OLDBRIDGE
FIRST-EVER STATE FINAL CHAMPIONSHIP
The Old Bridge High School girls’ volleyball team has etched its name in school history by securing the first-ever State Final championship. Their remarkable journey culminated in a 32-1 record, solidifying their status as a formidable force in the volleyball world. The team’s triumph was sealed with a decisive victory over Westfield in the final match held on November 15, 2025. Their achievement is the culmination of a dominant run that includes back-to-back Central Jersey titles and four consecutive victories in the GMC Red Division and GMC Conference championships, they are currently ranked fourth in the state for Division IV. Congratulations to the players and coaches on an unforgettable and history-making season that will be cherished for years to come.
OB TOWNSHIP HOLIDAY IN THE PARK AT COTTRELL FARM PARK
Old Bridge Township is preparing to debut an exciting new seasonal tradition as the Parks and Recreation Department launches its first-ever Holiday in the Park on Sunday, December 14, from 1 to 4 p.m. Held at the picturesque Cottrell Farm Park, this brand-new community celebration promises an afternoon filled with festive fun, family-friendly activities, and the joyful spirit of the holiday season. As the Township introduces this
event for the first time, organizers are creating an experience designed to bring residents together and establish a tradition that can grow in future years. Because this is the inaugural year, Holiday in the Park will feature a welcoming and cheerful atmosphere. Colorful lights, holiday decorations, and winter-themed details will transform the park into a warm and inviting seasonal setting. The goal is to capture the magic of the holidays
while offering families a chance to gather, celebrate, and make memories in a community environment. The Township hopes this first event will set the foundation for an annual celebration that residents look forward to each winter.
One of the most anticipated attractions will be Pictures with Santa, giving children the chance to meet Santa Claus and take home a keepsake photograph. Since this is the event’s debut, excitement is expected to be high among families eager to participate in the very first year. The Santa photo opportunity offers parents a fun and memorable way to mark the season while creating a tradition their children can enjoy for years to come.
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LAST FEW WEEKS TO DONATE TO TOYS FOR TOTS
Now, we are in our Holiday season again, Old Bridge Chamber of Commerce & All Around Old Bridge wants to give back to our most prized community members, our children, this season with a goal of 2,500 toys to donate, we can reach that goal this year with your help. Just think the smiles we will bring to the children this year.
Each year, the residents and businesses of Old Bridge support those in need around the holidays
by participating in our Annual Giving Event “Toys for Tots”, we will begin collecting donations through December 16th to help provide the much-needed joy the children deserve for the holidays. Over the last few years, we have collected over 10,000 toys and watched as residents both from and outside Old Bridge lent a helping hand. With a toy donation from each of our businesses and residents, we can help provide toys for many children
this holiday season, together we can make a difference. We invite all residents and businesses to join us at Holiday in the Park at Cottrell Farms, December 14th from 1pm-4pm hosted by Old Bridge Township.
To make your donation, you can drop off a toy at any drop off locations or call Anthony 732-713-2295. Thank you again for your support this year.
MESSAGE BY MAYOR WALKER
Dear Old Bridge Residents, It’s hard to believe that we are now at the end of another busy, successful year and the holiday season is in full swing.
On Thursday, December 4th at 10am, at Silver Linings in the George Bush Center, Old Bridge Township will commemorate the 84th anniversary of the attack on Pearl Harbor with our annual wreath laying ceremony. All are welcome to join us as we lay the wreath and read a proclamation to honor and remember all our brave veterans.
To kick off the holiday season at the Township, we will be hosting a brand-new event - Holiday in the Park. This holiday themed event will take place at Cottrell Farm Park on Sunday, December 14th from 1pm to 4pm. It will include activities, entertainment, holiday treats, pictures with Santa and much more. We hope you will join us for this family-friendly fun-filled occasion!
We also continue the holiday celebrations with our annual lighting of the township Christmas Tree and Menorah. I would like to extend an invitation to all our
residents to join us on Tuesday, December 16th at 6:30pm. The Tree and Menorah will be lit in the municipal courtyard.
I would like to take this opportunity to reflect on the past year. Our Memorial Day parade and 9-11 Memorial Ceremony honored those who have sacrificed for our country. Our annual Saltwater Day and Old Bridge Day events had great turnouts, and the Old Bridge Township Police Department hosted its 3rd annual National Night Out. We had many ribbon cutting ceremonies throughout the year and are continuing to welcome many new businesses to town. My administration continues to work hard to keep our residents safe and to keep the economy growing.
Thank you to all our residents, businesses, and township employees for making 2025 such a successful year. I wish you all a blessed and merry holiday season and a happy and healthy New Year.
Mayor Debbie Walker
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YOUR VOICE IN TRENTON
By Senator Owen Henry
As your State Senator, I made a promise: to fight for policies that strengthen our communities, protect our families, and ensure that New Jersey remains a place where opportunity thrives. That commitment guides my work every day in Trenton.
Education and Opportunity: As a member of the Senate Education Committee, I believe every child deserves access to quality learning and enrichment. That’s why I’ve sponsored legislation requiring school districts to allow home-schooled students to participate in extracurricular activities.
Public Safety and Justice: Keeping our neighborhoods safe is a top priority. I’ve introduced bills to strengthen penalties for assaults against disabled individuals and to ensure financial support for children whose parents are killed by drunk drivers These measures reflect a simple principle: justice must protect the most vulnerable among us.
Supporting Families and Seniors: Families face enough financial pressures
without unfair burdens. I’ve worked to exempt essential childcare items like cribs, strollers, and nursing bottles from sales tax. I also serve on the Senate Health, Human Services and Senior Citizens Committee, where I advocate for policies that safeguard seniors’ dignity and expand access to healthcare.
Honoring Service and Sacrifice: Finally, I believe in honoring those who gave everything for our country. My bill designating a portion of Route 35 in Laurence Harbor as the “James Francisco and Walter Schmidt Memorial Roadway” ensures that future generations remember the heroes who made the ultimate sacrifice.
These priorities reflect my core belief: government should serve the people, not the other way around. Whether it’s protecting families, expanding opportunity, or honoring our veterans, I will continue to fight for legislation that makes New Jersey stronger, fairer, and safer for all.
Senator Owen Henry
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FINDING HOPE AND LOVE IN TIMES OF GRIEF AND LOSS DURING THE HOLIDAYS
David L. Hernandez, Jr
Funeral Director/ Owner Old Bridge, Waitt & Bedle Funeral Homes
Grief during the holidays can be an especially poignant experience, as the season often serves
ished relationships that have been irrevocably altered by loss. The very essence of grief reveals the depth of the bond shared with those we have lost; it icance of a relationship tion, one that transcends even death. When we grieve, we acknowledge that our loved ones were integral to our lives, shaping our experiences and memories in ways that cannot be replicated.
The holidays, typically filled with joy, laughter, and familial gatherings, can amplify feelings of absence and sorrow. Each ornament hung on the tree, every carol sung, and each tradition observed
can evoke memories of the person who is no longer present. It is in these moments that the reality of the forever bond becomes starkly apparent; the love we shared does not dissipate with their absence but rather transforms into a bittersweet reminder of what once was.
In navigating this complex landscape of grief, it is essential to recognize that coping does not equate to moving on or getting over the loss. Instead, coping involves finding ways to honor the memory of our loved ones while allowing ourselves to feel the pain of their absence. This might include lighting a candle in their memory, sharing stories that evoke their spirit, or participating in charitable acts that reflect their values.
Ultimately, the process of coping through the holidays is about finding a way to coexist with our grief, embracing the love that remains while acknowledging the sorrow. It is a testament to the bond that endures, reminding us that while loss is profound, love is lasting and can provide comfort even in the most challenging times.
The holidays are a special time of year, but they can be especially di cult when you’re coping with the loss of a loved one. At Old Bridge, Waitt and Bedle Funeral Homes, we understand that the season may bring added challenges. To help honor and remember those we’ve lost, we warmly invite you to our annual Holiday Remembrance Service. During this event, we will present each family we served this year a personalized “Guardian Angel” ornament in honor of their loved one. These elegant glass ornaments are our gift to you, a lasting keepsake to cherish for years to come.
THURSDAY
HOW TO HAVE A MORE ENJOYABLE AND LESS STRESSFUL HOLIDAY SEASON
The twinkling lights and familiar carols signal the holiday season is upon us.
It’s a time that can bring out generosity through toy drives and food donations.
It’s also a time when many connect with friends and family and partake in cherished traditions or create new ones.
At the same time, I recognize that alongside the joy, the holidays can bring unique pressures. A 2024 poll from the American Psychiatric Association found a third of adults expect to feel more stressed during the holidays. This pressure can stem from an overwhelming shopping list when you might be faced with a limited time frame and budget. The National Retail Federation forecasts that holiday spending will reach near record levels. This financial strain is a top holiday concern, adding to stress.
Ren Abdon Macalalag, a behavioral health nurse at Raritan Bay and Old Bridge Medical Centers, suggests pro-
posing a Secret Santa or White Elephant gift exchange. He says that when his family gets together for Thanksgiving, for example, they hold a Secret Santa drawing.
“People forget that the holidays don’t have to be lavish or materialistic,” he says. “It’s really important just being present and giving people time of day.”
Many of us look forward to creating special moments for others, but as a survey from the American Heart Association found, 79% of people are so focused on this that they can overlook their own needs. The good news is that with a mindful approach, you can manage these pressures and embrace the most uplifting aspects of the season.
To keep the focus on generosity without the financial strain, for instance, you might suggest a "Secret Santa" exchange. This allows everyone to participate in giving without the stress of the expense of many gifts. If you are hosting, remember the goal is to bring people together and create warm memories. To enjoy the gathering yourself, set boundaries. Ask guests to bring a dish or consider using
disposable plates to simplify cleanup.
The holidays often center around our most cherished relationships, so it's important to navigate family dynamics with care. Try to avoid being drawn into old feuds. If you receive competing invitations, make the decision that works best for you and communicate it clearly, perhaps suggesting an alternative time to visit. I also find it helpful to keep idealized TV and movie portrayals of the holiday in perspective. Instead of striving for a picture-perfect holiday, we can find immense joy in the real-life, imperfect moments we share with the people we love.
Prioritizing self-care is crucial. The American Heart Association survey found that 71% of respondents say their biggest post-holiday regret was not slowing down and enjoying the season.
Taking time for yourself isn't selfish; it allows you to be more present and engaged in celebrations. Step away from preparations to take a walk, visit a friend, or simply do something that helps you relax. And remember, it is okay to create your own traditions. A quiet gather-
ing at home or a holiday vacation can be just as meaningful as a large event. And if you’re grieving the loss of a loved one, this time of year can be particularly difficult. Navigate the season in the way that feels best for you. Allow yourself flexibility. The American Psychological Association suggests creating new ways to observe the holidays if the old ones are too painful. Or celebrate your loved one by sharing memories of them at a holiday gathering. This holiday season, I encourage you to give yourself the gift of peace of mind. By managing stress, you can more fully experience the connection, joy, and warmth this wonderful season has to offer. Wishing you a healthy and happy holiday season.
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ALGEBRA 2? TAKE THE MARCH SAT
By Paul Pscolka
Parents regularly ask me when their child should take the SAT. While the answer is nuanced, a major factor is the math class a student is taking this year. Reading skills continue to develop naturally through schoolwork, but math is different: if a student has not yet learned most of the material covered on the SAT, the test becomes significantly more challenging—no matter how strong the student’s reasoning skills might be.
Math builds on itself. As a test of critical thinking, SAT math can only be conquered with a solid foundation of content knowledge. Just as a student needs strong phonics skills before being able to truly comprehend what she reads, a student must have a firm grasp of core math concepts before she can think critically about them. That’s why the timing of the SAT is so important. For students taking Algebra 2 as juniors, the March SAT is often the ideal first test date. By March, most Algebra 2 courses have
covered the essential topics that appear on the SAT—quadratics, polynomial operations, exponent rules, systems of equations, rational expressions, functions, and basic trigonometry. Waiting until March ensures that students have learned most of the skills they will be tested on, giving them a fair chance to apply those skills strategically instead of being blindsided by unfamiliar content.
In addition, taking the SAT in March gives students time to reflect on their score and prepare for a second attempt in May, June, or August if needed (and still apply early to universities). Well prepared students can perform well during the school year and then can enter senior year with their testing already behind them.
In short, if your child is taking Algebra 2 this year, March is the smartest, most efficient SAT starting point. It aligns with the curriculum, maximizes confidence, and positions students for meaningful score growth. Would class or private lessons be a better fit for your child? To find out, book me for a free consultation: https://www.ivymasters. com/free-consultation/
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Dr. Vincent Sasso has dedicated two decades to the Old Bridge Township community, shaping a career centered on student success, meaningful relationships, and a strong partnership between schools and families. After 14 years as Principal of Old Bridge High School, one of New Jersey’s largest and most diverse high schools, he brings a deep understanding of the district’s strengths, challenges, and aspirations to his new role as Superintendent of Schools. Throughout his career, Dr. Sasso has been guided by the principles of servant leadership. He believes education is at its best when it inspires hope, builds trust, and unites people around a shared vision. Known for his commitment to inclusivity and transparency, he has worked to cultivate a districtwide culture where every student and staff member feels valued, respected, and supported. In addition to his leadership within
Old Bridge, Dr. Sasso has enriched his perspective as both a professor in higher education and an elected Board of Education member. As an adjunct professor at Monmouth University and Brookdale Community College, he has mentored aspiring educators and contributed to the development of future teachers through service on teacher-preparation committees. Dr. Sasso’s drive to serve as Superintendent is rooted in his long-standing connection to the Old Bridge community. For 20 years, he has partnered with families, educators, and local leaders, consistently working to elevate others and align individual strengths toward the shared success of the district. With a proven record of collaboration, innovation, and strategic leadership, he enters this new chapter prepared to guide Old Bridge forward with vision, purpose, and a steadfast commitment to student achievement.
LOVE CAME DOWN
“God is love” is one of the most wellknown statements in the Bible. But how is that love shown—especially in a world where humanity’s flaws are so evident? And honestly, do we even need Scripture to tell us we fall short? Our daily lives reveal the opposite of love: selfish desires, impatience, and pride. This gap between a perfect God who is love and our brokenness seems impossibly wide.
The Christmas account speaks directly to that gap. Christians believe that when Jesus was born in Bethlehem, love itself came down. The claim is extraordinary: the Creator entered His creation not in a show of power, but in humility as a child in a manger—helpless & vulnerable.
The purpose of this, according to the Bible, was rescue. Humanity could not climb its way up to God, so God came down to us. Jesus experienced human life fully—our joys, our sorrows, our temptations—yet without giving in to the darker impulses that shape us. In doing so, He
bridged a divide we could never cross on our own.
That same love that brought Him into the world also led Him to offer Himself in sacrifice, to provide forgiveness and restoration. “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Rom 5:8
“Love Came Down” is more than a seasonal phrase. It expresses divine love stoops to lift the human heart. The Christian invitation is to believe that the eternal God came down in Jesus with healing and hope to rescue not just a world ravaged by sin, but to rescue you and me!
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UNDERSTANDING ELDERCARE LAW
Understanding Eldercare Law is crucial for ensuring the rights and well-being of our elderly loved ones are protected. At Reformed Church Home, we recognize the complexities surrounding legal matters in elderly care and aim to provide guidance and support to our residents and their families.
Eldercare Law encompasses a range of legal issues affecting the elderly, including estate planning, wills, guardianship, and the rights of the elderly within care facilities. It’s a specialized area that requires careful navigation to ensure the elderly are protected and their wishes respected. Here are some tips for families navigating Eldercare Law:
• Estate Planning: Start early with estate planning to ensure assets are distributed according to your loved one’s wishes. It’s not just about wealth; it’s about making decisions easier for those left behind.
• Clear Wills: A clear, legally sound will is essential to avoid disputes and ensure your loved one’s wishes are followed.
• Power of Attorney: Establishing a power of attorney can allow a trusted family member or friend to make decisions on
behalf of your loved one when they are no longer able to do so themselves.
• Understanding Rights: Familiarize yourself with the rights of residents in eldercare facilities. This knowledge is crucial in advocating for your loved one’s well-being and quality of life.
Being well-informed about Eldercare Law is not just a necessity but a duty to ensure the dignity and rights of our elderly are upheld. At Reformed Church Home, we are dedicated to ensuring you and your loved one’s rights are respected within our community, we’re here to support you.
If you’d like to learn more about assisted living or skilled nursing options for senior-aged family members, contact Reformed Church Home in Old Bridge, NJ today.
OB TOWNSHIPS HOLIDAY IN THE PARK AT COTTRELL FARM PARK
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holiday treats for attendees of all ages. Children can enjoy hands-on holiday crafts, while live entertainment helps set a festive tone throughout the park. Seasonal treats will be available, allowing families to enjoy snacks as they explore the event and take in all the attractions. Community partners are also helping bring the first Holiday in the Park to life. The Old Bridge Chamber of Commerce is among the organizations supporting the event and contributing to its community-centered focus. Toys for Tots will also be on-site during the event, accepting new, unwrapped toy donations from attendees who wish to support local children in need this holiday season. This charitable component gives families an opportunity to give back while participating in the celebration. Due to the expected turnout for this inaugural event, the Township has arranged overflow parking at the Municipal Parking Lot, with shuttle buses provided for convenient transportation to and from the park. This ensures that all attendees can enjoy the event comfortably and safely. With its blend of activities, holiday
cheer, and community spirit, the first-ever Holiday in the Park is poised to become a new winter tradition in Old Bridge. Families are encouraged to attend, celebrate, and take part in creating the event’s very first memories. As December 14 approaches, excitement continues to grow for an afternoon filled with festive joy at Cottrell Farm Park. Following this event, the Township will also be holding its Christmas Tree and Menorah Lighting ceremony on Tuesday, December 16 at 6:30 p.m. The ceremony will be held in the courtyard of the Municipal Complex at One Old Bridge Plaza. The ceremony will include both lightings and a quick performance by the OBHS Choir, no other activities or entertainment will be provided.
SPREAD HOLIDAY CHEER WITH THE GIFT OF HEALTH AT THE YMCA!
The Y brings wellness and people together! This holiday season give the gift of good health to yourself or those you care about with our special membership! From November 28 to December 24, 2025, buy 3 months of Y membership, for the price of 2 months. This special Gift of Health membership provides 1 free month of membership with no joiner fees or contracts, access to unlimited group and aqua fitness classes, healthy activities for all ages and abilities, and full access to all 4 YMCA branches in Red Bank, Old Bridge, Freehold and Ocean County in Toms River, NJ. There are wellness activities for every member of your family – from quality swim lessons for all ages, to a variety of programs that help adults feel their best in spirit, mind and body. Membership includes YMCA360, a 24/7 virtual platform with over 1,000 on-demand and livestream classes. Y membership is so more than access to fitness facilities and pool. The Y makes our community stronger. In addition to
the wellness branches, the YMCA of the Jersey Shore serves over 42,000 residents through programs such as preschool, childcare, before and after school care, teen leadership and mentoring, personal and family counseling, mental and behavioral health care, community outreach, and summer day camp. With a legacy of more than 150 years of service, the YMCA of the Jersey Shore is a cause-driven nonprofit committed to strengthening community through youth development, healthy living, and social responsibility. We offer programs that uplift people of all ages, incomes and backgrounds. Visit www.ymcanj.org/giftofhealth to purchase membership starting November 28. Follow the Y on www.facebook.com/yjerseyshore to connect with the Y community. We’re STRONGER TOGETHER!
WISHING YOU A SAFE AND JOYOUS HOLIDAY
All of us at Old Bridge Fire District #3 would like to extend our warmest wishes to all township residents this holiday season. As you celebrate with family and friends, we encourage everyone to prioritize safety while enjoying the festivities. Remember to check your smoke detectors and ensure they are functioning properly. If you’re using space heaters, keep them at least three feet away from flammable or combustible materials, and never leave them unattended. When cooking, stay in the kitchen to avoid accidental
fires, and if you have a live Christmas tree, water it regularly to reduce the risk of a fire. This season is also a time of giving and gratitude, and we want to thank you for your continued support in our efforts to keep our community safe. Whether it’s responding to emergencies or providing fire safety education, we are proud to serve the residents of Old Bridge. May your holidays be filled with happiness, health, and peace. From all of us at Old Bridge Fire District #3, have a safe and joyous holiday season!
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