Homeschool Connections Magazine

HOMESCHOOL

CONNECTIONS

Vol. 1 No. 1 Fall 2023

A Publication of the Central North Carolina Homeschool Support Center

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PUBLISHER/ C R E AT I V E DIRECTOR Heidi Atwell

SPECIAL THANKS to the incredibly talented Janet Phillips for supplying our cover and cover story photography, and to everyone who contributed articles, proofread, or provided feedback in any way.

Homeschooling has been such an amazing journey for my family and me, and the 12 years we spent homeschooling were some of the best years of my life. The homeschool community has grown and changed a lot over the years, though. Back when we first started, there were only a handful of co-ops, and it seemed like everyone knew everyone and everything going on. Now there are a multitude of homeschool groups, which, while wonderful, sometimes makes it harder to connect with the homeschool community at large. We wanted to try to do something to help bring everyone together.

This past June, we launched a website with information about co-ops, clubs/ activities, events, etc. You can find it at www.cnchomeschool.com. It’s definitely a work in progress, and still has a long way to go. If you know of a homeschool co-op, club, class, program, or event that you would like to see listed on the website, please email heidi@cnchomeschool.com.

I also decided to create this magazine. Homeschoolers and their families are doing so many amazing things—like participating in national competitions, opening businesses, and creating podcasts. My vision in creating the magazine is to share those stories, to help homeschoolers connect with one another, and to provide information about resources and events for the homeschool community. As you’re reading through this magazine, you may think of other articles or stories you’d like to see featured. If so, drop me an email and let me know! Most of the local businesses featured in this magazine are run by current or former homeschoolers, employ homeschoolers, or have ties to the homeschool community, so please be sure to support them.

Happy homeschooling!

Homeschool Connections is published three times per year by the Central North Carolina Homeschool Support Center. Any reproduction in part or in whole of any part of this publication is prohibited without express written consent of the publisher.

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4 Co-op Spotlight: THE Classes

CONTENTS 10 H ealth and Wellness: Natural Remedies for Cold and Flu Season

6 Teen Entrepreneurs: Sam Bainbridge/ Green Eggs and Sam Farm

12 Small Business: Good Stuff Peanut Butter

7 Words of Wisdom from Homeschool Graduate Anna Gravely

14 Cover Story: Central Carolina Homeschool Mock Trial Team

8 Extracurriculars: Carolina Dance and Gymnastics

16 Family Finance: 529 Plans

18 Hard Times and True Crimes 20 Homeschool Advice: What About Socialization?

21 Family Fun: Take Your Classroom to the Great Outdoors 22 Calendar of Events 24 Just for Fun 26 A Final Word: Foster a Love of Reading www.cnchomeschool.com | 3

CO-OP SPOTLIGHT

SPOTLIGHT ON...

T.H.E. Classes Each issue, we will be spotlighting a different homeschool co-op.

This time, we’re talking to Ellen Cheek, who is on the board at T.H.E. Classes.

Homeschool Connections: First off, can you give me a brief description of your co-op for people who are not familiar with it?

Ellen: Of course! T.H.E. is short for “Tuesday Homeschool Electives.” We are a faith-based, parent-led co-op that meets on Tuesdays at New Life Family Fellowship Church in Asheboro.

We offer classes for kids of all ages, from preschool thru high school.

HC: You say “faith-based.” Can you go a little more in detail about your worldview?

Ellen: The Tuesday Class Board and founders hold to a Christian Worldview that acknowledges the Bible as absolute truth and believes that God created the world and has a plan and purpose for every individual.

It determines how we interact with

people by setting a standard of serving others (Matthew 22:36-39), and it is an integral part of all we do and who we are at T.H.E. Classes. It provides purpose and an anchor in the process of fulfilling our mission of serving the homeschool community.

HC: And can you explain what you mean by “parent-led”?

Ellen: Sure. It’s important to note that this is not a drop-off program. Parents are the core of our teachers, and we encourage them to use their skills and gifts to lead a class. Parents who are not teaching can stay in the class with their child, or hang out on the playground or in the church with other moms and dads. It is also helpful to have parents (and grandparents) watching kids on the playground or in the hallways. More eyes on kids mean more safety for everyone.

HC: Are all of your classes taught by parents?

Ellen: Most of them are, but we do have a few that are taught by people from the community. For example, we offer art classes taught by a professional artist. And several of our classes, such as LEGO robotics, creative writing, and public speaking classes are taught by homeschool graduates and former homeschool moms who are passionate about the subjects they teach.

HC: How long have you been offering classes, and how did T.H.E. classes begin?

Ellen: We started in 2004 with a small group of homeschool families who met for a children’s choir. While kids were meeting to sing, their siblings were sitting out in the hallway. To keep them occupied, a mom decided to offer an activity for them to do, and

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then another mom had a different activity, and it just grew from there.

This year, we have 78 families signed up for classes.

Interestingly, now that we’re going into our 19th year, it’s come full circle.

Some of our homeschool graduates are now homeschool moms bringing their kids to co-op.

HC: Can you tell me a little bit about what kinds of classes you offer?

Ellen: As you may have guessed from our name, we started out as just elective classes. But over the years we’ve added classes in core subjects like science, history, and math.

Depending on the parents’ interests and skill sets, each semester brings a new selection of classes, and no two semesters are ever the same.

Some of the favorite classes we’ve offered include LEGO robotics, art, cooking, cake decorating, psychology, public speaking, and sewing. In another favorite class called “Stix,” students use wooden dowel rods to interpret and bring

to life contemporary Christian music as a dramatic art form. Stix students have performed at churches, schools, and senior centers in the community.

This semester, we are excited about several new classes, including photography, a dinosaurs class, and a class called “The Bible Project.”

HC: Do you offer any opportunities for moms to connect?

Ellen: We do! We offer a Moms’ Bible study on Tuesday afternoons, so while students are in class, moms can meet to study scripture together. We’ve also had moms get together for moms’ nights out. And there are always moms out in the lobby or on the playground. It’s not unusual to hear one of our seasoned homeschool moms sharing advice about curriculum or passing along other words of wisdom to someone new to homeschooling.

On our website is an online forum, where parents can post “for sale” listings, announcements, and information about events or meetups.

HC: Do you offer any other activities, outside of classes?

Ellen: Yes! We just kicked our year off with an Open House, with a fire truck spraying water for the kids to play in and a hot dog supper. And we’ve hosted events such as craft fairs and field days.

An extracurricular we offer for high schoolers is yearbook staff. They produce the Randolph County homeschool yearbook. Families do not need to be a part of T.H.E. Classes to be included in the yearbook.

We also host the Central Carolina Homeschool Beta Club, which is an honorary service club open to all high school students in the area.

And each spring, we have a group of high schoolers serve on the prom committee, working with the prom organizers to help plan the Randolph County Homeschool Prom and Middle School Dance.

Also, sometimes a teacher will plan a field trip to go along with a class and open it up to all of the co-op families.

For example, one year, we had a teacher plan a field trip to Old Salem Museum and Gardens to go along with a history class. We’ve also had classes go to Raleigh to visit some of the museums there. And we’ve had service-oriented classes that have served together in the community at places such as the Christian United Outreach Center or Our Daily Bread Soup Kitchen.

HC: If someone is interested in joining your co-op, what would they need to do?

Ellen: You can find our website at www.homeschool-life.com/3930.

In order to register for classes, there is a form to fill out online to request membership to our site. You can also email us for more information at TuesdayClasses4@gmail.com. n

If you’re in charge of a co-op and would like us to feature your community, email heidi@cnchomeschool.com.

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TEEN ENTREPRENEURS

GREEN EGGS AND SAM

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arents of multiple kids realize pretty early that they are all completely different, and David and Michelle Bainbridge are no different. They knew that, of course, each child is an individual image bearer of Christ with unique personalities and giftings.

But they thought that within a family of eight children, there would be more similarities than differences. Of their three boys, one is in law school, one is studying engineering, and one is a 100% hardworking, mullet-wearing, hunting obsessing, country music and Ford-truck loving blue-collar entrepreneurial farmer.

As a kid, Sam was an intense perfectionist who always needed to be busy. Michelle did the obligatory amount of schooling with him, which, she says, “he found difficult, tedious and frustrating…we both did.”

Sam at the beginning of his farming adventures at age 7 or 8.

Sam was happiest outside adventuring with his older brothers for hours on end or hunting for eggs from their handful of free-range chickens. He found tremendous joy in a garden tomato or a huge watermelon he helped grow.

When he was 8, he got his first turkeys for a 4-H state fair project. He was hooked.

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with more time at home, he jumped in with gusto. That first year, he had 40 layers, a handful of Thanksgiving turkeys and one batch of 25 meat chickens. Green Eggs and Sam Farm was born.

He expanded steadily over the past 3 years and now he has 350 layers, 40 turkeys, over 20 pigs, and he is on track to process over 750 meat chickens this season. In the summer months, there are no less than 525 animals on the farm at one time!

Sam is a licensed meat handler and poultry processor, and provides eggs, all cuts of chicken and pork, along with Thanksgiving turkeys to dozens of families. As a clever homage to the business name, he includes a green egg in every dozen.

Starting a business at 13 years old with very little resources is especially challenging. “The expenses never end,” Michelle says, “…fencing, homemade chicken tractors, solar powered chargers, feed by the ton, pig processing fees, a trailer…it all costs money!

With laying hens alone, it takes more than $20 per bird to get it to the point of laying a single egg. Multiply that by 350 and you can see that this is an expensive gig!”

But when you find what you love, by God’s grace, you find a way. Sam found work putting up hay for a farmer, taking care of his grandfather, cutting down trees for a neighbor, mowing lawns, and working for (and learning from) a local farm that farms sustainably. Michelle says “I wish I could say that 3 years in, he’s ahead of the game and has made enough to buy

Sam at 17, proud owner of Green Eggs and Sam Farm

the old Ford truck he wants so badly. But, alas, he’s still in the building phase. He is learning perseverance, and making due with what he has (who knew that a 15-passenger family van with 320,000 miles could double as a farm truck?!).”

Sam is now a junior in high school, managing his farm, taking diesel mechanic classes, and changing oil at a local mechanic shop. Michelle has no doubt that he will find exactly what God wants him to do in this and every other step in his life as he works hard and seeks the Lord.

Isn’t that what we all want as homeschool parents? An environment that allows our kids to explore their giftings and passions so that they can learn and grow, fail and

succeed with the proper perspective? Not everyone will be a lawyer, or doctor, or engineer, or businessman.

Not every kid needs to go to college. Some are meant to start their own businesses... to be electricians, plumbers, soldiers, police officers… all for the glory of God! Michelle is thankful that homeschooling has allowed them the opportunity to pass on their faith in the Lord and give each child space to figure out God’s plan for them and guidance to help them navigate the steps to get there. And one day, we have not doubt that Sam will get that old Ford truck. n Do you know of a teen entrepreneur that we can feature in our next issue?

If so, send us an email at info@cnchomeschool.com.

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GRADUATE SPOTLIGHT

WORDS OF WISDOM FROM A HOMESCHOOL GRADUATE Each issue, we’ll be featuring a different homeschool graduate’s story.

This time, we’ll hear from Anna Gravely, a 2017 homeschool graduate.

I started my freshman year at Campbell University, double majoring in graphic design and studio art with a minor in marketing, and those first weeks away were hard, but so is any adjustment period. I also quickly began to grow in confidence. After a few weeks, I realized homeschooling actually gave me the tools to excel in this new stage, rather than the doom and gloom I was manifesting before. I was doing well in my classes, watching my traditional school peers struggle with time management and learning not to be in class for 8 hours a day. I realized

By Anna Gravely

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he idea of college can sometimes be absolutely terrifying. It was for me, at least. Being a freshly graduated homeschooler, the daunting task of college sent shivers down my spine. Unaccustomed to the conventional yardsticks of GPA comparisons and class load evaluations, I realized I truly had no idea of how I “measured up” against my contemporaries. Of course, I knew I was capable, I had passed all of my classes, had done well in my co-op, worked part-time jobs throughout high school, and had even successfully completed a few college courses.

Even so, nothing could stop those nagging thoughts; Was I organized enough? Was I prepared to actually physically go to a class every day?

Was I even smart enough for this next step? Despite the extremely pessimistic notions, I took the plunge.

“The intrinsic nature of homeschooling actually prepared me better than the traditional route ever could have.” what they were struggling to adjust to was my normal. I was already used to having a class for an hour and then doing the work at home, mostly alone. I knew how to check my textbook for help before going to the professor with a thousand questions. My time management skills were already fine-tuned because, in high school, I was responsible for getting my math homework done or paper written

before the next co-op day. The intrinsic nature of homeschooling actually prepared me better than the traditional route ever could have.

I eventually transferred from Campbell with the confidence to find my true passion. I attended Coastal Alabama Community College where I graduated in 2019 with an Associate of Science after a wonderful year with great friends and professors, who encouraged me to climb to new heights. My experience at Campbell and Coastal, after I realized how helpful my homeschooling years were, prepared and gave me the confidence to apply to Mississippi State University’s School of Architecture, where I was accepted in 2019 and graduated with a Professional Bachelor of Architecture in 2023. I now work as an Associate Architectural Designer and can look back on my educational experiences and be thankful for the skills homeschooling taught me. This experience was exactly the plan that was laid out for me, and homeschooling was part of that path. Homeschooling was a pivotal part of my educational journey, laying a solid foundation for my college experience and beyond.

The ability to customize my education, develop self-discipline, and explore my passions have all been invaluable. Looking back, I’m grateful for the unique learning experiences homeschooling provided, and I credit it as a significant contributor to my personal and academic growth. n

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EXTRACURRICULARS

Dream Big and Believe!

Helping Kids Discover Confidence Through Dance and Gymnastics

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llison Gaither definitely has her hands full.

Not only is she a busy homeschool mom of two teenage girls, she also owns and operates a successful dance and gymnastics studio with locations in Asheboro and Siler City. Allison is passionate about promoting the arts and equipping children with skills, not just on the dance and gym floors, but skills that can follow them throughout their lives. She strives to create a positive environment for children to excel while inspiring them to Dream Big, Believe in themselves, and discover confidence through dance and gymnastics.

The Studio Carolina Dance and Gymnastics is a boutique recreational studio that seeks to keep classes playful while teaching the basics of dance and/or gymnastics. Kids will enjoy connecting with one another in a warm, safe, welcoming environment while

also learning lifelong skills and etiquette. The studio is a good fit for those looking for recreational activities for their children without the long hours and pressure of a competition studio or gym.

They nurture the whole child and encourage them with all they do in and out of the studio.

The studio offers three programs: Creative Movement, Dance, and Gymnastics.

Creative Movement This developmentally appropriate program, for children ages 2-5, combines dance and gymnastics.

Children learn basic ballet and gymnastics technique, while engaging in pretend play to maintain a positive and nurturing environment.

Classes are taught based on children’s natural development to help them acquire motor, cognitive, and social skills beneficial for life.

Skills taught in addition to locomotive skills include: classroom etiquette and manners, creative expression and imagination, basic body and health awareness, musical awareness, working with others, waiting in line, taking turns, positive attitude…and many more skills!

Dance Dance classes combine Ballet and Lyrical for ages 5 and up. Children learn ballet techniques that will then be put into dances with the flow and energy of lyrical. Classes consist of ballet technique, strengthening, and flexibility.

Utilizing technical skills from ballet and the flow of lyrical, students grow in their body awareness, strength and stamina. Lyrical dance embodies a blend of ballet, jazz, and acro to create flowing dances.

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The studio also offers specialty dance classes.

These monthly themed classes are month to month and do not participate in recital or all-inclusive extras.

Themes will be released two months prior to class.

Gymnastics Gymnastics classes consist of bar, beam, vault, and tumbling for ages 5 and up. These classes are taught through progressions so it is important to master one skill before moving to the next. Students will build on their gymnastics skills, strength, flexibility and agility.

The Teachers The studio’s lead teachers are all experienced in recreational and competitive dance, gymnastics and/or cheer. The teachers are chosen not only for their qualifications, but for their ability to relate to the students.

The Mentoring Program Carolina Dance and Gymnastics truly believes in preparing children to be successful in all walks of life and is proud to offer a Mentoring Program for ages 12 and up. Through the mentoring program, young people get an opportunity to use their talents to mentor younger children while learning and preparing to be dependable young adults in the work force. The mentoring program is by invitation only, with mentors having had at least two years of assisting experience under the guidance of a lead teacher.

Enrollment Options Carolina Dance and Gymnastics offers two enrollment options: Top Supporter and Flexible Enrollment.

Fees are all-inclusive for Top Supporter students, meaning that you never pay additional fees for registration, recital, and costumes. Fees are based on the entire school year and are broken down into 10 easy monthly payments. This enrollment option is available through 10/31/23.

Flexible Enrollment is available for families that want more flexibility in joining later in the year and/or dropping during the year if needed.

The Flexible Enrollment Fee covers expenses that would otherwise be included for our Top Supporters, such as registration, class leotards, costumes, and recital costs. All enrollments after November 1st are automatically enrolled in Flexible Enrollment. n

For more information, give us a call at 336-308-8002 (Asheboro) or 919-742-7232 (Siler City). Or visit our website at www.CarolinaDanceAndGymnastics.com.

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HEALTH AND WELLNESS

BE PREPARED...

Supplements and Natural Treatments For Cold and Flu Season

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s the colder months approach, the battle against colds and the flu intensifies. While there’s no guaranteed way to completely avoid these seasonal illnesses, adopting a proactive approach can help strengthen your immune system and alleviate symptoms.

In this article, we’ll explore a comprehensive guide to supplements to stock up on and natural treatments to consider during cold and flu season, as well as tips for cold and flu prevention. © Vecteezy.com

Supplements to Stock Up On Vitamin C: The Immune Booster Vitamin C is often the first supplement that comes to mind when thinking about cold and flu prevention.

Packed with antioxidants, it aids in fighting off infections and reducing their severity.

Stock up on vitamin C supplements or consume vitamin C-rich foods like citrus fruits, green leafy vegetables, bell peppers, and strawberries.

Vitamin D: The Sunshine Vitamin Vitamin D plays a crucial role in immune function. Sunlight is essential for the body to produce vitamin D naturally.

Unfortunately during the winter months, many people don’t get enough sunlight exposure. Taking a vitamin D supplement can help the body maintain optimal levels.

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the onset of symptoms, can potentially reduce the duration and severity of a cold.

Echinacea: Immune Enhancer Echinacea is a popular herbal supplement that may help boost the immune system’s response. It can reduce the chance of developing a cold or alleviate symptoms if you’re already sick. It’s available in various forms, including teas, capsules, and tinctures.

Probiotics: Gut Health Guardians A healthy gut supports a strong immune system. Probiotics, often found in yogurt, kefir, and supplements, contain beneficial bacteria that can help maintain gut health and overall immunity.

Elderberry: Nature’s Cold Remedy Elderberry supplements are available in syrup or capsule form and are known for their potential to reduce the duration and severity of cold and flu symptoms. They contain antioxidants and vitamins that support immune health.

Natural Treatments to Consider Hot Herbal Teas: Nature’s Comfort Herbal teas like chamomile, ginger, and peppermint offer soothing relief for sore throats and congested noses, as well as a multitude of other health benefits.

Steam Inhalation: Breathe Easy Steam inhalation can alleviate nasal congestion and help ease breathing.

Boil water and pour it into a bowl, then add a few drops of eucalyptus essential oil.

Place your face over the bowl and cover your head and the bowl with a towel. Inhale the steam deeply for a few minutes.

Nasal Irrigation: Clearing Congestion Using a saline nasal rinse can help alleviate nasal congestion and promote better breathing. Use a neti pot and carefully follow the manufacturer’s directions.

Do not use if you have an ear infection or have had past ear surgery.

Warm Saltwater Gargle: Sore Throat Relief Gargling with warm saltwater can help relieve a sore throat by reducing inflammation and killing bacteria. Mix about ¼ to ½ teaspoon of salt to 8 ounces of warm water.

Gargle the water in the back of your throat for as long as you can handle. Then, swish the water around in your mouth before spitting it out.

Honey and Lemon: Natural Soothing Duo A warm mixture of honey and lemon can provide relief for sore throats and coughs.

Mix a tablespoon of honey with a teaspoon of freshly squeezed lemon juice in a small bowl. If desired, add a pinch of cayenne pepper for additional warmth. Take a spoonful of the mixture as needed to soothe coughing.

Garlic and Ginger: Natural Antiviral Allies Incorporate garlic and ginger into your meals. Both have antimicrobial properties that can support your body’s defense mechanisms, and both make flavorful additions to a variety of dishes.

Additional Tips for Cold and Flu Prevention Stay Hydrated You know you should drink plenty of fluids when you’re sick, but keeping your body hydrated can help keep you from getting sick in the first place. A good rule of thumb is to drink about half of your body weight in ounces of water and/or herbal teas per day. For example, a 100-pound person should drink around 50 ounces of water daily.

Get Plenty of Rest A well-rested body is better equipped to fight off infections. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night.

Rest is also a fundamental aspect of recovery. If you’re feeling run-down, prioritize sleep and listen to your body’s cues for rest.

Practice Good Hygiene Regular handwashing and avoiding touching your eyes, nose and mouth can help prevent the spread of viruses.

Eat a Balanced Diet Consume a diet rich in immune-boosting nutrients, including fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean

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Ingredients • 2 tablespoons coconut oil • 5 drops eucalyptus essential oil • 5 drops peppermint essential oil • 3 drops tea tree essential oil (optional)

Exercise Regularly Physical activity can boost immune function, reduce stress and help you sleep better. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise, 5 times a week.

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2. Add eucalyptus, peppermint, and tea tree essential oils.

3. Mix well and store in a small container.

4. Rub a small amount on your chest and back for congestion relief.

Manage Stress Chronic stress can weaken the immune system. When you’re feeling stressed, take a short break to do an activity that calms you, such as taking a walk, listening to relaxing music, or taking a soothing bubble bath. Or try relaxation techniques such as stretching or deep breathing exercises.

Cold and flu season does not need to be a time of dread. Equipped with the right supplements and armed with natural treatments, you can take charge of your health and well-being. By adopting a holistic approach that includes supplements, natural treatments, and healthy habits, you can navigate cold and flu season with resilience and confidence. n

NOTE: While natural supplements and treatments are generally safe, it is important to be aware of potential risks associated with their use. To minimize these risks, it’s essential to: • Consult with a healthcare professional before starting any new supplement regimen, especially if you have underlying health conditions, are pregnant or nursing, or take medications.

• Research the supplements you plan to use and always choose reputable brands with a history of quality and safety.

• Follow recommended dosages and usage guidelines carefully.

• Monitor your body’s response to supplements and discontinue use if you experience adverse effects.

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SMALL BUSINESS

“HONEY, I HAVE AN IDEA” Being Married to an Entrepreneur

By Renee Presnell

“Everyone can tell you the risk; an entrepreneur can see the reward.”

Robert Kiyosaki is a wildly successful entrepreneur worth millions. He has written what some call the #1 personal finance book of all time, but I have never read it. He also wrote a book called Why “A” Students Work for “C” Students and “B” Students Work for the Government. I’ve not read this one either, but I have heard of it. I believe my now-entrepreneurial son was inspired by that book.

At least, he mentioned it a time or two when his grades were a bit lackluster.

Entrepreneurs. They are a unique breed of people. Our nation is filled with them: everyday men and women who have incredible ideas of how to pave their own paths and are willing to take the risk. I married one of these entrepreneurs.

I knew what I was getting into when I married Larry.

He had already helped his parents start a successful printing company that began in their basement and grew to be a key supplier of print materials for businesses in the Triad area. This success did not come easy, as any small business entrepreneur will tell you. It entails long hours, continuous challenges, stressful deadlines, and ongoing concerns, especially when you have employees depending on you for their livelihood. It can take its toll.

That is why it takes someone driven, decisive, and persevering to be an entrepreneur.

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There have been many ideas and ventures since those printing company years, including the software company Larry now runs.

An entrepreneur is always imagining, dreaming, strategizing, creating, thinking outside the box. It is a mind that is constantly in motion looking at the “what ifs” of their ideas and imagining the ways to make those ideas become reality.

My mind does not work that way. I am not the risk taker, but I admire those who are.

I am the “retired” homeschool mom. After twenty years of educating my children, I looked forward to jumping on those halfcompleted projects lying around my house, including all the baby books I never put together. I anticipated all the new recipes I would try.

Maybe I would learn to bake sourdough bread or take up an actual hobby! This was a new chapter in my life. It would be my “catch-up” chapter. But before the next page could even be turned, my entrepreneur husband decided to start a new chapter of his own.

“So, I have an idea to share with you. I know what our next venture is going to be.”

“Our?” “Yep. We are going to make peanut butter.”

“Peanut butter?” I was sure I had not heard him right the first time.

“Yes indeed,” he exclaimed confidently. “So, I was watching YouTube the other night, and I fell asleep. When I woke up, this lady was

making peanut butter in her kitchen. I was like, ‘we could do that.’”

I guess the “catch-up” chapter has now been moved to another part of the book.

So, the entrepreneurial husband and his not-soentrepreneurial wife began the process of seeking to produce an all-natural peanut butter that would be healthy and great tasting at the same time. For two years we have searched for quality ingredients, experimented with unique recipes, gathered willing taste-testers (not hard to do), bought the needed equipment, and figured out how to market this product

we call Good Stuff Peanut butter. I think we have an amazing product, and I hope you will give it a try.

To say that I am now an entrepreneur sounds crazy to me, but I am having a blast. It is a blessing to work alongside my husband and create something from the ground up—especially a healthier, better-tasting peanut butter option for families. To all of you who are risk-taking entrepreneurs, I salute you! For those of us who have the privilege of being married to one, every day is a new adventure—wild yet rewarding. n

What sets high-oleic peanuts apart from other peanuts?

High-oleic peanuts are known for being healthier because they contain a higher amount of oleic fatty acid, also known as monounsaturated fat. This “good fat,” which is also found in things like olive oil and avocados, is believed to help lower bad cholesterol and promote good cardiovascular health. What’s more, high-oleic peanuts are known to have a nuttier, richer flavor than other peanuts, making them perfect for using in all-natural peanut butter. Not many peanut butter manufacturers in the United States are using high-oleic peanuts. They are satisfied with the status quo. Good Stuff Peanut butter is excited to be one of the few who are leading the charge to give customers a healthier, more delicious peanut butter.

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2. In a separate microwave-safe bowl, heat the peanut butter and honey for 20-30 seconds until slightly melted and easier to mix. Stir until well combined. Add the vanilla extract to the peanut butter mixture and mix again.

3. Pour the peanut butter mixture over the dry ingredients in the mixing bowl and thoroughly mix all the ingredients.

The mixture should be sticky and hold together.

4. Place the mixture in the refrigerator for about 20-30 minutes to make it easier to handle.

5. Once the mixture has chilled, use your hands to roll small portions of the mixture into bite-sized balls.

6. Refrigerate for at least an hour to firm up the bites. Store the energy bites in the refrigerator for up to two weeks.

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COVER STORY

The 2022-2023 Academic Year mock trial team and coaches

BEYOND A REASONABLE DOUBT Mock Trial Develops Skills—and Friendships—That Will Last a Lifetime

By Heidi Atwell Photography by Janet Phillips

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ach year, hundreds of nervous teenagers stand before judges and attorneys in courtrooms across the state, palms sweating and hearts racing, ready to plead their case.

No, it’s not a rise in juvenile delinquency. It’s the regional

The team takes time for a moment of prayer before regionals.

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NCAJ High School Mock Trial Competition.

In early fall, North Carolina high school teams are given a fictional case, complete with affidavits and exhibits.

They spend the next several months working together to build and present their cases, with some students acting as attorneys and others portraying witnesses. “It’s a mix of acting and debate, but pumped with steroids, and set in a real courtroom,” says Central Carolina Homeschoolers coach Darren Allen, a District Court Judge in Randolph County.

After months of practicing and fine-tuning their arguments, approximately 90 teams come together to compete in 10 regionals across the state, with the 10 regional champions plus two at-large teams moving on to the state competition.

The state champion then

advances to compete against over forty other state champions at the National High School Mock Trial Championship.

“My favorite part of mock trial has been the team. I found a really great community within the team.”

—Jessica Atwell

In its 11-year history, under the leadership of Coach Allen, the Central Carolina Homeschool (CCH) mock trial team has been one of the strongest and most consistent teams in the country. Their teams have won 6 state championships, finishing in the top 10 nationally 5 times. In 2017, the Central Carolina Homeschoolers were crowned National Champions.

They’ve also won several pre-season tournaments, including tournaments at Yale University, and their students have earned dozens of individual outstanding witness and attorney awards.

“I’ve been blessed to coach dozens of amazingly talented kids. It’s so rewarding watching kids—especially those who struggle early— develop their confidence, and then use that confidence to thrive under pressure.”

While the CCH mock trial team has an incredible list of accolades, their value lies in their faith and their witness to others. Team members take turns sharing a verse or devotion before each practice, and have a time of worship and prayer before each competition. They go into the competitions with the attitude that no matter what happens in the courtroom, their main purpose is to glorify God and treat their

competition with respect and kindness. In 2019, the Central Carolina Homeschoolers won the national Larry Bakko Award for Professionalism and Civility in competition, voted upon by the other student-competitors. “It’s a testament to the character of these kids that they can go out in a diverse field of over 500 students from all over the country and stand out for their kindness,” says Coach Allen.

Few extracurricular activities offer the level of intellectual stimulation, critical thinking, and personal growth that high school mock trial programs provide. “I’m a big fan of sports, but there is no comparison between the benefits of sports and the benefits of mock trial,” according to Coach Allen.

“The skills developed in mock trial can be applied to every facet of life, no matter what career path a student takes. Few people will go on to dribble a ball for a living. Everyone needs to communicate and persuade.”

Coach Allen emphasizes, “Mock trial isn’t just for future lawyers. In my time as a coach, I have only coached a handful of future lawyers.

I’ve coached many more kids who chose a different path: businessmen and businesswomen, actresses, doctors, pharmacists,

teachers, ministers, surveyors, secretaries, moms—you name it.” Listed below are some of the benefits of mock trial.

“Mock trial took me out of my shell. It’s improved my ability to communicate in all areas of life.”

—Katherine Hunnicutt

Public Speaking and Communication One of the most valuable skills fostered by mock trial is effective public speaking. Attorneys are required to present opening statements, conduct direct and cross-examinations, and deliver closing arguments.

Witnesses must answer questions clearly and conversationally while making eye contact with the jury. All team members must be aware of their non-verbal communication and how they present themselves.

This cultivates confidence, eloquence, and the ability to articulate thoughts clearly—skills that will be invaluable in future college and job interviews and are indispensable in any profession.

Katherine Hunnicutt, former CCH mock trial captain and Widenhouse Scholarship Recipient, delivers a cleverly-crafted closing statement.

Knowledge of the Legal System Through the analysis of case law and crafting of arguments, participants acquire a firsthand appreciation for the complexities of law. Whether a witness or an attorney, students will learn more about our legal system than they even realize. Real law is built into the cases in such a way that it is broken down into small manageable parts and then explained and applied to the case. Occasionally the mock trial experience even sparks an interest in pursuing legal studies or related fields in the future.

Critical Thinking and Problem-Solving Mock trial helps students develop critical thinking and problem-solving skills.

Participants must analyze evidence, anticipate opposing arguments, and craft compelling rebuttals.

Mock trial hones the ability to see multiple perspectives, strengthening their capacity to make informed decisions in various aspects of life.

Students must also learn to be adaptable. Participants often experience unexpected developments during the proceedings and students have to roll with the punches and handle mistakes with grace. “Probably the most important skill to develop is the courage to keep going when things get tough,” says Coach Allen.

Teamwork, Leadership, and Friendship High school mock trial is a team effort. Participants must work together to create a cohesive legal strategy, synchronize their arguments, and support each other during the intense competition. This collaborative atmosphere teaches students the importance of teamwork, compromise, and effective communication—skills that are fundamental in both

Attorney Haley Kramer delivers an opening statement with poise and sincerity.

personal and professional relationships. The Central Carolina Homeschoolers has had three students win the statewide scholarship for recognition for Inspirational Team Leadership.

“My advice to anyone thinking of joining the mock trial team is to believe in yourself.

You’re capable of so much more than you think!”

—Haley Kramer

Most importantly, the CCH mock trial team is like a family. Seniors hang out with freshmen, not because they have to, but because they want to. Team members go out for dinner together after practices and get together for social activities throughout the year, building relationships that will last a lifetime. n

The CCH mock trial team is currently gearing up for their 2023-2024 academic season.

Practices are held in Asheboro.

If you are interested in being a part of the team, contact Coach Allen at dcallen07@gmail.com to determine your eligibility. www.cnchomeschool.com | 15

FAMILY FINANCE

529 PLANS A Smart Way To Save For Your Child’s Education

By Graham Jones

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s avenues for education become more flexible, and education allows for more personalized learning approaches, each family must ask the question of what makes the most sense for their own kids. As we all know, homeschooling has emerged as a popular choice for many families alongside the more traditional public and private schools offered. For many of us though the question arises: how can we best fund education for our kids over time?

Enter 529 plans, the most popular of which is specifically a “College Savings Plan”. Offered at the state level in all 50 states, these 529 College Savings Plans were initially set up as a tax-advantaged way to save for college tuition and expenses. When families wanted a way to save for college expenses, they saw the rapid inflation of tuition costs year over year and recognized the need to begin saving early. Similar to our 401k’s and IRA’s, the idea of college savings was that a little bit of money saved today could grow into a sizeable amount over the course of 18 years, and help relieve the financial burden that comes when college years arrive.

How Do 529 Plans Work?

The idea is fairly straightforward. A 529 College Savings Plan allows the opportunity to set aside funds for college and have them grow tax free; provided that they are eventually used for higher education 16 | Fall 2023

costs. By setting aside $50 or $100 each month, these small sums could make a big dent in college costs.

Particularly for families who are considering the avenue of community college, or an instate public university, having a pot of tax-free money to pull from down the road has an obvious appeal.

textbooks may all qualify for the preferable tax advantages from 529’s.

More recently, the use of these funds has been expanded as far as qualifying apprenticeship programs, trade schools, and private school tuition for K-12 private and parochial institutions.

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.”

– Chinese Proverb Recent Expansions of 529 Benefits In recent years, though, these plans have gained additional benefits. Due to the passage of legislation such as the 2017 TCJA, SECURE Act, and SECURE Act 2.0, these funds can now be used more liberally towards educational goals. For post-secondary expenses, required items such as laptops, room and board, printers, and

There are also exemptions for special needs equipment necessary for education accommodation as well.

We might each recognize that there is no “best” educational path to take, and it is a welcome addition for Congress to recognize the same. While 529 accounts are not yet tailored towards the needs of homeschool families, they still offer flexibility for college planning

and an avenue for funding of private primary and secondary education should the need arise for one of your children to attend a more traditional classroom setting.

Setting up a 529 Plan So with all this in mind, what might be the process for setting up a 529 College Savings Plan account? As mentioned before, each of the 50 states offers their own plan for state residents. In North Carolina, CFNC.org offers instructions for opening an NC529 account of your own. Due to state laws regarding 529 tax advantages, it may be worth comparing outside plans as well since there are few state tax advantages not offered to outside plans equally. Each state’s plan has their own nuances, and generally offers a different Investment Lineup depending on what best fits your families needs.

Each account must have a single individual as beneficiary, so multiple siblings would each want

to have their own account.

A 529 account can be set up and owned by a parent, grandparent, or family member, and has very generous annual contribution limits. Since contributions to the plan are considered “Gifts” in a taxable sense, annual contributions are capped at $17,000 per donor per recipient each year without getting into additional tax complications. Once the account is funded, the funds can then be invested in a variety of available Mutual Funds and investments offered by your particular plan. These can be as conservative or as aggressive as you like, and many plans even allow you to partner with your own financial advisor when managing the investments over the life of the account.

What if Your Child Doesn’t Use the 529 Funds?

Finally, one question above

all seems to come up when considering a 529 College Savings Plan. What if my child doesn’t use all of the funds we have set aside?

While there are exceptions in place for scholarships received and generous usage of funds, there are four solutions that often make the most sense.

can begin transferring up to $35,000 of unused 529 funds to their own personal ROTH IRA retirement accounts. Just as you want these funds to grow into a sizeable college fund, unused funds moved to a ROTH IRA can grow for decades into a tremendous tax-free retirement balance.

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Ultimately, knowing your options and knowing your family’s unique situation can help you determine if a 529 College Savings Plan might be right for each of your children. Legislation around improving these accounts has been generous lately, and broadly bipartisan. If future changes come, look for ways that your family might benefit and consider speaking with an advisor, tax preparer, or CPA when it comes to the specific use of these accounts on various educational expenses. As the quote goes:

Keep the account in case future educational plans change.

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Transfer the account to a beneficiary’s sibling who has greater need for the educational funds.

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Use remaining funds to pay off as much as $10,000 of beneficiary student loan debt.

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Just this year, an exception has been made for individuals with excess funds. Provided the account has been open at least 15 years, beneficiaries

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.”

Graham Jones offers securities through Securities America, Inc. (SAI), member of FINRA/SIPC. Investment advisory services offered through Securities America Advisors, Inc. (SAA). SAI and SAA are separately owned and other entities and/ or marketing names, products or services referenced here are independent of SAI and SAA. Investments in 529 plans involve risks to principal and may involve additional fees such as enrollment charges and annual maintenance fees.

529 plans offer no guarantees.

Depending on your state of residence and the state of residence of the beneficiary, the plan may or may not be eligible for state tax benefits.

Non-qualifying distribution earnings are taxable and subject to a 10% tax penalty.

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HARD TIMES & TRUE CRIMES

Nell Cropsey:

A Murder That Still Haunts North Carolina

By Melody Gwyn and Darlene Hildreth

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lla Maude “ Nell” Cropsey was born in July of 1882, the third of nine children born to William and Mary Cropsey. The Cropseys were from an old family in Brooklyn, New York.

William, his wife and children left the Big City in 1898 and moved to 1109 Riverside Ave in Elizabeth City, North Carolina on the banks of the Pasquotank River. They adjusted well in their new Southern community, where William was elected judge.

Two of his daughters, Nell and Ollie, were beautiful, fresh faces in Elizabeth City, and soon the sisters were noticed by the local young men. Ollie began a relationship with a local admirer named Roy Crawford, whom she liked well enough. He was funny, and a good friend, but there were no sparks. Nell was courted by Jim Wilcox, son of the local sheriff. At first, Nell wasn’t interested, mostly because he was too short for

her taste. However, his full lips, mustache, and quiet, southern charm won her over. By November of 1901, Nell and Jim had been in a relationship for two years.

Her sisters, Ollie and Lettie, who often chaperoned the couple, couldn’t understand what Nell saw in Jim. They felt Jim lacked ambition. He had dropped out of college after only one year. And what’s more, Jim was terribly dull compared to their sister.

But he made Nell laugh.

Besides, she had enough personality for the both of them. Nell was lively and fun; chaste but flirtatious and hopelessly optimistic.

The couple enjoyed row boat rides together, evening concerts, and walks along the riverside. Nell told Jim stories about her childhood home in New York. Jim told her about growing up in Elizabeth City. After a year, Nell began to anticipate a marriage proposal… but he never even broached the subject. She tried to be patient but grew disheartened by his dawdling.

“THE BODY OF MISS NELLIE CROPSEY FOUND” Courtesy of the Oregon Daily Journal , December 27, 1901

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Nell wondered if she was being strung along, and felt that she alone was carrying their relationship. She decided to take a step back. She began subtlety flirting with men in Jim’s presence, but he didn’t seem to notice. When he visited Nell on Thursday evenings, she no longer

excitedly told him about her week, but instead waited for him to speak. As a result, they mostly sat in silence. When that got old she ignored Jim altogether, conversing only with her sisters. She hoped he’d sense that he was losing her and spark passion in him, but he was oblivious. Nell now found Jim tiresome and told her sisters she wanted to move on.

In the early days of the dawning twentieth century, courtship often involved visits in the young lady’s home with various members of the household around to chaperone the couple. This would avoid any appearance of indecency.

One Wednesday evening in November 1901, Jim Wilcox arrived at the Cropsey house for yet another visit with Nell.

Nell was looking very much forward to a trip she was planning to take to New York that very Saturday, so she was busy mending a coat she planned to take along.

She did not seem to have much to say to Jim, and in

fact was blatantly ignoring him. There they sat, the two of them in the same room, but hardly trading two words.

The tension was surely thick.

On this particular evening, Nell and Jim were in the company of parents, siblings, and even a visiting cousin from New York. Nell’s sister Ollie and her beau, Roy Crawford, were also courting on this evening. At some point during the visit, Roy commented to Nell that she was, “looking mighty sweet tonight.” Whether this riled Ollie or not is unknown.

Later, there was a bit of peculiar conversation when cousin Carrie brought up the subject of suicide. Jim replied that he would prefer to drown. He had come close to it once and found the

feeling rather pleasant. Nell emphatically disagreed with that opinion, adding that she would rather freeze to death!

After all the bizarre suicide conversation, Jim decided it was time to head home as his mama would be looking for him and it was now almost eleven o’clock. On his way out, he rolled a cigarette and asked Nell if she might join him on the porch so they could have a word in private.

She got up and went out to the porch with him without a word. Ollie could hear them talking out on the porch but she could not hear what was being said.

As it neared eleven thirty, Ollie decided it was time to retire and Roy said his goodbyes. Ollie then headed up to bed, but when she

got up to the room she shared with Nell, noticed her sister was not there yet.

Ollie assumed she was still outside talking with Jim. Suddenly there was a commotion outside. A neighbor woke the family, yelling for William Cropsey, raising the alarm that someone was trying to steal the Cropsey’s pigs. The dogs were barking and raising a ruckus. It was now around twelve thirty. As the family began to rise, Ollie saw her father getting his gun. She warned him not to shoot because Nell and Jim were still out in the yard. But once the commotion had died down, it was apparent that Nell and Jim were not in the yard. In fact, there was no sign of dear Nell anywhere.

Nell had vanished. n

ELLA MAUD “NELL” CROPSEY, ca. 1901

Courtesy of the Museum of the Albermarle

What happened to Nell?

Listen to the full episode of our podcast about Nell Cropsey’s disappearance and murder at hardtimesandtruecrimes.com.

Melody and Darlene are Southern, Christian women who met at their local homeschool community. They became fast friends who discovered a shared interest in true crime.

Once a week, they meet for coffee and take turns telling each other fascinating, historical true crime stories on their podcast. For more information, visit their website at www.hardtimesandtruecrimes.com.

Melody, married to Tim for over three decades, has spent the bulk of her parenting years homeschooling her five children, while simultaneously working a side hustle or two. She became interested in true crime as a teen after discovering a local author’s books at the library.

Her love of reading, writing, and murder mysteries converged when she met Darlene and they discovered their mutual desire to produce a podcast telling true crime stories. Since she is the “Type-A” personality in the partnership, she takes care of the filing, back-ups, and techie stuff. This also involves trying to keep Darlene organized and on track while they try out her rather creative and impressive ideas.

Darlene is a true-crime podcast fan as well. As much as she loves to hear good stories, she loves to tell them! She loves Southern culture, history and a good story! For her fifteenth birthday, her G-pa gifted her an Encyclopedia of Serial Killers.

She owes her fascination of psychology, true crime and fear of the dark to him. Darlene has been married to her husband for twenty-five years. They have four children together and have spent the majority of the past twenty-six years homeschooling. This year Curtis and Darlene were blessed with two daughters-in-law and their first grand baby.

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HOMESCHOOL ADVICE

ABOUT ME...

Since my youth, I always harbored an aspiration to be a mamma. It was the conventional vision of matrimony, a home, and the joyous patter of young footsteps within its walls.

In my early 20s, I married my wonderful husband of 26 years.

We had a small house and the advent of parenthood arrived much sooner than anticipated. My plan was shaping up, but it caught me off-guard and found me unprepared for its urgency.

The little footsteps I had always dreamed of were two beautiful girls, completely different and completely wonderful. These two children kept our home constantly in motion, our hearts overflowing, and our lives tremendously busy. It is worth noting the concept of “homeschooling” was not a notion that had ever found its way into our plans…..that is…..until.

During the latter part of my oldest daughter’s elementary school years, we became acquainted with a new concept that would promise us both flexibility and liberation!

Homeschooling was emerging and gaining increased attention and we were curious. I must admit, it was a scary idea. I was terrified. Despite my apprehensions and trepidation, I realized the potential it held. With all the uncertainties and self-doubt that weighed heavily on my mind, with all my reservations, we cautiously embarked on this alternative approach to education and aligned ourselves with the movement it represented. My family embraced homeschooling as the adventure began.

We carried our oldest daughter though her entire secondary education. Our youngest daughter homeschooled from the beginning of her scholastic journey until her junior year in high school. Our oldest daughter successfully completed her collegiate studies, earning a Bachelor’s degree in Architecture, while our younger daughter is presently beginning her collegiate journey. The instructional phase of my life has reached its conclusion, although my responsibilities as a mother are never-ending. Nevertheless, I have transitioned from the meticulous planning of curricula and daily routines to reflecting on this journey. I have come to value it immensely and I recognize its imperfections. Most days it was MESSY! I extend an open invitation for any inquiries and guidance from any homeschool mammas! Having articulated the preceding sentiments, I must clarify that I do not assert any expertise within this realm. I humbly position myself as a seasoned friend on this journey. I will enthusiastically embrace any inquiries you may have and, in the event, I am unable to answer, chances are, I know someone who can. Homeschooling stands as one of my passions as I served my most cherished role as mamma.

Spending time with my girls is my most valued privilege.

Homeschooling is not always easy but looking back, it has been tremendously rewarding. Rest assured mammas, you possess the capacity to overcome any obstacles that come your way. You’ve got this and we are here to help!

—Deanna Gravely

Dear Deanna, I’m really worried about my kids’ socialization. How can I make sure that they make friends while homeschooling?

This question is one that arises frequently. Social interaction holds considerable importance, and it is widely acknowledged by psychologists as a fundamental element in human development. As someone with experience in homeschooling, I firmly believe that you will have ample opportunities to engage with other supportive homeschooling families that will foster a network for both you and your children. You will be in good company. Nevertheless, should you encounter moments of solitude and loneliness (which is unlikely), and your children express a longing for companionship, here are a few suggestions that come to mind. Please note that this list is by no means exhaustive. ● Robotics club ● Beta Club ● Community sports ● Archery teams: soccer, ● Martial arts basketball, softball, ● Dance: ballet, lyrical, etc. baseball, tennis ● 4H ● Roller skating ● Hunting ● Park days with other ● Fishing families ● Craft Classes ● Swim team ● Birthday parties ● Gymnastics ● Art lessons ● Scavenger hunts ● V olunteer opportunities: ● Horseback riding lessons pet shelter, soup kitchen, ● Museum or aquarium etc. visits ● Boy Scouts ● Homeschool field trips ● Girl Scouts ● 5K runs ● American Heritage Girls ● Homeschool co-ops ● Awanas ● Music lessons: ● Homeschool social piano, choir, violin, events: dances, cello, guitar, band, etc. proms, etc. ● Community theatre ● Etiquette classes ● Church youth group ● Pen-pal programs ● Mock Trial team ● Library story time I trust that this substantiates my argument. In my perspective, homeschooling, in many instances, affords a wide variety of opportunities. Remember that socialization for homeschoolers is not limited to a single approach. It enables you to tailor your socialization strategy to meet the needs and interests of you and your children. I close in appreciation for your inquiry regarding socialization. Rest assured that, with the abundance of available activities, your homeschooling family’s socialization requirements will be adequately met. Now, more than ever, you have the opportunity to establish a comprehensive learning environment for both yourself and your children. This is indeed encouraging news, and I offer my encouragement to you. I believe in you. You can do this!

Do you have a question for Deanna about homeschooling? Email it to info@cnchomeschool.com.

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FAMILY FUN

Adventure Awaits...

Take your classroom to the great outdoors promotes physical fitness while fostering a sense of teamwork and camaraderie among young campers. Such activities not only enhance their motor skills but also encourage an active lifestyle that can extend well beyond the camping trip.

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amping is a fun and enriching activity that offers children the opportunity to disconnect from the digital world and immerse themselves in nature.

Through camping, kids can develop essential life skills, create lasting memories, and cultivate a deep appreciation for the great outdoors. Below are some of the benefits of how camping can enrich your homeschool experience.

Educational Exploration Camping opens a door to a world of learning beyond the classroom. Children can learn to identify different types of trees, birds, insects, and animals. Observing the starry

night sky can spark their curiosity about constellations, planets, and the mysteries of the universe. Additionally, camping often involves setting up tents, starting fires, and cooking over an open flame, allowing kids to develop practical survival skills and a sense of selfreliance.

Physical Adventure One of the most exciting aspects of camping for kids is the physical adventure it offers. Hiking trails, climbing rocks, and splashing in creeks provide ample opportunities for physical activity. Engaging in outdoor games, such as frisbee, tag, or hide-and-seek,

Emotional Growth Camping nurtures an appreciation for simplicity and the beauty of unplugged moments, helping kids discover the joys of being present in the moment. The experience of successfully pitching a tent or cooking a meal outdoors can boost their self-esteem, showing them that they are capable of taking care of themselves even in unfamiliar environments.

Bonding and Social Skills Camping offers an unparalleled opportunity for families to bond and create cherished memories together.

Roasting marshmallows around a campfire, playing games, and telling stories under the starlit sky strengthen connections and nurture a sense of togetherness. Additionally, children have the opportunity

to make new friends with other kids in the campground.

They learn valuable social skills such as communication and conflict resolution.

Environmental Awareness By experiencing the beauty of nature firsthand, camping encourages kids to become good stewards of the environment. They learn about the importance of leaving no trace, conserving resources, and preserving the natural world for future generations.

From educational exploration and physical adventure to emotional growth and environmental awareness, camping nurtures skills and values that will serve children well throughout their lives. The joy of camping lies not only in the thrill of the adventure but also in the lessons learned, the memories made, and the lasting connections forged with nature and loved ones. n This article was brought to you by Yogi Bear’s Jellystone Park™ Campground in Asheboro, NC. To learn more about what our campground has to offer, visit our website: www.asheborojellystone.com.

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EVENT CALENDAR

CALENDAR Below are some area events that you might want to check out with your kids. Google them to find out details.

OCTOBER 2023 6 “Wild Walks with Littles” Nature Walk, Tot Hill Farm Trailhead, 3091 Tot Hill Farm Rd, Asheboro, NC Mark Your Calendars!

Randolph County Homeschool Middle School Dance: April 26, 2024 Randolph County Homeschool Prom: April 27, 2024 Country Line Dancing Classes: Every Tuesday night from 6:30 to 8:00 PM. $5 per class.

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7 Asheboro Fall Festival, Asheboro, NC 9 Fruity Pickin’ Storytime - Pumpkins, Millstone Creek Orchards, Ramseur, NC 7

Autumn Fest, Mebane, NC

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Bush Hill Hometown Jamboree, Archdale, NC

7-15 American Craft Week with Seagrove Potters, Seagrove, NC 10 Marbles Kids Museum Homeschool Day, Raleigh, NC 12-15 Randolph Youth Theater Company presents “Alice in Wonderland” Sunset Theater, Asheboro, NC 13-14 NCHE Homeschool Moms Retreat, Caraway Conference Center, Asheboro, NC 13-23 NC State Fair, Raleigh, NC. Visit ncstatefair.org for specific days and hours 20 “Wild Walks with Littles” Nature Walk, Tot Hill Farm Trailhead, 3091 Tot Hill Farm Rd, Asheboro, NC 21

Ramseur Fall Festival

26 High School Homecoming Sneaker Ball, Adaumont Farm, Trinity, NC nchomeschoolevents.com 28 Barbecue Festival, Lexington, NC 31 STEAM Homeschool Day, Charlotte Motor Speedway, Concord, NC

NOVEMBER 2023 1 Homeschool Day at Old Salem Museum & Gardens, Winston-Salem, NC 3 Homeschool Day at House in the Horseshoe, Sanford, NC (must register by October 20) 3 “Wild Walks with Littles” Nature Walk, Tot Hill Farm Trailhead, 3091 Tot Hill Farm Rd, Asheboro, NC 27205 22 | Fall 2023

OF EVENTS 9 Fruity Pickin’ Storytime - Pecans, Millstone Creek Orchards, Ramseur, NC 11 Holiday Craft Fair, Randolph-Asheboro YMCA, Asheboro, NC

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13 Fruity Pickin’ Storytime - Fall Leaves, Millstone Creek Orchards, Ramseur, NC

• Bridal Showers • Baby Showers • Receptions • Birthday Parties • Meetings • And more!

13 STEAM Homeschool Day, Charlotte Motor Speedway, Concord, NC 17 “Wild Walks with Littles” Nature Walk, Tot Hill Farm Trailhead, 3091 Tot Hill Farm Rd, Asheboro, NC 17 Homeschool Day at the NC Zoo, Asheboro, NC Pre-registration required 18-19

Seagrove Pottery Festival

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Kersey Valley Christmas, Archdale, NC

27 THE POLAR EXPRESS™ Train Ride, Special School Group Performance North Carolina Transportation Museum, Spencer, NC 30-Dec 2 Randolph Youth Theater Company presents “Twas the Night Before Christmas” Sunset Theater, Asheboro, NC

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DECEMBER 2023 1 “Wild Walks with Littles” Nature Walk, Tot Hill Farm Trailhead, 3091 Tot Hill Farm Rd, Asheboro, NC 27205 1

Asheboro Christmas Parade

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Archdale Christmas Parade

4 THE POLAR EXPRESS™ Train Ride, Special School Group Performance North Carolina Transportation Museum, Spencer, NC 4

Christmas with the Embers, Randleman, NC

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“Christmas Downtown” Asheboro, NC

14 “The Nutcracker”—special performance for students and educators, High Point Ballet, Reservations must be made by November 15th 15 “Wild Walks with Littles” Nature Walk, Tot Hill Farm Trailhead, 3091 Tot Hill Farm Rd, Asheboro, NC 16 “Land of the Sweets” Special Children’s Performance, High Point Ballet

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JUST FOR FUN

How to Draw a Pumpkin in 5 Simple Steps...

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Draw an oval. You can either draw it freehand or find something to trace around.

Repeat two more times, overlapping as shown.

Halloween Slime What you’ll need (per batch): • ½ cup school glue — I strongly suggest Elmer’s.

I tried an off-brand glue from a dollar store, but it didn’t work. I used white glue for the ghost and glow-in-the dark orange for the jack-o-lantern.

Elmer’s also makes green glitter glue that you can use for the Frankenstein. Or you can use white glue and add food coloring and glitter as desired.

• ½ cup water • ½ teaspoon baking soda • 1½ tablespoons saline solution — Your contact lens solution MUST contain boric acid in the ingredients or your slime will not form.

Erase inner lines and top as shown with dotted lines above.

Add curved lines across the top and down the sides of the pumpkin.

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Add a stem, tendrils and leaves.

Directions: 1. Using a disposable bowl and spoon, mix glue with water until completely combined.

2. Mix in color and/or glitter if desired.

3. Stir in baking soda. This will help to firm and form the slime.

4. Mix in saline solution and stir until the slime forms and pulls away from the sides of the bowl.

5. Start kneading the slime with your hands. It will be stringy at first but soon you will feel the consistency change. If your slime feels too sticky, squirt a little bit of the saline solution onto your hands and keep kneading. Be careful, though, because too much saline solution will make your slime hard.

6. Have fun playing with your slime! Store in an airtight container in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and heat.

Decorating the container: I used empty baby food jars, but any small jar would work. I painted the lids and glued on facial features cut from card stock. You can also use googly eyes, felt, or stickers.

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If you have a favorite joke, project, or recipe, we’d love to consider it for publication!

Send it to heidi@cnchomeschool.com.

Binox The finished puzzle should be filled with Xs and Os. Horizontally and vertically, there should never be a continuous run of the same symbol longer than 2. There are an equal number of Xs and Os in each row and column. All rows are unique. All columns are unique, too.

The Funny Bone...

I’m so glad I learned about parallelograms instead of how to do taxes. It’s really handy during parallelogram season.

Life isn’t about the moments that take your breath away. That’s asthma. You’re thinking of asthma.

I changed my password everywhere to “incorrect.” That way when I forget it, it always reminds me. Your password is incorrect.

I don’t always clear my calculator, but when I do, I hit both C and CE a bunch of times. Because I don’t know exactly what they do.

Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit; wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad.

My wife asked me why I spoke so softly in the house. I said I was afraid Mark Zuckerberg was listening. She laughed. I laughed. Alexa laughed.

Siri laughed.

Puzzle Solution on page 22

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Kidoku A beginner version of Sudoku for kids! Fill in the blank squares so that each row, each column and each 3-by-2 block contain all of the digits 1 thru 6. If you use logic you can solve the puzzle without guessing!

I thought as an adult I wouldn’t need to sing the Alphabet Song when alphabetizing, but yet, here we are.

Saying “have a nice day” to someone sounds friendly. But saying “enjoy your next 24 hours” sounds threatening.

I was going to cook alligator for dinner but realized I only had a croc pot.

What rock group has four guys who don’t sing?

Mount Rushmore.

The word queue is ironic. It’s just a “q” with a bunch of silent letters waiting in line.

My kids asked me what I used to play on the iPad as a kid and I told them I used to speak into the fan to make myself sound like a robot.

Tip: If you answer the phone with “Hello, you’re on the air!” most telemarketers will quickly hang up.

Isn’t it weird to have one hand that knows how to do everything and then one hand that just sits there like “I don’t know how to hold a pencil.”

Puzzle Solution on page 22

© 2023 krazydad.com

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A FINAL WORD

Foster a Love of Reading 10

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Make Connections: Relate the stories in books to real-life experiences. This helps your child see the relevance of reading and how it can enrich their understanding of the world.

Join Reading Challenges: Participate in reading challenges or book clubs to create excitement and a sense of community around reading.

Encouraging a love of reading in a child can have a lasting positive impact on their development. Here are some strategies to help foster that love:

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Visit the Library: Take regular trips to the library.

Let your child select their own books, participate in library programs, and engage with librarians.

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Set an Example: Let your child see you reading regularly. When they observe reading as a valued activity, they’re more likely to want to engage in it themselves.

Create a ReadingFriendly Environment: Set up a cozy reading nook with comfortable seating, good lighting, and a variety of books at their reading level.

Offer Choice: Allow your child to choose the books they want to read.

This gives them a sense of autonomy and helps them explore topics that interest them.

Read Aloud Together: Read aloud to your child regularly, regardless of their age. It’s a special bonding experience and exposes them to more complex language and stories.

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Set a Reading Routine: Designate specific times for reading, such as before bedtime or during quiet moments in the day.

Consistency helps establish a reading habit.

Celebrate Progress: Celebrate your child’s reading accomplishments, whether it’s completing a book, reading a certain number of pages, or trying a new genre.

Variety of Reading Material: Offer a variety of reading materials, including books, magazines, comics, and even e-books.

Different formats can cater to different interests.

Discuss Books: Engage in conversations about the books your child reads.

Ask about their favorite parts, characters, and what they learned.

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Be Patient and Supportive: If your child struggles with reading, be patient and provide support. Offer encouragement and celebrate their progress.

Explore Various Genres: Introduce your child to different genres such as historical fiction, biography, or mystery. This can help them discover their preferences and expand their horizons.

Incorporate Reading into Daily Life: Encourage reading menus, recipe instructions, signs, and labels in everyday situations. This shows that reading is everywhere.

Remember, the goal is to make reading an enjoyable and positive experience.

Keep the focus on the pleasure of exploring new worlds and ideas through the pages of a book.

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