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Shavuot Come to synagogue on Shavuot for the Reading of “The Ten Commandments” and reexperience The Giving of the Torah at Mt. Sinai 3,336 years ago!

Shavuot Services @ Chabad Wednesday, June 12, 9:30 a.m. followed by Deluxe Dairy Pizza Kiddush

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How many people on this planet today can say that they are celebrating their 3,336th wedding anniversary?

On Shavuot (June 12 - 13) millions of Jews all over the world will celebrate and toast their wedding with G-d on Mount Sinai.

On the day of the Giving of the Torah to the Jewish people, G-d Himself was the groom and the Jewish people were the eager, if slightly overwhelmed, bride. Amidst thunder and lightning, approximately three million Jews fresh from their liberation from Egypt stood under a very special Chupah canopy: The Midrash tells us that Mount Sinai itself lifted up and was our Chupah.

We heard G-d revealing Himself to an entire nation as He gave us the Torah.

The Torah was the Ketubah, the wedding contract. It served as the reciprocal agreement of devotion and love between “husband” and “wife” - each giving, each receiving.

Under the Chupah the bride accepts the wedding contract. The Jewish people’s response to G-d was “Naaseh Venishma - All that You ask we will do and we will (seek to) understand.” Our acceptance of the Torah was unconditional, enthusiastic. After all, it was the purpose for liberation from the slavery of Egypt. We were being chosen and wanted, the desired ones of G-d’s plan for a just world, a world of law, goodness and kindness that would be both spiritual and practical for us and for humankind.

Our Sages tell us that when we celebrate a Holiday, the singular atmosphere that surrounded the original events of the festival, with all its soul stirring aspects, becomes reawakened and actually “reoccurs” as we remember the event each year with the advent of the festival. As we prepare for our “wedding” on Shavuot it is also appropriate to reawaken within ourselves the unity, dedication, commitment and enthusiasm that our ancestors had at Mt. Sinai.

In other words, to fully appreciate the Shavuot Holiday we need some real preparation. In fact, any meaningful

The Chabad Times - Rochester NY - Sivan 5784 3 step in life such as marriage, child rearing, career, etc., - with the proper preparation - can be so much more rewarding. The same applies to our Holidays.

Let us take a look at what the Jewish people did to prepare for the Revelation at Mt. Sinai. When the Jews departed from Egypt, their level of spirituality left a lot to be desired. Our Sages tell us that whilst in Egypt many Jews had gotten involved with idolatry. They had fallen to the 49th level of impurity (there are 50 levels) and were literally shlepped out of Egypt in the nick of time. They did not even have 18 extra minutes to let the bread dough rise, such was their hurry in leaving the decadent Egyptian environment. At that point, the Jewish people were spiritually far from Sinai. Yet only seven weeks later they had transformed themselves into a nation worthy of the title, “a Kingdom of Priests and a Holy Nation.”

It is not easy to refine oneself and become a better person. It seems to be more reasonable for us to accept our character, nature and tendencies even with the flaws, because we are led to believe that real change is almost impossible. Yet in those seven weeks, our ancestors showed us that it is possible. Preparing for our “wedding” on Shavuot thus entails taking a look at ourselves and making an effort to make a real change for the better.

The Midrash relates that prior to giving the Torah, G-d demanded that the Jews provide guarantors for the Torah. The only guarantors acceptable to G-d were the Jewish children. With such a central role in the events of Shavuot, it is fitting that all children, even tiny infants, be present in synagogue when the Ten Commandments are read from the Torah on the morning of the first day of Shavuot, June 12. After all, they are the next link in the unbroken golden chain of tradition. May we all merit to see much Yiddishe Nachas from all of them! Amen! Wishing you a Happy & Inspiring Shavuot, Chabad Lubavitch of Rochester

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What Happened at Sinai?

Adapted from the works of the Rebbe

by Elisha Greenbaum

Echo! Echo!

Echoes are a naturally occurring phenomenon formed by sound waves bouncing off obstructions. Every sound has an echo as, sooner or later, the sound wave emanating from the noise-source meets an immovable barrier and is reflected.

The one exception to this hard and fast scientific principle was when G-d descended on Mt. Sinai to declaim the Ten Commandments to His awestruck creations. Every living being froze in anticipation and adoration as the awesome sounds of G-d resonated throughout the universe.

Resonated maybe, but there was no echo. The greatest sound and light event in history was a strictly onetime production with no residuals or encore. He came, He spoke, we heard.

When humans produce sound, the audio transmissions have physical characteristics: loudness, frequency and pitch. Upon being transformed

Get Down!

The Torah describes G-d as “descending” onto Mt. Sinai to proclaim the Ten Commandments.

The expression seems strange on two counts: Firstly, the fact that G-d is described as descending, surely G-d is neither above nor below. G-d is everything and everywhere. He is found in all places and all times equally.

Neither male nor female, neither up nor down, permeating and encompassing alike - He just is.

Of even more interest is the fact that G-d seems to instigate the connection; He came down to us without expecting us to come up the mountain to Him. I always understood that the purpose of Torah and mitzvot is to

into an electronic format they can be captured on magnetic tape or burnt onto a CD. Even if diced into fragments and transmitted through space via radio waves, they still consist of basic physical characteristics and must be unscrambled and re-presented in the original format in order for a human recipient to process them as intelligible information.

The most faithful Hi-Fi system in the world, however, will not process and accurately present all of the original communication. The natural obstructions ever present in every environment will distort, reflect and disguise some small part of the message. Unavoidably, some sound waves will be bounced back, rejected by the recipient as it were, and be lost to the listener as an echo.

When G-d speaks there is no echo.

When G-d communicates there is no need to transform it to another medium. G-d broadcasts to every one of us, on the frequency best adapted energize and elevate the Jews. After all, G-d started off perfect and hasn’t changed since; but we’re the ones who need to shape up. We’re the people who should be setting off on the great journey that starts on earth and ends at Sinai. Why should we expect G-d to come down to us?

Obviously this notion of G-d’s descent from on high is metaphorical and not literal. However the description is possibly also symbolic of the effort each of us is expected to make when reaching out to others who need us.

We all have information to share and skill sets that others would benefit from learning. It is tempting to assume that those who wish to learn will approach you first and request to be taught. It is too easy to sit at home

for us to integrate and utilize every last fraction of the message. Nothing can stand in its way, nothing bounces back and no part of it is rejected as unsuitable.

When a Jew learns Torah, G-d is speaking directly to him. By opening oneself up to the undifferentiated word of G-d, we accept G-dliness into ourselves. The Torah permeates our very being and transforms our bodies and lives into a sounding board broadcasting G-d’s infinite message. and wait for people to come looking for you. Yet the lesson of G-d coming down to the Jews is that we have no right to sit on our hands when those who need us are waiting.

Some people need Judaism, others need faith or love. There are hungry souls out there who need to be fed and jobs need to be found for the unemployed. Don’t be proud, be generous. People need you. You have gifts to share and knowledge to impart. Go out and teach. Reach out to others.

You may feel that you are going below your current station; it may feel like a physical or spiritual descent from your present position in life, yet the good and G-dly way is to lower yourself into the world and share your bounty with those who need you most.

Childish?

The Midrash tells us that when the Jews stood before Sinai to receive the Torah, G-d said to them: “I will not give you the Torah unless you provide worthy guarantors who will assure that you will observe its laws.”

After offering answers that G-d rejected the Jews declared, “our children will serve as our guarantors!”

“They truly are worthy guarantors,” G-d replied. “Because of them I will give the Torah.”

The white-bearded sages and the erudite rabbis weren’t sufficient to satisfy G-d’s “need” for a guarantor. Why? Who can better guarantee the transmission of the Law than the intellectuals, philosophers, and theologians who devote their lives to developing it and teaching its wisdom to myriads of disciples throughout the ages? Why did G-d prefer the Torah study of the child whose mind is constantly distracted, moving on to far more important subjects, such as which game to play during recess, the caliber of the snack which his mother

The Chabad Times - Rochester NY - Sivan 5784 5 packed in his lunch bag, or his plans We are commanded to study Torah, for summer vacation? and this involves closely examining every word of both the Written Yet, there is a unique quality excluand Oral Law. G-d doesn’t want us to sive to a child’s method of learning, a blindly accept His teachings, he wants quality which is appealing to G-d and us to use our intellectual skills to anis the most effective guarantee for the alyze, probe, and question. However, future of the Torah. we must never lose sight of the fact One cannot study without questionthat our minds are inherently limited, ing. “Why?” “What is the basis for whereas G-d’s wisdom is infinite. We your statement?” and “Why can’t it are obligated to question, but at the be done differently?” are rudimentary same time to unquestioningly accept and indispensable phrases for any seeach word of Torah to be the absolute rious student. However, the child and truth. Only this method of study enadult harbor very different intentions sures the eternal survival of the Towhen voicing these questions: the rah, guaranteeing that its teachings adult is doubting the very premise of won’t be forsaken because of doubts the idea/law/principle which is being which inevitably will arise (after all, taught, and if the answer is not to his that is the nature of intellect—it can liking, he might altogether reject the always be questioned and doubted). teaching. Conversely, the child has an Receiving Torah begins with actiacute curiosity, but he doesn’t doubt vating our inner child – the ability that which he is taught; he is aware to fully accept its truth. And then we that his wisdom and knowledge is can ask all the questions… limited and therefore accepts what his parent or teacher says. He asks questions because he wants to understand more, not because he is skeptical of the information he has heard.

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How Does My Mitzvah Help Israel?

by Tzvi Freeman

Dear Ask-the-Rabbi,

single being.

My rabbi visited my clinic today and asked me to wrap tefillin. He said it was for our brothers and sisters in Israel.

So I did.

On Friday my wife lit Shabbat candles - which she doesn’t always do. She said it was for our brothers and sisters in Israel. Somehow that made sense to her. And to me.

But now I started thinking. I’m an educated man, a doctor, and I try to make sense of things. But once I’m thinking, I don’t have an explanation. How does it work?

What’s the mechanism - the cause and effect? And why did it make sense before thinking?

Puzzled Jew Dear Puzzled Jew, Yes, a puzzle - that’s a good example. A jigsaw puzzle where all the pieces connect to make a single whole. Same thing with Jews and mitzvahs. All of our people and all of our mitzvahs fit together to make a single, integral whole. And every piece is needed.

But let me give you a better metaphor, something which you as a doctor can surely relate to. Think of the entire Jewish people as a single living organism, and then it all makes sense.

A living being, I’m sure you realize, is not like some clunky machine. For one thing, machines are made by putting parts together that originally had nothing to do with one another. Even once built, a machine is still a jumble of parts. But a living organism starts off as a single cell that then unfolds itself into an entire creature - and in such a way that even once fully developed and functioning, it remains a singularity.

In other words, unlike a machine, a living being is a

And in a single being, locality is secondary. What happens in one part of a living being immediately changes the entire organism. Which is how the Jewish people works as well.

Okay, here’s an example you’re probably familiar with: Caenorhabditis elegans. I’ll bet you studied little C. elegans back in medical school - because it is holds the distinction of being the most exhaustively studied and exposed creature in the world.

C. elegans is a one-millimeter-long, transparent roundworm with exactly 959 cells (we human organisms have about 75 trillion cells). Researchers hoped that by starting with this one simple paradigm, eventually all the processes and rules that govern life could be explained. And so, by 1980, the fate of each of those cells from egg to adult was already mapped out.

But those researchers never got what they bargained for.

In 2002, Sydney Brenner received a Nobel prize for all the time he spent with that little worm. Critics balked. They claimed Brenner hadn’t explained a thing - all he had done was to describe what goes on inside the little critter. And Brenner had to acknowledge they were right. “It’s not a neat, sequential process,” he explained. “It’s everything going on at the same time . . . there is hardly a shorter way of giving a rule for what goes on than just describing what there is.” (my emphasis)

The Chabad Times - Rochester NY - Sivan 5784 7 Locality is meaningless - it’s not a case of cause and effect. It doesn’t take time for the signal to travel, it needs no medium to carry it, and it doesn’t diminish over space or time. Our entire people spread over the entire globe, from Abraham until you and me - we are all one irreducible singularity. One Jew has done a mitzvah - the entire people is immediately enriched, and that enrichment is felt in every individual.

Call that an irreducible singularity. Something whose only description is itself. Which means that if one part were missing, it would not be what it is. And whenever one part changes, the entirety has instantly changed.

Take it further: If you somehow connect with another Jew who is struggling with some ethical challenge in life, find that same challenge within yourself, fix it up - and you’ll discover that this other Jew now has an easier time overcoming that struggle. That’s how deeply we are connected.

Something like a symphony: You can’t provide me a mathematical equation that will produce Beethoven’s Pastoral. The only description I can have is by listening to it.

And if one part is changed - a sweet note gone sour, or a thundering triad played softly - the experience of the entire symphony has changed.

That also answers your last question: Why did it make sense before thinking? Strange thing: I’ve also asked many Jews to wrap tefillin or light Shabbat candles or do some other mitzvah “for our brothers and sisters in Israel.” Every Jew I have asked immediately gets it. “Of course,” they say.

“It’s a mitzvah.”

Now apply that to the Jewish people. We are one - essentially and integrally one. We have one G d, one Torah, one story to tell and one destiny at which we will arrive.

Each one of us has his or her integral part to play. And so, whatever any one of us does immediately redefines the state of our entire people.

Because a Jew feels the effect of the mitzvah. And a Jew knows we are a people above time and space.

We are one. Everything else is commentary. Now go do another mitzvah for our brothers and sisters in Israel.

Why Was Jerusalem Chosen?

by Yehuda Shurpin The Torah foretells of a fixed location where the Jewish people would come to serve G-d in the Holy Temple: “But only to the place which the L-rd your G-d shall choose from all your tribes, to set His Name there; you shall inquire after His dwelling and come there. And there you shall bring your burnt offerings, and your sacrifices, and your tithes . . .” (Deuteronomy 12:5-6) But although we are told that G-d will choose a place, we aren’t yet told what city this is.

David and Solomon built the altar, the threshing floor of Aravnah, is the location where Abraham built the altar on which he prepared Isaac for sacrifice. Noah built an altar on that location when he left the ark. It was also [the place] of the altar on which Cain and Abel brought sacrifices.

Similarly, Adam, the first man, offered a sacrifice there and was created at that very spot, as our sages said: “Man was created from the place where he would find atonement.”

The Ambiguous City

Only later, after King David acquired the city of Jerusalem and built the first Holy Temple, do we learn that Jerusalem is the city that G-d chose for Himself. As the verses state, “. . . In Jerusalem, the city which I chose for Myself to place My name there,”

This raises the question: If Jerusalem and the Temple Mount were significant places long before King David, why doesn’t the verse in Deuteronomy name Jerusalem explicitly?

I Kings 11:36 and “. . . In Jerusalem, the city that the L rd had chosen to place His Name there out of all the tribes of Israel . . .” (I Kings 14:21; see also Psalms 132:13)

Note this strange fact. I do not doubt that the spot that Abraham chose in his prophetic spirit was known to Moses our Teacher, and to others: for Abraham commanded his children that on this place a house of worship should be built. Thus, the Targum says distinctly, “And Abraham worshipped and prayed there in that place, and said before G-d, ‘Here shall coming generations worship the L-rd.”

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Significance of Jerusalem

But Jerusalem’s significance predates King David. In fact, the Temple Mount has played a major role in history since the very creation of man. To quote Maimonides: According to accepted tradition, the place on which

Maimonides in his Guide for the Perplexed explains:

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Shavuot Holiday Guide 5784 - 2024 Be There With Your Children This year, on Wednesday, June 12, in synagogues across the world, the Jewish people will stand together once again to experience the Giving of the Torah with the reading of the Ten Commandments. Wherever you are, you are invited to take part - just as you did 3336 years ago.

Our Sages recount that when the Jewish people came to receive the Torah, G-d asked for guarantors. They offered every responsible party they could imagine, but G-d was not satisfied; until they declared, “Our children will be our guarantors!”

So make sure to bring along your guarantors - the children, right down to the newest sponsors - when you come to hear the reading of the Ten Command-ments at the Giving of the Torah on Shavuot.

The Holiday of Shavuot

Shavuot Calendar Times are for the Rochester area only Tuesday, June 11: Light the Yom Tov candles at 8:32 p.m. and recite blessings.

Tikun Lail Shavuot during the night.

Wednesday, June 12: Attend services in the morning to hear the reading of the Ten Commandments.

Light the Yom Tov candles from a pre-existing flame* after 9:45 p.m. and recite blessings.

Thursday, June 13: Yizkor is recited during services.

Shavuot ends at 9:45 p.m. *A pre-existing flame is a flame burning continuously since the onset of the Shabbat such as a pilot light, gas or candle flame.

BLESSINGS FOR CANDLE LIGHTING Boruch A-toh Ado-noi E-lo-hei-nu Me-lech Ho-olom A-sher Ki-de-sho-nu Be-mitz-vo-sov Ve-tzi-vo-nu Lehad-lik Ner Shel Yom Tov. Bo-ruch A-to Ado-noi E-lo-hei-nu Me-lech Ho-olom She-heh-che-yoh-nu Vi-ki-ye-mo-nu Ve-he-ge-o-nu Liz-man Ha-zeh.

Shavuot is the second of the three major Jewish festivals, (the others are Passover and Sukkot) commemorating the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai 3330 years ago. Shavuot marks the beginning of the Jewish people as a nation.

It is the time when G-d pronounced the Israelites as His “chosen people” and “a holy nation”.

The Torah was given seven weeks after the exodus from Egypt, and is considered the culmination of the “birth” of the Jewish people, which began at the exodus on Passover.

The word Shavuot means weeks, for it marks the completion of the seven weeks between Passover and Shavuot during which the Jewish people were extremely eager, counted the days and prepared themselves for the giving of the Torah. During this time they cleansed themselves of the scars of slavery and became ready to enter into an eternal covenant with G-d with the giving of the Torah.

Now, too, as commanded in the Torah, we count the 49 days between the first day of Passover and the festival of Shavuot.

Shavuot also means “oaths”. The name indicates the oaths which G-d and Israel exchanged on the day of the giving of the Torah to remain faithful to each other forever.

The Torah is the very essence of the Jewish people. It is our way of life and the secret of our freedom, our nationhood and our existence. Even before the redemption from Egyptian bondage, G-d told Moses that He would redeem the Jewish people in order that they would receive the Torah. For there can be no true sovereignty for a Jew without Torah.

At Mount Sinai, the entire Jewish nation, millions of men, women and children, witnessed the revelation of G-d as He spoke the words of the Ten Commandments. It is this event, the revelation of G-d Himself, without a mediator,

that established for all of the people, the truth and eternity of the Torah.

After the Giving of the Ten Commandments, Moses ascended to the peak of Mount Sinai, and stayed there for forty days and nights. During this time, G-d taught him the entire Torah, as well as the principles of its interpretation for all time. He also gave him the two precious stone tablets, in which He engraved the Ten Commandments.

Upon his descent, Moses taught the Torah to the Jewish people. The Torah was then taught and transmitted from generation to generation, until this very day.

What is the Torah?

The word “Torah” means instruction or guide.

The Torah is composed of two parts: the Written Law and the Oral Law. The written Torah contains the Five Books of Moses, the Prophets and the Writings. Together with the Written Torah, Moses was also given the Oral Law, which explains and clarifies the Written law, much like a constitution and its bylaws. It was transmitted orally from generation to generation and eventually transcribed in the Talmud and Midrash.

The Torah & Its Commandments The Torah relates how G-d created the universe, how the human race came into being from Adam and Eve, how our Fathers, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob fared, how the Jewish people became a nation, chosen by G-d to be ‘a kingdom of priests and a holy nation’ through receiving and observing the Torah. The Torah contains 613 commandments, of which 248 are positive (what to do) and 365 are negative (what not to do). Masorah (Tradition) In addition to the precepts, commandments and prohibitions written in the Torah, G-d taught Moses more laws, which he was to memorize and orally convey to his successors, who in turn were to uphold this tradition from generation to generation. Many laws and customs have thus been practiced by us traditionally, as if they were actually written in the Torah.

The Prophets Following the passing of Moses, as G-d promised, He revealed himself to individuals of great piety and spirituality. These are the prophets who recorded G-d’s instruction and messages. In all there are 19 books of the prophets. In all we had 48 prophets and 7 prophetesses whose prophecies were recorded for their everlasting importance.

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The Holy Writings

These include the books like Psalms, Song of Songs, Ruth and Esther, 11 in all. All of which were written by one or another of our prophets by divine inspiration (“Ruach Hakodesh”)

The Revealed & Hidden Parts of the Torah The Torah in its origin and essence is Gd’s infinite wisdom and will. And it is the infinite G-dly wisdom that is concentrated in the human logic and practical laws of the Torah addressing mundane worldly matters.

The Torah, as it deals with practical laws, is the revealed part of the Torah. The internal and mystical element of the Torah, focuses on the G-dly dimension of the Torah and mystical significance of the Mitzvos, which are the teachings of Kabbalah and Chassidut. They are, as referred to in Jewish tradition, the neshama (the soul) and essence of the Torah. Both the hidden and revealed are inseparable parts of the Torah, received from Sinai and transmitted from generation to generation throughout our history.

The Mitzvot There are 613 Divine commandments embracing every facet of our lives, both the duties to fellow man and the way to worship G-d. The positive commandments, numbering 248, equal the number of organs in the human body, implying that a person should serve the Creator with every part of his being.

The 365 negative commandments are equivalent to the number of blood vessels in the human body, indicating that when we guard ourselves from transgressing these prohibitions, as we might be tempted to do by desires inherent in the blood, each one of our blood vessels, remains “unblemished” and pure. The negative commandments also equal the number of the 365 days of the year.

The Significance of Mitzvot Mitzvah literally means commandment. However, it also means companionship (from the Aramaic tzavta - companionship). Upon fulfilling a commandment one becomes united with G-d, who ordained that precept. For, regardless of the nature of the commandment, the fulfillment of G-d’s desire, creates a relationship between the creator and the human who executed it. By fulfilling His wish a person accomplishes an infinite purpose and is in G-d’s “company”.

This is the interpretation of our sages’ statement (Avos

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4:2) “the reward of a mitzvah is the mitzvah”, indicating that the mitzvah itself is the greatest reward, for this sets us in a companionship with the eternal and infinite G-d. All other rewards are secondary in comparison to this great merit.

From Our Tradition - The Giving Of The Torah Kesser - A Crown The Ten Commandments consist of 620 letters, equaling the number of the 613 Mitzvos and the 7 Rabbinical Mitzvos (such as Chanukah, Purim, etc.). 620 is the numerical value of the Hebrew word “Kesser”- a crown. Each mitzvah is considered a part of G-d’s crown.

When fulfilling a mitzvah a person offers a crown to the Almighty.

The Lowest Mountain We all know that the Ten Commandments were given on Mount Sinai. Why Sinai? Say the Sages: Sinai is the lowest of all mountains, to show that humility is an essential prerequisite to receiving the Torah.

Why then on a mountain? Why not in a plain - or a valley? The Code of Jewish Law states at the very beginning: “Do not be embarrassed by mockery and ridicule.” For to receive the Torah you must be low; but to keep it, sometimes you must be a mountain.

Purpose Of The Torah The Midrash relates that when G-d was about to give the Torah the heavenly angels argued that He should offer it to them.

Upon G-d’s request Moses replied, “Have you been in Egypt? Do you have an evil inclination?

This implies that the Torah was given in order to elevate humanity as well as the world in general. Precisely for those who have an evil inclination and need to be refined, was the Torah given.

“Na’aseh V’Nishmah” Our sages relate that when G-d was about to give the Torah, He offered it first to all of the nations of the world.

After inquiring what was written in it, each of them found in the Torah something not agreeable to their system and way of life. When He offered the Torah to the Jewish people, without even asking what it contained, they immediately exclaimed, “We will do and listen.” This uncon-

ditional devotion and acceptance of G-d’s law, prompted G-d to give them the Torah.

A Triple Torah Everything connected with the giving of the Torah was of a triple nature: the Torah consists of Chumash (the five books), Prophets, and the Holy Writing (TaNaCH). It was given to Israel, comprised of Kohanim (priests), Levites and Israelites, through Moses, the third child in the family, after three days of preparation, in the third month (Sivan).

Three Knots The Zohar declares “three are interlocked together: Israel, the Torah, the Holy One, blessed be He.”

49 Days Of Counting Upon their leaving Egypt, when Moses related to the Jewish people that G-d will give them the Torah, the Jewish people were extremely eager and impatiently counted the days. Hence the Mitzvah of counting the 49 days between Pesach and Shavuot.

As One Person, With One Heart Our Sages relate, that when the Jews camped before Mount Sinai, they were “as one man, with one heart”.

Many of their other journeys were characterized by differences of opinion and even strife. However, when they prepared to receive the Torah, the Jews joined together with a feeling of unity and harmony. This oneness was a necessary prerequisite to the giving of the Torah.

Sight and Sound The Book of Exodus relates that when G-d gave us the Torah at Mount Sinai, “The people saw the voices.” “They saw what is ordinarily heard,” remark our sages, “and they heard what is ordinarily seen.”

As physical beings, we “see” physical reality. On the other hand, G-dliness and spirituality is only something that is “heard”—it can be discussed, perhaps even understood to some extent, but not experienced first hand.

But at the revelation at Sinai, we “saw what is ordinarily heard” – we experienced the Divine as an immediate, tangible reality. On the other hand, what is ordinarily “seen” – the material world – was something merely “heard”, to be accepted or rejected at will.

Shavuot Customs: Tikun Lail Shavuot On the first night of Shavuot, it is customary to stay up all night and study Torah. Our sages relate that on the night of Shavuot the Jewish people went to sleep, in preparation to receiving of the Torah. At day break, when G-d appeared to give the Torah they were sleeping. In contrast, we now prepare ourselves by studying Torah all night, ready to “receive the Torah” once more when G-d again offers us the Torah with renewed vigor.

Dairy Foods & Blintzes It is customary to eat dairy products on Shavuot. A number of reasons have been given for this custom. Among them: the Torah is compared to milk. Also on Shavuot, immediately after receiving the Torah, the Jewish people were required to eat kosher. The only foods available for immediate consumption were milk products.

The custom to eat cheese blintzes on Shavuot is based on a play of Hebrew words. The Hebrew word for cheese is Gevinah, reminding us of the “controversy” of the taller mountains, each claiming to be worthier than Sinai for the privilege of receiving the Torah. They were therefore called Gavnunim - “humps,” because of their conceit, while Sinai, small and humble, was chosen for its humility.

Ruth In many synagogues the book of Ruth is read on the second day of Shavuot.

There are several reasons for this custom: A) Shavuot is the birthday and yahrzeit (day of passing) of King David, and the book of Ruth records his ancestry. Boaz and Ruth were King David’s great grandparents. B) The scenes of harvesting, described in the book of Ruth, are appropriate to the Festival of Harvest. C) Ruth was a sincere convert who embraced Judaism with all her heart. On Shavuot all Jews were converts having unconditionally accepted the Torah and all of its precepts.

Fruits, Flowers & Greens It is customary on Shavuot to adorn the synagogue and home with fruits, greens and flowers. The reason: Fruits In the time of the Temple the first fruits of harvest were brought to the Temple beginning on Shavuot. Greens Our Sages taught that on Shavuot judgment is rendered regarding the trees of the field. Flowers - Our Sages taught that although Mount Sinai was situated in a desert, in honor of the Torah, the desert bloomed and sprouted flowers.

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Yizkor

On the second day of Shavuot the Yizkor memorial service is recited

Additional Names of Shavuot Shavuot is also called Atzeret, meaning The Completion, because together with Passover it forms the completion of a unit. We gained our freedom on Passover in order to receive the Torah on Shavuot.

Another name for Shavuot is Yon Habikurim or the Day of the First Fruits. In an expression of thanks to G-d, beginning on Shavuot, each farmer in the Land of Israel brought to the Temple the first wheat, barley, grapes, figs, pomegranates, olives and dates that grew in his field.

Finally, Shavuot is also called Chag HaKatzir, the Festival of the Harvest, because wheat, the last of the grains to be ready to be cut, was harvested at this time of the year.

On Shavuot two loaves of wheat bread from the new harvest were offered at the temple in Jerusalem.

Cheese Blintzes Batter:

Filling:

• 4 eggs

• 16 ounces cottage cheese

• 1 cup milk

• 2 egg yolks

• 1 cup flour • 1 Tbsp. sour cream • 1/4 cup sugar • 1 package vanilla sugar • pinch of salt

• 2 Tbsps. margarine or butter, melted • 2 Tbsps. sugar • 1/4 cup raisins (optional) • 1/3 cup oil for frying

Cheese blintzes are a special favorite on Shavuot when it is customary to eat a dairy meal. They are served hot, with sour cream or applesauce.

Batter: Combine eggs and milk. Add sour cream and blend well. Add flour gradually. Mix well until batter is smooth. Heat on a low flame a small amount of oil in an 8 inch frying pan, until hot but not smoking. Ladle a small amount of batter (approx. 1 ounce) into pan, tipping pan in all directions until batter covers the entire bottom of the pan. Fry one side until set and golden, (approx. 1 minute).

Slip pancake out of pan and repeat until all batter is used.

Add oil to pan as necessary.

Filling: In another bowl mix all ingredients for filling.

Fill each pancake on golden side with 3 Tbsps. of filling.

Fold in sides to center and roll until completely closed.

Replace rolled blintzes in pan and fry for 2 minutes, turning once.

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WHY WAS JERUSALEM CHOSEN? Continued from page 7 For three practical reasons, the name of the place is not distinctly stated in the Law, but indicated in the phrase “To the place which the L-rd will choose.” First, if the nations had learned that this place was to be the center of the highest religious truths, they would occupy it or fight about it most perseveringly.

Secondly, those who were then in possession of it might destroy and ruin the place with all their might. Thirdly, and chiefly, every one of the Twelve Tribes would desire to have this place in its borders and under its control; this would lead to divisions and discord, such as were caused by the desire for the priesthood. Therefore, it was commanded that the Temple should not be built before the election of a king who would order its construction, and thus remove the cause of discord.

Indeed, when it came time for King David to acquire the Temple Mount, not only did he insist on paying for it (despite the fact that it was offered to him by Aravnah the Jebusite for free), but he made sure to collect 50 shekels of silver from each one of the tribes (totaling 600 silver shekels). Thus, although technically in the territory of Benjamin (and Judah), all the tribes had a part in acquiring it.

The Legend of the Two Brothers

Although we have outlined the significance of Jerusalem, some point to a famous legend about two loving brothers as the ultimate reason why this spot was chosen

by G-d. The gist of the story is as follows: Two brothers had each inherited half of their father’s farm. One of the brothers was married and had a large family; the other brother was single. They lived on opposite sides of a hill. One night during harvest time, the single brother tossed about in bed. “How can I rest comfortably and take a full half of the yield, when my brother has so many more mouths to feed?” So he arose, gathered bushels of produce and quietly climbed the hill to bring

them over to his brother’s barn.

Meanwhile, his brother across the hill also could not sleep. “How can I enjoy my full share of the produce and not be concerned with my brother. He is alone in the world, without a wife or children; who will support him in his old age?” So he arose in the night and quietly brought over bushels of produce to his brother’s barn.

When the next morning dawned, each brother was surprised to find that what they had given away had been replenished. They continued these nocturnal treks for many nights. Each morning they were astounded to find that the bushels they had removed had been replenished.

Then one night it happened. The brothers met on the top of the hill during their evening adventure. And there, they embraced. G-d looked upon this expression of brotherhood and said, “On this spot of mutual love, I wish to dwell. Here My Holy Temple will be built.”

Although it is indeed a very moving and inspiring story, it does not seem to be found in the Talmud and Midrash and its original source remains unclear.

Why Jerusalem Was Chosen

Now, it was only in the times of Kings David and Solomon that Jerusalem was chosen in the sense that from then on it became forbidden to bring offerings anywhere else in the world.

However, in an in-depth discussion about the chosenness of Jerusalem, the Rebbe explains that the events recounted above were not the reason for its sanctity.

Rather, G-d chose the land of Israel in general and Jerusalem in particular as the place for the Divine Glory to rest - not due to any external reasons, but simply because He wished it to be so. Since it was a special place chosen

by G-d, it thus followed that our forefathers built an altar and brought offerings there. This sanctity is essential to the spot, and will remain intrinsically linked to His chosen people for all of eternity.

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Torah Is For Imperfect People

by Yehoshua B. Gordon On Shavuot we read one of the most special sections in the entire Torah, the Aseret Hadibrot, the Ten Commandments. Rabbi Saadia Gaon, the brilliant 10th-century Talmudic scholar, philosopher, and Jewish leader, teaches that all 613 mitzvot are encompassed within the Ten Commandments, and he traces each one back to its source.

Taking it a step further, the Zohar teaches that the very first word of the Ten Commandments, the “I” (Anochi) in “I am the L-rd your G-d Who brought you out of the land of Egypt,”1 encompasses the entire Torah.

What kind of word is Anochi? I’m a simple guy from New Jersey. I know that the Hebrew word for “I” is “Ani.” If I wrote the Ten Commandments, which I didn’t, I would have started with the word Ani. What language is Anochi? What is its origin? At first, I thought it was Spanish. But the surprising answer, found in the midrash Yalkut Shimoni, informs us that Anochi is an Egyptian word!

How is it possible for the word Anochi to be of Egyptian origin? How can it be that the word that encompasses the entire Torah, and the word that denotes G-d’s essence, is of the language spoken by the most morally bankrupt civilization at the time?

It’s Personal We are taught that every Jewish soul that has ever and will ever come into this world was present at the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai. G-d gathered every man, woman, and child of the Jewish faith and said, “I am the L-rd your G-d Who brought you out of the land of Egypt.” If G-d wanted to impress everyone, why didn’t He say, “I am the L-rd your G-d who created heaven and earth”? Isn’t that much more impressive?

While “G-d Who created heaven and earth” is indeed impressive, it has very little to do with each of us on a personal level. When I hear “G-d Who took the Jewish people out of Egypt,” that’s personal; that’s about me.

It is especially personal when considering the teaching of the Mishnah that, “In every generation a person is obligated to regard himself as if he had come out of Egypt.” The Hebrew word for Egypt – “Mitzrayim” – also means boundaries and limitations. We all have our own constraints, things that hold us back, box us in, chain us down. These limitations can be externally imposed or selfcreated.

But, G-d promises us: “I took you out of Egypt once; I can also take you out of your own Egypt.” We are connected to the One G-d - Anochi - and we can do anything we set our minds to; there’s nothing we cannot accomplish.

Dialogue in Heaven The Talmud recounts a fascinating dialogue between G-d, Moses, and the angels when Moses ascended Mount Sinai to heaven to receive the Torah.

The ministering angels protested to G-d, saying, “This beautiful, concealed thing [Torah] You desire to give to one of flesh and blood?! You are giving it to a human being?!”

G-d turned to Moses and said, “You answer them.”

Moses was terrified! “Are You kidding? They’re going to breathe on me and consume me with their fiery breath!”

G-d replied, “Don’t worry about it. Grab ahold of My throne of glory and it will protect you. But I want you to respond to the angels.”

And so Moses responded, “The Torah states, ‘I am the L-rd your G-d Who brought you out of the land of Egypt.’

Angels, did you ever live in Egypt? Were you slaves to Pharaoh? You were not. So, what do you need the Torah for?”

Moses continued, “The second commandment says, ‘Do not have any other gods before Me.’ Do you live amongst nations of the world who worship idols that you would learn from them?

“What else is written in the Torah?” continued Moses, “‘Remember the day of Shabbat to keep it holy.’ Do you work all week that you need to rest on Shabbat? Do you get tired? ‘Do not take G-d’s name in vain?’ Will you, angels, ever be asked to swear in court? Do you engage in business dealings? ‘Honor your father and mother.’ You have no father or mother! ‘Do not murder; do not commit adultery; do not steal.’ Do angels ever become jealous? Do angels have an evil inclination?

“The Torah is not for you,” concluded Moses.

With that, the angels conceded, praised Moses, and even presented him with gifts.

Clearly, not only is Torah also for imperfect people, it is primarily for those of us who struggle, who are tempted, and who may sometimes fall short.

Always With You! The Rebbe explained that in Moses’ first words to the angels he stressed the Anochi, the Egyptian word. “I - Anochi

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- am G-d Who took you out of the land of Egypt.”

G-d was telling the Jewish people, “I remember you in Egypt. I know what it is to be human. I know what it means to have temptations, to face trials and tribulations.

I know what it is to feel boxed in, limited. Anochi! I’m not using Lashon Hakodesh, the Hebrew tongue, where everything is rosy and holy and perfect. I am using an Egyptian word. I was with you in Egypt, and I am with you now! I created the evil inclination, and I created Torah as its antidote. This Torah I am giving you will arm you with the ability to transcend your limitations and overcome your personal difficulties.”

Eternally Relevant As we read the Ten Commandments, it’s crucial to internalize that they encompass the entire Torah, which serves as a blueprint for life.

One might question the relevance of Torah today, asking, “Why are you wasting your time with that?” In truth, however, Torah is the only thing that remains relevant, both today and always. Everything else is transient.

Imagine a doctor using 19th-century medicine or a judge applying outdated laws in a modern courtroom. A computer from a decade ago is considered a dinosaur. Science, technology, the “conventional wisdom” … everything evolves, but Torah remains unchanged; it is eternal.

And Torah is the best prescription for a happy life. When you come home from a Torah class and share what you learned with your spouse, friends, or children, everyone around you will be uplifted.

Everything In Perspective Is it always easy to adhere to the Torah? Certainly not.

Take the 10th commandment, which states, “Do not covet.”

What should you not covet? “Your neighbor’s house, wife, servant, ox, donkey, and everything your neighbor has.”

How can we truly observe this commandment? What if my neighbor has a nice car? What if he has a Maserati?! I wish I had a Maserati!

Here’s something I heard many years ago and have shared often: The final words of the Ten Commandments are “[Do not covet…] everything your neighbor has.”

Having enumerated house, spouse, servants, and animals, what does the Torah add by saying, “and everything your neighbor has?” What else is left?

The answer lies in a beautiful teaching, a lesson we would all do well to bear in mind.

People constantly feel pressured to “keep up with the Joneses” (or the Schwartzes, or the Cohens). We tend to think that the other guy has it all and the grass is greener on the other side.

But before bemoaning the fact that you don’t have what your neighbor has, it’s important to understand that you don’t know the whole story. You know the car and the house, but you don’t know the troubles. You have no idea what goes on behind closed doors - one’s relationship with their spouse, one’s relationship with their children, the audit or the investigation one is dealing with. You have no idea of the “tzuris” - the troubles - your neighbor may be experiencing, G-d forbid.

So before you say, “Why can’t I be like the other guy?” think about something my mother, Rebbetzin Miriam Gordon, of blessed memory, would always say, echoing what Jewish mothers and grandmothers have been saying for generations: “Everyone thinks the neighbors have it made, but if every family’s ‘package’ was hung out in public and G-d ordered that we each pick one, we would all run to pick our own. After seeing what the neighbor has to deal with, we change our minds! I don’t need his fancy car and his troubles.”

The truth is we’d rather not have “everything our neighbor has.”

With that in mind, we can return to the first words of the Ten Commandments, Anochi, the knowledge that G-d gave the Ten Commandments to human beings fresh out of Egypt. Each day, we must tap into our Divine connection to transcend our limitations and achieve freedom from our personal exile. Empowered by the eternal Torah, may we continually ascend higher in our partnership with G-d, utilizing our talents to make His world a better place. May we truly merit to see a world of perfection, with the coming of our righteous Moshiach, may it happen speedily in our days! Amen.

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The Chabad Times - Rochester NY - Sivan 5784 15 According to the sages, she was not just pledging her loyalty to the woman she loved and admired, but also accepting upon herself to keep the Torah, even the most difficult parts. This provided a template for Jewish courts to follow in the future, making sure that prospective converts are well aware of the challenges of Jewish observance.

5. She Cared For Her Mother-in-Law

10 Facts About Ruth Ancestor of King David

by Menachem Posner 1. Ruth Is The Quintessential Convert To Judaism Many female converts to Judaism choose the name Ruth, and for good reason! Ruth, whose story is told in the Book of Ruth, is celebrated as a sincere convert who embraced Judaism with all her heart, voluntarily leaving behind the comforts of her idolatrous background to follow the Torah and the G-d of Israel.

2. She Was A Moabite Princess Although not specified in scripture, tradition tells us that Ruth was a descendant of Eglon, king of Moab. She and her sister Orpah married the two sons of Elimelech, a wealthy Jewish man who had relocated from Bethlehem to Moab due to the famine that was ravaging the Holy Land.

In time, Elimelech died, and his sons died as well, leaving two young widows.

3. She Followed Her Mother-in-Law, Naomi Ruth and Orpah were very attached to Naomi, whose name means “sweet.” Upon hearing that the famine had subsided, Naomi decided to return to her people. Originally both daughters-in-law accompanied Naomi, but she entreated them to remain with their people, where they would be comfortable and cared for. Orpah turned back, but Ruth insisted on following.

4. She Was Determined To Join Naomi’s People At the end of a tearful conversation, Ruth famously told Naomi: Wherever you go, I will go And wherever you lodge, I will lodge Your people shall be my people And your G-d my G-d.

Where you die, I will die And there I will be buried.

Wishing to support her mother-in-law, Ruth went out to the fields to gather isolated stalks and forgotten sheaves of grain that the harvesters were obligated to leave behind

by Torah law.

6. Her Modesty Impressed Boaz Boaz, leader of the Jewish nation and a relative of Naomi, noticed how Ruth would sit down before picking grain, so as not to expose herself, and that she never would take bunches of three stalks, which by right belonged to the owner of the field (him) and not the poor (her). Impressed, he inquired about her and was told that she was the former daughter-in-law of Naomi.

Boaz generously invited Ruth to pick grain in his field and to eat and drink along with his staff (who were instructed to be sure to leave grain for her to “discover”), which she continued to do until the harvest had finished.

7. There Were Issues Preventing Their Marriage When it came time to winnow the grain, Naomi instructed Ruth to surprise Boaz while he slept in the field, dressed in her finest and freshly bathed. When he awoke, she told him who she was and asked him to marry her and also buy a field that belonged to Naomi’s family. As a cousin of her late husband, it was his duty to both marry Ruth and “redeem” the properties.

Boaz readily agreed but told Ruth that there was another, closer relative, who would take first priority. Only after the other refused, could Boaz do so himself.

8. She Was The Ancestor Of King David Ruth and Boaz married and were blessed with a son, Oved, whose doting grandmother, Naomi, was very involved in raising him. Oved was the father of Yishai and grandfather of the great King David.

9. Her Legacy Continues The Book of Ruth could have just as easily been called the Book of Boaz. After all, he was the leader of the Jewish people at the time and a direct descendant of the royal clan of Judah. Yet it is known as the Book of Ruth. The Rebbe points out that this underlines the central place of the Jewish woman, who sets the tone for future generations and paves the way for the future Redemption, which will come about through a descendant of Ruth.

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Soul Sibling

by Rochel Holzkenner I was feeling great before she walked into the room. She came in, our eyes met, and my joie de vivre started to deflate. She’d never harmed me; in fact, we had a cordial relationship. But she had something that I didn’t have.

Compared to her, I felt diminished.

Competition - wouldn’t it be nice to outgrow it! In kindergarten, it’s understandable; in high school, inevitable; but as an adult, it’s so . . . passé. I wish we could leave it behind with our senior sweatshirts and loose-leaf folders.

Yet it lingers into adulthood. The people we tend to like are those who validate our lifestyles and tickle our egos. Other people, we’d rather not be around. Not because they’ve done anything wrong, not at all. It’s just that we have very little in common - or, even worse, we feel threatened by their presence.

G-d says in the Torah, “Love your fellow as [you love] yourself.” That can’t mean everyone, can it? If we appreciate our fellow, we can probably love him. But if we don’t appreciate him, what’s to love? Didn’t G-d set the benchmark a bit too high with this commandment?

G-d can expect us to be nice to everyone. That’s an attainable goal. Indeed, many commentaries concede that this commandment is written euphemistically, and a more realistic interpretation of this verse would be, “Act in a loving way toward your fellow.” But if that’s what G-d meant to say, then why not say that to begin with? There are many other mitzvahs that require us to treat people with respect, regardless of our personal relationship with them. But this mitzvah doesn’t tell us what to do - it tells us how to feel. Can you tell someone to feel love?

10 FACTS ABOUT RUTH Continued from previous page

10. We Read Her Story On Shavuot On Shavuot, the story of Ruth is read from the Book of Ruth. Some read it as part of Tikun Leil Shavuot, the all-night learning session on the 1st night of the holiday, while others read it as part of Morning Services on the second day. Why on Shavuot?

1.

Shavuot is the birthday and yahrzeit (anniversary of passing) of King David, Ruth’s great-grandson.

2.

The scenes of harvesting in the book of Ruth are appropriate for Shavuot, which is the Festival of Harvest.

3.

Ruth was a sincere convert who embraced Judaism with all her heart. On Shavuot, all Jews were converts - having accepted the Torah and all of its precepts.

The last part makes it even more challenging: “Love your fellow as yourself.” A more moderate love should suffice.

But to love others like we love ourselves? To look out for their best interests like we look out for our own? That type of affection could be reserved for a sister or best friend, but not for everyone.

Maybe this mitzvah is speaking to someone more spiritually attuned than your average Jew. For the rest of us, perhaps we should focus on the other 612 mitzvahs first.

The problem is that this is apparently a really important one. Here is a case in point: One of the greatest sages of all times, Hillel the Elder, was challenged by a potential convert who said, “Teach me the entire Torah on one foot.” (In other words, “What’s the abridged version of the Torah?”)

Hillel responded unequivocally that the mitzvah to love one’s fellow is essentially the entire Torah, and everything else is commentary to that mitzvah. But how is Shabbat a commentary to love? How is eating kosher predicated on love? What if you’re meticulous about the laws of Passover, but there are a lot of Jews you just don’t like?

The Baal Shem Tov cherished the mitzvah of ahavat Yisroel, love for one’s fellow Jews. In fact, he taught his students that appreciating other people is an objective indicator of how well one has internalized chassidic teachings.

The Baal Shem Tov cultivated a following of spiritually vibrant people. They meditated, prayed, and sang soulful melodies. They viewed materialism as a means to an end, and spirituality as the central focus. And love was their litmus test of spiritual growth. Without authentic appre-

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The Chabad Times - Rochester NY - Sivan 5784 17 this mitzvah. So, anytime we don’t feel our commonality, or we feel threatened by another’s success, we’re in good company. At its root, competition is an objective indicator that we don’t love ourselves deeply enough. Yes, I value my individuality, but that’s something that I can’t share with you. Not only that, my unique gifts and assets are threatened by yours. When we appreciate others naturally as common members of the Jewish tribe, we’ve proven that we value our soul more than our individuality.

The first Chabad rebbe, Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, expounded upon many of the Baal Shem Tov’s philosophical tenets in his groundbreaking work, the Tanya. In the thirty-second chapter, he discusses Hillel’s reasoning for placing love at the center of our religious paradigm. And it’s not by coincidence that this topic is discussed in Chapter 32. The number 32 corresponds to the Hebrew letters lamed and bet, which together spell the word lev, “heart” - and loving others is at the heart of Chassidism. Without I once asked a friend how she and her siblings got along the heart, all of the intellectual theories are just theories. so well. She shared the following story: “I remember as a You can stand on your soapbox and teen going shopping with my mother preach Kabbalah all day long, but if and my sister. My sister was trying you still get irritated by other people, on a dress, and we both watched her It all begins with self-love, then you’re not quite there yet. reflection as she moved before the authentic self-love giant mirror. When she slipped back But how do we it? How do we apinto her fitting room, I said to my an appreciation for preciate people that we don’t appremother, ‘She is so beautiful and thin!’ ciate? Rabbi Schneur Zalman not the breath of G-d inside us.

My mother responded with a smile, only advocates the importance of this ‘Aren’t you pleased for her?’” mitzvah, but guides us through it.

It all begins with self-love, authentic self-love - an appreciation for the breath of G-d inside us. This doesn’t mean loving any particular attribute or talent. That self-love is dangerously tenuous. Today, we’re stars; tomorrow . . . not so much. A truer self-value comes from the knowledge that G-d created us and invested a G-dly soul inside of us. We’re valuable because G-d gave us a mission.

Like this Jewish mother, G-d delights in seeing His children getting along and enjoying each other’s success. The Tanya explains that when we get along, G-d is so pleased that he overlooks our personal imperfections. Unity creates a powerful magnetism that instinctively attracts G-d’s blessing.

And that’s really the goal of all of Jewish practice. To empower the soul and to give it precedence. Whenever we do a mitzvah, especially if it’s an inconvenient one, we’ve proven that our priority is the wellbeing of the soul.

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And which mitzvah most highlights the centrality of the soul? Loving a fellow Jew - for no other reason aside from the fact that he is a Jew. As individuals, we may have little in common. Maybe she’s not your type, or he’s in another social group. But as Jews, we feel a commonality that transcends our differences. The appreciation that we feel toward another is an objective indicator of how far our spiritual development has taken us.

That’s not to say that we become blind to people’s flaws.

We notice them, but they don’t alienate us - just like family members who disagree, but at the end of the day they’re still family. When someone else criticizes our family we take personal offense. And when our siblings are successful, we celebrate with them rather than become envious of them.

Rabbi Schneur Zalman explains that our souls are like siblings. We share a soul root, a father - G-d. We have so much in common with each other. Your success is my success, too, because we’re part of the same family.

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Fixated On Chicken Wraps

our minds! We weren’t late at all. Rather, our timing turned out to be perfect; we were absolutely meant to travel a day earlier, an hour later, and approach the exit where we could help a fellow Jew! We found the woman, and I was able to drive her to the closest city with a proper hospital, where she could get appropriate care and evaluation. I stayed with her for a few hours until her family arrived from Cleveland.

by Esther Vilenkin In the summer of 2022, one of our sons was going to an overnight camp in Canada via New York City. We had plans to drive him there - about an 8-hour trip from Chautauqua, NY, where my husband and I direct the local Chabad center - but had to reschedule when we received an update that luggage drop-off necessitated that we arrive a day earlier.

As her family pulled into the hospital parking lot, my husband greeted them and asked them if they had something to eat. Hospital waits are unpredictable, and there would be a return trip for them ahead with little chance of finding kosher food. The family was in such a rush to get to the hospital that food wasn’t a priority. They figured they would just make do with whatever kosher items they could buy at a local gas station or grocery.

My husband went back to our car to get them food, and, of course, beaming with pleasure, gave them the chicken wraps. To me, those wraps had G-d’s fingerprints! The Since we had a pre-existing obligation until 2 p.m. on chicken wraps didn’t just affect our timing, so that we the afternoon of our departure, our would be just seven minutes away goal was to be all packed and ready to leave immediately afterward. My I was incredulous as I watched from the site of the crash, but also provided nourishment and comfort. husband arrived home and when he noticed that we had a lot of leftover chicken, he suggested that we make chicken wraps for everyone to eat on the way.

my husband carefully making and proudly putting each chicken wrap neatly in a plastic container. He did a great job, but now we were almost an hour behind schedule.

After a quick poll, I saw there was no interest; everyone was already set with their favored packed food. (I also noted that one of my sons was remaining at home and would figure out what to do with the chicken.) Still, for some inexplicable reason, my husband, the one who was most concerned that we leave right away, decided that he really wanted to make those chicken wraps and was certain that later the children would appreciate them. I was incredulous as I watched him carefully making and proudly putting each one neatly in a plastic container.

He did a great job, but now we were almost an hour behind schedule.

As we got into the car, my husband asked if I could drive as he felt exhausted. After driving an hour or so, his phone rang. Someone we didn’t know was calling us and asking how far we were from Cuba, N.Y. The caller said he had searched to find the nearest Chabad and Chautauqua popped up.

My husband quickly tried searching for Cuba, a small town we had never heard of before. The caller had a sister who had just been in a car accident on the highway near Cuba, and he was looking for someone to help her.

To our amazement, Cuba was on our way; in fact, it was the very next exit - seven minutes away! This just blew

A few days later, we were back in Chautauqua hosting a Friday-night Shabbat meal for a large group. The Torah portion of the week was MatotMassei, recounting the journeys the Jews made in the desert during their 40 years of wandering before entering the Land of Israel. With a Torah message about journeys and the purpose of each encampment, we thought our story of Divine Providence was a perfect example and excitedly shared our experience.

The next morning, a woman came over to me, visibly moved and full of gratitude that my husband shared our story at the Shabbat meal because it meant so much to her family, especially her daughter. It so happened that the previous Sunday, she and her husband were driving to visit their nine-year-old daughter at camp on visiting day.

It was the girl’s first experience at an overnight camp.

Unfortunately, the parents had a flat tire that delayed them for three or four hours. Their daughter watched and waited as her bunkmates went off with their parents. They had promised her that they would visit, but hours passed and they weren’t showing up. By the time they arrived, she was very emotional, upset and hurt. Even when camp ended and she was back home, it remained a sore subject that lingered in the air.

After having heard the story told by my husband at the Shabbat meal the night before, the girl told her mother, “Now I know why you came late on visiting day!” She

went on to explain to her mother that her parents’ delay was part of G-d’s plan for her to help another person.

“You see, there was another girl in my bunk whose parents couldn’t come. While you were fixing your tire, it was just the two of us, but we had each other to play with. G-d wanted my friend not to be alone and the only one without parents or visitors the whole day. For all those hours of waiting, we played together.”

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These were the events and details I felt so privileged to witness and be a part of. It seems like an “ordinary story” (no splitting of the sea or amazing phenomena), yet upon scrutiny, Divine Supervision is so evident - every piece masterfully orchestrated with precision.

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when all those who’ve been missing or unable to observe the festival the first time around get a makeup opportunity.

Pesach Sheni has become a sort of holiday celebrating life’s second chance. In the words of the sixth Lubavitcher Rebbe, and elaborated on many times by the Rebbe, Es iz nitoh kein farfalen - it’s never too late. You can always make good on the mistakes of the past. G d is always willing and waiting for us to express sincere regret and be welcomed back into the fold.

But is that really true? Can every mistake really be rectified? I don’t think so. You cannot turn back time and Humpty Dumpty couldn’t be put back together again. Some mistakes are permanent; not every stain comes out in the wash and not every broken relationship can be repaired.

Why should I believe that I can always repair the past when the evidence of my own eyes proves the opposite?

Life’s Rewind Button

Is Everything Fixable?

In honor of Pesach Sheni 14 Iyar - May 22

by Elisha Greenbaum You missed the flight. You forgot to file before the deadline. You mislaid her number. You downloaded a virus.

You thought your anniversary was next week. You left your keys in the car. You forgot to hang up before announcing what you really think about him. You blew it!

Someone else got the job. The earlier bird got your worm.

She said “Yes” to the other guy. Your childhood photos are plastered all over cyberspace. Your credit rating is a mess.

You snoozed, you lost.

Not every error is recoverable, some mistakes are forever. It’s an unfortunate consequence of existence, that every blunder, blown chance and missed opportunity is recorded in life’s ledger with indelible ink. You can try to forget, you can lie and deny, but you’re the one who messed up and you’ll forever wear the consequences.

Obviously the explanation of es iz nitoh kein farfalen must be more sophisticated than just the specious claim that “everything can be fixed.” Not everything can be fixed, but everything can be amended. That first Pesach is gone forever, dead and buried in the mists of time, but your new time to shine is now. It’s a new month and a new you. You may not be able to recover the past, but your future actions can leave you sitting pretty; perhaps even better off than you would have been had you never gone astray in the first place.

The pain you caused in your relationships was real, but, by your committing to start again and do everything you possibly can to change, you have the opportunity to build a whole new relationship, founded on bedrock of shared commitment and new growth.

G-d never promised that we won’t fall off, but he will help us climb back on again. The past is my signpost to the future and the lessons I’ve learned from my earlier stumbles will protect me as I search for my new path through life. All it takes is resolution, courage and a lot of really hard work.

We all make mistakes and we all have regrets. The challenge is not to dwell on the sins of the past but seek a way forward for the future. It is never too late to start again.

There is always a chance to redeem oneself. By starting over and committing to improve, we encounter a whole new world of opportunity and will be welcomed and comforted by G-d on our journey to the future.

Welcome Back There was a group of Jews approached Moses with a problem. They’d been ritually impure on Pesach and had missed out on offering the Paschal sacrifice; was there anything Moses could suggest?

G-d told Moses to give them a second chance. One month to the day after Pesach we celebrate Pesach Sheni

Editor’s Note: Although by the time you are reading this article the Holiday of Pesach Sheni has already occurred it is never too late to learn about a Holiday that has “it’s never too late” as its theme!

The Man Who Turned Judaism Outward

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by Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks In honor of the Rebbe’s 30th Yahrzeit on 3 Tammuz (July 9) we present the following article written by the late Rabbi Sacks shortly after the Rebbe’s passing June, 1994 A great leader has died and the Jewish world has become a smaller place. History will chart the achievements of the seventh Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson. My own tribute is simple. This was a man who changed the religious landscape of Jewish life.

We first met in 1968. I was an undergraduate, visiting American Jewry to seek out its intellectual leaders. They were impressive. But my encounter with the Rebbe was unique. In every other case, I asked questions and received answers. The Lubavitcher Rebbe alone turned the interview around and began asking me questions. What was I doing for Jewish life at the University of Cambridge? What was I doing to promote Jewish identity among my fellow students?

The challenge was personal and unmistakable. I then realized that what was remarkable about the Rebbe was the exact opposite of what was usually attributed to him. This was not a man who was interested in creating followers.

Instead, this was a man who was passionate about creating leaders.

He himself was a leader on a heroic scale. Chosen to succeed his late father-in-law, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Schneersohn, as head of Lubavitch in 1950, he set about reconstructing the movement in the inhospitable climate of secular America. At that time it was widely believed that Orthodoxy had no future in the United States. No one had yet found a way to make traditional Judaism a living presence in an America called the treifa medina.

Like all classic rabbinic leaders, the Rebbe began with education, creating a network of schools and yeshivot.

Then he took the decision that was to change the face of Lubavitch and ultimately the Jewish world. He sent his followers out to places and communities which had never known a Chassidic presence. He began with university campuses. Already, in the early 1950’s, Lubavitchers could be found working with Jewish students, telling Chassidic stories, singing songs and introducing them to the hitherto remote world of Jewish mysticism.

It was an extraordinary move, nothing less than the reinvention of the early days of the Chassidic movement when, in the 18th century, followers of the Baal Shem Tov

had traveled from village to village taking with them the message of piety and faith.

Chassidism had proved to be the most effective ways of protecting Judaism against the inroads of secularization.

But it was limited in its impact to Eastern Europe. Nothing was less likely than that a strategy from the old world could succeed in the new. But it did. Drawn by its warmth, intrigued by its depth, hitherto assimilated Jews were attracted to Lubavitch and, on meeting the Rebbe, became his disciples.

The second decision was even more remarkable. Though the faith that drove the Rebbe was traditional, the environment to which it was addressed was not. Earlier and more profoundly than any other Jewish leader, he realized that modern communications were transforming the world into a global village.

Religious leadership could now be exercised on a scale impossible before. The Rebbe began sending emissaries throughout the Jewish world, most notably and covertly in Russia. The movement was unified through his regular addresses, communicated through a series of mitzvah campaigns. Few international organizations can have been more tightly led by a single individual on the most slender resources.

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Being there for the Jewish College Students on Campus

by Baila Brackman I want to share with you a snapshot of what has been happening to our community of students - a community to which my husband and I have dedicated the past 23 years of our lives.

The Rohr Chabad Center serves the Jewish students at the University of Chicago, known for its rigorous academics and particularly for its economics department.

For two decades we have cared for the students’ emotional, social, and spiritual needs - as well as providing them with a comfortable home away from home.

We have friends and family who serve as Chabad emissaries in remote and developing countries, and we marvel at their bravery. We thought we had it easy, surrounded by the gleaming ivory towers of academia.

But today, as we look around the once-friendly neighborhood where we raised our children - both our biological children and the many students for whom we’ve become a second set of parents - the place is unrecognizable.

ages, starting with King David during his tribulations.

The students have been channeling their emotions into positive action, committing to mitzvahs and living more Jewishly.

One grad student, told me she’d been in a committed relationship with a non-Jewish man and looked forward to marrying him. After the attacks, it became clear to them both that the gulf between them was too great. There was no way for him to understand how deeply she connected to people in a country halfway across the globe. She’s now committed to only marrying a Jew.

There’s Lily, who one day came to Chabad asking for Shabbat candles.

People shout, scream, and curse IsOf course there is the light at She felt that lighting candles was the rael, Jews, and America, the land that the end of the tunnel - but in one mitzvah she could do for Israel. provided them the freedom of expresLater, she sent me a photo of her our interactions with Jewish Shabbat table in New York, complete sion they’re glibly exploiting. A place of learning and discovery has discollege students we need to with challah and candles. Her parsolved into tension and conflict. reveal and share the light that ents, Russian Jews without a strong Jewish upbringing, had joined her Our work began the moment the is also in the tunnel itself. in embracing the beauty of Shabbat. news broke on Simchat Torah mornLily now comes to our Shabbat dining that something was amiss. Days ners almost every week. These molater, a student, Yair, came to our ments of connection and inspiration are what sustain us Chabad House with a heavy heart, having decided to leave through the most difficult times. school and return to Israel to fight. I was struck by the gravity of his decision and felt a mother’s instinct to offer We did everything possible to shield our young children him a blessing for safety and success. Watching him leave, from the anti-Semitic shouts and slurs they should never knowing the risks he was taking, filled me with a sense of have had to witness. It was hard to explain to their teachawe and fear. ers what they were seeing and what they were holding in their hearts each day. Just the other week, during a walk We worked relentlessly to support our students and the around the neighborhood, they counted over 80 anti-Israel wider community in the following weeks. Students came signs and we hadn’t even walked onto the actual campus to us from every corner, their souls seeking light amidst grounds. the darkness. We distributed mezuzahs and stood on campus - even surrounded by anti-Israel slurs and comments One day, things on campus were especially tense. A loud - putting tefillin on the young men, encouraging women and aggressive anti-Israel rally was taking place, and a to light Shabbat candles, and providing comfort to those student came rushing into Chabad, crying uncontrollably. grappling with hate and fear on campus.

I embraced her and held her close as she sobbed. She didn’t need words - just the presence of someone who cared. LatWe even invested in beautifully crafted books of Psalms er, I learned that a visiting mother had taken a picture with English translation, gifting them to students and exof me holding this young woman, her tears soaking my plaining how these sacred psalms have served as a wellshoulder. She sent me the photo, writing, “I took this so spring of inspiration for the Jewish people through the

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that you would remember, and I could show my friends what a rebbetzin is for during challenging times.”

In such moments, the Rebbe’s teachings have always guided me. I draw strength from his words, whether in times of joy or deep despair.

Preparing for over 250 people for both Seders seemed daunting, but the joy of watching Jewish souls shine made every effort worthwhile. More than ever, students came to us asking where they could find something to eat during Passover.

His mother, who was also emotional, said to me, “Maybe this is the real reason we came today - so our son could celebrate his bar mitzvah.”

And maybe this is the reason we’ve been here for 23 years - so that young Jewish people, who’d otherwise be swallowed up by the hatred and lies that surround us so thickly, can find a lifeboat of Judaism to tide them over the groundswell of insanity that has engulfed us.

And if it is, I thank G-d for the opportunity.

There were days when we felt like there were two wars, one in Israel and one on college campuses around the country. Unfortunately, this campus war is still strong and frightening to the young Jewish students.

We woke up on the last day of Passover to a Gaza encampment on our quad. It was worse than you can imagine and more disgusting than you can envision. I ran with my son onto the quad to support the students, hug the girls who were crying, and just be a familiar face. We grabbed some kippahs and encouraged the boys to put them on.

One young man whom I had never seen before came up to me and asked for a kippah. “I never wear a kippah,” he said, “it’s not my thing, but today I want to. I want to show them that I am a proud Jew. Last Friday, things devolved to about the worst I had seen. There were hundreds of students on the quad, and things had erupted terribly, both sides were facing off. It was scary and appalling and I honestly could not believe what I was seeing with my own eyes. I will have these horrific images in my head for a long time. We had our sons and interns setting up emergency tefillin stations, blaring Jewish music over their speakers, which was hard to hear with all the shouting.

The protestors were defacing the American flag, and students loyal to America had come to hold up the American flag and also bring some of their own.

My son was bravely holding one such flag, and his picture ended up on the front cover of the next day’s Chicago Tribune. But it was frightening, sickening, and all-around horrible.

Just as I did not think I could handle another minute of the chaos, a couple came over to us with their son.

He was a prospective student and had simply come to see the campus. Never did they expect to see the anti-Jewish and anti-American display they’d stumbled into. Meanwhile, my son was helping Jewish men put on tefillin.

The boy turned to my husband and asked if he, too, could put on tefillin - something he’d never done before.

I cried as I watched him put on tefillin for the first time in his life, and we sang and danced with chaos erupting everywhere.

Dear Parents, In these times, when Jews and Jewish values are being attacked in public spaces across America, we need to do whatever we can to inoculate our children and supply them with the knowledge and strength they need.

Provide Meaningful Judaism. Now more than ever, your children need every bit of Jewish inspiration and positivity they can get. Be sure to celebrate Shabbat, do mitzvahs, study Torah, both in and outside of home, so that your child learns to love the Jewish identity for which they are now being attacked. If you want your child to cherish and find meaning in their Jewish heritage, they need to positively engage with it!

Don’t Forget the Truth. The drumbeat of misinformation is so steady in some places that it’s hard not to be inundated. Speak to your child often and remind them of the simple truths that seemed so obvious just a few months ago. The Jewish people’s right to the Holy Land was granted to them by G-d Himself, Jews have a right to defend themselves, and good will always outlast evil.

Consider a Jewish School. Your child may be in public school for any number of reasons. However, with Jewish day school options in our area, consider the events of the past few months as one more factor that may steer you toward transferring to a Jewish school.

Neither you nor your child will regret it.

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A Friend’s Divorce

by Jay Litvin The Torah views the attraction between man and woman as natural, the sexual urge strong, powerful and urgent.

It not only approves of this attraction, but exalts the resulting union in the most healthy and hearty of terms.

However, it limits this instinctual urge within the confines of sanctified life, within the sacred boundary of marriage.

The Torah well understands that this urge stems from the animal/instinctual part of us; reason and higher spiritual concerns are not its natural habitat. It has a life of its own.

A strong life. And therefore, in order to constrain and harness its expression in appropriate ways, the Torah provides fences to protect the power of sexual attraction from itself.

of his emotions, in command of his urges and instincts.

Rules never apply to him. Morals are an individual acquisition. As the years passed, he found my religious life quaint, charming and curious. He was so liberal as to accept my observance without challenge, an expression of my right to live the life of my choice.

Some of these “fences” have to do with discouraging men and women from pursuing situations of potential intimacy. For example, men and women not married to each other are prohibited from being secluded together in the As I learned the story of his pending divorce, I couldn’t same room. If they must be together, as in a work situhelp but assume that his thinking must have affected his ation, then the door is kept open to choices. As this married man spent a public space. There are numerous more and more time with his marThe Torah also understands contingencies and leniencies that alried coworker working together late low for everyday interactions, but in that these physical urges come at night or taking business trips or a way that discourages, and hopefully in different strengths and in celebrating business victories, I could prevents, misplaced intimacy. hear his persuasive voice assuring The Torah also understands that these physical urges come in different strengths and in different forms, and that some folks might need an extra fence or two to keep them out of trouble.

different forms, and that some folks might need an extra fence or two to keep them out of trouble.

The Torah, however, does not make a separate list of regulations for every individual. When creating a fence to protect against some specific sexual tendency or potentially compromising situation, the Torah applies this fence equally to all of us. This “shotgun” approach can sometimes feel like “collective punishment” in which we all endure cumbersome restrictions whether or not we feel they apply to us.

But recently my perspective has changed.

An old college friend is getting divorced. Adultery the culprit. An affair with a married coworker. I don’t want to go into more detail, only to say that he is an old acquaintance from long before I became religious, someone with whom I’ve kept in contact and whose children have been of interest as the decades have passed.

Since our college days, he is a guy who continually spurns old-fashioned mores, for whom the right of individual expression and self-actualization are the idols of modern life. Master of his fate, he believes he is in control

himself that his motives were pure, his passions under control, their separate marriages inviolable to temptation or destruction.

According to him, only when the situation had impulsively crossed all red lines did he and his coworker awaken to their predicament. Adultery and betrayal struck with devastating consequences. Children and spouses forever wounded. The couple fatefully enmeshed without possibility of retreat.

I was upset by the news; concerned for his wife and children; frightened by the fragility of human relationships, by the susceptibility of human feeling and emotion. Despite his quirks and idiosyncrasies, my old college buddy is a good guy. A thoughtful person. With a nice family. His views and philosophies are as much a product of the times and received opinion as of his own independent thought.

He was both perpetrator and victim.

The combination of lust and loneliness (there were problems within the marriage that contributed to the situation, he said) had cast these people upon a path with no return.

It was a path that anyone left to live without fences could have trod. Unhindered by these fences, lust and loneliness, passion and adventure found breeding ground in the unconstrained privacy of closed-door business meetings, afternoon lunches, out-of-town business trips and all the

countless moments of potential intimacy that make up relationships unrestricted by Torah. If this could happen to him, it could happen to anyone, G-d forbid.

My thoughts and reactions ricocheted between sorrow for the two families, anger at my friend, compassion for his plight, and an overall sense of dread at the growing rate of divorce and the destruction that it brings. I thought mightily about how much I valued family, how protective I felt towards his children. I cringed at the pain caused by the breakup of his, and any other, family. And it was then that I gained new insight into the Torah’s approach.

Jewish law is not prescribing collective punishment for the misbehavior of a minority; it is not forcing us to observe certain cumbersome restrictions to atone for the aberrant tendencies of a few.

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As members of one large Jewish family, we all share equally in the welfare of our brothers and sisters and of their unions and offspring. Observing these fences is not an act of submission, it is an act of cooperation and communal participation.

In this spirit, we observe laws and fences of behavior both for the welfare of our own family and for the sake of some child, somewhere, whose father, behind a closed office door with an attractive woman, may be led to one day submit his child to the caustic chaos of divorce.

I cringed at the pain caused by the breakup of his, and any other, family. And it was then that I gained new insight into the Torah’s approach.

Rather, my willingness to live within fences, to restrain my behavior whether or not I believe they apply to my personal version of temptation - is part of a communal response and responsibility to protect the viability of every Jewish family anywhere in the world.

So great is the tragedy of a family destroyed that the Torah asks each of us to contribute our part towards protecting this most sacred Jewish institution. So devastating is the dissolution of even one family that we are asked to eagerly participate in upholding community norms of

No matter how unlikely the scenarios may be, no matter how rare their illicit possibilities, we willingly adhere to these often cumbersome, bothersome, tedious fences for the sake of saving one family, of preventing even one damaged child.

Rather than be seen as collective punishment, these fences are the guardians of my people, the protectors of my family - both the little family I call my own and the larger one called the Jewish people.

In the swirling, convoluted, confused and compromised vortex of modern life, thank G-d we have an island of truth, wisdom and practicality upon which my family and countless others - can find sanity and protection within a sea of worldly folly.

An island known as Torah, with fences to surround and safeguard us wherever we may tread.

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What’s so great about a birthday? Wasn’t it more comfy inside the womb - why celebrate the day we left it?

Your mazel shines extra strong on your birthday, so ask for the right things.

But the day you were born was the day you became your very own person - no longer just a watermelon in your mommy’s tummy. That’s why it’s a day to ponder: What have I accomplished by being here? Did the world change because I left that womb?

• Every year of your life has a corresponding Psalm.

It’s your age + 1. Learn it today, and say it each day for the coming year.

So, when the Hebrew calendar comes back around to that wonderful day you were born, try some of these great customs:

• Farbreng. That’s when friends sit together, make l’chaim and encourage each other to be better Jews. It’s also a great way to publicly thank your Creator for creating your life.

• Find an enclave in time and space to think about the past year: what went right, what went not-so-right and what can be fixed.

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Take your life to a new level with a new mitzvah.

• Give some extra charity today. Best just before the morning and afternoon prayers. If your birthday falls on Shabbat or a Jewish holiday, then give before the day begins and after it’s out.

• Spend more time on your prayers. Say some extra Psalms. (Yes, Psalms are Jewish - King David wrote them.)

• Add to your Torah study time. Share whatever you learn with friends.

• Eat a new seasonal fruit on your birthday, just so you can say the Shehecheyanu blessing, thanking G-d for granting you life.

For a handy tool to find out your Hebrew/Jewish birthday, go to www.chabadrochester.com/6228 It is when the Creator said, “Here, I am giving you a body, a soul, and a divine mission. I have absolute trust in your ability to pull through for Me.”

Eternalize Your Mind

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by Tzvi Freeman From Sinai to Jerusalem, from Babylon to Cordoba, from Tunis to Cracow, the principal occupation of Jewish people was always learning Torah. Everything else was just a distraction.

So finds a non-Jewish scholar visiting Warsaw during the First World War: “Once I noticed a great many coaches on a parking place but with no drivers in sight. In my own country I would have known where to look for them. A young Jewish boy showed me the way; in a courtyard on the second floor was the shteebl (small synagogue) of the Jewish drivers. It consisted of two rooms, one filled with Talmud volumes, the other a room for prayer. All the drivers were engaged in fervent study and religious discussions. It was then that I found out that all the professions, the bakers, the butcher, the shoemaker, etc., have their own shteebl in the Jewish district and every free moment which can be taken off from work is given to the study of Torah.”

It wasn’t just a Polish fad. In Baghdad, storekeepers closed shop after three hours and went to study for the rest of the day. On the Isle of Elba, Jews had little work, so they studied from dawn to dusk. In the Carpathian hills, Roman Vishniac reports, “I found farmers with primitive tools discussing metaphysics.”

Actually, the visitor to Warsaw was wrong. He assumed they were coach drivers who studied Torah. Perhaps if he had asked them they would have corrected him, that they were students of Torah who drove coaches. A.k.a. Jews.

What’s the fascination with learning Torah all day? How many times can you read the same book over and over?

Torah goes way beyond “the Book”. Here are some basic categories: Chumash - The Creator’s compact instruction manual, but often somewhat obscure — which is why we need the rest of Torah.

Halachah - Dos, don’ts and what-ifs, with all the dots and points.

Talmud - Discussions, debates and differences of opinion.

Agadah - Parables and stories with hidden meanings.

Kabbalah - Esoteric knowledge and the inner workings of the cosmos.

Chassidut - The inner light and essence of all the above.

How to do Learning Torah 1) Make a Disturbance Somewhere along the way, someone introduced the practice of sitting quietly with a book and not disturbing anybody. But that’s not the tradition. Ideally, you sit at a table in a study hall (called a “Bet Hamidrash”) with a friend or two and loudly discuss a text until you’ve gotten everyone else within earshot involved.

Learning alone? Read out loud, as though explaining to yourself. Torah has to be alive.

2) Savor the Journey Learning Torah isn’t like any other study. Other studies are means to gain knowledge. Learning Torah is an end in itself. It’s the experience of asking questions, searching for answers, getting in synch with the minds of the sages — the experience of making contact with the Divine Intellect.

That’s why, in Torah learning, we study the questions just as we study the answers. Because the questions are also Torah.

3) Anchor Time Learning Torah sits at the center of Jewish life. Everything else revolves around it. Make a set time each day to study and schedule everything else accordingly. Shut down your cell phone and immerse yourself.

4) Make It Real Torah literally means, “instructions.” It also means “light.” Torah is meant to shine a light on life and show you which way to go. Whatever you learn, find a practical application and make it happen.

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Make Light

by Lazer Gurkow A child came home from a Hebrew lesson and told her parents that she wanted to make light for Shabbat by lighting candles. The parents agreed to satisfy her whim and lit candles as the sun set on Friday. As they sat down to dinner they realized that it was not fitting for the television to be on while the Shabbat candles were burning, so they turned off the TV. The next week the father decided that if there were candles on the table, they should chant the Kiddush on a cup full of wine. The next week the mother decided that if the candles were burning, they should have a traditional Shabbat dinner. The next week the family decided that if the candles were burning, they should attend services before coming home for dinner. Before long, the candles filled their home with the light of Shabbat.

Why are candles special, and why do we light them for Shabbat?

Wood and Stone Our sages taught that a home should not be dark on Shabbat lest we stumble on a piece of wood or a stone and disturb the Shabbat peace.1 Another view is that Shabbat is a day of delight: make light to delight.

Allow me a play on words: In the English language, when you preface a word with the letters “de,” the word is negated. For example, to “debone” is to remove the bone. To “detox” is to remove the toxin. In this vein “delight” can mean to remove the ordinary light—and bask in a higher form of light, a spiritual light. When you stare into an intense source of light, such as the sun, your eyes are blinded for a moment and it seems dark. To “delight” means to experience a light so intense—in this case, the Shabbat light—that the ordinary light loses its appeal. It no longer seems like light compared to the greater light.

What is this light of Shabbat?

I believe the answer is hidden in the words of our sages, “lest we stumble on wood or stone.” In the Torah, the phrase “wood and stone” is often a euphemism for idols, which are carved of wood and hewn of stone.2 Perhaps our sages are alluding to two kinds of stumbling: a literal stumble on physical wood and a spiritual stumble on the wood and stone of idolatry.

We no longer worship idols in the classic sense, but we often worship idols in the virtual sense. We often worship an accumulation of possessions, the need to keeping up with the Joneses as it were. If it’s not our homes and furniture that we worship, it is our cars or clothes. Many of us worship the “likes” on Facebook and responses on Twitter.

For others, it is our phones and tablets. We keep up with the latest models lest we be mocked by the Joneses.

On Shabbat, we leave this rat race behind and focus on the important things. We take time for family and children, neighbors and friends. We sing and pray, dine and socialize, study and discuss. We invest in the things that life is meant to serve, rather than the things that serve life. We make light for life rather than make light of life. Perhaps this is the deeper meaning in “de-light.” We de-light from weekday and delight in Shabbat. We de-light from mundaneness and delight in holiness.

Candle and Light King Solomon taught that “a mitzvah is a candle and Torah is light.”3 Every mitzvah is a candle, but the Shabbat candles are especially luminous because their light is visible even on the physical plane.

Let’s look at candles and lights. Suppose your home is strewn with obstacles, the kind that our Shabbat lights are designed to prevent us from stumbling upon. There are toys everywhere, stools in the middle of the room, papers all over the floor . . . you get the idea.

Now imagine walking through this room in the dark.

There is no doubt that you would stumble with nearly each step. Now imagine turning on the light. You can see where you are going; you have light compared to the darkness that preceded it. But it is not a delight. It is depressing. You see an awful mess. Why would you want to see it? In some ways ignorance is bliss.

Now imagine that you organized the mess and put each thing in its proper place. Now the things that were obstacles have become adornments that beautify the room. The mess has become orderliness. The depression has turned into delight. You threw away the trash, polished the silver; things are in their rightful place, and the room has become a palace.

A candle is a carrier of light, but without the flame it has no light. A flame is a source of light, but without a candle, it can’t hold its light. You need both. A candle and a light.

If you turn on the light, you have temporary relief, but once you see the mess, you are left with depression. If you clean up the mess in the dark, you have created a candle, but you can’t see the beauty that your candle created. Together, the candle and light brighten up your home. They turn a mess into a delight.

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Torah and Mitzvah We now return to King Solomon: “A mitzvah is a candle and Torah is light.” When we study Torah, we ignite a light in our hearts and minds and discover just how much more meaningful our lives can be. We realize that we often pursue meaningless pleasures and accumulate treasures of little value. Our purpose has become temporal, and we give little thought to life’s eternal purpose. This is depressing.

But then we set ourselves to filling our day with mitzvahs. We know how bad the mess is and proceed to clean it up. So we set ourselves to turning idols into candles.

Our toys, be they of wood, stone or silicone, are turned into sources of light. We use our spacious homes and comfortable furnishings to host delightful Shabbats for our family and friends. We use the Internet and social media, our phones and tablets, to study and teach Torah. We use our cars and trucks for eternal purposes, for mitzvahs. Our lives are now filled with candles that produce eternal light.

Our toys now generate delight in both senses of the word.

They de-light the temporal joy that they gave us before and allow us to delight in the sacred light that they begin to generate now.

In a word, the meditation for the Shabbat candles goes like this: make light for Shabbat and you won’t make light of life.

I Chose Shabbat Over A Rocket Launch

by Sofya Sara Esther Tamarkin I thrive on predictable outcomes. I steer my life away from unforeseen outcomes. But one day, an unexpected opportunity helped me to see my life in a different light.

I have always dreamed about witnessing a rocket launch into space.

A few years ago I learned that there were tickets that allowed a limited number of people to view the launch from the Kennedy Space Center in Florida. The next launch was scheduled in a month, and my family was drawn to the idea of this adventure. We invited two more families whose children were of a similar age as ours, and together, we all flew from Philadelphia to Orlando.

On Jan. 19, 2017, we arrived at the Kennedy Space Center before 11 a.m., as was required. Time went by very slowly as we toured and waited for the event. Finally, at 7 p.m. we boarded a special bus and were taken to the viewing platform along with other spectators. The air was filled with excitement.

We tuned into the radio station that was broadcasting the launch. Engineers were speaking words that I could not understand.

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Finally, the countdown began. It was five minutes to the launch and seconds seemed to decrease at an unnaturally slow rate. Every moment felt urgent and vital. My heart was beating fast ... four minutes, 40 seconds to go. We could see the smoke rising up in the distance. Voices on the radio were giving their final “green” light. Everyone was watching the clock.

And then, one of the engineers on the radio pronounced a code word that I couldn’t understand, and the clock stopped. The discussion was too technical for me to follow, but soon after an announcement was made that the launch Continued on bottom of next page

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The Other Side of Unforgivable An Omer Perspective

by Tzippora Price A friend of mine felt insulted by a comment I had made.

Although the comment wasn’t intended to be hurtful, was not said in anger, and was open to various interpretations, she felt slighted nonetheless. Over the course of the next two years, I apologized three times, including once in a formal letter. Finally, she forgave me, acknowledging: “At least you feel bad about it.” But the friendship was over. In her mind, what I had done was unforgivable.

Since that friendship ended, I have decided that there is very little place in my life for unforgivable, especially among friends, and extra-specially among family. Most hurts, misunderstandings, and even hurtful acts can and should be forgiven. We grow, they grow, and we chalk it up to life experience. In this way, allowing for mistakes and imperfections, I have found that relationships can grow and flourish for years.

I wasn’t always like this. In fact, I suspect that once upon a time, I was very much like my friend. I was easily hurt, and I guarded my hurt tightly. The world was populated by people who could have and should have known better. I have had to learn how to push myself to say “I was hurt by what you said.” Most of the time, the other party responds, “I had no idea. I am sorry.” Or sometimes with the response, “Well, I was hurt by something you said/did as well.”

What pushed me to change, to learn how to forgive and ROCKET LAUNCH Continued from previous page was postponed until the next day, which was Friday night.

I was overcome with disappointment. I couldn’t stop looking at the clock with the numbers frozen on the monitor. We had committed time and money to this event, yet we would have to miss it because driving to watch the launch on Shabbat was not an option. We were scheduled to join the Chabad House of South Orlando for Shabbat prayers and dinner.

Having no control over the situation made me feel helpless, but I realized that I did have control over my perspective and my priorities. While feeling disappointed about the unsuccessful rocket launch, I was at peace with my decision to miss it on the next night, choosing instead to observe Shabbat.

The next evening we spent ushering in Shabbat at the Chabad House with people from different parts of the

move on, was a growing awareness that I, too, am imperfect. Perhaps once upon a time, I honestly expected to achieve perfection by age 30. Now 30 has come and gone, and the elusive self-perfection that seemed just around the corner has faded into the distant horizon.

Now I am as old as my parents were when, as a teenager, I judged them so harshly, and expected them to be much more together than I am now. I am aware that one day my own kids will come to me with a list of my transgressions, and at that time I hope they will find my failings forgivable.

Yet how can I expect to be forgiven if I have not extended the same grace to others, if I have not demonstrated with my daily behavior that we can treasure our relationships despite their imperfections?

The Omer period between Passover and Shavuot is especially suited to the emotional stock-taking and spiritual stretching that long-term relationships require. Although the Jewish people in Egypt were on the lowest level of spiritual imperfection, the long-standing relationship that G-d had established with our forefathers meant that G-d still found us worthy of redemption and forgiveness, and allowed us to develop a special relationship with Him through receiving the Torah.

Sometimes, it is hard for me to forgive someone when I recognize that she will probably make the same mistake world who shared our Jewish heritage. After lighting the candles, I considered going outside at launch time to see if the rocket would be visible in the sky, but then I concluded that I wanted to focus completely on our Shabbat experience. Once I tapped into my inner priorities, there was no more sadness about this lost opportunity.

On Sunday morning, we flew back to Philadelphia without witnessing the launch of the rocket into space.

From our trip to Kennedy Space Center, I was reminded that life is full of complexity; days that arrive without perfect “weather” conditions or ideal circumstances. We cannot control the alignment of the countless details needed for a perfect “launch day.” Yet despite having no sway over the outcome, we are expected to do our best to act in accordance with our priorities and Torah values.

Ironically, when I reached this clarity, I felt liberated from my need to control the countless events in my world and experienced a feeling of inner peace.

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And G-d forgave them. G-d forgave us. If they worshipped a golden calf shortly after receiving the Torah, and G-d forgave them, then I can also forgive people. After all, that was pretty big, and G-d let it go, so I can let things go as well.

perfection by age 30.

Now 30 has come and gone, and the elusive self-perfection that seemed just around the corner has faded into the distant horizon.

The problem is: How do you get there? How do you learn how to forgive when it is not an intrinsic part of your personality, and not just say “That’s G-d, not me”?

That’s where counting the Omer comes in. Every day we count one day. We acknowledge that today, we are a little better than we were yesterday. A little more loving. A little more humble. Today, I can be a little more forgiving, a little more understanding. I can acknowledge that even when people should have known, they didn’t, or they felt pressured, or they just made a mistake.

For a long time, I hoped that my friend would forgive me if I just apologized again, or said things differently.

But then, after a while, I realized that it wasn’t about me anymore. By that point, it was about her holding on to something that should have blown over a long time ago.

That experience taught me that forgiving isn’t about the forgiven. It is about the forgiver. By forgiving, I move up the spiritual ladder. I climb up another rung.

These days, I don’t expect to reach the top of the ladder.

Perfection is somewhere up there in the clouds. But I can expect to keep climbing, and I can expect the Omer period to remind me to keep moving forward.

The Omer teaches us that it is not OK to remain in the

how many buses or trains someone took to work, we look at whether they got there on time, whether they made it before the bell rang.

Yet the Omer teaches us to look at things differently. Did we move forward today? Did we come closer to our goal? Did we hold out a little longer before we blew our cool? Each of these achievements deserves its own place in our consciousness and awareness. Each deserves its own blessing.

Recognizing that I am growing, I can recognize the growth of those around me. I can smile. I can apologize.

And I can also forgive.

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Dear Rabbi, I have a question...

Question:

My grandmother recently announced that she intends to be cremated. This disturbed me, as I know Judaism doesn’t allow cremations. She grew up in communist Russia and doesn’t believe in anything spiritual. She says there’s no difference between burial and cremation, the result is the same. What should I tell her?

Answer: I recently spoke to someone who attended a friend’s cremation. I was struck by her reaction to the funeral. She said that the atmosphere could only be described as awkward. Here was a group of people coming to pay their respects to a loved one. At the front of the room stood an urn. Try as she might, she was unable to make the association between her friend and the urn. There was no sense that honor was being paid to the departed - her presence was no longer felt.

Being cremated is unfair to the mourners. They cannot be expected to say farewell to an urn. They have no gravesite to visit. The soul has no resting place in this world. If your grandmother is willing to forgo the spiritual benefits that a Jewish burial gives her, at least she should consider the comfort a Jewish burial will give her family.

And as for the claim that the result will be the same whether she is buried or cremated, it is not true.

I have never met a family who regretted giving their loved one a proper Jewish burial. But I have seen the regret and pain caused by a misinformed decision to cremate.

Think long and hard before making such an irreversible choice.

Your grandmother is a special lady. May she see many more years of good health, and may she always be treated with the dignity that she deserves.

Aaron Moss

Question: My father was buried in a Jewish cemetery in a single grave of dual plots. My mother, who is even less observant, has chosen to be cremated with no religious observance.

This is my question: Her demise is imminent. Would it be proper, under Jewish law, to bury her in an urn on top of her husband’s casket? Or does it need to be buried in the adjacent grave?

If on top of her husband is allowed, the family could then donate the second grave site to someone else.

Answer:

When cremated, the body becomes ash. When buried, the body returns to dust, and becomes one with the soil.

There is a big difference between the two. Soil is fertile, ash is not. The soil allows new growth and further life. Ash is barren and lifeless.

I am disconcerted to hear of your mother’s condition.

Miracles do happen, perhaps she has many more years to go. Nevertheless, it is wise to deal with these matters now and not to wait.

Turning the body to ash is unnatural. But the gradual process of returning to the soil is true to the inner meaning of death. The passing of one generation allows the sprouting of another, and the living are nourished and inspired by the legacy of the dead. Our forebears are the soil from which we sprout. Even in their death, they are a source of life.

Cremation is not a Jewish practice. The body is holy; it is the temple of the soul. We don’t burn temples, just as we don’t burn Torah Scrolls or Tefillin. Neither do we burn Jews. For, although your mother may not have considered herself religious, I’m sure she accomplished many mitzvahs every day of her life. So her body is also a precious treasure, a holy object.

I understand that this is your mother’s expressed wish, and a good son fulfills his mother’s desires. In this case, however, you are permitted to rebel. After all, if your mother would stretch out her smallest finger and ask you to burn it, would you do so? All the more so, you must refuse when she asks you to burn her entire body. It is an act that cannot be reversed. It is said to cause pain to the soul.

And in my experience, it is an act that is almost always deeply regretted by the bereaved.

Which brings us to another issue that you yourself have raised: It is quite doubtful that any traditional Jewish cemetery will permit an ash urn to be placed in the cemetery, as this would be providing imprimatur on a distinctly unJewish ceremony. You and your siblings are able to visit your father’s grave, and from that place your soul may connect with his, and you honor his memory by returning to that place. That will never be so with an urn of ashes.

Ashes are a destruction of a memory, a complete divorce of the soul from this world.

I could simply answer your question and my job would be done. But we Jews are all responsible for one another, we care for one another as a single family. And so, I am writing not just to answer your question, but to express my sincere concern and heartfelt hope that you will bring your mother to a proper Jewish burial, as every mother deserves.

Tzvi Freeman

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THE MAN WHO TURNED JUDAISM OUTWARD Continued from page 21 It would be hard to find a historical precedent for this massive effort to reignite the flame of Judaism in a secular world. If today we are familiar with the phenomena of baalei teshuvah (religious returnees) and Jewish outreach, it is almost entirely due to the pioneering work by Lubavitch, since adopted by many other groups within Orthodoxy.

The Rebbe was preoccupied by the challenge of religious leadership. In a conversation we had in 1978 he expressed his concern at the shortage of rabbis throughout the Diaspora, and at the failure of yeshivot to direct their alumni to congregational work. He encouraged me to enter the rabbinate and to train other rabbis, and was particularly supportive of the work of Jews’ College. He himself turned his followers into leaders at the earliest possible age and, if the decision to empower youth exposed Lubavitch to risks, it also gave it a vigor and energy that were to be found nowhere else in the religious world.

Behind all this activity lay a compelling vision, never formally articulated but clear nonetheless. The Jewish world, particularly the Europe from which he came, had been devastated by the Holocaust. In the aftermath, one thing had happened but another thing had not. Jews had returned to the land of Israel. But they had not returned to the faith of Israel.

In Judaism, physical and spiritual return are inseparable. In the modern world they had become separated. This was the fracture he sought to mend. Where others devoted themselves to building the Jewish State, he dedicated himself to rebuilding the inner state of Jews.

The Rebbe himself was tireless in drawing connections between contemporary events and the Torah portion of the week. His followers will not miss the significance of the fact that he died at the beginning of the week of Hukkat, the Torah reading which records the poignant decree that Moses would die before leading his people into the promised land. As Israel was to Moses, so the messianic age has been to Judaism’s greatest leaders: a destination journeyed towards, glimpsed from afar but not yet reached.

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