PROFESSIONAL AND PERSONAL SUCCESS Len Grinke Photography in North Vancouver
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f you think about it, most success in life comes down to how well you can influence others. If you can’t open minds to your ideas and offers, you can stay stuck— professionally and personally. You can have all the communication strategies in the world but if you lack belief in yourself, those strategies are useless. Doubt and fear can make the whole process much more challenging, if not impossible. • You may doubt the value of your offer—products, services, ideas, opportunities. • You may doubt your own abilities to communicate properly about it. • You may be judgmental of yourself when you make mistakes so you don’t learn from your setbacks. Here is a solution that’s helped thousands of people break free of all that in 30 days. The Memory Imprint Journal is a free downloadable 1-page PDF that you fill out for 30 days in a row in about 10 minutes a day.
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It will help you develop positive habits of mind in these 3 areas. • Regular Appreciation of self, others, and circumstances • Finding Evidence of core beliefs changing for the better • Bringing Good Memories back to the surface
Successful people tend to reinforce memories of success versus memories of failure. Why do it? Reason #1 Studies show people who are happy with themselves and life in general are far better at influencing than people who are unhappy. Daily appreciations help “raise your vibration,” thus making you more magnetic for success.
Reason #2 People who are successful at influencing typically have the following kinds of core beliefs. The Society of Notaries Public of British Columbia
a. B elief in Your Offer: Believing in the value of your products, services, ideas, and opportunities b. Boldness: Having the selfconfidence to continue approaching people, despite setbacks c. Worthiness: Feeling worthy of support, income, attention, success, and so on d. Forgiveness: Willingness to forgive yourself and others for inevitable mistakes along the way e. L earning: Willingness to learn from those mistakes This part of the Memory Imprint Journal will help you build those core beliefs by noting evidence when they show up more and more in your life— because what you focus on grows!
Reason #3 Successful people tend to reinforce memories of success versus memories of failure. Once you learn from your mistakes, it’s best to let the memories go. The problem is the human mind tends to loop on negative memories and tends to forget good memories. Volume 26 Number 1 Spring 2017
