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February guarantees year after year Valentine’s Day-themed events left and right to enamor the Triad, but not a single one compares to the CAMEL CITY BURLESQUE/HAUS D’KATZMEOW SHOW this upcoming Saturday, February 11 at Winston-Salem’s Camel City Playhouse.

6 On Wednesday, February 22, the Triad Film Collaborative (TFC) will celebrate its fifth anniversary with the self-explanatory Triad Film Collaborative SHORT FILM SHOWCASE, which will take place at 7:30 p.m. at RED Cinemas, 1305 Battleground Ave. in Greensboro.

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Unseen voices. These and other well-worn trappings are currently on display in FEAR, a lackluster horror film by multi-hyphenate Deon Taylor (writer/producer/director).

14 As Cupid is emblematic of the holiday, it’s appropriate that Arts Uptown Greensboro is presenting Voyeur Love 2, the organization’s second GATE CITY EROTIC ART SHOW. 16 Oh, yes. The “SPECTACLE OF LOVE,” is both an album from Greensboro-raised Libby Rodenbough and a solid summation of Valentine’s Day in general–it’s the season where romance abounds for saps, sweethearts and songbirds.

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NCDOT to Hold Public Meeting Regarding Improvements to Clanton Road from Donald Ross Road to Wilkinson Boulevard in Mecklenburg County STIP Project P-5730 Charlotte – The public is invited to a meeting with the N.C. Department of Transportation this month to discuss the proposed extension of Clanton Road from Donald Ross Road to Wilkinson Boulevard in Charlotte.

The proposed project, State Transportation Improvement Program Project No. P-5730, would construct a grade separation over the Norfolk Southern rail line, and close the existing at-grade crossing on Donald Ross Road. It’s intended to address traffic and safety concerns and improve road and multimodal connections throughout the area.

Project details, including maps of the proposal, can be found on the NCDOT project web page at https://publicinput.com/clantonrd-ext.

The meeting will be held 5-7 p.m. February 16th at the American Legion at 1940 Donald Ross Road, Charlotte, NC 28208. Interested residents can drop in any time to learn more about the proposal, have questions answered and talk with NCDOT representatives. There will not be a formal presentation.

People may also submit comments by phone, email or mail by March 3rd.

For more information, contact NCDOT Rail Division Project Engineer Greg Blakeney at 919-707-4717; gmblakeney@ncdot.gov; or 1553 Mail Service Center in Raleigh.

NCDOT will provide auxiliary aids and services under the Americans with Disabilities Act for disabled people who wish to participate in this workshop. Anyone requiring special services should contact Simone Robinson, Environmental Analysis Unit, at 1598 Mail Service Center in Raleigh; 919-707-6062; or strobinson1@ncdot. gov as early as possible so that arrangements can be made.

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ebruary guarantees year after year Valentine’s Daythemed events left and right to enamor the Triad, but not a single one compares to the Camel Dalia Razo City Burlesque/ Haus d’Katzmeow show this upcoming Contributor Saturday, February 11 at Winston-Salem’s Camel City Playhouse, located at 110 7th St. W in WinstonSalem. The fairly newly established collective of professional burlesque performers that make up Camel City Burlesque/Haus d’Katzmeow began performing a bit over a year ago, quickly establishing a home base in the downtown theater. Their upcoming show “Crazy Lil’ Thing Called Love” will be the first of its kind as it highlights and celebrates the most loving day of the year.

Producer and owner of Camel City Burlesque/Haus d’Katzmeow, Selia Katzmeow, collaborates closely with Camel City Playhouse artistic director Chris Cohen. As soon as the possibility of having a Valentine’s Day special became an option, she developed the theme for the show.

“I think the entire Triad is craving this type of performance,” said Katzmeow.

“To anyone who watches the show, it’s about empowerment, it’s about consent.”

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performed in Burlington during New Year’s Eve, and the audience was astounded to have this type of show taking place in their small downtown.

As big as Camel City Burlesque/Haus d’Katzmeow feels in their warm and strong community, Katzmeow is aware of what a small subculture the performers belong to. With the support of Camel City Playhouse, though, the theater not only hosts the company, it has made a point to provide a home for it along with booking it throughout the rest of the year.

“We have non-stop emails coming in

asking when our next burlesque show is,” said Cohen. “People are lined up. We sell out almost every time. Everybody who works the show is fantastic, so talented and you walk away with a smile on your face.”

May Hemmer, one of Camel City Burlesques/Haus d’Katzmeow performers, first met Katzmeow several years ago while performing in the Wiggle Room of Winston-Salem’s longtime Rockabilly music festival Heavy Rebel. Originally from New Orleans, like many other burlesque performers, Hemmer would travel all over

to compete and participate in burlesque performing events. In the last few years, she moved to North Carolina and has leaned on Katzmeow as she settled into a drastically different burlesque culture from the one she had left back home in Louisiana.

“She was one of the first people to take me under their wing, so to speak,” said Hemmer of Katzmeow. “When I moved here I really didn’t know anybody, so we became more like family. She’s like a sister to me.” Hemmer has thoroughly enjoyed her experience performing for Camel City Burlesque/Haus d’Katzmeow and when she first saw the Camel City Playhouse it reminded her of home with its intimate, old-school, and vintage vibe to it.

Additionally, the talent that Katzmeow brings to the company portrays all facets from seasoned to newer performers of all ethnicities, body types, and backgrounds.

“There’s a lot of queer community involved,” added Hemmer. “As someone that’s part of it, that’s a big volume when you can identify with someone on that stage.” A beautiful, brown, and queer femme, Hemmer commends Katzmeow on her commitment to diversifying the company in looks, styles, and ethnicities.

Camel City Burlesque/Haus d’Katzmeow is true to its representation of people of color and all body types and thrives beautifully within the safe space in which this diversity has continuously been welcomed with open arms by Camel City Playhouse.

“It takes a village to run this type of show,” concluded Hemmer. “It’s not just us on

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stage, there’s a whole crew that makes everything work and we’re all equal in that.”

Katzmeow, right along with Hemmer, is tremendously grateful to Camel City Playhouse and how the theater has allowed, welcomed, and affirmed the diversity in her team, along with being very open to learning about the art of burlesque. When her company is not bringing down the house at the theater, Camel City Burlesque/Haus d’Katzmeow takes up different performance opportunities such as corporate events, where an employer hires artists to produce specific types of shows. One of these events is scheduled at Kernersville’s Breathe Cocktail Lounge, located at 221 N. Main St., on Saturday, February 18.

The owner of the cocktail lounge, Christine Federico, and Katzmeow have known each other for more than 20 years, and Federico has continuously tried to push Kernersville to be open about seeing new things. At one point, she brought a drag show to the small town and unfortunately received some pushback. However, she persists and continues to bring back Camel City Burlesque/Haus d’Katzmeow to the space, amazing audience after audience who get to experience the performers coming down from the cocktail lounge’s small stage.

Breathe Cocktail Lounge is known for having established themes throughout the seasons and the Camel City Burlesque/Haus d’Katzmeow performance on Saturday, February 18 is designed with the lounge’s current Dreaming in Paris theme.

“Our crowds are very, very respectful,” adds Katzmeow on performing at the cocktail lounge. “It’s because they are told from the beginning to respect and consent.” As opposed to working in the playhouse where the theater provides

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absolute creative freedom to the collective, preparing corporate performances for businesses like the cocktail lounge challenges the burlesque company differently, requiring it to abide by the business’s specific performance requests.

SophieBot5000, also known as “The Transexual Temptress” began her performance career in drag more than a decade ago. As she developed as a performer and got more work done, she had more to showcase and eventually was invited to perform at the Wiggle Room with Katzmeow. Having performed in drag for so long, SophieBot5000 assumed burlesque would be the same as drag, and while it’s similar in ways, it is also different in others.

“To this day, one of my favorite things to do now is share a dressing room with like eight other strippers,” she said. “It’s the way that we talk to each other, and the way that we talk about our bodies, its equal parts, objective, subjective, support-

ive, complicated, controversial.”

The performance scheduled at the playhouse this Saturday is almost sold out, but there are more upcoming performances booked throughout the year, including one scheduled on the same weekend as the Pride Winston-Salem Festival.

“We’re trying to make it a safe home for everyone, we are heavily into women’s empowerment and the beauty of all body types, all races, every ethnicity,” said Co-

hen. “Everyone is beautiful, and if you don’t show that on stage, what are we trying to do?”

In addition to general seating, Saturday night’s performance also includes special seating and a few VIP tables that will provide champagne, goodies, and treats.

“Crazy Lil’ Thing Called Love” invites us not only to celebrate love itself but the love we have for so many of life’s delights such as food, dancing, martinis, and more.

“The one thing that I want people to do when they come to the show is not only to look at it and be entertained by the amazing dancing, by the beautiful costumes, and by our super hot performers; but to also let yourself be provoked, in a way that burlesque is supposed to provoke you,” said SophieBot5000. “Let it be something a little bit sexy, a little bit dirty, a little bit naughty that you do for yourself.”

For more information on a “Crazy Lil’ Thing Called Love” at the Camel City Playhouse, visit www.camelcityplayhouse. com. For more information on Camel City Burlesque/Haus d’Katzmeow’s performance at Breathe Cocktail Lounge, visit www.breathecocktaillounge.com. !

DALIA RAZO is a bilingual journalist, fine arts educator, and doctoral student at UNCG.

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Five and live: Triad Film Collaborative unveils 2023 short film showcase On Wednesday, February 22, the Triad Film Collaborative (TFC) will celebrate its fifth anniversary with the self-explanatory Triad Film Collaborative Short Film Showcase, which will Mark Burger take place at 7:30 p.m. at RED Cinemas, 1305 Battleground Contributor Ave. in Greensboro.

Tickets are $10 and can be purchased at the door, or in advance by calling (336) 230-1732 or by visiting the RED Cinemas website: https://www.redcinemas.com/.

Each year, the Short Film Showcase highlights the work of actors and filmmakers that live or work in the Piedmont Triad area. This year’s event will include eight films made in 2022 and eight films from each of the previous years since the showcase began in 2018.

The eight new films being screened are Remember Me? and Real Men Cry; both directed by Jordan Scott; Are

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You? and Fingers Crossed, both directed by Anita Clark-Anderson; Stayed Down and Lonely, a double-shot of music videos directed by Trey McKee; All the Right Things, directed by Jay Burkholder; and Conditions, directed by Ben West, who has had films in four of the five previous TFC showcases.

The eight fan favorites on the bill are Daniel and The Squire (2018), directed

by Peter Bodin; A Grim Dinner (2018), directed by Steven Hancock; The Vision (2019), directed by Gabriel Tufano; The Phantom, Ghost Stories (2019), directed by Mitch Toney; Survive Together (2020), directed by Tyler McKenzie; Escaping Demons (2020), directed by Richard Clabaugh; Dear Brother (2021), directed by Ben West; and 2021’s Always (proof of concept), directed by Taylor Grace Davis.

The Triad Film Collaborative was founded in 2017 by filmmaker Ken Comito to provide a common resource for filmmakers in the area to network, share projects, learn, and grow. The group meets on the third Thursday of each month at Revolution Mills in Greensboro. Iris Carter, formerly the city producer for the Greens-

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All The Right Things boro 48-Hour Film Project, is the current president of TFC. “I am amazed at the talent we have in the Triad area,” she said. “I’ve been watching the film community grow over the past 14 years or so and am excited by their determination to learn and develop their skills, and I’m excited for these films to be available to a wide audience.”

Of course, the COVID-19 pandemic affected film production, as well as everything else, yet that didn’t curtail the ambitions or aspirations of area filmmakers.

“People made films during the pandemic, albeit on a small scale in regard to cast and crew,” Carter said. “It also gave people time to watch and learn from others, to catch up on tutorials and online workshops. Many spent a lot of time writing scripts and discussing them online. In fact, TFC started a screenwriting group and moved it to Zoom during the pandemic, and the group still meets weekly using the same forum. The resources, efforts, and practice have helped individuals hone their skills and they have a strong desire to share their art. Stories are meant to be told, and films are meant to be seen!”

Carter’s sentiments are seconded by

Rebecca Clark, executive director of the Piedmont Triad Film Commission (PTFC), which is one of the event’s sponsors.

“We are proud to show support for the amazingly talented filmmakers that have committed to keeping their projects — and themselves — local,” she said. “They provide the roots to our greater film community.”

“The film industry in our area is making a comeback,” observed Carter, “and I believe that opportunities are out there for those who want their voices heard.

There are so many people in our area with a wide range of skill sets, and in TFC we are bringing people together to use the talents they have with opportunities to learn more while having fun making films.

Big-studio money is not required for making films. It’s all about the story.”

For more information about the Triad Film Collaborative, visit the official website: https://triadfilm.org/. For more information about the Piedmont Triad Film Commission, visit the official website: https://piedmontfilm.com/. !

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Gov. Cooper and GTCC’s president announce new program

BY CAROL BROOKS | Cab1hp@gmail.com “It’s a big deal,” said Guilford Technical Community College President Tony Clarke as he prepared on Jan. 31 to announce a partnership between the school and the North Carolina Federation for Advanced Manufacturing Education, or NC FAME, program.

“NC FAME, The First in Flight chapter, is going to have a direct and immediate impact on the Triad’s workforce,” said Clarke.

“Along with classroom time, students will be on the floor with a local manufacturing company learning valuable skills while getting paid a good salary. When they successfully complete the program, they will step into a well-paying job or have the option of transferring to a four-year school.

“At the same time the company is gaining an employee they know is well-trained and skilled. It’s a great investment in our future here in the Triad.”

The work-study program is for two years and debt-free, with the earnings from on-the-job training potentially paying for the course. Graduates earn an associate of science degree. Training will be at the college’s Center for Advanced Manufacturing on West Gate City Boulevard.

The four NC FAME sponsor companies, Jowat Adhesives in Archdale, MasterBrand Cabinets in Lexington, Toyota Battery Mfg. NC, in Liberty, and Zielh-Abegg in Greensboro.

“This is a great day for workers and businesses in North Carolina,” said Gov. Roy Cooper. “Community colleges are our not-so-secret weapon. Companies all over the world know about the North Carolina community college system, which I think is the best in the country. This is exciting that businesses want to come and partner with community colleges.”

He remarked that so many new jobs are created in the Triad region and he was excited to announce a new way to fill those jobs.

Cooper said to get those new jobs, the workforce needs quality childcare, education and training.

Cooper noted that in the past, people learned a trade by becoming an apprentice to someone who could teach them.

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invention and we know how much our businesses need a quality workforce. We know [apprenticeships and internships] are coming back.”

Don Stewart, Toyota Battery vice president, said this was the first FAME chapter, the First in Flight Chapter, in North Carolina and the state is only the 14th to have a FAME program. The training received will help close the skills gap.

When he first visited GTCC, Tony Davis, FAME National Director for the Manufacturing Institute, was amazed at the people and teaching at the school.

“This is going to be second to none,” Davis said. “Employers have a distinct need and are collaborating with local partners to expand career pathway opportunities for the region’s workforce by bringing this powerful program to their area.”

Toyota Battery created FAME in 1988 as a way to train students in advanced manufacturing technology. It moved to the Manufacturing Institute for National Scaling in 2019. Today, the Manufacturing Institute is the workforce development and education partner of the National Association of Manufacturers.

Dennis Parker, the founder of FAME, issued a challenge to GTCC: “Make this North Carolina FAME First in Flight Chapter the best chapter in the entire FAME network. This school has the ability and potential to do that.”

Clarke explained the students are in what he called “cohorts”. There will be approximately 30 students in the first cohort. The new program begins August 2023 and current students are eligible to enter NC FAME. With only 30 students in the program, NC FAME will pick the mostqualified students.

“It is an honor, and further validation of GTCC’s impact on our community, that FAME would chose the college for its first chapter in North Carolina,” said George Ragsdale, a member of GTCC Board of Trustees. “Dr. Clarke and his leadership team do a fantastic job and continue to build a trained workforce unsurpassed in North Carolina. This workforce is one of the primary drivers of all the new job and economic growth we are seeing in the area. We are certain to see this continue to grow and benefit all residents of the Triad now that the FAME/GTCC partnership has been established.”

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FOUR TOP THEATER TRENDS TO WATCH IN 2023

BY LAUREN WHITAKER FOR UNCSA As live theater continues to rebound from a global lockdown prompted by the COVID-19 pandemic, UNCSA Drama Dean Scott Zigler identifies several trends that will help the industry define its new normal.

BRINGING THEATER TO THE COMMUNITY

Some organizations are trading the high overhead cost of brick-and-mortar buildings for partnerships that attract new audiences. According to Zigler, this model reduces ticket prices and breaks down economic barriers. “Buildings bring substantial overhead costs. That contributes to higher ticket prices,” he explains. “When you make the whole city your stage, you can reach people who have historically been priced out of live theater.”

He predicts that the new model will also break barriers in which stories get told. “When you are actively taking theater into the community, you pay particular attention to what kinds of work will speak to the audience,” he says.

PRESENTING NEW STORIES AND REIMAGINING OLD STORIES

New stories for wider audiences will drive demand for traditionally underrepresented actors, writers and producers, Zigler predicts. He points to recent productions, including the all-Black cast Broadway revival of Arthur Miller’s “Death of a Salesman.”

“This is not just plugging Black or Latinx actors into ‘White’ stories,” Zigler says. “It is resetting classic plays into different community settings, which resonates with people who have never seen their stories on stage performed by actors who look like them.”

And that results in meaningful work for Black and Brown actors, directors, producers and creative team members.

SUPPORTING YOUNG ACTORS WHO WANT TO TELL THEIR OWN STORIES

Many actors eventually stretch their creative muscles by writing and

directing for stage and screen, but Zigler says the transition is happening earlier in their careers, especially for women. He points to Michaela Coel, the award-winning British actress who won an Outstanding Writing Emmy for her work on the BBC and HBO comedy “I May Destroy You”; Pheobe WallerBridge, who won both acting and writing Emmys for her series “Fleabag”; and Rachel Bloom, whose series “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend” won at the Emmys, Golden Globes, Gotham and Television Critics Association.

“All three of these women trained as actors,” Zigler says. “Actors are finding the only way to get their stories out is to tell them in their own words.”

EMBRACING SOCIAL MEDIA

Zigler says the social media platforms, particularly TikTok, will propel more and more actors into mainstream opportunities.

In the spring of 2022, UNCSA School of Drama student DaMya Gurley, who had amassed almost 400k followers on TikTok, was cast in the sketch comedy series “Stapleview,” with episodes airing weekly on TikTok live.

TikTok continues to thrive despite the controversy surrounding security risks, and Zigler says industry insiders will come to terms with its power.

“TikTok has become an acceptable way of entering the entertainment industry, even for those who might not have any training or experience.”

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nce upon a time, there were only three TV channels to watch, and in the late 1970s, no show was bigger than “Laverne & Shirley,” a sitcom starring Cindy Williams and Penny Marshall as roommates who worked at a Milwaukee beer factory. The series was a spin-off from a “Happy Jim Longworth Days” episode in which Fonzie had arranged for Laverne (Marshall) and Shirley (Williams) to double Longworth date with him and Richie (Ron at Large Howard). By its third season, “Laverne & Shirley” was the numberone show in the country, and its stars became cultural icons.

I caught up with Cindy last April and we talked by phone about her upcoming one-woman show, “Me, Myself, and Shirley,” which she performed at High Point Theatre. The show was a big hit and we stayed in touch after that, but I wondered why I didn’t get a response to my most recent email. Now I know why. Cindy had been in bad health the past few months, and on January 25 she passed away at the age of 75. The following are highlights from our conversation back in April.

JL: Do you remember the first time you performed on stage?

CW: Yes, it was in the first grade, and they had a talent show, and I sang “Hickory Dickory Dock,” and I had total stage fright, but I did it.

JL: Do you remember who won the talent show?

CW: No, but I’m sure it was some ne’er-do-well first grader (laughs).

JL: When did you first realize that you wanted to act professionally?

CW: It was in high school. I had wanted to be a nurse, but I didn’t have an academic brain, so I entered a talent show at school, and the drama teacher, Mr. Kulp, said, “If you have an elective, I’d like to offer you a spot this coming semester to be in “Play Production,” so I did. That’s when I thought I’d like to be able to earn a living from acting. I just loved it so much.

JL: Over the years, various cast and crew members on “Laverne & Shirley” say that they had to work long hours because you and Penny would often do re-writes on the script. What drove you to work so hard on that show?

CW: We had a litmus test, which was if the script made Penny and me laugh out loud, then we figured it would translate to the audience at home. When it didn’t, we would re-write it, or try and put things in that made it funny. Once we got the show on its feet and started moving around, we would add things, add lines, and ad-lib. The whole cast would.

JL: Even in the late 1970s, there were certain things you couldn’t do or say on television, thus the reason for you and Penny using the phrase “Vody-O-Doe-Doe,” instead of saying, “having sex.” If “Laverne & Shirley” were on the air today, would using more graphic lanYES! WEEKLY

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CW: No, it wouldn’t. When audiences of today laugh at graphic language, they’re usually laughing out of nervousness, not out of joy. Also, we had a censor back then. He was a born-again Christian and the nicest guy, and he wouldn’t let us get away with anything.

That’s how we came up with “Vody-O-Doe-Doe,” which made the audience laugh out loud because they know what Shirley did. It’s much more fun when everybody is thinking the same thing at the same time. Instead of saying someone is showing pornography, we’d say, “they’re showing dirty pictures,” and the audience would laugh because it’s much more fun. We used innuendo and attitude in a fun-loving way.

JL: Moving from comedy to drama, I went back recently and watched the episode you did on “Law & Order SVU” in which you played an evil woman who was trying to kill her little granddaughter. You also played serious roles in such films as “The Conversation” with Gene Hackman. Do you prefer doing drama over comedy, or wish you had done more?

CW: I’d like to have played more middle-of-the-road parts, but I didn’t have a chance because no one was going to cast me after “Laverne & Shirley.” I remember going up for this big part, and I went in, and the producer said, “I’d love to cast you, but I can’t. You’re just too recognizable as Shirley Feeney.” And it’s the truth, and I understand that. Look, it’s a blessing that I got to play that character and it became so popular with people, so I never regret that.

JL: Do you remember when you first realized you were famous?

CW: I guess it was in the second season. We were in New York City and they had asked us to be in the Thanksgiving Day parade, and we were on this float, and we saw all these people push past this barrier and they were running toward us. So, we looked behind us to see who it was they were running toward, and we were going to join them (laughs). It must be somebody big. Then all this security came up and we realized it was for us. That was the first time we realized the popularity of the show. Penny and I had this same glitch in our personalities where we thought, “we can’t possibly be the popular girls.” We never took show business seriously, and I think that’s part of the reason that “Laverne & Shirley” kept our feet on the ground.

JL: The road to success hasn’t always been easy for you. You had to wait tables at a pancake house, and you had all of your scenes cut from your first film, but eventually, you became one of the most famous people in the world. What is it that anyone from any walk of life can learn from your journey?

CW: It can all be accomplished, but you have to always stay yourself. You have to keep your sense of humor. If you get knocked down, you have to get right back up and just keep going. God played a big part for me. I would talk to God and I’d get brave again. You always have to stay brave, and have faith in yourself and in all the beautiful things around you. You’re not always going to be invited to the party, you’re not always going to get the job, and you can’t let that deter

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There was a point where I thought I’d be back to waiting tables, and I was OK with that, and it’s right before I got “Laverne & Shirley.”

JL: I know you get a lot of fan mail, but I wonder if you realize how much pleasure and even comfort you’ve given to people over the years. There must have been times when someone had just lost a loved one or lost their job, and they turned the TV on and watched “Laverne & Shirley,” and you had an impact on their lives.

CW: Thanks, Jim. Yeah, people still come up to me and say, “You got me through a very bad time in my life and made me laugh at a really bad time.” I love people and want to comfort them.

JL: So, in a way, I guess you did become a nurse.

CW: Yeah, in a way I guess I was a nurse. But doing the show was such a blessing for me and such a privilege.

Fans of Cindy feel the same way whenever we watch her on screen.

Cindy Williams left us way too soon, but she left us oh so much. !

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Lights flickering. Unseen voices. These and other well-worn trappings are currently on display in Fear, a Mark Burger lackluster horror film by multi-hyphenate Deon Taylor (writer/ Contributor producer/director), whose 2019 police thriller Black and Blue was pretty good and whose 2020 Fatal Attraction knock-off Fatale was pretty bad. Fear is worse.

The film’s eye-catching poster identifies the genre but does not indicate the narrative. Essentially, it’s about a group of friends reuniting for the weekend at Strawberry Lodge, a 19th-century California landmark that is something of a bastard cousin to The Shining’s Overlook Hotel. Its legacy is spooky, as many guests have checked in, but … well, you get the idea.

Best-selling author Rom (Joseph Sikora) has brought girlfriend Bianca (Annie Illonzeh) along, ostensibly to pop the question.

She’s waiting for the right moment to tell him she’s pregnant. The other guests are executive producer Clifford “T.I.” Harris, Jessica Allain, Iddo Goldberg, Andrew Bachelor, Ruby Modine, Tyler Abron, and producer Terrence “Terrence J” Jenkins.

They’re supposed to be playing old chums but there’s little discernible chemistry among them.

With the departure of withered innkeeper Michelle McCormick, Fear’s gears start grinding, which describes the film’s plodding pace. Around a nighttime campfire, they discuss their individual fears. Someone essentially remarks, “I’m tired of being scared.” If you feel the same way, Fear is the movie for you.

Using the COVID-19 pandemic as a plot point, a new airborne variant is announced on news bulletins, the symptoms including hallucinations and paranoia. Some characters have experienced such symptoms, but another must be stupidity — because they inexplicably turn on one another. In the meantime, Rom is researching the hotel’s paranormal past. Then the bodies start dropping.

The nods to other films are plentiful (The Blair Witch Project and The Mist are here, too), but Taylor doesn’t use them any

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The characters aren’t well developed or even likable. One simply doesn’t care about them. On the plus side — which is meager — there is some spooky imagery, courtesy of cinematographer Christopher Duskin, and the requisite splattering of gore.

It’s a long-held tradition that January has been the dumping ground for studio leftovers, going for a quick hit-and-run cash grab while holiday blockbusters and awards contenders are still in release. Fear upholds that tradition. !

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Jean Merritt of Philadelphia has a special knack for spreading goodwill.

She writes letters. According to Philadelphia magazine, Merritt solicits mailing addresses and then responds with a handwritten (“in meticulous cursive”) letter on captivating stationery. Her missive to reporter Victor Fiorillo mentioned that she has an overabundance of writing papers and postcards. “I’ve been writing letters since I was a little girl, and never stopped,” Merritt said. Along with requested letters, she writes to people in nursing homes through Letters Against Isolation and to people in prisons. “My mother collected stationery, and I’m still using the stationery I found in her house when she died in 2011. ... I see stationery on clearance, and I can’t resist it.” Sadly, she said most people don’t write her back. But, she noted, “Doing this is also just really good for my brain.”

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— During the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, when students in Harvey (Illinois) School District 152 were learning remotely, the district provided meals that families could pick up. According to WGN-TV, food service worker Vera Liddell, 66, allegedly helped herself to some of that food — to be specific, 11,000 cases of chicken wings. Liddell worked for the district for more than a decade. A business manager uncovered the plot during a routine audit, finding “individual invoices signed by Liddell for massive quantities of chicken wings, an item that was never served to students because they contain bones,” prosecutors said. Liddell would place the orders, then pick up the food in a district van. They didn’t reveal what Liddell did with the $1.5 million worth of wings. She was charged with theft.

— An unnamed 27-year-old man was arrested on Jan. 27 in Seattle after a homeowner returned to her house to find him in her bathroom, filling the tub with water. KOMO-TV reported that when police arrived, they discovered a smashed window and the burglar inside, “clothed but very wet, and the bathtub was full of water,” reports said. The intruder would not provide a motive for his strange break-in and was charged with residential burglary.

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High School in Portsmouth, Virginia, after Boykins, 22, came off the bench as a sub in a Jan. 21 girls’ JV game, The Washington Post reported. The girl who was unavailable for the game was 13 years old. As a result of the incident, the team’s remaining games were canceled. Churchland investigated and held meetings with players and parents. “Coaches always preach to kids about integrity ... so I was just shocked,” the father of the absent player said. He said his daughter will not attend Churchland next year.

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Musa Hasahya Kasera, 68, has a problem, but he admits it stems from his own irresponsibility, Yahoo! News reported.

The eastern Ugandan man has 12 wives, 102 children and 578 grandchildren. “At first it was a joke,” he said, “but now this has its problems. ... Two of my wives left because I could not afford the basics like food, education, clothing.” Most of the family live in a house with a rusting corrugated iron roof on a mere 2 acres of land. “I can only remember the name of my first and the last born, but some of the children, I can’t recall their names,” Kasera lamented. Now his wives are using contraception; “I have learnt from my irresponsible act of producing so many children that I can’t look after,” he said.

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— American animal rights activist Alicia Day, 34, was arrested in Moscow, Russia, on Feb. 1, according to Reuters, after she paraded a calf through Red Square, shouting “Animals are not food!”

In a Russian court, she was fined 20,000 rubles ($285) and sentenced to 13 days of “administrative arrest.” Although Day is in Russia on a tourist visa, she explained in court that she had a driver bring the calf to Red Square so she could “show it a beautiful place in our beautiful country.”

— A 34-year-old California man was arrested in Florence, Italy, on Jan. 26 after he drove his rented Fiat onto the Ponte Vecchio, a stone bridge dating from 1345 that spans the Arno River and is now a pedestrian walkway and shopping destination. SF Gate reported that the unnamed driver told police he couldn’t find parking and didn’t realize he was on the historic bridge. He was fined about 500 euros. !

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Computer Love: Finding Happily Ever After on the Internet Editors Note: Due to press deadline, the online version of this story will be longer than it is in print.

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nline dating has transChanel Davis formed how people of all races, religions, and creeds meet Editor new people and their soulmates. With the general description of today’s dating pool being described as “having pee in it,” many people looking for love have opted to search behind the screen for their happily ever after, whatever that may look like.

The tech industry has answered the call with dating sites and apps ranging from Tinder, Match, and OkCupid to Grindr, HER, and SinglesMeet. According to a recent survey by Pew Research Center conducted in July 2022, Tinder “tops the list of dating sites or apps and is particularly popular among adults under 30.” Match and Bumble closely follow it.

“Tinder use is far more common among younger adults than among older Americans: 79% of online dating users under 30 say they have used the platform, compared with 44% of users ages 30 to 49, 17% of users 50 to 64, and just 1% of those 65 and older. Tinder is the top online dating platform among users under 50. By contrast, users 50 and older are about five times more likely to use Match than Tinder (50% vs. 11%).”

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common among younger adults than older, more widely used by the LGBTQA+ community, among men than women, and by those with at least some college education versus those with a high school education or less.

The Pew Research Survey also concluded that one in 10 adults meet their significant other through a dating site or app and finding online dating success. The following couples we spoke to in the Triad fell into that category.

Kinard and Demetrice Douthit met on Tinder in December 2019. Kinard had only been on the platform for a week or so before meeting Demetrice, who had been on some apps before but had only been on Tinder for less than a month.

“It was kind of not real. You’re swiping left and right, and sending messages sometimes and sometimes people respond to you but it doesn’t feel to me. It feels very fake to me until you can make contact with somebody in person,” Kinard said. So I haven’t been on there very long, maybe a week or so. I really haven’t been doing a lot of that.”

The 42-year-old Director of Student Support didn’t meet anyone in person until Kinard, citing that some people were flaky and she was a little “old school.”

“I was like, I’m not giving out my phone number on this app until I know you’re a real human. So people flake on me in person. I think that may have been part of it, too,” said Demetrice.

Kinard was not deterred. Once he got her Instagram handle, he did his own research.

“I did a deep into her Instagram. I went all off into her pictures trying to see what I could find out about her. I saw that she was a single mom. I saw the different things that she had down and the trips

Kinard and Demetrice Douthit that she was taking and the stuff she was doing. I saw she liked music,” he said. “I just kind of felt like we had some things in common. I saw where she was doing important things with colleges. I thought that we would have similar values and goals. I knew we had some common ground when I saw those things.”

Demetrice had more of a challenge when it came to finding out more about the 47-year-old musician and WinstonSalem State University Assistant Professor.

“He didn’t have a lot of stuff on Instagram but getting to know him was more about that first meeting.”

The duo met at Panera for lunch and spent several hours talking and getting to know each other.

“I gave him my real phone number and not my google number. I did my homework more once we became friends on Facebook. It showed that he was all band.”

The couple was married in November 2022 but knew almost a month after meeting that they were each other’s “person.”

“We talked and texted a lot. We dated a lot. We wanted to spend more time together. We did everything from movies to dinner to Netflix and chill to me even going with him to work,” Demetrice said.

“For me, it was date three when I really felt something. We were in Winston at Foothills listening to some music, eating dinner, and I was like, ‘pause, girl. You need to pump your brakes on this one. It’s

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Kinard said that he felt that the third date was special and remembers asking to kiss her after the date, but says it took him almost a month to know that she was the one.

“I knew something had shifted on that third date but I didn’t really know until I was on a work trip. I was in Atlanta and she wasn’t with me. We were talking on the phone and there were some things that she kept saying to me that just made my whole body resonate,” he said. “I believe it was my love chakra.”

Although the couple found happiness fairly quickly on the platform, they tell others looking for love on dating sites to be themselves and to be honest.

“Jesus is in the Tinder because we found each other,” Kinard said, laughing. “If you know yourself and you are willing to be yourself, the app can work. People don’t know how to be themselves anymore, and they always send in this representative. And then, of course, there’s this great divide between who you really are, and what you told them you are. I just happen to be a person who doesn’t know how to do that. I can only be myself. I just think we were really blessed. That’s why I say that Jesus is in the Tinder.”

Demetrice said that she tells her girlfriends to be honest about what they are looking for.

If you are looking for a partner, if you are looking to be married, be very clear with who you’re meeting on the app. Don’t play those games of let me just have this conversation and say what they want to hear,” she said. “Also to listen to the people that you’re talking to. I think what was critical in our first meetup is that I felt like he was really intentional about not WWW.YESWEEKLY.COM

just finding somebody to hook up with. He really was looking for more than let’s just Netflix and chill. We get caught up in the glitz and the glam but people can be telling us the whole time, this is what it is.”

For Sabrina and Lauren Richmond, the love story is a little different. Sabrina had just moved to Winston-Salem for school and started a profile on Plenty of Fish to find friends in the area.

“I didn’t have any intention of dating somebody because I was coming out here to focus on myself,” she said. “I knew a lot of people who had made friends and connections through Plenty of Fish so that’s where I started.”

She messaged Lauren and told her that she was looking for “people with similar interests to hang out with.”

Lauren had just gotten out of a relationship but was interested.

“I was ready to put myself out there. I really wanted to just have a good time,” she said There was just one issue standing in the way.

“I see that she’s looking for friends, but I’m looking at her pictures, and I’m thinking ‘there’s just no way.’ So I messaged her, and I’m like, well, thank you, but I just don’t think we could be friends.’ We talked with each other for a couple of weeks over the phone and through the app, and decided to meet each other.”

The pair met in person in 2015 after Lauren left an abusive relationship and was eight weeks pregnant.

“That’s the route I decided to go. She’s been there every step of the way, every appointment. Now we have a seven-yearold son. His name is Presley. She named him.”

Lauren was 20 at the time and Sabrina

was 27 when they met each other.

“I was really nervous because the night that I went to go meet her, she was staying at her friend’s house, and I was with my friends, and I was seriously looking like a mess,” Lauren said. “I was two minutes away from her house, and she thought it would be funny to text me and say, ‘just kidding I don’t want to meet anymore.’

So she was kidding, but I didn’t know it.

I got all upset. I turned around, and she was like, ‘Are you not coming?’ I was like no, I turned around. You told me never mind and she starts dying laughing. I go back and we meet each other. It was so awkward. We ate cake in the living room and watched a television show. We just hung out.”

Lauren and Sabrina said that don’t know exactly when they knew the other was the “one,” and it just happened organically for the.

“I just felt the need to kind of protect her and stick around. We continued dating and had some ups and downs because she was going through stuff, and I was going through stuff because I left California for a reason,” said Sabrina. “For me, it was maybe two or three years in which I felt like I could trust her to be loyal because from where I came from, everybody around me was dishonest and disloyal. So

I had a lot of issues with relationships in the past because of honesty.”

Sabrina said that she also found the friendship that she wanted, albeit one for a lifetime.

“We actually got along well, so I did find the friendship that I wanted. Things just kind of developed. From there, I started planning how I was going to move to the next step. I started preparing to put money aside and to look for stuff to propose to her.

Lauren said she knew when she could step outside of her comfort zone with Sabrina.

“I feel like when I was able to just not think about what I’m doing, I just knew that I did love her. It was like ‘wow, this is nice.’”

The couple was married on Halloween 2020 under a blue moon.

The pair warns others looking for love on online dating sites to be cautious and smart when looking for love.

“If you can research a person, do so. You never know what you’re signing up for.

Give it a shot but be careful.” !

CHANEL DAVIS is the current editor of YES! Weekly and graduated from N.C. A&T S.U. in 2011 with a degree in Journalism and Mass Communications. She’s worked at daily and weekly newspapers in the Triad region.

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The word “erotic” is derived from Eros, the Greek god of love and desire. Originally a handsome naked young man with wings, more cynical poets later depicted him as a blind child, leading to the chubby little archer we know as Cupid, the god’s Roman name.

As Cupid is emblematic of the holiday, it’s appropriate that Arts Ian McDowell Uptown Greensboro is presenting Voyeur Love 2, the organization’s second Gate City Erotic Art Show, in Contributor the Khalif Event Center, located at 2000 East Wendover Ave, on Friday, February 17, after Valentine’s Day. Arts Uptown Greensboro is a program of Uptown GSO Inc. (UGI), a nonprofit founded by Joseph Wilkerson to stimulate investment in northeastern Greensboro.

“Pornographic art can be erotic, but erotic art is not necessarily pornographic,” said Wilkerson. He also stressed that it can be educational as well as provocative.

“All art is subjective, and that’s especially true when it comes to the erotic variety. We’re stripping away the stereotypes and stigma about what sexuality relates to erotic art, and giving the artists the opportunity to explore what that means to both those creating the art and those experiencing it.”

He compared that experience to a child seeing the naked human body depicted in an art museum.

“When you ask your parents about that, they say it’s not about sex. But honestly, it is about sex, and if there’s a way for your parents to have a conversation with you about that, going to a museum or gallery can be that opening. So here, we’re trying to foster that same conversation between adults.”

This is the second time in a decade that Wilkerson has organized an erotic art show. He called that first one a big success but said the fact that no others had followed its lead is a major reason he’s doing it again.

“We did an erotic art show nine years ago this October, but it was more themed around that season, with Halloween and erotic art, in a show that tapped a bit into the movie Eyes Wide Shut,, as far as having a masked event. When we came up with the idea back then, there apparently hadn’t been an erotic art show in Greensboro for a long time. My first partner, Phillip Young, who is now vice president of Uptown Greensboro, was one of my studio artists and had an erotic piece in the studio space. I’d been thinking of the kinds of events we could have at that space, and his coming in with an erotic art piece made me realize we could do a whole show. I’d been thinking of calling it Vaguely Disguised Innuendo, but Phil liked the title Voyeur Love, and when I heard it, I liked it, too. That turned out to be a great show, and we sold some pieces.”

They’d always planned to do another one, but Wilkerson said they’d been waiting for

others to follow their lead.

“For whatever reason, that didn’t happen, and then, after a few more years, Covid came along, which shut down a lot of stuff. When we finally got back outside, as the cool kids would say, we did the Sneakerball for Juneteenth, and that went really well, and then we did an art battle in partnership with Marty Kotis at his space, which is really nice. We were hoping to partner with Marty on Voyeur Love 2, but he had a different space in mind he felt it would work better at, and that space isn’t ready yet, so we had to pivot and go back to the Khalif Event Center, and here we are.”

Wilkerson said that the upcoming event is proving to be a great way for him and his partners in Arts Uptown Greensboro to reintroduce themselves to the city they want to uplift and stimulate.

“It’s really just a matter of making people aware that we’re doing another erotic art show, which looks like

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it’s going to be as successful and fun as the first one. It’s already doing what we hoped it would, which is to get a lot of the artists excited, as this is an opportunity for them to pull a piece out of the closet, so to speak, or to create new pieces.”

Wilkerson said one example of that happened the morning before he spoke to YES! Weekly.

“We met with an artist, Mandy Dunn, and she had never done an erotic piece and was glad of the opportunity. I think that she did a great job with the two pieces that she submitted. That’s kind of the genesis we’ve been hoping and planning for.”

He expressed satisfaction with how it’s shaping up as a very diverse show.

“Another artist we’re featuring is Doug Cason, who’s done a lot of murals with Mary Kotis, and who participated in the Dirty Show out of Detroit. His artwork is probably closer to the fine art side and I’m really happy to be showing his stuff. We’re partnering with body painter Shan Ferreira. She was in our Art Battle and we knew we wanted to feature her bodypainting skills and her models, but we ended up partnering with her, so she’s still going to bring that, and a lot more.”

Wilkerson promised the show will arouse the ear as well as the eye.

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“There’s 3Stax, a live band covering a lot of songs by Prince because his work is perfect for this, and comedian Big Los. And I’ll be presenting a digital collage I call Obey the Algorithm, which was inspired by my falling down that rabbit hole on Instagram looking for erotic art and being inundated with so much stuff.

I’m calling it Sonic Erotica, where we have 50 wireless headphones that will give you the full content of the presentation.”

The Gate City Erotic Art Show: Voyeur Love 2 begins at 7 p.m. on February 17 in the Khalif Event Center at 2000 East Wendover Ave. Tickets start at $20 and can be found on Eventbrite.

“Come with an open mind,” said Wilkerson. “Erotic masks are welcome.” !

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The “Spectacle of Love,” is both an album from Greensboro-raised Libby Rodenbough and a solid summation of Valentine’s Katei Cranford Day in general — it’s the season where romance abounds for Contributor saps, sweethearts and songbirds.

Rodenbough will actually be in Greensboro for Valentine’s Day, playing with Lou Hazel and Rodes Baby at the Flat Iron on February 14; and their 2020 “Spectacle of Love” album features a few tracks worthy of a Valentine’s mixtape, while the venue itself these days seems the product Cupid’s arrow a few years on.

Now owned and operated by husbandand-wife, Josh King and Abbey Spoon, the Flat Iron continues to nurture and grow along with their family and the Greensboro community — though it didn’t always feel that way, as explored in King’s YES! WEEKLY

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“Another One For Abbey” off his 2021 “Feel Good.”

“I wrote that song during a shit time in our lives,” King said, recalling the familial struggles around conceiving their second daughter, the pandemic pressures on his work as a musician, and the death of friends. “I just wanted to write something that she could listen to and be reminded that even though everything was fucking crazy, I wasn’t going anywhere and we’d live the fucking crazy together.” Flash forward a couple of years, and they’re living a whole new set of crazy — which they invite folks to share six nights a week.

Meanwhile, “Tired Eyes” from Winston’s Water Culture wades in similar waters. “‘Tired Eyes’ is a song about a love persevering through time and hardships,” said Austin Etchells, a new member in the group of “dads with a passion for lawn care and emo music.” “It’s about being fully comfortable and accepted as you are, and being comforted at night and in the morning by the tired eyes of your love.”

Mixing the bedrock of married life and the practicalities of musician life, The Kneads’ “Not A Square To Spare For The Polar Bear,” offers an ode to singer

Michael Joncas’ wife — after more than a few years of her wondering. “Over the years, as I shared new song ideas with my wife she always jokingly said, ‘so this one is gonna be about me, right?’” he explained. “The majority of my lyrics are about other people, characters from books, world events. I don’t usually write about myself. So with this tune, I was finally able to say, “‘yes, this one is about you.’” Serving Replacements-style powerpop, the track urges, “whatever it takes to prove I’m worth your time.” They’ll play the Pour House on March 25.

Love songs hit a bit differently for bands of married folk like the folksters in Couldn’t Be Happiers and Brown Mountain Lightning Bugs.

Offering “Folk(ish) fuel for your psychedelic soul,” the duo of Zack and Kendra Harding in BMLB have a new album in the works — though it’s “Moment With You,” off their 2021 “Folk(ish)” album that captures their essence. Written in a McDonald’s parking lot at the crack of dawn, after an airport farewell, the track beckons to break clocks and relish time spent together. They’ll be at Southend Brewing on February 11.

Another married duo, Jordan Crosby Lee and Jodi Hildebran Lee, make up Couldn’t Be Happiers, who make “folkrock for everyone” through fantastical source material via an admittedly thick layer of sap. “As if the band name wasn’t sappy enough, we’ve got plenty of sappy love songs,” they said, pointing to their “apocalypse” love song, “Tree House.”

Growing out of an inside joke about shortcomings and strengths, “it’s about how we would survive together when global warming starts swallowing up our cities — of course, we couldn’t pass up an opportunity to throw in some progressivism,” they noted. By the bridge, the pair reconciles their fate together, singing, ”when there’s nowhere else to go, we’ll go together, and when there’s no time left to live, we’ve lived forever.” CBH will be at the Flat Iron on February 9 and at Roar on February 26.

From the fantastical to the more straightforward love songs, it comes as no surprise that the indie poppers in Sweet Dream have put out plenty of sweet stuff, with songs like “You” (featuring Reliably Bad’s Jessica Schneider) or “With Me” off of their 2020 “Caricature” album; and

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“Maybe” off the “Blessed” EP. They’ll also be at Etc.GSO on February 17.

Packing a little more punch, Dai Cheri’s latest single, “Let Magic Lead the Way,” leans into an affectionate post-punk lens suiting their calling as “an indie rock band specializing in really loud love songs.”

They’ll be at Monstercade on February 25 with Tired All the Time and Lofield.

In the singer-songwriter realm, Michael C. Parris’ “Tiny Little Love Song” off his 2022 record “Honeybee” relates the comforts of home found in the light of a blue-eyed lover. Written at the Mercyland Songwriter Workshop in Hot Springs with Marissa Spence (who went on to marry those blue eyes) the track was recorded in Nashville with an ensemble of musicians and lifelong friends. Currently taking a break during his daughter’s basketball season, Parris is scheduled to perform as part of the Martha Bassett Show on May 4.

For songwriter Doug Baker, love looks and feels different these days — a notion he explored on “What Does Love Look Like Now (Rosser’s Song),” a track from his 2021 LP, “Navigating Life.” “It’s all about discovering love in its truest and deepest sense later in life,” Baker explained. “We definitely aren’t teenagers. Hell, our kids aren’t even teenagers! It might sound corny to some folks to call her my muse, but that’s really the case as I’ve written a couple of other songs about her and our relationship.” Baker is currently developing a songwriting education program through the High Point Arts Council and curates the “Songwriters@Scup” series at Scuppernong Books in Greensboro (the next installment on February 12 features Carmen Bliss, Jim Ritchey, and Emanuel Wynter).

From muses to memories, “Mneme”

by Being Followed offers sweet musings on memories and love — both real and imagined — from the duo of “insufferably romantic nihilist heroes, singing things, plucking strings, moving 1s and 0s.” For writer Chris York, “it’s about how you remember a moment is sometimes more valuable than truth.” Based on a cold winter years ago, “I was 21, strung out, with no hope and zero clue living in a squat house with a bunch of other kids making equally bad decisions,” York explained. “A group of transients came from NYC to stay just long enough to wait out the worst part of winter on their way further south. She walked in and everything changed. I had a reason and it was her. The truth is she fell in love with my best friend. But what I remember means more than truth.”

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marriage,” Howard explained. “It’s really a plea to be totally present in a relationship — and totally available.” The single is part of an upcoming album with producer Doug Davis. Howard’s group, the Camel City Yacht Club will be totally available (and smooth) at Joymongers Barrell Hall on February 24.

Howard also appears on Dale Cole’s “I Have Tried,” adding to the vocal arrangement to the doo-wop-inspired plea for the unrequited. “It’s a modern take,” Cole noted. “We’ve all been in the situation this song references. You meet someone, fall madly in love, and that person doesn’t reciprocate. But you just can’t let go.” Cole has a new single releasing on February 10. He’ll be at ROAR in Winston-Salem on February 8 with the Camel City Revelators for a monthly fundraiser and drive for the Second Harvest Food Bank Of North West North Carolina; and as part of the Bootleggers at Folly’s Draft & Snack in Kernersville on March 18.

The love cats in the Cure-heavy rock outfit Toothsome touches on a different sort of pain in ”Milk Punch,” the single from their 2022 EP, “Largesse.” “My girlfriend jokes that if I leave her she’ll chop my dick off, and as someone who has been surprise-divorced before, I can’t tell you how comforting that is,” vocalist Tom Sowders gushed about his muse (who this writer knows to be a lovely, lovely lady). “Milk Punch is about my love, who found me kind of fucked up over an ex and waited for me to get healthy. The vibe matches the easy vibe of our mutual love.

I can’t wait to write a hundred more songs about her.” The next show from the TriadTriangle hoppers will be with Bangzz and Spirit System at Local 506 on March 24.

From new love to new releases, the NuBeing Collective will put out a video for their rendition of “My Funny Valentine,” featuring Lacy Haith, on February 14. They’re currently working on a new album, curating the 2023 Strange Fruit Festival, and developing the upcoming NuFinds live music series.

Meanwhile, Joshua Kendrick will release “Be My Parachute” for Valentine’s Day. “It’s like a love letter to dance to,” Kendrick explained, “knowing I have someone to catch me when I fall has my heart singing beat beat be my parachute!” The song is the third installment of a bi-weekly release series he’s planned through 2023. His next show is at Tailgators on February 9.

From new flings to married folks and all sorts of honeys in between. Happy Valentine’s Day, Triad lovers! !

KATEI CRANFORD is a Triad music nerd who spotlights area artists and events.

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[1. ART: Where is the Prado Museum located?

[2. GEOGRAPHY: What is the only

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7. “Home Alone.”

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