyone else says you should.

The last thing I want is to hang on to clothes I do not like just because I feel bad for wasting money on them or feel stuck with some clothes just because I bought them out of impulse.

It is satisfying to pass through rails and be able to say no just because it is not what you want. Funny enough, saying no to a few selected clothes does not

make everything else perfect for me and so each time I pick out or choose any clothes, I ask myself the following questions:

• Does it reflect my lifestyle?

• Does it fit?

• Is it comfortable?

• Does it reflect my personal style?

• Can I wear it with anything I already have?

• Is it durable?

• Can I afford it?

• Does it match my preferred color palette?

It is fun and satisfying when you are honest with yourself. At the end of the day, you can only be confident when you are happy with your choices.

To follow Shamiso, please visit her Christian blog on www.shamisopatience.com

Singleness is one of the most talked-about topics in our society today. Single people are often seen as lonely, unfulfilled, incomplete, and these are certainly feelings that some will go through when they are in a season of singleness. I thought God intended for everyone to get married and created marriage with all people in mind because, lest we forget, He is the author of the marital relationship. In Genesis when Adam was lonely God made him a helper suitable for him, one who would keep him company whilst helping with the workload, Genesis 2 verses 18-25. However, we are not talking about marriage today, we are talking about being single, yet the relationship that began the marriage institution as we know it today is what causes most single people to feel like something is missing when they are not in a relationship. I have now experienced being single more than I had expected, as my husband passed away after nearly sixteen years of marriage, and I now feel like yes marriage is optional, I can live single, fulfilled, and happy just me, myself, I and God. Let me give you a little insight of how I got to this perspective on relationships and singleness. God has always existed as a triune God, in relationship as Father, Son and the Holy Spirit, companionship is therefore the norm for Him. When He created Adam to have a relationship with Him, that is why we were created to enjoy God and glorify Him, God could not spend all His time with Adam, however He gave him chores in the garden, the animals to look after and I guess that kept him somewhat busy but there was no one Adam could enjoy companionship with after he was done with his work. The animals were not of his kind, that is created in God’s image, and so God created Eve to fill that gap. Had God been with Adam 24/7, as we can experience the Holy Spirit now, the need for Eve may never have arisen in that way, because Adam’s relational needs would have been totally fulfilled by his constant presence with God. Let us keep in

ME, MYSELF, I AND GOD

mind that God throughout the Bible reveals Himself to us in various relational roles, Father, husband, friend, brother, mother, lover, creator, the different facets of how God relates to us are unending and would need a whole other article to cover. Moving on lets fast forward to this modern age, we are struggling with our singleness, yet Jesus seems to call it a gift in Matthew 19 verses 10-12, as does Paul in 1 Corinthians 7v7. You may wonder how this could possibly be a gift, when you feel

lonely and unfulfilled or incomplete. I have seen how it would be a gift though, because when you learn the constant presence of God as Jesus had with the Father and Holy Spirit and as Paul had come to know and seek after his conversion, the need for spousal relationship becomes less of a concern and one may even begin to see it as a distraction in the pursuit of relationship with God. When you allow yourself to know God intimately, to seek him desperately and enjoy him unreservedly, the spouse you think will fulfil you, will pale in comparison. He can meet your every need in ways you cannot even begin to imagine. Jeremiah 33v3 encourages us to call to him and he can show us great and mighty things which we do not know, and who better to ask than the one who created you when you are struggling with singleness.

Where does this then leave us and what does it mean for us as single people you may wonder? Well, singleness can be a time of immense personal growth and discovery, a time when we can be the most ourselves, and who God created us to be. It can be a season where we are closer to God than we can ever be at any other time. Paul points out in 1 Corinthians 7v32-34, your concern when you are married is definitely about how to understand, get closer to and please your spouse a lot more than how to do the same with God, because more often than not our whole identity becomes tied up in who we are as married people instead of who we are as God’s children. So now having seen where our deep need lies, that is in having companionship and that it really can be fulfilled with our relationship with God, does it solve all the issues we face as single people.

The unfortunate answer to that is because of our humanity, it does not, for just as married Christian people still face struggles in their married life, single Christian people also face many struggles. What we however always need to keep in perspective is that no state is better than the other, each has its advantages and its disadvantages. Allow yourself to be at peace whatever situation you find yourself in and focus on what is important at that time to ensure you glorify and enjoy relationship with God always. As a single person especially do not be striving with God about getting married, be patient and wait on him if it is your deep desire, he will bring the right person at the right time for you.

Psalms 37v4 says when we delight ourselves in the Lord he gives us our heart’s desires. I hope that we have laid a good grounding of where we are as single people, that we are not lacking anything and in God we have and we are enough. We can therefore begin to discuss the issues we struggle with and how we can begin to live victorious single lives. We will explore the many facets of singleness: how to make friends; how to date; what it means to be single in Christ; how to make peace with your singleness, raising children as a single parent and so much more!

We will also speak about all these with a view to meet the different needs of different single people who have been generalized in terms of their outlook on life thus far. So, to get an understanding of what we are saying when we mention single people, I will leave you with these few statements about the different types and point of views of singleness that we will over time explore with this column of Living Single. Divorced people who are seen as more likely to experience loneliness, but they also feel a sense of freedom. Widowed people who are more likely to be lonely than married people, but they also experience a greater sense of meaning in their lives. Nevermarried people who tend to be the most content with their lives because they never had to deal with the emotional trauma of divorce or the death of a spouse. Don’t worry though if you don’t see yourself in any of these descriptions, the Bible says that we are “fearfully and wonderfully made” Psalms 139v1317 and to me it’s always spoken of “it okay to be different” because God did not use a cookie cutter when he made each one of us and we are so very precious in his sight. So, until we meet again in the next issue and begin to delve deeper into the issues of singleness, stay content and stay growing in relationship with God, xoxo.

THE NAMES OF GOD

To understand God and how He operates, we need to study and analyze His names. We see the manifestation of His power through His names. When we know the names of God, we have an insight into His ways, and we will understand His character like Apostle Paul says in Philippians 3:10 the great goal of His Life: “that I may know Him.” 1. ELOHIM

Hebrew for God, God “Creator, Mighty and Strong” 2. ADONAI

The Hebrew word which means “Lord”, It implies royalty, majestic qualities.

Genesis 15:8, Judges 6:15 3. EL ROI The God who sees me 4. JEHOVAH

Another word for Jehovah is Yahweh, and this is translated to mean “Holy of Holies” and “SelfExistent One” 5. JEHOVAH TSIDKENU This is translated to mean Jehovah, Our Righteousness Jeremiah 23 verse 6 6. JEHOVAH M’KADDESH Jehovah who sanctifies Exodus 31:13 7. JEHOVAH SHALOM

Jehovah is Peace Judges 6:24 8. JEHOVAH SHAMMAH

Jehovah is there Exodus 48 verse 35

9. JEHOVAH ROPHE

Jehovah heals Exodus 15:26 10. JEHOVAH JIREH

Jehovah my provider, the Lord who sees our need before we see it. Genesis 22:14 11. JEHOVAH NISSI

Jehovah, my Banner Exodus 17:15 12. JEHOVAH EL ELYON The Most High God, Possessor of Heaven and Earth 13. EL SHADDAI The Sustainer 14. JEHOVAH ROI The Lord, my Shepherd Psalm 23:1 15. JEHOVAH ZEBAOTH The Lord of Armies, the Lord of Hosts Isaiah 24:23

Nigerian gospel artist, songwriter, actress, and comedian Mercy Nnenda Chinwo was born on the 5th of September 1990, in Port Harcout, River State. Mercy wears many hats, and her talent knows no bound however her greatest calling is in music. She is a favourite to many Christians not only in Nigeria but all over the globe.

Mercy’s father recognized her gift at a young age and supported his daughter, however he passed away while she was still young in 2007, and her mother singlehandedly raised her. Mercy began singing at the young age of 7, she was a member of the children’s choir at her mother’s church and later transitioned to the main church choir. She lended her voice as a backing vocalist to great Nigerian Gospel Artists such as Joe Praise, Chris Morgan to mention a few. Her songs are played in many churches and at many gatherings. Mercy’s journey to stardom was not easy, in 2012, she became a contestant on Nigerian Idols and won the title. Mercy received an SUV and 7.5 million naira. One of the songs she sang on the finale was Whitney Houston’s songs “I look to you” which she made her own. Her performance was outstanding and energetic, she had come for the prize! In one of her interviews after winning Idols, Mercy was asked if she ever thought that one day she would become a superstar, she confidently said yes, she always had the dream of being great one day, singing positive messages to the youth of Nigeria.

The songstress released her very first album titled “Testimony” in 2015 and “Igwe” in 2017. Mercy Chinwo was signed to Ezee records after waiting a few years after winning Nigerian Idols and her light kept shining brighter. She however became popular on the

gospel scene in 2018 after releasing her single “Excess Love”. “Excess Love” earned her a significant recognition within the gospel music industry not only in Nigeria but globally. She also scooped three awards for the single in 2019 at the Africa Gospel Awards (AGAFEST 2019) namely Africa Gospel New Artiste of the year, Africa Gospel Female Artiste of the Year, and Africa Song of the Year. In 2020, Mercy Chinwo won the award for the Gospel Artiste of the year at the AFRIMMA Awards. So far, she has released two albums, The Cross My Gaze (2018), Satisfied (2020) and numerous hit singles which include Chinedum (2018), Akamdinelu 2019, Oh Jesus (2019). Mercy’s uplifting songs have a unique way of ministering to gospel lovers. Gospel lovers relate to the messages behind her music and identify with the songs. Asked how she puts her songs together, Mercy explained that the Holy Spirit is her source, He inspires her, He gives her every word for each song and this usually happens when she meditates on the Word of God and through her life experiences. Mercy declares that her life is a testimony of God’s grace, God’s love, God’s mercy and if God can do it for her, he can do it for everyone.

COLLABORATIONS

Mercy has worked with numerous artists. She was featured on Moses Bliss’s hit single “taking care”, she is also featured on Chris Morgan’s song “Good Father”

a dull moment with Mercy, she is a jovial soul, always laughing and kidding around. Despite her success and her status, she remains humble. Moses Bliss who is close to the singer mentioned on her birthday that she is very generous and goes out of her way to bless others at times sacrificing for others.

MARRIAGE

The Multitalented songstress recently tied the knot to Pastor Blessed Uzochikwa of Water Brooks Church Lekki, Lagos. What a blessing for the couple as they complement each other in the work of the Lord. At her introduction ceremony, a crowd was outside the building and Mercy ended up having an unplanned mini concert, singing to the crowd by the balcony. Her love for her fans could not keep her from them even at such a time. The Wedding celebration took two days, from Friday the 12th of August to Saturday the 13th of August. They had their traditional wedding on Friday the 12th of August. It was all glitz and glamour showcasing the colourful Nigerian traditional outfits. The bride and groom wore three different outfits, apparently, they all had significance and meaning. Mercy was a sight in her traditional outfits and Pastor Blessed looked striking. She sang praises to her God and danced with the jovial guests obviously thankful for the goodness of the Lord upon her life.

ACTING

Mercy Chinwo landed her first acting role as Lucia, (a maid) in the film “House of Gold” alongside Yvonne Nelson and Majid Michel among others in 2013. “House of Gold” won the Best Picture and The Best Ghanaian Movie Awards at the Ghana Movie Awards.

The Nigerian Songstress is always in high spirits, laughing and being playful. If you do not follow Mercy Chinwo on YouTube, you are probably missing out on her comic side. She posts funny skits, and she is playful. There is never

Their flamboyant white wedding took place on the 13th of August and was the talk of Nigeria. Mercy looked extremely beautiful in her wedding gown; her brother walked her down the aisle. Several celebrities attended the wedding and Banky W was the best man. The

groom and best man were striking in light brown suits. The décor was outstanding, and you did not need to be told it was the wedding of a celebrity. The cake was gigantic and made of 8 tiers, written on each tier were some of Mercy’s hit gospel songs. Excess Love, Na You Dey Reign, Chinedu and more. According to Mercy, one of the most remarkable moments was when her mum prayed for her, nothing beats a mother’s love, she stated. She has been a source of pride for her mother. It is the desire of every mother to see her daughter married and settled, this is now a reality for Mercy’s mum. Every now and again her fans would hint that it was time for her to settle down and get married, unbeknown to them, God was busy preparing the best for His daughter. The word of God encourages Believers to put the Kingdome of God first and all other things will be added unto them.

Matthew 6:33 “But seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you”

Mercy has dedicated her life to serving the Lord and His people through her music. Her soulful music has drawn many to the Lord and continues to uplift the spirits of many saints all over the world. It was only a matter of time before the Lord opened the door of marriage for her. While people were talking, God remained faithful to His servants. Yes, to the faithful, God is faithful.

WHO IS PASTOR BLESSED UZOCHIKWA?

Pastor Blessed is the resident Pastor at the Waterbrook Church in Lekki, Lagos. Several Nigerian celebrities attend his church including Banky W. He is passionate and dedicated to the work of the Lord. Alongside ministry, he is a Microsoft Certified I.T Professional and a trained Project Manager. Pastor Blessed was born in a Christian family; his father is a Pastor and overseer of a Prayer Ministry. He followed in his father’s footsteps. He is also known for standing up against xenophobia in South Africa around 2020. Just like Mercy, Pastor Blessed is jovial and enjoys dancing. The Word of God states in Proverbs 18:22 that “He

who finds a good wife finds a good thing and obtains the favour of the Lord” Pastor Blessed has indeed been blessed by the Lord.

Mercy Chinwo recently took to Instagram, noting that getting married to Pastor Blessed was the best decision she made after salvation. She hailed her husband as a man “filled with grace and truth”. She wrote, “I can’t contain my joy and excitement. Its one month already with my gee, forever to go.”

MERCY IS INDEED BLESSED!

Ecclesiastes 3:11 “He, God, has made everything beautiful in its time…” When we trust God and we remain rooted in His Word, He reveals His goodness upon our lives. Indeed, Mercy is Blessed! In everything we give God all the praise and we pray for this beautiful marriage. May their love keep burning and may God be glorified in their union. May their marriage continue to testify of God’s goodness as they work together in the vineyard of the Lord.

CAULIFLOWER RICE

DIRECTIONS:

Ingredients

• 24 ounces cauliflower florets*

• 2 tablespoons reduced sodium soy sauce

• 1 tablespoon sesame oil

• 1 tablespoon freshly grated ginger

• 1/4 teaspoon white pepper

• 2 tablespoons vegetable oil, divided

• 2 large eggs, beaten

• 2 cloves garlic, minced

• 1 onion, diced

• 6 ounces broccoli florets, chopped

• 2 carrots, peeled and grated

• 1/2 cup frozen corn

• 1/2 cup frozen peas

• 2 green onions, thinly sliced

• 1/2 teaspoon sesame seeds

1. To make the cauliflower rice, pulse cauliflower in the bowl of a food processor until it resembles rice, about 2-3 minutes; set aside.

2. In a small bowl, whisk together soy sauce, sesame oil, ginger and white pepper; set aside.

3. Heat 1 tablespoon vegetable oil in a medium skillet over low heat. Add eggs and cook until cooked through, about 2-3 minutes per side, flipping only once. Let cool before dicing into small pieces; set aside.

4. Heat remaining 1 tablespoon vegetable oil in a large skillet or wok over medium high heat. Add garlic and onion to the skillet, and cook, stirring often, until onions have become translucent, about 3-4 minutes. Stir in broccoli, carrots, corn and peas, and cook, stirring constantly, until vegetables are tender, about 3-4 minutes.

5. Stir in cauliflower, eggs, green onions and soy sauce mixture. Cook, stirring constantly, until heated through and the cauliflower is tender, about 3-4 minutes.

6. Serve immediately, garnished with sesame seeds, if desired.

CHRISTMAS FRUITCAKE

Ingredients

• 600 g Mixed Dried Fruit (sultanas, raisins, currants, cranberries, candied orange and lemon peeling)

• 150ml Rum

• 125 g Butter (soft)

• 125 g Dark Brown Sugar

• 4 Eggs

• 2.5 g Baking Powder

• 125 g Plain Flour

• 5 mL Orange Extract

• 5 mL Mixed Spice

• 50 g Ground Almonds

• 300 g Icing Sugar

• 5 mL Rum

• 30 mL Milkv

DIRECTIONS

1. In a pan set over a low heat, add the dried fruit and peeling, pour the brandy over, and cover the pan with the lid.

2. Leave to simmer for 10 minutes so that the fruit can soak up the alcohol 3. Remove from the heat, and leave the lid on for a further 5 minutes 4. To make the sponge, beat together the brown sugar with butter until you get a smooth thick paste 5. Add the eggs one by one, eating well after each addition to avoid the mixture curding 6. Add the ground almonds, mixed spice, baking powder and orange extract 7. Add the flour and soaked fruit

8. Mix well to ensure the fruit are well distributed, and transfer the mixture to a round cake tin that is greased and floured

9. Bake in the preheated oven at 120 degrees Celsius (248 Fahrenheit) for one hour, then increase the temperature to 150 degrees Celsius (300 Fahrenheit) and bake for a further 30 minutes until light brown and firm to touch

PRAYER OF GRATITUDE

Thank You Lord for watching over us. Thank You for the gift of life. We thank You for providing for us, Lord! We are forever thankful for You sustained us. We thank You for protecting us from the hand of the enemy, we faced many battles this year, but You came through for us. We thank You Lord for fighting our battles for us, yes, we were faced with many battles yet Your divine hand fought for us and granted us victory. Some of us were not sure we would live to the end of the year but by Your grace we made it, Lord! Father we are grateful! Some of us lost our loved ones during the year, we were heartbroken, but we thank You for comforting us during the times of sorrow. As we approach the new year, we ask for the strength to face the challenges ahead of us. We ask that You continue to guide us, lead us in the coming year. Help us to accomplish Your will for our lives, Lord. Grant us the courage to face the obstacles that stand in our path as we accomplish your purpose and plans for our lives. May we never drown in the world and forsake the way of light instead may we continue to hold on to the faith knowing there is a great reward that awaits us in the life to come. Father, we thank You for all You will do for us in the coming year. We thank You for provision and for opportunities that await us. We thank You for the grace and favour to excel We declare we will be fruitful in the year 2023 In the powerful name of Jesus Christ

AMEN

BONGI’S TESTIMONY

My name is Mayibongwe Kagiso Madisa. I was born in Ukraine in 1989. I was born disabled from the waist down; I was treated by a doctor by experimentation and managed to become normal by the grace of God. I grew up in Hatfield, a surburb located in Harare. I attended school at Hatfield primary, Widdicombe and Milton junior school. I did my high school at Plumtree high school, Phoenix College and Ilsa college. I then went on to do a diploma in Information Technology at Macmaine school of computing, a diploma in marketing at Lifelong college and a degree in Entrepreneurship at Limkokwing University of creative technology in Botswana. I then went on to work in Banking operations at BancABC Botswana and later as a manager at Shoprite Botswana.

While visiting friends and family in Harare in May 2015, I was attacked by thieves from around 7pm while on the

way home from a tuck shop in Hatfield. I was struck from behind with a large sharp object like a machete or axe repeatedly on the head and face, they took my wallet which had $7 and left me unconscious to die. I woke up about 2 hours later feeling very cold, in a pool of blood, unable to see and bleeding heavily from mortal wounds. In my blind state and extreme pain, I staggered around and fell into a ditch while trying to follow car sounds and trying to get help. I then crawled to the road and a combi stopped in front of me, I gave the driver my home telephone number and he contacted my family and informed them of my situation. I was taken to the police station and to the hospital. At the hospital the doctors stitched up big head wounds and found that both my eyes had been seriously damaged, my skull was fructured and, my nose and jaw were broken. I was operated and both my eyes were removed, I also lost a few teeth. The rest of the injuries healed over time, and I

still have scars to this day. I am lucky to have survived, God saved my life on that day.

Adjusting to the new circumstances was difficult, being blind is the worst thing that ever happened to me, and I struggled to accept my condition. Two months after the operation I attended rehabilitation school at Dorothy Duncan school for the blind and learned Braille, computers, mobility, and life skills. During that time, I became very depressed and suicidal. I started drinking and smoking heavily to try to calm down and cope with the trauma. After a couple of suicide attempts, I went to a psychiatric institution, and I was put on antidepressants. I became better but I was still abusing substances and sometimes drugs. I then attended another rehabilitation school called Phudulogong for a year and completed in 2017. In 2018, my fiancé left me. By the grace of God, end of the 2018, I managed to quit alcohol and smoking. I made the decision to have a relationship with God. I am still unemployed since losing my sight, but I have tried my hand at small projects such as raising chickens and packing traditional grains such as sorghum with some help of course. I also wanted to start a fish farming project at home in Hatfield Harare, but I failed to raise enough funds to start the project. I believe God will provide

one day. I am currently in Gaborone, in Botswana and I am looking for employment in any call center or as a switchboard operator, a receptionist, radio, tele-sales agent and digital customer service agent. I would like to start a side project manufacturing cleaning products such as detergents, soaps, floor polish, bubble baths and others. Since losing my sight I now enjoy listening to audiobooks and song writing. I have written songs for businesses for marketing and advertising.

To get hold of Bongi, you can send him a whatsapp message on : +267 74855899

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DR MYLES MUNROE’S TEN KEYS TO PERSONAL SUCCESS

BY DR. MYLES MUNROE (10 Laws of Success)

According to Dr. Myles Munroe, success is the fulfillment of the assignment or purpose for which you were created. True success is a journey, an installment plan on which you make daily payments until you maximize yourself.

1. Purpose (Destiny)

Purpose is the reason for which you were created by God. Success is the fulfillment of purpose. If you do not discover why you were created, you cannot work towards it and cannot be successful. To discover your purpose, you must go back to God, your Creator, to get His blueprint for your life. Since the success of every product is in fulfilling the intent of the manufacturer, as God’s creation, your success is in fulfilling God’s intent not your desires for your life.

2. Perception (Vision)

Vision is having a clear mental picture of the future. It is the ability to see beyond what is and see what could become. It’s not enough to know why you were created, you must see the future now because you cannot arrive at a future you have not seen.

3. Potential (Ability)

The next key to personal success is your potential. Your potential is all you could do that you haven’t done yet. They are your hidden abilities, talents, and undeveloped skills. Your

potential is given to you to fulfill your purpose. The more you work at releasing and maximizing your potential, the closer you come to the fulfillment of your purpose and success.

4. Passion (Desire)

Passion is having strong enthusiasm toward a particular cause. It is a driving force that keeps an individual committed to and energized by the pursuit of a cause. Passion means that no matter how tough things are, what you believe is bigger than what you see. If you aren’t passionate about the pursuit of your vision, you can’t become successful. Passionate people have discovered something more important than life itself.

5. Principles (Laws)

Principles and laws are guiding rules that control actions and state the jurisdiction within which function can take place. To become successful, you must possess personal principles and laws for your life. If you are open to doing everything, you

will not achieve your vision. Fulfillment of vision requires the sacrifice of what is popular or pleasurable for what is required and expedient. You must clearly define what is right and wrong for you as defined by your vision.

6. Planning (Strategy)

The sequential arrangement of your priorities is what is called planning. It is charting the steps to take you from where you are to where you should be. God gives the vision, but He expects you to come up with strategies toward that vision. He guides and plans and orders your steps, but He doesn’t plan for you. Prayer cannot take the place of planning. Instead, you are to commit your plans to God in prayers for fulfillment. Here is a step-by-step guide to planning your life for success by Dr. Myles Munroe.

7. People (Influence)

The people who influence your life can either move you towards personal success or failure in life. If you have a clearly defined vision for your life but do not have the right people to help you achieve that vision, it will not be fulfilled. To become successful, the people that influence you must both progressively mold the person you become and assist you on the journey to fulfilling your vision.

8. Persistence (Commitment)

Your success in life will not come overnight. You have heard that severally, but you must believe it and begin to live with that consciousness. Obeying the laws of success, we have seen so far does not mean you will become successful 2 months later. It takes a period of commitment to pursue the vision. The Bible says the vision will only speak after it tarries. The fact

that you aren’t seeing results yet does not mean something is wrong. But if you keep uprooting a tree and changing its location because there are no fruits yet, you will only destroy its potential to bear fruits that it would have borne if you waited. You must remain persistent to become successful! It is a law and God is subject to it although He loves you.

9. Perseverance (Dedication)

Perseverance is a commitment but commitment in the midst of challenges and crises. Challenges, limitations, and discouragements must come on the journey to personal success. It is a promise God gave us the same way He promised His love and blessings. Crisis prepares and opens you up to new seasons and promotions but they will only come at the end of the crisis. If you do not endure through the crisis, you won’t receive that promotion, and the purpose of the crisis will be defeated.

10. Prayer (Spiritual reserve)

You cannot fulfill your purpose without God. Prayer is the spiritual reserve that keeps you in connection with God to keep making your purpose clearer, directing your steps, and strengthening you through the journey. Prayerlessness is pride and a declaration of independence from God. It is telling Him you can do His works without Him. But because the connection with God is a law, whenever you separate yourself from God, you abort your vision.

A CALL TO FATHERHOOD

Amongst all the contractual obligations given to mankind, there is none that is as demanding as that of being a father. An adage clearly attests to the above statement, saying “every male can make a child but its not every male that can father a child!” How true!

Money, designer label clothing, expensive gadgets and other things can, on no account take the position of a real father. Time in one’s life has to be made to fulfill the obligations of paternity that go a long way beyond providing and protecting. The fact that you have provided a daily hot meal and a roof over your child doesn’t mean that you are a good father. The atmosphere is pregnant with the groanings of our generation as everyone gropes to find a missing part to fill in a vacuum created by the need for genuine fathers. Mothers in their attempt to fill that vacuum have understandably created more trouble; they have enough on their motherly dish. Life is like a huge tree with many branches that have both sweet and bitter fruits; it has smooth branches as well as thorny branches. As a father, you are sending your child up the tree of life. Your child will go through sweet experiences; the father must be available

to celebrate the child’s little accomplishments and give inspiration to pursue more. Bees and other insects will sting him along the way; at times it’s the branches of the tree of life which he misguidedly chooses that break and let him painfully crush to the ground. The Father should be available to comfort, encourage and inspire the child to choose with much caution next time and assure him that everyone experiences disappointment. The branches I am talking about are in the form of the career your child can choose, the spouse they choose, the church they choose and many other things they will encounter in life. To better explain a father an acronym for FATHER has been developed as follows:

FOUNDATION

The simple definition of Father is the male parent of the child, the progenitor, the protector, the provider. A Father is not merely a foundation, but he must provide a foundation for life, a foundation for education, dignity, reputation, and wealth. The sad thing about fatherhood is that your children will inherit your battles as well. It is not everything that we fight today that is of our own making. As a father, you need

to know that you have inadvertently forced some life into a mould that you make each day you live. Your children did not choose you; save them from the pain of only inheriting problems and provide a secure foundation.

ABATE

Many fathers today are absent from their children’s lives. Fatherhood is not wearing a frightening face whenever your child misbehaves. A child should be exempted from the battles the father fought. Fathers must be establishers. If a father struggled to start a business, grow it, and establish it, it would be insane for his child to struggle starting and establishing his business as well. Fathers must endeavour to leave an established platform for their children.

TEND

Tending is what a shepherd does. The Bible informs us that a shepherd always had a rod and a staff. When God thought of creating certain individuals, He also thought of the most suitable shepherds for them. The Shepherd is in the form of a father. The process of tending will at times include inflicting pain on your children to create character in them. It may seem like you are cruel to them, but it is to build them up. Do not allow your money to destroy your children by spoiling them in the process.

HELP

One of the mistakes made by some fathers is taking help to the extreme while some choose not to assist at all. Every time help is exaggerated, it results in trouble for the one being helped. Some fathers choose to help only when their son is walking in their footsteps. Pushing your child to do what you failed to achieve is unfair. Fathers who do this will use manipulation, intimidation, and control. Everyone is born unique with an exclusive purpose which undoubtedly takes a unique way in fulfilling. The father’s pride should be in helping the son discover who he truly is. Be comfortable in saying to your child, “I really don’t understand what you are doing but I will help you.” A son stands on the shoulders of his father to see places his father never saw. It is important to note that without a father’s shoulders to stand on, the son will face difficulties.

EDUCATE

The Word “educate” comes from the word “educo” from which we derive the word “educe”. To educe means to bring out. The essence of education is not to inspire conformity but to help the identity of your child to emerge. Our education systems are not doing this kind of job, only fathers can do this. Educating your child entails helping him lift his head to see what he can become. There are always inert abilities within people that take an intent eye to detect. Educating your child means helping him to attain his destiny.

REDEEM

Every Christian should know the meaning of this important word as it is used frequently in the context of the work accomplished by our Lord Jesus Christ on the cross. The Word “REDEEM” means to make up for one’s poor past performance and behavior. It means to buy back. Growing up entails a lot of mistakes, a child with the guidance of a father easily rises after a fall while one who lacks may take longer to get up. One of the roles of a father is to help erase and minimize the consequences of a child’s mistakes. Although errors may not be reversible, they are however redeemable. Time is a resource that children may not value and fathers can come with strategies to empower their children for the future. Redeem your child’s reputation, health, position in the neighborhood after the mishaps of life.

In conclusion, absent fathers can always have surrogate fathers take their positions. It is unfortunate that television and social media have fathered our generation to early death and wretchedness. It is sad to note that when a child has never been taught to relate to a father, he/she might have a problem relating to God, the Father. Let us stop abdicating our roles as fathers instead let us choose to be present in the lives of our children.

Kids Column

by Anashe C. Chinoda

VICTORIA ORENZE ‘S

SPIRIT OF SPIRITS (HOLY SPIRIT) MINISTRATION THE HOLY SPIRIT IS REAL.

By Kudzaishe Mucheka

Victoria Orenze is without a doubt, one of the most anointed worshipers of our time. The Nigerian born; Canadian based songstress is most popularly known for her Holy Ghost filled ministrations. Her powerful spirit chants have led many to walk in the spirit of intercession. A worshipper who sings in both her understanding and in the spirit, the sound of her worship is a weapon of spiritual warfare.

Orenze has released a lot of powerful worship songs that have become global hits; On Fire, Draw, Hallelujah our God Reigns, and her most recent one featuring Nathaniel Bassey, Ascend, yet it is her live ministration at Highland Church from February of this year that holds a special place in my heart. Not a week passes without me listening to it, yet it never gets old. It leads you to deeper realms of worship and awakens the spirit of intercession in you. As she begins ministering by praying in powerful tongues and quoting Acts 10:38, you can feel the power of the Holy Ghost sweep across the room.

“How God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Ghost and with power that He went about doing good, healing those that were sick and saving those that were oppressed.”

There is a deep reverence for God in the congregation at Highland Church. You can feel the genuine desire that each person must be filled with the Holy Spirit. Every time I play this live recording, which is often, I cannot resist the power of the Holy Spirit and I find myself stopping whatever it is I am doing and praying. Victoria Orenze ‘s ministrations have shown me that worship is not just the music we make that glorifies the Lord, it is our attitude of the heart, our reverence for Him, our acknowledgement that we cannot do without Him. Her worship precedes

prayer, creating a conducive atmosphere for the Holy Ghost to move and work. She later introduces the congregation to her powerful spirit chant Eyaya, a sound of war that drives one to deeper realms of worship. Sometime back when I was still doing secular covers, I listened to Zakes Bantwini ‘s song Osama, a very spiritual secular song whose meanings were unknown. The song trended globally even in Scandinavian countries and when the South African artist was asked about the inspiration behind his song, he would always say “it’s the spirit”. His audience, despite the ambiguity of the song, understood its lyrics and many acknowledged that it had spiritual connotations which they expressed via the comment section. If people can understand that a secular artist is appeasing ancestral spirits by singing in an unknown tongue, how much more can the mysteries of heaven be communicated when we sing in the spirit?

Throughout her ministration, Victoria sings some of her songs that are Holy Spirit themed; We are Filled with the Holy Ghost, Holy Ghost you intoxicate me and I need to see You which create such an intimate environment for the infilling of the Holy Spirit. One thing is for sure, we cannot do this life on our own, we need to be filled with the Holy Ghost. We need Him who knows all things to help us.

One profound thing Victoria Orenze says during her ministration is that the Spirit is a location, it is a position. 1 Corinthians 3:16 says, “The Spirit of the living God lives in us.” It is the Spirit who teaches us all things, even how to pray. We cannot worship God without the promptings of the Holy Spirit or just with our own understanding. Without the Spirit, worship just becomes music, and the focus becomes about us and not God

ENCOURAGING BIBLE VERSES For Difficult Times

Romans 8:28

“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”

Psalm 23:4

“Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.”

Isaiah 50:10

“Who walks in darkness and has no light? Let him trust in the name of the Lord and rely upon His God.”

Psalm 126:5

“Those who sow in tears shall reap in joy.”

Joshua 1:5

“No man shall be able to stand before you all the days of your life; as I was with Moses, so I will be with you. I will not leave you nor forsake you. Be strong and of good courage …”

Philippians 4:13

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

Romans 8:31

“If God is for us, who can be against us?”

Isaiah 46:4

“Even to your old age, I am He, and even to gray hairs I will carry you! I have made, and I will bear; even I will carry, and will deliver you.” ()

Psalm 31:23

“For the Lord preserves the faithful …”

1 John 5:4

“For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world – our faith.”

1 Corinthians 16:13

“Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave, be strong.”

Psalm 97:10

“You who love the Lord, hate evil! He preserves the souls of His saints; He delivers them out of the hand of the wicked.”

PRACTICAL LOVE!

As we celebrate Christ, this holiday, it is important to reflect on what He represents. Christ is love; He is the foundation of Christianity. As Believers, we are called to demonstrate the love of Christ. The true church is identified by love. Jesus Christ summed up the law in two commands: “Love God and love your neighbour as you love yourself. 1 John 4:20 says, “If anyone says , ‘I love God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen.” True love is not only in confession but in actions. Our actions attest of our relationship with Christ. James 2:26 reminds us that faith without action is dead.

What is love according to the Word of God?

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

What is love?

Love is not speaking in tongues, love is not prophecy, love is not giving to the needy. So, what is love? The Bible describes the characteristics of love.

PATIENCE

Love is patient.

The world we live in is moving amazingly fast and people have become impatient. As Christians, we must always remember to be patient. We ought to be patient with one another. We must exercise

patience with our loved ones and those around us. Patience is a fruit of the Holy Spirit. Remember patience when you are stuck in a traffic jam, be patient when someone cuts you on the highway. Patience is forbearance. It is selfrestraint. The ability to not giving way to anger even when provoked.

Having patience means you can remain calm, even when you have been waiting forever or dealing with something

painstakingly slow or trying to teach someone how to do something and they just do not get it.

LOVE IS KIND!

The dictionary defines kindness as “the virtue of showing love and the qualities of having a sympathetic, affectionate, warmhearted, and considerate nature. Any virtue can be considered as the power to accomplish good, often in the face of obstacles and at the cost of sacrifice.” Kindness begins in the heart. Kindness is wishing the best for others, and this is expressed in

gestures for expressed in acts. Kindness is seen through our conduct with those around us.

Ephesians 4:32

Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

Believers are called to be kind and compassionate towards fellow human beings. How do we communicate with those around us? How is our speech? How do we feel when those around us are in trouble? Jesus Christ felt compassion for those who faced challenges, even

when he was in pain, bleeding and hanging on the cross for a crime he did not commit, he still interceded for his perpetrators, those who had caused him so much anguish and pain.

LOVE DOES NOT ENVY!

What is Envy? Sin of jealousy over the blessings and achievements of others, especially the spiritual enjoyment and advancement in the kingdom of Christ freely and graciously bestowed upon the people of God.

There is so much envy in the church and in the world. Instead of genuine happiness for fellow saints advancing the Kingdom of God, we find ourselves speaking against them and labeling them names. Envy is what motivated the Pharisees to attack Jesus Christ.

They were jealous because crowds were following the Lord and He was growing popular.

Matthew 27:18

“For he knew it was out of envy that they had handed Jesus over to him.”

This is the same scenario in the body of Christ today. Ministers envy those with more followers. This leads to rivalry, and many have gone out of their way to secure alternative power to draw numbers to their congregations, we have witnessed numerous false miracles to draw crowds. May we not be swayed from the path of light due to envy and rivalry.

Sometimes there is rivalry amongst friends and siblings, and it all grows from the seed of envy. We must learn to be happy for others and wait for our turn.

Envy makes us despise those who are doing better than us. Envy is what led Cain to kill his brother. It is a seed of wickedness and is the cause of rifts amongst family and friends.

Galatians 5:19-21 19

The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20 idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21 and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.

Love does not boast! It is not proud! When we understand biblical love, we will cease to think too highly of ourselves. We will understand that we are not superior, and that all we have received was giving to us by the grace of God. There is no need to boast in our abilities and accomplishments instead we ought to give God all the praise for everything. We must not be self-centered, but we must be humble. The love of Christ is giving and is all about serving others. It is not about drawing attention to self but to the Creator and others. In this era of social media, people are becoming too self-centered, and self-worshiping.

Philippians 2:3 ESV

Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.

Let us learn to be humble. Let us see others as more significant than us.

James 4:16

As it is, you boast in your arrogance. All such boasting is evil. May our boasting be in the Lord. Let us not be self-conceited but remain humble in the Lord. Humility is of God but pride is not of God. In our speech and action let us remain humble.

Love is NOT Rude!

Love behaves appropriately and it is not unbecoming. The love of God will not

cause a scene and will not embarrass others. We ought to behave ourselves out there as representatives of Christ. Our speech and our actions must reflect the light we carry. How we communicate with others says a lot about who we are. As Believers, let us be mindful of the words we say even in moments of anger.

Matthew 5:16

16 “In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.

LOVE IS NOT SELF SEEKING!

Philippians 2:4

4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.

Love puts others first before self, contrary to the standard of this world which encourages us to put ourselves first. Have you noticed that real happiness comes when we help others. Nothing is as pleasing as making someone else happy. When we learn to focus on the needs of others more than our own needs, we will find fulfillment in life. Love is not selfish but cares for others. Interceding for others, going before God with other people’s prayer requests. We must become selfless, sacrificing ourselves for the sake of others. Let us learn to give our time and our wealth to those who need them. The world is bleeding, let us reach out to those who are overwhelmed and struggling. This is the true religion that is pleasing to the Lord. The world needs the love and light of God! Jesus showed love in this way: He “did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:45). No self-seeking there.

Christian love is not about “self” but about serving. Putting love into practice involves following the example of Jesus, considering the needs and interests of others, and denying our personal desires to serve those in need.

To Be Continued……./

SURVIVING A CRISIS THROUGH THE MIND OF CHRIST

Written by Hazel Nyere

actions, good or bad, have their source in the mind. It is the mind that worships God and allies us to heavenly beings. Yet many spend all their lives without becoming intelligent regarding the casket jewel case that contains this treasure. (Fundamentals of Christian Education, 426.)

The Lord will do nothing without revealing the future to his servants and giving them tools to deal with the future including the mental muscles to manage the crisis coming.

• Amos 3:7• Mathew 24:• John 14:1-3

“When the caterpillar calls the end of the world the master calls a butterfly.” --Richard Bach

We see this in physical terms when we observe the processes of nature: From the cycle of the seasons, to natural “disasters”,to the evaporation of water. And yes, from the transformation of the caterpillar into the butterfly. We see it in our own bodies too as our cells willingly die to be replaced with new ones: we can scratch our heads and watch dead skin cells fall to the ground and though we can’t see it, the cells within us die off too so that our organs are continuously regenerated. Daksha. A. Watts How is it with your heart, your mind? Are you holding up or you are at nerves end feeling like you are about to break to pieces?

Oh, that God may help every one of us to be among the survivors. We can be if we learn the way of peace.

The Capital of the Body

Every organ of the body was made to be servant to the mind. The mind is the capital of the body. The mind controls the whole man. All our

The relation that exists between the mind and the body is very intimate. When one is affected, the other sympathizes. The condition of the mind affects the health to a far greater degree than many realize. A number of the diseases from which men suffer are the result of mental depression. Grief, anxiety, discontentment, remorse, guilt, distrust, all tend to break down the life forces and to invite decay and death.

(Suffering, Endurance) and (Overcoming, Rejoicing) Mathew 24:12-13 “And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold. But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved.”

Men’s hearts failing them for fear, and for looking after those things which are coming on the earth: for the powers of heaven shall be shaken. Luke 21:26-27 27 And then shall they see the Son of man coming in a cloud with power and great glory.

During such times what you become during and after a crisis is because of your mindset, to praise

God and be happy for the rain and clouds for no season lasts forever. This was observed by the Cleveland Parade Clinic Coming out of Covid 19 lockdown, 55% of adults are experiencing mental health issues since the pandemic started, 68% of adults are paying more attention to risk factors for health issues due to the COVID-19 pandemic, and 62% of Americans have adopted some type of healthy lifestyle change since the pandemic. Only 18% felt more isolated from their family,75% of adults say quarantine made them value their relationships and they feel closer to their family, more than half 52% of adults with kids say they feel closer to their family. Parade Cleveland Clinic Survey –Embracing Healthy Lifestyle Changes during COVID.

Developing the right Mindset Live to the Best of your ability, recognise all changes, the Covid 19 Crisis is an opportunity for a new you, reconsider your priorities and estimate the things that really matter at their truest value and leave behind what has not worked so far. It is better to be prepared for an opportunity and not have one than to have an opportunity and not be prepared.” – Whitney M Young The caterpillar struggles to break open the cocoon and that strengthens its wings for flight and endurance in life, without this struggle the caterpillar may die a death of a caterpillar but accepting the challenge makes it live a life of a butterfly. “Trials and challenges are there to make us stronger than being comfortable in our dark cocoon, do we want to be comfortable or become better? Now we may go into a cellar and stay there and look around into its dark corners, and we can talk of the darkness and say, “Oh, it is so dark here,” and keep talking about it. But will it make it any lighter? Oh no! What are you going to do? Come out of it; come out of the dark into the upper chamber where the light of God’s countenance shines brightly.”

We are often disappointed by our own unsanctified thoughts leading to expectations, but true Hope does not disappoint, Hope deferred maketh the heart sick: but when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life.

Proverbs 13:12

And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us. Romans 5:5-8

There are 3 types Of thinking: 1.Reactive thinking

Responds to circumstances in a passive way. Emotional, rather than logical thinking. De-emphasizes the will (“They won’t listen,” “He makes me mad,” “There’s nothing I can do about it”). Does not make choices based upon previous determined values.

2. Proactive thinking

Responds to circumstances in an active manner, Values the will and seeks options or alternative ways. Proactive thinking makes decisions based upon previously chosen values and accepts responsibility.

3. Faith-active thinking

This is proactive thinking combined with a Godly faith that is active in struggling with issues in a godly manner. Values are based upon the Word of God and options are within God’s principles, faith active thinking looks for ways in which challenges can become opportunities with the perspective that God can turn the curse into a blessing.

The medical establishment has been proving that the mind can heal the body for over 50 years. It is called “the placebo effect”. While lifestyle choices, heredity and environment all have an important influence on our health, what we think (our thoughts) eclipses them all. “Through our thoughts we can be our own microsurgeons as we make choices that will change the circuits in our brains. We are designed to do our own “brain surgery” and rewire our brains by thinking and by choosing to renew our minds.” Dr Caroline Leaf. Who we become; is a matter of the choices we make. We are not slaves to our circumstances, not even to our genes...we are to be masters of our own character and destiny if we learn to depend on God and control ourselves.

Believe What God Thinks Towards You

Moses did not merely think of God, he saw Him. God was the constant vision before him. Never did he lose sight of His face. Jeremiah 29:11 “I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil.”

The chief requisite of language is that it be pure, kind, and true—”the outward expression of an inward grace.” The Bible states in Philippians 4:8.”Whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever

things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”

A contented mind, a cheerful spirit, is health to the body and strength to the soul. “A merry [rejoicing] heart doeth good like a medicine.” Proverbs 17:22.

Think Positively

The brain regulates and influences many physiological functions, including immunity. Mental and physical well-being are inextricably intertwined. Major depression, for example, reduces NK (natural killer) cells’ effectiveness. A persistent negative outlook erodes both the ability of the NK cells and killer lymphocytes to destroy viruses and cancer cells. Stress reduces the ability of NK cells to make interferon, a chemical that decreases viral replication. However, problem-solving techniques and coping skills improve NK activity in stressed persons. Confidence, openness, social support, effective coping skills, self-discipline, trust, faith, and a will to survive improve NK cells’ efficiency. Bergler, R. Psychogenic stimulation of immune system by nutrition. Zentrabl Hyg Unweltmed, 191(2-3):241-64, 1991

Confession sets free James 5:19 “Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed.” To experience vibrant health, maintain or recover from sickness, confession of faults one to another, either from the wrong doer or the wronged, does well. It helps to offload negative thoughts. Confess your faults one to another, negative emotions reduce the ability of white blood cells to make interferon, a chemical that decreases viral replication. psychoneuroendocrinology24(6):13-27, 1979 Courage, hope, faith, sympathy, love, promote health and prolong life. A contented mind, a cheerful spirit, is health to the body and strength to the soul. “A merry rejoicing heart doeth good like a medicine.” Proverbs 17:22. MH 241.3

COMMON SKIN CARE MISTAKES

Written by Hazel Nyere

I am always super excited to talk about skin and skincare. It is extremely rewarding for me to see women transform their skin from dull to glowing. One way to move from average to glowing is by avoiding common mistakes and making a few tweaks to your skincare routine. Let us look deeper into these common mistakes.

This article is based on 1 Corinthians 6:19 – “Do you know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own”. According to the above scripture, our bodies are sacred, a place where the Holy Spirit

should be worshipped and honored. Therefore, we must not defile our bodies, we should make smart choices that keep our bodies healthy. This scripture motivated me to take better care of my body. Whilst taking care of my body, my skin improved immensely. Wellness and healthy skin cannot be separated, when you treat your body as a temple, the benefits are immeasurable. I now view taking care of my body as a gift to myself and by extension a gift to my family. When you are healthy and whole, you can be a better mother, wife, sister, daughter, and friend. These are added benefits of treating your body as the temple of God.

Despite having an elaborate skincare routine and good products, your skin may not glow due to the following mistakes.

1. Leaving Your Makeup on Overnight Sleeping with makeup on is a common skincare mistake. It is super important to remove all make up, every night before you sleep. Aside of removing make up, cleansing rids your skin of dirt and pollutants that accumulate on your skin during the day. Going to sleep with makeup on causes a number of problems, these include collagen degeneration which leads to premature aging, uneven skin tone, black heads and clogged pores which result in acne and several types of breakouts. Commit to cleansing your skin before sleeping no matter how exhausted you are. Use a cleanser, oil or facial wipes, be sure to cleanse thoroughly until there is no residue of makeup left

2. Not Cleaning Your Makeup Brushes & Sponges

Constant use of make-up brushes and sponges causes a buildup of bacteria, grease and oil and, and can lead to infection, acne, breakouts and irritation. These can in turn lead to blemishes, which may take a long time to clear. It is therefore important to clean them regularly, to kill harmful bacteria.

It is key to deep clean your makeup brushes and sponges every 7 to 10 days, there are several products available that you can use to ensure removal of bacteria. If you use a significant amount of makeup, it is advisable to clean your brushes after each use. Make cleaning your brushes part of your routine. Wash by rinsing the tips of your brushes under, running, lukewarm water. Remove excess makeup, then fill a bowl with warm water and brush cleaner. Continue washing until water runs clean. Squeeze excess water and lay your brushes on a dry, clean surface.

3. Touching Your Face

Your hands are prone to carrying bacteria due to handshakes, handling phones, laptops, doorknobs and more. Your hands also carry oils naturally. Therefore, touching your face

constantly, is one of the easiest ways to breakout out. It is important to wash your hands regularly to reduce the risk of transferring bacteria and dirt to your face. Avoid touching your face if it is a habit. You can break the habit by keeping your hands busy or being mindful of what you are doing with your hands.

4. Unhealthy Diet

We have touched on this issue on previous articles, and I cannot emphasize it enough. It is a less obvious skincare mistake, however consuming too much fast food, sugar, alcohol, and fried foods does in fact affect the skin. After consuming too much sugar or fried foods, ever notice how your skin may break out? it is important to cut out unhealthy foods and incorporate more fruit, vegetables, and fiber into your diet. Stay hydrated throughout the day by drinking adequate water, teas and infused water which is also super beneficial. My favorite way to infuse water is with cucumber, lemon, mint or with any fruit that is available.

5. Not Changing Bed Linen Frequently

You spend one third of your life in bed, so clean bed linen is not negotiable. I will explain further, so you understand how linen directly affects your skin. Bed linen carries bacteria that can build up in its fibers. Linen can also contain dead skin debris, sweat and debris amongst others. All these can cause breakouts, pimples, whiteheads and worsen acne even if you have cleansed your skin. If you may have been wondering how linen is linked to skin, well if it contains any of all the above mentioned, it will affect your skin. It is therefore important to Keep your linen clean, this keeps breakouts and infections away. It is ideal to wash your linen weekly and your pillowcase every 3 to 4 days.

In conclusion I encourage you to be mindful of what you are putting into your body and how clean your surroundings are. Being aware of these and choosing what is hygienic and healthy, will contribute immensely to having healthy skin. Remember wellness and good skin cannot be separated. For more great skin tips follow Nakisa Skincare on Instagram or check out www.nakisaskincare.com

TESTIMONY

HOW GOD DELIVERED ME FROM DRUGS

I was a drug addict for two years. I lived in a place called Wentworth in Durban. It has the biggest drug shops in Kwazulu Natal. I lived a few kilometers away from such a shop. I was smoking crack cocaine, better known in South Africa as “rock.” I started stealing to support my habit and sold everything I owned, including my clothes. My daughters had had enough, and I started begging at the robots to support my habit. As soon as I made enough money I would go and smoke a hit. I lost all self-respect and was drowning deeper and deeper into this addiction. One day while I had the rock pipe in my hand a soft voice whispered to me “nothing can separate you from the love of God”. I recall asking: “Really? Nothing? Not even this rock pipe in my hand?” I felt an assurance that it was true.

I grew up in a Pentecostal home. My mom introduced me to church from the time I was born. I knew about God and how He sacrificed His only Son, Jesus Christ for me, but I was weak as a Christian. They were a few occasions when I felt close to God and went to church, but I always drifted away. When I heard those words while pulling on that pipe, I knew who it was. He went on further to say, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” But I continued smoking, even prostituting myself for the drug. I was not taking my ARV medication regularly and I was losing weight rapidly and getting

weak. I wanted to stop but I could not stop on my own. I started crying out to God to help me. I spoke to my kids about going to a rehab. They found one in Veralum for me. It was run by a lady by the name of Valerie Pillay. She did not charge me but allowed me to be brought in without making any payment.

When I got there, I had hardly any clothes and was down to 68kg. I was weak and tired. She took me in and that is when my life began to change. It is a Christian Rehabilitation Center run on the concept that the Holy Spirit is the only Healer we need. Smoking of cigarettes is not allowed and at first I was not happy, but I adjusted. I arrived on Sunday 27 February 2022. I started to feel pain in my left knee and right ankle the next day. By Thursday that week, the pain was excruciating that they took me to the hospital. I was admitted for 5 days and put on several drips and treatments. They did a full spectrum of my blood and discovered that my cd4 count was on 50, I was on the brink of having full blown AIDS. That shocked me, I started taking my medication and attending all the church services held at the centre. At times the brothers would put a mattress on the ground for me to lie down so I could be in the service. Slowly the Word of God began to take root. I re-dedicated my life to Jesus and my journey in the Lord began. I Spent 6 months at Jump Youth Rehabilitation Centre. I began to grow in my knowledge and understanding of Christ. He began

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to transform my way of thinking, the way I spoke and behaved. I was a transformed person by the power of the Holy Spirit. I grew spiritually every day and soon it was time for me to leave. I made travel arrangements to come to live with my sister and her husband who is a Pastor in Badplaas in Mpumalanga. It is about 900km from home. I made the decision to be a servant of God, dedicated to His Kingdom and I decided that I would NEVER go back.

I have a burning desire to warn people about drugs and how they harm not one’s health and destroy destinies. Drugs slowly take over and destroy life. While I was at the Rehab, I came to the realization that drugs are the devil’s tool to destroy lives. I witnessed the painful withdrawals “rosto” of the sugar (hunga) addict. The breaking feeling in the bones and the feeling of bees crawling under the skin. I realized that God had taken me out of my addiction so that I could warn others not to get involved with drugs.

Since my arrival in Mpumalanga, God has been working in my life. I have had the opportunity to speak for two hours at the Bible College about drug addiction as well as the role and responsibility of the church towards the lost. The students had many questions. I have another appointment to speak on drugs and life choices at another local school. I am praying that God opens more doors for me to warn the youth. People need to know. They also need to know that there is help available if they are willing to stop. I have been clean for 8 months and I am thankful to God I no longer smoke cigarettes. God has truly delivered me!

My deliverance from drug addiction would not have been possible without the help of Valerie Pillay and her team. The ministry she has is huge even though she is restricted financially. I know she could rescue more addicts off the street with her outreach program, but it is just not possible due to financial constraints. The female centre might be at the risk of closing due to lack of funding. I

saw what God can do when you put an addict in His hands. I would like to appeal to you for help to keep the Centre running. They had a contract with one of the chain stores which helped them food supplies but I have been informed the contract has been terminated.

I would be pleased if my story can inspire the addicts out there and their families to seek help and not give up. I wish the Body of Christ would get more involved with saving addicts. Another amazing fact about the couple who run Jump Youth Mission is that the husband Kevin Pillay was once the biggest drug dealers in Veralum. He had a Damascus encounter and God redirected his life. Today he is saving lives, rebuilding families, and giving hope to the hopeless. I hope you can take this story and run with it. There are so many other stories just like mine at Jump Youth Mission.

Declarations For 2023

It is important to speak into the year 2023, declare the desires of our lives into manifestation. Declarations must be accompanied by action towards attaining the desired results. We have the power to loose, bind and also declare things into being just like he spoke things into life during creation. Prayer declarations for 2023 are meant to create and establish the things you desire for your life in 2023 through prayers of faith.

1. I declare that 2023 will bring with it new doors of opportunity, there shall be promotion and business expansion in my home.

Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

2. As I seek the Kingdom of God throughout the year 2023, I will never lack bread, water and every good thing on my table in Jesus’s powerful name.

Matthew 6:33 “But seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you.”

3. As I walk in the light of scripture, the destructions and devastations of these challenging times shall never come near my home!

Psalms 91:7 “A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand but it will not come near you.”

4. I speak financial blessings into my life and my family in 2023, we will have more than enough and share with others.

2 Corinthians 9:8 NLT “You will always have everything you need, and plenty left over to share with others.”

5. I declare that in 2023 I will soar to unexpected limits and break every barrier that has been holding me back because the Lord will go before me in the powerful name of Jesus Christ.

Isaiah 45:2 “I will go before you and level the mountains; I will make break down gates of bronze and cut through bars of iron.”

6. This 2023, I reject the spirit of hindrance and delay, I command speed in all areas of my life.

Zechariah 4:7 “What are you, O great mountain? Before Zerubbabel you will become plain; and he will bring forth the top stone with shouts of “Grace, grace to it!”

7. There will be no sickness, no miscarriage or barrenness upon my doorstep in 2023 because I serve the Lord, my God.

Exodus 23:25-28 “But you – you serve your God and He will bless your food and your water; and I will remove sickness from your midst. There shall be no one miscarrying or barren in your land.

8. I cancel any spirit of debt and I declare that in 2023, I will not borrow but I shall lend to many in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Deuteronomy 15:6 “For the Lord your God will bless you just as He promised you; you shall lend to many nations, but you shall not borrow…”

9. 2023, I will not allow any negativity to take root in my mind, but I will confess positivity even when in challenging circumstances.

Proverbs 4:23 “Above all ese, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

10. This year, I shall pursue, overtake, and recover everything that the devil has stolen from me in Jesus’s powerful name! 1 Samuel 30:8 And David inquired of Jehovah, saying, if I pursue after this troop, shall I overtake them?”

And He answered him, Pursue, for thou shalt surely overtake them, and shalt without fail recover all.

11. Because I have made the choice to serve the Lord, I will continually increase more and more and my path will become brighter and brighter.

Proverbs 4:18 The path of the righteous is like the morning sun, shining ever brighter till the full light of day.

12. I declare that 2023 is my year, Whatever I do in 2023 shall prosper in Jesus’s powerful name! I will flourish and produce fruit like the tree planted along the streams of a river.

Psalms 1:3 That person is like a tree planted by the streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither – whatever they do prospers.