It has been a lifelong dream for Julia Maffei, 93, to receive her high school diploma. Judy loved school and had dreams of becoming a teacher. When she was at Central High in Newark, Judy was called to the principal’s office. It was her 16th birthday. To her surprise, her mom was there signing papers that allowed Judy to leave school to help support her family. She didn’t want to leave and always regretted not receiving her diploma. While working at Food Fair in Newark, Judy met her loving husband, John. They married and started a family by the time Judy was 19. They went on to have a beautiful life raising eight children together. They still reside in Old Bridge in the home they bought in 1956 where they have an open-door policy and everyone is always welcome. Judy kept busy over the years raising her family but found time to serve as a Den Mother, Girl Scout leader, Voorhees School PTA, and President of the Ladies Auxiliary of the Knights of Columbus. Judy is famously known for her baking, especially her Irish soda bread, and has served countless family and friends spaghetti and meatballs around her kitchen table. She loves the beach and spent many summers in LBI where her kids brought all of their friends to stay.
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Please Join us on Saturday 9/21 from 12:00pm – 5:00pm at the old Bridge Municipal Complex. We will be opening the day with our traditional ceremony which Mayor Owen Henry will be presiding over.
We will have live bands performing all day – TBA and vendors of all kinds from Crafts, Toys, Clothing, Accessories, Jewelry, Doggie Treats and more!
Our Food Court will boast all those good food trucks; take your pick from all the great staple festival foods we all love to indulge in now and then.
Old Bridge Township Departments of Parks & Recreation, Police, Fire, Public Works, and MUA will be displaying their vehicles and large construction equipment that the kids can climb into and explore.
The mayor’s office & Parks & Recreation has lots of free
FALL IS FOR FAMILIES YMCA
The Y brings wellness and people together! Did you know family memberships get priority registration access and discount program fees?
From September 1 through September 30, take advantage of our promotion for family memberships with no enrollment fee, access to unlimited group and aqua fitness classes, healthy activities for all ages and abilities, and full access to all 3 YMCA branches in Red Bank, Old Bridge, Freehold and Freehold Outdoor Swim Club. Join us at the YMCA of Greater Monmouth County for a season of fun, adventure, and growth. With our exciting fall promo, there’s never been a better time to discover all that the Y has to offer. So come on out and join
us as we unleash the fun this fall!
Learn more at www. ymcanj.org/fall.
There are wellness activities for every member of your family— from quality swim lessons for all ages, to a variety of programs that help adults feel their best in spirt, mind and body. Membership includes YMCA360, a 24/7 virtual platform with over 1,000 on-demand and livestream classes.
Y membership is so much more than access to fitness facilities and pools. The Y makes our community stronger. In addition to wellness branches, the YMCA of Greater Monmouth County serves over 36,000 residents through programs such as preschool, child care, before and after school care, teen leadership and mentoring, personal and family
giveaways, along with a lot of the businesses in town as well.
Old Bridge Animal Shelter will be hosting an Adoption Day; with greatly reduced adoption fees of 20.00.
Calvary Chapel will be sponsoring the kids’ corner, the theme this year is “Carnival” it is completely free and fully equipped with Carnival Games, Rides, Crafts, Calvary Motorcycle Club will be here for pictures on the bikes, and lots of free giveaways. Parking is limited, you can park at Carl Sandburg School and walk over to the municipal Complex or park at old
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PROMOTION
counseling, mental and behavioral health care, community outreach, and summer day camp.
A non-profit charity, the YMCA of Greater Monmouth County has served community for 150 years with programs that support healthy living and well-being for people of all ages, interests, and backgrounds. All are welcome and no one is turned away for the inability to pay.
Follow the Y on www.facebook.com/ymcaGMC to connect with the Y community.
We’re strengthening generations!
MESSAGE BY MAYOR WALKER
Dear Old Bridge Residents, I hope everyone had a wonderful summer and is excited for the new school year and the events planned for September. I look forward to supporting our local sports teams and interacting with residents at the many activities planned around town. Please be mindful of the increased number of pedestrians, cars, and school buses on the road. Stay alert when driving, and be sure to obey the posted speed limit, especially in the school zones. This month, we will honor those who lost their lives during the horrific attack on our country on September 11th, 2001. It is hard to believe it is the 23rd Anniversary of this appalling event. Our yearly remembrance ceremony will be held at 6pm on Wednesday, September 11th at the 9-11 Memorial Site located near the Library in the Municipal Complex. This solemn occasion allows us to honor and pay tribute to those local residents and all those who lost their lives during this devastating day in our history. We must never forget. We will gather for a happier occasion during our annual Old Bridge Day on Saturday, September 21st from 12pm
to 5pm at the Municipal Complex. The event features live entertainment, food, games, performances from local groups, vendor tables, and the opportunity to meet with Township and local government officials. Let’s hope for good weather!
I also want to thank all the residents who continue to show support to our local businesses. A wide variety of establishments have chosen to call Old Bridge home because of all it has to offer. Residents are the best support system for our businesses, and I am pleased to see our business owners receive the support they deserve.
Please continue to be on the lookout for this publication to be kept well informed of the new projects in town as well as family events that occur throughout the year. Please continue to stay safe and be well.
Mayor Debbie Walker
PREPARING FOR BACK TO SCHOOL
As the back-to-school season approaches, it’s important to recognize that this transition can bring excitement and anxiety for both students and parents. Shifting from the relaxed pace of summer to the structure of a new school year can be challenging, making mental and emotional preparation just as important as gathering school supplies. Here are some strategies to ease the transition and support mental health:
1. Establish a Routine Early: Start adjusting sleep schedules a couple of weeks before school begins. Gradually shift bedtime and wake-up times to match the school schedule. This helps the body and mind adapt, making the first days of school less jarring.
2. Open Conversations: Encourage open dialogue about any fears or concerns related to returning to school. Whether it’s worries about new teachers, friendships, or academic pressures, talking about these feelings can reduce anxiety and create a supportive environment.
3. Set Realistic Expectations: Remind children (and yourself) that it’s okay to feel nervous. Setting realistic expectations for the first few weeks can help manage stress. It’s normal
for the transition to take time.
4. Plan Ahead: Organizing school supplies, clothes, and daily schedules in advance can alleviate last-minute stress. Knowing what to expect each day provides a sense of control and stability.
5. Prioritize Self-Care: Encourage regular physical activity, healthy eating, and downtime to recharge. A balanced approach to wellness can improve mood and energy levels.
At Ellie Mental Health Old Bridge, we’re here to support you through these transitions. We’re now open and welcoming clients both virtually and in person at our Old Bridge location on Rt 18 South. We accept all major insurances, have no waitlist, and offer specialized services, including EMDR. Let’s work together to make this school year a successful and healthy one.
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YOUR VOICE IN TRENTON
By Senator Owen Henry
As summer ends, public and private schools are gearing up for another academic year. To our returning faculty, students and staff, I would like to wish you a safe, healthy and prosperous year. For graduates either pursuing a higher education, entering a trade or going into the workforce, I trust the Old Bridge community has instilled the values, skills and tools necessary for you to be successful.
As the New Jersey Senate convenes after it’s summer break, I wanted to take a moment to highlight my priorities as your Senator of the 12th legislative district; education funding, taxes and parental rights.
Suburban school districts across
the state like Old Bridge and Jackson Township, are seeing their tax dollars being sent to other districts. Old Bridge must receive its fair share to prevent unnecessary cuts to our children’s education and ultimately raising our taxes.
Parental rights have also continued to come under attack in recent years. For the safety of our children, it is important to maintain a parents right to have the appropriate say in their children’s medical treatment and education.
For far too long, the Trenton Democrats have taken advantage of the residents of our town. My efforts to fight for what is fair and equitable for us will not be swayed by Governor Murphy and the Trenton Democrat Majority
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Bridge High School parking lot and take a shuttle bus over. Several shuttles will be running back and forth all day long.
As always, we want to thank Mayor Debbie Walker and Council for allowing
us to provide you with fun-filled events throughout the year. For more information, please check our website www. oldbrdige.com or call Old Bridge Parks & Recreation at 732-721-5600 ext. 4999.
DON’T ACCEPT SHOULDER
PAIN AS A WAY OF LIFE
By Dr. Anthony DeLuca Director, DeLuca Family Chiropractic in Old Bridge
ligaments, soft tissue, cartilage and tendons that bind the upper half of the capsule of the shoulder joint. Interestingly, many people
after the event. When symptoms do arise, many people frequently treat the problem
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THINK OLD BRIDGE
Steve Mamakas, Executive officer Executive Summary for September. The Mayor’s Office of Economic Development is still welcoming new businesses to old Bridge. Furthering our prospects for having the best businesses in the area. From unique boutiques to great wellknown franchises establishing in Old Bridge. With many types of restaurants and cuisine for great dining experiences, that residents and visitors to the town will enjoy. Our continued top priority is to achieve long term success for all in Old Bridge. As people come back from vacation, we must reengage in supporting our local small businesses even more as the summer does cut down on revenue for them. As the office continues to work with the business community every day. Driving events and programs that benefit everyone. Like the “Soaring to Success – B2C Link” Meet and Greet in back in March. Showcase home-based businesses, other small, and local brick-and-mortar establishments in Town. The showcase was very well attended with 60 businesses and was a great event for the local businesses to showcase their product or service to the public. Plus our office hosting the Middlesex County Business Resource seminar at the library. To inform small business of current grant
and loan programs offered by the County and State NJEDA. We continue to work on our strategic plan and road map seeking economic stability and creating local job opportunities for the residents. So please support local business whenever you can….
“The biggest challenge for business today, Is Tomorrow”. So, Shop, Dine and Buy Local.
Remember “THINK OLD BRIDGE”
Please visit the Mayor’s Office of Economic Development to check out all the exciting happenings from grand openings to ground breaking events in Economic Development in Old
WHY ARE UNIVERSITIES STILL TEST-OPTIONAL?
By Paul Pscolka
Pre-covid, 93% of universities required SAT scores. When covid hit, colleges were forced to “go test optional” because so many students had no access to testing. If 93% of schools found value in the test, why, 4 years later, are so many universities still test-optional? Did the tests become a worse predictor of success in college?
The short answer to the latter question is no. When a university no longer requires SAT or ACT scores for admissions, that school receives more applications. When a school receives more applications, but still has the same number of seats, that university appears to be more competitive. Would you rather go to a university that admits 25% of its applicants or to one that admits 75% of its applicants? Test-optional helps school maintain the image of exclusivity.
Test-optional policies also lend universities an air of prestige because students who have the bottom 50% of the average SAT and ACT scores do not submit their scores. This drives up the average SAT and ACT scores, further advancing the semblance of competitiveness. It is no
secret that the most competitive schools in the country also have the biggest endowments. It seems that universities maintain test-optional status for business interests.
This is a bold statement. Might universities be test-optional in the interest of their students? To answer this question, we’ll look at UC Austin, a (rare) school that was forthcoming with their data that lead them to once again require SAT or ACT scores.
UC Austin found that those who submitted SAT scores were 55% less likely to be on academic probation. Submitters also had an average GPA .86 higher than those who did not submit scores. That’s the difference between a 2.4 (not far off from academic probation) and a 3.26 (a mix of As and Bs). It seems that testing is in the best interest of the university academically. You can book a free 15-minute consultation at https://www.ivymasters.com/ free-consultation/ Suggestion for a topic? You can reach us at info@ivymasters. com 833-728-7228 www.ivymasters.com
SOBFD FIRE FIGHTER OF THE MONTH: ERIC TIMMINS A GOOD RECIPE
Captain Eric Timmins has been a fire company member since 1979 and assigned to the same locker and firehouse on Throckmorton Lane since his first day. Only recently was he chosen to take on the role of Captain. Over his career, Eric has held the positions of vice president, trustee, and firefighter rank, except for chief and deputy chief. Eric had two adult daughters and recently became a grandfather. Eric is the owner and operator of Landscape by Eric, which is located in Old Bridge.
By Jeffrey Kagan
Anyone whose ever baked an apple pie knows the importance of using the freshest ingredients and following the recipe carefully to create something special. At the Madison-Old Bridge Township Historical Society, they’ve been following a recipe for over half a century. That recipe is for the Apple Festival, a celebration that brings together hundreds of people each year to celebrate the history of Old Bridge Township, enjoy fresh baked goods and kick off the holiday shopping season.
If you’re familiar with the expression, “the whole is greater than the sum of it’s parts”, you know why an apple pie tastes better than just apples, sugar and flour by themselves. Everything come together and creates something new. This is why the Apple Festival has been such a success for so many years: teamwork. The team behind the the Apple Festival works very hard each year to make every event better than then last.
Amongst the notable pillars of production are Carol Sicinski who wrangles up volunteers year after year to ensure there are enough people to help with getting things in place; Pat Schuck, the master chef who works with even more volunteers to bake several apple pies and
other treats; and the “Eighties Ladies”, a group of cheerful octogenarians whose name we won’t mention out of chivalry — we must never disclose the age of a lady. They manage the kitchen which brings in a significant amount of the day’s fundraising efforts. Lastly, Jeffrey Kagan is the Apple Festival Chair. He coordinates everything to bring everyone together for a recipe for success. Teamwork makes the dream work! The Apple Festival will take place at the Old Bridge Civic Center on Saturday, November 9, 2024 from 12pm-4pm. Free admission!
FALL SPORTS AND ORTHOPEDIC CARE: NAVIGATING THE RISKS AND ENSURING OPTIMAL RECOVERY
Patricia Carroll, FACHE, President and Chief Hospital Executive, Raritan Bay Medical Center and Old Bridge Medical Center
As the crisp autumn air arrives, so too does the excitement of fall sports. From the roar of the Friday night football crowd to the rhythmic thud of volleyball spikes,
these activities offer invaluable lessons in teamwork, discipline, and perseverance. However, as a hospital president, I also recognize the inherent risks associated with these sports, particularly in a wide range of musculoskeletal injuries.
Fall sports carry a high risk of musculoskeletal injuries, including sprains, strains, fractures, and dislocations. These injuries can sideline athletes for weeks or even months, impacting their physical and emotional well-being. Therefore, it is crucial that we strike a balance between fostering the passion for sports and protecting the health and well-being of our young athletes. This requires a multi-pronged approach.
Kenneth Swan, M.D., chair, Orthopedics at Old Bridge Medical Center, offers us some insights:
1. Education: We must educate athletes, coaches, parents, and the community about the risks of musculoskeletal injuries, as well as the importance of injury prevention and proper treatment.
This includes encouraging athletes to report any symptoms.
2. Prevention: According Dr. Swan, “to prevent injuries, a good dynamic warm up, followed by stretching, is important. Cross training helps prevent overuse injuries. And don’t forget about hydration and proper sleep in the growing skeleton!”
3. Early Intervention: “The local high school athletic trainers are excellent, and typically give hands-on initial treatment for a player injured on the field.
“Rest-Ice-Compression-Elevation (R.I.C.E) remains a good initial protocol. Any suspected fracture, dislocation or ligament injury you should see an orthopedic surgeon,” explains Dr. Swan.
4. Collaboration: Open communication and collaboration between athletes, coaches, parents, healthcare professionals, and school administrators are essential to ensure the safety and well-being of our young athletes. Seeking prompt orthopedic care
for any musculoskeletal injury is crucial to prevent further damage and ensure optimal recovery.
“Orthopedic surgeons are experts in sports injuries and will best direct management, including x-rays, MRIs, casting, operative vs non-operative treatment, and appropriate physical therapy,” states Dr. Swan
Fall sports offer invaluable opportunities for personal growth and community building. However, we must prioritize the health and safety of
our athletes. By implementing comprehensive safety measures, promoting education, fostering collaboration, and seeking early orthopedic care when needed, we can ensure that our young athletes can enjoy the thrill of competition while minimizing the risk of musculoskeletal injuries.
Remember, our Orthopedic surgeons are here for you if you get any injuries this fall. Call 844-HMHWELL to find an orthopedic expert. Stay safe out there!
HMH Raritan Bay Medical Center
HMH Old Bridge
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KICKSTART A SUCCESSFUL SCHOOL YEAR: UNLOCK THE POWER OF OLD BRIDGE PUBLIC LIBRARY’S VIRTUAL LEARNING RESOURCES!
This September let the Old Bridge Public Library put you and your child on the path to a successful school year. We provide access to a variety of online resources that can enhance learning outside the classroom. Imagine having your own personal tutor, available anytime you need them. Whether you’re stuck on a tricky math problem and it’s closing in on midnight or can’t figure out how to start that English essay, these services can help! We offer a number of virtual resources you can access right from the comfort of your own home, all free and available with your library card. HelpNow, from the NJ State Library’s BrainFuse, offers live tutoring every day from 2-11pm. They also feature Writing and Language Labs, study resources, and even virtual private study rooms. And when those homework sessions go late, you can submit a question any time and receive an expert reply within 24 hours.
Tutor.com similarly connects you with live one-on-one virtual tutoring. You can also submit writing drafts to receive feedback, prep for big tests like the SAT, and get 24/7 access to worksheets, video lessons, and other materials. We have even more resources you can use from home if you’re too busy to make it to the library at oldbridgelibrary. org/database-cat/kids-databases. From research databases geared specifically towards kids, to online almanacs, to expert book recommendations from Novelist K-8, you can always find the help you need even if the library is closed. So, as you gear up for another year of academic adventures, remember parentsdon’t get frustrated, the library is your secret weapon. With these resources, you’ll be ready for anything that comes your way!
NAVIGATING LIFE’S STORMS: BUILDING ON SOLID FOUNDATIONS
The expression “calm before the storm” describes a deceptive peace that comes before great turmoil. And to be prepared for storms ahead, Jesus shared a parable that offered much wisdom in this regard. He contrasted the foundations of two types of builders—the wise who built on the rock and the fool who built on the sand (Matthew 7:24-27). The fool is confident all will be well, with no need to reinforce the sand. The wise man, however, is unsure and double-checks to see if his house can withstand a hit and concludes the rock is necessary. Many today assume everything will be fine in the world. Refusing to face reality, they think there aren’t any storms ahead that cannot be overcome. But will they be prepared for what lies ahead? Only the wise builder’s house withstands the storm because he doesn’t trust in the shifting sand, and builds upon a rock-solid foundation. Similarly, our lives need a firm foundation in faith and obedience to our Creator and
His promises, rather than in things that fail! Isaiah 40:31 holds a promise for “those who hope in the Lord.” They “will renew their strength” and “soar on wings like eagles.” We should emulate the eagle and use the storms of life to soar higher by the wisdom found in the Bible. Many have been uncertain that the Bible can be trusted. But regarding opinions about the Bible is unwise without reading it. But let me give you a warning: Life transformation lies ahead!!
While storms of confusion loom large in our day, wise preparation to build a solid spiritual foundation is the only rescue! “All other ground is sinking sand.”
Living Stones by Lloyd Pulley Senior Pastor
DON’T ACCEPT SHOULDER PAIN AS A WAY OF LIFE
By Dr. Anthony DeLuca Director, DeLuca Family Chiropractic
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in Old Bridge, New Jersey
created the problem in the first place –everything from bending, sleeping and sitting improperly to hitting a tennis ball or lifting weights with poor form.
To establish a new sense of health, balance and well-being please feel free to contact DeLuca Family Chiropractic at (732) 679-2414 or visit our website at www.dfccares.com. Our dedicated staff located at 2309 Hwy 516 in Old Bridge, NJ will be happy to meet with you and tailor a chiropractic and wellness program specifically targeted to your needs using the least invasive yet highly-effective techniques and services.
OB RESIDENT RECEIVES HONORARY DIPLOMA AT 93 YEARS OLD
Continued from page 1 Judy has watched Jeopardy since the show launched in 1964. She’s fast with answers and hard to beat! She’s an avid reader with a memory that rivals her children. Judy’s daughter, Eileen and son, John,
with the help of Grace Patella of Old Bridge Schools, arranged for Judy to receive an Honorary Diploma from Old Bridge High School. Her family commemorated the event by having a celebration at Judy’s home.
NICHOLAS JEWELERS
SERVING OB FOR 50 YEARS
If you blink, you might miss it. Tucked away in the corner of the Browntown Shopping Center on Route 516 is a hidden gem – a little shop with a rich Old Bridge history. For 50 years, this unassuming jewelry store has been a local institution for generations of customers and their families. Since 1975, George, then David and now Nicholas have continuously served our community with fair and honest service. “I’ve seen many distinct periods in the jewelry industry from the highs and lows of the price of gold (we are currently experiencing a record spike again), to the advent of lab grown diamonds, it’s been quite interesting through the decades, remarks Nicholas Raymond, owner of Nicholas Jewelers since 2007. “I really enjoy my clientele. This is a good solid community,” he adds. Unlike many big box businesses, the personal connection between Nicholas and
his patrons is quite evident. He’s serving many, many customers now that are third generation – he was at another central jersey location for 20 years before this Old Bridge store opened and many of his loyal customers have followed him here. Nicholas Jewelers’ Google reviews speak for themselves - with not a single one ever solicited - they are organic and speak to Nick and his friendly staff’s commitment to serving every customer’s unique needs. He takes a very personal approach to doing business, often letting people know they can text him if they have any questions and strongly believes in no pressure sales. “I know I’m competing with the Internet, so I do my best to keep prices competitive and inventory steady. Our service model is much like the golden rule… treat customers how you’d like to be treated. Pretty simple.”
OB POLICE DEPT. DISPATCHER PASSING
It is with great sadness that we announce the sudden passing of longtime Old Bridge Township Police Department Dispatcher, Frank Stefanelli, who died at his home on
August 6,2024 . Frank dedicated nearly 25 years to working in our dispatch center and volunteered as a First Responder and member of the OEM Team. A resident of Old Bridge’s Madison Park area, Frank lived with his wife, Christina. He was a cherished friend and colleague, always ready to assist others. His presence will be sorely missed. Please keep the Stefanelli family in your thoughts and pray.
