Wake Living March/April 2025

BRINGING THE CAPITAL AND ITS COMMUNITIES TO LIFE

Asheville's Comeback

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From pregnancy and childbirth to mammograms, menopause and more, the care is compassionate, comprehensive and here for you at every life stage. Inpatient and outpatient surgery. Specialty and subspecialty services. Urgent care and emergency care. Diagnostics and imaging. Rehabilitation and more. How much more? Let’s just say, at WakeMed Women’s, we’ve got a lot more than your back.

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WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

Discover Your Best Chapter Yet! Experience luxury living

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that feels like a retreat. Our stylish apartments feature fully equipped kitchens with sleek stainless steel appliances, quartz countertops, and elegant tiled backsplashes. Spacious walk-in closets, beautifully tiled bathrooms, and walk-in showers add comfort and convenience, while select homes offer private balconies for a breath of fresh air

Discover Your Best Chapter Yet! Experience luxury living designed exclusively for active adults 62+ in a vibrant community that feels like a retreat. Our stylish apartments feature fully equipped kitchens with sleek stainless steel appliances, quartz countertops, and elegant tiled backsplashes. Spacious walk-in closets, beautifully tiled bathrooms, and walk-in showers add comfort and convenience, while select homes offer private balconies for a breath of fresh air.

Stay active and connected with on-site yoga and fitness classes, a heated indoor pool for year-round relaxation, and a stunning courtyard with a cozy firepit perfect for unwinding with friends.

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Pet-friendly and thoughtfully designed, our community offers reserved parking and easy access to 540 and Triangle Park, putting dining, shopping, and entertainment within reach With 10 unique floorplans, there’s a perfect home waiting for you

Pet-friendly and thoughtfully designed, our community offers reserved parking and easy access to 540 and Triangle Park, putting dining, shopping, and entertainment within reach. With 10 unique floorplans, there’s a perfect home waiting for you.

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MARCH/APRIL 2025

GROUP PUBLISHER Bill Zadeits

PUBLISHER Kris Schultz

CREATIVE DIRECTOR Lauren Morris

EDITOR Erin McKnight

COPY & DIGITAL EDITOR Tara Shiver

SOCIAL MEDIA Arlem Mora

CONTRIBUTORS

Erica DeLong

L.A. Jackson

David McCreary

PHOTOGRAPHY

Jonathan Fredin, Chief Photographer

PRODUCTION

Atiya Batts, Graphic Designer

Jennifer Casey, Graphic Designer

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APRIL 26, 2025 9AM TO 6PM

MOUNT OLIVE, NORTH CAROLINA

editor’s letter

From the sublimely eccentric lobby of The Radical boutique hotel, it’s easy to forget about the devastation that descended on Asheville last fall with the arrival of Helene. But when you step into the street outside, you can feel it. This palpable sensation that something has happened here is precisely why several Cary Magazine staff members selected the city’s River Arts District as an admittedly unorthodox destination for our annual travel issue.

Our aim was to give vision and voice to the artistic enclave flooded by the French Broad River. What we experienced was achingly resonant; the things we saw and heard overwhelmed our senses. We invite you to travel the pages of “The Art of Restoration: Asheville’s RAD Renaissance” and discover for yourself the heart and hope of this most special area that is once again open to visitors.

No matter where your journey takes you — or how , as Digital & Copy Editor Tara Shiver hilariously navigates for readers in “Wingin’ It: A Cross-Country RV Adventure” — a mindful approach to the people and places you encounter allows you to soak in the moments, from horrible to humorous, that will be fondly recollected for years to come.

The biennial Wings Over Wayne Air Show, the largest in the state, returns to Goldsboro this summer and has memory-making written all over it. Headlined by the USAF Thunderbirds and featuring an impressive flight line of aerial acts and airpower, this is one hot event for a weekend road trip.

If you’re looking to stay closer to home while embarking on a taste journey that recalls Chicago and New York, the newly opened Fratelli’s Delicatessen in Apex offers memorable experiences by the mouthful.

This spring, whether you’re going to some far-flung locale or staying local, don’t forget to seek out the stories!

Thanks for reading,

Erin McKnight, Editor

Jonathan

Fredin

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The American Tobacco Trail welcomes runners for a 15th time with the 2025 Tobacco Trail Marathon and Half Marathon. Raising almost $2 million for charitable causes, helping countless runners qualify for Boston, and offering a great course and atmosphere, this race is making its mark on the running landscape. Sunday, March 16. $120 entry fee. 7445 Green Hope School Road, Cary. tobaccoroadmarathon.com/details

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NCMA flourishes again this spring when Art in Bloom returns. Floral designers use stunning displays of fresh flowers to interpret works of art in the People’s Collection. The annual festival’s inspired marriage of art and flowers supports the Museum and its programs. March 19–23. North Carolina Museum of Art, Raleigh. ncartmuseum.org/artinbloom

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For more than 40 years, the Raleigh St. Patrick’s Day Parade has been bringing entertainment to the streets of downtown Raleigh. Parade participants include sports, cheer, and dance teams; bands; cultural groups; civic and nonprofit organizations; and many more. The parade features only nonmotorized vehicles, so bring the whole family and keep the tradition going and growing! Saturday, March 15, 10 a.m. Parade starts at the North Carolina State Capitol. raleighstpats.org/index

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The world’s largest artist-led festival — J. Cole’s Dreamville Festival — is unfortunately ending, with 2025 announced as the final event. Before it’s gone, be sure to see what makes this outdoor weekend music festival so beloved to artists and fans alike.

Saturday, April 5, and Sunday, April 6. Gates open at noon. $299 and up for two-day general admission. Dorothea Dix Park, Raleigh. dreamvillefest.com

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Sponsored by Bone Suckin’ Sauce, Peak City Pig Fest is equal parts competition and festival — and all things BBQ. Competition chicken, ribs, pork, and brisket are all on the menu, with teams working hard to bring the smoke. Featuring food trucks and a beer garden, along with live music and a kids’ area, this event promises to bring the heat to Apex. Friday, April 11, and Saturday, April 12. Saunders Street lot, downtown Apex. peakcitypigfest.com

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The Downtown Cary Park hosts the nation’s only festival dedicated to pimento cheese. The day includes entertainment in the form of live musical performances and fun family activities, as well as spectacular eats that spotlight the savory Southern delicacy. Sample local restaurants’ best pimento cheese creations and try your hand at pimento cheese sculpting at the 2025 Pimento Cheese Festival. Saturday, April 12, 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. downtowncarypark.com/ pimentocheesefestival

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Get ready to head south of the border at the sixth annual Tacos ’N Taps Festival! The Triangle’s best tacos, Mexican food, margaritas, and more are back this year — along with even more beer. Boasting all-you-can-taste margaritas and beer, over 30 types of tacos, dueling margarita bars, Mariachi bands and other live acts, gifts galore, and lawn games … this is one hot event. Saturday, April 12, noon to 5 p.m. Koka Booth Amphitheatre, Cary. cary.tacosntaps.com

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It’s all about barbecue and bluegrass at the North Carolina ’Cuegrass Festival. In support of local children’s charities, live bluegrass bands will take to Main and Blues & Banjos stages while attendees enjoy good barbecue and brews, a vendor village, activities for the whole family, doggie hydration stations and shaded tents, and an after-party for those who want to keep ’Cuegrass going. Saturday, April 19. Downtown Raleigh. cuegrass.com

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Attracting more than 60,000 people over two days — and lauded as the second biggest craft beer festival in the US — Brewagloo is back and bringing with it the best of North Carolina. Local food trucks, vendors, and bands will join over 100 NC breweries on the streets of downtown Raleigh for a party by the pint. Friday, April 25, 6–10 p.m. Saturday, April 26, noon to 8 p.m. $40 and up. shoplocalraleigh.org/brewgaloo

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The Spring Daze Arts + Crafts Festival is all about showcasing creative talent within North Carolina. The event brings 170 artists to Cary to exhibit their work in the outdoor market, while festival attendees enjoy shopping, eating, drinking, and indulging in art and entertaining activities. Saturday, April 26, 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Bond Park. carync.gov/springdaze

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Jonathan Fredin

Pimento Cheese Festival

Imagine yourself lounging by the pool of a chic hotel, a delicious cocktail in hand, feeling the sun’s gentle warmth as palm trees sway around you. We all dream of that glamorous vacation vibe ... but not the price tag.

With a little creativity and smart planning, it’s possible to splurge on style without overspending. Welcome to what I call living bougie on a budget — enjoying life’s luxuries while saving some cash for your next big adventure.

LODGING

Accommodations are often the biggest travel expense. Websites like Kayak and HotelTonight are gold mines for last-minute deals, especially if you set price alerts. Rates can drop based on demand, so being flexible pays off!

Look into boutique hotels or Airbnb rentals for a unique stay and more personal experience.

TRANSPORTATION

Experts suggest booking domestic flights one to three months before departure and international flights two to eight months ahead — your best bet for sweet deals.

Dominique Allen, the savvy local travel influencer behind @WellTraveledChild, shares her advice: “To start, book flights midweek and use Google Flights to set price alerts. Also, traveling during offpeak or shoulder seasons can help you land lower prices.”

Pack smart to avoid bulky luggage and excess fees!

WRITTEN AND PHOTOGRAPHED BY ERICA DELONG

Outside of flying, look into luxury bus services or trains that offer comfy seats at reasonable rates.

DINING

Eating on the go can quickly drain your wallet. Pro tip: Treat yourself to a lavish meal at lunchtime. The price tag is usually much friendlier compared with dinner, but the quality and service remain top-notch.

Dominique also recommends looking for hotels or Airbnbs with kitchens to save

AMENITIES

Many hotel and resort amenities are open to guest use before check-in and after checkout on travel days. Use them! Always make it a point to call places you’re planning to visit ahead of time to see what perks you can take advantage of. Some hotels even offer day passes that let you use their pool or spa without having to book a room for the night.

Also, when planning your todo list, take full advantage of what’s out there for zero dollars — like museums, art galleries, and cool historical sites.

ESSENTIAL GEAR

Packing for a trip can feel like solving a puzzle: Fit everything you need without going over your space or weight allowance and ending up paying hefty baggage fees. Packing light is the way to go! One of my go-to pieces is the Cotopaxi Allpa 42L Travel Pack — a convenient backpack–meets–carry-on that fits perfectly in overhead compartments. I have managed to pack a full week’s worth of stuff in it!

A foldable water bottle will also save space and is way lighter to carry around than a metal bottle. Lastly, protect your hats with hat molds so they don’t get squished in your bag. You can easily pack in and around the mold to maximize packing space.

If you ever need to check your luggage, a luggage protector is your bag’s best friend. They’re washable, so it’s no biggie if they get dirty.

Packing cubes and vacuum bags are lifesavers! Throw your stuff in the vacuum bags, suck the air out with a handy little pump, and toss them into packing cubes. You’ll be amazed how much you can fit, and it will all stay organized!

And yes, the fanny pack is still a thing! It’s perfect for keeping your travel documents, phone, and ID close. Currently, neutral tones are all the rage if you want to stay trendy. Consider picking up a multifunctional phone case that also serves as a wallet and a stand for selfies. And you’ll definitely need a portable charger. Phones drain fast while traveling! Heads up from cybersecurity expert Ryan Montgomery: Avoid unknown chargers at public stations to protect your data from “juice jacking,” aka stealing your information. So who is ready to be a bougie traveler on a budget with me? Share your next adventure @EricaDeLong. t

Maximize your space with accessories like collapsible water bottles and a phone case wallet.

Look for compact tools like this palm-sized travel iron.

small business spotlight

Apex Racing Lab

WRITTEN BY ERIN MCKNIGHT | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN

Referring to Apex Racing Lab as an arcade is a violation. And for a venue that encourages drivers to speed (albeit safely), that’s really saying something.

Located in Cary’s MacGregor Village, Apex Racing Lab is the largest simulated racing center in North Carolina. Billed as “virtual motorsports,” this entertainment hotspot allows drivers to enjoy racing in an environment that’s both accessible and exciting.

The brainchild of John DiCostanzo, ARL is where reality and simulation merge. With a mantra of Speed Socially, ARL introduces John’s real-world racing expertise

into the virtual domain and allows drivers to push simulation to the edge.

In this space, shaped by both tradition and technology, it’s not just the 20 simulators — pods featuring professional-level equipment with immersive turn-by-turn motion and dynamic virtual tracks — that deliver a hyper-realistic racing sensation. It’s the energy that comes from drivers looking for a thrill: the fuel for John’s desire to lead the way. “At Apex Racing Lab, we are dedicated to delivering an unmatched sim racing experience,” he says. “Our doors are open for you to create, compete, and celebrate your racing story.”

Authentic signed racing helmets are displayed in the pro shop.

The realistic racing simulators are equipped with turn-by-turn motion for an exceptional motorsport racing experience.

Isaac Flowers, 13, takes a hairpin turn on a sim racer as grandfather Steve Purucker watches.

Of course, even the most cutting-edge equipment, audio, and simulation are only as good as those who use it; fortunately, ARL has drivers covered on that front. Whether racers are new and looking to learn or are already proficient and in pursuit of new challenges, the ARL environment is always immersive and suited to every level. Expert instructors meet racers where they are and play a major role in fostering a safe and supportive environment for hitting the gas.

There is also a race for every driver. From casual NASCAR, Formula One, and other races in 30-, 60-, or 90-minute laps to competitive leagues, ARL can rev any engine. Drivers can build their own race with recommended tracks — namely Lime Rock Park in Connecticut for first-time sim racers — and vehicle. The top-level Go for Pro experience puts racers on Formula One tracks, such as in Sao Paolo and Monaco, in thrilling Formula One race cars. Additional tracks with varying levels of speed and difficulty are available for those looking for something extra.

The facility includes 5,000 square feet of entertainment space.

The onsite full-service bar serves a variety of craft beverages.

Drivers can schedule races online or drop in to get in the driver’s seat. Monthly memberships starting at $100 are the best bet for those looking to spend more time on the track. Rookie Racer offers 2 hours, or four 30-minute laps; Champion Driver offers 5 hours; for families that race together, Family Pit Crew includes 8 hours; and Ultimate Victory offers up to 2 hours per day for the racer who needs to get a daily dose of speed.

ties, and other celebrations. Amenities include a well-appointed pro shop, craft cocktail bar, varied seating options with multiple screens, and a dedicated meeting space that can be converted into a private lounge. The vibe is both laidback and luxe.

With a dedicated onsite event coordinator, ARL is a sought-after venue for meetings, par-

Whether it’s friendly camaraderie in the form of a team-building event, the furious competition of a sim racing league night, or the fun chill of an F1 watch party, the possibilities for action and adventure — much like the race track itself — are limitless at Apex Racing Lab. t

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Phoenix Kimball, 17, experiences the thrill of motorsport simulation.

Even the lounge tabletops are on theme.

Clothing, helmets, and racing gear are available in the retail store.

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Flying Colors

Flying Colors

The Wings

Over

Wayne Air Show

WRITTEN BY ERIN MCKNIGHT | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN

US Navy Blue Angels fly in formation over Seymour Johnson Air Force Base during the Wings Over Wayne 2023 Air Show in Goldsboro. This year’s May 3–4 show will feature the USAF Thunderbirds elite demonstration team.

Want to take off this summer without having to get airborne yourself? With the fastest and fiercest in flight once again taking to the North Carolina skies, the Wings Over Wayne Air Show has got you covered.

A mere day-tripping distance away in Goldsboro, Wings Over Wayne has grown to become the state’s largest free air show open to the public. The event happens biennially in odd-numbered years, with an estimated 200,000 people attending in 2023. At this year’s May 3–4 air show weekend, the expectation is to meet or exceed that number.

And for the visitors planning to descend on Seymour Johnson Air Force Base with their sights set on the skies, what will be seen is nothing short of spectacular! With a theme of “Push the Limits,” the USAF Thunderbirds demo team will lead the way in precise formation work and aerobatics. According to 2025 Air

TOP: The B-52 Stratofortress bomber, which has been in service since 1955, will be at this year’s show. BOTTOM: The public is encouraged to step under the B-52’s bomb bay.

Show Director Maj. Ryan Young and Assistant Air Show Director Lt. Col. Bridgett Fitzsimmons, the much-anticipated event will “present new acts this year as well as welcome back some old favorites including the Combined Arms Demo, showcasing today’s Air Force assets as they regain control of the airfield with bombs, guns, jump teams, and the Wall of Fire !”

Much like the 2023 show, which was led by the dazzling Blue Angels, it will be hot, and the smell of jet fuel will hang heavy in the air. The 2025 schedule is packed with plenty of wheels and wings: Historic warbirds will cut through the air in their old radial engines, and fire-breathing F-15s and F16s will shake visitors to their core. “You will no doubt see the United States’ finest flying on display this year,” say Ryan and Bridgett.

Whether attendees choose to simply spectate (be sure to slather on the sunscreen and bring a hat or umbrella; sunglasses are also a must) or get hands on with the static aircraft that offer cockpit access by ladder, the attractions at Wings Over Wayne are once again plenty.

The 2023 air show marked the inaugural appearance of a dedicated STEM Expo. This year’s event will feature a bigger and better Expo, with the presence of 40 professionals representing diverse career fields that incorporate science, technology, engineering, and math.

A C-5 with its nose raised for cargo loading.

The F-15E Strike Eagle is based at Seymour Johnson AFB.

F-22 Raptor

“You will no doubt see the United States’ finest flying on display this year.”

ryan Young and Lt. Col. bridgett Fitzsimmons

Maj.

The P-51D Mustang was used during World War II and the Korean War.

The Combined Arms Demo demonstrates the modern airpower capabilities of multiple services and airframes, incorporating pyrotechnics and the Wall of Fire

Replica Zeros, which reenact the attack on Pearl Harbor in Tora! Tora! Tora!

“These professionals are passionate about what they do and want to inspire and interact with the next generation of STEM leaders,” say Ryan and Bridgett. The STEM Expo will be in a covered hangar; rain or shine, it will run throughout the airshow weekend.

The Wings Over Wayne Air Show is also excited to offer a variety of delicious concessions as the perfect complement to an action-packed day of aerial performances. Tasty options will range from classic festival fare to specialty treats that are certain to satisfy any appetite. In addition, premier seating and experiences — to include bleacher seating, box seating, new-to-2025 flight line club access, and VIP party chalets — will be available.

This two-day event will fly high with something for everyone. Copious concessions, a beer garden, kids’ zone, and varied seating options and upgrades will all encourage long days on the airfield.

And on that airfield are the B-52 Stratofortress bomber, C-17 transport aircraft, F-35 supersonic stealth fighter, F-15 Eagle, F-22 Raptor, and many other memorable aircraft — forming a formidable lineup and serving as a poignant reminder of their role in preserving our freedoms.

Japanese replica Zeros

The air show is a picture-perfect experience, but ear protection is recommended for kids.

Spectators take a closer look at an F-35.

When in close formation, the Blue Angels fly just inches from each other.

Crew chiefs, who maintain and prepare jets prior to each flight, salute their pilots.

Arrive early to get a good seat! Massive crowds are expected.

An F-15E Strike Eagle taxis in another’s heat vapors before taking off for a combined arms combat demo.

According to Ryan and Bridgett, “Our duty is to protect the rights we hold dear as citizens of the United States for all Americans.”

With recruiters onsite to answer questions for anyone who is interested in serving, they continue: “We hope to inspire and display our commitment to service.”

Seymour Johnson is the only active-duty Air Force base in North Carolina, so the organizers behind Wings Over Wayne “feel it is our obligation to make it special and a world-class display of aviation!” say Ryan and Bridgett. “It is our chance every two years to honor the city of Goldsboro, Americans, and veterans everywhere for their trust, support, and service and reach out to our neighbors, friends, and community to say thank you for your continued support and trust.”

Gates open at 8 a.m. on both days.

Visitors are encouraged to bring water bottles that can be refilled at free water stations and — since the Thunderbirds will make passes at just below the speed of sound — some form of hearing protection! There is no entry fee and the gates to the base will be open to everyone. Note that although parking is free, exit lines in 2023 were slow moving. At this year’s show, parking will have trams to help move people more efficiently.

Thrilling performances, a dominating display of airpower, and community enrichment all await: The 2025 Wings Over Wayne Air Show is cleared for takeoff.

Visit wingsoverwayneairshow.com for the latest information on featured acts and activities, directions to the event, what to bring (and what not to bring), and anticipated event schedules. t

Though the Stearman biplane won’t appear at the 2025 air show, acts in this year’s lineup will push the limits of aviation.

McPherson Family Eye Care A Decade of Excellence in Eye Care

Since its founding in 2012 by Lee and Samantha McPherson, McPherson Family Eye Care has provided high-quality eye care for the entire family. What started as a small practice has now grown into a team of eight highly skilled doctors, each bringing their expertise and passion to ensure the best possible vision care for our patients. We are proud to remain an independently owned business in Wake County.

Specialty Services for Unique Vision Needs

Several of our doctors specialize in complex contact lens fittings, including the fitting of scleral lenses for patients with keratoconus or irregular corneas. These custom lenses provide improved vision and comfort for individuals who may struggle with traditional contact lenses and glasses. By staying at the forefront of advancements in contact lens technology, we help patients with unique vision challenges achieve the clarity and comfort they have been missing.

Pediatric Eye Care: Ensuring Bright Futures

Our dedicated pediatric eye doctor is committed to helping children see their best so they can reach their full potential in a fun

and welcoming environment. We have an extensive selection of eyewear exclusively for our youngest patients. We provide myopia management contact lens fittings, including orthokeratology (Ortho-k) and MiSight lenses. These innovative lenses are designed to slow progression of myopia in children, reducing their risk of developing high levels of near-sightedness later in life.

State-of-the-Art Dry Eye Treatment

Here at McPherson Family Eye Care, we do not dismiss your dry eye symptoms as mere annoyances. We recognize the impact that dry eye can have on your daily life. Our dry eye center, staffed by four passionate doctors, is well known throughout Wake County for providing compassionate, skilled, and individualized dry eye diagnosis and management. In addition to utilizing the prescription treatment options available, we use state-of-the-art instruments, including OptiLight, OptiPlus, and TriLift, for inoffice procedures that go beyond the capabil-

ities of traditional eye drops. These advanced technologies not only provide relief from dry eye symptoms but also rejuvenate skin tone and strengthen the muscles around the eyes. Patients not only feel better but enjoy the aesthetic enhancements as well.

Committed to Excellence in Eye Care

At McPherson Family Eye Care, we remain committed to providing cuttingedge, personalized eye care for every member of your family. Whether it’s routine eye exams, complex contact lens fittings, pediatric vision care, specialized dry eye treatments, or eyewear solutions, our team is committed to delivering exceptional care using the latest advancements in eye health and vision correction. If you’re looking for expert, compassionate eye care, we invite you to experience the McPherson Family Eye Care difference. Schedule your appointment today and see the world more clearly!

The Art of Restoration Asheville’s RAD Renaissance

WRITTEN BY ERIN MCKNIGHT | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN

“It felt … not alive to me,” says Lynn Bregman Blass about the painting leaning at her feet. Before Helene, the canvas had hung on the psychotherapist and mixed media artist’s studio wall. After the disaster, which she admits “is informing my work,” Lynn verbalizes a feeling palpable in Asheville’s River Arts District: loss.

Though by the time Helene entered the state it had weakened to a tropical storm, the damage left in its wake was catastrophic. Rivers flooded and mudslides formed. More than a hundred people lost their lives. The impact on infrastructure and in residential areas — particularly in Western North Carolina — was crushing.

The River Arts District (RAD), described by Explore Asheville’s PR manager Cass Santander as a “culturally rich neighborhood” of 300 artist galleries and studios running along the French Broad River, was especially hard-hit.

An estimated 80% of the district sustained damage.

But if anyone is equipped to process the destruction that fell with the record-breaking rain in late September 2024, it is the artist who makes meaning. The creative skilled at taking parts — in this case, damaged remnants — and reconceiving, restoring, rebuilding.

So, when the floodwater receded, Lynn took down the painting that had never felt right and “threw green paint on it, ruined it,” then came back and sanded the entire canvas, an act that allowed “what was under to come through.”

And what came through was hot pink: the same hue found on the shipping containers stacked on the street opposite Lynn’s studio. These ordinary objects, artifacts from before Helene, now act as a gauge for just how high the water rose.

The demarcation is formed by the top of the lower container, which displays Helene 2024, and the bottom of the upper container, emblazoned with RAD RISING. They meet where the water reached: now a solid line that dissects the image of a dog captured mid-bark in pink paint.

Marquee owner Robert Nicholas surveys the damage from Hurricane Helene’s flooding.

Hot pink is the same color used by jewelry designer Jeffrey Burroughs in their color-coded Post-it organization system to represent the most pressing of recovery tasks. Although the bright pink feels less “aggressive” to Jeffrey than red, the highest-priority action items on these sticky notes have helped keep the RAD community from capsizing.

Jeffrey’s leadership as president of the River Arts District Artists has resulted in precious lifelines since the flood. Yet, even with $1 million raised, the loss from October to December is estimated at $15 million — a conservative figure, as it only accounts for 200 arts businesses.

The number of artists who lost their space is similarly hard to quantify, as some studios housed multiple artists. While there were those who planned for a foot or two of water and moved their work to second floors, “it didn’t end up mattering,” says Jeffrey, who still finds the situation “hard to even talk about.”

That’s because they lost two friends to the flood. And, to a degree, themself. “I have come to the conclusion,” they explain of driving down from the mountain and crossing the bridge into the RAD the first time after Helene, “that since I’ve been so busy since that day, I’m still there on the bridge. … I left myself there so we can get through this …”

Lynn Bregman Blass talks about how her creative process has been affected by the disaster.

And getting through started almost immediately, with fellow artists congregating in the RAD. There was no power. No water. No means of communication. “Without phones, we all just started coming here,” says Jeffrey. Pieces of cardboard and Sharpies were taped up and used to share information about which roads were open or where meals — like at painter Philip DeAngelo’s studio and gallery, which served as a pop-up kitchen for weeks and fed approximately 150 people a day — could be found.

These rudimentary message boards were the only thing being exhibited in the RAD after the storm, where 700 creatives of every type and at all stages of their careers are accustomed to an artistic process Lynn describes as “torture and torment and questions and wondering if it’s relevant and if it makes any difference.”

Instead, these artists, to include Jeffrey, were reduced to passively watching their “dreams” and “opportunities” float away in “water immersed with paintings, art materials … they were just coming down the river.”

That trauma is felt acutely by Robert Nicholas, owner of Marquee Asheville, when he stares, hands in his denim pockets, into the shell of the 50,000-square-foot warehouse and asks: “Who would come back here?”

The curated art and design marketplace’s new coffee shop had only been open for a month before there was water up to the ceiling. Then, when the 15 feet of river water receded, it left behind the debris from 125,000 pieces of art and furniture. Much of the inventory had gathered at one end — dragged in the direction the water had been moving.

The water level of the flood is marked on a shipping container in the River Arts District.

After being forced to wait three weeks until Marquee dried out, many of its 300+ antique dealers, artists, creatives, and smallbusiness owners returned to retrieve what they could of their work as keepsakes. The act was, according to Robert, more than a reclamation it was “a reuniting.”

Which is perhaps why, as he gazes at the void that had bustled with activity and burst with creativity before the hush of Helene, he’s able to say, “We’ve come a long way.”

The same is true for The Radical hotel, which opened in October 2023 and was voted the second-best new hotel in the United States in USA Today’s 10Best Readers’ Choice Awards 2025.

Describing having to close to guests and reopen in early January without full amenities — though all the special touchpoints, like the red harmonica at check-in, are very much present — and despite not even being in the flood plain, owner Amy Michaelson Kelly considers the business impact on the boutique hotel “almost irrelevant.”

That is perhaps because she remembers how the river continued to swell, even after the rain had stopped: “We watched hour by hour, like, ‘Oh, surely it won’t overtake the railroad tracks,’ and then it started making its way up to the doors …”

Although her team barricaded the basement doors, they could see the water building behind them. When the drain couldn’t take on any more water and succumbed to the pressure, the employees “all burst into tears,” Amy says, “because they had fought so hard … just watching with anxiety and anticipation as the water was coming.”

The ragged banks of the French Broad reveal the fury of the flooding.

“Collaboration is really intrinsic to the collective personality of our community. On the other side of Helene, we’ve seen that play out in really beautiful ways.”

Cass Santander, Explore Asheville

Philip DeAngelo paints in his studio overlooking the French Broad River.

Marquee tenant Dwayne and owner Robert embrace in front of the art and design marketplace. A

gutted Marquee warehouse.

But she also reflects that the storm has brought the community together. The question she’s often asked is whether the RAD will come back stronger. Amy’s response is stronger, certainly, but also “closer, because we are all communicating, collaborating.”

Indeed, within the days immediately following Helene, The Radical housed emergency workers. Despite being without water or light — for weeks — one would later remark to Jeffrey that he’d “never seen a community come together like this,” and that because people showed up for one another on micro levels, it allowed disaster workers to “focus on the bigger tasks.”

And the biggest task right now, according to Cass, “lies on keeping businesses open.” FEMA estimates that 40% of businesses don’t reopen after a disaster, and it can take up to two years for a community to restabilize. Which is why, Cass says, Explore Asheville is “so committed to reminding folks across the country that Asheville is open, and our businesses are here and eager for the return of visitation.”

Whether tourists choose to indulge in breakfast at All Day Darling or dinner and drinks at Table, Cass says they will still experience what they always have in Asheville: “people who share, of course, the mountains and an affinity for nature, but also a desire for connection.” She continues: “Collaboration is really intrinsic to the collective personality of our community. On the other side of Helene, we’ve seen that play out in really beautiful ways.”

One such way is when Dwayne, a tenant of Marquee, pays a visit to the current husk-like building. Clad in boots muddy from cleanup work, and after embracing Robert, he shares how excited he is to return to what Robert describes as a “turned-up Marquee” — Dwayne answering a question that Robert admits he was almost afraid to ask.

Or when poet and painter Nancy, who walks alongside the ragged bank of the French Broad, affirms that if she was younger, she’d be doing something herself about the trash hanging overhead in tree limbs that had rested on the river’s surface during the flood.

Looking into Nancy’s pale blue eyes that surge with tears when she says, “But first, we have to grieve,” and before she lifts her camera to continue capturing the images that will surely inform her future work, it’s easy to believe her.

So, although Asheville is in a “post-disaster moment,” Cass says “Travelers should know that they can come to Asheville and still have fun and still have a luxury experience or find the same beauty that Asheville is known for is still intact. More so, what is apparent is this creative and connected spirit of the community that is very tangible — it’s moving, and you can feel it.”

Jewelry designer Jeffrey Burroughs, a RAD artist, is indeed rising with their post-Helene work.

and

Riverview Gate inspired by the concept of a grieving tree overlooks the River Arts District below. The space is open to,

inviting of, the whole community.

That creative and connected spirit is certainly flowing downtown on a Friday night at Gallery Mélange, where, instead of solo exhibitions of the first work produced since the flood, a trio of artists show together. Shared art spaces have increased since Helene and “opened up a really beautiful opportunity for folks to witness this moment of collaboration,” says Cass, who continues: “Asheville is known for food and nature and wellness, but the creative people who live here really lend to its personality. And so seeing these efforts to preserve and hold up our creative community are really empowering.”

One such effort is poignantly evident on Riverview Drive, which overlooks the bridge where Jeffrey’s former self awaits their return. Inspired by the concept of a grieving tree, artist Elizabeth Porritt Carrington and collaborators used fallen branches to create an archway. Tied to it are the notes written by Asheville neighbors invited to capture what they lost in the flood.

The location of the Riverview Gate was selected because after Helene, in the days when there was no communication, an intermittent cell signal could be found at this spot; it was here that people would come to reconnect with friends and loved ones and commune with one another. And it is from here that the River Arts District below — its hints of hot pink visible if you look hard enough — is observable. And to the east, where the arch faces, the rising sun. t

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Artist Elizabeth Porritt Carrington reads poignant notes left by Asheville residents on the Riverview Gate.

6 Tips for Spring Cleaning Your Financial Life

CONTRIBUTED BY COASTAL CREDIT UNION

Spring is in the air! Time to wash the windows and declutter the closets. It’s also a perfect time to freshen up your finances. Just like an organized home is more inviting, getting your finances streamlined can give you more control for today and more confidence in tomorrow.

Here are six tips to give your financial life a spring cleaning.

1. DECLUTTER YOUR ACCOUNTS

Have bank accounts you don’t use, or multiple accounts scattered across different institutions? Consolidating can work wonders. Coastal Credit Union offers a variety of checking and savings accounts.1 In fact, our Go Green Checking is the best of both worlds, making it easy to manage your money while earning dividends. Plus, digital banking tools let you keep track of your funds with just a few taps.

2. DEAL WITH HIGH-INTEREST DEBT

According to CNBC, the average American has more than $6,000 in credit card debt. High interest debt is a weight on your shoulders, an anchor pulling your credit score down. Consider transferring balances to a Coastal Visa® Credit Card with a lower rate. That will help you pay off the debt faster.2 An

even better approach is to apply for a personal or Home Equity Loan3 with Coastal. Either can considerably shrink your monthly payment.

3.

REBOOT YOUR BUDGET

Things change. Budgets must adjust. When income increases, add more to your savings. If there’s a downturn, see where you can cut back. It’s important to know where your money goes. We offer various tools on our website and mobile app that track spending, and our Free Financial Education Center can help keep your financial life on track!

That said, budgets aren’t carved in stone. Straying now and then can even keep you on track. It’s the reward you enjoy, like the dieter enjoying that “once in a blue moon” slice of pizza.

4.

CHANGE OF PLANS

Spring is a good time to refresh your goals. Whether setting money aside for a summer vacation, a new home, or that proverbial rainy day, Coastal Credit Union has options. We have everything from basic savings accounts to Share Certificates.

Want more? As an added bonus, our Go Green Money Market account pairs perfectly with our Go Green Checking (plus it offers competitive rates).

An effective way to save is the pay yourself first method. When you get a paycheck, take

a portion and put it in savings. So, you save first—before bills eat into your paycheck.

5. KEEP DOCUMENTS ORGANIZED

Financial spring cleaning isn’t complete without organized, easily accessible files. Coastal Credit Union members can simplify financial records by enrolling in eStatements. These provide secure access to statements anytime, anywhere.

6. CHECK YOUR CREDIT REPORT

Your financial spring cleaning should include a review of your credit report. A healthy credit score can open doors to better loan rates and opportunities. Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion are the nationwide credit reporting agencies. You can request a free credit report once a year.

Just like tidying your home, organizing your finances brings clarity and renewal. Coastal Credit Union is here to support you with personalized products and the timely advice you deserve.

Visit COASTAL24.com or stop by your nearest Coastal branch to learn how we can help you achieve your goals!

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A Cross-Country

RV Adventure

WRITTEN AND PHOTOGRAPHED BY TARA SHIVER

In last year’s travel issue, we brought you “Road Tripping for Success” full of tips from a seasoned traveler with more than 50,000 miles of experience under her belt. This is the opposite of that.

Scenes from the passenger seat, from a snow-dusted departure, past rolling hills and roadside attractions, and discovering a novel road trip game: school or prison?

A very dry Bridal Falls.

The week before Thanksgiving, my husband and I set out from our home in Pennsylvania with just over a week to drive the 3,300+ miles diagonally across the country to San Diego, towing a brand-newto-us travel trailer, with no reservations on the books.

Had we ever driven or spent a single night in an RV? No. Are we crazy? Yes. Did it work out? Read on ...

Some Context

My husband, Justin, is in the Navy, so we go where they send us (hence my working for a North Carolina publisher from Pennsylvania). He will be attending a course in San Diego for the next year. Because it’s an intense school where he will basically eat, sleep, and study, and we want to ultimately stay on the East Coast, we decide it best for him to geo-bach while I hold down the fort at our home. After carefully weighing all the factors (mostly: California is expensive), Justin opts to purchase a travel trailer as his mobile bachelor pad.

Four Weeks Before Departure

After a few months of reading the internet’s opinion on why all RVs suck, Justin selects a Winnebago Micro Minnie, figures out what he needs to haul it with his truck, and brings it home. Our first “oh dear” moment occurs learning to turn the trailer 180 degrees at the top of our steep football field–length

driveway. Total anxiety incidents thus far: 1. The plan is to take it for a few test drives and spend a night or two at a nearby campground to learn what we are doing. I print out a map of US highways and get ready to mark The Official Route. We know we will basically take two roads: I-81 south to Tennessee and I-40 straight over to the West Coast. We will create a spreadsheet of the RV parks we expect to stay in each night, along with several on either side to accommodate for the unknown.

But then life happens — job things, personal things, option paralysis things — and all we really manage is learning to plug the trailer into the house for power and turn on the propane heater so nothing freezes.

Two Days Before Departure

A blizzard materializes out of nowhere and we are faced with an incoming 16 inches of snow. We can’t risk the delay, so we realize our only option is to leave a day earlier than planned, aka tomorrow.

Day 1

As we pull out of our driveway, we are filled with an electric sense of impending adventure — excitement at the things we will see and do mixed with tinges of wondering how much marriage therapy we will need when this is over. As we hit the highway, reality sinks in. We’re doing it!

Elapsed drive time: 27 minutes. Justin has to pee. Visions of stopping at 100 separate rest stops on the journey run through my mind.

We take care of business and get back on the road. I soon learn the amount of time the truck spends in overdrive pulling this thing raises my blood pressure.

We stop at a large shopping center (necessary for easy trailer parking) for lunch. Justin voices his desire to cover as much ground as possible on day one — exactly the

opposite of the one plan we had actually set: Stop before sunset so we aren’t setting up for the first time in the dark.

After popping into an auto parts store for detachable tow mirrors, we get back on the road, agreeing to stick to the park-by-dark plan. I google RV sites, pick one, and we call to book.

The woman asks if we’re okay with hills. We both pause, not wanting to be the one to voice doubt. We ask her what, exactly, she means by hills. She tells us it’s “mostly only an issue for people who are only used to flat driving and try to stop on the ascent.”

“Two days before departure ... a blizzard materializes out of nowhere.”

We live on a mountain. We got this. Sign us up.

About 20 minutes before sunset, we arrive at the office, check in, and purchase a sewer hose and obligatory “Virginia is for Lovers” sticker. Snow rolls into the campground with us and picks up as we approach the “hit the gas and don’t lose your momentum” hill. I confidently instruct Justin to go right at the fork at the top … which puts us nicely on the road back to the office instead of our site.

Justin enjoys PB&J after the first day of driving.

Our lodging: cozy, if slightly cobbled together.

A quick pre-departure hike past a scenic overlook in the Tennessee mountains

Take two: We make it up the hill again, pass a row of cabins, and arrive at the correct location: a single pull-through RV spot with a clear view of the resort’s pond and scenery.

greywater, undo the setup steps from last night, and hit the road. We’re both a little surprised by how smoothly our first go at RV camping went. “Are we RVers now?” we ponder aloud.

Our positivity is interrupted by more life things. I’ll spare details, but we end up burning a few hours on a fruitless attempt to get some Very Important Paperwork signed while receiving texts like “where is the chainsaw?” from our house sitter (anxiety incidents: 2).

enough to walk to, order Uber Eats from the lobby so we can pass out as soon as possible.

STOP: Lonoke, Arkansas (100-ish miles behind goal of “somewhere around Clarksville”)

Day 4

Verbatim notes from the day’s drive:

• For a flat and empty state, Arkansas onramps are like someone threw a handful of wet spaghetti on the floor and said, “yeah, good enough.”

“We live on a mountain. We got this. Sign us up.”

Setup includes chocking the wheels, lowering the trailer jack and landing gear, folding out the steps, connecting power and water lines, pushing out the slider, rearranging interior items that need to be in their upright and locked positions during travel, and turning on the water heater and propane heater. Our site is flat, so we don’t need to level the RV. We manage without much incident and are settled in for the night about 35 minutes after parking.

After our inaugural dinner of PB&J and a celebratory Moscow mule, I use RV toilet paper for the first time. Ever seen a video of a raccoon trying to wash cotton candy? It’s like that.

STOP: Staunton, Virginia (on schedule)

Day 2

First night down! The bed (a single-ply Murphy bed with a memory foam camping mattress held on top by a fitted sheet) sleeps surprisingly well.

We take our first quick showers, learn how to connect the sewer line, drain our

We resign ourselves to being substantially behind schedule on day two and select a campsite, but we need a few supplies before we park for the night. We stop at Buc-ee’s, which could easily be the subject of its own article, and pick up an amusingly diverse cart full of items ranging from trash bags and bottled water to Beaver Nuggets and hot chopped brisket sandwiches.

Not wanting to run out of propane on a chilly night, we stop at Tractor Supply for a refill. It’s in a gated area with room for us to pull in but not through, meaning we have to back out of the narrow passage into a parking lot while holding up the flow of traffic (anxiety incidents: 3).

STOP: Monterey, Tennessee (95 miles behind goal of Nashville)

Day 3

After a late arrival and restful-but-notlong-enough night’s sleep, we pack up and decide to take a short hike to Bridal Falls before sitting all day. We admire the falls (actually a dry rock face) and mountain view, then get on the road.

We drive through Tennessee for what feels like an eternity before hitting Arkansas. My notes from the day include little more than a rest stop with a poorly marked walking trail, funny billboards, and “population: 619,” a new-to-me level of sparsity. GPS alerts us to a traffic delay of well over an hour, and we find ourselves wishing we could teleport our way forward to Oklahoma.

We’d expected to spend a night or two in a hotel along the way, and with fatigue and delays, today’s the day. We check in at nearly 10 p.m. and, because nothing is close

• Even the buildings look bored.

• Oklahoma is just wind and flat.

• Coyote ran across highway. No roadrunner.

I book an RV park in Texas purely because it has a donkey named Clara. We arrive after dark and set up, and I meander around the park saying hello to Clara as well as goats, sleeping chickens, and other farm friends.

STOP: Shamrock, Texas (95 miles behind goal of Amarillo)

Day 5

We get up before sunrise. I do a lap to say goodbye to the farm animals. We disconnect and get rolling smoothly, and we feel like we’ve finally hit our stride.

Soaking up Americana: campsite statues in Tennessee, the incomparable Buc-ee's gas station superstore, Toby Keith's I Love this Bar & Grill, the Little Rock skyline, and unexpectedly delicious Vietnamese in small-town Arkansas.

We have a solid plan to make up ground, and I particularly look forward to being in a city tonight and getting to do a little exploring.

Neither of us has ever driven through the Southwest. From looking at the map, we have a sense of which cities with names we recognize will be on our route. What we don’t realize is just how little is in between those cities. We’re also accustomed to gas stations being a max of a few miles of highway travel apart. And thanks to head-on winds, we’re averaging about 8 miles per gallon.

We realize we need gas at a quarter tank and plan to stop at the next station — only there isn’t one. We spend the last 20 miles of Texas in anxiety event #4 praying the truck’s estimated mileage to empty is off.

It’s not. We cross the New Mexico state line and, 3 miles shy of the gas station, pull into the state welcome center on fumes. The staff offer a loaner gas can and suggest we start walking because “who knows how long insurance will be.” We call to check, and we decide to skip the impromptu cardio after receiving an estimate of 35 minutes for a gas drop.

Shockingly, the estimate is accurate. After

a solid cry over feeling like our first chance to do something has been ruined by an embarrassing rookie mistake I will have to admit to in writing, help arrives and we’re back on our way. We make it to the station and purchase two gas cans — just in case.

We still manage to make up the mileage we’re behind and select an RV park with excellent reviews located in the middle of Albuquerque. We arrive at the gated complex, get set up, and walk to a bar next door. From there, we grab an Uber to a burger joint because Justin has heard he must get a green chile burger in New Mexico.

The doors are locked. Odd. So we walk to a hole-in-the-wall restaurant in the adjoining shopping center and have the best meal of the trip: birria tacos and ramen.

The Uber driver who shows up to return us to the RV park tells us it’s a shame we broke down here. When we clarify we’re staying here on purpose , she tells us with a note of panic in her voice that we really shouldn’t leave our vehicle unattended because she has personally had three cars stolen. I make a note to research city crime statistics before future bookings.

STOP: Albuquerque, New Mexico (on schedule)

Day 6

Belongings intact, we leave the site and decide we finally have time for a bit of sightseeing. We stop at a frozen-in-time diner with a placard commemorating a scene from Breaking Bad filmed in one of the booths before embarking on a hike through Petroglyph National Monument to marvel at stone carvings hundreds of years old.

We make stops at the Petrified Forest National Park and Meteor Crater National Landmark, both of which take our breath away.

“I make a note to research city crime statistics before future bookings.”

I manage to snag a reservation at an RV lot inside Grand Canyon National Park. It’s a divergence from the most direct

Roadside assistance: not the sight anyone wants on a road trip.

route to California, but one we are more than willing to take.

Somehow, it doesn’t occur to us that the only route into the canyon will be on a winding two-lane road with signs like “Elk crossing next 35 miles.” After a fair bit of white-knuckling, we check in, have dinner, and head to sleep, bursting with excitement to experience the grandeur of the canyon in the morning.

STOP: Grand Canyon, Arizona (on schedule)

Day 7

We wake up to rain. We walk to the rim of the canyon and know that majestic sights sit before us … and they’re completely obscured by dense clouds.

We can’t stay because in a few hours, the rain will turn to snow and the temps will drop sharply, and we can’t risk dangerous conditions. I accept that I won’t get to experience the Grand Canyon despite being smack in the middle of it. I shed a few tears, stop by a cafeteria for a cup of coffee, and we head south.

We visit friends in Tucson, boondocking in an empty lot beside their apartment complex. They assure us people park there often, but we still find ourselves paranoid we’re breaking some kind of rule since not many spaces allow you to exist without a fee these days.

STOP: Tucson, Arizona (on schedule)

Day 8

Thanksgiving. For the first time in a week, we don’t drive at all.

Spending two consecutive nights in the

same place allows us to relax in a way we haven’t had time to thus far. We extend the awning, turn on the outside lights, open all the windows, and chill

Day 9

We’ve made it to the final leg of our journey. After a leisurely morning, we set out for the final time.

One does not simply drive past a place called Rooster Cogburn Ostrich Ranch, so we take an unexpected stop to feed all manner of critters: donkeys, goats, tortoises, stingrays, lorikeets, bunnies, and of course ostriches.

After one final anxiety incident (at night, California agricultural inspection stations look a lot like you’re about to accidentally cross into Mexico) we arrive. As we pull into our final destination, Justin exclaims, “Baby, we did it! And three things haven’t happened: I haven’t killed you, you haven’t killed me, and we haven’t gotten divorced!”

In fact, I can’t wait to do it all again.

FINAL STOP: San Diego, California

Takeaways

ROLL WITH THE PUNCHES

Plans will fall through or be quashed by Mother Nature. Sometimes it’ll be a restaurant you hoped to go to, and sometimes it’ll be a once-in-alifetime experience. Try to keep things in perspective: You’ll forget the small disappointments in a few days, and the big ones will made for a good story.

EMBRACE THE LEARNING CURVE

We were generally surprised at our lack of major headaches in terms of learning how to set up and manage the RV. That’s not to say it was all smooth. Early on, we found ourselves asking, “Does that sound mean the thing we want is happening or is not happening?”

GET RIDICULOUS

Kitschy roadside attractions with dinosaur statues that have seen better days, World’s Largest [anything], places with names like Rooster Cogburn Ostrich Ranch and Toby Keith’s I Love This Bar & Grill, and other silly stops will make you laugh — and a sense of humor is critical in maintaining sanity in the face of inevitable travel stress.

CHOOSE THE OFFSEASON

Our “make reservations 2 hours before stopping each day” tactic probably wouldn’t have worked out as well during the height of summer travel.

GO TO BUC-EE’S

It’s like equal parts Sheetz, Cracker Barrel, and Santa’s Workshop. Everyone should experience it at least once.

GAS AND SNACKS

Even if you don’t think you need either, get both.

Birria tacos and ramen: the best meal of the trip

Needed levity after a long travel day came in the form of a novelty paper cup.

on trend Activity-Based Family Travel

WRITTEN BY ERIN MCKNIGHT | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN

As adults, we consider vacations a time for unwinding and relaxing. But when you’re traveling with kids, you quickly realize their energy levels aren’t going to drop just because you’re in a new place.

By planning an activity-based trip, everyone goes in with similar expectations and shares excitement and connection.

Ashley Knowles, owner of TRIP

Well Planned and mom to three little wanderlusters, once ruled out destinations for her own family because they didn’t seem kid friendly. By shifting her focus to specific activities rather than the destination, she’s “discovered a whole new range of places perfect for family travel” that will also meet everyone’s adventure needs.

Ashley’s first activity-based vacation,

a surf trip in emerging go-to surfing destination Nicaragua, changed her perspective on family travel. She recalls tropical music playing in the background and a cold drink in hand after she’d finished her surf lesson when she looked over and saw her youngest, who was barely 3 at the time, napping peacefully in a restaurant chair. As she explains: “At that moment, I thought, Wow — we’ve figured it out. We’ve found a way to travel and do activities that everyone can enjoy as a family.”

An activity-based trip does require more planning than just booking an allinclusive hotel, Ashley acknowledges. It takes time and effort to research destination options, find the right accommodations, vet reliable tour companies, and secure

qualified instructors — especially for unique or niche experiences (think crewed yacht charter to the British Virgin Islands). As a travel advisor, Ashley has access to insider knowledge and a network of trusted providers, both locally and globally. This, she explains, “allows me to save you time, ensure you’re getting the best options, and create a seamless experience tailored to your family’s interests.”

If you’re looking to do the heavy lifting yourself, here are a few of Ashley’s tips for planning an activity-based trip and navigating the experience:

Selecting the Destination

Start by choosing the activities you want to do, rather than picking a destination

Ashley Knowles and her kids — Logan, 11; Blake, 9; and Bodie, 4 — travel with carry-ons the perfect size to manage on their own.

and searching for things to do while there. Whether it’s snorkeling, golfing, hiking, or skiing, focusing on the activities will help you narrow down your destination. If you have younger children, I highly recommend traveling with another family. It gives you the flexibility to take turns participating in activities that may not be suitable for all ages and provides your kids with a playmate to keep them entertained.

The Travel Experience

Always opt for a longer layover — it gives you more time to grab a meal and prevents missed connections. For warmweather destinations, we always travel with carry-ons. Our favorite carry-on is the CALPAK Hue Mini because it’s the perfect size for kids to manage on their own and fits under an airplane or bus seat.

Don’t forget to pack plenty of snacks to last through the entire travel day. I stash a few lollipops in my bag for the kids once we’ve arrived, especially if there’s a long customs line.

While on the Trip

I recommend scheduling one activity per day. This gives everyone something to look forward to and eliminates the “What’s next?” question. For dining out, we always bring a small card game (UNO Flip! is a favorite), Silly Putty, and Plus-Plus blocks to keep the kids busy while waiting. If you’re traveling abroad, be prepared for slower service than you might be used to — these little distractions can help pass the time.

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Bodie enjoys some relaxation and green space at the Family Adventure Retreat at Beach Break Surf Camp in Panama.

Logan and Blake greet a highland cow during a visit to Loch Ness in Scotland.

Blake, Logan, and Bodie get the lay of the land in Costa Rica.

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Great Escapes 20 25

DESTINATIONS THAT NEVER DISAPPOINT

Chimney Rock State Park

The Northern Outer Banks

The Northern Outer Banks is known for its maritime history, remote pristine beaches, Corolla Wild Horses, a 150-year-old lighthouse, and its beautiful natural setting. But did you know that the The Northern

Outer Banks is also known for laid-back family fun?

BEACHES

The beaches of Corolla and Carova are just the start. The pristine, wide, and natural beaches provide plenty of room for playing games, boogie boarding, surfing, or simply relaxing with your family and friends. No cramped beaches here! Grab a parking permit and you can drive, park, and stay all day with everything you need in your 4x4 vehicle.

WATERSPORTS

On the west side, the Currituck

Sound separates Corolla and Carova from The Mainland. The sound provides a great opportunity to experience watersports on a different body of water. Participate in activities like kayak eco tours or stand-up paddle boarding, or get a 360-degree view of the The Northern Outer Banks with a parasail adventure above the water.

ACCOMODATIONS

Choose from a multitude of vacation rental homes or one of our quaint hotels or inns offering an array of amenities. Choose a location oceanside, soundside, or somewhere in between.

Whatever you choose, you’ll be just a short walk from a body of water.

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BBQ FEST ON THE NEUSE

It’s early on the first Saturday morning in May, and the breeze from downtown Kinston carries smoke and a hint of the mouthwatering sizzle of pork that has cooked low and slow over enormous grills all night. Welcome to the BBQ Fest on the Neuse — “the largest whole-hog cookoff in the world.”

More than 95 cook teams from across the United States gather each year on the banks of the Neuse River in Kinston, grilling whole hogs through

the night in preparation for judging the next morning. The sweet aroma that fills downtown Kinston is the result of these cooks perfecting their golden brown crisp skin and tender, flavorful pigs — splayed on giant grates of custom cookers. Winners of the competition go home with bragging rights, cash awards, and a custom-made chopping board.

For more than 40 years, this popular festival has kicked off the spring-summer season Down East with two days of cooking, live music and events, and a classic car and motorcycle show.

THE 2025 BBQ FEST ON THE NEUSE WILL FEATURE:

• Nashville recording artists Runaway June

• Music performances by Southern Misfits, The British Invaders, and No Quarter No Brass Band

• 160+ vendors including food trucks, arts & crafts, home &

garden, jewelry, farmers market, & festival merch

• Carolina Classic Car & Truck Show and Coastal Plains to Bikers For Christ Annual Motorcycle Show

• Beer, Wine & Spirits Garden featuring Kinston’s own Mother Earth Brewing & Social House Vodka

• Fun for kids of all ages at The FUN Zone

And, of course,

• The “Chop Tent” where you can savor Eastern North Carolina’s BEST barbecue, cooked, chopped, and sauced onsite. Come early; barbecue is available from 11 a.m. Saturday until it sells out, and they always sell out.

SEE YOU MAY 2 & 3, 2025 AT KINSTON’S BBQ FEST ON THE NEUSE! KINSTONBBQ.COM

Photos: Matt Ray Photography

Photos: Brittany Castillo Photography

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WILMINGTON AND BEACHES TRAVEL GUIDE FOR 2025

From the vibrant, historic riverfront to three island beaches just minutes away, Wilmington embodies the best of the Carolina coast. Enjoy outdoor adventures while savoring the rich history and cultural charm of the area.

Immerse yourself in an abundance of refreshing vacation experiences. Explore the award-winning Wilmington

Riverwalk, a scenic gateway to unique dining, shopping, riverboat cruises, and more. Visit the site of the Civil War’s largest land-sea battle, Fort Fisher State Historic Site. Recently reopened after extensive renovations, the site features a brand-new Visitors Center with new exhibits and restored earthworks. Explore top attractions like Battleship NORTH CAROLINA, Carolina Beach Boardwalk, North Carolina Aquarium at Fort Fisher. Step back in time with a guided or self-guided tour through downtown’s National Register Historic District or head to Carolina Beach for WilmingtoNColor Heritage Tours new Seabreeze tour beginning spring.

Watersports, state parks, island cruises, Southern gardens, and museums also deliver authentic family fun.

Dine al fresco at waterside restaurants like Tequila Comida & Cantina Waterfront featuring outdoor seating and marina views, Pilot House Restaurant with a scenic terrace along the river or Floriana on their private decks overlooking the Riverwalk.The reopened RX Chicken & Oysters serves freshly speared fish and harvested oysters, while the new G Prime Steak & Cellar is curated by esteemed Triangle restaurateur Giorgio Bakatsias.

ATTEND UPCOMING EVENTS:

Feast Wilmington • March 29–30 NC Azalea Festival • April 2–6

Carolina Beach Music Festival • June 7

Fireworks by the Sea & Boardwalk Blast • Weekly Memorial Day to Labor Day Cape Fear Kite Festival • Nov. 7–9 NC Holiday Flotilla • Nov. 29 (877) 945-6386 WilmingtonAndBeaches.com

north carolina Brunswick Islands

A PLACE THAT WILL STEAL YOUR HEART.

Perhaps you recognize the name North Carolina’s Brunswick Islands, or you know us as one of our six intimate beaches — Sunset Beach, Ocean Isle Beach, Holden Beach, Oak Island, Caswell Beach, and Bald Head Island. Either way, there’s a magical connection that takes place here on these 45 miles of wide, sandy beaches. Simple and real is what we are all about. No flashy neon. No large theme parks. As odd as it may sound,

perhaps what we “don’t have” is the very reason so many families return to NC’s Brunswick Islands year after year, generation after generation.

But that doesn’t mean there’s nothing to do. It’s just that our experiences are authentic, laid-back, and much more memorable.

At the far end of Sunset Beach lies a two-mile stretch of shoreline completely free of development. The only hint of humankind is The Kindred Spirit Mailbox, a favorite among visitors and the inspiration for the Nicholas Sparks novel Every Breath. Within this unassuming mailbox tucked in the dunes are notes and stories of wishes, reflections, and loves lost and found. Read a few pages and appease the Kindred Spirit by leaving a story of your own.

The Brunswick Islands are home to North Carolina’s oldest and newest lighthouses. Old Baldy, built in 1817, is the definition of postcard picture-perfect. The Oak Island Lighthouse towers 169 feet above sea level. Plan a climb to the top of both for unsurpassed views of the Atlantic Ocean, Cape Fear River, and winding marshlands.

Summer especially offers family bonding time with free outdoor movies, concerts, and markets. Kayak or paddleboard along the many area rivers and

creeks or the Intracoastal Waterway. Be awed watching newly hatched sea turtles make their way to the ocean. Savor the catch of the day while seated along the dock at a waterfront restaurant.

These are just the beginning of a long list of things to do. It’s easy to see why NC’s Brunswick Islands just might become your family’s forever beach destination.

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north carolina Edenton

KNOWN FOR ITS HISTORY, EDENTON HAS UNDERGONE AN EXPANSIVE ARTS AND CULTURAL RENAISSANCE. IT ONLY TAKES ONE VISIT TO SEE THIS FIRSTHAND.

Seemingly around every corner is an Instagram-worthy view. For many, Edenton offers the ideal combination of historic charm and scenic beauty.

Edenton’s history is impressive. Established in 1712, it was North Carolina’s first Colonial capital, a place where signers of the Declaration of Independence and US Constitution lived and worked alongside one of the first justices of the US Supreme Court. The 1767 Chowan County Courthouse, still in operation today, is considered the most preserved Colonial courthouse in America.

It was in Edenton in 1774 that the first organized female political activity in the Colonies took place. Penelope Barker and 50 other women conducted the Edenton Tea Party to protest taxes on British goods.

A stroll through this bayside town showcases immaculately maintained homes, including Penelope Barker’s house, which sits

on the bay and serves as a welcome center. A few steps away is the departure point for the Edenton Trolley Tour, a popular attraction for visitors. From spring to fall, Edenton Bay Cruises provide daily maritime excursions along the town’s coastline.

Edenton’s arts scene is thriving, with vibrant new murals scattered throughout the downtown district. Be sure to check out the new commemorative mural for the Edenton Tea Party 250th Anniversary on South Broad Street, the mural on the Chowan Arts Council building on Water Street, and the striking mural on King Street that showcases the town’s rich history and reputation as a premier maritime destination.

Beyond its artistic charm, Edenton also offers a variety of unique accommodations.

Whether you prefer a traditional hotel, a distinctive vacation rental, or one of three inviting bed & breakfasts, you’ll find gracious hosts eager to share local insights. (800) 775-0111

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Johnston County

EXPLORE THE BEER, WINE & SHINE TRAIL IN JOCO

With a growing culinary and craft beverage scene in Johnston County, now is a great time to explore the Beer, Wine, and Shine Trail. The trail has expanded to include two wineries, five breweries,

and two distilleries; check out Raleigh Brewing JoCo in Wilson’s Mills and The Vault by Hatchet Brewing in Selma, plus new experiences like Broadslab’s flue-cured bourbon line and Hinnant Vineyards’ revamped tasting room and new café. These additions highlight the best of JoCo flavors and craftsmanship.

Craft beverage enthusiasts, be sure to get the new Beer, Wine & Shine Trail Digital Pass! The free mobile passport includes all nine stops along the trail. It is not an app; check-ins work via geolocation. Earning prizes as you sip and savor along the trail is easy, fun, and free. Go to beerwineshinetrail.com for a stepby-step guide on how to sign up, use the pass, and access prizes.

With Johnston County just

a quick trip from the Triangle area, visit multiple times to check in at all nine spots and earn the top prize. The trail is self-guided, and the passport gives you plenty of time to visit and earn. Make a full day of it with so much to explore along the trail: great BBQ, on-farm fun, local shopping, art trails, and more. Treat yourself to tours and tastings along the JoCo Beer, Wine, and Shine Trail!

north carolina Onslow County

ESCAPE TO ONSLOW COUNTY, A COASTAL GEM BLENDING FAMILY FUN, OUTDOOR RECREATION, STUNNING BEACHES, AND UNIQUE ATTRACTIONS.

Ride ocean waves where pirates once sailed, paddle wilderness rivers like Native Americans of centuries past, and witness baby sea turtles begin their ocean journey.

Begin your adventure on Onslow’s serene shores. Relax on North Topsail Beach’s tranquil sands or cruise to secluded Bear Island in Hammocks Beach State

Park. Miles of pristine coastline invite relaxation, water sports, shelling, and exploration. Wake to breathtaking ocean views from diverse beach accommodations.

Feeling adventurous? Take a thrilling water sports excursion or cast a line for exciting catches — mackerel, snapper, or tuna await on one of our fishing charters. Also, explore Onslow’s natural beauty on its extensive trail network, perfect for paddling and biking. Enhance your experience with eco-tours, marine life excursions, shelling cruises, and oyster farm tours.

Beyond the water, discover local treasures like Walton’s Distillery, where you can learn about distilling and sample fine spirits. For family fun, visit Mike’s Farm, offering seasonal activities, farm animals, and Southern cuisine.

Indulge in Onslow’s vibrant culinary scene. Savor fresh seafood, classic Southern dishes, and international flavors. From casual seafood shacks to elegant waterfront restaurants, there’s something for every palate.

Discover the charm of Onslow’s coastal towns: Jacksonville, Swansboro, North Topsail Beach, Holly Ridge, Sneads Ferry, and Richlands. Explore historical landmarks, museums, and cultural

attractions. Plus, honor the U.S. Marine Corps and the world’s largest Marine Expeditionary Force at Camp Lejeune and MCAS New River.

Create lasting memories with loved ones as you uncover the hidden gems of this coastal paradise. Just a scenic 2.5-hour drive from Raleigh.

Active Adventure

WRITTEN BY ERIN MCKNIGHT | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN

Active Adventure was born out of Bryan Maasch and Millie Jones’ shared experiences in recovery. They realized how powerful nature and outdoor activities had been in their personal healing processes and wanted to create a space for others to experience the same transformative connection. Says Bryan: “We saw the need for a program where people in recovery could challenge themselves, build community, and grow in a safe and supportive environment.”

Deciding to combine their love for the outdoors with their commitment to supporting others on a recovery journey, Bryan and Millie co-founded Active Adventure.

Read on as Bryan expands on finding connection — in many forms.

What is Active Adventure?

Active Adventure is a nonprofit organization that provides outdoor excursions and activities specifically designed for individu-

als in all stages of substance use disorder recovery. Our program consists of large group events that include hiking, camping, kayaking, and other nature-based activities. We aim to help people build strength, resilience, and confidence while developing deeper connections with themselves, others, and the natural world. We create a safe and supportive space for participants to push boundaries, practice mindfulness, and celebrate their recovery journey. A large portion of participants in our events are low-income individuals from local no-cost, long-term addiction treatment programs.

Why nature therapy?

Nature therapy is the practice of using nature-based activities to promote emotional, mental, and physical well-being. It’s based on the belief that spending time in natural settings can help reduce stress, improve mood, and boost overall health. For those in

recovery, nature therapy can offer a grounding experience, providing a sense of peace and connection that can be vital in the healing process. Nature offers an environment that encourages reflection, fosters resilience, and provides a sense of renewal.

What are your core values?

Fellowship, nature, and fitness are key components of our program because they support recovery in different but complementary ways. Fellowship creates a sense of community, reminding participants that they are not alone in their journey. Nature offers a peaceful and grounding space for reflection and healing. And fitness helps build physical strength, which is often neglected in recovery but can have a profound impact on mental health. Together, these values create a holistic approach that promotes overall wellbeing and helps individuals in recovery build a healthier, balanced life.

Bryan Maasch and Millie Jones, seen at Historic Yates Mill County Park in Raleigh, are the co-founders of Active Adventure, a nonprofit organization that provides outdoor activities and support for individuals in substance use disorder recovery.

Why a peer-led model?

A peer-led model is crucial because it creates an environment of shared experience and mutual understanding. When someone in recovery leads or guides another, there’s an inherent trust that comes from having walked the same path. Our participants feel understood and supported by people who truly know what they’re going through, which makes the experience more meaningful. Peer leaders bring a level of authenticity that can’t be matched, which helps participants feel safe and inspired to take the next steps in their journey.

Do other similar programs exist locally?

We are currently the only program in Wake County that combines outdoor adventure with peer support specifically for those in recovery. We believe we’re filling an important gap by offering a unique naturebased approach that encourages physical and emotional healing in a supportive, community-driven setting. If a program like Active Adventure had existed earlier in our recovery journeys, it would have been invaluable. The combination of physical activity, connection with others, and time spent in nature could have accelerated our own healing and helped us stay focused on our recovery.

Can you share more about your excursions?

We’ve had the privilege of guiding many memorable excursions, including hikes in the mountains, kayaking on local rivers, and camping trips where participants connected, reflected, and unplugged from their daily lives. One of the most impactful excursions was a weekend camping trip where participants not only embraced the challenges of the outdoors but also supported one another through vulnerable conversations and shared experiences. Watching those connections blossom into lasting friendships is truly special.

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Please tell us about your participants. We work closely with participants from Healing Transitions of Wake County. Both of us, and many of our volunteers, started recovery journeys through this program. It’s meaningful for us to give back to the community that supported us in our own recovery journeys. Through this partnership, we’re able to offer participants opportunities to engage in our activities while also strengthening their connection to the local recovery community. It’s our way of continuing the cycle of support and helping others who are in the same place we once were.

Many of our participants outside of treatment programs find us through word of mouth or social media. We’re proud that many return for multiple excursions because they find the experience so enriching. The relationships that form within our community are important; often, these connections extend beyond our activities. Participants find strength in the

friendships they make, and we’ve seen many continue to support each other long after trips have ended.

Can you share more about your involvement in Active Adventure?

Both of us have found that our involvement with Active Adventure has deepened our own recovery journeys. It’s a reminder that we are not just leaders but part of a supportive community. The act of helping others and witnessing their growth has been fulfilling and reinforced our commitment to our own well-being. Active Adventure has given us both a renewed sense of purpose and connection, which is invaluable in sustaining long-term recovery.

How can people support you?

Spreading the word about our mission is hugely impactful. Donations help fund our programs, allowing us to offer excursions at no cost to participants. We are also always looking for new partnerships to help expand

our reach and ensure more people can benefit from our services.

Please share your long-term vision for Active Adventure.

Our long-term vision is to expand Active Adventure to reach even more people in recovery across the region and beyond. We aim to create a robust network and build a sustainable model that allows us to continue providing these life-changing experiences for years to come. We also hope to build strong partnerships with other recovery organizations to broaden the scope of the services we offer.

What’s next for Active Adventure?

We are currently working on expanding our offerings to include additional adventure-based activities, such as river tubing, snow tubing, and more extensive wilderness retreats. We’re excited to continue growing and finding new ways to support people in recovery. t active-adventure.org

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Hanging Rock State Park

A Moonvine Diary

Moonvine (Ipomoea alba) is a strange beauty that waits until day’s end to unfold its shimmering white, very fragrant flowers. I have enjoyed this annual ornamental ever since Methuselah was a kid. Last year, I kept an informal diary on my latest moonvine experience, just to see if I could give you enough of a tingle to try them yourself.

March. After nicking moonvine seeds’ tough outer shells with a metal file, I soak them in water overnight, plant each in its own 4-inch-diameter pot filled with a perlite/quality potting soil mix, and put them on a seed propagation heating mat.

April. As plantlets emerge, I slip them under LED grow lights and start watering with a weak fertilizer solution.

May. I’m not happy with the ground temps — moonvines need warm soil to mature and will sulk if they don’t have it. So I just let my contained, gangly 12- to 15-inch vines bask in a sunny outdoor location until the end of the month.

June. All the beauties-to-be have been planted around my sunny deck, which they will use as a climbing support — positioning them right under my nose when they bloom.

July. Plants are only about 7 feet tall — puny for moonvine that can stretch up to 15 feet, but I know with the rising temperatures they will jump by the end of the month. I add a dose of low-nitrogen fertilizer to boost their soil nutrients.

August. The Late Show is beginning. By mid-month, vines have tumbled over the top of my deck railing, flaunting their first flowers — which only last a single night.

Moonvines dancing in the dark.

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September. It’s been a wet month, but in spite of the slop, more and more 5- to 6-inch diameter ghostly blossoms are opening, inviting me with their irresistible scents to join them in the dark.

October. Bloom production reaches its peak, and foliage is starting to look shabby. I’ll still enjoy ’em while I can.

November. The nocturnal flower-fest has sputtered, so now I listen for rattles. Moonvine flowers beget seeds, which, since mine are a straight species, will come true next year. The trick is to harvest the seeds when they are dry enough. I just shake the dark brown acorn-size pods, and if they rattle, I reap, putting the seeds in a sealable plastic bag with a small pack of silica gel. They are then tucked away in a dark drawer until spring, when these seeds will become the stars (literally) of next summer’s Late Show. t

L.A. Jackson is the former editor of Carolina Gardener Magazine. Want to ask L.A. a question about your garden? Contact him by email at lajackson1@gmail.com.

Timely Tip

Pruning woody ornamentals is a necessary chore if any start to look raggedy or have begun to stretch past their allotted growing space. Summer-flowering woodies are typically pruned in February before their leaves begin to show. However, for early blooming beauties such as spirea, lilac, Carolina jessamine, camellia, viburnum, deciduous magnolia, forsythia, flowering quince, kerria, mock orange, witch hazel, and weigelia, enjoy their flowering flaunts now. Then, if necessary, prune them as soon as possible after they have finished their very welcomed springtime shows.

To Do in the Garden

MARCH/APRIL

• If your veggie green thumb is starting to itch, give it a scratch this month by starting carrots, cabbage, broccoli, collards, Swiss chard, cauliflower, lettuce, kale, leeks, mustard greens, onions, potatoes, bush peas, spinach, and/or radishes.

• While mulch is certainly a beneficial addition to garden beds, hold off on covering areas where summer vegetable or ornamental annuals will be grown. Wait until at least May before

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spreading it so the strengthening sun can help warm the soil’s temperature to a comfortably cozy level for cold-sensitive seeds and young plants.

• Fall-planted, spring-blooming bulbs such as crocuses, daffodils, species tulips, spring starflowers, and Spanish bluebells can naturalize in area gardens, but they will become established sooner and spread faster if their energy-absorbing leaves are allowed to fade from green to brown before being pruned to the ground.

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‘Goldfinch’ deciduous magnolia in bloom — enjoy now, but prune soon.

Fratelli’s Delicatessen worth the drive

WRITTEN BY DAVID MCCREARY | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN

At long last, Apex has a bona fide family-owned deli. Let’s just say it’s worth visiting early and often.

Located at the new Sweetwater Town Center off Highway 64 in Apex, Fratelli’s Delicatessen features New York- and Chicago-style breakfast items, sandwiches, salads, desserts, and more. The counter-service eatery opened in September 2024.

Owners Dave and Shannon Thomas hail from the Windy City and the Empire State, respectively.

“I’m from Long Island, but we met in Chicago, and we were both accustomed to

having delis on every corner,” says Shannon. “When we moved down here, there were days when we would say, ‘I want a bacon, egg and cheese’ or, ‘I could go for an Italian beef.’ We couldn’t find those around here, so that’s when we decided to open our own place.”

Inspired by family matriarch and Shannon’s late grandmother Margaret Saudo, affectionally known as Nan, Dave and Shannon wanted to capture the spirit of togetherness for which Nan was known. The couple teamed up with several other family members in the new

venture, including Nan’s great-grandsons RJ and Tyler Cancel, who are siblings (“fratelli” means “brothers” in Italian).

“Nan lived to be 99, and she was the cornerstone of the family,” Shannon explains, pointing to her grandmother’s cherished lasagna pan displayed near the deli’s entrance. “Sundays were always the big day for gathering at her house for food and family time.”

Speaking of food, popular hot sandwiches at Fratelli’s include a meatball parm crowned with melted provolone and mozzarella and a signature marinara; piled-high

pastrami on rye with spicy brown mustard; and a Reuben with house-braised corned beef, melted Swiss cheese, sauerkraut, and Thousand Island dressing.

Don’t ignore the Little Italy panini encompassing a crispy chicken cutlet, fresh mozzarella, prosciutto, roasted tomato, and balsamic aioli served on ciabatta bread.

When it comes to cold selections, we highly recommend the Berserker, which involves rare roast beef, cheddar, arugula, roasted tomato, red onion, and horseradish sauce on a kaiser roll. Another surefire winner is the Italian loaded with Genoa salami, pepperoni, capicola, tavern ham, provolone, red onion, and herbed aioli, plus olive oil and red wine vinegar for good measure.

If you prefer a smaller or more budgetfriendly portion, more than 20 sandwiches are available in two sizes.

“We source our bread from La Farm and Neomonde, and we’ve partnered with New York Bagel & Deli in Cary for bagels,” Dave says.

Want a New York or Chicago hot dog? Fratelli’s offers both types loaded with all the requisite toppings.

Much of the menu has gluten-free options.

Enjoy a Bloody Mary with a Fratelli’s twist.

Tempting desserts like cannoli and tiramisu will not disappoint.

The meatball parm hot sandwich comes topped with melted provolone and mozzarella and the deli’s signature marinara sauce.

Save room for some legit New York–style cheesecake.

“I can’t eat gluten, so I know how important it is to have safe choices,” Shannon reveals.

“Other members of our family also have dietary restrictions,” Dave adds. “We have a dedicated station to prepare the gluten-free items, so we take it very seriously.”

The restaurant also serves an extensive selection of breakfast sandwiches, burritos, and bowls — all day, every day.

“Since many of our items are made to order, there’s no reason we shouldn’t offer breakfast anytime,” says Shannon.

For a spot-on New York–style experience, order a classic BECSPK sandwich, which melds bacon, egg, cheese, salt, pepper, and ketchup on a kaiser roll. Trust us: It’s fire.

“The Hungry Man is the best breakfast sandwich I’ve ever eaten,” declares Frank, a native New Yorker and regular Fratelli’s customer. The Hungry Man stacks three eggs, three slices of American cheese, applewood smoked bacon, sausage, and ham on a kaiser roll.

The hearty Fratelli’s Trio, available as a bowl or burrito, brims with scrambled eggs, ham, applewood smoked bacon, pork sausage, sauteed onions and peppers, cheddar jack cheese, and breakfast potatoes.

Salads also get plenty of love here, with choices including antipasto, Caesar, Cobb, and Greek. There’s also a pick-your-own salad station that includes toppings like black olives, hard-boiled eggs, and pepperoncini.

“We have all kinds of salads: egg salad, chicken salad, tuna salad, pasta salad, macaroni salad, and more,” lists Dave. “Our Long Island potato salad is dynamite and takes two days to make. The potatoes are brined and sliced thin, and there’s a lot of love that goes into the recipe.”

Front-and-center display cases showcase tempting desserts like tiramisu, cheesecake, and Italian cookies, plus Boar’s Head cold cuts and cheeses to take home and enjoy later.

An easily accessible grab-and-go section provides fresh and frozen delicacies like

baked ziti and lasagna. Curated jars of gourmet provisions such as lemon-basil pesto, serrano ham–stuffed olives, and black garlic hot sauce also are available.

“We’re trying to make things as convenient and family friendly as possible,” says Dave.

As for beverages, locally sourced java comes from nearby small-batch roaster Peak City Coffee. Beer, wine, and mixed drinks are available, including Bloody Marys, mimosas, and champagne.

“We have eight rotating local beers on draft, including Southern Peak Brewery, Wicked Weed, and Burial,” Dave adds. “Vicious Fishes is doing an exclusive collaboration with us called Inferno, which is an Italian pilsner.”

If you plan to eat in, go early, as seating in the dining room is limited. An outdoor patio offers room for about 50 guests. t fratellisdeli.com

@FratellisDeliApex

The Berserker cold sandwich features rare roast beef, cheddar cheese, arugula, roasted tomato, red onion, and horseradish sauce on a kaiser roll.

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JONATHAN FREDIN

The Road Less Travelled

from STIR

This cocktail was made for those with an explorer’s spirit.

2 dashes Regans’ Orange Bitters

¾ ounce lemon juice

¾ ounce pinot noir syrup

½ ounce crème de mûre

blackberry liqueur

1 ½ ounces Buffalo Trace

Traveller Whiskey

Combine all ingredients in a shaker with ice. Shake and double strain into a rocks glass. Add a large ice cube. Express an orange peel over the top of the drink and garnish with two skewered blackberries.

For pinot noir syrup, combine roughly 2 parts pinot noir to 1 part sugar and blend to dissolve.

STIR, located in North Hills, serves peak-season fresh seafood and craft cocktails. stirraleigh.com

Achieving a Smile to Remember with Veneers

CONTRIBUTED BY DR. EDMOND SUH, D.D.S.

A captivating smile can transform not just your appearance but also your confidence and overall self-esteem. In an era where first impressions matter significantly, many individuals are turning to cosmetic dentistry — particularly dental veneers — to enhance their smiles. But what exactly are veneers, and how can they help you achieve the smile of your dreams?

WHAT ARE VENEERS?

Veneers are thin, custom-made overlays crafted mostly from porcelain that are designed to cover the front surface of your teeth. They are used to address a variety of dental imperfections, such as discoloration, chips, cracks, gaps, or misalignment. By providing a natural appearance, veneers can help create a symmetrical, whiter, and more aesthetically pleasing smile.

WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS?

Enhanced aesthetics: One of the primary reasons individuals choose veneers is to improve the visual appeal of their teeth. They can be color-matched to your natural teeth or made whiter than your existing enamel, leading to an instantly brighter smile.

Durability: Porcelain veneers, in particular, are known for their strength and resistance to staining. With proper care, veneers can last anywhere from 10 to 20 years, making them a long-term investment in your smile.

Minimally invasive: The procedure to apply veneers is relatively straightforward and less invasive than other dental restoration methods, such as crowns. At Supremia Dentistry in Wake Forest, their team uses the most conservative process possible, removing, on average, less than 0.3 mm of natural tooth. In many cases, they don’t even need to touch your teeth at all.

Versatility: Veneers can address multiple cosmetic issues at once. Whether you have discolored teeth, gaps, or minor misalignments, veneers provide a versatile solution tailored to your needs.

Quick results: Unlike more extensive orthodontic treatments, which can take months or even years, veneers can significantly improve your smile in just a couple of visits. This efficiency appeals to individuals looking for rapid cosmetic enhancements.

WHAT DOES THE PROCESS LOOK LIKE?

Your dentist will first prepare your teeth for the veneers by removing a thin layer of enamel. After preparation, impressions of your teeth will be taken to create custom veneers suited to your dental anatomy. While your permanent veneers are being labcreated, you may be fitted with temporary veneers to protect your teeth and provide

a preview of your new smile. Once your permanent veneers are ready, your dentist will place them, making any necessary adjustments before securing them with dental cement.

Veneers are a powerful tool in the quest for a stunning, memorable smile. If you’re looking to embark on that journey — one that can profoundly impact your personal and professional life — make an appointment with Supremia in Wake Forest. Their compassionate team, coupled with state-of-the-art technology, will make sure everything is a perfect fit!

Edmond W. Suh, D.D.S., is the owner of Supremia Dentistry in Wake Forest. He is an international lecturer on advanced esthetic dental procedures, and leads an award-winning team that has completed extensive training and continuing education to implement the latest technologies and techniques. For more information or to make an appointment, call (919) 556-6200 or visit supremiadentistry.com.

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A drop not forgot

A yellow-rumped warbler sips morning dew from a twig.