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Welcome to town bride , Anderson’s premiere bridal magazine featuring all things wedding. This semiannual magazine focuses on everything the bride and groom need to know to help make their wedding day one of a kind. Enjoy gorgeous pictures, informative articles, engagement and wedding announcements, tips and trends, as well as the top local wedding vendors. The magazine is published in the spring/summer and fall/winter. Issues are available in all vendor locations plus key distribution spots in Anderson, Easley, Starr/Iva, Greenville, and surrounding areas.
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CONTRIBUTING
WRITERS:
KimvonKellerAlexandria StathakisKristineMarch JerradFenske
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BRIDAL SHOWERS _ REHEARSAL DINNERS
INTIMATE WEDDING RECEPTIONS _ SEND-OFF BRUNCHES
Save the Date
CREATE A MEMORABLE CARD TO SEND TO FAMILY AND FRIENDS
By Kim von Keller
Once you’ve become engaged and your wedding date has been set, one of your biggest decisions involves the save-the-date card you send to your guests. Your goal, of course, is for guests to take notice of your upcoming wedding and to add the date to their calendars before they receive a formal invitation. To achieve that goal, how do you create a save-the-date card so eyecatching that your guests will actually save the date?
This question was answered in two very different ways by Lauren Drescher Hall of Colorado and Rebecca Ambler of Virginia. Lauren and her husband, Matthew Hall, were married in Columbia, South Carolina, earlier in the year. Rebecca and her fiancé, Fritz Drescher, Lauren’s brother, will be married in Greenville, South Carolina, in the fall. Working with their photographers, Lauren and Rebecca created save-the-date cards that are both personal and striking for completely different reasons.
A Dramatic Backdrop
When it was time to schedule the save-thedate photo shoot, the
Halls didn’t have to think twice about the location.
“When we were first living in Colorado, we
took a drive to Loveland Pass,” Lauren says, “and we fell in love with that part of the Rocky Mountains. It’s where we took our puppy, Tucker, for his first mountain trip. Most importantly, though, it’s where Matthew surprised me with his proposal. We really wanted to share that spot with our guests.”
The Halls had great responses to their savethe-date card.
“Everyone was super excited to see the photo, and even more excited to see that we were getting married in South Carolina, where most of our friends and family live,” Lauren says.
The background of the back photo features the exact spot on which the Halls became engaged, a nod to a private moment. For this photo, they chose more casual attire.
“We felt like both pictures, which were shot by Markie Mica, felt spontaneous and really captured our personalities,” Lauren says. “Looking at each other, smiling and laughing, felt natural to us.”
Laura and Matthew Hall chose a photo for their save-the-date card that was taken by Markie Mica at their favorite spot in Colorado.
An Intimate Portrait
When they scheduled their save-the-date photo shoot, Rebecca and Fritz chose the location of their wedding as a backdrop. Fritz is currently living in Greenville as well, so the setting made sense.
The photo on the front of the save-the-date was taken in front of M. Judson Booksellers, housed in the old Greenville County Courthouse. Constructed in 1918, the courthouse is on the National Register of Historic Places and is the only public Beaux Arts building in the county. Dressed in formal attire for the photo, Rebecca and Fritz felt that the background suited the wedding they’ve planned.
“Our photographer, Erin Eads, suggested this location,” Rebecca says. “To me, this picture is elegant, timeless, and classic. That’s the mood we’re trying to create with our wedding.”
When it was time to choose the photo for the back of the save-the-date, the couple wanted something more playful.
“It was fun to change into casual clothes,” Rebecca says. “The picture was taken in Falls Park. It wasn’t staged, and it felt natural. We were just laughing and having fun!”
Tips from the Pros Alison Adams is the
director of operations and marketing for The Ten Oh Eight Co, which is owned by Erin Eads and offers wedding photography and videography services. Alison has ideas about what makes a great savethe-date photo.
“What it comes down to is, it’s about the couple’s personality.” she says, “and choosing a location, pose, or prop that conveys that. Not everyone who receives the savethe-date knows about you
wedding photographer, has been shooting weddings since 2016.
“Before the first photographs, I like to get to know the couple,” Markie says. “What are their personalities? If their first date was at a coffee shop, that’s where we’ll shoot. If they are really into wine, I might suggest shooting a wine picnic. I love to highlight the background, whether it’s the mountains of Colorado or the palm trees in South Carolina.”
Markie also likes to make sure that the wardrobe the couple chooses complements the season.
as a couple. Many couples choose a photo shot at a first date location or a place they love, like a golf course. Lots of couples include their pets. Those kinds of photos bring your guests into your love story. For the picture on the back of the card, most couples choose a more casual wardrobe and a fun picture, like playing with a pet or popping the cork on a bottle of champagne.”
Markie
Mica, Lauren’s
“I start by sending over a style guide, especially in Colorado where our seasons are so distinct. In summer, blues and greens look good against the Colorado sky. And if a couple wants a particular orientation to fit a beautiful savethe-date template they’ve chosen, I keep that in mind as I’m working.”
Use your save-thedate card to share part of your story with your guests. They’re sure to calendar your wedding date right away. And if you’re thinking of not using a photo, Markie would like you to reconsider.
“A save-the-date with a picture is more likely to end up on the fridge.”
Note: The couples’ dates and wedding websites were omitted to preserve their privacy.
Rebecca Ambler and Fritz Drescher sent out save-the-date cards for their wedding in Greenville, S.C. The photo was taken by Erin Eads in front of M. Judson Booksellers, housed in the historic building that was once the Greenville County Courthouse.
BACHELORETTE
WEEKEND THE BEST
A bachelorette weekend celebrates friendship, fun, and the bride-to-be’s last hurrah before tying the knot. It’s an opportunity to create unforgettable memories, so getting the planning right is key. Whether you’re aiming for a wild adventure or a relaxing retreat, here’s a comprehensive guide to planning the ultimate bachelorette weekend.
KNOW THE BRIDE’S PREFERENCES
The cornerstone of a great bachelorette weekend is understanding what the bride-to-be truly enjoys. Talk candidly about her preferences—whether in high-energy activities, spa days, or a low-key gathering. Tailoring the weekend to her interests ensures everyone has a great time and that the bride feels celebrated in the way she wants.
SET A BUDGET
Budgeting is crucial. Establish a clear budget early on and communicate it to all attendees. This will help in planning activities, accommodations, and meals without any surprises. Consider creating a shared expense pool or app to keep track of contributions and costs.
CHOOSE THE PERFECT LOCATION
The location sets the tone for the weekend. Some popular options include:
• Beach Destinations: Perfect for sunbathing, beach games, and bonfires.
• City Escapes: Ideal for nightlife, dining, and shopping.
• Cabin Getaways: Great for a cozy retreat with outdoor activities.
• Spa Resorts: Perfect for relaxation and pampering.
Select a location that aligns with the bride’s interests and ensures ease of travel for everyone involved.
PLAN THE ITINERARY
An itinerary helps in making the most out of the weekend without feeling rushed. Balance structured activities with free time. Some essential elements to consider:
• Arrival and Welcome: A fun welcome activity or dinner sets a positive tone.
• Main Events: Plan standout activities like a themed party, adventure outing, or special dinner
• Relaxation Time: Include some downtime for everyone to unwind and enjoy.
• Farewell Brunch: End the weekend with a casual gathering to reflect on the fun and celebrate the bride one last time.
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BOOK ACCOMMODATIONS EARLY
Early booking is key to securing the best accommodations. Whether it’s a large Airbnb, a boutique hotel, or a luxurious resort, ensure it’s comfortable and conveniently located. Aim for a place that can accommodate all guests and offers amenities that complement your planned activities.
CURATE FUN ACTIVITIES
Activities should cater to the bride’s taste and the group’s interests. Here are some ideas:
• Themed Party: Organize a themed party or dress-up night.
• Outdoor Adventures: Hiking, kayaking, or zip-lining for thrill-seekers.
• Workshops: Cooking classes, cocktail-making, or art workshops for hands-on fun.
• Games and Prizes: Create bachelorette-themed games with prizes to keep everyone engaged.
PERSONALIZE THE EXPERIENCE
Personal touches make the event special. Consider custom T-shirts, matching accessories, or personalized party favors. A scrapbook or video celebrating the bride’s journey and friendships can also be a heartwarming touch.
MANAGE TRANSPORTATION
Plan transportation to ensure everyone can get around smoothly. Depending on your location, this might involve renting a van, arranging carpooling, or booking rideshare services. Ensure everyone knows the transportation plan to avoid confusion.
CAPTURE THE MOMENTS
Designate someone to take photos or videos throughout the weekend. You might also consider hiring a professional photographer for a few hours to capture high-quality memories. These will be cherished mementos of a special time.
HAVE A BACKUP PLAN
Sometimes things don’t go as planned, so have a few backup ideas or contingencies in place. Weather changes, unforeseen delays, or other hiccups are part of the adventure, but being prepared helps in keeping things smooth.
ENJOY THE MOMENT
Lastly, remind everyone to relax and enjoy the weekend. The best moments often come from spontaneous fun and the company of friends. Encourage everyone to be present and savor the celebration. By considering these elements, you’re well on your way to planning an unforgettable bachelorette weekend. Remember, the goal is to celebrate the bride and create lasting memories. With thoughtful planning and a focus on fun, it’s bound to be a weekend to remember!
PERFECTLY POLISHED
How to choose the right style for mom
By Kristine March
The mother of the bride ensemble is becoming more and more beautiful every year. Those days of having to be old-fashioned, understated, and overly conventional are thankfully over. There is absolutely no reason at all why the mother of the bride shouldn’t feel her best self on her daughter’s most important day of her life.
I’ve come up with a few new styles that will suit any beautiful mother of the bride and make her feel fashion-forward, confident, comfortable, and dazzling.
Essentially, you don’t always have to wear a dress. There are so many top- notch options, such as modern style pants and blazers that look beyond stunning on every lady. A two-piece tailored look is perfect. It can even have a bit of a plunging neckline to show off your jewelry.
I chose a company called Madame Bridal. There are a multitude of elegant designs from all sorts of designers from this particular company to choose from. I love the Jovani slit-sleeve suits. They come in the colors emerald, light blue, navy and black.
They look completely first-class. They’re traditional but with a definite flair. It’s a timeless look that you could wear again and again. In addition, the price point is wonderful.
Badgley Mischka also makes beautiful suits too. There is one in particular that is just dreamy. The Rosette cuffed sequin blazer with tie and the sequined
bootleg pants to match are for sure very eyecatching and striking, especially if the wedding is late afternoon going into evening.
Now, here are the dress ideas I have if that’s more in your lane. There are some really incredible gowns out there now. I always like to pick a splurge item towards the end of my finds, but that’s still on budget
and in a realistic price range, and what better brand for that than Zimmerman? They’re an elegant luxury Australian brand that was founded in the early ‘90s. Their spring 2024 dresses are altogether breathtaking. I especially love the silk wrap asymmetrical midi dress. It’s satin and flowy and you can add a lovely pair of block heels to it. I love the Loeffler Randall Camelia heel in gold. They have several colors such as clover, blue, and platinum, and they’re also very plush and enjoyable to wear on the foot. The perfect dancing shoe. Add your favorite pearls or heirloom jewels that have meaning to top it off. All of these looks would be flattering on everyone and, like I always say, if you need any type of alterations, go for it. You want the suit or dress to fit you like a glove. It’s worth it. The main objective of the day or the evening is to really take it all in. The big day goes by so swiftly. So make memories and cherish this very special event. It really is a time of unconditional love personified. Just remember: Mother always knows best!
The mother of the bride deserves to look and feel beautiful on her daughter’s wedding day.
What Not to Wear
A wedding guest’s guide of things to avoid
By Kim von Keller
No matter the type of wedding you’re attending — be it a grand ballroom affair, a charming destination celebration, or a chic rooftop gathering— there are some essential fashion etiquette rules you should follow. These guidelines help ensure that you select an appropriate outfit and respect the couple’s special day.
Dress codes are provided to guide guests in choosing their attire, so it’s crucial to adhere to these specifications. However, regardless of the dress code, there are certain fashion choices that are best avoided by all guests.
To help you navigate wedding fashion with ease, we’ve consulted experts to outline what you should steer clear of at any wedding. From avoiding white to understanding formal attire expectations, here’s everything you need to know.
What Not to Wear to a Wedding
Etiquette expert Lisa Grotts notes that couples often rely on dress codes to manage their guests’ attire. “If you’re close friends with the couple, you should respect the dress code they’ve set,” she advises. As a guest, it’s important to honor the couple’s wishes and avoid the following fashion faux pas.
Anything White
Wearing white to a wedding is a major no-no. This includes any light shades that might appear white or white patterns. “It’s also wise to avoid soft colors like pale yellow or blue, as these can look white in dim lighting,” says Sydney Watters Dunbar, style director at Watters. If you’re unsure whether your outfit might be problematic, consult someone for advice. “You can ask the bride about her preferences or seek input from other attendees,” suggests etiquette expert Elaine Swann. Dunbar also advises, “If you’re even slightly unsure about an outfit, it’s best to choose something else. This way, you can relax and enjoy the event.”
Matching the Wedding Party
To avoid blending in with the wedding party, find out what colors the bridal party and groomsmen will be wearing and choose an outfit in a completely different hue. “Check the invitation for clues on the color
scheme,” advises Swann. If you see consistent colors like royal blue or fern green, steer clear of those shades and any similar tones.
Overly Revealing Attire
While confidence and a touch of sexiness can be great, an outfit that’s too revealing can be inappropriate for a wedding. “Consider the wedding’s dress code to determine how formal or casual your outfit should be,” says Lindsey Love, senior stylist at BHLDN. Choose something that’s modest yet stylish, with subtle hints of allure through slits, mesh, or open-back designs.
Too Casual Clothing
Comfort is important, but yoga pants, slippers, and jeans are not suitable for a wedding. Even if the event has a relaxed vibe, guests should opt for more formal attire. Avoid flip-flops, shorts, and jeans, and choose an outfit that aligns with the occasion’s level of formality.
music
Memories and music evoke seasons of love
By Jerrad Fenske
How do you measure love? Our individual experiences of love can be simple or complex. It could be a feeling in a moment, like noticing when someone makes room to for you. It could also stretch across time, like a season.
How did you know you were in love? Whether you are yet to be married or have been married for years, that particular moment when your thoughts changed from “What if?” to “I am!” is a memory that you carry with you.
In “Seasons of Love,” songwriter Jonathan Larson wrote, “In daylights, in sunsets, in midnights, in cups of coffee, in inches, in miles, in laughter, in strife.”
After that great cup of coffee at a sidewalk cafe on vacation, all of a sudden you realize you and the other person are in love. From that moment, you measure the building and growing love this is present between you and your loved one. And noticing that Larson wrote in the plural gives us a clue that love has many seasons. After all, we are creatures of habit and our practice of love grows through our time together, or our seasons of love.
In past articles I have written about the soundtracks of our lives, memories and music that are attached to our seasons. When our song plays, our mind and heart are swept back to that sunset we witnessed together or that moment of recognition of something special, love!
But back to the question at
Wherever you are in your journey of life, find the love that surrounds you and make it your constant season and live in boundless love.
hand, how do you measure love?
Many years ago, when in graduate school, I was working on a degree in liturgical music at a seminary. Whether you are religious or not, I think this thought applies: How does one receive and in this case, measure love? The paper argued that love is full and complete in its own state. The receiver of the love regulates consciously or subconsciously how much is allowed in or to. We are surrounded by love in this wonderful life that we live.
Still, there seems to be an ever-increasing shortage of love towards other people.
A pleasant smile, allowing someone to go ahead of you in line, or a kind hello to a stranger have drifted from commonplace to rare. To be the impetus of these practices takes resolve, but it is well worth it, especially, when faced with a cashier or essential worker who has been faced with discord throughout their day.
Larson wrote in wonderfully common place terms: sunsets, coffee, laugher, and strife.
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If we think about a smile or a moment of joy in the midst of our day, our heart changes and we are surrounded and filled with love. Try practicing reflection and what has brought you through the easy and the difficult times of life, on that moment or action that reminds you of your season of love.
Wherever you are in your journey of life, find the love that surrounds you and make it your constant season and live in boundless love. The practice of looking for something brings the presence of the idea to mind. Make it love.
Jerrad Fenske is a musician and teacher who can be reached at www.jerradfenske.com.
When you hear your wedding song, your mind and heart are swept back to that special moment when you held each other during your first dance.
DREAMSTIME
The Getaway Car
A GLAMOROUS FINALE TO YOUR WEDDING DAY
As the final notes of the wedding reception linger in the air and the last of the confetti settles, the getaway car stands poised to whisk the newlyweds away to their next adventure. More than just a mode of transportation, the getaway car is a symbolic vehicle of transition — a sparkling chariot that carries the couple from the hustle and bustle of their wedding cel-
ebration to the start of their new life together. Here’s why this detail deserves its own spotlight and how you can make it as memorable as the ceremony itself.
The Symbolism Behind the Getaway Car
The getaway car represents more than just a ride; it’s a quintessential part of the wedding’s conclu-
sion and a marker of the beginning of the couple’s new journey. Traditionally, the car signifies the couple’s departure from the familiar world of singlehood and their entry into a shared future. This transition is celebrated with fanfare, often involving a decorated car, a festive send-off, and sometimes even a crowd of wellwishers who gather to bid the newlyweds goodbye.
Select a vehicle or mode of transportation that will let the bride and groom ride away in style on their wedding night.
Choosing the Perfect Getaway Car
Selecting the ideal getaway car is an opportunity for couples to express their personal style and make a statement. Here are a few popular choices:
1. Classic Cars: Vintage vehicles, such as a sleek 1960s Rolls-Royce or a retro Mustang, add an elegant and timeless touch to the wedding departure. These cars often come with a rich history and can evoke a sense of nostalgia, making them a favorite for couples looking to incorporate classic charm into their big day.
2. Luxury Vehicles: For a more modern and opulent flair, luxury cars like a Bentley or a high-end convertible offer both style and sophistication. These vehicles make a bold statement and can be customized with personalized touches such as monogrammed license plates or custom interiors.
3. Fun and Quirky Rides: If the couple’s personalities lean towards the playful and unique, a fun vehicle like a vintage VW Beetle, a whimsical limo bus, or even a retro camper van can add a touch of whimsy and reflect their fun-loving nature.
4. Custom and Themed Vehicles: Some couples opt for vehicles that align with their wedding theme or personal interests. A sports car for the car enthusiast or a horse-drawn carriage for a fairytale-themed wedding can make the getaway truly memorable.
Decorating the Getaway Car
Decoration is key to making the getaway car stand out. Here are some creative ideas:
1. Ribbons and Flowers: Classic decorations like satin ribbons, tulle, and fresh flowers can add elegance and romance. Flowers can be chosen to match the wedding bouquet or the color scheme of the event.
2. Custom Signs: Personalized signs with messages like “Just Married” or “Happily Ever After” add
a charming touch. These signs can be adorned with hearts, initials, or other motifs that resonate with the couple.
3. Streamers and Balloons: For a more festive and vibrant look, consider adding colorful streamers or balloons. These decorations create a joyful atmosphere and are perfect for couples who want their departure to be a celebration in itself.
4. Car Decals: Custom decals or vinyl wraps can be used for a more modern and eye-catching effect. These can be personalized with names, dates, or special messages.
THE SEND-OFF
The send-off is often as important as the car itself. Couples might choose to have their guests line up with sparklers, throw biodegradable confetti, or even light fireworks as the newlyweds make their exit. This part of the celebration can be planned to ensure that the car departure is both joyful and memorable.
Practical Considerations
While the getaway car is a focal point of the wedding’s conclusion, practical considerations should also be taken into account:
1. Timing: Coordinate the car’s arrival and departure times to avoid delays or rushing the couple.
2. Driver: Arrange for a reliable driver who is familiar with the vehicle and the route, ensuring a smooth and stress-free departure.
3. Insurance: If you’re renting a classic or luxury car, make sure that all insurance and rental agreements are in place to avoid any last-minute issues.
The getaway car is a symbol of the transition from wedding day festivities to a new chapter in life. By choosing the right vehicle and decorating it thoughtfully, couples can create a personalized finale to their wedding celebration. Whether you opt for classic elegance or whimsical charm, the car is a final flourish that adds a touch of magic to an unforgettable day.
A vintage VW Bus is a whimsical ride that reflects a couple’s fun-loving personalities.
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If you’re thinking about going on a cruise for your honeymoon, find ways to save money and advice on when it’s worth it to spend a little more.
Plan a honeymoon cruise that stays in your budget honeymoon SET SAIL
By Kim von Keller
Cruise vacations are popular honeymoons for a reason. Once you board your ship, you unpack once and enjoy dining and entertainment in multiple locales, all for one advance price. But that price may change based on when you travel, your accommodations, your excursions, and whatever you choose to add to your trip.
As more couples share in the costs of their wedding celebrations, they’re becoming more attentive to their honeymoon budgets. If you’re thinking
about a honeymoon cruise, Janet Penyak of Penyak Travel has some suggestions on how to cut costs and when spending a little more might be worth it.
Timing
In the fall and winter months, couples often cruise through the Caribbean, the Hawaiian islands, and along the west coast of Mexico. During the spring and summer, Alaskan and Mediterranean cruises are popular. But with more couples delaying their honeymoons until the stress
and excitement of a wedding is behind them, when they choose to travel can make a big difference in cost.
“The Caribbean has better pricing from September through December, as long as you’re not traveling over a holiday,” Penyak says. “For other destinations, the earlier or the later you are in the season, the better the pricing. May and September are better for Alaska and the Mediterranean. But no matter when you cruise or your port of embarkation (POE), plan to arrive at
least one day early. That way, if there’s a delay in reaching your POE, you won’t miss your cruise.”
Accommodations
Once you’ve decided where your cruise will take you, you’ll choose your accommodations. The least expensive cabins are found in the ship’s interior, where you’ll have no window. Window cabins offer views, and balcony cabins give you private access to the outdoors. Balcony suites are the most expensive cabins. They are
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more spacious — many include living rooms — and may even include butler service. If you’re creating a honeymoon budget, what type of accommodations should you choose?
“I always think that a balcony is worth it because it’s your own private space to sit and relax and spend time away from other people,” Penyak says. “If you’re looking to save, though, I wouldn’t recommend a suite.”
Excursions
Your honeymoon cruise will include multiple ports, giving you time off the ship to explore. Excursions may range from a walking tour in Nassau to a lumberjack show in Ketchikan to a whale-watching trip in Tahiti. As you create your personal itinerary, how
Be flexible in your timing and prioritize your wish list to enjoy a cruise vacation that still fits within your budget.
is your time and money best spent?
“I definitely recommend getting outside of the port city to see more of the destination,” Penyak says. “You can never judge a destination based on the cruise port, and with a basic city tour, you’re not immersing yourself in the destination. I would choose excursions that explore the local culture. For example, if your cruise takes you to Jamaica, you might want to book a Blue Mountain coffee tour. But my most important advice, especially if it’s your first time on a cruise, is to book your excursions through the cruise line. At the end of your excursion,
your return to the ship is guaranteed, and the ship won’t set sail without you.”
Add-Ons
Many cruises feature a day spent on a cruise line’s private island. When you book your cruise, you may find the idea of a private cabana tempting, but what if you’re watching your wallet?
“That’s a maybe,” Penyak says. “You can always enjoy a day at the beach with just a chair and an umbrella.”
You may also have the option to include a drinks package when booking your cruise. Drinks packages may include not only wine, beer,
and spirits, but bottled water, mocktails, premium coffee drinks, and even energy drinks at no added charge. Penyak suggests letting your itinerary guide your decision.
“If your cruise takes you to a different port every day — think Alaskan or Mediterranean cruises — you will spend less time onboard ship, so a drinks package is probably not worth the cost. If you spend more time at sea — think Caribbean cruises — a drinks package might be a savings. Norwegian Cruise Line offers a promo called Free at Sea, and for a little extra, a full drinks package is included.”
Honeymoons can be expensive. But if you are looking to set sail, be flexible in your timing and prioritize your wish list to enjoy a cruise vacation that still fits within your budget.
TO PLAN OR NOT TO PLAN... That is the question when it comes to traveling
By Alexandria Stathakis
Recently, I took a 12 day trip to Iceland and planned it myself. The dilemma was how much do you need to plan. There is always the issue of planning versus flexibility. I was traveling with three other travelers and each had specifics that they wanted to do. One wanted flexibility, the other wanted to ride the entire perimeter, and the third wanted to see a puffin. Travel in Iceland is relatively easy but I did think it was critical to book our hotels and the car. We booked two tours in advance and unfortunately the Whale tour was cancelled due to sea conditions. However, I also tried to plan at least two events per day with some options. I did not plan a visit to a thermal pool spa or the troll farm, but we decided early on if one person wanted to see something we would go. Both of those were a big hit.
Iceland was amazing. The topography was different every day. The pure number of waterfalls was overwhelming. The main road was two lanes, many of the bridges were one lane, and several of the roads were gravel and dirt. Travel every day was an adventure. Every day the scenery was different. Somedays you felt like you were on a different planet. Everything is quite expensive, but I found the accommodations and the restaurants were really good. It rained every day but two; not always hard rain, but rain, nevertheless. And in the middle of August it was chilly. Packing was pretty easy, rain gear, layers, boring prac-
tical clothes. There was no reason to dress up for anything.
For our planning purposes I used booking.com for accommodations. It was very easy and user friendly. We stayed in six different locations. Three were hotels and three were more like a VRBO. All met expectations after a deep dive into the reviews. I tried to know where we would eat the first night that we arrived to avoid that worry. Booking allowed easy communications with the host, and I was able to ask for recommendations. All communications are documented and kept in the app.
We also used a new app for me called Wanderlog.com. It was very helpful in our planning. I had the pro version. The other travelers did not need that extra function. What I was able to do was optimize each day for travel. If you remember the AAA trip plans, it is similar. It also allows you to put emails that you get via accommodations in your daily plan.
The app makes recommendations for an area that you are in which includes how long each stop should take. I didn’t find out until I returned home that it allows you to track expenses similar to another app we use Splitwise.com that makes settling expenses easy. I used Wanderlog for budgeting purposes too.
There were a couple of things that we did that are different than most travelers in Iceland. First we went clockwise on the N1. I was hoping we would meet travelers who had been where we were headed and get hints. It worked that way at the end but the biggest advantage is we didn’t have many cars going in our direction. The second thing we did different was that we stayed in most accommodations two nights. Most travelers are in a different hotel each night. My crew didn’t want that. Our plans were to have one full day in each of the major areas to explore.
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We were hoping to do two long hikes but didn’t plan that well enough. I wish I had hired a guide to take us on hikes in the National Parks. Just not easy to find trail heads.
Besides the whale tour that was cancelled we had decided to book an ice cave/ glacier walk. It was truly exhilarating and one of our best days. We used “Arctic Adventures” — The Ice Cave Under the Volcano-Katla Ice cave Tour from Via. You really felt like you were on a different planet and walking on ice can be stressful. The ice cave part was just walk in, walk out so not threatening. A last minute tour we added was the Fjallsarlon Iceberg Boat tours. I really
enjoyed seeing the icebergs up close. They were so beautiful. And to be on a boat in the lagoon was exciting. I was really glad we did this tour.
By now it is clear that I enjoy fine dining. We found lunch in the small fishing towns in the nice hotels to be very good and fresh. I had the crepes from the food truck in Vic while my friends had
the famous hot dogs from the N1 gas stations. We also enjoyed the Skool Beans Cafe in Vic RV Camp. In Reykjavik we got up at 6:30 in the morning to go to the famous bakery for cinnamon rolls (Braud &Co). The last night we had dinner at Dill, which you need to reserve months in advance.
Purely by accident our last day in Reykjavik was a major
festival, the Cultural Festival of Iceland.
There was music and art everywhere and every venue was free. That night in the warmth of our hotel room we could hear the closing concert and see the fireworks. All in all it was a wonderful trip. The most difficult part of planning is the names of the cities are not easy and understanding the different regions. You are only going 45 miles an hour so you can’t plan too much in a day. We used a big Michelin map to layout our plan and I used highlighters to pinpoint major waterfalls and other landmarks we didn’t want to miss.
If you are into adventures or want to visit a place with lots of waterfalls, Iceland is a wonderful spot for couples.
RAINES - DOWNS ANNOUNCE ENGAGEMENT
Mr. and Mrs. George Evan Raines of Greer, South Carolina, are pleased to announce the engagement of their daughter Addie Rebecca Raines to Grayson Thomas Downs.
Miss Raines is the granddaughter of Mrs. Shirley Raines and the late Mr. Joseph Raines of Greer, S.C.; the late Mr. Murray S. Wright of Belton, S.C., and the late Mrs. Shirley Dodson of Anderson, S.C.
She graduated from Greer High School and Lander University where she received her Bachelor of Science degree in Business Administration and Management - Health Care Management. She is employed as a Leasing Consultant with Flournoy Properties Group in Greenville, S.C.
Mr. Downs is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Jeffrey T. Downs of Spartanburg, S.C.
He is the grandson of Ms. Sylvia Downs and Mr. Arley Downs of Columbia, S.C., and the late Mr. and Mrs. Arthur J. Guida, Sr., of Anderson, S.C.
He graduated from Dorman High School and will graduate from Spartanburg Community College in December 2024 with an A.S. in Mecha-
tronics. He works in the entertainment industry as a country music singer/songwriter.
The couple will wed on April 26, 2025, at Piney Grove Ranch in Gray Court, S.C.
Attending the bride will be Danielle Nicole Colucci, Maid of Honor, Sister of the Bride; Fairen Colucci-Dougherty, Matron of Honor, Sister of the Bride; Vanessa Quiros, Maid of Honor; Ansley Beth Lawson, Bridesmaid; Mary Claire Gay, Bridesmaid; Sara Elizabeth Hammill, Bridesmaid; Madeline Kate Richardson, Bridesmaid; and Madeline Grace Reed, Bridesmaid.
The groom’s attendants will be Jeffrey Thomas Downs, Best Man, Father of the Groom; Michael Lance Henson, Groomsman; Evin Clayton Fortenberry, Groomsman; Cameron Christian Lanford, Groomsman; Caleb Wesley Lanford, Groomsman; Coleman Cartrette Hennecy, Groomsman; and William Wesley Justice, Groomsman.
The couple will honeymoon in the Dominican Republic, and will make their home in Greenville, S.C.
Dr. and Mrs. Carl Cromer announce the engagement of their daughter, Grace Cromer, to Bray Friar. The bride is the granddaughter of Wayne and Sharon Splawn and the great-granddaughter of the late Paul and Marjorie Spivey.
The groom is the son of Ms. Julie Friar. He is also the grandson of the late Julian Park Watson and Annelle Watson of Florence, S.C.
The bride graduated from T. L. Hanna
High School and Wofford College where she received a B.A. in Business Economics. She is an entrepreneur and the founder and CEO of Miss Ultimate USA.
The groom is a graduate of Clemson University with a B.S. in Financial Management and is employed by Equitable Financial.
The couple will wed on December 7, 2024, at Heyward Manor in Iva, S.C. After a surprise honeymoon, the couple will make their home in Pendleton, S.C.
PHOTO BY MADELINE REED
WELBORN-HUFF WED
Ivey Elizabeth Welborn became the bride of Zachary Dylan Huff on Saturday, September 14, 2024, at Heyward Manor in Iva, S.C. A reception followed.
Ivey is the daughter of Robert Reid and Kristal Wright Welborn of Anderson. She is the granddaughter of the late Shirley Wright Dodson, Winnie Reid Newell Welborn, and Wesley Gerald Welborn.
Ivey is a graduate of T.L. Hanna High School and Anderson University where she received her bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education. She is currently working on her master’s degree through Lander University with a focus on Diverse Learners. She is a fourth-grade reading teacher at Flat Rock Elementary School.
Dylan is the son of Christopher Neal Huff and Misty Dawn Robertson of Toccoa, Georgia.
He is the grandson of Charlie and Sherron Huff and the late Genda Derrick
and Dianne Huff.
He graduated from Stephens County High School and is a project manager for a Division 10 company, ATL Glass.
Matron of Honor was Blakely Francis Baker and Maid of Honor was Arianna Alexis Richardson.
Bridesmaids were Madeline Kate Richardson, Danielle Nicole Colucci, Abigail Marie Briley, and Kaleigh Deanna Lollis. Flower girls were Hadley Crews and Lily Versace.
The Best Man was Kooper Easton Briley and the groomsmen were Dylan James Murphy, Dacen Zane Huff, Robert Andrew Welborn, Joshua Cain Clayton, and Ryan Jacob Partin.
Mr. Austin Welborn officiated the ceremony.
After a wedding trip to Rosemary Beach, Florida, the couple will make their home in Belton.
ERSKINE - GREENSLIT MARRY
Olivia Margaret Erskine became the bride of Nathan William Greenslit on Saturday, Oct. 5, 2024, at The Gassaway Mansion in Greenville, S.C. A reception immediately followed.
Olivia is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William Ronnie and Julie Bailes Johnson of Anderson and Mr. Terry Lamar Erskine of Anderson. She is the granddaughter of the late Dr. & Mrs. Lucius Charles Bailes and Mr. and Mrs. Melivin Lamar Erskine, all of Anderson, S.C.
Nathan is the son of Dr. and Mrs. Mark and Lisa Greenslit of Summerville, S.C., and the grandson of Mrs. Sara Winona Fowler and the late Mr. William Thomas Jayne and the late Mr. William Grant Greenslit and Mrs. Glenna Bengston Greenslit of Charleston.
The bridal party consisted of Maid of Honor, Anna Elizabeth Erskine, Maid of Honor Emma Frances Erskine, both sisters of the bride, and bridesmaids Margaret McGee Bolt, Ansley Elizabeth Brissey, Mendeci Isabella Rivera Gilbert, Macie Caroline Belk, and Jackson Dwight Moody, Bridesman.
Best man was the father of the groom, Dr. Mark Leif Greenslit. Groomsmen were Habib Emil Rafka, Carter Alexander Coleman, Christopher Antonio Ramirez, Jacob Reece Kremer, Michael Clarke Bolt, and Nathan Christopher Warner, who also served as officiant.
Olivia graduated from T.L. Hanna High School and Clemson University where she earned her B.S. in Environmental and Natural Resources. She also received her master’s degree in Agricultural and Environmental Education and Communication at the University of Georgia in Athens. She is employed
by the South Carolina Department of Natural Resources in Charleston as a Coastal Training Program Coordinator.
Nathan graduated from Pinewood Prep School and Clemson University where he earned his B.S. in Biological Sciences. He also received his master’s degree in Marine Sciences at the University of Georgia in Athens. He is employed by Hollings Marine Laboratory in Charleston as a coral scientist. The couple honeymooned in Puerto Rico and are making their home on James Island.
ANNA GRACE CAMPBELL
