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In a sunlit room at the Bernalillo County Clerk’s Office, Patricia Catlett held Karen Schmiege’s hands early Tuesday morning. Poised to put a ring on Karen’s finger, she repeated the minister’s words. “I now wed thee,” announced Catlett, and followed with an exhilarated screech. “Can I kiss the bride now?” The attending audience laughed. The minister said it wasn’t time yet, but later that day Catlett’s wish came true. Catlett, 61, and Schmiege, 69, were the first same-sex couple in Bernalillo County to get a marriage license. According to the County Clerk’s Office, 135 other same-sex couples followed the women’s lead that day. Bernalillo County Second Judicial District Court ruled in favor of samesex marriage Monday afternoon. The decision, issued by county court judge Alan Malott, makes Bernalillo the third county in the state to allow same-sex marriage. Catlett said Schmiege and she have been together for 25 years. When they met, she said, Schmiege was volunteering for a lesbian organization called Lavender Heights in New York City. On the other hand, Catlett said she had been “just another citizen, a workaholic” in Manhattan. With two complete strangers serving as witnesses, cameras rolled while the two pronounced their vows. Rising Sun Ministries Executive Director Vangie Chavez said it was her pleasure to officiate the wedding ceremony of Catlett and Schmiege. She also said she was excited to do a “repeat performance” throughout the day. “I love officiating weddings,” Chavez said. “It’s to bring two people together who have shared a love and a commitment.” The Bernalillo ruling came after Doña Ana County became the first
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Sergio Jiménez / Daily Lobo Karen Schmiege, left, squeezes the hand of Patricia Catlett, right, in the Bernalillo County Clerk’s Office early Tuesday morning. Catlett and Schmiege, who have been together for 25 years, were the first couple in the county to get a same-sex marriage license. “You’re crushing my hand,” Catlett tells her wife with a slight celebratory laugh. county in New Mexico to begin issuing she said. “Certainly, I’m not going to same-sex marriage licenses last week appeal it; I don’t see why the other holes in the rulings. “Our legal team continues to rewhen county clerk Lynn Ellins made county clerk is going to appeal it; And view how to stop the usurping of the the decision without being so ordered I don’t know who else is going to have legislative function by some district by a court. the standing to appeal it.” court judges in regards to marriage in Santa Fe County followed And people who are opposed to when a judge ordered the county same-sex marriage should get used to the state,” he said. “And it continues to review how to stop the lawless actions clerk to begin issuing licenses it, she said. of the Doña Ana County Clerk.” Thursday. This preceded a 7-4 vote “I understand the frustration that Sharer said only the state legislaof Santa Fe’s Voters and Elections they might have in seeing a law that ture, with approval from the goverCommittee not to put the gay conflicts with their personal values,” nor, could enact laws. He said county marriage question on the ballot for she said. “But I’ve been county clerk clerks and district court judges have the city’s 2014 general elections. here for six and a half years impleThough she said the recent ruling menting a law that I didn’t believe “to abide by them. They do not make was “an inclusionary move,” Bernalillo was right. Now, I’m following the law the laws.” Despite opposition, the sameCounty Clerk Maggie Toulouse Oliver today. They should understand that sex marriage trend has continued said the decision was not unexpected. this is the law of the land and this is across the state. As couples wedShe said she is personally glad about how it’s going to be moving forward.” ded in Albuquerque Tuesday, counthe approval of same-sex marriage in Still, some officials in the state ty clerks in San Miguel, Valencia the county. plan to counter the rulings, starting and Taos Counties decided to start Toulouse Oliver said she is opti- with Doña Ana County. granting marriage licenses to samemistic that the ruling has arrived to New Mexico Sen. William Sharer, sex couples in the county as early as stay forever in the county. R-Farmington, said in a press release “I can’t see why it wouldn’t last,” that his legal team is pursuing loop- 8 a.m. that morning. UNM psychology student Chanda Shaw, who came with her partner Jessica Dunn to the Bernalillo County Clerk Office Tuesday to obtain a marriage license, said the victorious ruling can be attributed in part to activist efforts in the state. “The efforts were phenomenal,” she said. “Not everything is seen about the hard efforts that would get laws changed in the past. It’s amazing that today is happening because of them.” Shaw said she has been with Dunn for seven years now. Although the two held a “commitment ceremony” in 2011, they said they were still “excited” about having something tangible in their hands. Shaw said they filed papers for their license on Monday, and the couple arrived in the County Clerk’s Office at 7:30 a.m. the following day. Dunn said she was “bummed” that they were not the first couple to get a license, but that was just a joke. “It doesn’t matter to us if we’re first William Aranda / Daily Lobo Chayne Avery, left, and Russell Garcia, right, embrace after they are declared legally married during a mass wedding ceremony at Civic Plaza at all,” Dunn said. “We’re just happy to in downtown Albuquerque. The mass marriage took place Tuesday afternoon, a day after Bernalillo County Second Judicial District Court ruled be here.” same-sex marriage to be legal. Avery and Garcia have been together for 20 years.
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The hall just outside the Bernalillo County Clerk’s marriage license office yesterday was filled with more than 100 couples waiting excitedly for the doors to open at 8 a.m. Patricia Catlett, 61, and Karen Schmiege, 69, had been waiting in the low-lit hallway since 7 a.m. Their patience paid off: the two were the first to receive their marriage license as they smiled and waived a small pride flag. By 9 a.m., Catlett and Schmiege were officially married. “This is incredible. We’re married,” said Catlett. Catlett and Schmiege met 24 years ago at a church in Manhattan. Schmiege said she knew the moment she saw Catlett that they would spend the rest of their lives together. “I opened the door and she was standing there with this ray of light on her,” said Schmiege. “Our eyes met and I knew for the rest of my life, that was the person.” Schmiege said she self-identifies as a lesbian, but Catlett said she doesn’t like the labels. “You know, I’m just a person,” Catlett said. “I prefer to be just a couple.” Anthony Montaño and Jose Garcia may not have been first in line, but they were the first male couple to receive a marriage license in Bernalillo County. With their three best friends present, the couple married in a judge’s chambers just after receiving the license. “I’m excited,” said Montaño. “It’s a historical day for everyone in New Mexico.” The two met five years ago at the Chili’s restaurant where they work. “I walked up to him a couple weeks after I started working there and I told him he was going to be my husband one day, and he kind of ignored me and walked away,” Montaño said. “Two weeks later he never left my house.” Garcia said he is still processing the event. “I’m still in shock,” he said. “I’m not sure if it really happened.” Montaño said the newlyweds are planning to hold a larger ceremony with all of their friends and family, but they wanted to make sure they filed the paperwork today, just in case the court’s decision on same-sex marriage was challenged in the future. “Angry people might decide to take it away,” he said. Catlett said Schmiege made her promise on television that she would take her to Costa Rica for their honeymoon. Garcia said he and Montaño are planning one, but they don’t yet know when or where to.
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