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Monday, April 21st, 2014
Volume 52, Issue 8
Spotlight: Retzy Thompson By Alianne Staruszkiewicz ’15 Staff Writer
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hroughout the halls and classrooms of Brebeuf, the name Retzy is so well-known amongst teachers and students that a formal introduction almost seems unnecessary. She walks into a classroom and you can feel the energy grow, as there are nothing but smiling faces in the room. A student writes down something inspiring Retzy says in class, submits it to the Brebeuf app, and it receives 176 likes on Breebuf ’s Instagram in no time. Yes, Retzy Thompson gets her fair share of Instagram and Twitter fame, but more importantly, Retzy is a very special lady who has much to offer beyond her everpresent smile and contagious zest for life. For the few who don’t know Retzy, she is a retired 4th and 5th grade Brownsburg teacher and has been substituting here at Brebeuf since November 2012. In a recent interview, Retzy shared how she and her husband Kent are honoring their daughter’s life and continuing their own lives while forever grieving an unimaginable loss.
As some might already know, the last few years haven’t been easy for the Thompson family. In October of 2011 a parent’s worst nightmare unfortunately became the Thompsons’ reality as they lost their only child, daughter Ashley, to cancer. After the very aggressive cancer had spread to her lungs, “It was really, really a battle,” said Retzy. Ashley, who was 28 when she passed, fought a hard and courageous battle as she went through countless surgeries, chemotherapy, and radiation treatments. Retzy explain, “Ashley was such a vibrant, full-of-life, joyful girl who just loved everybody! She had the energy of 10,000 people and she was our life!” Facing this harsh reality that many can’t even wrap their heads around was an inevitable challenge for the two. Retzy shared, “It was a time in our lives where I didn’t think my husband and I could ever recover.” Despite their devastating situation, they found and continue to find great strength in each other and from loved ones around them. “Kent and I have just been so
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blessed with friends, family, and faith! Your faith, your faith will get you through anything, anything.” She continued by saying, “I have so much faith that we’ll see her again, we will be reunited with her again in the next life.” She added, “I know that will happen, and her energy for life keeps me going.” There are days where Retzy feels she wants to just stay home and cry: “You do have the days you just break down. That will happen, but it can’t be very often because I can hear my daughter say, ‘Mom, get out there. Get out there! There are people’s lives you can touch. There are people you can help.’” Within just a few short minutes of being around Retzy, one can see how much this influences the way she lives her life. She shared with this Arrow reporter, “There are so many other children, and just because my daughter is no longer on earth doesn’t mean I can’t help nurture and touch the lives of other children and young adults.” A little over a year after Ashley had passed, Retzy was sitting across the street at Starbucks reading and finishing a cup of
coffee when a group of kids walked in wearing Brebeuf gear. Retzy’s initial thought was, “Oh they’re kids from across the street.” Little did she know, she would soon be a part of “the school across the street,” honoring Ashley’s life by inspiring and helping the lives of many. The Brebeuf students, a teacher, and an older lady sat so close to Retzy in Starbucks that day that she couldn’t help but observe and overhear. She said in her interview, “I was just enamored with them. They were so considerate and patient.” She added, “They were just so very polite and attentive.” Most would find this group of students sitting in Starbucks as being nothing out of the ordinary, nothing special, but not Retzy. She explained in her interview, “I thought, you know, you only hear about the negatives of teenagers. That’s what you read in the papers, it’s what you see on TV…This is so wrong!” Without a moment of pause Retzy continued, “Look at these kids. They are exactly who you hope your kids would be .” continued on page 7
Debate team
the undisputed champions
By Katherine Spence ‘16 Staff Writer
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he Brebeuf debate team is one of the school’s most accomplished teams, as can be seen by the plethora of trophies in Mr. Hicks’ speech room. Many students have memories of that room from taking speech class during the school year, and for some of the debate team, this is where it all started, giving their original oratory speeches, then eventually being recruited onto the team by either Mr. Kantz or Mr. Ferries-Rowe. Many, however, pass up the chance. This reporter was able to grab an interview with Sophomore Melissa Walsh, one half of a debate duo with Sophomore Meredith McDuffie, and was able to talk with Walsh about her experiences being on the team. Walsh described a typical day at a Saturday morning speech meet as being “… long and tiring, and sometimes the pizza is really bad, but you meet interesting people and you learn extremely useful skills.” Many
Brebeuf at around 3 or 4 o’clock. The types of things that can be debated vary from discussions about nuclear weapons to aid in Africa. Walsh says that how much you prepare really affects the outcome of the meet. She said that she is supposed to start prepping a few weeks prior, but of course with practice it becomes easier to prepare before a meet. Thus, prep time can vary. When asked about her favorite part of the debate season she said that it was when she and her partner beat the other Brebeuf debate duo of Jack and Tom Sweeney. She said that it was rewarding, “because they’re really good. Actually any time we Photo credit: Bill Hicks won was nice. Winning is really Debate team members: (Above) Jack Sweeny ‘16, Meredith McDuffie ‘16, Merewarding.” lissa Walsh ‘16, Tom Sweeny ‘16, (Below) Nate Meyers ‘14, Brian Mickel ‘14 Many are going on to compete in nationals this year, which takes place from wake up before the crack of dawn to be at waiting for your event, but in that time you June 15th to the 20th. The tournament will school by 6 or 6:30 am. Then they ride a bus can prepare for it or make new friends from take place in Kansas City, and there are high to whichever school is hosting the meet. different schools. After the awards are hand- hopes for our fellow Braves going into it. Walsh says that a lot of it is just sitting around ed out the students make their way back to