Welcome to town bride , Anderson’s premiere bridal magazine featuring all things wedding. This semiannual magazine focuses on everything the bride and groom need to know to help make their wedding day one of a kind. Enjoy gorgeous pictures, informative articles, engagement and wedding announcements, tips and trends, as well as the top local wedding vendors. The magazine is published in the spring/summer and fall/winter. Issues are available in all vendor locations plus key distribution spots in Anderson, Easley, Starr/Iva, Greenville, and surrounding areas.
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SPECIAL THANKS TO: Bride: Brooke Gurley
Dress: The Poinsett Bride; Custom color by Staar Tailors
Hair & Makeup: LR
Weddings
Flowers: Pink Flamingo
Designs
Venue: Lacee Meadows
Photographer: Christy Henderson Photography
CONTRIBUTING
WRITERS:
Kim von Keller
Alexandria Stathakis
Kristine March Jerrad Fenske
GRAPHIC DESIGN
Pamela Brownstein pamelauhles@hotmail.com
Nate Thomason Signal 43 Design signal43@live.com
Photo by Christy Henderson Photography
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SPRING FORWARD
What are the latest wedding trends? wedding trends
By Kristine Ker March
The spring wedding trends this year are absolutely elite. I look back at my own wedding, which was exactly 10 years ago, and the trends from back then have come such a long way. I wish I could go back in time and add a few of them from today. That’s how good they are!
For starters, we have the color palette. This year, it’s all about dusty rose, sapphire, pastels, and natural hues. I saw a wedding online yesterday and all of the bridesmaids were dressed in silk dusty rose colored gowns. It was absolutely stunning on their skin, and the color of every skin tone was incredible. You could also incorporate those shades for the groomsmen and their tuxedos. Sapphire would be classic and handsome.
Flowers
For your bouquet this year, the lush, over-the-top look has been a bit played out. It will always be lovely if that’s your preference, it’s still my favorite, but at the moment it’s all about the micro bouquet. Think simple and elegant. A good example would be a bouquet of just calla lilies. The interesting fact about these flowers is that they come in a wide variety of colors. You could use simple white or even
apples, strawberries, and grapes. If you think it looks odd, think again. It’s really gorgeous and incredibly unique inside the bunch of flowers.
black, which would be extremely sophisticated. If you want that burst of color, they also come in purple and orange. Red is also really big if you’re planning on going vibrant and bold.
Jewelry added to your wedding bouquet is also a big trend this year. It’s very couture and it looks like it came right off of the runway. You could add pearls or brooches.
Believe it or not, some brides are even adding pieces of fruit or vegetables like artichoke hearts,
Cascading blooms are also popular for the cake table and your centerpieces. If you want to add flowers to your wedding cake, peonies, dahlias, and roses are safe for consumption and nontoxic. I think real flowers are always the most stunning, but fake ones will suffice too, especially if you are on a budget and you mix the two together.
Wedding Dress and Veil
Now, for the most important part. The dress. Drop waist gowns, crystal adornments, and tulle are everywhere right now. My favorite is the Basque waist which really focuses on your silhouette. It gives you a natural hourglass shape and makes you
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look like a princess. Not only does it have a ritzy and distinguished appeal, but it can also be quite flattering on any body type.
If you’re not into the regal look, try something with bell sleeves. It will add drama and make a statement without being too flashy.
For the wedding veil there are endless options, but the pleated look is really in right now. I think elbow length in a soft tulle is absolutely divine. Especially, if you’re going for that old Hollywood vibe.
Makeup & Hair
For bridal makeup this spring go for a glowy and radiant look. For example, luminous skin, flushed cheeks, natural brows and a bold lip, will give you that effortless look.
No matter the trend, when you look back at your wedding pictures one day you want your makeup to be natural and glowing and if you don’t wear a lot of makeup, I suggest doing it how you would in your everyday life, but a bit heavier. You can always let your makeup artist do a trial run beforehand, just so it’s to your liking. That goes for your hair also. A test run is always the best option.
Wedding Shoes
Lastly, are your wedding shoes. The pointed toe with tulle bows on the end and block heels are everywhere. Also, more crystal embellishments on a clear Cinderella heel are still trending, and of course, if you’re going more Bohemian, you can always do a boot. Especially if you have a slit up the side of your gown. That is really flattering and not to mention very comfortable.
Dream Your deserves the Perfect Venue Wedding
These are just some of the things that are trending for spring 2025. What are you going to wear when you walk down the aisle this year?
Happy wedding day y’all!
The delicious trend that’s sweeping the aisle Edible Decor
When it comes to planning a wedding, the details matter—especially when it comes to decor. Couples are constantly looking for unique and memorable ways to personalize their big day, and one of the
most delightful trends to emerge in recent years is the use of edible decor. From decorative centerpieces to sweet treats that double as table settings, edible decor is not only a feast for the eyes but also for the taste buds.
The Allure of Edible Wedding Decor What makes edible decor so appealing? For starters, it’s both functional and beautiful. Couples can add a personal touch to their wedding by choosing foods that
hold special meaning, or that match the theme and color scheme of the celebration. Edible decor is also a great way to surprise guests with unexpected delights while
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minimizing waste. After all, who doesn’t love a tasty treat that they can enjoy as part of the decor?
Another reason edible decor is growing in popularity is that it creates an immersive experience. From hand-crafted sugar flowers to intricate fruit displays, edible decorations allow guests to engage with the decor in a way that traditional flowers or candles cannot. And with the growing trend toward sustainability, edible items offer an eco-friendly alternative to plastic and foam decor.
Ideas for Edible
Wedding Decor
1. Edible Flower Arrangements
Edible flowers are a classic way to bring nature into your wedding decor. Think vibrant pansies, lavender, or marigolds, which not only add color but can also be used as garnishes in drinks or dishes. These flowers can be incorporated into your bouquet, scattered on tables, or even used to decorate a wedding cake. Be sure to choose flowers that are safe for consumption, and source them from a reputable vendor.
2. Candy and Chocolate Displays
Candy tables have become a staple of many weddings, but why not elevate the idea by incorporating artfully arranged edible decor? Display
custom-made chocolates, gummies, or candied fruits in unique glass containers, on tiered cake stands, or arranged in edible art installations. Chocolate sculptures, particularly ones created with the couple’s initials or wedding theme, make for stunning focal points.
3. Edible Cake Toppers
Forget the traditional plastic figurines; edible cake toppers offer a charming and delicious alternative. Fondant flowers, sugar lace, or even intricate sugar sculptures of the bride and groom can be used to top the wedding cake. These edible toppers not only look great but taste great too, and they can be customized to match the couple’s personality and wedding theme.
4. Fruit Centerpieces
For a fresh and light touch, consider using fruit as centerpieces. Elegant arrangements of seasonal fruits like grapes, ber-
to treat guests. Placed at each table setting, these cookies serve as both a decoration and a personalized favor. Beautifully decorated cookies can fit any wedding theme, from rustic to elegant, and they give guests a sweet reminder of the celebration.
7. Donut Walls
ries, and citrus can add vibrant color to the reception. These can be beautifully arranged in bowls, sculpted into a decorative centerpiece, or even hung from a tree for an organic, whimsical vibe. Guests will appreciate the light, refreshing treat during cocktail hour.
5. Macaron Towers
A macaron tower is a visually striking and delicious alternative to traditional floral centerpieces. The soft, colorful French pastries are not only beautiful but come in a wide variety of flavors that can be tailored to the couple’s tastes. These towers can serve as a dessert station or be placed as a statement piece, making for a memorable wedding decor item that doubles as a treat for guests.
6. Personalized Cookie Favors
Customized cookies, perhaps shaped like wedding rings, hearts, or the couple’s initials, can be a delightful way
A donut wall is a fun and trendy option for couples looking to add a playful touch to their wedding decor. Colorful donuts on display create a delicious art installation that guests can help themselves to throughout the reception. Donut walls can be customized with various glazes, toppings, and flavors to suit the couple’s preferences, and they provide a quirky, Instagram-worthy backdrop for photos.
8. Edible Place Cards
If you’re seeking a way to combine functionality with flavor, edible place cards are a perfect choice. Personalized cookies, mini cupcakes, or small chocolates with guests’ names on them can be used as place markers. This way, each guest has a delicious treat waiting for them as part of the table setting, adding a personalized touch while contributing to the wedding decor.
9. Edible Confetti
For couples who want a colorful and eco-friendly
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way to celebrate their nuptials, edible confetti made from flower petals, herbs, or colored sugar can be a great option. This confetti can be used during the ceremony to shower the newlyweds as they exit or as a fun addition to the reception tables. It’s biodegradable and, best of all, safe to consume.
Why Edible Decor Makes Sense
Besides being a visual and culinary treat, edible
wedding decor often aligns with the growing emphasis on sustainable and local sourcing. Many couples today are focused on reducing waste, and edible decor offers the perfect solution. Instead of purchasing items that will eventually be thrown away, you can choose foods that will be enjoyed by your guests.
Additionally, edible decor allows for more creative expression and personalization. Couples can infuse their favorite flavors, colors, and expe -
riences into their decor, making the wedding feel uniquely theirs. Whether it’s a cake that tastes like the bride’s favorite childhood dessert or fruit arrangements reflecting the couple’s love for a particular vacation destination, edible decor offers
endless possibilities. Edible decor is more than just a passing trend— it’s a fun and delicious way to make your wedding celebration unforgettable. It brings an element of surprise and delight, giving guests an interactive experience while also serving as a feast for the senses. With endless creative possibilities, edible decor can enhance every aspect of your wedding, from the ceremony to the reception, ensuring that your special day is as tasty as it is beautiful.
SWEET DREAMS
The hidden sleep issue every bride needs to know about
By Dr. Gabrielle Cannick
Planning a wedding is a full-time job. Between picking the perfect venue and choosing a dress that’ll make jaws drop, it’s easy to feel drained. And while many brides think exhaustion just comes with the territory, what if your tiredness isn’t just from wedding stress?
down, stressed, and less-than-glowing for your walk down the aisle.
Let’s talk about this hidden sleep issue and what you can do to wake up feeling refreshed, flawless, and fabulous on your big day.
What Is Sleep Disordered Breathing?
For many women, ongoing fatigue, brain fog, and even trouble shedding a few pounds before the big day might be from a hidden but common culprit — sleep-disordered breathing (SDB). SDB affects more women than you’d think and can leave you feeling run-
Sleep-disordered breathing (SDB) is an umbrella term for conditions that disrupt normal breathing while you sleep, the most common being obstructive sleep apnea (OSA). When you have sleep apnea, your airway collapses multiple times a night, causing brief but repeated interruptions in
breathing. This leads to poor oxygen circulation, restless sleep, and serious health consequences over time.
Most people assume sleep apnea is just a “man’s problem,” but women suffer from it too. Women’s symptoms often look different than men’s, so they go undiagnosed.
How Sleep Apnea Shows Up in Women
While snoring is the most known issue, women may experience more subtle symptoms, including:
• Feeling exhausted, even after a full night’s sleep
• Morning headaches
• Insomnia or difficulty falling back asleep
• Daytime sleepiness
• Anxiety, mood swings, or unexplained stress
• Weight gain or trouble losing weight, even with diet and exercise
• Teeth grinding or jaw pain.
If you’ve been blaming your exhaustion on wedding planning, it might be time to look closely at your sleep.
How SDB Affects Wellness
As a bride, you want to feel healthy, vibrant, and energized as you begin this exciting new chapter of life. But if sleep apnea or another sleep disorder is in the mix, it could be an uphill battle.
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Beauty sleep is real- deep sleep is when your body repairs skin cells and boosts collagen production. When sleep is disrupted, your skin can look dull, tired, and puffy, making those dark circles even harder to cover with makeup. Additionally, sleep apnea messes with metabolism and hormone balance, making it harder to lose weight and easier to crave unhealthy foods. SDB also affects memory, making it harder to stay sharp, focused, and on top of your game.
How Brides Can Treat Sleep Apnea & Sleep Better Before the Big Day
If you’ve been nodding your head thinking, “This sounds just like me,” take action.
1. Get Checked for Sleep
Apnea
If you suspect sleep apnea, talk to your doctor about a sleep study; it can even be done at home! The sooner you get diagnosed, the sooner you’ll start feeling like yourself again.
• The gold standard for moderate to severe sleep apnea.
• A CPAP machine delivers a steady stream of air through a mask, keeping the airway open.
Oral Appliances (Mandibular Advancement Devices)
• A custom-fitted mouthpiece that repositions the jaw and tongue to keep the airway open.
• Great for mild to moderate sleep apnea and those who can’t tolerate CPAP.
Surgical Options (For Severe Cases or Structural Issues)
• Tonsillectomy: Removes enlarged tonsils if they’re blocking airflow.
• Hypoglossal Nerve Stimulation (Inspire Therapy): A small implant that stimulates throat muscles to keep the airway open.
Lifestyle Changes That Help
• Weight loss: Even a small reduction in weight can improve symptoms.
• Sleeping on your side: Keeps your airway open better than sleeping on your back.
• Avoid alcohol before bed: It relaxes the airway too much, worsening symptoms.
Final Thoughts: Be the Well-Rested, Glowing Bride You Deserve to Be Your wedding day should
be joyful, full of energy, and stress-free. If you’ve been feeling overly tired, foggy, or irritable, don’t just assume it’s wedding planning fatigue. Sleep-disordered breathing might be standing between you and your best self. By getting the right treatment, prioritizing restful sleep, and making a few small changes, you’ll wake up refreshed and ready to say “I do” with confidence.
So, sweet bride, take care of yourself because the best bridal glow comes from deep, restorative sleep.
Now go on, get some rest — you deserve it!
Dr. Gabrielle F. Cannick is the owner of Grand Oaks Dental and Sleep Well Anderson, at 3905 Liberty Highway in Anderson. Call 864-224-0809, or visit grandoaksdental.com or sleepwellanderson.com.
Legally Married
Ensure your officiant has the right credentials
By Kim von Keller
When a couple plans a wedding, their goals often have to do with the day itself. Will the event be personal? Will the ceremony be meaningful? Will the reception be fun? But perhaps the most important question should be this:
When it’s all over, will we be legally married?
It’s not a question that earlier generations faced, when most weddings took place in churches or courthouses and were conducted by religious officiants or civil servants. The 21st century wedding, though, is just as likely to take place at a wedding venue and officiated by a relative or family friend. And just saying “I do” doesn’t mean that your marriage is legally recognized, with all the rights and responsibilities that marriage entails. It’s important that your officiant has the credentials required by the state in which you will marry and can legally complete your marriage license following the ceremony.
So, if you’re unsure whether your chosen officiant can legally sign your marriage license after your ceremony, it’s best to start with the laws of the state in which you will marry. Here’s a brief look at the requirements to officiate weddings in South Carolina.
The South Carolina Code of Laws, Section 20-1-20, addresses persons who may perform marriage ceremonies.
“Only ministers of the Gospel, Jewish rabbis, officers authorized to administer oaths in this State,
and the chief or spiritual leader of a Native American Indian entity recognized by the South Carolina Commission for Minority Affairs pursuant to Section 1-31-40 are authorized to administer a marriage ceremony in this State.”
As of this writing, in South Carolina, a notary public is authorized to administer oaths. Section 26-1-90 outlines the powers of a notary public.
(A) A notary public may perform the following acts: (1) acknowledgments; (2) oaths and affirmations; (3) attestations and jurats; (4) signature witnessing; (5) verifications of fact; and (6) any other acts authorized by law.
It is important to note that not
all states allow notaries to officiate weddings. According to the National Notary Association, as of 2024, only Florida, Montana, Maine, Nevada, South Carolina, and Tennessee allow notaries to perform wedding ceremonies.
As is the case with notaries, the requirements to legally perform marriage ceremonies and complete marriage licenses differ from state to state. Some states recognize the ordination of ministers by online churches, while others do not. If you have questions about your wedding officiant, contact the probate court in the county in which you reside or in which you will be married. Make sure that the happiest day of your lives is also legal!
It’s important that your officiant has the credentials required by the state and can legally complete your marriage license following the ceremony.
‘CARRY YOU HOME’
TBy Jerrad Fenske
his morning as I was walking in the cool, spring air, the wonderful song “Carry You Home” walked through my mind. Alex Warren has woven a series of words forming a nostalgic and futuristic journey through the mind of someone in love. In previous articles I have mentioned the beauty and importance of words coupled with tremendous melodies forming soundtracks to our lives, and in many instances, taking center stage as prominent positions throughout our lives.
Warren sets the destination of the sunset, the advent of the moon. Hoping, praying and dreaming on the future of that one person who means
the most to him and will be carried home. That nostalgic act of carrying your beloved over the threshold of the home where your lives will change and grow in a union of love. He is willing to wait up to 55 years for the hope of the bond between two people who have lived through thick and thin. “In this and every life, I choose us every time.” These words are not merely song lyrics but wedding vows from the heart as a promise of endless love.
These beautiful vows were not the first image that struck me. “Throwing dreams against
the wall” was the phrase that caught my initial attention. Warren obviously grew up testing cooked pasta by tossing it against the kitchen cupboard. Any good cook knows the essential way to test if pasta is ready to eat, toss a strand against the cupboard, if it sticks it is ready!
As the late Salvador Petrillo stated about his relationship with his wife, “Sophia: This veal is tough like me, this sauce is spicy like you and the mozzarella is like our love that binds us together!” Indeed, love is like mozzarella, we all need it to bind us together.
“Didn’t have a bed to sleep in We kept each other warm under a ceiling full of stars
These days, these nights are changing Mama, my mind is set on you I’m not afraid to say it, to say I do.”
As a romantic, I always search for the moon. Warren uses the sunset, the stars, and the threshold of love to move us to the future, coupled with the readiness of pasta! Cling to your love and each other with music, food and love.
Jerrad Fenske is a musician and teacher who can be reached at www.jerradfenske.com.
THE BRIDE MAY BE THE STAR, BUT THE GROOM CAN
Share the Spotlight
By Kim von Keller
Ian Wallace is a visual thinker. It’s part of his success as a photographer for a major North American home electronics retailer. So, it’s no surprise that when he and his fiancée, Olivia Waller, were planning their 2022 wedding, he had a clear vision of the look he wanted as she met him at the altar at Pine Knoll Farms in Appling, Georgia.
“Obviously, all eyes would be on Olivia, which is how it should be,” Ian says. “But I wanted to stand out from my groomsmen, just as Olivia stood out from her bridesmaids. I also knew that I wanted a look that was personal, something that would
nod toward my Scottish heritage.”
Olivia didn’t need much convincing.
“At first, I thought, Wouldn’t that be cool? Next, it was, Why not? And finally, I thought, Oh, this is great!” she says.
To achieve his vision, Ian turned to Bruce Julian Clothiers in Charlotte, North Carolina. Since opening his shop in 1977, Bruce Julian has worked with many wedding parties, but today, the concentration is on the grooms.
“We have quite an arsenal up our sleeve — good clothing phrase — when it comes to making it a fabulous event for them,” Bruce says.
For the Waller-Wallace wedding, the groomsmen wore dark suits. In a reference to Clan Wallace, the suits were accessorized with bow ties and pocket squares, made by Olivia’s mother, in the Wallace Hunting Tartan, which replaces the Wallace Tartan’s familiar red with forest green. After a visit to Bruce Julian Clothiers, Ian chose a custom tuxedo with black pants, a white tuxedo shirt with his monogram on the left cuff, and a velvet tuxedo jacket in deep forest green.
“My day-to-day style is honestly blue
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jeans and a T-shirt; I’m able to wear that at work, so I do!” Ian says. “Date nights get a little spruce up with a white or simple pattern button down and black or blue chinos with brown chukka boots and a brown belt. Weddings typically get a black suit, black shoes, and a white button down with a maroon necktie. I had never worn anything like my wedding tuxedo before. Sure, I’ve dressed up, but never in this level of fit and finish. I felt really confident in a way I had never been in an outfit before.”
Bruce advises his clientele to make their clothing decisions as if they are looking at themselves in their wedding pictures.
“After the wedding, the pho -
tographs are what’s left,” he says, “and the groom certainly needs to stand out. Setting himself apart from his groomsmen can be as discreet as adding a pocket square, but my personal favorite is that he wears a distinctive custom-made vest with his suit or tuxedo to make it obvious that he is the man marrying this beauty and the others are for support.”
That doesn’t mean that a groom can’t take things too far.
“A client getting married in the mountains had me make him a stunning high shade of bleach Donegal tweed threepiece suit with leather buttons,” Bruce says. “I ran into him after the wedding and asked how it went. He said it was challenging, as everyone liked his outfit better than his bride’s.”
Not all couples want to add the expense of a bespoke suit or tuxedo to their wedding budgets, but if they can afford it, Bruce sees it as buying a kind of privacy.
“As the groom, your outfit is just for you, not anyone else,” he says. “When I am designing for my clients, I can install a lining that is pictures of the bride and groom and their pets or friends or whatever is important to them. Embroidery can also personalize the outfit. Basically, you can make it your own in your way.”
And perhaps the best thing about a groom’s custom attire is that, unlike the bridal gown, it can be worn again.
“I love my tuxedo,” Ian says. “I’ve worn it to a friend’s wedding, and I’ve worn the jacket out on date nights!”
Ian Wallace wears a custom tuxedo designed by Bruce Julian Clothiers that is a nod to his Scottish heritage. The jacket is velvet in a deep forest green color. PROVIDED
wedding fashion
Perfect Tuxedo A GUIDE TO CHOOSING THE
Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life, and as the groom, you want to look your absolute best. A tuxedo is a timeless symbol of sophistication and elegance, and choosing the right one is crucial to ensuring you feel confident and dashing as you say “I do.” But with so many options available, how do you choose the perfect tuxedo for your big day? Here’s a comprehensive guide to help you make an informed decision.
1. Consider the Wedding Theme and Venue
The first step in choosing your tuxedo is to consider the style and theme of your wedding. A formal black-tie wedding requires a classic tuxedo, while a more casual or outdoor wedding may give you room to experiment with different styles or colors.
• Traditional Wedding: For a black-tie wedding, a classic black tuxedo with satin lapels is the most timeless choice. Pair it with a white dress shirt, black patent leather shoes, and a black bow tie.
• Themed or Outdoor Wedding: If you’re hosting a beach or rustic wedding, you might want to explore lighter-colored tuxedos, like navy blue, grey, or even white. For a more relaxed style, you could opt for a tuxedo without the traditional satin finish.
2. Choose the Right Tuxedo Fit
Fit is everything when it comes to looking sharp in a tuxedo. Ill-fitting tuxedos can make even the most expensive suits look sloppy. Consider your body type and choose a fit that complements it.
• Slim Fit: The slim fit tuxedo is perfect for those with a lean physique or those who prefer a modern, sharp look. It is cut closer to the body, creating a sleek silhouette.
• Tailored Fit: A tailored fit tuxedo is slightly more relaxed but still flattering. It offers more room in the chest and waist while maintaining a structured look.
• Classic Fit: If you prefer comfort over a body-hugging look, the classic fit tuxedo provides more space and is ideal for a more traditional or conservative aesthetic.
Remember, no matter what fit you choose, it’s important to ensure that the tuxedo is properly tailored to your body. A professional tailor can adjust your tuxedo to fit you perfectly, ensuring comfort and style.
3. Select the Right Tuxedo Jacket Style
The jacket is often the most attention-grabbing element of a tuxedo,
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so it’s essential to choose the right style. Tuxedo jackets typically come in three main variations: the single-breasted, double-breasted, and the shawl collar.
• Single-Breasted Jacket: This is the most common choice for modern grooms. The single-breasted jacket has a sleek, clean look, typically with one or two buttons. It’s versatile and works well with almost any wedding style.
• Double-Breasted Jacket: The double-breasted tuxedo offers a more classic and bold look, with overlapping flaps and multiple buttons. It’s a great option for those who want a more sophisticated, old-school aesthetic.
• Shawl Collar Jacket: A shawl collar tuxedo is a great choice for a sleek and modern look. It has no lapels, making it perfect for grooms who want to stand out with a refined, minimalist style.
4. Choose Your Tuxedo Accessories
Tuxedo accessories can enhance your look, but they also give you the opportunity to add personality to your wedding attire.
• Ties or Bow Ties: A bow tie is a classic choice for a tuxedo, but you can also go with a traditional long tie or even a more contemporary cravat for added flair. Consider the wedding theme when choosing the tie style and color.
• Cummerbund or Waistcoat: Both cummerbunds and waistcoats are traditional accessories that add a layer of sophistication to your tuxedo. Cummerbunds are typically worn with a black tuxedo for a more formal look, while waistcoats can add some color or texture to your outfit.
• Pocket Square: A pocket square adds a pop of color and style to your tuxedo jacket. It’s a small detail, but it can make a significant difference in your overall look. Choose a color that complements your wedding color palette.
• Cufflinks: Cufflinks are a great way to personalize your tuxedo. Whether you choose simple silver or gold ones or
more whimsical designs, they can add a fun touch to your ensemble.
5. Pick the Right Fabric and Color
The fabric and color of your tuxedo play a significant role in the overall look and feel. Popular tuxedo fabrics include:
• Wool: Wool is a classic fabric known for its durability and natural sheen. It’s breathable and perfect for year-round wear.
• Velvet: Velvet tuxedos are a luxurious option for colder months or more formal evening weddings. They add texture and depth to your look.
• Satin: Satin accents on lapels, pockets, or the entire jacket add a refined shine, which is why it’s commonly used in tuxedos for formal weddings.
When it comes to color, black remains the go-to for many grooms, but it’s not the only option. Navy, charcoal, grey, and even ivory or white tuxedos can look equally dashing depending on your wedding theme and personal taste. If you’re planning a more casual or creative wedding, you may even want to opt for a bold, non-traditional color like burgundy, forest green, or blue.
6. Consider Comfort
Your wedding day is going to be long, with lots of movement, dancing, and potentially some outdoor activities. Comfort is key to feeling at ease throughout the day.
• Fabric Breathability: Opt for breathable fabrics like wool or a wool
blend to ensure comfort throughout your big day. If you’re having a summer wedding, lightweight options are a great choice.
• Proper Fit: As mentioned earlier, a well-fitted tuxedo will be far more comfortable than an ill-fitting one. Make sure you can move freely in your tuxedo, especially in the arms and chest area.
• Shoes: Classic black patent leather shoes work for most formal weddings, but if you’re going for a more relaxed look, you could consider velvet loafers or polished dress shoes.
7. Renting vs. Buying a Tuxedo
Once you’ve selected your ideal tuxedo, it’s time to decide whether you should rent or buy. Renting is typically more affordable and convenient for one-time wear, but buying gives you the option to invest in a high-quality tuxedo that can be worn again for future events. If you have a larger budget and plan on attending many formal events in the future, buying might be worth considering.
8. Coordinate with Your Groomsmen
Finally, make sure your tuxedo compliments the attire of your groomsmen. You don’t need to match exactly, but coordinating styles, colors, and accessories can create a cohesive and polished look for the entire bridal party. Whether you’re all wearing the same tuxedo or varying shades, ensure that everyone feels comfortable and confident in their attire.
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A Night To Remember
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EMPIRE STATE OF MIND
Make New York City your honeymoon destination
By Alexandria Stathakis
Recently I had the opportunity to go to New York City with a group of travelers. While there, I realized this would make a great honeymoon destination for urban-loving newlyweds.
Here is the four-day itinerary I planned to offer ideas about what to see and do during your trip. The city is divided into boroughs so my first suggestion is decide what it is you want to do and plan your days to stay in a general area. You will still walk a lot but the walks can be as interesting as the destinations! This trip covered a lot of must-dos in one weekend, however, our schedule was open enough to be flexible.
DAY 1
We arrived in the morning, in time to grab a small lunch at a famous bagel shop, Liberty Bagel . (You must have at least one New York bagel on a visit.) Then we took a stroll around the neighborhood, which included Times Square, before checking into Hotel Luma. Located on W. 41st Street, this hotel had a very nice bar and restaurant and I overall highly recommend. We had looked at options in other neighborhoods but felt like we needed to be more where the action was and this location was only a couple of blocks from Times Square. Additionally, there was a delightful coffee shop next door called Maman, which I frequented daily.
Dinner was at Olio E Piu, a classic Italian restaurant in the West Village, and from there we could walk
to Comedy Cellar where we had reservations for a comedy show. You don’t know ahead of time who will be performing that night, but we were fortunate to have Judd Apatow (director and producer of “Knocked Up” and “The 40-Year-Old Virgin”) as one of the comedians. It was the perfect first night in the city.
DAY 2
Our first full day in the Big Apple was dedicated to the Upper East Side and all of the fancy 5th Avenue stores and attractions.
We visited St. Patrick’s Cathedral, Rockefeller Center , and The Metropolitan Museum of Art. We shopped at the Lego Store and the three-story Anthropologie. We admired the Louis Vuitton-wrapped building then we ate lunch at Serendipity and enjoyed the restaurant’s famous frozen hot chocolate.
The rest of the afternoon we spent strolling through Central Park. That night we went first to The Magic Hour Rooftop Bar & Lounge, which was recommended to us but was not our favorite. Next,
we were off to the theater to see a show on Broadway. Some in our group saw “&Juliet” and some went to see “Hell’s Kitchen,” and we all agreed they were both excellent musicals.
We ended our very long day at Ellen’s Stardust Diner where the staff sings Broadway musicals and provides an interactive and entertaining dining experience.
DAY 3
We started with a leisurely walk on the High Line , an elevated park built
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The Louis Vuitton flagship store has a luggage facade that wraps around the building while it’s under construction in New York City on Fifth Avenue.
New York City is a world-class destination for couples looking to experience all the iconic landmarks and quality restaurants.
on a former railroad track that offers stunning views of the city and the Hudson River. Located on the West Side of Manhattan, the once-abandoned railway was repurposed into an urban park in 2009 and features green spaces, public art and sculptures, green spaces, and landscape design that incorporates hundreds of native fauna and unique specimens of plants and trees. It’s a great place to walk and take in the sights of the city. There are several access points where you can enter and exit the linear park, and around those areas are often good restaurants and stores.
We had reservations for
brunch at Balthazar , which is a restaurant that is always good for breakfast, lunch or dinner and has a great New York vibe.
After we ate, we walked Spring Street in SoHo to go
shopping and browsing at stores such as Brandy Melville, Prada and Uniqlo. Next we hopped on the subway to see the 9-11 Memorial & Museum located at the World Trade
BRIDAL ALTERATIONS
Center. The memorial plaza has two reflecting pools with waterfalls, and the museum pays tribute to all the lives lost during the terrorist attacks on Sept. 11, 2001.
Afterward, we ate at another favorites of mine: Eataly in the Obelisk . Eataly is an Italian food court with anything anyone wants to eat or drink, so it was a good place to meet up and regroup.
That night we had tickets to a jazz club in Greenwich Village called Mezzrow. Outside it was snowing lightly, but the club was small and intimate, and provided the ideal environment to listen to live jazz music during our last night in the city.
The entrance to the Louis Vuitton flagship store is seen on Fifth Avenue.
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DAY 4
On our last morning we visited the Empire State Building , since our rooftop bar did not have as inspiring a view as we expected. There are several new venues to see the city from above, but the Empire State Building deserves a visit at least once in a lifetime. I have been to the Top of the Rock at Rockefeller Center and SUMMIT One Vanderbilt - Midtown Manhattan’s tallest skyscraper — and both offer beautiful views. But if you have never been to the city, go to the 86th floor observation deck at the top of the Empire State Building for unparalleled views and a classic NYC experience.
Lunch was at the well-known Tavern on the Green and it didn’t disappoint. Afterwards we walked through Central Park again and marveled at all the fountains and tree-lined paths tucked inside this green oasis at the center of the bustling city. Before we knew it, it was time
to head to the airport.
PLANNING TIPS
I highly recommend making reservations in advance to the places you want to visit. This will help avoid disappointment and make things easier knowing you have set plans.
Use travel groups on Facebook and Pinterest to get hints about discounts or feedback about restaurants and attractions. The Wanderlog app is a great tool to help you plan trip details.
New York City is huge and filled with one-of-a-kind destinations — that’s what makes it such an awesome place to visit. But with so many choices about what to see and do, it can make planning somewhat overwhelming. Instead of trying to cram as many things as possible into your trip, make a list of your top five to 10 must-see spots, and build your itinerary around these places and attractions. Since it’s your honeymoon, be sure to leave time for relaxing and spending quality time together.
The Plaza Hotel rises in the background over Central Park in New York City.
wedding announcements
LONG-HYDER WED
Taylor Lee Long of Anderson became the bride of Benjamin Graham Hyder of Anderson on March 15, 2025, at the Gassaway Mansion in Greenville, South Carolina. A reception followed.
Taylor is the daughter of Mary Parks Long of Augusta, Georgia, and Jay Reiss Long II of Savannah, Georgia. Taylor is also the granddaughter of the late Robert LM Parks III and Nancy McElderry Parks of Augusta, Georgia, and the late Jay Reiss and Carolyn Long of Atlanta, Georgia.
Ben is the son of Lee Champion Hyder and Trudy Louise Hyder of Anderson. He is the grandson of the late Arnold Hyder and Betty Hyder of Anderson, and Howard Flier and the late Linda Flier of St. Louis, Missouri.
Matrons of Honor were Brittany Horton and Amanda Royals. Bridesmaids were Catherine Lester, Rosie Thompson,
Megan Newhouse, Hilary Dewitt, Lindsey Finley, Allison Perry, Lorelai Elliott Long, Stephanie Ertzberger and Victoria Hyder.
Best Men were Nicholas Hyder and Jay Reiss Long, III. Groomsmen were Michael Knapp, Drew Whitley and Chase Horton.
Taylor graduated from T.L. Hanna High School and earned her Bachelor of Elementary Education with an Early Childhood add on from Anderson University. She is a kindergarten teacher at Duncan Chapel Elementary.
Ben graduated from T.L. Hanna High School and earned his Bachelor of English with a minor in communications at Clemson University. He is a Customer Service Sales Specialist at PT Solutions.
After a honeymoon trip to London and Bath in England, and Paris, France, the couple will make their home in Greenville, South Carolina.
CROMER-FRIAR WED
Grace Cromer became the bride of Bray Weldon Friar on Saturday, December 7th, 2024 at Heyward Manor in Iva, South Carolina.
Grace is the daughter of Dr. Carl and Michelle Cromer of Anderson. She is the granddaughter of Wayne and Sharon Splawn and the great-granddaughter of the late Paul and Marjorie Spivey.
Bray is the son of Ms. Julie Friar and the grandson of the late Julian Park Watson and Annelle Watson of Florence, South Carolina.
The Matrons of Honor were Olivia Suggs Gross and Madeline Wagley Cromer. Taylor Ford Cromer, Haley Reynolds Rauschnabel, Caroline Sargeant Glick, Hannah Friar and
Katelyn Frye served as bridesmaids.
Jake Aaron served as Best Man. Brady Cromer, Austin Cromer, Trae Livingston, John Kent Smith and Adam Zwilling served as groomsmen.
Grace graduated from T.L. Hanna High School and Wofford College, where she earned her B.A. in Business Economics. She is an entrepreneur and founder and CEO of Miss Ultimate USA
Bray is a graduate of Clemson University where he earned his B.S. in Financial Management and is employed by Equitable Financial.
After a honeymoon trip to Anguilla, the couple made their home in Pendleton, South Carolina.
