Modern Mama Calgary Baby Guide 2016-17

HAVING A BABY a

IN CALGARY

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• Is circumcision necessary?

• Mama’s Choice Award Winners • Daytime Sleep Struggles

what ’s INSIDE Having a baby in

06 Mama’s Choice Award Winners You vote and we tell everyone about your top picks. Local Winnipeg WINNERS for everything mom & baby in the city.

Calgary A RESOURCE GUIDE

08 How to stay active with your kids once the snow flies!

Get active and outdoors during our cooler season.

PUBLISHED BY MODERN MAMA EDITOR CONNIE PETERS

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11 The Daytime Sleep Dance How much sleep does your infant really need, and at what age?

15 Hospital Checklist Don’t forget all the essentials, and pack your bag at least a couple of weeks before your due-date with our must-haves.

16 Shout It Out Secrets to a Faster, Easier Labour Get the inside scoop on your easiest possible labour!

Yours in modern motherhood,

18 Choosing a Baby Carrier Do you need a wrap, buckle or backpack, and what does it all really mean?

20 When to circumcise The one Clinic in Vancouver that specializes specifically in Infant Circumcision and provides the how and why.

23 Budgeting for Maternity Leave The low down on what you need to know for preparing financially for maternity leave.

26 Local Resources: Bump The very best businesses Calgary has to offer you throughout your pregnancy.

28 LOCAL RESOURCES: NESTING

The very best businesses Calgary has to offer in preparing you for living with your new bundle.

28 LOCAL RESOURCES: BABY

The very best businesses Calgary has to offer you through infancy and the first few years with baby.

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Mama’s Choice

Awards Winners

Expecting?

Expect the Extraordinary.

elite doula group Childbirth Education I Birth Doulas I Postpartum Doulas I Placenta Encapsulation

We heard from you, loud and clear, the best of the best for new moms in Vancouver! All of you had something to say, and here they are … the winners of the first annual Mama’s Choice Awards: 1. Best Baby Store: Kacz’ Kids 2. Best Kids Furniture Store: IKEA 3. Best Baby Clothing Store: Carters OshKosh 4. B est Kid Friendly Restaurant: Boston Pizza 5. Best Prenatal Classes: Calgary Birth Essentials

6. Best Post Natal Fitness Class: Hot Mama Fitness 7. Best Mom and Me Class: Tie: Intellidance & Hot Mama Fitness 8. Best Birthday Party Venue:

elitedoula.com

Gymboree Play & Music 9. Best Maternity Clothing Store: Ella Bella 10. Best Local Service for Moms: Dr. For Moms

Hello Calgary Night Nannies Baby CPR Occupational Therapy Nutrition Consultancy Please visit our website for more details or call us for more information. All services provided in the comfort of your own home.

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How to stay active with your kids once the

Snow F lies

BY KELLY PATTERSON

Being a parent you face many challenges everyday, but once the snow starts to fly it can create a whole new set a challenges. Everyone knows how to protect their child from the summer time hazards and enjoy the sunshine, but how do you do that during the long, cold winter months ahead of us?

Some people think Bears have the right idea, by hibernating, others embrace the change in season.

Winter can be fun packed and you can continue to do the things you love to do, with the right equipment and preparation.

Getting started:

Winter can last a long time, so it is vital for our mental and physical wellbeing that we stay active and find fun things to do with our kids and fur babies outside.

Get Ready: 1.Bundle Up! Use multiple loose layers, I usually use three layers, depending on the temperature; •B undle Up! Use multiple loose layers, I usually use three layers, depending on the temperature; •A good base layer, not cotton!

• Polar fleece sweater, pants and warm socks

• Stroller: If you haven’t already chosen your stroller, then do your research and think about what you want from your stroller. If you plan on staying active all year round, then I suggest an all terrain stroller with single wheels. Buy the rain cover for your stroller, it is great for keeping the wind chill off your child. You can now buy stroller skis too for the snow.

• Down Snowsuit, hat, gloves and snow boots

• Clothing: Invest in some quality warm clothing, nothing makes you miserable like being cold!

When using your stroller, invest in a Polar Bundle me, there are lots of good quality ones on the market now. They are awesome, make sure you buy one that is windproof and water resistance and where possible polar fleece lined.… perfect for naptime with a hoody jacket. Check your child frequently to ensure a wondering hand has not become exposed!

• Weather: Plan your outings, check the weather forecast and head out when it is at its warmest. Take into account the wind chill factor.

• Footwear: A good pair of snow boots and wear grips like Yaktrax Run for improved traction, when pushing your stroller.

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Polar fleece is a great material as it light weight, warm and a wick away.

Down is great as it is super warm, without being bulky and restrictive for your child.

Well worth the investment for everyone. If allergies to Down are present, then you can buy Hydrophobic down.

2. Protect the exposed skin and eyes!

•A pply a suitable face cream/barrier cream 30 mins prior to heading out.

• Apply a natural lip balm to prevent chapping.

•S un Glasses for everyone, the glare of the sun off the snow can damage your eyes.

•U se your rain cover if going out in your stroller and there is a wind chill or it is extremely cold.

•K leenex… lots of Kleenex for mopping up a runny nose and eyes, on both you and your child!

3. Kleenex… lots of Kleenex for mopping up a runny nose and eyes, on both you and your child!

4. Watch for signs of exposure: •B e aware of the time and how long you have been outside.

•B e on the look out for sign or frostbite and hypothermia.

•B e aware of the effect wind chill is having on the temperature.

• Hydration: •C arry a drink to maintain hydration, especially in places of high altitude.

• L ook after yourself! …. Do not forget to prepare yourself for the cold too. You are more likely to have fun and stay outside longer, if you are warm and comfortable.

•A lways visit the washroom before heading out, especially with a potty trained toddler!

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Now we are all ready to head outside and have some fun!

There are endless benefits to being active outdoors and it gives you the feel good factor back. One of the treatments for Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is to take daily, outdoors exercise. So let’s go and keep smiling………….

Get Going: My favorite family outdoor activities: 1. Clearing the snow – off the deck in the back yard and making a snow slide.

2. Winter walks – Nap time for baby means outdoor exercise time for mom and toddler! We take the stroller, click on our Polar Stroller skis and explore the snowcovered pathways, dog parks and playgrounds. There is a special peacefulness about winter walks and the unique beauty it brings.

3. Family Snowshoeing – A fun family day out awaits us on the many beautiful trails we have in local national parks. We, Mom & Dad wear snowshoes, which you can pick up from many places like Costco and SportChek. The babes go in the chariot or stroller with Polar Stroller skis on and away we go!

4. Tobogganing/sledging – on a GT racer with Daddy, whilst wearing appropriate helmet. Mommy walks with baby in his stroller, with the Polar Stroller skis on.

5. Fat–biking with a Weehoo trailer and X-country skiing with a chariot. Yes, that sound like a lot of gear, but what a fabulous way to get an afternoon of exercise and outdoor fun for the whole family.

Dance

the daytime sleep

How many naps does your baby or toddler need? One nap – two nap?! Red fish – blue fish?! It can feel like a bit of a guessing game, especially for parents with a nap transition on the horizon. Just when you feel like you’ve got a good handle on things, your little one goes through another developmental leap, and throws your seemingly perfect schedule out the window!

What can be super helpful in navigating naptimes is some knowledge as to what will happen when, and how you can make these transitions go more smoothly. Of course, this is just a guideline. It is always important to look at each individual baby’s sleep needs,

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with some children needing a little bit more or less sleep than the average.

All parents love naptime! There is no doubt about it.. A well-deserved dose of “me” time and a little rest and relaxation can go a long way in rejuvenating one’s spirits! But for some, naps are anything but easy. Babies who protest sleep, refuse to nap in their crib, or toddlers who drop their nap too early, all make for stress, worry, and extra anxiety!

Knowing age appropriate awake times can make a world of a difference in helping your little one achieve more sleep. Awake times tell us how long we can expect our child to be awake for before their body is ready for a rest.

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Here is a break down for each age group with regards to their daytime sleep needs.

Newborn: These babies will sleep anywhere and everywhere. A newborn’s circadian rhythm lacks maturity, making their sleep very unpredictable. It is not unusual to see a newborn sleep up to 17 hours in a 24 hour period, with naps as long as 3 hours and as short as 15 minutes. The best thing you can do with babies of this age is help them learn day from night by exposing them to natural light first thing in the morning, dimming household lights around 8:00 pm, and napping them where sounds and people are present during the day. A newborn’s sleep is incredibly scattered and unpredictable. Just go with the flow here!

But, more important than crib naps is just keeping these babies well rested. Often this requires a little help from mom or dad!

2 – 4 Months: Still considered the “newborn” phase, but these babies have been on this earth a little while now. They still lack maturity in their circadian rhythm, but can tolerate being awake a little longer, up to 90 minutes. It is common to see this age group struggle to link sleep cycles, as many have not yet learned to “self soothe”.

It is common for these babies to take 4 – 5 naps in a day, with many being just 45 minutes in length. This is a great time to begin doing a nap in the crib every so often!

6 – 9 Months: This is a time where naps become a lot easier for many families. Many babies learn to self-soothe during this time, and begin to link their sleep cycles reliably for naps. This results in much longer durations, and generally a predictable 3 nap day! Yay! The last nap of the day is just a catnap really, and should be no longer than 45 minutes.

Protecting an early bedtime is important here, so be sure all naps are finished by 5:00 pm.

4 – 6 Months: Babies begin to produce melatonin for the first time in their own bodies, which helps to regulate sleep. If a baby is not already napping at least 1 nap per day in their crib, this is a great time to start! Most infants are beginning to work towards a 3 nap per day schedule here, with the odd day having 4 naps. It is important to try and help your baby get 3 – 5 hours of daytime rest here! You may have to continue to help your baby soothe to link their sleep cycles here.

Heavy Eyes Happy Hearts

Daytime Sleep ~ Cheat Sheet age

average awake window

average # of naps

newborn

< 45 min

too many to count!!!

2 - 4 months

1 hour - 1 hour 30 min

4-5

4-7

4 - 6 months

1 hour 15 min - 1 hour 45 min

3-4

3-5

6 - 9 months

2 hour - 2 hour 30 min

3

3-4

9 - 12 months

2 hour 30 min - 3 hour 30 min

2

3

12 - 15 months

3 - 4 hours

1-2

2-3

15 - 18 months

4 - 5 hours

1

2-3

18 months 3 or 4 years

5 - 6 hours

1

1-2

*with the longer awake window in the morning and a shorter awake window before bed

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goal hours of daytime sleep 8+

*scattered throughout the day with no real predictability

9 – 12 Months: Closer to 9 months, most families begin to see babies protest their 3rd nap, and reliably go to a 2 nap per day schedule. Parents can expect to see a nap in the morning, and another nap in the afternoon, each of about 1.5 hours in length. Do be cautious of a morning nap that is too early, or too long, as this can encourage your child to wake earlier to start their day! Both naps should be in the crib most days.

12 – 15 Months: Here we see toddlers start to really beat to their own drum! It is not uncommon for some children to continue to take 2 naps per day here, with the average age of dropping to 1 nap being 13 – 14 months. This one nap should be nice and long now; averaging 2 – 3 hours each day.

It is common to hear of daycares requesting toddlers be on a 1 nap per day schedule at this age. But, if your baby still really needs 2 naps try and push for it! An overtired baby is not fun for any caregiver. For a baby who has gone to one nap too early, you may see more bedtime fussiness, as well as, an increase in night wakings.

15 – 18 Months: If you are one of the lucky ones, you may have seen your baby nap twice per day up until now. But, you will begin to see them make the transition to 1 nap as well. A helpful technique to move from 2 naps to 1 involves decreasing the morning nap, and moving the afternoon nap up. When you first transition, that one nap may be as early as 11:15 am. Don’t forget to move bedtime earlier to ensure baby doesn’t become overtired through this transition!

18 Months – 3 or 4 Years: The 1 nap day continues for most. This nap usually occurs just after lunchtime around 12:30 pm.

Be wary if your child seems to be dropping their nap before they are 2.5 years old.

Many go through a nap protest phase, but will continue to pick their nap back up as if nothing ever happened. For a child who has stopped napping, see if you can encourage an hour of quiet time in their room each day.

This little dose of rest will help avoid the witching hour and pre-bedtime battles you might otherwise see!

Lara Rabb is a Certified Infant and Child Sleep Consultant and the Owner/Operator of Heavy Eyes Happy Hearts Sleep Consulting in Vancouver. She is a mama of 2, who prides herself on being a compassionate listener, and a lover of an inspired life. She provides free child and family sleep support through her facebook, twitter, and instagram pages. She invites you to follow along on the journey, and ask your questions in a supportive, judgment-free environment. Her mission is to create healthy, well-rested households, while never losing site of a family’s personal philosophy and well wishes. For more sleep tips please visit Heavy Eyes Happy Hearts. Goodnight, and #happysleep.

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Hospital Checklist For the Mama-to-Be Birth plan and prenatal medical records

After Baby Arrives A going-home outfit (loose and comfortable)

Robe, dressing gown, wrap sweater

Nursing bra

Slippers Socks

axi pads (the hospital will provide if M you don’t have any)

Massage oil or lotion

Nightshirt wrap or funky hospital gown

Lip balm

Hairbrush, toothbrush and toothpaste.

Snacks and drinks

ld or cheap underwear, or O disposable panties.

Books, magazines, etc. headband or elastic if you have A long hair P illows. Ensure they’re patterned so they don’t get mixed up with Hospital pillows.

Toiletries

For Your Wee One An infant car seat. ne outfit for the trip home (don’t O forget socks) T wo or three sleepers for in the hospital Baby blanket

For the Birth Partner Comfortable shoes A change of clothes

iapers (some hospitals may provide, D ask your OB)

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Hat Jacket or snowsuit for winter babies

our choice of recording device, such Y as a mobile phone or a camera

Burp cloths or receiving blankets

List of phone numbers Snacks and drinks

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SHOUT IT OUT SECRETS TO A

Faster, Easier Labour Several years ago I was asked to speak at the Calgary Baby & Tot Show. I said “sure of course what would you like me to speak on?” They promptly replied, “How to have a faster easier birth.” Well immediately I knew I would at least have people come to watch, because really who does not want to know that information. Luckily I was pretty confident I actually had something that fit the topic.

Actually a lot of somethings.

too easy to be true, but really if you think about it (and try it) when you are doing deep, slow breathing your brain literally cannot think of or be in anxiety or stress.

The two do not match. So effectively we have convinced (even tricked - but that’s okay too) our brain that we are completely relaxed and calm. Okay so this seems tailor made for the labour process. Isn’t that EXACTLY what you want your brain to think. The answer is YES!!!

Here are a few:

POSITIONS

BREATH

You have heard the drill, when in labour move around. Well do you know why? Let me explain, consider your pelvis is a puzzle that your baby’s head needs to navigate through. The inlet of the pelvis is shaped different than the outlet. Your baby’s head is shaped differently depending on how it presents, tilted, flexed, tucked, or turned. S o if we can keep changing the shape of our pelvis through movement and positions the more successful baby will be navigating it’s head through. Sure you can have a baby flat on your back.....eventually. It just generally will take much longer and in doing so you are doing your baby no favours.

Now really there was something to be said about going to your Lamaze class and learning to breath. I wouldn’t necessarily think there is a need for a 4 part series on it but breathing in labour is, well, absolutely necessary. My recommendation is super simple, try doing your deep relaxation breathing (yoga breathing) for as much of, if not all of your labour. A wise yogi once announced at the beginning of class that when we are faced with a difficult yoga pose and think we will fall on our face, to just begin our yoga breathing. It will tell your mind that you are okay. This of course seems

Some popular and successful positions are; hands and knees (especially great to relieve back pain), using the “birth” ball or exercise ball, nice supported squat position and pretty comfortable too. The toilet, this isn’t glamorous but it works. You are squatting and incorporating a lot of gravity and you are supported with a seat. Side lying, this is a great position when you need a rest. Just remember to keep your bottom leg relatively straight and your top leg bent and way up near your ribs. This helps your resting position still have an effective pelvis opening flair.

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SUPPORT Now I know that your partner can not and should not be replaced in your labour. Nothing can replace the strong emotional connection and love that you share. However let’s look at the facts, doulas make a difference! This added support can make your birth outcome that much better. The statistics don’t lie. Consider her your cheat sheet for pregnancy, labour, birth and postpartum. Relax, when in doubt, the doula has it covered. This support is so great for the dads out there. They get to do what they feel comfortable doing in the labour process, have feedback, advice and guidance and know that they don’t have to remember everything by themselves. Good support can make all the difference.

MASSAGE Almost all labouring women like to be massaged. There are times when she doesn’t want to be touched, but generally she will.

Hands and feet are the most successful spots, surprised? These have the most nerve endings and pressure points and subconsciously she is thanking you. So instead of letting her squeeze the life out of your hand or break a finger, save her the trouble and massage her hands. It’s a win win.

Usually anything around the lower back and hips also enjoy the massage action. Applying counter pressure or performing the double hip squeeze can be most helpful in relieving some of the pain in labour.

Here are a few of my major tips for helping you have a faster easier birth. Remember if you are pumping out endorphin hormones (the happy hormone) the less pain you will experience. This hormone is actually our bodies natural pain relief. So whatever helps you feel happy, calm, safe, confident and relaxed will enhance your chances of having these hormones surge through your body during labour and reduce your bodies perception of pain. Thus blocking the adrenaline and creating more ease and speed with the process of labour.

Sharon is the owner of Calgary Birth Essentials.

Sharon is the mother of 4 kids and has helped educate and support over 500 families having babies in Calgary and surrounding areas. Calgary Birth Essentials offers small group and private prenatal classes, birth doula services, postpartum support (both day and night time hours), breastfeeding education and lactation consultations. www.calgarybirthessentials.com

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CHOOSING A

Baby Carrier

BY AMBER STROCEL

There’s nowhere that a baby likes to be as much as your arms. But any mama can tell you that sometimes you need to do things with your hands. Like, say, eat lunch. Or fold laundry.

Or walk the dog. Luckily, the solution is easy – get a baby carrier. The right carrier will keep your little one close while giving you freedom to get things done. But which carrier is the right carrier? Here’s how to choose.

Baby Carrier Safety First things first – you want your baby to be safe in whatever baby carrier you choose.

Health Canada recommends that when using a carrier you ensure your baby’s face is always in view, your baby is in an upright position, your baby is secure in the carrier, their face is not pressed into your body or any fabric, and your baby’s chin is not pressed into their chest. Keep these guidelines in mind when you’re choosing a baby carrier.

Types of Baby Carriers Once you start learning about baby carriers you discover there’s a wide variety of options available, each with pros and cons. Here are some of the most common types of baby carriers to consider.

Buckle Carriers These carriers are the most common ones you will find in stores. Examples include the Baby Bjorn, the Ergobaby, the Beco and the LILLEbaby. They vary in terms of the size of baby you can carry, and the positions you can carry in. For maximum versatility look for a carrier that works with toddlers as well as babies, and that allows you to carry your baby on your back.

Pros – These carriers are easy to find, easy to use and most brands will work for babies from newborn to toddlerhood.

Cons – These carriers can be expensive, and if more than one adult will be using them there may be a lot of adjusting required.

Backpacks These metal-framed baby carriers allow you to wear an older baby or toddler on your back. The baby is positioned up high so they can see what’s going on. They can be quite comfortable and often have compartments to carry other things as well.

Pros – Baby backpacks can carry a lot of weight and are easy to use.

Cons – Backpacks will not work for babies who cannot support their own heads and they can be very bulky.

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Wraps Wraps are long strips of fabric that can be used to secure your little one to you. There are stretchy wraps, which are easier to use but have fewer carrying options, and woven wraps which have a longer learning curve but are very versatile. They can be used for babies from newborn to toddler.

Pros – When you learn how to tie your wrap you can wear your baby in a wide variety of positions.

Cons – Learning to tie a wrap can take time and practice. Woven wraps are quite expensive and not usually available in stores.

Slings These baby carriers go over one shoulder.

Pouch slings are simple tubes of fabric. Ring slings allow you to adjust the size and shape of the sling. Slings can be used for babies from newborn to toddler, but most people find them less comfortable as little ones grow.

Pros – Lightweight and relatively inexpensive. Pouch slings are particularly easy to use.

Cons – Ring slings can have a bit of a learning curve, and pouch slings are sized based on the adult so you may need more than one for yourself and your partner.

Mei Tai Baby Carriers These are like a mix between a wrap and a buckle carrier, with a square of fabric the baby sits in and straps you tie. They work for

babies from newborn to toddler, and allow you to carry your baby on your front or your back.

Pros – These carriers are versatile, fit most adults and are easier to use than wraps.

Cons – These carriers are usually only available online and can be quite expensive.

Baby Carrier Buying Tips Once you’ve decided what type of baby carrier to buy, it’s time to make the big decision. Here are our top tips for making the right purchase: • If possible, try before you buy. Ask yourself if you can see putting a squirmy baby into it when you are by yourself.

• If you and your partner or other caregiver will be using the same carrier, make sure it will fit you both.

• Consider how you will be using the carrier.

Your needs will be different if you’re taking your baby hiking in the backcountry than if you just need free hands to wash a few dishes.

• If you’re really in love with a baby carrier that’s outside of your price range, sleep on it and really think about whether it’s worth the expense. Sometimes a better quality carrier is worth the investment…sometimes it isn’t.

• Ask where you will be in a year or two.

Carrying a busy toddler when you’re out and about may not be on your mind now, but it will come in handy before you know it.

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WHEN TO CIRCUMCISE

& why it matters Whether for health, religious or cultural reasons, many parents of newborns across North America choose to circumcise their newborn son, a minor procedure in which the foreskin is removed. Some of the major health reasons include protection against HIV/AIDS, penile cancer, sexually transmitted infections, infant kidney infections and improved lifetime genital cleanliness, just to name a few. No matter what your reasons are, the best time to circumcise your son is within the first two months after delivery, preferably in the first two weeks according to Dr. Jack Chang, a physician at Pollock Clinics. Dr. Jack Chang works with Dr. Neil Pollock, who founded Pollock

Clinics. Together they perform the most circumcisions on newborns in BC. They also perform vasectomies for men who feel they have completed their families.

Chang and Pollock have been involved in international missions all over the world, mostly in developing countries where they teach and provide both procedures pro bono. Recently, the benefits of circumcision have been affirmed by the American Academy of Pediatrics. In 2012, the organization issued a statement that the health benefits of circumcision outweighed the risks. The Canadian Pediatrics Society also acknowledges the potential benefits of the procedure, but does not go so far as to recommend routine circumcision for newborns.

For most parents of newborns who have decided to circumcise their son, it is important to understand what measures are taken to the ensure safety, comfort and analgesia of their baby boy.

The physicians at Pollock Clinics use the Pollock Technique for newborn circumcision, a technique safely performed on over 35,000 newborns to date. Highlights of this technique include pain relief using multiple strategies, including administration of oral Tylenol, application of topical freezing cream, soothing with a sugar ball and provision of long acting local anesthetic.

Calming music is played throughout the procedure and optimal room temperatures are maintained.

The procedure takes only 30 to 60 seconds for newborns, 10 times faster than most hospital circumcisions.

Healing & recovery are quick “While it can take a newborn up to four weeks to heal completely, most show signs of complete healing only after one week,” says Dr. Chang. “Newborns heal quickly and are uniquely adapted to handle stress. It is the window of opportunity for circumcision and postponing it to a later age increases the complexity, risk and cost.”

Dr. Pollock adds, “Foreskin-associated diseases, including kidney infections and local penile problems also begin in the newborn period. Early circumcision offers maximum permanent preventive health benefits.”

The clinic’s two experienced doctors offer 24/7 aftercare at the clinic’s two locations in Vancouver and New Westminster. Appointments are available within days. To learn more, including about circumcision procedures that are now available for older boys up to adults, please visit their website at pollockclinics.com or call their office at (604) 717

Pollock CLINICS

DR. NEIL POLLOCK DR. JACK CHANG

www.pollockclinics.com

Clinics in Vancouver & New Westminster for fast and convenient access Appointment available within days Pollock Technique Circumcision TM

604-717-6200

No-Scalpel No-Needle Vasectomy

info@pollockclinics.com

photo: Given Ideas

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Budgeting for MATERNITY LEAVE

BY JOANNA MUIR

There’s a lot to think about when you’re expecting your first and I can understand how financial planning may take a back seat to car seats, cribs and diapers!

Have you got the savings to buy these items or the room in your budget to pay for them now?

One is filled with decisions to contemplate, things to learn and looming responsibilities.

Knowing how this huge life change will impact your household finances can make for an easier sleep – a valuable commodity!

After the Baby Arrives – Maternity Leave

Planning for the Baby takes two budgets:

Start with household income. For most new parents, household income changes a fair bit when one person takes maternity leave – usually the female but not always. A birth mother is eligible for maternity leave benefits and new parents may receive parental leave benefits.

The combination of the two may provide benefits for up to 50 weeks and the payments are based on a proportion of previous work hours and salary, maxing out at $411 per week. And there are eligibility conditions.

1.Preparing for the Baby 2.After the Baby Arrives – Maternity Leave Preparing for the Baby Setting up the nursery is part of the fun and can be simple or elaborate. As well as a place to sleep there are clothes, a stroller, a car seat and endless other baby products.

Consider other expenses and one-time costs to setting up your life and home to welcome your child. Friends who have had children are often more than happy to share their experiences and wisdom.

Decide how you will spend and this becomes Budget#1 – Preparing for the Baby.

The next step is to understand the impact of the baby on your Household Finances.

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Depending on how much you choose to prepare, these purchases can add-up VERY quickly. There are stores and websites that sell everything you need, stores that you’ve never noticed before. Understand what impact the baby will have on your savings and budget and decide how you will spend: •D ecide what you need and make a list: Mark items as ‘Needs’, ‘Nice-to-Haves’ or ‘Wants’ •D o a little research: What does it cost new? What does is cost used?

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Some employers provide additional benefits but not very many. If you do not have this information yet, now is a good time to seek it out. Speak to your employer’s human resources, look on-line to the government website and figure out exactly what this will mean in your situation.

diapers, formula, increased caffeine intake, a community centre membership and education savings. We changed our eating habits as time becomes precious. Ordering in was always tempting but a quick way to burn through the budget. We learned to limit this to once a week or once every couple weeks.

This can be a substantial reduction to your income but don’t forget that there may be reduced expenses by staying home as opposed to going to work such as new work clothes or dry cleaning. Work through your current expenses reviewing what will stay the same or change. New expenses may include

Planning for the financial impact this lifestyle change will have on your household makes up Budget #2 – After the Baby Arrives – Maternity Leave.

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CALGARY | Bump - Maternity Fashion Ella Bella Maternity Boutique (403) 271-0050 Posh Mommy (403) 283-1654 Destination Maternity (403) 252-1321 Motherhood Maternity (403) 293-6555 Thyme Maternity (403) 640-1311

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Pelvienne Wellness (604) 910.3065 www.pelviennewellness.com

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resources Bump - Birth Doulas Paige the Doula (403) 619-7759 www.PaigetheDoula.com

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Calgary Birth Essentials (403) 982-5580 www.calgarybirthessentials.com

First Step Nutrition (403) 608-3240

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Brittannia Acupuncture Clinic (403) 208-6488 Chic Effectz (403) 988-2690

Ohana Counseling & Hypnobirthing (403) 978-2645

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Barre Body Studio (403) 826-9969 www.barrebodystudio.com

Ohana Counseling & Hypnobirthing (403) 978-2645

Bikini Bootcamp (403) 521-2278

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CALGARY | Bump - Birth Doulas

resources Natures Baby Basket (403) 703-5013

Little Love Doula (403) 605-1102

West Coast Kids (403) 717-0730

Calgary Doula Association (403) 281.9485

Posh Mommy (403) 283-1654

Swellmama (403) 875-1526

My OM Little Yoga Mat (403) 520.0278

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Happy Nappy (403) 281-6100

Aurora Midwifery (403) 203-5105

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Calgary Midwives Collective (403) 452-6070

Twisted Tortes (403) 399.8592

Cochrane Community Midwives (403) 932-3176

Eventful Planning (403) 560.5131

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Amandamazing Art (403) 389.1259

Polar Stroller (403) 607-7262 www.polarstroller.com

Enchanted Events (403) 270.0100

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CALGARY | Baby - Community Support Calgary Birth Essentials (403) 982-5580 www.calgarybirthessentials.com Elite Doula (403) 796-9222 www.elitedoula.com Simply Life (403) 819-7878 www.simplylife.ca Ohana Counseling & Hypnobirthing (403) 978-2645 FAMSE (403) 999-4775 Wee Sleep (403) 477-1182 Step Forward to Better Health (403) 978.7422 Pelvienne Wellness (604) 910.3065 Alberta Blue Cross 1 (800) 661.6995 www.ab.bluecross.ca

resources Rhyme and Reason (587) 894.4800 The Alex Community Health Centre (403) 520.2260 La Leche League Calgary (403) 242.0277 Full Circle Parenting (403) 607.1463 Bowwest Community Resource Centre (403) 216.5348 Calgary Mothers Milk Bank (403) 475.6455

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CALGARY | Baby - Mommy & Me Classes Barre Body Studio (403) 826-9969 www.barrebodystudio.com

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Smallprint 403-710-7860 www.smallprint.com

Alberta Association of Optometrists (780) 451-6824

Sugar Sandwich Design www.sugarsandwich.c

Alberta Blue Cross 1.800.661-6995 www.ab.bluecross.ca

Photographers

ATB Financial (403) 974-8989

Intellidance (403) 870-7877

Kids and Company (587) 351-5026

Simply Life (403) 819-7878 www.simplylife.ca

Von Childcare 1-866-280-6176

Barre Body Studio (403) 826-9969 www.barrebodystudio.com

Amber Holt Photography (403) 980-2663

Can Care Childcare (403) 239-5454

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Enchanted Forest Photography (587) 777-5505

MT Royal Childcare (403) 440-6111

Calgary Baby + Tot Show (403) 242-0859

Sweet Ginger Photography (403) 454-8897

Fun Flex Play Care (403) 453-1242

Calgary Birth Essentials (403) 982-5580 www.calgarybirthessentials.com

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Suzuki Baby Calgary (403) 818-8163 Hello Life Fitness Airdrie (403) 813-7520

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Baby- Post-Natal Fitness

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Focus Sisters Photography (403) 671-1400

Elite Doula (403) 796-9222 www.elitedoula.com

Calgary Moms Club (403) 285-7653

Barre Body Studio (403) 826-9969 www.barrebodystudio.com

Macaroni Kids Chestermere (403) 862-1120

Leela Eco Spa (403) 258-3268

Mommy Connections (403) 899-6547

Hot Mama Health & Fitness (403) 862-6474

Homeocan 1-800-556-0824 www.homeocan.ca

Yoga in Bowness (403) 288-2909

Mommylicious Trade Fair with Flair (403) 880-3154

Ballet Barre Works (587) 227-8828

New Mummy Company 1-844-237-4686 www.newmummycompany.ca

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Julie Marwood Photography (403) 245-2138

First Step Nutrition (403) 608-3240 www.firststepnutrition.com

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