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United for Impact Food Truck Festival Coming to Downtown Freehold

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Event to Benefit United Way’s Work in Monmouth and Ocean Counties

n partnership with DowntownFreehold. com, United Way of Monmouth and Ocean Counties (UWMOC) is hosting the United for Impact Food Truck Festival on Sunday, April 30, 2023 from 12pm6pm on West Main Street in Freehold, NJ. The event is rain or shine.

Guests will enjoy great food from 10 food trucks, 20 vendors, beer and live music while supporting United Way’s critical work in our community. Music entertainment includes The Joe Baracata Band, Eddie Testa Band and The Break Plans. Tickets for a 50/50 cash raffle will be available for purchase. The suggested donation of $5.00 per person to enter the festival will help advance UWMOC’s mission to bridge the gaps to education, financial stability and health for every person in our community.

“DowntownFreehold.com is excited to work with United Way to host a great day for the community, which will also raise awareness and support for an amazing cause,” said Jeff Friedman, Executive Director of DowntownFreehold.com. “We were thrilled to have over 5,000 people in attendance last year, and hope to have even more join us this year.

United Way has wonderful programs and basic needs initiatives that help those who are struggling throughout Monmouth and Ocean counties, including many residents of Freehold Borough.”

United Way would like to thank event sponsors New Jersey Natural Gas, NJM Insurance Group, LoPresti State Farm Agency and OceanFirst Bank. Sponsorship opportunities are still available, and volunteers are also needed for the event. For any inquiries, please contact Bill Kelly at 848-206-2036 or bkelly@uwmoc.org.

Visit UWMOC’s website to enter a to win a $25 cash giveaway for the United for Impact Food Truck Festival! No purchase necessary, must be 18 or older to enter.

For more information including a full list of food trucks and vendors, visit uwmoc.org/food-truck-festival.

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Mental Health Association of Monmouth County to Honor Manasquan Bank at Annual Golf Classic

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n recognition of their commitment to our local community, the Mental Health Association of Monmouth County (MHAMC) is pleased to honor Manasquan Bank at the organization’s annual Golf Outing & Cocktail Party on Monday, May 15th at Beacon Hill Country Club in Atlantic Highlands.

“Manasquan Bank is pleased and proud to support the mission and continuing efforts of the Mental Health Association of Monmouth County,” states President & CEO James S. Vaccaro. “Our focus has always been a community-oriented mindset motivated to support the areas we serve. Manasquan Bank recognizes and applauds the wonderful work performed by MHAMC. The Manasquan Bank Charitable Foundation remains committed to assist those not-for-profit organizations who fill otherwise unmet societal needs.”

MHAMC's Golf Outing will feature a fun yet challenging tournament on Beacon Hill Country Club’s scenic course with beautiful views of the New York City skyline, followed by cocktails and dinner in the recently renovated clubhouse. Reservations may be made for the full Golf

Outing, or non-golfing guests may choose to attend the evening Cocktail Party only.

The Mental Health Association of Monmouth County, founded in 1950, has established itself as a leader in local communities and statewide in providing extensive suicide prevention programs, mental health services in schools, homeless outreach, case management and other intensive family support services.

MHAMC utilizes a multi-layered approach, combining individual and group counseling with prevention programs that focus on assisting individuals with accessing critical social supports in their communities, including permanent housing, financial assistance, and linkages to food and medical care. MHAMC offers help to individuals and families in addressing all these issues knowing that, if someone struggles in any of these areas, their mental health and ability to achieve wellness becomes compromised.

Through its charitable foundation, established in 2014, Manasquan Bank has embedded itself in the Monmouth, Ocean, and Middlesex County communities by supporting local non-profits both financially and through onsite support.

As one of its beneficiaries, MHA of Monmouth can attest to the tremendous impact of these grants. “Manasquan Bank has helped sustain our agency through its financial support,” reflects Wendy DePedro, President & CEO of the Mental Health Association of Monmouth County.

“We are so grateful to Manasquan Bank and Jim Vaccaro for their generosity to MHAMC and so many others.”

Under the leadership and example of CEO James S. Vaccaro, the bank also strongly encourages its employees to become actively involved in the local community. Bank employees may volunteer up to 15 hours per year, as the bank’s CREW Cares program provides onsite volunteer support to community organizations.

Join MHAMC’s mission of mental wellness by supporting their Golf Outing & Cocktail Party on May 15th. To register for Golf or purchase Cocktail Party tickets, please visit www.mentalhealthmonmouth.org or call 732-216-5018.

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All Saints' Annual Auction Night Returns!

Popular Annual Event at The Stone Church Benefits Outreach and Historic Campus All Saints’ Memorial Church is very pleased to announce the return of their Annual Auction! On May 20, 2023 beginning at 5:30pm, you can partake in an evening of fun, savory appetizers and festive beverages while bidding on a wide array of silent auction items such as gourmet, beauty and entertaining baskets, along with a myriad of gift certificates to popular local restaurants, all leading up to a live auction featuring getaways, tickets to sporting events, cooking demonstrations and much more! The event is located at The Stone Church Parish House, 202 Navesink Avenue, Atlantic Highlands, NJ. A portion of the auction proceeds benefits the Church’s outreach commitments in the community, including the A ACC Food Pantry in Atlantic Highlands, Fulfill of Monmouth and Ocean Counties, Family Promise of

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Tickets for this fun community event are only $40 per person. The ticket includes admission, bountiful savory appetizers, beverages, and five basket tickets. Your contribution allows All Saints’ to assist the work of these important community agencies. The Annual Auction Night also helps to fund the upkeep of the church’s National Historic Landmark campus, which serves the community in many ways.

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County Clerk Hanlon Invites Local Businesses to Participate in “Honoring Our Heroes” Program to Support Veterans and Gold Star Families Monmouth County Clerk Christine Giordano Hanlon and the Monmouth County Clerk's Office are proud to sponsor the "Honoring Our Heroes" Military Appreciation Program, which encourages local businesses to offer special discounts, services, or products to our veterans and Gold Star family members.

“Our veterans and military families sacrifice so much for us,” said Clerk Hanlon. “This program is just one of the ways we can show our gratitude for their sacrifices as a community.”

Clerk Hanlon is calling on Monmouth County’s local businesses to participate in the program and offer special discounts or services to veterans and Gold Star family members.

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RFH Veteran and Mainstay, Sue Wankel, Honored by the DAANJ

umson Fair Haven Regional High School is proud to share that Ms. Sue Wankel has been honored as the recipient of the Administrative Assistant Award for Excellence (Central Jersey) by the Directors of Athletics Association of New Jersey. Wankel is a mainstay at RFH and a critical component of the Bulldog’s athletics program year after year.

Wankel began her tenure at RFH in 1998 as an administrative assistant in the Attendance/Vice Principal’s Office.

She proudly served three vice principals during her time and was the welcome face and voice greeting students and parents each day for more than 15 years! In 2014, Wankel relocated to the Athletics Department Office to continue working closely with current Athletic Director, Chris Lanzalotto, when he assumed that role.

Over the past nine years, Wankel has worked tirelessly to ensure all athletic events and tasks at RFH run smoothly, including but not limited to scheduling all athletic transportation, maintaining all state-required paperwork for student-athletes and communicating with families regarding such, maintaining records on all RFH coaches, and handling day-to-day confirmation of athletic events and official/s assignments. Lanzalotto, who has worked directly with Wankel for the past 17 years, nominated Wankel for the prestigious honor and shares, “There is no one more reliable, or dependable than Sue. She is consistently the first person to volunteer her services at numerous extra-curricular fundraisers or other events sponsored by the district and if there is a large task to be completed within the school, you can always rely on her to pitch in and lend a helping hand. Not only is Sue a tremendous asset to the entire RFH community, but I personally am extremely fortunate

to work with such a professional and dedicated person as Sue Wankel and to call her my friend.”

Outside of her work as an administrative assistant, Wankel devotes a great deal of time and energy to the RFH community, selling tickets at many sporting events, stepping in as scorekeeper when needed, serving as Site Supervisor for football games, handling all NJSIAA Ticket responsibilities, chaperoning non-sport-related extracurriculars and serving as the Play Production Coordinator. She has become one of the most familiar faces in the halls and on the campus of RFH to staff, students, parents, and community members alike.

The DAANJ presents this award annually to recognize four honorees, one

from each section (North I, North II, Central, and South), and in order to be considered, an administrative assistant must be nominated through a letter of recommendation from the athletic director or building principal and have demonstrated outstanding contributions to athletics at the local and school levels with a minimum of five years of experience. Wankel received her award last month at the annual DAANJ State Conference in Atlantic City, surrounded by co-workers, family, and friends..

The RFH community counts itself lucky to have someone as loyal, professional, and spirited as Wankel in its ranks and is ecstatic to celebrate her accomplishments, as such an honor is long overdue.

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Chef David Burke & Suzanne Sicora-Ludwig Teaming Up to Help Soup Kitchen 411 Combat Food Insecurity While Supporting Local Restaurants Story by Brian O’Malley Photography Joe Brown

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he COVID-19 pandemic hit the state of New Jersey particularly hard. With over nine million Garden State residents living in close proximity, it was anticipated early-on that coronavirus would be difficult to contain. Aware of this possibility, in early 2020, the state government ordered the temporary closure of many businesses and services to ensure that New Jerseyans limited their exposure to one another, the idea being that reduced public contact would curb the spread of the virus and hasten the end of the pandemic.

One of the business sectors most impacted by the pandemic and ensuing shutdown was the restaurant and food service industry. Restaurants were required to alter their seating arrangements, establish capacity limits, and, in some cases, adapt to a take-out service model for several months, affecting revenue and the ability to keep staff employed.

The pandemic also created additional strain on New Jerseyans who were already experiencing food insecurity, and placed some in that situation for the first time. Supply chain issues resulted in increased prices and reduced stock at grocery stores throughout the state. Many people were left with very few options to properly feed their families.

It was from these challenges that Soup Kitchen 411 originated. The brainchild of Kenneth DeRoberts, a seasoned municipal manager and government consultant, Soup Kitchen 411 set out with a dual mission: to aid struggling families while also helping local restaurant owners survive the pandemic. Established in 2020, Soup Kitchen 411 raises

funds to purchase meals from local restaurants. These meals are then delivered to partnering soup kitchens, who in turn distribute them to individuals and families in need. During the height of the pandemic, this coordinated effort helped restaurants cover their overhead and keep their employees working, gave the staff at soup kitchens a much-needed respite and resource, and provided nutritious meals to those experiencing food insecurity..

Suzanne Sicora-Ludwig has seen the success of Soup Kitchen 411 firsthand. As a City Council Member for the City of New Brunswick, Sicora-Ludwig first became involved with the organization because of her previous work with Elijah’s Promise, a local soup kitchen. Since that initial introduction, her role has expanded and she now serves as Chair of Taste of the State, the organization’s annual gala, which provides much of the funding for its activities.

Hosted at the Park Chateau, a magnificent venue in East Brunswick, the Taste of the State features dishes prepared

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by restaurants that are invited by Soup Kitchen 411 and who welcome the opportunity to support the work of the organization.

“When we first started on this journey with the Taste of the State, we knew it was going to be a stellar event,” Sicora-Ludwig said, adding, “but it has really cascaded into something much more grand.”

The organization was first connected with Park Chateau by National Football League alumnus and Monmouth County resident Christian Peter. Peter, who has been an active supporter of Soup Kitchen 411, introduced Sicora-Ludwig to Park Chateau’s owners, Joe and Barry Maurillo.

After hearing about the good work being done by Soup Kitchen 411, the Maurillos offered to donate their entire venue, their staff, and the food for the Taste of the State event.

Peter was also instrumental in connecting Soup Kitchen 411 with David Burke, a world-renowned chef who grew up in Monmouth County and who signed on as the official food ambassador for the Taste of the State.

en staff. That camaraderie led Burke to Anything’s request a transfer to become a dishwashIt was this experience, along with the Possible For A Guy er.pressure and excitement of a busy and lively kitchen environment, that led him From Jersey to fall in love with cooking and decide to Although born in Brooklyn, David Burke was raised in Hazlet and considers Monmouth County to be his true home. Describing a “normal” childhood that belies his current status as a culinary celebrity, Burke recalls spending his youth hitchhiking to the beach in the summer, going to concerts in New York City, playing little league, and hanging out at Holmdel Park. Coming from a working-class family which valued hard work, Burke remembers always having a job – beginning with his first paper route as a child.

It was one of these early careers that first got Burke interested in cooking. His mother helped him get a job mowing lawns and doing odd jobs at the Sheraton Hotel on Route 35 in Hazlet (now a Holiday Inn). Burke explains that he would go into the hotel’s kitchen to have his lunch and soon developed friendships with the older teenagers who worked on the kitch-

become a chef.

“I saw real professionalism at a young age,” Burke recalls of his time at the hotel.

“The chef was a former Marine, a cleancut authority figure who had all of these guys under control. It was like being at football practice or being in a locker room and then, at five o’clock when the first dinner order came in, it was like the whistle blew and everybody did their job.”

Being a part of that team, a collection of strong personalities banding together to prepare a meal under the direction of a chef, resulted in what Burke calls his “aha moment”, when he realized that cooking is what he wanted to do with his life.

“That’s the life of the restaurant business,” says Burke. “There are so many unique personalities, artistic people, renegades, misfits, you name it…and they all come together and put out a good product every time.”

“That’s the life of the restaurant business. There are so many unique personalities, artistic people, renegades, misfits, you name it… and they all come together and put out a good product every time.”

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As he describes it, in the late 1970s, cooking was not yet considered to be a distinguished career. His goal wasn’t to be rich or famous but rather to become a good chef because he liked cooking. “This decision wasn’t based on being a celebrity chef, because that didn’t exist,” the chef says. “Writing cookbooks and opening restaurants with your name and having television shows and pots and pans in supermarkets, that didn’t exist.

My goal was simply to be a really good quarterback in my kitchen.”

Burke’s father, also named David, actually tried to talk him out of going into the field. The senior Burke registered his son for a cooking class at a specialty shop in Monmouth Mall in Eatontown, hoping that exposure to real cooking would push the idea of being a chef out of his son’s mind. To the contrary, the owner of the store offered Burke a part-time job in exchange for more cooking classes.

From there, Burke worked at Fromagerie in Rumson and the Navesink Country Club, where he polished his basic cooking skills before enrolling at the Culinary Institute of America in Hyde Park, NY and later studying at the Ecole Lenotre Pastry School in France. At 26, Burke was hired as the Executive Chef at the Michelin-starred River Café in Brooklyn. It was this job that gave him the freedom to experiment with new ideas and develop into a world-class chef who is now known for his eclectic style and fascinating food presentations.

Referring to himself as a “mad scientist in the kitchen”, Burke developed ideas like the cake pop and swordfish chops, as well as innovative techniques for preparing food, like his patented Himalayan salt method for aging beef and, of course, the famous clothesline bacon – a David Burke brand staple that was invented by accident after one of his related experiments failed.

Over the years, Burke has occasionally engaged in flashy, attention-grabbing stunts that strengthened his brand and increased revenue for his restaurants. During the height of the mad cow disease scare in the early 2000s, the chef purchased a bull for $250,000. His reasoning was that if mad cow disease (technically bovine spongiform encephalopathy) ever made its way to the United States, it would cripple the country’s food industry. Purchasing a first-rate, grass-fed bull from a farm in Kentucky meant that Burke would have a secure line of beef for generations to come and could guarantee his customers of its provenance.

“It was great from a marketing perspective,” he admits, beaming, “instead of saying ‘I’ve got a tomato garden out behind the restaurant’, I could say ‘I’ve got a bull!’” It was this kind of outside-the-box thinking and public relations acumen that led to the chef’s astounding success.

Burke now owns or is connected to over twenty restaurants around the country.

“Guys like me, we caught a good wave,” he says, acknowledging that he was fortunate to come of age during a time when America developed an interest in fine dining and the culinary world.

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the hard work of the organization’s leadership, especially that of co-founder Kenneth DeRoberts.

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York Giants. Peter’s father was the owner of Fromagerie in Rumson when Burke worked there as a teenager and Burke credits the senior Peter with teaching him how to cook.

He has served as Food Ambassador for the Taste of the State since its inaugural edition last year at Park Chateau Estates, where Burke has his Orchard Park restaurant.

The organization’s mission hits close to home for Burke, who summarized its work over the past few years by saying that, “the pandemic sidelined a lot of chefs and restaurants. If a restaurant can keep busy by supplying food (to soup kitchens) at a minimal cost, you’re not getting rich but you’re creating some cash flow, you can hire people, and, more importantly you can feed people who need it.”

Sicora-Ludwig, the event’s organizer, agreed, noting that, “a lot of restaurants in the community still aren’t out of the woods yet, so this organization really has been a tremendous help for many local businesses.”

Last year’s Taste of the State event had over 400 people in attendance and featured over a dozen restaurants working in partnership with the organization. That event raised $300,000 to directly support the work of Soup Kitchen 411. Sicora-Ludwig plans to build on the success of last year’s event by setting a goal of raising

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$1,000,000 at this year’s Taste of the State event, which will take place on Tuesday, May 23. These funds are crucial to the organization’s efforts, as much of the grant money they previously relied on has dried up as the impacts of the pandemic have receded.

Sicora-Ludwig also stresses that the community-building work of Soup Kitchen 411 has helped to reduce the stigma and stereotypes associated with food insecurity. “It’s disheartening to see that there are families who are working - oftentimes with two parents working - and they still can’t make ends meet. Getting these few extra meals makes a big difference.” She continues, “it’s not only homeless people who need help - these are working people who are still not able to afford to feed their families.”

The organization has made a substantial impact on food insecurity in New Jersey. Over the past 18 months, Soup Kitchen 411 has served 650,000 meals to people in need and is currently operating in 16 counties across the state. Sicora-Ludwig says that the non-profit is always looking to expand and is willing to forge relationships with any restaurants or soup kitchens that have a need. “Our goal is to be everywhere,” she says, adding, “we want to be able to provide our services across the entire state.” Sicora-Ludwig notes that these new partnerships are built through

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Sicora-Ludwig anticipates that the 2023 Taste of the State will be a remarkable event and beams with pride as she anticipates the excitement that will be generated by having food and entertainment in every corner of the building - and even outdoors in the gardens. She considers each person who walks through the door at Taste of the State part of the team that helps Soup Kitchen 411 do their job better.

For his part, the event’s Food Ambassador, Chef David Burke, concluded by sharing his belief that food is something that brings people together from all walks of life.

“Everybody likes food. You don’t have to be on the left or on the right, it doesn’t matter if you’re tall or short. Everybody likes food. And we do what we can to help fight hunger in our community.”

To learn more about the Taste of the State and to purchase tickets to the event, please visit www.tasteofthestatenj.com.

To learn more about Soup Kitchen 411, visit www.soupkitchen411.com.

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he Axelrod Performing Arts Center is thrilled to announce that, through the efforts of State Senator Vin Gopal, a $100,000 grant supporting Axelrod PAC cultural arts programming was included in Governor Murphy’s proposed budget last month.

This funding will help support continued rebuilding of Axelrod PAC programming and cultural education programs as we emerge from COVID closures. The grant helps make possible the subsidy of lower cost senior and youth ticketing and a new policy kicked off by the Axelrod, “Pay What You Can,” making ticket prices affordable to families and adults who cannot afford to attend cultural arts performances.

Senator Gopal has championed legislation to support the arts and provide aid for education and local businesses; he has provided property tax rebates for taxpayers, seniors and veterans; made life more affordable for seniors; made mental health services more accessible, improved public safety and tore down barriers to employment and services for members of the disabilities community.

His work as Chair of the Senate Education Committee, Vice-Chair of the Senate State Government, Wagering, Tourism & Historic Preservation Committee, and as a member of the Health, Human Services, and Senior Citizens Committee has significantly benefited the citizenry of New Jersey. Senator Gopal also volunteers and supports many nonprofit organizations to assist people in need as the Founder and President of the Vin Gopal Civic Association, a 501c(3) organization dedicated to helping Monmouth County charities and individuals.

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Axelrod, introduced Senator Gopal to the Axelrod’s outstanding work in arts education and community impact. He states that “This funding is a sterling example of the work that Senator Gopal does for the arts in Monmouth County. He has always been a supporter of nonprofits that provide opportunities for the entire community he serves regardless of race, theater, dance, concerts, films, and an creed, or religion. Axelrod is proud to be Arts Academy are among the many culincluded as it provides the opportunity tural programs provided by the Axelrod for people of all backgrounds to perform PAC for the benefit of the community. and be entertained by such wonderful The Axelrod PAC is a member of the shows as “Raisin,” recently performed NJ Theatre Alliance and is funded by the and enjoyed by students and theatergo- NJ State Council on the Arts. For more information about the Axelrod PAC, coners throughout New Jersey.”

The Axelrod Performing Arts Center tact Jess Levy jlevy@axelrodartscenter. is a non-profit multi-disciplinary arts or- com. The Axelrod Performing Arts Cenganization located in Ocean Township, ter is located at 100 Grant Ave., Deal NJ. Incorporated in 2010, Axelrod PAC’s Park, NJ 07723. The Axelrod Performmission is to produce diverse cultural ing Arts Academy and Axelrod Contemprogramming to broaden the minds and porary Ballet Studio is located at Bell imaginations of our community, to edu- Works in Holmdel, NJ. cate community members in various artistic disciplines by expos"This funding is a sterling example of ing them to the highthe work that Senator Gopal does for est caliber of instructhe arts in Monmouth County. He has tors and artists, and to always been a supporter of nonprofits improve the quality of that provide opportunities for the entire life of our community community he serves" through the exploration and love of the - James Aaron, Vice-President of Axelrod arts—music, dance, Perming Arts Center theater, fine arts and more.

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Monmouth ACTS in Action: Community Collaborative Creates Change, Offers Hope for Monmouth County Homeless When Pastor Terrence K. Porter, Senior Minister of Pilgrim Baptist Church (PBC) of Red Bank, spearheaded the church’s original “Warming Center,” the mission was simple: Offer a warm, comfortable shelter to homeless men in Monmouth County on Code Blue nights – when temperatures drop to 32 degrees or below.

The undertaking proved highly successful – it became the “go-to” warming center, serving an average of 21 guests on Code Blue nights. But when Pastor Porter and other community partners like the Jon Bon Jovi Soul Foundation saw a greater community need, the Warming Center was rebranded to the JBJ & PBC Hope & Comfort Center, with the support of Monmouth ACTS and social services.

Here, men and women guests are provided with a safe, comfortable and secure location during Code Blue Nights, Code Red days and inclement weather. Through community partnerships including Charitable Pharmacy, Reentry of NJ and Red Bank Police Department, services offered to guests include: overnight lodging, laundry services, shower and clothing, hot meals, transportation, social service resources, physical health examination and mental health services.

Since November 2022, the Center has provided services to more than 600 guests – a testament to the community’s need as well as the successful collaborative undertaking.

“We’ve developed an effective community-based model that brings all the stakeholders together to provide services,” says Pastor Porter. “We see firsthand how we’re making a positive impact for our guests and hope and pray other communities will replicate our initiative.”

James, a guest at Hope & Comfort Center, says “I finally found a place where people really care about what happens to me!”

“What’s rewarding is that partnerships are developing

into additional partnerships,” added Pastor Porter.

Case in point: Every Thursday evening on a Code Blue night, partner agency Monmouth CARES’ community group Empower Me helps guests access social services throughout Monmouth County, including obtaining personal documentation like birth certificates and driver’s licenses. Through a partnership with Parker Health Center, representatives provide physical exams and check guests’ vaccination status. “This has really paid dividends because once guests feel more comfortable they are open to receiving healthcare services,” adds Porter.

In one case, a man’s life was saved: a podiatrist offered services at the Center for two nights – guests were welcome to stay those nights as long as the podiatrist could examine their feet. As an incentive, guests would receive a free pair of boots. It was a great success as the podiatrist saw 95% of guests. What’s more, as a result of the exam, one guest with severe diabetes was rushed to the hospital. The guest is now a patient at Parker Health – a testament that the process is working.

“It is incredibly inspiring to witness the positive change that occurs when community leaders partner to help their neighbors in need,” said Commissioner Sue Kiley, liaison to the Department of Human Services of Monmouth County. “By joining forces and working toward the common goal of providing health and safety resources to those seeking help, everyone benefits and lives are saved.”

“The mission of Monmouth ACTS is to make meaningful connections and address the unmet needs of residents who are in search of services,” said Commissioner Director Thomas A. Arnone. “This community collaboration is the perfect example of how important it is to support each other.”

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Fulfill Announces “Shore to Rock” Hunger Benefit Concert at Count Basie Center for the Arts on May 11 Honorees include Jeff Kazee of Southside Johnny & the Asbury Jukes, Brian Kirk of Brian Kirk & The Jirks and Tom Cunningham, host of Springsteen on Sunday Fulfill, a leader in alleviating hunger and building food security in Monmouth and Ocean Counties, will host a benefit concert at the Count Basie Center for the Arts on Thursday, May 11, at 7:30 p.m. The event will honor two local musicians, Jeff Kazee of Southside Johnny & the Asbury Jukes and Brian Kirk of Brian Kirk & The Jirks, as well as radio personality Tom Cunningham, host of Springsteen on Sunday on 107.1 The Boss.

Kazee and Kirk will perform at the event. More performers will be announced soon.

“We are excited and incredibly fortunate to have the opportunity to showcase these three pillars of the music community and to thank them for their support of our mission to help provide food, services, and hope to the

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people of Monmouth and Ocean Counties,” said Triada Stampas, President and CEO, Fulfill. “We hope the community will turn out in large numbers to take part in what we know will be an incredible night filled with music and entertainment.”

Fulfill is excited to offer an inclusive experience to members of the Jersey Shore music community and fan base. Tickets will be sold at various price points. There will be a pre-show reception for event sponsors to honor Cunningham, Kazee, and Kirk for their dedication to alleviating hunger in Monmouth and Ocean Counties.

Tickets are on sale now via the Count Basie website.

Sponsorships and journal ads are available by contacting Kate Irving (kirving@fulfillnj.org) for more information.

RCDS Student Named Finalist in New York Times International Writing Contest Among thousands of students from all over the world, Rumson Country Day School eighth grader Chloe Melconian was selected as a finalist for the New York Times’ personal narrative contest for her entry “The Last Piece.” This fall, the New York Times invited teenagers, ages 13-19, to write memoirs about meaningful moments in their lives. The catch? Students were challenged to do so in just 100 words. Entries to the international contest totaled 12, 4 48 and judges selected only 82 finalists.

“I love to write,” said thirteen-year-old Chloe. “It makes me feel better. Obviously, there are some limits, but you could write about almost anything and that is like an outlet for me.”

Chloe entered the contest to complete a narrative assignment by her teacher in her Language Arts Honors class at RCDS. “My goal is to prepare my students to be confident communicators,” said RCDS Language Arts Teacher Carolyn Mulholland. I want them to be able to use their vocabulary, grammar, and writing skills in a mature manner. I want my students to have complete selfconfidence in their communication skills so they are more than comfortable navigating the high school English classroom.”

Mrs. Mulholland gives her students daily writing prompts because she believes the more a student writes, the better a writer they become. The activities range from

creative, narrative, and expository writing, with public speaking exercises intertwined throughout. By this time in the school year, she says, her students are undaunted by the challenges.

“She’s an amazing teacher,” said Chloe of Mrs. Mulholland. “Usually writing something in only 100 words, especially a heartfelt topic that’s going to be graded, would be really hard and I would imagine being really stressful. But she [Mrs. Mulholland] spaced it out and broke it down so that the process was fun.”

RCDS educators are known for tailoring their approach to each student’s strengths, needs, and potential. By doing so they instill a love of learning and confidence in their students – a foundation that Chloe has benefited from.

“I’m so proud of her,” said Mrs. Mulholland. “Through the power of words, Chloe combined everything that RCDS stands for – compassion, kindness, intelligence, humility. Her writing represents her beautiful soul.”

Chloe plans to pursue her passion for writing in high school by joining clubs or school newspapers that are available to students. In the meantime, she continues to grow under the guidance of her teachers at RCDS and enjoys putting pen to paper in her free time.

You can read Chloe’s submission to the New York Times 100-Word Personal Narrative Contest below.

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by Chloe Melconian

Texting him was my way of not letting go, of holding onto those carefree little kids we once were. As I pressed send my heart dropped, realizing the last piece I had of him was gone. The green bubble on the phone screen blurred while tears filled my eyes. My hands shaking, questions running through my head. His number was no longer in service. My texts were going nowhere and I knew it. The world went quiet, and nothing else mattered anymore. He was gone.

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The Art of Turning Your Child's Challenges Into Success Is Easier Than You Think WEforum Group, whose mission is to educate, evolve and empower, invites the community to a conversation with Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, CPCC, the founder of ImpactParents.com, a virtual company providing resources to parents in more than 100 countries on six continents. She is also the author of several books including The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids. This free community conversation will be held at Forrestdale Middle School in the Multi-Purpose Auditorium, 60 Forrest Avenue, Rumson, NJ, on Monday, April 3rd, starting at 7:00 p.m.

Join Elaine as she guides you on taking the frustration out of daily life and managing daily challenges effectively, with confidence and good humor. She will give you tools to set appropriate expectations, communicate with less judgment and more connection, and empower your child to maximize their gifts. She will demonstrate how professional coaching techniques can enable you to give directions and offer

advice without triggering defensive reactions.

Whether children, teens, or young adults, many kids in these complex times struggle with some aspects of life, learning, behavior, or any combination of the three. Her motto is "Helping Parents Help Kids," and her philosophy is providing parent-centered support while focusing on what kids need most. In Elaine’s experience, taking a coach-approach empowers all adults – parents, teachers, and professionals – to guide children to become independent and successful adults.

"Coaching is an evidence-based method for creating and managing change," said Elaine. "It is all about helping people realize their full potential. With a coach approach, parents learn to shift their approach and communicate with less judgment and more acceptance. Their kids begin to see their parents as a member of their team and seek out guidance and support when they need help."

First Annual Red Bank Comedy Festival Debuts Weekend Of April 27 The first ever Red Bank Comedy Festival is arriving with a bang. The festival will take place over three days, from April 27 to April 29, and will feature over 20 comedians performing at four different venues across the town.

The festival is headlined by renowned comedians Bonnie McFarlane, Shuli Egar, Aaron Berg. Other featured comics are: JL Cauvin, Tyler Morrison, Ken Krantz, Chris Clarke, Jason Andors, Chris Covert, Dino Vigo, Dave Lester, KP Burke, Grady Pruitt, Mike Keegan, Mike Sicoli, Mike Hunt, Jess Alaimo, Jay Nog, Kunal C. Arora and John Moses.

The festival will also feature live podcasts and after-parties, giving attendees a chance to mix and mingle with the performers. The festival's all-access pass is priced at $50 which includes access to all five shows, two live podcasts, and admission to the after-parties.

This year's festival is sponsored by Decentral Comedy, Twin Lights Brewing, Tacoholics, Social Stamina, High Point Home Inspection, and Black Label Records, which reflects the growing popularity of the event.

Tickets and more information can be found at: RedBankComedyFest.com.

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Elaine writes for award-winning blogs and podcasts, is a nationally recognized speaker, and is co-creator of an award-winning behavior management program based on decades of personal and professional research and experience. According to Elaine, the one thing all parents could bring to practice, helping their kids the most, is to shift their mindset from fear and anxiety to hope and optimism.

The Community Conversation is sponsored by Monmouth Medical Center and RWJBarnabas Health, Rumson School District, Tigger Stavola Foundation, and the Mental Health Association of Monmouth County. For more information about Elaine and this event, please visit weforumgroup.org.

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Cookstove Demonstration April 1, 15 & 29, 11am - 3pm Historic Longstreet Farm, Holmdel See what's cooking on the woodstove and discover how recipes, cooking techniques and kitchens have changed since the 1890s.

Rock of Ages April 7, 8pm - 10pm Rock and Roll All Night at Brookdale PAC’s Ultimate ’80s Party! Rock of Ages takes you back to the time of bands with big egos, big guitar solos and even bigger hair! Admission: $20

Open Shoot Archery April 8, 10am-2pm Thompson Park Activity Barn, Lincroft All equipment is provided for this open shoot. No outside equipment permitted. This is not an instructional clinic and NOT designed for beginners.

If you are new to archery, register for one of our instructional classes prior to attending. Open to ages 10 and up; under 18 with adult. The cost is $10 per person; cash or check only.

Newcomers and Neighbors Club of Colts Neck April 13, 9:30am Colts Neck Community Church Members and guests will enjoy a catered lunch and a presentation by author, golf pro and life coach, Debbie O‘ Connell.

Spring Craft Show April 15, 9am-2pm Fort Monmouth Recreation Center, Tinton Falls This seasonal craft show features local artists and crafters. Admission and parking are free.

Monmouth County Native Plant Society: Plant Garden Workshop April 17, 6pm - 8pm Monmouth County Library, Wall By learning a few basic principles of ecology and gardening you will gain an understanding of how native plant landscapes benefit both humans and wildlife alike. The workshop will include a hands-on exercise where everyone will design a yard with native plants as a way of learning more about what plants will work best for your space and interests. The event is free and open to the public, but space is limited and reservations are required. To reserve your space please visit the Events calendar on the Monmouth County Library website.

Holmdel’s 23rd Annual Greenway Walk and Earth Day Festival April 20, 12pm-5pm Explore trails on Bayonet Farm and the Ramanessin Section of Holmdel Park for about a 1.5-2 mile loop before returning to enjoy the Earth Day festivities.

The Monmouth Moms Spring Festival April 23, 11am-3pm Families will enjoy a day full of local vendors (perfect for Mother’s Day gifts), food for sale, character picture stations, entertainment, and more! Come out and celebrate spring and sunshine in Monmouth County. Admission is free and gift bags will be given out to the first 300 attendees! Registration is required: bit.ly/3LO9dKk

2023 Whale of a Sale: RCDS Rummage Sale Schedule April 22, 9am - 4pm April 23, 10am - 2pm ($20 Bag Sale All Day) One of the most renowned fundraisers at Rumson Country Day School (RCDS), Rummage raises proceeds devoted to the tuition assistance program in addition to benefiting the surrounding community and local charities. A true group effort, the entire RCDS community works together to collect, sort, and display an impressive collection of donated items – from boutique treasures to household and family necessities that excite hundreds of local shoppers.

International Astronomy Day April 29, 9pm-10pm Bayshore Waterfront Park, Port Monmouth Celebrate International Astronomy Day by learning what is currently visible in the night sky. We’ll also share some tips and resources to help you get started in astronomy.

Please dress for the weather (layers) and bring a flashlight. Open to adults.

Please note that if weather conditions are poor for stargazing, we will have a short program about astronomy basics. FREE!

Lincroft Village Green Association Yard Sale April 29, 8am - 3pm Homes across Lincroft. Registration is free to LVGA Members. To register your yard sale and become a member visit lincroft.org/lvg/.

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BloomAgain Foundation raised over $11,500 for Charity Texas Hold’em Tournament BloomAgain Foundation NJ raised over $11,500 at its first Charity Texas Hold’em Tournament at the Shrewsbury Firehouse on Friday, February 24th. The highlight of the night came when Andrew Erskine (1st place $3,000) and Lewis Gaskin (2nd place $1,500) donated their winnings.

“When they handed me back their winnings I was stunned! It was a fantastic surprise and a wonderful way to end the evening!” exclaimed event organizer and BloomAgain board member, Meg Ricard.

BloomAgain NJ founder and chairwoman, Christine Rieger, explains, “We try to change up our fundraisers so we can reach new supporters. This was our first poker fundraiser and it checked all the boxes- we sold out, we raised money and everyone had a great time.”

The tournament had licensed dealers and was run by Class Act Casino, a professional entertainment company. Sponsored by Smallwood Wealth Management of Red Bank, Blackhawk Network, and Red Bank Orthodontics, the event’s success came in the details. Players enjoyed a bourbon tasting sponsored by New Jersey’s own Penelope Bourbon, craft beer on tap sponsored by Atlantic Highland’s Carton Brewing, and delicious food from Mutiny BBQ in Asbury Park. For an extra special touch, Daisy Chocolates of Monmouth Beach and Sweet Dani B of Asbury Park designed custom poker themed dessert trays.

BloomAgain NJ is a volunteer-run Monmouth County-based 501(c) (3) that provides women with living essentials when they miss work due to medical challenges. Grants from BloomAgain are sent directly to vendors (landlords, utility companies, etc.) within 48 hours of the time they are requested. In 2022, BloomAgain helped 26 local women with over $48,000.

BloomAgain’s next big fundraiser will be a Pickleball Social at New Shrewsbury Racquet Club in the fall. www.BloomAgainNJ.org

TEDx Brookdale Community College Announces Speaker Line-up TEDxBrookdaleCommunityCollege will take place on April 19 at Brookdale Community College’s Lincroft campus from 3:30 p.m.

- 6:30 p.m. The independently organized event, licensed by TED, will feature select Brookdale voices under the theme of Where is There.

Launched in 2009, TEDx is a program of locally organized events that bring the community together to share a TED-like experience. Some of the best talks from TEDx events have gone on to be featured on TED.com and garnered millions of views from audiences across the globe.

TEDxBrookdaleCommunityCollege will present topics that center upon the Brookdale tag line: “Here will get you there.” The talks are ideas, on a wide range of subjects, that will foster learning, inspiration, and wonder and provoke conversations that

matter, all responding to the prompt “Where is there.” Where THERE draws attention to telling truths, getting to the essence of why the THERE story must be shared, and speaking for the voices that are often unheard or silenced by others.

“We are honored that the TED team recognizes Brookdale Community College for its innovative spirit,” said Ave Latte and Stephen Fowler, TEDxBrookdaleCommunityCollege curators and directors. “Our students, faculty, staff, and leadership have brought together awe-inspiring production crews and speakers.

Our design will energize TED communities both locally and globally with this our inaugural TEDxBrookdaleCommunityCollege event.”

For more information about TEDxBrookdaleCommunityCollege, please visit www.brookdalecc.edu/event/tedx.

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Lunch Break Celebrates 40 Years of Community Service

Lunch Break of Red Bank turned 40 on March 14th and it is a far cry from the church food pantry established by Mrs. Norma Todd and local leaders to alleviate hunger in 1983.

Lunch Break’s 40th celebration of service is a culmination of the efforts started by Mrs. Todd, who was struck by the problem of hunger in her own backyard. In January 1983, Mrs. Todd and 34 others gathered at the Friends Meeting House in Shrewsbury to discuss the issue of hunger in Monmouth County. They committed themselves to helping community members who found it difficult to provide the basics for their families by raising funds and recruiting volunteers. That commitment flourished into a “community center” at Drs. James Parker Boulevard — a place filled with hope that clients and volunteers call home. Lunch Break took further shape in March 1983, when Reverend Terence Rosheuvel provided the basement of St. Thomas Episcopal Church in Red Bank to serve hot lunches.

For a short time in 1985, Lunch Break moved its operations to the Masonic Temple on West Bergen Place. The following year, through combined efforts of many contributors and donors, Lunch Break opened the doors to its permanent home in Red Bank.

Forty years later, hunger remains an even greater problem. Across Monmouth County, the rate of hunger among seniors has more than doubled since 2001, according to the National Council on Aging, a rate that is expected to increase as Baby Boomers age. Nearly 14 percent of New Jersey's 1.5 million senior citizens face hunger each year – translating to about 230,000 older residents who don't have enough food to eat. These seniors regularly face the choice of buying food, paying the electric bill or paying for medications.

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In 2022, Lunch Break saw an unprecedented demand for groceries, with more than 24,000 food pickups. The same holds true for meals, with more than 10,000 meals delivered to the homebound and 12,000 to the Pan American Motel in addition to the 96,000-plus breakfasts and lunches offered six days a week and the Community Dinner on Fridays.

Thanks to the passion and dedication of volunteers, Board members, staff, and generous community members, Lunch Break continues to build on Norma Todd’s dream. In response to community demand for services, the organization completed a $12 million Capital Campaign in 2022 to expand the current facility. The building, under construction through late fall 2023, will incorporate additional space for on-site services, including the Life Skills Center, warehouse storage, administration, and donation accessibility.

Lunch Break is committed to caring for the well-being of community members by providing basic necessities, including food, employment training, housing solutions, resume coaching, job placement resources, college prep guidance/vocational workshops for high schoolers, and financial counseling free of charge to hundreds of families and individuals living at or below the poverty line in Monmouth County and beyond. The architects of this blossoming self-sufficiency program strived to establish a refuge for those distressed by history’s watershed moments that uprooted entire communities: severe economic recessions, natural disasters and viral pandemics. Lunch Break’s service has

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seen its fair share of all three extreme examples in the past 13 years alone.

Lunch Break is governed by a leadership team, including the Board of Trustees and Executive Director Gwendolyn Love, and the organization relies on its network of more than 2,000 volunteers, which includes corporate and business partnerships.

"What Mrs. Todd and the early volunteers created out of love for their neighbors is actually a great love story and I'm so excited there is interest for others to know about those early days. There was a movement, a call to action, to meet a need in the community to feed the hungry and from that labor of love developed an awareness of other challenges to be met. Lunch Break stepped up to provide help.” said Mrs. Love. She continues, “Lunch Break — and indeed anything that genuinely brings people together — has a value far greater than its size or its almost accidental history might suggest. It represents the hope that we can rehumanize our society and begin to reestablish the social values that have all but disappeared.”

Thanks to concerned community members, the foundation Mrs. Todd built for her beloved community has thrived and flourished, despite challenging events. As long as hunger exists in our community, so will Lunch Break. Happy Birthday and thank you for all you do!

Lunch Break is a 501(c)3 organization located in Red Bank, NJ, providing food, clothing, housing solutions, life skills, and fellowship to residents of greater Monmouth County. All Lunch Break services are free.

Visit lunchbreak.org for more information.

Megan’s Mindful Minute . . .

Anxious April

Anxiety, persistent worry, fear or apprehension, justifiable or not. Teenagers are particularly susceptible to anxiety. Between academic stress and managing social situations they can become paralyzed trying to manage these feelings. Serious anxiety can have a severe impact on one's ability to function on a daily basis. Cognitive symptoms include racing, ruminating or negative thoughts.

Physical symptoms include trouble breathing, heart racing, difficulty sleeping and gastrointestinal issues.

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Listen, look, learn. If your teen experiences or displays any symptoms of anxiety, take it seriously. Look at their behaviors. Do they appear restless, unsettled, stressed? Learn about what is going on in their lives, both academically and socially. This could give you insight into their mental health.

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Stay safe, have fun and love each other.

And remember, in the wise words of my father, "People want to help more than you think, you just have to ask."

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Historical Commission Presents Preservation Grants for 2023 15 Projects Share $71,215 in Grant Money The Monmouth County Historical Commission awarded historic preservation matching grants totaling $71,215 for 15 restoration projects at the 2023 Grants Presentation ceremony held on February. 27.

“It was an honor to present the 15 grant awards to these admirable organizations for their commitment to preserving historical structures in Monmouth County,” said Commissioner Lillian G. Burry, liaison to the Historical Commission. “I believe the best way to honor our rich County history is through the preservation of our historical structures, and these historic preservation grants provide applicants with means to restore and rehabilitate these structures for future generations to enjoy.”

The Historical Commission is committed to remembering the past and preserving history for residents and visitors to learn about Monmouth County’s evolution.

The projects eligible for funding are preservation, restoration, or rehabilitation of historic structures, which are owned by non-profit organizations or municipalities, and are accessible to the public.

In addition, the Monmouth County Historical Commission awarded history regrants to 21 applicants

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totaling $48,500 through the New Jersey Historic Commission, a Division of the Department of the State. This partnership program supports existing local history organizations by providing grant funding for General Operating Support (GOS) and Special Projects (SP) to those same organizations, as well as other non-profit entities, such as municipalities, libraries and local cultural organizations.

“The Historical Commission is excited to award 21 applicants funding through the New Jersey Historical Commission County History Partnership Program,” said Commissioner Burry. “This program is essential to helping Monmouth County’s cultural organizations educate residents about our history through their normal operations and special projects.”

The Monmouth County Historical Commission was created by the Board of County Commissioners for the preservation and conservation of local history. Established in August 1988, its principal program is the preservation grants, an undertaking that recognizes the acute need for funds to preserve Monmouth County’s rich and diverse historical legacy.

Asbury Park African American Music Project Asbury Park Museum Atlantic Highlands Historical Society Battleground Historical Society Freehold Township Heritage Society Jewish Heritage Museum of Monmouth County Twin Lights Historical Society Howell Heritage and Historical Society Keyport Public Library Parker Homestead-1665 Whale Pond Brook Watershed Association and Long Branch Historical Association Friends of Monmouth Battlefield Middletown Township Historical Society Middletown Township Public Library Daughters of the American Revolution (Middletown Chapter) Friends of Millstone Twp. Historic Properties Historical Society of Ocean Grove Township of Ocean Historical Museum Red Bank Public Library Woman’s Club of Red Bank T. Thomas Fortune Foundation

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Asbury Park African American Music Project Visiting Nurses Association of Central Jersey Monmouth County Historical Association Freehold Township Historic Preservation Committee Friends of Monmouth Battlefield The Parker Homestead-1665 Squan Beach Lifesaving Station Preservation Committee Township of Millstone Historical Society of Ocean Grove Township of Ocean Historical Museum Red Bank Public Library Woman’s Club of Red Bank Friends of the Old Yellow Meeting House InfoAge Science and History Museums Old Wall Historical Society For information about the County’s Historical Commission contact John Fabiano, Executive Director at john.fabiano@co.monmouth.nj.us or visit the County’s website at www.visitmonmouth.com.

‘My County’ Poster Contest Opens to Fourth Graders Monmouth County Constitutional Officers Surrogate Maureen T. Raisch, Clerk Christine Giordano Hanlon, Esq. and Sheriff Shaun Golden are inviting fourth graders throughout the County to showcase what they like best about Monmouth County by designing posters for the “My County” poster contest.

“I am thrilled to announce the ‘My County’ poster contest for 2023,” said County Surrogate Maureen T. Raisch. “We invite all fourth graders to take part in this great contest to illustrate what they love about Monmouth County including our County Government. I can’t wait to see the creativity of these posters!”

Since the majority of fourth graders study the State of New Jersey as part of their social studies curriculum, all school principals in Monmouth County are being asked to get fourth-grade students involved by creating their own poster that relates to Monmouth County. The posters created should depict special and unique things about Monmouth County.

“As New Jersey’s fourth graders study the State of New Jersey as part of their social studies curriculum, the ‘My County’ poster contest helps students gain an understanding of what County Government does each and every day,” said County Clerk Christine Giordano Hanlon. “The design and content of the posters are up to the students’ imaginations, and I am excited to see their creativity in depicting some of Monmouth County’s best features.”

“We look forward to the ‘My County’ poster contest every year since it’s a project where students dedicate valuable time and use innovative ideas to create posters about Monmouth County,” said Sheriff Shaun Golden. “It’s also a notable example of civic engagement, as it helps our students learn more about the great County we live in.”

Posters must be mailed or delivered to the Monmouth County Surrogate’s Office at the Hall of Records, 1 East Main St., Freehold. The deadline is 4:30 p.m. on Monday, May 1, 2023. Invitations to participate in the contest have been sent to all County school principals.

Prizes will be awarded to the first, second and third-place winners. Nine posters will also receive honorable mentions.

Each of the twelve posters will be individually displayed at the Monmouth County Clerk’s Office.

The poster contest is sponsored statewide by the Constitutional Officers Association of New Jersey to commemorate County Government Month in April. All posters become the property of the Constitutional Officers Association and the County of Monmouth. Submission of a poster grants the Constitutional Officers Association permission to display a poster in public places.

For more information about the poster contest, go to www.visitmonmouth.com or contact the Surrogate’s Office at 732-431-7330, ext. 7331

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