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HAPPY HOLIDAYS FROM THE FOUNDERS!
GIVE LOVE!
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FOUNDER’S NOTE: Thank you for supporting the Urban Parenting Movement KICK SANTA to the Curbthe best gifts come from Mom & Dad! TO CHOP or not to chop? Maintaing your family’s natural mane
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LUXURY GIFT must haves that make sense and will leave the receiver in a state of, “WOW”!
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THE PERFECT Gift for Single Moms... and a physical gift is NOT the answer!
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PARENTING MAKEOVERS:
Resolutions to inspire and empower your parenting style
MAKE NEW memories and create different traditions for your family NEW YEAR, new you! Learn to lead by example and set a standard of greatness for your children
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Published 11 times a year by Urban Parenting Magazine LLC., in West Palm Beach, FL. Editorial submissions and reader correspondence are welcome. We reserve the right to edit, reject or comment on any material submitted. We are not responsible for the return of unsolicited material. Urban Parenting Magazine is available online and at numerous locations within diverse communities free of charge. Publication and distribution of the magazine does not constitute an endorsement of information, products or services. The publisher reserves the right to reject any advertisement or listing which is not in keeping with the magazine’s standards. Copyright 2013. All rights reserved. Any reproduction in whole or in part is prohibited without written permission.
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Editor-in-Chief Debbie Manigat Founded by Wilson and Debbie Manigat in 2013
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We Thank You!!! Thank you. This Holiday Season, on behalf of Urban Parenting Magazine, we just want to thank all of YOU! You are truly family to us and we value you as our readers. This journey has been extremely trying for us as a new organization. Our team is very passionate about uplifting families, but we are also familyso we have sacrificed a lot to get to this point. There have been many long nights, family arguments, celebrations, disagreements, triumphs... and the journey continues. In just six months we’ve gone from 3,000 page views a month to over 94,000. We have over 14,000 Facebook fans, over 1,400 Twitter followers, and we continue to grow from your support. Words cannot express how grateful we are to share, guide, and empower families with you. You have made us who we are today. Urban Parenting started off as a small, local lifestyle magazine aimed at entertaining and uplifting diverse parents. Today we have evolved into a national family brand and movement focused on challenging negative stereotypes and images of the black family in media, increasing awareness of family cohesiveness and child development, and promoting educational advancement through our “Read UP” campaign. Every day, we strive to provide hard working parents practical answers, exclusive access to prizes, and a safe community to expand the conversation on parenting today. This is just the beginning and we genuinely just want to say- Thank You! Happy Holidays,
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Christmas Shopping for the Kids...
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hristmas is a truly magical season that is enjoyed by many but no one enjoys the Christmas season more than kids. It might be the prospect of some well deserved time off from school, the allure of the lights and decorations, the beauty of the snow that often accompanies Christmas or just the anticipation of Santa and his sleigh filled with toys that is so exciting for children. Most kids are truly enchanted by Christmas and for thisreason many adults truly enjoy shopping for kids during Christmas time. While shopping for kids is a great deal of fun there are some factors to consider when Christmas shopping for kids. A few of the specific concerns include selecting age appropriate toys, selecting toys which are not too noisy or too big for the childís living situation, It is also important to consider the personal beliefs of the parents when shopping for Christmas gifts, selecting toys which the parents consider to be acceptable and finally selecting toys the child will enjoy. PAGE
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This can make Christmas shopping for kids a little more difficult but does not make the shopping any less fun. Selecting age appropriate toys is very important when Christmas shopping for kids. This is so important for a couple of reasons. First of all it is important because toys which are designed for older children might be potentially dangerous for the child. For example toys which are designed for children over the age of three may contain small pieces which pose a choking hazard. Children under the age of three still often put toys and other objects in their mouths so they must receive toys which contain only pieces large enough to not be a choking hazard. enough to not be a choking hazard. Also, toys which are designed for an older child or even a younger child may not be as much fun for the child as they would be for children of the appropriate age.
If the child is too young for the toy, they may be come easily frustrated because they can not use the toy appropriately. Conversely a child who is too old for a particular toy may become bored with the toy quickly. When shopping for Christmas gifts for a child, it is also important to consider the childís parents and the living situation. This includes the size of the living area and the proximity to neighbors. Specifically toys which are particularly noisy may not be appropriate for a child who lives in an apartment building with other apartment units nearby. Also, large toys such as a trampoline may not be appropriate for a child who does not have a yard large enough to accommodate such a gift. Similarly large indoor items such as a foosball table would not be appropriate for a child who does not have a dedicated toy room to accommodate such a large item. As a general rule it is best to stick with small items which do not make a great deal of noise when Christmas shopping for kids. It is also important to consider the personal beliefs of the parents when shopping for Christmas gifts for their children. Specifically you should not purchase an item for a child if you know their parents are ethically opposed to such as item. Guns and violent video games are a couple of obvious example of Christmas gifts which may offend the parents. There are many parents who do not allow their children to play with these items because they believe they promote violence. If you are not sure about the feelings of the parents, it is best not to select these items. Finally, when Christmas shopping for a child, it is wise to consult the parents beforehand. This can be helpful for a couple of different reasons. First the parents can give some insight into the childís hobbies and interests which may make selecting a gift easier. They may even suggest a specific item from the childís Christmas list ensuring you are giving the child something he really wants for Christmas. Consulting the parents can also prevent you from giving the child a gift he already has. Try calling the parents before you make a purchase to suggest a particular item. They can let you know if they think the child will enjoy the item or if the child already has the item.
To Chop
or Not to Chop? By Alexandra Jolly
With an influx of natural hair blogs, videos, tutorials and products the natural hair transition can definetly be daunting. Where do you start, what works for YOU? It’s time to return to your roots!
Natural Hair Transitioning The Right Way!
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ave you ever walked by a natural-haired woman and said „ that looks good on her, but that could never be me! My hair could never look like that.” A lot of now natural women started there. Due to the media and society, natural hair was looked at as being taboo, not beautiful, and unaccepted in the professional world. One of the key concepts to embracing natural hair is realizing that you are „returning natural”, which is the state we were all born ,not „going natural”, which is often the term women use when they are deciding to let go of the „creamy crack”, also known as the enemy of the natural woman, the perm. After so many years of having permed hair, to the point that you don’t even remember what your unprocessed hair looks like, one can feel lost and confused about how to take care of this foreign object on their head, also known as your new and exciting journey of returning to your roots, literally, of natural hair. I have compiled a list of fundamental principals to live by to facilitate the sometimes scary process of transitioning. I call them the 8 wonders of the natural hair world.
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Feature 1) Seems like you’re ready! We know this phrase from the infamous R.Kelly song, but this is where your journey begins. Whether you are transitioning, or you decide to just big chop right when you get the itch to do it, you have to be sure that you are ready to make this change. This assurance will determine how ambitious you are to reach whatever goal you wish to attain. Often times women get jealous when they see other women who have a different texture or longer length. Be ready for awesomee hair days, and days when your hair is not going to do what you want it to do. Either way, be patient, buckle up, and be ready for this natural hair rollercoaster. 2) The more protective you are with your hair, the healthier your hair will be. Protect your hair as much as you possibly can. For those who are constantly on the go, protective styles will be your best friend. Depending on the style, and if additional weave is added, these styles can last as long as you want them to. Braids, twists, up-do’s are some great protective styles especially if life gets crazy and there can’t be time alloted for hair care. When transitioning, you are dealing with two hair textures, the new growth coming in, and the permed ends. The most fragile part of your hairstrand while transitioning is where the relaxed and natural hair meet, as this is where the hair is likely to break off. While transitioning, treat your hair as if it is all natural. It will facilitate the process when you chop off the relaxed ends. 3) Heat usage Minimize the amount of heat you apply to your hair. But if heat is applied, use a heat protector when using styling tools such as flat irons, curling irons, and blow dryers. Heat protectors usually come in the form of a serum, spray, or cream- just to name a few. 4) Know what your hair likes. Be attentive to what your hair gravitates toward. Some people’s hair likes water, others don’t. Some peoples hair clings to cream moisturizers, some likes oils. When you figure out what your hair likes, stick to it! A consistent regimen will show you if the products you are using are effective and if what you are doing is working for your hair. 5) So fresh and so clean! Outkast used this line in their song to demonstrate them dressing fresh, but our scalp needs this also. Although you won’t use shampoo as often as before, it is important to keep your scalp clean. Be sure to use sulfate free shampoo, as shampoo may strip the hair of its natural oils and moisture.
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This allows the pores to be clear and open, and allows the hair follicles clean space to grow and be stimulated. 6) Moisturize! Keep your hair moisturized at all times. This is what your hair needs to thrive. As relaxed women, we ran from water. Water is now your friend! It is important to spray your hair with water when it feels dry, and seal your ends with a moisturizer. The use of an essential oil of your liking, such as sunflower oil, tea tree oil, or coconut oil can be useful in the moisturizing process to simulate your scalp, but not used to seal in moisture. Co-washing, only using conditioner to wash your hair, is another way to preserve the moisture in your hair. 7) Keep your ends healthy Keeping the ends of your hair healthy is critical in retaining length. A lot of women are scared of the scissors, but a trim once in a while to remove the dead hair is actually beneficial for maintaning healthy hair. Sealing your ends at night is also an important factor to maintaining your hair. 8) Experiment and enjoy! Don’t be afraid! Try new things with your hair. Try different products until you find the one that works the best with your hair. What your natural friend uses may not be what you necessarily need to use. Different strokes for different folks ladies! Different hair textures like different things. Be patient with your hair. Don’t be upset when a style doesn’t come out the way you wanted it to. Let your hands do the work! Be sure to give your hair the tender loving care it deserves. We want it to do what we demand it to do, we have to reciprocate this love to our hair. Love your hair and it will love you back! Are you a natural family? Share your natural hair journey with us, e-mail info@UrbanParentingMagazine.com. You could be featured in our next magazine! PAGE
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9 Affordable Luxury Gifts It’s possible to treat everyone on your list to a luxury gift without spending a fortune. You just have to know where to find great deals on luxury gifts and how to fit luxury gifts into your budget. If you canít afford to give an entire designer ensemble, opt for a less expensive accessory. Instead of a mink coat, try mink fur-trimmed gloves. A trip to a day spa, instead of an all-out spa vacation. You get the idea. How do you define a luxury gift? Webster defines a luxury as (1) something adding to pleasure or comfort but not absolutely necessary (2) an indulgence in something that provides pleasure, satisfaction, or ease. So you see, it isn’t always about the price. A luxury gift can be anything that a person doesn’t find absolutely necessary and probably wouldn’t buy for himself/herself but would love to receive. Itís a special treat. Here are several affordable luxury gifts that are sure to please: Jewelry and Watches A piece of fine jewelry or a designer watch are always welcome gifts but may not be in your budget; especially if you have a long gift list. Thereís still a way to get the glitz for much less than retail. Swarovski crystal is a great alternative to diamonds. PAGE
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Or, you could always visit online discount sites if you prefer the real thing. I recently found a Raymond Weil ladies watch for 35% off retail. Iíve also seen substantial discounts on premium designer jewelry and watches on auction sites. Soothe Mind and Body Is someone on your gift list stressed out? Treat him or her to a spa service such as a massage, manicure, pedicure or facial by giving a gift certificate. These services cost much less than a full spa day and the recipient will still feel pampered. Bath and Fragrant Products This happens to be my absolute favorite when it comes to indulgences. High end soaps, shower gels and bubble bath are richer and more luxuriant than the lower end versions. They also last longer and smell better. I love Bath and Body Works products (especially the new Tutti Dolci Apple Torta line). Cashmere There’s just something about cashmere that says luxury. Maybe it’s the feeling of having this ultra-soft wool next to your skin. If your budget wonít allow for a sweater or robe, try less expensive items like scarves, gloves and hats..
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Silk You can find affordable gifts in this luxurious fabric at online discount sites as well. The prices at these sites are so reasonable, that you could spring for silk pajamas without breaking the bank. You could always opt for silk scarves, pashminas or ties. Fine Foods Gourmet gifts are great for the person who has everything because theyíre consumable. Gourmet foods are generally made of the finest and rarest ingredients and run the gamut from caviar, and lobster to Belgian chocolates. Although some of your recipients wouldnít dream of paying for these gourmet delicacies, theyíll be glad you did (or at least they’ll think you did). You can impress for less by visiting igourmet.com
If someone on your gift list would rather prepare their own gourmet meals, why not arm them with state-of-the-art cookware or utensils. Itís not difficult to find top brands such as All-Clad, Cuisinart, KitchenAid and Le Creuset at savings of up to 70%. Luxury Bedding Someone who thinks that all sheets are created equal hasnít slept on sheets with a thread count above 400. If you want to give someone a luxurious nightís sleep, try sheets with a thread count of 600 or higher. Iíve found a 1,000 thread-count queen sheet set for $179.00 online ñ 62% off the retail price. Maid Service Wouldn’t you feel pampered if someone else handled the house cleaning for you? Give your friend or family member a gift certificate from Merry Maids or Maid Brigade and relieve the recipient of the burden of house cleaning. Service can be scheduled through the companies’ local offices. House cleaning gift certificates are available in amounts of $100 and higher. PAGE
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The Perfect Gift for Single Mothers? “...what are the perfect gifts for single mom’s? Many times it is simple as just taking some of the stress and pressure off.” Single moms, like the rest of us, enjoy receiving gifts. Whether it is Christmas, a birthday, Mother’s Day, or a gift as a token of love, gifts have a special place in their lives. Some of them might joy musical gifts such as ballerina music boxes, musical jewelry boxes, wooden keepsake boxes, and other music boxes. However, not just any type of gift will do! They are certain types of gifts that single moms will appreciate more than others. Let’s discover what they are. First, here is what to avoid: purchasing hats, scarves, expensive bottles of perfume, and other pricey items unless they are items she truly desires. Some people think these types of gifts will be greatly appreciated since she could not afford them herself. For the most part, this is not the case. Most single moms will, of course, be gracious. However, in their heads they likely are thinking, “I could have used the money it cost for this gift to pay my car payment or get my car fixed!” Seriously, what are the perfect gifts for single mom’s? Many times it is simple as just taking some of the stress and pressure off. They need someone to take the kids for a few days so they can rest, nap, get a manicure, or spend time with a girlfriend.
What would really make her happy is for someone to pay her electric bill for one month. What would make her smile is to give her a babysitting coupon for a few Saturday nights. She really would like to relax and have special mom time by someone taking the kids for a day or weekend. These types of thoughtful gifts are what single moms love. If a single mom has participated in activities that would invoke special memories with family and friends, and there are lots of pictures that have been taken, gifts such as a scrapbook of memories, or a video of these special events would also bring a smile to her face. If you have a number of single mom’s for friends, you’ll notice a common thread. They may not need help and would not ask, but if help is received, it would mean so much to them. So, instead of giving expensive and pretty gifts, thoughtfully think about what would make life just a little easier... What would take some of the pressure off and bring relief? These types of gifts are the perfect gifts for single moms!
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15 New Years Resolutions Have you made your usual New Year resolutions? You know the resolutions where you turn over a new leaf to get fit, steer away from junk food and start a savings plan. While you are reflecting on past bad habits and setting new directions for your personal life consider taking stock of your parenting as well. A word of warning -- you will probably feel a little inadequate as you look back on some of your past practices. If you are like most parents you nag your kids too much, over-react when they mess up and you probably regret not spending enough time with them. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Not only is parenting the world’s hardest job but children arenít born with owner’s manuals so we tend to rely on trial and error a great deal. As you ponder the next twelve months of parenthood here are 15 New Year’s resolutions to consider. Again, warning, avoid trying to adopt every idea. Be realistic and choose one or two to add to your list of New Year’s resolutions.
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3. Focus on children’s positive behaviors. If you find yourself continually pointing out your children’s misbehavior
this goal or it will end up on the scrap heap of broken resolutions. Aim to have at least one shared mealtime each week or spend one weekend a month devoted purely to family purposes. 6. Give yourself a regular break. Don’t be a slave to your family. Taking time out to do something just
Avoid trying to adopt every idea. Be realistic and choose one or two to add to your list of New Yearís resolutions.
1. Be consistent with your discipline. This is a big ask as dealing with kids’ misbehavior tests the patience and resolve of the even the most assured parents. Set consistent limits and boundaries, even for adolescents, and be willing to negotiate and give a little ground. When children refuse to cooperate or break the rules, act calmly and reasonably rather than resort to severe measures to teach them a lesson. 2. Avoid nagging, yelling and constantly reminding children to cooperate. Sometimes it is better to keep quiet than nag or remind children to do their chores, behave or just be reasonable human beings. It is no coincidence that parents who nag frequently complain of ëdeafí children. There is usually nothing wrong with childrenís hearing. They simply listen to what they want to hear.
and getting nowhere then try to ignore the inappropriate as much as possible. Get into the habit of ëcatching kids being good. Like adults, children respond to favorable comments and are likely to adopt behaviors that gain them attention. 4. Encourage children persistently. It has been estimated that children hear 17 negative comments at home for every piece of praise or encouragement. Exposure to continuous criticism and negative comments can have disastrous effects on children’s self esteem. If you are not an encouraging person then linking your positive comments to something you normally do such as saying good night to your children. Then you will know that you have encouraged them at least once each day. That’s a good start. 5. Spend more time together as a family. In an era of working parents and busy children finding time for everyone to be home together is increasingly difficult. Be specific with
for yourself is a necessity rather than a luxury. Revise your household routine, solicit the help of your partner or relatives, or employ a baby-sitter to provide you with some time-off. 7. Plan some time to be with your partner. Whether it is a romantic weekend away or just meeting for coffee together once a week make sure you have an opportunity to spend time with your partner - and don’t talk about the kids. 8. Make guilt work for you. Let’s face it, parents can find plenty of issues to feel guilty about. Leaving children in child-care, long hours spent at work, and even discipline measures are common sources of guilt. Avoid easing your guilt by being too lenient, spoiling or indulging children with toys or other material possessions. Guilt can be beneficial though; if it reminds you to take time off work to attend a childís school play children or prompts you to hire some domestic help to create more family time. 9. Make a plan to survive those difficult times. Only television families are free of manic times of the day. Mealtime mayhem, morning madness and bedtime battles PAGE are common in many families.
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Identify your difficult time of the day and get super organized and be willing to make yourself scarce if children make unnecessary demands on you at these times.
To be fair, computers have more educational potential than the television but children predominantly use them for games, unless they receive assistance and direction from parents. Pull up a chair and join in rather than leave children to their own devices whenever they hit a computer.
10. Stay out of children’s fights. Brawling siblings disturb the peace so it is difficult for parents not to become involved. Chances are you either plead for peace and quiet, make a ruling to end the dispute, or take sides to lay blame on the child who caused the infraction. If you are tired of interfering in childrenís battles then leave it up to them to resolve. When your children begin to bicker beat it to another part of the house or boot them outside until they have finished.
13. Avoid giving into temper tantrums. Do you give in when your toddler throws himself on his back in the supermarket and thrashes about like a crab? Do you throw your hands up in despair if your teenager stomps off to her bedroom slamming the door behind her when she doesn’t get her own way? Tantrums are a potent form of emotional blackmail designed to coerce parents to give in to children’s demands. Next time your child throws a major wobbly remove yourself and refuse to give in to such tactics.
11. Control that television set. If the television is continually on in your house then it is time to establish some tight limits for viewing. Five to eight hours per week is a reasonable guideline for children of most ages. Have a television-free night and let children sample other forms of entertainment.
14. Avoid the “good” parent syndrome. Good parents protect children from many of life’s difficulties and rob them of opportunities to develop independence and responsibility. They take forgotten lunches to school, pay fines for their children’s overdue library books and believe that chores are for parents rather than children. If this sounds familiar let children take more responsibility for their own actions in the coming year. 15. Keep misbehavior in perspective. You probably think at times that your children or teenagers are the world’s worst or that no one else acts up like them. Think again. If your child misbehaves the chances are that he or she is no trailblazer. Many others mess up too. That is little comfort, however, if you have to put up with difficult kids day in and day out. Regardless of how hard things become try to focus on their positive behaviours and work hard to maintain your relationship even if it appears that the effort is all one way. Your persistence will pay off in the long run.
12. Check your children’s computer usage. Computers are rapidly For more great ideas from Urban Parenting to help you raise confident kids replacing the television as the electronic and resilient young people subscribe to Urban Parenting Magazine for our baby-sitter in many families. monthly email newsletter. Just visit: PAGE www.UrbanParentingMagazine.com
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Change it up & Create New Memories Today The jolly festive season is upon us once again, Christmas a time for happiness, turkey, mulled wine and crackers. These are just some of the traditions that are upheld at this time of year by people who on Christmas day celebrate the birth of our Lord. Following this big day we then have the task of putting into force our new year’s resolutions just so we can break them, just another tradition where vows and promises are made. Traditions are there for the benefit of remembrance, you have the person that abides by the PAGE
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rules and then you have others that intend to do things a little different. Whoever or whatever sort of person you are- tradition is tradition. By replacing turkey with a plate of pig’s trotters on the Christmas menu is another Christmas tradition broken. Remember to be extra careful who you invite on the day for dinner if porky’s feet are dish of the day. A Christmas Idea A fantastic way to keep family togetherness for ever for generations to come when bearing gifts to loved ones is to give each member an identical piece
of jewelery symbolizing unity. It is a fabulous way of bonding and proving to the world that blood is thicker than water. Let us go back in time where African tribal markings denoted the community you belonged too. Cherokee indians expressed their tribal identities by headwear or other colourful symbols. So why not bring your tribe/ community together with there own identities in the form of a piece of gold or silver. Make your new year’s resolution today and go in search of the symbol that will be recognized and passed down to future
generations, by doing this another tradition is broken, but if it brings happiness, what the heck. Unison prevails in the form of your own jewelery trade mark where your chosen symbol ring/chain sends a message to the world that this family would proudly like to say, united we stand. Jewelery gifts can be made extra special by designing your own. Jewelers can take your ideas and work miracles with them as in putting you and your family on the map with your own trademark. So remix your Christmas and tweet us @UrbanParentMag what worked for your family.
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New Year, New You: Becoming a Better Parent Parenting is a learn as you go process, but some mistakes are more costly than others. Look over the following important tips for parents and see where you stand before going any further with your own kids. 1. Know you are being watched. No matter what you think of yourself, your kids look up to you and take your lead. For example if you smoke, they’ll likely want to pick up the habit as well. If every other word out of your mouth is a naughty one, expect the same in them. Hold yourself to the same expectations you hold for them and let your actions speak louder than your words because they are far more likely to do as you do and not as you say. 2. Don’t limit the love. Even when your kids misbehave or repeatedly test your patience, they need to know you love them. No matter how difficult it becomes to manage them and keep civility in the home, the love you have for them must be abundantly clear at all times. Don’t let them equate disapproval with a lack of love as this will push them further away from you and the essential bonds with family. 3. Be actively involved in your child’s life. No matter how busy you are or how weird your kid’s friends seem, get to know them. Talk to them and find out about them from other parents and school sources. Listen to what teachers and siblings say about the people your child socializes with as peer pressure can seriously challenge your parental authority. Accept individuality in clothing, music and hairstyles, but don’t compromise the family’s moral core when it comes to friends and PAGE acquaintances.
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4. Evolve as your child ages. It’s typical to keep hovering over your kids and making all their decisions for them, but it’s not as healthy for them as you might think. Despite your knowledge and good intentions, they need to learn for themselves and grow as individuals; learn to let go in stages as your child demonstrates responsibility and self-governorship. 5. Live by set rules. Consistency is key in parenting and it’s vital that you explain the rules and repeat them as necessary. Post them on the fridge and discuss them at the dinner table. Make sure everyone is clear on what is expected of them and that they know why these rules are established. Don’t deviate from one child to another or change your mind based on your mood. 6. Never discipline with violence. No matter how angry you get, understand that violence can permanently damage your child and rarely accomplishes anything else. You will teach your kids that violence is acceptable and they will employ it elsewhere, probably getting into more trouble in the process. Kids that are hit or constantly screamed at develop serious anxiety, self-esteem and other issues that haunt and hinder them forever. 7. Be accountable to your children. Although you don’t need to explain every decision you make to them, it’s important that you are able to justify rules and demonstrate their significance in real life. When they ask you “Why?” be ready with a logical explanation that helps them understand your position and the benefits it holds for them. What you do now as a parent will influence your children forever and no parent wants to mess that up! Recognize your strengths and weaknesses and get better as you go along!
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