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The Stories We Carry
Some stories choose us rather than the other way around.
This month, I find myself thinking about the weight of the narratives we hold—the ones we actively seek and those that find us when we least expect them. Dave LaBelle’s close look at widowhood reminds us that some of life’s most profound stories arrive uninvited, reshaping everything we thought we knew about ourselves.
Through conversations with four men who lost their wives, Dave captures something essential about resilience and adaptation.
Shawn Whalen’s image of walking “the knife’s edge, like a Himalayan peak” speaks to anyone who’s had to keep moving forward when the ground beneath them shifted completely. Tim Thompson’s insight about becoming “both Mom and Dad” without time to process his own grief reveals the quiet heroism that grief often demands.
These aren’t easy stories to tell or hear, but they’re necessary ones. They remind us that strength isn’t about avoiding difficulty—it’s about finding ways to honor what we’ve lost while still engaging with what remains.
On a lighter note, BendFilm’s Basecamp represents another kind of storytelling—the collaborative creation of new narratives.
When 200 filmmakers applied for 40 spots at this wilderness retreat, they were seeking something beyond technical skills. They wanted connection, mentorship and the chance to discover stories worth telling.
As Director Clay Pruitt notes, “You rarely get a glimpse into the genesis and into the very early stages of these things.”
Before I close, I want to thank everyone who submitted photos for our 2026 Ruralite calendar contest. We received more than 400 images—each one telling its own story about the broad region’s beauty and character. We have chosen the winning photos and notified the photographers. You can view our selections at ruralite.com/2026-calendar-winners. These entries reinforce the idea storytelling takes many forms, and sometimes a single photograph captures what pages of words cannot.
Until next time, Chasity Anderson Editorial Director
Nurturing Future Film Talent
Up Close, Page 10
When She Goes First Widowers navigate grief
Spotlight, Page 12
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Summer Interns Blossom
Meet the interns who took root and grew this summer, helping Klickitat PUD while gaining valuable experience
By Lexi Molnar, KPUD Office Intern
Each year, Klickitat PUD hires summer interns, helping them gain valuable experience and skills that equip them for their careers. This year, two summer office interns and two outside interns worked at KPUD.
These interns take on a variety of responsibilities, getting to see many different aspects of the PUD. Opportunities include shadowing different departments, gaining insight into how each department works together and what each is responsible for. This helps interns narrow down their own career choices and possibly find their niche.
These internships provide great networking opportunities. Interns gain knowledge and have the opportunity to create a strong reputation within a public entity and in the community. This, in turn, can open future pathways. For example, this year, the PUD welcomed back one of its past interns to fill an advanced meter shop internship.
Interns had many tours and trainings. They attended outage trainings, where they learned what happens during an outage and the steps KPUD takes during an event. They had an introduction to electric training, where they learned the basics of electricity, tools used by the PUD to measure electricity use and the formulas applied to determine customer bills. Interns toured a substation, allowing them to see how power is delivered. They went on an energy services tour, where they learned about rebates and the different aspects of energy services. Interns also went on staking appointments with the engineering department and toured the H.W. Hill Roosevelt Gas Project, learning how it converts methane gas from the landfill into renewable natural gas.
This year, KPUD’s interns contributed to a variety of projects, including building a fence around the warehouse grounds, assisting with grounds work, supporting customer service and billing, helping in accounting, working with the tree-trimming crew, managing inventory, washing trucks and more.
Brandy Myers, KPUD’s customer and accounting services manager, appreciates the flexibility this year’s interns demonstrated.
“The utility is creating ambassadors within our community by providing a positive learning and working opportunity,” she says. “It’s not just about working their tails off; it’s just as much about creating learning opportunities. The goal is to encourage public power and show there is something for everyone within its umbrella.” n
Lexi Molnar Office Intern
Lexi has lived in Centerville her whole life. This was her first year in this internship position. She worked primarily in customer service— handling phone calls, helping customers with billing questions and taking payments. She also helped with marketing, meter reading and surveys, as well as assisting with the fence project.
This fall, Lexi begins her second year at Oregon State University, working toward her bachelor’s degree in business administration with a minor in animal science. Passionate about agriculture, she plans to pursue a career in the agribusiness field, such as with the Department of Agriculture.
While working in customer service with KPUD, she gained and practiced many skills, including problem solving, communication, multitasking and active listening. Her favorite project was researching information and creating flyers to inform the PUD’s customers, as well as designing the lobby display case with informational flyers. She enjoyed working in the office and learning about the various departments that make the PUD run smoothly.
In her free time this summer, Lexi spent time with family, friends and her animals, as well as rodeoing and baking cookies.
Outside Intern
Josh has lived in Goldendale since he was very young. This was Josh’s first year in this internship.
Josh worked with the tree crew for the first six weeks of his internship, helping the tree trimmer foreman prevent outages by trimming trees and clearing brush to prevent fires. Next, he worked in the warehouse, helping with organization, cleaning the facilities and trucks, collecting inventory and building the warehouse fence. He also assisted the meter shop with running wiring in a substation, and helped fix leaks with the wastewater department.
This year, Josh saw the different ways people do their jobs and kept an open mind when learning new things. Some of Josh’s favorite moments throughout his internship were watching the pole top rescues in a safety meeting and going out with the tree crew.
Josh is attending Blue Mountain Community College this fall, working toward a degree in ag business and pitching on the baseball team. He plans to go into an electrical apprenticeship and work with high voltage.
Outside of work, Josh has been getting ready for his baseball season, and spending time with friends and family. He enjoyed this internship and believes the PUD is more than just a utility providing electricity and water.
Riley, a second-year office intern, has lived in High Prairie nearly her whole life on a small homestead, as she calls it. This fall, she returns to Walla Walla Community College to finish her two-year program in energy systems technology before entering the HVAC industry.
In her office internship position, Riley spent more time outside, working with meter readers and grounds crew, and building the warehouse fence. When in the office, Riley assists the customer service department by answering phones and emails, and helping customers. She also worked with the accounting department, entering data, reading spreadsheets and double-checking data.
Through this internship, she learned the importance of attention to detail and how to use tools that prepare her for hands-on classes at WWCC. The experience also improved her customer service skills
In her free time, Riley enjoys spending time with family and friends, reading and touring the area on her motorcycle.
Nektarios Reese
Outside Intern
Nektarios grew up on Box Canyon Road, spending time alongside his siblings and cousins. After this internship, he will attend Perry Technical Institute to complete a two-year electrician program.
Nektarios worked his first six weeks of the internship in the warehouse, where he helped keep track of inventory, maintain the grounds and do miscellaneous tasks. He went on to assist the tree crew. His tasks there included taking down dead trees in the way of power lines, patrolling areas and documenting lines. He spent the last few weeks of his internship on the fence project.
Over the summer, Nektarios gained a general understanding of the utility and learned about the equipment needed when working with trees. He enjoyed going out with the line crew, and his favorite experience was going out in the field with the meter shop and learning the science of meter work.
Outside of work, Nektarios spent time with family and friends, traveled to Arizona and worked on his car.
Riley Richards Office Intern
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Powering the Future Programs prepare students for energy careers
By Melanie Jones
From the soaring heights of wind turbines to fields of solar panels, the electric grid requires highly skilled professionals to power lights, entertainment devices, health care devices and AI data centers. Filling these roles takes hard work and training, and there are a variety of schools, internships and apprenticeships throughout the country to make that happen.
In the remote community of Kotzebue, Alaska, the convergence of necessity and innovation has created opportunities for electrical training focused on alternative energy. Kotzebue Electric Association is an electric cooperative whose reliance on expensive diesel fuel has driven the community to embrace renewable energy solutions and create hands-on learning opportunities for aspiring technicians.
Chad Nordlum started the energy careers program at Alaska Technical Center in Kotzebue with a grant and a plan. His goal is to open career opportunities to students while also meeting workforce development needs in his community. While the program is in
its infancy, he sees promise.
Alaska Technical Center is part of Northwest Arctic Borough School District, but it doesn’t just serve secondary students. It also trains adults to meet the unique workforce needs above the Arctic Circle.
Chad, energy project manager for the Native Village of Kotzebue, says the first round of solar energy and energyefficiency classes were successful.
“We’re designing our next round,” he says, which includes getting funding. “Those things take time.”
Although students aren’t required to stay in Kotzebue after completing the program, he hopes they do.
“We’re a pretty remote area,” Chad says. “We plan on a lot of them staying. Of course, the more skills you have, the more opportunities are available to you. Regardless, energy careers and alternative energy are good fields to go into.”
The technical school program isn’t the only initiative in Kotzebue preparing people for careers in energy. The Alaska Center for Energy and Power established Kotzebue as a research hub, creating real-world learning laboratories where students can gain
experience with energy technologies.
The T3 Alaska program—Teaching Through Technology—teaches rural high school and college students about careers in energy, and the co-op is deeply involved.
“Kotzebue Electric Association takes folks to the statewide conference, where professors come in and talk to kids interested in such careers,” Kotzebue Electric Association CEO Tom Atkinson says. “Kotzebue brings the kids to tour the cooperative and sit down and have conversations with our staff.”
Ready for Wind Power
Columbia Gorge Community College’s electro-mechanical technology program prepares students for careers in a variety of alternative energy positions.
“Our graduates are well-qualified to serve in any number of industries as largescale electrical service technicians,” says Tom Penberthy, the community college’s director of marketing and communication.
Graduates of the program go on to work in power generation and transmission, wind, hydropower and solar energy, manufacturing, industrial automation,
Electromechanical engineering graduate
Gilbert Cooksey works atop a wind turbine in Oregon.
DRONE PHOTO BY GILBERT COOKSEY
avionics and material processing.
Gilbert Cooksey is one such graduate. Originally from Panama, he maintains wind turbines for Avangrid in Oregon, where possibilities for careers are continuing to grow.
Most graduates begin their careers as plant maintenance technicians to round out their skill base before advancing into design, engineering or managerial roles. It is also common for students to take the first year of the program to learn electrical fundamentals and boost their credentials when applying for the electrician’s union.
The program has two options—a ninemonth certification program that can be completed in one year, or a two-year associate of applied science program. Several customized versions of the program have been tailored for industry partners, with evolving training needs for their existing workforces.
Students receive hands-on training in the form of weekly labs designed to reinforce the theoretical concepts learned in the classroom, expose students to a variety of industrial-grade equipment and components, and encourage them to develop their troubleshooting process and abilities.
Apprenticeships are not a required component of the program, but faculty members work to connect students with internships, apprenticeships and other
starting positions within the industry. Industry partners currently recruiting from the electromechanical student pool with active internship programs include Trillium Engineering and Hewlett Packard.
Solar Experience
Florida’s abundant sunshine and growing commitment to renewable energy have created opportunities for solar energy technicians and installers. The Florida Solar Energy Apprenticeship Program provides a pathway to state certification as a Florida solar contractor, which allows installation of solar electric photovoltaics and thermal systems.
The apprenticeship program has been approved by the Florida Department of Education so graduates can work anywhere in the state, says Colleen Kettles of the Florida Solar Energy Center. While apprenticeships at that department are geared primarily to home and business installations, Moss and Associates in Florida provides a program that prepares apprentices for utility installation work.
“The Florida Solar Energy Center’s apprenticeship is a two-year program that includes 2,000 hours per year of on-the-job training, which is basically an apprentice’s full-time job,” Colleen says.
Then there is classroom instruction, which is 144 hours a year. Colleen says the center has about 295 hours of
classroom education over two years, including hands-on learning labs and assessments. About 10 employers participate in the program, with 35 to 40 apprentices.
On the Line
The backbone of America’s electric infrastructure is the power grid maintained by skilled lineworkers. These professionals require extensive training to safely work with high-voltage systems that can be lethal if handled improperly.
Lineworker schools across the country provide a foundation of learning for students who go on to complete on-thejob training through apprenticeships at electric utilities. Students learn to climb utility poles, work with energized lines and perform emergency repairs during storms and outages.
Some schools, such as the Southeast Lineman Training Center in Trenton, Georgia, and the Northwest Lineman College in Meridian, Idaho, promote high employment rates for graduates, often in the 90% range.
Alternative and traditional energy jobs exist for the taking, and learning opportunities are available. No matter where students live—above the Arctic Circle, in the Sunshine State or anywhere in between—they have the power to choose a career in energy. n
ABOVE: An Alaska Technical Center student builds a solar module as part of the energy careers program.
PHOTO COURTESY OF CHAD NORDLUM
BELOW: Crews install new panels at Kotzebue Electric Association’s solar farm. The co-op and local organizations focus on educating the next generation to build and maintain renewable energy in remote communities. PHOTO COURTESY OF ALASKA NATIVE RENEWABLE INDUSTRIES
Power Pole Clutter
Flyers, satellite dishes, posters, basketball hoops, decorative lights, even hunting stands. You name it, someone has tried to staple, nail or tie it to a power pole. Here’s a quick look at the dangers and pitfalls associated with unauthorized pole attachments.
Illegal
Many state and local laws and the National Electrical Safety Code prohibit any unauthorized items on poles. Utilities can face fines if these attachments aren't removed.
Pole Damage
Even small holes can allow moisture and insects past the pole sealant, which can shorten the life of the pole or weaken it and cause it to fall in a storm.
Hinders Repairs
Posters and flyers can hide identifying markers on poles and slow repair work.
Gloves
Staples, tacks and nails can puncture a lineworker’s insulated rubber gloves and expose them to electric shock.
Boots
Objects can cause a worker to fall if they snag their boots.
Climbing Hooks
Nails and tacks can impede climbing hooks from sinking into the wood.
Dangerous
A person who gets too close to energized lines while attaching an object can be electrocuted.
Distraction
Some materials posted on poles, like mirrors or holiday decorations, can be a distraction to drivers.
Notice for Cable, Phone, Internet and Security Companies
Any company wishing to use KPUD’s utility poles for lines, cameras, or other equipment must submit their request through NJUNS at https://web.njuns.com. KPUD engineering staff will review the request and follow up to initiate or update a pole contact contract.
This requirement also applies to companies with an existing pole contact contract who plan to extend their lines or attach to new poles.
Nurturing Future Film Talent
BendFilm's intensive retreat connects emerging filmmakers with industry mentors in Oregon's beautiful terrain
By Ginger Meurer
BendFilm’s annual independent cinema festival celebrates its 22nd year with screenings, discussions and festivities Oct. 8-12 at venues throughout the Central Oregon mountain town of Bend.
For a select group of filmmakers, the action starts before the festival at BendFilm’s Basecamp. The all-inclusive filmmakers’ developmental retreat is Oct. 5-9 at Caldera, an arts center on 119 acres of land near Sisters, Oregon.
Plans for Basecamp were in the works for years, according to BendFilm Executive Director Giancarlo Gatto. Before taking over as executive director, Giancarlo was a board member when a previous executive director convinced the group to expand BendFilm’s mission and double down on support of emerging filmmakers by creating programming similar to Stowe Story Labs or Sundance Institute—nonprofits designed to support collaboration among independent artists..
A grant from M.J. Murdock Charitable Trust made Basecamp
possible. Accepting that seed grant was one of Giancarlo’s first tasks as executive director. Then, about 18 months ago, BendFilm hired Director of Education Clay Pruitt to head up the effort.
“He’s been amazing,” Giancarlo says.
An Enthusiastic Response
Basecamp launched in fall 2024, but until the applications came rolling in, no one was sure what the reception would be.
“You dream up one of these things, and you wonder, each step of the way, is anybody going to actually apply for it?” Giancarlo says. “We were thrilled that we had 200 applicants, and then on top of it, the quality of the applicants was amazing.”
Forty filmmakers were selected, including six from Bend and more than a dozen others from different stretches of the Pacific Northwest. Filmmakers also came in from California and as far away as New York, Tennessee, Oklahoma, Texas, Michigan, Alabama, Puerto Rico, Mexico, Canada and even Brazil.
Clay says part of the draw—and what makes Basecamp special—is the area’s beauty.
“The setting at Caldera is certainly a key part of it,” he says. “It’s just a really great place to surrender yourself and immerse yourself with like-minded folks.”
Giancarlo agrees.
Filmmakers let loose at the 2024
Bend Film Festival. PHOTO BY STEVEN ADDINGTON
CLOCKWISE FROM ABOVE: BendFilm Director of Programming
Selin Sevinc leads filmmaker Sydney Freeland in a Q&A after the opening night presentation of her film “Rez Ball.” Former Sundance festival director John Cooper leads Christine Vachon in a case study of “A Different Man.” Basecamp mentors congratulate winners of BendFilm: Basecamp pitch competition. From left are Effie Brown, Christine Vachon, Ayo Kepher-Maat, Jonathan Pickett, John Cooper, Caroline Creaghead, Guinevere Turner, Kevin Iwashina and Bing Liu.
“It’s a really beautiful facility with kind of camp vibes,” he says.
Unlike other labs that separate participants into different tracks for directing, screenwriting and producing, Basecamp keeps everyone together. Clay finds producers, screenwriters and directors want to mingle and meet each other.
“We intentionally wanted to have sort of a melting pot of people,” he says. “Now that we’ve been through one cycle of it, I can say that there’s been a lot of partnerships and collaborations that have come out of the program.”
Basecamp mentors come from a variety of disciplines, too.
“Certainly, we want producers, directors, writers to speak very directly to their counterparts,” Clay says. “But we also bring in folks who emerging filmmakers would never have had the opportunity to hear from—sales agents, acquisitions executives, development executives, those kinds of people that, especially if you don’t live in LA or New York, it’s hard to have access to.”
Getting industry pros to come to Bend hasn’t been difficult.
“It’s a pretty enticing venture in itself,” Clay says. “Come hang out with us in the beautiful Oregon wilderness for a few days and talk about film. If you have the time, it’s sort of a no-brainer.”
In addition to a full slate of industry workshops and breakout sessions, last year’s fellows were led through yoga and interacted with indigenous performers.
“We also do some very Bend things,” Clay says. “Like last year we did a breathwork workshop, which comes in handy when you’re on a stressful set of a movie and you need to breathe your way through it.”
With only a single Basecamp in the books, there are already success stories, with projects optioned and filmmakers signing with agencies.
Spreading the Buzz Basecamp’s energy carries over to BendFilm.
“Some of those filmmakers had films in the festival, and a lot of them stayed and came to the festival afterwards,” Giancarlo says. “They stuck together and created these bonds during Basecamp and were just so excited and buzzing off that experience. It really carried over into the energy of the festival.”
That buzz is about to get bigger. Last year’s Basecamp culminated in a pitch competition. This year, that competition— in which fellows vie to win a $5,000 prize to help finance their films—is open to the public in Bend.
“Partially to torture the fellows a bit by giving them a larger audience to be nervous in front of,” Clay says. “But also, just so the public can see. I think that’s a thing you don’t often get in a festival environment. You get to see the final product of a lot of these films. But you rarely get a glimpse into the genesis and into the very early stages of these things. And it’s just a very exciting thing to witness that I wanted to share with the festival-going audience.”
Clay says for the past two decades, BendFilm has shared so much with Oregon by showcasing incredible stories audiences wouldn’t see elsewhere, as well as the filmmakers behind them.
“But they’ve also done a great job of establishing the festival and Bend as a meaningful destination in the context of the film festival community ecosystem,” he says. “Basecamp is a continuation of all that effort, and it certainly is highlighting the incredible local talent that we have in Bend and in Oregon.” n
For information about the upcoming festival, visit BendFilm.org.
PHOTO BY STEVEN ADDINGTON
PHOTO BY JAROD GATLEY
PHOTO BY JAROD GATLEY
By Dave LaBelle
My uncle, Norman Miller, promised Crystal, his wife of more than 40 years, that he would take care of himself after she was gone. Crystal died in 1998, and for the next few years, Norman walked laps around the cemetery while visiting her grave. Norman never remarried, living another 28 years until he passed away in 2016.
Ron “Hank” Lucas appeared as one of the Ghost Players in the 1989 movie “Field of Dreams.” He continued donning the baseball uniform for years afterward. His wife of 39 years, Diane, would sit on a hillside to watch Ghost Player performances at the Field of Dreams Movie Site in Dyersville, Iowa.
Diane died in March 2024.
“She always sat there,” Hank says, barely able to speak flipping through old photos.
“I wish she was still there.”
Like many men his age, Hank never cooked, did the wash or kept the
checkbook. Now, he’s learning to do all the things Diane did.
Often, widowers learn just how much their partner did once she’s gone. Traditional gender roles—as depicted on the 1957-1963 TV show “Leave it to Beaver,” with the women staying at home while the men go to work—are largely gone from modern marriages. Today’s man is much more likely to care for his children, clean and cook than his father or grandfather was. But for many men in their 70s, 80s and beyond, adjusting to life as a widower is practical as much as emotional.
According to USA Facts website, the average American woman’s life expectancy is 5.3 years longer than a man’s. Though the loss of a spouse is traumatic regardless of gender, when the wife dies first, husbands are often less able to cope with the loss. Many older men struggle to accept a new reality. In fact, some studies indicate men, baby boomers in particular, have a higher likelihood of dying in the first year after the death of their spouse. I spoke with four men from Oregon
When She Goes First Widowers
navigate grief as they adjust to life without their wives
and Washington who lost their wives about how they are navigating their grief.
‘Walking on the Knife’s Edge’
Shawn Whalen lives in The Dalles, Oregon. His wife, Catherine, died Dec. 30, 2022. Shawn and Catherine were accomplished professionals. Shawn runs Whalen Consulting Services. Catherine retired as a captain after a 32-year career in the U.S. Navy and was a critical care nurse.
“I am trying to rebuild a life,” Shawn says. “She was so much the center of my life. It’s been hard for sure. I think about her every day.”
More than two years after Catherine’s death, Shawn still keeps her ashes in his home, unsure of what he wants to do with them.
He sometimes gazes at photos of her on his phone.
“I still look into her eyes,” he says. “I looked into her eyes even when she was very sick at the end. How bright and beautiful her eyes were and the connection there.”
Shawn says spending time outdoors, especially hiking, is helping him cope.
Jeanne and Tim Thompson take a walk in 2015.
PHOTO COURTESY OF TIM THOMPSON
“I felt consistently like I was walking the knife’s edge, like a Himalayan peak, where I had to keep putting one foot in front of another to move through this ridgeline, with an abyss on both sides,” he says. “Keep it simple. Keep your routines going, and you’ll get through this. It was a pretty vivid image motivating me. I remember it being really tangible. It’s easier now, and I have tried to lean into reading about grief a little bit.”
Redefining Home
Annie, wife of Olympia, Washington, resident Nick Libby, died in 2022 following a 21/2-year battle with cancer. The couple were married for 41 years.
Nick, who retired in 2000, says he and Annie shared many common interests.
“We pretty much liked to do all the same stuff together,” he says.
Annie didn’t like crowds and loved country music, walking around barefoot, animals and going to the gym.
“If she had her way, she’d have every stray animal in the county living here,” Nick says.
Compounding Nick’s grief, one of the couple’s daughters, Wendy Jo, died of a blood infection around the same time Annie died. She was only 53 years old. His other daughter, son and grandchildren visit when they can. With the exception of the 17-year-old cat he still cares for, Nick lives alone.
“The hardest part of living without Annie has been coming home to this house,” Nick says of the home where they raised their children. “Everything is kind of the way she wanted it. Yeah, coming home to this house and her not being here, that’s the hardest.”
He points to a nearby television.
“That TV has not been turned on since Annie died,” he says. “Annie used to sit there. She was hooked on two or three soap operas, and she would always record them and watch them later.”
After some encouragement, Nick
joined a coffee group, comprised mostly of retired pilots like himself.
“A lot of people don’t know what to say, so they say nothing,” he says. “Most people who have been through this are more than willing to talk about it. But people that haven’t try to avoid it. And that’s kind of sad. But one guy in my coffee group is an author. He’s always asking for stories about her. ‘What did she do? What’s she like?’ I like that.”
Nick says his children, friends and the book “Widow to Widow,” by Genevieve Davis Ginsburg, have helped him process his grief.
“I like to think that at family gatherings, like maybe at Christmas or Thanksgiving, especially with the grandkids, that she might be there, somehow, observing,” Nick says. “Nobody knows for sure. And maybe one day we will have that answer.”
CLOCKWISE FROM TOP: Shawn Whalen, 65, outside the home he and wife Catherine shared in The Dalles, Oregon. Hank Lucas with wife Diane in the summer of 2022. Diane sits in her familiar spot overlooking the field during Hank’s performances in the Ghost Shows. Diane died in March 2024. Diane’s chair sits empty where she watched Hank during Ghost Shows at the “Field of Dreams” movie site. Before every performance, Hank places her chair in the same spot. PHOTOS BY DAVE LABELLE
Leaning on Faith
Karen Sterling, wife of Portland, Oregon’s Bob Sterling, died in August 2019 after an extended battle with a rare form of blood cancer. The couple raised three children together and celebrated their 39th anniversary just months before Karen passed away.
“It was rough,” Bob says. “She went through it for 11 years and had a couple of stem cell transplants.”
The couple leaned on God and their family to carry them through the painful ordeal.
“The primary thing would have been our faith, our family and our church family, that basically ran through all this with us,” Bob says. “You got to have something to lean on, and our faith is what got us through all that. And still, to this day, I appreciate my church family and my immediate family.
“In fact, Karen and I used to have conversations about individuals we knew who didn’t have any involvement with church and had no church family,”
he adds. “We would often share with each other, asking, ‘How do these people who have no faith, no belief in God, how do they deal with things like this in their own lives?’ I struggle with knowing others who do not have a fellowship with Christ. I pray for them.”
Bob is now engaged to a woman he knew in high school and reconnected with on Facebook.
“You realize you can’t just hide in a cave,” he says. “You’ve got to get out and enjoy what you have left of life.”
Becoming Both Parents
Peggy Thompson was just 43 years old when she died of breast cancer 14 years ago. She and her husband, Tim, a firefighter from Walla Walla, Washington, were married for nearly 19 years and raised two girls and two boys together.
Peggy grew up in Montana as the youngest of five children in what Tim describes as a conservative and traditional family.
“The boys went outside to work, and the girls stayed inside and worked with Mom and cooked and sewed,” he says.
Tim says the hardest part of losing Peggy was having to immediately become both mom and dad to his own children without any time to really cope with his grief.
“You are dad 365, 24/7 and therefore, processing was a little on the light side of things,” he says. “I was so busy, I just had to power through things because the kids needed me. And it was difficult to do all the mom things my daughters were going to be missing out on. The boys had Dad, but the girls didn’t have Mom. But we had a lot of family. I worked for the fire department, so I had the fire department family. I had a church family. I had a blood family. And everybody pitched in. So, I feel in that way that I was blessed.”
For the past five years, Tim has been codirecting a Griefshare meeting at Trinity Baptist Church along with Katie Bush, whose husband died from complications of a motorcycle accident.
Navigating grief after the loss of a spouse can be especially challenging for those without children or other family.
“We have been averaging 10 to 12 people in our GriefShare, and none of
them have kids,” Tim says. “When they go home, they go home to this very quiet lonesomeness. This is real. And you can’t just fix it. It’s not like, ‘Take this pill for 10 days, and everything will be fine.’ It doesn’t work that way.”
Tim gently reminds GriefShare participants that their lives will never be the same after losing a spouse.
“So, it would be better to try not to make it that way,” he advises.
“The people who are going to be around you next—who could end up being your spouse—that’s going to be completely unfair to them because you have expectations on them that you want filled so you feel better,” he adds. “And then you go through a rough time because the people can’t fill that spot.”
One of the things Tim does to help lonely people feel connection again is use his phone to play games with them.
“If you are feeling like it is too quiet and you want to know there is somebody out there living, shoot me a pingpong
game or a chess game, and I’ll play you,” he says. “Without interfering with someone or looking somebody in the eye, they can know somebody is interacting with them, that somebody’s there.”
Navigating the New Reality
Perhaps one of the hardest things for grieving men to do is reach out and take that first step toward support. It’s not generally considered the “manly” thing to do by older generations. Reaching out to strangers for support can feel counterintuitive for someone inclined to withdraw and mourn alone.
“When I get the guys in there with GriefShare, it’s embarrassing for them to bring up and talk about these things,” Tim says. “You just gotta know that it’s OK, it’s all right, and it’s going to be tough. You are going to have to make some choices and lean into God and get out there and get some people you can talk with and do stuff with. Go for walks and get rid of that energy.”
There are resources available that can help. In a 2024 article titled “Facing Grief Head-On: A Guide for Older Men,” published by Encore Project, writer Bill Leighty offers some advice for senior men, including sharing their emotions to ease the pain of grief.
He encourages community support and social engagement, support groups, workshops focusing on emotional wellness, volunteering to connect with others and working with a counselor or therapist who understands grief in older adults.
“Healing is a slow process,” Bill writes, “but every step you take is important.” n
In 1989, while teaching at Western Kentucky University, David LaBelle wrote “Lessons in Death and Life,” about covering grief as a photojournalist. A few copies are still available from his website, DavidLaBelle.com, or through Amazon.
FROM LEFT: Nick Libby, 77, passes by a mirror in the hallway of the home he and his late wife, Annie, built. A photograph of Annie, his wife of 41 years, is in the background. PHOTO BY DAVE LABELLE Tim Thompson sits with grandson, Howard, his youngest daughter Katherine’s first son. PHOTO COURTESY OF TIM THOMPSON Bob Stirling, 74, lost his wife to cancer in 2019. PHOTO BY DAVE LABELLE
A Taste of Greece EXPLORE
A RICH CULINARY HERITAGE
½ cup finely grated cucumber
1 cup whole-milk Greek yogurt
1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice
½ tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil
1 garlic clove, grated
¼ teaspoon sea salt
1 tablespoon chopped fresh dill
Place the cucumber on a towel, and gently squeeze out a bit of the excess water.
In a medium bowl, combine the cucumber, yogurt, lemon juice, olive oil, garlic, salt and dill. Chill until ready to use.
Tzatziki Sauce
Recipes by Gertrude Treadaway
ADOBE STOCK PHOTO BY LILECHKA75
Moussaka
Meat ragu
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
1½ pounds ground beef
1 large onion, minced
3 garlic cloves, minced
1 teaspoon ground nutmeg
1 teaspoon ground cumin
½ teaspoon ground cloves
Vegetables
2 large eggplants
3 large Yukon gold potatoes
Bechamel
4 cups whole milk, plus more if the sauce needs thinning
1 bay leaf
5 tablespoons butter
6 tablespoons all-purpose flour, plus more if the sauce needs thickening
½ teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 tablespoon tomato paste
1 cup red wine
15-ounce can crushed tomatoes
½ teaspoon sugar
Sea salt
1/3 cup extra-virgin olive oil
Sea salt
Freshly ground pepper
½ teaspoon ground nutmeg
3 egg yolks
1½ cup ParmigianoReggiano, grated and divided
To prepare the meat ragu, heat olive oil in a large, deep saucepan. Brown and crumble the ground beef. After it browns, add the onion, garlic, nutmeg, cumin, cloves and cinnamon.
Cook for a few minutes until the onion softens. Add the tomato paste, and stir. Cook for 2 to 3 minutes. Pour in the wine, and let the alcohol evaporate. Add the tomatoes and sugar. Simmer for 1 hour on low heat.
To prepare the vegetables, cut the eggplants into ⅓-inchthick slices. Sprinkle slices with sea salt. Place them in a colander to drain their liquids for 15 minutes. Pat dry the eggplants slices. Fry them in hot olive oil for 2 to 3 minutes. Transfer to wire rack, and set aside.
Cut potatoes into ¼-inch-thick slices. Fry the slices in hot olive oil for 1 to 2 minutes. Transfer to wire rack, and set aside.
Alternate layers of potatoes and eggplants in a greased 9-by-13-inch pan. Pour meat sauce evenly over the potatoes and eggplants.
Heat oven to 400 F.
To make the bechamel add milk and bay leaf to a saucepan. Warm it on medium heat.
Melt the butter in a large saucepan. Add flour. Cook while stirring with a wooden spoon until the roux takes on a slightly blond color.
Gradually pour in the warm milk. Using a whisk, stir continuously to dissolve any lumps and create a smooth sauce. Remove from heat. Season with salt, pepper and nutmeg. Add yolks and 1 cup grated cheese. Whisk until smooth.
Pour bechamel over the meat in an even layer. Sprinkle the remaining cheese on top.
Bake for 45 minutes or until the top is golden brown. Cool for 15 minutes before serving.
Chicken Souvlaki
10 garlic cloves, peeled
2 tablespoons dried oregano
1 teaspoon dried rosemary
1 teaspoon sweet paprika
1 teaspoon kosher salt
1 teaspoon black pepper
¼ cup extra-virgin olive oil
¼ cup dry white wine
Juice of 1 lemon
2½ pounds boneless skinless chicken breast, cut into 1½-inch pieces
2 bay leaves
Pita bread
Tzatziki sauce
Add garlic, oregano, rosemary, paprika, salt, pepper, olive oil, white wine and lemon juice to the bowl of a small food processor. Pulse until well combined.
Place chicken in a large bowl, and add bay leaves. Top with marinade. Toss to combine, making sure chicken is well-coated. Cover tightly. Refrigerate for at least 2 hours.
Soak 10 to 12 wooden skewers in water for 30 to 45 minutes. Thread marinated chicken pieces through the prepared skewers.
Prepare outdoor grill. Brush grates with a little oil, and heat over medium-high heat. Place chicken skewers on grill until well-browned and internal temperature registers 160 F.
Turn skewers evenly to cook on all sides, about 5 minutes. While grilling, brush lightly with the marinade. Discard any leftover marinade.
Serve with warm pita and tzatziki sauce.
Roasted Lemon Potatoes
Cooking spray
4 cloves garlic, coarsely chopped
½ cup freshly squeezed lemon juice
1/3 cup olive oil
¼ cup yellow mustard
Heat oven to 425 F.
2 teaspoons dried oregano
1 teaspoon kosher salt
Freshly ground black pepper
2 pounds Yukon Gold potatoes, cut into 1-inchthick wedges
½ cup water
Arrange a rack in the middle of the oven. Coat a 9-by-13-inch baking dish with cooking spray.
Place garlic in a large bowl. Add lemon juice, olive oil, yellow mustard, oregano, salt and several grinds of black pepper. Whisk to combine. Add potato wedges to the bowl, and toss to combine.
Pour mixture into the baking dish, and spread into an even layer. Pour water over the potatoes. Tightly cover the baking dish with aluminum foil.
Bake until the potatoes are fork tender, about 1 hour. Uncover. Continue to bake until the liquid is evaporated and the potatoes begin to brown, 15 to 20 minutes.
Books/Magazines
I have Special Interest Auto magazines complete from August 1990 to June 2004, when the title became Classic Car. I have all of the Classic Car magazines until the end of the magazine in February 2025. If anyone would like these, the only cost would be shipping or a trip to pick them up from me.
Stephen Aldrich 74 Nevada St. Redwood City, CA 94062 Stephenaldrich79@icloud.com
Crafts/Hobbies
My family participates in a special service project called Operation Christmas Child to send gift-filled shoeboxes to needy children around the world. Together with our church friends, we were able to pack almost 500 last year. We hope to do the same for 2025, so we are seeking donations of new child-friendly items to include (toys, school supplies, hand-sewn hats and clothing, etc.) for 2- to 14-yearold boys and girls to add a special touch to our shoebox gifts. Any items would be appreciated. Please send donated items by Nov. 1 to the address below.
Brittany Hargrove
704 Foster St. Cove, OR 97824
Milestones
A very dear friend and neighbor of ours celebrates her 99th birthday this month. She is amazing. She was the sole caretaker for her older sister until she died two years ago at 103. She walks her toy poodle, Daisy, every day for 30 minutes. If the weather is too extreme, she uses her treadmill to be sure she gets her exercise. She is kind and giving, has a strong faith and church family. She works in her yard and has colorful flowers blooming all summer. She would be surprised if she received birthday wishes from other readers outside our little community. Please send to Pauline Scott, 34218 Scott Road, Cottage Grove, OR 97424.
Melinda Drew Cottage Grove, Oregon
My mom, Mae, and her twin, Fae, celebrate their 88th birthday in mid-September. They have not celebrated their birthdays together since they were children. I was hoping you could send some cards, which we would use to decorate the hall where we are celebrating. You can address one card to both if you would like. All wishes appreciated. Send cards to Fae and Mae, P.O. Box 352, Cove, OR 97824.
L. Reddington Cove, Oregon
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Thanks
A simple thank you doesn’t seem like enough to give to all who sent birthday wishes to my father for his 94th birthday. He was so surprised to receive hundreds of cards, many with notes, letters and gifts. He would excitedly call us every day to tell us where each was from and what everyone wrote. Please know how grateful we are for all your acts of kindness.
Larry Burgoyne Priest River, ID
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See spectacular rock formations in Nevada at
Valley of Fire State Park
What Is It?
Walk through a sea of sandstone and into history at Nevada’s Valley of Fire State Park. The more than 40,000-acre park northeast of Las Vegas is known for its rock formations, petrified trees and petroglyphs that are thousands of years old.
Petroglyphs
If you walk the .7-mile round-trip Mouse’s Tank Trail, you’ll come across some of the oldest evidence of human life in Valley of Fire State Park—petrogylphs made 2,500 years ago by people from the Basketmaker culture. The park’s visitor center—open daily from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m.—has more information about the area’s cultural and geological history.
Becoming a Park
In 1912, as part of Arrowhead Trail connecting Salt Lake City to Los Angeles, a road was built through the area. In the ’20s, a AAA official going through the area at sunset reportedly said the entire valley looked on fire, creating the area’s name. Roughly 8,500 acres of land were set aside and given to the state. In 1934, Valley of Fire opened as Nevada’s first state park.
How To See It
If driving through the park, Valley of Fire Scenic Byway lets passengers see rock formations, such as Arch Rock and Elephant Rock. Popular hikes include the moderate-difficulty, 1.1-mile round-trip White Domes Trail and the easy—albeit often sunlit and very hot—1.3-mile round-trip Fire Wave Trail.
Rock is one of Valley of Fire State Park’s most famous attractions. ADOBE
More Information
Due to extreme summer heat, many of the park’s trails— including White Domes, Fire Wave and Natural Arches—are closed until at least Oct. 1. To find updated information on what is open and to start planning your trip, visit tinyurl.com/mr45u2fc or call 702-397-2088.
Elephant
STOCK PHOTO BY JON MANJEOT
U.S. residents hit Jackpot with ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls
Up for grabs for the next 21-days: Casino Rolls loaded with rarely seen American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins just like the old Casino Slots paid out, all coins are decades old and never to be minted again by the U.S. Gov’t
American Eagle Casino Roll Handout : Strict limit of 6
“It’s like hitting the jackpot on an old Vegas Slot Machine decades ago,” said Mary Ellen Withrow.
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“Just imagine how much these remaining ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls could be worth someday. The American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins alone are decades old and are never to be struck again by the U.S. Gov’t,” Withrow confirmed.
Withrow knows a thing
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Minted in Philadelphia, Denver and San Francisco featuring a majestic eagle swooping over the moon’s surface commemorating the original Lunar Landing.
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LADY LIBERTY PRESIDENTIAL DOLLAR COIN WITH EVERY CASINO ROLL
CASINO ROLL
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■ HOW MUCH ARE THE ‘OLD VEGAS’ CASINO ROLLS WORTH: There’s no way to tell, but at less than $6 per coin you better believe they’re a real steal. That’s because the dates and mint marks of the U.S. Gov’t issued American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins are sealed away inside the 15 count ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls. Coin values always fluctuate and there are never any guarantees, but each ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Roll contains American Eagle Ike Large Dollar coins that are decades old. Any scarce coins, regardless of their value that you may find inside the sealed ‘Old Vegas’Casino Rolls are yours to keep. One thing that is known is these are the only ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls known to exist and you can only get them by calling the toll-free line listed in today’s announcement.
THE GREAT PICTURE HUNT
By Dave LaBelle
As I age, I feel a far stronger affection for little children than I did when I was young.
I believe most people do.
Their beautiful, angelic little faces— usually unscarred by the hardships of life—melt us.
For me, there is something calming— even healing—watching children. I can slip into a somber or even unpleasant mood, and then I hear or watch children playing when they don’t think adults can see or hear them, and I am lifted out of myself and smile with gratitude.
I am reminded of a line from an old Tom T. Hall song, “Old Dogs and Children and Watermelon Wine,” that says, “God bless little children while they’re still too young to hate.”
Perhaps it’s because we travel through time and remember those carefree days of playing in creeks and catching frogs or riding our first pony. Maybe it’s because those beautiful, angelic little faces remind us of the fleeting days when our children
NIKON D810, 180mm lens
ISO f/7.1100, at 1/500
Shining Light
or grandchildren believed every story we told them.
For beginning photographers, especially students learning in photography programs, photographing children is easier and less scary than making pictures of adults. Recognizing this, I offered assignments in beginning classes built around photographing children to help shy students build confidence and not become discouraged before approaching adults.
However, as students grew confidence and ability to approach strangers, it was understood that making pictures of children at events was too easy, the low fruit of capturing storytelling pictures. They were expected to stretch their comfort zones and photograph all ages.
But lest we “throw out the baby with the bathwater,” as the old folks used to say, we should never forget or overlook the power and beauty of innocence found in the faces of children.
In an effort to capture profound pictures, we often overlook the obvious: Innocence is the greatest beauty of all. n
I made this photograph of a young rider backstage before the rodeo event. She put another cowboy’s hat on hers while awaiting her turn to saddle up and carry a flag during opening ceremonies.
Reader Challenge
Capture a child’s face while giving special attention to the eyes. As much as possible, fill the camera viewfinder with the face. Use a telephoto lens if you have one. Above all, be patient. Watch, become invisible, anticipate, always ready for those revealing moments. Always watch the light, the truly magical ingredient to most great photography.
Email your best image (just one, please) with caption information, including an explanation of how it affects you, to gph@pioneer.coop. We may share submissions on our website and social media channels.
Photographer, author and lecturer Dave LaBelle has captured special moments for more than half a century, sharing tips and life perspectives. For more of his writings, visit davidlabelle.com and his blog, bridgesandangels.wordpress.com.
Celebrating National Tradesworker Day and Our New Tradesworker
National Tradesworker Day is Sept. 19—join Klickitat PUD in thanking the skilled tradespeople who help keep our community running every day, and welcome new hire Alex Reese to our team
A trade job requires specialized skills, often gained through vocational training, apprenticeship or on-the-job experience. Tradespeople are the backbone of such industries as building, maintenance, and carpentry. Their dedication and expertise ensure critical services—including electricity—are safe and reliable.
This year, we’re excited to mark the occasion by introducing one of KPUD’s newest tradesworkers: Alex Reese, a substation wireman who joined our meter shop department in December 2024.
Alex is a journeyman substation wireman and graduate of Perry Technical Institute. He was drawn to the high-voltage world after an instructor introduced him to it during his training. Before joining KPUD, Alex worked in several electrical settings.
Alex and his wife have long wanted to call Goldendale home. With much of his extended family in the area and fond memories of spending summers at his grandparents’ nearby cabin, moving to the area was a natural fit.
Outside of work, Alex enjoys gardening, fishing and sports, but most often he can be found wrestling with his children or washing the dishes.
We’re grateful to have Alex on our team and proud to celebrate all tradesworkers who keep KPUD and our community powered. n
Alex Reese, who has family ties to the area, recently joined KPUD as a journeyman substation wireman.
MARKETPLACE
Agriculture
4x5 round bales, Meadow Foxtail orchard grass. 4x4 Timothy, small square. 208-435-4637 or 208-435-4002; nas@cpcinternet.com. 1225
Reinforced custom-sized pond liners (39 cents/sqft). Hay covers, greenhouse covers, any width and length. Truck tarps and more. High-puncture and tear strength. Best price guaranteed. Celebrating 44 years in business. www.btlliners.com. 541-447-0712. 0426
Antiques and Collectibles
Buying antiques and collectibles: advertising signs, porcelain signs, gas pumps, beer signs, antique toys, cast-iron coin banks, neon signs and more. Jason, tjabaughman@yahoo.com or 503-310-3321. 0925
Buying American Indian collectibles, Navajo jewelry, blankets, rugs. CA/AZ baskets and beadwork. Quality paintings of the early Southwest and Americas. Call 760-409-3117 or send photos to amer.ind.baskets@gmail.com. 1025
1950 Monarch piano. Good condition, dark finish. Upright, 45x56x24”. Becky, 541-676-5342 or evanslive@hotmail.com. 0925
Automotive
1984 Harley Davidson FLTC. Very good condition. One owner, extras. Interested? Call 208-267-7145. 0925
Well-preserved, street-legal 1953 Morris Minor sedan. Licensed, insured and carefully stored in Bandon, OR since 2001. Black, lefthand drive, red leather interior. Offers of more than $10K welcomed. Call or text 541-8081069. 0925
Utility van, Ford E-250, 2007. White, drives well, detailed. Shelving, electric inverter, roof ladder, new brakes, pads, wipers. For pictures: CL #7866483919. $13K OBO. 805-208-5420. 0925
1946 Chevy flatbed, original 6-cylinder engine, runs, body fully restored, unique wine barrel decor on flatbed, $25K OBO. Calls only, 208-816-0010. 0925
1973 Honda 125 SL trail bike. Bought in 1974 and have title. Very good condition, only 3,200 miles. Always garaged. Selling because of lack of use. Pictures available. $3K. 503-646-6588; trig.soleim@comcast.net. 0925
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$2.7K. 1966 Fairlane 500. 4-door 289-C-4. 1959 Ford 671; from museum like new. $2.2K. 52 A-C. W.D. $1.5K. 208-507-1211. Northern ID. Books, Magazines, Videos Book restoration. Bibles, cookbooks, cherished family heirlooms. Beautiful work. We give renewed life, more durable than original, to last for generations. 775-537-7066; salacanstudio@gmail.com. 0925
Business Opportunities
For sale: quaint hardware store in Maupin, OR. Inventory and interior store recently updated and refreshed. See ad on Bizbuysell.com or email Maupincountrystore@gmail.com. $129K.
Community Events
Art Center East’s Inaugural Glass Open exhibit and “Cloud Cover” (artworks by Terri Rice). Sept. 5-Oct. 25. La Grande, OR. 541-624-2800; artcentereast.org. 0925
For Rent, Lease
Homes to rent in Burns, OR. 2,000 sqft., 4 bd, 2 ba. $1.5K per month. 700 sqft. $800 per month. Contact realtortallsteve@gmail.com or text 541-731-0317. 0925
Free Item
Free materials. When church/government unite, enforcing Sunday Law, the “Mark” of the “Beast” is here. Don’t be deceived, be informed. Leave mailing address only, TBSM, P.O. Box 374, Ellijay, GA 30540. 888-211-1715; tbsmads@yahoo.com. 1225AR
Miscellaneous
Granite cemetery markers at affordable prices. Will ship to most places. For more info: Joe, 541-815-8906 or highdesertmemorials.com; highdesertmemorials@gmail.com. 0925
Attention landowners. Grants available now. Wildland fire fuel reduction service. Steep ground, remote, rocky, small lot, big acreage, no problem. Blue Mountain Defensible Space LLC. Bluemountainbrush@gmail.com; Bluemountainbrush.com; 509-399-3473. 1025
Sheepskin slippers. Feather light and impossibly cozy. Handmade in OR, $155. softstarshoes.com/adult-fireside-slipper.html or call 541-753-5845. Free shipping. 1025
Pellet Stove-Quadra Fire Santa Fe, 700-1,900 sqft. Used 2 seasons. Great for house, mobile, rental. $1.8K. Starchaser987@yahoo.com; 541-419-7477.
Pets, Supplies
Fort Sage Kennels, closing. AKC-registered Airedales. Females, 1 year old. Males 2-3 years old. 530-827-2271 or 530-249-7896.
X-large metal dog crate with pad. Excellent condition. Used one month. Call 541-561-6506. 0925
Photography
3 Nikon digital cameras for sale. 509-896-2015; kittymomgale@gmail.com. 0925
Plants, Garden Supplies
Coral Charm and Red Charm peony roots available this fall from Flannigan Creek Flower Farm. Grow sturdy plants with large, double, fragrant blooms. lewiscasa@yahoo.com; 509-288-2564. 0925
Real Estate
Nice home on 7 acres in John Day. Fenced for animals. Large shop. $399K. Duke Warner Realty, 541-987-2363, ddwr@ortelco.net.
320 acres east of Adel, OR. Borders Hart Mountain views, Steens Mountain and Beaty Butte. Landowner tags, very rural. $179K. Quick sale, due to injury. For maps: 541-6591573; thejugglingman3@gmail.com. 0925
Let me help you buy or sell ranch, farm and recreation property in OR. Fourth-generation Oregonian, prior ranch owner. For sale: Klamath Marsh, OR. 173.65 acres. $2.5M. Guest Ranch Overlay. John Gill, 541-480-9161; johngill@landandwildlife.com. Land and Wildlife brokerage. 0925
Farmhouse. Two 149- and 560-sqft. houses, 2 barns, orchards, flowers on 3.9 acres, Bandon, OR. 3 miles from town, year-round artesian spring 25 GPM, $525K. jdlfox@hotmail.com; 541-551-1606. 0925
20 acres on Nehalem River with custom farmhouse in the Elsie/Jewell area of OR. Barn, pasture, fruit trees, new septic tank, 2,000-sqft. home. $749K. Windermere Realty Trust, Pam Birmingham, 503-791-4752.
2 lots Rosarito Beach in Baja California, Mexico. 100 sq. meters each. Ocean views, utilities ready. Paid street and lighting. Security guard at entrance. $33K each. 323-386-3613. 0925
Recreational Rentals
$275/night VRBO vacation rental. Only oneeighth of a mile from Lake Coeur d’Alene, ID. t.vrbo.io/EgtTnZc7HSb. 0925
Fun fall days available. Oceanfront cottage on the spectacular Central OR coast. Stunning views, sandy beach. Scoters, spindrift and seals. 2 bd and loft, all w/double beds. Now also booking for 2026. Rates and reservations: wavecatcherbeachrentals.com; relax@WaveCatcherbeachrentals.com, 541-740-9953 or 2846. 1025
Beautiful coastal mountain outdoor events venue on the Nehalem River. Off Highway 26 just 25 minutes from Seaside and 45 minutes from Portland, enclosed 30x60’ white tent, 20x24’ deck overlooking the Nehalem River and beautiful wilderness background. Book the weekend or by the hour with camping available. Schedule a tour today. 971-489-3960.
Luana Kai Resort in Kihei, Maui. 1-, 2- and 3-bd condos. Pickleball, tennis, pool, hot tub, saunas, gas BBQ grills. luanakai.com; 808-879-1268.
Deeded timeshare. 2-bd unit, large deck overlooking golf. Week 32. Stoneridge Recreational Club, 150 Holiday Loop Blanchard, ID 83804. $4.8K. Jeanette Williams, 509-830-2299. 0925
$185 now $150. Maui, HI. Ocean view. Kingsize bed. Restaurant next door. Available Sept. 1-Oct. 30. 503-812-6689. 0925
Recreational Vehicles
1980 VW Vanagon orange camper, runs, very good condition, low mileage. $28K OBO 971-241-0411 in Tillamook, OR. 0925
1999 Newmar Dutch Star 38’ RV. Diesel. 3126B Catepillar engine. Freightliner chasis. One slide. Good condition. 95K miles. $18K. 530-616-0388.
Resorts, Camps, Tours, Lodges
Cruises: Alaska, Caribbean, Mediterranean, Panama Canal, Hawaii and more. River cruises, safaris, resorts. UdoU Travel LLC: www.udoutravelllc.com, 541-256-0100, cindygreenup@gmail.com. 1125 Services
Dawn Till Dusk Masonry. Brick, block, stone and pavers. Small jobs and repairs welcome. dawntillduskconstructionmasonry.com. 541-388-7605, 541-410-6945. License #245760 bonded and insured. La Pine, OR. 0226
Blue Mountain Defensible Space LLC Wildfire Fuel Reduction: clearing brush, thinning trees, animal habitat enhancement. Expert service. Grant money available OR, WA, ID. Bluemountainbrush@gmail.com, 509-399-3473; Bluemountainbrush.com. 0126
Want to Buy
Old carpenter tools, planes (wood/metal), levels, chisels, slicks, adzes, axes, hatchets, handsaws, old rulers, spoke shaves, wrenches, shipwright tools, old tool chests. 503-659-0009, 971-666-0659. 0925
Gold, silver, coins/currency, buy, sell. Collections wanted. Fair prices paid. 44 years in retail store. Baker City, OR. 800-556-2133, garrymclin@aol.com. 1025
Buying American Indian collectibles, Navajo jewelry, blankets, rugs. CA/ AZ baskets and beadwork. Quality paintings of the early Southwest and Americas. Call 760-409-3117 or send photos to amer.ind.baskets@gmail.com.
Cash paid for old gas station and oil company signs, pumps, globes, metal oil cans. Good condition. Discreet cash settlement. Clifton Jones, collector. 512-413-4459. 1225
A Life of Rodeo
Bruce and Peggy Davenport are the grand marshals of the 2025 Klickitat County Fair and Rodeo
By Brandy Myers
The Davenports have a lifelong connection to Klickitat County.
Both were raised here. Bruce grew up on the family ranch east of Goldendale that his great-grandfather homesteaded in 1876. Peggy was raised west of Goldendale near Blockhouse, on a farm her great-grandfather established. She grew up helping with the farm and family business—crop dusting.
Peggy’s dad, Jim Harris, taught her to fly airplanes when she was young. She earned a pilot’s license before her driver’s license.
Peggy and Bruce both attended school
in Goldendale and were high school sweethearts, graduating in 1973. Peggy attended cosmetology school in Spokane, and Bruce attended Spokane Community College, where he was a member of the rodeo team. He returned to the Davenport Ranch to help after his father, Jack, suffered a heart attack.
In 1976, Bruce and Peggy married and started farming and ranching in Goodnoe Hills. They got their start by leasing property from several neighbors and friends, including Bob Imrie, Eleanor Dooley and Fred Wilkins, and growing their herd of Black Angus cattle.
During the early years, Bruce ran
several successful trap lines, and sold skins to Mountain Fur Co. Peggy helped by checking trap lines while Bruce was at work. The first year he and Peggy were married, Bruce harvested more than 40 coyotes, bobcats, mink and beavers.
In 1978, they began their family with Brandy (Myers), followed shortly by Anna (Davenport). Bruce continued to rodeo and was one of the top bareback riders in the country while working full time. He won bareback riding competitions in several county and local rodeos, and won the all-around at the Klickitat County Rodeo in 1979. That same year, he won the Pro West finals with a broken foot.
In 1980 and 1981, Bruce rode for the Northwest Volcanoes at the Calgary Stampede against international competition. The Northwest Volcanoes
Peggy and Bruce Davenport married in 1976, and have been ranching and rodeoing ever since. PHOTO COURTESY OF THE DAVENPORTS
team won the world cup two years in a row. Bruce went on to win second at the North American Championships in Gallop, New Mexico, in 1980. He went to this elite invitational with good friend, and later five-time world champion, Clint Corey.
As most ranchers know, the key to successful cattle operation is a wife who works in town. In 1985, shortly after Kayde Jo (Akins) was born, Peggy started the Hair Affair, a salon she owned and operated for nearly 40 years. To get through lean times, Bruce and his brother Dave leased the land at the 100 Circles farm at Crow Butte, put together a crew and tended to more than 1,200 mother cows for a number of years. He also hauled hay around the country, back when they still used hay hooks.
In 1991, following the birth oftheir fourth child, JimJack, the Davenports moved their headquarters from Goodnoe Hills to Hoctor Road. This was more convenient and significantly closer to the active family’s two businesses. At that time, Bruce was farming nearly 3,200 acres and burning the candle at both ends.
Bruce and Peggy have been active in their community. Bruce has been a volunteer firefighter for more than 30 years and still is a CAT operator for DNR and Rural 7. He’s active within the Klickitat County Sheriff’s Department as the captain of the central division posse and a member of the Cattlemen’s Association. Bruce and Peggy were honored as Cattlemen of the Year in 1996.
Peggy served as president and secretary of state of Klickitat County Cowbelles— now called Cattlewomen. She was a 4-H leader for several years, taking steer exhibitors to the Central Washington Livestock Show and Klickitat County Fair. The Davenports are members of the Christ The King Lutheran Church and the Klickitat County Republican Party.
Upon hanging up his rigging, Bruce put on his rodeo coaching hat and has helped many young roughies. He’s instilled a passion for rodeo in his children and grandchildren.
Bruce and Peggy have logged many miles traveling to support their kids and grandkids. They’ve been to the High School National Finals Rodeo, College
National Finals Rodeo, Columbia Circuit Finals Rodeo and more. If they have a kid or grandkid competing, they are there, either hauling, pushing calves, watering horses, or cheering them on—and always recording every event on video.
Bruce is a long-standing member of the Klickitat County Rodeo Committee. He was instrumental in moving the arena to its current location and many other improvements throughout the years. He is a driving force behind keeping the Klickitat County Fair Rodeo running smoothly, alongside hardworking volunteers like Marty Hudson and Jim and Skip Mulrony. To this day, Bruce, his kids and grandkids enjoy and participate in the county rodeo events during fair week.
The Klickitat County Fair has also been a foundational part of their lives. Bruce and Peggy grew up raising livestock and showing their animals at the fair—Bruce brought his steers and Peggy had sheep. Their family has shown Davenport cattle steers for many years, as well as pigs and sheep. Bruce’s grandmother Sib was one of the co-founders of the Central Klickitat 4-H Club.
One of the Davenports’ most meaningful accomplishments was forming the Klickitat County Fair Rodeo Memorial
Fund aimed at attracting rough stock riders to the county rodeo. It was started in 1981 as the Bill Harris Memorial, honoring Peggy’s brother, a bronc rider.
It is now called the Cowboy Memorial and is established as a nonprofit organization that rewards more than 10 memorial buckles each year in remembrance of our the county’s cowboys and cowgirls. The organization supplies the rodeo with equipment needed for the rodeo, including the reader board, lights, and panels.
Bruce and Peggy count their blessings, especially in their seven grandchildren: Jorgia and Jackie Bean, Rydell and Olivia Myers, Chancy and Callahan Akins, and Laney Davenport. Not only do Bruce and Peggy attend rodeos, they attend FFA events, football, volleyball and basketball games, wrestling tournaments and track meets. They smile extra when their family has steers in the ring, a rope in their hand or are on a promising horse. The Davenports are proud to have six generations of family involved on the farm and ranch.
Bruce and Peggy are grateful to live in a country where they can enjoy their Godgiven rights and to love their family and friends in beautiful Klickitat County. n
Bruce, here with his grandchildren Rydell Myers and Chancy Akins, received the Reserve Champion Breeder Cup award at the Fair and Rodeo.
Golden Sunrise
Nature surprises us through sunsets, picturesque landscapes and even by friendly wildlife visits to your backyard.
“I couldn’t resist, so I pulled over to snap a quick pic,” Keenan Webber says after taking in the sunrise on his way to work.
To submit your photo, email a JPEG to photos@pioneer.coop. Include “Before You Go” in the subject line and share a bit about what inspired you to make your photo. n
Brady
Redwine and his wife, Melissa
The Dalles, Oregon, offers a unique view at sunrise. PHOTO BY KEENAN WEBBER
SpiritualityMee
“I never expected it to be so beautiful that it takes your breath away.”
— Kaya C., on Stauer Opals
In a quaint village, nestled between rolling hills, lived a young woman with a deep appreciation for gemstones. Her grandmother gifted her a delicate cross pendant adorned with opals. The opals shimmered with a mesmerizing play of colors, reflecting hues of blues, greens, and fiery oranges. Her grandmother shared the legend of the opals, believed to bring hope, purity, and luck to those who wore them.
Using this story as inspiration, Stauer brings you the Opal Spirit Cross Pendant. With over 2 total carats of Kyocera lab-created opals set in .925 sterling silver encased in yellow gold, this pendant is a radiant celebration of beauty and craftsmanship. Each opal captivates with a kaleidoscopic dance of fiery oranges blending into oceanic blues, streaked with flashes of vibrant green that seem to come alive with every movement. The shimmering opals are skillfully arranged to create an enchanting, otherworldly glow, embodying the spirit of hope and harmony.
This breathtaking combination of color and craftsmanship is available as a limited availability of only
930 pieces, making it a rare and treasured addition to your jewelry collection. Plus, when you order today, you’ll receive the gold-finished sterling silver chain—a $69 value—absolutely free! Don’t miss your chance to own this exclusive tribute to timeless elegance and meaningful symbolism.
Necklace Specifications:
• 2 1/2 ctw. Kyocera lab opals and DiamondAura® accents
For several decades, Klickitat PUD has provided clean, renewable sources of energy—it is even in our mission statement. While we remain committed to this mission, things outside of local control can affect our ability to provide electricity at the lowest possible cost consistent with sound business principles. In this case, KPUD is affected by state legislation, specifically the Clean Energy Transformation Act.
Klickitat PUD is required to meet designated milestones for renewable energy to bolster Washington’s clean energy mandates, despite probable impacts to ratepayers, such as potential increased rates and decreased reliability. In addition to renewable energy plans, utilities are required to develop additional energy conservation and demand response plans, as well as energy burden assessments and robust assistance programs to comply with CETA.
What is CETA?
CETA was signed into law in May 2019. Like other electric utilities throughout the state, KPUD is navigating compliance while attempting to minimize impact on our customers.
CETA is a complex law that sets specific milestones to reach the required 100% clean electricity supply by 2045. The first milestone delivered in 2022 was a clean energy implementation plan. The second milestone, to eliminate coal-fired electricity from our portfolio by 2025, was not problematic. Klickitat PUD receives 92% of our power from Bonneville Power Administration. The other 8% is the output from our share in specific hydropower projects. BPA’s portfolio consists primarily of hydro and nuclear generating resources and largely meets the definition of noncarbon -emitting resources.
The first clean standard applies in 2030 and requires electricity to be greenhouse gas neutral. This means utilities can use limited amounts of electricity from natural gas or other unspecified resources if it is offset by other actions. Finally, by 2045, utilities must supply customers with electricity that is 100% renewable or nonemitting, with no provisions to buy offsets. Instead, all electricity must come from hydro, nuclear, wind, solar and other noncarbon-emitting resources.
Do customers have a say in our clean energy implementation plan?
Yes, absolutely. We are updating the PUD’s CEIP, and your input is essential. Public outreach is critical in the development of successful customer programs and funding options. We encourage all customers to provide feedback through the CETA community survey, which is available on our website. The goal is to provide programs and solutions to our customers that are beneficial and meaningful to our local communities. Visit www.klickitatpud.org to complete the survey.
