Loneliness & Friendships for Children with Asperger Syndrome It is hard to know if children with Asperger Syndrome are as lonely as their parents think. Psychologists do know that playing with a friend and making friends are “overwhelming skills” with Aspergers in children. One author writes, “they are totally preoccupied with their own agendas.” This preoccupation makes it hard for children with autism to make truly understand others.