The Wedding Planner - 2021 Edition

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WRITTEN BY: Kelly Waterhouse

SUPPLEMENT TO The Wellington Advertiser

Love conquers all:

Pivoting wedding plans in a pandemic in the name of love Kendra & Blair

PHOTOS BY: Chantel Dirksen Photography

If there’s one thing Kendra and Blair Goss learned when planning their wedding through a pandemic, it’s that life doesn’t go according to plan, so they’d need a contingency plan for their special day. A few, actually. But the bigger lesson? When they kept their focus on the sole intention to marry each other, to begin a new life together, everything fell into place, because love was always in the plan. “Our thoughts were, we’re getting married because we know we want to spend the rest of our lives together. And we didn’t want something like a pandemic to pull up our lives,” said Kendra. “So right at the beginning, we made that decision. And we went for it.” The couple was married in an outdoor ceremony in Drayton on October 3, 2020 at the home of Kendra’s parents, Rick and Lynn Mantler.

Blair surprised Kendra with a proposal in October 2019. It didn’t take long for the bride to get the planning underway. “I bought my wedding gown at Taylor’s Bridal Boutique in Elmira,” Kendra said. “I used to work there, it was my first job out of high school. Being a teenager, working at a bridal salon, I knew exactly what I wanted my wedding to look like. So from the day we got engaged, I think I had the guest list, venue and rentals, all of that done within maybe two or three weeks.” The bride’s career in corporate event planning was an asset in knowing where and what to do, but she said given the pandemic, it still left her “very stressed.” The frequent government and public health guideline changes required plans to alter quickly. “We actually made extra lists right from the

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start,” Kendra said, noting that the initial guest list was 120 people. In the spring, when it was clear the pandemic would be an issue for the foreseeable future, they prepared to alter the wedding. “We got engaged in October and COVID-19 hit around March, so in the spring we had a list of 100 guests, we a had a list of 50 and we had a list of 25. And then we had a plan that if it was just Blair, myself, the individual marrying us and our photographer as a witness, then we would have figured that out as well.” She adds, “It sounds silly, but I felt like I planned six to eight different weddings in one day.” Yet Blair and Kendra did not waiver on their priority: the significance of what exchanging their vows meant to them and the beginning of their life as husband and wife. So while they knew they

would have to make tough decisions, they also knew they had to live with them, so those decisions had to be right for them, as a couple. “It was hard, but that’s how we pushed through,” Kendra said. While the bride took on much of the stress, she credits her groom for keeping her grounded. “Blair is a calm, cool and collected guy. And he was of the mindset, ‘whatever it is, is what it is. And we’ll figure it out,’” she said. As the wedding date approached, the public health regulations for an outdoor ceremony and dinner reception changed, again. Blair and Kendra were able to invite 100 people to the outdoor ceremony, but only 25 guests could take part in the dinner. “I probably talked to Wellington-Dufferin-Guelph Public Health five to 10 times prior to the wedding


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