From the Rabbis’ Desk
To Begin Again
It’s been quite a year since we last welcomed Rosh Hashanah.
A year ago, the presidential election was a distant dot on the horizon. Israel was convulsed with internal conflict over judicial reform. We carried on with our own North American Jewish challenges per usual. And at Beth El, along with all congregations, we continued to adapt to a post-Covid world, seeking ways to engage each other and return to in-person Jewish experiences.
Nobody had an inkling that everything would be turned on its head. Nobody we know ever anticipated the horror of the Hamas attack of October 7, corresponding to the holiday of SheminiAtzeret , and in Israel, SimchatTorah .
The shock at the horror of the cruelty, the brutality beyond any capacity of words to describe. The anger at the unpreparedness; the incredible resourcefulness and bravery of Israelis, who leaped into action to help. The response of reserve soldiers, who answered the call to mobilize at 125% of the declared need. The amazing sums of money Jews contributed to help. The painful scenes of destruction, and the plight of hostages ranging in age from several months to 75 years.
And with it all deeper, resurgent antisemitism.
The pain and the challenge of this year continues to unfold as I write. But I am inspired by what one volunteer working with Zaka, the organization that
How Might We Enter the High Holidays After October 7th?
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 12
7:00 PM
REGISTER: tinyurl.com/BethElClass912
NOTE: in person and on Zoom
With the terrible year we've endured, how can we greet a New Year with possibility? A discussion with Rabbi Rosen and Rabbi Zerin.
enters the scenes of disaster and literally collects the remains of the dead after terrorist attacks, had to say: They say about us that we are heroes, but we don't feel that way. We did what we needed to do as Jews and as Israelis. In the aftermath of the slaughter, we did the one thing that could bring a measure of comfort for the murdered of blessed memory and for their families. And I am strengthened by the message that we can believe in the good and that the good will triumph.
To pick up the shattered pieces and to go on has always been the Jewish way. I think that’s why we always sing on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur ZochreinuL’Chayim . Remember us, God, unto life, the sovereign who delights in life.
And to be more specific, a reminder of what Elie Wiesel once remarked, “God gave Adam a secret –and that secret was not how to begin, but how to begin again.”
This year, above all others, let us help each other begin again.
We are urged, especially now, to remember the hostages, to count the days they have endured captivity, and to remind the world they are not yet free. And we number our days in Jewish tradition at the very same time to remind ourselves to continue the march, to retain the hope. We are confident that our people will thrive and that the entire region will know the promise of peace.
~ JimRosen
Thank You
We are still riding the high of our wonderful June 9th concert, honoring Cantor Joseph Ness. So many people worked hard to make it a special, memorable evening, and we again offer our thanks to all who gave of themselves to make it such a success. It was wonderful to honor Cantor Ness with the esteemed Stanley Kessler Award as well as with the establishment of the Cantor Joseph Ness Concert Fund. Endings bring new beginnings, and we will look forward to many opportunities to make and to enjoy music in our synagogue. Wishing you a wonderful New Year, Jeanne Kleinman and Judy Rosenthal, co-chairs Evening of Special Music to Honor Joseph Ness
Reflections from the President
Earlier this year, Rabbi Zerin delivered an inspiring sermon on counting. The question and conversation were whether we count down or up. In counting down, I can recall watching in awe those early space flights, when the numbers ticked off, “T minus,” to that amazing moment of “lift off,” and in front of our eyes a rocket ship was heading to space. During this year’s Summer Olympics we witnessed counting, with split seconds separating medalists and final scores determining the winning team. And sadly, as I write this article, we’ve been counting days since October 7, as we seek the release of the remaining Israel hostages. And so too, as we count, another year has come and gone.
New Management Needed for Beth El's Craft Gallery!
Do you have an entrepreneurial spirit?
Are you looking for an enjoyable volunteer opportunity?
Do you like to surround yourself with beautiful things?
If your answer to any of these is "Yes," this project could be for you. Jill and Shelley have been managing our beautiful Craft Gallery for many years and will be ending their tenures next June. They want to work alongside the new manager(s) and thoroughly train her/him/them well in advance to ensure a smooth transition.
Please call to learn more about this opportunity.
Shelley Barker, 860-655-8284
Jill Jones, 860-922-7300
In the upcoming days our congregation and community will come together once again to celebrate the High Holidays and the start of a new Jewish year.
The High Holiday season brings with it a time for thought and reflection. It’s a time to take inventory of all that we’ve accomplished and to set goals and objectives for our future. At our Annual Meeting, we spoke of our successes. Space does not allow me to enumerate them all. We’ve also addressed that there’s work to be done as we look at meeting the needs of our congregation in both the near and long term. It’s the vision of what’s possible that must be our north star. It’s our time to take stock of what we value, identify what we want to change, prioritize our ideas, and then act with meaning and purpose.
At Beth El we are so fortunate to have the strength of our professional and lay leaders. Each day I appreciate the work that gets done. In a world where our daily news feeds reflect divisiveness and bitterness, coming together and knowing that we have each other’s backs is what continues to make me feel so lucky to serve as Beth El President.
It is with that spirit that I look forward to greeting each and every one of you during the upcoming holiday season. I want to hear your thoughts and ideas, and I know that together we’ll be able to pave our future.
On behalf of the Officers and Board of Trustees, L’ShanahTovah to you and your families. May we all be inscribed for a sweet and healthy New Year.
~LeahKatz
BETH EL TEMPLE CRAFT GALLERY
We bring you a selection of the finest Judaica that is created by artists in Israel and from around the USA. We carry ceremonial items for B’nei Mitzvah and weddings, an array of traditional items for Chanukah, Passover, and Shabbat, as well as a variety of styles of beautiful kippot. We also have a children’s section with gifts and games.
We may be small, but we strive to assist you with your individual needs. There is much to see in the gallery so please stop by and browse.
HOURS: Sundays, 9:00 – 11:30AM, when SULAM is in session
APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE: Shelley Barker, 860-655-8284; Jill Jones, 860-922-7300
VOLUNTEERS: contact Jill to sign up
NOTE: proceeds benefit the synagogue, and we are staffed through the generosity of our volunteers
Security Matters
As we all know, over the last 10 years security concerns have become a major priority for all synagogues, including Beth El. We take safety and security very seriously, and with antisemitism on the rise in the U.S., and especially in the “post-October 7th” environment, we are actively engaged in protecting our facility, members, SULAM educators and learners, and guests more than ever before.
Over the last few years, Beth El has spent more than $150,000 of its own funds (including security fee income) to install major security enhancements. These include camera systems, enhanced alarmcommunications systems, new door locking systems, ballistic shield on all ground-floor glass, recently installed outdoor protective barriers in the front and back, new AED units and training, additional window coverings, and more.
However, protecting our community is an everevolving task, and while we are always vigilant, there is much more to be done. We have applied for a $150,000 grant from Homeland Security for more exterior barriers/fencing, an interior camera system and panic button system, additional window tinting, and an upgrade to the cellular service within our walls. We are hopeful we will receive the funds and implement these systems over the next year.
But our security also needs YOUR help:
Always be vigilant – if you see something odd, something that makes you feel uncomfortable or threatened, please say something . Tell me, one of the other Rabbis or Dr. Krigel, the President of the Temple, an usher, or a member of our maintenance staff. Tell someone, please.
SCN Guardian Security Training
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 25 2:00 – 3:00 PM OR Tinyurl.com/Guardian925
QUESTIONS: info@bethelwh.org
Join us for a security training seminar on September 25 or 26 . See below and register for one of these sessions so you can be properly prepared whenever you are here.
Third, never let someone into the Temple if you do not know them . You cannot imagine how often this happens. Our community recognizes the importance of our safety, and it is not rude to allow the door to close. Our staff will quickly engage guests at the door through our video system.
For both security and community purposes, you will not be receiving High Holiday tickets this year as you have in the past. Upon your arrival for High Holiday services, you will check in and receive a nametag and lanyard to wear around your neck. It helps us know who you are, that you are supposed to be here, and helps other members know who you are, too. It is mandatory that you wear these for ALL High Holiday services , and we invite you to wear them whenever you are at events at Beth El. You may leave them at the synagogue or keep them (and bring them back for High Holiday services).
We can spend a lot of money and continue to put in all sorts of protections and systems, and we can invest in armed guards, but in the end, it is through our collective awareness and diligence that we will all feel and BE safe. Let us hope and pray for a peaceful and safe New Year.
Chag Sameach and Shana Tovah.
~ RabbiHowardSowalsky ChiefOperatingOfficer
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 26 6:00 – 7:00 PM Tinyurl.com/Guardian926 GetInvolved. GetEmpowered. GetTrained. Newly
Guardianstake personal responsibility for the safety and security of themselves, families, and community. This Secure Community Network training will provide skillsets that help identify, protect, and respond to all hazards, enabling you to become an Active Bystander in your community.
Nametags, Not Tickets, for Everyone
In the spirit of community building and security, you will be given a NAMETAG and LANYARD to wear during all High Holiday services.
Physical tickets will not be
mailed.
Members in good standing°, ages 5+, will have NAMETAGS ready at the synagogue.
Local College Students and Active Military Personnel will have NAMETAGS prepared for them when they register with our office prior to the Holidays.
Adult children (age 25-29) and guests of members, previously provided with tickets, will receive a NAMETAG instead.
Further details and registration information, including pricing where applicable, can be found on page 12.
° MEMBERS IN GOOD STANDING have returned their completed membership form and paid their dues in full, or have paid at least 25% of their dues.
Questions and Answers
(If after reading this you still have questions, please call the office at 860-233-9696.)
Will my nametag be mailed to me?
No. You will pick up your household’s nametags and lanyards upon checking in for High Holiday services in the Sanctuary Lobby. If you would like to pick yours up ahead of time, they will be available in our office during business hours (see page 7) beginning Monday, September 30.
What about Guest Tickets?
services. If you choose to take them with you, we recommend you leave them in your car because you will need them to attend all High Holiday services.
Registered guests will also receive pre-printed nametags at check-in. They will be included within your household’s nametag(s).
Can I keep my nametag?
Absolutely! You are also welcome to leave them at Beth El and collect them when you come for
Do I have to wear my nametag?
Yes. Your nametag creates an opportunity to meet new people and have them remember your name, and it saves folks you’ve already met from that embarrassing moment when they call you the wrong name. It also helps our many ushers and security staff know that you belong. In the spirit of community and security, you are to wear your nametag at all times you are in the building for High Holiday services. We appreciate your cooperation with this new protocol.
High Holidays - Service Schedules
Nametags: New this year! No more tickets. Nametags required for every Service and Program; see pages 5 & 12.
Livestream: All services in the Sanctuary will be livestreamed. Zoom: Watch your email for info.
Community Selichot SATURDAY, SEPT 28
7:17 PM – HavdallahCandle
8:00 PM – Program
9:30 PM – Service
LOCATION: B’nai Tikvoh-Sholom, 180 Still Rd, Bloomfield
Rosh Hashanah, Erev WEDNESDAY, OCT 2
4:30 PM – 5:30 PM Young Family Program
5:30 PM – 6:30 PM Mincha & Festival Ma’ariv
6:12 PM – CandleLighting
Rosh Hashanah, Day 1 THURSDAY, OCT 3
8:30 AM – 12:30 PM Sanctuary Service
8:30 AM – 12:30 PM Outdoor Service
9:30 AM – 11:30 AM Babysitting
9:30 AM – 11:00 AM Family Service: gr. 1-5
11:00 AM – 12:30 PM Drop-off Programs: gr. 1-5
11:00 AM – 12:30 PM Teen Program: gr. 6-12
11:30 AM – 12:30 PM Mazel Tots: 0-6 y.o.
5:30 PM – 6:30 PM Festival Mincha & Ma’ariv
7:10 PM – CandleLighting
Shofar: Will be sounded in all morning services and programs on both days of Rosh Hashanah.
Rosh Hashanah, Day 2 FRIDAY, OCT 4
8:30 AM – 12:30 PM Sanctuary Service
8:30 AM – 12:30 PM Playroom Open
11:00 AM – 12:30 PM Family Service: gr 1-5
Everyone is welcome at every service, but some are designed for a particular audience.
Cemetery Service SUNDAY, OCT 6
10:00 AM – Service
LOCATION: Beth El Cemetery, Jackson Street, Avon
Tashlich SUNDAY, OCT 6
4:30 PM – Service and Discussion
LOCATION: Pond at Cornerstone Aquatics Center, 55 Buena Vista Rd, West Hartford
5:30 PM – Mincha & Ma’ariv (regularweekdayservice)
Yom Kippur, Kol Nidrei FRIDAY, OCT 11
1:00 PM – Pre-Yom Kippur Mincha
5:45 PM – 8:15 PM Sanctuary Service
5:45 PM – 8:15 PM Outdoor Service
5:57 PM – CandleLighting (lightYizkorcandlefirst)
Yom Kippur, Day SATURDAY, OCT 12
5:45 PM – Shabbat Shuvah Kabbalat Shabbat
6:08 PM – CandleLighting
Shabbat Shuvah SATURDAY, OCT 5
9:30 AM – 12:30 PM LakeNordenBadger Shabbat Services
Rabbi Rosen’s annual tribute to small town Midwest Jewish communities
12:00 PM – Congregational Lunch
12:30 PM – Mincha
8:30 AM – 1:00 PM Sanctuary Service
8:30 AM – 1:00 PM Outdoor Service
Yizkor: Will be recited in the Sanctuary and Outdoor Services, with timing at the discretion of the Rabbis (after 10:30 am).
9:30 AM – 10:30 AM Mazel Tots: 0-6 y.o.
9:30 AM – 10:30 AM Family Services: gr 1-5
10:30 AM – 12:30 PM Drop-off Programs: gr 1-5
10:15 AM – 1:45 PM Babysitting 11:30 AM – 12:30 PM Teen Program: gr 6-12
4:00 PM – Festival Mincha
5:15 PM – Neilah & Ark Visitations
6:53 PM – FestivalEnds
6:55 PM – Final Shofar Blast
Apples & Honey: Socialize after morning services on both days of Rosh Hashanah.
SPONSOR: Men’s Club
Neilah: After the final shofar, grab a sweet on your way out.
SPONSOR: Women’s Network
High Holidays - Service Schedules, cont.
Sukkot, Erev
WEDNESDAY, OCT 16
5:30 PM – Mincha and Festival Ma’ariv
5:49 PM – CandleLighting
Sukkot, Day 1
THURSDAY, OCT 17
9:30 AM – 12:00 PM Festival Services
9:30 AM – 12:00 PM Playroom Open
11:00 AM – 12:00 PM Shabbat Club: Sukkot Edition
12:00 PM – Kiddush
12:15 PM – Festival Mincha NO EVENING SERVICE
6:47 PM – CandleLighting
Sukkot, Day 2 FRIDAY, OCT 18
9:30 AM – 12:00 PM Festival Services
12:00 PM – Kiddush
5:45 PM – Festival Mincha & Shabbat Services
5:46 PM – CandleLighting
6:30 PM – Potluck at Beth El
Sukkot, Chol HaMoed SATURDAY, OCT 19
9:30 AM – 12:00 PM Shabbat Services
12:15 PM – Mincha
4:00 PM – 7:00 PM Sukkah Stroll
7:00 PM – SUNDAY Sleepover in the Sukkah
Machzor Pick-Up
We have a limited number of Machzors available for those who will be livestreaming High Holiday services. If you need a Machzor to follow along from home, please register at tinyurl.com/Machzor5785
If you pick one up and then choose to attend services in-person, you must bring the Machzor with you. If you’re planning to attend services in person, you do not need to pick one up in advance.
Pick-up: during office hours, September 23 – October 1 Mon – Thu: 8:30 AM – 4:00 PM Friday: 8:30 AM – 2:30 PM
NAMETAGS: can be picked up during office hours, beginning September 30.
Shemini Atzeret, Erev WEDNESDAY, OCT 23
7:00 AM – Hoshanah Rabbah
5:30 PM Mincha and Festival Ma’ariv
5:38 PM CandleLighting
Shemini Atzeret, Day THURSDAY, OCT 24
9:30 AM – 12:00 PM Festival Services (Yizkor11am)
9:30 AM – 12:00 PM Playroom Open
12:00 PM Kiddush
12:15 PM Festival Mincha
Simchat Torah, Erev THURSDAY, OCT 24
5:30 PM Festival Ma’ariv & Simchat Torah Celebration IncludesdancingwiththeTorahs,icecream, and1st gradeTorahpresentations.
6:37 PM CandleLighting
Simchat Torah, Day FRIDAY, OCT 25
9:30 AM – 12:30 PM Festival Services Includesthreespecialhonorees,blessingof newbabies,andkids’Aliyah.
10:00 AM – 12:15 AM Family Program
12:00 PM – Kiddush
5:36 PM – FestivalEnds
5:45 PM – Mincha & Shabbat Services
Beth El is Warm and Welcoming
The sign at our front entrance states "All are welcome." Torah instructs "You shall not wrong nor oppress a stranger..." (Exodus 22:21). If we're required to be kind to strangers, how much more so is the mandate to be considerate of fellow Beth El members and staff? About 30% of the U.S. population is sensitive to scented products on other people; some even have allergic reactions. Please avoid wearing fragrances and any scented products at Beth El.
Service Descriptions
Community Selichot SAT, 9/28
The period before the High Holidays is a time of soul-searching and reflection as we each prepare for the magnitude of the Days of Awe.
We will gather with members from The Emanuel Synagogue and B’nai Tikvoh-Sholom for a program and services, with dessert, coffee, and tea in between.
LOCATION: B’nai Tikvoh-Sholom, 180 Still Rd, Bloomfield
QUESTIONS: info@bethelwh.org
Rosh Hashanah – Day 1 THU, 10/3
Rosh Hashanah – Day 2 FRI, 10/4
Yom Kippur – Kol Nidrei FRI, 10/11
Yom Kippur – Day SAT, 10/12
Manyservicesandprogramstochoosefrom!
Sanctuary Services: led by Rabbi Rosen and Cantorial Soloist Rabbi Zerin, accompanied by our choir; on RH–Day 1 and Yom Kippur with organ.
Outdoor Services: without choir or organ;
• on RH–Day 1 and YK–Day, led by lay leaders
Susan Gold and Jason Kay;
• for Kol Nidrei, led by Rabbi Howard Sowalsky and Susan Gold;
• not offered on RH–Day 2
NOTE: in case of rain or uncomfortable heat or cold, this service will move inside.
Shabbat Shuvah SAT, 10/5 (Shabbat of Return)
Lake Norden Badger: Rabbi Rosen’s annual tribute to small town Midwest Jewish communities enhances this traditional service marking the Shabbat between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur.
A uniquely themed lunch follows, prepared by Beth El’s special cooking crew.
Dress casually! Wear your favorite football team's cap, a flannel shirt, and blue jeans!
Cemetery Service SUN, 10/6
Beth El Cemetery, Jackson Street, Avon
Our clergy lead a brief service honoring our beloved departed and offer prayers at individual graves.
Tashlich Program
SUN, 10/6
Pond at Cornerstone Aquatics Center (rain date: 55 Buena Vista Rd, West Hartford 10/9)
A 13th century custom of symbolically casting off our sins by tossing bread into running water.
Join us to start the year fresh! We’ll release a homing pigeon as a symbol of what we’re letting go.
Please bring bread crumbs for you and your family to toss!
Bring a picnic to enjoy after the program.
Yom Kippur – Neilah SAT, 10/12
(Concluding evening service)
This is literally the “closing of the gates.” The Ark is kept open for this final service on Yom Kippur, and we have one last chance to seek repentance and be sealed in the Book of Life. The Neilahservice provides a true moment of awe during the Days of Awe. All who wish to come up to the Ark for personal moments of reflection and prayer are encouraged to do so; take a moment to find peace and share the beauty of the Torah with your loved ones.
Familyunitsofallages andconfigurations (includingnon-Jewish familymembers)can eachhaveaprivate momentattheark.
Youth, Teen, and Family Services & Programs
Erev Rosh
Hashanah
Rosh
Hashanah Day 1
Rosh
Hashanah
Day 2
Yom
Kippur Day
0-6 years old 6-12 years old Teens
4:30 PM Nature’s Horned Creatures & Toy Shofar Making 5:30 PM Outdoor Services for all
9:30 AM Babysitting 11:30 AM Mazel Tots 9:30 AM Family Service 11:00 AM Drop-off Program 11:00 AM Teen Program
8:30 AM Playroom
9:30 AM Mazel Tots 10:15 AM Babysitting
11:00 AM Family Service
9:30 AM Family Service 10:30 AM Drop-off Program 11:30 AM Teen Program
Nature’s Horned Creatures & Toy Shofar
Making WED, 10/2
Join us to meet and pet animals with horns and make your own toy shofar. If you have a real shofar, bring it! We will work on learning the different sounds the shofar makes and sound the shofar together.
All are encouraged to stay for our family-friendly Ma'arivservice after the program.
Playroom TH, 10/3; FR, 10/4; SA, 10/12
0-6 year olds and their grown-ups
Our playroom with tumbling equipment is open for adult-supervised play for kids who may have the wiggles. Children must be supervised by an adult at all times.
Mazel Tots
THU, 10/3; SAT, 10/12
Geared to 0-6 year olds and their grown-ups
Join Dr. Eliyahu Krigel and SULAM Music Educator Elana Hoffman for play-based and interactive services, giving our youngest members an opportunity to gain meaning and joy during this special time in our calendar cycle through the use of puppets.
SNACKS: will be provided each day
Babysitting
0-6 year olds
THU, 10/3; SAT, 10/12
NOTE: children must be potty-trained SNACKS: will be provided each day REGISTRATION: tinyurl.com/5785Babysitting
Family
Service TH, 10/3; FR, 10/4; SA, 10/12
Geared to grades 1-5 and their grown-ups
Dr. Eliyahu Krigel and SULAM Music Educator Elana Hoffman lead this meaningful service focused on Tefillah(prayer), Tzedakah(sacred giving), and Teshuvah(returning to our best selves). We'll weave together prayers, stories, music, and discussions in order to bring spiritual sustenance to all of us in this time of renewal.
On Yom Kippur, the discussion will focus on how true repentance is more than simply giving an apology.
SNACKS: will be provided each day
Drop-off Program THU, 10/3; SAT, 10/12
Grades 1-5
Sound the Shofar and wake up on the inside. The rotations this year will focus on waking up and being present. We will pray, move, discuss, and learn together in an engaging way in the hope of fully realizing our greatest potential.
REGISTRATION: tinyurl.com/5785Dropoff
Teen Program THU, 10/3; SAT, 10/12
Grades 6-12
Meaningful conversation and discussion rooted in active listening and deep reflection, along with trivia and active learning games, will engage these students.
SNACKS: will be provided on RH–Day 1
Sukkot, Shemini Atzeret, & Simchat Torah
Sukkot THU & FRI, 10/17 & 10/18
After each morning service, come to Kiddush as you fulfill the mitzvah of sitting in the Sukkah.
Shabbat Club: Sukkot Edition THU, 10/17
Gather under one hut with Dr. Eliyahu to shake the lulav and etrog, pray with a full heart, and rejoice in this fall harvest holiday.
AGES: Targeted to grades 1-5
Sukkah Stroll SAT, 10/19
A progressive Se’udah Shlisheet – third meal of Shabbat – hosted at various Sukkot around Beth El (kosher and within walking distance).
Free and open to all; registration required; will be canceled in the event of rain.
RSVP: tinyurl.com/Stroll2024
Sleepover in the Sukkah
SAT-SUN, 10/19-20
Come to a sleepover in the Sukkah! We will spend quality time in the Sukkah, have fun and bond as a group, and then sleep indoors. We’ll flow right into Sunday morning programming for our SULAM learners.
AGE GROUP: grades 3-12
COST: $20, includes dinner, breakfast, snacks
REGISTER: tinyurl.com/BETSleepover2024
QUESTIONS: Dr. Eliyahu Krigel, ekrigel@bethelwh.org
Hoshanah
Rabah WED, 10/23
The seventh day of Sukkot is a semi-holiday in its own right. A hoshanahis a liturgical poem calling upon God to rescue and redeem the Jewish people, primarily by sending rain. All seven hoshanotprayers recited during Sukkot are recited in seven hakafot(processions), around the chapel at this service.
At the conclusion of the seven processions, a special ritual is conducted in which the branches of the willow (aravot)are struck. This is a symbolic attempt to rid ourselves of any remaining sins (the leaves representing these transgressions) that might influence God’s decision to send the seasonal rains.
Shemini
Atzeret THU, 10/24
The 8th day of Sukkot is a holiday unto itself. It is established in the Torah as a way for God to ask us to stay one more day in the holiday mode.
Yizkor and the seasonal prayer for rain are included in the morning liturgy.
Simchat Torah
THU-FRI, 10/24-25
On SimchatTorah , Hakafotinvolve singing and dancing around the sanctuary with all our Torah scrolls. During SimchatTorah , we read both the end (the last chapter of Deuteronomy) and the beginning of the Torah (the first chapter of Genesis).
The fun on Thursday evening includes the presentation of mini-Torahs to all 1st graders and ice cream!
On Friday morning there is a special blessing for all babies born in the last year and the honoring of three adult members.
CONTACT: Liz DePalma, edepalma@bethelwh.org, if you have a 1st grader, at any school, to be sure they are on our list to receive a mini-Torah.
Doing Mitzvot
Annual Kol Nidrei Food Drive for Anja Rosenberg Kosher Food Pantry at Jewish Family Services (JFS)
JFS serves families facing financial setbacks, isolated elderly, and disabled adults living on small incomes. You can help make a difference in their lives!
Please fill a bag or two and drop them off in the Community Room anytime between Tuesday, October 1, and Kol Nidrei evening, Friday, October 11.
All food has to be unopened and KOSHER. Please look for one of these Hechsher symbols.
THANK YOU! in advance for your support of this important Mitzvah to help your neighbors!
Requested Items
Food
• Canned: vegetables, fruit, soups
• Cereal, granola
• Pasta, rice, couscous, macaroni & cheese
• Peanut butter, jams, jelly, preserves, honey
• Tuna in water
• Do not bring expired or opened food – it will be thrown out.
• Do not bring Passover items –there isn’t enough storage space at JFS.
• Pasta Sauce, Salad dressings, mayonnaise & other condiments
• Cooking oil (small containers, no bulk)
• Cookies, chips, pretzels, Crackers, breakfast bars
Toiletries
• Soap, shampoo, conditioner
• Toothpaste and toothbrush
• Deodorant, hand cream
• Diapers, Depends, wipes
Cleaning/Household Supplies
• Laundry detergent pods
• Toilet paper, paper towels
• Dish soap, sponges
Sorting Food Drive Donations
Sunday, October 13
9:15 – 11:30 AM
CONTACT: Sharon Levine-Shein, mslib20@gmail.com Many hands are needed to sort all the bags of donated items before they are delivered to the Food Pantry.
The Anja Rosenberg Kosher Food Pantry at Jewish Family Services continually needs to be restocked. Throughout the year, when coming to Beth El, please bring a can of vegetables or fruit, peanut butter, tuna, pasta, or a bag of groceries. Place your donations in the box at the entrance across from the Community Room. Items may also be brought directly to:
Jewish Family Services
333 Bloomfield Ave, Suite A, West Hartford
Volunteer before and during the High Holidays
Begin the new year by helping our community observe and celebrate the High Holidays! We have many opportunities for volunteering, including:
polish the silver Torah adornments
Prepare the High Holiday Greeting Card to be mailed
sing in the choir
usher at Services
assist with children’s programs
serve snacks to children on Yom Kippur
ALL OPTIONS: tinyurl.com/Volunteer5785
The recently revamped, customerfriendly Pantry at JFS.
High Holiday Access Policy
Beth El provides a variety of options for our members, their families, their out-of-town friends and family, as well as community members, to worship with us on the High Holidays.
All services will be offered in person, and many of them will also be Livestreamed or on Zoom.
Feel free to mix and match these options.
Rabbi Sowalsky’s Security Update and some changes to our Access policy are on pages 4-5.
Full Members of Beth El Temple
Members must be in good standing° for their nametags to be ready for pick-up.
Children, ages 5 through 24, of members in good standing° will automatically have nametags prepared. Please contact the office with current e-mail addresses for access to streaming.
Your adult children, ages 25-29, if not members on their own, may purchase access at a reduced rate.
Rosh Hashanah – Day 1
Kol Nidrei & Yom Kippur
Both Holidays
$100
$100
$150
Note: Those with a “Friend of Beth El” membership receive online access only.
Local Non-Members
NEW THIS YEAR: non-members are invited to purchase access to Rosh Hashanah Day 1, Kol Nidrei, and Yom Kippur morning services. This one-time offer allows prospective members the opportunity to experience the magic of Beth El during the High Holidays.
The cost of access can be applied to membership if they join Beth El by December 31, 2024.
This offer is not available to anyone who was a member of Beth El within the last seven years.
Access for each person may be purchased for:
Rosh Hashanah – Day 1 $360
Kol Nidrei & Yom Kippur $500
Both Holidays $720
Tinyurl.com/BethElHolidays5785
Note: AllmoniescollectedfromAccesssales supportmembershipduesforthoseinneed.
Guests
Members may purchase access for relatives and friends, ages 25 and up, who live outside Hartford County.
Rosh Hashanah – Day 1 $180
Kol Nidrei & Yom Kippur $180
Both Holidays $300
A completed guest form is required in order to receive the Nametags . The form is available from the office or at tinyurl.com/GuestTickets5785.
Young Adults (18-24), Local College Students, and Active Military Personnel: These special guests are invited to join all of our services at no charge. They must preregister for their nametags by calling the office.
Access is complimentary for everyone:
Rosh Hashanah – Both Evenings and Day 2; Yom Kippur – Mincha and Neilah; Sukkot, Shemini Atzeret, and Simchat Torah
Each person 5 and over must have their own nametag
All non-members must register for their nametags : tinyurl.com/Community5785
For Livestream information, interested parties will need to contact the office for access.
Reciprocal Access
We participate in the ReciprocalTicketprogram where members in good standing° at any synagogue receive complimentary access to another synagogue.
For your guests:
Please have them ask their synagogue to e-mail/fax a ReciprocalTicketRequestForm/Letterto Beth El.
It must include the names of both our member and the guest and which day(s) they will be joining us.
If YOU are traveling:
If YOU are spending any part of the holiday at another synagogue that requires tickets, go to tinyurl.com/ HiHoTravel5785 to request reciprocal ticket/access information be sent on your behalf. Please provide the fax number or email address to which we should send the information.
° Membersingoodstandinghavereturnedtheir completedmembershipformandpaidtheirduesinfull, orhavepaidatleast25%oftheirdues.
“Fine Print” (Guidelines)
Health and Wellness
If you feel you might have any illness – a cold, cough, fever, sore throat, any nasal or bronchial congestion –please stay home and enjoy our online options.
Please avoid wearing fragrances and any scented products at Beth El. We want everyone to be able to breathe comfortably at services.
We ask you to refrain from handshakes, hugs, and kisses in the temple. We suggest greeting others as our clergy do – with a wave or a hand to the heart.
Security
Please enter the building through the Sanctuary lobby doors to check in. If you have your nametag , please make sure it is around your neck and clearly visible.
Our security guards will inspect all bags.
For the safety of all, do not prop open external doors.
Due to fire regulations, strollers and walkers are not permitted in the Sanctuary or Levine-Shein Chapel. Ushers will show you the designated parking area and help you get comfortable. Asmanylookalike,please attachalabeloridentifyingribbon.
Be aware of all building exits, in case of emergency.
Ushers
Ushers will be wearing identifying badges and will be available to answer questions and help find empty seats.
Ushers will close ALL doors during sermons, for other speakers, and when the Ark is open.
Please be respectful of all usher directions.
TO VOLUNTEER: to serve as an usher, please contact, by 9/13: Sharon Levine-Shein, 860-205-9650, mslib20@gmail.com; Andrew Schoolnik, 860-690-0633, Andrewschoolnik@gmail.com
Member Portal:
Test your Online Access
A video is available on our website for all members to “test” their ability to watch and hear services.
You must test for any issues between now and Monday, September 30, by 9am. We cannot guarantee that we will be able to resolve any difficulties reported after the deadline of September 30.
Seating
At all services, seating is first-come, first-served.
If you want to ensure that your family sits together, all individuals should arrive early.
Children are welcomed and entitled to seats in any service of their choice.
Should you need a short break from the service, feel free to take one; however, we cannot guarantee that your seats will still be available for you upon your return unless a member of your family remains with them.
Special Seat Requests
Seats may be reserved in advance only for persons with disabilities or those who require the assistance of support equipment (e.g. walkers, wheelchairs). If necessary, one additional seat may be reserved for a companion to remain with that person.
These seats will be released after 10:00 am.
Notify the Temple office as early as possible so that the seat(s) can be properly designated. Requests must be made by Friday, 9/27.
Decorum – Please...
Maintain the sanctity of services by limiting conversation and dressing modestly.
Expect to enter and leave services from a side door. To reduce noise and distraction, the main doors to the Sanctuary and Kessler Hall will be kept closed, except for those with walkers.
Do not congregate in bathrooms.
Be aware that during certain portions of the service, you will be asked to wait before entering; also limit leaving at those times.
Preserve the sanctity of the holiday by turning off all electronic devices, including cell phones, prior to entering the building . Leave all iPads, Kindles, etc., at home.
Parking
Park where directed by the parking attendants in the Temple lot and only in designated spaces.
Follow all posted no parking signs on the side streets in adjoining neighborhoods. Be aware that the police will issue parking tickets.
Note: There is no designated off-site parking or shuttle service.
Family Engagement
We are looking forward to another wonderful year at SULAM. We can’t wait for our halls at Beth El to be filled once again with the joy of learners and the sounds of thoughtful exploration. This past summer the DerechSULAM committee has been diligently working on the new curriculum. We are thrilled with the results and satisfied our efforts will lead to better communication by getting us all on the same page in terms of the content of the learning that occurs at SULAM.
We used the quote above from PirkeiAvotto help guide our efforts. Our perspective is that strong student relationships are the bedrock of the SULAM experience. We seek to build a strong Jewish identity for all our learners, so our learners are connected to each other, the Beth El community, the larger Hartford community, the Jewish people, and Israel in a meaningful and heartfelt manner.
In the quote above:
Torahis the Five Books of Moses which is the text in the Torahscroll. More broadly, Torahrefers to
SULAM Opening Schedule
all Jewish learning. The foundation of all Jewish learning is the Tanakh(Jewish Bible) which is comprised of the Torah , Nevi’im(Prophets), and Ketuvim(The Writings).
Avodahis Jewish activity in service to God. We are including in the category of Avodahall Jewish ritual practices. Our curriculum works to ensure our learners understand the meaning behind the actions in this curricular category.
G’millutHasadimis how we learn how to make ourselves better human beings and help create a better world.
We are going to learn the moral and ethical guidelines of our tradition through Torahand Avodah . In addition, at SULAM, we explore how to incorporate G’millutHasadiminto our lives through our Project Based Learning curriculum.
Please contact me for more information about our SULAM curriculum or if I can be of any assistance to you, as you navigate your Jewish journey.
Better Together
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 8 First Sunday 9:00 – 9:20 AM Service of Welcome, open to all parents and extended family members
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 10 First Weekday
CONTACT: ekrigel@bethelwh.org
Shimon the Righteous was from the remnants of the Great Assembly. He would say, "On three things the world stands: on the Torah, on the service, and on acts of lovingkindness. Pirkei Avot 1:2 SULAM Educators and Madrichim, 2024-2025
~Dr.EliyahuKrigel
SUNDAYS, MONTHLY, SEPTEMBER 22 AND OCTOBER 20 10:30 – 11:30 AM
CONTACT: ekrigel@bethelwh.org
REGISTRATION REQUIRED: tinyurl.com/Better5785
NOTE: meets on the same dates as Knitzvah
This intergenerational program is an opportunity for adults over 65 years old to learn and build community with students in fifth grade and above. Sessions with Dr. Eliyahu Krigel and Nancy Rosen continue on 11/17, 12/15, 1/26, 2/23, 3/30, 4/27, and 5/18.
Programs for Teens and Young Adults
United Synagogue Youth
WHUSY, the local chapter of the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism's youth movement, serves teens from Beth El Temple and The Emanuel Synagogue. USY offers local and regional programs and conventions, local social and social justice activities, and more!
CONTACT: Marisa and Max Beede, Advisors, whusyadvisor@gmail.com AGES: grades 6-12
JTConnect
Tuesday Night JTConnect at Beth El Temple
TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 17 Classes begin
INFORMATION: www.JTConnect.org
CONTACT: Caroline Poland, Executive Dir, office@jtconnect.org
REGISTER: jtconnect.org/registration/register
AGES: grades 8-12
Registration for JTConnect is open! Dr. Eliyahu Krigel will be teaching a class this fall.
College Connection
Do you have a child in college? We'd like to stay connected with them! We will send them holiday greetings and goodies throughout the year! First up will be a High Holiday message.
Please send us their new or updated contact information (name, mailing address for school, and email address).
Stephanie Kudler, Chair collegeconnections@bethelwh.org
The generosity of the Gavens Family College Youth Fund makes this project possible.
Summer Fun around Beth El
Rabbi Rosen and Dr. Eliyahu visit Camp Ramah, Palmer.
Food, friends, and fun at the two summer Potlucks!
Beth El campers and counselors at Camp Laurelwood with Dr. E.
Rabbi Rosen and Rabbi Rosen!
Shabbat Services & Daily Minyan
All services and classes can be accessed directly from the weekly e-blast to members (no login necessary) or by following the links on our website (login required).
Shabbat – Friday
Kabbalat Shabbat 5:45 PM
Shabbat – Saturday
Shacharit, Torah & 9:30 AM Musaf Services
Children’s Playroom 9:30 AM
Mazel Tots & Shabbat Club 11:00 AM
Mincha Service, includes Mourner’s Kaddish for both Saturday and Sunday 12:30 PM
Havdallah ZOOM ONLY, SEE CHART BELOW
There are no regular services, in person, on Saturday evenings.
Daily Minyan
Shacharit Sun 8:45 AM Mon–Fri 7:00 AM
NOTE: Mondays, Sep. 2 & Oct. 14 at 9:00 AM
Ma’ariv Sun–Thu 5:30 PM
See pages 6 and 7 for the schedule of Minyan and other services during this High Holiday season.
Times; plus Havdallah Service Time
Service
Sep 6-7 6:57 PM 7:53 PM 8:15 PM
Sep 13-14 6:45 PM 7:41 PM 8:00 PM
Sep 20-21 6:32 PM
Sep 27-28 6:20 PM 7:17 PM **
Oct 4-5 6:08 PM
Oct 11-12
See High Holiday section for overlapping Shabbat and Holiday programming.
Special Shabbat Programs and Events September Sat 7 9:30 AM Birthday Shabbat Fri 20 5:30 PM Shabbat Potluck October Sat 5 9:30 AM Birthday Shabbat
Join Us For Minyan – In Person
Our in-person Minyan allows people to come together for worship, say Mourner’s Kaddish(our members observe 5,300 yahrzeits every year), name a baby, provide support in good and difficult times, and build a lasting connection to those around us. It is an opportunity for prayer, community, music, reflection, and a few moments of quiet in our busy world.
What can I expect at Minyan?
Our clergy and/or a congregant leads and guides the service with English and Hebrew portions. Congregational participation is encouraged at whatever level you feel comfortable.
Do I need to know Hebrew to attend?
No. All of our prayerbooks have English translations on the facing page of every prayer, and transliterations (using English letters to spell out Hebrew words) are provided for some prayers.
How long is Minyan?
Oct 18-19 5:46 PM 6:42 PM 7:00 PM
Oct 25-26 5:36 PM 6:32 PM 6:50 PM
Nov 1-2 5:26 PM 6:23 PM 6:45 PM 5:57 PM 7:29 PM 7:50 PM 7:05 PM 7:25 PM 6:53 PM **
** See the High Holiday section on pages 6-7 for special Havdallah scheduling information.
Sun, Tues, Wed, and Fri mornings: 30 minutes Mon. and Thurs. mornings: 40 minutes (when Torah is read) Sunday through Thursday evenings: 25 minutes
How does Minyan differ from the Shabbat Morning Service?
Daily minyan is much shorter and is a more informal environment. In addition, while some prayers, like the Sh’ma, are the same, others focus on weekday themes, whereas Shabbat are dedicated to celebrating Shabbat.
You are welcome whenever you show up. If you know your plans, please sign up to attend a Minyan. You will then receive a calendar invite and a reminder two days before your selected dates. Scan this code or visit BethElWestHartford.org/Minyan. Candle & Havdallah
Life Cycles
Welcome to New Members
Jess & Jake Koteen, with Aubrie, Ansley, and Addie
Joanna & Mike Rothstein, with Sam, Jamie, and Emma Elana Hoffman, with Ethyn and Hannah Larson
Mazel Tov! and Appreciation for Sponsoring Shabbat Kiddush
Chai Society in honor of Cantor Joseph Ness
Rosie Rodney & Ron Buckman in honor of their aufruf and wedding
Wolman Family in honor of Jacob's Bar Mitzvah
Congratulations
Ayelet & Bruce Chozick on birth of grandchild Arlo Norman Chozick-Frankenfeld
Harriet and Jerome Gilson on birth of great-grandchild Seth Benjamin Parish
Andrea Hotes on birth of grandchild Mya Lottie Hotes
B’nei Mitzvah Celebrations
Jake Rothstein
September 7, 2024
Jake, child of Tara & Dan Rothstein of West Hartford, sibling of Abby, grandchild of Myla Blum and Patrice & Joel Less from Pittsfield, MA, and Carole & Kenneth Rothstein and Helen Rothstein z’’l from Chestnut Hill, MA, is an 8th grader at King Philip Middle School. Jake volunteered with West Hartford Special Olympics, coaching and assisting the athletes for their basketball tournament.
Samuel Eli Schoenberg
September 14, 2024
Sam, child of Lindsey Schoenberg and Samantha & Eric Schoenberg, all of West Hartford, sibling of Drew and Blakely Divito and Max and Avery Schoenberg, grandchild of Sheryl Passo z"l, Jeffrey Passo, Eileen Conway, Lisa & Mark Schoenberg, and Bonnie & Paul Lewis, is an 8th grader at King Philip Middle School. Sam has befriended and interviewed a Jewish military veteran to share his story as part of the living library.
Parker Elizabeth Lang
September 21, 2024
Parker, child of Lauren & Jason Lang of West Hartford, sibling of Jordan and Avery, grandchild of Helene & Gary Fechter from Boynton Beach, FL, Dorothy Lang from Madison, and Cathy (of blessed memory) and Dr. Robert Lang from Guilford, is an 8th grader at Kingswood Oxford School. Parker is volunteering at the US Horse Welfare and Rescue Organization helping to feed, clean, and take care of unwanted, at-risk horses that have been rescued from around the country.
Of Blessed Memory
Deena Bernhaut, mother of Beth Papermaster
Estelle Biegel, mother of Diane Biegel
David Klau
Toni Fishman, brother of Peter Fishman
Stephanie Leifer, niece of Barbara & Robert Green, cousin of Pam & Steve Borer
Allen Prince, father of Debra Katz
Claire Rose, sister of Roslyn Katz, aunt of Lauren Schuman & Howard Katz
If you would like to share your Simchas and Sorrows with the Beth El Community, please send your Life Cycle announcements to: info@bethelwh.org
Celebrations
Samuel Levi Bloom
October 19, 2024
Sam, child of Allison & Michael Bloom of West Hartford, sibling of Marley, grandchild of Michael Miles from Boca Raton, FL, Marge Miles z’’l from West Palm Beach, FL, and Ruth & Fred Bloom from West Hartford, is a 8th grader at King Philip Middle School. Sam is collecting used sneakers to be donated or recycled.
Eva Sara Malitz
October 26, 2024
Eva, child of Stacey Malitz of West Hartford and Steven Malitz of Weatogue, grandchild of Carol & Eugene z’’l Topper from Nesconset, NY, and Marjorie z’’l & Larry z’’l Malitz from West Hartford, is an 8th grader at King Philip Middle School.
Emma Sophia Friedman
November 2, 2024
Emma, child of Lana Friedman of West Hartford and Meir Friedman of West Hartford, sibling of Lily, grandchild of Elaine & Kenneth Tobin of Boynton Beach, FL, and Riva & Daniel Friedman of West Hartford and Brooklyn, is an 8th grader at King Philip Middle School. Emma has designed, hand crafted, and sold bracelets to raise funds for the Marine Conservation Institute.
B’nei Mitzvah
Upcoming Events & Programs
Fantasy Football Draft
Luncheon and Laughs with Joyce Saltman
Breakfast Program with ESPN’s Sam Borden
Community October 7 Observance
Cookbook in the Sukkah with Terry Walters: Nourish
WEDNESDAY, SEPT. 4 7:00 – 8:30 PM Men’s Club
WEDNESDAY, SEPT. 18 11:30 AM –1:00 PM $15 for lunch Chai Society
SUNDAY, SEPT. 22 9:30 AM Sponsored by the family of Stan Wiesen
MONDAY, OCT. 7 TBD Federation Program
MONDAY, OCT. 21 6:00 – 8:00 PM $0 for WN members; $25 for others Women’s Network
Local cookbook author Terry Walters will discuss her most recent cookbook, Nourish–Plant-basedRecipestoFeedBodyMindandSoul.
COOKBOOKS: available for purchase; one book will be given as a door prize.
REFRESHMENTS: plant-based dishes created from Walters' recipes REGISTER: tinyurl.com/BookSukkah2024
13th Annual Sukkahfest: Steak & Vodka in the Sukkah
Distinguished Service Award (DSA) Banquet
TUESDAY, OCT. 22 6:00 – 8:30 PM $36; open to all
SUNDAY, NOV. 3 5:30 PM
Club
Club
At this annual event, Tom Falik and Steve Rabb will be honored for their extraordinary service to the Men's Club, Beth El Temple, and the Greater Hartford Community. RSVP: invitations will be mailed to all members
FJMC CT Valley Region Keeper of the Flame Brunch
Book Discussion with Marilyn Rothstein, Who Loves You Best
Walk Around the Reservoir
Beth El Block Party
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 8 11:30 AM – 1:00 PM
QUESTIONS: Dr. Eliyahu Krigel, ekrigel@bethelwh.org FREE EVENT: open to the community REGISTER: tinyurl.com/BEBlockParty24, to help us plan for food
SUNDAY, NOV 17 12:00 PM Honoring Arthur Freedman
Men’s Club
MONDAY, NOV. 18 7:00 PM Women’s Network
TUES. & THU., ONGOING 9:15 AM Rt 44 Reservoir
Club
Enjoy a bounce house, burgers and hot dogs, information about Beth El’s many programs and committees, Amazing Andy, and other entertainment.
Adult Classes
Lunch & Learn TUESDAYS 12:00 – 1:00 PM WEEKLY, Resumes 9/3
Dirshuni WEDNESDAYS 6:00 – 7:15 PM Resumes 11/6
Talmud Study WEDNESDAYS 10:15 – 11:15 AM WEEKLY
Bible & Breakfast THURSDAYS 8:00 – 9:00 AM WEEKLY
Mitzvot
KNITzvah Group
MONTHLY SUNDAYS, SEPTEMBER 22, OCTOBER 20 10:00 – 11:00 AM
CONTACT: BJ and Fran, knitzvahgrp@gmail.com
NOTE: meets on the same dates as SULAM’s Better Together We continue to be excited about creating lapghans, hats, scarves, and other hand-crafted gifts that we donate to hospitals, shelters, orphanages, and special-needs facilities locally as well as in Israel. If you enjoy knitting, crocheting, and donating your creations, you’re one of us! We welcome you to meet, knit or crochet, and chat monthly at BET.
Weturnstringsintothings,onestitchatatime tobringwarmthandcaringtoothers!
Jessie’s Community Garden
Children's Reading Partners
Women's Network members and other volunteers assisted Ronni Breiter of the Federation's Children's Reading Partners program with the annual sorting, bagging, and distribution of books. These books were purchased with donations from the December book drive, to which many Beth El members contributed.
Laura Girsky, Nancy Rosen, Michelle Kunzman, and Natalie Segal helped ensure that the children in this program had a beautiful new book to read at home this summer.
3-Season Opportunities
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 8 Garden Beds Reconstruction 10:00 AM
CONTACT: Andrew Schoolnik, 860-690-0633, Andrewschoolnik@gmail.com
REGISTER: tinyurl.com/GardenSept8
Join us before the Block Party as it is time to rebuild the Garden Beds. Greenthumbsarenotrequired!
Beth El members Michelle and Dane Kostin started Jessie’s Community Garden Foundation as an opportunity for us to grow and donate fresh vegetables to foodbanks in Greater Hartford, including the Anja Rosenberg Kosher Food Pantry at Jewish Family Services.
Garden Club News
CONTACT: Alison Demarest, 860-810-2084, alisonsupermom@comcast.net; Sheila Fox, 860-828-3939; Robin Santiago, 860-490-7661, robin@rsantiagodmd.com
The garden group welcomes all volunteers. While our regular tasks of weeding, raking, watering, planting, trimming, etc., continue for a few more weeks, we are gearing up to get the garden beds ready for winter.
Please watch for our announcement of a date for this prep work of cutting everything down, raking, and hauling to compost. Noexperiencenecessary.
Both of these outdoor activities make great b’nai mitzvah projects. Volunteers are invited to come with friends, as a family, or solo.
Supporting Beth El
We deeply appreciate the following Thoughtful Contributions.
This list reflects contributions received and processed through July 23, 2024.
For the next edition of Temple Topics, contributions need to be received in the office by September 19, 2024.
Beautification Fund
Ceremonial Court
in Appreciation of Sally & Harris Chorney – Lois Koteen
Camp Ramah Fund in Memory of Claire Rose, aunt of Lauren Schuman –Meryl & Mitchell Danitz
Cantor Joseph Ness Concert Fund in Memory of Stephanie Leifer, niece of Barbara & Robert Green; Brian Roffer, son of Rhona & Joel Roffer – Alison & Alan Gittleman for the Yahrzeit of Leonard Guthart, friend – Roberta J. Buland
Chai Society Fund in Memory of Stephanie Leifer, niece of Barbara & Robert Green – Judith Satlof for the Yahrzeit of Martin Redlus, father; Charles Alban, Holocaust remembrance – Judy & Al Greenspoon
Martha Mae Ugelow, mother – Judith Satlof
Friends of Ari Santiago Building Accessibility Fund in Honor of 95th birthday of Howard Mark – Judy Silver
Jewish Continuity Fund in Honor of Special birthday of Alys Krichavsky –Hedyth Fishman in Memory of Laurence Cole, father & grandfather –Anna, Seth, Sydney & Jack Huttner
Thank you to a member wishing anonymity for donating the new window treatments in the Community Room and on the doors along the main hallway.
Rabbi Rosen’s Discretionary Fund
in Appreciation of
Rabbi Rosen – Rhona & Joel Roffer & family; Glenn, Stuart & Deborah Rosen in Honor of
Bat mitzvah of Ella Cipriano, daughter –Alisha & Ronald Cipriano
Bat mitzvah of granddaughter of Norma Jean & Robert Sternschein – Phyllis Lehman
Special birthday of Andrea Hotes –Annette & Jack Levine
Marriage of Sara Gladstone, granddaughter of Judith & Jerrold Goodman, and Samuel Meyersen – Arlene & Dan Neiditz
in Memory of Stephanie Leifer, niece of Barbara & Robert Green – Carolyn & Stuart Bernstein, Rhona & Joel Roffer
June Rosen, mother of Stuart – Felice Goldman
Stuart Weinbaum, husband of Margery; Brian Roffer, son of Rhona & Joel –Barbara & Robert Green
Brian Roffer, son of Rhona & Joel – Judy & Gary Herman
Chuck Koteen, husband of Lois – Annette & Jack Levine
for the Yahrzeit of Benjamin Goldenberg, father – Sherri Pliskin
Kurt J. Rothschild, father – Bruce Rothschild
Hilda Lamkin Satz, mother; Ruzena Stern, Holocaust remembrance – Linda & Bruce Stanger
Donald Habelow, father – Wendy Habelow & Robert Weinstein
There are two ways to make a donation:
Go to the Beth El website: www.bethelwesthartford. org/giving
Mail it in
Please be sure to include:
the name of the fund
whom you wish to honor/ remember and your relationship to the person
their address for an acknowledgment card
your address/phone/email
Print clearly – or submit the information typed.
Every dollar contributed can and does make a difference and will be acknowledged. The minimum donation for each listing is $10. Unrestricted funds support the timely needs of Beth El Temple. Restricted funds benefit specific purposes and objectives. For a complete list of funds and any specific designations, please visit our website.
Education Fund in Honor of
High school graduation of Maya, granddaughter of Faith & Bruce Parker; high school graduation of Zev, grandson of Rita & Marty Epstein – Jan & Syd Elkin in Memory of Stephanie Leifer, niece of Barbara & Robert Green – Jill & Gary Jones for the Yahrzeit of Anne Schupack, mother – Beth & Bernie Schilberg
Enrollment Code is 2FBA715D2L6L8
Rabbi Zerin’s Discretionary Fund in Appreciation of
Rabbi Zerin – Meryl & Mitchell Danitz
Rabbi Zerin for the wedding of son Justin and Vanessa Healy – Bobbi & Nate Schilberg
Tsedakah/Chesed Fund in Honor of Naming of Helen Jones, granddaughter of Jill & Gary – Lori & Lance Reiser
Temple Fund in Honor of
Bar mitzvah of Ryan Fish, son of Jessica & Michael; bat mitzvah of Gabriella Grossman, daughter of Corinna & Jordan
– Lori & John Rosenberg
Cantor Joseph Ness on his retirement –Kim & Brian Roth
Bar mitzvah of Ryan Fish, son of Jessica & Michael – Leslie & Richard Weinstein in Memory of
Stephanie Leifer, niece of Barbara & Robert Green – Lorraine & Tom Barber, Loretta Levy
June Rosen, mother of Stuart – Dr. Martin Goldberg
Brian Roffer, son of Rhona & Joel – Eva & Michael Kaplan, Judith Satlof
Ruth Rohrlick, mother of Linda Simons –Kim & Brian Roth for the Yahrzeit of Seymour Kaplan, father – Marjorie & Bruce Abel
Bertha G. Berland, mother – Robert H. Berland
Louis J. Illions, father – Barbara & David Brown
George L. Solomon, father – Shelley Cetel
Daniel H. Turchin, brother; Haley Cremer, granddaughter – Marilyn T. Cremer
Benny Cremer, father – Reeva Cremer
Joan & Al Diamond, parents; Carol & Melvin Tubis, parents – Sheila & David Diamond
Jennifer Falik, daughter; Barbara & Harold Falik, parents; Denese Mann – Brenda Sutter & Tom Falik
Sarah Friedman, mother – Sue Torres, Matthew Friedman
George Gillman, brother – Felice Goldman
Dr. Jonas R. Leifer, brother-in-law; Linda Green Beresen, sister – Barbara & Robert Green
Yale Kaplan, father – Eva & Michael Kaplan
Bernard Kessler, uncle; Dorothy Evnen, grandmother – Abigail Kessler-Hanna Greata Meier; Albert Kleinman – Debbie & Steve Kleinman
Samuel B. Feldman, father – Debra Feldman & Larry Kushner
Ida Pedro Goldberg, grandmother; Rose Goldberg, aunt – Miriam Lappen
Jonathan Levine, brother – Peter Levine
Ruth Siegal, mother – Judie Levy
Seymour Liebowitz, husband; Trina Berkowitz, sister – Gilda Liebowitz
Max Glasser, grandfather – Lynn & Joel Malkoff
Ben Fairman, father; Esther Meyer, mother -in-law – Jean Meyer
Blossom Greenberg, mother – Janet Moskowitz
David Nemirow, husband – Maura Nemirow
Jean & Nathan Aronson – Faith Parker
Miriam Platt, mother – Joel Platt
Zara Kraznow Leavitt, grandmother; Martin Willick, uncle – Deborah R. Rosenfeld
Anne Samberg, mother – Ira Samberg
Amy T. Shakun, wife – Harlan J. Shakun
Ann F. Cohen, mother – Cyral Sheldon
Charlotte Simonovitz, mother – Sue & Stuart Wachtel
Mildred Kurtz, sister – Joel Weisman Music Fund in Appreciation of Cantor Ness during a very difficult time –Rhona & Joel Roffer & family in Honor of Cantor Ness – Natan Bauman, Rhona & Joel Roffer, Judith Satlof
Youth Activities Fund for the Yahrzeit of Fanny Drechsler, Holocaust remembrance – Julie & George Risisky
Sharon & Bob Efron Family Fund for the Yahrzeit of May & Harold Moses, parents – Sharon & Bob Efron
Supporting Beth El, cont.
General Unrestricted Endowment Fund in Honor of
Marriage of Rosie & Ron Buckman – Dr. Linda Simnowitz in Memory of
June Rosen, mother of Stuart – Karen & Jeff Polinsky
Claire Rose, aunt of Lauren Schuman – Carolyn & Jeff Weiser for the Yahrzeit of Siegfried Katz, grandfather – Peter Katz
Nathan Singer, father – Judy & Irwin Singer
Alter Family Fund in Honor of
Marriage of Ben Danitz, son of Meryl & Mitchell, and Liza Weinstein – Marci & Jonathan Alter in Memory of
June Rosen, mother of Stuart – Marci & Jonathan Alter for the Yahrzeit of
Donald Lehrer, father – Marci & Jonathan Alter
Judith & David Borus Family Endowment Fund in Honor of
Matthew Borus, son of Judy, receiving his PhD – Lois Koteen in Memory of Stephanie Leifer, niece of Barbara & Robert Green – Judy Borus for the Yahrzeit of Michael Borus, brother-in-law; Joseph Borus, father-in-law –Judy Borus
Naomi & Michael Cohen Endowment Fund in Appreciation of
The generosity of Naomi Cohen – Lois Koteen
Friends Fund for Members in Need in Honor of
Judy & David Rosenthal and all they do for Beth El Temple –Meryl & Mitchell Danitz, Planni ng Committee for the June 9 th celebration of Cantor Ness
Special birthday of Alys Krichavsky – Sandy & Marc Friedman, Annette & Jack Levine, Tamara Kagan Levine, Judy & David Rosenthal
Marriage of Rosie & Ron Buckman – Barbara & Mark Hirsch
David Rosenthal’s birthday – Lois Koteen in Memory of
Toni Fishman, brother of Peter – Judy & David Rosenthal
Chuck Koteen, husband of Lois – Joan & Paul Shapiro
Goldberg Endowment Fund for Education in Honor of Bat mitzvah of Gabriella Grossman, daughter of Corinna & Jordan – Caryl & Len Goldberg
Gottfried Family Fund in Honor of
Josh Gottfried receiving his MBA – Judy Borus
Anna Heineman Memorial Fund for the Yahrzeit of Anna & Frank Heineman, parents; Liliane Bach Anshel; Barbara Checknoff, friend; Sheldon Fertig; Riva, Lonya & Baby Schneerson – Francine & Steve Stier
Amanda Jack Endowment Fund in Memory of
Bill Wetsman, father of David – Abbey Kreinik, the Leshem family
Kreinik Family Endowment Fund for the Yahrzeit of Arthur Kreinik, father-in-law – Abbey Kreinik
Koteen Family Fund in Memory of
Chuck Koteen, husband of Lois – Shelley & Alan Cetel, Nancy Chorney, Judy & Harold Levy, Rhona & Joel Roffer, Carol Starr
Sandra L. Kravet Woman of Valor Endowment Fund in Appreciation of
The friendship of Kay & John Cort – David Kravet in Honor of David Kravet’s new home – Lois Koteen, Abbey Kreinik in Memory of
Harry Gross, father of Rick – David Kravet
Ludgin Family Endowment Fund in Honor of 60th wedding anniversary of Elaine & Burt Gold – Karen & Rob Ludgin
Marshall & Sandra Rulnick Endowment Fund in Honor of 85th birthday of Marshall Rulnick – Lois Koteen
Michael & Susan Schenker Endowment Fund in Honor of
Bar mitzvah of Avi Schenker, grandson of Susan & Michael –Hedyth Fishman
Diane & Richard Lieberfarb Endowment Fund in Appreciation of
Judy & David Rosenthal – Diane & Rich Lieberfarb in Honor of Beth El Temple’s first Pride Shabbat – Lisa Levin & Tom Greenebaum & family
Engagement of Andrew Diamond, son of Sheila & David, and Shani Erdman; engagement of Benjamin Wolfberg, son of Jennifer & Steve, and Rachel Brown – Diane & Rich Lieberfarb
Bat mitzvah of Elyse Pincu, granddaughter of Diane & Rich Lieberfarb – Lori & Lance Reiser in Memory of
Diane Lieberfarb, mother of Richard – Randy Sherman Santiago Family Fund in Memory of June Rosen, mother of Stuart – Robin & Rafi Santiago
Laurie & Marshall Shakun Family Fund in Memory of
Harry Plaut, brother of Laurie Shakun – Debbie Feldman & Larry Kushner, Judith & Joel Weisman
Clara & Mickey Sowalsky Gabbai Rishon Endowment Fund in Honor of Birth of Eli Aryeh Sowalsky, grandson of Dora & Rabbi Howard Sowalsky – Lois Koteen in Memory of Clara & Mickey Sowalsky, parents; Ronald Jay Sowalsky, brother; Amelia & Marvin Glassman, parents – Jan Glassman & Joel Sowalsky
Leigh A. Newman & Gary S. Starr Family Fund for the Yahrzeit of Ida Brown; Joseph Starr, father – Leigh Newman & Gary Starr
Lewis A. Steinberg Family Fund in Honor of Bat mitzvah of daughter, Sydney – Laurie & Josh Kaufman
Bat mitzvah of granddaughter, Sydney Kaufman – Paula D. Steinberg
Sussman Families Endowment Fund for the Yahrzeit of Mollie Leichman, grandmother – J. Bruce Sussman
Amy E. Toyen Endowment Fund in Memory of Stephanie Leifer, niece of Barbara & Robert Green; Barnet Toyen, brother – Dorine & Marty Toyen for the Yahrzeit of Amy E. Toyen, daughter; Ernest Blake, father; Nathan Finkelstein, uncle; Rita Alexandrowitz, Holocaust remembrance – Dorine & Marty Toyen
I. Milton Widem Adult Education Fund in Memory of Ruth Solomkin – Susan Widem for the Yahrzeit of Hilda Waxman, grandmother; Elsie Widem, grandmother; George Widem, uncle – Susan Widem
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Beth El Temple of West Hartford Inc.
2626 Albany Avenue West Hartford, CT 06117 bethelwesthartford.org
Jim Rosen, Rabbi JRosen@bethelwh.org
Rachel Zerin, RZerin@bethelwh.org Associate Rabbi & Interim Cantorial Soloist
Dr. Eliyahu Krigel, EKrigel@bethelwh.org
Director of Education and Family Engagement
Rabbi Howard Sowalsky, HSowalsky@bethelwh.org
Chief Operating Officer
Joseph Ness, Cantor Emeritus
Stanley M. Kessler z’’l, Rabbi Emeritus
Lydia Lutt, Marketing@bethelwh.org
Social Media and Marketing Coordinator
Jason Kay, Engagement@bethelwh.org Engagement Coordinator
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