Detroit Wedding Day 2021 issue

LO VE

YOU SAID YES!

I celebrate you and your partner's love story. Thank you for letting us be a part of this milestone in your life.

Over the years, we have had the privilege to feature many of Metro Detroit's finest venues, caterers, bridal shops, wedding planners, photographers, and other vendor services. As always, our goal is to help you find the ideal resource to make your wedding day unforgettable.

It can be very time-consuming to research, call, and visit different businesses as you plan your wedding. That's where we come in. Detroit Wedding Day magazine and website can help answer many common questions before you even place the first telephone call or do an internet search. Its clean, organized format makes it easy to learn about business services, pricing, and unique business features.

As you use the magazine to plan your wedding, we politely request that you mention Detroit Wedding Day when calling or emailing any of our featured advertising partners. Many of these businesses have great rewards to offer you when you let them know that you learned about them from our magazine and website.

Additionally, please be sure to visit our website and follow us on our social media. We love to engage with our readers and have a little fun along the way.

In closing, we celebrate your love and hope that you have a truly blessed marriage and happy new life together.

CHOYA JORDAN PUBLISHER

SPECIAL OFFERS just for you! That's right, only Detroit Wedding Day readers get 'em! But you have to mention us— so don't forget!

Tips:

Attending In-Person & Virtual Wedding Shows

Wedding shows are good events to attend to jump-start your wedding plans. For those couples just beginning to plan their wedding, attending a bridal show can help generate ideas for your special day.

BE OPEN-MINDED

Each show is unique. Be open to new ideas and different types of businesses that you may not have thought about before. For instance, you may be attending a show to explore wedding reception venues but then unexpectedly meet an insurance agent who shares the benefits of wedding insurance. Or maybe you were exploring bridal salons but suddenly discover a jazz band accepting wedding gigs.

BE PREPARED

Be mindful that you are attending the event to learn, so think like a student. It's wise to bring a pen, notepad, and tote bag to collect literature from businesses at the event. Additionally, if you know that a company you are interested in will be at the show, have questions already prepared.

PLAN EXHIBITOR BOOTH VISITS

If the wedding show promoter publishes a list of participating vendors in advance, decide at the beginning who are the top vendors on your list to visit during the show.

BE EMAIL READY

When visiting a vendor booth, representatives will most assuredly ask for your email address for marketing purposes. Therefore, consider setting up a dedicated email address devoted solely to wedding planning activities; doing so makes it much easier to handle incoming emails from vendors.

TEAM BRIDE

It is not a bad idea to bring your significant other or trusted advisor with you to the event. They can act as a sounding board and support for you. Moreover, having them attend the event with you builds excitement, making the event more enjoyable.

LABEL IT

If you have ever been to any trade shows in the past, you may already know that there will be many vendors there enticing you with contests and special offers. By knowing this ahead of time, you can prepare in advance. Consider bringing a sheet of peel-off mailing labels containing your contact information. Use preprinted labels to effortlessly add your contact info to forms and contest entries instead of repeatedly writing it each time.

WORKSHOPS & SPECIAL ATTRACTIONS

Many events have special programs scheduled during

the show. If possible, find out what time featured attractions will take place, which will allow you to plan what time you will attend in an effort to get the most out of the event.

VIRTUAL EVENTS

If the event is an online virtual event, there are several additional suggestions to consider listed here. First, if possible, test your computer or mobile device to ensure that it operates correctly with the virtual event platform. Also, add the event to your calendar as a reminder.

Before the event begins, it is wise to turn off phone and computer notifications to help keep you remain focused on the show. When possible, schedule appointments ahead of time with participating vendors with whom you want to meet.

HAVE FUN!

Most importantly, enjoy the event. Attending wedding shows in person or virtually can be a lot of fun as well as informative. Not only will you leave with great advice and ideas for your wedding, but you may even have the chance to win great prizes from the event sponsors.

Follow these suggestions can help make your wedding show attendance worthwhile.

Robyn & Rico Grimes

Married on 7/17/21 Location: The Detroit Institute of Arts in Detroit, MI Photographed by: Donzaleigh Powell from Donzaleigh’s Photography

Detroit WEDDING DAY

Kosher

Gratuity

On-site ceremonies

A.V. equipment available

Valet parking

Handicap accessible

Lounge for bride/groom/bridal parties

Time-honored tradition and contemporary convenience intertwine at the Bavarian Inn Lodge, where weddings are an imaginative, historic experience of romance and fun in world-famous Frankenmuth, Michigan. As enchanting as a German fairy tale, Frankenmuth boasts some of the best shopping, dining, and cultural events available in the state. We are pleased to offer these options for weddings:

• Exquisite reception rooms accommodating up to 425 wedding guests.

• Indoor and outdoor ceremonies sites.

• Extensive menu options, including world-famous Frankenmuth®-style dinners and unique Mix & Mingle station menus.

• Bridal showers, rehearsal dinners, family brunches, receptions, and more.

• 360 European-themed guest rooms, including whirlpool and family suites

An extraordinary venue with a number of space choices. A spectacular domed Rotunda, 313-seat theatre, and a variety of rooms allows for intimate as well as large ceremonies and receptions.

The Wright Museum is a Detroit jewel -- featuring history, art and culture in one of Detroit’s most remarkable and storied venues. Clients have a number of catering choices. Our flexibility allows for adaptable and affordable space, and the Wright staff will help you fulfill your vision and make your wedding experience a day to remember.

Number of different rooms 1

Number of events at the same time 1

Separate cocktail area No

Room capacity - cocktail reception 50 to 350

Room capacity - dinner reception 50 to 350

Outdoor reception area No

Room rental fee Included with meal

Deposit required Varies Kitchen on premises Yes Must use in-house catering

Pricing for plated meals

Gratuity No Must use in-house liquor

On-site ceremonies

A.V. equipment available

Valet parking

Handicap accessible

Lounge for bride/groom/bridal parties

Complimentary overnight stay for bride & groom

Greater New Mt. Moriah Banquet & Conference Center is a spacious venue space with ample room for a variety of event layouts, including classroom-style meetings, conferences, and more! We have everything you need, including a full-service catering team to take care of menu design, food preparation, and food service for your event. When your needs include more than a meal, we also have what you need for a panelstyle event complete with a stage podium. We can satisfy your audio/visual needs with a full-size screen and large projector for your media presentations.

Additionally, for your creative performance needs, our space has a dance floor available.

Couples looking for a historic, romantic, and unique property need look no further than the Masonic Detroit. As one of downtown’s most dominant buildings, the Masonic holds a special place in Detroit’s rich history. The 91-year-old building features two unique ballrooms and a spectacular medieval chapel with stained glass windows. We don’t offer packages that tend to include extra items, as we cater each event specifically to our individual client’s needs. You select the items that will fulfill your vision and make your wedding experience the best it can be, and we charge for only the items you use. This high level of customization makes our property highly adaptable and uniquely affordable.

Mention Detroit Wedding Day and receive a complimentary champagne toast for all your reception wedding guests.

Number of different rooms 4

Number of events at the same time 3+

Separate cocktail area No

Room capacity - cocktail reception 50 to 1,000

Room capacity - dinner reception 50 to 1,000

Outdoor reception area Yes

Room rental fee No

Deposit required $1,000 to $4,000

Kitchen on premises Yes Must use in-house catering

Cuisine Italian American

Kosher

Pricing for plated meals

Price range for buffet meals

Gratuity None Must use in-house liquor

On-site ceremonies Yes

A.V. equipment available

Valet parking

Handicap accessible Yes

Lounge for bride/groom/bridal parties

Complimentary overnight stay for bride & groom No

The Mirage is a family owned and operated business that has specialized in weddings for 25 years. At The Mirage, we take pride in offering personal service to our customers in order to treat you “like family”. We offer traditional Italian Cuisine, but are happy to customize any menu to fulfill your requests.

We have four separate rooms that can accommodate ceremonies and receptions from 50 to 1,000 guests. Our experienced event coordinators will help guide you during the entire planning process from beginning to end. We also offer off-site wedding packages for all of your rental needs. Let us help you make your day stress free and unforgettable!

What is our response to the pandemic challenge? Providing service to our readers and support to our current and former advertising partners.

We all know that venues, restaurants, and catering services took a hit due to the pandemic. We want to support those who have supported us in the past. Here is a partial list of recent Detroit Wedding Day advertising partners to consider for your wedding festivities. Some of the business may have reduced services and capacities at this time, therefore, you may want to contact them for future date considerations.

AMERICAN POLISH

CULTURAL CENTER

2975 E. Maple Rd. Troy, MI 248.689-3636 americanpolishcenter.com

ANDIAMO 7096 East 14 Mile Road Warren, MI 586.268.0200 andiamoitalia.com

BAVARIAN INN LODGE One Covered Bridge Lane Frankenmuth, MI 989.652.7200 frankenmuthweddings.com

CHARLES H. WRIGHT MUSEUM OF AFRICAN AMERICAN HISTORY 315 E. Warren Avenue Detroit, MI 313.494.5884 thewright.org

CRISPELLI’S Crispellis.com

Multiple locations, visit website for details. West Bloomfield, MI Troy, MI Royal Oak, MI Clarkston, MI Berkley, MI

DEARBORN HILLS GOLF COURSE 1300 South Telegraph Rd. Dearborn, MI 313.563.3043 dearbornhills.com

DETROIT ZOO 8450 West 10 Mile Road Royal Oak, MI 48067 248.336.5805 www.detroitzoo.org

FERN HILL GOLF CLUB 17600 Clinton River Rd. Clinton Twp, MI 586.286.4700 fernhillgc.com

FORD COMMUNITY & PERFORMING ARTS CENTER 15801 Michigan Ave. Dearborn, MI 313.943.2381 dearbornfordcenter.com

GANDY DANCER 401 Depot Street Ann Arbor, MI 734.769.0592 www.muer.com

GREAT LAKES CULINARY CENTER 24101 West Nine Mile Rd. Southfield, MI 248.286.3100 glculinarycenter.com

GREATER NEW MT. MORIAH BANQUET & CONFERENCE CENTER 586 Owen Detroit, MI 313.871.2707 greaternewmtmoriah.org/ banquet-center

HOTEL SAINT REGIS DETROIT 3071 W. Grand Blvd Detroit, MI 313.481.8410 hotelstregisdetroit.com

INFINITY AND OVATION YACHT CHARTERS 400 Maple Park Blvd. #404 St Clair Shores, MI 586.381.7744 infinityandovation.com

KATHERINE’S CATERING 359 Metty Drive Suite 4 Ann Arbor, MI 734.930.4270 katherines.com

LAFAYETTE MARKET 154 N. Saginaw Pontiac, MI 248.392.2100 thelafayettemarket.com

MICHIGAN RENAISSANCE FESTIVAL 12600 Dixie Hwy Holly, MI 248.634.5552 michrenfest.com

MITCHELL'S FISH MARKET mitchellsfishmarket.com Multiple locations, visit website for details. Rochester Hills, MI Livonia, MI Lansing, MI

MYSTIC CREEK GOLF COURSE & BANQUET CENTER

One Champions Circle Milford, MI 248.684.3333 mysticcreekgolfclub.com

PACKARD PROVING GROUNDS 49965 Van Dyke Shelby Twp, MI 586.739.4800 packardweddings.com

PREMIER BEST WESTERN 26555 Telegraph Rd Southfield, MI 248.358.7600 bestwesternpremierdetroit. com

RED CROWN 15301 Kercheval Avenue Grosse Pointe Park, MI 313.822.3700 www.redcrowngp.com

REGENCY MANOR 25228 West 12 Mile Road, Southfield, MI 248.353.1133 www.regencymanorbc.com

RIVER CRAB RESTAURANT 1337 River Road St. Clair, MI 810.329-2261 rivercrabbluewaterinn.com

SKYLINE CLUB SOUTHFIELD 2000 Town Center Southfield, MI 248.350.9898 theskylineclub.com

THE GROSS POINTE ACADEMY 171 Lake Shore Road Grosse Pointe Farms, MI 313.886.1221 gpacademy.org

THE HENRY HOTEL 300 Town Center Dr. Dearborn, MI 313.253.4370 behenry.com

THE IMPERIAL HOUSE 34701 Groesbeck Hwy Clinton Township, MI 586.791.8220

THE MAPLE THEATER 4135 W. Maple Road Bloomfield Hills, MI 248.910.8796 themapletheater.com

THE MASONIC TEMPLE OF DETROIT 500 Temple Street Detroit, MI 313.832.7100 themasonic.com

THE MIRAGE ELEGANT BANQUETS & CATERING 16980 18 Mile Rd. Clinton Township, MI 586.228.2222 themiragebanquets.com

THE WHITNEY 4421 Woodward Avenue Detroit, MI 313.832.5700 thewhitney.com

UKRAINIAN CULTURAL CENTER 26601 Ryan Road Warren, MI 586.757.8130 ukrainianculturalcenter. com

WATERVIEW LOFT AT PORT DETROIT 130 E. Atwater Street Detroit, MI 313.307.4925 waterviewloft.com

Inspirational Wedding Themes pre-planning ideas

Do you need a wedding theme? Or, is creating a wedding style a better alternative? There are so many decisions to make leading up to the wedding day.

Well, let’s begin by asking the main question. Is a theme actually needed? Most often, when couples discuss developing a theme for their wedding, they are in reality, speaking about creating a style or mood for the event. However, there are times when couples, in fact, want a themed wedding.

So, what is the difference between a style and a theme wedding? A wedding style is essentially the desired overall look and feel created by the décor, music, and other elements. In contrast, a wedding theme is a specific subject or topic whereby all of the planning is based around.

There are many themes and styles that couples can use as inspiration. There are no hard and fast rules. The important thing is to create a theme, style, or a combination of the two that fits the couple’s taste. Here are several themes and styles to inspire couples during their wedding planning. For this article, we will use the word themes and styles interchangeably.

Season Wedding Style

It’s no surprise; many couples are inclined to use the season as their style inspiration.

Depending on what season the wedding is held, help determine what colors, flower selection, and decor to use.

Fall Season Ideas

Using a fall theme wedding can create rich, beautiful tones that mirror the changes in nature during the autumn months. It is easy to add elements, color, and texture that reflect beautiful foliage and bountiful harvest. Use a pumpkin patch and colored leaves as accents or bundles of freshly harvested fruits and vegetables as decoration and wedding favors.

Summer Season Ideas

Adding colorful summer flowers and greenery is a beautiful way to host a summer-styled wedding. Because many of the flowers are in season during these months, this theme may be a more affordable solution for many couples. Several well-placed sunflowers along with vases of limes and lemons can be an easy decorative option with minimal effort.

Winter Season Ideas

Oh, the wonders of winter. The white snow. The holiday festivities. The warm candle lights and crackling fireplaces. A winter wedding can be an elegant, inviting event. When using whites and green garland as the main decor, adding a few accents here and there like crystals, lights, and other decorative pieces can add drama to the event space.

Spring Season Ideas

Simple pastels, delicate flowers, and greenery are a great start to this outdoor-inspired wedding theme. A beautiful garden setting is perfect for a spring wedding.

Several attractions to consider are adding edible flowers to the beverages and giving guests wedding favors that include packets of seeds or cut flowers. But, of course, garden weddings can also be planned throughout the summer and fall months, weather permitting.

Rainbow Style

Whether the couple is celebrating their LGBTQ pride love or simply

like a more diverse color scheme, a rainbow wedding may be the perfect alternative. Ways to usher in color in this vibrant event include incorporating various color plates, glassware, and napkins.

Adding colorful lighting effects throughout the venue and serving colorful foods such as a rainbowtiered cake served with rainbow ice cream adds a burst of color to any event. Of course, adding colorful backdrops with vibrant florals enhances the overall theme.

Nautical & Beach Theme

Beach or nautical-themed weddings embrace the love of the outdoors. Using the Great Lakes as an inspiration, add nautical elements coupled with cool shades of blues, sand, stones, driftwood, and natural seashells.

Vintage Theme

Vintage weddings with classic designs create romantic nostalgia as it celebrates a bygone era. So, whether the theme is a throwback to the 1920s with Great Gatsby

© Michael O'Reilly_Adobe

style influences like glitzy headbands, gilded centerpieces, or vases adorned with strings of pearls atop a lace-covered table popularized by the styles of the 1950s, having a vintage wedding can add a touch of timeless classic ambiance.

Moreover, those who like a little whimsy may consider decorating around a more flamboyant era like the ’60s and ’70s.

Movie Theme

Lights, camera, action! A moviethemed wedding might be the ideal wedding type for couples who are big movie buffs. This theme is sure to be one event that guests will remember for years to come.

Perhaps, it is a wedding influenced by the television drama series Bridgerton featuring Victorian fashions and elaborate table spreads, or a fairytale Disney-inspired wedding; this wedding style is one for the memory books.

Maybe there is not a specific movie but rather a theme around the movie industry in general. Adding recognizable décor is sure to be a big hit.

For general movie cinema themes, adding simple movie reels, photographs of movie billboards as table toppers, or even a movie clipboard can bring loads of Hollywood glamor to your event. Place a bag of popcorn, and a bowl of sugary candy treats on the table to help get guests ready for the main attraction.

Boho Chic Influence

Boho chic, also known as Bohemian Chic, has been a wedding trend for the past few years. This theme is perfect for couples who enjoy a traditional style but want a carefree more organic feel.

Add boho style to your event by decorating with muted colors, sprinkle the surroundings with Pampas Grass, and soften the area with wildflowers and lace.

Rustic Style

Rustic theme weddings are perfect for couples who like country influence in their decor. The rustic themes can incorporate vintage styles along with natural elements.

Color Styles

Many couples base their wedding theme on a color scheme. However, color style can go well beyond the room decoration. By requesting that guests wear specific colors, they become part of the theme.

Music Theme

The music industry can also act as a theme for a wedding. Adding old records, having music trivia games for guests to play, and having the DJ join in on the fun adds to the excitement.

Perhaps adding a little Motown nostalgia is a way to be inspired. Decorate the space with elements such as table tents listing Motown artists and songs or have fun facts index cards at each place-setting

used as time-fillers to entertain guests.

Traditional Classic Style

Of course, a traditional classic wedding theme is always a popular option. Add romantic décor and timeless accents to polish this look.

Industrial Rustic Inspired

This contemporary style wedding offers warm colors surrounded by industrial elements usually softened by adding floral pieces and other natural pieces. A warehouse is a perfect backdrop for this theme.

Carnival Style

A carnival theme brings guests to their happy place. Simply incorporating features, such as vintage signs, games, and other carnival attractions that add a bit of family-friendly fun to the event can achieve the goal. There can be different food and activity stations set up that features food, games, and entertainment. A few ways to add a carnival styling to the event include adding a hotdog stand, ice cream cart, and caricature artist.

Couples can also set up various games for guests to play like ring toss, giant Jenga, and wedding bingo. All of this, coupled with balloons, carnival-inspired directional and table signs, and treats like watermelon slices on a stick, funnel cakes, and cotton candy, makes for a wedding to remember.

Steampunk Inspired

Steampunk blends eye-catching science-influenced industrial pieces with Victorian influence, often with a gothic appeal. Adding timepieces, internal clock parts, navigation tools, or old vintage keys helps design steampunk style.

Minimalist

Sometimes less is more. Couples who embrace this style make the smallest details stand out. Having a neutral or monochromatic color scheme coupled with minimal accessories can help achieve this style.

Eco-Friendly

Every day more emphasis is made on improving our planet.

Having an eco-friendly wedding encourages new habits that everyone in attendance can participate in.

One way of achieving this goal is by using sustainable products during the event, including recycled, upcycled, or low-impact products. Additionally, using potted plants in the décor rather than cut flowers allows for plants to be passed along to guests to enjoy days, if not years, after the wedding.

Animal Theme

Animals are an important part of our lives. Having an animalthemed wedding can help make your wedding day a joy for everyone at your event. Consider creating a memorable moment such as having the bride be escorted down the aisle by her favorite pooch or even releasing doves during the wedding ceremony.

Whatever the theme or style, the key is to let it reflect the couple's vision.

Lose Covid Weight Gain

In Time for Your Wedding Day!

Your big wedding day is supposed to be a special day all about you and your partner. So naturally, you want to feel slim and gorgeous! The problem is that Covid-19 came and pushed your wedding date off. It may have also derailed your exercise regimen.

Do not feel bad. Most of us gained a few pounds in 2020. The American Psychological Association reported that 42% of Americans gained an average of 29 pounds during the pandemic shut down. So, you are not alone.

However, now that your wedding date is getting closer, you may feel desperate to lose those extra pounds. Weight loss can be challenging, but you can shed the excess weight and keep it off for good.

BE REALISTIC

First thing, assess your goal. If your wedding date is a week away and you are trying to start a weight loss plan now, that is not realistic. Health experts recommend losing 1-2 pounds a week. So, if you have 3-months before your wedding day, you can lose 12 to 24 pounds.

Another thing about being realistic is to know yourself. If you know it's hard for you to stick to something, don't aim to lose the 24-pounds at one time. On the other hand, if you know you are truly committed and are disci-

plined to weight loss, then go ahead and set more aggressive goals. Just remember, when you know yourself and challenges, you can have fun and be successful.

SWAP YOUR FUEL

We all love the carbs. While carbs are good for building muscle, which will help you lose weight, it is wise to pick the correct carbs. Vegetables and fruits are good carbs. With every meal, add vegetables and a piece of fruit. Skip the rice, pasta, and bread.

Make food choices that you will enjoy and will want to eat. You do not need to be in a calorie deficit to lose weight. Adding more veggies and fruits helps give you that full feeling without the guilt.

If you choose to count calories, don't obsess over it. Of course, you want the weight off for your wedding day, but also you want to be a happy bride in the process.

WORKOUT

This point seems obvious. A huge mistake many people make before their special day is to jump on the treadmill wishing to melt away inches super-fast.

Unfortunately, this is not the solution. Running on the treadmill for an hour a day will not burn away many calories on your

weight loss journey. There is more to weight loss than that.

WEIGHT LOSS SOLUTION

In a recent interview, Tony Reynolds, a 30-year professional fitness trainer, stated, "Weight loss occurs by doing the opposite of what you did to gain it. Did you gain weight by running, lunging, and jumping? No, you gained it by eating too much. You have to modify your eating and eat less."

He agreed that reducing carbohydrate consumption is good, but more importantly, the key is portion size management.

So, what is his recommendation? Reynold continued, "If you usually eat from a 12-inch plate, switch it to a 10-inch plate, then to an 8-inch, then a 6-inch. That is weight loss."

Even if you don't change what you eat by simply reducing the amount of food and calories consumed while also getting some form of daily exercise, you will lose weight, according to Reynolds.

Additionally, it is not necessary to spend hours at the gym every day.

"Most people who are at the gym are just at the gym. The question is, are you utilizing your time effectively when you are at the gym?" asked Reynolds.

Frothy Banana Shake

Servings: 2-4

3 cups milk

2 frozen bananas

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1/2 teaspoon almond extract cinnamon, for garnish banana slices, for garnish

In blender, blend milk, frozen bananas, vanilla extract and almond extract until smooth.

Courtesy of Family Feature

He shared that just doing a daily 30-minute circuit routine will do the trick. Doing 60-seconds of non-stop repetitive movement with 15-second breaks between each set of exercises will give you an effective calorie-burning workout.

Taking a cue from popular fitness centers with circuit training stations, design a routine with 8 to 10 different exercise routines that you will do for 60 seconds each. You can do these exercises at home or go to a fitness-center circuit training room that has pre-designed workout plans to follow.

Your wedding day will be here before you know it. Finally, you can achieve the weight loss you are looking to reach. Just make a plan and work it while having fun on the journey! Before you know it, you will dance the night away on your wedding day!

Freshen up your morning with this Frothy Banana Shake, which is a simple and perfect on-the-go breakfast option. It’s healthy with fresh bananas, sweet with a hint of vanilla and frothy with blended dairy products. Pour into your favorite glass, dust with cinnamon and garnish with a banana slice. Find more easy, onthe-go breakfast recipes at Culinary.net.

Ruthie

Detroit WEDDING DAY

EVENT LOCATIONS

Jump Start Your Wedding Planning

You

did it! You got engaged. Now what? Here are suggestions of what next steps to take to get ready for the big day.

Before rushing to your local retailer to make your first purchase, take a moment to collect your thoughts and make a plan. Your wedding deserves careful planning and execution.

It makes no difference if you are getting married in a cathedral or having an at-home ceremony; it’s your day. So, make sure it reflects what is important to you and your partner.

After announcing your engagement to your family and close friends, the next step is to set up a realistic budget. It’s a good idea to create a budget early to make sure you can afford all of the items and services on your must-have list.

Money Talks

First, let’s look at what funds are available. Begin by determining what savings are being set aside for the wedding. Secondly, identify what part of your monthly income will be applied towards the wedding expenses. Lastly, account for monetary gifts that parents or family will contribute towards the wedding.

Once you know what resources are available, you can better determine if additional funds are needed. But most importantly, know your limits.

Vision and Style

Have a clear vision of your wedding. For example, do you want to have a formal event, or is a casual gathering more aligned with your personality?

Don’t worry if your vision is a bit vague right now. That is understandable. What’s important is to identify your expectations to lay the groundwork for a successful event.

Take the time to explore and use your imagination. For example, do you want a small intimate wedding or a wedding reception that is sure to be the talk of the town? On the other hand, maybe you, your significant other, and a group of friends instead jump on a plane for a destination wedding. Being clear about your wedding wishes will help wedding vendors be more in tune with your vision.

Wedding Planners and Coordinators

Next, you need to decide if you will coordinate your wedding yourself or hire a wedding planner. If you determine that it is best to hire a wedding professional, you will need to budget for their services. A benefit of using a professional wedding planner is that they can significantly reduce the hustle and bustle involved in coordinating a wedding.

Now, let’s take a moment to look at the different types of wedding

planners. Full-service wedding planners plan your entire wedding from start to finish. This type of wedding planner is best for brides who don’t want to be bothered with planning details. However, if you do not need a full-service provider, you may elect to use a day-of coordinator instead.

A day-of coordinator usually offers services closer to the wedding day. This professional helps coordinate all of the activities for the wedding day, including set-up, breakdown, and other services leading up to the wedding day.

The last type of coordinator is a venue coordinator. This person is generally part of the personnel at the venue site. This coordinator will help with the activities that will take place at the venue.

In each case, your wedding planner, day-of coordinator, or venue coordinator can help lessen the stress associated with wedding planning. Additionally, they can help identify and manage unexpected expenses. Finally, because wedding planners are generally familiar with common mistakes first-time brides make, these pros can help eliminate the frustration that many unprepared brides might otherwise face.

Time and Place Next on the list is to decide on a wedding date. It is understandable that when you

first become engaged, you may not have an exact date selected. However, it is a good idea to pick a tentative date (or date range) to communicate more effectively with wedding vendors regarding your upcoming wedding.

Identify where you would like your wedding ceremony and reception to be held. Once you determine the location, secure a booking date. If the venue does not provide catering, prepare to book the services of a caterer.

It is wise to retain the officiant who will perform the ceremony around the same time that the wedding ceremony site is reserved. Keep in mind some officiants may require you and your fiancé to go through couple’s counseling weeks or months before the ceremony date.

You’re Hired!

At this time, you may want to contact your photographer, videographer, florist, and other vendors, such as wedding DJs and entertainers, to ensure that they put your wedding on their calendar.

Be aware that many wedding vendors require a down-payment to retain their services, so make sure you can afford it before

agreeing to hire them.

Most importantly, make sure that you do some due diligence. Ask questions to make sure that you get quality services. This is not the time for you to be caught off guard.

Fashion and Jewelry

It’s time for fun. Next on the list is to visit bridal shops. You may want to complete this task six to twelve months out from your wedding date to ensure that the perfect dress is available in time for your wedding date.

Let’s not forget about the groom. Now is a perfect time to place orders for those fashion accessories that coordinate with the bridal party.

If you haven’t purchased your wedding rings, this is the time to complete that task. Many brides visit jewelers six to nine months out from their wedding day.

You’re Invited

Four to six months before the wedding, you should begin to mail wedding engagement save-the-date announcements. However, it would be best if you planned to mail out the formal wedding invitations approximately two months before the wedding date.

During this time, begin to invite friends and family to be members of your wedding party. Once your wedding party is complete, select the dresses and tuxedos for the bridesmaids and groomsmen.

Book It

Let’s talk rentals. Will you need to rent high-end china, tables, arches, throne chairs, or other decorative pieces? If so, you want to book these items well in advance.

Approximately six months out from your wedding is the time that you should plan to book rental equipment. Don’t wait until the last minute. You don’t want to find out later that the items you need are already reserved for someone else.

Please don’t make the mistake of overlooking transportation. If renting a vehicle is on your to-do list, make sure to reserve it in advance to increase your chances of getting the make, model, and color that you want.

Of course, don’t forget about the wedding registry. Gift registries not only encourage guests to purchase the gifts that you really want, but it also helps reduce the chance of receiving duplicate gifts.

As your wedding date nears, other important details will need to be completed on time. Use the handy wedding checklist located in this magazine to help with your wedding planning efforts. You can also visit detroitweddingday.com to access other helpful wedding planning tools.

New & Trending

WHAT'S HAPPENING NOW

wedding is to have maximum space so that the guests can still practice social distancing.

Outdoor weddings come with a wide variety of options, so don't stress. You can always look for a terrace, big enough balcony, gardens, and rooftops to make your big day exciting and memorable.

The best and most exciting venue has to be a garden. Let nature be your decor. The subtle breeze blowing on your face, a breath-taking view, the music from the chirping of birds, and blossoming flowers, will simply mesmerize everyone.

Transformative Gowns

Many

old traditions and wedding trends have been refashioned to incorporate the new-normal in our lives. Wedding trends adapted by the couples in 2020 have set the mood for 2021. Many weddings are scaled-down in size, but it is not any less celebratory. As more couples are venturing towards simple wedding ceremonies, lavish and over-the-top weddings will be seen less this year.

Micro Weddings

The pandemic has taught us to appreciate what we have. So the va-va voom or fairy-tale wedding you had in mind won't be making a grand appearance this year. Instead, you might want to curate your guest list with a bit of care and embrace the concept of micro-weddings. Keep your guest list to 30 people or less.

Virtual Weddings

Micro-weddings might be putting a strain on your guest list, but you don't have to eliminate all your guests. Instead, bring in the technology and trick the virus. Connect with your loved ones through video live streaming and set the wheels of 2021 wedding trends in motion.

DIY Decor

2021 is all about putting your creative skills to the test. Whether you were born an artist or the lockdown has helped polish your skills, this wedding season is perfect to showcase the crafty side in you. You can start with the DIY photo hoop or floral hola-hoop decor and slowly advance your skills to complete self-created wedding decor.

Outdoor Venues

The idea behind an outdoor

However, the idea is not entirely new but still rocks among brides. How exciting it is that you can use your wedding gown twice and create a whole different look. Transformative gowns usually have removal bows, ruffles, or skirts so that you can have a blast at reception without the hassle of needing to change your clothes after the wedding ceremony.

Rock Your Tux

It's not just the bridal look anymore; grooms are all set to shake up the 2021 wedding trends with their unique and adventurous style. Make a statement with a floral pocket, or go bold with a floral tie. Indeed, nothing steals attracts more attention than having expected colors. So, coordinate your tux with the floral bouquet that your mate will carry or test your limits with the printed tux and ace the trend-meter.

Love is an unstoppable force. Don't let a pandemic stop it! This year embrace the change and make your own wedding trends.

Reinventing the Wedding Band

by Bradi Showler

We spend copious amounts of time finding the perfect man, the perfect dress, even the perfect venue- but when it comes to the standard symbolism of marriage, we all know it remains on the fourth finger of your left hand.

The ancient Egyptians correlated the shape of a ring- a circle with no end- as an eternally powerful symbol. Though this piece of jewelry has remained a talisman of love, it has definitely evolved since ancient times.

The custom of both partners wearing wedding bands didn’t catch on in America until the beginning of World War II. The plain gold wedding band was the standard

preferred style for most during this time, and though quite simpletheir symbolism was enormous. This is still the preferred style for most men and some women today.

4ever2 Jewelstone Bands combine a unique symbol of love with a historically modern twist. Featuring two interlocking bands- one representing you, and one representing your partner- each carefully crafted so they are able to roll over each other while they’re being worn.

Offered in various metal combinations, 4ever2 bands combine the strength of two rings, making them extremely durable. They do not feature any exposed gemstones or diamonds that could lead to loss or damage.

On the inside of each band, you will find a proprietary gemstone

comprised of Rose Quartz- the original stone of love. The Jewelstone will always be touching your skin, emitting gentle vibrations of loving energy.

Carefully crafted in the United States, 4ever2 bands combine strength, durability, simplicity, elegance, and cost efficiency- reinventing the wedding band in a way that visually illustrates your love story.

CHELSEA Menswear

CONTACT: Evan Riddell 734.282.7755 2944 Biddle Ave. Wyandotte, MI 48192 chelseamenswear.com

HIGHLIGHTS: Chelsea Menswear is family owned and operated since 1943. We have an excellent tuxedo rental service and a beautiful selection of suits that you can purchase. We are expert fitters who know how to make a man look good. We get it right!

So whether you’re looking for shirts, ties, shoes, honeymoon clothes, groomsmen gifts or more, we have it. Comfortable, no pressure and friendly!

PRICES: Suits starting from $395.

Mention Detroit Wedding Day for a Free Beer! *

Roses R Red, Inc.

CONTACT: Rosa Jordan 734.744.5814 28402 Five Mile Road Livonia, MI 48154

HIGHLIGHTS: Every woman wants to look good. My goal is to make you look great! I’m Rosa, the owner of Roses R Red Inc., an online and traveling fashion and accessories boutique for women. So, if you are having friends over and want to add lots of fun and fashion, give me a call to make arrangements for an afternoon of shopping. I will bring all the fabulous trendy fashions to you for a one of a kind at-home shopping party.

PRICING: Please call for details.

Make sure to ask about our special offers.

Bling Bow Ties

CONTACT: Carolyn Wright 313.909.2485

HIGHLIGHTS: Bling or Dare to be Different? The choice is yours! Bling bow ties designed by Carolyn Wright are unique, distinct, and hand made. You’ll find the perfect bow tie for the Groom, Best Man, Groomsmen, Ring Bearer, Father of the Bride, and Father of the Groom. Create the perfect look by adding a coordinating pocket square and suspenders. Bling bow ties are for any occasion. Challenge us with your custom order!

PRICING: $19.99 to $99.99 Mention Detroit Wedding Day to get the Groom, Best Man, and Ring Bearer’s bow tie for $49.99. The Man (3-piece set).

Marriage License

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

Visit the county’s website to learn how to apply for a marriage license in-person or online.

Michigan residents must apply for marriage licenses in the county where they live. If both parties are Michigan residents, however one lives in another county, they can apply in either county. If both parties are out-of-state residents, they must submit the application in the county where they will be married.

Needed

Marriage License Fee: $20 for Michigan residents $30 for out-of-state residents.

Macomb County clerk.macombgov.org/ClerkServices-Marriage

Clerk’s Office

120 N. Main, 1st Floor Mount Clemens, MI 48043 Direct: 586.469.5205 Main: 586.469.5120

Oakland County oakgov.com/clerkrod/life-eventsand-services

Oakland County Clerk’s Office

1200 N. Telegraph, Dept. 413 Pontiac, Michigan, 48341 Direct: 248.858.0571 Main: 888.350.0900

Monroe County co.monroe.mi.us/officials_and_ departments/officials/county_ clerk/marriage_license.php

Clerk’s Office

Monroe County Courthouse, 106 E First St, Monroe MI 48161 Direct: 734.240.7075 Main: 888-354-5500

Livingston County livgov.com/clerk/Pages/ marriage-license.aspx

Livingston County Clerk Courthouse

200 E Grand River Ave Howell, MI 48843 Main: 517.546.0500

Washtenaw County

washtenaw.org/286/MarriageLicenses

Vital Records

200 N. Main Street, Suite 100 Ann Arbor, MI 48107 Direct: 734.222.6720 Main: 734.222.4357

Wayne County waynecounty.com/elected/clerk/ marriage-licenses.aspx

Downtown Detroit Office

Coleman A. Young Municipal Center

2 Woodward Ave., Room 201 Detroit, MI 48226

Direct: 313.224.4680 Main: 313.224.6262

Western Wayne Satellite Office 3100 Henry Ruff Road Westland, MI 48186 734.326.4690

Information listed as of December 2019.

AM & FM PHOTOGRAPHY

810.629.5995 713 W Silver Lake Rd Fenton , MI 48430 gerychsevents.com sales@gerychsflowers.com

HIGHLIGHTS: At Gerych’s we can turn your dream event in to a reality. From innovative floral design, unique custom rentals, and a team that executes it all. We have you covered. When you book with us you receive an in person showing in our wonderful in-house studio. PRICING: We work with any budget, big or small..

consultation

CONTACT: James Ralph, LUTCF, AAI, CAWC 248.559.9079 17515 W. Nine Mile, Suite 340 Southfield, MI 48075 jamesralphagency.com jralph@jamesralphagency.com

For over 30 years, James Ralph Agency has been committed to helping families prepare for the future. Whether it’s providing wedding day insurance for that special day or home, rental, automobile, life, or health insurance, we are committed to you.

The first step towards a secure tomorrow begins with planning for it today. Let us show you how.

The DirectHer

CONTACT: Lorri Lewis 248.793.5517 Serving all of Michigan. Willing to travel for destination weddings. www.thedirecther.com lorri@thedirecther.com

D’ior Mahogany Elegant Designs

diormahogany.com diormahoganyllc@yahoo.com

HIGHLIGHTS: D’ior Mahogany Elegant Designs offers unique patient pending floor stand lighting for those looking for the hand-designed home décor. Add a bit of glamour to any room with these one-of-a-kind lamps. Both the shades and bases can be designed to order using desired color schemes.

PRICING: Suggested retail price $299.

Mention Detroit Wedding Day to receive 15% off.

Classic Physique

CONTACT: Tony Reynolds 313.729.1940 Serving Metro Detroit Area Email: anthonykira@sbcglobal.net

HIGHLIGHTS: Getting fit can be in your near future. More importantly, it doesn’t have to involve countless hours at the gym or counting point each time you eat. Let Tony Reynolds show you how to reach your goals the smart way. He has been helping clients young and old achieve their fitness goals for over 30 years. As a certified life coach, nutritionist, personal trainer, and massage therapist, Tony can personalize a fitness plan just for you.

PRICING: Prices vary depending on service.

Mention Detroit Wedding Day and get 10% off services. *

Gerych’s

HIGHLIGHTS: At Gerych’s we can turn your dream event in to a reality. From innovative floral design, unique custom rentals, and a team that executes it all. We have you covered. When you book with us you receive an in person showing in our wonderful in-house studio. PRICING: We work with any budget, big or small..

Matrix Global Travel will work with you to personalize your ceremony and reception so everything is taken care of, and your special day goes exactly as you’ve always dreamed. Whether you decide to have your family and friends join in the festivities with an over-the-top lavish affair or whether you want to keep it small and intimate, Matrix Global Travel has the perfect solution.

Derek Cookson Photography

CONTACT: Derek Cookson 248.224.7423 Proudly serving both Michigan and Ontario! www.dcooksonphoto.com dcooksonphoto@gmail.com

HIGHLIGHTS: I approach my photography with the idea of capturing moments, telling your stories, making sure you look amazing, and that everyone has a LOT of fun!

PACKAGES: Weddings, engagements, family, events, commercial, and headshots.

PRICING: Packages start at $2,800 for all-day coverage, engagement session, and more—with customizations welcome! Portrait packages start at $350; $500 deposit required.

Mention Detroit Wedding Day for a free 16” x 20” canvas with your wedding package! *

Hunter Art Studio

CONTACT: Byron Hunter 313.643.8923

Serving Southeast Michigan hunterartstudio@gmail.com

Elegant Fantasy Events

CONTACT: Leslye Mathis 313-350-1249

Serving Michigan and Beyond Elegantfantasyevents.com fantasyplannersplus@gmail.com

HIGHLIGHTS: Elegant Fantasy Events presents their Sparkles of Love collection created with love for brides who like a little sparkle and bling added to their bouquets for their special day. Guests, family, and friends will surely be awestruck by the glamorous custom-designed brooch bouquets. It’s the perfect bridal accessory that adds grandeur to your elegant day. In addition to their bouquet design service, Elegant Fantasy Events also provides event planning services to help make your special event stress-free and memorable for you and your guests.

PRICES: Please contact Elegant Fantasy Events for more information. *

PRICING: $150 per hour for black & white drawings. $160 per hour for color drawings. 2-hour booking minimum per event. * Mention Detroit Wedding Day and receive $50 off of a 3rd hour booking.

HIGHLIGHTS: Liven up any event and hire the fun with the artistic creations from professional artist Byron Hunter, owner of Hunter Art Studio. Byron has been entertaining thousands with his unique caricature drawings for over 30 years. Whether the event is a wedding reception, family reunion, or birthday party, guests will be entertained and will have a keepsake to remember your special event.

Joel & Friends

CONTACT: Joel Jordan 313.808.9687 Serving Southeast Michigan joelandfriendsband@gmail.com

HIGHLIGHTS: Live music can set the mood for any event, especially a wedding. If you are looking for an instrumental jazz band to provide the perfect backdrop for any occasion, Joel has the perfect solution. As an accomplished producer, writer, and musician who plays drums, bass guitar, and keyboards, Joel’s diverse musical repertoire includes traditional jazz, smooth jazz, gospel, R&B, funk, reggae, and blues. Let Joel and friends spice up your event.

PRICES: Prices range from $600 - $1,000+

Celebrate LOVE (again)

by Lorri Lewis

!

We’ve learned a lot during this pandemic; a time that we shall (and hopefully) never see again, but one thing that didn't change was LOVE. Couples still found ways, and very creative ones, to celebrate their union, whether that meant living room ceremonies, micro-weddings, or rescheduled dates, LOVE still prevailed.

Not only did couples have to endure through the pandemic, but those who have careers in the wedding industry had to pivot and find new ways to stay relevant and stay in business. From virtual photo booths to outdoor, intimate bridal showers and weddings, to masked, indoor events, all wedding professionals had to shift, and in some cases, create new ways to serve their ideal clients. Many of these shifts have become standard services for the future.

With the pandemic coming to an end and Michigan restrictions being lifted, the following wedding “trends” that surfaced during the shutdown are here (hopefully) to stay for years to come:

Small Guest Lists:

Many clients realized that the 300+ individuals they wanted to invite either wasn’t coming or weren’t interested in attending during the pandemic much to the couple’s dismay; however, what they soon learned was how much more money they had leftover in their budget.

Live Streaming:

Although this became popular because of space limitations and social distancing mandates, isn’t this a great option for those who are unable to travel or attend? And consider your older family members who may be confined to assisted living facilities. Wouldn’t they love to be tuned in for the nuptials?

Decor Budgets:

Less guests = more money to allocate to other line items on the budget, i.e. decor and floral. Plus, you can be extra creative at your chosen venue to do some amazing, one-of-a-kind decor; just make sure you choose a licensed, reputable professional to bring your vision to life.

Outdoor Venues:

Yes, even with the unpredictability of Michigan weather, some ideal outdoor locations can be transformed to accommodate your dream wedding. Many locations gained some notoriety because no one had paid any attention to it, so I hope more of these will be utilized for the Big Day, and I’m sure those tent companies won’t mind the extra business either.

Buffet Dinners:

Yes, buffet dinners are cheaper but they’re also a laborious effort for your wedding guests. Again, because of Covid-19 restrictions, buffet set-ups were null and void, so let’s budget (remember, less guests = more money in the budget) for family-style or plated dinners.

Sanitary Measures:

It’s a shame to admit, but were we really washing and sanitizing our hands as much as we do now?

Sanitizing stations replaced candy tables to ensure guests were safe and everyone was being precautious. I hope this habit never ends!

Weekday Weddings:

Fridays and Saturdays aren’t the only days to get married. Couples got married on Mondays, Wednesdays, etc...which are generally less expensive than weekend weddings. When you plan enough in advance and let your family and friends know, they’ll be able to take off work so they can share in your nuptials, if that’s your concern. Consider a non-traditional wedding day of the week.

We can be thankful to the pandemic for some things that may be around for some time. We know love abounds all things and it’s exciting to know we’re going to be celebrating love again in ways we never anticipated. I’m ready for the celebrations, are you?

Lorri Lewis, the owner of The DirectHer, is a wedding expert for over 20 years, an author, and the host of the Before the Big Day Podcast.

Plan for the Unexpected

Even with careful planning, couples cannot anticipate everything that might go wrong when planning a wedding. For this reason, taking precautions to create an enjoyable wedding day experience can help avoid unexpected expenses. Here are some precautions to consider to bring peace of mind when planning a wedding.

Plans for Inclement Weather

Rihanna said it best in a line in her hit song Umbrella, "In anticipation for precipitation, stack chips for the rainy day." Having an alternate plan is most important if the festivities include being outside. Don't let a sudden rain burst damper the event. Plan for it!

Having an inclement weather plan can help gain some control over the uncontrollable. Discuss a backup plan with the wedding coordinator and venue managers in case of poor weather conditions. Also, make sure that someone has an umbrella available if needed.

Stand Guard

Many couples use gift boxes during their reception. It is customary for guests to deposit heart-warming congratulatory cards filled with valuable gifts into card boxes and gift tables. Don't be too relaxed and neglect to have a trusted designated

person keep an eye out for these gifted treasures. Although no one would ever expect guests with sticky-fingers, taking steps to assure that everything remains where it ought to be is not a bad idea.

In addition to having an assigned person be an overseer, having a point person to help direct guests and answer general questions helps keep things flowing. In many cases, this person may be the venue or wedding coordinator.

COVID Safety Protocols

These days, there is much discussion about COVID safety protocols. It is a good idea to ask the venue representative what safety guidelines the facility uses. With the rise of the new COVID variants in some local areas, discussing this is being proactive. For example, is the venue requesting guests to maintain social distancing? Are unvaccinated guests asked to mask up?

Asking these questions allow couples to make arrangements such as supplying face masks for attendees or informing guests in advance about mask usage recommendations.

Additionally, be prepared to have hand sanitation stations set up. It is not necessary to go

overboard by getting a floorstand hand sanitizer dispenser. Having a simple tray decorated with cleverly arranged bottles of hand sanitizer and napkins will do the trick.

Don't Bug Me!

Those pesky insects don't have to ruin an outdoor event. Try dispersing natural bug repellents to help drive away these uninvited guests. Add a few drops of aromatic oils such as lemon, peppermint oil, lavender, and of course, citronella oils and candles to discourage bugs. Also, distribute scatterings of eucalyptus sprigs, herbs such as rosemary, clove, and thyme, as well as clove spices as an incent repellent. If a more aggressive method is preferred, there is always the option of hiring an exterminator to spray the area days before the event.

Comfy and Cozy

Taking extra steps to help attendees feel more comfortable can help ward off complaints from guests. During warmer months, consider passing out hand-fans for guests to use. It's a way to help guests quickly cool down during those sudden hot flash moments. Additionally, these fans can be a keepsake if inscribed with your name, wedding date, and photographs.

For those outdoor weddings during the cool autumn months, keep guests warm by using outdoor heaters making sure to stay clear from overhanging tree branches or awnings.

In a similar vein, make sure to have warm and cold beverages readily available for guests. There is nothing worse than being thirsty while waiting for the wedding reception dinner to be served.

Communication is Key Sometimes, the simple things make all the difference. When planning a wedding, make sure to inform guests of the details. Of course, the event's details are provided in the invitation but also include other important information.

For example, if the wedding takes place on the golf course lawn and not in the ballroom, it would be nice to inform guests of this fact. Knowing this bit of information will permit guests to plan to wear shoes that can handle soft grounds surfaces without continuously having their stilettos sink

into the grass.

Take the guesswork out of the equation by having good signage at the event. Taking these small steps helps guests navigate around the venue. Good signage will most assuredly be appreciated if the wedding takes place in a larger facility.

Get It Insured

Sometimes the unimaginable happens. The venue unexpectedly closes without notice. The wedding dress is damaged beyond repair days before the wedding. The wedding ring slips out of the best man's pocket and falls into the street curb drain.

Although these may be a bit dramatic, sometimes the unimaginable happens, resulting in incurring unexpected expenses. One way to help lessen these losses is by investing in wedding insurance. Wedding insurance helps couples protect their investment from liabilities such as property damage, injuries, and more.

During a recent interview with

James Ralph of James Ralph Agency Inc., he shared that some wedding insurance carriers cover losses due to damages resulting from photographers, venues, jewelry, loss of deposits, and even destination wedding expenses. Spending a few minutes discussing individual needs with a licensed insurance agent can be a wise investment.

To hear the interview regarding this subject, visit https://detroitweddingday.com/have-no-fearwedding-insurance-is-here.

In the Know Keep the lines of communication open with wedding vendors. For instance, keeping the venue coordinator in the loop by notifying her that the DJ will need to access electrical outlets on both sides of the room to accommodate audio and uplighting is imperative.

As the old adage goes, an ounce of prevention (or precaution) is worth a pound of cure. Take steps today to ensure that your plans for tomorrow are not derailed.

Wedding Favors

Now that your wedding day is approaching and excitement is building, you might be thinking about what wedding favors to give to your guests. It is customary for couples to give wedding favors to thank guests for participating in the wedding day experience. It also can provide guests with a little something to remember the day.

As a result of the pandemic, many couples have scaled down their wedding by having fewer guests. Having fewer guests in attendance offers you the opportunity to splurge a little on wedding favors for your guests.

Over the past several years, couples in the Metro Detroit area spent in the range of $232 to $240 on wedding favor gifts. Obviously, due to reduced guest counts resulting from Covid-19, local couples only spent around $135 on wedding favors.

As things continue to get back to some sense of normalcy, many couples will inevitably increase their guest count and spend more, but for now, if you are looking for wedding favors that will impress your guests, here are a few ideas. Items displayed can be found on detroitweddingday.com/shop.

Items displayed may be part of an affiliate program that Detroit Wedding Day participates in and may earn revenue when qualifying purchases are made.

PERSONALIZED

MINT TINS

Oh, how sweet!

These personalized tins come pre-filled with peppermint candy. Custom logos and artwork can be added.

MINI GLOBE PARTY FAVOR

This unique wedding gift can be filled with your favorite treat. Just add a personalized tag and ribbon to make it stand out even more.

PERSONALIZED WEDDING SLEEVE

Your guests will think of your special day for many days ahead with this unique gift. Add custom artwork, a wedding logo, or a monogram to make it a one-of-a-kind gift.

PERSONALIZED WEDDING CORK COASTERS

Made from 100% all natural cork, these coasters can be decorated with your graphics and personalized message. It comes in various shapes and colors. A one-of-a-kind gift.

Smart Women HOW TO SHOP ONLINE LIKE A PRO

Over the past year, online shopping has become the norm for all kinds of purchases, from groceries and household essentials to gifts and even bridal ware.

Shopping for clothes and other items from the comfort of your home has multiple advantages, including the convenience to shop on your own schedule and the ability to do more thorough research to get the best prices be-

fore you buy. However, if you’re not used to doing it, shopping online for items you typically purchase at brick and mortar stores can be daunting.

To make your online shopping experiences more efficient and successful, consider these tips from Kellie Brown, fashion influencer and author of the “And I Get Dressed” blog.

Look Around for Good Deals

If you have your eye on a particular item, shop around on mul-

tiple sites for it. Prices can vary from one website to another, and you could be missing out on big savings by not doing your research. When you’re comparing items, be sure to pay attention to details. Verify model or style numbers, colors and other specifics to ensure you’re comparing apples to apples.

Ultimately, you may find the same item with a slight difference that you’re willing to accept for a better price.

Doing research online may also

help you locate discount codes that can help bring down the price if you buy from a specific online retailer.

Know Your Measurements

Clothing is one category that shoppers either love or hate to buy online. Brown sees one distinct advantage: skipping the fitting room.

“Shopping for clothes online can seem daunting, but one of the biggest perks is being able to avoid the dreaded dressing room experience,” Brown said.

Buying online lets you ditch the fitting room in favor of the comfort of your own home, where you can take time to consider your new garments in private.

Brown cautions that the first rule of shopping for clothes online is recognizing sizing isn’t always universal. If you know your measurements, you can compare those with the listed size chart.

Use the Right Credit Card Joining a store’s loyalty program can be advantageous if you are a frequent shopper at a specific brand or retailer. Also, it’s important to realize not all credit cards are the same, and some offer rewards for online shopping, including cash back.

“The most versatile option is a card that adapts with your spending, such as the Bank of America® Cash Rewards.

Double Check Return and Exchange Policies

Make sure you know the return policy of the retailer you’re shopping with to ensure your return or exchange will be accepted, if necessary.

Many stores won’t accept open packages or clothing with tags removed, so be sure you know the guidelines before tearing into your packages when they arrive.

You should also check whether you can return items to a local store, if there’s one available, or if you’ll have to ship a return, and find out who is responsible for return shipping costs.

It’s also important to be conscious of timing since most retailers have specific rules about how long you have to return an item. Some use the order date as the starting point while others use the delivery date.

Stay Safe Online Online shopping offers plenty of benefits but being cautious with your credit card information and banking information can help you avoid certain risks. Consider these tips from Better Money Habits, Bank of America’s free financial education platform.

Use Powerful Passwords: Avoid the temptation to set a password you can remember easily and instead use something a little more complex that would be hard for others to hack. Use a distinct password for each online account so you don’t make multiple accounts vulnerable if

your personal information does get stolen. Also change your passwords periodically for added security.

Look for the Lock: If you're shopping online, be sure the address begins with https. The “S” tells you the site is secure, and don't forget to look for the little lock icon in the browser before you enter any payment information.

Secure Your Networks: Whether using your home WiFi, a mobile device, or a public computer, you need to take steps to secure your info. Start by password protecting your home's network. When you log in to any financial account while away from home, don't do so on an open network. If you're using a shared computer, be sure to clear all your personal information when you log out.

Set up notifications: One easy way to keep an eye on your credit card information is to sign up for mobile or email alerts with your bank. This way, each time your card is used, you receive a notification.

Kellie Brown is a paid spokesperson for Bank of America. All opinions are her own.

Due to COVID19, the year 2020 took a toll on the wedding industry and couples alike. As a result of the pandemic, many couples postponed their wedding plans for future dates.

According to one national study, 20% of weddings scheduled for 2021 rescheduled the event for next year.

For those couples who forged ahead with their wedding plans, many of them ended up saving significant amounts of money on their wedding ceremony and reception due to having smaller guest counts.

Couples planning their wedding for the first time may have little knowledge of the expenses associated with wedding planning. Here are the current spending trends in the Detroit Metro Area for the year ending in 2020.

Becoming familiar with trending spending habits can help soonto-be couples make a plan and reduce wedding planning anxiety.

One way for couples to prepare themselves is to review the reported average wedding costs by recently married local couples. The Wedding Report, a research company that compiles wedding statistics, reports that 12,040 couples married in the Metro Detroit

area in 2020. This figure is down by 42% compared to the prior year. Of those who got married, these couples spent an average of $23,726 on wedding expenses with median expenses of $14,986.

Understandably, 2020 expenses were generally lower than usual. However, researchers anticipate a rebound in growth in both 2021 and 2022. The estimates report that by the end of 2021, nearly 18,350 couples will marry in Metro Detroit.

So, what should local couples expect to spend on their wedding? Here are the survey results from couples who married in Southeast Michigan in 2020. Listed are both the spending trend averages and medians.

Average and Median Amount Spent Per Wedding Within the County

• Lapeer: $22,647 average (median spend $14,244)

• Livingston: $25,291 average (median spend $16,210)

• Macomb: $23,369 (median spend $14,719)

• Oakland: $25,948 (median spend $16,586)

• St. Clair: $21,613 average (median spend $13,993)

• Washtenaw: $24,450 (median spend $15,517)

• Wayne: $18,635 (median spend $11,468)

Now that we have identified the general expense totals, let’s take a deeper dive to look at the average amounts spent by category.

Attire & Accessories:

A little bling, the perfect dress, and a suit help couples make a fashion statement of their own. Couples spent an average of $1192 on wedding dresses and $207 on tuxedos or suits.

On average, an additional $216 was spent on accessories for the wedding dress, followed by an extra $102 on accessories for the tuxedo or suit.

Beauty

& Spa:

When budgeting, don’t forget to factor in these expenses, including hair service, manicures, pedicures, and make-up. In 2020, couples spent an average of $174 on these services.

Entertainment: Make any wedding memorable by adding excitement and entertainment. When using DJs or MCs, the couple spent an average of $702 on this service.

Other couples who used live entertainment spent around $594 for musicians, soloists, or ensembles. For those who hired a live band, they shelled out an average of $1640 for this attraction.

Flower & Decorations:

A well-placed floral arrangement can transform a venue and ceremony location. Adding a beautiful bouquet and a stately boutonniere can change an outfit from attractive to gorgeous.

For couples who purchased bou-

quets, boutonnieres, corsages, venue floral decorations, flowers, and centerpieces, they reported spending a combined $1477 in 2020. This was $375 less than what was spent in 2019.

Gifts & Favors:

Many couples show appreciation by giving wedding favors and thank you gifts to guests, parents, and wedding party members. Couples spent approximately $571 on gifts for others. Also included in these expenses are the tips given to others for services rendered.

Stationery

& Mailings:

Item expenses such as invitations, ceremony programs, engagement announcements, reception menus, save-the-date cards, place cards, guest booklet, thank-you cards, and postage all come under the stationary category.

In 2020, couples spent an average of $649 on these expenses.

Jewelry:

Couples should budget for everything from the engagement ring and wedding bands to that stunning earring and necklace set.

In general, the couple who got married in Metro Detroit spent an average of $3396 on the engagement rings, followed by a combined $1230 on wedding rings/bands. Another $529 was spent on other jewelry accessory pieces.

Photography & Videography:

Setting aside money to hire a professional photographer and videographer to capture this milestone is money well spent. Items and services included in this category are digital photographs, photo CD/DVD, engagement photo sessions, prints, wedding photo album books, wedding photographer, and videographer. When all of the services were used collectively, couples spent on average $3,763 in 2020.

Couples who wanted the excite-

ment of having a photo booth at their event added on average $355 to the budget last year.

Wedding Planner and Consultant:

Wedding planners and consultants can help make sure that the couple's wedding turns out as expected.

Services provided by these professionals range from full-service wedding planners to a-lacarte. Couples paid services ranging an average of $689 to $2315.

On average, couples spent about 14% less on these services compared to past reported expenses.

Venue, Catering & Rentals:

One of the largest expenses for a wedding falls under this category. Of course, every wedding is unique. Each wedding expense will vary. Couples in the Metro Detroit area spent on average $10,029 on the venue, including food and bar service, venue

location, venue accessories, venue rentals, and dessert.

Additional expenses not included in this total are ceremony officiator fees, rehearsal dinner expenses, limo and other transportation rentals, and a hotel room for use after the reception. These add $1722 to the bottom line.

Spending Distribution Reports show that approximately 31% of Metro Detroit area couples spent $20,000 or more for their wedding.

Seasonality of Weddings and Length of Engagement

Based on current trends, Metro Detroit couples are on average engaged for 18.2 months. The trending top three months to get engaged are December 14.2%, February 9.4% and March 8.3%.

For assistance allocating funds into various categories, use the helpful guide below. Other resources are available on detroitweddingday.com.

WEDDING FUND ALLOCATION RECOMMENDATIONS

Reception ................................. 45%–50%

Gifts ....................................................2%-3%

Photographer/Video 10%-12%

Transportation 2%-3% Wedding Consultant 5%-15% Stationary 2%-3% Attire 8%-10% Ceremony 2%-3%

Flowers 7%-10% Entertainment 7%-10% Rings 2%-4% Miscellaneous .................................... 8%

Amount Spent on Wedding Percentage

$10,000 or less 35.5%

$10,000 - $20,000 33.5%

$20,001 - $30,000 17.9%

$30,001 or more 13.1%

Sources: 1 The Wedding Report (theweddingreport.com). Data reviewed estimates from 2020 and estimated projections .

Best

to

Metro Detroit is a great place to get married. With so many beautiful waterfronts, changing seasons, and cultural attractions, any time is a good time for a wedding.

So, when are most couples in the area getting married?

Research revealed a trend that approximately 86% of the weddings in Metro Detroit were between May through October. Here is a monthly breakdown of when the weddings occurred based on a recent survey. Additionally, a list of the area's average weather temperatures and projected sunset times have been included.

Using these resources can help with wedding planning as well as scheduling beautiful sunset photo sessions.

Although there is no way to know what future weather conditions will be, this information can hopefully help build a little more confidence.

Couples Married in Metro Detroit

January 2% February ........................... 3% March 4% April 5.1% May 10.1% June ............................ 15.2% July 12.1% August 15.2% September................... 14.1% October ....................... 11.1% November 4% December 4%

Source: The Wedding Report (2020)

pre-planning tool

Metro Detroit Projected Sunsets

(Based on beginning of month and middle of month)

1st of Month 15th of Month

Jan 5:10 PM 5:25 PM

Feb 5:47 PM 6:04 PM

Mar 6:22 PM 7:30 PM

Apr 7:58 PM 8:13 PM

May 8:31 PM 8:46 PM

Jun 9:02 PM 9:10 PM

Jul 9:12 PM 9:07 PM

Aug 8:51 PM 8:33 PM

Sep 8:06 PM 7:41 PM

Oct 7:13 PM 6:50 PM Nov 6:25 PM 5:10 PM Dec 5:00 PM 5:00 PM

Metro Detroit Temperatures (average high and low temperatures)

Wedding Checklist

SIX

TO TWELVE MONTHS IN ADVANCE

establish a vision; decide on style, size & formality

set your date

set your budget

compile your guest list; gather addresses

select your attendants

reserve your ceremony & reception sites

order your dress, veil, shoes & accessories

book your officiant

book your caterer

book florist, balloonist, or ice sculptures

go cake tasting - and order your cake!

book photographer & videographer

book entertainment for ceremony & reception

send your save-the-dates

FOUR TO SIX MONTHS IN ADVANCE

reserve rental equipment

arrange transportation for wedding day

order invitations & thank you notes … register for gifts

purchase wedding rings

purchase or reserve groom’s attire

select attendants’ attire

select favors, if necessary

reserve room for wedding night

reserve hotel rooms for out-of-town guests

select gifts for wedding party

sign up for dance lessons

write thank you notes as gifts arrive

plan & book honeymoon; obtain passports for all international travel

book hair, makeup and all other beauty appointments

help parents coordinate their attire with wedding party

TWO TO FOUR MONTHS IN ADVANCE

write your wedding vows, if you choose

discuss details of service with officiant

discuss details of the menu with caterer … work with ice sculptor on design and place order for ice sculpture … select readings for ceremony … schedule rehearsal time … book rehearsal dinner location … collect images of favorite hair & makeup looks for your stylists … schedule consultation to begin teeth whitening or cosmetic enhancements

ONE TO TWO MONTHS IN ADVANCE … mail your invitations … contact local newspapers about wedding announcements … prepare name change documents, if necessary … have programs printed … buy guest book … obtain marriage license … notify post office of change of address, if necessary … do your trial run for both hair & makeup … finalize moving details, if necessary

TWO WEEKS IN ADVANCE … notify caterer of guest count … begin seating plan … write place cards … have final dress fitting with accessories … address announcements … write toasts for rehearsal dinner and reception … designate someone to look after your home during your honeymoon

break in your wedding shoes outdoors … get your hair cut & colored, get facial & body treatments … remind fiancé to get hair cut! … arrange for gown, bouquet, and cake preservation

ONE WEEK IN ADVANCE

finalize seating arrangements

pick up dress!

confirm details & guest count with caterer

confirm honeymoon arrangements

pack for wedding night

pack for honeymoon

schedule all hair removal services & massage for 3 days before wedding

prepare envelops for final payments, tips, and donations

DAY BEFORE

give announcements to attendant for mailing after the wedding

confirm transportation arrangements for ceremony & reception

get manicure & pedicure

exfoliate your skin for smooth makeup application; wash hair for next day

finish packing for the honeymoon

gather all of the items needed for the wedding day

YOUR WEDDING DAY

eat a decent breakfast!

get hair styled & makeup applied; wear a buttondown shirt!

take it all in & enjoy yourselves!

AFTER THE WEDDING

write & mail thank you notes

AT A GLANCE

Date of Wedding:

Wedding Colors:

Wedding Theme or Style: Estimated Guest Count: Bridal Shower Date: Bachelorette Party Date:

Bridesmaids:

Groomsmen:

Junior Bridesmaid:

Junior Groomsmen:

Important Deadlines & Appointments:

Vendor Contact Info:

Ask!

General

Questions to ask the venue before you book your wedding.

• How long can the dated be held?

• What is the venue's cancellation policy?

• What are the room capacities, and are there any limit restrictions due to Covid?

• Is there a room rental fee?

• Are deposits required? If so, how much of a deposit and when is it do?

• Is your wedding exclusive, or might other events be occurring at the same time?

• Is there an assigned venue coordinator contact person?

• Can you use outside suppliers, or must you use the venue's preferred vendors?

• How much time is needed to switch the room from the ceremony to the reception? Or, is there a separate room that you can use?

• Is the venue available all days of the week?

• Is there flexibility in the time of day or evening that you can use the venue?

• What are the earliest or latest times you have access to the venue before the event?

• Is there a charge if additional hours are needed?

• How much time is provided for the rehearsal?

• Does the venue offer a weather contingency (backup) plan for outdoor activities?

Decorations and Rentals

• Are there decoration restrictions to be made aware of (i.e., hanging decorations from the walls or ceilings)?

• Does the venue offer any decorations (i.e., centerpieces, table numbers, etc.)? If so, is there a cost?

• Are flame candles allowed in the venue?

• Are linens, stemware, plates, chairs, and silverware, provided in the package price?

• Can the venue arrange for chair coverings if needed?

• What size and shape are the tables?

Facility Usage

• Does the venue have audio and video equipment, including microphones and WiFi, for you to use?

• Is the venue or room handicap accessible?

• Is there a secure location to store personal items and wedding gifts?

• Does the venue have outdoor space for you to use?

• Is there a coat check service available for guests?

• Does the venue have onsite accommodations such as bedrooms or dressing rooms for the wedding party to use?

• If no accommodations are available, does the venue partner with local hotels that offer a discount?

• Is there an additional room cleaning fee?

Entertainment

• Is there enough room at the venue to include a dance floor space?

• Are there restrictions on entertainment and attractions (i.e. noise restrictions, fireworks, etc.).

Payment and Insurance

• What are the insurance requirements, if applicable?

• Are there premium rates used for certain days of the week or times of year?

• What is the tax and service charge?

• Does the venue offer payment plans?

• What form of payment is accepted?

Logistics

• If a shuttle service is needed, can they assist with setting it up?

• How many restrooms are available?

• Are children allowed in the venue?

• Is there ample access to outlets for vendors to use?

Vendors and Staffing

• Does the venue offer valet service?

• Is there security on site?

• What is their gratuity policy?

Food & Beverage

• Does the venue offer menu tastings? If so, is it complimentary or at a cost?

• Does the venue offer unique dietary menu options (i.e., Kosher, Vegan, gluten-free, etc.)?

• Can you bring in a cake from outside of the business?

• Is there a cake-cutting fee?

• Is there a corkage charge?

• Is there an onsite kitchen for caterers to use, if applicable?

• Is there a food & beverage minimum?

• Can you bring your own wine, beer or champagne?

• Are they licensed to serve alcohol?

• Is there a bar minimum?

• Does the venue provide bar staff?

If so, is there an additional charge?

• Does the venue offer buffet, family-style, or individual plates?

CEREMONY + RECEPTION ceremony location fee $ officiant’s fee $ marriage license $ reception site fee $ cake $ food $ beverages $ transportation $ tips $

SUBTOTAL $

FLOWERS + DECORATIONS ceremony flowers $ bride’s bouquet $ bridesmaids’ bouquets $ flower girl accessories $ corsages $ boutonnieres $ centerpieces & decorations $ chair covers $ SUBTOTAL $

ATTIRE + JEWELRY wedding gown $ headpiece/veil $ bride’s shoes $ lingerie $ jewelry/accessories $ groom’s suit/tux $ groom’s shoes $ groom’s accessories $ wedding rings $

SUBTOTAL $

MUSIC ceremony music $ reception music $

SUBTOTAL $

PHOTOGRAPHY + VIDEO photographer’s fee $ engagement session $ wedding albums $ additional prints/canvases $ videography $ photo booth $ SUBTOTAL $ STATIONERY save-the-dates $ invitations & envelopes $ programs $ seating & place cards $ thank you notes $ postage $ announcements $ SUBTOTAL $

SALON/SPA trial run hair styling $ day-of-wedding hair styling $ hair removal $ tanning or spray tan $ make-up application $ manicure/pedicure $ SUBTOTAL $

GIFTS, FAVORS, ODDS & ENDS wedding party gifts $ parents’ gifts $ favors $ ring pillow $ guest book $ engraving $ SUBTOTAL $

GRAND TOTAL. $

Denise, adopted 17-year-old Amina

I asked what kind of family Amina wanted. She said, ‘A family like yours.’ That’s when I knew I had to adopt her.