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GETTING OFF THE STRUGGLE BUS

HILARY DECESARE IS ON A MISSION TO EMPOWER AND ELEVATE WOMEN.

HILARY’S first question is: Are you a woman with an unstoppable entrepreneurial spirit, but struggling to find balance between profitability and fulfilment?

“Having reached what, I thought, were all my professional goals as a high revenue (and rare female) CEO in Silicon Valley, I realized that my life had become overcome with stress, and I felt unrecognizable as the person I knew myself to be,” she says.

Hilary’s sense of burnout was compounded by her mother developing, and succumbing to, terminal illness.

Some things had to change.

“My mother’s unexpected illness and the emotional reckoning process of her death jolted me into re-examining my life and goals, and I became driven to focus on how we can make change for the good in our lives,” she says. “I became fascinated with neuropsychology and gained extensive training, education, and practice, working with leading experts and earning numerous certifications, and directing my intentions toward women who in many ways mirrored my own journey and challenges.

“Hearing the stories of the lives of scores of women and how they had made fantastic leaps and bounds toward often radical goals made me want to dig deeper and commit to understanding and supporting how they achieved these incredible successes and joys.”

Changing your headspace

Hilary says she became fascinated with neuropsychology and gained extensive training, education, and practice, working with leading experts and earning numerous certifications.

“Hearing the stories of the lives of scores of women and how they had made fantastic leaps and bounds toward often radical goals made me want to dig deeper and commit to understanding and supporting how they achieved these incredible successes and joys,” she says.

Hilary wondered about the common themes, and the science and methodologies that underpinned them.

“A key goalpost for me was leveraging the answers to these questions to build a sustainable architecture and life-enhancement platform, and then expanding and sharing this proactively with others,” she says.

Countdown to rejuvenation

One relaunch is all it takes to make your dreams a reality.

It’s not rocket science, but it does take some thinking outside the square, Hilary says, as she contemplates her revolutionary approach to taking women to the places they deserve to be – The Relaunch Co. – which offers mid-life-career women, who would like to propel their lives and/or career to the next level and beyond, a path to purpose and self-defined success.

Hilary says: “The ReLaunch Co. guides women who would like to propel their lives and/or career to the next level and beyond with a path to purpose and self-defined success. It offers a customizable portfolio of programs and methodologies – steeped in science and merged with years of experience and everyday practicality, that has been tried and tested by thousands of our clients, having successfully transformed their lives and incomes.

“As an award-winning business leader, international best-selling author, and coach to thousands of entrepreneurs and top executives, I’m on a mission to empower and elevate women. With The ReLaunch Co., you’ll have the opportunity to create your perfect blend of success. One relaunch is all it takes to make your dreams a reality.” Hilary’s most recent book RELAUNCH! Spark Your Heart to Ignite Your Life is a proven go-to resource for women who want to learn how to take control, understand their goals, challenges, and inner blockages, and move forward toward greater success.

The secret, Hilary says, is her trademarked 3HQ™ Method, which provides a step-by-step guide to shift from the negative mindset “stuck” channel to the heart-led, high-energy “Success Zone” channel, and on to the higher path of being the best version of yourself.

Tune In, don’t Tune out – four steps to selfactualization

Hilary calls this the 4-Step “Tune In Process.”

1) Ask yourself – what is not working for you right now? What is your biggest challenge or what is your intention for something you are doing in your life?

2) It’s time to Change the Channel. It’s time to take a few deep, calming breaths. Tune In to a song that fires you up, one that literally elevates you when you hear it and allows you to change your state via “Changing the Channel”. Hear the music inside your head and let it flow through your body. This is tapping into your own energy state. When you hear that music inside you, you are accessing your higher self and elevating your vibrational energy level. This is the level where like attracts like and possibilities happen.

3) Now turn up the volume of your song and experience it. Let it spark you to shift your focus to what you really want away from the challenge from Step 1. Move through visualizing it; capture the emotions; allow your heart to feel the excitement of having it and knowing it’s already yours.

4) Continue to Tune In and hear your song and leverage the energy that you have been creating and ask yourself what can you do right now as a first step to create momentum towards that goal. Don’t wait to react, this is the time to act.

Hilary says: “In a world where stressful crisis is increasingly constant, and “tuning out” is an easy out, Women – with our unique needs – require powerful support from innovative, responsive and customizable tools with both flexibilities that keep up with the pace of change and built-in sustainability to go the distance, not one-off patches.”

3HQ™

This is the secret within the secret. Hilary says: “You are a complex, multi-dimensional person, but many programs only address one dimension. That’s just not me, and I’m sure it isn’t you, either! Or you wouldn’t be reading this. Addressing and calibrating your head, heart, and higher self – the 3H’s – leads to an alignment of your inner self, with all its desires and conflicts, with your goals and sense of purpose. At The Relaunch Co. we take a 360-degree, holistic approach. No part of you is left behind in this mission of total empowerment. Result? Strength without the stress.”

Your time is now

Hilary says: “Our sought-after coaching community is built on reinvention, alignment, and impact. Our core focus of business advancement using our trademark 3HQ™ method, allows women to achieve and inspire the echelon of entrepreneurship without compromising fulfillment. Hundreds of business owners have relaunched into a newfound sense of ambition and purposefulness.

“At The ReLaunch Co., we serve those who want to stop living a life on autopilot and instead, join us to become a woman to whom opportunities flock. We’re here to set off a spark in you if you’re halfway to somewhere in your life but not sure how to jumpstart the next step and want more: more out of your business and more out of yourself. You know how to work hard. Now, it’s time for the results you so richly deserve. Let’s close that gap, shall we?” www.therelaunchco.com

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BREAKING into male-dominated industries can be challenging yet rewarding for women, and despite the hurdles in the financial sector, there are successful women entrepreneurs who serve as inspiration.

One founder created a company to empower women in business by providing resources for public speaking, securing grants, and coaching. Her company helps women achieve their career goals by providing them with essential tools regardless of their industry.

Helping Lead Women To Success

CEO and founder of Coastal Kapital, a prominent women-owned financial service provider in Florida, believes that she has a voice that can be shared with the world. According to Kortney Murray, empowering women in business and guiding them to build their own empires is crucial.

With the limitless opportunities provided by the internet and available tools, women are no longer confined by previously established borders in male-dominated fields. Her mission is to help others navigate the challenging process of finding the right funding and expansion tools.

"Public speaking is a powerful tool that can help women in business communicate their vision and values to a wider audience. Intuition plays a vital role in building a successful company and leveraging available resources to expand it. Seeking out guidance and help is essential for any entrepreneur looking to achieve their goals."

Guiding Them Through Their Own Process

Trusting your intuition and staying true to your personal goals can be the key to building a successful business. By taking the time to establish your goals and listening to what your intuition or gut says, you can create a business that is aligned with your values and vision.

It is also crucial to find a team that is willing to work with and support you as you grow. A team that shares your values and is committed to your vision can help you navigate challenges and make better decisions for the long-term success of your business.

Finally, bringing positive energy into your workspace and culture can create a strong foundation for future growth. When positivity and a can-do attitude are present, teams are motivated to work harder, innovate, and support each other. This sets the tone for a successful business that can thrive in the long run.

Remember, building a successful business is a journey, and trusting your intuition and staying true to your goals can help you achieve success on your terms.

"I believe that by helping women trust their intuition and stay true to their personal goals, we can empower them to build successful businesses on their own terms,” says Murray. “By providing them with the resources and support they need to navigate the challenges of entrepreneurship, we can help them achieve their dreams and lead them to success through their own unique process."

Resource Strategies

Expanding a business can be a challenging and overwhelming task for any entrepreneur, especially for women who may be working in maledominated industries. However, there are resources available to help women in business overcome these challenges and achieve their goals.

One valuable resource is public speaking in the business industry and women in business. Attending events and conferences where successful women entrepreneurs share their experiences and insights can be inspiring and empowering. These events provide opportunities to network and connect with like-minded individuals who can offer support, advice, and potential partnerships.

Murray explains: “Expanding a business is a challenging but rewarding journey, and there are resources and strategies available to help women entrepreneurs succeed.”

Always Trust In Your Intuition

Trusting one's intuition and staying true to personal goals is also key. It's important to establish clear goals and listen to what one's intuition or gut is saying. This can help entrepreneurs make better decisions and stay aligned with their values and vision.

“Trusting intuition, establishing clear goals is essential for any businesswoman, “Murray continues, but finding the right help and support, and bringing positive energy to the workspace and culture can all contribute to building a successful business.”

The Sky Is the Limit

Public speaking can be challenging for most of us. As a high achiever, how has Murray set her sights on a new goal: public speaking while also achieving financial success? Murray explains: “Unwavering commitment to my community and the financial empowerment of women has earned me a reputation as a leader in the field. She explains: “With over three successful entrepreneurial ventures under my belt, I bring a wealth of experience and knowledge to the table.” www. coastalkapital.com

Her forthcoming book, “Women Gone Wild: Intuition Edition,” set to be released this year, and a movie slated for 2024, will provide readers and viewers with insight into her tried-and-true methods for success.

Murray continues: “I firmly believe that women supporting women is the key to success. My personal mission is to help guide others through the complexities of business financing, creating successful partnerships, and advocating for the challenges faced by business owners,” says Kortney. Her unwavering passion for helping women succeed and her dedication to the cause make her a formidable force in the business world.