From Uncertainty to Belonging
A Conversation with our Elder-in-Residence and Director of Indigenous Initiatives
Creating Community and Connection in Strathmore
Alberta
Stoney Nakoda Nation
Chiniki, Bearspaw, Goodstoney
��oh’kinstsis (Calgary)
Tsuut’ina Nation
Iyãhé Nakoda Gahnha
Siksika Nation
Piikani Nation
Kainai Nation
Treaty 7
Our commitment to reconciliation starts by acknowledging that Trellis Society is honoured to serve in the traditional territory of the Blackfoot Confederacy, home to the Siksika, the North and South Piikani, and the Kainai Nations. We also acknowledge the Tsuut’ina, Ĩyãħé Nakoda (the Chiniki, Bearspaw and Goodstoney Nations), and the Otipemisiwak Métis Government of the Métis Nation (District 4, 5 and 6). Finally, we acknowledge all nations, genders and spirits who live, work and play in Treaty 7 territory. We are all Treaty People and being here comes with the responsibility to care for this land out of respect for each other and hope for the future generations to come.
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The stories in this issue of Branching Out represent the thousands of people each year who find support, healing and growth at Trellis.
Rooted in the generosity of our community, the Trellis team is proud to walk alongside the people we serve—standing strong with them through life’s toughest moments. Together, we create a legacy of lasting impact and cultivate a future where everyone has the opportunity to flourish.
These are stories of hope, strength and connection. Thank you for being part of the Trellis community!
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Grace, José and Mateo at the Trellis Bowness Hub
When Grace and José arrived in Calgary on a cold February day in 2024, they carried with them a mixture of hope and uncertainty. Fleeing violence in their home country and seeking refugee status in Canada, they knew they were starting over from scratch with their young son Mateo. They faced the daunting challenge of rebuilding their lives in a new country, with a new language and without the support of family and friends. But then, they found Trellis.
Grace first heard about Trellis through another mother at the Gateway program*, who spoke highly of the Ready, Set, Go preschool at our Bowness Hub. Encouraged by the warm environment and the care shown to the children, Grace enrolled Mateo right away. “I didn’t hesitate,” she recalled. “The teachers were so wonderful and I could see how much they cared about the kids.”
Shortly after enrolling Mateo, Grace attended a backto-school BBQ hosted by Trellis. It was here that she first met Hannah, a staff member who would soon become a key support in their journey. “Hannah immediately looked out for me,” Grace shared. “She offered her help, guided me and even provided us with winter clothing since we had nothing.” At the event, Grace was also able to collect school supplies, receive basic needs support and learn about additional resources available to her family.
One of the biggest challenges Grace and José faced was communication. While they knew basic English, Mateo spoke none at all. Trellis helped bridge this gap by having Spanish-speaking staff available to assist them. “Being able to ask someone any questions throughout the day was a huge relief,” Grace said. “Even the English-
speaking teachers made an effort to use a translator and learn some Spanish.” This language support helped Mateo settle into preschool, and as time passed, he began teaching his classmates simple Spanish words like “hello” and “goodbye.”
Beyond education, Trellis provided the family with crucial resources to meet their daily needs. Through the Bowness Hub, they received assistance with groceries, clothing and even housing support. “Never in my life had I received the support I’ve found here, along with the kindness I’ve been shown” Grace said, “it’s truly surprising.”
Their living situation was another hurdle as their basement suite had poor conditions and a lack of privacy. When Grace became pregnant with their second child, they knew staying there was no longer an option. “We weren’t financially prepared to move and talked to Hannah about our difficulties. She helped us navigate finding a safe home and connected us to Trellis support for first month’s rent.” José said. With this support, the family was able to move into their new place, just minutes from Mateo’s preschool. “It’s perfect,” Grace said with relief. “Now, when our second son is old enough, he’ll go to school here too.”
As they settled into their new home, Grace and José also took advantage of Trellis’ English conversation classes. “They’ve helped me so much, especially with pronunciation,” Grace said. “Now, whether I’m at the doctor’s office, the supermarket or ordering coffee, I feel more confident.” José added, “At first, we only knew the basics, but now we can communicate better and feel more independent.”
Looking back, Grace and José can’t imagine what their journey would have been like without Trellis. “It would have been much harder,” José admitted. “At the beginning, I didn’t have a stable job and we didn’t know where to go for support.” Grace agreed, adding, “Trellis focuses not just on the children but on making sure the whole family is okay. That’s what makes the biggest difference.”
As they prepare to welcome their second child, Grace and José feel a sense of security they never expected to find so soon after arriving in Canada. With support from Trellis, they have a safe home, a supportive community and the resources they need to build a bright future for their family. And for Mateo, staying in Ready, Set, Go for another year means continued stability, friendships and a foundation for success.
“We are still in the process of adjusting,” Grace said, “but we know that if we need help, we can reach out to Trellis at anytime. That means everything to us.”
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The key to success in moving to a new country, learning a new language, or starting a new career, is ensuring you have the right support in place. Trellis often receives referrals from Gateway, who act as a personal guide to help each newcomer through their unique journey, connecting them to the right programs and services to reach their goals - and build the life they’ve been envisioning. *GATEWAY PARTNERSHIP
Grace and Mateo insidethepreschool classroom
There’s a moment at every youth program, one that’s quiet and easy to miss, but powerful. It happens when a young person walks through the door, their shoulders heavy with the weight of their day and they exhale. It’s in that simple, small exhale that we see what our after-school programs truly provide: relief. A break from uncertainty. A place where they feel safe, seen and supported.
For many youth, home isn’t always a safe or stable place and school can feel overwhelming with the pressure of expectations. Those in-between hours, that time after school but before the day comes to a close, can often be some of the hardest to navigate. Across our Trellis hubs, those hours become a lifeline.
Youth Group Programming Staff
Jay, 14 years old, had been couch-surfing, trying to find a safe place to land while his mom underwent cancer treatment in the hospital. He had no other family who were safe to stay with and school had taken a backseat to the overwhelming uncertainty in his life. Yet, no matter what else was going on, Jay consistently found his way to our youth programs. Here, there was something comforting. Familiar faces. A routine he could count on. Over time, Jay built strong connections with Trellis staff, feeling a sense of belonging that had been missing everywhere else.
Jordan, 16 years old, grew up in poverty and in a singleparent home where mental health challenges made stability difficult. His first instinct when faced with conflict was to yell, break things and lash out. It was a cycle that followed him from school to community spaces, making him feel excluded everywhere he turned. But, despite what he was facing, he kept coming back to our youth programs. He learned to navigate conflict differently, gaining skills through mentorship and programming like WiseGuyz*. Now, a year later, he’s mentoring others and setting a positive example instead of reacting with aggression.
These stories are the lived experiences of young people in our community who need stability, connection and support. And that’s exactly what Trellis’ after school programming provides.
Across our Trellis hubs, we are working to expand the scope of our after-school supports, meeting young people where they are, whether that means offering academic help, mentorship or even just a safe, quiet place to unwind.
In the past year, we’ve introduced new employmentreadiness workshops, grown our evening programs and strengthened partnerships that bring more resources into our spaces. We’ve added family engagement nights, increased tutoring support and deepened our work with schools to create more seamless support between in-school and after-school life.
The impact is tangible. Youth who once struggled to regulate emotions are now stepping into leadership roles. Young people who felt isolated are forming friendships and gaining confidence. Families who were disconnected are now engaged in their journey together.
*Trellis is proud to partner with the Centre for Sexuality's WiseGuyz, an evidence-informed program helping young men build healthy relationships, challenge harmful stereotypes, and develop essential life skills.
What happens in these spaces matters. The impact lasts far beyond the hours of 3pm to 6pm. We know this because we see it in the young people who grow up in our programs. Some of them transition from participants to mentors, taking on leadership roles and helping younger children navigate their own challenges. Others find a path toward stability, using the skills they gain in program to secure employment, build healthier relationships and break cycles of hardship.
For every youth who walks through our doors today, there are past participants, now adults, who remember what these spaces meant to them. Whether it was a place to get help with homework, connect with a mentor or just escape the pressures of home for a few hours, these hubs have always been more than just programs. They are at the root of who we are as Trellis today.
No youth should have to navigate life’s challenge alone. This is why we continue to grow and evolve towards a steadfast goal: to create spaces where young people feel safe, supported and empowered.
*names have been changed.
We spoke with Trellis’ Elder-in-Residence, Darryl Brass and Director of Indigenous Initiatives, Shelly Wade about Trellis’ reconciliation journey and its impact on youth and families.
Looking back over the last five years, how have you seen Trellis’ reconciliation work evolve?
Shelly and Darryl at Trellis Round Dance
Shelly: I’ve seen ceremony and Indigenous practices become more deeply woven into our work, like launching our Strategic Plan with a Tea Dance. Our Indigenous youth program, Iiyika’kimaat, now has its own home in Pineridge, complete with a tipi and an Indigenous building name gifted by Elder John Chief Moon Jr. We’ve also started traditions like our annual Round Dance and an Elder’s Christmas luncheon to honour the Elders who support us.
Darryl: In places like our Group Homes, we’ve made ceremony more accessible. Medicines like smudge used to be locked away, but now they’re out and visible. When youth see the smudge bowl, they’re more likely to use it. We’ve also done more teaching around tobacco protocols and brought in ceremony during times of loss. That’s really helped people heal and understand grief through an Indigenous lens.
We’ve created space for healing circles and use restorative practice circles that draw from Indigenous teachings. And our leadership team is showing up, literally. Some of them were invited to a Sundance, where they just worked, no titles. It meant something. They were even honoured with Blackfoot names by Elders Reg and Rose Crowshoe. That doesn’t happen unless you’ve really built trust.
How did the decision to bring you on as an Elder in Residence come about? Can you talk about the guidance from our Knowledge Keepers Council and why now?
How has involving Elders changed the way we work with people in our programs?
How are you working to open up space and teachings to the community?
Darryl: Honestly, I was already doing the work. I was running Home Fire ceremonies, pipe ceremonies, cleansing homes and teaching about tobacco, even before joining Trellis. We consulted with the Knowledge Keepers Council, Elders like Reg and Rose Crowshoe and Casey Eagle Speaker, and took time to do it right. It’s different coming into a nonIndigenous organization in this way but it felt like a natural next step.
Shelly: Darryl is recognized as an Elder in the community. He was actually captured at our Elder’s luncheon specifically for the role by Elder Clarence Wolfleg, from Siksika. It was super special to start this role in a traditional way. Darryl was introduced to the Grandmothers and Grandfathers in the four directions during his capture and it just sets the right intentions from the beginning.
Shelly: We support people from across Canada by connecting them to their own traditions as well as local Treaty 7 Elders. It’s important that we respect the differences in teachings from Nation to Nation while ensuring everyone feels included.
Darryl: For the youth, having an Elder present creates a level of respect and safety. When they hear the word “elder” they know they’re in a space of care and tradition. Whether it’s through healing circles, smudging or a naming ceremony, these moments create a sense of belonging.
Shelly: When Trellis decided to make our Pineridge Hub a space for Indigenous programming this really changed things. It’s now become a hub for the wider community. Elders host their own ceremonies there, cook, smudge and gather together. It’s not just a program site it’s a community space.
Darryl: And we’re even changing how other agencies see ceremony. When we found out we couldn’t smudge at an event at Studio Bell we invited them into ceremony and shared teachings. Then they did the work to allow smudging in their space – that’s change! Same with the West Calgary Farmer’s Market, after conversations and sharing teachings, we were allowed to smudge there and create space for others to do so in the future.
In what ways have you seen change in the youth you work with?
Darryl setting up a Tipi at Trellis Round Dance
What advice would you give other organizations on their own reconciliation journey?
Darryl: It’s the connection that grows through ceremony that matters. I did a naming ceremony for a youth in a group home recently, it was emotional and powerful as it’s a right of passage that our people have been missing in their lives. That young person will carry that name forever.
Culture Camp is another shining star. These kids open up there, like they talk about what’s really happening, they break down, they cry together, they heal together, they build these connections and then they just have fun too as kids should. No phones, just land, ceremony, Elders, laughter. It reconnects them with culture and gives them pride in who they are.
Shelly: And I’ll just add that we are seeing young people stepping up into that helper role. They will be the one who makes the smudge or supports the Elder or makes the spirit plate. Also, at Darryl’s lodge recently some of the youth stepped up to build the fire to support him in ceremony. We were just at the Round Dance as a partner with Miskanawah and we had 10 youth volunteer. And so it’s really beautiful to watch these young people take on additional roles and responsibilities.
Darryl: I think one of the things we should be really proud of is how we’re reconnecting young people with their culture. We’re helping them find pride in who they are, showing them there’s beauty in being Indigenous. A lot of youth push that part of themselves away because they haven’t always seen the value in their culture. But then they experience something, maybe they meet an Elder, or we bring in dancers or drummers, and it clicks. They think, “Wow, this is mine.” And it becomes beautiful to them.
That’s what I love seeing. That’s why we’re here, for everyone, but especially for the youth. If we can reach them when they’re young and give them that sense of pride and connection, we’re setting them up for success in life.
Darryl: Ask questions. Bring in the right people. Hire folks with lived experience and ceremonial knowledge, not just the job title. And reach out, we’re happy to share what’s worked for us. Having a Knowledge Keepers Council has been a huge strength. It keeps us grounded and accountable.
Shelly: Agencies have reached out to learn from our structure. Embedding Indigenous ways of knowing in a non-Indigenous organization takes thoughtfulness and guidance. It’s a journey, not a checklist.
Jacklyn Peigan, Trellis Circle Keeper, plays the drum at the annual Walk for Reconciliation, an event held in partnership between The Confluence and Trellis Society.
Imagine this: our data starts showing a rising trend –more young people aging out of care and struggling to find stable housing, or a growing number of parents facing food insecurity. We see the need, we know where support is required, but the funding we have on hand is already locked into different programs. We’re stuck, unable to act quickly, because our dollars are restricted. This is the challenge of restricted funding, and why unrestricted gifts are the quiet heroes of community impact.
For decades, many donors have chosen to direct their donations to specific programs, ensuring their support goes exactly where they intend. It makes sense. When you donate to something like Trellis Society’s Youth and Family Homelessness fund, you know your dollars are directly supporting youth and families impacted by homelessness. It’s a direct and tangible way to visualize the impact. And while these gifts remain essential, there’s another kind of giving that fuels innovation, responsiveness and real-time problem-solving: the unrestricted gift.
Few people understand the impact of unrestricted giving better than Murlyne and Shawn. Murlyne has been a dedicated supporter and volunteer with Trellis for years, even before the organization was known as Trellis. She has witnessed firsthand how the ability to adapt makes a difference for those we serve. Today, she is the Chair of the Trellis Society Soirée committee, leading efforts to raise money for Calgary’s youth and families affected by homelessness, poverty, mental health barriers and intergenerational trauma.
Her partner, Shawn, brings a unique perspective. As a child, he accessed programs through one of Trellis’ legacy organizations clubs, programs that helped shape the person he is today. Now, as a successful community leader and a major supporter of Trellis, he and Murlyne give back in as many ways as they can. Together, they donate to Trellis, host the annual Ace High Stampede event benefiting Trellis and Shawn serves as a board member for the Trellis Foundation for Community Impact.
“I know firsthand the impact of these programs because I was one of the kids who benefited from them,” said Shawn. “I believe in giving back and making sure the next generation has the same, or even better, opportunities. Unrestricted giving lets Trellis adapt, grow and make the biggest impact possible.”
At its heart, unrestricted giving is an act of trust. It’s a belief that those working on the frontlines every day have the insight and expertise to allocate resources where they’re needed most. This approach, known as Trust Philanthropy, is a commitment to funding without restrictions, recognizing that community needs don’t stay in neat little boxes. They shift, grow and evolve.
Unrestricted funds allow Trellis to meet those changing needs in real time. They ensure we can provide emergency supports to families on the brink of eviction, step in when gaps in mental health services leave youth waiting too long for therapy, or expand programs for children and parents without being stalled by funding limitations. These gifts offer flexibility, and in a time when local challenges are growing more urgent, flexibility is everything.
At Trellis, unrestricted gifts flow into the Trellis 365 Fund (Greatest Needs), a dedicated resource that allows us to be there for our community every single day of the year. Whether it’s helping a young person find stable housing, supporting a parent in crisis, or keeping a critical program running when other funding runs dry, the Trellis 365 Fund ensures we can respond where and when it matters most.
“We trust Trellis to put our donations where they’re needed most,” shared Murlyne. “We’ve seen how unrestricted giving allows them to respond quickly, to be there for families when they need it most. Whether it’s food security, mental health support or housing stability, Trellis knows what’s needed in the moment and we want to support that flexibility.”
Unrestricted gifts made by donors, at any level, are vital to the strength of our work. Making an impact isn’t about controlling where every dollar lands; it’s about partnering with an organization to create real, lasting change. Donors who give to the Trellis 365 Fund are champions of possibility, knowing that the most effective solutions often emerge when organizations have the freedom to innovate. Their support is the trellis that allows Trellis to grow, adapt and reach new heights in response to the evolving needs of our community.
And this isn’t just about large-scale philanthropy. A monthly donor giving $25 or a one-time donor contributing $50 plays just as critical a role in supporting this work. When more donors choose to restrict their giving, organizations like Trellis have limited room to maneuver. We can have a fully funded program in one area but be scrambling to meet a crisis somewhere else. This is why unrestricted giving is such a game-changer. It allows us to act immediately, proactively and sustainably.
No matter how much you’re able to give, when you donate to the Trellis 365 Fund, you’re ensuring that support is available all year round. Every gift, big or small, has the power to change a life.”
— Murlyne and Shawn
Philanthropy is a conversation. We know that trust is built through relationships, and we invite our donors, at every level, to talk with us, visit our programs and see the work in action. If you’re considering an unrestricted gift, let’s connect. We want to hear from you – what inspires you to give, what you need from us in terms of transparency, and how we can continue to build a relationship of trust and shared impact.
Giving to the Trellis 365 Fund isn’t just about flexibility, it’s about partnership. It’s about believing in a shared vision for a future where everyone can flourish and knowing that no matter the size of your gift, you’re a vital part of making that vision a reality.
Watch Dillin’s story to see how donations are making a real impact.
When you’ve dedicated yourself to supporting what matters most and have a deep care for your community, the positive changes you’ve made can continue to grow and thrive for years to come. Legacy gifts are a powerful way to ensure that your generosity continues. Many Trellis donors who have supported us through donations, time and expertise, are also choosing to include Trellis Society in their wills and continuing their legacy of generosity and community wellness.
“When we look at our legacy, we think of our family and recognize that we also have a family in the broader community where we live. We have always believed that we must contribute a portion of our financial success to organizations like Trellis, who support and strengthen Calgary’s children, youth and families.
We know that our legacy will someday be defined by the wills we have written. Because we want that legacy to be both family- and community-centric, we have included Trellis in our will.
In 2013, we began our journey with Trellis (then Aspen Family Services) because they were an organization committed to empowering families and youth to grow beyond their challenges. When Aspen and Boys and Girls Club of Calgary merged, our belief in Trellis simply grew.”
There are many ways you can plant seeds today that will flourish for generations ahead, including a gift in your will, gifts of securities, life insurance or through an endowment fund. No matter the size of your gift, it will ensure that youth, individuals, and families continue to have access to the opportunities and resources they need to thrive.
We are grateful to Barb and Derek for their support today and for planning for their future impact. We invite you to consider a gift in your will and become a Legacy Donor through the Trellis Legacy Society program.
To explore how you can create a lasting impact through a gift in your will, contact Michele Chiasson-Suart, Senior Development Officer at mchiasson-suart@ growwithtrellis.ca. We’d be happy to have a thoughtful conversation about what matters most to you.
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In the heart of Strathmore, a quiet yet powerful force is at work, bringing people together, creating connections and strengthening families. The Strathmore Family Resource Network (FRN) provides essential family support services, developmental programs and cultural connections, making it more than just a hub for programming – it is a place where parents, children and individuals from all walks of life come together in a safe, welcoming space to find support, friendship and the resources they need to thrive. Through collaboration with multiple spoke partners, including the Trellis Society, Parent Caregiver Support Services and the Healthy Families Program, the FRN offers a holistic approach to community well-being.
For parents, especially new mothers, the journey of raising a child can feel overwhelming and isolating. The FRN provides a place where parents can bring their children to play, connect with other parents and gain the knowledge and tools they need to support their children’s growth.
“I had postpartum depression with my first child, so it was nice to have people there who could point me in the direction of some resources if I needed them. The number one for me was the postpartum support group. They have baby cuddlers upstairs who watch your kids while you’re downstairs,” shared Ashley, a local mom who has found comfort at the FRN.
Jenna, another mother who frequently attends programs at the FRN, echoed the sentiment. “I like having the location in the community so I can make friends in the same community that I live in. I attend several different programs. I do Tot Talk on Tuesdays, on Fridays I come for the open play group with both my children and I also do the Park Playdates in the summertime. It’s such a fun environment, I come here for myself, not just for my child.”
The FRN’s offerings extend far beyond traditional parenting support. Through a range of programs, including messy play, developmental screenings, sensory centers, language-focused activities and social-emotional learning, the hub ensures that every child is supported in their development. “I’ve done developmental checklists with the staff here, which has benefitted me as a parent to know that my children are on par with where they should be developmentally,” Jenna added. “I think it’s important for all parents to do because you can stay on top of how your children are and what they should be learning and they’re meeting all of their milestones.”
For families living in rural areas, access to community support is even more critical. Nicola, a mother who lives in a more isolated area, described how the FRN has been a lifeline for her and her children. “It’s been a huge impact. When I had my first born, she was about
My favorite thing about coming here is the people, they feel like a little family.”
five weeks early so she was in NICU for about a month. I don’t have any close family here and suffered from depression during those early months. Meeting Natasha from that first event, having that support. Not just a professional support, a personal support. Being a first-time mom, you’re learning. You don’t know how to navigate it. So, I honestly don’t know who I would have turned to, if it wasn’t for Trellis.”
The Strathmore FRN is also a place where cultural diversity is embraced and intergenerational programming thrives. Indigenous programming plays a crucial role in ensuring that families and youth have access to cultural knowledge and traditions. Verona, a Family & Youth Support Worker with Trellis Society, emphasized the importance of these programs. “It’s really good to be able to share our culture, to share our traditions, to educate people, and create a safe space for them,” she said. “In Strathmore, we have a lot of Cree, Métis, Blackfoot and Stoney families, as well as foster parents raising Indigenous children. We offer cultural programs like ribbon skirt making, drum-making workshops, and blanket exercises. It’s important for them to understand their history.”
Collaboration among spoke partners is at the heart of the FRN’s success. A prime example of this teamwork is the Family Carnival in Gleichen, where organizations joined forces to create a vibrant event attended by over 400 people from Strathmore, Siksika Nation and Gleichen. This collaboration not only strengthened
community bonds but also showcased the FRN’s ability to bring together diverse groups for meaningful engagement. Sumeet, a Parent Caregiver Support Services Coordinator, highlighted how their partnerships have allowed them to provide a more comprehensive range of services. “One of the biggest accomplishments is how well we cohesively work with other people in the community, not just with our spoke partners but with other non-profit organizations. We don’t overlap services, so instead of working against each other, we work together to create programming that benefits the whole community.”
From postpartum support and early childhood development to youth programming and community events, the FRN ensures that families and individuals never have to navigate life’s challenges alone. Whether it’s through programs like Coffee and Chat or larger community events like the family Christmas Dinner they held last year, the FRN fosters a sense of belonging and togetherness.
At its core, the Strathmore FRN is about more than services, it’s about people. It’s about creating a space where families, no matter their background, can come together, support each other and build lasting relationships. It’s about making sure that every child, every parent and every individual feels seen, supported and part of a larger community. Because, as the FRN proves time and again, it truly takes community to create belonging.
Finding a place where you truly belong can be life changing. For many 2SLGBTQIA++ youth, that sense of belonging isn’t always easy to come by, but at Trellis, we believe everyone deserves to feel safe, supported and celebrated for who they are.
That’s why inclusion isn’t just a value we uphold, it’s something we actively work toward across all our programs. We are committed to creating welcoming spaces where diversity is embraced, voices are heard, and every individual knows they matter. At Trellis, All Are Welcome Here.
For many 2SLGBTQIA++ youth, finding a safe and affirming place to live can be challenging. Aura, our housing-first program for gender-diverse youth aged 14 to 24, provides stability and support for those at risk of or experiencing homelessness. But Aura is more than a housing program, it’s a place where young people can build a future on their own terms, surrounded by acceptance and encouragement.
The impact of this program speaks for itself: Aura participants are achieving safe and stable housing. For one young person, this recently meant finding a home in the community where they could gain distance from their family and begin their medical transition, an important step in their journey. For others, it has meant the difference between surviving and thriving. Claudia and Benji both recently graduated high school, crediting their stability at home for allowing them to shift from just getting by to focusing on their future.
Trellis’ commitment to inclusion extends far beyond one program. Across all our services and teams, we work intentionally to ensure that the people we support, and those who work alongside us, feel welcome and valued. Our Queer Collective, a staffled initiative, helps us continually learn and evolve, ensuring we keep growing to meet the needs of 2SLGBTQIA++ individuals within Trellis and the broader community.
We also take meaningful action to advocate for and celebrate the queer community. Every year, we proudly walk in the Calgary Pride Parade, demonstrating our commitment to visibility and inclusion. And on Trans Day of Remembrance, we pause to honour lives lost, standing with the trans community in grief, remembrance and solidarity. This day reminds us of the discrimination that still exists and reinforces our responsibility to grow a community where trans individuals are not only safe but truly celebrated.
Having a safe place to call home allows youth to focus on their well-being, goals and personal growth. As one Aura participant shared, “having a stable and affordable place to live gives me time to work on long-term issues that I wouldn’t be able to deal with otherwise.” Another reflected, “I was able to secure housing away from an abusive situation and gain independence from unhealthy influences in my life.”
Through Aura, Trellis provides more than just a roof, we offer life skills development, health resources and opportunities to build meaningful connections. Trellis teammates help youth explore sustainable housing options while supporting them to build relationships with natural supports for the long-term.
At Trellis, we are committed to ensuring that no one feels alone on their journey. Through community events, group programming and meaningful relationships, we create spaces where youth can thrive.
For many youth, the Aura program is the first time they’ve had a place where they feel truly seen, respected and celebrated. But our work can’t stop here. Across all of Trellis, we are continuously learning, growing and taking meaningful action to create a more inclusive community for the people we serve.
Because at Trellis, everyone deserves a place to belong.
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For many students, graduation is a milestone that represents years of hard work, resilience and dreams taking flight. But for some, the journey to graduation can be filled with barriers. That’s where GRADitude comes in, a special event hosted by Trellis Society in partnership with Youth Central that helps young graduates celebrate this achievement with confidence and pride. With the support of community volunteers like Jodie from RBC, GRADitude is more than just a celebration, it’s a moment of empowerment.
Jodie’s story with Trellis began long before she became a volunteer. When Jodie and her husband started their family at a young age, making ends meet was a challenge. “Childcare was really hard to come by, and when summer came around, we didn’t have many options,” Jodie shared. When she found a local program offered by one of Trellis’ legacy organizations offering affordable, engaging activities for her daughter, it became a lifeline. “It was a huge blessing for us –a place where my daughter could connect with other kids and have fun.”
Now, years later, Jodie is in a position to give back. As a co-lead on the Alberta and Territories Community Engagement Committee with RBC, she sought meaningful ways to make an impact. That’s when she found Trellis Society. “I was looking for something close to us where we could truly get involved, and I came across Trellis. It felt like a full-circle moment.”
Last year, Jodie and her RBC colleagues volunteered at GRADitude for the first time. They helped graduates find the perfect outfit, ensuring they felt confident and celebrated. “Finding that one outfit that makes someone light up, that’s an amazing feeling,” Jodie said. The team also supported Trellis’ Back-to-School BBQ, ensuring youth had warm jackets and essentials. “The camaraderie and partnership are incredible. We have so much fun, and you can see the real impact Trellis has in the community.”
Jodie and her team returned for their second GRADitude event in April. RBC’s volunteer grant program combines a financial contribution with volunteerism. “It’s an amazing way to support Trellis and the community with time and dollars that can help.”
Kadie, Trellis’ Volunteer and Community Engagement Coordinator, knows firsthand the impact of volunteers like Jodie. “Jodie and her team have been such a joy to partner with. They don’t just give their time, they create an experience that makes young people feel seen, valued and proud of their achievements. We couldn’t do what we do without people like Jodie and her teammates at RBC.”
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For Jodie, volunteering isn’t just about giving, it’s about connection. “I’ve made friends, met colleagues I wouldn’t have known otherwise and seen the difference we can make together. It’s laughter, community and impact all rolled into one. And honestly, it’s a little selfish, it makes me feel good to be part of something so meaningful.”
Trellis offers many ways to get involved beyond GRADitude. From engaging with youth and families at community events to assisting with essential programs, volunteers are the heart of Trellis. Whether you’re looking to give back as an individual or with a corporate team, there’s a place for you to make a difference.
Want to get involved? Join us in celebrating and supporting the next generation.
Learn more about how you can be a part of something truly meaningful!
Jodie from RBC
THANK YOU RBC!
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RBC supports Trellis Society at the Changemakers level through the Youth Employment Program – Work Experience, helping youth from diverse and marginalized communities facing employment barriers to build confidence, self-esteem and essential workplace skills.
Family homelessness is a hidden crisis in our city, often misunderstood because it doesn’t always look like what people expect. Families might be staying with relatives, living in overcrowded spaces, or even sleeping in vehicles, all while doing what they can to keep their children safe. Rising costs, unexpected hardships and systemic barriers are forcing more families into housing instability. “While they do everything they can to stay housed, the affordability crisis continues to push them to the brink”.
“Ariel’s story is one of resilience. As a single mother, she battled housing instability, fought to keep guardianship of her child, and navigated the courts—all while facing eviction when her friend lost their home.”
“When I first met Ariel, she was couch-surfing. I remember driving Ariel to a few rental viewings. During those drives, she shared her dream of going back to school and getting her life together so she could one day give back to others who were struggling. Ariel was an intelligent young woman who had been through a lot. I saw a spark in her and truly believed she was capable of great things,” said Jaime Laturnus, Manager of Landlord Partnerships and Housing.
But stability remained out of reach. As a single mother with a newborn, Ariel felt the weight of expectations, but didn’t know where to find the support she needed. When Children and Family Services became involved, she felt the pressure to “get her life together,” but needed help as she juggled court dates and personal challenges. She unfortunately lost custody of her daughter.
Arial bounced between social workers, feeling as if every new face brought another obstacle rather than a solution. Then she met her new caseworker. “I didn’t
like her at first and I knew she was going to be tough on me.” But despite her initial resistance, something about this worker was different. She was honest and clear with Arial, being realistic about Arial not getting her daughter back based on her current situation.
The weight of her reality hit her hard, compounded by the devastating loss of her brother to an overdose. She spiraled, unable to parent, struggling mentally and eventually losing her home. When the courts placed her daughter under a Permanent Guardianship Order (PGO), she realized something had to change.
I asked myself: when is this cycle going to end? I was a product of the system, from a broken family, and I had to decide what kind of legacy I wanted for my future family. I made a decision: ‘It ends with me.’”
Determined to turn her life around, Ariel entered outpatient rehab, but the emotional toll was overwhelming, and she left before completing the program. “Rather than count it as a complete failure, I reminded myself that one setback didn’t have to define my future.” Instead of giving up, she enrolled in inpatient treatment. It was terrifying, but she stuck with it.
While in rehab, another tragedy struck when her mother passed away. It was the first time she had to navigate loss while sober. “It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever gone through, but I was determined to be a positive influence for my younger siblings.”
Despite the pain, she found strength in the people around her, including a cousin she reconnected with during treatment. Ariel also found healing in her culture, something she had never fully explored before. “Smudging and ceremony became important to me. It was really beautiful, I didn’t know much about my culture before I was connected to a Circle Keeper at Trellis, and learning about it was incredible.”
As Ariel worked toward recovery, the lack of affordable housing remained a challenge. She eventually secured a place to live, but the conditions were difficult. The old building had thin walls, and a downstairs neighbor continuously filed noise complaints. Even after working with her caseworker and Trellis on the issue, the complaints persisted. “I was stressed and afraid I would lose my home,” Ariel said. The instability was exhausting, making her doubt whether she would ever regain full custody of her daughter. “It felt like a slow transition, I worried I would never make it.”
Slowly, things started to change. Working together, Ariel committed herself to growth and Trellis helped her find a more suitable housing solution. Eventually, she secured a great unit in a property managed by Trellis. Along the way, she faced challenges with budgeting and income, but with determination and support from Trellis, she persevered.
With this newfound stability, Ariel was able to enrol and complete her schooling, eventually being offered a job working in the very system that raised her, helping children and youth facing the same struggles she once
did. “I studied Child and Youth Services because I want to help others who are facing the same struggles I once did. I know firsthand how difficult it can be, but I also know that change is possible.”
“I was incredibly happy when I heard that Ariel had regained custody of her daughter and was pursuing the goal she had mentioned when we first met – going to school,” Jaime said. “Ariel has come a long way, and I have no doubt that she will do amazing things supporting others who face similar struggles. Her lived experience, though difficult, will be a powerful asset in her work. Her resilience, hard work and perseverance are truly remarkable.”
Today, Ariel is proud to share that her decision to stop the cycle has been hard but incredibly worthwhile. She regained custody of her daughter and together they have a home where they feel safe. “First and foremost, as soon as I get my money, I make sure my rent is paid. Having that peace of mind, being able to be happy and grateful, it’s an amazing feeling. We live in a great neighborhood, with parks in every direction. The neighbors are incredibly nice. It feels like home. That’s something I’ve never experienced before.”
I’m proud of how far I’ve come. Today, I have stable housing, my daughter is back with me and I feel a sense of community and support. My journey wasn’t easy, but I’m proof that with the right help and determination, people can rebuild their lives. And now, I’m ready to give back.”
Support with transitioning into adulthood, skillbuilding, budgeting and connection to culture and community were all important pieces of Ariel’s journey towards long-term stability. These supports, when paired with Ariel’s hard work and commitment to change, shaped her success.
With stable housing, she was able to return to school, focus on her future and create a safe environment for her child. Today, she is thriving, proving that when given the right support, families can overcome hardship and build a future filled with possibility.
Over the last five years, therapy services at Trellis have grown and evolved to better meet the needs of our community. We sat down with Amelia, our Director of Clinical Services, to learn more about where these services began and how they’ve expanded since we became Trellis. From ensuring accessibility to leveraging creative approaches, our therapy team continues to adapt and make a lasting impact.
Why did Trellis Society start offering therapy?
What makes Trellis’ approach different?
Trellis aims to have no waitlist. Why is that important?
When we launched our therapy program, our goal was simple – meet the urgent need for accessible mental health support. We saw too many young people and families struggling, facing long waitlists or unable to access care. We wanted to be a solution. Today, Trellis is the only free youth therapy program in the city that meets young people where they are, whether it’s at school, on a walk or even skipping rocks by the river. Healing doesn’t always happen in a chair across from a therapist and we embrace creative, evidence-based approaches to support everyone’s unique journey.
Flexibility. We recognize that no two people are the same, so our therapy isn’t either. Our team is made up of highly skilled therapists who bring experience, resilience and a deep commitment to their clients. They’re not in it for the paycheck; they could be in private practice but choose to be here because they care about people. Our therapists use a range of modalities, ensuring each person gets the right support in the way that works best for them.
The moment someone asks for help is critical. If they reach out and find themselves on a waitlist, they might lose hope. They’ve already taken the brave step of being vulnerable and if there’s no immediate support, they may turn back to the coping strategies they know, some of which may not be safe or sustainable. Research shows it can take five to seven tries to find a therapist that fits, but we might only get one chance. We work hard to make that first connection count.
When we first set out, our goal was to have no waitlist, but the demand for services grew so quickly that we found ourselves with a waitlist for years. It wasn’t until early 2025 that we finally cleared it. Now, keeping up with the growing number of referrals to avoid a waitlist again remains a challenge. The reality is, the more resources we have, the more people we can help. We’re getting creative to expand access, leveraging practicum students from accredited university programs at the master’s and PhD levels to increase capacity while maintaining high-quality care. We’ve also been exploring group-based therapy models, allowing us to reach more people sooner while still providing meaningful support. If we had more funding and more staff, we could guarantee that no young person has to wait. This is a call to action: investment in mental health services makes a real, tangible difference.
We serve individuals aged four and up and our model is a mix of free and fee-based services. Some therapy is covered, while other sessions are fee-for-service. For those who have benefits and choose Trellis, their payments help sustain our model, reinvesting in care for those who couldn’t otherwise afford it. When you receive therapy through Trellis, you’re not just helping yourself you’re helping someone else, too.
The moments of celebration. In the team meeting where I announced we had no waitlist, the room lit up. It’s moments like this that remind us why we’re here. We believe in this work and in the people we serve. At the core of our team is a deep belief that everyone deserves access to high-quality mental health support, regardless of their circumstances. We work collaboratively, combining expertise, passion and innovative approaches to ensure that no one is left behind. That feeling of knowing we’re making a difference? That’s everything.
THANK YOU GIBSON!
A $1M investment from Gibson Energy over five years transformed our Youth Mental Health services. With this commitment concluding in 2024, Trellis is actively seeking our next Youth Mental Health Champion - because we know how vital this work is!
When you support Trellis Society, you are investing in a future where everyone, regardless of their circumstances, has the opportunity to thrive. Your generosity helps provide stable housing, early childhood education, family supports, culturally inclusive programs and accessible mental health services.
The impact of this work doesn’t just change lives today, it transforms entire generations. When a young person has a safe place to sleep, a family receives the support they need to stay together, or a parent gains the confidence and skills to support their child’s
development, we plant the seeds for long-term change. Strong foundations lead to strong futures, breaking the cycles of hardship and creating opportunities that extend far beyond the present moment.
At Trellis, we work to remove barriers and create opportunities so that every person, regardless of background or circumstance, has the chance to grow and thrive. Through innovative programs, deep community connections and compassionate support, we are building a more inclusive and sustainable future for all.
We’ve simplified our work into five branches to make it easier to understand how we support people:
A safe place to call home is the foundation for growth. We provide emergency shelter for youth, safe homes for children in care, and housing programs for youth, adults and families exiting or experiencing homelessness, or at risk of eviction.
From preschool and after-school care to youth employment and summer camps, we create spaces where children and youth can learn, connect and flourish.
Strong families grow strong communities. We offer in-home parenting support, family coaching and Family Resource Networks that help parents navigate challenges and strengthen family togetherness.
Vision:
A community where everyone can flourish
Purpose:
We support growth across generations
Belonging is essential to well-being. We support cultural connections for Indigenous youth and families, help Newcomers grow a sense of belonging and empower community-building initiatives that help neighborhoods thrive.
We provide therapy, addictions support and mental health services tailored to youth and families, ensuring that people have the tools they need to heal and grow, no matter what they’ve been through.
