INTERNATIONAL DATELINE Washington International School -“Journalism Governs Forever” - April 2018
Finding a Home Away From Home: Freh & Freh
By Val Deshler and Ananiya Neeck
As the 2017-18 academic year draws to a close, seniors prepare to transition to the next chapter in their lives. Some of us, as in every graduating class, will stride confidently into the major of our choice at university. Others will deviate from the beaten path, venturing to different corners of the Earth to explore, volunteer and gather work experience. That being said, we find ourselves entering a particularly charged and polarized sociopolitical climate. Our progression through high school has not only seen two opposing presidential administrations, but also a historically vast amount of movements, debates, and developments concerning social and cultural issues. Often centralized, although not limited to, are discussions of race relations and systemic civil violations, gender disparities, sexual expression and fluidity, and immigration reform. As a member of an IB educated, international community, WIS aspires towards a holistic worldview and a tolerant social rhetoric. Yet with these divisive political themes dominating our news and media consumption, formulating our own, clear, personal perspectives can be complicated. We decided to personalize some of this discourse and turn to two special members of our own community. Freh Tesfaye and Freh Ashina are two incredibly strong women in the WIS community who are also mothers, first-generation international immigrants, hard working members of the Ethiopian community, and oftentimes, the best part of our day, as the baristas of the IB café. Today, ideological dilemmas about minorities and strict immigration regulations under the Trump administration are debated in the news from theoretical and structural perspectives. In sharing our talks with about their experience of American life and their beloved home country, this discourse can be put aside to
make room for tangible experiences with close, real friends who have been here for us through bitter and sweet. Freh Tesfaye immigrated to the United States from Ethiopia in 2005, looking to find better job opportunities. While her initial experience here was positive, she began to feel the thousands of miles of distance from her beloved country. “It was my first time being without my family, so I was confused, but I accepted that I had to work,” Tesfaye said. Similar to Tesfaye, Freh Ashina immigrated to the U.S. by herself 14 years ago, although she had family in Freh Tesfaye in the IB café D.C.. She grew up in Addis Ababa, the capital city of Ethiopia. She describes it as being always crowded with big markets. “Some parts of D.C. look like that and remind me of home,” Ashina said. Back in Ethiopia, Ashina completed high school, going on to attend college, where she earned a diploma in accounting in her native language, Amharic. When she came to the United States, she had to learn English, which was the first lesson she pursued. “I can write and read but when I speak people cannot understand me
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because of my accent, and I struggle to understand them,” Ashina said. Another new challenge Ashina faced was the long working hours, working up to 14 hours a day in kitchens when she first moved to the US, something which she was not used to and was an exhausting experience. In Ethiopia, she had done bookkeeping in a government agency dealing with agriculture. In the U.S., she worked in the back of kitchens and had no days off. “To survive here, you have to accept the environment, and be a hard worker to change yourself and your family,” Ashina said. Ashina’s first job was at a steakhouse in the M Street Mall. She worked there for three years there before starting at Panera Bread, a popular American chain restaurant, where she met Tesfaye when they interviewed on the same day. She soon began working as a barista in the IB Café at WIS. She loves everything about WIS, especially the community. “The kids are really respectful. Sometimes when I see [them] I say, are you sure they are teenagers? They’re so mature and respectful, and their minds are grown up. The teachers and administration are all good people,” Ashina said. Here, due to the language barrier, Ashina has not been able to pursue any work involving accounting. “I want to start buying books and start somewhere, learn something,” Ashina said. Tesfaye has worked at WIS for
four and a half years. When asked about what her favorite part about working at WIS is she declares, “I love talking with kids, you guys.” However, with a mischievous eyes and a bubbly laugh, she warns us not to ask her which student is her favorite. Tesfaye comes to WIS from 7 a.m. to 2 p.m. and then goes directly to work at the Panera in Dupont Circle, catching a bus and metro to get there. There, she works tirelessly from 3 p.m. to 11 p.m., taking a metro bus home. This exhausting work schedules encompasses a single wish for the future: to bring her two-year-old daughter to join her in the United States. “I want nothing else more than her,” Tesfaye declares. Ashina also has a daughter, a seventeen year old high school senior, who she loves dearly and describes as a good student. Her one wish is for her to go to a good college. While the United States has been their home for almost fifteen years, Ethiopia continues to hold a significant place in the hearts of both Tesfaye and Ashina. Tesfaye’s love for Ethiopian food also persists, as she describes her favorite Ethiopian dish, injera with shiro, a stew atop a light flatbread, remarking how she gets hungry just talking about. What Tesfaye misses the most about Ethiopia is her family, especially her mom and dad. Ashina misses the traditionally close bonds in Ethiopia, including her parents and sisters. “I miss the society. You are never alone. It’s like being a part of a family. I miss that a lot. In D.C., I live alone, and sometimes I don’t even know who my neighbors are,” Ashina said. Immigration is a complicated experience, culturally, financially and emotionally. While Washington D.C. has the largest Ethiopian communities in the United States, WIS has provided a sense of community for Ashina and Tesfaye through forming close bonds. We know we speak for all class of 2018 when we say there are no words to express our love, admiration and gratitude for these two ladies, nor to convey how much we will miss them next year.
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