The Reception Issue - Februray/March 2014 The Wedding Connection Magazine

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

25 7 | editor’s letter 8 | trend report 11 | top receptionmistakes 32 38

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17 | pretty in pantone 18 | bold + beautiful 25 | glitzy, glamorous, gold 32 | real weddings 34 | hayley + stetson 38 | over the top tables 50 | natalie + ryan 56 | DIY 58 | for the groom 65 | jamie + annabelle 69 | kendra + gregory 72 | an elegant vineyard affair 80 | the secret garden 84 | charity

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From Trendy to Traditional & Intimate to Lavish

PAULA BARNETT

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Certified Wedding Planner

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SPECIAL THANKS TO...

contributors A L F R E D A N G E LO alfredangelo.com B A R N E T T & C O. barnettandcofloral.com BHLDN bhldn.com C A S A B L A N C A B R I DA L casablancabridal.com C AT H Y ' S C L I P P E R S cathysclippers.com C H R I S E L DA P H OTO G R A P H Y chriseldaphotography.com CJ DUNCAN P H OTO G R A P H Y cjduncan.com

DEEP SOUTH BARRELS deepsouthbarrels.com D E VAU LT F LO R A L devaultfloral.com DIAMONTRIGUE diamontrigue.net

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E D I TO R I N C H I E F Aly Fiebrantz

E D I TO R I A L S TA F F Ana Reyes-Bonar Katherine Parker Sonya McDowell

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FROM THE EDITOR

GET I N VO LV E D !

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hello, Brides dream of ceremonies being THE moment. This is true it’s when you pledge your undying love and devotion to your beau.

But the reception is when you get to dance, give speeches, dance, eat cake, dance, drink yummy cocktails, and visit with all your lovely guests who came to your special day.

One of my favorite weddings to attend was my cousin Heather’s.

She worked really hard to incorporate family traditions, like the venue (our aunt’s house) and her own personality. The ceremony was at the family church (I think) I don't remember much of it. I do rememeber the reception. I remember the bridesmaids getting to wear flip-flops at the reception and dance! That’s the point, while people remember the ceremony; memories are created at the reception.

Receptions are the life of the party when it comes to wedding planning. So much goes into receptions from choosing your colors, centerpieces, favors and so much more. It is a pinteresters heaven and nightmare all rolled into one. We worked really hard to give you recommendations on themes, paid tribute to the color of the year (Yay Radiant Orchid), and gave you insiders secrets on how to have a fabulous reception. Read on and create some memories!!

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THE REPORT PRESENTS EVERY MONTH Box subscriptions are huge right now!

Birchbox takes a monthly subscription to the next level by giving you beauty samples of items you might never buy right to your door. This is a great idea for bridesmaids or even for the 6 months before your wedding to make sure you look picture perfect with the right products from BirchBox.

C A N ' T S TA N D T H E H E AT ?

This gorgeous recipe book is a great bridesmiad gift (or groomsmen if there's a chef).

The gorgeous recipe binder can become a tradition with you and your gals. Y'all can share recipes with eachother on special days.

When they cook that pumpkin pie they will remember your special day. Recipe Binder provided

by SugarPaper

DE CAN OR DE CANT?

Gifts don't have to be all bows and ribbons! This awesome decantur set from Plantation is an elegant alternative to matching jewelry. Or just an amazing piece for your lovely new home with your beau!

SILKY ELEGANCE Matching robes for your bridesmaid are not only amazing gifts but great photo ops!

Who can turn down an elegant silk robe. Our fav are classic monogrammed silk robes from Wedding Prep Gals. Who can go wrong with monograms?

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DA N C E T H E N I G H T AWAY

PUT A LETTER ON IT Who could say no to stationary? These gorgeous monogrammed single cards are an elegant contribution to any bridesmaid gifts.

Start it off by writing a note on your own set for each of your bridesmaids! Cards provided

by SugarPaper

Set aside a basket of flip flops are your reception so people can put on their dancing shoes and dance the night away at your gorgeous reception. Want other ideas? Check out our top tables spread on page 38.

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ASK THE EXPERT

top reception mistakes

photo by Captivated Image

This wedding looks like it could get a little hairy. Our staff racked their brains for wedding mistakes and how to avoid them. We decided to go to the experts.

We asked Wedding Businesses from every reception aspect what they thought the top 10 mistakes were for wedding receptions and tips and tricks to avoid it!

Turn the page to avoid hairy situations at your wedding!

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TEN TIPS TO AVOID wedding cake mistakes 4 C A R E F U L LY C O N S I D E R A N OUTDOOR RECEPTION. The weather can change quickly and cause multiple problems, such as melting frosting and insects.

5 C A K E D E L I V E R Y M AY S E E M L I K E A N U N I M P O RTA N T F E E .

However, it’s just the opposite. Bakers are highly trained to safely transport and set up the cake.

Chances of the cake being damaged are much higher when it is taken by a person who may not know how to properly transport it.

6 N E V E R M OV E T H E WEDDING CAKE AFTER IT HAS B E E N D E L I V E R E D A N D S E T U P. 7 THE CAKE IS THE CENTER OF THE RECEPTION. Brides should not allow outside opinions to influence her decisions in her choices of her dream cake.

1 P ROV I D E A C O LO R S A M P L E . It is extremely important to specify

the colors to avoid any discretion.

2 TA K E T H E T I M E TO LO O K I N TO A L L O P T I O N S AT LO C A L BAKERIES. Do not limit your options. Make appointments and taste at multiple locations. Be attentive to each bakery’s quality of detail in their work.

3 O R D E R I N A DVA N C E .

While it may seem early, allow about six months advance upon ordering. This time will give the bakery plenty of time to perfect the design and clear up any questions. Also, this gives the bride a manageable payment schedule.

8 I T I S E S S E N T I A L TO C L A R I F Y A L L E X P E C TAT I O N S W I T H T H E B A K E R . The bride’s opinion

is a high priority; however, the baker should not be micromanaged. They have a professional opinion on what may or may not work. Keep in mind, cakes are their profession.

9 A REALISTIC BUDGET S H O U L D B E E S TA B L I S H E D BEFORE SHOPPING FOR CAKES. 1 0 A B R E AT H -TA K I N G WEDDING CAKE IS ESSENTIAL FOR THE PERFECT RECEPTION. A professional baker can most likely meet expectations better than someone who bakes as a hobby.

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ABOUT MANDY WILLIAMS Mandy Williams has owned and operated The Cake Company of Canyon, Texas since November of 1999 to present day producing beautiful and delicious works of art. She lives in Canyon with her husband Billy of twenty-three years and two children, Hayden (nineteen), and Hannah (sixteen). The Cake Company has been featured in many highly acclaimed magazines, such as the Amarillo magazine, 806 Bride, Wedding Connections, and Beautiful Weddings of Texas.

Mandy is very involved in her community. She participates in the Canyon Noon Lions Club, the City of Canyon Mainstreet advisory board, and both the Canyon and Amarillo chambers of commerce.

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TOP 7 MISTAKES from linen and floral experts 1 . D O N ' T WA I T U N T I L T H E LAST MINUTE If you wait until the last minute to book your venue, you may not get one on the date you like. If you wait to order table linens and chair covers until too late they may not arrive in time. If you wait to book a florist the flowers you wish to have may not be able to be found on short notice. The bakery needs your order timely. Etc. knowing your time frame will save you stress, worry and money.

2 . TO O M ATC H Y- M ATC H Y Too often brides will choose flowers or linens that match identically the colors of their dress or their bridesmaids dresses. Choosing colors that compliment each other can make all the difference in the world. Pairing complimenting colors reduce the amount of clash and make a smoother easier on the eyes look. Choosing a flowers for the reception should compliment the colors used in the wedding but not match identically. The same goes for the table linens and chair covers. If everything is the same exact color it will all run together and items will be overlooked. It defeats the purpose of decorating. While on the other hand allowing these two to work together will create an ultimate setting.

3 . C O LO R O R N O C O LO R Color can be very effective in decorating your reception. Be sure your colors go together tastefully and don't be afraid to use color in things like table linens and chair covers. Many brides will stick to the ordinary white, off white, and or black lines which is ordinary. But adding that extra punch to the decorations will definitely be noticed. Even if it is just at the cake table or registry table where it will be most noticed. Remember To take into consideration your photographs. Using table linens off different texture and color make these pictures stand out.

4 . TA B L E L I N E N S One big mistake is not getting the right size linens to cover the tables. Don't leave your table legs exposed. You want to be sure your linens are floor length, exposing the legs of your table is a big no, no.

5 . C H A I R C OV E R S Chair covers compliment the entire setting and finish the look of the room. Just be sure to know the style and size of the chairs. Leaving the chairs uncovered could leave you dissatisfied with the whole look you have tried to accomplish.

If chair covers are not in your budget or the chair doesn't need a full cover, try a sash to bring in the pop of color.

6 . A R R I V I N G L AT E O R L E AV I N G E A R LY One thing you can do to get to the reception timely is to already have the brides family and brides pictures taken before the wedding so that the only remaining pictures would be that of family of the groom and bride and groom together.

The flip side, guests came to see your special moments and congratulate you on your special day.

Be sure to greet and thank each guest before making your grand exit.

7. DON'T BE SURPRISED All of your vendors should have you sign a contract. Be sure you know what's in it. For example--be sure you know if your venue allows open flame if you plan on having candles. Know your start and stop times and when you can set up.

Make sure you make contact with all vendors 2-3 weeks before your date to be sure everyone is on the same page. Make a plan for who will pick up, clean up, returning rentals, etc.

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ABOUT RITA+JENNI Born and raised here in Lubbock. married to Randy Anderson in 1995 I retired from Southwest Airlines in 1998 and stayed home to raise my daughters Danielle and Amy. Once they were older we Started the business out of my home in 2006 with my sister in law. I took the business over in 2012 and have been running it alone since then. I specialize in chaircovers and table linens for any event. From basic linens to specialty linens. I am located inside of Devault Floral at 3703 19 th street suite A and meet clients by appointment. I really enjoy what I do to be able to help add that special touch to that special day!

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PRETTY IN PANTONE �radiant orchid

COLOR OF THE YEAR

Radiant Orchid is the Pantone Color of the Year and for good reasons! This smooth color can work for all seasons, venues, and for all brides. Pantone kept this secret tucked away all year, but now it’s a free for all for 2014 with this fun, sophisticated color.

This purple-cousin is a great accent, from little details like small flowers that get tucked away in your bouquet to a great pair of shoes. If you’re feeling adventurous, give your bridesmaid’s an orchid makeover! A dress in this cool color will make a fun, but still romantic, statement. The striking hue is sure to compliment all body types and complexions. The groomsmen can get in on the fun, too, with a great Orchid pocket square or cufflinks.

Radiant Orchid can work with nearly every other Pantone color. Creams and greens create an organic palette while oranges and teal elevate this color to a brighter scheme. Different shades of Radiant Orchid make it easy to blend in with the rest of your special day. You can have a lighter version of it tucked away in the place cards and a bolder splash in your accessories.

With this non-traditional color, the fun is in the creativity. Add it to a headband or a gemstone ring. This hue reaches across the color wheel and highlights pinks, blues and purples. Add its namesake flower to your arrangements so your guests can enjoy the smell and vibrant color of the purple orchid. For neutrally colored weddings, this muted purple will add some interest and pops of color without standing out too much. For brighter wedding schemes, Radiant Orchid creates an anchor to your other colors; a vibrant backdrop to highlight the brighter colors.

This bold color should compliment you as a bride and highlight the details of your special day. This color of the year is bound to make your special day the wedding of the year. photos by jill lauren photography

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THE VISION Chevrons! Most of our office staff are fairly obsessed with chevrons. So, we chose chevrons as a central theme for this reception issue. A theme doesn’t have to be something like “Babes on the Beach” or “Fairytale Wedding” but instead can be colors or even geometric shapes.

The idea is to create a specific ambiance. This weddings colors were fuchsia and navy blue with white accents. We emphasized simple lines and colors to create a simple, sophisticated look. The modern lines of the venue (The Roof) leant themselves well to this simple sophistication.

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BOLD + BEAUTIFUL

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THE GUESTBOOK This bride loves to cook! Cooking often represents family traditions, specific memories, and a fun time. Instead of having people sign a book that will sit on your shelf and collect dust, have them fill out one of these gorgeous recipe cards! You know who came to your reception and you get an extra special gift from your guests.

C H A R I TA B L E FAVO R S Don’t like chocolate? Can’t decide what great favor to fit your personality? This couple opted to have the money they would’ve spent on favors donated to their favorite charities. The adorable tags can be tied onto wineglasses, cupcakes, chocolate or nothing!

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BOLD + BEAUTIFUL

THE DRESSES Hint! There were two. Each of our reception photo shoots this issue have two dresses; a wedding dress, to fit the theme, and a fun reception dress. Our thoughts of simple sophistication spread through to the dress. Our staff opted for a wedding dress with simple lines and small detail to match our modern bold and beautiful theme. (Dress provided

by Alfred Angelo) Amanda’s reception dress was a gorgeous high neck lace dress (provided by BHLDN). For fun groom choices check out our “For the Groom” section.

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JEWELRY Diamontrigue

We'll make sure your special day is everything you've ever dreamed of.

806-789-7291 • 1413 Texas Ave • Lubbock, TX 79401 www.lubbockweddingsolutions.com

HAIR Cathy’s Clippers MAKEUP Hair by Brooke Bowlin VENUE The Roof FLOWERS House of Flowers CAKE Aunt Norie’s Bakery LINEN Puttin' On the Ritz

A L L T H E “ N U T S ” AT THE BAR Candy bars are huge right now.

They provide a great extra sweet gift for your guest to take home on your wedding day. This wedding features a gourmet nut bar. Guests are able to take home a variety of nuts as an extra crunchy reminder of this awesome reception!

PAPER PRODUCTS Magnet Street ACCESSORIES Weddings Star MENSWEAR Men’s Wearhouse

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A special place for your special day.

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hether it’s an intimate gathering or a large wedding, the Civic Center has the room and staff to make your day extra special. Call for room rates and availabilities.

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glitzy glamorous gold THE VISION Gold is huge this year. Everything from gold dresses to gilded gold wedding favors. After seeing the runway shows with gold, gold gold.

We just had to design a reception with a gold theme. Gold is tricky because just a tad too much and you can turn a wonderfully elegant affair into a gaudy disaster. We decided to incorporate gold accents into a yellow and cream themed reception to go for the most glamorous affair.

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GLITZY GLAMOROUS GOLD

THE DRESS(ES) A dress for this glamorous reception had to match the sophistication and elegance of the event. The ceremony dress was a gorgeous Spring 2014 Casablanca Bridal Gown the elaborate beading create an exquisite elegant look. The reception dress was by no means casual for this elegant soirĂŠe.

This BHLDN lace sleeved gown provided the perfect combination of elegant lace and a playful full skirt to twirl in. How could you now love that?

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POPCORN BAR We know this is elegant, classy and timeless but even queens have to have fun! We decided to create a popcorn bar. Not only did we find adorable popcorn bags to put the popcorn in but the golden tones of the popcorn matched perfectly. Instead of candy, wine or anything else create a popcorn bar with different flavors, seasonings for your guests to create a crunchy snack towards the end of the night.

THE GUESTBOOK Sometimes simple is just what you need!

We selected a gorgeous Guestbook from Compendium. It provided an adorable story of love amongst the pages where your beloved guests will sign. Depending on the theme and atmosphere of the wedding sometimes a simple book is preferable to anything else.

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GLITZY GLAMOROUS GOLD

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T H E TA B L E Gold, gold, gold was the theme of this table. The gold chargers pair perfectly with the gold accents in the gorgeous flowers (Scott’s Flowers). The simple table number atop a gold wire holder is perfect for this golden party. We went a little above and beyond and chose to also include Special cards at each seat from Compendium with cute sayings in each. This is an elegant golden star table fit for a queen!

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FLOWERS Scott’s Flower’s

The Watson Building

VENUE Destiny’s Garden

Where Elegance Meets Excitement

PLATES + LINENS Parties & Events

1109 13th St. Lubbock 806.765.7171 or 806.543.4863 www.thewatsonbuilding.com

PAPER PRODUCTS Magnet Street GUESTBOOK Compendium ACCESSORIES Weddings Star CAKE Sugar Rush Bakery MENSWEAR Al’s Formal Wear DRESSES Alfred Angelo + BHLDN HAIR + MAKEUP Kim Wood

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TOP 9 MISTAKES from a fantastic florist 1. SELECTING THE RECEPTION VENUE BEFORE A COMPLETE GUEST LIST Booking a venue because you have always loved it or it is available on your date without an accurate guest list can create quite a disaster. It is easy to guess the number of guests but extremely hard to cut the list when all is said and done.

2 . N OT H AV I N G A N EXPERIENCED WEDDING C O O R D I N ATO R You might benefit from a friend or family member who wants to be your personal assistant on your wedding day, but don’t confuse that role with the absolute necessity of a wedding coordinator. Not only will he/she meet with you before the wedding, manage your rehearsal and coordinate your whole wedding but she will assist in making your dream reception come true.

3 . B O O K I N G YO U R F LO R I S T L A S T Couples should begin the process of booking vendors early by speaking to at least one vendor from each category before making final decisions.

You can get an idea of what the true costs will be for your wedding and perhaps have a better handle on spreading the budget.

4 . U S I N G O N E C O LO R O F F LO W E R A lot of brides try to match the flowers to the bridesmaid dresses. The right mix of colors and flowers will add great depth and texture to your photos and give the reception a more unified feel.

Flowers are a great way to choose accent colors.

5 . N OT S E E I N G T H E B I G PICTURE Communicate your vision to your wedding planner and trust them to coordinate your vision with all the vendors, (florist, linens, and lighting).

Relax, put trust in your vendors and remember why you hired that amazing talent!

6 . N OT K N O W I N G YO U R F LO R A L D É C O R B U D G E T With so many avenues to find inspirations for your wedding flowers, keep in mind that most of the photos you find on Pinterest or the internet may be well out of your budget. A really good florist will be able to take your inspirations and offer you options within your budget.

7 . R E F U S I N G TO B E F L E X I B L E Look at as many pictures as you can before deciding anything. Look for what really appeals to you. But it is a big mistake to have your heart set on a specific flower that matches exactly. An experienced floral designer will be able to find a pattern in your selections and will ask all the right questions to be able to suggest a plan that fits your unique personality and vision.

8 . H AV I N G T H E S A M E D É C O R O N E AC H O F T H E R E C E P T I O N TA B L E S Look at having at least 3 different types of table decor. One tall showy arrangement, a low arrangement and the third option can be an opportunity to repurpose the bride’s maid’s bouquets by grouping an empty vase with candlesticks. Once the wedding party photos are finished have your maids place their bouquets into the empty vases.

9 . N OT H AV I N G A P L A N F O R T H E F LO W E R S A F T E R T H E RECEPTION Let’s face it… there is only so much room for the reception flowers at your family’s home. Ask your florist or planner to make arrangements for the flowers to be delivered to the local hospice home or to several nursing homes. It will truly make a difference in someone’s life when you share the joy of your special day.

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ABOUT PAULA BARNETT Creative brilliance runs in the family with Paula. A 3rd generation florist she was raised amongst the family flower shop and greenhouses. Barnett & Company was started in 2007 after gifting the flowers for several family and friend’s weddings and realizing she had a passion for weddings. Paula brings a broad appreciation and knowledge of design to the floral and event industry, a niche that combines so much of what she enjoys and finds inspiring. Interiors, flowers, fashion, food and travel… They all seem to play an important part in a well-crafted and thoughtful event. Beyond floral and event design, Paula recently earned her CWEP from The Wedding Planning Institute.

It was a natural next step in creating an experience of a lifetime for brides and guests.

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PHOTO PROVIDED BY LAUREN CLARK PHOTOGRAPHY

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REAL WEDDINGS

hayley�stetson photography by eternal bliss photography

THE BEGINNING

We actually met through my best friend almost 6 years ago. I was extremely sick but she asked if he could come hang out at my mom’s house. I said he could as long he brought Claritin and sour jelly beans… He did. We started dating a few months later.

T H E P RO P O S A L We had a trip planned to San Antonio to celebrate both of our birthdays. A few days before we had a get together with our families for my birthday. After eating and hanging out he told me he had to give me something for San Antonio, I argued saying I didn’t need anything for that trip. I finally gave in and went inside. He dug in his golf bag and got down on one knee, I started crying and can’t really tell you what was said because it was a blur to me.

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FOOD + DRINKS We had chicken, green beans, potatoes and bread for dinner. It was something simple and easy to eat that I knew pretty much everyone would eat.

The drinks were purchased from the bar that the Shack and the Back was in charge of.

T H E F LO W E R S I had actually done my Bouquet back in March originally. As my wedding got closer my colors became more vibrant. AS the school year got started I kind of forgot about everything until the day before my bridals. The night before my bridals I decided I wanted a different bouquet, except I had to work the next day. My mom went to the store and bought the sunflowers that I wanted and came up with my bouquet while I was at work, I actually didn’t see it till I was ready for my bridals.

THE DRESS I have always heard how much fun finding a dress was. We had gone once to a store here in Odessa and I didn’t find any, in fact it really frustrated me. I knew I wanted something simple and nothing huge but just couldn’t seem to find one. My mom, Kira (one of the bridesmaids) and I went to Lubbock one weekend, again it was terrible for me, and the place I went kept bringing me over the top dresses. I finally found my dress at Absolute bridal in Midland, they were so helpful and nice.

the details THE COUPLE HAYLEY + STETSON JOINER THE WEDDING OCTOBER 12, 2013 CEREMONY + RECEPTION SHACK IN THE BACK; MIDLAND, TX THE DRESS ABSOLUTE BRIDAL; MIDLAND, TX BRIDESMAIDS ABSOLUTE BRIDAL; MIDLAND, TX MENSWEAR CAVENDERS; MIDLAND, TX C AT E R I N G CHUCK WAGON GANG; ODESSA, TX CAKE L'OVEN EXPRESSIONS; MIDLAND, TX F LO W E R S LINDA HOOD + CHRISTINA CUMMINS (MOM & BEST FRIEND) MUSIC JERRY DUGAN (BAND) D E C O R AT I O N S ALL HANDMADE

THE VISION I wanted a fall wedding. I love all the deep, rich colors of the fall, but I also had to incorporate the Fire Department into our wedding which is where the ring bearer in the truck came in. I honestly couldn’t have done any without my mom and Christina who did so much work, drilling logs, painting signs, and coming up with ideas of their own to make our day the best it could have been.

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REAL WEDDINGS

FAVO R I T E M O M E N T My favorite part was the ceremony and the friends and family being around to witness it. Stetsons favorite part was the celebrations with the ones we love around us.

M U S I C + F I R S T DA N C E First Dance- Look at you girl by Chris LaDue--- Stetson wanted this as a first song. Father/Daughter- I Loved Her First.

Mother/Son- Hope You Dance---Stetson’s mom had dedicated this song to him when he was much younger.

We actually had a song that we danced to right before we left, it was originally our first song, I Cross My Heart by George Straight

B E S T A DV I C E I Don’t stress, the actually wedding is a blur.

I never would have noticed if something wasn’t perfect. I had to ask my friends and family about things because I didn’t notice or remember.

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Decorating your reception is a huge deal.

More often than not you can't really decorate your ceremony space (churches decorations have been set for ages) but the reception is all you! A place for your personality to show! So how do you show that off? Turn the page!

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OVER THE top tables

TABLE number

TABLE NUMBERS ARE IMPORTANT ORGANIZATIONALLY FOR YOUR RECEPTIONBUT THEY DON'T HAVE TO BE AN EYESORE! UP HIGH!

Sometimes, your tablescape doesn't need something extra extravagant.

A simple table number is all it needs. Remmeber! Styling is just like accessories, take off the last item you put down. Less is more!

Keep in mind that table numbers are there so your guests know where to go!

If you have a lot of tall centerpieces or a lrage room. A table number that is high up helps your guests know where to go.

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S I M P LY E L E G A N T

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Not a number fan? Title your tables with places, quotes or phrases that matter to you and your beau. You can use specific landmarks that you have visited or cities like your hometowns, vacation spots etc!

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O H T H E P L AC E S WE WILL GO

C U T T H AT O U T If your centerpieces are simple, your numbers can be too. This super cool cutout is a great example of a simple, chic, fun table number.

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place cards � PICTURE BY: VALERIE OTT PHOTOGRAPHY

PICTURE BY: LIFE LONG STUDIOS

FIND A PLACE FOR PLACE CARDS ON YOUR SPECIAL DAY. THESE SIMPLE AND ELEGANT PLACE CARDS HELP GUESTS FIND THEIR PLACE SO THAT YOUR RECEPTION CAN GET STARTED AND THE FUN CAN BEGIN!

GOLD LABEL RECEPTION These small bottles of whiskey can help get the party started now or your guests can save it for the after party. Assign each person a bottle and a table with simple tags to help make these tiny Gold Labels even more elegant and help organize your guests.

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Place Cards P L AY F U L PUMPKINS

DON’T SHUT O U T LOV E

Adorable white pumpkins serve as accent pieces for your place cards. Include these organic fall accessories to embrace the season.

Sophisticated and charming, these pumpkins will bring the outside in. These little gourds will have a big impact on guests.

These thrifty shutters double as rustic, vintage detail as well as help organize your place cards.

The cut out name cards add a personalized touch that your guests will love. Let these window treatments treat your guests to a unique name card.

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ON THE LINE

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A spin on traditional place cards, these cards are organized by table number on clothesline. The small clothespins add interest and visual appeal to an otherwise simple display. The names of your guests’ are handwritten, giving the cards a personalized look and making them feel like the important part of your big day that they are.

F R A M E O F H E A RT These Valentine’s Day inspired placed cards are simple and sweet. A recycled frame makes it easy for guests to find their names and adds a touch of charm. The heart-shaped cards are a delicate reminder of the whole reason for the day: love.

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OVER THE TOP TABLES

signs

WITH THESE UNIQUE, INTERESTING SIGNS, THERE’S NO NEED TO TELL YOUR GUESTS WHAT TO DO OR WHAT GOES WHERE—LET THESE SIGNS SPEAK FOR YOU! THEY TELL A STORY AND ADD LOTS OF VISUAL AIDS TO YOUR SPECIAL DAY. N OT H E R E B U T N OT F O RG OT T E N

T R AV E L C A R D S

Nothing makes your big day then sharing with your loved ones. Remember those who cannot celebrate with you with this touching tribute table as an uplifting reminder that love lasts a lifetime.

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PICTURE BY: BRYAN JONATHAN WEDDINGS

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No need to worry about transporting all the cards of love and encouragement with this vintage suitcase card table. All your cards are packed and ready to go. An inexpensive thrift find, this suitcase adds to the vintage charm of your day.

# I N S TA N T M E M O R I E S Sometimes guests have to share pictures of your beautiful day as soon as possible. By creating your own Instagram hashtag, you can peruse the great shots your guests have taken throughout the day. Display your hashtag on a fun chalkboard to spread your personalized tag.

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THE A DV E N T U R E BEGINS This backdrop sign tells a piece of your story as a couple. It speaks to your past and looks ahead to your future. The rustic wood exemplifies the charm of your special day. A staple piece for any table, this piece can be kept and used again as reminder of your new adventure.

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PICTURE BY: HILTON HEAD WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY

�guestbook

L E A F YO U R M A R K This DIY tree of memories is an alternative to the pen-and-paper guestbook.

Your guests dip their thumbs in ink to leave their mark. They sign their names, so you can remember who’s print belongs to who.

Make your guests feel special by helping you create an art piece of memories.

FRAME OF MIND This sign-able frame serves as an alternate to the traditional guestbook as well as a personal art piece once you being your lives together. It will be a standing reminder of the loved ones that surrounded you on your special day. Include a picture that perfectly describes you as a couple to give it that extra special touch.

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CLASSIC MEMORIES This traditional guestbook makes it simple for guests to wish you the best. It’s simple with all the room to personalize with sweet photos of the betrothed couples. This classis guestbook adds tradition without being dull or distracting.

OVER THE TOP TABLES

�centerpieces CENTERPIECES (ASIDE FROM YOU) ARE THE STAR OF THE RECEPTION. CHECK OUT SOME SNAZZY CENTERPIECE IDEAS!

Be concious of your venue. If elaborate centerpieces look out of place because you're create a casual atmosphere then don't go for a large, ornate centerpiece. Size doesn't matter! It depends on your venue. Bonus? Your guests can see eachother across the table!

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CLASSIC SIMPLICITY

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LIGHT IT UP

A D D A S I D E O F F RU I T

For the start of your tables, you can ditch the flowers and go for a tall elegant candle arrangement instead. Flowers don't always have to be the focus of every centerpiece. Not only does it offer a different look it creates an instant dash of elegance.

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We're not talking to your catering menu. Get creative with your centerpeices and add a side fruit, not only does it provide a great dash of color it's an interesting contract to your flower arrangement.

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TEXTURE IT UP! It's not just about the flowers but the package it comes in. Adding a fun charger like this wood above is a great way to add texture to your centerpieces and tie in your theme!

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CLASSIC SIMPLICITY Be concious of your venue. If elaborate centerpieces look out of place because you're create a casual atmosphere then don't go for a large, ornate centerpiece.

Size doesn't matter!

It depends on your venue. Bonus? Your guests can see eachother across the table!

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fancy favors�

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SWEET REMINDERS Send your guests away with a personalized bucket-full of indulgence. These bucket and shovel sets are a great way to personalize a beach wedding. They’ll walk away with sweet memories of your beautiful day and something for their sweet tooth, too.

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L E T LOV E G RO W These seed-infused date tags will remind your guests of your growing love. These take away tags are an organic favor to help start your guest’s garden. Infuse the paper with your wedding flowers so your guests will always remember your special day.

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These petite bags of popcorn will remind your guests of your movie-love. Filled with sweet caramel corn, you can personalize the label as a sweet thank-you to your guests. A snack for the after party, or just something to munch on this favor will be a hit.

GUEST LIBS

P O P U L A R TA B L E Get your reception started with a vintage style bottle of soda that doubles as a table marker! While you get ready for your reception, your guests can find their seat while sipping of some soda. Wrapped up in a personalized koozie, your guests will appreciate an ice-cold drink during your summer-time reception.

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This fun table game is an easy way for your guests to break the ice and learn something about you and each other! These Guest Libs can be personalized to tell a story, or just share sweet memories of the day. Guests can take them home to play again or leave them at the table for you to read.

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TICKLE ME MARRIED

T I E D TO G E T H E R

A L L I N T H E FA M I LY

This simple black and white couple’s table is accented with great pink accents. The accents keep the table fun and accessible. Switch the colors around to match your own! Add some flowers and candles to keep the simple table romantic.

This eclectic table is bright and approachable.

It has a simple DIY charm that looks great for any afternoon event. This table can be easily changed to match the occasion and the ribbons recycled. Candles and frames of personal pictures make this table perfect for the new couple.

This green accented table puts the bride and groom at the heart of the fun. Instead of being separated from their wedding party, the couple anchors the table. The elegant “bride” and “groom” signs make sure that their seats are special and saved.

Receptions are all about the party—this table puts you right in the middle of it.

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REAL WEDDINGS

� natalie

&* ryan

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THE BEGINNING Ryan and I are high school sweethearts. We started dating in the 7th grade, bumped elbows a few times and went to the movies. We took a break in the 8th grade, when I dumped Ryan because he was to short…. Freshman year Ryan grew at least 2ft and we’ve been inseparable ever since. After high school we both ended up at Texas A&M enjoying the college life together.

T H E P RO P O S A L Ryan proposed in Breckenridge, CO. We were going on a family ski trip. We decided, the

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trip, wasn’t going to be possible, until one day the hotel was booked and we were going. Our family and close friends were all there in Colorado with us. The first day of skiing was about over and everyone was getting really tired, when Ryan insisted that we go up the mountain one more time and then call it a day. Ryan skied ahead of everyone so that we couldn’t see him anymore and pretended to bust. This is not uncommon because Ryan is normally trying all sorts of new tricks on his snowboard. I skied up to him making sure that he was ok and didn’t hurt anything. He was

a nice, relaxing day, enjoying getting to see all my friends and family. The day was for Ryan and I, but I also wanted to get to see everyone who traveled from all over the state to see us get married. Ryan and I are very laidback so the idea of having anything formal about our wedding just wasn’t us. We are easy going, country people and that’s how I wanted my wedding to be. I envisioned the perfect night with perfect weather.

I envisioned marrying the man of my dreams and dancing the night away with all my favorite people. Everything was so much more than I ever could have imagined.

FAVO R I T E M O M E N T S Ryan and I both agree that our first dance is something that will stay with us forever. I will never forget the feeling of being able to dance with your husband for the first time. We had 350 people at our wedding and all eyes on us, but it felt like Ryan and I were the only ones there.

Our good friend Ross Cooper wrote our first dance song for us and it couldn’t have been more perfect. It was my first time to hear our song, but Ryan sang every word to me. The song could have lasted 10 minutes and it wouldn’t have been long enough.

rolling around pretending to hold his ribs, claiming that they really hurt. All of a sudden he was unbuckling his boots and a shining ring was sitting in his hand. In true Ryan fashion he said,” Welp, Will you marry me?” After a few seconds of being in shock and Ryan having to ask again, I said Yes! The rest is history!

THE DRESS I took my mom, maid of honor, sister-n-law, and one other bridesmaid with me. The second bridal store in Austin had exactly what I was looking for. I had an idea of what I wanted, finding

the right store was the problem.

I tried on a few other dresses just to make sure I had found the right one, easily realizing that the other dresses just weren’t for me.

I knew right away when I put on my dress that it was the one!

The lace was exactly what I had envisioned and the simplicity of the dress was just me! We were supposed to go to a couple more bridal stores that same day, but after trying on my dress, I canceled and we went to happy hour to celebrate finding the dress!

THE VISION My vision for the wedding was

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REAL WEDDINGS

FA M I LY T R A D I T I O N Family means so much to Ryan and I. I was ecstatic that I was able to walk down the aisle with my Mamaw’s wedding ring from 1958.

the details

FOOD + SWEETS + DRINKS For the wedding we chose fajitas. If you know Ryan and I, then you know that we eat Mexican food as often as possible. Anything with a tortilla or chips and salsa, we love! For rehearsal we had BBQ and our wedding we had Mexican food, our two favorites! The drink choices were Coors Light, Miller Light, or Margarita. Our specialty drink of the night was Crown N Coke, a shared favorite drink between the Bruton and Wied families. Ryan and I just aren’t dessert eaters. We are normally to full to eat dessert from the main course. We didn’t add any extra dessert

THE COUPLE Natalie + Ryan Wied CEREMONY + RECEPTION Cotton Creek Barn; New Home, TX DRESS Maggie Sottero - Signature Bridal; Austin TX BRIDESMAID DRESSES Mori Lee - Bella's Bridal; Lubbock, TX

B I G G E S T S P L U RG E Ryan and I have a different wedding splurge than most. Our splurge was definitely our venue. We were engaged for 19 months and it took every bit of that to build Cotton Creek Barn. We worked day and night and longs hours on the weekends, while holding down full time jobs as well to build Cotton Creek. It was a lot to do, and a lot of stress, but definitely worth it in the end. My wedding day means so much more to me because of Cotton Creek. I can truly say that my wedding day was a reflection of Ryan and me from the food we served to the venue we built. One more splurge was definitely the videographer, but it was so worth it! Being the bride, you miss so much of the wedding and the video captured it all! I would have 5 videographers if I could! Our video was amazing and something that I will have forever!

MENSWEAR Gayle'sWedding Rentals; Lubbock, TX C A K E + C AT E R E R Market Street on 98th DJ Music to the Maxx D E C O R AT I O N S DIY'ed by the Bride VIDEOGRAPHER Contract Cre8tive

B E S T A DV I C E My advice to any couple planning a wedding is to

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make your wedding about you!

It’s your day! The day goes by so fast! Choose Fajitas because it’s what you love! Wear boots or flats, because what if all you can remember is how bad your feet were killing you in those super cute heels. Spend time on the things that you want to remember! The little things make your

wedding day so special! Lastly, enjoy the imperfections! You cannot control everything. I handpicked my flower girl dresses and had them altered to fit the girls and from the moment my niece Selma put it on she hated it! Looking back, the dress was around her waist most of the wedding and reception! The pic-

tures are hilarious, but I wouldn’t have it any other way! Sometimes the imperfections make for the best memories!

THE FUTURE We are trying to get to the country! We are currently living in town in Lubbock, TX. We have 3 dogs, Colt, Buck, and

Maggie that need a much bigger backyard. We both grew up living in the country in-between the cotton fields and can’t wait to get back out there. Now that we aren’t building a venue and planning a wedding we plan on spending more time with friends and family! store!

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ASK THE EXPERT

TOP 9 DESIGN MISTAKES from a dynamic design team 5. LIVING IN A PINTEREST FA N TA S Y W O R L D This tip is in direct correlation with the last suggestion. It’s time to purge your wedding boards and get serious. Ask yourself some important questions. Are these ideas cohesive? Will this work in the venue I have chosen? Can anyone really make this cake?

1 . C A R R Y I N G YO U R C O LO R S C H E M E TO O FA R

6. DON'T BE ORDINARY AND BORING

Don't feel like you have to everything in your reception and ceremony the same color. When you do this your wedding tends to look more like a prom.

Make your decore’ unique to and your fiancé.

Guest enjoy knowing something about you. If you enjoy art, music, or sports, its nice to incorporate a few of those elements in your vision.

2 . S P E N D I N G B E YO N D YO U R M E A N S

7 . G I V I N G I N TO D I Y P E E R PRESSURE

You can achieve a great look without going into debt. We always suggest candlelight as a great way achieve this and its always works regardless of your style. Also, repurpose flower arrangements and items that you have used in the ceremony and move to your reception.

Just because you can do it yourself doesn't mean you have to. Our mantra at Southern Elegance Design is “when it stops being fun its not your dream wedding”. Don't let stressors get in the way of one of the best experiences of your life. Only take on what you truly enjoy.

3 . H AV I N G TO O M A N Y G R E AT I D E A S Try to decide on a style and narrow your look.

Often brides will spend lots of time at clearance sales, estate sales and garage sales and end up with a hodgepodge of items that may be great separately, but when arranged together may look like a yard sale.

4 . OV E R D E C O R AT I N G If you have great architecture at your venue let it shine. Don't clutter up the space.

8 . B O R I N G G U E S T S TA B L E S Color or texture can dress up a table scape. You can easily do this with a runner or table topper.

9 . A S S U M I N G YO U R B R I DA L PA RT Y I know that most Brides utilize there closest friends and family for these jobs and many more and it often works out beautifully. But if you think about it these are the most cherished guests at your entire wedding. You want these people to truly enjoy this time with you.

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Let Tonjua, Shelley and Brooke make your dreams become a reality. We can help create a design, set-up the day of the wedding, and even coordinate the day for you. We also have certain rentals available for our clients' use, as well as catering services and stationary design.

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SANGRIA

DIY cocktail style

Sangria is a great option for vineyard themed weddings.

(Check out our Elegant Vineyard Affair it’s where we got the idea!!)

This is something super easy that you and your bridesmaid can make for your reception or any other get together you are having.

Because this is the reception issue, and Pinterest, Instragram, Facebook are overflowing with do it yourself ideas for receptions. We decided to take the advice of our experts and steer clear of reception DIY décor. Instead, we decided to focus on yummy drinks you can create yourself for your reception. You can create your very own signature cocktail without employing a fancy mixologist. Not a drinker? No worries!

Substitute sprite for alcohol in the recipes and create a yummy mocktail. Check out some do it yourself cocktails for your reception day, or while you’re planning …

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INGREDIENTS 1 750 ml bottle of red wine (Cabernet Sauvignon, Merlot, Rioja reds, Zinfandel, Shiraz) 1 Lemon, 1 Orange and whatever other fruit you enjoy cut into wedges (We love to add strawberries!)

2 Tbsp sugar 1 Shot brandy 1 can of Sprite

DIRECTIONS 1. Add wedges & sugar to an empty pitcher. Muddle them together at the bottom of the pitcher with the end of a wooden spoon or muddler.

2. Pour in the bottle of red wine. Cover the pitcher and refrigerate for 24 hours.

3. After 24 hours, pull the pitcher out and stir, add a can of sprite & a shot of brandy, stir and serve over ice w/ fruity garnishes!

RASPBERRY B E E R C O C K TA I L This fantastic cocktail is something you can serve to anyone! It mixes fresh fruit and beer. Perfect for an outdoor or summer wedding! This one is great because you can make it and store it for up to 3 days!

INGREDIENTS 3/4 cup frozen raspberries* 3 1/2 (12-oz.) bottles beer, chilled 1 (12-oz.) container frozen raspberry lemonade concentrate, thawed $ 1/2 cup vodka Garnish: lemon and lime slices

DIRECTIONS 1. Stir together first 4 ingredients. Serve over ice. Garnish, if desired. Fresh raspberries may be substituted.

Note: To make ahead, stir together lemonade concentrate and vodka in a large container. Chill up to 3 days. Stir in raspberries and beer just before serving.

Garnish, if desired.

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for the groom

photos by CJ Duncan Photography

We just finished our epic ultimate dress issue and woefully ignored the groom! This issues groom section focuses on all of the fab accessories that a groom can wear on your special day. Brides get reception dresses as well as wedding dresses but the groom doesn’t get to change. Here are some fun ideas to glam up your dude. After all … it’s his day too!

C H O O S I N G A C O LO R Sometimes it’s really hard to choose wedding colors.

This becomes even more complicated when you consider what the groom needs to wear. Now we know grooms might be weary of sporting a pink bow tie. And that’s okay, you want your groom to be comfortable. Choose a fun bright color for your groom, but let him have a say!

TA N I T U P Black suits are the standard, and often a good option.

However, tan or beige suits create a great new look for grooms. Sometimes, tan suits can be used in more casual weddings or when paired with the appropriate ties can jazz up a grooms outfit.

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FOR THE GROOM

ELEGANT GREY Grey suits paired with dark jewel toned ties create a wonderfully elegant but unique look for any groom.

Grey suits are a great option for any elegant wedding by adding dimension to a suit without creating a casual look like a lighter color would.

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A E U RO P E A N TWIST Spiff up your groom with a dash of European flair. Get creative with ascots. Having your groom sport an ascot for your special day creates instant elegance with a pin. You have to be careful though, ascots should be in muted greys or blacks to add a touch. If you prefer bright colors we’d recommend a bowtie.

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REAL WEDDINGS

�jamie and* annabelle photography by Lissa Anglin Photography

THE BEGINNING I’m from Venezuela and was in Midland for some work training.

Since I was new in the country one of my coworkers invited me to a barbecue at his house. His neighbor (Jamie) happened to be a Chemical Engineer, just like me, and knew a lot about Venezuela because he worked with a Venezuelan. I really enjoyed the conversation. Every other month I had to go to Midland for work. After probably 8 months we started actually dating, not just hanging out with friends. Everything was incredibly smooth; it felt like it was just meant to be.

T H E P RO P O S A L It was in the beautiful Meyer Symphony Center (Dallas Symphony Building) on February 15th 2013. As soon as we started dating Jamie bought season tickets for the Fort Worth Symphony, probably 10 shows for the following 6 months.

Everybody was concerned that he spent that much money with such a long term plan on someone he just started dating. He told people that he was sure that the this

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REAL WEDDINGS

the details THE COUPLE Annabelle + Jamie Cavender CEREMONY + RECEPTION Tierra del Corazon; Lubbock, TX DRESS Ann Taylor BRIDESMAID DRESSES J. Crew MENSWEAR Jos A. Bank; Lubbock, TX F LO R I S T Market Street; Lubbock, TX CAKE Bakery Creations C AT E R I N G Johnny Carino's D E C O R AT I O N S The Bride's Mother did it all!

DJ DJ with TJ

relationship was a lot more than just a casual date. We had a blast in every show. Based on that and the fact that there was no show during those days in the Fort Worth Symphony we went to the Dallas Symphony to remember good times and to confirm that it was not a casual date, we got engaged there!!!

THE DRESS I did not have a good experience when I went to a couple stores to look for dresses. So I decided to go online, the safest way I could, Ann Taylor. Love her style and I found the perfect dress! Took me one exchange, because the first dress I got was a little big.

FA M I LY TRADITIONS From my country (Venezuela) we have a dance called “the Hora Loca." This is close to an hour of dance music where everybody has to dance and wear a funny hats.

F I R S T LO O K Yes, I loved the idea of having the opportunity to enjoy that private moment with Jamie, share our feelings before the ceremony.

We felt a lot more relaxed and close after the first look.

FOOD + DRINKS All very simple, Italian food from Johnny Carinos, drinks we had a bartender to serve vodka,

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beer, crown and wine from Lubbock (Llano).

B I G G E S T S P L U RG E Photography. It sounds silly, and it took me a while to understand how important was to get a good photographer. I wanted to keep everything very simple under the initial budget but get a great photographer should be the first step in the wedding planning. I can’t tell you how happy we are with Lissa’s work.

THE MUSIC First Dance: we had two songs (half and half) Love song – original from The Cure, but we had the Adele version. We love the lyrics! To have some fun

and since we were taking dance lessons, we added a Merengue song “A pedir su mano” from Juan Luis Guerra. Great lyrics in Spanish and I wanted to break the ice pretty quick and show to my family how good Jamie can dance Caribbean music! During the reception we had Caribbean music and country music. A little bit from both cultures.We put a lot of work on the ceremony music!

F LO R A L D E S I G N Mainly roses and light colors, based on ideas I got from magazines. Andrew (Market Street) did a great job matching the bouquet ideas I sent to him/

BEST PIECE OF A DV I C E Don’t forget to have fun during the process and remember the real reason of the wedding, celebrate the union and the love between the two of you, is not all about the invitations or the centerpieces sometimes is good to remember the basics

THE FUTURE Enjoy life together, with the certainty that we found real love!

Maybe trips to Venezuela are in their future!

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REAL WEDDINGS

Photography by CJ Duncan Photography

THE BEGINNING

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Greg played soccer with my best friend’s boyfriend (now husband) and they introduced us in 2010. We talked on and off for a couple of months, but I would not give him much of a chance.

Once I finally decided to hang out with Greg I really liked him. A couple of weeks later Greg asked me to “be exclusive.” I thought his wording was impressive, a little old school, but impressive. I said yes and we have been together ever since.

T H E P RO P O S A L The proposal could not have been better! It was mid- February and we went on a Caribbean Cruise, Greg popped the question in front of 20 of our closest friends in the middle of the Caribbean Sea. I had absolutely no clue it was coming. He got on one knee and I immediately fell into his lap. Before I said yes I asked “is this real?!” The remainder of the cruise we were a pretty popular couple!

REAL WEDDINGS

THE DRESS All summer I planned on getting a vintage, lace wedding dress with a cut out back. I knew I did NOT want a strapless dress, and I did NOT want a “fufy” dress. After trying on 40- 50 dresses I ended up choosing an ivory, strapless, mermaid (form fitting) dress. Towards the bottom, the dress had beautiful silk layers.

FAVO R I T E MOMENTS We agree our favorite moment of the wedding was the First Look. The time we got to spend alone, before the ceremony, was so important. It assured our love for each other, and opened our hearts. It was a very serious, happy and emotional moment.

FOOD + CAKE + DRINKS Our food from Top Tier Catering was phenomenal!

We had a light dinner buffet including chicken tenders, a variety of sliders, vegetable trays,

and a macaroni bar served in martini glasses. I was so thankful the wedding coordinator forced us to sit down and try all of the dishes before we could go celebrate. The cakes were fantastic! For the bridal cake we chose a 4 tier strawberry swirl flavor from The Cakery, I wanted something a little less traditional and this flavor was a hit! For the Groom’s Cake we chose a chocolate cake decorated as a poker table.

T H E F LO W E R S For the bridesmaids I wanted cream colored roses to contrast with their black dresses. They looked great! My bouquet was all red sweetheart roses (the roses bloomed into a heart shape) and we added three broaches into my bouquet. One from my mom, granny and grandma, it was very sentimental. Each table at the reception had an arrangement with a mixture of red roses and hydrangeas. All of the flowers were very classy and well put together.

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B I G G E S T S P L U RG E I am most happy my parents splurged on the photographer.

The photos are absolutely perfect and the memories will last a lifetime!

B E S T A DV I C E It is a lot easier said then done, but don’t sweat it! Don’t worry and stress over anything and everything. On your wedding day you are not going to notice if there is a decoration missing, or if your napkins are red instead of black, or if Grandma is wearing a blue dress instead of purple.

The day is going to happen with or without some things, and whatever storm comes on your wedding day it will be a fantastic day!

THE FUTURE As newlyweds, we want to spend time traveling and seeing the world before we settle down and have children.

the details THE COUPLE Kendra + Gregory Bernstein CEREMONY Kent Hance Chapel, Lubbock TX RECEPTION Merket Alumni Courtyard DRESS David’s Bridal MENSWEAR Mens Warehouse F LO R I S T Joe Shakespeare from Lou Dee’s, Levelland, TX CAKE The Cakery C AT E R I N G Top Tier Catering at TTU D E C O R AT I O N S Brides Mom and Dad made all of the decorations DJ Music to the Maxx

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EGGPLANT

TAUPE

CREAM

an elegant vineyard affair

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THE VISION Vineyard weddings are fabulous affairs. Who doesn’t love wine? While vineyard themed weddings are super popular there’s always fun, new ways to take on a classic vineyard wedding. We selectedeggplant, taupe and cream to color this elegant reception. Opting for muted tones creates a candlelit soft look.

The picture of elegance with a glass of wine.

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AN ELEGANT VINEYARD AFFAIR

THE DRESS(ES) This elegant vineyard affair demanded an elegant gown. We chose a trumpet shaped skirt, sweetheart neckline and light beading in an off white. (Provided by Casablanca Bridal) Pure white gowns sometimes do not just clash with brides skin tones but it can also clash with the theme. A pure white gown would have looked out of place amongst the muted color palette of the wedding. The reception dress was a gorgeous short tan toned with an ombre. Reception dresses are great options to get a little bit of everything. (Reception dress by BHLDN).

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THE CENTERPIECES Centerpieces are definitely a “star of the show” when it comes to reception decorations. We opted for a gorgeous flower centerpiece in a wine barrel (flowers by House of Flowers) We decided to incorporate wine bottles and simple name tags and a large centerpiece to create an elegant affair. Love the wine bottles? It’s super simple. Take an empty wine bottle, and a tall candle. Melt the end of the tall candle and shove it into the wine bottle opening.

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AN ELEGANT VINEYARD AFFAIR

T H E FAVO R S When you create cohesive themes for your reception oftentimes favors, decorations, and trinkets almost make themselves.

For This favor we chose two things. First, we selected a fun wine corkscrew (provided by Wedding Star) to be placed at each table setting. This both incorporates the Vineyard theme and provides something useful for guests to take home. Who doesn’t love corkscrews?

The second wedding favor is a journal for guests to note what wines they love from the wine bar! (provided by Wedding Star). Favors don’t have to sit in closets for forever! They can be fun, useful items that bring back memories from your special day for all your guests.

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JEWELRY Diamontrigue

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HAIR Cathy’s Clippers

MAKEUP Hair by Brooke Bowlin,

THE WINE BAR This wine bar is extra fab! We took barrels from Deep South Barrels and aged our favorite wines to increase the quality of the taste. You can follow instructions on their site how to age wine. We love this option as opposed to bottle service because guests can actually taste wine, decide what they like and it’s a great DIY for the bridal party to do about a month before the wedding! Added bonus? Creates gorgeous photos with barrels in the backdrop. Who doesn't love barrels?

VENUE The Watson Building; Lubbock, TX

F LO W E R S House of Flowers

CAKE Aunt Norie’s Bakery

PA P E R P RO D U C T S Magnet Street

MENSWEAR Men’s Wearhouse

AC C E S S O R I E S Weddingstar

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No one ever gushed about how tasty the flowers were.

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the secret garden

CATALOUPE GRAPEFRUIT

photography by Chriselda Photography

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THE VISION Outside weddings are huge in West Texas, and while there’s tons of ways you can decorate and create an outside wedding we wanted to create a Secret Garden.

Everyone remembers the book or movie The Secret Garden. What stands out the most is creating an oasis where everything else falls away and you can focus on the moment. Our staff wanted to re-create that filling with this wedding. We chose vibrant colors (cantaloupe + grapefruit) to create a fun atmosphere. This reception was designed to be fun, exciting and carefree!

THE DRESS We kept the Secret Garden theme in mind when selecting dresses for this wedding. We opted for something simple and elegant to create a fun atmosphere for the wedding. For the ceremony dress we chose a gorgeous Alfred Angelo strapless gown. The reception dress from BHLDN was chosen for the same reason. Simple, elegant with small detail flowers that resembled the Secret Garden theme we’re trying to create.

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THE GUESTBOOK

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This cute box from Weddingstar was the perfect guestbook for this Secret Garden affair. We left out slips of paper for guests to write their well wishes and advice along with their names on slips of paper, then guest roll up their slips of paper and place them in the birdcage. This guestbook container is just adorable and fits perfectly with our garden theme.

FLOWERS Scott’s Flower’s VENUE Destiny’s Garden PLATES + LINENS Parties & Events PAPER PRODUCTS Magnet Street

T H E FAVO R S Sometimes favors can also double as decorations! We opted for small picnic baskets with extra sweet treats inside! (Baskets provided by Weddingstar) Placing this at each table not only offers an extra decoration pizzazz for the lovely tables. Who doesn’t love miniature version of things like picnic baskets?

GUESTBOOK Compendium ACCESSORIES Weddings Star CAKE Sugar Rush Bakery MENSWEAR Al’s Formal Wear

T H E TA B L E

DRESSES Alfred Angelo + BHLDN

The centerpiece was simply pic-tastic! Gorgeous flowers in a larger picnic basket! We chose to use wood planks as chargers since it was outdoors and bright orange napkins to draw in the wedding colors to the table. Our fun table number was included into the centerpiece. It’s a great example of a simple centerpiece being perfect, especially for an outdoor wedding!!

HAIR + MAKEUP Kim Wood

C A N I H AV E S O M E S’MORE? Who doesn’t love S’mores?

Everyone remembers fun campfire memories burning marshmallows. Here’s a super sweet campfire bar for your special day. Set up a dessert bar of s’more build-ables. We added some extra cuteness but including small picnic baskets to hold the chocolate, marshmallows and graham crackers! It’s a fun activity for your guests to do at your reception.

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THE SECRET GARDEN

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CHARITY OF THE ISSUE

es enables the adjoining sitting room to accommodate several family members and friends in comfort.

Down the hall, the completely remodeled groom’s suite is sure to please, with the gaming station and flat-screen television upstaging their own full-length mirrors, comfortable furniture, and changing room.

The Ballroom and Parlor make an ideal setting for a reception, dinner, and dance. The Ballroom seats up to 250 and has a stage on which the wedding party may seat, and the floor is made for dancing. The adjoining Parlor, which comes complete with a working fireplace, makes a serving line or reception area especially cozy. The Atrium alo is ideal for a serving line and is adjacent to the caterer’s area.

The Legacy Event Center, the recently refurbished historic facility in the heart of Lubbock, unveils special touches at every turn: in the elegant sanctuary, in the exquisite suites for the bride and groom, and in the space seemingly built for a reception and dance.

Talkington Hall, formerly a sanctuary, features an elegant center aisle leading to a spacious stage and our famous Tschudi organ. With a sound system and seating for up to 400, including the balcony, Talkington Hall can accommodate most wedding events.

The nearby Margaret’s Bridal Suite envelopes the bridal party and members of her family in grand style. The dressing area comes replete with luxurious seating, individual make-up stations, full-length mirrors, and a separate restroom. The beautiful array of tables, chairs, and couch-

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The Lodge

Your special day calls for a charmed place.

The Lodge Resort & Spa specializes in beautiful memories. Let one of our dedicated wedding coordinators help you plan the perfect wedding. Lodging for your guest and a beautiful honeymoon suite for the bride and groom, full service saloon and spa perfect for wedding parties, fine dining, golf and a dedicated staff to help you make your special day perfect.

Call Mandi or Michala at (800) 395-6343 or submit the on-line request for a proposal at www.TheLodgeResort.com.

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