The Christian Executive NO. O5 - Family

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Building and Nurturing a Healthy and Biblical Family

Why Many Young People No Longer Believe in Marriage and Family

What is a Family in the Eyes of God?

Building and Nurturing a Healthy and Biblical Family

LGBTQ and Similar Attacks on the Structure of the Family

The Church’s Responsibility in Defending Biblical Family Structure

Navigating Through Challenges to Stay United Pillars of a Family Roles and Responsibilities of the Family

The Stress of Social Success Why Young People

Birth Order: How It Affects Family Dynamics

Why Young People Choose Freedom Over Commitment

Teaching About Family Values

The Family as a Beacon for Society

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The Family as a Sphere of Influence

The family is God’s first institution, the foundation upon which society is built. It is meant to be a place of love, nurture, and growth—a sphere of influence that shapes individuals, communities, and nations. Yet, today, the biblical structure of the family is under relentless attack.

We live in a time when ideologies such as LGBTQ movements and redefined gender roles challenge the very foundation of what it means to be a family. Divorce and adultery continue to erode trust and stability, leaving many young people disillusioned about marriage and hesitant to commit. The pressure of social success and career advancement often takes priority over family life, leading many to choose fleeting relationships over the lifelong covenant of marriage. As a result, families are losing their influence—what once stood as the pillar of moral and social stability is now struggling to hold its ground.

This issue of The Christian Executive seeks to confront these realities head-on. We are not merely lamenting the decline of the family; we are calling for its restoration. We will explore why the family must be placed back at the centre of society and how cultivating a healthy, biblical family structure is essential for the well-being of individuals, the church, and the world.

Through dedicated articles, we will delve into foundational questions:

• What is a family in the eyes of God?

• What are the roles and responsibilities of the family?

• Why is the family the nucleus of society?

• How can we build and nurture a strong, biblical family?

We will also address pressing challenges, from cultural shifts that weaken family bonds to the dangers of family breakdown. We will examine how families can thrive despite societal pressures and how Christian families, in particular, can become beacons of hope, reflecting God’s truth in a world desperate for stability.

Furthermore, we will challenge the church to rise to its responsibility. The church cannot remain silent while the family institution crumbles. It must actively defend biblical family structures and provide accurate, tangible support to struggling families.

This issue of The Christian Executive seeks to confront these realities head-on. We are not merely lamenting the decline of the family; we are calling for its restoration. We will explore why the family must be placed back at the centre of society and how cultivating a healthy, biblical family structure is essential for the well-being of individuals, the church, and the world.

Being part of a Christian family is a decisive advantage in today’s world. A family rooted in Christ can influence society by modelling love, commitment, and godly values. It can also testify to God’s design, proving His ways are still the best.

As you read this edition, I invite you to reflect on how your family can be a force for change. Whether by teaching biblical values, standing firm against cultural distor tions, or simply living as a witness of God’s grace, each family has a role in shaping the world.

Let us reclaim the family’s place as a divine institution, a beacon for society, and a sphere of influence that glorifies God.

Editor-in-Chief, The Christian Executive

What is a Family in the Eyes of God?

The family is one of the most fundamental structures in human existence.

However, today’s definition of family has become increasingly distorted, leading to confusion, broken homes, and societal decay. To understand what family truly is, we must return to its Creator—God.

The Bible provides a blueprint for the family, showing us its divine origin, purpose, and structure. Let’s examine how God defines a family, its significance, and why it must be upheld according to His design.

The Biblical Definition of Family

From the very beginning, God established the family as the foundational unit of society. In Genesis 2:24, we see the first divine institution of the family when God created marriage: “For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24, NASB)

This verse presents three fundamental truths about the family in God’s eyes:

• Marriage is between a man and a woman – God created Adam and Eve, establishing the first family. The divine blueprint is clear: a husband and wife united in a covenant before Him.

• Marriage creates a new family unit

– A man leaves his parents to become one with his wife, forming a distinct household.

• The family is designed for unity. “one flesh” signifies profound relational, emotional, and spiritual unity. Beyond marriage, the family extends to children, as seen in Psalm 127:3-5: “Behold, children are a gift of the Lord, the fruit of the womb is a reward.” God intended families to be places of love, instruction, and godly heritage, where parents raise children in His ways (Deuteronomy 6:6-7).

The Purpose of the Family in God’s Plan

God’s design for the family is not arbitrary; it serves a divine purpose: A Reflection of God’s Love and Relationship

• The father represents God’s authority and provision.

• The mother represents God’s nurturing care.

• The children are a testament to the fruitfulness of love and obedience. The family is an earthly reflection of the relationship between Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:25-32). A godly family mirrors unconditional love, leadership, and submission—all essential components of our relationship with God.

“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he grows older, he will not abandon it.” Proverbs 22:6

A Training Ground for Spiritual and GrowthMoral

The family is where faith, values, and godly character are first instilled. Parents are the first teachers of faith.

Proverbs 22:6 commands: “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he grows older, he will not abandon it.”

Without godly parenting, society crumbles. Many of today’s social issues—rebellion, moral decay, and confusion—stem from broken family structures.

A Source of Strength and Stability for Society

Strong families lead to strong churches and strong nations. A well-ordered, biblically grounded family produces individuals who contribute positively to their communities. Where families fail, society crumbles.

What Happens When the Biblical Family Structure is Ignored?

The modern world has aggressively redefined family, promoting alternative structures that contradict God’s design. LGBTQ ideologies, cohabitation without marriage, and divorce culture have all contributed to the weakening of the family unit.

• The rise of fatherlessness has led to a generation without proper leadership and guidance.

• Divorce and adultery have shattered trust, leading to emotional wounds and instability.

• Redefinitions of marriage have removed the sacred covenant aspect, turning it into a mere social contract. These distortions have drastically affected younger generations, leading many to reject marriage and family life altogether in favour of individualism, temporary relationships, and self-serving pursuits.

How Do We Restore the Family to God’s Design?

Restoring the family begins with returning to biblical principles. Here’s how we can uphold God’s design for the family:

Teaching the Truth Boldly

• Churches, parents, and Christian educators must actively teach biblical family values, even when society opposes them.

• Pastors must address marriage, parenting, and sexual purity in their teachings.

Strengthening Marriages

• Husbands and wives must commit to biblical roles, where men lead with love and responsibility, and women support in godly partnership (Ephesians 5:22-33).

Couples should prioritise prayer, communication, and biblical counselling to avoid separation.

Raising Children in the Fear of the Lord

• Parents must be intentional in discipling their children, prioritising faith over worldly success.

• Christian families must take responsibility for their children’s moral and spiritual education instead of leaving it to the world.

Standing Firm Against Cultural Attacks

• Believers must reject cultural pressures that promote unbiblical family models.

• Churches must actively defend the biblical family, not compromise for societal approval.

The Family Must Return to God

The family, as designed by God, is under attack. But there is hope. Returning to biblical truth, strengthening marriages, and raising godly children, we can restore families to their rightful place as the cornerstone of faith and society.

A godly family is about personal happiness and showing the world that God’s ways are best. If we want to see revival in our churches, strength in our communities, and righteousness in our nations, we must restore the biblical family. Now is the time to uphold, defend, and live out God’s vision for the family.

Call to Action

• For Families: Commit to strengthening your family through prayer, Bible study, and biblical parenting.

• For Churches: Teach boldly about biblical family structure and guide struggling families.

• For Individuals: Whether married or single, uphold the truth of God’s design for the family in your own life and relationships.

FOCUS

How Churches Can Support Families

Spiritually, Emotionally, and Practically

In every generation, the Church has been called to stand with families—not just through preaching and prayers, but through active support that meets real needs. In today’s world, where families are stretched emotionally, spiritually, and financially, the Church cannot afford to remain passive.

The biblical family is under attack. Parents are overwhelmed, children are being discipled more by the world than their homes, and marriages are collapsing under pressure. What is the Church doing—and what more can it do?

Spiritual Support: Strengthening the Core At the heart of every healthy family is a spiritual foundation. The Church’s first responsibility is to build families rooted in Christ and His Word. This must go beyond Sunday sermons.

What Churches Should Be Doing:

• Family Discipleship Curriculum: Teach families how to pray together, read the Bible, and grow in faith as a unit.

• Biblical Parenting Workshops: Equip parents to disciple their children in a culture that opposes biblical values.

• Marriage Enrichment Programs: Offer monthly or quarterly teachings and retreats focused on marriage from a Christ-centred perspective.

• Children & Youth Ministry Integration: Don’t just babysit kids during service. Build programs that strengthen the family’s spiritual unity across generations.

Ministries That Already Exist:

• FamilyLife (by Cru): Offers marriage and parenting resources, weekend getaways, and devotionals.

• Focus on the Family: Provides spiritual and practical parenting, marriage, and personal growth guidance.

• The Gospel Coalition & Desiring God: Resources for family discipleship, devotionals, and marriage articles.

“Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he grows older he will not abandon it.” — Proverbs 22:6 (NASB)

Emotional Support: Creating Safe, Healing Spaces

Many families are silently breaking down under the weight of emotional wounds—conflict, burnout, betrayal, trauma, or past regrets. The Church must be a safe place where families can come to worship and heal.

What Churches Should Be Doing:

• Counselling Ministry or Referrals: Partner with licensed Christian counsellors to offer couples, parents, and individuals sessions.

• Support Groups: Create specific groups for:

o Divorced or single parents

o Blended families

o Parents of special needs children

o Couples dealing with infertility or miscarriage

• Mentorship & Spiritual Friendships: Train older couples and mature believers to mentor young

families and couples.

• Pastoral Care & Home Visits: Go beyond the pulpit. Pastors and leaders should check in, pray with families, and walk with them through struggles. Programs Worth Exploring:

• Celebrate Recovery: A Christ-centred recovery program for all emotional or relational brokenness types.

• GriefShare: Support for families grieving the loss of loved ones.

• Emotionally Healthy Discipleship by Pete Scazzero: A churchwide journey that integrates emotional and spiritual maturity.

“Bear one another’s burdens, and thereby fulfil the law of Christ.” — Galatians 6:2 (NASB)

Practical Support: Meeting Real Needs

Love is not only preached—it is demonstrated. Practical help in times of need can restore hope, reduce stress, and make the love of God tangible.

What Churches Should Be Doing:

• Family Benevolence Fund: Allocate funds to assist families in urgent need—groceries, rent, school fees, or emergencies.

• Meal Support Ministries: Organise volunteers to provide meals for families after childbirth, illness, or loss.

• Family Resource Centre: Offer clothes, school supplies, books, and parenting materials at no cost.

• Family Budgeting and Financial Coaching: Help families learn stewardship, budgeting, and escaping debt.

Ministries & Models to Study:

• Love INC (Love In the Name of Christ): Mobilises local churches to provide practical support—furniture, food, and job training.

• Crown Financial Ministries / Ramsey Solutions: Excellent tools for biblical financial management in family life.

“Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth.” — 1 John 3:18

“Bear one another’s burdens, and thereby fulfil the law of Christ.” —

Long-Term Impact: Building a Church Culture That Champions the Family

It’s not enough to have occasional events or programs. Churches must develop a culture that consistently honours, equips, and protects the family. This includes:

• Preaching on marriage, parenting, and family values with boldness and clarity.

• Appointing leaders who live what they preach in their homes.

•Encouraging young people to value commitment, purity, and preparation for family life.

• Praying regularly for the protection and restoration of families in every service.

The Church Must Rise as a Shield Around the Family

The family is the first place where faith is learned, love is formed, and identity is shaped. If we lose the family, we lose the future of the Church.

Let us no longer be passive. Let us become active participants in the restoration and strengthening of families. Let our churches become:

• Healing centres for broken homes

• Training grounds for strong marriages

• Sanctuaries for weary parents

• Equipping stations for the next generation

“Unless the Lord builds the house, they labour in vain who build it…” — Psalm 127:1

God is still building homes. And He is calling His Church to help lay every stone.

Galatians 6:2

(NASB)

THE FOUNDATION OF SOCIETY

The Importance of a Family

In today’s world, the importance of the family is often overlooked or undervalued. Many view family as merely a social construct, an optional arrangement rather than the God-ordained foundation of human life. However, the family is not just an institution—it is the heart of society, the training ground for future generations, and the primary place where love, faith, and values are nurtured.

So God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. And God blessed them, and God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it.’ (Genesis

1:27-28)

THE FAMILY IS GOD’S DESIGN FOR HUMANITY

The Bible presents the family as a divine gift essential to God’s plan for humanity. Let’s explore why family is important from a biblical, societal, and spiritual perspective and how restoring family values can help rebuild broken communities.

Human beings did not create the family—it was established by God from the very beginning. Genesis 1:27-28 states: “So God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. And God blessed them, and God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it.’” (Genesis 1:27-28, NASB)

This passage highlights three key truths about the family:

• It is divinely instituted: God created the family before governments, nations, or institutions.^

• It is designed for growth: Marriage and family lead to the multiplication of humanity.

• It is part of God’s command: Having families and raising children is not just a social preference but a God-given purpose. From the beginning, the family was meant to be the building block of civilisation.

Family is the First Place of Love and Nurturing

A healthy family provides the first experience of love, security, and acceptance in a person’s life. It is within the family that children first learn:

• What it means to be loved

• How to interact with others

• The value of relationships

The Bible describes family love as a reflection of God’s love for His people: “As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him.” (Psalm 103:13). When families operate according to biblical principles, they become places of safety, encouragement, and spiritual growth.

Family is the First School of Faith and Morality

The family is where children first encounter God. Parents have the responsibility of shaping their children’s faith and worldview.

BIBLICAL COMMAND TO PARENTS

In Deuteronomy 6:6-7, God commands parents: “These words, which I am commanding you today, shall be on your heart. And you shall repeat them diligently to your sons and speak of them when you sit in your house, walk on the road, lie down, and get up.”

This means parents are responsible for their children’s physical needs and spiritual education. If parents do not actively teach godly values, biblical truth, and faith in Jesus Christ, society will teach their children false values, ungodly ideologies, and a distorted view of life.

FAMILY IS THE FOUNDATION OF SOCIETY

A nation is only as strong as its families. Strong families produce responsible citizens, moral leaders, and stable communities. Weak or broken families contribute to crime, immorality, and societal instability.

The Link Between Family Breakdown and Social Problems

Studies have shown that when families are broken due to divorce, fatherlessness, or moral decay, there is an increase in:

• Crime and violence

• Poverty and economic struggles

• Mental health issues and identity crises

• Moral corruption and lack of values

God designed families to bring stability to individuals and societies. The breakdown of the family is directly linked to nations’ moral and spiritual decline. “If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?” (Psalm 11:3). When families are strong, nations are strong.

Family is a Place of Generational Blessing or Curse

Families are not just about the present generation; they shape the future. The choices made within a family can bless or curse future generations.

God’s Promise of Generational Blessing

“But showing mercy to thousands, to those who love Me and keep My commandments.” (Exodus 20:6)

A godly family produces children and grandchildren who continue in faith, integrity, and righteousness. But a family that embraces sin, rebellion, and neglect often produces generations of brokenness, pain, and destruction. This is why raising children in a godly home is essential—it determines the course of future generations.

THE ENEMY’S ATTACK ON THE FAMILY

Satan knows the power of family, so he is attacking its structure. The enemy’s tactics include:

• LGBTQ ideologies that distort God’s design for marriage and gender.

• Divorce and adultery destroy the sanctity of marriage.

• Fatherlessness and absent parenting lead to broken children.

• Social pressures that push young people away from marriage and commitment.

If the enemy can destroy the family, he can destroy the church and the nation. As Christians, we must fight to protect the biblical family and restore it to God’s original design.

How to Strengthen and Restore the Family

If families are to thrive, they must return to God’s principles. Here’s how: Prioritise Faith in the Home

• Parents must teach their children biblical truth daily.

• Families should pray and read the Bible together.

• Church should be a priority, not an option.

Strengthen Marriages

• Commit to a biblical marriage where the husband leads in love, and the wife supports in partnership.

• Resolve conflicts through biblical principles.

• Guard against adultery and temptations.

Raise Godly Children

• Discipline and instruct children in the ways of the Lord (Proverbs 22:6).

• Set boundaries against worldly influences that harm their faith.

• Model godly behaviour in the home.

Support the Church’s Role in Family Restoration

• Churches must teach and uphold biblical family values.

• Christian families must mentor and disciple struggling families.

• Society must be reminded that God’s way is the best.

The Time to Restore the Family is Now

The family is the foundation of human life, faith, and society. Its breakdown is causing chaos and destruction, but there is hope in Christ.

We must reject the world’s distortion of family and stand firm on God’s original design. We can rebuild our families, churches, and nations by restoring biblical marriage, godly parenting, and Christ-centred homes. A strong family is about personal happiness and advancing God’s kingdom on earth.

CALL TO ACTION

• For Families: Commit to making your home a place of faith and godliness.

• For Parents: Take responsibility for discipling your children in God’s ways.

• For Churches: Defend the biblical family and provide support to those struggling.

THE COLLAPSE OF THE FAMILY

HOW DIVORCE AND ADULTERY ARE UNDERMINING COMMITMENT

Iam not pointing fingers but bringing the truth to light, challenging the status quo, and calling for a return to godly principles that protect the family. Let us take a closer look at the statistics—especially in Mauritius and across Africa— and reflect on how we reached this point, what the early signs are, and how we can begin to rebuild.

Divorce on the Rise: What the Numbers Tell Us

Like many other African nations, Mauritius is experiencing a sharp rise in divorce. In 2011, 1,788 divorce cases were recorded. By 2014, this had jumped to 2,262. Fast-forward to 2021, and the Supreme Court of Mauritius granted 2,110 divorces. Behind each number is a family, a broken bond, and, in many cases, children left to process the collapse of the world they trusted in.

Across Africa, the trend follows the same alarming direction. In South Africa, for example, 26.6% of all divorces in 2022 occurred in marriages lasting between 5 and 9 years. In Mauritius, 27.3% of divorces in 2021 occurred in marriages lasting 5 to 10 years—the years often considered to be the most critical for building lasting roots.

Why Are People Divorcing?

The reasons behind divorce are often layered and complex. Yet, international and local research repeatedly point to specific patterns that reveal deeper cracks in the foundation of modern marriage. These causes are not just statistics—they reflect the reality of many homes in Mauritius and across Africa.

Infidelity

Infidelity continues to top the list of reasons for divorce globally. When one spouse betrays the other’s trust, the very essence of the marriage covenant is broken. It is not simply about the act—it is about the violation of intimacy, loyalty, and security.

Healing from infidelity is possible, but it requires immense grace, repentance, and both parties being willing to rebuild trust slowly. Sadly, many couples do not make it past the pain, and the marriage dissolves.

In Mauritius and many parts of Africa, adultery is becoming increasingly normalised. It is often hidden or brushed aside as “private matters,” yet its devastating effects on families, especially children, cannot be ignored.

Financial Stress

Money matters deeply in marriage—not just in how much is earned, but in how it is managed, prioritised, and discussed. Financial stress can expose cracks in communication, reveal hidden selfishness, and stir feelings of inadequacy or control.

We cannot speak about the state of the family without confronting two of the most destructive forces tearing it apart: divorce and adultery. These two elements, often intertwined, are steadily eroding the very foundation of commitment in marriage. As the covenant between husband and wife weakens, the ripple effects are being felt across generations and society.

Even minor issues can become significant arguments when a couple does not see eye to eye on finances. One may feel the other spends too freely. The other may feel unsupported. Debt, job loss, and financial instability only add to the pressure.

In lower-income households, where resources are already stretched thin, the daily struggle to make ends meet can create constant tension, leading many to believe separation is the only way to find relief.

Lack of Commitment

Commitment is more than staying married—it is choosing to love, serve, and persevere even when it is hard. Unfortunately, many couples enter marriage today with a fragile understanding of commitment. They are emotionally excited but spiritually unprepared. As challenges arise—as they always do—the temptation to give up becomes greater than the desire to grow through it. Without a covenant mindset, marriage becomes conditional: “I’ll stay as long as it works for me.”

Be angry, and yet do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and do not give the devil an opportunity.” —

Ephesians 4:26–27

Divorce becomes an easy escape from necessary transformation when comfort becomes the goal instead of covenant.

Communication Breakdown

Poor communication is not always loud—it can be silent, too. Many marriages are suffering not because of shouting but because of years of avoidance, resentment, and unspoken wounds.

When couples do not learn to talk—talk—about their fears, disappointments, and expectations, they slowly drift apart. One misunderstanding after another becomes a wall. Forgiveness is delayed. Bitterness grows. Eventually, the relationship becomes a tense arrangement instead of a loving partnership. Without intervention, it collapses.

These reasons are not foreign to Mauritius or the African context. We are seeing this pattern more clearly now than ever. More couples are choosing to give up instead of growing up. Marriages that should mature through trials are abandoned at the first sign of discomfort.

The sacredness of the covenant has been replaced by convenience. What was meant to be a lifelong journey is being reduced to a short-term agreement. Sadly, society, entertainment, and even some church circles have contributed to this by softening the value of commitment and hardening the heart toward God’s original design.

If we do not act now to rebuild understanding, raise awareness, and renew the biblical view of marriage, we risk watching the very fabric of our families unravel—one divorce at a time.

Adultery: The Hidden Destroyer

Adultery is not always mentioned on legal papers as the reason for divorce, but make no mistake—it is one of the most silent and powerful destroyers of commitment. While exact statistics on adultery in Mauritius are scarce, lived experiences and observations confirm its growing prevalence. Infidelity is no longer seen as shocking; in some circles, it’s even normalised.

But what drives people to adultery?

Emotional Disconnection

Marriage is not just physical—it is deeply emotional. When couples stop connecting at the heart level, the relationship becomes dry, predictable, and unfulfilling. Conversations become transactional: “What time is dinner?” “Did you pay the bill?” Instead of being lovers and companions, couples slowly become housemates.

As emotional connection fades, loneliness takes root—and the heart begins to wander in that loneliness. That wandering may begin with innocent chats, online conversations, or lingering thoughts about “what could have been” with someone else.

“Watch over your heart with all diligence, for from it flows the springs of life.” — Proverbs 4:23 (NASB)

The antidote to this disconnection is intentional investment. Reconnect. Talk. Listen. Laugh. Remember why you chose each other. Love must be nurtured, or it will wither.

Unresolved Conflicts

Wounds accumulate when couples do not deal with hurt, offence, or misunderstanding. Over time, the heart hardens. Resentment begins to build, and every slight disagreement feels like another betrayal.

In that place of tension, people begin to justify their emotional (and eventually physical) escape. “She doesn’t understand me.” “He never listens.” The door to adultery is opened not just by desire but by the desperate need for relief from pain or rejection.

“Be angry, and yet do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and do not give the devil an opportunity.” — Ephesians 4:26–27 (NASB)

Healing doesn’t come from escape but from humble, honest, and prayerful confrontation. Every couple must learn to fight for each other, not against each other.

A Culture of Casual Relationships

Our modern world celebrates everything opposite to biblical marriage. Adverts, films, music, and even humour have reduced love to lust and marriage to a contract of convenience. We are surrounded by messages

that glorify pleasure without consequence, freedom without responsibility, and even infidelity as a “normal” phase of life.

Social media has worsened this culture by rekindling old flames, promoting secrecy, and placing people in situations where temptation is just a click away.

“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind...” — Romans 12:2 (NASB)

The Christian family must live by a different standard. We must raise our children to know that love is sacred. We must teach that commitment is not weakness—it is strength, and fidelity is not old-fashioned—it is the heart of God.

Lack of Accountability

In many marriages, especially among believers, couples begin strong but later drift into isolation. Husbands stop having spiritual brothers to walk with. Wives carry burdens silently. No one checks in. No one challenges, prays, or asks the hard questions.

Where there is no accountability, sin can grow in secret. Adultery often begins in the hidden corners of an unguarded life.

“Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed.” — James 5:16 (NASB)

This is why community matters. God never intended for marriages to survive alone. Couples need the Church—not just for Sunday services, but for fellowship, mentoring, and prayer. Accountability is not about control—it’s about protection.

Jesus said clearly in Matthew 5:28:

“But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (NASB)

Adultery doesn’t start in the act—it begins in the heart when boundaries are blurred and intimacy is no longer protected.

Signs of a Family on the Verge

If we are to prevent breakdown, we must learn to recognise the warning signs:

• Sudden emotional withdrawal or lack of communication

• Excessive secrecy about time, devices, or money

• Changes in appearance or behaviour without reason

• A loss of interest in shared activities or physical intimacy

• Ongoing conflict with no resolution

These are not just distance indicators—they can be early alarms that something deeper is breaking down.

How Divorce and Adultery Destroy Commitment

Commitment is the backbone of any marriage. It is not just about staying together—it’s about holding on when things are hard, choosing each other repeatedly, and staying faithful in heart, body, and soul.

Divorce teaches the next generation that relationships are disposable. Adultery tells them that feelings are more important than vows. Together, they whisper the lie that love is temporary and that the self comes before the family. This is how societies crumble—one broken home at a time.

The Good News: Families That Still Work

Despite all this, there are still families thriving. They are not perfect, but they are intentional. They choose commitment. They protect love. They do not idolise marriage, but they honour the God who instituted it.

What makes these families different?

• Christ is at the centre – not just in words, but in their lifestyle.

• They value communication – open, humble, and grace-filled.

• They prioritise time together – building a culture of togetherness.

• They forgive and heal – quickly and deeply.

• They are surrounded by a godly community – people who pray, encourage, and counsel. These families are not loud on social media but loud in heaven. Their testimony is that God still restores, protects, and strengthens marriage.

Rebuilding Commitment—One Home at a Time

If we want to stop the collapse of the family, we must call our people back to honour the marriage covenant. We must teach young people that love is not just an emotion but a decision and responsibility. We must create church environments where struggling couples are supported—not judged. We must stand against the cultural tide that mocks faithfulness and celebrates self.

And we must remember: God is still able.

“What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” – Mark 10:9 (NASB) Let us rebuild commitment, not by pretending everything is fine, but by facing the truth and choosing to do something about it. Let us stand up, speak out, and live out what it means to love, honour, and keep a covenant.

Let the healing begin at home.

Breakdown of the Family Dangers and Challenges Today

The family is the foundation of society. When families are strong, society is strong. But when families break down, the effects ripple through communities, workplaces, schools, and na tional stability. In Mauritius, the family structure has been weakening, and the consequences are visible everywhere—rising crime, substance abuse, divorce, and economic struggles.

This article examines what causes family breakdowns, how individual struggles damage homes, and why this crisis shapes our society today. More importantly, it explains the challenges of reversing this breakdown to restore strong family bonds and a healthier nation.

ECONOMIC PRESSURES AND POVERTY –THE SILENT DESTROYER OF FAMILIES

Money problems affect more than bank accounts—they also affect relationships, stress levels, and even how parents raise their children. When financial struggles become overwhelming, they create conflict, frustration, and sometimes even separation.

• The rising cost of living means families must work harder to survive. Parents spend long hours at work, leaving children unsupervised.

• Job insecurity stresses households, especially single-income families, who fear losing everything.

• Poverty creates desperation, leading some to turn to crime, substance abuse, or dangerous financial decisions to make ends meet.

Reality Check in Mauritius:

As of 2017, 1.8% of the population lived below the $3.65 a day poverty line. Households led by single mothers are more affected by poverty, with 15.9% of them struggling compared to 7.6% of male-headed households. “The rich and the poor have a common bond; the Lord is the Maker of them all.” (Proverbs 22:2)

Financial stress does not discriminate. Every family, whether rich or poor, feels the effects of money problems in one way or another. But in struggling households, these pressures become a breaking point, leading to broken marriages, absent parents, and children left to fend for themselves.

DIVORCE AND MARITAL STRAIN – WHEN COMMITMENT FADES

Marriage was meant to be a lifelong covenant, a strong bond that holds families together. But today, marriage is often seen as something temporary—until problems arise.

• Arguments over finances, infidelity, or value differences create deep cracks in relationships.

• Lack of communication makes minor issues become significant conflicts, leading to separation.

• The pressure of modern society encourages a “me-first” mindset, where commitment and sacrifice are replaced with personal comfort.

Reality Check in Mauritius:

Around 20% of marriages in Mauritius end in divorce. 29% of these divorces involve at least one child, meaning thousands of children are growing up in broken homes. “What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” (Mark 10:9)

Divorce doesn’t just affect the couple—it shatters children’s sense of security, disrupts stability, and often leads to bitter ness and emotional wounds that last for years. Families are meant to fight together, not against each other.

SUBSTANCE ABUSE – ADDICTION’S

Alcohol and drug addiction are not just personal problems— they destroy homes. A parent struggling with addiction cre ates an unstable, unsafe, and unhealthy environment for their spouse and children.

• Addiction leads to financial strain, as money is spent on sub stances instead of family needs.

• It causes domestic violence and neglect as addicted individ uals struggle to control their emotions.

• Children of addicted parents often turn to drugs or crime themselves, repeating the cycle of destruction.

Reality Check in Mauritius:

Many turn to drugs as a way to escape frustration, depression, and anxiety. In 2018, around 4,200 cases of child abuse were linked to unstable households and drug-related problems. “Do not be drunk with wine, in which there is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit.” (Ephesians 5:18). When addiction enters a home, love, trust, and peace slowly disappear. The fight against substance abuse must start with family support, education, and intervention before it destroys more lives.

CRIME AND VIOLENCE – A BROKEN SOCIETY STARTS WITH BROKEN FAMILIES

When families fail, society suffers. Many of the crimes we see today—theft, drug trafficking, domestic violence, and gang activity—are often rooted in unstable family backgrounds.

• Children raised in homes without discipline or love are like lier to turn to crime.

• Fatherless homes produce young men who seek identity and

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The 5 Love Languages Understanding Personalities as the Key to a Successful Family

(Based on The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman)

Every family has a mix of personalities, preferences, and ways of expressing love. While many families try their best to love one another, frustration often arises—not because love is absent but because it’s not being received in the way it should be. Dr. Gary Chapman’s concept of the five Love Languages is a refreshing and powerful tool for families who want to build lasting, meaningful, and joyful relationships.

I want to reflect on how these love languages, when applied with wisdom and a biblical heart, can transform the atmosphere at home. More importantly, they remind us that love is not just something we feel—we intentionally give it so that others can receive it.

What Are the 5 Love Languages?

In The 5 Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman explains that every person has a preferred way of expressing and receiving love. He calls these “emotional love languages”, and understanding them is key to creating deep emotional connections within families. As he puts it: “Seldom do a husband and wife have the same primary emotional love language. We tend to speak our own love language and become confused when our spouse or children do not understand what we are communicating.” Dr Gary Chapman, The 5 Love Languages.

Words of Affirmation

Words have the power to build or destroy. For someone whose primary love language is words of affirmation, nothing speaks louder than kind, encouraging, and sincere expressions of appreciation and praise. Dr Chapman writes: “Verbal compliments, or words of appreciation, are powerful communicators of love.” This includes saying things like:

• “I’m proud of you.”

• “Thank you for helping me.”

• “You’re doing a great job.”

These words affirm a person’s worth and communicate love directly to their heart. Silence or criticism can be especially painful for spouses or children who thrive on verbal encouragement.

Quality Time

Quality time is not just about being in the same room—it’s about

. “Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an ‘Acts of Service’ person will speak volumes.”

Dr. Gary Chapman

giving someone your full attention. It’s the gift of presence. “By ‘quality time,’ I mean giving someone your undivided attention. I don’t mean sitting on the couch watching television together. I mean sitting on the couch with the TV off, looking at each other and talking.” – Dr. Gary Chapman

Quality time includes:

• One-on-one conversations

• Shared activities that both enjoy

• Listening without interruption

For someone who speaks this language, distractions, postponed dates, or a lack of attentiveness can feel like rejection. On the contrary, intentional time together strengthens connection and security.

Acts of Service

Love is a verb; for some, actions speak far louder than words. People with this love language feel most loved when others do things for them that show effort, care, and thoughtfulness. “Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an ‘Acts of Service’ person will speak volumes.” – Dr. Gary Chapman

Examples of acts of service include:

• Washing the dishes

• Cooking a meal

• Helping with schoolwork or chores

It’s important to note that these acts must be done with love—not obligation or resentment. Chapman emphasises that doing these things with a joyful heart communicates deep love.

Receiving Gifts

To someone who speaks this language, a meaningful gift is a visual symbol of love and thoughtfulness. It doesn’t have to be expensive—it just needs to say, “I was thinking of you.” “Gifts are visual symbols of love. A gift is something you can hold in your hand and say, ‘Look, he was thinking of me,’ or, ‘She remembered me.’” – Dr. Gary Chapman

Examples:

• A handwritten note

• A small surprise gift

• Something they mentioned wanting

This love language is often misunderstood as materialistic, but it’s not about the object but the intent behind it. Forgetting special occasions or giving without thought can deeply hurt someone who thrives on receiving gifts.

Physical Touch

Physical touch is a powerful communicator of love. For some, it is the most natural and deeply felt expression of affection. “Physical touch can make or break a relationship. It can communicate hate or love.” –Dr. Gary Chapman

This includes:

• Hugs

• Holding hands

• A gentle touch on the back

• Cuddling or laying a hand on the shoulder

For those who speak this language, physical presence and touch are vital. In families, this language is compelling for bonding with children. A simple hug can convey more love than a hundred words.

Why This Matters for the Family

Each family member—children, spouses, parents—has a unique emotional need. Speaking their love language strengthens the family bond and fosters emotional security.

Dr Chapman writes: “Inside every child is an emotional tank waiting to be filled with love... When a child really feels loved, he will develop normally, but when the love tank is empty, the child will misbehave.”

The same applies to marriages. Miscommunication often arises when one person gives love in their language while the other longs to receive it in another. That’s why intentional love—shown in the correct language—creates the deepest impact.

Biblical Application: How Love Languages Reflect God’s Design

Love, at its core, is divine. The Bible says:

“We love because He first loved us.” — 1 John 4:19 (NASB) Understanding and applying love languages is not merely a communication strategy—it’s a Christlike way to love others sacrificially and intentionally. When Jesus loved people, He didn’t love them all the same way. He discerned their needs and met them right where they were. This is what makes love so powerful—it is both intentional and personal.

Let’s consider how each love language reflects God’s own way of loving us:

Words of Affirmation and the Power of God’s Voice God’s Word is filled with encouragement, truth, and promises. Through Scripture, God continually affirms His love for His children.

“You are My beloved Son, in You I am well pleased.” — Mark 1:11 This is not just for Jesus—it’s a model for speaking to our children and family. We echo the Father’s voice over His children when we speak affirming words. We remind our loved ones of their worth and identity.

Quality Time and God’s Desire for Fellowship

From the beginning, God walked with Adam and Eve in the garden. Throughout Scripture, we see His desire to be with His people—not just from afar, but intimately. Jesus spent intentional time with His disciples, teaching, listening, walking, and eating together.

“Be still, and know that I am God.” — Psalm 46:10

In our fast-paced world, slowing down to give undivided attention to our spouse or children reflects how God makes time for us. This shared presence fosters connection, understanding, and healing.

Acts of Service and the Humility of Christ

Jesus washed His disciples’ feet—not because He had to, but because love serves. Families thrive when we serve one another—not out of duty, but out of deep love.

“For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve...” — Mark 10:45

The 5 Love Languages Understanding Personalities as the Key to a Successful Family

Every time a parent wakes early to prepare breakfast or a spouse lends a hand without being asked; they reflect the servant heart of Christ. In doing so, love takes on a visible, humble form.

Receiving Gifts and God’s Heart of Giving

The greatest gift ever given was Jesus Himself—God’s love made tangible.

reflect the very heart of Christ, who saw the best in those others discarded.

Quality Time in an Age of Distraction

“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only Son…” — John 3:16 God is a giving God. Giving thoughtful gifts within the family is not about materialism—it’s about mirroring the nature of God, who loves through generosity and remembrance. A small surprise, a note, or a shared memory symbolises more profound love.

Physical Touch and God’s Embrace

Jesus didn’t hesitate to touch the leper, hold the hand of the sick, or welcome children onto His lap. Physical touch can restore, comfort, and strengthen.

“Then He took the children in His arms and placed His hands on their heads and blessed them.” — Mark 10:16

In a fast-paced, digitally consumed world, giving someone your full attention is becoming sacred. When Christian families make it a habit to be present with others—visiting the elderly, sitting with the lonely, giving undivided attention to a hurting friend—they bring healing.

This kind of time, even in silence, speaks loudly. It tells someone, “You matter. I’m here with you.” And that kind of love lingers long after the conversation ends.

Acts of Service in a World of Self-Interest

In a world where touch is often misused or neglected, biblical love expressed through safe, loving touch brings healing and safety—especially in the home.

Creating a Christ-Centred Home Through Love Languages

Applying love languages in the home is not simply about emotional health. It is part of our Christian witness. A home where love is expressed meaningfully becomes a living testimony of God’s heart. We make the Gospel visible when we love one another as Christ loved us.

• In the way a father affirms his children

Imagine a society where people went out of their way to help others without expecting anything in return. That’s the power of acts of service when taken from the home and into the streets.

Christian families who serve each other naturally learn to serve their communities—feeding the poor, supporting single parents, caring for the sick, helping with homework, or simply carrying someone’s burden. These small acts are the fingerprints of Christ left on the world.

“...through love serve one another.” — Galatians 5:13 (NASB)

• In the time a mother takes to be present and engaged

• In the acts of kindness between siblings

• In the thoughtful gestures between husband and wife

• In the touch that says, “You are safe. You are loved.”

These are not small things. These are the building blocks of a godly family.

Closing Encouragement: Learn to Love Intentionally

Dr. Chapman said well: “Love is a choice you make every day.”

Learning and speaking our family’s love languages requires humility, observa tion, and practice. However, it also builds trust, restores brokenness, and strengthens the family’s foundation.

As we strive to build Christian families that reflect the Kingdom of God, let us love not only in the ways we prefer but also in ways that truly minister to the hearts of those around us. Let our homes become classrooms of love, where each member feels known, cherished, and secure—because love was felt and understood.

Love Languages for Society: Building Stronger Communi ties Through Intentional Love

When the family becomes a place where love is intentionally given, it begins to influence more than just its members—it influences the world outside its walls. The love cultivated at home becomes the love shared with neighbours, church members, colleagues, and even strangers. Dr. Chapman’s framework, though personal, has a profound communal power. When lived out beyond our homes, each love language becomes a tool for healing, reconciliation, and testimony in our society.

Words of Affirmation in a Culture of Criticism

We live in a world where negativity spreads quickly. Public shaming, online bullying, and destructive speech have become common. But something changes when Christians, trained in their homes to speak life, step into the public square with words of affirmation.

Encouragement becomes a rare and refreshing gift. A simple “Well done” or “I see the good in you” can lift a soul burdened by rejection. In doing so, we

Gifts as a Sign of Presence and Thoughtfulness

In a culture often driven by taking, giving becomes countercultural. Giving gifts—especially thoughtful, meaningful ones—becomes a ministry.

A small home-baked cake to a neighbour, a book passed on with a note, or a surprise for someone struggling—these gifts say, “I see you. You are not alone.” And when given in Christ’s name, they become seeds of the Gospel planted in hearts.

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When discussing family, we often think of our biological ties— parents, siblings, cousins, grandparents. But for those who walk with Christ, there’s another family—one even more profound. It is the family we’ve been born into not by flesh or blood but by the Spirit of God: the Church.

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The Church: A Spiritual Family Formed

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This family, the local church community, is where we are called to grow, serve, and love. It’s where we learn to live out the Gospel—in personal devotion and daily relationships with others who walk the same path. What does the Bible teach about our spiritual family, how we behave and live together, and why this family is crucial for us and the world watching?

The moment we receive Jesus, we are adopted into God’s Kingdom and His household. We become sons and daughters of God and, therefore, brothers and sisters to one another.

“But to all who received Him, He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name.” — John 1:12 (NASB)

“So then you are no longer strangers and foreigners, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and are of God’s household.” — Ephesians 2:19

This is not a symbolic gesture—it’s a real and eternal bond. The Church is not a building or a Sunday event. It’s a family of believers called to walk together, carry each other’s burdens, and reflect Christ’s love in unity and humility.

How We Are Called to Live Together

Being part of a spiritual family is a great blessing— but it also comes with clear expectations. The New Testament doesn’t just invite us to believe—it calls us to belong. We are not saved into isolation; we are saved into a body, a household, a family of faith.

This means that our relationships within the church are not optional—they are essential to spiritual growth, personal healing, and Kingdom effectiveness.

Scripture gives us what we might call “family codes”— ways we are commanded to behave toward one another. These are not suggestions. They are the lifestyle of those who walk in the Spirit.

Let’s take a closer look at what this means:

Love One Another Deeply

“Be devoted to one another in brotherly love…” — Romans 12:10

“Love one another earnestly from a pure heart.” — 1 Peter 1:22

Love in the spiritual family is not shallow. It’s not based on feelings or convenience. It is deep, committed, and rooted in Christ’s love for us. It means checking in on each other, showing kindness even when it’s not returned, and carrying each other’s burdens joyfully.

Encourage and Build One Another

“Encourage one another and build one another up…” — 1 Thessalonians 5:11

In this family, we are not competing—we are building. Our words should lift, not tear down. We should be quick to notice when someone is weary and quick to remind them of God’s promises. Encouragement fuels

faith and keeps the fire alive during challenging seasons.

Forgive One Another

“Forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.” — Ephesians 4:32

There will be offences in every family, natural or spiritual. But we are called to forgive freely, not because people deserve it but because Christ forgave us. Unforgiveness is poison to any church, but forgiveness leads to healing and restoring relationships.

Submit to One Another in Love

“Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” — Ephesians 5:21

This doesn’t mean being weak—it means laying down pride for peace. It means choosing unity over ego. It means listening more than speaking and serving rather than seeking a position.

Restore

One Another Gently

“If anyone is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore such a person in a spirit of gentleness…”— Galatians 6:1

We don’t abandon the wounded—we restore them. But we do it with gentleness, not condemnation. The spiritual family should be a place where correction is safe, accountability is normal, and people can rise again without shame.

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These are not idealistic expectations—they are biblical commands. And when they are followed, the Church becomes a place of light, healing, and transformation.

The Church as a Place of Support and Strength

One of the deepest needs in every human heart is to belong. To be known, seen, supported, and loved. When functioning as a true spiritual family, the Church meets this need in a way nothing else can.

The early Church understood this. In Acts 2, believers shared meals, possessions, prayers, and praise. The community was joyful, and no one was left out. Everyone was cared for.

That is what the Church must be today—not just a place of teaching, but a place of living together in Christ.

Support in Suffering

When one person hurts, we all respond.

“Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.” — Romans 12:15

In the spiritual family, we don’t ignore pain. We stand by each other, show up, visit the sick, support grieving families, and pray for breakthroughs. We are a shoulder, a prayer partner, and a friend.

Practical Help and Generosity

Love is not just felt—it is demonstrated.

“Let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth.” — 1 John 3:18

The Church supports families not just emotionally but practically. From food baskets, school supplies, and financial help in times of need to helping a single parent with transport or visiting an elderly member—this is where faith becomes real.

Intergenerational Strength

In the local church family, the older walk with the younger. Mothers in the faith guide daughters. Fathers speak into the lives of young men. Children grow up seeing godliness in action.

The family of God is not limited to age or season—it is a place where everyone finds a role, a purpose, and a safe place to grow.

A Witness to the World

Jesus gave a clear command that defines the very witness of the Church:

“By this, all people will know that you are My disciples: if you have a love for one another.” — John 13:35

The world isn’t just watching our sermons—they are watching our relationships. The love we show each other within the Church speaks louder than any message we preach. When the Church loves well, forgives quickly, walks in unity, and supports one another through every season, the world sees a different way of living—a Kingdom culture.

The Danger of Division – Why We Must Not Leave Our Communities

Let’s be honest. Sometimes, relationships in the church get difficult. People offend, leaders fail, and opinions clash. But unlike in the world, we are not called to walk away when things get complicated. We are called to stand firm, stay rooted, and work toward reconciliation.

“Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.”

— Ephesians 4:3

“Do not forsake the assembling of ourselves together, as is the habit of some…”

— Hebrews 10:25 (NASB)

When we walk away from the church out of offence, pride, or weariness, we remove ourselves from the people God placed around us for growth, correction, and support. It weakens not only us—but the entire Body.

What NOT to do when hurt in the Church:

• Don’t gossip or spread discord

• Don’t isolate or disappear silently

• Don’t carry grudges and smile falsely

• Don’t leave without honour or reconciliation

What to DO instead:

• Go to the person directly (Matthew 18:15)

• Pray for healing and peace (Romans 12:18)

• Seek mature counsel, not pity parties (Proverbs 11:14)

• Forgive quickly (Colossians 3:13)

• Stay planted and trust the process (Psalm 92:13)

Division is a trap of the enemy. Unity is a testimony of Christ.

A Family That Reflects Heaven

The Church is God’s idea. It is His family on earth. It is where broken people become whole, strangers become brothers, and love becomes more than words.

Let us honour this spiritual family by committing to:

• Walk in unity

• Forgive when it’s hard

• Speak truth in love

• Serve with humility

•Stay planted in covenant, not just attendance

Because when we live as a true spiritual family, we become a beacon of hope—a living, breathing testimony of God’s love and grace to a hurting world.

“So then, while we have the opportunity, let’s do good to all people, and especially to those who are of the household of the faith.” — Galatians 6:10 (NASB)

The Church is not just where we go. It’s who we are. Let us rise and be the family God has called us to be.

Why Many Young People No Longer Believe in Marriage and Family

How We Can Change This

We are witnessing a quiet yet dangerous shift in our society. More and more young people in Mauritius and worldwide are turning their backs on marriage and building a family. For some, it’s a delayed decision. For many others, it’s a flat-out rejection.

Marriage used to be considered a milestone of maturity, a foundation for society, and a lifelong commitment blessed by God. Today, it is viewed by many young people as unnecessary, outdated, or even a trap.

Why is this shift happening, what led us here, and what we can do—practically and spiritually—to help change this trend?

A Generation in Doubt: What Are the Reasons?

Let’s be honest. Young people are not refusing marriage and family just for the sake of rebellion. Many are carrying deep pain, distrust, and disappointment. Their decision not to marry is often rooted in what they’ve experienced or observed.

Childhood Trauma and Toxic Families

Many of today’s young adults were raised in homes full of conflict, emotional neglect, verbal abuse, or silent suffering. They watched their parents argue, cheat, scream, manipulate—or downright ignore each other. They grew up with anxiety, walking on eggshells, never feeling safe or seen.

So, they are filled with fear when we speak to them about starting a family. For them, marriage means pain, and family means chaos. Instead of longing for it, they avoid it.

A Society Full of Divorces

Today’s young generation has watched marriages break apart at a record pace. Some saw their own homes fall apart. Others witnessed the breakups of their relatives, neighbours, or even spiritual mentors.

To them, marriage feels fragile—why sign up for something with a high chance of failing? “Why go through all the emotional and legal drama,” they say, “when we can just live freely without all that pressure?”

Infidelity and Broken Trust

Many young people have experienced betrayal firsthand—even before marriage. Cheating in dating relationships has become so common that loyalty now feels like a rare exception.

If they cannot trust someone in a relationship now, how can they trust in marriage tomorrow? They ask themselves: Is faithfulness even possible anymore?

And when even married couples in the public eye—leaders, influencers, or family friends—fall into affairs or double lives, the message is clear to them: marriage doesn’t protect you from betrayal.

Cultural Messages About Freedom

Modern culture often glorifies freedom without commitment. “Do what feels right.” “Don’t settle down too early.” “Live for yourself first.” These messages are everywhere—from social media to movies to music.

For many young people, marriage feels like a loss of independence, a restriction, a structure that no longer fits today’s way of life. They’ve been told that commitment equals control, and love must always feel good—otherwise, walk away.

Where Did We Go Wrong?

The question now is not just what went wrong but where we went wrong.

As families, churches, and communities, we have failed to consistently model and teach the value and beauty of marriage. We have given sermons about the importance of family but lived in homes full of unresolved issues. We have made marriage a social expectation but have not taught the responsibility that comes with it. We have celebrated weddings but have not prepared couples for the following marriage.

And perhaps most tragically, we didn’t listen. We were quick to advise but slow to understand. We told young people what to do but rarely explained why. In doing so, we created distance, and other voices took over in that space.

Reversing the Trend: How Do We Help Them Believe Again?

This trend is not irreversible. But it will take time, honesty, and effort. Here’s where we start:

Show Them Real, Healthy Marriages

Young people need to see it to believe it. They need to witness couples who are not perfect but faithful, marriages built on respect, prayer, forgiveness, and laughter, and homes where love is real and commitment is alive.

These couples become living testimonies that marriage is still good and worthwhile. Not every couple can preach, but every couple can live in a way that speaks volumes.

Create Safe Spaces for Dialogue

Let’s stop preaching to young people and start listening to them. Ask them about their fears, past experiences, and views on marriage—and don’t dismiss their pain. Many have never been given a safe space to process their experiences.

We must reopen the conversation in churches, youth groups, and community circles, not with judgment but with grace and truth.

Teach the Beauty and Purpose of Marriage

Marriage is not just a legal contract. It’s a covenant designed by God to reflect His relationship with the Church. It’s about sacrifice, growth, joy, and building something greater than ourselves.

We must return to teaching what marriage is—not just quoting verses but unpacking them. Explain what commitment means. Show how conflict can lead to growth. Teach them what love looks like beyond feelings.

Help Them Heal

Before they can believe in love again, many need healing—healing from childhood wounds, betrayal, and fear. This is where churches, mentors, counsellors, and spiritual leaders must come.

A healed heart is open to love again. A transformed mind begins to see hope where it once saw destruction.

Who Must Get Involved?

Restoring the value of marriage and family is not a task for one group alone—it requires a united effort. While parents have a critical role, this issue is far too large and deeply rooted to be solved in isolation. The entire community must rise to this challenge, each bringing their unique contribution to support and guide the next generation.

Churches: Discipling Beyond Doctrine

Churches must go beyond preaching theology—they must walk closely with their youth through real-life relationship challenges. Many churches have invested in teach ing doctrine but have neglected to disciple young people in the practical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of love, dating, marriage, and family.

There should be space for:

• Relationship workshops rooted in Scripture

• Testimonies of restored marriages

• Honest conversations about sexual purity, commitment, and emotional maturity

The church must be a training ground for love and a safe place to process brokenness.

Families: Restoring Peace and Grace in the Home

Home should be the first example of what love looks like. Sadly, for many young people, it was not. Families must reflect Christ—not just through daily devotions but through daily actions of kindness, forgiveness, service, and unity.

Parents must:

• Model healthy communication between spouses

• Show affection, patience, and respect openly

• Create an environment where children feel safe, valued, and heard

If our homes are filled with pressure, control, or conflict, we risk pushing our children further away from the very thing we hope they’ll embrace.

Mentors and Leaders: Living Examples of Godly Marriage

Words are important, but examples speak louder. Christian leaders, teachers, coaches, and mentors must be honest in their relationships and willing to open their lives to younger people.

This generation needs to see a man honouring his wife. They need to see a woman re specting and standing with her husband. They need to know that love and faithfulness are not just ideas but realities.

When mentors speak from experience and walk humbly, they create hope.

Youth Ministries: Building Vision, Not Just Setting Boundaries

Too often, youth ministries focus only on what not to do—don’t fall into sin, don’t date too young, or get unequally yoked. While these warnings are biblical and necessary, they are not enough.

Youth ministries must also:

• Cast a positive vision for love, marriage, and family

• Teach about the joys and responsibilities of covenant

• Offer tools for conflict resolution, forgiveness, and emotional growth

• Provide mentorship, not just messages

If we do not teach young people what to aim for, we will not be surprised when they aim for nothing.

Counsellors and Therapists: Healing the Wounded

Building and Nurturing a Healthy and Biblical Family

A family does not start on the wedding day; it begins when a person chooses their spouse. A strong, biblical family is built from the very foundation of marriage, and that foundation is laid long before vows are exchanged. It starts with choosing wisely, building intentionally, and committing fully to marriage and family life responsibilities. A biblical family does not happen accidentally—it is established through faith, wisdom, and obedience to God’s design.

CHOOSING THE RIGHT SPOUSE – THE FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANT STEP

Marriage is not just an emotional decision—it is a covenant, a life-long partnership ordained by God. The spouse you choose determines the direction of your family, either bringing you closer to God’s design or leading you into struggles that could have been avoided. Many broken marriages and unstable families began with a rushed or unwise choice. A marriage built on godly wisdom stands strong, while one built on emotions alone quickly crumbles. “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers; for what partnership does righteousness have with lawlessness, or what fellowship does light

have with darkness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14)

The Bible warns us about being unequally yoked. Marriage is not just about companionship but about walking in the same spiritual direction. If one spouse is grounded in faith while the other is indifferent, it creates division, confusion, and frustration.

• Seek a spouse who truly fears and follows God. Faith should not just be a label but evident in their character and daily life.

• Look for character, not just attraction. Beauty fades, but integrity, kindness, and faithfulness last a lifetime.

• Understand the responsibility of marriage. It is not just about finding someone you love but about committing to serve, lead, support, and build a family together.

• Pray and seek godly counsel. Many ignore red flags in relationships because emotions blind them. A wise choice seeks confirmation through prayer, the Word, and godly advice. Marriage is not something to rush into. It is a decision that affects not only your life but also the lives of your future children and your family’s legacy. Choose wisely and build your home on a firm foundation.

THE FIRST STEPS AFTER THE CELEBRATION

The wedding is a moment; a marriage is a lifetime. Many couples prepare for the ceremony but fail to prepare for the reality of marriage. Marriage is not just about staying together—it is about growing together, building trust, and deepening love through every season of life. “Therefore, what God has joined together, no person is to separate.”

(Mark 10:9)

This verse is not just about avoiding divorce—it is a reminder that God designed marriage to be unbreakable. A couple

must see each other as partners for life, not just until things become complicated.

The wedding is only the beginning. Too many couples focus on planning a perfect ceremony but neglect to prepare for a lifelong commitment. A biblical marriage is built, not just celebrated.

• Build trust and unity from day one. Trust does not automatically appear in marriage; it is nurtured through honesty, consistency, and commitment. From the first day, the couple must learn to rely on each other, communicate openly, and fiercely guard their unity.

• Be there for each other. Marriage is not about personal comfort but serving, supporting, and strengthening one another. A husband must be a leader, protector, and provider, and a wife must be a pillar of wisdom, peace, and encouragement.

• Learn to navigate conflicts with wisdom – Every marriage faces challenges, but how they are handled matters. Avoiding problems destroys trust; facing them together strengthens unity.

• Protect the marriage from outside influences. Friends, family, and society will always have opinions, but a couple must learn to stand firm together. God’s voice is the only voice that should shape a marriage.

Marriage is not just about staying together—it is about growing together, deepening love, and honouring God through the union. A strong marriage does not happen accidentally; it is built with patience, effort, and God at its centre.

STARTING STRONG –BUILDING ON BIBLICAL VALUES FROM DAY ONE

A family that starts on shaky ground will struggle to stand when storms come. When a spouse is chosen, a family must build on God’s values, teachings, and ethics. A family built on worldly standards will collapse under pressure, but a family built on God’s Word, prayer, and obedience will endure through every trial. A strong start determines the strength of the future.

“Everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock.” (Matthew 7:24). Marriage is not just about love—it is about building a life together according to God’s plan.

• Put God at the centre – A marriage built on personal desires will eventually fall apart. A marriage built on Christ will endure through every trial. If a couple does not seek God together, their foundation will weaken. Prayer, worship and the Word should be central.

• Commit to biblical roles. The husband must lead with love, wisdom, and strength, and the wife must support, nurture, and build the home with wisdom. These roles are not oppressive but divinely designed to bring balance and harmony.

• Make communication and prayer a priority – Many marriages fail not because of significant problems but because of neglecting the small things—prayer, open conversations, and intentional time together.

• Prepare for the future together. From the start, a couple must discuss goals, finances, values, and expectations. Ignoring these early on leads to major conflicts later.

A strong start does not guarantee a perfect marriage but establishes the right foundation for enduring anything that might oppose it.

PLANNING FOR CHILDREN – A BLESSING THAT MUST BE HANDLED WITH WISDOM

Children are a gift from God but also a responsibility that must be planned for and embraced with wisdom. Many families struggle not because they lack love but because they are not prepared for the responsibility of raising godly children. Children are a gift from God, but they also come with great responsibility. Parenting should not be accidental—it must be intentional and godly.

“Behold, children are a gift of the Lord; the fruit of the womb is a reward.” (Psalm 127:3)

Children are not a burden but a blessing. However, just as any blessing must be stewarded wisely, so must parenting.

• Understand that parenting is not just about having children but about raising them in God’s ways. Children are not just another family member; they are souls entrusted by God to be nurtured, taught, and led to Him.

• Plan for children together: Raising a child is not just the mother’s responsibility. It is a partnership between both parents. Decisions about parenting, education, discipline, and values must be made together.

• Be prepared for the sacrifices parenting requires. Children bring joy but demand time, patience, and selflessness. A couple must be willing to sacrifice personal convenience to raise strong, godly individuals.

• Create an environment where children can thrive: A home filled with love, discipline, and biblical instruction produces children who grow into responsible and godly adults. A home filled with conflict, neglect, or worldly influences produces broken individuals who struggle.

A family that does not plan, pray, and prepare for its children leaves too much to chance. Children are not just a blessing—they are a mission.

CONCLUSION

Building and nurturing a biblical family requires wisdom, faith, and obedience to God’s design. “Unless the Lord builds the house, they labour in vain who build it.” (Psalm 127:1). A strong family does not happen by chance—it is built through deliberate choices, commitment to God’s Word, and unwavering faith.

• A family starts with the right choice of a spouse. A wise decision lays a strong foundation.

• Marriage must be built, not just celebrated. Trust, unity, and biblical roles must be embraced immediately.

• A couple must be intentional about their values. A marriage founded on faith stands firm, while one built on worldly desires falls apart.

• Children must be planned for wisely. They are a blessing but require preparation, patience, and a commitment to raising them in God’s ways.

A godly family does not happen by accident—it is built, nurtured, and protected through faith and obedience to God’s will. If we desire to see strong families, thriving marriages, and godly children, we must build and nurture them with care from the very first step.

The Changing Culture

LGBTQ and Similar Attacks on the Structure of the Family

There was a time when the concept of family was simple—a man and a woman united in marriage, raising children in a home built on love, discipline, and values. It was a time when marriage was not just an option but a sacred commitment, when parents raised their children with moral foundations, and when society understood that a nation’s strength depended on the strength of its families.

But today, we live in a world where the definition of family is being rewritten. Marriage is being replaced by casual cohabitation, sexual boundaries are erased under the banner of freedom, and ideologies that once would have been unthinkable are now being forced upon societies—including our own.

Western nations have gone full force in promoting counter-biblical views on family and morality. They have redefined marriage, normalised same-sex unions, gender fluidity, and unrestricted sexual freedom, and now, they are exporting these ideas worldwide.

The sad reality is that Mauritius is not immune. These influences are slowly reshaping our once conservative, value-driven society. If we do not wake up, we will see the destruction of the foundation that has held our families together for generations.

The Rise of LGBTQ Ideology and the Redefinition of Family For centuries, marriage was understood as the union of a man and a woman, designed for companionship, love, and raising children. But today, that definition is under attack.

Western nations, in the name of “progress” and “equality,” have pushed same-sex marriage laws, LGBTQ education in schools, and policies that force society to accept these new definitions—or be labelled as intolerant.

• Businesses that refuse to support LGBTQ ideologies are penalised.

• Schools force children to learn about gender fluidity and same-sex relationships.

• Governments and media glorify these lifestyles while silencing those who stand for biblical truth.

“For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged natural relations for that which is contrary to nature, and likewise the men, too, abandoned natural relations with women and burned in their desire toward one another.” (Romans 1:26-27)

Mauritius has long been a society that values family, tradition, and faith. However, as we embrace Western ideologies, our moral compass shifts.

We hear phrases like “Love is love” or “People should be free to love whoever they want,” but love without boundaries leads to destruction. Biblical marriage was created for romance and order, stability, and God’s design to flourish. The moment we redefine it, we open the door to chaos.

The Glorification of Sexual Liberty and Fornication

The modern world does not just promote LGBTQ lifestyles—it promotes absolute sexual freedom with no consequences. Look at what today’s culture teaches:

• Casual sex is normal. Marriage is outdated, and people should be “free” to do whatever they want with their bodies.

• Pornography is harmless. Despite its devastating effects on relationships, self-worth, and morality, it’s considered entertainment.

• Marriage is no longer sacred. Adultery is justified if it makes someone happy. Divorce is the easy solution for any difficulty.

• Commitment is old-fashioned. Living together without marriage is seen as bright, while waiting until marriage is mocked as unrealistic.

“Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin that a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.” (1 Corinthians 6:18)

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Western nations have been feeding the world precisely this, and we now see its effects in Mauritius. Young people no longer see the need to get married, and infidelity is normalised. Virginity before marriage is considered strange. Society has moved from respecting purity to celebrating perversion. We must ask ourselves: Where is this leading us? A nation that abandons moral discipline will inevitably face destruction.

The Ideology of Living Together Without Commitment

Another dangerous shift in culture is the idea that marriage is no longer necessary. Many today argue, “Why get married when we can just live together?” They say, “Marriage is just a piece of paper.”

But marriage is more than a legal contract. It is a spiritual covenant.

• Marriage brings accountability. Without it, partners can walk away anytime, leaving broken families behind.

• Marriage provides stability for children. A home built on commitment gives them security, while a home built on convenience breeds instability.

• Marriage represents Christ’s relationship with His Church. It symbolises covenant, faithfulness, and unconditional love.

“Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24).

Western culture has tried to erase the importance of marriage. The results are clear—higher rates of fatherless homes, increased emo-

For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged natural relations for that which is contrary to nature, and likewise the men, too, abandoned natural relations with women and burned in their desire toward one another.”

Romans 1:26-27

tional distress in children, and the destruction of family values.

Mauritius is following this trend. More couples are choosing to live together rather than commit to marriage. The long-term consequence is a society built on instability rather than security, where convenience replaces commitment.

What Is the End Goal of These Cultural Changes?

We must ask ourselves why such an aggressive push exists to redefine the family. Who benefits when families are broken? What gain is there when children are confused? Who profits when marriages no longer matter? The truth is the destruction of the family is not accidental but intentional.

• A broken family means a weaker sciety.

• A weaker society means a governmnt with more control.

• A confused generation means a more manageable population to manipulate.

This is why we must resist.

• We must teach our children the truth about marriage, family, and God’s design.

• We must stop allowing Western ideologies to define how we live.

• We must stand firm on biblical values, even if society labels us intolerant.

“Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” (Romans 12:2). It’s Time to Take a Stand. The world is changing fast, and if we do nothing, these ideologies will sweep our families away.

• The time to act is now.

• The time to teach our children the truth is now.

• The time to defend biblical family values is now.

If we do not stand up, who will? If we do not fight for the family, what will be left of our society?

This is not just a cultural battle but a spiritual battle—a struggle for the future of our families, children, and nation.

The only question is: Will we stand, or will we surrender?

The Church’s Responsibility in Defending Biblical Family Structure

As God ordained it, the family is not just a social construct—it is a divine covenant, the first institution established by God Himself. But today, that structure is under intense attack. The confusion of gender identity, the rise of individualism, the normalisation of divorce and cohabitation, and cultural redefinitions of marriage are not just political or moral challenges—they are spiritual ones.

In the midst of all this, the Church is called not to remain silent but to stand firm and lead boldly. This article explores what Scripture, the early Church, and our Christian heritage teach us about the Church’s role in defending and preserving the biblical family.

The Biblical Foundation of the Family

From the beginning, God established the family as the building block of society:

“So God created man in His own image… male and female He created them… Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” — Genesis 1:27, 2:24 (NASB)

God blessed this union and mandated it to be fruitful, multiply, and steward creation. The family was created for companionship, a godly legacy, and a living representation of God’s covenantal love.

The New Testament continues this teaching. Paul instructs husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25) and calls on children to honour their parents (Ephesians 6:1). Spiritual instruction, correction, love, and discipleship are meant to happen in the household.

The Early Church and Apostolic Fathers on Family

The early Apostolic Church recognised the family as the first mission field. The Book of Acts highlights entire households coming to Christ (Acts 16:3134), and the pastoral epistles emphasise order and leadership in the home as a prerequisite for church leadership (1 Tim. 3:4-5).

The Apostolic Fathers—those directly taught by the apostles or their close followers—upheld strong teachings about marriage, chastity, and the sanctity of the family.

• Ignatius of Antioch (c. 110 AD) warned the early Christians not to imitate the world in how they treat marriage, urging purity and fidelity as central Christian virtues.

• Clement of Alexandria emphasised that the Christian family must be a place of moral and spiritual strength, rooted in prayer and Scripture.

• The Didache, an early Christian teaching manual (c. 1st century), outlines moral instructions for Christian households and emphasises sexual purity, faithfulness, and parental instruction of children. In the early Church, family and faith were inseparable. One supported the other. As the Church grew stronger, so did the families within it—and as families stood firm, so did the Church.

How the Church Grew Through Strong Families

Church history shows that the Church thrived wherever the family was honoured and supported biblically. Faith was passed down from generation to generation through strong homes, not just public preaching. Christian families were often the ones holding the Church together during persecution (e.g., during the Roman Empire). They met in homes, taught their children the faith, and embodied Christ’s love in their communities.

Even during the Reformation, when church doctrine was being corrected, Martin Luther strongly emphasised the home as a “little church” and the father as the spiritual leader. Later revivals saw a renewed emphasis on household prayer, spiritual discipline, and moral formation at home.

Every great move of God in Church history was sustained by families who lived what was preached.

Today’s attacks on the biblical family are aggressive and often subtle, involving the media, education systems, political ideologies, and moral compromise. The Church cannot afford to take a neutral stance. It must be understood that defending the biblical family is to defend the very image of God in society.

What Is the Church’s Responsibility Today?

Today’s attacks on the biblical family are aggressive and often subtle, involving the media, education systems, political ideologies, and moral compromise. The Church cannot afford to take a neutral stance. It must be understood that defending the biblical family is to defend the very image of God in society. Here are some clear responsibilities every church must embrace:

1. Teach the Truth Boldly

• Preach the biblical definition of family without compromise.

• Address marriage, gender, sexuality, and parental roles from the pulpit.

• Speak clearly on the sanctity of life, the permanence of marriage, and God’s design for man and woman.

2. Disciple Families, Not Just Individuals

• Offer family counselling, marriage mentorship, and parenting workshops.

• Equip fathers and mothers to become the spiritual

leaders of their homes.

• Create a culture where family restoration is celebrated, not stigmatised.

3. Confront Cultural Lies

• Counter false ideologies that redefine family with truth, compassion, and clarity.

• Train youth and children to understand identity, purpose, and relationships through a biblical lens.

• Address issues like cohabitation, divorce, gender confusion, and rebellion—not just as social trends but as spiritual battles.

4. Strengthen the Next Generation

• Make intentional efforts to disciple young men and women on love, purity, purpose, and godly relationships.

• Prepare them to enter marriage with understanding, maturity, and grace.

• We can break the cycle of broken homes by raising young people who are healed, whole, and rooted in God’s Word.

5. Provide Refuge and Restoration

• Be a safe space for those coming from broken families, single parents, divorced individuals, and those struggling with sexual sin or identity confusion.

• Offer grace, healing, and hope—but never at the cost of truth.

Lessons from the Past – A Call for Today

If history teaches us anything, it is this: when the Church strengthens families, society follows. But when families collapse, and the Church stays silent, the faith begins to fade from daily life.

We cannot repeat the mistake of abandoning the home while focusing only on platforms. Pulpits are influential, but homes are where the Gospel becomes flesh. The next revival will not only come through crusades but through fathers leading prayer, mothers building peace, and children growing in truth.

Defend the Design, Restore the Glory

The biblical family is not an outdated idea—it is God’s design for raising disciples, building nations, and reflecting His love to the world. Every time we compromise that design, we weaken the Church’s influence. But we restore what the enemy has tried to destroy every time we uphold it.

• Let the Church rise again—not just as a place of worship, but as a defender of the home.

Let pastors preach boldly, families live intentionally, and churches disciple deeply.

• Because when we defend the family, we defend the future.

“As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” — Joshua 24:15 (NASB)

We often talk about unity as if it were straightforward and natural. But the truth is, unity doesn’t just happen. It is built, nurtured, and protected—and when it is not, division takes over. Families and communities don’t fall apart in one day; they are weakened bit by bit by unseen forces that slowly create distance, distrust, and disconnection.

We’ve already examined how society once lived as a true community—how families stood together, cared for each other, and built relationships that strengthened society. But if that unity once existed, what happened? Why do we now live in a world divided by race, culture, social class, politics, and even religious beliefs? What changed? The reality is division has been intentionally created. It is

Navigating Through Challenges to Stay United

not an accident. Powerful forces—political agendas, cultural expectations, social biases, and economic interests—have worked against unity. Families that could have stood firm together have been broken apart by favouritism, discrimination, and systems designed to keep certain groups divided. But if division was created, then unity could be restored. We cannot undo history, but we can stop repeating it. And that starts by understanding the challenges that keep us apart and finding ways to overcome them.

FAMILIES: CULTURE AND TRADITION

SOCIO-CULTURAL GROUPS: HOW THEY DIVIDE INSTEAD OF UNITE

Society is built on groups. That’s not the problem—the problem is when groups become exclusive, prejudiced, and divisive.

• Ethnic and racial divisions have been used to create tensions where none should exist. Instead of seeing each other as neighbours and friends, we are conditioned to see differences as barriers.

• Social and professional networks sometimes function more as gated communities than open spaces. Instead of helping people grow together, these groups decide who belongs and who doesn’t.

• Religious divisions within Christianity itself have created hostility where there should be love.

• Instead of standing together as believers in Christ, different denominations build walls, treating each other as enemies rather than family in faith.

“If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand.” (Mark 3:25). If we keep allowing ourselves to be categorised, labelled, and separated, how can we ever build true unity? A divided community is weak, and those who benefit from division know this very well.

POLITICAL AGENDAS AND THE POWER OF COMMUNAL SPEECH

Politics should exist to serve society, but in many cases, it has been used to manipulate and divide people. One of the most potent tools of division is communal speech—the strategy of convincing people that they belong to a specific “group” that must fight against another “group.” We see it all the time. Political parties use race, religion, and community identity as weapons to create loyalty. Instead of bringing people together, they fuel mistrust, rivalry, and resentment. The result?

• Families from different backgrounds who could have lived peacefully are taught to see each other as threats.

• Communities that once coexisted now operate with suspicion.

• Entire societies become polarised, unable to stand as one.

“For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every evil thing.” (James 3:16)

Political strategies often use favouritism to secure support, giving certain advantages to one group while neglecting another. This creates a toxic competition cycle in which people fight for survival rather than work toward common growth. The result? More division, hatred, and isolation. The only way to break free from this manipulation is to recognise and reject it. Political loyalty should never come at the cost of losing our humanity, friendships, or ability to live in peace.

THE REALITY OF FAVOURITISM AND EXCLUSION

Favouritism is one of the most dangerous poisons in any society. When people are treated different-

ly based on race, status, or influence, it destroys the foundation of justice and fairness.

• Workplaces promote based on connections rather than competence.

• Communities favour certain families while excluding others.

• Opportunities are given based on influence, not integrity.

“My brothers and sisters, do not hold your faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ with an attitude of personal favouritism.” (James 2:1). The result of favouritism is resentment, mistrust, and division. Those who feel excluded begin to resent those who have privilege, while those who benefit from favouritism often become blind to the struggles of others. Unity cannot exist where injustice thrives. If we want to live in a society where families are truly united, we must be willing to fight against favouritism and stand for fairness and equal treatment.

ECONOMIC AND SOCIAL CLASS DIVISIONS

Nothing divides people more than money and social status. Society has created a system where the wealthy and powerful rise higher while the poor are pushed further down. This reality is seen everywhere:

• The rich live in their areas, separate from the poor.

• Education is not equally accessible, giving certain families a lifelong advantage over others.

• he poor are judged and blamed for their struggles, while the rich are respected for their wealth.

“The rich and the poor have a common bond; the Lord is the Maker of them all.” (Proverbs 22:2)

In God’s eyes, wealth does not determine value. But in today’s world, it does. That is why many families struggle to stay united across economic classes. Instead of seeing each other as equals, people focus on what divides them—money,

based on race, caste, or status.

• Certain cultural expectations make it difficult for people of different backgrounds to integrate.

• Some family traditions prevent new relationships from forming because they place rigid expectations on who is “acceptable” to interact with.

“There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” (Galatians 3:28). God never intended for culture to divide people. But when traditions become more important than relationships, they become obstacles rather than blessings. True unity requires us to accept the good in culture while rejecting what destroys relationships and peace.

CONCLUSION: OVERCOMING DIVISION AND CHOOSING UNITY

Division is a control strategy that has been working for too long. Families and communities have allowed politics, favouritism, social status, and traditions to separate them when, in reality, they were meant to stand together.

But we can change that. “Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” (Ephesians 4:3)

• Reject division and choose understanding.

• Refuse to let political and cultural manipulation dictate your relationships.

• Stand against favouritism and create fair opportunities for all.

• Stop seeing wealth as a measure of worth.

• Break the cycle of cultural barriers that keep people apart.

If man-made systems have destroyed unity, it can also be rebuilt by those willing to fight for it. Families and communities can reclaim what was lost. But it starts with a decision: To stop allowing differences to divide and start working towards peace.

Politics should exist to serve society, but in many cases, it has been used to manipulate and divide people. One of the most potent tools of division is communal speech—the strategy of convincing people that they belong to a specific “group” that must fight against another “group.”

power, and privilege. Unity cannot be built on wealth. It must be built on dignity, respect, and fairness. A society that allows economic power to dictate human worth will never experience authentic peace.

CULTURAL AND TRADITIONAL BELIEFS THAT HINDER UNITY

While culture and tradition should unite people, they often create barriers instead.

• Some traditions encourage separating people

GROWING UP THEN AND NOW

The Family We Grew Up In

What did we grow up with? We were used to having a father in the house and feared him—not in a way that made us resent him, but because we knew he was not to be toyed with. The father was like a god in our home, someone we dared not disobey. His authority was ever-present. Even in his absence, we felt his presence. That was the impact of a father.

Then there was Mother. She was the go-to for everything—our comforter, caretaker, and second-in-command. She was feared, too, because she would not hesitate to discipline us for any disorder or disobedience. Yet, unlike the father, she always showed affection, even after punishing us. Her love was unconditional, her care constant. That was the nucleus I grew up in. I was a free electron in a structured environment where I knew I was loved and appreciated, had a voice, and had limits and obligations. The fear of punishment was only present when I had crossed the line.

What Our Parents Provided

We were not a wealthy family, but my father worked hard to ensure we had everything we needed—not necessarily everything we wanted, but the essentials. We had a roof over our heads, food on the table, and clothes to wear. My dad was the breadwinner, and my mom was the house builder. Together, they made sure we never had to beg.

schools—something that was unheard of in my time. What happened?

The Moral Foundations That Were Lost I remember when we had “moral classes” in school, a subject just as important as religious studies. Students could attend their respective religious classes or general moral values classes. These weren’t just about rules—they taught us how to behave, be a positive influence, and function in society. They shaped us. But these classes no longer exist. The foundations that helped us become responsible adults have been removed, and we see the consequences everywhere.

Growing up, I always came home to my mother. She made sure we ate, cleaned up, did our homework, and only then did we get some playtime or TV. There was a structure, an order to life. Today, most children are left at school for hours, come home alone, or are sent to their grandparents. When parents finish work and collect them, the day is practically over. The only family time left is a rushed dinner before bedtime. Even weekends are packed with errands, leaving children alone or out with friends who are just as alone as they are.

The Exposure That Shapes Today’s Children

Children copy what they see, not what they hear. Today, they are left alone with uncontrolled access to TV, the internet, and social media. They are exposed to everything—pornography, violence, and a world that celebrates sin. They are growing up believing that sexual immorality, violence, and rebellion are normal.

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Despite the challenges, we were happy. We were three siblings growing up in a stable home, one built on family values. That stability shaped me into the person I am today—grounded, responsible, and family-oriented. Mental health issues like depression or anxiety never crossed my mind, not because life was easy, but because our parents shielded us from burdens we were too young to bear. They protected us physically and morally, ensuring our values and ethics remained intact.

The Father’s Presence Even in Absence

My father’s job required him to travel for at least two weeks every few months, but strangely, I never felt his absence. There were no mobile phones, video calls, or instant messages, yet he was always present in our lives. He was fully engaged when he was home, and in his absence, my mother ensured that we never felt his void. She kept us focused on what was in front of us, not what was missing. It wasn’t just my experience. Every kid I grew up with shared the same feeling. Whether or not their father had to travel, his presence was felt. That was the family structure we knew, but I don’t see that structure today.

What Happened to Families?

Something has gone terribly wrong. I do not recognise the families of today. I do not recognise the fathers—they are absent even when they are present. They take no responsibility and show no concern. And the mothers? I cannot understand how so many have abandoned their children. How do you carry a child in your womb for nine months and then turn your back on them?

Our society has changed, and not for the better. I see it in my fatherhood journey. I am doing everything I can to give my children the same experience I had, but I fear that the world they will face is nothing like the one I faced when I became an adult. Families today are fragmented. Children have lost respect for their elders, and respect is a rarity even among themselves. We see videos of fights in schools and public spaces almost every week. There have even been cases of fatal aggression in

We have seen the consequences. Many teenagers, influenced by what they watch, engage in inappropriate behaviour, leading to a rise in teenage pregnancy, school scandals, and a casual attitude toward sin. Drugs are no longer an issue of the streets—they are inside our top schools, proving that even wealth and intellect cannot shield children from the moral decay surrounding them.

The Breakdown of Families

But what causes a family to collapse? There are many reasons. Broken marriages, addiction, infidelity—each takes its toll. In counselling, I have met many couples who say they are simply “no longer in love.” After ten or fifteen years of marriage, they decide to part ways, even if they have children.

Others speak about constant conflict and an inability to understand each other. They say they can no longer live under the same roof. However, while the parents may move on, their children cannot. The kids do not face an “incompatibility” with their parents yet suffer the most. They cannot replace their father or mother, yet they are forced to live in a fragmented home, carrying a scar that will never fully heal.

Where Do We Go From Here?

We have lost something fundamental in our society, but not all hope is lost. Families can be restored. The father’s role must be reclaimed, and the mother’s presence must be reinforced. Discipline and love must again work hand in hand, shaping children into responsible, respectful adults.

We cannot rely on schools, governments, or society to raise our children. It starts at home—with us. Suppose we want a better future. In that case, we must intentionally build strong families that uphold values, set boundaries, and, most importantly, raise children who know they are loved, protected, and guided by truth.

The world has changed, but that does not mean our families must follow its downfall. We must choose to rebuild, to stand.

A family is not just a household—it’s a testimony. Whether we realise it or not, our family life speaks. It speaks to our children, to our neighbours, to our extended relatives, to our community. It testifies to what we truly believe, not just what we say we believe.

The Family as a Witness of God

“By this all people will know that you are My disciples: if you have love for one another.” (John 13:35). People are watching. How we treat our spouse, how we raise our children, how we handle conflict—these things testify louder than words. If our families don’t reflect Christ, we miss the first and most important place to live our faith.

“By this all people will know that you are My disciples: if you have love for one another.”

(John 13:35) (Proverbs 4:7)

A family that follows God is meant to be a living example of what He can do. The way we love each other, the way we forgive, the way we handle difficulties—it all reflects God’s presence in our lives. A Christian family should be a light in the home, a light in the community, and a light in society. If we claim to be believers, but our homes are full of bitterness, arguments, disunity, and selfishness, what are we showing about God?

A godly family does not just exist—it witnesses. It stands as evidence of who God is and what He does in the lives of those who follow Him.

A Family That Reflects God’s Character

A family built on God’s principles naturally shows the world what He is like. God is love, mercy, unity, and peace. A family that genuinely walks with Him should reflect these things.

• Love: When a family loves without conditions, they reveal God’s heart.

• Forgiveness: When a family forgives instead of holding grudges, they reflect God’s mercy.

• Unity: When a family stays together despite challenges, they show the power of God’s grace.

• Service: When a family is willing to help others, they demonstrate Christ’s love.

A Family That Lives the Word, Not Just Talks About It

It’s one thing to speak about faith but another to live it. A family that is a faithful witness of God does not just read the Bible—they live it out. In our daily lives, no matter what situation we are in, whether in our social, professional, or private lives, we must naturally live as God intends us to live together. We cannot turn to God only when we have a need.

• Do we pray together, or is God only mentioned when there is a problem?

• Do we teach patience to our children, or do they only hear shouting and frustration?

• Do we handle challenges with faith, or do we panic and complain?

• Do we respect and honour each other or treat strangers better than family?

“But prove yourselves doers of the word, and not just hearers who deceive themselves.” (James 1:22). A godly family is not defined by how many Bible verses they know but by how they live those verses daily. It’s about choosing to love when it’s easier to argue. It’s about choosing faith when worry comes. It’s about making sure our home is a place where Christ is truly present, not just in words but in actions.

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Family That Glorifies God in the Community

A Christian family is not just meant to shine within the home—it should also be a light in the community. Faith is not intended to be private but to impact

the world around us. A godly family is active in various communities, not only in the church community. As a believing family, they are close to those in need.

• Do we care for our neighbours or only focus on ourselves?

• Do we open our home to others, showing hospitality?

• Do we step in when someone needs help or avoid getting involved?

• Does our presence bring peace or contribute to gossip, division, and conflict?

“Let your light shine before people in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 5:16). A Christian family should not be invisible. It should be known for its kindness, generosity, and willingness to help others. A family that belongs to Christ should live so people can see Him through them.

A Family That Faces Trials with Faith

Every family faces struggles—financial difficulties, sickness, loss, conflict. But what makes a godly family different is how they go through those struggles. While the world faces dire situations in disarray, most of the time, it looks at us to see how we handle the hardships and disappointments of life. How are we coping with these hardships? What are we showing to the world?

• When things get hard, do we trust God or panic?

• When sickness comes, do we turn to prayer or complain?

• When there is conflict, do we seek reconciliation or hold onto resentment?

“Consider it all joy, my brothers and sisters, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance.” (James 1:2-3). A family that truly trusts in God is a witness even in their suffering. People see how they handle challenges with faith, patience, and hope. That testimony is powerful because anyone can have faith when things are good, but faith

during hardship proves God’s presence in a family.

A Family That Honours God Together

Glorifying God as a family is not just about avoiding sin but actively living for Him. When we speak of honouring God, we refer to how we live with one another in all aspects of our lives. How do we behave as a united family?

The Godhead always works in the unit; they are our aspirations, and we are called to be like this.

• A family that prays together grows stronger together.

• A family that worships together creates an atmosphere of peace in their home.

• A family that serves together learns what it means to love others as Christ loved.

• A family that puts God first sets an example for future generations.

“But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” (Joshua 24:15). Serving God as a family is a decision. It must be chosen, practised, and made a priority. It does not just happen automatically—it is intentional.

Is Your Family a Witness for God?

Every family is sending a message to the world. The question is, what message are we sending?

• Do people see Christ in the way we love each other?

• Does our home reflect faith or just routine?

• Are we a light in our community or just blending in?

A family that follows Christ doesn’t need to preach with words—their love, faith, unity, and peace speak for them. Our family’s lifestyle can either bring glory to God or push people away from Him. So, is your family truly witnessing who God is? Or is it time to start making changes?

FAMILIES AS A COMMUNITY UNDERSTANDING LIVING TOGETHER

There was a time when families didn’t just live behind closed doors, keeping to themselves, minding only their own business. It was a time when neighbours were like extended family, when doors were open, and people genuinely cared for one another. When one family lacked, the others stepped in. When someone was sick, the whole neighbourhood was involved. When someone celebrated, all shared joy; it was a time of authentic community, absolute unity, and genuine love.

But today? We barely know who lives next door.

The world has changed, but not necessarily for the better. Families have become isolated, societies fragmented, and people are more distant from one another, even when they live just a few metres apart.

The sense of belonging, support, and shared life has faded, replaced by walls—not just physical but emotional and spiritual ones as well. Yet, we see something completely different when we look at God’s design for family and community. Families were never meant to be islands, living independently with no connection to others. We were created for fellowship, for unity, for living life together. The early church understood this deeply.

“And all the believers were together and had all things in common; and they would sell their property and possessions and share them with all, to the extent that anyone had need.” (Acts 2:44-45).

This was not just an act of kindness—it was a way of life. They lived as one, supported one another, and ensured no one was left behind. And it wasn’t just about material things but about fellowship, love, and unity. This is the kind of community bond we, as families, need to restore today.

COHABITATION OF FAMILIES –STRENGTH IN TOGETHERNESS

Society functions best when families don’t just live near each other but live with each other in mind. Life is not meant to be a solo journey where every household struggles independently. When families learn to coexist, collaborate, and care for each other, communities become stronger, safer, and more stable.

• When families are united, children grow up seeing love, respect, and responsibility in action.

• When families help one another, burdens are shared, and no one feels alone.

• When families engage with their community, society becomes a place of trust and security instead of fear and division.

This is not just an idealistic dream. It is a necessity. Strong communities are built on strong family bonds within one household and between households.

THE MULTICULTURAL REALITY OF MAURITIUS – A NATURAL EXAMPLE OF COHABITATION

Mauritius is a living example of how multiple cultures can coexist, share spaces, and grow together. Families of different backgrounds, traditions, and beliefs coexist even in minor localities.

• A Creole family might be sharing food with their Tamil neighbour.

• A Hindu family might have close friendships with a Muslim family next door.

• Different faiths and cultures celebrate each other’s

festivals, showing respect, hospitality, and a willingness to embrace diversity.

Yet, despite this natural mix, something is missing. The deep sense of unity that once existed is slowly fading. The world is changing, and divisions are creeping in, even in a society that has lived together for generations.

Restoring the Lost Community Bond

The way things were before—when families genuinely looked out for one another—is worth fighting to restore. A society where people care, help, and protect each other is a society that thrives. “Let all that you do be done in love.”

(1 Corinthians 16:14)

It starts with small steps:

• Open your home. Hospitality builds bridges. A simple meal shared can turn strangers into friends.

• Be involved in your community. Know your neighbours, check in on them, and offer help when needed.

• Teach the next generation. Children who grow up seeing love in action will carry it forward.

• Lead by example. If one family starts showing care, others will follow. Change begins with someone willing to take the first step.

The unity that once existed can be rebuilt. But it takes action, not just words.

Challenges That Prevent Community Unity

Of course, it is not always easy. Why have we lost this community spirit? What stops us from truly living together as families in a shared society?

• Individualism is promoted in the community. Society tells us to focus on our success, comfort, and household. The result?

People live close by but feel distant.

• Fear and distrust have taken over. The world has become dangerous, and people hesitate to trust their neighbours. But this fear has created isolation and loneliness.

• Cultural and religious differences create barriers. Instead of celebrating diversity, people sometimes use differences as a reason to stay apart.

• Pride and selfishness keep people from helping others. Some believe they don’t need anyone, while others think it’s not their responsibility to care for others. But this thinking weakens the very fabric of society.

These challenges are real, but they are not unbreakable. In the same way they were built, they can be undone.

HOW TO OVERCOME THESE BARRIERS AND RESTORE STRONG COMMUNITIES

If we want to see a society where families live in unity again, we must be willing to work towards it. Change starts with small steps, and those steps must begin with us. “Pursue peace with all people and the holiness without which no one will see the Lord.” (Hebrews 12:14)

• Break down the walls of individualism. Choose to engage, connect, and care beyond your household.

• Be the first to trust, the first to love. Not everyone will reciprocate immediately, but someone has to take the first step.

• Celebrate differences rather than fearing them. Mauritius is proof that cultures can live together. But true unity happens when we embrace, respect, and learn from one another.

• Let Christian families lead by example. If we claim to follow Christ, our love must be visible, active, and undeniable.

“By this, all people will know that you are My disciples: if you love one another.” (John 13:35). If Christian families do not demonstrate genuine love and unity, how can we expect the world to? The divisions among believers—between different denominations, traditions, and ways of worship—have done more harm than good. If we are genuinely from Christ, our love must set us apart.

CONCLUSION

Families were never meant to live in isolation. A home is not just the four walls of one house but the community around it. A society where families love, support, and stand by each other thrives.

But what we have today is a fragmented world where neighbours are strangers, and unity is an idea rather than a reality. The early believers understood something we had forgotten: life is more prosperous, safer, and stronger when shared.

This is not just about nostalgia but about restoring something valuable, necessary, and godly. It is about creating a world where families don’t just survive but flourish together. It starts with us. It begins with one family choosing to love, one person choosing to care, and one act of kindness that spreads into something more significant.

The question is, who will take the first step?

The Role of Christian Parenting Transforming Generations

One of the most powerful forces in shaping society is not found in the government, the media, or even the Church pulpit—it is found in the home, where parents shape the hearts and futures of their children.

Christian parenting is not just about raising good kids. It’s about discipling a generation that will carry God’s presence, truth, and love into the world long after we are gone. What we plant in our children today will bear fruit for the Kingdom—or be choked by the influence of a broken world. We must return to our calling as parents—not just providers but as spiritual leaders, mentors, and witnesses of Christ within our homes.

Parenting Is a God-Given Assignment

From the beginning, God gave parents the task of forming and preparing the next generation. This is not a secondary responsibility—it is a divine calling.

“These words, which I am commanding you today, shall be on your heart. And you shall repeat them diligently to your sons and speak of them when you sit in your house when you walk on the road, when you lie down, and when you get up.”

— Deuteronomy 6:6–7 (NASB)

In God’s eyes, parenting means more than feeding, clothing, and educating. It means shaping a child’s spiritual and moral foundation— teaching them who God is, what is true, and how to live in obedience and love.

The Home: A Training Ground for Generational Impact

Every child is born with a destiny, but it must be nurtured. Parents are the first disciples, preachers, prayer partners, and examples of Christ that children see.

What we allow or neglect in the home becomes the culture our children inherit. If we model love, prayer, forgiveness, humility, and truth, they will follow. But if we prioritise the world’s standards or neglect our spiritual duty, our children may grow up empty, confused, and vulnerable to deception.

“Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he grows older he will not abandon it.” —

Proverbs 22:6 (NASB)

This training is not just for Sunday mornings—it’s daily, intentional, and consistent.

Generational Transformation

Begins with Spiritual Legacy

Christian parenting is not about control—it’s about legacy. Our goal is to raise children who:

• Love God with all their heart

• Know His Word

• Understand His ways

• Walk in His purpose

When children are taught to live by faith, they become adults who impact culture, shape systems, and raise the standard in every sphere of influence. They become godly husbands and wives, fathers and mothers, teachers, doctors, leaders, and workers who reflect the character of Christ. One obedient family can shift the atmosphere in an entire community.

“But the mercy of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting for those who fear Him, and His justice to the children’s children.” — Psalm 103:17 (NASB)

We are not just parenting for the present—we are building a legacy that will echo through generations.

What Christian Parenting Requires Today

In a world full of distractions, confusion, and broken models of family life, Christian parenting must rise with clarity, purpose, and boldness. Here’s what it requires:

Intentional Discipleship

Teach your children the Word of God at home. Memorise verses together. Talk about biblical values during meals, walks, or bedtime. Make faith part of your everyday life—not just church events.

Prayer and Intercession

Stand in the gap for your children. Pray for their protection, decisions, friends, purity, calling, and future spouse. Pray not only over them but with them.

Healthy Correction and Grace Discipline must reflect God’s character—firm, loving, and redemptive. Correct behaviour while guarding their

hearts. Don’t provoke, but instruct. “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” — Ephesians 6:4

Model What You Preach

Children don’t just listen—they observe. They must see us living holy if we want them to live holy. If we want them to honour marriage, they must see honour between husband and wife.

Let our lives be a living testimony of the God we teach them about.

How Churches Can Support Christian Parents

Parents need support. Christian parenting was never meant to be done in isolation. The Church must step in—not to replace the parent’s role but to equip, strengthen, and stand with them.

Churches can:

• Provide parenting workshops and family discipleship training

• Host prayer gatherings specifically for families

• Offer mentoring for young parents from seasoned Christian couples

• Create support groups for single parents, blended families, or parents of teens

• Give space in preaching and teaching to affirm and instruct parents in their role

When the Church strengthens the family, it reinforces its future. Don’t Underestimate Your Role

You may feel tired, overwhelmed, or unqualified. But if you are a parent, you are chosen. God entrusted you with a soul that will live forever— and through your obedience, you can impact generations you will never meet.

“One generation will praise Your works to another, and will declare Your mighty acts.” — Psalm 145:4 (NASB)

Let us rise as Christian parents—not perfect, but purposeful. Let us raise sons and daughters who will carry the torch of truth when our time is done.

Let the transformation begin—not in government halls or school systems—but in the sacred soil of our homes.

How Societal Pressures Are Undermining the Biblical Family

What We Can Do About It ?

The family, as God designed it, is under siege, not by weapons of war but by subtle shifts in culture, loud narratives of self-fulfilment, and constant social pressures that chip away at its structure. The biblical family—centred on covenant, unity, respect, and generational blessing—is slowly being redefined, ridiculed, and, in some cases, wholly rejected.

Today, we are not just witnessing a change in how families function—we are living through a profound erosion of what family means. If we, as believers, do not rise to confront this with truth and grace, we risk losing an entire generation to confusion and compromise.

The Biblical Model Under Pressure

In Scripture, the family is not a random structure—it’s a divine design. God created Adam and Eve as partners and the beginning of the human family. Children were seen as blessings. Roles within the family were distinct but complementary, built on love, order, submission, and servant leadership.

Yet today, that very house is being challenged by many cultural forces.

being labelled as oppressive, outdated, or irrelevant.

Young people are told that traditional family roles limit potential and that biblical distinctions are discriminatory. This is not simply about diversity of thought—it’s about dismantling the foundation God put in place for family life to thrive.

Individualism and Self-Fulfilment Culture

Our modern world exalts the individual above the collective. Self-care, self-love, and self-prioritisation dominate cultural messaging. While there is nothing wrong with valuing oneself, the danger comes when the self replaces sacrifice—the essence of family life.

Commitment becomes inconvenient.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, they who build it labour in vain” — Psalm 127:1

What Are the Pressures Weakening the Family?

Redefinition of Marriage and Gender Roles

In the name of inclusion and modernity, marriage is no longer seen as a covenant between a man and a woman but a flexible agreement based on personal preference. Gender roles, once rooted in God’s order, are now

Children are seen as burdens. Spouses become competitors or sources of pressure. And so, the biblical picture of mutual submission and service is replaced by transactional relationships that end when they no longer “serve me.”

Economic and Lifestyle Pressures

In many homes today, both parents are overwhelmed—chasing careers,

battling financial burdens, or just trying to survive. The rising cost of living, job insecurity, and material expectations greatly strain marriages.

Endless responsibilities swallow up time for prayer, rest, family meals, and intentional parenting. Children grow up without

consistent parental presence or spiritual guidance. Slowly but surely, the home becomes a place of exhaustion, not edification.

Media and Entertainment’s Influence

Media does more than entertain—it shapes minds. Television, films, music, and social platforms now normalise behaviours that were once considered harmful: casual sex, disrespectful children, absent fathers, overworked mothers, gender fluidity, and more.

This generation is being discipled more by YouTube, TikTok, and Netflix than by their families or churches. The world’s values are presented with glitter and humour, while biblical values are painted as harsh, dull, or intolerant.

The Silent Effect: Spiritual Apathy in the Home

With all these pressures combined, many Christian families are not just changing—they are drifting away.

Bible reading is rare, prayer at home is occasional, church attendance is inconsistent, and conversations about God, sin, and purpose are avoided. The faith that once anchored the home is now left for Sunday mornings—if at all.

When faith is no longer central, the family loses its direction. Children grow up unsure of their identity. Couples lose sight of their mission. The home loses its peace and the enemy gains ground.

What Can We Do? Rebuilding the Walls of the Family

The battle for the family is not lost. But it must be fought—intentionally, spiritually, and together.

Return to God’s Blueprint

We cannot rebuild on broken foundations. The first step is to return to what God says about marriage, parenting, roles, love, and responsibility. His Word is not outdated—it is a timeless truth.

• Teach it at home.

• Model it as parents.

• Hold to it in the face of pressure.

Let the Bible—not culture—define what a family should look like.

Prioritise Presence and Purpose

A strong family is not built on perfection but on presence. Make time for

“If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?” — Psalm 11:3

meals together, pray as a family, read the Word aloud, and ask your children how they are doing. Protect the home from becoming just a place to sleep and eat.

Create a culture of love, openness, and spiritual growth. Even in busy seasons, don’t lose sight of your family’s purpose—to glorify God, serve each other, and raise godly generations.

Equip and Disciple Families in the Church

Churches must no longer treat the family as a private matter. We must actively disciple families, support marriages, and walk with struggling couples.

• Offer parenting workshops

• Provide marital counselling

• Equip men to lead spiritually

• Train women to build their homes in wisdom

Let the church be where broken families find healing and strong families grow stronger.

Address the Culture, Don’t Avoid It

We must stop pretending the world isn’t changing. It is. But instead of hiding, we must teach our children how to stand.

Talk about gender. Talk about identity. Talk about marriage. Talk about sexuality. If we don’t disciple them, the world will. And if we wait until it’s too late, we will regret our silence.

Let us be bold—not in anger, but in love and truth.

A Final Word: The Family is Worth Fighting For

The pressures are real, but so is our God. And He has not given up on the family. He can still restore, rebuild, and revive what has been shaken.

“If the foundations are

destroyed, what can the righteous do?” — Psalm 11:3

Answer: We rise, we rebuild, and we resist.

Let us not conform to the patterns of this world. Let us not remain silent while culture redefines what God established. Let us fight—not with fear but with faith. Let us not compromise but with conviction.

The biblical family is not a cultural relic but God’s chosen design for human flourishing. And it is worth protecting.

Family Health & Discipleship Checklist

Use this as a regular self-evaluation tool for your household.

Spiritual Practices

• Do we pray together as a family regularly (not just before meals)?

• Do we read or discuss the Bible together weekly?

• Are we teaching our children biblical truths at home, not just relying on Sunday school?

Presence & Connection

• Do we eat together without screens or distractions at least a few times a week?

• Do we know what each family member is going through emotionally?

• Is there consistent quality time between spouses?

Boundaries & Culture

• Do we monitor the kind of media our children consume?

• Are we addressing cultural topics (gender, sexuality, identity) with biblical clarity and grace?

• Are we guarding our home against division, spiritual apathy, or unspoken tension?

Pillars of a Family

A strong family is not built on convenience or circumstances but on unshakable pillars. Like a house needs a solid foundation to withstand storms, a family needs strong people and values to endure life’s trials. These pillars are not just abstract concepts; they hold a family together when everything else tries to tear it apart.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, they labour in vain who

Some families collapse because their foundations are weak, neglected, or never established. Others stand the test of time because their foundations are firm. A family built on the right foundations will thrive, overcome, and endure no matter what comes against it.

GOD – THE MAIN PILLAR

A family not built on God will always struggle to find its footing. He is the foundation, the covering, and the guide. Without Him, love fades, purpose is lost, and values crumble under the pressure of the world.

• A family that puts God first finds wisdom, direction, and peace even in the most challenging times.

• A home centred on Christ is protected from deception, division, and destruction.

• Families that ignore God often end up lost, chasing after worldly success but missing the true purpose of family.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, they labour in vain who build it.” (Psalm 127:1)

A house can look beautiful, well-structured, and impressive from the outside, but it is weak at its core if God is not in it.

A family’s strength comes from faith, prayer, and obedience to God’s ways.

THE FATHER – A PILLAR OF STRENGTH AND LEADERSHIP

A father is not just a man who lives in the house; he is a pillar of the household. His leadership, protection, and presence shape the family’s stability. A father who understands his role sets the direction and tone of the home.

• He must be strong, dependable, and wise, leading with love and conviction.

• His presence must bring stability, not fear; security, not uncertainty.

• When a father fails in his role, the family often loses direction, discipline, and security.

A weak or absent father leaves a gap in the home—one that the world is quick to fill. But a father who stands firm in his calling becomes a shield for his wife and children, ensuring that no matter what happens, the family remains steady.

THE MOTHER – A PILLAR OF NURTURING AND WISDOM

A mother is not just the one who gives birth; she is the heart of the home. A family can have all the resources in the world, but if the mother is absent, the home will feel empty.

• She nurtures, guides, and imparts wisdom to her children.

• She is the peacekeeper and comforter, and she holds everything together when life overwhelms her.

• A mother who stands firm in her role brings warmth and order, making the home a place of love, discipline, and strength.

When a mother’s role is undermined or neglected, chaos follows. A home without a mother’s wisdom and presence feels cold, directionless, and lacks emotional balance.

Love – A Pillar That Holds Everything Together

A family can have structure, rules, and responsibilities, but it will eventually fall apart without love. Love is what gives meaning to everything else. It is the force that binds, heals, and strengthens a family, making sacrifices worthwhile and commitment unbreakable.

• Love is not just an emotion; it is a choice.

• Love means forgiveness, patience, and commitment, even when difficult.

• Love is what makes a home feel like home.

Families built on money, status, or obligation may last for a while, but when life gets complicated, they crumble. But a family built on genuine, godly love will endure every storm and every hardship. “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.” (1 Corinthians 13:7-8The Unity Between Husband and Wife – T

HE CENTRAL PILLAR

Marriage is not just a personal relationship—it is the central pillar that holds the family together. If the marriage is strong, the family stands firm. If the marriage is weak, the entire structure becomes unstable.

• A husband and wife must be united, not just in words, but in action and vision.

• Children hold onto this pillar. When parents are divided, children feel lost and insecure.

• A broken marriage leads to a fractured family. Separation, resentment, or constant conflict between husband and wife weakens the household.

A strong marriage does not mean a perfect one but a committed one in which both partners fight for their family rather than against each other. The strength of the family starts with the strength of the couple.

BUILDING AND RESTORING THESE PILLARS

No family is perfect, and sometimes these pillars get shaken. But a broken pillar does not mean the family must collapse. Restoration is always possible when there is a willingness to rebuild.

• How to Build Strong Pillars:

o Put God first in everything.

o Make marriage a priority—invest in unity, communication, and love.

o Fathers must lead, mothers must nurture, and children must honour their parents.

o Choose love and forgiveness over bitterness and division.

• How to Restore Shaken Pillars:

o If God has not been at the centre, return to Him in prayer and obedience.

o If the marriage has been strained, seek restoration, communicate, and choose to rebuild together.

o If fatherhood or motherhood has been neglected, take responsibility and start again—better late than never.

o If love has been lost, rekindle it through acts of kindness, grace, and commitment.

A family built on strong pillars does not fall when life gets hard. It bends and struggles, but it does not break. However, when these pillars are neglected, the family becomes weak, divided, and vulnerable to destruction.

CONCLUSION

A strong family does not happen by accident—it is built on solid, unshakable pillars. God must be at the centre, guiding and protecting. The father must stand as a pillar of strength and leadership. The mother must be the heart that nurtures and sustains. Love must hold everything together, and the unity of husband and wife must be protected at all costs.

If these pillars stand firm, the family will endure and thrive and become a testimony of God’s power and faithfulness. But if they are neglected, the home will become unstable, and the consequences will be felt for generations.

Now is the time to build, strengthen, and restore the pillars that hold the family together. When these pillars are strong, the family can withstand anything—and no attack from the world will be enough to tear it down.

DOSSIER

ROLES AND RESPONSIBILITIES OF THE FAMILY

The family is the foundational unit of society, designed by God to function harmoniously by fulfilling distinct roles and responsibilities. Each member—the father, the mother, and the children—has a unique God-given role that contributes to the well-being of the family and, ultimately, the community and the nation. When these roles are neglected, families break down, and the effects ripple into society, leading to moral decay, instability, and chaos. Let us examine the biblical roles of each family member, the consequences of neglecting these roles, and how restoring God’s intended structure for the family can transform society.

The Role of the Father: Leader, Provider, and Protector

The father is not merely a provider but the cornerstone of family leadership. He is the protector, the spiritual guide, and the first representative of authority in his children’s lives. When God ordained fatherhood, He established a model of love and leadership through responsibility. A father is called to lead not by domination but by sacrificial love, as Christ leads the Church.

The Bible instructs husbands and fathers to love their wives as Christ loves the Church, a selfless, enduring, and protective love. This role goes beyond financial provision; it extends into emotional security, guidance, and setting the moral and spiritual tone for the household.

A father who neglects this duty leaves his children vulnerable, his home unstable, and his wife burdened with responsibilities she was not meant to carry alone.

The Bible calls fathers to lead their families in faith and righteousness:

“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but

bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” (Ephesians 6:4)

• He must model Christ’s love and leadership to his family.

• He must teach and guide his children in biblical values.

• He must lead family prayer and devotion.

The Father as Provider and Protector

A father’s role is more than being present; he has a God-given responsibility to provide and protect his family. When he fulfils his role, the family thrives. But when he neglects it, the home becomes unstable, and the consequences ripple through generations.

THE FATHER AS THE PROVIDER

God calls the father to meet his family’s physical and financial needs. Provision is not just about money but about creating stability, security, and responsibility in the home.

• He must work diligently to ensure his family’s well-being. Laziness and neglect in this area can lead to instability and hardship.

• He must instil a strong work ethic in his children by being a role model of diligence, integrity, and perse-

verance. A father who works hard teaches his children the value of responsibility.

The Bible is clear: “But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” (1 Timothy 5:8)

A father who fails to provide does more than fail his family—he denies his faith.

The Father as the Protector

A father is not just a provider but also the shield of his home. He must ensure his family’s safety, both physically and spiritually.

• He must protect his wife and children from harm. This means being present, watching over them, and creating a home where they feel safe and secure.

• He must guide his family away from harmful influences and ungodly ideologies. The world is full of deception; a father must stand firm in the truth and teach his children right from wrong.

A father who fails to protect his family leaves them vulnerable to danger, bad influences, and spiritual attacks. But when he fulfils his God-given role, his home becomes a place of strength, peace, and security.

CONSEQUENCES OF A FATHER NEGLECTING HIS ROLE

Where fathers are absent—physically or emotionally—the damage is profound. Many of today’s youth’s struggles, from rebellion to crime, identity crises to emotional wounds, stem from the void left by a missing or passive father. A present and engaged father builds confidence in his children, sets a standard of righteousness, and secures the home as a place of safety and guidance. The breakdown of fatherhood is the beginning of the breakdown of society.

The Role of the Mother: Nurturer, Helper, and Home Builder

The mother is called a nurturer, helper, and manager of the home. She works alongside the father to build a strong and loving family environment. A mother carries within her the heart of the home. She is not just the caregiver but the nurturer, the voice of wisdom, and the silent strength that holds the family together.

The Mother, as a Nurturer

A mother’s role is one of love, discipline, and impartation of values. She has been entrusted with shaping the next generation, instilling character, and ensuring faith is spoken and lived out. A mother’s presence, prayers, and teachings influence her children’s choices and worldview more than society could.

“She opens her mouth in wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.” (Proverbs 31:26)

• She provides emotional support and encouragement.

• She is the first teacher of love and faith to her children.

The Mother as a Helper

“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him.’” (Genesis 2:18)

• She fosters unity within the household.

The Mother as a Home Builder

• She supports her husband in decision-making and family leadership.

The Bible describes a godly woman whose presence transforms a household, whose words shape the future, and whose hands build and sustain the home.

“She looks well to the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness.” (Proverbs 31:27)

• She manages the household with diligence and care.

• She ensures the home is a place of peace, order, and love.

CONSEQUENCES OF A MOTHER NEGLECTING HER ROLE

Yet, many mothers have been forced into roles they were not meant to carry alone today. When fathers fail to lead, when homes are divided, mothers bear the weight of being both nurturers and providers, leaving them exhausted and overwhelmed.

A mother is not designed to carry the entire burden of family leadership—she is meant to stand alongside her husband, not replace him. The damage caused when mothers are forced to isolate themselves from their responsibilities is seen in their exhaustion and the emotional and spiritual gaps left in their children’s lives.

• Children lack emotional security and guidance.

• Disorder and disunity arise in the home.

• A weakened bond between husband and wife leads to broken marriages.

The Role of the Children: Honor, Obedience, and Contribution

Children also have responsibilities toward their parents, siblings, and the family’s overall well-being. They are not just members of a family; they are their future. Their role is one of honour, obedience, and contribution to the household’s unity. The Bible commands children to honour their parents, a command that promises long life and prosperity. But honour is not just in words; it is in actions, respect, and understanding that they are vital to the family’s well-being.

The Role of Children Towards Their Parents

Children are responsible toward their parents—to listen, learn, and uphold the values imparted to them. They are also accountable to each other—to love, support, and protect their siblings and to grow in a spirit of unity rather than rivalry. When children are taught to see their place within the family as significant, they grow into adults who understand responsibility, respect, and the importance of maintaining strong family bonds.

“Honor your father and mother, so that your days may be prolonged in the land which the Lord your God gives you.” (Exodus 20:12)

• They must respect and obey their parents.

• They must show gratitude and care for their parents in their old age.

The Role of Children Towards Their Siblings

Siblings are more than just family members who share the same home; they are lifelong companions God gave to walk together through life’s journey. How children interact with their siblings shapes their understanding of relationships, love, and unity. A household where siblings support and encourage one another is a home that thrives in peace and harmony.

Children are called to support and encourage each other in every season of life. Just as God designed the family to be a place of love and growth, He intends for siblings to strengthen one another, to be friends, and to offer help when one is struggling. A home where siblings uplift one another reflects the heart of Christ, who calls us to love and care for one another. When children are taught to see their siblings as partners rather than competitors, they grow in empathy, patience, and understanding—qualities that will serve them well.

In addition to support, children must help create a loving and peaceful home environment. How they treat one another affects the atmosphere of the household. With constant strife, rivalry, and disrespect, the home becomes a place of tension rather than rest. However, when siblings choose kindness, forgiveness, and teamwork, they cultivate an environment where everyone feels valued and loved. This unity is a blessing to the family and a testimony to God’s relationship design.

When children learn to honour and care for their siblings, they lay the foundation for strong family bonds that will last a lifetime. A family where siblings love one another is a family that stands firm regardless of life’s challenges.

“How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity!” (Psalm 133:1)

• They must support and encourage each other.

• They must help in creating a loving and peaceful home environment. The Role of Children for the Good Functioning of the Family

• They must learn responsibility and contribute to household duties.

• They must develop character and godly values.

Consequences of Children Neglecting Their Role

The damage caused when children are not appropriately guided is evident in every corner of society. A child who grows up without discipline becomes an adult who disregards order. A child who is not taught responsibility becomes an adult who evades accountability. A child who does not experience love within the home will seek it in places where it is distorted and destructive. The consequences of neglecting the role of children in a family are seen in broken communities, rebellion, and a generation lost to selfishness and immorality.

• Disrespect and rebellion lead to a dysfunctional home.

• Sibling rivalry and disunity create long-term family divisions.

• Lack of discipline results in irresponsibility and failure in adulthood.

The Role of the Family in the Community and the Nation

A well-functioning family is not just a blessing to itself; it plays a crucial role in shaping the community and the nation. Strong families create stable societies, instil moral values, and provide the foundation for responsible leadership. However, when families break down, the consequences extend beyond the home, leading to instability, crime, and the erosion of values that uphold a nation.

The Family’s Role in the Community Families do not exist in isolation—they are part of a more extensive social network. The way a family operates directly impacts its surroundings.

• Being a model of godliness and integrity – A strong, faith-centred family sets an example for others. When families live according to biblical principles, they become a testimony to the community. Others see love, discipline, and order and are encouraged to uphold the same values.

• Raising responsible citizens – Children raised in homes where discipline, respect, and integrity are taught will grow into responsible adults who contribute positively to society. Conversely, when children are not guided, they become reckless, lawless, and disrespectful.

• Supporting other families in need – Strong families reach out to help others. Whether through mentoring, offering financial help, or being a source of encouragement, they play a vital role in strengthening weaker families. A thriving community depends on families that care for one another.

A well-functioning family benefits not only its members but everyone around it. The ripple effect of a loving, responsible, and faith-driven home extends into schools, workplaces, and churches, setting a foundation for social stability.

The Family’s Role in the Nation “Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a disgrace to any people.” (Proverbs 14:34)

A nation’s health depends on the health of its families. While a government can implement policies, it cannot replace the influence of a substantial home in shaping the character of its citizens.

• A nation’s stability depends on the strength of its families. A country with strong, disciplined families will have a workforce that values honesty and hard work. Leaders will rise from homes that teach them responsibility and integrity.

• Families influence national values, leadership, and morality. The values their parents instil in children shape a nation’s future. A generation raised without discipline, respect, or moral grounding will lead a nation into decay. However, a generation that grows up in godly homes will bring righteousness and stability to leadership.

History has shown that nations that uphold strong family values tend to thrive, while those that abandon them

Consequences of the Breakdown of Families in Society

When families fail, the effects are felt across all levels of society. A broken family structure results in:

• Increase in crime, corruption, and instability – Fatherlessness and lack of discipline in the home contribute to delinquency and lawlessness. Many social issues, from gang violence to substance abuse, stem from broken homes.

• Moral decay and weakening societal structures—When families stop teaching godly values, society moves toward self-indulgence, materialism, and corruption. Marriage is devalued, parenting is neglected, and personal pleasure prioritises responsibility.

• The decline of nations when family values are abandoned – History has proven that societies that disregard the family unit eventually collapse. The erosion of family structures leads to weak leadership, economic instability, and a population that lacks accountability.

A Call to Restore Godly Family Roles

The strength of a family is not built on convenience, nor does it thrive by chance. It is established when each member embraces their God-given role with devotion and commitment. A father’s leadership, a mother’s nurturing presence, and a child’s obedience are not optional responsibilities— they are the foundation upon which a stable and thriving home is built. When these roles are honoured, the family becomes a sanctuary of love, a place of growth, and a pillar for society. But when they are abandoned, the consequences extend far beyond the home’s walls, spilling into communities and even shaping the fate of a nation.

A broken family weakens the moral and spiritual fabric of society. It breeds instability, fosters rebellion, and leaves a generation wandering without direction. The absence of fathers creates a vacuum where confusion and lawlessness grow. The burden placed on mothers when they must carry the weight alone leads to exhaustion and imbalance. Children not raised with discipline and purpose become vulnerable to the influences of a world that does not care for their souls. The breakdown of the family is not just a personal crisis; it is a societal disaster.

But there is hope. Families can be restored. Fathers can rise to lead, mothers can find renewed strength in their divine calling, and children can be shaped into individuals who bring honour and righteousness into the world. The process begins with a choice to reject the distorted values that seek to redefine the family and return to the divine blueprint God has given

Let this be the moment when families reclaim their rightful place as the cornerstone of society. Let this be the hour when every member embraces their calling with conviction.

• Fathers, take up your mantle and lead with love, wisdom, and godly authority. Your role is not one of control but of sacrificial leadership, guiding your household in the ways of the Lord.

• Mothers, nurture and strengthen your home with grace and wisdom. You are the family’s heart, cultivating love, peace, and

• Children, honour and respect your parents. Learn from them, serve alongside them, and contribute to the home with responsibility and love.

• Families, let your home be a testimony of God’s goodness. Shine as a beacon of light in your community, influencing others through your lives, love, and service.

Restoring the biblical family is not just important—it is urgent. The future of our children, communities, and nations depends on it. The enemy has waged war against the family, but the victory belongs to those who stand firm in truth. Now is the time to rise, rebuild, and restore the family according to God’s design. Let us take our place, fulfil our roles, and bring glory to His Kingdom through the families we build.

The Stress of Social Success Why Young People Choose Freedom Over Commitment

We are raising a generation that is constantly driven to succeed, admired for independence, and rewarded for performance. Yet beneath the surface of success lies something deeply troubling: a growing disinterest in commitment, especially in marriage and family life.

Many young people today are not rejecting love—they are avoiding the weight that comes with long-term relationships. This is not because they don’t desire connection but because commitment feels like a risk they cannot afford. In the pursuit of social success, freedom is worshipped, and anything that seems to demand longterm investment—like marriage—is quietly pushed aside.

We examine the pressures of modern success and how they’re shaping the choices of our younger generation, especially their hesitation to embrace marriage and family.

Performance Over Partnership

From a young age, children are taught to aim high: get good grades, win awards, build a career, earn more, climb the ladder. Ambition is praised, and independence is celebrated. However, the idea of building a strong marriage or family life is seen as secondary—or worse, a distraction.

For many young adults, success has become their identity. Their worth is measured by achievements, not by the strength of their relationships. As a result, partnership becomes optional and often inconvenient.

Commitment feels like it will slow them down. They say:

• “I have goals to reach first.”

• “Marriage will restrict me.”

• “I can’t afford to settle down now.” And so, freedom becomes the prize, and love becomes a burden.

Freedom: A Redefined Idol

There’s nothing wrong with freedom— it is a beautiful thing. But it becomes dangerous when freedom is defined as doing what I want, when I want, without being tied to anyone. True freedom, as the Bible teaches, is not the absence of boundaries—it’s the ability to thrive within the right ones.

“For you were called to freedom, brothers and sisters; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but serve one another through

love.” — Galatians 5:13 (NASB)

The modern version of freedom encourages people to avoid inconvenience, delay responsibility, and live for personal fulfilment alone. But marriage—real, godly marriage—requires dying to self, giving, sharing, and enduring. It demands sacrifice, which sounds like the opposite of freedom in today’s culture.

Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) and Delayed Commitment

Young people today live with a constant stream of options. They’ve grown up in a world where everything is flexible—jobs, travel, education, even relationships. This creates what we might call commitment paralysis. They think:

• “What if there’s someone better?”

• “What if I regret this later?”

• “What if I miss out on something fun if I settle down?”

So they choose to keep their options open—staying in undefined relationships, avoiding serious conversations, and pushing marriage further into the future.

The fear of missing out has replaced the joy of building something lasting.

Social Media: The Illusion of the Perfect Life

Success is glorified online. Perfect

bodies, fancy lifestyles, solo travel, and high-paying jobs are all polished and posted. This generation is bombarded with the image of a life that looks full, even if it is empty.

Meanwhile, marriage is rarely portrayed as beautiful. Instead, it’s shown as tiring, complicated, restrictive, or dramatic.

When the most visible version of adulthood is one of independence, luxury, and freedom, why would a young person choose sacrifice, commitment, and shared struggle?

They are not lazy or selfish—they are overwhelmed by the expectations and distractions of a world that celebrates individual success more than relational strength.

What Can Be Done? Restoring the Value of Commitment Redefine Success

We must help our young people see that success without love is empty. A powerful career and a big salary cannot hug you at night. Achievements may fill your profile, but they will never fill your heart.

Success should include emotional health, relational maturity, and building and sustaining a life with someone else. Teaching this early—at home, in churches, in schools—will help create a balanced view of what it means to

truly thrive.

Show the Joy of Shared Purpose

Marriage is not the end of freedom—it is the beginning of shared freedom. When two people walk in unity, supporting each other’s dreams and building something together, it is powerful. Young people need to see examples of this.

Let’s talk more about couples who build businesses, raise children, serve communities, and still chase dreams together. Show them that commitment doesn’t kill dreams—it multiplies them.

Teach Sacrifice as Strength

The culture says, “Protect yourself.” The Gospel says, “Give yourself.”

We need to teach our youth that real love costs something—but it’s always worth it. Commitment is not weakness or failure; it is strength, courage, and maturity. We must disciple them to see sacrifice not as loss but as gain.

Help Them Slow Down

Not every 25-year-old needs to be married tomorrow. But many need to slow down and think about where they are going and who they are becoming.

Young people should be encouraged to:

• Reflect on their emotional and spiritual health

• Heal from past wounds

• Learn how to build meaningful relationships

Life is not a race. And love is not an interruption to purpose—it’s part of it.

A Final Word: Commitment is Not a Cage—It’s a Calling

God designed commitment. He is committed to us in covenant, and He calls us to reflect that love in how we treat others, especially in marriage and family.

We must show this generation that they do not have to choose between freedom and faithfulness. Real love gives both.

Let us stop glorifying isolation and start elevating the covenant again. Let us create space for open conversations, model the joy of godly relationships, and walk beside our youth to guide them and believe in them.

Because deep down, they want something real.

They want love. They want home. They want purpose—not just success. And it’s our job to show them where to find it.

Teaching About Family Values

A strong family does not happen by accident. It is built, nurtured, and protected. The foundation of a godly family is not just about knowing the correct values—it is about teaching them, living them, and passing them down to the next generation.

But who is responsible for teaching family values? Many assume that values will develop naturally over time. Others believe that family values are something each individual should define for themselves. History has proven that society collapses when the teaching of values is left to chance.

A child does not automatically learn respect, kindness, responsibility, or faith. A husband and wife do not automatically know how to build a home on biblical principles. If family values are to survive, they must be taught, reinforced, and upheld—and this responsibility is not for one person alone. Who is responsible? Who must ensure that families grow strong, that children are raised with the right

foundations, and that future generations do not lose sight of what a family should be? The answer is clear: It is a shared responsibility.

The Parents: The First Teachers of Family Values

The first responsibility of teaching family values belongs to parents. A child’s first school is the home, and the first teachers are their mother and father. Parents set the example, shape the worldview, and instil the principles that will guide their children for life.

A child who grows up in a home filled with love, discipline, faith, and respect is far more likely to carry those values into adulthood. Likewise, a child who grows up in a broken home, where there is neglect, dysfunction, or selfishness, will struggle to develop the correct values.

“Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he grows older he will not abandon it.”

A strong Church will build strong families. A weak, compromised Church will allow the world to shape families instead of God.

(Proverbs 22:6). Parents are called to train their children— not just by words, but by action. A father must show what it means to lead, protect, and provide. A mother must demonstrate love, nurture, and wisdom. Together, they must teach their children:

• Respect: Honouring parents, elders, and authority.

• Responsibility: Learning to be accountable for actions and decisions.

• Faith: Understanding God’s role in life and building a personal relationship with Him.

• Discipline: Knowing that actions have consequences.

• Love and Compassion: Caring for others and treating people with kindness.

But too often today, parents are absent from this role. Many leave the responsibility of teaching values to schools, churches, or even the Internet. The result? A generation raised without clear direction was influenced more by social media and culture than by the people who were supposed to guide them.

If parents do not take active responsibility in shaping their children’s values, someone else will—and more often than not, it will be the world, not God.

The Church: Defending and Reinforcing Biblical Family Values

While the family is the first place of learning, the Church is the spiritual pillar that reinforces and strengthens it. The Church is responsible for teaching biblical truth, guiding families, and supporting parents who are committed to raising their children in God’s ways.

But many churches today have failed in this responsibility. Some have remained silent on crucial issues—failing to address the decline of moral values, the redefinition of family, and the destruction of marriage. Others have compromised—choosing to conform to the world rather than stand for the truth.

Yet the Church’s role is not to follow culture but to shape it. It must:

• Teach families how to live according to God’s design.

• Support parents in raising godly children.

• Stand against policies and ideologies that destroy biblical family values.

• Provide mentorship, guidance, and resources for struggling families.

“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden.” (Matthew 5:14). The Church must be a voice in society, boldly speaking about marriage, parenting, gender roles, and moral responsibility without fear. It must also be a safe place for families to find wisdom, healing, and encouragement.

A strong Church will build strong families. A weak, compromised Church will allow the world to shape families instead of God.

The Education System: Teaching Values Alongside Knowledge Schools play a significant role in shaping children’s minds. What is taught in schools today becomes the belief system of society tomorrow. This is why education is one of the most powerful weapons—either for building up godly values or tearing them down.

In today’s world, many schools are pushing ideologies that go against biblical family values. Instead of reinforcing respect, morality, and discipline, they are teaching gender fluidity, alternative family structures, and sexual liberation.

Many parents do not realise how much influence the school system has over their children. While children spend a few hours at home, they spend years in an environment where their worldview is being shaped. What must be done? Parents must be actively involved in their children’s education. They must:

• Know what is being taught in schools.

• Challenge policies that go against biblical values.

• Raise children who can stand firm in their beliefs despite external influences.

The education system should not replace the role of parents—it should support it. However, when schools become the primary influence on morality and values, the family loses its power. “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.” (Hosea 4:6). Education is a tool. It can build up or destroy. Families must be vigilant, ensuring that what is taught aligns with God’s truth.

The Government: Protecting and Promoting Family Well-being The government is not responsible for raising children, but it plays a role in shaping the environment in which families exist. Policies, laws, and programs can strengthen families or contribute to their destruction. A government that protects family values will:

• Defend the institution of marriage.

• Ensure that education promotes healthy, moral values.

• Provide support systems for families in need.

• Encourage fatherhood, motherhood, and the role of parents.

But a government that abandons family values will:

• Legalise and promote ideologies that destroy biblical families.

• Pass laws that weaken parental authority.

• Promote individualism over family responsibility.

“When the righteous increase, the people rejoice, but when a wicked person rules, people groan.” (Proverbs 29:2). Christian families must be involved in shaping laws and policies. If we remain passive, others will decide the future of our families for us.

Strengthening Families, Together

The survival of biblical family values is not one group’s job alone. Parents, the Church, educators, and the government must work together to protect and nurture strong, loving, faith-filled families.

• Parents must lead by example, teaching and raising their children with conviction.

• The Church must stand boldly, teaching and reinforcing biblical truths about family.

• The education system must support, not replace, the values taught at home.

• The government must protect families through policies encouraging strong marriages, parenting, and moral living.

If any of these fail in their responsibility, families suffer. If all of them work together, society flourishes. The question is, are we willing to take responsibility, or will we allow the world to decide the future of our families for us?

Understanding the Boundaries of the Family

Family is a beautiful gift from God—rich, complex, and full of purpose. But with that beauty comes challenges, especially when it comes to defining how to relate to each person in the various circles of family life.

In Scripture, we are taught to love, honour, serve, forgive, and live in unity—but we are also called to walk in wisdom, order, and peace. That’s why it’s essential to understand the boundaries of the family: who we are responsible for, how we relate to each level of relationship, and when to say yes with love and no with clarity. This article explores the layers of family, how to approach each relational circle, and what biblical principles can guide us as we grow, protect, and manage healthy family life.

The Immediate Family: The Core Unit

The immediate family includes parents, spouses, and children—those we live with or are directly responsible for.

This is the first circle of influence and responsibility. Biblically, it is where our first ministry lies. No one can replace the calling of a husband to his wife, a parent to their child, or a child’s honour to their parents.

“But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” — 1 Timothy 5:8 (NASB)

Responsibilities and Boundaries:

• Protect the spiritual, emotional, and physical health of the home.

• Prioritise time, energy, and resources for this core unit.

• Resolve conflicts quickly—your peace begins here.

• Avoid neglecting your spouse or children for the sake of pleasing others outside.

If this circle is strong, it will bless every other circle. If this circle is broken, everything else will suffer.

The Close Family: Siblings, Grandparents, Aunts & Uncles

This next circle includes those closely related but not within your household—your siblings, your parents (after you’ve left their home), your spouse’s parents, and other direct blood relatives.

This group is precious, but it requires clear boundaries as seasons of life change.

“Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” — Genesis 2:24

Many conflicts and emotional burdens come from this circle when boundaries are not clear. It is common to see:

• In-laws interfering with marriage decisions

• Siblings demanding time and resources

• Parents struggling to release control over adult children

Responsibilities and Boundaries:

• Honour your parents—but build your own household.

• Support your siblings—but protect your marriage and children first.

• Respect your relatives—but do not allow manipula-

Jesus Himself showed that His obedience to the Father came before any cultural or familial obligation. He honoured His earthly family, but made it clear that those who do the will of God are His true family.

(Matthew 12:46–50)

tion, guilt, or pressure to control your choices. Honour should not be confused with obedience once we are adults. Love does not mean saying “yes” to everything. Unity does not mean losing yourself to keep others happy.

The Extended Family: Cousins, InLaws, Distant Relatives

This wider circle includes people we may see occasionally—at weddings, funerals, or family gatherings. These connections are part of our heritage and community, but they are not our core family.

In many cultures—especially African and Mauritian— extended family ties are very strong, and sometimes overpowering. Expectations to support, give, or be involved can become overwhelming or even invasive. Responsibilities and Boundaries:

• Be generous, but within your capacity.

• Be available, but not at the expense of your peace or core family.

• Respect differences, but don’t compromise your values to “keep the peace.”

Jesus Himself showed that His obedience to the Father came before any cultural or familial obligation. He honoured His earthly family, but made it clear that those who do the will of God are His true family (Matthew 12:46–50).

Family-by-Choice: God’s Spiritual Family

This is the family we gain in Christ—our brothers and sisters in the faith. These relationships often go deeper than blood, because they are bonded in Spirit and truth.

“So then, while we have opportunity, let’s do good to all people, and especially to those who are of the household of the faith.” — Galatians 6:10

Responsibilities and Boundaries:

• Love them deeply—but don’t neglect your home for church duties.

• Serve one another—but remember not every spiritual family member must become emotionally dependent on you.

• Be present—but keep your first call to your spouse, your children, and your home.

This circle is one of growth, accountability, and shared mission—but must be navigated with maturity and purpose.

What Happens When Boundaries Are Broken?

When family boundaries are not respected:

• Marriages suffer due to outside interference.

• Children become confused by family conflicts.

• Adults carry unnecessary emotional and financial burdens.

• Resentment, manipulation, or division begin to grow. God calls us to peace, not confusion. Boundaries are not walls—they are gates that protect what is sacred and allow what is healthy to come in.

“Let all things be done properly and in an orderly manner.” — 1 Corinthians 14:40

How to Set Boundaries Without Dishonour

Setting boundaries in family life doesn’t mean cutting people off—it means defining your God-given priorities and roles.

Here’s how to set boundaries with love:

• Be clear and kind: Communicate your decisions calmly, without accusation.

• Be consistent: Don’t set a boundary today and ignore it tomorrow.

• Be prayerful: Seek the Lord’s wisdom and peace before making tough calls.

• Be firm in truth: You are not responsible for everyone’s expectations—only your obedience to God.

Final Word: Order Brings Peace

God is not a God of confusion, but of peace and order. When the structure of family is honoured, and the boundaries of each circle are respected, the result is peace, clarity, and blessing.

Love without boundaries becomes chaos.

Rules without relationship become religion. But truth with grace brings harmony.

Let us honour each person in our family—immediate or extended—while walking in obedience to God’s design and priorities. Let us raise children with clarity. Let us build marriages with protection. Let us extend kindness to our relatives while remembering that our home is our first ministry.

Because when family order is restored, generational peace is released.

Understanding Birth Order and How It Affects Family Dynamics

(Based on The Birth Order by Dr. Kevin Leman)

Why do children from the same parents turn out so differently? Why does one child become a responsible leader while another becomes a rebellious free spirit? Why do some children crave attention while others withdraw into their world? Birth order plays a significant role in shaping personality, relationships, and even life choices.

Dr. Kevin Leman’s The Birth Order reveals that a child’s position in the family—whether firstborn, middle child, youngest, or only child—greatly influences how they interact with parents, siblings, and the world around them. Understanding birth order helps parents raise their children wisely, reduce unnecessary conflicts, and build stronger family relationships.

Why Birth Order Matters

Children are not born into the same family—each child is born into a different version of the family. The firstborn arrives when the parents are still figuring out life, carrying all their expectations and pressures. The second or middle child enters a home with an established dynamic, learning to find their place. The youngest is often raised in a more relaxed environment, and the only child never experiences sibling rivalry.

Birth order affects:

• Personality development – Whether a child becomes a leader, a peacemaker, or a risk-taker.

• Relationship dynamics – How siblings interact, compete, or support each other.

• Parenting styles – How parents treat each child differently, sometimes without realising it. The key to raising a healthy, well-balanced family is understanding these dynamics and adjusting parenting approaches accordingly.

The Firstborn: The Responsible Leader

Firstborn children are natural leaders, high achievers, and rule-followers. They are the ones who carry their parents’ hopes, expectations, and often, their perfectionism. “Firstborns tend to be the most responsible, the most driven, and the most pressured—

whether they realise it or not.” – Dr Kevin Leman. Common Traits of Firstborns

• Responsible and organised

• Perfectionist tendencies

• Natural leaders, often bossy with younger siblings

• Strong sense of duty, eager to please parents

• More cautious and risk-averse Challenges for Firstborns

• Struggles with pressure to be perfect

• Can become overly controlling or bossy

• May struggle with self-worth based on performance

Parenting Tips for Firstborns

• Ease the pressure. Firstborns often put too much weight on themselves to meet expectations. Could you encourage them to enjoy childhood?

• Teach them to relax. They don’t have to be perfect at everything. It’s okay to fail and learn.

• Let them be children. Don’t expect them to act like a second parent to their younger siblings.

The Middle Child: The Peacemaker and Rebel

The middle child is neither the oldest nor the youngest—they are often caught between roles. They can become independent and resourceful or rebellious and attention-seeking, depending on how they navigate their place in the family. “Middle children often feel overlooked, which makes them either great negotiators or quiet rebels.” – Dr. Kevin Leman.

Common Traits of Middle Children

• Independent and adaptable

• Social and diplomatic—good at making friends

• Peacekeepers in the family, avoiding conflict

• Strong sense of justice and fairness Challenges for Middle Children

• Can feel invisible or unimportant

• May become rebellious to gain attention

• Struggles with identity—where do they fit?

Parenting Tips for Middle Children

• Give them individual attention. Make sure they don’t feel overshadowed by their older and younger siblings.

• Encourage their independence. Let them develop their interests without comparing them to siblings.

• Recognise their efforts. They need validation just as much as the firstborn and youngest.

The Youngest: The Free Spirit and Attention Seeker Youngest children are often the most charming, outgoing, and fun-loving. They grow up with parents who are less strict than they were with the firstborn and usually get away with more. “The baby of the family learns quickly that they get attention through charm, humour, or even mischief.” – Dr Kevin Leman.

Common Traits of Youngest Children

• Social, outgoing, and playful

• Creative and adventurous

• Good at charming people and making connections

• Natural entertainers—love to make people laugh Challenges for Youngest Children

• Can struggle with responsibility and discipline

• Tends to manipulate situations for attention

• Often underestimated or not taken seriously

Parenting Tips for Youngest Children

• Give them responsibility and teach them discipline so they don’t grow up expecting others to take care of things for them.

• Encourage independence. Avoid babying them too much.

• Help them develop their strengths. They are naturally creative—find ways to channel that productively.

The Only Child: The Little Adult Only children grow up without siblings, often making them mature beyond their years. They tend to be responsible, articulate, and ambitious but can also struggle with loneliness and social interactions.

“Only children are like firstborns—but intensified. They don’t share attention, so they grow up expecting to be heard and understood.” – Dr Kevin Leman.

Common Traits of Only Children

• Independent and self-motivated

• Highly intellectual and articulate

• Often perfectionists, expecting the best from themselves

• Comfortable around adults but may struggle with peers

Challenges for Only Children

• Can struggle with sharing and teamwork

• May feel pressure to be perfect

• Often lonely, longing for deeper friendships

Parenting Tips for Only Children

• Encourage friendships and teamwork. They need social interactions to develop relationship skills.

• Help them handle mistakes. Without siblings, they may struggle with failure or criticism.

• Teach them flexibility. Life isn’t always structured—help them adapt to unexpected changes.

Birth Order in Marriage and Parenting

Understanding birth order helps raise children but also affects how couples relate to each other in marriage.

• Firstborns with firstborns → Can be highly structured but may clash over control.

• Firstborns with youngest children → Work well together, as one brings stability while the other adds fun.

• Middle children with middle children → Tend to be flexible and cooperative but may avoid confrontation.

• Only children in marriage → May struggle with compromise and teamwork, as they are used to being alone.

Recognising these dynamics helps couples understand conflicts and strengthen their relationship.

Using Birth Order to Build a Stronger Family

Birth order isn’t a fixed destiny—it’s a framework that helps explain behaviours and relationship patterns. A strong, healthy family:

• Recognises each child’s unique strengths and struggles.

• Parents each child based on their personality, not just equally.

• Encourages siblings to support, not compete with, each other.

• Uses birth order knowledge to strengthen marriages and parenting approaches.

ON FIRSTBORNS AND RESPONSIBILITY

Firstborns are society’s role models. They are the high achievers, the ones who never want to let you down, and the ones who carry the weight of responsibility—whether they like it or not.” – Dr Kevin Leman.

ON MIDDLE CHILDREN FEELING OVERLOOKED

“Middle children often feel squeezed between the overachieving firstborn and the fun-loving youngest. They either become the family’s negotiator or the rebel.” –Dr Kevin Leman.

ON PARENTING CHILDREN ACCORDING TO THEIR BIRTH ORDER

“One size does not fit all when it comes to parenting. If you treat all your children the same, you’re not being fair—you’re being blind to who they are.” – Dr Kevin Leman. Dr. Leman’s research reminds us that children are not the same and shouldn’t be raised as if they are. Understanding, adapting, and leading with wisdom is the key to building a thriving family. Are we paying attention to how birth order shapes our family, or are we ignoring a crucial piece of the puzzle?

EMPOWERING MINDS. HOW TO BUILD A STRONG, HEALTHY FAMILY

(BASED ON: HAVE A NEW FAMILY BY FRIDAY)

INSIGHTS FROM DR. KEVIN LEMAN

Building a strong, healthy family is not about luck but understanding, intentionality, and action. Many families struggle not because they don’t love each other but because they don’t know how to function as a unit. They repeat destructive patterns, fail to communicate effectively, and let daily frustrations build walls instead of bridges.

Dr. Kevin Leman, a well-known Christian psychologist and family expert, offers practical, no-nonsense advice on transforming family life in just a few days. Small changes in parenting, communication, and leadership can bring massive transformations. But where do we start?

Parents Must Take the Lead—Not Be Pushed Around

“Once parents understand birth order, they stop treating all their kids the same— and start parenting them according to who they are.”

– Dr Kevin Leman

One of the biggest mistakes in parenting today is giving children too much power. Many parents bargain, plead, or even fear their children’s reactions. They allow tantrums, disrespect, and manipulation to take over their homes. Dr. Leman is clear: Parents need to reclaim their authority. “Children do not need another friend. They need a parent who will love them enough to lead them.”

This does not mean being harsh or unloving. It means:

• Setting clear rules and sticking to them.

• Not negotiating obedience—a child cannot “choose” whether they obey or not.

• Responding with calm authority instead of emotional outbursts.

A strong family starts with strong parental leadership. If children sense their parents are uncertain, divided, or easily manipulated, they will take advantage of this. Parents must step into their God-given role as home leaders.

Understanding Birth Order – Why It Shapes Family Dynamics

Dr. Leman’s famous research on birth order shows that where a child falls in the family affects their personality, relationships, and even how they see authority.

• Firstborns tend to be responsible perfectionists and leaders—but can also be controlling and stressed because they feel pressure to succeed.

• Middle children are often peacemakers, social, and independent—but can feel overlooked or unimportant.

• Youngest children are fun-loving, outgoing, and charming—but can struggle with maturity and responsibility.

• Only children behave like firstborns, often mature beyond their years, but can struggle with perfectionism and loneliness.

“Once parents understand birth order, they stop treating all their kids the same—and start parenting them according to who they are.” – Dr Kevin Leman.

A healthy family doesn’t demand that every child fit into the same mould. Instead, parents must:

• Recognize their children’s strengths and struggles based on birth order.

• Avoid comparing siblings or expecting them to act the same way.

• Give each child what they need emotionally, rather than treating all children equally. When parents understand why their children react differently, they parent with wisdom instead of frustration.

Love Must Be Spoken in the Right Language

Many parents assume their children feel loved just because they provide for them. But love must be given in a way that is understood. Dr Gary Chapman’s Five Love Languages apply not just to marriages but also to parenting:

• Words of Affirmation – Some children must hear that they are loved and appreciated.

• Acts of Service – Some children feel love through actions, like help with homework or a surprise meal.

• Receiving Gifts – Some children see love in thoughtful gifts, not necessarily expensive ones, but tokens of care.

• Quality Time – Some children need time with their parents to feel valued.

• Physical Touch – Some children need hugs, kisses, and closeness to feel secure. “If you don’t speak your child’s love language, you could be loving them, but they might never feel it.” – Dr. Gary Chapman. A healthy family is one where love is understood, received, and freely given. Parents must be intentional about expressing love in ways their children genuinely connect with.

Discipline is Not About Punishment—It’s About Training

A family cannot thrive in chaos, disrespect, or rebellion. Dr Leman emphasises that discipline is not about controlling children but preparing them for life.

• Discipline must be consistent. If parents say “no,” it must mean no every time—not just when they feel like it.

• Consequences must fit the actions. Yelling at a child for everything teaches them to ignore discipline altogether.

• Rules must be clear. Children thrive in homes where expectations are known and fair. “Discipline is not something you do to your child; it is something you do for your child.” – Dr. Kevin Leman.

Discipline shapes character, teaches responsibility, and prepares children for adulthood. A strong family does not let children run the home but does not rule with fear. It creates an environment of love, structure, and respect.

The Family Must Operate as a Team

Too many families function as a collection of individuals instead of a united team. Parents are exhausted, children are disconnected, and everyone is focused on their lives.

A strong, healthy family works together. This means:

• Having regular family time—meals together, game nights, or simple conversations.

• Sharing responsibilities—children must learn that they are part of the family, not just guests who get served.

• Making big decisions together, allowing every family member to feel valued and heard.

“Families that work together, stay together.” – Dr. Kevin Leman. A healthy family is one where everyone contributes, no one is ignored, and love is not just spoken—it is lived.

The Family as a Sphere of Influence

The family is more than just a private unit. It is a force, a structure that, whether we acknowledge it or not, shapes the culture, values, and even the direction of society. The truth is that every nation, every generation, and every movement has been birthed from families—strong or broken.

In today’s world, where policies are being written to redefine family, where society pushes narratives that weaken its foundation, and where the very concept of marriage and parenting is being dismantled, we must ask ourselves: Where are the Christian families? Where are those who will stand, influence, and shape the society we live in?

The family is one of the seven spheres of influence, yet too many believers have left this sphere unattended, allowing the world to dictate what a family should be. This must change. Christian families are called to step up, take their place, and influence their homes, communities, governments, and the next generation.

THE FAMILY’S ROLE IN SHAPING SOCIETY

A society is only as strong as its families. Values are built in the home, identity is shaped, and the next generation learns what is right and wrong. What happens in the family determines what happens in the world.

• If families are broken, society will be broken.

• If fathers are absent, authority and discipline will be lacking in future leaders.

• If mothers are overburdened and unsupported, society’s nurture and emotional strength will weaken.

• Crime, rebellion, and chaos will increase if children grow up without moral guidance.

“If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?” (Psalm 11:3). Look at history. The most dangerous societal shifts did not start in governments—they began in families who abandoned their role. And in contrast, some of the greatest revivals and transformations began in homes where faith was lived out, taught, and passed down.

This is why the family is a sphere of influence—because it determines the moral fabric of society.

CHRISTIAN FAMILIES MUST INFLUENCE THE CULTURE

The world is aggressively shaping how families should look, think, and function. We see schools pushing

ideologies onto children, governments legalising values contrary to God’s design, and entertainment normalising dysfunction in the home.

The sad part? Many Christian families remain silent. They watch, they complain, but they do not engage. Meanwhile, the world continues to push its agenda.

• Policies are passed redefining marriage.

• Children are being taught that gender is fluid.

• The idea of authority in the home is seen as oppressive. “Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil; Who substitute darkness for light and light for darkness.”

(Isaiah 5:20). Where are the Christian families? Who will stand up for godly values in education, media, and community leadership?

If we do not engage, we allow others to decide what kind of world our children will grow up in.

THE FAMILY’S INFLUENCE ON GOVERNMENT AND POLICY

For too long, we have believed the lie that faith and government should be separate. That politics is not a place for Christians. And that is precisely why we now see laws that are anti-family, anti-God, and anti-biblical values.

Governments write policies that shape family life, including laws on education, parental rights, child discipline, marriage, and morality.

• Who decides what is taught in schools?

• Who decides what is acceptable in the workplace?

• Who decides what values will be protected in society?

In many countries, godly families are not making these decisions. Instead, activists, policymakers, and influencers who do not believe in God’s design for the family are making them.

“Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a disgrace to any people.” (Proverbs 14:34)

Christian families must engage. This is not about politics but ensuring that our children inherit a society where biblical values are not erased. We must raise children who become the next government leaders, educators, business

owners, and decision-makers. If the church continues to avoid these spaces, the enemy will gladly fill them.

A CALL TO CHRISTIAN FAMILIES: TAKE YOUR PLACE

It is no longer enough to pray inside our homes. The world has become bold in its agenda—so must we. Christian families must:

• Live what they believe. A godly family cannot influence society if it does not reflect God’s values in its home.

• Engage in education. Get involved in school policies, know what your children are learning, and speak out when the system promotes ungodly values.

• Shape local communities. Be present in neighbourhood meetings, get involved in local governance, and influence how families are supported.

• Raise children who lead. Teach them to think critically, stand for truth, and engage with the world without fear.

• Support leaders who uphold biblical values. If we do not influence policy, we will always be fighting against laws we have the power to prevent.

“You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt has become tasteless, how can it be made salty again?” (Matthew 5:13). Salt preserves. Salt stops decay. If Christian families do not engage, the world will continue to rot.

CONCLUSION: A TIME FOR ACTION

The family is not just another aspect of life but a foundation for everything. When families are strong, society is strong. But when families abandon their role, society falls apart.

• We can no longer afford to sit back.

• We can no longer leave culture and policy in the hands of those who oppose God’s truth.

• We must act, engage, and step up.

The family is a sphere of influence—but only if we are willing to take our place.

The question is: Will we rise, or will we let the world decide the future of family for us?

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Why Zoho is the Ideal Cloud Platform for Education

Zoho’s cloud-based solutions ensure flexibility, accessibility, and efficiency, making it the perfect platform for schools, universities, seminaries, corporate training programmes, and mission-driven learning initiatives. The platform enables institutions to:

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Zoho Solutions for the Education

Sector

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The Family as a Beacon for Society

The recent Missie Moustass controversy in Mauritius is a vivid example of how the media can influence public opinion and sway critical national decisions, including elections. The unfolding of this saga demonstrates the power of news outlets to shape narratives, control the flow of information, and ultimately influence how citizens perceive their leaders and political parties.

A godly family is more than just a unit—it is a living testimony. A family that follows God walks in unity lives by biblical principles and becomes a beacon that others cannot ignore. How a family functions, shares love, and handles challenges speaks loudly to the world around them.

We live in a society where broken families, absent fathers, rebellious children, and fractured relationships have become the norm. People are searching for something real, something solid, something unshakable. And that is where a Christian family comes in. A Christ-centred family stands out not because they are perfect but because they are different. They handle life differently, they treat each other differently, and they navigate challenges with faith rather than despair. They become a beacon—a reference point for what a strong, loving, and godly family looks like. The question is, how can our family be that beacon? How can we influence society positively and point people toward the life God intended for families?

A Family That Leads by Example

We cannot change the world unless we first live out what we preach. A Christian family that wants to be a beacon must reflect what God intended for the home.

• How do we treat each other at home? What message are we sending if there is constant fighting, a lack of love, and selfishness?

• Do we resolve conflicts in a godly way? In a world of division and resentment, a family that forgives and restores relationships stands out.

• Do our children see Christ in us? Teaching them about God is one thing, but do they see faith in action through our daily choices?

“By this all people will know that you are My disciples: if you have love for one another.” (John 13:35). The first step to being a beacon is to let our home shine first. A family united in love, faith, and purpose is a testimony to those watching.

A Family That Shows What True Love Is Love is one of the most misunderstood and corrupted concepts in the modern world. Society’s version of love is conditional, selfish, and often temporary. But biblical love is sacrificial, enduring, and life-giving. A Christian family can be a beacon simply by showing what real love looks like.

• A husband who loves his wife selflessly reflects Christ’s love for the Church.

• A wife who supports and respects her husband exemplifies a godly partnership.

• Parents who nurture and discipline with wisdom reveal God’s heart for His children.

• Siblings who support and stand by each other show strength and unity.

“Love is patient, love is kind, it is not jealous; love does not brag, it is not arrogant.” (1 Corinthians 13:4). When people see a family that genuinely loves each other—not just in words but in actions—it challenges their perspective on what love is. A family that operates in God’s love brings healing to those who have only known brokenness.

A Family That Serves Others

A family that is truly a beacon is not one that focuses on itself but one that gives. The most remarkable testimony is not just in what we say but in what we do for others.

•

“Let your light shine before people so that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven.”

(Matthew 5:16)

We can open our homes to those in need, and a simple meal, a listening ear, or a word of encouragement can change someone’s life.

•Helping other families who are struggling financially, emotionally, or spiritually.

• Being active in the community—volunteering, mentoring, and supporting causes uplifting others.

“Let your light shine before people so that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 5:16). A family that lives to bless others will never go unnoticed. Society is filled with self-centred living, so when a family chooses to give rather than take, it becomes a lighthouse of hope.

A Family That Stands Strong in Faith

Faith is not just something we practice inside our home— it is something we carry into every aspect of life. A family that truly trusts in God, especially in difficult times, becomes a powerful testimony.

• When financial struggles come, do we trust in God or panic?

• When sickness strikes, do we turn to prayer or lose hope?

• When the world promotes ungodly values, do we stand firm or compromise?

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.” (Proverbs 3:5). People are watching. How we respond to challenges speaks louder than any sermon. A family that stands firm in faith

inspires those around them to seek the same unshakable foundation.

A Family That Raises Godly Children

One of the most significant impacts a family can have on society is through the next generation. The world constantly shapes children through media, education, and social pressures. However, a godly family is responsible for raising children who will stand for truth.

• Do we teach our children to love and respect others?

• Are we equipping them with wisdom and biblical principles to navigate life?

• Do they see faith in action at home, or do they hear about it on Sundays?

“Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” (Proverbs 22:6). The next generation will either continue the work of God or drift away into the ways of the world. How we raise them will determine what kind of light they bring to society.

Conclusion – Becoming a Light That Cannot Be Ignored

A family that is a true beacon does not try to blend in with society. It stands out. It challenges people’s expectations. It makes them question their way of life.

• A family that loves unconditionally makes people wonder why their family lacks love.

• A family that serves others makes people question their selfishness.

• A family that is unshakable in faith makes others desire the same strength.

Society desperately needs examples of a strong, loving, and faith-filled family. Many have given up on the idea that families can be healthy, strong, and joyful. Many believe that brokenness is just part of life. But we can show them otherwise.

“As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” (Joshua 24:15). It starts with one family choosing to be different. One family decides to love, give, stand firm, raise children with purpose, and live a life that glorifies God. Society is watching. Will our family be the light they need to see?

Why a Christian Chamber of Commerce?

In today’s ever-changing marketplace, professionals and businesses face a whole host of challenges. From economic instability to ethical dilemmas, it’s all too easy for values to get lost in the pursuit of success. This is why having a Christian Chamber of Commerce is so vital.

A Christian Chamber of Commerce isn’t just another business network. It brings together companies, professionals, entrepreneurs, seasoned executives, students, and artisans. It’s a community built on kingdom-minded principles that brings Christian values into the workplace, creating a space where faith and business meet to make a real difference.

Building a Collaborative, Kingdom-Minded Community

At its heart, a Christian Chamber of Commerce is all about collaboration. We’re here to help each other succeed, but more importantly, to ensure that everything we do reflects Christian values and ethics. It’s about equipping professionals and businesses to thrive in their industries while also having a positive impact on society.

As Christians, we’re called to be the salt and light of the world, and that includes our professional lives. This Chamber offers a platform where we can lead by example, making decisions based on integrity and fairness. It’s about more than just personal success; it’s about bringing change where it’s needed most—whether that’s in our communities, industries, or even in government.

Why We Need a Christian Chamber of Commerce

• A Unified Vision: The Christian Chamber of Commerce brings together people from all walks of life under a shared vision—demonstrating Christian values in the marketplace. It ensures that we hold ourselves to the highest ethical standards in all that we do.

• Diverse Membership: This isn’t just for businesses. It’s for anyone with a professional calling—whether you’re an executive, an entrepreneur, a student, or a craftsman. This diversity enriches the community, giving everyone a chance to learn from each other.

• Ethical Business Practices: In a world full of ethical grey areas, the Chamber stands as a beacon of how Christian values can shape the way we do business. Members are encouraged to be examples of integrity, showing the world that faith-based business decisions can lead to real, lasting success.

• Transforming the Marketplace: Our goal is to create a collaborative Christian business environment in Mauritius and beyond. It’s about bringing transformation wherever it’s needed, be it through networking, mentorship, or kingdom-minded business strategies that make a real difference.

• Supporting One Another for Growth: An important aspect of this Chamber is the support it provides to other businesses, particularly those that may not otherwise get the opportunities they deserve. Through our network and collaboration with international partners, we provide a business framework that helps businesses grow and develop. It’s about lifting each other up, enabling everyone in the community to succeed, not just individually but collectively. By fostering this kind of support, we create an environment where businesses can thrive, grow, and expand, both locally and internationally. As members of this Chamber, we have a unique role to play in influencing and transforming our nation and communities. We’re not just passive observers; we’re active participants, using our professional skills and expertise to make a meaningful impact.

Our Role as Professionals

We have a responsibility to contribute at every level, whether it’s by offering ethical leadership, mentoring others, or simply setting a godly example in the workplace. By doing so, we help shape a society that values integrity, fairness, and compassion. It’s about showing the world what it looks like to be a Christian in business—not by preaching, but by living out our values every day.

Our role is to lead with integrity, to use our influence for good, and to work towards the transformation of our nation. Whether in the boardroom or the marketplace, we are here to make a difference, driven by the principles of the Kingdom of God.

This Chamber is not just about business growth—it’s about the real-world application of faith in professional life. It’s also about creating a network where businesses that may otherwise struggle can find opportunities for growth and development through collaboration. As we move forward, we’re confident that together we can bring transformation to our industries, communities, and beyond, all while staying true to our Christian values.

Who We Are?

ICCCM & AGCCCI

Welcome to the International Christian Chamber of Commerce and Industry (ICCCM) and the African Global Christian Chamber of Commerce and Industry (AGCCCI). We are Christian organizations dedicated to promoting kingdom-minded values in the marketplace, striving to influence businesses, industries, and governments with ethical Christian leadership. Our mission is to extend the ministry beyond church walls, transforming every sphere of life in Africa and across the globe.

ICCCM and AGCCCI stand for integrity, excellence, and justice in the marketplace, fostering collaboration among Christian professionals to bring about positive change in Africa’s industries. We believe that Christian values should guide actions in all sectors— business, government, education, and more—ensuring ethical leadership and godly principles prevail. Our aim is to integrate faith into the marketplace, impacting local and international economies through Christian-driven strategies.

ICCCM and AGCCCI provide platforms for Christian businesspeople to connect, grow, and collaborate. Our activities include business forums, trade expos, and workshops to empower members with the skills needed to succeed while upholding biblical values. Through networking events, trade opportunities, leadership development, and access to funding, we aim to create a strong Christian presence in the marketplace. Our focus is to bridge the gap between the church and the marketplace, fostering a culture of Christian ethics in business practices.

At ICCCM and AGCCCI, we offer various training programs designed to equip Christian professionals with practical skills and spiritual insights. Our training sessions cover a broad spectrum of topics to ensure that members are prepared to lead in the marketplace:

• Managing Finances: Learn the fundamentals of financial management, budgeting, and forecasting to ensure business growth and sustainability.

• Sales and Marketing Strategies: Enhance your sales techniques and marketing plans to position your business effectively in the market.

• Leadership and Mentorship: Gain insights into godly leadership and how to mentor others in the workplace, fostering an environment of growth and accountability.

• Business Innovation: Explore innovative solutions to develop your business and increase productivity through technology and creative approaches.

• Kingdom Leadership at Work: Understand how to apply biblical principles to leadership in the marketplace, ensuring ethical practices and integrity in decision-making.

• Human Resources Management: Learn how to manage and mentor your team, creating a healthy and productive work environment.

• Business Ethics: Understand how to uphold Christian values in business, ensuring honesty, integrity, and fairness in all dealings.

• Christian Entrepreneurship: Learn how to start and grow a business based on Christian principles, using faith as the foundation for decision-making.

• Sharing the Gospel at Work: Discover effective ways to share your faith with colleagues and clients in a professional and respectful manner.

ICCCM and AGCCCI collaborate with key partners that share our vision of promoting Christian values in the marketplace:

1. IITBN (Integrity International Trade & Business Networks, USA)

IITBN provides expertise in business, trade, and negotiation, offering valuable resources that align with our goal of fostering Christian leadership in global trade and business. IITBN’s international presence strengthens our network and opens doors for members to access global opportunities.

2. LDI (Leadership Development Initiative)

LDI focuses on equipping Christian leaders with the skills to excel in their industries. Through our partnership, we offer leadership development programs to ensure that Christian professionals can lead with integrity and make an impactful difference in their fields.

3. HerEmpact

HerEmpact empowers women in the marketplace, offering mentorship and resources to support female entrepreneurs and professionals. Together with HerEmpact, we foster a diverse and inclusive environment where women are encouraged to take leadership roles and influence their industries with Christian values.

4. Nettobe Group

Nettobe Group serves as our trusted technology and logistics partner, ensuring that we are equipped with the technological solutions and logistical support needed to serve our members across Africa and beyond. Their expertise in technology ensures our connectivity and smooth operations as we expand.

1. Global Network

By joining ICCCM and AGCCCI, you’ll become part of a global network of Christian professionals and business leaders committed to making a positive impact in the marketplace. Whether you’re looking to expand your business or seeking mentorship and guidance, you’ll find the support you need through our expansive network.

2. Faith-Based Leadership

Our members are driven by their Christian faith and a desire to lead with integrity. At ICCCM and AGCCCI, you’ll have access to leadership development programs that empower you to lead your business or organization based on godly principles.

3. Access to Resources

As a member, you will gain access to a wide range of resources, including business development tools, mentorship, networking events, and international trade opportunities. We provide the support and training necessary to help you grow both personally and professionally.

4. Opportunities for Growth

Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a professional, or a corporate leader, ICCCM and AGCCCI offer opportunities to expand your business, enhance your leadership skills, and collaborate with like-minded individuals. You’ll also have the chance to participate in trade expos, business forums, and international conferences.

5. Support and Guidance

Joining ICCCM and AGCCCI means you’ll never have to navigate the marketplace alone. Our community is here to support you in your spiritual and professional journey, offering prayer, mentorship, and guidance every step of the way.

Why join a marketplace ministry organisation like AGCCCI

Joining a faith-based organisation like the International Christian Chamber of Commerce offers a broad spectrum of personal and corporate benefits that enhance both the spiritual and business dimensions of a believer’s life.

Personal Benefits

• Spiritual Fulfillment and Support: Members find spiritual support through regular faith-based activities, which help integrate their spiritual life with professional commitments. This spiritual backing can be exceptionally comforting during challenging business periods.

• Moral and Ethical Guidance: Organisations rooted in Christian values provide frameworks for ethical decision-making, helping members navigate business dilemmas that align with their faith.

• Personal Development: Through workshops, seminars, and other educational opportunities, members can acquire skills in business areas like finance and marketing and spiritual disciplines such as biblical leadership and stewardship.

• Networking with Like-minded Individuals: Being part of a community with similar values can lead to more professionally beneficial and spiritually enriching personal relationships.

Corporate Benefits

• Reputation and Trust: Companies associated with ethical organisations often enjoy enhanced reputational trust among customers and partners who value integrity and ethical business practices.

• Business Opportunities: Membership can open up new business opportunities through exposure to a network of potential partners, customers, and suppliers who prioritise business within their faith community.

• Corporate Training and Resources: The organisation often provides access to specialised training and resources tailored to align with Christian values to improve business practices and employee satisfaction.

• Market Expansion: For businesses looking to expand, such networks can provide vital insights and support for entering new markets, especially in regions where the organisation has a strong presence.

• Enhanced Employee Relations: Companies can benefit from promoting a work environment that respects and integrates employees’ faith and values, potentially leading to increased job satisfaction and retention.

• Social Responsibility: Community service and outreach aligned with the organisation’s missions can enhance a company’s image and fulfil corporate social responsibility goals.

Opportunities

to Put Faith into Practice

• Community Service: Many Christian business organisations actively engage in social outreach and charitable activities. Members have opportunities to serve their communities practically, demonstrating their faith in action and building stronger community ties.

• Ethical Business Practices: Members are encouraged to conduct their business dealings with high moral standards, such as fairness, integrity, and honesty, reflecting their Christian beliefs professionally.

• Spiritual Discipleship and Mentorship: Senior members often take on mentorship roles, guiding younger or less experienced members in business and spiritual matters. This discipleship can be a practical way of living out one’s faith by supporting and nurturing others.

• Advocacy and Influence: By participating in a network that promotes Christian values in the marketplace, members can advocate for ethical policies and practices in their industries, influencing broader business culture and practices.

The blend of personal growth, spiritual depth, ethical business practices, and community engagement offers a compelling case for believers and their businesses to join such organisations. These benefits foster business success and contribute to a life that fulfils higher spiritual and social callings.

• A Unified Vision: The Christian Chamber of Commerce brings together people from all walks of life under a shared vision—demonstrating Christian values in the marketplace. It ensures that we hold ourselves to the highest ethical standards in all that we do.

• Diverse Membership: This isn’t just for businesses. It’s for anyone with a professional calling—whether you’re an executive, an entrepreneur, a student, or a craftsman. This diversity enriches the community, giving everyone a chance to learn from each other.

• Ethical Business Practices: In a world full of ethical grey areas, the Chamber stands as a beacon of how Christian values can shape the way we do business. Members are encouraged to be examples of integrity, showing the world that faith-based business decisions can lead to real, lasting success.

• Transforming the Marketplace: Our goal is to create a collaborative Christian business environment in Mauritius and beyond. It’s about bringing transformation wherever it’s needed, be it through networking, mentorship, or kingdom-minded business strategies that make a real difference.

• Supporting One Another for Growth: An important aspect of this Chamber is the support it provides to other businesses, particularly those that may not otherwise get the opportunities they deserve. Through our network and collaboration with international partners, we provide a business framework that helps businesses grow and develop. It’s about lifting each other up, enabling everyone in the community to succeed, not just individually but collectively. By fostering this kind of support, we create an environment where businesses can thrive, grow, and expand, both locally and internationally.

As members of this Chamber, we have a unique role to play in influencing and transforming our nation and communities. We’re not just passive observers; we’re active participants, using our professional skills and expertise to make a meaningful impact.

We have a responsibility to contribute at every level, whether it’s by offering ethical leadership, mentoring others, or simply setting a godly example in the workplace. By doing so, we help shape a society that values integrity, fairness, and compassion. It’s about showing the world what it looks like to be a Christian in business—not by preaching, but by living out our values every day.

Our role is to lead with integrity, to use our influence for good, and to work towards the transformation of our nation. Whether in the boardroom or the marketplace, we are here to make a difference, driven by the principles of the Kingdom of God.

This Chamber is not just about business growth—it’s about the real-world application of faith in professional life. It’s also about creating a network where businesses that may otherwise struggle can find opportunities for growth and development through collaboration. As we move forward, we’re confident that together we can bring transformation to our industries, communities, and beyond, all while staying true to our Christian values.

How To Become A Member

Membership in ICCCM and AGCCCI is open to individuals and businesses from all sectors. By becoming a member, you’ll join a network of Christian professionals dedicated to ethical business practices and leadership. Our members benefit from training, networking, mentorship, and opportunities for collaboration across Africa and globally. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a corporate leader, or a professional, there’s a place for you within ICCCM and AGCCCI.

Membership Options

1. Executive Members

Executive members play an active role in shaping the organization’s direction. They can vote, stand for elections, and fully engage in leadership roles while benefiting from the full range of services and resources offered by ICCCM and AGCCCI.

2. Associate Members

Associate members benefit from training, events, and other resources, allowing them to participate in ICCCM and AGCCCI activities without holding voting rights or leadership responsibilities.

3. Young Professional Members

This membership is designed for new professionals and students who seek guidance and mentorship. Young professionals have access to training and limited content, preparing them for future leadership roles.

4. Corporate Members

Businesses of all sizes can become corporate members, benefiting from business-related opportunities, trade partnerships, and exclusive training sessions. Corporate members are also included in international networking and investment opportunities

Membership Benefits

• Networking opportunities with Christian professionals and business leaders across Africa and globally

• Access to leadership training, mentorship, and business development programs

• Opportunities to promote your business through events, trade forums, and publications

• Participation in international trade and investment initiatives

• Spiritual and professional support to ensure personal and business growth

What Drives Us ?

At the core of ICCCM and AGCCCI is a commitment to advancing God’s kingdom in the marketplace. We are driven by the belief that ethical Christian leadership can transform industries, governments, and communities. By integrating faith into business, we aim to create a just and prosperous world, where Christian values influence decisions at every level.

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