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September 2025 • Volume 72, No. 9
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The Stories We Carry
Some stories choose us rather than the other way around.
This month, I find myself thinking about the weight of the narratives we hold—the ones we actively seek and those that find us when we least expect them. Dave LaBelle’s close look at widowhood reminds us that some of life’s most profound stories arrive uninvited, reshaping everything we thought we knew about ourselves.
Through conversations with four men who lost their wives, Dave captures something essential about resilience and adaptation.
Shawn Whalen’s image of walking “the knife’s edge, like a Himalayan peak” speaks to anyone who’s had to keep moving forward when the ground beneath them shifted completely. Tim Thompson’s insight about becoming “both Mom and Dad” without time to process his own grief reveals the quiet heroism that grief often demands.
These aren’t easy stories to tell or hear, but they’re necessary ones. They remind us that strength isn’t about avoiding difficulty—it’s about finding ways to honor what we’ve lost while still engaging with what remains.
On a lighter note, BendFilm’s Basecamp represents another kind of storytelling—the collaborative creation of new narratives.
When 200 filmmakers applied for 40 spots at this wilderness retreat, they were seeking something beyond technical skills. They wanted connection, mentorship and the chance to discover stories worth telling.
As Director Clay Pruitt notes, “You rarely get a glimpse into the genesis and into the very early stages of these things.”
Before I close, I want to thank everyone who submitted photos for our 2026 Ruralite calendar contest. We received more than 400 images—each one telling its own story about the broad region’s beauty and character. We have chosen the winning photos and notified the photographers. You can view our selections at ruralite.com/2026-calendar-winners. These entries reinforce the idea storytelling takes many forms, and sometimes a single photograph captures what pages of words cannot.
Until next time, Chasity Anderson Editorial Director
Nurturing Future Film Talent
Up Close, Page 10
When She Goes First Widowers navigate grief
Spotlight, Page 12
A Taste of Greece
Explore a rich culinary heritage
In the Kitchen, Page 16
Understanding the Rising Cost of Electricity
Benton REA is committed to providing safe, reliable and affordable electricity to our members. Beginning this fall, the Bonneville Power Administration—which currently supplies all of Benton REA’s power— will increase its wholesale power and transmission rates, resulting in a combined rate increase of approximately 17.6% for Benton REA. This decision, made through BPA’s regular rate-setting process, will increase the cost of electricity for all public power utilities across the Northwest. Benton REA will continue to keep you informed and will work diligently to manage costs while maintaining the high-quality service you expect.
What the 2025 Bonneville Power Rate Increase Means for You
Some of the main drivers of electricity costs are the wholesale rates set by the Bonneville Power Administration. BPA recently finalized its rate case, setting the wholesale power and transmission rates it will charge electric cooperatives and other
power utilities over the next three years. Beginning Oct. 1, these new rates will affect what all public power customers pay for electricity and transmission services.
BPA, a nonprofit federal power marketing administration under the U.S. Department of Energy, supplies nearly all the power used by not-for-profit electric cooperatives and public utilities across the Northwest. As the source of all the electricity delivered to members, BPA’s rate decisions have a direct impact on your electric bill.
Why Are BPA Rates Increasing?
The 2025 rate increase is driven by several key factors. First, rising operational costs are putting pressure on BPA. Maintaining and modernizing the region’s expansive hydroelectric dams and transmission infrastructure are becoming more expensive, and those costs are being reflected in new rate structures.
In addition, the new rate structure will enable the advancement of critical
initiatives to meet customers’ needs and support national priorities for more abundant, reliable and secure energy. BPA is committing resources to advance major power and transmission projects, bolster cybersecurity measures and improve the overall resilience of the power grid. These proactive steps are essential for keeping power delivery safe and consistent.
Finally, market and environmental pressures are contributing to higher costs. Changing regulations, clean energy mandates and volatility in the energy market all increase the cost of doing business, which ultimately impacts the rates passed down to utilities and, in turn, customers.
Rate Impact on Benton REA
The combined cost of Benton REA’s Tier 1 and Tier 2 power is expected to rise by 16.4%, while the cost to deliver that power over transmission lines is projected to increase by 15.3%. Because power makes up a much larger share of Benton REA’s
bill from BPA, the combined impact is an overall 17.6% increase in total power and transmission costs. These new rates will take effect on Oct. 1, and remain in place through Sept. 30, 2028.
Understanding Tier 1 and Tier 2 Power Rates
Tier 1 power is the most affordable and makes up the majority of Benton REA’s power supply. It comes primarily from BPA’s existing federal resources, like hydropower from the Columbia-Snake River System and nuclear energy from the Columbia Generating Station.
Tier 2 power is used when a utility needs more electricity than its allocated Tier 1 amount. Because Tier 2 power comes from additional, often more expensive sources, it is priced at a higher rate. Utilities that use Tier 2 power pay the higher cost to cover the extra resources needed to meet that demand.
Benton REA’s Advocacy Efforts
Benton REA actively engaged in BPA’s recent rate case through its membership in the Public Power Council and Northwest Requirements Utilities. These organizations—representing not-forprofit, consumer-owned utilities like Benton REA—played a critical role in pushing back on BPA’s initial proposal, which called for much steeper rate increases.
Thanks to coordinated advocacy and strong member participation, PPC helped secure roughly $45 million in annual reductions to BPA’s proposed power and transmission costs. Also, NRU achieved over $18 million in annual savings for its members by securing more favorable Tier 1 power and transmission rates. These efforts directly contributed to lowering the final rate impacts across the region, including a significantly reduced rate increase for Benton REA.
This outcome underscores the importance of Benton REA’s voice in regional policy discussions and our ongoing commitment to advocating for safe, affordable, reliable power on behalf of our members.
The Impact of Inflation on Electricity Costs
Broader economic conditions—particularly inflation—have significantly increased the cost of providing electricity. Rising prices for fuel, labor and other essential services continue to drive up Benton REA’s operational expenses, despite our ongoing efforts to manage costs. In addition, the prices of critical infrastructure components such as transformers, power poles and wire have surged in recent years due to supply chain disruptions, material shortages and increased nationwide demand. For example, the cost of line transformers has increased by 126% over the past five years.
What Does This Mean for Our Members?
While Benton REA works diligently to manage costs, BPA’s wholesale rate increase, combined with the continued rise in inflation, may drive higher retail electric rates for members beginning in fiscal year 2026 and likely continuing through the remainder of the three-year rate period and beyond.
The cooperative is currently working with an outside consultant on a cost-ofservice analysis. A COSA is a study that determines how much it costs a utility to provide service to different customer groups or rate classes. The analysis helps in designing rates that are fair and costbased, ensuring that each customer class is charged appropriately for the service they receive.
The COSA will guide Benton REA on the total amount of revenue it needs to collect from members to cover its expenses. It provides a basis for designing rates that are cost-reflective and encourages conservative budgeting as we look to the future.
Benton REA will continue to focus on system upgrades and wildfire mitigation. We must keep the health of our system in the best shape possible to avoid costly repairs, safety concerns and outages.
Our energy efficiency team will continue to help members save on energy costs through incentives for efficiency upgrades to homes and businesses—and it will guide members through the process from start to
finish for the most energy savings.
Despite the upcoming increase, BPA’s electricity—sourced primarily from clean, renewable hydropower—remains one of the most affordable and reliable energy sources in the nation. According to the U.S. Energy Information Administration, the national average residential electricity rate in 2024 was 16.48 cents per kilowatthour. In comparison, Washington’s average was 12.2 cents, and Benton REA members pay just 7.9 cents. This places Benton REA among the most affordable electric utilities both statewide and nationwide.
To provide further transparency, here’s how each dollar Benton REA spends breaks down:
• 56 cents for power and transmission costs
Power = 49 cents
Transmission = 7 cents
• 32 cents for operational costs
• 12 cents for depreciation, taxes and interest
As a cooperative, we do not set rates to generate a profit. Benton REA remains committed to transparency, cost control and maintaining the infrastructure necessary to continue providing safe, reliable and affordable power to our members. n
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Powering the Future Programs prepare students for energy careers
By Melanie Jones
From the soaring heights of wind turbines to fields of solar panels, the electric grid requires highly skilled professionals to power lights, entertainment devices, health care devices and AI data centers. Filling these roles takes hard work and training, and there are a variety of schools, internships and apprenticeships throughout the country to make that happen.
In the remote community of Kotzebue, Alaska, the convergence of necessity and innovation has created opportunities for electrical training focused on alternative energy. Kotzebue Electric Association is an electric cooperative whose reliance on expensive diesel fuel has driven the community to embrace renewable energy solutions and create hands-on learning opportunities for aspiring technicians.
Chad Nordlum started the energy careers program at Alaska Technical Center in Kotzebue with a grant and a plan. His goal is to open career opportunities to students while also meeting workforce development needs in his community. While the program is in
its infancy, he sees promise.
Alaska Technical Center is part of Northwest Arctic Borough School District, but it doesn’t just serve secondary students. It also trains adults to meet the unique workforce needs above the Arctic Circle.
Chad, energy project manager for the Native Village of Kotzebue, says the first round of solar energy and energyefficiency classes were successful.
“We’re designing our next round,” he says, which includes getting funding. “Those things take time.”
Although students aren’t required to stay in Kotzebue after completing the program, he hopes they do.
“We’re a pretty remote area,” Chad says. “We plan on a lot of them staying. Of course, the more skills you have, the more opportunities are available to you. Regardless, energy careers and alternative energy are good fields to go into.”
The technical school program isn’t the only initiative in Kotzebue preparing people for careers in energy. The Alaska Center for Energy and Power established Kotzebue as a research hub, creating real-world learning laboratories where students can gain
experience with energy technologies.
The T3 Alaska program—Teaching Through Technology—teaches rural high school and college students about careers in energy, and the co-op is deeply involved.
“Kotzebue Electric Association takes folks to the statewide conference, where professors come in and talk to kids interested in such careers,” Kotzebue Electric Association CEO Tom Atkinson says. “Kotzebue brings the kids to tour the cooperative and sit down and have conversations with our staff.”
Ready for Wind Power
Columbia Gorge Community College’s electro-mechanical technology program prepares students for careers in a variety of alternative energy positions.
“Our graduates are well-qualified to serve in any number of industries as largescale electrical service technicians,” says Tom Penberthy, the community college’s director of marketing and communication.
Graduates of the program go on to work in power generation and transmission, wind, hydropower and solar energy, manufacturing, industrial automation,
Electromechanical engineering graduate
Gilbert Cooksey works atop a wind turbine in Oregon.
DRONE PHOTO BY GILBERT COOKSEY
avionics and material processing.
Gilbert Cooksey is one such graduate. Originally from Panama, he maintains wind turbines for Avangrid in Oregon, where possibilities for careers are continuing to grow.
Most graduates begin their careers as plant maintenance technicians to round out their skill base before advancing into design, engineering or managerial roles. It is also common for students to take the first year of the program to learn electrical fundamentals and boost their credentials when applying for the electrician’s union.
The program has two options—a ninemonth certification program that can be completed in one year, or a two-year associate of applied science program. Several customized versions of the program have been tailored for industry partners, with evolving training needs for their existing workforces.
Students receive hands-on training in the form of weekly labs designed to reinforce the theoretical concepts learned in the classroom, expose students to a variety of industrial-grade equipment and components, and encourage them to develop their troubleshooting process and abilities.
Apprenticeships are not a required component of the program, but faculty members work to connect students with internships, apprenticeships and other
starting positions within the industry. Industry partners currently recruiting from the electromechanical student pool with active internship programs include Trillium Engineering and Hewlett Packard.
Solar Experience
Florida’s abundant sunshine and growing commitment to renewable energy have created opportunities for solar energy technicians and installers. The Florida Solar Energy Apprenticeship Program provides a pathway to state certification as a Florida solar contractor, which allows installation of solar electric photovoltaics and thermal systems.
The apprenticeship program has been approved by the Florida Department of Education so graduates can work anywhere in the state, says Colleen Kettles of the Florida Solar Energy Center. While apprenticeships at that department are geared primarily to home and business installations, Moss and Associates in Florida provides a program that prepares apprentices for utility installation work.
“The Florida Solar Energy Center’s apprenticeship is a two-year program that includes 2,000 hours per year of on-the-job training, which is basically an apprentice’s full-time job,” Colleen says.
Then there is classroom instruction, which is 144 hours a year. Colleen says the center has about 295 hours of
classroom education over two years, including hands-on learning labs and assessments. About 10 employers participate in the program, with 35 to 40 apprentices.
On the Line
The backbone of America’s electric infrastructure is the power grid maintained by skilled lineworkers. These professionals require extensive training to safely work with high-voltage systems that can be lethal if handled improperly.
Lineworker schools across the country provide a foundation of learning for students who go on to complete on-thejob training through apprenticeships at electric utilities. Students learn to climb utility poles, work with energized lines and perform emergency repairs during storms and outages.
Some schools, such as the Southeast Lineman Training Center in Trenton, Georgia, and the Northwest Lineman College in Meridian, Idaho, promote high employment rates for graduates, often in the 90% range.
Alternative and traditional energy jobs exist for the taking, and learning opportunities are available. No matter where students live—above the Arctic Circle, in the Sunshine State or anywhere in between—they have the power to choose a career in energy. n
ABOVE: An Alaska Technical Center student builds a solar module as part of the energy careers program.
PHOTO COURTESY OF CHAD NORDLUM
BELOW: Crews install new panels at Kotzebue Electric Association’s solar farm. The co-op and local organizations focus on educating the next generation to build and maintain renewable energy in remote communities. PHOTO COURTESY OF ALASKA NATIVE RENEWABLE INDUSTRIES
Benton REA Awarded $1 Million in Washington State Capital Budget for Wildfire Resilience Project
Benton REA is proud to share the exciting news that $1 million for our Wildfire Resilience Project has been included in the 2025–2027 Washington State Capital Budget. This important funding will play a critical role in enhancing the safety, reliability and resilience of Benton REA’s electric system, particularly in wildfireprone areas of our 620-square-mile service territory.
Benton REA appreciates the Washington State Legislature for recognizing the importance of this project, as well as the many lawmakers who support efforts that impact the cooperative’s members.
In particular, we thank Sen. Matt Boehnke, who secured an amendment in the Senate to increase the project funding to match the House allocation, and Rep. Stephanie Barnard, who championed the project in the House of Representatives.
Their leadership and advocacy were instrumental in awarding this funding.
Benton REA is working to complete all requirements associated with receiving state funds. The cooperative is on track to execute a contract with the Washington State Department of Commerce later this year, enabling access the funds within the 2025 calendar year.
This phase of the Wildfire Resilience Project focuses on replacing aging oil circuit reclosers with more modern vacuum circuit reclosers.
Vacuum circuit reclosers use a vacuum, instead of oil as an insulating and arcextinguishing medium, which eliminates the risk of oil leaks and the associated environmental hazards. They also operate faster and more precisely, enabling targeted grid section shutdowns during faults or in high wildfire risk conditions—significantly
reducing the likelihood of fire ignition.
In addition, vacuum circuit reclosers can be integrated with advanced grid technologies, improving remote monitoring and control capabilities, which means fewer and shorter outages for members.
The $1 million grant will help Benton REA offset project costs that would otherwise need to be funded by our members. By leveraging state funds, we can accelerate the replacement of aging equipment, improve wildfire resilience, and enhance service reliability—all while reducing the financial impact on the cooperative’s membership.
Benton REA is grateful for this opportunity to partner with the state of Washington in making critical investments that will protect lives, property and the electric infrastructure our communities depend
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LEFT: Benton REA’s Josh Lozano, Mike Freepons and Troy Berglund met with Rep. Stephanie Barnard during the 2025 Legistlative Session at the state capital in Olympia. Rep. Barnard lead the Wildfire Resilience Project in the House of Representatives. RIGHT: Benton REA CEO Ryan Redmond at the 2025 Elected Leaders Luncheon networking with Washington State Sen. Matt Boehnke. Sen. Boehnke was given Benton REA’s Legislator of the Year award for his work in helping secure a $1 million allocation.
Nurturing Future Film Talent
BendFilm's intensive retreat connects emerging filmmakers with industry mentors in Oregon's beautiful terrain
By Ginger Meurer
BendFilm’s annual independent cinema festival celebrates its 22nd year with screenings, discussions and festivities Oct. 8-12 at venues throughout the Central Oregon mountain town of Bend.
For a select group of filmmakers, the action starts before the festival at BendFilm’s Basecamp. The all-inclusive filmmakers’ developmental retreat is Oct. 5-9 at Caldera, an arts center on 119 acres of land near Sisters, Oregon.
Plans for Basecamp were in the works for years, according to BendFilm Executive Director Giancarlo Gatto. Before taking over as executive director, Giancarlo was a board member when a previous executive director convinced the group to expand BendFilm’s mission and double down on support of emerging filmmakers by creating programming similar to Stowe Story Labs or Sundance Institute—nonprofits designed to support collaboration among independent artists..
A grant from M.J. Murdock Charitable Trust made Basecamp
possible. Accepting that seed grant was one of Giancarlo’s first tasks as executive director. Then, about 18 months ago, BendFilm hired Director of Education Clay Pruitt to head up the effort.
“He’s been amazing,” Giancarlo says.
An Enthusiastic Response
Basecamp launched in fall 2024, but until the applications came rolling in, no one was sure what the reception would be.
“You dream up one of these things, and you wonder, each step of the way, is anybody going to actually apply for it?” Giancarlo says. “We were thrilled that we had 200 applicants, and then on top of it, the quality of the applicants was amazing.”
Forty filmmakers were selected, including six from Bend and more than a dozen others from different stretches of the Pacific Northwest. Filmmakers also came in from California and as far away as New York, Tennessee, Oklahoma, Texas, Michigan, Alabama, Puerto Rico, Mexico, Canada and even Brazil.
Clay says part of the draw—and what makes Basecamp special—is the area’s beauty.
“The setting at Caldera is certainly a key part of it,” he says. “It’s just a really great place to surrender yourself and immerse yourself with like-minded folks.”
Giancarlo agrees.
Filmmakers let loose at the 2024
Bend Film Festival. PHOTO BY STEVEN ADDINGTON
CLOCKWISE FROM ABOVE: BendFilm Director of Programming
Selin Sevinc leads filmmaker Sydney Freeland in a Q&A after the opening night presentation of her film “Rez Ball.” Former Sundance festival director John Cooper leads Christine Vachon in a case study of “A Different Man.” Basecamp mentors congratulate winners of BendFilm: Basecamp pitch competition. From left are Effie Brown, Christine Vachon, Ayo Kepher-Maat, Jonathan Pickett, John Cooper, Caroline Creaghead, Guinevere Turner, Kevin Iwashina and Bing Liu.
“It’s a really beautiful facility with kind of camp vibes,” he says.
Unlike other labs that separate participants into different tracks for directing, screenwriting and producing, Basecamp keeps everyone together. Clay finds producers, screenwriters and directors want to mingle and meet each other.
“We intentionally wanted to have sort of a melting pot of people,” he says. “Now that we’ve been through one cycle of it, I can say that there’s been a lot of partnerships and collaborations that have come out of the program.”
Basecamp mentors come from a variety of disciplines, too.
“Certainly, we want producers, directors, writers to speak very directly to their counterparts,” Clay says. “But we also bring in folks who emerging filmmakers would never have had the opportunity to hear from—sales agents, acquisitions executives, development executives, those kinds of people that, especially if you don’t live in LA or New York, it’s hard to have access to.”
Getting industry pros to come to Bend hasn’t been difficult.
“It’s a pretty enticing venture in itself,” Clay says. “Come hang out with us in the beautiful Oregon wilderness for a few days and talk about film. If you have the time, it’s sort of a no-brainer.”
In addition to a full slate of industry workshops and breakout sessions, last year’s fellows were led through yoga and interacted with indigenous performers.
“We also do some very Bend things,” Clay says. “Like last year we did a breathwork workshop, which comes in handy when you’re on a stressful set of a movie and you need to breathe your way through it.”
With only a single Basecamp in the books, there are already success stories, with projects optioned and filmmakers signing with agencies.
Spreading the Buzz Basecamp’s energy carries over to BendFilm.
“Some of those filmmakers had films in the festival, and a lot of them stayed and came to the festival afterwards,” Giancarlo says. “They stuck together and created these bonds during Basecamp and were just so excited and buzzing off that experience. It really carried over into the energy of the festival.”
That buzz is about to get bigger. Last year’s Basecamp culminated in a pitch competition. This year, that competition— in which fellows vie to win a $5,000 prize to help finance their films—is open to the public in Bend.
“Partially to torture the fellows a bit by giving them a larger audience to be nervous in front of,” Clay says. “But also, just so the public can see. I think that’s a thing you don’t often get in a festival environment. You get to see the final product of a lot of these films. But you rarely get a glimpse into the genesis and into the very early stages of these things. And it’s just a very exciting thing to witness that I wanted to share with the festival-going audience.”
Clay says for the past two decades, BendFilm has shared so much with Oregon by showcasing incredible stories audiences wouldn’t see elsewhere, as well as the filmmakers behind them.
“But they’ve also done a great job of establishing the festival and Bend as a meaningful destination in the context of the film festival community ecosystem,” he says. “Basecamp is a continuation of all that effort, and it certainly is highlighting the incredible local talent that we have in Bend and in Oregon.” n
For information about the upcoming festival, visit BendFilm.org.
PHOTO BY STEVEN ADDINGTON
PHOTO BY JAROD GATLEY
PHOTO BY JAROD GATLEY
By Dave LaBelle
My uncle, Norman Miller, promised Crystal, his wife of more than 40 years, that he would take care of himself after she was gone. Crystal died in 1998, and for the next few years, Norman walked laps around the cemetery while visiting her grave. Norman never remarried, living another 28 years until he passed away in 2016.
Ron “Hank” Lucas appeared as one of the Ghost Players in the 1989 movie “Field of Dreams.” He continued donning the baseball uniform for years afterward. His wife of 39 years, Diane, would sit on a hillside to watch Ghost Player performances at the Field of Dreams Movie Site in Dyersville, Iowa.
Diane died in March 2024.
“She always sat there,” Hank says, barely able to speak flipping through old photos.
“I wish she was still there.”
Like many men his age, Hank never cooked, did the wash or kept the
checkbook. Now, he’s learning to do all the things Diane did.
Often, widowers learn just how much their partner did once she’s gone. Traditional gender roles—as depicted on the 1957-1963 TV show “Leave it to Beaver,” with the women staying at home while the men go to work—are largely gone from modern marriages. Today’s man is much more likely to care for his children, clean and cook than his father or grandfather was. But for many men in their 70s, 80s and beyond, adjusting to life as a widower is practical as much as emotional.
According to USA Facts website, the average American woman’s life expectancy is 5.3 years longer than a man’s. Though the loss of a spouse is traumatic regardless of gender, when the wife dies first, husbands are often less able to cope with the loss. Many older men struggle to accept a new reality. In fact, some studies indicate men, baby boomers in particular, have a higher likelihood of dying in the first year after the death of their spouse.
I spoke with four men from Oregon
When She Goes First Widowers
navigate grief as they adjust to life without their wives
and Washington who lost their wives about how they are navigating their grief.
‘Walking on the Knife’s Edge’
Shawn Whalen lives in The Dalles, Oregon. His wife, Catherine, died Dec. 30, 2022. Shawn and Catherine were accomplished professionals. Shawn runs Whalen Consulting Services. Catherine retired as a captain after a 32-year career in the U.S. Navy and was a critical care nurse.
“I am trying to rebuild a life,” Shawn says. “She was so much the center of my life. It’s been hard for sure. I think about her every day.”
More than two years after Catherine’s death, Shawn still keeps her ashes in his home, unsure of what he wants to do with them.
He sometimes gazes at photos of her on his phone.
“I still look into her eyes,” he says. “I looked into her eyes even when she was very sick at the end. How bright and beautiful her eyes were and the connection there.”
Shawn says spending time outdoors, especially hiking, is helping him cope.
Jeanne and Tim Thompson take a walk in 2015.
PHOTO COURTESY OF TIM THOMPSON
“I felt consistently like I was walking the knife’s edge, like a Himalayan peak, where I had to keep putting one foot in front of another to move through this ridgeline, with an abyss on both sides,” he says. “Keep it simple. Keep your routines going, and you’ll get through this. It was a pretty vivid image motivating me. I remember it being really tangible. It’s easier now, and I have tried to lean into reading about grief a little bit.”
Redefining Home
Annie, wife of Olympia, Washington, resident Nick Libby, died in 2022 following a 21/2-year battle with cancer. The couple were married for 41 years.
Nick, who retired in 2000, says he and Annie shared many common interests.
“We pretty much liked to do all the same stuff together,” he says.
Annie didn’t like crowds and loved country music, walking around barefoot, animals and going to the gym.
“If she had her way, she’d have every stray animal in the county living here,” Nick says.
Compounding Nick’s grief, one of the couple’s daughters, Wendy Jo, died of a blood infection around the same time Annie died. She was only 53 years old. His other daughter, son and grandchildren visit when they can. With the exception of the 17-year-old cat he still cares for, Nick lives alone.
“The hardest part of living without Annie has been coming home to this house,” Nick says of the home where they raised their children. “Everything is kind of the way she wanted it. Yeah, coming home to this house and her not being here, that’s the hardest.”
He points to a nearby television.
“That TV has not been turned on since Annie died,” he says. “Annie used to sit there. She was hooked on two or three soap operas, and she would always record them and watch them later.”
After some encouragement, Nick
joined a coffee group, comprised mostly of retired pilots like himself.
“A lot of people don’t know what to say, so they say nothing,” he says. “Most people who have been through this are more than willing to talk about it. But people that haven’t try to avoid it. And that’s kind of sad. But one guy in my coffee group is an author. He’s always asking for stories about her. ‘What did she do? What’s she like?’ I like that.”
Nick says his children, friends and the book “Widow to Widow,” by Genevieve Davis Ginsburg, have helped him process his grief.
“I like to think that at family gatherings, like maybe at Christmas or Thanksgiving, especially with the grandkids, that she might be there, somehow, observing,” Nick says. “Nobody knows for sure. And maybe one day we will have that answer.”
CLOCKWISE FROM TOP: Shawn Whalen, 65, outside the home he and wife Catherine shared in The Dalles, Oregon. Hank Lucas with wife Diane in the summer of 2022. Diane sits in her familiar spot overlooking the field during Hank’s performances in the Ghost Shows. Diane died in March 2024. Diane’s chair sits empty where she watched Hank during Ghost Shows at the “Field of Dreams” movie site. Before every performance, Hank places her chair in the same spot. PHOTOS BY DAVE LABELLE
Leaning on Faith
Karen Sterling, wife of Portland, Oregon’s Bob Sterling, died in August 2019 after an extended battle with a rare form of blood cancer. The couple raised three children together and celebrated their 39th anniversary just months before Karen passed away.
“It was rough,” Bob says. “She went through it for 11 years and had a couple of stem cell transplants.”
The couple leaned on God and their family to carry them through the painful ordeal.
“The primary thing would have been our faith, our family and our church family, that basically ran through all this with us,” Bob says. “You got to have something to lean on, and our faith is what got us through all that. And still, to this day, I appreciate my church family and my immediate family.
“In fact, Karen and I used to have conversations about individuals we knew who didn’t have any involvement with church and had no church family,”
he adds. “We would often share with each other, asking, ‘How do these people who have no faith, no belief in God, how do they deal with things like this in their own lives?’ I struggle with knowing others who do not have a fellowship with Christ. I pray for them.”
Bob is now engaged to a woman he knew in high school and reconnected with on Facebook.
“You realize you can’t just hide in a cave,” he says. “You’ve got to get out and enjoy what you have left of life.”
Becoming Both Parents
Peggy Thompson was just 43 years old when she died of breast cancer 14 years ago. She and her husband, Tim, a firefighter from Walla Walla, Washington, were married for nearly 19 years and raised two girls and two boys together.
Peggy grew up in Montana as the youngest of five children in what Tim describes as a conservative and traditional family.
“The boys went outside to work, and the girls stayed inside and worked with Mom and cooked and sewed,” he says.
Tim says the hardest part of losing Peggy was having to immediately become both mom and dad to his own children without any time to really cope with his grief.
“You are dad 365, 24/7 and therefore, processing was a little on the light side of things,” he says. “I was so busy, I just had to power through things because the kids needed me. And it was difficult to do all the mom things my daughters were going to be missing out on. The boys had Dad, but the girls didn’t have Mom. But we had a lot of family. I worked for the fire department, so I had the fire department family. I had a church family. I had a blood family. And everybody pitched in. So, I feel in that way that I was blessed.”
For the past five years, Tim has been codirecting a Griefshare meeting at Trinity Baptist Church along with Katie Bush, whose husband died from complications of a motorcycle accident. Navigating grief after the loss of a spouse can be especially challenging for those without children or other family.
“We have been averaging 10 to 12 people in our GriefShare, and none of
them have kids,” Tim says. “When they go home, they go home to this very quiet lonesomeness. This is real. And you can’t just fix it. It’s not like, ‘Take this pill for 10 days, and everything will be fine.’ It doesn’t work that way.”
Tim gently reminds GriefShare participants that their lives will never be the same after losing a spouse.
“So, it would be better to try not to make it that way,” he advises.
“The people who are going to be around you next—who could end up being your spouse—that’s going to be completely unfair to them because you have expectations on them that you want filled so you feel better,” he adds. “And then you go through a rough time because the people can’t fill that spot.”
One of the things Tim does to help lonely people feel connection again is use his phone to play games with them.
“If you are feeling like it is too quiet and you want to know there is somebody out there living, shoot me a pingpong
game or a chess game, and I’ll play you,” he says. “Without interfering with someone or looking somebody in the eye, they can know somebody is interacting with them, that somebody’s there.”
Navigating the New Reality
Perhaps one of the hardest things for grieving men to do is reach out and take that first step toward support. It’s not generally considered the “manly” thing to do by older generations. Reaching out to strangers for support can feel counterintuitive for someone inclined to withdraw and mourn alone.
“When I get the guys in there with GriefShare, it’s embarrassing for them to bring up and talk about these things,” Tim says. “You just gotta know that it’s OK, it’s all right, and it’s going to be tough. You are going to have to make some choices and lean into God and get out there and get some people you can talk with and do stuff with. Go for walks and get rid of that energy.”
There are resources available that can help. In a 2024 article titled “Facing Grief Head-On: A Guide for Older Men,” published by Encore Project, writer Bill Leighty offers some advice for senior men, including sharing their emotions to ease the pain of grief.
He encourages community support and social engagement, support groups, workshops focusing on emotional wellness, volunteering to connect with others and working with a counselor or therapist who understands grief in older adults.
“Healing is a slow process,” Bill writes, “but every step you take is important.” n
In 1989, while teaching at Western Kentucky University, David LaBelle wrote “Lessons in Death and Life,” about covering grief as a photojournalist. A few copies are still available from his website, DavidLaBelle.com, or through Amazon.
FROM LEFT: Nick Libby, 77, passes by a mirror in the hallway of the home he and his late wife, Annie, built. A photograph of Annie, his wife of 41 years, is in the background. PHOTO BY DAVE LABELLE Tim Thompson sits with grandson, Howard, his youngest daughter Katherine’s first son. PHOTO COURTESY OF TIM THOMPSON Bob Stirling, 74, lost his wife to cancer in 2019. PHOTO BY DAVE LABELLE
IN
A Taste of Greece EXPLORE
A RICH CULINARY HERITAGE
½ cup finely grated cucumber
1 cup whole-milk Greek yogurt
1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice
½ tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil
1 garlic clove, grated
¼ teaspoon sea salt
1 tablespoon chopped fresh dill
Place the cucumber on a towel, and gently squeeze out a bit of the excess water.
In a medium bowl, combine the cucumber, yogurt, lemon juice, olive oil, garlic, salt and dill. Chill until ready to use.
Tzatziki Sauce
Recipes by Gertrude Treadaway
ADOBE STOCK PHOTO BY LILECHKA75
Moussaka
Meat ragu
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
1½ pounds ground beef
1 large onion, minced
3 garlic cloves, minced
1 teaspoon ground nutmeg
1 teaspoon ground cumin
½ teaspoon ground cloves
Vegetables
2 large eggplants
3 large Yukon gold potatoes
Bechamel
4 cups whole milk, plus more if the sauce needs thinning
1 bay leaf
5 tablespoons butter
6 tablespoons all-purpose flour, plus more if the sauce needs thickening
½ teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 tablespoon tomato paste
1 cup red wine
15-ounce can crushed tomatoes
½ teaspoon sugar
Sea salt
1/3 cup extra-virgin olive oil
Sea salt
Freshly ground pepper
½ teaspoon ground nutmeg
3 egg yolks
1½ cup ParmigianoReggiano, grated and divided
To prepare the meat ragu, heat olive oil in a large, deep saucepan. Brown and crumble the ground beef. After it browns, add the onion, garlic, nutmeg, cumin, cloves and cinnamon.
Cook for a few minutes until the onion softens. Add the tomato paste, and stir. Cook for 2 to 3 minutes. Pour in the wine, and let the alcohol evaporate. Add the tomatoes and sugar. Simmer for 1 hour on low heat.
To prepare the vegetables, cut the eggplants into ⅓-inchthick slices. Sprinkle slices with sea salt. Place them in a colander to drain their liquids for 15 minutes. Pat dry the eggplants slices. Fry them in hot olive oil for 2 to 3 minutes. Transfer to wire rack, and set aside.
Cut potatoes into ¼-inch-thick slices. Fry the slices in hot olive oil for 1 to 2 minutes. Transfer to wire rack, and set aside.
Alternate layers of potatoes and eggplants in a greased 9-by-13-inch pan. Pour meat sauce evenly over the potatoes and eggplants.
Heat oven to 400 F.
To make the bechamel add milk and bay leaf to a saucepan. Warm it on medium heat.
Melt the butter in a large saucepan. Add flour. Cook while stirring with a wooden spoon until the roux takes on a slightly blond color.
Gradually pour in the warm milk. Using a whisk, stir continuously to dissolve any lumps and create a smooth sauce. Remove from heat. Season with salt, pepper and nutmeg. Add yolks and 1 cup grated cheese. Whisk until smooth.
Pour bechamel over the meat in an even layer. Sprinkle the remaining cheese on top.
Bake for 45 minutes or until the top is golden brown. Cool for 15 minutes before serving.
Chicken Souvlaki
10 garlic cloves, peeled
2 tablespoons dried oregano
1 teaspoon dried rosemary
1 teaspoon sweet paprika
1 teaspoon kosher salt
1 teaspoon black pepper
¼ cup extra-virgin olive oil
¼ cup dry white wine
Juice of 1 lemon
2½ pounds boneless skinless chicken breast, cut into 1½-inch pieces
2 bay leaves
Pita bread
Tzatziki sauce
Add garlic, oregano, rosemary, paprika, salt, pepper, olive oil, white wine and lemon juice to the bowl of a small food processor. Pulse until well combined.
Place chicken in a large bowl, and add bay leaves. Top with marinade. Toss to combine, making sure chicken is well-coated. Cover tightly. Refrigerate for at least 2 hours.
Soak 10 to 12 wooden skewers in water for 30 to 45 minutes. Thread marinated chicken pieces through the prepared skewers.
Prepare outdoor grill. Brush grates with a little oil, and heat over medium-high heat. Place chicken skewers on grill until well-browned and internal temperature registers 160 F.
Turn skewers evenly to cook on all sides, about 5 minutes. While grilling, brush lightly with the marinade. Discard any leftover marinade.
Serve with warm pita and tzatziki sauce.
Roasted Lemon Potatoes
Cooking spray
4 cloves garlic, coarsely chopped
½ cup freshly squeezed lemon juice
1/3 cup olive oil
¼ cup yellow mustard
Heat oven to 425 F.
2 teaspoons dried oregano
1 teaspoon kosher salt
Freshly ground black pepper
2 pounds Yukon Gold potatoes, cut into 1-inchthick wedges
½ cup water
Arrange a rack in the middle of the oven. Coat a 9-by-13-inch baking dish with cooking spray.
Place garlic in a large bowl. Add lemon juice, olive oil, yellow mustard, oregano, salt and several grinds of black pepper. Whisk to combine. Add potato wedges to the bowl, and toss to combine.
Pour mixture into the baking dish, and spread into an even layer. Pour water over the potatoes. Tightly cover the baking dish with aluminum foil.
Bake until the potatoes are fork tender, about 1 hour. Uncover. Continue to bake until the liquid is evaporated and the potatoes begin to brown, 15 to 20 minutes.
Books/Magazines
I have Special Interest Auto magazines complete from August 1990 to June 2004, when the title became Classic Car. I have all of the Classic Car magazines until the end of the magazine in February 2025. If anyone would like these, the only cost would be shipping or a trip to pick them up from me.
Stephen Aldrich 74 Nevada St. Redwood City, CA 94062 Stephenaldrich79@icloud.com
Crafts/Hobbies
My family participates in a special service project called Operation Christmas Child to send gift-filled shoeboxes to needy children around the world. Together with our church friends, we were able to pack almost 500 last year. We hope to do the same for 2025, so we are seeking donations of new child-friendly items to include (toys, school supplies, hand-sewn hats and clothing, etc.) for 2- to 14-yearold boys and girls to add a special touch to our shoebox gifts. Any items would be appreciated. Please send donated items by Nov. 1 to the address below.
Brittany Hargrove
704 Foster St. Cove, OR 97824
Milestones
A very dear friend and neighbor of ours celebrates her 99th birthday this month. She is amazing. She was the sole caretaker for her older sister until she died two years ago at 103. She walks her toy poodle, Daisy, every day for 30 minutes. If the weather is too extreme, she uses her treadmill to be sure she gets her exercise. She is kind and giving, has a strong faith and church family. She works in her yard and has colorful flowers blooming all summer. She would be surprised if she received birthday wishes from other readers outside our little community. Please send to Pauline Scott, 34218 Scott Road, Cottage Grove, OR 97424.
Melinda Drew Cottage Grove, Oregon
My mom, Mae, and her twin, Fae, celebrate their 88th birthday in mid-September. They have not celebrated their birthdays together since they were children. I was hoping you could send some cards, which we would use to decorate the hall where we are celebrating. You can address one card to both if you would like. All wishes appreciated. Send cards to Fae and Mae, P.O. Box 352, Cove, OR 97824.
L. Reddington Cove, Oregon
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Odds
Seeking phone interviews about boot camp experiences and/or graves registration service by Vietnam veterans for a novel in progress. Thanks in advance.
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Thanks
A simple thank you doesn’t seem like enough to give to all who sent birthday wishes to my father for his 94th birthday. He was so surprised to receive hundreds of cards, many with notes, letters and gifts. He would excitedly call us every day to tell us where each was from and what everyone wrote. Please know how grateful we are for all your acts of kindness.
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See spectacular rock formations in Nevada at
Valley of Fire State Park
What Is It?
Walk through a sea of sandstone and into history at Nevada’s Valley of Fire State Park. The more than 40,000-acre park northeast of Las Vegas is known for its rock formations, petrified trees and petroglyphs that are thousands of years old.
Petroglyphs
If you walk the .7-mile round-trip Mouse’s Tank Trail, you’ll come across some of the oldest evidence of human life in Valley of Fire State Park—petrogylphs made 2,500 years ago by people from the Basketmaker culture. The park’s visitor center—open daily from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m.—has more information about the area’s cultural and geological history.
Becoming a Park
In 1912, as part of Arrowhead Trail connecting Salt Lake City to Los Angeles, a road was built through the area. In the ’20s, a AAA official going through the area at sunset reportedly said the entire valley looked on fire, creating the area’s name. Roughly 8,500 acres of land were set aside and given to the state. In 1934, Valley of Fire opened as Nevada’s first state park.
How To See It
If driving through the park, Valley of Fire Scenic Byway lets passengers see rock formations, such as Arch Rock and Elephant Rock. Popular hikes include the moderate-difficulty, 1.1-mile round-trip White Domes Trail and the easy—albeit often sunlit and very hot—1.3-mile round-trip Fire Wave Trail.
Elephant Rock is one of Valley of Fire State Park’s most famous attractions. ADOBE STOCK PHOTO BY
More Information
Due to extreme summer heat, many of the park’s trails— including White Domes, Fire Wave and Natural Arches—are closed until at least Oct. 1. To find updated information on what is open and to start planning your trip, visit tinyurl.com/mr45u2fc or call 702-397-2088.
JON MANJEOT
U.S. residents hit Jackpot with ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls
Up for grabs for the next 21-days: Casino Rolls loaded with rarely seen American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins just like the old Casino Slots paid out, all coins are decades old and never to be minted again by the U.S. Gov’t
American Eagle
“It’s like hitting the jackpot on an old Vegas Slot Machine decades ago,” said Mary Ellen Withrow.
That’s because for the next 21 days everyone can get these rarely seen ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls, but only those who beat the 21-day order deadline.
These full 15 count ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls are filled with historic American Eagle Ike Large Dollar coins like the ones from 1976 and earlier that were used decades ago in slot machines in the world famous Casinos.
It’s amazing that these Old Vegas Casino Rolls are up for grabs. Just holding one in your hand reminds you of walking down the Vegas Strip in the glory days of Elvis, Dean Martin, Frank Sinatra, Sammy Davis Jr., Peter Lawford and Joey Bishop. It just makes you feel good.
“I’ll tell you this, it’s the best gift you could ever give someone. It’s actually the perfect gift for any occasion. Everyone you give one of these ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls to will never forget your generosity and they’ll be the envy of all who see them,” Withrow said.
“We’re bracing for thousands of U.S. residents who will be calling to get these ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls over the next 21 days. That’s because these rolls are not torn, faded, ripped or beat up. They are in brand-new pristine collector condition. And here’s the best part. These are full 15 count ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls loaded with the same American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins like the coins used to fill the world famous casino slot
has been imposed
machines decades ago, and there can never be any more so there’s no telling what they could one day be worth,” Withrow explained.
Today’s callers need to remember this. These are not ordinary rolls of coins you get at a bank or credit union. These ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls contain old American Eagle Ike Large Dollar coins commemorating the Rat Pack days of the early 1970’s when Las Vegas Casinos were all the rage. These rolls are now being released from the private vaults at the Lincoln Treasury, each with 15 U.S. Gov’t issued American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins dating back to 1976 and earlier. We won’t be surprised if thousands of people claim the six roll limit before they’re gone. That’s because after the rolls were
sealed with these U.S. Gov’t minted American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins, each verified to meet a minimum collector grade quality of very good or above, the dates and mint marks are unsearched to determine collector values and the rolls are now securely sealed. That means there’s no telling what’s in each roll.
“My advice, get as many as you can, stash them away in a safe place to pass down from generation to generation,” Withrow said.
“Just imagine how much these remaining ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls could be worth someday. The American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins alone are decades old and are never to be struck again by the U.S. Gov’t,” Withrow confirmed.
Withrow knows a thing
or two about money, she is retired 40th Treasurer of the United States of America and now is the Executive Advisor to the Lincoln Treasury.
All readers of today’s newspaper publication trying to be the first to get the Free Dollar Coin with every ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Roll just need to call the Hotline at 1-888-706-6528 and give the Promo Code IKE219 beginning at 8:30 am this morning. The TollFree Hotlines are expected to be overwhelmed. That’s why everyone hop-
ing to get their hands on these ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls are being urged to call right away. If lines are busy keep calling. All calls will be answered over the next 21 days.
Minted in Philadelphia, Denver and San Francisco featuring a majestic eagle swooping over the moon’s surface commemorating the original Lunar Landing.
VEGAS SLOTS: Shown above is a post card from the famous Dunes Casino. The hotel opened on the strip in 1955. Over the years, millions have flocked to the world famous Las Vegas Casinos like the Dunes hoping to hit the jackpot. Of course many hit big time, and now for the next 21-days everyone who calls will feel like a winner too. That’s because the last ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls filled with American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins like those that filled the “loose” Casino Slots decades ago are now actually being handed over to today’s callers who beat the 21-day deadline. the
Casino Roll Handout : Strict limit of 6 ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls per caller
American Eagle Ike Large Dollar
How to get the ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls:
The Call-In Hotlines open at 8:30am (EST) this morning. Callers who beat the 21-day Release deadline are guaranteed to get them for less than $6 per coin that’s only $77 for the full 15 count ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls loaded with decades old American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins. That’s the lowest price ever offered and a real steal for these one of a kind ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls. Important: if any remain after the 21-day deadline the price skyrockets to $255 per roll.
CALL TOLL-FREE: 1-888-706-6528 and mention promo code: IKE219. Or you can order by mail by writing “Casino Rolls” on a piece of paper with your name and full address with your remittance of $77 for a single roll (your choice of roll), or $231 for three rolls (Las Vegas Sign, Roulette, One Arm Bandit), or $462 for all six rolls and mail to: Lincoln Treasury, Promo Code: IKE219 PO Box 9971, Canton, OH 44711. You can also go online: LincolnTreasury.com/six and use promo code: IKE219 at checkout to claim the discount.
LAST CHANCE: You’ve heard the old saying, “When they’re gone, they’re gone”. That’s why today’s Public Release may be the best chance the public gets to own one of these ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls. And here’s the best part. The price is right, in fact it’s a steal for callers lucky enough to beat the 21-day deadline and get the ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls for less than $6 per coin.
FREE US GOVERNMENT ISSUED
LADY LIBERTY PRESIDENTIAL DOLLAR COIN WITH EVERY CASINO ROLL
With each Casino Roll, a US Gov’t issued Lady Liberty Presidential Dollar Coin is included FREE. These coins will also never be minted again. Your free Dollar Coin will come in uncirculated condition and protected in a capsule ensuring its safety and protection. When you get the maximum number of Casino Rolls, you’ll also get six of these beautiful presidential dollar coins while they last.
JACKPOT: It’s like hitting 777 on an old Vegas “one armed bandit”. That’s because the dates and mint marks of the 15 American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins from decades ago are now sealed away in each roll exclusively by the Lincoln Treasury so you never know what you might find. Call this toll-free hotline: 1-888-706-6528 and use promo code: IKE219. Choose from one roll, three rolls, or the maximum of all six rolls.
■ HOW MUCH ARE THE ‘OLD VEGAS’ CASINO ROLLS
WORTH: There’s no way to tell, but at less than $6 per coin you better believe they’re a real steal. That’s because the dates and mint marks of the U.S. Gov’t issued American Eagle Ike Large Dollar Coins are sealed away inside the 15 count ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls. Coin values always fluctuate and there are never any guarantees, but each ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Roll contains American Eagle Ike Large Dollar coins that are decades old. Any scarce coins, regardless of their value that you may find inside the sealed ‘Old Vegas’Casino Rolls are yours to keep. One thing that is known is these are the only ‘Old Vegas’ Casino Rolls known to exist and you can only get them by calling the toll-free line listed in today’s announcement.
NIKON D810, 180mm lens
ISO f/7.1100, at 1/500
By Dave LaBelle
As I age, I feel a far stronger affection for little children than I did when I was young.
I believe most people do.
Their beautiful, angelic little faces— usually unscarred by the hardships of life—melt us.
For me, there is something calming— even healing—watching children. I can slip into a somber or even unpleasant mood, and then I hear or watch children playing when they don’t think adults can see or hear them, and I am lifted out of myself and smile with gratitude.
I am reminded of a line from an old Tom T. Hall song, “Old Dogs and Children and Watermelon Wine,” that says, “God bless little children while they’re still too young to hate.”
Perhaps it’s because we travel through time and remember those carefree days of playing in creeks and catching frogs or riding our first pony. Maybe it’s because those beautiful, angelic little faces remind us of the fleeting days when our children
Shining Light
or grandchildren believed every story we told them.
For beginning photographers, especially students learning in photography programs, photographing children is easier and less scary than making pictures of adults. Recognizing this, I offered assignments in beginning classes built around photographing children to help shy students build confidence and not become discouraged before approaching adults.
However, as students grew confidence and ability to approach strangers, it was understood that making pictures of children at events was too easy, the low fruit of capturing storytelling pictures. They were expected to stretch their comfort zones and photograph all ages.
But lest we “throw out the baby with the bathwater,” as the old folks used to say, we should never forget or overlook the power and beauty of innocence found in the faces of children.
In an effort to capture profound pictures, we often overlook the obvious: Innocence is the greatest beauty of all. n
I made this photograph of a young rider backstage before the rodeo event. She put another cowboy’s hat on hers while awaiting her turn to saddle up and carry a flag during opening ceremonies.
Reader Challenge
Capture a child’s face while giving special attention to the eyes. As much as possible, fill the camera viewfinder with the face. Use a telephoto lens if you have one. Above all, be patient. Watch, become invisible, anticipate, always ready for those revealing moments. Always watch the light, the truly magical ingredient to most great photography.
Email your best image (just one, please) with caption information, including an explanation of how it affects you, to gph@pioneer.coop. We may share submissions on our website and social media channels.
Photographer, author and lecturer Dave LaBelle has captured special moments for more than half a century, sharing tips and life perspectives. For more of his writings, visit davidlabelle.com and his blog, bridgesandangels.wordpress.com.
MARKETPLACE
Agriculture
4x5 round bales, Meadow Foxtail orchard grass. 4x4 Timothy, small square. 208-435-4637 or 208-435-4002; nas@cpcinternet.com. 1225
Reinforced custom-sized pond liners (39 cents/sqft). Hay covers, greenhouse covers, any width and length. Truck tarps and more. High-puncture and tear strength. Best price guaranteed. Celebrating 44 years in business. www.btlliners.com. 541-447-0712. 0426
Antiques and Collectibles
Buying antiques and collectibles: advertising signs, porcelain signs, gas pumps, beer signs, antique toys, cast-iron coin banks, neon signs and more. Jason, tjabaughman@yahoo.com or 503-310-3321. 0925
Buying American Indian collectibles, Navajo jewelry, blankets, rugs. CA/AZ baskets and beadwork. Quality paintings of the early Southwest and Americas. Call 760-409-3117 or send photos to amer.ind.baskets@gmail.com. 1025
1950 Monarch piano. Good condition, dark finish. Upright, 45x56x24”. Becky, 541-676-5342 or evanslive@hotmail.com. 0925
Automotive
1984 Harley Davidson FLTC. Very good condition. One owner, extras. Interested? Call 208-267-7145. 0925
Well-preserved, street-legal 1953 Morris Minor sedan. Licensed, insured and carefully stored in Bandon, OR since 2001. Black, lefthand drive, red leather interior. Offers of more than $10K welcomed. Call or text 541-8081069. 0925
Utility van, Ford E-250, 2007. White, drives well, detailed. Shelving, electric inverter, roof ladder, new brakes, pads, wipers. For pictures: CL #7866483919. $13K OBO. 805-208-5420. 0925
1946 Chevy flatbed, original 6-cylinder engine, runs, body fully restored, unique wine barrel decor on flatbed, $25K OBO. Calls only, 208-816-0010. 0925
1973 Honda 125 SL trail bike. Bought in 1974 and have title. Very good condition, only 3,200 miles. Always garaged. Selling because of lack of use. Pictures available. $3K. 503-646-6588; trig.soleim@comcast.net. 0925
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$2.7K. 1966 Fairlane 500. 4-door 289-C-4. 1959 Ford 671; from museum like new. $2.2K. 52 A-C. W.D. $1.5K. 208-507-1211. Northern ID. Books, Magazines, Videos
Book restoration. Bibles, cookbooks, cherished family heirlooms. Beautiful work. We give renewed life, more durable than original, to last for generations. 775-537-7066; salacanstudio@gmail.com. 0925
Business Opportunities
For sale: quaint hardware store in Maupin, OR. Inventory and interior store recently updated and refreshed. See ad on Bizbuysell.com or email Maupincountrystore@gmail.com. $129K.
Community Events
Art Center East’s Inaugural Glass Open exhibit and “Cloud Cover” (artworks by Terri Rice). Sept. 5-Oct. 25. La Grande, OR. 541-624-2800; artcentereast.org. 0925
For Rent, Lease
Homes to rent in Burns, OR. 2,000 sqft., 4 bd, 2 ba. $1.5K per month. 700 sqft. $800 per month. Contact realtortallsteve@gmail.com or text 541-731-0317. 0925
Free Item
Free materials. When church/government unite, enforcing Sunday Law, the “Mark” of the “Beast” is here. Don’t be deceived, be informed. Leave mailing address only, TBSM, P.O. Box 374, Ellijay, GA 30540. 888-211-1715; tbsmads@yahoo.com. 1225AR
Miscellaneous
Granite cemetery markers at affordable prices. Will ship to most places. For more info: Joe, 541-815-8906 or highdesertmemorials.com; highdesertmemorials@gmail.com. 0925
Attention landowners. Grants available now. Wildland fire fuel reduction service. Steep ground, remote, rocky, small lot, big acreage, no problem. Blue Mountain Defensible Space LLC. Bluemountainbrush@gmail.com; Bluemountainbrush.com; 509-399-3473. 1025
Sheepskin slippers. Feather light and impossibly cozy. Handmade in OR, $155. softstarshoes.com/adult-fireside-slipper.html or call 541-753-5845. Free shipping. 1025
Pellet Stove-Quadra Fire Santa Fe, 700-1,900 sqft. Used 2 seasons. Great for house, mobile, rental. $1.8K. Starchaser987@yahoo.com; 541-419-7477.
Pets, Supplies
Fort Sage Kennels, closing. AKC-registered Airedales. Females, 1 year old. Males 2-3 years old. 530-827-2271 or 530-249-7896.
X-large metal dog crate with pad. Excellent condition. Used one month. Call 541-561-6506. 0925
Photography
3 Nikon digital cameras for sale. 509-896-2015; kittymomgale@gmail.com. 0925
Plants, Garden Supplies
Coral Charm and Red Charm peony roots available this fall from Flannigan Creek Flower Farm. Grow sturdy plants with large, double, fragrant blooms. lewiscasa@yahoo.com; 509-288-2564. 0925
Real Estate
Nice home on 7 acres in John Day. Fenced for animals. Large shop. $399K. Duke Warner Realty, 541-987-2363, ddwr@ortelco.net.
320 acres east of Adel, OR. Borders Hart Mountain views, Steens Mountain and Beaty Butte. Landowner tags, very rural. $179K. Quick sale, due to injury. For maps: 541-6591573; thejugglingman3@gmail.com. 0925
Let me help you buy or sell ranch, farm and recreation property in OR. Fourth-generation Oregonian, prior ranch owner. For sale: Klamath Marsh, OR. 173.65 acres. $2.5M. Guest Ranch Overlay. John Gill, 541-480-9161; johngill@landandwildlife.com. Land and Wildlife brokerage. 0925
Farmhouse. Two 149- and 560-sqft. houses, 2 barns, orchards, flowers on 3.9 acres, Bandon, OR. 3 miles from town, year-round artesian spring 25 GPM, $525K. jdlfox@hotmail.com; 541-551-1606. 0925
20 acres on Nehalem River with custom farmhouse in the Elsie/Jewell area of OR. Barn, pasture, fruit trees, new septic tank, 2,000-sqft. home. $749K. Windermere Realty Trust, Pam Birmingham, 503-791-4752.
2 lots Rosarito Beach in Baja California, Mexico. 100 sq. meters each. Ocean views, utilities ready. Paid street and lighting. Security guard at entrance. $33K each. 323-386-3613. 0925
Recreational Rentals
$275/night VRBO vacation rental. Only oneeighth of a mile from Lake Coeur d’Alene, ID. t.vrbo.io/EgtTnZc7HSb. 0925
Fun fall days available. Oceanfront cottage on the spectacular Central OR coast. Stunning views, sandy beach. Scoters, spindrift and seals. 2 bd and loft, all w/double beds. Now also booking for 2026. Rates and reservations: wavecatcherbeachrentals.com; relax@WaveCatcherbeachrentals.com, 541-740-9953 or 2846. 1025
Beautiful coastal mountain outdoor events venue on the Nehalem River. Off Highway 26 just 25 minutes from Seaside and 45 minutes from Portland, enclosed 30x60’ white tent, 20x24’ deck overlooking the Nehalem River and beautiful wilderness background. Book the weekend or by the hour with camping available. Schedule a tour today. 971-489-3960.
Luana Kai Resort in Kihei, Maui. 1-, 2- and 3-bd condos. Pickleball, tennis, pool, hot tub, saunas, gas BBQ grills. luanakai.com; 808-879-1268.
Deeded timeshare. 2-bd unit, large deck overlooking golf. Week 32. Stoneridge Recreational Club, 150 Holiday Loop Blanchard, ID 83804. $4.8K. Jeanette Williams, 509-830-2299. 0925
$185 now $150. Maui, HI. Ocean view. Kingsize bed. Restaurant next door. Available Sept. 1-Oct. 30. 503-812-6689. 0925
Recreational Vehicles
1980 VW Vanagon orange camper, runs, very good condition, low mileage. $28K OBO 971-241-0411 in Tillamook, OR. 0925
1999 Newmar Dutch Star 38’ RV. Diesel. 3126B Catepillar engine. Freightliner chasis. One slide. Good condition. 95K miles. $18K. 530-616-0388.
Resorts, Camps, Tours, Lodges
Cruises: Alaska, Caribbean, Mediterranean, Panama Canal, Hawaii and more. River cruises, safaris, resorts. UdoU Travel LLC: www.udoutravelllc.com, 541-256-0100, cindygreenup@gmail.com. 1125 Services
Dawn Till Dusk Masonry. Brick, block, stone and pavers. Small jobs and repairs welcome. dawntillduskconstructionmasonry.com. 541-388-7605, 541-410-6945. License #245760 bonded and insured. La Pine, OR. 0226
Blue Mountain Defensible Space LLC Wildfire Fuel Reduction: clearing brush, thinning trees, animal habitat enhancement. Expert service. Grant money available OR, WA, ID. Bluemountainbrush@gmail.com, 509-399-3473; Bluemountainbrush.com. 0126
Want to Buy
Old carpenter tools, planes (wood/metal), levels, chisels, slicks, adzes, axes, hatchets, handsaws, old rulers, spoke shaves, wrenches, shipwright tools, old tool chests. 503-659-0009, 971-666-0659. 0925
Gold, silver, coins/currency, buy, sell. Collections wanted. Fair prices paid. 44 years in retail store. Baker City, OR. 800-556-2133, garrymclin@aol.com. 1025
Buying American Indian collectibles, Navajo jewelry, blankets, rugs. CA/ AZ baskets and beadwork. Quality paintings of the early Southwest and Americas. Call 760-409-3117 or send photos to amer.ind.baskets@gmail.com.
Cash paid for old gas station and oil company signs, pumps, globes, metal oil cans. Good condition. Discreet cash settlement. Clifton Jones, collector. 512-413-4459. 1225
Benton REA Sends Students on a D.C. Journey of History, Friendship and Fun
Benton REA proudly sponsored two outstanding local students, Iris Deng and Samantha Jimenez, to represent our community at the 2025 Electric Cooperative Youth Tour in Washington, D.C.
Alongside hundreds of students from across the country, Iris and Samantha spent a week exploring our nation’s capital, building friendships and learning about American history and government.
For Iris, one of the most unforgettable moments was her very first cruise on the Potomac River.
“I not only enjoyed a breathtaking view with the sunset and historical monuments in the background, but it was also an amazing opportunity to meet and connect with other students from various states,” Iris says. “We also got into a fierce pin trading challenge.”
Another highlight was visiting The People’s House: White House Experience, where she had fun hiding under the president’s desk for a photo.
Samantha’s favorite part of the trip was the people she met along the way.
“I truly loved exploring D.C. with all of my new friends, and I will forever cherish our memories together,” she says. “Every day
brought new sights, new lessons and new connections.”
The students’ itinerary was packed with museums, monuments and historic sites. Iris and Samantha visited the Library of Congress, the National Archives, the Holocaust Museum, the Lincoln Memorial, Ford’s Theater, Mount Vernon and more. Samantha especially enjoyed reading and viewing original historical documents, including the Declaration of Independence and the United States Constitution.
Both students reflected on how these visits deepened their appreciation for our nation’s history.
“The most valuable thing I learned was how to cherish and appreciate the amount of amazing history our beautiful country has,” Samantha says.
Iris added that stepping out of her comfort zone to attend Youth Tour turned out to be the best decision she could have made.
“Perhaps the most valuable thing I learned was to work up some courage and take opportunities despite how terrifying they may seem at first,” she says. “You might just make a once-in-alifetime memory.”
Traveling with strangers quickly turned into forming bonds that felt like family. The Washington delegation was paired with students from Florida. By the end of the week, Iris described their group as a “makeshift family” full of laughter, stories and then heartfelt goodbyes. Samantha agreed, saying the experience was “a blessing in disguise” that taught her the value of stepping out of her comfort zone.
For both Iris and Samantha, the 2025 Youth Tour was more than just a trip—it was a week of growth, discovery and connection.
Benton REA is proud to support opportunities like the Youth Tour that invest in our youth and empower the next generation of leaders. n
Want to Join the Next Youth Tour?
Benton REA will begin accepting applications this fall. For more information, visit BentonREA.org/youth-programs.
Nature surprises us through sunsets, picturesque landscapes and even by friendly wildlife visits to your backyard.
“I couldn’t resist, so I pulled over to snap a quick pic,” Keenan Webber says after taking in the sunrise on his way to work.
To submit your photo, email a JPEG to photos@pioneer.coop. Include “Before You Go” in the subject line and share a bit about what inspired you to make your photo. n
Brady
Redwine and his wife, Melissa
view
sunrise. PHOTO BY KEENAN WEBBER
SpiritualityMee
“I never expected it to be so beautiful that it takes your breath away.”
— Kaya C., on Stauer Opals
In a quaint village, nestled between rolling hills, lived a young woman with a deep appreciation for gemstones. Her grandmother gifted her a delicate cross pendant adorned with opals. The opals shimmered with a mesmerizing play of colors, reflecting hues of blues, greens, and fiery oranges. Her grandmother shared the legend of the opals, believed to bring hope, purity, and luck to those who wore them.
Using this story as inspiration, Stauer brings you the Opal Spirit Cross Pendant. With over 2 total carats of Kyocera lab-created opals set in .925 sterling silver encased in yellow gold, this pendant is a radiant celebration of beauty and craftsmanship. Each opal captivates with a kaleidoscopic dance of fiery oranges blending into oceanic blues, streaked with flashes of vibrant green that seem to come alive with every movement. The shimmering opals are skillfully arranged to create an enchanting, otherworldly glow, embodying the spirit of hope and harmony.
This breathtaking combination of color and craftsmanship is available as a limited availability of only
930 pieces, making it a rare and treasured addition to your jewelry collection. Plus, when you order today, you’ll receive the gold-finished sterling silver chain—a $69 value—absolutely free! Don’t miss your chance to own this exclusive tribute to timeless elegance and meaningful symbolism.
Necklace Specifications:
• 2 1/2 ctw. Kyocera lab opals and DiamondAura® accents
The board of trustees meet the last Wednesday of each month at 6 p.m. unless otherwise scheduled.
The board agenda for the upcoming meeting is available to members upon request no earlier than six days prior to the board meeting. Minutes of prior board meetings are available to members upon request. To request board agendas or minutes, visit a Benton REA office, call 509-781-6719 or email priorityrequests@bentonrea.org.
Management Staff
Ryan J. Redmond, CEO
Troy L. Berglund, Deputy General Manager and VP of Member Experience
Andrew Gould, VP of Engineering/COO
Justin Waldron, VP of Support Services/CFO
Investing in Safety and Our Future Leaders
At Benton REA, our mission extends beyond delivering reliable electricity—we’re committed to protecting our communities and investing in the next generation. I’m proud to share two exciting examples that demonstrate both priorities in action.
First, we’re thrilled to announce that $1 million for Benton REA’s Wildfire Resilience Project has been included in the 2025–2027 Washington State Capital Budget. This critical funding will help us replace aging oil circuit reclosers with modern vacuum circuit reclosers, significantly reducing wildfire risks while improving service reliability for our members. These upgrades will allow for faster and more precise grid management, fewer outages and safer operations. We’re grateful to Sen. Matt Boehnke and Rep. Stephanie Barnard for their leadership in securing this funding, and to the Washington State Legislature for recognizing the importance of strengthening the electric system our communities depend on. By leveraging state funds, we can make important system upgrades while easing the financial burden on our members.
Second, Benton REA proudly sponsored two outstanding local students, Iris Deng and Samantha Jimenez, to attend the 2025 Electric Cooperative Youth Tour in Washington, D.C. Alongside peers from across the nation, they explored museums, monuments, and historic sites, while forming new friendships and learning valuable lessons about history, leadership and courage. Both Iris and Samantha shared that stepping out of their comfort zones led to unforgettable experiences—from touring the White House to bonding with their delegation. Their journey was more than sightseeing; it was a week of growth, discovery and connection.
Together, these examples highlight what Benton REA stands for—investing in the resilience of our electric system today and in the leaders of tomorrow. We’re honored to serve our members and our community in ways that make a lasting impact.
