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Volume 12 | Issue 2 | NOV-DEC 2023

COMMUNITY CONNECTORS

COVER STORY

Sonali Vora,

DIWALI SPECIAL ISSUE

Poonam V Mehta,

President of Gujarat Samaj of Hong Kong

Educator and Counselor

Neena Pushkarna, Retired Civil Servant & Social Entrepreneur

Jaya Peesapathy,

Amit Wakade,

President of The Hong Kong, Telugu Samakhya

Committee Member of Maharashtra Mandal of HK

Open Doors FEATURED

Legal Guru

Let Go and Fly!

Butterfly Valley

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Aunty MVP

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GLOBETROTTER

Astrology 30

Light It Up 22

DIWALI BAZAAR

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Contests 38

Happy Diwali Wish you

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EDITOR Beloved Readers, We wish each one of you a very happy Diwali!

The festival of colors and lights is here. I am excited to see all our Hong Kong Indians in traditional attire. All of them will surely look spectacular. Especially in Tung Chung, on Diwali laxmi puja night, you will see a huge crowd of Indians all over Tung Chung. Last year, in Caribbean Coast Tung Chung, HK Police was called by someone to request all the Indians to stop burning fuljari's and also make less noise. In short, they wanted us to go back home and finish this Diwali get-together. Women in colorful sarees and men in kurta-pyjamas are, in fact, not easy to recognize. Those friendly gestures, smiles, and laughter, and everyone wishing each other Happy Diwali with a hug, is an ecstatic feeling for sure. This year let's celebrate Diwali with the same zest and zeal. Forget & Forgive!

In this Diwali special issue, I wanted to cover each and every community leader of Hong Kong but unfortunately, my team couldn't find enough time to reach out to all of them. Also, a few of the community leaders prefer to stay under the blanket and don't want to make themselves famous. I think every community leader of Hong Kong deserves that accolade of honor and gratitude from all the Indians living in HK. Read the cover story and you'll surely know one of them, this is our A-Desiflava way to thank them on behalf of everyone here in HK. A Big Hug and Thanks to all of you!

Feature article on DSC International School was indeed a tough one to do.

There were so many alumni parents and school pass-outs who reverted back to me when we approached them to give us their testimonials for the school.

Each and everyone praised the school, faculty, and everything there. I realized that DSC International is exceptional for sure.

Aunty MVP column with respected Poonam Mehta Maam has been going strong for the past 8 years. A new and regular column called Legal Guru by a leading solicitor in Hong Kong is introduced in this issue. Also, our regulars in Globetrotter, Astrology, and Contests will surely be a good read.

Once again, A-Desiflava events, magazine & trading business teams would like to wish you and your loved ones a happy, healthy, and prosperous Diwali.

A-Desiflava magazine needs your support, contributions, and interest. Our team is growing and starting next year there will be some new and fresh faces joining our magazine team. So please support my new gang!

Happy Reading.

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16 Open Doors Featured

22 Butterfly Valley

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Globetrotter

24 Let Go and Fly! Spirituality

26 Legal Guru Did You Know

28 Aunty MVP 30 In the Stars Astrology

36 LIGHT IT UP Diwali Bazaar

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Community Connectors "We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men."

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n this special and exclusive article A-Desiflava magazine features some of our community binders and connectors who are working relentlessly towards keeping our Indian communities of Hong Kong together and well connected with their roots back in India. Gujarati’s, Punjabi’s, Telugu’s, Maharashtrian’s and many other Indian community people are working together in their respective groups to maintain their original spirits of festivals, religious events and gatherings. Alongside these community leaders we are also featuring some known community leaders of Hong Kong who are helping our Indian community people with many social and professional needs in HK. It’s the combined support of these community and caste based group leaders that we have a big entertained and enlightened Indian community in Hong Kong.

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During this stay in HK, I realised the need to develop a helpline for the Indian Diaspora and others who move into HK for various reasons to fulfill their dreams.

I am glad that I could be a trendsetter in my chosen fields to inspire and empower those who find themselves with nothing better to do. I convey the same through my web radio programs too.

Jaya Peesapathy,

President of The Hong Kong, Telugu Samakhya A Well known Radio Presenter, Teacher and Founding President of The Hong Kong, Telugu Samakhya came to HK in 2002 along with my husband and son, which was a turning point in my life. A turning point to my skills, strengths and strategies in moving along with the flow of life. It stands true with many of our lives, yet the opportunities created by the situations was probably possible only in Hong Kong. Now serving as the Founding President of The Hong Kong Telugu Samakhya, serving as Committee Member in a couple of NGO's promoting culture locally and serving as a co founder Rotary Community Corps of Lantau, Hong Kong.

Though being from an Insurance industry (with a decades experience in Life Insurance Corp of India) or as a Centre Manager of NIIT in India, Hong Kong paved way into Teaching profession which i enjoyed thoroughly working with the Infants and Toddlers for over a decade.

1) H ow are you keeping your community connected and bonded?

Thanks to Desiflava for the opportunity. I strongly believe in these three sayings, 1) ‘Be the change you want to see in the world’ by Mahatma Gandhi 2) ‘Alone we can do so little, together we can do so much’ by Helen Keller.

3) ‘I am only one, but still I am one, I cannot do everything, but I can still do something, I will not refuse to do something I can do’ by Helen Keller.

These are my motivational strengths and often when I feel low, I read them again and again and say to myself, that when they could do it, I too can do a little……!

There was a time, when I had looked for support from the community, and fortunately though a bit late, I could still get it. Somewhere then, deep in my mind I felt the need to have a helpline, where one could reach easily and thus put myself into that task.

Primarily as the Founding President of the Telugu Community from the twin states of Andhra Pradesh

and Telangana, I am trying my best to serve them along with my team and through this organisation, connect to the various diasporas at large through cultural programmes or through social activities.

2) How did you support our community during the difficult COVID-19 times in HK? Truly global tough times !! It was during complete lockdown, when some of our Members lost their dear one’s and were checking with me, asking for means to go to India, which was then next to impossible. At that moment knowing that all I could do was to be of moral support to them and keep checking with them regularly and give updates of the possible travel relaxations and routes.

Similarly many of them were then on vacation in India and wanted to come back to Hong Kong, loosing patience as few of the families were in either of the countries and wanted to be together in these tough times. What I learnt was that providing food, medicines etc is much easier while they are in quarantine, but it is really challenging and emotionally tough when you have to give them moral support on either a phone call or video call! There were days when I could hardly sleep as I couldn’t stop visualising their sufferings and incoming calls. I would like to share one such situation. This was about a family from a Southern Town in Andhra Pradesh, the Gentleman had joined his duties a few months ago and once he was settled and his family Visas were ready, he invited them to join him in Hong Kong. His

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family was travelling outside India for the first time and they had to travel from their Town to a Metro city with a special Covid pass and then fly to Hong Kong with a Covid Test report which shows negative for each of them.

On arrival while being tested again at the airport, their little daughter of 4yrs tested positive. She was immediately taken away into isolation, without her mother……… and the rest we all can imagine and understand the child’s trauma, the pain and agony of her parents!!

Once our Government started having chartered flights with compulsory quarantine at government facilities, then people would start asking help for food items like milk, fruits etc, clothes, medicines etc on our Support groups.

By then we were already Volunteering along with other Volunteers of the ‘HK Support Group’ which was managed by an amazing power house of generosity Ms. Kunj Gandhi and Team.

Since our diaspora is large at Tung Chung, and the daily trips to quarantine facilities were increasing, we decided to pool some Volunteers and make 2 trips a day. We collected their requirements a day earlier and distributed them to the Volunteers who would purchase them from Supermarkets and Pharmacies, while the delivery Volunteers would drive their own vehicles and deliver goods. This was reduced, once the travellers were allowed to choose Hotels for their quarantine. Anyone alone could not have done this, it was a Teamwork and very

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satisfying and strengthening too as you could see the Community come together to help, irrespective of any differences. We made a good number of friends through our Volunteers and from the people in quarantine too, isn’t that beautiful !!

3) Tell us about yourself and what motivates you to serve our community?

Once away from home, in a new country, most of us face basically the similar difficulties in settling down, and at a later part we eventually get so engrossed in our work and get busy with the daily routines that we miss visiting our home and family for various unexplained reasons. To put in exact words, like Kargil Hero Captain Vikram Batra says ‘Yeh Dil Maange More’, but we are helpless. This is one of the reasons I think bonds us all together, but just need an opportunity.

Through The Hong Kong Telugu Samakhya (THKTS), I try my best with our Team to be like a Family to our Members with the motto “Mana Kosam Manam'' which means “We are for ourselves”, we need to help each other as our families are far away from us. Similarly, with the help of Volunteers, I try to help through the Support groups too. Every year in July for the past few years, we have been celebrating Vijay Diwas, where we celebrate the joyous moment together through Cultural Programme when most of us share similar emotions for our Matru Bhoomi!!

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Hong Kong as our Karma Bhoomi has offered us a good life and much more, a recognition for our own. We all strive to repay our onus towards “Janma Bhoomi”, to which we owe our existence through the resources we attain through our “Karma Bhoomi”. I believe that we should serve similarly to our Karm Bhoomi too, which has given us the ability, capacity and resources to be successful. Thus we, THKTS, and the Support group of Tung Chung, at regular intervals help few of our NGO’s supporting Refugees, Asylum seekers and Migrant Workers in Hong Kong, I also serve on the Rotary e-Club of Lantau, which also serves the most needy Aged Residents and Ethnic Minorities at regular intervals.

There are many kind hearted and very generous human beings amongst us who have been serving different needs of people through their selfless and relentless services with great resilience and diligence, they are a great motivation to me and many others…. My humble and heartfelt Salutations to them All _/\_ 4) Any difficulties you face in putting together your activities and initiatives in HK? No, not really. I believe where there's a will there’s a way and that you aspire from Mother Nature and she weaves a path through all the hurdles as said by The Alchemist, “When you want something, the whole universe conspires in order for you to achieve it”. Hong

Jayaji at NAAC Sub Centre in TC with HKUST Kong is very resourceful and well connected, which helps to serve with ease and comfort.

5) Tell us how the readers of A-Desiflava magazine can support you in order to serve our community?

That’s very thoughtful!! I am sure post Covid we have many such help and support groups working tirelessly, yet I humbly request our readers to initiate help from their zonal districts to the most needy members of various Communities across Hong Kong.

6) Please provide the best way for someone to reach out to you?

I can be reached through common friends, through social media handles and ofcourse my email rjjaya18@gmail.com. http://thkts.weebly.com/ FB: https://www.facebook. com/TeluguSamakhyaHK/ INSTA : https://www. instagram.com/teluguhk/ Jai Hind!

Neena Pushkarna, Retired Civil Servant & Social Entrepreneur

Neena Pushkarna, originated from India and completed my studies at Delhi University. I embarked on my career at B. I. T. S. Pilani in Rajasthan, India, before relocating to Nairobi, Kenya.

There, I worked as a High School English teacher at a reputable institution.

In 1992, I moved to Hong Kong, where I found further opportunities in education, eventually becoming a Civil Servant. Upon retirement, I transitioned into the role of a High Court Interpreter and Translator, and later earned the position of President of the Hong Kong Interpreters and Translators' Association.

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My interest in social service and counselling has been a consistent theme throughout my life. I have a strong inclination to support the disadvantaged and the elderly, a commitment that has been recognised through several awards in community service in Hong Kong.I maintain the view that age is not a limiting factor when it comes to achieving one's objectives, provided there is a positive mindset and selfassurance.

1) How are you keeping your community connected and bonded?

Indeed, humans are inherently social beings who thrive in communal settings.

As such, the "sharing and caring" ethos should be central to our interactions.

Fostering a robust network within a community necessitates an open-minded approach, coupled with social awareness and a genuine interest in the well-being of others. In my various roles as President, Vice President, Advisor, Judge, and member of multiple associations, I orchestrate an array of social, religious, and cultural events aimed at engendering social bonds that, in turn, result in strengthened friendships and community cohesion. These interactions serve as platforms for mutual trust, facilitating the sharing of experiences in a manner that leads to transformative growth.

Moreover, I endeavour to address the challenges facing my community by adopting a responsive, reciprocal approach centred on empathy and concern.

A broad network, amicable

relations, and a cooperative spirit are, I believe, fundamental to maintaining a tightly-knit and harmonious community.

2) How did you support our community during the difficult COVID- 19 times in Hong Kong?

During the arduous period of the COVID-19 pandemic, the exigency for altruism and communal support reached unprecedented levels.

Accordingly, I undertook a multifaceted approach to uplift the community's spirits and ensure their wellbeing. I regularly produced video content in multiple languages, including Hindi, Punjabi, and English, to fortify the collective morale and advocate for responsible actions such as COVID-19 vaccinations, stringent hygiene practices, and communal solidarity.

My role as a community leader and my established liaisons with various organisations, Legislative Council members, district councillors, and nongovernmental organisations made me strategically positioned to facilitate a large-scale distribution of essential items. I coordinated the allocation of approximately 3,000 testing kits, 6,000 face masks, 1,500 bottles of hand sanitiser, and additional protective equipment like face shields and gloves. This undertaking necessitated meticulous organisation and timely execution to maximise its impact.

The pandemic's far-reaching implications also affected

our expatriate community, particularly those from India who found themselves stranded due to widespread flight cancellations. This situation led to a plethora of complications, ranging from academic interruptions for students and job losses due to extended absence to medical treatment discontinuation for the elderly. Recognising the gravity of these issues, I orchestrated numerous meetings with political dignitaries and Legislative Council members. Eventually, these dialogues culminated in a successful negotiation with the Hong Kong government, which then organised repatriation flights and quarantine facilities for our stranded community members.

In summary, my efforts during this challenging period were directed towards not just immediate relief but also long-term solutions, thereby contributing to our community's overall resilience and well-being.

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3) Tell us about yourself and what motivates you to serve our community?

I hail from India, where I received my foundational education and initiated my professional career. Initially, I took up employment in Nairobi, Kenya, where I served as a High School English teacher at a highly esteemed institution.

Subsequently, I relocated to Hong Kong, fuelled by an enduring passion for education, and became a Civil Servant in the capacity of a Secondary School teacher. Upon retiring from civil service, I joined the Hong Kong Judiciary, where I secured a position as a High Court registered Interpreter and Translator, liaising with courts, police, immigration, and other governmental departments.

Owing to my unyielding commitment and extensive experience, I ascended to the role of the President of the Hong Kong Interpreters and Translators Association.

I am guided by Mahatma Gandhi's axiom, 'Live as if you were to die tomorrow; learn

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and serve as if you were to live forever.' These words have profoundly influenced my ethos and are deeply embedded in my cognitive and emotional faculties. Since childhood, my predilection for philanthropy has been conspicuous. My commitment to service remained constant even after relocating to Hong Kong, whether aiding the impoverished, resolving familial conflicts, or assisting in educational endeavours. In a freelance capacity, I continued to serve the community by facilitating educational opportunities, resolving disputes, and securing employment for individuals.

Such unwavering resolve did not go unnoticed; in 2008, I received the singular honour of being the first non-Chinese recipient of a medal and award for Community Service from the Home Secretary of Hong Kong. My endeavours further received governmental recognition in 2009 when I was honoured by the Chief Executive of Hong Kong for my community service contributions.

My unflagging commitment to community service has provided me with an expansive portfolio, replete with positions of responsibility and influence across a multitude of esteemed organisations and social groups. In recognition of my efforts, I have garnered numerous accolades, among which titles such as 'Wonder Woman' and 'Pioneer of the Society' are notably prominent.

After decades of ceaseless community service, my enthusiasm remains steadfast. My intent to make

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a substantive difference in the lives of those around me is as unwavering as ever, and I remain committed to my community and its welfare.

4) Any difficulties you face in putting together your activities and initiatives in Hong Kong?

In the realm of leadership, encountering obstacles and complexities is par for the course. I, too, grapple with various challenges, ranging from resource constraints and funding shortfalls to objections and resistance from stakeholders.

I employ a diplomatic approach to navigating these intricate situations and maintain equanimity.

Confusion occasionally arises within the team or organization; however, I address these uncertainties through the promotion of transparent dialogue. By fostering an environment that encourages open communication, I am able to galvanise team members, thereby empowering them to surmount challenges collectively. This approach has proven effective in optimizing performance and driving the successful realisation of our goals.

to facilitate collective growth. To fortify the social fabric, individuals within the community should not merely coexist but actively seek to build symbiotic relationships characterised by cooperation and trust. These elements are critical not only for reinforcing community bonds, but also for preserving collective dignity.

6) Please provide the best way for someone to reach out to you?

Certainly, I possess a highly open-minded disposition and am keenly committed to offering my expertise for the betterment of others. One may utilise various channels such as telephonic communication, WhatsApp, or even Facebook Messenger to establish contact for collaborations or consultations with me. Each of these platforms offers a convenient means for swift and reliable engagement with me. I remain committed to serving humanity.

1) How are you keeping your community connected and bonded?

To me, a community could mean family and friends, neighbours, or people that you know through activities like sports, neighbourhood, dinner, and cultural events.

As someone has said, there is beauty and power in unity.

I’m instrumental in binding all the members of my neighbourhood with over 300 ladies, serving as a president to the community with over 300 families, and taking the lead in planning family get-togethers.

I jump on each opportunity I get to participate in community service activities.

2) How did you support our community during the difficult COVID-19 times in HK?

5) Tell us how the readers of A- Desiflava magazine support you in order to serve our community?

In an interconnected society, it becomes imperative to transcend divisions based on social standing, occupational rank, or linguistic barriers.

The cornerstone of a robust community is the mutual respect for individual values coupled with a commitment

I am an accomplished individual with a passion for teaching and community service.We call HongKong - Homekong since 2 decades. My daughter is perusing law in London.

My husband is my strength.

Throughout my journey, my approach in life has been to be positive in every situation.

I firmly believe in basic core values of life like honesty, and compassion. I find great joy in connecting with people, exchanging ideas, and contributing to the growth of our community.

Sonali Vora,

President of Gujarat Samaj of Hong Kong

Sonali Vora SAY’s….

I am thrilled to be covered by A-Desi-Flava.

While the social limits during the pandemic have caused many to feel a loss of community, we tried to create plenty of ways to rebuild and maintain these connections.

Thanks to Zoom,... we got connected over very basic things like family games, housie. After some relaxation, we realised that we had missed

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physical activities due to the lockdown, we started hiking and walking group. It created a support system to help everyone stick to regular exercise and explore beautiful Hong Kong. Discovered so many Hong Kong trials during Covid 19. Also our Samaj. The Gujarat Samaj Ltd. organised community classes for different age groups like make-up classes, glass dessert, chess and coding through Zoom keep thus being creative and it also helped us boost emotional wellbeing..

3) Tell us about yourself and what motivates you to serve our community.

I grew up in the Bombay era but now I call it Mumbai and Bombay interchangeably. For two decades, my family and I have been resident of this vibrant city Hong Kong. I hold two Post Graduate degrees in Marketing and Education.

I decided to study English because I have always loved reading and writing. I am passionate about teaching.

Being from Mumbai, the city has taught me that diversity can coexist and that there is never a dull moment. Growing up with Bengali, Sikh, and Punjabi etc. friends and having travelled the world, I hold no resistance towards a different mindset.

My mindset is always about finding a solution with a smile and holding everyone together. Contributing and binding people together is a satisfying experience for me.

4) Any difficulties you face in putting together your activities and initiatives in HK.

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Poonam V Mehta, Educator and Counselor

Yes.. Of course…but for this, I would like to thank my parents.

Any obstacle, my parents have trained us (my sister and me) to deal with it all! Manners and respect were the core of our upbringing and I bring mine up with the same morals. There is space for everyone and we all can co-exist. I would like to believe that I am Solutionoriented, which helps me to find a way. for eg. for one of our community events last year when the city started relaxing the curbs we started by having Garba Evening 2022.

Never before like this was done before but we organised Garba in 2 sessions on the same day. The afternoon session was for kids with parents and the evening for adults to accommodate as many Samaj members as possible given the Covid 19 regulations on a maximum number of people allowed to be gathered at the venue. Members enjoyed dancing and we could cater to the maximum member possible.

5) Tell us how the readers of A-Desiflava magazine can support you to serve our community.

First a big thank you to A-Desiflava, Gaurav for this honour and coverage, who himself is a big community

connecter. I would love to let everyone know that helping others kindles happiness. Doesn’t have to be monetarily, reach out to people in any possible way.

Now that I serve as the president, of The Gujarat Samaj Ltd, I would like to call out all the Gujarati in Hong Kong to join the Samaj which better channel than A-Desiflava magazine, which has the biggest reach among Indians in Hong Kong.

Since last 50 years, the Samaj has offered fun-filled activities as well as cultural and community events for all age groups throughout the year. We all have our small groups of family and friends but it is always great to stay connected. Join over to pass, and enjoy our heritage, our language, our food and our Sanskriti with young kids.

We are looking at an opportunity to organise an event with A-Desiflava. Let us collaborate soon. :) 6) Please provide the best way for someone to reach out to you.

One can contact me at sonali2711@yahoo.com

Trained as an qualified educator and counselor, I have successfully setup and run several schools. As a committed educator, I am keen to continue contributing in this field. I am generally regarded as a personable and committed educator who can build rapport and trust at all levels within a school community. I bring to my profession a high level of dedication and a strong commitment to excellence in all that I do. I thrive on working in a collegiate setting and am known as a supportive and reliable colleague. I continue to work as an Early Childhood Educator because I enjoy working with children during the most formative years of their holistic development, to enhance their self-esteem and social interactions with others. My experience to date has fully justified my career choice. My goal is to use my lifelong learning to impact and make a difference to every child’s life.

• President of Be the Change HK Organization (www. bethechangehk.org) • Core member of Sage Foundation Mumbai India • Trustee of Dreamz Home Orphanage Mumbai (a home for street children and child beggars)

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1) How are you keeping your community connected and bonded?

As the saying goes: “Seek not what your country can do for you; but rather seek what you can do for your country.” This quote highlights the importance of taking an active part in building stronger bonds and staying connected within the community. Being a role model to others helps in strengthening stronger relationships with the community.

Besides, connecting with people and helping others is my intent and purpose, therefore, it comes very naturally to me. However, one cannot achieve something entirely by oneself; I am fortunate to receive great support from friends and, in particular, my family. Having said that, the community has immense trust in my service as an educator and counsellor helping ethnic minorities in Hong Kong, for which I am very grateful.

2) How did you support our community during the difficult COVID-19 times in HK? I guess COVID-19 was very hard for people around the world. In Hong Kong it was all the more tough.

Many of our students and families were in great fear.

As well as the academics, many parents lost their jobs so survival was difficult for them. First, we ensured they had food on the table.

Many well-wishers donated groceries, juice boxes, soap bars, shampoo bottles

missed school and their friends, at the same time, travel time was saved and they could sleep a bit longer.

Poonam ji in Seminar with Parents at the CCC Kwei Wah Shan College, HK napkins, blankets. Huge boxes of masks, ‘RAT’ kits were also donated, which was of immense help to many families.

This transformation was very valuable to children especially spending time with their fathers. They learnt household chores and learnt to become more responsible.

Besides this, we scheduled online tutorials. Some of our students found it difficult because they did not have access to internet, so we ensured this service was provided. In addition, the transition from classroom learning to home learning was very challenging for both teachers and students alike.

Students were exempted from mid-term exams, which was a great relief!

On the flip side, we all learned a great lesson – families bonded well. Normally student’s entire school life passes mechanically where there is no ownership, whereas during COVID-19, there was more awareness of life beyond school life, appreciation and gratitude became their mantra. They knew their boundaries, challenges and sacrifices.

3) Tell us about yourself and what motivates you to serve our community.

The magnitude of all this is service. My goal has always been to seek and uplift the distressed, disadvantage and vulnerable, irrespective of caste, creed or religion. I believe in caring for the needy with compassion and love.

Gandhi Ji taught us nonviolence and truth. Shashtri Ji directed us to live a life of sacrifice. This has been registered in my mind – what a fabulous message by great leaders of India. My salute to these legends.

4) Any difficulties you face in putting together your activities and initiatives in HK? I learned something from…

"Coming together is a beginning, staying together is progress, and working together is success.” Henry Ford.

5) Please provide the best way for someone to reach out to you.

One can connect me @ poonam@bethechangehk.org Mob: 9235-6628

We must all indulge in acts of giving back. Humanity arrives from unselfish acts of compassion. This journey had not been easy until I liberated myself from any expectation.

Life is an opportunity which comes your way just once – grab this prospect.

Experience it and write it down. Each stage of my life is a new chapter. On each blank paper a new plan is designed by the Almighty.

We had online workshops for parents who were going through depression, some of whom were at breaking point.

Our good actions may seem invisible, but they leave a trail that is engraved on the hearts of others.

When children were asked the pros and cons of pandemic time, they were honest in saying even though they

During my childhood I remembered two great Indian souls – Mahatma Gandhi and Lal Bahadur Shashtri.

Amit Wakade,

Committee Member of Maharashtra Mandal of HK An Investment Banking Technology Professional, came in Hong Kong in November 2010 from JP Morgan Mumbai to join JP Morgan Hong Kong.

Got married to Rajshree Wakade in May 2011, and well settled in Hong Kong Now at Lohas Park, TKO. I have been part of Maharashtra Mandal since, March 2011, became

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1) How are you keeping your community bonded?

We at Maharashtra Mandal have many events for our member community namely 1. Holi Celebrations with Cultural Aspects and Festival Of Colours on Outdoors Beach 2. Maharashtra Din (Day) Celebrating May Day with Cultural Activities like Drama, Skit, Dance Performances, Other Talent shows 3. Ganesh Utsav - Ganesh Chaturthi with 4 day events Bhakti Sangeet Concert , Atharvasheersha Reciting, Visarjan 4. Sports day events, Outdoor and Indoor sports events and competitions 5. Diwali Celebrations - Grand Celebrations with multiple performances and games, an eventful evening We as a committee (Mugdha, Rahul and me) have one motto, inclusion and Equality for every one our community.

2) How did you Support your Community during the diffficult Covid-19 time of HK? It was a difficult time with many restrictions ON always for 3 years in a row.

We moved to digital and online community bonding exercise We as MMHK committee arranged multiple Zoom sessions for community including

1. Sessions on experience of Quarrantine and dos and don't during quarrantine informal chit chat sessions with our beloved members 2. Sharing each other Lockdown experiences and sharing learnings from the lockdown

Myself an Information Technology Professional with Investment Banking Domain, arrived in Hong Kong in Nov 2010 from JP Morgan Mumbai to JP Morgan Hong Kong and now working for Barclays Capital Asia Limited since Nov. 2022.

3. Sessions on Equality from Hong Kong Equal Opportunity Commission Diginitaries (https://www.eoc.org.hk/en) on how to tackle different Equal Opportunity issues in HK social life and corporate life.

I got married to Rajshree Kulkarni (now, Mrs. Rajshree Wakade) in 2011, we have a son Adheesh Wakade, he is 9 years young kid. We are members of Maharashtra Mandal Hong Kong since 2011.

4. Sessions on Legal proceedings on Will Preparation for India and HK for members and had a tie up with a legal firm for allowing Will Making in a discounted rate with the help of Members who have legal background and a guest Legal Expert.

I joined Maharashtra Mandal Hong Kong in 2011 in a MMHK Holi 2011 event, I found my Marathi, Maharashtra and homely community and I was welcomed by the then President Rupesh Patade and Secretary Nitin Rajkuwar in 2011.

5. We arranged once off Lunch and Talk sessions when restrictions reduced for gathering, that was first open gathering we during Covid 19 restrictions.

I feel, we can give back our community what we know from our culture , experience of Hong Kong as an inclusive place and preserve our culture at the same time while serving community.

6. We had a tie up with a travel agency (Fly High Travels) to arrange trips to India, Cruise to Souch china Sea and Booking Quarrantine Hotels in Hong Kong 7. With God's Grace, we could celebrate Ganesh Utsav all the restricted years with restricted attendance and with mask restrictions ON, same for Diwali, we could arrange Diwali in Covid 19 years as well but with restrictions All these activities helped us to keep a strong bond with our community.

3) Tell us about yourself and what motivates you to server our community?

4) Any difficulties you face in putting together your activities and initiatives in HK? Yes, we do face difficulties especially when we have to book venues for our cultural programs for Maharashtra Din in May, it is not easy to get a community hall reserved even when you try everything before 4 months in advance, there is always uncertainty.

Also, when we arrange indoor sports day, we have to plan the venue booking with LCSD (government facilities, 1 week in advance), this becomes really challenging.

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Also, we have to make sure, we always follow any restrictions and guidelines by government on gathering, especially in Era of Covid 19 restrictions was challenging to arrange gathering with restrictions.

Now, we have 140+ Families as members our community, so, need to manage expectations from everyone.

5) Tell us how readers of A-Desiflava magazine can support you in order to serve our Community?

The biggest support A Desiflava magazine readers can provide is if we can get some options for venues for different cultural programs like Maharashtra Din, Ganesh Utsav Bhakti Sangeet Concert etc. for nominal cost or if we can get some support to book the Government Community Halls for such events.

6) Please provide the best way for someone to reach out to you?

For reaching out Maharashtra Mandal Community, one can reach us via email maharashtramandalhk@gmail. com For reaching out to me personally amitc.wakade@gmail.com Mobile : +852 54407548

Article by : An article compiled, conceptualised and organised by the A-Desiflava Magazine team.

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PEN DOORS What makes DSC International School alumni so prepared for the future?

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ver 37 years ago, DSC International School (DSC) was founded on the belief that every child is unique and that there is not just one path to success. “Dream!

Succeed! Celebrate!”

Embodied in their school motto, DSC is dedicated to ensuring every student is equipped with the skills and

knowledge for not only postsecondary schools, but to pursue their dreams and face the world as global leaders.

From medical doctors to financial bankers, name an industry or profession and you will be sure to find a DSC alumnus.

Founded in 1986, the Taikoo Shing based international

private school is well-known for its Canadian curriculum and diverse student body.

With a teaching team of over 90% Canadian-trained teachers and approximately 1,200 students enrolled from Early Years (4-yearsold) through Grade 12 on the same campus, students benefit from individual

mentorship and a strong school spirit. “Our tight-

knit community is our strength,” says Principal of Secondary, Mr. Allan Morrison, “our students know that there is always someone to go to for advice and help – whether a fellow student, a teacher, or an upper-year mentor.”

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learning, and perseverance through challenges. “STEAM learning is incorporated into every grade level,” Morrison notes, “beyond a passion for the sciences, STEAM also teaches students how to approach, persevere and solve problems.” Through a combination of academic rigour and community outreach, DSC teaching staff carefully foster a love of learning and perseverance through challenges in students, inspiring them to take action for their own future.

Unlike other well-known curriculums such as the IBDP or GCSE, the Ontario Secondary School Diploma (OSSD) curriculum focuses on flexibility from an early stage.

The Individual Pathways Program beginning in

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The DSC community is built around the principles of inclusivity, kindness, student success, and extracurricular enrichment; this is reflected in its plans and initiatives to produce well-rounded lifelong learners. Starting in the Early Years program, students are encouraged to not only excel academically, but also to inquire and learn through passion-based projects. As they grow up, DSC students pick up essential life and social skills: creativity, collaboration, entrepreneurial

Grade 7 is designed to help students understand their aptitudes, passions, and interests; to better prepare them for post-secondary studies. “Career and life planning is a core feature of our extended homeroom activities,” says Morrison, “and parents play a crucial role in the student’s success.”

Guidance counsellors and homeroom teachers work together with the student and their families to explore what they are interested in, and the possible university programs and careers they can pursue post-graduation.

The transparent process allows parents to be involved in crafting an individualized course of study and rest assured that their child is fully prepared to pursue their dreams.

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Take the unique co-op program for example. At DSC, career planning isn’t just theoretical, students have the opportunity to test their skills and interests in a realworld setting through the co-op program. Using the knowledge and skills they developed at school, students spend an afternoon of Semester 2 in a community work placement related to their area of specialization gaining relevant work experience and earning two credits toward graduation.

What better way to decide if you are passionate about a career than to experience it? Our students have been placed in business, hotel management, education, and law; the only limit is their imagination.

As for students interested in the sciences, they have plenty of opportunities as well. Beyond course offerings, DSC also offers STEAM camps in summer programs and its annual Experiential Learning Week. To promote and highlight DSC’s science focus, honour roll students in a science specialization who meet a series of rigorous academic, community

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service, and life experiences are recognized as Scientific Innovators as part of the OSSD+ Signature program.

This is well reflected in the graduation class – around 55% of last year’s graduation class enrolled in a STEAMrelated university program.

After the broad core curriculum, students are able to specialize in their areas of interest in Grades 11 and 12.

“Our flexibility is a strength,” says Morrison, “our students can master content and skills to a much greater depth in comparison to a broader survey course and are wellprepared for university.” In 2023, 100% of the graduating class were accepted into universities around the globe, with the vast majority receiving offers for their target program and university.

The top three destinations for DSC graduates are Canada, the United Kingdom, and Hong Kong. “The University of Toronto and the University of British Columbia are always popular,” Morrison notes, “we also

consistently get graduates who opt to attend the University of London, Kings College London, University of Manchester and the University College London.”

Of course, he adds that many graduates may prefer to stay home in Hong Kong. There are DSC alumni at all the schools in Hong Kong, with a special focus on The University of Hong Kong and Hong Kong

University of Science and Technology.

“DSC offers a safe and inclusive environment for students to grow and discover their dreams,” Morrison says. “Our students are well-prepared to pursue their dreams – no matter where it takes them – and make a difference in their local and global communities.”

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Meet DSC International School Alumni Lavanya Venkatesh

Lavanya Venkatesh currently works as a doctor in the UK, having recently finished the foundation program (intern year equivalent) in August.

She cites her teachers at DSC International School and the biology program as being key factors in her decision to enter the medical field. “I was fortunate to have had dedicated and inspirational teachers during my time at DSC,” Ventakesh says. “Their commitment to fostering a supportive learning environment and their encouragement and mentorship played a significant role in my personal and academic growth.”

At DSC, Venkatesh was a prominent member of many clubs and extracurricular activities, including the global issues club which ran food drives for the local community, as well as the volleyball and badminton teams. “DSC exposed me to

a diverse group of friends from around the world expanding my global perspective,” says Venkatesh. “The school’s nurturing and encouraging environment instilled a lifelong curiosity in me.”

As for future students hoping to enter the medical field, Venkatesh offers a bit of advice: “Pursuing a career in medicine, or any field for that matter, is a rewarding but demanding journey. It’s crucial to understand that the reality of being a doctor may differ from what is often portrayed in popular media. Despite the challenges, I genuinely love what I do and couldn’t envision a different path. My advice to students is to follow your dreams instead of following the crowd. Do something that you think is worthwhile.”

Nikey Khemchandani

Nikey Khemchandani is an entrepreneur and technologist

who founded and currently operates three different businesses around the globe: BSD Education – An EdTech business (CTO / Co-Founder) Collective Global – A global consultancy (Founder) DearMx – Inclusive fashion e-commerce (CTO / CoFounder) He cites his time at DSC International School as being crucial to helping him gain the confidence and skills to navigate his future and fostering in him a life-long love for learning that “really allowed [him] to flourish and articulate [his] strengths when entering the working world.” Khemchandani added that DSC helped him gain a strong understanding of his own strengths and weaknesses, and helped him find confidence in his identity.

“I realized later in life [that this level of self-discovery] played a key role in [my] being able to navigate friendships, engage in activities, and excel in my career.” In addition, DSC was a microcosm of the working world he entered later: “Being surrounded by diverse communities within school helped me understand how to work with people in numerous countries and adapt to different environments and cultures.”

Khemchandani also praised the school’s faculty members and the level of student agency. “Student agency was at the forefront of everything happening at DSC,” he said.

“From choosing your own subjects to being guided to self-identifying capstone projects, the flexibility was extremely refreshing.”

Khemchandani found a lifelong love of the legal system in his Law class, and was able to strengthen his technology skills in the computer science class. He also enjoyed the lack of bell curve system which he called “outdated” and “failing”. Instead, teachers gave feedback on every piece of work and treated him as an individual, rather than comparing him to his peers.

DSC is known for its many extracurricular activities; and Khemchandani took full advantage of it by joining the drama club, various sports teams, and more. “Being part of something was a big part of the experience at DSC,” Khemchandani reminisced.

“From sports teams to graduation committees and cultural experiences, there were so many opportunities being introduced to students regularly to be part of something.” He remembers forming a new cricket team with his friends after realizing there was no existing team at DSC. “These hold fond memories for me.”

“Things like bullying and violence were frowned upon even by fellow students,” Khemchandani remembered. “[DSC] was quite a nurturing environment.” He also vividly recalls being “pleasantly surprised when [his] teachers asked about [his] thoughts on topics and would often sit down with

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[him] to navigate some of the challenges [he] faced.” At DSC, students and faculty members worked together to help students explore their interests and find their dreams. Khemchandani’s teachers “would notice if I was struggling even without having to reach out. I’d say I received great support from the faculty members.”

For students looking into thinking about future careers or programs, Khemchandini offers some advice and encouragement: “You grow up sometimes being advised to focus and hone a narrow set of skills or prepare for a particular career. With the enhancements in technology such as AI, I highly recommend students consider growing a diverse set of skills to take advantage of what will clearly be a more technological and digitally enhanced future. Maybe take a subject that is a bit far away from your normal approach, you never know what you will discover about yourself through new opportunities.

Jump into chances that allow you to strengthen your soft skills as well, they will play a bigger role in your future than you may imagine.”

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Students received a great deal of personal attention from the faculty members at DSC. - Prashant Goel

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Prashant Goel

Prashant Goel is a private banker at Bank Julius Baer and Co. Ltd. providing comprehensive financial advice to high-net-worth individuals and families to achieve their financial goals. Previously, he has worked in several different industries, including consumer electronics sourcing and distribution, travel, supply chain consulting, and asset management. Goel credits his holistic education at DSC International School for opening up career paths for him, allowing him to choose whatever career he wanted to pursue. His diverse classes in finance, economics, and STEM gave him a solid foundation and taught him valuable skills in communication, problemsolving, and teamwork.

Goel praised DSC for its flexibility in allowing students to choose subjects per their interests and needs. He didn’t know what he wanted to study in university at the

time, but DSC allowed him to take a diverse number of courses rather than forcing him to specialize. Goel also remembered that the “faculty was friendly and supportive.

Students received a great deal of personal attention from the faculty members at DSC.” For example, the school allowed him to take courses at his own pace, letting him take some classes with senior students as that was the flexibility the curriculum allowed them.

As important as the core subjects were, Goel noted that the non-core subjects were equally important for his time at university, social life, and current career. For example, he used the skills and knowledge he learned in his accounting classes in all of his future jobs, and gave him an edge when pursuing his MBA and analyzing companies. Goel also said that he “cannot stress enough how useful” he found the typing skills he learned in his Grade 9 Computer Class has been in his life.

At DSC, Goel holds fond memories of both class time and afterschool clubs.

He remembered that “the teachers were all very dedicated and passionate to not only their class subjects but also the afterschool activities. They made learning fun and engaging, and they always encouraged us to ask questions. I learned so much from the afterschool clubs.” As a member of multiple different clubs, including Student council, Math and Science clubs as well as sports, Goel had ample opportunity to explore his interests. He stressed that although he primarily

participated in them out of interest, they helped make him a well-rounded individual when he applied for university and jobs.

For future students who are unsure what to pursue, Goel has some advice for them: “Build and sustain friendships at school. School friends keep you grounded. Friendships made in school are hard to replicate in life. It’s much easier today to stay in touch after graduating but it’s also much easier to be distracted with the internet and phones while in school; so personally connect with your fellow classmates.”

For more information about DSC International School and admissions please feel free to contact the admissions officer : Mrs.G.Kaur g.kaur@dsc.edu.hk Tel: 36580400

Article by: Contributed by Alumni’s of DSC International & compliled and written by Jeniffer Zhong I grew up in Canada on old school Hong Kong movies and speaking too many languages, and only moved to Hong Kong after university. My love of languages and writing has followed me throughout my life, from Vancouver to Toronto to Hong Kong.

I haven’t quite decided if Hong Kong is home yet, but I love the vibrant culture and finally being able to blend into a crowd.

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Butterfly Valley

Most Instagrammable place in HK

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ucked in corner of Taipo, a very scenic, beautiful, kid friendly and most Instagrammable picnic place is called the ‘The Butterfly valley park’. Experience lot of unique things here and be surprised by beauty of place right within our reach.

Well, don't go by the name literally! There are not many butterflies in butterfly valley park. But what it actually has is much more creative, engaging, beautiful and fun filled for all group. There are so many activities for families and couples that one can easily spend whole day here. The fact that the location is so serene and full of fresh air makes you fall in love with this place.

THE BIGGEST ATTRACTION BEING AROUND BEAUTIFUL ALPACAS FOR LONG TIME.

There are many activities for kids to do in the park starting from feeding farm animals like goats, rabbits and Alpacas, tortoise and peacocks to view, sand pit with sand toys, rainbow slides, kids play area, key chain making activity, some activities are available upon request like Bee extraction lesson, organic farming, DIY butterflies painting and craft and many other things for group tour.

Apart from all this there is lake for boating wherein one can enjoy feeding fishes and lots of creative and colourful swings to lay down and just relax.

Apart from everything else, there are ample of Instagrammable photo spots Photos will do more justice then me describing much :) and more details to follow after photo tour :)

Pro Tip : They offer this professional photography for 100HKD but on insisting they give 1 picture for free in very scenic beautiful natural backdrop.

The biggest highlight and fun part of the park is – Meeting

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Alpacas closely and feeding them. Also, they have other small farm animals like goats and rabbits. There are of turtles and fishes whom one can feed. So it makes super fun moment for kids to begin with. Some of the other interesting activity was embossing your name on leather keychain, boating, sand pit for kids to play, beautiful big playground, rainbow slides, honey bee information centre, and much much more.

mark and some equipment's are too dusty and old. Few things are done only when group visits are planned but despite of bit of downside its a must visit place at least once to enjoy being surrounded by lovely Alpacas and spending time seeing kids have fun while boating and playing amids huge playground surrounded by so much nature. Overall we rate it 7/10. Since its quite pricey and they should have kept the equipment's more maintained.

It costs 200 HKD per person (Adult) and 150 HKD (3 to 11 years) Coffee printed with alpacas live in coffee printing machine is something fun to watch and then savour!

How do we rate it : Its undoubtedly very huge farm / park with lot of things to see and do but unfortunately the maintenance is not very up to

Tip: Its quite pricey but the costs include a welcome hamper (Puzzle, keychain, stamp redemption voucher, 3D model puzzle of alpaca), Pedal boat ride for 30 mins and everything else inside except feeding animals which costs extra 60 HKD. So overall it can be bit costly for family to visit but its definitely worth one time visit.

Under same management, the Cinderella farm and the Go green organic farm is created and ne can buy season ticket for all three farms for 598 HKD.

Where to eat: Well there are lot of tables and chairs everywhere so its advisable to carry your own food. There is nothing much in the restaurant and its good enough just for drinks.

How to travel: Address: Butterfly Valley, No. 8 Fung Yuen Road, Tai Po, New Territories You can take cab from Tai Po MTR (8 mins ride) or take 20P or 20M bus from Tai Po. Timings: 10.00 AM to 6.00 PM Daily. One can easily spend whole day there. we were there for almost 6 hours.

Contact Details: Phone: 65835111 / 65893111 Email: info@butterfly-valley.com Website: www.butterfly-valley.com

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Riddhi Jimit Mehta Riddhi Jimit Mehta is a curious and enthusiastic blogger, travel lover who loves to explore and experience different cultures. Deal cracker, poetry reader and writer by hobby. Majorly with experience of Equity research in past, she wears hat as Mutual Fund distributor under brand name – Mehta Investment which helps NRI invest in Indian Mutual Funds. Apart from these and above all Riddhi is Mother of a toddler who believes in giving travel exposure to kids as much as possible. She strongly follows ‘Learning through experience and exposure’ and practices it often. Staunch follower of meditation and peace, she is also volunteer with Art of Living.

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Let Go and Fly!

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ometimes we don’t realize the burden of the mental baggage that we are carrying.

The baggage could be - our ignorance, pain from past experiences, attachments, expectations, wrong habits, limiting beliefs and people’s opinions. Only when we pack up of these old ways, we can accommodate new ways of thinking, behaving and being.

On the journey of life, it is wise to travel light, carrying only what is needed. This applies to emotional baggage too. We tend to carry hurtful past – disappointments, wrong habits, pains and fears.

Letting go creates space for new ways of thinking, behaving and being.

Follow these steps to let go of any unnecessary emotional baggage: • When your mind is disturbed, check what it is thinking. It may be about the past or future. Direct it into the present.

• Choose a right response in every scene. No blaming, judging or criticizing others.

• Even if someone betrayed you, hurt was your creation.

If the mind questions, Why did they do this to me, create thoughts, I let go …I understand people…I accept them… I face situations with stability.

• No one and nothing belongs to you. Everything has come as per your karmic accounts.

So let go of attachments or resentments about yourself, people and situations.

Repeat these affirmations daily to have a stress-free mind. You start connecting to your original self, as you remove the layers of negativity. There will be inner space to accommodate and activate your original qualities of happiness, love and compassion.

A Short Affirmative Meditation I am a happy being … I shift from one scene to the next … with ease … I stay in the present … I let go of my old habits of blaming … worrying … criticizing… the scene does not stay on my mind… I focus on people’s goodness … I have compassion for them … their behaviour does not stay on my mind … I travel light … on this journey of life.

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3 Meditation builds our emotional immunity and inner strength and keeps us protected from different negative situations of life.

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1 Meditation is a beautiful exercise of the mind in which we connect with the spiritual self or soul and experience its qualities. Also, in meditation we connect with God - the Supreme Soul and imbibe His qualities inside us.

2 The more we meditate, the more positive, pure and powerful we become. Our thoughts, feelings and attitudes undergo immense positive change.

4 It also enables us to discover the self and God more and come closer to both of them and create a beautiful relationship with them.

5 Spiritual wisdom also becomes easier to understand when we meditate regularly and meditation makes us an embodiment of spiritual wisdom. We learn new and creative ways of thinking and our belief systems change from ones based on body consciousness to ones based on soul consciousness.

6 Meditation is a gift that God offers us at the present time and He himself teaches us its technique so that we souls get uplifted and create new realities in life. These new realities are little heavens filled with peace, love and joy in our homes, workplaces and in every other sphere of life.

7 Our mental and physical health becomes more beautiful, our inner and outer personality improves and our efficiency and accuracy in every action becomes higher.

And very importantly, our relationships become free from conflicts and filled with good wishes, respect and co-operation. We start earning wealth with more honesty, cleanliness and success.

BK Bindu Patel Senior Raja Yoga Meditation Practitioner & Teacher Sister Bindu Patel (widely known as Bindu Ben) has been a senior Rajayoga Practitioner and Teacher for more than 30 years now. She is the Centre-In Charge of the Kowloon Centre of the Raja Yoga Centre Limited Hong Kong. She was initiated into the Brahma Kumaris path of knowledge at the early age of 10. Right from this early age, she showed a keen liking for meditation. Sister Bindu’s spiritual life entered a new phase when she was asked to move to Mumbai in 1991. She was given the responsibility of coordinating the management of multiple centres in this Financial and Entertainment capital of India.

Based on her success in India, Sister Bindu was asked to take up an international assignment in 2011, as the Centre In Charge for the Kowloon Centre in Hong Kong.

Starting from a small beginning, the Kowloon Centre today has expanded into a large centre, with the premises fully owned by the Brahma Kumaris and also the establishment of a sub-centre in Tung Chung, in the New Territories of Hong Kong.

Sister Bindu has been involved in several key activities in the Brahma Kumaris organization, including: • Managing the creation of a several popular musical albums of the Brahma Kumaris • Creation of a documentary on the 60th anniversary of the Brahma Kumaris services in Mumbai, India • Key role in the Community-Reach-Out services for Prisons, Old Age Homes and Orphanages • Services to celebrities in the Indian film industry

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GURU A-Desiflava’s new column on Legal Advise

by HK’s well-known Solicitor of the High Court of Hong Kong and the Senior Courts of England & Wales.

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Solicitor of The High Court of Hong Kong & The Senior Courts of England and Wales with a demonstrated history of working in the legal industry. Skilled in legal submissions, advocacy, strategic negotiations, legal research, and management.

He is also known for his skills of empathy and neutrality whilst acting as a Mediator.

An experienced lecturer-atlaw nurturing future lawyers with theoretical and practical legal principles. Equipped with skills for preparation of precise notes to developing exam papers for the students.

As a solicitor, I am often approached by people raising various questions to assist them with their respective matters. However, we will limit today’s question and answer to family disputes.

With the given Hong Kong lifestyle being stressful and long-working hours, it is taking a toll on the domestic relationships between married couple. I personally DO NOT encourage divorce until and unless the marriage has broken down irrevocably and one should always remember that marriage is union of two worlds of dreams or rather a reunion of two families. Should

children be involved then divorce is essentially stealing their right to have the love of both parents at the same time and at the same place.

However, as lawyers, we do face clients with situations where the divorce is the only resort.

Q Are all divorce proceedings ugly or bitter?

A: Divorce usually turn ugly or bitter due to clash of egos but procedural wise there are options whereby the divorce proceedings can take place with a mutual consent after

one year of separation or without consent after two years of separation. We are working with the group of Mediators and Barristers whereby we are encouraging Mediation, which will be explained below, whereby you avoid the prolonged bitterness of a divorce.

Q How long the divorce procedure takes place?

A: It could take anywhere from 6 months to couple of years depending on the complexity of the case and attitude of the parties.

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basis. In terms of the means of Applicant, the financial resources of the Applicant should not normally exceed HKD$433,010 under the ordinary Legal Aid Scheme.

However, this is reviewed regularly, and one should clarify with their Solicitors or Director of Legal Aid. Alternatively, if you do not want to apply legal aid nor cannot funded it privately then you can ask for the court order that the legal cost to be paid by your spouse but it will be evaluated on case-by-case basis as the Applicant need to pass a certain legal test to obtain such order.

Q Where do I stay if my spouse kicked me out of the house?

Q Are divorce proceedings expensive?

A: Legal Aid Department do offer assistance in divorce cases to the parties subject to the means and merits test.

Should you be granted legal aid then it will cover your lawyer’s fees initially, but it is important to note that legal aid is NOT FREE as whatever you recover from your spouse; legal aid will deduct their fees later on due to Director of Legal Aid’s first charge. The merits of the case will be evaluated on case-by-case

A: As a starting point, you should immediately apply for Summons with Affidavit (court application) asking for maintenance pending suit (divorce) from your spouse to cover your expenses until the divorce proceedings are completed but of course, each case is dealt on its own facts. It is important to note that when one person takes care of the house duties and another person earns income.

His/her sacrifices whilst taking care of the house duties in lieu of pursuing his/ her career are not ignored by the court.

Q Who gets the custody of the children?

A: It is rather common for one spouse to use children as a blackmailing tool against the other spouse for the purposes of divorce.

Question of custody is always a sensitive issue. It is important to remember that until divorce with custody is determined; no parent has exclusive custody of their children. Divorce proceedings will be over one day but the memories or trauma suffered by the child do not disappear.

Be careful and handle with care when it comes to your children’ emotions.

I conclude whilst stressing with the fact that Divorce should always be the last resort but don’t let it be too late. However, such decisions should not be taken during a heated moment. It is always wise to discuss with your loved ones and it may not be a bad decision to have a causal chat about what you expect from your spouse before taking the grave step of divorce.

Q How should one commence divorce proceedings?

Divorce should always be the last resort but don’t let it be too late.

A: Before commencing divorce proceedings, both husband and wife should talk amongst themselves with the aim to resolve their matter whilst keeping divorce as a last option. The parties can engage into counselling.

Should counselling fail then they can attempt Mediation to narrow down their differences.

In the process of mediation, both parties will appoint a neutral person who will act as a mediator between parties. Everything discussed during the mediation will remain confidential and won’t be disclosed to the court. Mediation can be conducted at any stage of divorce proceedings. Finally, they should consult a lawyer to commence the divorce proceedings if divorce is the only option for them.

Article by: NANWANI MK Solicitor of the High Court of Hong Kong SAR Solicitor of the Senior Courts of England & Wales Legal Helpline: +852 – 9512 5991 Instagram: @SolicitorMike Website: www.mikenanwani.com

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MVP Poonam V Mehta 1 Hi Aunty I am Rachel, a local HK Chinese. I am Married to a Indian man who is from Pune. His mother is a typical and old style Indian lady, whenever she visits us, she expect me to do clean the home and other household things. I am working in a very big bank on top position. What shall one do to adjust when married in a mix culture?

Hi Rachel, First of all, remember every woman has her personal issues and emotions which, sometimes it is not dealt in good time, therefore, gradually it mounts up. The only channel is to vent out on another women, daughter is an easy target.

It appears your mother in law has not been able to accept her sons decision of inter-caste marriage besides, she sounds very orthodox. You have two options, first take her out for a nice meal, compliment her for raising a nice son. Praise her good qualities and her appearance. Occasionally buy her a gift, this will create some bonding, share your own interests with her. You both can go shopping you will get to know each other’s likes and dislikes.

In addition, explain to her very respectfully the nature of your work. Furthermore, you are unable cope with house chores and pressure at work. If this does not work, second option is talk to your husband and take his support. Finally, hire a domestic helper.

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Hi Aunty I am Priya born and raised up in India. After Completing Graduation from Mumbai I got hitched with Varun my college mate, it is an love marriage. We shifted to Hong Kong. Initial three years were very good but later Varun start complaining for many things, he start looking for personal space rather than accompany me, though he is a good father but sometimes adjustment become the necessity cause of kids only.

So, What is the best way to deal with my partner’s lack of interest?

Hi Priya, in your case is seems there is a lack of communication. He may have work pressure which, he is probably holding back. Sit and reason it out with him, share your feelings, let him know his behaviour is causing you pain and feeling of being dejected.

Ask him if there is anything you can do to change the situation.

Just make sure you seek balance between things he likes without being over whelmed This could be a temporary phase so my suggestion is to be patient.

Best wishes!

Hello aunty I am Karan living in HK with my family. My cousin Shashank and his wife we found them as happy couple, they are staying Hong Kong since long.

Shashank want to have quality time but his spouse believe in creating memories and keeping post on social media every time. Though Shashank does not have problem but still more of her time she give to social media as being a public figure.

So, can you elaborate How does social media affect romantic relationships? And what one should do to keep the relationship on track?

Hi Karan, Social media is very addictive. Although, social media has many positive advantages, potentially it can cause a havoc on a relationship. Lack of connection, conflict arising from many issues, feeling of hurt and comparison between spouses.

There is not much your friend can do. He has one choice to join his wife to get an idea what is she seeking for happy relationship or disaster. Ask him to share his feelings with his wife, that he wants to live a real life and not fall prey into unreal.

With open communication half the battle is won.

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What can I do to make him teach the core values and Indian lifestyle as well?

4 I am Kiara staying Hong Kong since eleven years , I am a women who possess more emotional values with every relationship. In this practical world I keep on growing my values each day. But sad part is that I got emotionally hurt every time by my surroundings I.e. my friends and relative’s action or spoken words. Which give me stress and sometimes I am unable to manage my daily routine life. I feel like to isolate myself from everyone. Aunty How should I overcome this thing? Why I am mentally drained?

I love myself; I am a worthy; I am happy; I am a giver; I am peaceful; Dear Sara,

I am calm.

"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."

-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Your friends and relative are not important only yourself, do not give others the privilege to judge you.

Believe in yourself you are a masterpiece of God’s creation.

You accept and trust yourself and be in control of your life.

Take time to love and take care of yourself.

Morning affirmation

Wake up dear. It means he is not interested in you anymore. Move on with your life, find someone caring and loving. I suggest don’t fall into relationship until you are sure of each other. Good Luck!

Dear Aryan core values come from role models. If you are observing discipline and etiquette at home that is good enough You are in HK, your son is surrounded by friends in school. Socializing with friends is essential.

How can you separate his school life besides, he is only 6 years old If you speak in Hindi with him and watch some cartoons as well as other light Hindi programs.

Believe me he will show interest in his own time.

Best wishes in your efforts!

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Dear Kiara, You seem to be aware of you issues, that is a good sign, If you wish to bouncy back, you have great potential.

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Hello Aunty, My name is Sara I am phillippines I am studying and working in HK. I met kshitij two years before as a friend later it became more than friend relationship. He keeps meeting me but still when things looks change but he did not admit, I tried talking him many time he moulded the topic but he says I don’t keep expectation from you?

Myself a dad named Aryan, living HK born in Delhi, My father was an retired Army person. So, disciplines and etiquette were the first lesson taught to us by him. I always wanted to became software Engineer and moved to Hong Kong after completing my masters from Pune. I have a 6 year son who adopting and learning HK Culture. I always try to teach him Hindi also and tell about India but I found him not interested.

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avoid your ego, because due to this you may have to look down. Treat your subordinates well. Business people will adopt some new measures to strengthen their work, due to which your work will progress faster and you will also get to see good profits. If we talk about students, they will be interested in studies. They will progress in their studies and work harder.

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Bejan Daruwalla Horoscope November 2023

Aries: Ganesha says this month will be good for you. This month will be weak for love relationships. Your beloved will help you with some difficult tasks that are becoming a headache for you, which will increase the love between you. Married people will now feel some happiness in their domestic life, but your spouse's angry attitude may trouble you. You will get happy and peaceful sleep in your home. You can think of getting interior decoration work done. A new car may also come to the house, which will bring happiness to the house. The atmosphere at home will be positive, due to which you will feel very relaxed. Employed people will get strength in their work, but

Ganesha says this month will be very favorable.

Vedas' domestic life will be good. There may be disagreement on some issues in friendship, because both of you may be separated for some time, but you will definitely have to return.

People living a life of love and comfort may have to face portfolio-related problems. A state of anger and aggression may arise in your nature.

If you work carefully, the situation will be fine, so be careful. If you do business then your business will expand to marginal areas and you will get a good salary for your work. Work with some big guys to grow your business.

If you work, then assume that your difficult times are over and you will get the fruits of your hard work. People around you will also seem happy with you. You may get a chance to go abroad. This month your expenses will be very low, but your income will also be good, so there will be no problem. If we talk to the students, their time is fine. Your time will be spent in entertainment and friends will also keep coming and going. From the health point of view, there are no major physical problems

visible, although you need to pay attention to your eating habits.

Gemini: Ganesha says this month will be favorable for you. Time will remain good for a love life. You will understand your various devices, while Getre people will openly enjoy their domestic life. Your communication will become much faster and you will get the full opportunity to have fun with friends. Time should be favorable for matters related to real estate and you may acquire some new property. Time is good for travel and at the beginning of the month, you can go on a long trip. Employed people will enjoy their work and will go somewhere good on the basis of their hard work. Your good friends, like your boss and superiors and your team members, will also support you openly, which will make you happy at work. If we talk about students, they will not be interested in studies. They were able to concentrate on their studies, which would give them good results. If we look at your health-related claims, your health will be favorable at this time. You will try your best to keep yourself fit through jogging and meditation.

Your mother may be taking medicines, so take care of her. The second week of this month will be the best for travel.

Cancer: Ganesha says the beginning of the month will bring good success for you. You just

have to stay away from your mental stress, because from the beginning of the month, there will be conflict in your mind regarding some matter. You should also try to hide good things from the people of your pilgrimage area because it will be important for you to get their support this month. There will definitely be some minor tensions in life, but on the contrary, such vegetation will also be created that your relationship will become thrilling. Talking about your personal life, your relationship with your beloved will become stronger. You can do a lot for them and go far in love.

Anyone can talk. Any of your friends will also help you.

Employed people should mind their own business and should not try to interfere in their work in any way, otherwise, this may be a bad time in the job. Use your experience and try to improve your advice. This time will be good in terms of business.

You should focus on building on the investments you've made in the past and the licenses you're working on.

This will progress your work.

Talking about students, time is good for you. You should take full advantage of this time.

The planetary position is in your favor, due to which you will get good success in your studies. This time will be good for you from a health point of view. Make good use of this time and take advantage of the journey.

Leo: Ganesha says people of this month will look a bit worried due to increasing tension in their domestic life

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and for this, you should pay some attention to the maid industry. This will also be good for love life and your partner will talk to your loved one. You can also discuss when you will get married. At this time you will get full opportunity to take advantage of your intelligence.

Because of this, there will be some new developments in your business and you will be successful in taking your work forward. You should talk to both your heart and mind and then take a decision on the matter. The business situation will be strong. Stay away from any business that is against democracy. Employed people may have to travel long distances for work. You will be busy, due to which you will meet good people, but you will have to pay full attention to the quality of your work.

Talking to students, this price will be good for you. Your hard work will be successful. If we look at your health, you may have to face many problems at this time. You should establish a medical industry for its related equipment.

Virgo: Ganesha says this month will be good for you. Time is good for a love life. At this time, romance will increase between you, which will improve your relationship. Your efforts will be successful. Although there will still be hustle and bustle on the job, you still need the support of your superiors.

There may be some problems from the government sector.

Take care of it. If you have done something which is wrong in the eyes of the National then you may get a notice. This is a bad time so don't do anything wrong. Time

will be good for business. You just have to work within your limits. Talking about students, they will have to work hard now. You will also benefit from this hard work. There is also a good possibility of having a successful meeting in the company. From a health point of view, now it is important for you to take care of your health. Have meals also on time. The second and third weeks of the month will be good for travel.

Libra: Ganesha says this month will continue for you it will be full of people. people will still come out of domestic life problems and will have less space in their personal lives.

You may plan to go abroad for business. At this time, your expenses will also increase significantly, which will affect your financial condition.

However, your appointments will still move faster. Seen this way, this month is quite impressive it will be full of offers. This month will be good for employed people.

This will give you success in moving forward. Keep one thing in mind you should not step back from your hard work. Don't shy away from work at all. Work hard and move forward. Talking about students, they will get good success in their studies.

However, they often face the problem of distraction.

Despite this, they will move forward. There will be benefits in the education sector. From a health point of view, now it is important for you to take care of your health. Be careful while driving, so that accidents can be avoided.

Scorpio: Ganesha says this month will be favorable for you. Time for love life will increase gradually, so you have to be a little careful. Married people will seem happy in their domestic life and your household will be good, which will give you happiness.

There will be a plantation of electronics. The economic situation will improve.

There will be a reduction in expenses, due to which you will be able to enjoy this month. There will also be a lot of travel in connection with business plans. This will give you good benefits and also profits. Sector to sector will also get dynamic benefits. If you are in a government job then this time will be like icing on the cake for you. If you work in the private sector, this time will increase and your position will become stronger.

Business will be in the final stages of success, which will put you in a very strong position. You will experience a good situation socially. If we talk to the students, this time is going to be full of freedom for them. They will still have to work hard. This time will be good for you from a health point of view. No problem is visible. However, you need to maintain regularity in your meals.

Sagittarius: Ganesha says there will be some important changes in your life this month. People will enjoy their family life, while those in love life will have to face

minor problems. Despite this, he remained very serious about his scope. There will be improvements in the documents from the father's side. You will get help in your work. If you are employed then you will be appointed to your post this month. Your authority will increase and you will gain position and prestige.

This will make you look very attractive. With luck on your side, many important tasks and financial gains will occur.

Money will come to you from many places. Time is going well for business also. Now you will benefit from your travels as well as your efforts.

If we talk about students, they will not be interested in studies. They will get good results in their studies. Their success in higher education is best. If we look at the healthrelated claims, you need to pay attention to your health right now. However, this is not a big problem. Maintain regularity in the undefined.

The second and third weeks of the month will be more favorable for travel.

Capricorn: Ganesha says you can go on a trip at the beginning of this month.

You will get a chance to have fun with friends. They will help you in your work. There will be good tuning with brothers and sisters also. Everything improved with the blessings of my parents. The position of the seventh house in your zodiac sign suggests that your marriage talks may take place now. If you are married, there will be romance in your domestic life. Enjoy your family life. Time is also good

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for a love life. You may get a chance to marry your loved one. However, due to lack of luck, there may be partial interruption in work. Be it employed or business people, both types of people can get good profits this month. Your hard work is very strong, but it will be for your benefit only.

If we talk about students, there may be some trouble now. They may also face non-government issues in their studies. If you look at the health-related claims, your health will remain energetic.

Take some care of your health.

Aquarius: Ganesha says this month will be moderately fruitful for you. Time is good for a love life. You may be successful in cementing your marriage with your beloved.

The domestic life of Buddhist followers will be normal. Your friend will get respect. If they work or do any business then they will get good success in their work this month. Support meetings of any successful company and businessman in your business will also help in taking the work forward.

Shortage of time for employed people - It is going to be full of holidays so pay more attention to work. Talking about students, it is important for them to concentrate on their studies right now. An experienced person is also required. If we look at the health claims, there does not appear to be any major problem at present. Your health will also improve.

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people. There is some stability in marital life. Due to a lack of coordination, a doctor's advice may be required. So be careful and try to avoid this situation.

Distance between you and your partner in love life, work needs. This week will be good for employed people.

You will buy some essential items for the house with your hard-earned money and also deposit some money in the bank. This will improve your financial condition. Those doing business will have to pay attention to their work and give further advice. Due to less supply in the market, you will benefit in moving forward.

Have some confidence in your business mega city too.

Talking about students, time is good for them. They are likely to have good success. There may also be a possibility of traveling abroad. If we look at the health-related claims, there does not appear to be any major problem at present.

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Aries: Ganesha says if you complete all your work on time then this month will bring success for you. Surprisingly you will get unexpected success from your previous works.

Remember, it is important to be patient and virtuous. You have a special ability to do great things which sets you apart from others. Maintain hope for success and work on gradually improving yourself throughout this month.

Once you start focusing on

priorities in your life, things will fall into place. Your personal goals and aspirations will set you apart and help you reach your goals in life. This month is looking very good for you in both personal and professional life. Try to make the most of every situation so that you can soon feel proud of yourself. Your career should be your priority right now. To keep yourself motivated in life, stay away from distractions and set good and big goals.

Make sure that you focus equally on your personal and professional life to maintain the uniqueness of your abilities. Along with this, this month you will also make some excellent contacts which will help you in solving your problems at the right time.

Taurus: Ganesha says it is an important month for you and your family. When you strive to achieve great things in life, you must also control your anger. Know your limits take responsibility for your actions, and avoid blaming others. Be careful with your words and express gratitude to those who support and help you. Get ready to have the best time of your life this year. You will be connected to many people who will provide you with valuable advice and guidance. Listen to each of them so you don't miss important things about your personal and professional life. Right now you should understand that many people are financially and emotionally dependent on you at this time.

Use various opportunities this month to have some special experiences in your life.

You deserve happiness and satisfaction after all the hard work you have done. During this time, you will also receive good wishes and blessings from your loved ones. This will help you stay motivated in life and do something good for them. Apart from this, you should also take care of yourself and give priority to achieving your goals in life this month. Whenever you start doing something, keep your confidence strong so that you do not have to regret it later.

Gemini: Ganesha says you need to use your willpower to complete important tasks this month. This is the time when you need to understand your abilities and work towards achieving all your goals in life. Meanwhile, you should also take care of your relationships and give them quality time and importance. This can be a great opportunity to improve various aspects of your personal and professional life. You will be able to find time for your hobbies like playing music or watching your favorite movie. This will help you achieve satisfaction and also make you feel happy.

This is the time to make yourself a priority so that you can avoid getting disappointed in your future life. Take care of your health and focus on the things that matter most in life right now. This month is indicating your personal growth. Make use of every opportunity by focusing on your priorities. This way you will be able to complete your work for maximum profit. You will also make progress toward your spiritual goals and gain a

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better understanding of some of the challenges you have faced in the past.

Cancer: Ganesha says this month is going to be an ideal time for you. You have the ability to turn things in your favor.

Use it to do amazing things so you can help people and fulfill your dreams too. You need to think outside the box so that you are able to solve all your problems before they start affecting your mental health and well-being. Be a little kinder and try to take care of the people around you. There is nothing to worry about, but you need to be careful in the way you talk to people. This will have a direct impact on your character and position in society. It is important to do things that make you happy.

After all, it is your life, so you should satisfy yourself and not think about what people say about your life and career.

During this period, you will also get support from your family and they will also guide you properly. This month is going to be extraordinary for you and your family. You will not only be able to achieve professional success but will also receive good guidance from the people who are most important in your life.

Leo: Ganesha says this month is going to be lucky for you. You can achieve professional success on the basis of your self-confidence and extraordinary talent.

However, the most amazing thing will be how you

manage your personal and professional life together. You have the ability to bring out the best version of yourself when needed. Make sure you understand the importance of each position and utilize your talents in a better way.

It will play an important role in promoting your good health and mental satisfaction. There should be a good balance in your life so that you can easily enjoy the fruits of your hard work and also build good relationships. You must understand that your behavior has a direct impact on the mental health of other people around you. Therefore you need to control your emotions and think before speaking.

This can also be a great way to improve your relationship with your family. This month can have a favorable impact on your personal life, profession, and finances.

You will understand the importance of every situation and how you can make the most of it. This is a great way you can support your family and fulfill your dreams in the professional field. In all this, you must also remember that materialistic achievements only last for a short period of time.

Virgo: Ganesha says this month will be beneficial for you. You will have to make important decisions that will greatly affect your personal and professional life. However, there is nothing to worry about as you will have the ability to choose the best one for you and your family.

Proceed with your plans without thinking too much about the problems you

have in your life at present.

Each of those problems will disappear as soon as you gain the confidence to do something big and successful in life. It will bring wealth and good fortune into your life.

This is a good time to think about investing in a new home or a new vehicle. Try to control your finances so that you do not lose all your savings. By continuously talking to people, you will be successful in understanding their feelings. As a result, you will also be able to fulfill their wishes in less time and become their favorite. Apart from this, listen to the advice of elders so that you do not commit any mistakes while doing important work in your personal and professional life. There should be a good balance in your thoughts so that you can control your actions later. It is not a good idea to proceed with risky decisions right now. You need to remain calm during conversations to avoid negative comments from people.

Libra: Ganesha says this month is going to be special for you on many levels. You will achieve tremendous success which will help you achieve mental stability. Not only this, you will also be able to manage your personal and professional life in a better way. It is important that you find out what is bothering you currently and solve all your problems immediately. This will have a direct impact on your mental health, so you remain happy and satisfied.

Not only this, but you will also be able to connect with

people in a better way so that you can achieve complete success. This period will bring different emotions into your life. You need to manage your finances properly so that you can improve your savings. Otherwise, you will lose your savings in a short time. You also need to take care of your health to avoid any kind of health-related problem in the near future.

This is not a good time to make risky decisions on your own. You will not be able to handle complex issues at present, so try to avoid active interactions with people.

Otherwise, you may lose your close ones and regret it later.

You should develop inner strength and confidence in yourself this month. This will help you achieve success and also ensure that you are on the right path in life. If certain things happen again and again in your life, there is always a reason behind it. You should not ignore such symbols and remain alert at all times.

Scorpio: Ganesha says you will have the best time this month.

There has been a lot of trouble in your personal life in the past few days, and now is the time to settle it all. You will have the confidence and determination to take certain actions that will improve your career very soon. Stop thinking about unnecessary problems in your life and look forward to new beginnings this month. Only then will you be able to overcome small problems and think of doing something big in your life.

Focus on your career because it is the most important thing you can improve. There may

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be travel due to work, and you will also be able to spend a lot of time with yourself. This is the right time to grow spiritually and understand what is troubling you from within. Once you have conquered your inner troubles, you will be ready to move on. There is nothing that can stop you from achieving your goals in life, so you should also understand the abilities that can help you achieve your goals as soon as possible. Till then you need to be patient and keep doing good work regularly. This month is going to prove beneficial for you and your family. You will get a lot of help from the people around you, so try to be grateful to each of them. There will be good relations between you and your colleagues which will help you in completing all your tasks before the deadline. If you're not feeling right in your current job, this is also a good time to think about new career possibilities.

Sagittarius: Ganesha says the month is going to be important for you because you will have to do many important things in it. Not only this, you should also take care of the people around you and understand their feelings. Enjoy every moment by working hard with honesty and dedication. There is no shortcut to success and you must understand this so that you can stay ahead of the competition. This will definitely help you achieve your goals as soon as possible. There is a right time to do everything in life and you should not rush into things right now. You must be sure about what you are

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doing in life. Therefore, it is best to look forward to new beginnings that can help you achieve your goals and also give you mental peace and satisfaction. Also during this time, it is important to stand up for your rights and have a say in whatever matters matter to you right now in your life. Eventually, you will realize why you are not able to achieve success quickly.

Remember, consistency is the key to achieving success.

You have a special talent for making things work in your favor, so explore every opportunity that comes your way in life.

Capricorn: Ganesha says this month may bring you both attraction and uncertainty.

However, there is no need to worry because no matter what, you will find a way to succeed. The only challenge that will trouble you is unnecessary complexity and confusion. However, your ability to understand situations will help you understand things. Be alert so that you do not miss important opportunities and also know important news and facts that can help you improve your life in general.

This transit is going to bring good health and happiness in your life. Personally, you will be in a good place where you will be able to easily explain to people your commitments in life. Take your profession seriously so you can focus on the work you love most. Gradually you will be successful in improving your position with your talent and hard work. Till then, you

need to wait for the right opportunities. These will be the opportunities when you will be able to shine more than the rest and achieve success in less time. This month marks the beginning of massive business success for you. The dreams you are dreaming will soon turn into reality and you will be able to enjoy the fruits of your hard work.

Aquarius: Ganesha says this month is going to be very good for you.

There will be many problems in your personal and professional life, but you will be able to overcome each of them.

Focus on your talents and utilize opportunities as per your interest. Make sure you don't get out of control when having meaningful conversations with people. Otherwise, you won't be able to control your words and may soon say something strange. Use this opportunity to achieve professional and financial success. Although there is a certain way to do everything, you can take risks and do something different from everyone else. It will definitely have a positive impact on your life and career.

However, you should also have an idea of the extent to which you can utilize your talents.

This will help you avoid adverse situations in the near future.

No matter what happens, this month is going to be special.

You will achieve success in personal and professional fields and will also pave the way for a new beginning. Keep a constant check on your health so that you can perform well. At this time you need to be a little selfish to achieve your goals.

Pisces: Ganesha says this month is going to bring something wonderful to your life. Be prepared for surprises and celebrations in your family.

Use the situation to achieve mental peace and stability. It is important for you to continue working hard to achieve your professional goals. This is not the time to stop and wait for new beginnings but to keep doing good work so that you can influence the right people.

Once you reach a certain point, you will understand how special and different you are from everyone else and how you can use that to your advantage.

This transit is going to help in improving your health and personal life. People will listen to your advice and take care of your feelings. Make sure you remain grateful to them and share your concerns as often as possible. Your relationship problems will be resolved and you will also be able to improve your life in general.

You will understand your power to make your personal and professional life better. This month is going to be very good for you. Many positive signs predict that you are going to live the best life you can at the moment. Very soon, you will be able to see positive and favorable results that will help you enjoy your victories and set new goals for your personal and professional life.

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