


A few weeks ago, we were all treated to the remarkable partial eclipse of the sun. Though we did not quite manage totality, 92% is quite close. The world was filled with a kind of hush as the moon’s shadow passed over its much larger solar neighbor.
For at least a few minutes we were all filled with a sense of wonder and awe, sensing our smallness in the scheme of things brought to the fore. But we did so without complaint. The universe can be a marvelous place. The words of our prayers felt true and powerful: How wonderful are your creations eternal God.
The eclipse provided momentary relief from the enduring pain of the war with Hamas and all of its deep agony. In a way, the eclipse is still with us.
One of the most powerful reminders of Israel’s pain is the ever growing number of days the hostages have been held in Gaza. 207, 208, 209… and onward it goes.
As the numbers grow, it is tempting to succumb to the darkness, the eclipse of hope.
But there is another set of numbers that might help us cope. We are now in the period of the counting of the Omer – each day is counted, and the listing also goes
up, not down. But here we are linking the experience of Passover with the holiday of Shavuot. The power of freedom with the embrace of Torah at Sinai allows us to become a truly free people blessed with a path and a purpose.
Each day is counted with joy and anticipation, with the sense that redemption can move forward, and we can be gathered as a collective to come to know the true mission we have as a people – to be witnesses to what is good and important in this world.
We count the days to echo the ideal of the book of Psalms that says, “Let us number our days that we might gain for ourselves a heart of wisdom.” Heavenly eclipses are rare, but the blocking of hope is a daily challenge.
We are urged, especially now, to remember the hostages, to count the days they have endured captivity, and to remind the world they are not yet free. And we number our days in Jewish tradition at the very same time to remind ourselves to continue the march, to retain the hope. We are confident that our people will thrive and that the entire region will know the promise of peace.
~ JimRosenSeveral weeks ago I was privileged to participate in a program for synagogue presidents sponsored by United Synagogue for Conservative Judaism (USCJ). While three days on Zoom initially sounded overwhelming, surprisingly, the days passed quickly. I had the opportunity to hear from our USCJ leadership and interact with peers from around the country. Listening to the various conversations reinforced that we can be proud of the strength, energy, and friendships we have within our Beth El community.
When I was installed a year ago, who would have imagined what transpired on October 7th. In many respects, that day and the ongoing conflict brought us closer. While typically the “membership season” plateaus once the High Holidays are over, throughout these past months we have continued to add
members. Many are young families looking for a place to connect to their Jewish identity. The engagement of these young families was very much evident at Purim with little Queen Esthers and a host of other characters filling the building.
Can you hear the buzz of the upcoming Beth El activities? Dr. Eliyahu Krigel and a group of students will travel to New York City for a day of learning and fun. The ever-popular Dirshuni study class, led by Rabbi Rachel Zerin and sponsored by Women’s Network, continues in May. The Men’s Club provided yellow candles to mark Yom HaShoah, a day to remember those lost in the Holocaust. Funds donated from this effort support Beth El’s Camp Ramah Scholarship Fund. Of course, springtime isn’t complete without some cheesecake to celebrate the upcoming Shavuot holiday. Look for details of these and other events in our new monthly Temple Happenings as well as email updates.
In recent years, we at Beth El, along with religious institutions throughout the world, have needed to place extra emphasis on security. This need has increased in particular in light of the events of October 7th and the rise in hateful activity. Many of you participated in the training sessions held a few years ago, and we have implemented various tactics and procedures. We formed a Security Committee that has been working since the beginning of the year.
The primary focus is the physical aspects of the building, both interior and exterior, assessing where we are vulnerable and ways to mitigate it. These are not insignificant projects, and while we continue to
Throughout his 33 years at Beth El, Hazzan Ness has touched each and every one of us with prayer, music, and teachings. His reach goes well beyond Beth El as evidenced from the outpouring of the entire community to be part of the special events planned to honor him. By now, you have received an invitation to the Sunday, June 9 celebration and special concert. In addition, we will have a chance to welcome Shabbat and show appreciation for Hazzan Ness on Friday evening, June 7. I know these will be memorable events and hope many of you will join us.
As we move into summer and look forward to more sunshine, longer days, time off from school and jobs, and perhaps travels, please remember that Beth El’s doors are open for you and your families. Stay tuned for more updates. Please attend our Annual Meeting on Thursday, June 20.
Wishing all Chag Sameach and a happy and fun-filled summer.
~LeahKatzseek funding through government grants, we know that we will need our own financial resources. The Board of Trustees has approved funding an initial exterior project, and we anticipate work to commence this summer in advance of the High Holidays.
You will be hearing more in the upcoming months, along with a schedule for refresher training sessions. As always, ensuring the safety and security of our clergy, staff and congregants is of utmost importance.
~LeahKatz,President
NOTE: there is a specified fund to help with these costs: Joe Springut Memorial Security Fund
This past school year has flown by, and we have so much to celebrate. Thank you to our SULAM educators and teaching assistants for going above and beyond transforming learning into joyous study and deep reflection. Our parents continue to be supportive and engaged in our efforts to educate the next generation. KolHakavod , way to go, to all our learners for finishing the year in a strong way. Here are a few highlights from our year:
Gesher (bridge) and Pre-Gan: These new parent and me classes are an opportunity for our youngest learners and their parents to experience the joy of learning.
Better Together : This program will continue next year thanks to a generous grant from the Legacy Heritage Foundation.
Interfaith Luncheon : In March, SULAM and Beth El families joined together for our first interfaith luncheon. We welcomed our Hindu neighbors with a celebratory luncheon and for us, an opportunity to learn from our non-Jewish friends.
Build-a-Pair Contest Winners : The Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs Build-a-Pair committee has announced that Beth El Temple has been recognized for having the best wRaplyrics. Along with a $125 prize, we are proud of our leaners for winning this award for their original song called wRapItbased on Queen’s song WeWillRockYou!
The Masa Program: Thanks to the Men’s Club for supporting this program for learners in grades 8-12 on our journey to NYC to learn about the Jewish immigrant experience.
Junior Congregation: This year we held two services led by pre-b’nei mitzvah learners.
3 Successful Town-Wide Programs: Collaboration is strong in our community. Our 3rd and 4th graders joined together from all the area synagogues in January at Auer Farm for TuBishvat Togetherled by the West Hartford USY chapter. In March, we gathered across the city for a Unity Purim Carnival that attracted over 600 participants. In April, SULAM met at Schechter for a fun community field day based on Passover activities. May we continue to collaborate next year to plan meaningful programs for all our communities.
Derech SULAM: We have created a new committee to help shape and guide SULAM. To join our committee or for more information, please email Janel MacDermott at swayemac@gmail.com.
Thank you all for a wonderful year. My family and I are so grateful to all of you for the meaningful interactions we have experienced. In this challenging time for Israel, we continue to rise to the occasion of meeting each moment with compassionate awareness and a strong resolve. I hope you have a fantastic summer at camp and at home full of fun adventures, meaningful opportunities to learn, and enriching experiences full of growth and development!
~Dr.EliyahuKrigel
All services and classes can be accessed directly from the weekly e-blast to members (no login necessary) or by following the links on our website (login required).
Shabbat – Friday
Kabbalat Shabbat 5:45 PM
Shabbat – Saturday
Shacharit, Torah & 9:30 AM
Musaf Services
Children’s Playroom 9:30 AM
Mazel Tots & Shabbat Club 11:00 AM
Mincha Service 12:30 PM
Havdallah ZOOM ONLY, SEE CHART BELOW
There are no regular services, in person, on Saturday evenings.
Daily Minyan
Shacharit Sun 8:45 AM
Mon–Fri 7:00 AM
NOTE: Mon, May 29 and Tues, July 4 at 9:00 AM
Ma’ariv Sun–Thu 5:30 PM
NOTE: no evening service on June 12, 13.
See page 7 for Shavuot schedule of Minyan and other services.
Candle & Havdallah Times; plus Havdallah Service Time
Shabbat Friday Saturday Candle Havdallah Service
May 3-4 7:34 PM 8:33 PM 8:55 PM
May 10-11 7:42 PM 8:41 PM 9:00 PM
May 17-18 7:49 PM
May
Sat 4 9:30 AM Birthday Shabbat
Sat 4 3:00 PM Shabbat Playgroup at the Park
Fri 10 7:00 PM Israel Congregational Shabbat Dinner
Sat 11 9:30 AM Vav/Bogrim Shabbat Fri 31 7:00 PM Camp Sendoff Shabbat Dinner
June
Sat 1 9:30 AM Birthday Shabbat
Fri 7 7:00 PM Congregational Dinner Celebrating Cantor Joseph Ness
Fri 21 5:45 PM Pride Under the Stars
Sat 29 3:00 PM Shabbat Playgroup in the Park
Our in-person Minyan allows people to come together for worship, say Mourner’s Kaddish(our members observe 5,300 yahrzeits every year), name a baby, provide support in good and difficult times, and build a lasting connection to those around us. It is an opportunity for prayer, community, music, reflection, and a few moments of quiet in our busy world.
What can I expect at Minyan?
Our clergy and/or a congregant leads and guides the service with English and Hebrew portions. Congregational participation is encouraged at whatever level you feel comfortable with.
Do I need to know Hebrew to attend?
May 24-25 7:55 PM 8:54 PM 9:15 PM
May 31-Jun 1 8:01 PM
Jun 7-8
Jun 14-15 8:09 PM 9:08 PM 9:30 PM
Jun 21-22 8:12 PM 9:10 PM 9:30 PM
Jun 28-29 8:12 PM 9:10 PM 9:30 PM 8:06 PM 8:48 PM 9:10 PM 9:00 PM 9:20 PM 9:05 PM 9:25 PM
No. All of our prayerbooks have English translations on the facing page of every prayer, and transliterations (using English letters to spell out Hebrew words) are provided for some prayers.
How long is Minyan?
Sun, Tues, Wed, and Fri mornings: 30 minutes Mon. and Thurs. mornings: 40 minutes (when Torah is read) Sunday through Thursday evenings: 25 minutes
You are welcome whenever you show up. But, if you know your plans, please sign up to attend a Minyan. You will then receive a calendar invite and a reminder two days before your selected dates. Scan this code or visit BethElWestHartford.org/Minyan.
15 Nissan - 5 Sivan ~ April 23 - June 10
We continue to count the 49 days from the second night of Passover to Shavuot with a special blessing, traditionally said at night. This practice of “counting the omer” dates back to the Torah, when the people would bring an omer (sheaf) of grain to the mishkaneach day for the seven weeks between these two festivals. It is based on the verses from Leviticus 23:15-16 that command us to do so.
The Omer counting period is a relatively somber time: many Jews do not listen to live music or get haircuts; at Beth El, weddings don’t take place in the first part of the Omer period (until Lag Ba’Omer) with a few exceptions. This is because of a plague that wiped out many of the students of Rabbi Akiva, one of the greatest rabbis of the Talmud. We are told that the plague stopped on the 33rd day of the Omer, leading to the holiday of Lag Ba’Omer (see right).
The counting is a simple yet powerful way to mark the passage of time and increase our anticipation of Shavuot. It connects us to the agricultural cycles of our ancestors and the land of Israel and marks the journey from Egypt to Mount Sinai and from slavery to freedom – a journey we are privileged to relive, year after year.
Shavuot – 5-7 Sivan
Tuesday-Thursday, June 11-13
Shavuot is a holiday gem and is considered one of the “biggies” in Jewish life. Coming seven weeks (Shavuotis Hebrew for weeks)after the second Passover Seder, Shavuot celebrates two important events: spring’s first harvests (with our ancestors bringing the first and best fruits to the Temple) and the giving of the Torah on Mount Sinai, marking the covenant between God and the Jewish people. It’s a joyous festival that lasts for two days.
During Shavuot we read the beautiful story of Ruth, who, after the death of her husband, followed her also-widowed Jewish mother-in-law, Naomi, back to her homeland of Canaan. This is the origin of the touching speech that begins, whitherthougoes,Iwillgo,wherethoulodges,Iwilllodge. Thypeopleshallbemypeople,thyGodmyGod.
Her steadfast loyalty – and ultimate conversion to Judaism – was rewarded: Ruth’s offspring gave birth to King David. We will read the Book of Ruth during morning services on the 1st day of Shavuot.
Shavuot is also known as the dairy holiday; we eat blintzes or cheesecake. Why dairy? One reason is that the sweetness of Torah is often compared to the sweetness of honey and milk.
33rd Day of the Omer
18 Iyar ~ begins Saturday, May 26
Lag Ba’Omer, a minor holiday on the Jewish calendar, is a festive day. The Hebrew letters lamedand gimelwhich make up the acronym “Lag” have the combined numerical value of 33 . This day is an occasion for happiness during an otherwise mournful period (see left).
This day is one of celebration, picnics, bonfires, and outdoor fun. In Israel, people also plant trees. Grab some friends and enjoy!
TUESDAY, JUNE 11
5:30 PM Mincha and Festival Ma’ariv 8:08 PM Candle Lighting
WEDNESDAY, JUNE 12
9:30 AM Festival Morning Services
12:00 PM Congregational Kiddush
12:15 PM Festival Mincha
NOeveningservice
9:09 PM Candle Lighting
THURSDAY, JUNE 13
9:30 AM Festival Morning Service, Yizkorrecited
12:15 PM Festival Mincha Services
NOeveningservice
9:07 PM Havdallah
Another, is that Moses received the Torah –including the laws of kashrut – on Shavuot, but the people had not yet internalized what was and wasn’t allowed. Eating dairy was a safe bet.
Holocaust Remembrance Day
28 Nissan ~ begins Sunday evening, May 5
The full name of this revered day is YomHaShoah ve’HaGevurah– Day of Remembrance of the Holocaust and Heroism – and that is indeed what it is.
On this night, candles are lit in homes across the globe to shine a light of memory, a light of education, and a light confirming that we will never forget. By participating in this program, you are helping to keep the memory of the Shoahalive and highlighting the memory of what can happen when good people do not stand up to evil.
May the memories of those who perished in the Holocaust always be a blessing. And may we continue to honor those who bravely stood up to those who sought to destroy us.
Men’s Club mailed yellow candles to Temple members residing in CT.
Donations can be made, payable to BethElTemple , noting YellowCandlesin the memo.
All profits go directly to the Camp Ramah Scholarship Fund.
Yom HaZikaron
Israel’s Memorial Day for Fallen Soldiers & Victims of Terror
5 Iyar ~ begins Sunday evening, May 12
Memorial Day in Israel is a somber day with ceremonies to honor those who fought to protect the State and People of Israel. Nearly everyone in Israel has lost someone in a war or terror attack. Even the music on the radio is sad.
Take time on this day to read about Israeli soldiers or to support a chayalboded(lone soldier), who made aliyahand fights for their adopted country.
With the trauma and challenge of October 7th, we especially owe Israel’s fallen soldiers the assurance that they will always be remembered and their lives treasured. And although this day is typically more about the soldiers, this year is different as we continue to pray for the release of the remaining hostages.
Yom HaAtzma’ut
Israel’s Independence Day
6 Iyar ~ begins Monday evening, May 13
YomHaZikaronends in true Israeli fashion, with the beginning of this special day of parties, parades, bonfires, and more.
Wear blue and white, eat falafel, buy Israeli products, and make a donation to an Israeli charity as you celebrate Israel on this day.
28 Iyar ~ begins Tuesday evening, June 4
Celebrating the 1967 reunification of Jerusalem is a national holiday in Israel but obviously one put on the calendar very recently! The rabbis have ruled it to be a day to thank God for the victory in the Six-Day War and for answering the 2,000-year-old prayer of NextYearinJerusalem . Sing Jerusalem songs, watch the “Kotel-cam” (the 24-hour video surveillance of the Western Wall), and start to plan your next trip to Jerusalem!
Adi Negev Robin Santiago
24km from the Gaza border along Route 25 is the small town of Ofakim, famous these days for Safta Rachel, the cookie baker, who successfully held the terrorists at bay for 20 hours with her cooking. Nestled just past the western edge of Ofakim is the amazing community of ADI Negev-Nahalat Eran. This 40-acre village is the brainchild of Major General (res.) Doron Almog and his wife Didi, as they advocated for their son Eran, who was born severely disabled, and others like him.
personal advancement, social integration and gainful employment.”
Robin
They advocated for a community where children and young adults with severe disabilities and complex medical conditions could find a loving and nurturing home. In addition to the nearly three hundred residents, thousands of patients from the south of Israel receive outpatient care and therapy. A preschool where children with disabilities are integrated with their nondisabled peers has also been created. Its resounding success led to the creation of the Tikkun Olamprogram, allowing this integration to continue through high school, emphasizing inclusion and acceptance.
Our JNF (Jewish National Fund) volunteer groups were fortunate to visit Adi Negev and see for ourselves the community created here and to participate by playing with the children, seeing the beautiful grounds surrounding the residences, and appreciating all the care and planning that went into creating this village. There are stables and riding rings for the therapy ponies so beloved by the children, a petting zoo, calming water features, and an organic farm where vegetables are grown and where we planted cabbages in the field and potted seedlings for sale.
Most recently Adi Negev’s Kaylie Rehabilitation Medical Center has been an essential part of medical care in the south for the dozens of wounded soldiers and civilians. It is the only one of its kind in the south of Israel. A recent expansion has brought the number of beds to 108. Still more are urgently needed. The creative and nurturing spirit of Adi Negev-Nahalat Eran is alive and well and part of the fabric of resilience characteristic of Israeli society and so urgently needed after October 7th.
This village is open to all – and reflects the surrounding populations. The goal is to give the children a home where the therapies they need are easily available and to also provide a beautiful place for families to visit with their children as often and as long as they want. As they advertise, “ADI Negev cultivates empathy and acceptance through education and provides individuals with disabilities from across the region with a framework for
Welcome to New Members
Calvin & Elaine Price
Joel & Rhona Roffer
Linda Severi
Mazel Tov! and Appreciation for Sponsoring Shabbat Kiddush
Covici Family in honor of Cayla’s Bat Mitzvah
Fox family in honor of Brandon’s Bar Mitzvah
Rabbi Ilana Garber, Noam, and Yaron, in honor of Adam Berkowitz's 45th birthday
The Kravet Family in honor of Women's Network Shabbat and the Sandra L. Kravet
Woman of Valor award
Landau Family in loving memory of their mother and grandmother, Phyllis Landau, and in thanks to the Beth El community for their warm support during the first year of mourning
Ted Lazarus in honor of the 60th anniversary of his bar-mitzvah
Howard Mark in honor of his 95th birthday
Men’s Club in honor of Men’s Club Shabbat
Sandra & Marshall Rulnick in honor of Marshall’s special birthday
Congratulations
Diane Biegel & Joel Pachter, on birth of granddaughter Danielle Leah Koenigsberg
Cheryl & John Hinze, on birth of grandchild
Hannah Lynn McQueen
Ronit Shoham, on birth of grandchild Colin Scott MacDonald
Susan & Alan Solinsky and Mindelle Selzer, on birth of granddaughter/great-granddaughter
Anabel Trudie Shaw
Of Blessed Memory
Hermine Fisher, mother of Warren Fisher
Theodore "Ted" Fox
Marian Friedland
Irwin Kabakoff, father of Seth Kabakoff
Chuck Koteen
Keith Lapuk, son of Lee Lapuk
Carol Robbin, mother of EJ Greenspan
B’nei Mitzvah Celebrations
Micah Patt
May 18, 2024
Micah, child of Ivy & Avinoam Patt of West Hartford, sibling of Alexander and Maya, grandchild of Brina Einstein from Cambridge, MA, and Nurit & Yehuda Patt from Santa Fe, NM, is a 7th grader at Bristow Middle School. Micah and classmate Cayla Covici created and performed a musical medley for the residents of Duncaster and have been invited back for multiple performances!
Ryan Jason Fish
June 8, 2024
Ryan, child of Jessica & Michael Fish of Avon, sibling of Jordan and Brody, grandchild of Camille & Stephen Fish of Simsbury and Marilyn & Richard Roth of New York, is a 7th grader at Avon Middle School. Ryan is raising money for his late cousin Brooke’s charity, Brooke’s Voice, with a mission of improving the lives of children facing medical challenges by providing individualized gifts to hospitalized children.
Gabriella Marie Grossman
June 22, 2024
Gabriella, child of Corinna & Jordan Grossman of Avon, sibling of Brayden, grandchild of Rhoda Grossman z’’l from Manchester, Donald Grossman from Florida, and Marie Martusis from Granby, is a 7th grader at Avon Middle School. Gabriella is collecting dance costumes and performance dancewear for a local charity organization.
Sydney Ellis Kaufman
June 29, 2024
Sydney, child of Laurie & Joshua Kaufman of West Hartford, sibling of Abigail, grandchild of Paula & Lewis z’’l Steinberg from West Hartford and Tobie & Warren Kaufman from Allendale, NJ, is a 7th grader at Bristow Middle School. Sydney is collecting socks (an often needed yet seldom donated item!) for local people in need.
If you would like to share your Simchas and Sorrows with the Beth El Community, please send your Life Cycle announcements to: info@bethelwh.org
Women’s Network is grateful for all the volunteers, participants, and supporters who helped to make our event on April 6 so beautiful and meaningful!
Special thanks to David Kravet for his participation in the service and for his sponsorship of both the Sandra L. Kravet Woman of Valor Award and the celebration luncheon, catered by Joy of Food (Paul and Debbie Bettan).
Decorating the Bimah and Kessler Hall
Dan Kulakofsky
Judy Kulakofsky
Rivka Dvorin
Sheila Diamond
Maura Nemirow
Cindy Krish
Michelle Kunzman
Judy Kulakofsky
Participating in the service
Carolyn Bernstein
Ali Bluestone
Roberta Buland
Women’s Network Cooking with Rivka Dvorin
1/22:
2/26:
The first recipients of this award are from 3 generations in the same family – Edith Denes, Marge Swaye, and Janel MacDermott – they continually demonstrate what it truly means to be women of valor!
Rena Citron
Jo Cohen
Alison Demarest
Sheila Diamond
Rivka Dvorin
Sharon Efron
Allison Gittelman
Alex Golder
Pauline Golder
Shera Golder
Jill Jones
Leah Katz
Ellie Kay
Bobby Klau
Myra Kleinman
Abbey Kreinik
Michelle Kunzman
Diane Lieberfarb
Lily MacDermott
Maura Nemirow
Nancy Rosen
Deborah Rosenfeld
Judy Rosenthal
Susan Schenker
Lonni Schulz
Linda Severi
Shira Tuvin
Sarah Willen
Instructors and Set-up
Judy Borus
Rena Citron
Rivka Dvorin
Lonni Schulz
Susan Wiener
Melissa Bauman
Lee Ann Benadiva
Stuart Bernstein
Richard Gutcheon
Bill Kleinman
Myra Kleinman
Gina Koppel
Dan Kulakofsky
Eileen McMurrer
Leigh Newman
David Sabino
Ila Sabino
Gary Starr
Francine Stier
Marge Swaye
3/19: RivkaDvorin, Laurie Goldsmith, Melissa Weinstock, Sydney
Sholem Aleichem: Laughing in the Dark, a film
Annual Men's Club Membership Dinner
Being Jewish in 2024: Myths, Misinformation, and Managing Difficult Conversations
THURSDAY, MAY 16 1:00 PM Chai Society
WEDNESDAY, MAY 22 6:00 PM $5 Men’s Club
WEDNESDAY, MAY 29 6:00 PM ADL’s Kulanu initiative
Men’s Retreat at Camp Ramah JUNE 6-9 Camp Ramah, Palmer, MA Men’s Club
Outing to the Hartford Yard Goats
SUNDAY MORNINGS, APRIL 28 – EARLY FALL 9:30 – 11:30 AM
LOCATION: CIGNA (in Bloomfield off Simsbury Rd.)
SUNDAY, JULY 28 Men’s Club 12:00 PM Lunch/ Socializing 1:10 PM Game Time
CAPTAINS: Alan Cetel, 860-232-9515, acjctc@aol.com, Jacob Kovel, 860-651-9366, eaglewars@aol.com
TUESDAYS & THURSDAYS 9:15 AM
LOCATION: Reservoir on Route 44, Albany Ave; meet in parking lot
CONTACT: Stu Bernstein, 860-232-2012, scbernste@aol.com
United Synagogue Youth
FRIDAY-SUNDAY, MAY 10-12
Beth El Temple and West Hartford USY are hosting this year’s Region convention. CONTACT: Jason Kay, jkay@uscj.org
CONTACT: Marisa and Max Beede, Advisors, whusyadvisor@gmail.com
AGES: grades 6-12
INFORMATION: www.usy.org/summer-travel
USY provides Jewish teens with transformative travel experiences, opening their eyes to new places, different ways of life, and some of the world’s most spectacular sights. Trips options include Israel, Europe, and all across North America.
WHUSY programming is made possible in part through the generosity of Jewish Federation of Greater Hartford.
Thanks to TheGavensFamilyCollege YouthFundand packaging and shipping provided by Lesro Industries, 41 of our college age members received Mishloach Manot this Purim! The packages got rave reviews from the college students! It’s so wonderful to be able to stay connected and let our kids know we’re thinking of them!
Stephanie Kudler, Chair collegeconnections@bethelwh.org
MONTHLY SUNDAYS, MAY 19 10:00 – 11:00 AM
CONTACT: BJ and Fran, knitzvahgrp@gmail.com
NOTE: meetings will resume in September Weturnstringsintothings,onestitchatatimeto bringwarmthandcaringtoothers!
CONTACT: Dan Kulakofsky, 860-214-0881, dpk18@hotmail.com
The Anja Rosenberg Kosher Food Pantry at Jewish Family Services continually needs to be restocked. Place your donations in the box at the entrance across from the Community Room. Items may also be brought directly to Jewish Family Services. 333 Bloomfield Ave, Suite A.
When BET members Michelle and Dane Kostin started Jessie’s Community Garden Foundation, they created an opportunity for us to grow and donate fresh vegetables to foodbanks throughout Hartford. We have done a great job getting our hands dirty and growing thousands of pounds of vegetables for donation. Gardening will feed your soul while you help raise crops to feed your neighbors. Jessie’s Community Garden at BET is a great way to spend an hour a week while performing an important mitzvah.
Both of these outdoor activities make great b’nai mitzvah projects. Volunteers are invited to come with friends, as a family, or solo.
Garden Club News
CONTACT: Alison Demarest, 860-810-2084, alisonsupermom@comcast.net; Robin Santiago, 860-490-7661, robin@rsantiagodmd.com
DONATIONS: gently used garden tools, hoses, or the funds to purchase them are gratefully accepted Welcome to another Spring and another season full of wonderful gardening opportunities! The garden group welcomes all volunteers. We have a few large transplanting jobs and lots of small things like weeding, raking, watering, planting, trimming... you get the idea! Gardening is a peaceful healthy activity for any age. If you have an afternoon or an hour, once or once a week, we welcome your help! And we are happy to share our gardening knowledge with you. We are volunteers, too. We also welcome ideas for future plantings!
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Lunch & Learn
Dirshuni
Talmud Study
Bible & Breakfast
Pirkei Avot Study
TUESDAYS 12:00 – 1:00 PM WEEKLY, 6/4 last class before summer break
WEDNESDAYS 6:00 – 7:15 PM 5/1, 5/15, 6/5 last class before summer break
WEDNESDAYS 10:15 – 11:15 AM WEEKLY
THURSDAYS 8:00 – 9:00 AM WEEKLY
THURSDAYS 1:30 – 2:30 PM WEEKLY, 6/6 last class before summer break
We deeply appreciate the following Thoughtful Contributions.
This list reflects contributions received and processed through March 19, 2024.
For the next edition of Temple Topics, contributions need to be received in the office by May 21, 2024.
Beautification Fund in Memory of
Ted Fox, husband of Sheila – Sharon & David Kromas, Barbara Nair, Judy & David Rosenthal, Robin & Rafi Santiago
Camp Ramah Fund in Appreciation of Michelle Kunzman, Gary Starr – Deborah R. Rosenfeld in Honor of Bar mitzvah of Yaron Dvir Berkowitz, son of Rabbi Ilana Garber & Adam Berkowitz
– Meryl & Mitchell Danitz
B’nai mitzvah of Tali & Rami Tuvin, children of Karen & Alan – Alison & Alan Gittleman for the Yahrzeit of Dorothy Kellner, mother – Barbara Samberg
Cantor’s Music Fund in Appreciation of Cantor Ness – Lee Lapuk in Memory of
Robert Byrne, brother-in-law of Roberta Buland – Sharon & Bob Efron for the Yahrzeit of Martin Schulz, father – Lori & John Rosenberg Martin Zachariah Vogelhut, father –Lorraine & Farrel Vogelhut
Rabbi Zerin’s Discretionary Fund in Honor of Birth of Annarose Margot Gehachu, granddaughter of Pam & Barry Gordon –Carolyn & Stuart Bernstein in Memory of Faye Stanger, mother of Bruce – Myra & Bill Kleinman for the Yahrzeit of Lillian Friend, mother – Roberta Buland
Chai Society Fund in Memory of
Jay Cudrin, husband of Harriet – Faith & Bruce Parker, Roz Rachlin, Judith Satlof
Sidra Sperling; Ellie Jainchill; mother of Carol Starr, grandmother of Josh; Harold Blumberg; Selma Starr, mother of Gary; Norman Solinsky, father of Dr. Alan Solinsky – Roz Rachlin
Shirley Wachtel, mother of Stuart – Roz Rachlin, Sharon & Sanford Stein for the Yahrzeit of Nettie & Louis Greenspoon, parents; Salomon Albohair, Holocaust remembrance – Judy & Al Greenspoon Dr. Leo M. Satlof, father-in-law – Judith Satlof
Education Fund in Memory of
Shirley Wachtel, mother of Stuart – Naomi & Michael Cohen, Lisa & Kevin Duran, Mona Elson, Barbara & Robert Green, Debbie & Richard Gutcheon, Leah Katz, Myra & Bill Kleinman, Suan & Michael Peck, Lucille Portner, Bonnie Pumerantz, Ellen Robbins, Nancy Rogers, Alan Rosenthal, Sandra & Marshall Rulnick, Lynn Rynar, Susan & Michael Schenker, Robin & Mark Suplinskas
Sidra Sperling – Barbara & Robert Green
Dr. Abe Bernstein, husband of Estelle –Meryl & Elliott Rosenberg for the Yahrzeit of Elmer Price & Marjorie Bernstein Krigel, grandparents – Gayle & Bruce Krigel
Edward Schupack, father – Beth & Bernie Schilberg
Idell “Libby” Hendler, aunt – Sue & Stuart Wachtel
There are two ways to make a donation:
Go to the Beth El website: www.bethelwesthartford. org/giving
Mail it in
Please be sure to include:
the name of the fund
whom you wish to honor/ remember and your relationship to the person
their address for an acknowledgment card
your address/phone/email
Print clearly – or submit the information typed.
Every dollar contributed can and does make a difference and will be acknowledged. The minimum donation for each listing is $10.
Unrestricted funds support the timely needs of Beth El Temple. Restricted funds benefit specific purposes and objectives. For a complete list of funds and any specific designations, please visit our website.
Friends of Ari Santiago Building Accessibility Fund for the Yahrzeit of
Donald W. Mark, brother – Sheila & Howard Mark Judaica Fund for the Yahrzeit of Lois Johnson, mother – Carol Johnson Joseph Springut Security Fund in Memory of
David Goldfarb, uncle of Jay & Nancy Gershman; Shirley Wachtel, mother of Stuart – Honey Sue Springut
Rabbi Rosen’s Discretionary Fund in Appreciation of Rabbi Rosen – Meryl & Mitchell Danitz, Lee Lapuk, Randi & Steven Piaker, Anne Stein
in Honor of
Birth of Henry Jack Munch, grandson of Nancy & Rabbi Jim Rosen; birth of Ethan Zachary Kranz Garfinkel, great-grandson of Vida Barron, grandson of Marcia & Michael Garfinkel – Carolyn & Stuart Bernstein
Gilda Liebowitz becoming a greatgrandmother – Judy Cohen
Birth of Henry Jack Munch, grandson of Nancy & Rabbi Jim Rosen – Marylin & Arthur Noll, Sandra & Marshall Rulnick in Memory of
Robert Goldberg, brother of Judy Singer –Carolyn & Stu Bernstein
Richard Bernstein, husband of Sonia, father of Lori Meyerson – Leslie & Marty Brooks
Ellie Jainchill, mother of Carol Starr, grandmother of Josh – Shelley & Nelson Riner
Carol Mae Friedman, mother of Anne Stein – Gerri & Larry Wile for the Yahrzeit of Samuel Bernstein, father – Carolyn & Stuart Bernstein
Scott Bernstein, husband; Rosalyn & Harry Palmbaum, parents – Nancy Bernstein
Joseph Friend, father – Roberta Buland
Minnie Goldenberg, mother – Sherri Pliskin
Dora Goldfarb Satz – Linda & Bruce Stanger
Taste Of Shabbat in Honor of
Birth of Eli Aryeh Sowalsky, grandson of Dora & Rabbi Howard Sowalsky – Judy & Dan Kulakofsky
Temple Fund in Appreciation of Rabbi Sowalsky – Jack Fast in Honor of
Birth of Henry Jack Munch, grandson of Nancy & Rabbi Jim Rosen – Marilyn Cremer, Gilda Liebowitz
Birth of great-grandson, Henry Jon Vaickus; birth of Jesse Piperis, greatgrandson of Gilda Liebowitz – Harriet & Jerome Gilson
Birth of great-grandson, Jesse Piperis; birth of Henry Jon Vaickus, great-grandson of Harriet & Jerome Gilson – Gilda Liebowitz in Memory of
Adam Leshem, husband of Alice, father of Jerry Leshem & Ed Leshem – Bishop Travel
Annette Gavens, mother of Missy –Marilyn Cremer
Norman Krams, brother of Judy Borus; Selma Starr, mother of Gary; Shirley Wachtel, mother of Stuart – Shera & David Golder
Richard Bernstein, husband of Sonia, father of Lori Meyerson – Jan & Harold Moskowitz, Bette & Joel Platt, Sandra & Marshall Rulnick, Gayle & Steven Temkin
Carol Robbin, mother of EJ Greenspan –Marylin & Arthur Noll
Ellie Jainchill, mother of Carol Starr – Judy & Frank Resnick
We bring you a selection of the finest Judaica that is created by artists in Israel and from around the USA. We carry ceremonial items for B’nei Mitzvah and weddings, an array of traditional items for Chanukah, Passover, and Shabbat, as well as a variety of styles of beautiful kippot. We also have a children’s section with gifts and games.
We may be small, but we strive to assist you with your individual needs. There is much to see in the gallery so please stop by and browse.
HOURS: Sundays, 9:00 – 11:30AM
(when SULAM is in session: May 5 and 19)
APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE: Shelley Barker, 860-232-6468; Jill Jones, 860-922-7300
VOLUNTEERS: contact Jill to sign up
NOTE: proceeds benefit the synagogue, and we are staffed through the generosity of our volunteers
Wishing a Complete Return to Good Health to
Miryam Mandelman; Leah Goldberg –Marcia & Dave Waitzman for the Yahrzeit of
Lillian Gordon, aunt; Joseph Edelson, uncle – Shelley & Michael Barker
Louis Asheroff, father; Gloria Bernstein, mother – Carolyn & Stuart Bernstein
Helen & Jack Brown, parents – Barbara & David Brown
Harold Butler, father; Shirley ButlerGolden, mother – Michael Butler
Marvin Cremer, husband; Dora Turchin, mother – Marilyn Cremer
Fred Dannhauser, husband – Harriet Dannhauser
Jack Eisler, father – Edith Denes
Marshall William Elman, husband; Ida & Harris Noll, parents; Rhea Elman Melius, daughter; Sidney Melius, son-in-law; Beatrice Herrup, step-mother; Arthur Greenberg, uncle; Rhea Noll Herrup, grandmother; Lt. Lawrence Leon Elman, brother-in-law – Jeanne Elman
Jozef Drazek – Tom Falik
Claire Silverstein, aunt – Korine Ferraro
Sophie Markman, grandmother –Matthew Friedman
Sol Gillman – Felice Goldman
Ruth Green, mother – Barbara & Robert Green
Goldie Spiegel, mother – Cheryl & John Hinze
Leo M. Kaplan, husband – Bilha Kaplan
Friedel & Dr. Nachman Kacen, parents; Frances Deutsch, mother – Eva & Michael Kaplan
Fred Grodin; Milton Prince; Janet Prince Rosenberg; Lillian Grodin; Sarah Katz; Warren Katz; Anita Katz; Mildred Katz –Debra & Howard Katz
Dora & Jack Kessler, grandparents; Elaine Evnen, aunt; Arnold Kessler, uncle –Abigail Kessler-Hanna
Ron Meier – Deborah & Steven Kleinman
Shirley Gottlieb, aunt – Miriam Lappen
Esther Levy, mother; Howard J. Siegal, brother – Judie & Coleman Levy
Ida Simon, mother; Martin Lindenberg, father – Andrea & Robert Lindenberg
Mina Malkoff, mother; Bertha Glasser, grandmother; Sadie Treach, grandmother – Lynn & Joel Malkoff
Sarah & Benjamin Rabinovitz, parents –Lewis Rabinovitz
Jacob Lubowitz, grandfather – Joanne Rome
Herman Leavitt, grandfather; Jeffrey Alan Willick, cousin – Deborah Schatz Rosenfeld
Robert Rosenfield, father; Alfred Rosenthal, father – Judy & David Rosenthal
Matthew Eisenfeld & Sarah Duker –Bonnie & Jay Roston
Ron Bernstein, step-father-in-law – Kim & Brian Roth (continues)
Louis Zionts, father – Lois Saffer
Dr. Emanuel Roth; Morris Elkind – Shari Roth & Russell Selzer
Samuel Shapiro – Patricia & Robert Shapiro
Robert Simonovitz, father; Steven Simonovitz, brother; Bertha Wachtel, grandmother; Rose Newman, aunt; Philip Stoltz, grandfather – Sue & Stuart Wachtel
Jennie Weisman, mother – Joel Weisman
Yetta Werner, mother – Herbert Werner
Janet Zimmerman, wife; Gustav Zimmerman, father – Richard Zimmerman
Murray Zweig, father – Richard Zweig
Tsedakah/Chesed Fund in Honor of B’nai mitzvah of Tali & Rami Tuvin, children of Karen & Alan –Barbara & Robert Green in Memory of
Norman Finkelstein, father of Risa Sugarman – Meryl & Mitchell Danitz
Florence Levine, mother of Larry – Candace Grueff, Pam & Ricky Tinter
General Unrestricted Endowment Fund in Honor of Marriage of Josh Benadiva, son of Leann & Claudio, and Eden –Carolyn & Jeff Weiser for the Yahrzeit of
Kurt Katz, father; Gella Katz, grandmother – Peter Katz
Michael S. Kulick, husband; Emanoil Braunstein Florescu, father – Alexandra Flowers
Sydney Lustgarten – Marlena DeRosa
Alter Family Fund in Honor of
Jordan Alter, son of Marci & Jonathan, acceptance to Yale Pediatric Cardiology Fellowship – Meryl & Mitchell Danitz
Judith & David Borus Family Endowment Fund in Memory of
Norman Krams, brother of Judy Borus – Heather Toyen
Sharon & Bob Efron Family Fund for the Yahrzeit of Irene Moses, grandmother; Micha Axelrod, friend; Alex Akimow, Holocaust remembrance – Sharon & Bob Efron
Jane & Nathan Field Memorial Fund in Memory of Robert Byrne, brother-in-law of Roberta Buland – Emmy & Steve Fast
Gavens Family College Youth Fund in Memory of
Annette Gavens, mother of Michelle – Rosa Abramowitz & Alexander Dambitzer, Lorraine & Robert Albanesi, Sandra & Marshall Rulnick
Goldberg Endowment Fund for Education in Appreciation of Limor Shefer for the bar mitzvah of son, Yaron Dvir Berkowitz –Ilana Garber & Adam Berkowitz in Memory of
Shirley Wachtel, mother of Stuart – Ellen Stoltz
Golder Family Fund in Memory of
Abraham Bernstein, husband of Estelle –Alison & Alan Gittleman
Wishing a Complete Return to Good Health to:
Liz DePalma – Alison & Alan Gittleman
Leah Goldschmidt Katz Endowment Fund
in Honor of 85th birthday of Marshall Rulnick – Holly & Jerry Swirsky for the Yahrzeit of Toni & Sol Goldschmidt, grandparents; Lily Herz, grandmother – Leah Katz Kochen Family Fund in Appreciation of Rabbi Sowalsky for the bar mitzvah of son, Yaron Dvir Berkowitz – Ilana Garber & Adam Berkowitz for the Yahrzeit of Elene Needelman – Davida & Steve Needelman
Eleanor Weinberg Jainchill Family Fund in Memory of
Ellie Jainchill, mother of Carol Starr –Barbara & Robert Green, Debbie & Richard Gutcheon, Carol Johnson, Abbey Kreinik, Miriam Lappen, Sheila & Howard Mark
Sandra L. Kravet Woman of Valor Endowment Fund in Honor of Marriage of Jose Fernandez and John Vrakas – David Kravet
Marshall & Sandra Rulnick Endowment Fund in Honor of 85th birthday of Marshall Rulnick – Cindy & Adam Cohen, Naomi & Michael Cohen, Leah Katz, Abbey Kreinik, Tamara Kagan Levine, Diane & Richard Lieberfarb, Nancy & Alan Mandell, Lori Meyerson, Arlene & Dan Neiditz
Ruth & Harry Kleinman Endowment Fund in Memory of
Shirley Wachtel, mother of Stuart – Jeanne & Dan Kleinman
Diane & Richard Lieberfarb Endowment Fund in Memory of
Abraham Bernstein, husband of Estelle; Shirley Wachtel, mother of Stuart –Diane & Richard Lieberfarb
Diane Lieberfarb, mother of Richard –Lynn & Joel Malkoff, Sandra & Marshall Rulnick
Wishing a Complete Return to Good Health to Richard Lieberfarb – Sandra & Marshall Rulnick
Arthur & Stella Mostel Fund for Adult Education for the Yahrzeit of Arthur Mostel, father; Fannie Krampf, grandmother – Carolyn & Jeff Weiser (continues)
Anna Heineman Memorial Fund for the Yahrzeit of Aaron Anshel, grandfather; David Anshel, uncle – Francine & Steve Stier
Rosen Family Kehillah Kedosha Fund in Honor of Edith Denes, Marge Swaye & Janel MacDermott receiving The Sandra L. Kravet Woman of Valor Award –Francine & Steven Stier
Clara & Mickey Sowalsky Gabbai Rishon Endowment Fund in Honor of Birth of Eli Aryeh Sowalsky, grandson of Dora & Rabbi Howard Sowalsky –Carolyn & Stuart Bernstein, Ilana Garber & Adam Berkowitz, Debbie & Richard Gutcheon, Cheryl & John Hinze, Leah Katz, Sharon & Neil Kochen, Lois & Chuck z’’l Koteen, Marylin & Arthur Noll
Michael & Susan Schenker Endowment Fund for the Yahrzeit of William Friedeberg, husband; Lee & Leon Birnbaum, parents; Benjamin Birnbaum, uncle – Pam Friedeberg
Daniel J. Novarr, brother – Susan & Michael Schenker
Albert & Mickie Schoolnik Endowment Fund in Honor of Birthday of Sharon Levine-Shein – Rita Schoolnik & Howard Zisserson
Carol W. Starr Family Endowment Fund in Memory of
Ellie Jainchill, mother of Carol Starr – Joan Desmarais, Ilana Waynik & Jeremy Fried, Carol Johnson, Lois & Chuck z’’l Koteen, Abbey Kreinik, Sheila & Jon Mellitz, Judy & David Rosenthal, Ruth Solomkin, Linda & Bruce Stanger, Leigh Newman & Gary Starr, Linda Weinberg
Thank you to the following Beth El Temple women who responded generously to the Women’s League Torah Fund Appeal:
Benefactor
Rena Citron
Rivka Dvorin
Ilana Garber
Jill Epstein Jones
Leah Katz
Barbara Klau
Jeanne Kleinman
Myra Kleinman
Gina Koppel
Other Donors
Vida Barron
Carolyn Bernstein
Naomi Cohen
Alison Demarest
BJ Diamond
Lois Koteen
Michelle Kunzman
Anita Levy
Beth Papermaster
Gail Reiner
Sharon Gorlick Royer
Lea Selig
Paula Steinberg
Francine Stier
Eva Kaplan
Jean Meyers
Deena Myers
Lonnie Schulz
Judyth Singer
If you have not already contributed and would like to do so, please write a check to TORAH FUND, and send to: Jill Epstein Jones, 10 High Point Lane, West Hartford, CT 06107.
Rabb Family Fund in Appreciation of Emmy & Steve Fast – Robert Kagan
Laurie & Marshall Shakun Family Fund for the Yahrzeit of Florence & Aaron Shakun, parents –Laurie & Marshall Shakun
Leigh A. Newman & Gary S. Starr Family Fund in Memory of
Selma Starr, mother of Gary, grandmother of Josh – Myra & Bill Kleinman, Sandra & Marshall Rulnick, Carol Starr
Amy E. Toyen Endowment Fund in Memory of
Robert Byrne, brother of Roberta Buland –Dorine & Marty Toyen for the Yahrzeit of Salena & Melvin Blake, parents; Dinny & Morris Toyen, parents – Dorine & Marty Toyen
Josh Edelglass 781-702-5290
joshe@campramahne.org
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Inclusiveness is one of our core values at Beth El. We do everything feasible to allow those with disabilities or special needs to participate in Services, classes, and programs. Examples include the synagogue elevator, hearing devices, and periodic special services for those with disabilities. These days, we're also focusing on those with fragrance sensitivities. This represents a significant group which includes Beth El members, staff, and undoubtedly, visitors. Fragrance sensitivity is a very common problem which causes a wide variety of health concerns; e.g. difficulty breathing. Many institutions and businesses, and a growing number of houses of worship, have enacted Fragrance Free policies. In order to assure that affected individuals are able to participate and enjoy Beth El, we request that you avoid wearing fragrances and scented products.
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In accordance with the by-laws of Beth El Temple, the Nominating Committee met on January 29, 2024, and March 25, 2024, to identify Beth El members in good standing to serve on the synagogue’s Board of Trustees and the next Nominating Committee.
The Nominating Committee is proud to recommend for nomination the following congregants to serve as Trustees.
Nominating Committee, 2023–2024
Sharon Efron, chair
Lee Ann Benadiva
Eric Brown
Barbara Green
Steven Kest
Sharon Levine-Shein
Lisa Levy ex-officio:
Leah Katz
We thank the following Trustees as they leave the Board upon completing their terms
Leonard Eisenfeld
Justin Kudler
Officers continuing to serve their term through June 2025
President Leah Katz
1st VicePresident
Phil Schulz
2nd VicePresident Shera Golder
Treasurer
Asst.Treasurer
Stuart Wachtel
Jeremy Kempner
FinancialSecretary Marsha Fisher
Asst.FinancialSecretary
Mina Nemirow
Secretary Ellen Sanders-Nirenstein
Trustees to continue their terms through June 2025
Lee Ann Benadiva
Alisha Cipriano
Sharon Efron
Loren Gelber
Leah Katz
Howard Levinbook
Mina Nemirow
Elliott Pollack
Phil Schulz
Ila Sabino
Stuart Wachtel
Trustees nominated to serve new terms, July 2024 through June 2026
Ronald Apter
Alison Bluestone
Samuel Borden
Judith Borus
Jo Cohen*
Marsha Fisher
Past Presidents, eligible to serve
Jonathan Alter
Diane Lieberfarb
Steve Rabb
Judith Rosenthal
Gerald Garfield
Shera Golder
Jeremy Kempner
Janel MacDermott
Glen Rosenfeld
Ellen SandersNirenstein
Andrew Schoolnick* *new trustees
Auxiliary Board Members
Arthur Freedman, Men’sClub
Allan Geetter, ChaiSociety
Michelle Kunzman, Women’sNetwork