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The Award Winning

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DECEMBER 2023 | KISLEV-TEVET 5784

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“Shining light” is the perfect phrase and image for this month’s Jewish Journal which includes Hanukkah, our festival of lights. After two horrible and interminable months of war between Israel and Hamas, as of mid-November, sometimes it seems that nothing has changed. The war continues, the hostages are still not freed, and more people are dying every day. And at the same time, it also seems that everything has changed. The response from our community has been extraordinary and inspiring. That includes our local, national and international Jewish communities. Our world-wide Jewish family has stepped up to support our Israeli family through fundraising, sending supplies, people and medicine to Israel, sending workers to support Israel at jobs of soldiers who were called up to fight, through diplomacy and in so many more ways. If you look through the pages of this month’s Jewish Journal, you will see the shining path upon which our Buffalo Jewish community has stepped and continues to step up to help our fellow Jews. Read “Voices from Israel” (pages 4-5) for a glimpse at how four former Buffalonians are faring during this tense period. Then absorb the message from Federation President Margie Bryen and COO Miriam Abramovich, highlighting how Jewish Buffalo is creating light. Our local shining lights include teen Marlowe Bloomberg, (page 6) who has sent more than $1,300 to Israel from the sale of bracelets she makes, the many different segments of Buffalonians who traveled to Washington, D.C. to participate in the national rally November 14 (page 7), the leaders and teachers who are providing support for teens, students and adults (page 8), and Hillel, which is working to keep Jewish students informed and safe on campus (page 18). In addition, talented Jewish professionals Patty Simonson and Cantor Mark Horowitz are taking the helm at the JCC as CEO and COO respectively (page 12). And longtime community leaders Rick and Karen Zakalik are being honored by the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies (page 11) at its December 6 joint annual meeting with Federation (page 6), which is open to all. I hope you are moved by these many acts of local heroism and light and feel inspired to commit yourself to becoming a light in this dark season. May we all find a way to become modernday Maccabees this month. Ellen Goldstein - Editor Happy Hanukkah.

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Marlowe Bloomberg’s Response to October 7

Buffalo Stands with Israel in DC November 14

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The Challah Prince December 10

New Leadership at JCC

Zakaliks Honored with FJP Leadership Award

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Finding Light in Challenging Times BY MARJORIE BRYEN AND MIRIAM ABRAMOVICH For everyone who cares about Israel and the Jewish people, the last few months have been marked by grief, anxiety, and unprecedented challenges. Amidst this difficult time, there has been a remarkable surge in determination and communal strength. We could argue that there has even been a surge of brightness in the weeks following the massacre on October 7. This article aims to highlight a few visible glimmers of light. Light that we have seen coalesce into hope. Jewish tradition teaches us about the importance of resilience and maintaining hope, lessons that have been crucial to our people’s survival in many times of crisis. There is a well-known phrase from the Book of Proverbs: “a righteous person falls down seven times and gets up.” Resilience and determination are central to Jewish life: we get knocked down and we get back up again. For 120 years, the Buffalo Jewish Federation has been defined by these qualities. During challenging times, the collective determination of our community, and the North American Federation system as a whole, have been indispensable. In the last five years alone, the Federation has been instrumental in navigating through various crises, such as the Pittsburgh Tree of Life Massacre, the COVID pandemic, and the Buffalo Tops Massacre. These events have reinforced our core values: collaboration, strong leadership, and broad and deep community engagement and enrichment. Since that fateful Shabbat in October, we have witnessed remarkable achievements in these areas: raising critical funds, forging stronger legislative partnerships, and enhancing education. Our initial response to Israel’s tremendous humanitarian needs post

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10/7 is a testament to this collective strength. The Jewish Federations of North America spearheaded the largest fundraising effort in history, the Israel Emergency Campaign, raising over $600 million in less than three weeks. Jewish Buffalo contributed close to $300,000 to this Campaign. Congregation Shir Shalom hosted a Stand Up for Israel Concert, raising an extraordinary $55,000 in one night. These emergency funds support urgent needs in Israel; with over $175 million distributed as of November 13 to over 116 different organizations addressing front-line urgent needs on the ground in Israel. And two weeks

ago, we made it possible for nearly 100 WNYers to participate in the history-making March for Israel in DC (see more on page 7). Our efforts have also been focused locally on enhancing security and preparedness through Secure Jewish Buffalo, and on advocacy work with local legislative partners. We have been leading the community efforts to attain increased state security funding, an initiative supported by Governor Kathy Hochul. In addition, we have worked to provide vehicles for those who want to use their voices for change, including sending two buses to the March for Israel in DC last month (see page 7), an extraordinary moment of solidarity and a time to thank the President and Congress for their moral courage and support since the massacre of over 1,200 Israelis nearly two months ago. Education remains a key priority, as seen in our ongoing programs for teens, parents of young children and adults. In the coming weeks and months, you can participate in “Let’s Talk About Israel” and/ or “Addressing Antisemitism,” with distinct sessions for children and parents. Our team has also been in many rich and productive conversations with local schools and school district leadership. These initiatives are crucial in combating hate speech, preventing violence and ensuring families and children feel safe and supported while attending school. Jewish history has been marked by endless moments of determination and resilience followed by hope. The Buffalo Jewish Federation remains committed to supporting people and families in joyfully and publicly celebrating their Jewish identity. Please read this paper cover to cover, as we hope you always do, and avail yourselves on the countless opportunities provided by the myriad of agencies and congregations throughout Jewish Buffalo. Attend a Shabbat service, sign up for the “Exploring our Roots” trip to Eastern Europe in 2024, join Miriam for an upcoming Women Gathering discussion, participate in a communal candle lighting, or bring your kids to the upcoming PJ Library Hanukkah Party: Hanukkah in Candyland. There are so many ways to be “in community.” These gatherings not only celebrate our culture, our people and our values - but also are opportunities to both shed and share a bright light of hope. We are here to provide you, our Jewish Buffalo family, with points of connection, light in our darkest days, and opportunities to joyfully celebrate being Jewish! Please be in touch. Margie Bryen is President and Miriam Abramovich is Chief Operating Officer of the Buffalo Jewish Federation.

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Voices from Israel Dr. Stuart Fischman Shalom from Jerusalem. It’s been almost two months since the Hamas raid on the Israeli music festival and we’re at war. I’m thinking about this notable comment of U.S. National Security Council’s Coordinator for Strategic Communications John Kirby, in response to his statement condemning Hamas being harsh: “What’s harsh is the way Hamas is using people as human shields. What’s harsh is taking a couple of hundred hostages and leaving families anxious, waiting, and worrying to figure out where their loved ones are. What’s harsh is dropping in on a music festival and slaughtering a bunch of young people just trying to enjoy an afternoon. I can go on and on. That’s what’s harsh. That is what’s harsh.” The “Art of War” has changed substantially since Sun Tzu wrote in 5th century BCE China. World War I saw the introduction of aircraft, as depicted in Picasso’s “Guernica”. World War II saw full use of aircraft, and

drones became major weapons in the Ukraine War and the current conflict. Unfortunately, armed forces still need to rely on ground infantry fighting in crowded urban areas. Tunnels are a feature in Gaza, with openings in schools, religious sites, and even hospitals. This is a unique, threedimensional war. Hostages remain a critical component of any conflict. According to officials, approximately 240 Israelis are missing following the initial Gaza assault — some may be missing, but they are considered hostages until bodies are released. They are not forgotten on the home front. Israeli flags are ubiquitous—on buildings, cars, light posts, et al. Ours blew off the car and I have been searching for a scarce replacement. On Friday, doing our pre-Shabbat shopping at the mall, I was greeted by a huge stand offering flags and umbrellas, each with photos of the hostages

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and an Israeli flag. A fresh out of the oven roll was included for a contribution of 15 NIS (New Israel Shekels). In the photo on this page, the missing Israeli is a resident of Mevaseret, like I am, and was also pictured on the front page of The Jerusalem Post. The entire country, regardless of past vitriol and animosity, has become patriotic. The response to reserve call-ups is reported to be 150%, meaning that more have reported for active duty than were required by the call. This includes those earlier refusing to attend reserve meetings in protest to the new government’s legal revision plan. Ultra-Orthodox men who refused to even register for a draft exemption for yeshiva study, have

volunteered for “military duty”. As they cannot be trained for active duty in a short time, they have volunteered for office, transportation, communication positions, etc., releasing personnel for combat duty. Wives have been working in kitchens for the military and refugees from combat zones. Over 10,000 Israelis who previously attended Saturday evening protest rallies are at the Tel Aviv Convention Center packing and sorting army supplies and donations for refugees. Rallies are in support of the war effort. I’m amazed at how our country has responded to the war effort! All is quiet at home here in Mevaseret, outside of Jerusalem. No sirens since the first day. Medical appointments and shopping are available as before. Schools here in Mevaseret are functioning with armed guards outside. Appropriate prayers are added at synagogues. Stuart L. Fischman, DMD is Professor Emeritus of Oral Diagnostic Sciences at the School of Dental Medicine, SUNYB and retired Visiting Professor at the Hebrew University-Hadassah Faculty of Dental Medicine. Stuart and his wife, Jane, native Buffalonians, currently reside in Israel.

Rabbi Perry Netter October 7 began a war of annihilation. This is the war many Palestinians hoped for in 1948. This is the war they have been planning since 1967. The brutality and savagery of the attack shattered any illusion about the intentions of our neighbors, for it was not just Hamas “militants” who broke through the many breaches of the chain link fence, there were others who rushed through the fences armed only with knives and ran to our kibbutzim and settlements to rape, pillage and plunder. I have been asked many times if I should leave Israel while the missiles are flying from Gaza and Lebanon. My answer is always the same: the age of Jewish refugees is over. This is the meaning of Israel. This is my home. This is where I belong. No one will force me from my home ever again. And there is no other place I would rather be. This is the only country where its citizens rush to return from abroad when under attack. The army mobilized 300,000 reserves; 450,000 showed up in uniform. That is why there was not enough equipment for everyone. The entire country mobilized itself, organically, without a central command. Grocery store shelves are emptied as fast as they can be restocked with items the soldiers need. Hot meals are prepared, cakes are baked and delivered to our heroes on the front lines. Volunteers put on yellow vests and stand at the entrances of every city and check every car. We stay close to our safe rooms, listen for sirens, and do what needs to be done. It’s not just a slogan: Yahad nenatzeah, together we will win. Perry Netter served as Rabbi of Temple Beth Tzedek in Buffalo from 2008-2017.

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ONE MONTH OF WAR BY ALAN & DIANE SHUMAN HARKAVY

WISHING ALL A HAPPY HEALTHY NEW YEAR

A month has passed since October 7, 2023. A month has passed since the Shabbat/Simchat Torah massacre. A month has passed since the incessant sirens and barrage of rockets from Gaza began. A month has passed and sirens still blare and rockets still fall. A month has passed and our daughter, son in law and grandchildren must have rock proof windows to leave their community. A month has passed and 400,000 Israelis are still mobilized against Hamas. A month has passed and our city Jerusalem overflows with evacuees from the southern and northern border communities. A month has passed and we, like so many others, lend a hand to soldiers and the displaced families. A month has passed and we are surrounded by “Bring them Home” posters of the 241 hostages still in captivity, including 9-month old, Kfir Bibas. A month has passed and Diane’s massage work seems exceptionally crucial. A month has passed while Alan uses his podcast “Yalla Israel” to inform listeners about the war. A month has passed and we receive daily messages of support and prayers from our Jewish and non-Jewish friends. A month has passed and each sleepless night begets another day of unbearable news. A month has passed and many have forgotten or denied the events of October 7. A month has passed and Jews are under siege around the world; in Dagestan, a mob swarmed an airport hunting for Jews to kill; a sign on a store in Turkey proclaims “Jews Not Allowed”; Stars of David are painted on homes in France; and around the world, hundreds of thousands demonstrate in support of Hamas chanting “From the River to the Sea, Palestine will be Free”. People often ask why we made aliyah. There is nothing regular about our life right now. We are tired. We are sad. We are depleted. But, we are strong and clear in our love and complete devotion to the Jewish People and our beautiful Jewish State, Israel. There is no place we would rather be! Am Yisrael Chai………and Go Bills!

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One Teen’s Response to October 7 How did you respond after the brutal attack in Israel on October 7? Marlowe Bloomberg, a senior at Williamsville North High School, responded by using her creativity and talent to make bracelets to support Israel. With determination and the generosity of others, Marlowe has raised close to $2,000 for this cause. When Marlowe learned of the horrific terrorist attack on Israel by Hamas, she immediately knew she wanted to make a difference and help those in need in Israel. She began dedicating her time to making bracelets with designs using blue, white, silver, and gold beads: colors that remind her of Israel. Marlowe carefully crafts each bracelet to feature original beadwork designs. Marlowe began advertising her creations on Facebook and Instagram and was amazed at how many community members wanted to purchase her jewelry. She is overwhelmed by the support and

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is so grateful that she can channel her artistic passions toward this meaningful cause. Marlowe’s bracelets are still available for sale as she hopes to continue raising funds for Israel. For those interested in purchasing one of these unique bracelets and supporting this cause, contact Marlowe’s mother, Lauren Bloomberg, Director of HERO at lauren@buffalojewishfederation.org.

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Jewish Buffalo Marches for Israel! Tuesday, November 14 was a momentous day as close to 290,000 people participated in the March for Israel with another 250,000 watching on LiveStream. Our Federation was honored and privileged to have enabled two buses to travel to DC for the March. Members of our Federation’s extraordinary professional team led 100 Western New Yorkers, ages 10 to 88 to the March, including Jewish students from UB, Rabbis and members of several synagogues, and those affiliated with Pro-Israel Christian communities like Eagles Wings. Together we advocated for the release of 240 hostages being held in Gaza, we expressed our gratitude to Congressional leadership and President Joe Biden for their fierce and unequivocal support of Israel’s right to exist as the world’s singular Jewish and democratic state, and we decried the unprecedented increases in Jewish hate happening across North America, particularly on college campuses.

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LiNK Awarded Grant to Fight antisemitism LiNK Jewish Buffalo is excited to announce that they have been awarded a $5,000 grant from the Shine A Light Foundation, a national organization that spotlights modern day antisemitism including anti-Zionism. The foundation draws inspiration from the Hanukkah story and the idea that one small light can dispel darkness and hatred. This grant will support LiNK’s addressing antisemitism program in partnership with the Community Religious School on December 17. This gathering, chaired by Marni Marciano, includes two separate but concurrent programs. One program for parents will be facilitated by Lisa Balderman, LCSWR and will consist of critical conversations about antisemitism, role playing opportunities, and case studies to help parents understand how to aid their children in addressing antisemitism in an age-appropriate way. The other program for students in grades 5th-7th grade will be co-led by Matt Stewart, LMSW and Rabbi Alex Lazarus-Klein and will allow students time to process their experience with antisemitism. The community is also invited to attend these programs and babysitting will be available. See more information on the ad below.

Last month, several members of the Buffalo Jewish Federation team traveled to Chicago to attend FedPro, sponsored by Jewish Federations of North America. Israel was front and center throughout the conference and the team brought back tangible ways to engage and lead in our community. Pictured above are Jill Komm, Stacey Block, Mike Steklof, Jessica Wittman and Miriam Abramovich. Not pictured: Rob Goldberg who attended and participated in a panel discussion on Midlife engagement, and Regina Misercola attended a specialized track about Teen Engagement.

addressing antisemitism For Parents & 5th - 7th Graders Sunday, December 17 | 9:15 am - 12:30 pm Congregation Shir Shalom | 4660 Sheridan Drive, Williamsville FREE & Open to the Community Parent Session led by Lisa Balderman, LCSWR (babysitting available) 5th - 7th Grade Session led by Rabbi Alex Lazarus-Klein & Matt Stewart, LMSW The program will culminate with a shared experience and lunch

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Meet Israeli Challah Artist: Idan Chabasov Join Idan Chabasov, better known as the Challah Prince, for a challah braiding demonstration themed around Hanukkah on Sunday, December 10 at 2 pm at Temple Beth Zion, 805 Delaware Avenue in Buffalo. Hear Idan’s personal story, learn new and challenging braiding skills, and go home with a beautiful, ready to bake Challah. Born and raised in Tel Aviv and now back in Israel after spending 7 years in Germany, Idan will travel from Israel to be with us in Buffalo this month. To honor him and show solidarity with Israel, there will be a special raffle of Challah and Hanukkah related Judaica to benefit ongoing relief efforts in Israel. To learn more about the Challah Prince, follow @challahprince on Instagram and Facebook. Registration is open for the event at bit.ly/challahprince716. General admission is $36. For a pre-program reception with Challah Prince Idan Chabasov the Challah Prince at 1:30 pm and priority seating, the cost is $72 (limited to the first 32 RSVPs). If you have questions, please contact Robin Kurss at robin@buffalojewishfederation.org.

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JCC’s New C-Suite: Patty Simonson and Mark Horowitz Long-time JCC professional Patty Simonson is the new Chief Executive Officer for the Jewish Community Center of Greater Buffalo and Cantor Mark Horowitz has been named Chief Operating Officer. Patty and Mark have known each other as professionals and friends for almost 35 years. They have always had great respect for each other as colleagues and leaders in the Jewish community and are looking forward to combining their talents and vision to move the JCC of Greater Buffalo into a future that sees the JCC as the town square of Jewish Buffalo and the community beyond. A dedicated staff member of the JCC since 1979, Patty graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in Physical Education from Canisius College, and a Master of Arts and Science degree from Adelphi University. During her tenure at the JCC, she has played an instrumental role in managing the dayto-day operations, program growth and development, staff and member engagement, community relations, talent management, and oversight of Camp Centerland. In her role as Chief Experience Officer, she helped create memorable experiences for the employees and members of the JCC. The JCC has also announced that Cantor Mark Horowitz is the new COO. Most of Mark Horowitz’s career has been centered on early childhood Jewish education and was previously the

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Patty Simonson and Mark Horowitz

founding Executive Director of the Sheva Center for Innovation in Early Childhood Jewish Education and Engagement at the JCC Association of North America. Horowitz’s roots are in classrooms filled with two-year-olds, where he thrived as a teacher for many years. Mark is an ordained Cantor from Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion and was Cantor and Educational Director at Temple Beth Am in Williamsville and later led the Bureau of Jewish Education. You can reach Patty at psimonson@ jccbuffalo.org and Mark at mhorowitz@ jccbuffalo.org

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Zakaliks to Receive FJP’s 2023 Endowment Leadership Awards Rick and Karen Zakalik, celebrated leaders with over 40 years of dedicated service in the Buffalo Jewish community, will be honored with the 2023 Endowment Leadership Award by the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies. This prestigious recognition will be presented at the joint Annual Meeting of the Foundation and Federation at 6:30 pm on Wednesday, December 6 at Temple Beth Tzedek. The Leadership Endowment Award is the Foundation’s highest honor, acknowledging the Zakalik’s extraordinary service, generosity, and commitment to the Jewish community in Buffalo. Foundation President Dan Kester praised the Zakaliks, stating, “Over the years, Rick and Karen have played pivotal roles in advancing various agencies and organizations within the Buffalo Jewish community and beyond. They have profoundly impacted local Jewish institutions and the community at large.” The Zakaliks are Founding Donors of the Harry and Jeanette Weinberg Campus and have been active Karen and Rick Zakalik participants in the Buffalo Jewish Federation and the Israel Bonds Campaign for decades. They were recognized for their volunteerism by Temple Shaarey Tzedek in June 2004 and Rick is a past recipient of the Federation’s Ann and Meyer Richwun Young Leadership Award. Rick currently serves as the Foundation’s Treasurer. He is a Past President of the Foundation’s Board and has been a Trustee for many years. He has held leadership roles at the Buffalo Jewish Federation, chairing the United Jewish Fund campaign, Jewish Family Services, and the Kadimah School. In 2010, he was honored with the Keter Torah Award at Temple Beth Tzedek. While chairing the UJF General Campaign (now known as the Campaign for Jewish Buffalo) Rick raised an unprecedented $5.1 million. This campaign supported local and international needs, and a special $2 million for Operation Exodus, which is the legendary international Campaign that supported the emigration of Jews from the former Soviet Union. Rick also served as the Executive Director of the JCC of Greater Buffalo from 2010 to 2020. He played an instrumental role in increasing membership participation by 75%, and annual revenue at the JCC doubled during his tenure. He also oversaw the successful $4 million renovation of the Holland Building. Karen boasts an equally impressive fundraising resume. Between 1995 – 2001, she served as a Board Member, Officer, and became the first female Board President at the Kadimah School. She is a gifted grant writer and a graduate of the United Way’s Board Governance Project. Karen’s dedication also extends to cultural events, such as her role as Publicity & Marketing Chairperson for a celebration of Bible Women by Elizabeth Swados in 1996. In 1997, Karen became a Pro Board Member at The Buffalo Zoo, taking responsibility for promoting fundraisers like “Polar Bites” and “Wines in The Wild,” which became some of the Zoo’s most successful events. She also served as the Co-Chair for a Bonim [“Builders”] recognition evening at the Hillel Foundation of Buffalo and coordinated the production of a commemorative book documenting the history of Hillel in Buffalo. From 1997 to 2000, Karen was a Committee Member of the Foundation’s Legacies Book of Life program, introducing the new endowment program at the 1997 Jewish Community Book Fair. From 2002 to 2004, Karen chaired the Community Relations Council (CRC) at the Buffalo Jewish Federation. Irv Levy, the Foundation’s Executive Director, praised the Zakaliks, stating, “Rick and Karen have made substantial contributions to support and improve Jewish Buffalo, while providing significant support to international Jewish causes. The Foundation deeply values their enduring dedication and generosity.” To register for the Annual Meeting beginning at 6:30 pm at Temple Beth Tzedek, visit bit.ly/2023BJFandFJP. There is no cost to attend.

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story of the Maccabees, a small band of zealots who fought for religious freedom and won. The Temple, re-dedicated, is remembered by eight days of holy lights, candles, that shine through the darkness to remind us of miracles and faith because a small group of believers, listened, had faith, stood tall with courage, and succeeded against great odds. They are remembered with lights that shine through the darkness for justice. Candles lighting the dark are shared by many religions around the world. How will you respond and light the way even as you may be angry, mourning, confused, weary? Maybe you are clear as can be of your way forward, of reckoning with your own needs and those outside you. Listen. Hear. Sh’ma. As the darkness embraces us and Buffalo awaits its winter, may you hear the blessings of love in your life, of peace, well-being. If they seem distant as the Spring, please call and ask someone to listen to you. You may reach me at Jewish Family Services. The team I am part of can provide you with support groups and short-term counseling. Reach out, have faith, as did the Maccabees. Know there is light, love, miracles, hope, and healing. May we hear the call of the One and the song in our hearts that move us toward self-care, understanding, compassion. Contact Rabbi Yonina at YFoster@jfswny.org or JFS Jewish Community Services Manager Matt Stewart at (716) 883-1914 X 314.

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Join JFS for Lighting the Path in 2023 BY TODD GEISE Jewish Family Services of Western New York will be holding its second annual fundraiser, Lighting the Path, on December 5, 2023, from 6 - 8 pm at Sto Lat Bar in Williamsville. This year, the theme of the event has a deeper meaning as we all process the tragedy and impacts of October 7. Lighting the Path was created to coincide with Hanukkah. It is intended to reflect the extended life of the olive oil used to light the menorah in the Second Temple following its reclamation. It is also intended to reflect the journey that individuals take along a path of experiences. Combining these two concepts represents JFS and our purpose to be the light that helps guide people of all beliefs and backgrounds along their journey. The event this year takes on the additional meaning of resilience throughout the Jewish community. We will persevere and in the spirit of Hanukkah, invite the community to join us as an expression of solidarity and support for the work we do to improve the lives of all those we serve. The Lighting the Path fundraiser is free of charge to attend with a limited number of admissions available. Individual attendees will be paired with an event captain who will be facilitating the evening’s program. To RSVP, scan the QR code or for additional information, please contact Sydney at sschmidt@jfswny.org or 716-883-1914 x 400. Todd Geise is the Director of Marketing at Jewish Family Services of Western New York.

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LIFE & LEGACY® at Buffalo For the Sugarmans, It's All About Giving “As my forefathers planted these carob trees for me so I too plant these for my children.” — Talmud (Ta’anis 23b)

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LIFE & LEGACY® is a partnership with the Harold Grinspoon Foundation that promotes after-lifetime giving to benefit Jewish synagogues and organizations. Legacy giving ensures that you will be remembered by those who directly benefit from your generosity as well as those who will be inspired by your example for future generations. In 2021, the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies, in collaboration with the Buffalo Jewish Federation, was selected to join more than 70 other communities across North America in this Jewish legacy giving initiative. To-date, the initiative has secured more than 30,000 permanently endowed commitments amounting to more than $1 Billion. The four-year LIFE & LEGACY® program provides coaching, training, and resources to ensure that a culture of philanthropy and legacy giving becomes an integral part of the Buffalo Jewish community. Together, the Foundation and Federation are committed to helping secure the future of Jewish Buffalo. Each month, please visit this LIFE & LEGACY® @ Buffalo section to learn about the local agencies and synagogues partnering in this effort. For more information, please contact Linda Barat, LIFE & LEGACY® Coordinator for the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies at linda@jewishphilanthropies.org or 716-204-2259.

It was only natural for Todd and Pam Sugarman to be among the first donors to make a legacy commitment designated to Congregation Shir Shalom through LIFE & LEGACY® at Buffalo. Describing CSS as “his home,” Todd and Pam have worked hard to create a warm and welcoming community. Raised in an Orthodox family, Todd became a Bar Mitzvah at Ahavas Achim Lubavitz. As an adult, Todd met Pam through a mutual friend, married and started a family. Pam was raised Baptist and at the beginning of their marriage, she continued as a churchgoer with her parents, as well as synagogue with Todd until she realized she could not do both. She wanted to raise her children in the Jewish faith and was inspired by Todd to attend services at Temple Beth Am where she felt comfortable and welcomed into the Jewish community. As they raised their three daughters (Samantha, Rachel and Courtney), Pam felt strongly about raising them with a Jewish upbringing while learning about Judaism for herself. Soon, they regularly attended family services at Temple Beth Am. Over time, Todd joined and became president of the Temple’s Men’s Group, then joined the synagogue’s Board of Trustees and served as President. During his time as president, membership was declining, with the same thing happening at Temple Sinai, the area’s Reconstructionist synagogue. Todd reached out to Jill Hamilton, president of Temple Sinai as the time. The two congregations eventually

merged, becoming Congregation Shir Shalom (CSS). They had much in common and both put their members first. Todd doesn’t lead alone. Other presidents - Jill Hamilton and Bruce Corris have led CSS, and Larry Posses and Joe Glickman are his “go to” people. The Executive Board has remained the same for 10 years, consisting of what Todd calls “all workers and givers.” And he never stops! CSS Executive Director Joanne Marquisee receives a call from Todd each day, asking what he can do to help. When Todd and Pam travel to Florida for the winter, Todd speaks to Joanne just to check in. Successful in business for 40 years, Todd started giving back to “his home,” first with an Outdoor Worship area and then a Pickleball Court. His most recent endeavor is renovating the synagogue, updating the Social Hall with new windows, renovating the foyer, the offices, the open area and many other rooms. “It hasn’t been done in 50 years,” he said, “and now it is time to give back to all the dedicated volunteers who have worked so hard to make our home warm and welcoming.” Todd was inspired by the words of Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies Executive Director Irv Levy when he spoke at a LIFE & LEGACY® at Buffalo informational session. “What are you going to do with your money when you’re

gone?” Irv questioned. For Todd, it was a wake-up call. In addition to his present giving, what about the future? He wants his synagogue and members to be a part of the future Buffalo Jewish community with an after-lifetime commitment to build a permanent endowment that will sustain a vibrant CSS for years to come. Pam feels the same. So do others who have made commitments through LIFE & LEGACY® to benefit CSS. Todd’s Jewish value is giving and giving back. He has taught this to his children and teaches it to his grandchildren. “When you are young you don’t think about giving. When you get to a certain point in life, you say this is your place and you want to give back,” says Todd. “And Congregation Shir Shalom is the only place I give to. It’s my home.”

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Mazel Tots at TBZ Temple Beth Zion’s monthly MAZEL TOTS program for pre-K children keeps growing! Following a glorious October session outside in the sukkah, a group of 12 littles, along with their parents/grandparents, gathered at the Broder Center on a Sunday morning in early November for a joy-filled time in a Jewish setting – with Jewish friends, Jewish songs and stories, and Jewish hands-on fun!

The doors opened at 9:15 and the gym began to fill with little riders and climbers. With smiles on their faces, they raced, tumbled, and explored, while their grown-ups sipped coffee and welcomed newcomers to the group. Soon, they heard the soft strumming of Rabbi Brent’s guitar and everyone followed him to the blue-carpeted library circle. Rabbi Brent led the group in singing Hebrew and English songs about friendship, Shabbat, and “Building a Better World.” Then, fortified and refreshed with clementines, Jill Gutmann showed some hamsas to the group and invited the children to decorate a hamsa to hang in their own home. On the back were the beautiful words of the Birkat HaBayit, the Blessing for the Home: Let no sadness come through this gate. Let no trouble

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Never in our worst nightmares could we have imagined the unspeakable horrors and atrocities that were inflicted upon Israel by terrorists on October 7, nor the events and war that have transpired since. Nor were we prepared for the onslaught of vicious antisemitism that was unleashed in cities and towns, on college campuses, in workplaces and even in schools. A school is supposed to be a safe place for students, where they are free to study and learn with confidence and encouragement, where they are supported in their growth, and where they can socialize and make friends in a nurturing environment – without being hated simply for who they are. Yet, much to our collective shock and disappointment, that has not happened in recent weeks, even in local public schools, even here in Western New York. In at least one school district, Jewish children have been harassed and bullied, while other students marched around in Hamas colors, and even burned an Israeli flag. That is why, more than ever, we must stand together in support of each other and our children, to ensure our community has such a safe educational environment, where our students can learn, can grow, can have fun – and can be Jewish. More than ever, we need a community Jewish day school program, as a safe haven for our community. Today, that environment can be found through Kadimah Scholars at Park School of Buffalo, where three dozen Jewish children from across the religious spectrum are learning Hebrew and Judaic Studies together, celebrating holidays, honoring traditions, developing their roots and cultivating a love for Israel as our Jewish homeland. At the same time, they are studying all the secular subjects, while enjoying art, music, sports, drama and other activities, alongside a host of students from diverse backgrounds who embrace each other as friends and classmates. Now in the fifth year of an innovative partnership between Kadimah, Park and the Buffalo Jewish Federation, our Scholars are thriving within Park’s welcoming environment, supported by their teachers and administration. There

are more than 14 students in pre-K and Kindergarten, while the rest of the students extend through the Lower, Middle and Upper schools at Park, through 10th grade. Kadimah Scholars pray in the morning in the Park Theater, blew the Shofar in September, and celebrated Sukkot in our Sukkah on the Park campus in early

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During the intense weeks since October 7, the Hillel of Buffalo community has united together in solidarity. Throughout the month, Hillel of Buffalo has been there to support Jewish students through vigils, marches, educational opportunities, and mental health resources. Directly after the attack Students gather on campus soon after October 7 on October 7, the Jewish community on campus united to pray and mourn. Students have marched in support of Israel, and they have come together for wellness discussions and additional mental health resources through our partnership with Jewish Family Services. Three weeks after the conflict, the Jewish Student Union organized a talk on the Facts & Narratives of the conflict in Israel. Speakers shared information on Israel’s history, realities of serving in the Israel Defense Force, and what we can do to continue to educate ourselves. On November 7, the community assembled for a candle light ceremony, mourning those who have passed and praying for the safe return of the hostages. Over 50 community members and students gathered, joined by the UB Jewish Student Union, Chabad at Buffalo, and the UB Office of Student Engagement. The next day, Hillel of Buffalo hosted a lunch with David Makovsky, the Ziegler Distinguished Fellow and Director of the Hillel professionals join Dr. Alex Green and David Makovsky Washington Institute for Near East Policy’s Koret Project on Arab-Israel Relations. Mr. Makovsky has extensive experience covering events in Israel as a journalist, researcher, and advisor on peace negotiations between the Israelis and Palestinians. He taught the students about the history of Israel and contextualized the current circumstances. Students and community members are so grateful for the educational opportunities and ability to stay informed about current events. In the last month, Hillel of Buffalo has also increased security, maintained a strong partnership with the Rabbi Moshe, from Chabad of Buffalo, leads prayers of mourning and peace, 1 month after the October 7th attack Jewish Student Union, and continued to partner with the Jewish Community Center, the Buffalo Jewish Federation, the UB Campus Police, and Susan DeMari, the Buffalo Jewish Federation’s Community Security Coordinator.

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Temple Beth Tzedek News Kindling Light for Hanukkah: Temple Beth Tzedek (TBT) will be hosting a range of programming in honor of Hanukkah and welcomes everyone in the community to participate. Additionally, TBT will be lighting the menorah during weeknight evening services at 6 pm. This festival will build on the ruach (energy) leaders of Temple Beth Tzedek will have from attending the 2023 Conservative/Masorti Shabbaton & Convening–T’nuah B’yahad: Building our Movement Together, the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism’s national conference which is being held December 1-5 in Baltimore.

Women’s Network: Women’s Network of TBT will hold a Hanukkah event on Sunday, December 3, 10 am noon, in the TBT social hall. There will be a bagels and lox brunch with jelly donuts. There is a fee and RSVPs are due to Event Chair Marian Lustig.

Camp Ramah in Canada: TBT welcomes Camp Ramah in Canada as they participate in Jewish Buffalo’s PJ Library/PJ Our Way Hanukkah Party on Sunday, December 3, at Sto Lat Bar Event Space at the Eastern Hills Mall from 4:30-6 pm followed by an information session and dinner with Camp Ramah

in Canada Co-Director Aviva Milestone at the home of Rabbi Sara & Ezra Rich. Ramah is the flagship camping arm of the Conservative Movement and has enhanced the lives of generations of campers from Jewish Buffalo. Please email ezrarich@gmail.com or visit campramah.com for more information. Shabbat Dinner: On the first night of Hanukkah, TBT will host a special Shabbat Hanukkah dinner at 6 pm followed by services at 7:30 pm on Friday, December 8. There is a fee for the dinner and RSVPs are due to rsvp@ btzbuffalo.org by December 1. People are encouraged to bring canned food donations which the children will shape into a menorah before the items are donated to the local food bank. The dinner is being coordinated by TBT’s Youth Education Committee and will feature crafts for young children as well.

Outstretched Arm: TBT’s Kesher Inclusion Outstretched Arm and Men’s Club will be co-hosting a Hanukkah Celebration on Sunday morning, December 10, 10:30 am – noon. There will be music, stories, fun, gifts, dreidels, menorahs, time to visit with friends and other surprises. A festive lunch with latkes and sufganiyot will be served. RSVP by calling the TBT office: 716-8383232. Joining this celebration by Zoom is also an option at bit.ly/3FQlh8r. TBT Kesher Inclusion Outstretched Arm activities are intended to ensure that Jewish people of all abilities have meaningful opportunities to participate in our beloved Jewish traditions.

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Challah Bake The Jewish Discovery Center held a beautiful Challah bake for a group of high school juniors and seniors, hosted and led by Rivky Greenberg. The girls explored the Mitzvah of separating Challah with blessing, learned about the three special Mitzvot given to the Jewish woman, and learned multiple unique braiding techniques. While waiting for the dough to rise, Rivky sang, shared stories and they all enjoyed delicious refreshments. The Challot were beautiful and the girls generously shared some of their “Loaves of Love” with people who can use a smile.

A group of women enjoyed an inspiring evening of “Torah & Tea” in the Sukkah, hosted and led by Rivky Greenberg. They explored how two of the Four Species of Sukkot (palm and willow branch) carry incredible ancient wisdom and the key to happiness and serenity in the fast-paced world we live in. The group studied, schmoozed,sipped tea,and tasted delicious refreshments. “Torah & Tea”is a program of the Jewish Discovery Center. You may contact Rivky at TorahandTea@gmail.com or 716-906-8890 to learn more about this program.

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Over the years members of Kehillat Ohr Tzion (KOT) have done many activities together—singing, dancing, cooking, playing volleyball, lots of eating and much more, but they’ve never painted together until NOW! On December 2, KOT members and friends will meet at the KOT Social Hall (aka the sanctuary, dining room, study hall) for a creative evening of fun. David Loomis, art teacher at the Park School, will give very specific instructions to the attendees for creating a Jewish themed work of art which can then be displayed in one’s home or given away to a special person as a Hanukkah gift. For more information about Paint Night and KOT, visit ohrtzion.org

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CRS: Cohesive and Strong During these Dark Days While it has been a very challenging two months, the Community Religious School (CRS) staff, parents, leadership, and students are demonstrating a strong cohesiveness and positive attitude. A special thank you to the Israel Task Force for providing leadership, resources, and opportunities for activism for all our students through card making and workshops. In December, we are looking forward to Rabbi Gutmann’s session on Cyberbullying. On December 17, Rabbi Lazarus Klein will be leading the grades 5-7 students in a workshop on antisemitism in partnership with members of Buffalo Jewish Federation’s LiNK team. Hanukkah will be celebrated with our bazaar on December 3 and 10 and with activities and light. We are, individually and collectively, going to continue to demonstrate Jewish perseverance and strength…just like the Maccabees!

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help the Youth Villages in their current efforts to house many displaced Israelis due to the war with Hamas. The Villages are also being called upon to provide extra counseling and support services for the many traumatized victims who have moved into the Villages. Many members of the Program Committee worked hard to make this special event successful but without the tireless efforts of Annette Magid, this two-day program would not have been possible. December 2023 | buffalojewishfederation.org

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TELLL Fund Auction The TELLL Fund, in memory of Dr. Samuel and Mrs. Joan Ellis Shatkin, ob”m, is excited to announce its spring auction event for Jewish Buffalo. On Sunday, May 19, 2024, from 4 - 6 pm in the Joseph L. Fink Auditorium at Temple Beth Zion, (805 Delaware Avenue in Buffalo), the TELLL Fund will be hosting “LIGHTS, CAMERA, AUCTION!” – a live and silent art auction, coinciding with the 13th yahrzeit of Dr. Shatkin, a dedicated art enthusiast and collector. The TELLL Fund is thrilled to feature a piece from Dr. Shatkin’s own private collection. The event will also include live entertainment and offer kosher refreshments for all attendees. Register in advance and reserve your “Paddle” and Auction ID $1.80 at bit.ly/telllauction. Registration at the door will be $5.00. Organizers of the event are actively seeking donations of various forms of fine art and handiwork contributions. During both the live and silent auction, they will showcase a wide range of collectibles including the work of local artists and urge those who possess valuable artwork, collectibles, ceramics, jewelry and Judaica items, to donate them to this auction. The goal of the program is to make this event inclusive, with silent auction items valued at $25 and above so that everyone has an opportunity to participate. To contribute artwork, volunteer, sponsor or for more information, please reach out to Cindy Oppenheimer at 716-308-4843 or Rus Devorah (Darcy) Wallen at 917-584-0440.

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Below are many of the Hanukkah events in Buffalo as we went to press this month. Please check with each organization to confirm Hanukkah events, dates and times.

November 30

CENTER FOR JEWISH LIFE Women’s Circle-Hanukkah 7 pm 757 Hopkins Rd, Wmsvl

December 3

COMMUNITY RELIGIOUS SCHOOL Hanukkah Bazaar 9:30 - 11:30 am Congregation Shir Shalom 4660 Sheridan Dr, Wmsvl CENTER FOR JEWISH LIFE Holiday Kosher Mini Chefs 4:30 pm 757 Hopkins Rd, Wmsvl RSVP 716-639-7600 PJ LIBRARY & PJ OUR WAY Hanukkah in Candyland 4:30 - 6 pm Sto Lat Bar Event Space 4475 Transit Rd, Wmsvl RSVP bit.ly/HANUKKAH23

December 7

JCC Candle Lighting 4 pm Benderson, Getzville 4:15 pm Holland, Buffalo Jelly donuts, songs & stories CENTER FOR JEWISH LIFE Chanukah in Chocolate Land dinner 5:30 pm 757 Hopkins Rd, Wmsvl $13/Adult $6/Child $36/Family RSVP 716-639-7600 CHABAD OF BUFFALO Chabad Grand Menorah Lighting 6 pm Tops Friendly Markets Parking Lot 3980 Maple Rd, Amherst Latkes, donuts, kid’s prizes and more For more information call 716-688-1642

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December 8

JCC Candle Lighting 4 pm Benderson, Getzville 4:15 pm Holland, Buffalo Learn about Hanukkah, enjoy crafts CONGREGATION SHIR SHALOM 7 pm Erev Shabbat Hanukkah Service 8 pm Oneg Shabbat Latke Bar 4660 Sheridan Dr, Wmsvl or Zoom RSVP by Dec 5 to joanne.marquisee@gmail.com TEMPLE BETH ZION Lights & Latkes Shabbat Dinner 7 pm Broder Center 700 Sweet Home Rd, Amherst RSVP 716-836-6565

December 10

COMMUNITY RELIGIOUS SCHOOL Hanukkah Bazaar 9:30 - 11:30 am Congregation Shir Shalom 4660 Sheridan Dr, Wmsvl KESHER OUTSTRETCHED ARM Hanukkah Celebration 10:30 am Temple Beth Tzedek 1641 North Forest Rd, Wmsvl RSVP by Dec. 1 to 716-836-6565 BUFFALO JEWISH FEDERATION The Challah Prince 2 pm $36 general admission Temple Beth Zion 805 Delaware Ave, Buffalo RSVP bit.ly/challahprince716

December 11

JCC Candle Lighting 12:15 pm Holland, Buffalo 5:15 pm Benderson, Getzville Cycle in festive attire, enjoy music & sweet treats CENTER FOR JEWISH LIFE Hanukkah Candle Lighting 5:30 pm Wegmans 5275 Sheridan Dr, Wmsvl Music, Gelt Drop, Food, Crafts

December 12

JEWISH DISCOVERY CENTER Hanukkah Gelt Drop and Menorah Lighting 5:30 pm 831 Maple Rd, Wmsvl TEMPLE BETH TZEDEK WOMEN’S NETWORK Jewish Trivia 12:45 pm $18 Bring your favorite dreidel or menorah 1641 North Forest Rd, Wmsvl RSVP to Marian at mblustig@gmail.com YOUNG ISRAEL OF BUFFALO Gala Hanukkah Dinner 6:15 pm 105 Maple Road, Wmsvl RSVP sara.heimowitz@gmail.com JCC Candle Lighting 7 pm Holland, Buffalo Enjoy Hanukkah Jeopardy, prizes & snacks

December 13

JCC Candle Lighting 7 pm Benderson, Getzville Bring a chanukiah and enjoy wine

December 14

JCC Candle Lighting 4 pm Benderson, Getzville 4:15 pm Holland, Buffalo Menorah contest winner & prizes

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Hanukkah Recipes by Robin Kurss

Hanukkah Brisket

An Israeli Hanukkah Treat!

We always have brisket and latkes for Hanukkah, so I’m always on the prowl for a new brisket recipe. This one is a riff on The Silver Palate Cookbook’s Chicken Marbella and the brilliant idea of our own Keren Green at Spree Publications.

While researching Israeli food, I came across the fact that “one of the eight foods you must eat while in Israel is Meatballs with Sweet Potatoes,” who knew? If you fry them, instead of bake them, you’ve also done your duty to fry something yummy to eat at Hanukkah time.

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Turkey and Sweet Potato Meatballs serves 6

1 6-8 lb. brisket Salt and pepper 2 red onions, chopped 5 carrots, peeled and chopped 2 parsnips, peeled and chopped 2 sweet potatoes, peeled and cut into 6ths 1 c pitted prunes or 1 cup dried apricots 1 c figs • 2 heads of garlic, cut in ½ 1 bunch thyme 2 c Manischewitz Concord Grape Wine 10 c beef broth Season both sides of the brisket liberally with salt and pepper and brown both sides in a skillet with a little oil. Place half of the veggies, fruit, garlic and thyme on the bottom of a large roasting pan. Place brisket on top and cover with the other half of these ingredients and the wine and broth. Cover and bake in a 350 oven for 4-5 hours or until fork tender. Place in refrigerator once cooled and next day, slice, reheat and enjoy.

1 lb. ground turkey 2 c mashed sweet potato 1 onion, minced fine 3 cloves garlic, minced fine ½ c parsley, chopped ½ c Panko breadcrumbs 2 Tbsp. maple syrup 1 Tbsp. hot sauce Salt and pepper to taste Oil if frying

In large bowl, mix all ingredients together Shape into 1-2" balls Heat oil in sauté pan and fry until golden brown on all sides 7-10 minutes. Alternately, you can bake on a greased sheet pan at 350 till done…about 20 minutes.

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