October 2023

Who Qualifies?

Families qualify for the Alternative Payment Program based on two criteria “eligibility” and “need”.

“Eligibilit y”

To be “ eligible”, a family’s income must meet eligibility requirements set by the State Department of Social Services, Child Care and Development Division.

“Need”

A family “needs” childcare based on one of the following: parents are employed, in school, or participating in a training program, parents are incapacitated or are unable to adequately care for their child(ren), children with special needs (medical, psychological, or if the child(ren) needs care as protection from abuse or neglect.

CalWORKs Families (current and former recipients)

Childcare is a critical part of your success as a former or current recipient of CalWORKs (or AFDC) benefits. For former or current CalWORKs recipients, Supportive Services, Inc. can provide funding if you meet eligibility requirements.

How May I See if I Qualif y?

Currently there are more families in need of assistance than there is funding to help. A waiting list of eligible families is kept to fill funding slots as they become available. To be placed on the waiting list, you may contact (559) 230 -2030 or visit our website at ssifresno.org.

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Dear Reader,

Chilly nights and shorter days are here as fall finally arrives in the Valley for a short, but welcomed visit. Now that homes will soon be decked out in spooky decor, children will be getting excited for Halloween! Flip to page 8 for, “The Great Pumpkin,” where Janeen Lewis offers 31 fun pumpkin ideas!

Are you wondering where all the familyfriendly haunts are this year? We’ve got you covered! Head to page 10 for festivals, trunk-ortreats, pumpkin patches, and more located all over the Valley! Then flip to page 14 for our always awesome calendar of family events.

With October being National Bullying Prevention Month, author Tanni Haas highlights ways to keep your kids safe online in, “How to Protect Your Kids from Cyberbullying.” In addition to her article on page 12, you can also flip to page 4 for a week-by-week guide on how to STOMP out bullying this month. This is the last month to find more-structured activities for kids in our Enrichment Directory on page 13, so don’t miss this opportunity to sign-up for great after-school activities.

Have a safe and happy Halloween!

Erika Bullis

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News You Can Use

STOMP Out Bullying, Week-by-Week

Every October, schools and organizations across the country join STOMP Out Bullying™ in observing World Bullying Prevention Month. The goal: encourage schools, communities, and organizations to work together to stop bullying, cyberbullying, and put an end to hatred and racism by increasing awareness of the prevalence and impact of all forms of bullying on children of all ages.

Week of October 2nd: Encourage your kids to make friends with someone they don’t know at school. Most kids know what it feels like to be left out, so encourage them to be a leader, take action, and meet some new friends!

Week of October 9th: Teach your kids how to stand up for others. If your child sees someone being bullied, let them know what options they have to make a change! They can be brave by standing up or they can immediately get the help of an adult. Teach them how to keep their own safety in mind while being part of the solution—not the problem!

Week of October 16th: Show them how to be inclusive. Model inclusivity in your own life: at birthday parties, family events, or on the playground. Explain to your kids that they can join someone who is eating alone in the cafeteria, include other students in school activities, or invite someone to sit next to them on the bus.

Week of October 23rd: Discuss conversations they can have amongst their peers. Discuss and practice types of conversations they can have with fellow students that explore changing the culture at their school. Encourage them to use the Student Participation Toolkit that is available online to begin conversations on how their school can be judgment and bully-free.

By teaching your kids these lessons, we are all one step closer to putting an end to bullying! Visit stompoutbullying.org to learn more.

Add Some Meaning to Your Halloweening

What if when we came together for Halloween fun, we also came together for children everywhere? During the entire month of October, Trick-or-Treat for UNICEF invites all ages to participate in raising funds and awareness for an organization that reaches more children with humanitarian relief than any other on the planet. With consumers spending $10 billion a year on Halloween, it just makes sense to share the wealth—and help UNICEF keep children healthy, educated, and protected.

Over nearly eight decades, UNICEF has built an unprecedented global support system for the world’s children. UNICEF relentlessly works day in and day out to deliver the essentials that give every child an equitable chance in life: health care and immunizations, safe water and sanitation, nutrition, education, emergency relief, and more.

Visit trickortreatforunicef.org to participate in their global Halloween experience and learn how you can make an impact by “click-ortreating” from home.

Free Ice Skating Lessons!

Get your kids out on the ice to learn to skate this year! Gateway Ice Center (2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno) offers one free 30-minute lesson to all first-time students ages 4 and up. Classes take place on Saturdays at 12:30 p.m. and Wednesdays at 5:30 p.m. Classes are limited to 8 skaters. Register in advance at gatewayicecenter.com to guarantee your child's spot. Visit gatewayicecenter.com or email tinamdirector@gmail.com for more information!

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Meet our Cover Kid, Cade! Cade is 4-years-old and is from Fresno. Cade's favorite holiday is Halloween—he loves all the spooky decorations and dressing up! Cade wants to be a police officer when he grows up. He also enjoys traveling, playing, watching sports, and going to Disneyland with Mom & Dad. Cade has two dogs, Roxie and Raven, that he plays with and helps take care of. He loves going to school, reading, coloring, and listening and singing along to music!

October is Window Covering Safety Month. The Window Covering Safety Council (WCSC) is dedicated to educating parents and caregivers about the potential strangulation risks of window blind and shade cords, and urges consumers to only use cordless window coverings or window coverings with inaccessible cords in homes with young children. Keeping kids safe can be a challenge when danger may not be obvious. The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission calls corded window coverings one of the top hidden hazards in American homes, with infants and children accidentally becoming entangled in window blind cords. Take time to childproof your windows or replace them with updated products to make your home safer for your kids. Visit windowcoverings.org for more information.

Always at ccparent.com! Visit us online to view the digital edition of this month’s issue, our full calendar of family events, local resources, additional articles, and so much more!

Kids and Matches: A Flammable Combination! If you haven’t talked to your kids about fire safety lately, National Fire Prevention Week is October 8th–14th. Develop a home fire escape plan if you haven’t already and practice, practice, practice! And while fires can start in many different ways, children playing with fire causes hundreds of deaths and thousands of injuries each year. In fact, preschool-aged children are most likely to start these fires, typically by playing with matches and lighters while unsupervised. Visit fpw.org for more information.

"Be Kind to Your Mind. Live Drug Free." Red Ribbon Week is October 23rd–31st. Decorate your school or home front door, mailbox, or fence with a double-looped Red Ribbon, snap and upload your photo, then watch the votes roll in for a chance to win an iPad and $1,000 for your school! Deadline is November 1st. Visit redribbon.org/contest to learn more.

October is American Humane’s Adopt-A-Dog Month. Millions of dogs are euthanized every year in the U.S. because not enough people are opening their arms to offer them loving homes. Visit americanhumane.org information on improving your life through this special companionship.

Weekly Giveaways! Be sure to stay connected with Central California Parent at ccparent.com and on all our social platforms for a chance to win prizes every week! Last month, we gave away tickets to the Big Fresno Fair, STEM toys, tickets to WWE, and more!

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An Update on your Family’s Health and Welfare

Digital Screens Wreak Havoc on Your Vision

As parents can attest, the amount of time kids spend pluggedin can be a real problem. There are plenty of good reasons for parents' concern, but it isn't just that it's sedentary, isolating, and decreases their attention spans. Digital screens also cause eye damage and vision problems.

One of these problems, computer vision syndrome, is also known as digital eye strain. More concerning, however, is the permanent damage blue-light causes to the eyes—and kids aren't the only ones affected. Adults' eyes are affected by digital screens as well.

Digital Eye Strain

Computer vision syndrome causes eye discomfort and vision problems. As the American Optometric Association (AOA) explains, it results from extended viewing of computer screens, e-readers, tablets, and cell phones. The more time spent on digital devices, the worse the discomfort becomes.

According to The Vision Council, the symptoms of computer vision syndrome include eyestrain, dry eyes, headache, blurred vision, and neck and shoulder pain.

Fortunately, there are several solutions to prevent or cure computer vision syndrome. First, set limits on daily leisure media use for yourself and your child. Due to the numerous adverse effects of media consumption, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) announced these recommendations in 2016 for children's media use:

• For children under 18 months, limit screen media exclusively to video-chatting.

• From 18 to 24 months, look for high-quality programming. Although the APA doesn't specify an amount of time for this age group, less than one hour a day can be presumed based on the next age group.

• For ages 2 to 5 years, allow no more than one hour a day of media.

• Kids ages 6 and older should have consistent limits for their total media time, plus specific restrictions on various types of media. The APA, in recognizing each family and child is different, hasn't set a standard amount of time for this age group. Outside of family media activities and homework, kids should spend only a small percentage of their day plugged-in. Another way to protect against computer vision syndrome is to wear computer eyeglasses. If you or your child experience

symptoms of digital eye strain, make an appointment with an optometrist for a vision check. Be sure to discuss screen-use to determine if computer glasses might be the right choice.

Also, when using a computer, position the screen at an arm's distance away. Increase the font size to reduce strain further. You can also reduce overhead lighting to eliminate any glare. Finally, follow the easy-to-remember 20-20-20 rule that's recommended by the AOA. Every 20 minutes, take a 20-second screen break by looking at something 20 feet away.

Blue Light Hazards

In addition to computer vision syndrome, exposure to blue light is another digital screen hazard. Blue light comes from many sources. This includes and comes primarily from sunlight as well as LED and fluorescent lighting. Smartphones, flat-screen TVs, computers, and electronic notebooks emit significant amounts of blue light.

The problem is that our eyes can't block blue light, so it penetrates the eye lens and cornea, then it reaches the retina. Prolonged exposure to blue light is likely a contributor to macular degeneration and vision loss.

Our eyes aren't the only things impacted by blue light. Harvard researchers found that blue light affects our circadian rhythm and throws off the body's biological clock. The Harvard Health Letter reported, "Blue light has a dark side," literally. Night-time light exposure appears to be particularly unhealthy. Numerous studies have linked exposure to light at night with breast and prostate cancer, heart disease, diabetes, and obesity.

Harvard researchers also point out that even dim light affects our circadian rhythm and interferes with melatonin secretion. The lack of sleep that results from it then increases the risk of depression. So there are multiple good reasons to try to reduce blue light exposure.

Minimizing screen-time is one of the most obvious ways to reduce exposure. Also, shut-down devices with digital screens two to three hours before bed, if possible. If not, at least dim the screen light in the evenings. If your child requires a nightlight, use a dim red light instead. This has the least impact on the circadian rhythm and eyes. Finally, if you or your child spend much time on digital devices, stay up late, or work the night shift, wear blueblocking glasses. This will also reduce the likelihood of eye damage or throwing your circadian rhythm out of balance.

—Kimberly Blaker

Talking to Children About Their Food

A food allergy diagnosis can be overwhelming enough for an adult. This experience is even more daunting for a child. Young children may struggle to comprehend what is going on with their bodies and not have the words to fully describe how they feel physically or emotionally.

Through clear communication, you can help your child understand what it means to have a food allergy and how to stay safe. This is a skill that will serve them well in the future.

Start Simple

For young children, introduce a few concepts at a time. Start with the most important things they should know to be safe:

First, explain that certain foods can make them very sick. Use simple terms such as “safe food” and “unsafe food.”

Next, teach them the names of unsafe foods and what they commonly look like. Point out gallons of milk, cartons of eggs, or bags of peanuts in the grocery store. Show them pictures of unsafe foods online, in books, or in magazines.

Then, teach them to only eat foods given to them by their parents or other trusted adults. These other people might be a babysitter or grandparent—anyone who knows about their food allergies and is trusted to care for them.

Finally, they should know to find an adult if they feel sick or need help. You can also explain your emergency plan in case they have

Allergy

an allergic reaction. Tell them this means giving them medicine and then going to the doctor.

Involve Your Child

It’s tempting to manage food allergies for your child in a behind-the-scenes-fashion. However, it’s important that children appreciate why you do certain things to keep them safe. Involve your child from an early age. Openly model food allergy management behaviors, such as reading food labels and always carrying epinephrine auto-injectors. This will help them learn from your behavior and teach them skills they will use as they grow older. For example:

• Use “we” rather than “I” statements: “We should read the ingredients to be sure this food won’t make you sick.”

• Explain food allergy management out loud. A simple statement before leaving the house such as, “We have our medicine kit with us, so now we’re ready to leave!” can help reinforce that you do not go anywhere without their medication.

• Involve your children in grocery shopping and making meals that are safe for them to eat.

• Prompt your child to show others their medical identification. This is a good way to get them used to telling others about food allergies.

—Food Allergy Research & Education

Halloween can be extra scary for the 1 in 13 children with food allergies!

The Teal Pumpkin Project is a simple way to make trick-or-treating safer and more inclusive for children living with food allergies, and many others impacted by intolerances and other conditions. Placing a teal pumpkin on your doorstep signals that, in addition to candy, you offer non-food trinkets and treats that are safe for all trick-or-treaters. Visit foodallergy.org > Our Initiatives > Awareness Campaigns > Teal Pumpkin Project for more information and to add your home to the Teal Pumpkin Project Map!

The Great Pumpkin: 31 Ideas for Fall Fun F

all wouldn’t be complete without that family trip to pick the perfect pumpkin. Then let the jack-o’-lantern carving, seed roasting, and pie baking begin! What else can you do with pumpkins? Pumpkin bowling, anyone? What about tasting pumpkin cheesecake? Kids will enjoy building character pumpkins or making a messy, oozing pumpkin. Whether hosting a fall bash or spending time with family, here are 31 ways to celebrate America’s favorite gourd.

Carved Pumpkin Ideas

Nothing says fall like a lit-up jack-o’lantern. Carve a traditional pumpkin, or if you want to try something new this year, here are some ideas:

1. Create a fun, oozing pumpkin and watch foam erupt from its carved mouth and eyes. Check out Steve Spangler’s website to make one.

2. Not sure about your design and carving skills? Try a pattern and stencil. Look for an inexpensive stencil and carving kit instore or online.

3. Hammer metal cookie cutters into a hollow pumpkin and then pop out the shapes to make your own unique design.

4. Instead of a candle, put a glow stick in your carved pumpkin for an eerie, neon effect.

No-Carve Pumpkin Ideas

If you want your pumpkin to last through the season, or you don’t want to deal with the mess of carving a pumpkin, there are plenty of fun no-carve options!

5. Make a nail art pumpkin. Draw a design on your pumpkin then hammer nails into the design. Either leave the nails as is, or decorate with thread to make a string art pumpkin.

6. Create pumpkin people that represent favorite book or movie characters. For example, one big pumpkin and two small gourds on the side could be Princess Leia. Paint a pumpkin green to make Yoda!

7. Are you a sports lover? Paint a baseball, basketball, volleyball, soccer ball, or softball pumpkin.

8. Paint on animal faces. Pick a pumpkin with a long stem, add white paint and glitter, and poof! The pumpkin becomes a unicorn!

by Janeen Lewis

Pumpkin Play

Creative pumpkin games make any gathering a blast. Try one of these or convert a favorite game into pumpkin play.

9. Bowl with pumpkins. Set up water bottles in the grass as pins. Use small, lightweight pumpkins without stems as pumpkin bowling balls. See who can knock down the most pins!

10. Play pumpkin putt-putt. Use pumpkins to make an obstacle course. With golf clubs, putt around the pumpkins, or make one big pumpkin that has a wide-open mouth to putt into. Make the game even more challenging by using a tiny pumpkin as the golf ball.

11. Jump, slide, or go diagonal with pumpkins and play pumpkin checkers on the lawn. One person can use white pumpkins and the other can use orange.

12. Take turns playing pumpkin tic-tac-toe. Mark off a tic-tac-toe grid with tape inside or chalk outside. Paint or draw Xs and Os on pumpkins and see who wins.

Creative Containers

For your next party or family night, try some of these unique containers for your tablescape.

13. Serve soup in pumpkin bowls. Go with a traditional family favorite or in honor of fall, make pumpkin or squash soup. You can even use the top as a lid to keep the soup warm.

14. Light up the room with pumpkin candle holders. Use mini pumpkins for candlesticks and bigger pumpkins for jar candles.

15. Fill a large, hollowed out pumpkin with ice and use as an ice bucket.

16. Tap a hollowed out pumpkin with a nozzle, and turn it into a drink dispenser.

Dazzle with Décor

Get creative inside and outside with these pumpkin decorations.

17. Make a festive vase. Scoop the insides out, fill the pumpkin with floral foam, and stick faux or real flowers in the foam.

18. Dress up the fireplace mantel. Use painted pumpkins and bows or write letters on several little pumpkins to spell words such as “gather” or “happy fall.”

19. Use mini pumpkins as place holders for a fall dinner. Use a toothpick or cardholder with a sharp end and stick it in the pumpkin. Attach a name card.

20. Make a pumpkin topiary for inside or outside.

21. Layer pumpkins from top to bottom on porch steps.

Spruce up the Garden

Keep the garden alive during fall with these great ideas.

22. Make an outdoor pumpkin planter. Hollow out a pumpkin and fill with soil and hardy flowers like mums or pansies.

23. Feed the birds! Fill a pumpkin with seeds and leave it in the yard.

24. Make garden compost. Let the kids have a blast by smashing up a rotting pumpkin. Pitch the pieces in the compost pile or scatter the pumpkin pieces over soil, cover with leaves, and let nature take it from there.

25. Plan to grow your pumpkin for next year from this year’s seeds. Rinse seeds, spread out, and let dry for several weeks. Store them in an envelope in a dry, cool place to plant next year.

Pumpkin Delicacies

Trail mix, cocktails and, cheesecake, oh my! These ideas go beyond mere pie.

26. Roast sweet and salty pumpkin seeds by adding brown sugar and sea salt. You can also roast seeds with olive oil and your favorite seasoning—think cinnamon, ginger, garlic salt, seasoning salt, pepper, or grated cheese. Experiment to find your favorite flavor.

27. Create your own fall trail mix. Sprinkle roasted pumpkin seeds in granola and throw in some other favorite ingredients like raisins or nuts.

28. Bake a traditional pumpkin pie.

29. Pie isn’t your thing? Try pumpkin bread, cheesecake, cookies, or butter.

30. Did you know you can make pumpkin cocktails? Search online for fun mocktails for the kids and cocktails for the adults.

31. Pumpkin isn't just for dessert! Get the kids in the kitchen and make pasta, soup, chili, hummus, sauce, and more!

Scary Bottle & Can Facts

Did you know...

Aluminum Cans

In 2019, 50 billion cans, more than 810 million worth of aluminum ended up in a landfill.

Every three months, Americans throw enough aluminum in the landfills to build our nation’s entire commercial air fleet.

Plastic Bottles

The World Economic Forum estimates that by the year 2050, the worlds oceans will have more plastic than fish. Americans throw away 2.5 million plastic bottles every hour.

Glass Bottles

More than 28 billion glass bottles end up in landfills every year, that’s the equivalent of filling up two Empire State buildings every three weeks.

Glass bottles spend 1,000,000 years in a landfill waiting to decompose.

Halloween & Fall Happenings

Pumpkin patches, fall festivals, trunk-or-treats, and more! Explore these family-friendly haunts all over the Valley!

CANDY CRAWL – LEMOORE

Join the community with family fun, arts and crafts, candy, and more! This free event is on October 21st at 10 a.m. Downtown, Main Street, Lemoore. 924-6744

CLOVIS HAUNTED TRAIL – CLOVIS

This scary, haunted, outdoor, walking experience is designed to thrill! Expect to hear eerie music, see foggy trees, and experience spooky lighting. Live zombies, creepy clowns, ghosts, and skeletons climbing about. Plus, there will be a dedicated Kids Zone. October 27th and 28th, 6–10 p.m., and October 29th, 6–9 p.m. Tickets: $5–$10. Trail starts behind the Parkway Trails Shopping Center on the Northeast corner of Willow & Nees Avenues. 1345 N. Willow Avenue, Clovis. 825-8211

COMMUNITY GOLF CARTS 'N TREATS –BASS LAKE

Enjoy Halloween fun, treats, the Golf Cart Parade, and more on October 28th starting at 6 p.m. The Pines Village, 54432 Road 432, Bass Lake. 642-3121

COMMUNITY HARVEST CARNIVAL – VISALIA

Visit the pumpkin patch, trunk-or-treat, shop local vendors, enter the costume contest, and more at this free event. October 28th from 4–7 p.m. Quail Park Community, 3440 W. Flagstaff Avenue, Visalia. 527-8245

FALL CREST FEST – OAKHURST

This free event for the whole family isn’t to be missed! Activities will include live music, hayrides, lawn games, apple cider pressing, zip lining, axe throwing, vendors, and more! Enjoy an afternoon of fall fun and stay for dinner, chili cook-off, and homemade pie auction. October 29th from 3–7 p.m. Calvin Crest, 45800 Calvin Crest Road, Oakhurst. 772-4040

FALL FAMILY FESTIVAL – VISALIA

This free, annual event features games, activities, candy, snacks, and more on October 31st from 6:30–8:30 p.m. Rise Church, 5702 W. Caldwell Avenue, Visalia. 734-8684

FALL FEST – FRESNO

Join for a free festival with a petting zoo, candy, music, a trunk-or-treat, and more from 6–8 p.m. on October 31st. People’s Church, 7172 N. Cedar Avenue, Fresno. 298-8001

FALL FESTIVAL AT TCRC – FRESNO

Families are invited to enjoy safe, free fun! Enjoy games, prizes, candy, entertainment, fall festivities, and more on October 28th from 5–7 p.m. Teague Community Resource Center, 4718 N. Polk Avenue, Fresno. 578-8991

FALL FESTIVAL AT TSG – FRESNO

Celebrate this fun time of year with games, music, prizes, and more at this free event on October 27th from 6–9 p.m. Church at the Southgate, 7249 E. Kings Canyon Road, Fresno. 554-2152

FALL FESTIVAL – MADERA

This festival features free food, a craft fair, games, and more on October 14th from 9 a.m.–1 p.m. Golden Valley Baptist Church, 12414 Road 37, Madera. 645-1700

FALL HARVEST FLING – DINUBA

Join for a free, fun night of games, activities, costume contests, and more on October 31st from 6–8 p.m. Entertainment Park Plaza, 289 S. L Street, Dinuba. 591-5940

FRESNO BHC WELL-O-WEEN – FRESNO

Join the community for some healthy and spooky fun with a haunted house, health trunk-or-treat snacks, local resources, raffles, and more! This free event is on October 21st from 4–7 p.m. Fresno Building Healthy Communities, 367 N. First Street, Fresno. 256-8722

GIBSON FARM MARKET FALL FESTIVAL –FRESNO

Families will enjoy this free fall showcase of fresh dairy, meat, fruits, vegetables, candy, nuts, plants, and other food grown right on campus. Plus, don't miss out on the fun activities! October 21st from 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Fresno State, Jordan College of Agricultural Sciences & Technology, 2415 E. San Ramon Avenue, Fresno. 278-4511

HALLOWEEN AT THE FORESTIERE UNDERGROUND GARDENS – FRESNO

Something spooky this way comes! Join on October 28th and 29th from 5–7 p.m. for underground trick-or-treating, photos with costumed characters, presentations, and more family-friendly fun! Limited capacity, advance purchase at undergroundgardens.com strongly recommended! Tickets: $15–$17. Children 2 and under are free. Forestiere Underground Gardens, 5021 W. Shaw Avenue, Fresno. 271-0734

HALLOWEEN AT THE LIBRARY – CLOVIS

Head to the library for a free trick-or-treat parade! Meet at the north entrance and stroll the 1/4-mile walk through businesses to collect candy. Costumes are encouraged, please no scary costumes, bring your own bag or pail.

October 24th from 10:15–11:15 a.m. Clovis Regional Library, 1155 Fifth Street, Clovis. 600-9531

HALLOWEEN AT THE LIBRARY – ORANGE COVE

Come dressed in your best costume for a free night of games, prizes, stories, and more! October 26th from 6–7 p.m. Orange Cove Branch Library, 815 Park Boulevard, Orange Cove. 600-9292

HALLOWEEN AT THE LIBRARY – TULARE

Enjoy this Spooktacular Carnival with games for kids and teens from 1–3 p.m. on October 14th. Costumes are encouraged! Tulare Public Library, 475 N. M Street, Tulare. 685-4500

HALLOWEEN CARNIVAL – SANGER

Join for this free, annual carnival featuring candy, games, prizes, and more on October 29th from 4:30–6 p.m. Quail Lake Community Church, 3350 N. McCall Avenue, Sanger. 260-7363

HALLOWEEN SPOOKTACULAR – CLOVIS

Enjoy free Trick-or-Treating, ghastly games, creepy crafts, phantastic prizes, and more from 11 a.m.–2 p.m. on October 21st. Register at eventbrite.com to reserve your spot. Clovis Veterans Memorial District, 808 Fourth Street, Clovis. 299-0471

HANFORD HAUNTED HOUSE – HANFORD

Enjoy vendors, activities, food, and the haunted house! October 27th–29th from 6–9 p.m. Little monsters are invited on October 29th from 2–4 p.m. for not-so-scary-stuff. Tickets: $5. Old Kings County Courthouse, 113 Court Street, Hanford. 585-2525

HARVEST FAIR – FRESNO

On October 27th, enjoy family fun including treats, a cake walk, a costume contest, food, fun, games, and more! 3–6 p.m. Fresno American Indian Health Project, 1551 E. Shaw Avenue #139, Fresno. 320-0490

HILLCREST PUMPKIN PATCH – REEDLEY

Tots too young for terror and those souls faint of heart can visit Hillcrest Farms all weekends through October 29th from 10 a.m.–5 p.m. You can enjoy a train ride, hay ride, bring a picnic, play in the hillside play area, and of course, there are plenty of pumpkins! $5 per car on first and last weekends and $10 per car on premier weekends. Hillcrest, Reed & Adams, Reedley. 638-2762

HUNTER FAMILY FARMS PUMPKIN PATCH –ATWATER

Families will enjoy the Barnyard Bounce, the Time-Traveling Tractor, picture opportunities, the Corn Chute, a corn maze, a hay ride, and more! Open through October 31st. Visit hunterfamilyfarms.com or call for hours. Tickets: $15–$45. Hunter Family Farms, 2985 N. Southern Pacific Avenue, Atwater. 209-394-4444

JACK-O-LANTERN JUBILEE – TULARE

Families will enjoy street decorations, game booths, lots of candy, horse-drawn wagon rides, and more on October 28th. Stay tuned for event times! Linder Building, 164 S. K Street, Tulare. 685-2350

JORDAN COLLEGE FALL OPEN HOUSE – FRESNO

Join for farm tours, demonstrations, giveaways, sample farm products, enjoy activities, and more! October 7th from 9 a.m.–12 p.m. Fresno State, O'Neill Park, between Chestnut & Cedar on Barstow Avenue, Fresno. 278-4240

LOMAC PUMPKIN PATCH – FRESNO

Families are invited to pick out the perfect pumpkin at the patch this month! Plus, enjoy the hay maze, bounce house, and vendors! Tickets: $5. Children 3 and under are free. LoMac Pumpkin Patch, 2674 N. Westlawn Avenue, Fresno. 275-4748

MEET & TREAT! – FRESNO

Join between 5–8 p.m. on October 31st for a family-friendly evening featuring free food while supplies last, activities, and lots of candy! Butler Church, 4884 E. Butler Avenue, Fresno. 252-3741

MERCED COLLEGE FARM U-PICK PUMPKINS –MERCED

Head to this annual event to pick your own pumpkin while supporting the Merced College Farm. Pumpkin prices range from $1–$14. Open October 14th, 15th, 21st, 22nd, 28th, and 29th— contingent on pumpkins selling out. Merced College, 3600 M Street, Merced. 209-384-6260

MONSTER MASH BASH – VISALIA

The werewolves will howl and the monsters will mash at this fun, free Halloween Bash! Tots can come dressed in costume ready to dance, craft, make treats, and more on October 31st from 10–11 a.m. Anthony Community Center, 345 N. Jacob Street, Visalia. 713-4365

OAKHURST FALL FESTIVAL – OAKHURST

Enjoy family fun, food, carnival rides, vendors, pumpkins, entertainment, and more at this annual festival! October 6th from 3–9 p.m., October 7th from 10 a.m.–9 p.m., and October 8th from 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Tickets: $5, children 5 and under are free. Oakhurst Community Park, 49074 Civic Circle Drive, Oakhurst. 683-7766

PARISH FESTIVAL – CLOVIS

Families are invited to this free festival featuring food, games, music, a kids zone, vendors, and more on October 8th from 9 a.m.–5 p.m. Our Lady of Perpetual Help, 333 Eighth Street, Clovis. 299-7504

PUMPKIN PALOOZA – SELMA

This fun, family event is free to attend and features a pumpkin patch, train ride, face painting, kids activities, music, food, and more!

October 14th from 2–6 p.m. Pioneer Village, 1880 Art Gonzales Parkway, Selma. 891-2200

SAFE NIGHT OUT – FRESNO

Enjoy a safe and fun Halloween party with free Trunk-or-Treating, a Haunted House, and more!

October 28th–31st from 4–8 p.m. Maxie L. Parks Community Center, 1802 E. California Avenue, Fresno. 621-2967

SIMONIAN FARMS PUMPKIN PATCH – CLOVIS

Take the family to this fun patch and grab the perfect pumpkin! Open October 1st–31st, call for days and times. Simonian Farms, 2629 S. Clovis Avenue, Clovis. 237-2294

SPOOKLEY MEET & GREET –FRESNO

Head to the bookstore to meet and greet Spookley the Square Pumpkin. Enjoy this free storytime event at 11 a.m. on October 14th. Barnes & Noble, 7849 N. Blackstone Avenue, Fresno. 437-0484

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How to Protect Your Kids from Cyberbullying

by Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

Many parents worry that their kids will become victims of cyberbullying, and for good reason: research shows that almost half of all middle and high school students are cyberbullied at some point. If that’s the case, what can you do to protect your kids?

First, monitor your kids’ online behavior on a regular basis and pay close attention to which sites they’re on, who they interact with, and the nature of their interactions. As Sarah Brown, an expert on children’s use of technology, says, “Being familiar with their online world is the best way for you to notice if something is wrong.” Research shows that parents who don’t monitor their kids’ online behavior are more likely to be unaware that their kids are being cyberbullied. There are many ways to monitor what your kids are doing online, including setting up their online accounts together with them so that you know their usernames and passwords,

creating Google Alerts with your kids’ names, installing monitoring software on their devices, and requiring them to allow you to “friend” or “follow” them online.

If you notice any interactions that could be cause for alarm, speak to your kids right away. Since kids often try to hide the fact that they’re being cyberbullied, ensure them ahead of time that they can always come to you with any problem, no matter how big or small. It’s very important, say Dr. Sameer Hinduja and Dr. Justin Patchin of the Cyberbullying Research Center, to, “cultivate and maintain open, candid lines of communication with your children, so that they’re ready and willing to come to you whenever they experience something unpleasant or distressing in cyberspace.”

Make sure your kids know that you won’t ban them from going online if they come to you for help. As Dr. Michael Nuccitelli, a well-known child psychologist and expert on cyberbullying, says, consistently remind your kids that, “they’ll not lose their online privileges, interactive online gaming

time, mobile devices, or social network site privileges due to cyberbullying issues provided they are open, honest, and forthright.” Try not to overreact to situations as this will make your kids think that you’ll overreact if they tell you about future issues.

When you speak to your kids about their online activities, encourage them not to respond in kind to wannabe cyberbullies— this will only exacerbate the problem. Tara Fishler, a prominent expert on mediation and conflict resolution, says, “responding lets the bully know they affected you. Not posting a response gives you some control so you are not sucked into their harmful activities.” Instead, encourage your kids to "block" or "unfriend" any wannabe cyberbullies.

As part of your regular conversations with your kids, teach them safe online habits. This includes such basic online

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Children spend from six to eight hours a day in school. While school has a significant influence upon them, a child’s after-school hours are as valuable as their in-school time. They continue to learn after the bell rings.

Aspire Speech & Learning Center

Fresno (559) 228-9100

We use effective academic programs designed for learners who do not learn quickly in a classroom environment or may struggle with Reading, Math, and Handwriting Skills. We use programs such as Barton Reading and Spelling®, Math U See®, Fast ForWord® Language and Reading Programs, and Handwriting Without Tears® for individual tutoring. We also offer homework support by providing structured assistance with homework and school projects in a comfortable learning environment with qualified instructors. This flexible, affordable, and successful service provides your child with positive study and organizational skills to help stay ahead in the classroom and alleviate stress. In August and September, there is a limited-time offer of one-hour free tutoring with the purchase of your first hour. Call to book a time or set up a free consultation for individual tutoring. We can help your child enjoy learning again! Check out our website at www.aspirespeech.com.

Cullinan Education Center

Fresno (559) 43-LEARN

Thirty-three years of helping students close achievement gaps in reading, writing, and spelling using explicit multisensory Orton Gillingham instruction with an emphasis on decoding, fluency and comprehension. Tutoring is also available in basic math through trigonometry and advanced writing and grammar. Call today to schedule a FREE consultation. Visit our website at www.cullinaneducation.com.

Fresno Fencing Club

Fresno (559) 224-1910

Year round fencing classes for children ages 7 to adult. Kids learn self-discipline, coordination, fitness and social skills. Classes fill quickly! Call today for free registration! www.fresno-fencing.com

Home-Based Tutoring

Central Valley • tutoringhomebased@gmail.com

Experienced home-based tutor available. I offer one-on-one tutoring sessions for students in grades K through 6. Homework help available. Please email tutoringhomebased@gmail.com.

TutorPi-Elena Diestelkamp

Fresno/Clovis (559) 706-6305

I am a credential teacher who offers personalized tutoring in Mathematics from Basic to High School. I will help your child to succeed with the goal of improve understanding and grades. www.tutorpi.com

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OctoberCalendar

Events are compiled six weeks in advance, we suggest that you call the telephone numbers provided to verify dates, times, costs, and locations of events. To Publicize Your Event: Central California Parent invites you to publicize your event by emailing a description including location, date, time, admission prices, age suitability, phone number for information, and photos. Central California Parent reserves the right to limit entries in this free service and to prioritize free, family events. Deadline is the 10th of the month preceding the event. If you have any questions, feel free to email us at calendar@ccparent.com or call (559) 435-1409.

3 Tuesday

This free event features koi exhibits, vendors, food, raffles, and more from 9 a.m.–3 p.m. at the Group Activity Area next to the Shinzen Friendship Garden. Woodward Park, 7775 N. Friant Road, Fresno. 970-8508

Head to Mi-

chaels to decorate your own pumpkin for free from 2–4 p.m. Bring your own pumpkin or purchase one in store. Sign up online. Contact your local Michaels for more information. 353-3201 or 324-8725

FAMILY STORYTIME Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10–11 a.m. Gillis Branch Library, 629 W. Dakota Avenue, Fresno. 600-9915

SYMPHONIC BAND CONCERT  Enjoy this free, student concert at 7 p.m. Fresno Pacific University, Lyles Theater, Warkentine Culture & Arts Center, 4838 E. Butler Avenue, Fresno. 453-2267

4 Wednesday

FAMILY STORYTIME–FOWLER Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10–11 a.m. Fowler Branch Library, 306 S Seventh Street, Fowl-

FAMILY STORYTIME–KERMAN Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10:30–11:30 a.m. Kerman Branch Library, 15081 W. Kearney Boulevard, Kerman. 846-8804

FRESNO FUEGO Cheer on your Fresno Fuego FC as they play Greenville Triumph SC at 7 p.m. Tickets: $56–$89. Fresno State Soccer Stadium, 1647 E. Barstow Avenue, Fresno. 573-9323

Win free tickets to a Fresno Monsters game!

Fresno Monsters hockey is BACK! Experience all the fun and excitement this season at the coolest place in town, Gateway Ice Center. Enjoy great food and cheer on our own Fresno Monsters as they fight to earn their spot at Nationals. Wear your favorite green attire and don't miss a single drop of the puck for great family fun. Catch a Fresno Monsters game through February! Visit fresnomonsters.com for ticket information and the game schedule.

Central California Parent is giving away tickets to four winners to the December 7th game at the Selland Arena in Fresno! To be entered in our free random drawing, please send a postcard along with your name, address, email, and phone number to: Central California Parent: Fresno Monsters, 7638 N. Ingram, Suite 101, Fresno, CA 93711. Hurry, our random drawing will be held November 1st! One entry per family, please.

THE BIG FRESNO FAIR  Big times are back at the fair this year! Enjoy live horse races, carnival rides, game booths, fair food, kids activities, and so much more! 4–11 p.m. Tickets: $8–$12. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

5 Thursday

FRESNO MONSTERS  Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take on the Las Vegas Thunderbirds at 7:45 p.m. Tickets: $14–$17. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. 549-4849

THE BIG FRESNO FAIR  Big times are back at the fair this year! Enjoy live horse races, carnival rides, game booths, fair food, kids activities, and so much more! 10 a.m.–11 p.m. Tickets: $8–$12. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

6 Friday

FAMILY FRIDAYS AT MORAVIA Enjoy Circus Night with carnival games, face painting, and more. Kids will also enjoy the playground! 6–9 p.m. Tickets: $5, kids are free! Moravia Wines, 3620 N. Bishop Avenue, Fresno. 843-2140

FIRST FRIDAYS  Nurture scientific imaginations, build confidence, and encourage testing, tinkering, creating, and wonder today for only $1!  9 a.m.–1 p.m. Fresno Discovery Center, 1944 N. Winery Avenue, Fresno. 251-5533

FRESNO MONSTERS  Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take on the Las Vegas Thunderbirds at 6 p.m. Tickets: $14–$17. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. 549-4849

MOVIES IN THE PARK–VISALIA Following Centennial in the Park, families will enjoy food, vendors, and a free showing of DC The League of Super-Pets at 6 p.m. Movie begins at dusk. Riverway Sports Park, 3611 N. Dinuba Boulevard, Visalia. 713-4365

THE BIG FRESNO FAIR  Big times are back at the fair this year! Enjoy live horse races, carnival rides, game booths, fair food, kids activities, and so much more! 10–12 a.m. Tickets: $8–$12. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

THE PLAY THAT GOES WRONG–OAKHURST What could go wrong?

Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, and the legendary game of Clue meet up with Faulty Towers, the audience will roar with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 7 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7112

7 Saturday

ALOHA IN THE PARK–CLOVIS  Celebrate the Aloha spirit at this free community event that brings together Polynesians and Poly-at-heart for a day of music, food, fun, and entertainment. 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Dry Creek Park, 885 N. Clovis Avenue, Clovis. 593-9033

COMMUNITY CONCERT  Enjoy this free concert at 4 p.m. Fresno Pacific University, Lyles Theater, Warkentine Culture & Arts Center, 4838 E. Butler Avenue, Fresno. 453-2267

DIY KIDS WORKSHOPS Join for a free workshop where kids can make a Rescue Floatplane from 9 a.m.–12 p.m. While supplies last. Visit homedepot.com/workshops to register in advance and find your local Home Depot. Home Depot. 294-9600 or 431-9860

FRESNO MONSTERS  Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take on the Las Vegas Thunderbirds at 5 p.m. Tickets: $14–$17. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. 549-4849

KIDS CLUB  Enjoy this free opportunity for kids to learn in a fun, interactive setting. Focusing on sustainability and living eco-friendly, this program is designed to teach kids about the importance of living with a "green" mindset. 11:30 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Fashion Fair Mall, 645 E. Shaw Avenue, Fresno. 224-1591

KINGS RENAISSANCE FAIRE–HANFORD  Enjoy jugglers, jousting events, games, food, arts and crafts, medieval performances, and more from 10 a.m.–6 p.m. Free admission and parking. Hanford Civic Park, 400 N. Douty Street, Hanford. 585-2525

MAYA CARES Families are invited to join for a sensory-friendly movie today at 10:30 a.m. Entry is free for guests with special needs and companion tickets are $6. Maya Cinemas, 3090 E. Campus Pointe Drive, Fresno. 549-0005

THE BIG FRESNO FAIR  Big times are back at the fair this year! Enjoy live horse races, carnival rides, game booths, fair food, kids activities, and so much more! 10–12 a.m. Tickets: $8–$12. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

THE PLAY THAT GOES WRONG–OAKHURST What could go wrong? Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, and the legendary game of Clue meet up with Faulty Towers, the audience will roar with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 7 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7112

8 Sunday

KINGS RENAISSANCE FAIRE–HANFORD  Enjoy jugglers, jousting events, games, food, arts and crafts, medieval performances, and more from 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Free admission and parking. Hanford Civic Park, 400 N. Douty Street, Hanford. 585-2500

SUNDAY MAKEBREAK Head to Michaels to make Friendship Bracelets for free from 2–4 p.m. Sign up online. Contact your local Michaels for more information. 353-3201 or 324-8725

THE BIG FRESNO FAIR  Big times are back at the fair this year! Enjoy live horse races, carnival rides, game booths, fair food, kids activities, and so much more! 10 a.m.–11 p.m. Tickets: $8–$12. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fres-

10 Tuesday

FAMILY STORYTIME Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10–11 a.m. Gillis Branch Library, 629 W. Dakota Avenue, Fresno. 600-9915

THE BIG FRESNO FAIR  Big times are back at the fair this year! Enjoy live horse races, carnival rides, game booths, fair food, kids activities, and so much more! 4–11 p.m. Tickets: $8–$12. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

11 Wednesday

FAMILY STORYTIME–KERMAN Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10:30–11:30 a.m. Kerman Branch Library, 15081 W. Kearney Boulevard, Kerman. 846-8804

THE BIG FRESNO FAIR  Big times are back at the fair this year! Enjoy live horse races, carnival rides, game booths, fair food, kids activities, and so much more! 10 a.m.–11 p.m. Tickets: $8–$12. Kids 12 and under are free today with a paid adult. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

12 Thursday

Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha

with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 2 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41,

THE BIG FRESNO FAIR  Big times are back at the fair this year! Enjoy live horse races, carnival rides, game booths, fair food, kids activities, and so much more! 10 a.m.–11 p.m. Tickets: $8–$12. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

13 Friday

FAMILY FRIDAYS AT MORAVIA Enjoy Circus Night with carnival games, face painting, and more. Kids will also enjoy the playground! 6–9 p.m. Tickets: $5, kids are free! Moravia Wines, 3620 N. Bishop Avenue, Fresno. 843-2140

food, kids activities, and so much more! 10 a.m.–11 p.m. Tickets: $8–$12. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fres-

THE BIG FRESNO FAIR  Big times are back at the fair this year! Enjoy live horse races, carnival rides, game booths, fair food, kids activities, and so much more! 10–12 a.m. Tickets: $8–$12. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

THE PLAY THAT GOES WRONG–OAKHURST What could go wrong?

Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, and the legendary game of Clue meet up with Faulty Towers, the audience will roar with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 7 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7112

14 Saturday

KIDS ZONE  Join in-store for a free crafting event where kids can make a haunted house or fall scene from 11 a.m.–12 p.m. Fashion Fair Mall, JCPenney, 555 E. Shaw Avenue, Fresno. 224-8330

KINGSBURG FIRE DEPARTMENT

OPEN HOUSE  Join for food, educational activities, booths, and more at this free community event from 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Kingsburg Fire Department Station 1, 1460 Marion Street, Kingsburg. 707-4949

MAYA CARES Families are invited to join for a sensory-friendly movie today at 10:30 a.m. Entry is free for guests with special needs and companion tickets are $6. Maya Cinemas, 3090 E. Campus Pointe Drive, Fresno. 549-0005

OPEN COCKPIT DAY–ATWATER

Families and kids of all ages are invited to tour crafts, take part in the kids zone, and enjoy food vendors. 9 a.m.–4 p.m. Tickets: $10–$20. Kids 6 and under are free with a paid adult. Castle Air Museum, 5050 Santa Fe Drive, Atwater. 209-723-2178

THE BIG FRESNO FAIR  Big times are back at the fair this year! Enjoy live horse races, carnival rides, game booths, fair food, kids activities, and so much more! 10–12 a.m. Tickets: $8–$12. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

THE PLAY THAT GOES WRONG–OAKHURST What could go wrong?

Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, and the legendary game of Clue meet up with Faulty Towers, the audience will roar with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 7 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7112

15 Sunday

THE BIG FRESNO FAIR  Big times are back at the fair this year! Enjoy live horse races, carnival rides, game booths, fair food, kids activities, and so much more! 10 a.m.–11 p.m. Tickets: $8–$12. The Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

THE PLAY THAT GOES WRONG–OAKHURST What could go wrong? Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, and the legendary game of Clue meet up with Faulty Towers, the audience will roar with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 2 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7112

16 Monday

FAMILY STORYTIME–FOWLER Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10–11 a.m. Fowler Branch Library, 306 S Seventh Street, Fowler. 600-9281

17 Tuesday

FAMILY STORYTIME Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10–11 a.m. Gillis Branch Library, 629 W. Dakota Avenue, Fresno. 600-9915

18

Wednesday

FAMILY STORYTIME–KERMAN Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10:30–11:30 a.m. Kerman Branch Library, 15081 W. Kearney Boulevard, Kerman. 846-8804

19 Thursday

PAJAMA NIGHT Stories, songs, and gentle movement to help wind down the day, perfect for kids ages 3–6. Feel free to wear your jammies—blankies and stuffed animals are welcome, too! 6:30 p.m.–7:30 p.m. Woodward Park Regional Library, 944 E. Perrin Avenue, Fresno. 600-3135

20 Friday

FAMILY FRIDAYS AT MORAVIA Enjoy

Circus Night with carnival games, face painting, and more. Kids will also enjoy the playground! 6–9 p.m. Tickets: $5, kids are free! Moravia Wines, 3620 N. Bishop Avenue, Fresno. 843-2140

LIVE ON THE LAWN–MADERA

Families are invited to bring their blankets and chairs for a free concert from 6–9 p.m. Martin Morgan Amphitheater, Tesoro Viejo, Treasure Hills Drive, Madera. 822-3375

MOVIES IN THE PARK–VISALIA

Families will enjoy food, vendors, and a free showing of Encanto at 6 p.m. Movie begins at dusk. Kiwanis Park, 1216 S. Vista Street, Visalia. 713-4365

STAR PARTY  Observe planets, stars, galaxies, and nebulae while learning about the night sky from the Central Valley Astronomers from 6–10 p.m. Free! River Park, 71 E. Via La Plata, Fresno. 288-2094

THE PLAY THAT GOES WRONG–

OAKHURST What could go wrong? Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, and the legendary game of Clue meet up with Faulty Towers, the audience will roar with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 7 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7112

21 Saturday

DIY-U AT LOWE'S  Bring your mini-DIYer into Lowe’s to build a Heroic Fire Truck at one of the select time slots for a workshop hosted by a Red Vest experts from 9 a.m.–12 p.m. Walk-Ins start at 12 p.m. Reserve your space online in advance. Free! Your local Lowe's. 436-6266

HAPPY MAMA EXPO The biggest virtual Maternity Show of the year is back! This national, public event supports the needs of women along their journey to motherhood from family planning and preconception to pregnancy, labor and delivery through postpartum. 4 a.m.–4 p.m. This expo is virtual and free to attend. Visit happymama. global/expo2023 to register for a ticket and learn more. 619-800-6443

HARVEST HOME: A FESTIVAL OF TRADITIONAL AMERICANA MUSIC Enjoy live music and dancing, kids activities, food, and more from 12–5 p.m. Tickets: $30. Kids 12 and under are free. River Center, 11605 Old Friant Road, Fresno. 248-8480

MAYA CARES Families are invited to join for a sensory-friendly movie today at 10:30 a.m. Entry is free for guests with special needs and companion tickets are $6. Maya Cinemas, 3090 E. Campus Pointe Drive, Fresno. 549-0005

MERCED COUNTY NUT FESTIVAL

Enjoy a day of free, family fun celebrating Merced County's almond, walnut, and pistachio industry! There will be games, demos, performers, and more from 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Merced County Fairgrounds, 900 Martin Luther King Junior Way, Merced. 209-722-1506

THE PLAY THAT GOES WRONG–OAKHURST What could go wrong?

Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, and the legendary game of Clue meet up with Faulty Towers, the audience will roar with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 7 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7112

TIME TRAVELERS' COUNTRY FAIR

This unique event features educational stations, activities, food, entertainment, and more from 11a.m.–5 p.m. Tickets: $8–$15. Kearney Park, 7160 W. Kearney Boulevard, Fresno. 441-0862

22 Sunday

SUNDAY MAKEBREAK Head to Michaels to make a Witch Silhouette Painting for free from 2–4 p.m. Sign up online. Contact your local Michaels for more information. 353-3201 or 324-8725

THE PLAY THAT GOES WRONG–OAKHURST What could go wrong?

Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, and the legendary game of Clue meet up with Faulty Towers, the audience will roar with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 2 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7112

23 Monday

FAMILY STORYTIME–FOWLER Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10–11 a.m. Fowler Branch Library, 306 S Seventh Street, Fowler. 600-9281

24 Tuesday

FAMILY STORYTIME Join for an interactive storytime for all ages. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10–11 a.m. Gillis Branch Library, 629 W. Dakota Avenue, Fresno. 600-9915

25 Wednesday

FAMILY STORYTIME–KERMAN Join for an interactive storytime for all ages. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10:30–11:30 a.m. Kerman Branch Library, 15081 W. Kearney Boulevard, Kerman. 846-8804

26 Thursday

FAMILY NIGHT–FOWLER Families will enjoy crafts, snacks, and fun from 6–7:30 p.m. Fowler Branch Library, 306 S Seventh Street, Fowler. 600-9281

27 Friday

FAMILY FRIDAYS AT MORAVIA Enjoy

Circus Night with carnival games, face painting, and more. Kids will also enjoy the playground! 6–9 p.m. Tickets: $5, kids are free! Moravia Wines, 3620 N. Bishop Avenue, Fresno. 843-2140

THE PLAY THAT GOES WRONG–OAKHURST What could go wrong? Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, and the legendary game of Clue meet up with Faulty Towers, the audience will roar with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 7 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7112

THE WAR OF THE WORLDS–VISALIA

Enjoy a special, live performance from TCOE student actors at 5 p.m. Suggested for ages 12 and up, but all are welcome. After the show, enjoy a fall night sky presentation. Tickets: $10. YMCA Liberty School, 11535 Avenue 264, Visalia. 733-6433

28 Saturday

MAYA CARES Families are invited to join for a sensory-friendly movie today at 10:30 a.m. Entry is free for guests with special needs and companion tickets are $6. Maya Cinemas, 3090 E. Campus Pointe Drive, Fresno. 549-0005

THE PLAY THAT GOES WRONG–OAKHURST What could go wrong?

Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, and the legendary game of Clue meet up with Faulty Towers, the audience will roar with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 7 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7112

THE WAR OF THE WORLDS–VISALIA Enjoy a special, live performance from TCOE student actors at 2 and 5 p.m. Suggested for ages 12 and up, but all are welcome. After the show, enjoy a fall night sky presentation. Tickets: $10. YMCA Liberty School, 11535 Avenue 264, Visalia. 733-6433

29 Sunday

SUNDAY MAKEBREAK Head to Michaels to make Mandala Pumpkin Art for free from 2–4 p.m. Sign up online. Contact your local Michaels for more information. 353-3201 or 324-8725

THE PLAY THAT GOES WRONG–OAKHURST What could go wrong?

Plenty! Brilliantly hilarious, when Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, and the legendary game of Clue meet up with Faulty Towers, the audience will roar with laughter. Enjoy this murder mystery where everything on stage can and does go wrong. Rated PG. Tickets: $13–$18. 2 p.m. Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7112

30 Monday

FAMILY STORYTIME–FOWLER Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10–11 a.m. Fowler Branch Library, 306 S Seventh Street, Fowler. 600-9281

31 Tuesday

FAMILY STORYTIME Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10–11 a.m. Gillis Branch Library, 629 W. Dakota Avenue, Fresno. 600-9915

Things We Love!

Red & Olive: Halloween Babies

Spook-tacularly cute! The fair trade, handmade Halloween Baby Collection is the perfect treat for little ones this year. As a company owned by Latin women, Red & Olive embodies the fusion of American resources and Peruvian artistry. They proudly celebrate their cultural heritage by ensuring that every doll and accessory is made ethically. $35 • redandoliveco.com

We love all the animal options: Halloween, woodland, farm, and more!

Souper Cubes

Souper Cubes are a unique invention that make food waste a thing of the past. Designed like extra-large ice cube trays, they’re available in a variety of portion sizes and can be used to freeze just about anything in a perfectly portioned cube. The 100% food-grade silicone containers are BPA free and can be frozen or baked up to 415° F. You can store anything from broth and tomato sauce, to a stir fry with rice, cheesecake, and more. Make freezing and reheating your favorite homemade foods easy! $5.95–$110 • soupercubes.com

They even have MyMilk™ Trays for freezing breast milk!

Platterful

This all-in-one charcuterie subscription experience is delivered straight to your doorstep and is perfect for big and little foodies alike. Kits include perfectly-paired artisan meats, cheeses, and accompaniments along with step-by-step instructions and how-tovideos to teach you how to build a drool-worthy board sure to impress your friends, family, and taste buds. Kids will love helping put together these fun kits! Platterful also gives back—each box ordered donates 10 meals to combat childhood hunger. $65–$269 • platterful.com

Check out their Halloween-themed box for spooky, fall flavors!

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security measures as never revealing identifying, personal information like their home addresses, phone numbers, and where they go to school; not sharing their usernames and passwords with others; not leaving online accounts accessible and vulnerable on public devices; and never opening messages and links from people they don’t already know.

Your kids should also learn to select appropriate privacy settings on their online accounts, so that they only accept friends or follow requests from people they personally know, and allow posts to be seen only to their circle of friends or followers. As Mrs. Brown succinctly puts it, “Limiting online exposure helps keep the bullies at bay.”

Half-day program, loving Christian teachers. Curriculum art, music, literature, science, math, reading readiness, Christian nurture. Reasonable tuition.

More generally, teach your kids to think carefully before they post anything online. They need to understand the potential repercussions from anything they post, including how certain posts could be used maliciously. A good rule of thumb is to say and do online only what you would say and do face-to-face to someone. Your kids should understand that as soon as they post something, it’s out of their control. Their posts can be forwarded without their knowledge or consent. Ruth Carter, a lawyer who specializes in social media and internet law, says, “Kids should be taught early and often that they have no idea when a post will take on a life of its own and go places they can’t control.” A more strict, but no less useful approach would be to establish actual “rules” for your kids’ online activities, including deciding which sites they’re allowed to access, for how long, and what they are permitted to do on those sites.

A final way you can protect your kids from becoming victims of cyberbullying is to stay in regular contact with their teachers. Since a kid’s cyberbullies are often to be found among their classmates, teachers are some of the best sources of information about any potential problems. It’s important that you speak to their teachers not just about how they’re doing academically, but also socially. Teachers may notice troubling interactions inside or outside the classroom.

Monitoring your child's online behavior, having open conversations, and keeping in touch with their teacher are all great ways to help protect your kids online and beyond.

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SPOOKTACULAR AT THE MANUEL – VISALIA

This free, family event features trick-or-treating, music, crafts, face painting, and more! October 31st from 5:30–6:30 p.m. Manuel F. Hernandez Community Center, 247 W. Ferguson Avenue, Visalia. 713-4365

SPOOKTACULAR MOVIE NIGHT – VISALIA

Gather the ghouls and boys to watch Spider-Man: No Way Home, trick-or-treat, enter the costume contest, win prizes, and more on October 28th!

Gates open at 5:30 p.m., movie begins at 6:30 p.m. Free tickets at sponsored locations, call for more information. Valley Strong Ballpark, 300 N. Giddings Street, Visalia. 732-4433

SPOOKYLAND IN STORYLAND – FRESNO

Families are invited to an old-fashioned Halloween on October 28th from 6–9 p.m. Enjoy trick-or-treating, bobbing for apples, a cake walk, games, costumed characters, and more. No scary costumes. Tickets: $4–$6. Children 2 and under are free. Storyland, 890 W. Belmont Avenue, Fresno. 486-2124

SPRINGVILLE APPLE FESTIVAL – SPRINGVILLE

Families will enjoy arts and crafts, food booths, game booths, prizes and contests, and more!

October 21st from 9 a.m.–4 p.m. Downtown Springville, Highway 190 between Tule River and Bridge Drives, Springville. 744-3810

SWEET THISTLE FARMS PUMPKIN PATCH –CLOVIS

Enjoy fall fun including hayrides, farm-grown pumpkins, photo ops, and food. October 1st–22nd, Saturdays and Sundays 10 a.m. –4 p.m. $25 per car. Sweet Thistle Farms, 5365 N. Mendocino Avenue, Clovis. Visit sweetthistlefarms.com to reserve a space and for more information.

TARANTULA AWARENESS FESTIVAL –COARSEGOLD

Join for creepy, crawly fun and festivities at this free festival honoring tarantulas! Enjoy activities, demonstrations, and more on October 28th from 10:30 a.m.–5 p.m. Coarsegold Historic Village, 35300 Highway 41, Coarsegold. 683-3900

TRICKS & TREATS – FRESNO

On October 21st from 10 a.m.–2 p.m. your costumed family can enjoy candy, fun, and games for $1. Members are free. Fresno Discovery Center, 1944 N. Winery Avenue, Fresno. 251-5533

TRICK-OR-TREAT ON G – REEDLEY

Kids can trick-or-treat from business-to-business on October 31st from 3–5 p.m. Don't forget to stop by the Greater Reedley Chamber of Commerce for a photo opp with Ribberto the mascot! Downtown, G Street, Reedley. 638-3548

TRUNK R TREAT AT NEW COV – FRESNO

The safest environment for your kids to get tons of candy! Check out decorated vehicles and don't miss Candy Corn Lane for preschool-age kids. October 29th from 3–5 p.m. New Covenant Community Church, 1744 E. Nees Avenue, Fresno. 298-0688

TRUNK-OR-TREAT AT CLOVIS HILLS – CLOVIS

Families are invited to join for free candy collection, a movie on the lawn, and delicious food trucks starting from 6:30–8 p.m. on October 30th. Clovis Hills Community Church, Old Town Campus, 1363 Fifth Street, Clovis. 297-2600

TRUNK-OR-TREAT AT FIRST PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH – FRESNO

Enjoy a Trunk-or-Treat at 12 p.m. on October 29th. There will fun, food, games, and more for costumed kids! First Presbyterian Church of Fresno, 1540 M Street, Fresno. 485-6460

TRUNK-OR-TREAT AT FIRST STREET CHURCH –FRESNO

Families will enjoy this free-to-enter spectacular event for the whole community! Enjoy trunk-ortreating, bounce houses, face painting, cotton candy, food, and more! October 28th from 5–8 p.m. First Street Church, 5688 N. First Street, Fresno. 439-2251

TRUNK-OR-TREAT AT PHOTOJENNIC – FRESNO

Hop from trunk-to-trunk for candy, shop vendors and food, win prizes, and more! This free event takes place October 29th from 2–5 p.m. Photojennic Memories Studio, 4325 W. Shaw Avenue #103, Fresno. 213-9607

TRUNK-OR-TREAT AT THE NEW MANCHESTER – FRESNO

Head to the mall for this free, not-so-scary event with decorated trunks, treats, and the Fresno Police Department! October 21st from 11 a.m.–1 p.m. The New Manchester, 1901 E. Shields Avenue, Fresno. 227-1901

TRUNK-OR-TREAT AT THE RODEO GROUNDS –COARSEGOLD

Kids are invited to collect candy at this free event on October 28th from 6–9 p.m. Coarsegold Rodeo Grounds, 44777 Rodeo Grounds Lane, Coarsegold. 760-0158

TRUNK-OR-TREAT AT UCP – HANFORD

Join for this free, safe, family event on October 15th from 11 a.m.–3 p.m. Enjoy trunk-or-treating, food, the pumpkin patch, photos, and more! Costumes are encouraged. Hanford Civic Center Park, 401 N. Irwin Street, Hanford. 584-1551

TRUNK-OR-TREAT IN DOWNTOWN – SANGER

Kids are invited to safe trunk-or-treating on October 31st from 6:30–8 p.m. for this annual event. Downtown, Sevenths & N Streets, Sanger. 875-4575

TRUNK-OR-TREAT IN OLD TOWN – CLOVIS

Kids won’t be scared as they gather free treats from decorated trunks from 5:30–8:30 p.m. on October 27th. After all the candy has been gathered, hit the market! Old Town Clovis, Pollasky between Third & Bullard, Clovis. 298-5774

TRUNK-OR-TREAT IN THE PARK – CHOWCHILLA

Enjoy a free night of treats, a costume contest, and more! Trunk-or-Treat from 6–8:30 p.m., costume contest at 6:30 p.m. October 28th. Veterans Memorial Park, 600 W. Robertson Boulevard, Chowchilla. 665-8615

VILLAGE HALLOWEEN AT IMAGINEU – VISALIA

ImagineU Children’s Museum will be converting the beloved museum into a free Haunted Village Halloween trick-or-treat extravaganza! From 3–6 p.m. on October 31st, kids ages 1–8 can trick-or-treat in a safe, indoor location. ImagineU Children’s Museum, 210 N. Tipton Street, Visalia. 733-5975

VISTA RANCH PUMPKIN PATCH – MERCED

Make your way to Vista Ranch to enjoy a unique, beautiful country setting. With a variety of pumpkins, squash, gourds, and stalks—there’s something for everyone! Plus, don’t forget about the wood-fired pizzas for purchase on the weekends! Open October 1st–31st from 9 a.m.–6 p.m. Vista Ranch, 7326 E. Highway 140, Merced. 209-722-8200

VOSSLER FARMS – VISALIA

Get lost in the giant corn maze, find the perfect pumpkin in the home-grown patch, get spooked in the Field of Screams, and more! Visit vosslerfarms.com for days, hours, and prices. Open through October 31st. Vossler Farms, 26773 S. Mooney Boulevard, Visalia. 909-5929

WILD PATCH PUMPKINS – CLOVIS

If you’re looking for unique pumpkins, head to Wild Patch Pumpkin! With pumpkins in all shapes, colors, and sizes, your family will have a great time picking out a perfect pumpkin. Open October 1st–31st, 4–9 p.m. on Weekdays, and 10 a.m.–9 p.m. on Weekends. Follow on Instagram @wildpatchpumpkins for more updates! Wild Patch Pumpkin, 225 W. Bullard Avenue, Clovis.

ZOOBOO AT CHAFFEE ZOO – FRESNO

Dress up in your Halloween costume and prepare for a night full of ghosts, goblins, and guaranteed fun! Head on over to the zoo for fall fun, animal attractions, a pirate ship, and trickor-treating. Costumes are permitted (no scary costumes, blow-up costumes, or masks.) October 12th–14th, 19th, 21st, and 26th–28th from 5–8 p.m. Tickets: $16–$22. Tickets are limited and sell frighteningly fast! Fresno Chaffee Zoo, 894 W. Belmont Avenue, Fresno. 498-5910

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Make A Difference From The Comfort Of Your Home California MENTOR is seeking loving individuals with an available bedroom, to support an adult with special needs. Receive ongoing support and a generous monthly payment ranging from $1,020-$4,500.

seeking loving individuals with an available bedroom, to support an adult with special needs. Receive ongoing support and a generous monthly payment ranging from $1,020-$4,500.

Contact Tori Winter Today (559) 636-2894 Ext. 5006 ourAskabout Program!Referral www.MentorsWanted.com

Receive ongoing support and a generous monthly payment ranging from $1,020–$4,500.

Contact Tori Winter Today (559) 636-2894 Ext. 5006 ourAskabout Program!Referral www.MentorsWanted.com

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Enjoy lots of fall fun throughout the Zoo including pumpkins, a pirate ship, activities, and candy galore.

Enjoy lots of fall fun throughout the Zoo including pumpkins, a pirate ship, activities, and candy galore.

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