The Woodstock School
Tiger Fall 2016
Dress Code or Penal Code?
Students share thoughts on the different interpretations of what’s appropriate By Taarini Gupta “What you wear to school should be appropriate. Look neat and clean. This is a school, not your house.” How many times have students heard this? The Woodstock student handbook states: “Graphics and/or wording on clothing must not be offensive to any person and must demonstrate sensitivity and respect for the community at large, both on and off the school property. Girls in particular should be cautious about the amount of bare skin they show. Dying of hair in any unnatural colour is not permitted. Ear and nose piercings are acceptable. Tattoos cannot be visible. Bed attire is not permitted outside the dorm level, neither are flip flops.” The Woodstock community has a lot to say about the dress code, especially the girls. Aware of the conservative surroundings, they were asked whether there should be a dress code in school, to which most of them agreed. The consensus is that there should a boundary between wanting to wear something and whether it’s appropriate or not. Some mentioned Indian culture and how it should be respected, but Vanalika Nagarwalla, Grade 12, said, “It shouldn’t be completely about the culture, you should be able to define yourself as well.” Isabella Shaw, Grade 12, said, “When really conservative cultures look at Western cultures they’re like ‘what is this?’ Since we are the younger generation we understand, but we also have to be sensitive towards the previous generations.” Interviewees were told how the girls aren’t allowed to leave dorms to go to the dining hall in pyjamas, to which Nagarwalla said, “What?! I wear pajamas to my dining table so I guess the girls at the dorm level should be able to as well.” When asked what they thought about girls getting sent back to dorms from the dining hall, or half way up to school, a lot of people complained or thought that the dress code is unequal for both genders. Nagarwalla said, “The guys are allowed to wear sweatpants, but I got dress coded for
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Graffiti in a girls bathroom reveals a common complaint about the dress code. (Photo by Nandini Aggarwal)
wearing sweatpants!” Even Shaw said, “I don’t think the dress code is gender equal, like in the past I almost got dress coded but my shorts were relatively long so I asked them why and they were just like girls can’t wear shorts and I was like ‘whaaaa?!’” Students were asked why they thought the dress code is stricter for girls than boys, to which Kiara Kanwar, Grade 11, said, “Girls have different bodies than boys and the boys are not stared at or objectified in society.” Deasyl Dorji, Grade 12, said, “Guys don’t get abused?” Liah Bergerson, Grade 10, said she believes that there is policy inconsistency in, “I
wore this dress once and I wasn’t let out of the dorms, but this other girl wearing a super short dress, with a deep plunging neckline got away with it completely. I think it basically points at girls with bigger thighs, bigger hips, or bigger stomachs, and I don’t think it’s fair that the dress code is affecting different people. I don’t think its okay for them to instill this idea of just because you’re wearing this the boys won’t be able to study. Go back to dorms and get dressed and come back up and get a tardy, whatever, we don’t care just change your clothes and I don’t think that’s okay. We’re made to feel cheap.” Do boys ever get ‘dress cod-
ed’? Yes, they do. Tom Berger, Grade 11, got dress coded once because he was wearing a formal shirt without wearing anything underneath (let’s just say the shirt was transparent and some things cannot be unseen). Sebastian Scott, an exchange student from Australia, was dress coded because his shorts were too short. Boys had lots of opinions on the dress code as well. “There should be a dress code, but it shouldn’t be so strict. Like I’ve never gotten dress-coded before, but I know about the four-fingers rule, or is it five fingers?” said Jaeyoun Kim, Grade 11. Vashisht Agrawal, Grade
12, said, “I don’t think the dress code is equal for both genders because guys can wear sleeveless [shirts] to school, but girls can’t and this may have to do something with the society. I mean you can’t really say if it’s equal or not because it’s just got to do with the society. The most I’ve gotten is that we can’t wear slippers to school.” When asked about the implementation, some said that every teacher and dorm parent interprets the dress code differently, which is why the girls are sometimes allowed to go to school in whatever they’re wearing but they end up getting dress coded in school. This creates a lot of confusion. How do the teachers feel about the dress code? Ajay Mark, the Head of Student Life, said, “Definitely gender wise guys get away with lots of things whereas girls don’t and the main thing is educating guys about wearing caps to school. Culturally, schools [in the U.S.] may allow that but in an Indian school, have you ever seen anyone wear caps? This school is in India and so culturally it’s not acceptable, especially in front of a lady or a lady teacher, because it’s disrespectful. If a boy comes to school with scruffy hair, hasn’t had a shower and is wearing dirty clothes and doesn’t even comb his hair, it is considered inappropriate. I tell people ‘Did you just wake up and run to school?’”
Comparison: Dress codes at other schools in India American Embassy School, Delhi * Images, text, or advertising on clothing is expected to be free from profanity, free from offensive messages, and free from any reference to substances not allowed on campus. * Shirts may be sleeveless but no spaghetti straps or tank tops. * Tops must cover cleavage, midriff, and torso. * Shorts must fully cover and extend well beyond the buttocks. * Skirts must be at least at mid-thigh length front and back. * Undergarments are not to be revealed. Bra straps, underwear, and boxer shorts are considered underwear. * Shoes or sandals must be worn. Source: AES Student Handbook American School of Bombay * Neat dress: Nice shirts, collared polo style or button up shirts are preferable * Shoulders and backs must be covered * Sleeveless shirts are acceptable, but should cover the shoulders to the end of the shoulder joint * Shirt and pants must have constant overlap with normal posture and movement; midriffs should not be visible
* If a student is wearing a jacket or sweat top over a shirt or blouse that does not meet dress code, it must remain zipped or buttoned up * Boxers or other underclothes should not be visible * Skirts should be no shorter than mid-thigh length * Shorts or combination skirt/shorts should be mid-thigh length or longer * Sandals or shoes are acceptable * Clothing promoting ideas which are inappropriate in the school setting should not be worn Source: ASB Student Handbook Wynberg-Allen School, Mussoorie Boys : Dark grey trousers with maximum 18 “ width at the bottom. White long sleeved shirts, dark green blazer with the school crest, dark green pullover, School tie, grey socks, black shoes with laces. Girls: Dark grey skirt/trousers/tunic, white long-sleeved blouse, dark green blazer with the school crest, dark green pullover, school tie, grey socks, black shoes. Source: Wynberg Allen website