town bride
SPRING/SUMMER 2022
Welcome to town bride , Anderson’s premiere bridal magazine featuring all things wedding. This semiannual magazine focuses on everything the bride and groom need to know to help make their wedding day one of a kind. Enjoy gorgeous pictures, informative articles, engagement and wedding announcements, tips and trends, as well as the top local wedding vendors. The magazine is published in the spring/summer and fall/winter. Issues are available in all vendor locations plus key distribution spots in Anderson, Easley, Starr/Iva, Greenville, and surrounding areas.
So here comes the bride ... town bride . Because there’s a bride in every town.
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PUBLISHER
Julie Bailes Johnson
townbridemag@gmail.com (864) 221-9269
SPECIAL THANKS TO:
Bride: Anna Camille James
Gown: Katharine Marie
Weddings
Hair/Makeup: Jessica
Bagwell
Flowers: Electric City
Blooms
Venue: The Wilhite House
Photographer: Will Malone Photography
CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
Deana Baker
Betsy Dunaway Jarred Fenske
Jim Harris
Mimi James
Kristine March
Alexandria Stathakis
Kim von Keller
GRAPHIC DESIGNERS
Pamela Brownstein Southpaw Media pamelauhles@hotmail.com
Nate Thomason Signal 43 Design signal43@live.com
on YOU all EYES
WEDDING DRESS TRENDS FOR SPRING AND SUMMER 2022
Wedding season is here! With the welcome weather and weddings back on our calendars, planning is in high gear. There are so many beautiful options for gowns this season, including modern ball gowns, princess gowns, feathers, florals and sexy silhouettes; anything goes in 2022! Every bride is different and there is always something for everyone. Below are some of the top trends this season. There’s one just for you!
FLORALS
This season, florals are key. There’s a variety of these breathtaking gowns that not only come in customary floor length, but also shorter dresses with three-dimensional appliques. Sequins and beading are also among the favor-
ites to add to the beauty of the florals. Don’t be afraid to try a gown with floral embellishment. You might be surprised how much you love it!
FEATHERS
Yes, feathers! And the more dramatic the better. There is a return of the large-scale wedding, and designers are grabbing that opportunity to up their game. Although feathers can be quite dramatic, they can also be used in subtle ways to enhance the look the bride is looking for. A little here, a little there ... they may just tickle your fancy.
SEPARATES
You can wear pants to your own wedding! With the influx of bridal separates like formal pants suits, tux-
edos for women, and jumpsuits, this is an outstanding option for those who prefer to opt out of the traditional dress. Fashion week was all abuzz with this trend, and it could be exactly what you’re looking for.
DEEP V AND SEXY SILHOUETTES
Plunging necklines are a big crowd pleaser this season and are seen in almost every designer line with brides embracing this daring look. It can be done tastefully and with a touch of daring. Sexy silhouettes are also making their mark with form-fitting dresses, open backs, and sheer illusion designs. Risk takers, this is your year.
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PUFF / BALLOON SLEEVES
With a Regency-era look, big puffy sleeves are making a comeback. Updated exaggerated sleeves are paired with form-fitted gowns and give the modern-day bride a fabulous look.
HIGH SLITS
After a long winter, brides are looking to embrace spring and show a little skin. This year, the high slit does just that. Designers have added the slit to a variety of looks to give the bride a little springtime edge that looks great on just about everyone.
TRANSITIONAL PIECES
Forecast? A huge trend for the next year or so is the use of transitional pieces such as overskirts, removable sleeves, bridal capes, etc. There are many different versions of this for the bride looking for a two-in-one look.
SHORT DRESSES
This is a longtime favorite and as expected, this version was front and center during bridal fashion week. This trend is always a beauty and stands the test of time now and in the future.
BODICES & CORSETS
Another team leader, the corset bodice dress has made a big comeback this season. Elegant, romantic, alluring, it’s a beautiful profile that suits any bride. Try it in a pale pink color for added romance and a vintage look.
When shopping for your wedding attire, remember that every bride is different, and there is always something for everyone. Just allow yourself plenty of time to try on as many different styles and looks as possible and then choose the one that’s right for you!
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THE MORE THINGS CHANGE, THE MORE THEY STAY THE SAME manners matter
By Betsy Dunaway
Ihave been in some form of the wedding business for over 30 years, and I can honestly tell you that I am surprised I have a tongue because I have had to bite it so many times. That’s because I am a stickler for etiquette and good manners, especially when it comes to weddings. Weddings can be incredible, or they can be a nightmare. If yours is to be incredible, proper etiquette and good manners should be observed, from the bride and groom and the wedding party all the way to the guests. After everything is booked, I feel that the invitations are the most important part of your wedding planning. Your invitation sets the mood, theme and tone for your wedding. Who would have ever thought a few pieces of paper would paint the picture for your upcoming nuptials, but they do. Now, let me say that this does not mean your invitation has to be expensive, but it does need to have all the details for your big day, which does not include your bridal registry. Do not — DO NOT — put your bridal registry on your invitation.
Your registry goes on your wedding website. Including it on your invitation is definitely a social faux pas and can come across as rude; it says, “You are invited, but only if you send me a gift.”
Another important bit of information your invitation tells your guests is the appropriate attire for the big
day. Is it formal, black tie optional, cocktail, dressy casual, or something else? (And while we’re on the subject, please remember that white is for the bride only. This is especially important for anyone who will be photographed with the wedding party.)
If your invitations are formal, pay attention to the inner envelope. This tells the recipient the names of those who are actually invited to the wedding or if a plus-one may attend. Still, do not be surprised if you get a call from someone you’ve invited asking, “Can I bring a date?” or “Did you know you left my children off the invitation?” It is a good idea to have a response planned in advance.
Always remember that when you are planning your wedding, simple is better. You will be constantly making plans for your big day filled with lots of traditions and memories. Your reception will be a huge celebration filled with dancing, food, drinks, singing, and pictures.
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This is the time to shower your guests with appreciation and thankfulness, so if you can afford it, please do not have a cash bar. A better idea, if you’re serving alcohol, is to serve wine or beer that is more friendly to your budget. If your budget is more generous, though, your guests may love a signature cocktail made with the bride and groom in mind, another personal touch.
After the wedding is over, the most important part of wedding etiquette begins, which is thanking the people who gave you gifts and helped make your wedding day a dream come true. The thank you note is the one etiquette tradition that no bride or groom should ever bypass or ignore. There are some rules of etiquette that should always be followed, no matter how unique or modern your wedding will be. And know that your friends and family do not care how short or long your note is, only that they received one. As etiquette expert Emily Post said, “Never think,
because you cannot write a letter easily, that it is better not to write at all. The most awkward note imaginable is better than none.”
And speaking of etiquette experts, don’t feel embarrassed to ask your wedding planner or consult an etiquette guide if you have any questions. “Emily Post’s Wedding Etiquette” was first published in 1970, but it has been regularly updated since, most recently by Ms. Post’s greatgreat-granddaughter Anna. Even with a modern edition, though, you’ll find that when it comes to wedding etiquette, the more things change, the more they stay the same.
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accessories
bling bridal
the right jewelry adds sparkle to your wedding day
By Kristine March
The dress is ready to wear, and everything is its right place. You have your veil, shoes, flowers and all the right decor, but you want your precious gems and stones to be perfect. You want your look to be memorable, yet you don’t want to overdo it. My sister was recently married, and we both came together and curated her look with the perfect little bijous and sparkles for her big day from an absolutely brilliant line called Untamed Petals (untamedpetals. com). They have stunning pieces that are delicately done and sure to become heirlooms.
FOR YOUR EARS
Since we’re heading into spring and summer, don’t be afraid to add pops of bold color in your earrings or baubles. Anything that matches and incorporates your wedding colors will do. From a delicate drop to a statement bow, the right earrings draw attention to
your beautiful face.
FOR YOUR HAIR
An elegant comb can do more than just keep your hair in place for a night of dancing. The sparkle of a comb tucked into a braid, a messy bun, or a low ponytail is sure to catch the eye of every guest as you walk down the aisle. And an oversized jeweled barrette, hand-beaded headband, or net bow are perfect when you want to forgo the veil. The ones at Untamed Pearls almost make me want to renew my vows!
FOR YOUR ARMS
Because of our warm weather, Southern brides often choose to go sleeveless during the spring and summer. You can still dress your arms with a pair of sheer fingerless gloves. The Valiant style by Untamed Petals features 3-D florals and hand beading that will give your bridal ensemble an ethereal finish.
FOR YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Jewelry is also the perfect gift for your bridesmaids
and mother of the bride and your mother-in-law as well. I love gold angel wing necklaces to gift. They are wearable and memorable and will remind your loved ones of your heavenly day.
FOR YOUR BUDGET
Your bridal accessories don’t have to be new. You can also choose your wedding sparkle from your family’s jewelry box. If you’re more of a Southern traditionalist, definitely go with pearls. If you’re wanting some nostalgia, add something from your grandmother. If it’s not sized or ready, add it to your bouquet to keep her memory
close to you. If you’re leaning towards bohemian, go a little more nature fairy with some turquoise and diamonds. If you’re more on the classic style, you can go for an Audrey Hepburn look. And remember to step outside of the box and try being creative. If you really have your heart set on wearing something, go for it. So happy jewelry hunting! After all, it’s your day and no one else’s, so embrace every moment. These are all carefully chosen ideas from me to you. I hope you have the most special day as the bride to be and live your married life happily ever after!
Gloves, earrings, purse and sunglasses complete the look.
Want to delight your bridesmaids? Think INSIDE THE BOX
By Kim von Keller
When Christina Clay Smith was planning her 2019 wedding, she wanted the invitations she sent to friends asking them to be bridesmaids to be more than just emails or note cards. She finally found her inspiration where so many brides do: social media.
“I was looking at wedding ideas on Pinterest,” she said. “I saw examples of Bridesmaid Boxes, and I knew that was how I wanted to ask my friends to be a part of my wedding.”
If you’ve not seen a Bridesmaid Box, think of it as a “proposal” that invites your friends or family members to be a part of the bridal party. The contents can be as simple or elaborate as your budget will allow, but no matter what you include, the Bridesmaid Box is a thoughtful way to ask someone to perform a very important role in your wedding.
“When I put mine together,” Christina says, “I wanted to include all the information I felt they needed, like our wedding date, the location, the colors I had chosen, and the dress styles I was considering. I also wanted to include some fun things, like lip balm, ring pops, and anything that had a wedding theme. I even included a card that said, ‘Now I’M the one that’s popping the question!’”
To create your Bridesmaid Boxes, you’ll need sturdy, decorative boxes, and etsy.com, zazzle.com, and amazon. com are all good sources. Boxes can also be personalized with your name or the names of your recipients. Expect to pay between $2.50 and $15 dollars per box; the finer the material and embellishments, the greater the cost.
“The Bridesmaid Boxes allowed everyone to become as excited about my wedding as I was!”
Next, you’ll need to fill your proposal box. In addition to a cute proposal card and wedding information, consider an assortment of spa products, hand-decorated sugar cookies in wedding shapes, scented candles, or T-shirts with your wedding hashtag. After her own wedding, Christina was the recipient of a Bridesmaid Box.
“A girl who had been one of my bridesmaids included personalized wine tumblers and bottles of champagne in hers,” she said.
Just remember that the cost of purchasing, filling, and
delivering your Bridesmaid Boxes are part of your wedding budget. The size of the box, the number of items needed to fill it, the number of boxes you’re making, and the location of the recipients will all contribute to the overall cost of the gesture. If your budget is more generous — or if you’re planning a smaller wedding — you can also purchase pre-filled, curated boxes ranging in price from around $20 for a modest box to over $100 for boxes that include items such as robes or jewelry.
No matter what kind of box you choose, your bridesmaids are sure to appreciate the gesture. Christina’s certainly did.
“A friend who lives out of state sent me a video of her saying yes and how excited she was, and delivering local ones by hand was so emotional,” she says. “The Bridesmaid Boxes allowed everyone to become as excited about my wedding as I was!”
Made especially for you...
By Deana Chavis Baker
Modern couples want weddings that create everlasting memories and tell their love story in creative and extraordinary details inspired by personal interests, family heritage, or the desire to wow their guests with clever ideas encompassing their marriage.
Thanks to the revival of large creative communities reminiscent of the Arts and Crafts Movement (1876-1916), the options to make the wedding of a couple’s dreams come true are countless and diverse. These artists utilize brick and mortar studios, home studios, and creative cooperatives along with e-commerce, social media, and image-sharing media services like Etsy, Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest to sell their high quality, handmade products.
Local artisans, artists, craft persons, and creative makers — individuals, family units,
Handcrafted and specialty products are always in style for wedding celebrations. That’s where local artisans and creative makers who are part of the modern cottage industry can help.
or small group teams known for making unique, high quality, handcrafted products in their home “cottages” or workshops on a small-scale basis — are often referred to as the modern cottage industry or “small makers.” This creative industry depends mainly on raw materials obtained locally to make their products, distinguishing them
from mass-produced products. Examples of cottage industry handcrafted items include lace, baskets, candles, soap, baked and canned goods, decorative and hand painted furniture, various categories of textiles (sewing, quilting, clothing , metal, glass, wedding blankets, knitting, crochet, macrame, embroidery, weaving), clay ceramics and pottery, paper, wood sculptures and functional furniture, leatherwork, jewelry, accessories, and even fine art. There are many more categories and sub-categories of products such as herbs, plants, and spices, just to name a few. Handcrafted and specialty products are always in style for wedding celebration events and as gifts — adding a personal, special bespoke touch deserving of the memories of an heirloom.
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Upstate South Carolina — Anderson, Pickens, Oconee and Greenville counties and surrounding areas — has a stellar community of local and talented cottage industry makers of products, services, and art works that are perfect for gifting and all aspects of the wedding celebration.
If you have ever watched television shows such as “Making It,” “Craft in America,” “Home Town,” or “Fixer Upper,” then you know that these shows often feature handmade products by all types of cottage industry makers, creatives, and artists that are regional to their area and across the country. Although these shows cater to home and garden, many of the craftspersons and artisan items are cross merchandised for the wedding industry. Like Bohemian items such as macreme, baskets, dried and paper flowers, artwork, and functional pottery. Brides, grooms, parents, event and wedding planners and designers, and guests wanting artfully, handcrafted products and gifts can usually find custom made items
that match their ideas by collaborating with a local or regional artisan, artist, designer, craftsperson or creative maker.
The best way to find out about these resourceful artisans and creative makers
and their work, product availability, or what can be made especially for you, is to visit their studio, shop, co-operative, gallery, or workshop directly by an appointment to discuss options. Interested patrons can also inquire with other local wedding event vendors, local arts and cultural centers, artist and craftsman guilds, as well as state, county, and local welcome centers for more information about those who showcase local cottage industry handmade items.
Deana Chavis Baker is a native South Carolinian artist who enjoys landscape and still life fine art painting, illustration, photojournalism, and digital photography. She is a collector of vintage fine art and crafts by American southeastern regional artists and craftspersons. Deana has painted murals and various decorative art pieces through community projects, interior designers, and private commissions with various media, materials, and subject matter inspired by the natural world for homes, gardens, and businesses throughout the Southeast. Deana conceptualizes her ideas and work from her home studio in Seneca.
Let cottage industry artists create custom made gifts for your wedding.
relationships
No Hard Feelings
When a bride (or one of her friends) must say ‘No’
By Kim von Keller
No one
likes disappointing others. This is true in all interpersonal relationships, but if you’re newly engaged and choosing your wedding party, you may be put in this position.
If you’re the bride, you may not be able invite a friend to be a bridesmaid who would like to be a bridesmaid. If you’re a friend of the bride, you may have to decline her invitation to be a bridesmaid. So how do you minimize the dis appointment that’s sure to arise when hard choices are made? Clinical psychologist Dr. Karen Lake says that good communication is key.
“I am not an expert at weddings,” she says, “but if I were advising a patient on how to approach the potential of disappointing others, I would say that there are two things to keep in mind: assertiveness and boundaries.”
WHEN YOU CAN’T INVITE A FRIEND TO BE A BRIDESMAID
Many factors determine how you choose your bridal party. Friendships, once close, may have changed due to time or distance. Having a large family could mean asking fewer friends. If you’re planning a smaller, more intimate wedding, a large bridal party will appear out of balance. And the expense of paying for things like hair and makeup and bridesmaids’ gifts affect the bride’s overall budget. As a bride, these are just some of your boundaries when choosing your bridesmaids.
“When you set boundaries,” Dr. Lake says, “you are accepting responsibility for your decisions and setting limits with others around those decisions.”
If you’re lucky, no one will feel like they should have been asked but weren’t. Unfortunately, though, you may receive an uncomfortable phone call or text asking, “Why didn’t you ask me?” It’s important to have a thoughtful response in mind.
“When you’re dealing with a friend, you can be sympathetic to her feelings, but you also must consider your own feelings,” Dr. Lake says. “Being assertive means that you explain your actions with kindness and in a respectful manner. That way, you and your friend can maintain a healthy relationship.”
WHEN YOU CAN’T ACCEPT AN INVITATION TO BE A BRIDESMAID
It is just as important to determine your boundaries if you have been asked to be a bridesmaid but cannot. You may live some distance from the bride, or a new job may not give you the flexibility of time to fully participate. Student loans or the high cost of housing may not leave room in your budget to sign on to the expense of being a bridesmaid. Whatever your boundaries are, assertiveness is key.
“Boundaries are simply those things that we can or cannot do,” Dr. Lake says. “In a healthy relationship, a friend will gracefully accept your boundaries when you express them respectfully.”
OTHER IMPORTANT ROLES
If you’re the bride, remember that your bridesmaids aren’t the only important people in your wedding. Consider asking a literary friend to do a reading during your ceremony. A musical friend could sing or play a favorite song before the processional. Conversely, if you can’t accept the invitation to be a bridesmaid, volunteer to help in some other way, such as collecting the gifts at the end of the reception or being responsible for the guest book. Just remember that regardless of your role, determining your boundaries in advance and then expressing them in the most respectful way possible will go far in maintaining friendships.
If you’re planning a wedding, you’re probably looking information to help you achieve your dream vision while staying within your real-life budget. Friends, family members, and even Pinterest are all good sources for finding the perfect gown, venue, caterer, floral designer, and honeymoon destination. But if you’d like to learn a lot in a short period of time, visit a bridal fair during your planning stage.
If you’ve never been to one, a bridal fair — also known as a bridal festival or wedding expo — is an event that hosts every conceivable category of wedding vendor. Visiting a bridal fair is an opportunity for you to ask questions, sample food and beverages, take advantage of event discounts, and perhaps even win a prize. They can be overwhelming, though, so it’s important to be strategic. I recently attended the Charleston Winter Wedding Festival, and these are my six tips for making the most out of your experience.
1. DON’T GO INTO A CROWD WITH A CROWD
The run-up to your wedding is a great opportunity to spend time with your bridesmaids. Bridal fairs attract large numbers of people, though, and if you take your entire bridal party, you’ll spend more time looking for each other than actually visiting vendors. At the Charleston expo, I watched a group of five try (unsuccessfully) to make their way through an aisle meant for three. On the other hand, you can achieve much more if you have a little help. My suggestion? Take a wingman, such as your maid of honor or your mom,
Bridal SIX TIPS FOR MAKING THE MOST OF A
Fair
By Kim von Keller
and task her with picking up handouts, carrying the event bag, and registering for giveaways. She can also take pictures of anything you might want to reference later, like table settings or floral arrangements.
2. BUY YOUR TICKETS IN ADVANCE AND ARRIVE EARLY
Most bridal fairs last around four hours, which seems like a lot of time, but it sure passes quickly when you’re there. Be prepared by buying your tickets online and arriving early to check in. You’ll get a price break if you purchase tickets in advance, and you’ll avoid the long line of brides and their tribes waiting to enter. Arriving early will also let you view the schedule of activities, such as bridal fashion shows or question and answer sessions, so you can
4. MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR
TIME AND YOUR WALLET
A bridal fair features every category of wedding vendor, such as hair and makeup, food and beverage, planners and organizers, wedding attire, wedding venues, honeymoon packages, and floral design. If you already have any of these booked, don’t waste time by talking to other vendors in the same category. Make a list of the services you’re looking for and target those vendors. Many vendors also offer discounts to brides attending the festival, so you may save yourself some money while crossing items off of your todo list.
5. DON’T OVERLOOK THE OUTLIERS
get a seat before they’re gone.
3. BE PREPARED FOR HOOPLA
Bridal fair organizers work hard to build an energetic environment. The more excited you are, the more you’re likely to engage with the vendors, make a purchase, or even sign a contract. At the one I attended, the firing of a confetti cannon marked the opening of the doors to the expo hall!
Remember that while a wedding festival is supposed to be fun, it’s also in the business of making sales. Don’t get so caught up in the hoopla that you make an emotional purchase that can’t be undone. Go in with a list of goals and stick to that list.
As I walked through the Charleston Winter Wedding Festival, I made a list called “Surprises.” By the time I left, it included a chiropractic clinic, an adult bouncy house, a financial planner, and a business called “Tails and Veils.” Make it a point to stop and talk to the representatives you didn’t expect. They may be offering services you didn’t realize you needed. The chiropractor was there to help newlyweds learn to live a healthy lifestyle. The financial planner talked about the insurance, retirement, and investment planning a new couple needs to consider when combining households. I didn’t even know that there was such a thing as an adult bouncy house (still don’t know how I feel about that),
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but Tails and Veils was the most unique booth I visited. If you have a beloved dog you’d like to have in your wedding, Tails and Veils acts as a dog wrangler, bringing Fido to the location, making sure he’s where he needs to be when he needs to be there, and whisking him away when his role is over; brilliant, if you ask me!
6. ENTER THE CONTESTS!
Finally, bridal fairs are full of fun giveaways, so make sure you enter the drawings for things you’d love to have. At the one I attended, the grand prize was a pair of Swarovski crystal earrings. Years ago, a coworker of mine won an all-expense paid honeymoon in Jamaica. You could also win things like portrait sittings, teeth whitening, and cold, hard cash! Make sure you understand the terms and conditions though. Some giveaways may require the winner to be present, so don’t leave before all the prizes have been distributed.
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Tips to Ensure Radiant Skin on Your Big Day!
By Donna Burton
Weddings are special, once-in-a-lifetime experiences, and most of us want to look and feel our absolute best on our special day. Unfortunately, the stress that accompanies creating that beautiful, unique experience can wreak havoc on our complexion, with acne, dull or dry skin, or more pronounced fine lines and wrinkles, just to highlight a few issues.
Luckily, there are several treatment modalities one can utilize to combat these radiant skin saboteurs. Depending on how much time you prepare in advance for downtime and recovery, as well as the severity of your skin concerns, your options range from light to moderate depth chemical peels, Microdermabrasion, and laser resurfacing.
If you’re looking for a youthful glow with essentially no downtime, HydraFacial Diamond Microdermabrasion is great option. Think of this as extreme exfoliation for your skin. This particular treatment uses mechanical resurfacing to remove the outer layer of dead skin, yielding a luminous complexion. It also improves the overall texture of your skin, creating a smooth palate for your
make-up, as well as evening out your skin tone. These treatments can be done up to a week before your event. Please note that this is not a good treatment for someone who has moderate to severe acne or rosacea.
Light to moderate-depth chemical peels are also an option to brighten skin, minimize hyperpigmentation (dark spots), and address mild acne if you have time for a series of treatments. You’ll need to plan for three to six treatments, two weeks apart to achieve optimal results. The most common post-treatment side effects are generally erythema (redness) and peeling or flaking of the skin for a few days, so it’s best to plan your last treatment no later than two weeks prior
to your big day.
If you have six months to commit to a skin rejuvenation project, Intense Pulsed Light (IPL) laser treatments may be the best option for you, particularly if an uneven complexion is your beauty obstacle. IPL also addresses and can help minimize symptoms of rosacea and broken capillaries. It also resurfaces the outer layer of skin, reducing fine lines and wrinkles. This treatment improves skin texture, creating a softer, brighter complexion, as well minimizing mild acne. As an extra treatment perk, these results can last up to two years. Plan for three to six treatments approximately every four to six weeks. It is possible to bruise, have swelling or peeling and flaking in the treatment area up to seven days post treatment. It is recommended to have your treatment series completed no later than four weeks prior to your event to allow time for optimal healing and recovery.
We offer all of these unique services at the Botox Boutique and welcome you to schedule your free consultation with us to discuss your treatment options. We can certainly customize a treatment plan to help you be the blushing bride or glowing groom you were meant to be.
‘I love you to the moon and back!’ wedding
By Jerrad Fenske
The moon has always been married to the stars, which begs the question: Is the sun single? Off the top of my head I cannot think of a song that refers to the sun with the same desire and passion that the moon and the stars get.
Fly me to the moon
for love includes the moon, stars and spring! Billie Holiday sang a great tune called, What a Little Moonlight Can Do. Even though her nickname was ‘Lady Day,’ Ms. Holiday knew that the recipe for love needed a pinch of moonlight because the evening can find you in the throes of love and hearts can be fragile beings sometimes.
songs that describe seeing your love, meeting your love and then falling in love with them.” This is why songs, poetry, stories and wells of other material focus on the love that demands the need for expression.
Let me play among the stars
Let me see what spring is like on A-Jupiter and Mars
In other words, hold my hand
In other words, baby, kiss me
Just like the moon and the stars, spring is up there with young love. A timeless recipe
Van Morrison sings of the marvelous night for a Moondance that ends up straight into my arms you’ll run.
You really can’t argue that these songsters pave the way for expression. One performer I saw several years ago said, “This will be an evening of
What is your expression, what is your tune and text that expresses your relationship, your feelings and your identity? Are you a sultry songstress like Billie Holiday, are you smooth like Frank Sinatra? Or maybe you are like Ed Sheeran — it’s just another night and I’m staring at the moon, I saw a shooting star and thought of you. So here is a thought for your playlist for your wedding reception or social hour or dance — pick an artist, a theme,
a place or an era. Create an experience that people will leave saying, ‘ ain’t it a pretty night’. Your event will be uniquely yours and will say something about you and your partner that personalizes the moment.
It is the little details that help to set the stage for all that will happen for your wedding. If you’re not sure what music to choose or how to express your special relationship, ask the professionals for help. that is what they are there for!
Have a grand day — and an even better starry night!
Jerrad Fenske is a freelance musician and teacher with 40 years of experience in wedding ceremonies. Check his website at www.jerradfenske.com.
SHARP-DRESSED MEN
By Jim Harris
It’s no secret that everyone takes a back seat to the bride on her wedding day. However, the groom and his party still have a chance to shine. While they’ll never be the focus, they can make a great impression.
The basic black tuxedo is still the leader in formal wear, but light gray is also popular. Navy or royal blue are good for evening weddings.
M.H. Frank Ltd. in Clemson has been dressing the men of the Upstate for over 52 years, offering formal wear for over 35 years. They carry a wide variety of brands, fits, and accessories to ensure they are a one-stop destination for all things formal. Owner Steve Poteet estimates that in 2021 they handled over 1,400 tuxedo rentals, plus an estimated 120 tuxedo sales, so they have the experience to help any wedding party make the right choice.
Formal wear has changed over the years. The basic black tux is still the leader, but light gray is also popular. Other lighter colors are in demand in warmer months. Tails was once a frequent option, but that style has faded with time.
If the wedding is an evening event, consider a navy or royal blue tuxedo. Made famous by Edward VII in the early days of formal wear, blue often looks darker at night than black. Side vents for the jacket are not only stylish but help keep a crisper look during all of the movements on the wedding day.
The patent lace-up is the most common shoe choice with rentals, while tux owners may opt for a slipper, also called an opera pump. Vests have fallen out of favor, with a bow tie and cummerbund being today’s most popular combination. Cummerbunds should always be worn with the pleats facing up.
Flat-front trousers have been a staple for years, but pleats are coming back into vogue. A single pleat with a slimmer cut leg keeps the pants stylish. Tuxedo slacks don’t have belt loops, so a pair of braces or suspenders is advised.
Pleated shirts have also lost favor. Plain front shirts are popular with formal wear.
M.H. Frank offers a horizontal twill white shirt that is their most popular selection. The shirt is an elegant white on white, also called tone on tone, and has French cuffs, a modified spread collar, and four buttons in front that are interchangeable with studs for the wedding day.
Pocket squares are a great accessory with your tuxedo, and white is the majority choice. Unlike wearing a sports coat or business suit, in which the square is folded into points that extend from the pocket, fold your pocket square to align with the top of the pocket of your tuxedo, with about 3/4 of an inch exposed.
Most importantly, when making your selection, express yourself. Some of the more rigid rules of formal wear have relaxed dramatically in recent years. Steve shares that they have dressed wedding parties in tuxedo shirts, ties, and jackets paired with jeans and cowboy boots. They often see Clemson logos on cummerbunds and ties as well. Another option growing in popularity over the last several years for the groom and attendants is suits instead of tuxedos. M.H. Frank carries a suit line, Prive’, that offers slim and classic fits, so getting an excellent fit for everyone in the wedding party isn’t an obstacle. Often, when the wedding party members are a group of friends and have
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several different weddings on their calendar, they’ll coordinate and choose the same suit for each, making it more affordable. Plus, for some, the suit may have professional or social usability after its wedding duty.
Brackish bow ties are a hot item in men’s dress clothing. Made in Charleston, they appear in many weddings and are popular groomsman gifts. Made from feathers, they are available in a variety of colors.
An ideal accessory for your wedding attire is your wristwatch. Chunky sports watches are great every day but think thin and elegant for a wedding. Simple, with a leather, crocodile, or alligator strap worn on your left wrist. Ideally, the metal on your watch should coordinate with the rest of your accessories. For example, if your cufflinks have silver, choose a watch with a silver case. A pocket watch with a thin chain is also a great option.
The fitting expertise of the team at M.H. Frank results in less than 1% of rentals
needing a replacement. They will have the customer try on the garment at pickup to ensure everyone will look perfect on the big day. They also will give the group a tutorial on how to handle your cummerbund, cufflinks, etc. In the rare event that a replacement is needed, the team will do whatever to get the corrected item in your hands in time for the event. Their rave reviews attest to just how well they take care of their customers.
Poteet recommends starting your groom’s party selection at least three months in advance, and plan on spending forty-five minutes to an hour in your initial consultation session.
Groomsman gifts are also a wedding tradition. Options such as flasks, cufflinks, lighters and glassware can be personalized with engraved initials.
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electrifying FROM FOOD TO FIREWORKS, LEBANONESE TRADITIONS ARE
By Mimi Saad James
Minimalists the Lebanese are not. Rather, Lebanese weddings are spectacular extravaganza events! There is no such thing as “less is more.” Instead, in a Lebanese wedding, the bigger, the bolder, the better. Lebanese weddings are a true celebration of two families becoming one. Here are some common themes that define a traditional Lebanese wedding.
Fireworks: The Lebanese love fireworks. Therefore, it is very traditional in Lebanon to use fireworks at weddings. After all, nothing says extravaganza quite like some good, old-fashioned pyrotechnics!
Photoshoot: Lots of pictures are must-haves for a Lebanese wedding. Often, they are in a garden or someplace with a dramatic backdrop such as near a river or waterfall.
Pre-Wedding Party: A certain amount of stamina is required for a Lebanese wedding as they can go on for a long time. On the wedding day, the bride and groom will have separate pre-wedding parties hosted by their own families. Close family members attend, which means the numbers of guests can be quite large. One can expect to see flowers galore, plenty of food, music, and dancing. Just before it’s time to leave for the church, the groom’s parents come to the bride’s home to present her
with a gift. Usually, it’s a gold necklace or diamonds for her to wear at the wedding.
Lebanese Zaffe: The bride and groom make their way through the streets to the church surrounded by drums, Zaffe dancers, and loud, high-pitched sounds of joy. This is a quintessential element to any Lebanese wedding.
Food: Middle Eastern cultures place a great deal of emphasis on the importance of food. You can guarantee there will be an abundance of traditional Lebanese food available such as, hummus, homemade pita bread, grape leaf and cabbage rolls, raw and cooked kibbi, salads, dishes of cooked lamb, and many desserts.
Dancing: It is not a Lebanese wedding if there is no dancing. The entire reception centers around the numerous times you get everyone out on the dance floor. You may also find a belly dancer or two in the mix!
Reception Exit: At most weddings, the newlyweds are sent off to their honeymoon while guests shower them with rice. At a Lebanese wedding, the bride and groom are expected to stay at the reception until every guest has made their exit. Leaving before is considered rude.
Being a second-generation Lebanese American, my wedding was as “traditional Lebanese” as I could make it without all of the above. The reception was amazing as I watched guests enjoy traditional Lebanese food, music, and dancing. The highlight, for me was watching my Lebanese father dance with the belly dancer.
burying the bourbon
By Kim Von Keller
Planning an outdoor wedding is a risky business. Depending on the month, tents, heaters, fans, or umbrellas have to be available for every contingency. Move into the summer months and there’s hurricane season to reckon with. So when Andy Smith and his fiancée, Christina Clay, were planning their outdoor wedding for September 2019, they took no chances, turning to a tradition said to guarantee good weather on your wedding day. They buried a bottle of whiskey, upside down, at their wedding venue.
“I had never heard of this,” said Andy, a native of England who moved to the U.S. as a child. “Christina told me about it, so a year before our wedding day, we found a little spot that was closest to the garden where our ceremony would be and buried a mini bottle of Jack Daniels upside down.”
Based on the results, it was pretty effective. September 17 of that year saw a record high of 101 degrees, but September 20 was the third coolest on record, according to the South Carolina Department of Natural Resources. Their wedding day also enjoyed cooler weather with no rain.
While the origins of the traditions are unclear, it has become popular with Southerners in general and bourbon lovers in particular. The idea is to bury a bottle of bourbon, upside down, at the wedding venue a month before the wedding day. Between the ceremony and the reception, the newlyweds and the wedding party dig up the bottle and share a toast to the good weather.
While there are a number of bourbons a bride and groom might choose to bury, Maker’s Mark is a good choice for a wedding party of diverse tastes. As a wheated bourbon, it is smooth and easy to drink, even for those who are not bourbon drinkers. And the iconic red wax coating on the top of the bottle is sure to protect its contents from any dirt or debris.
Andy and his new bride altered the tradition slightly, enjoying their whisky when they returned from their honeymoon.
“When we got back home, we opened it and toasted to the good weather, a wonderful wedding where everything went smoothly, and a great honeymoon,” he said.
Hopefully, all newlyweds who follow the tradition will have the same great weather that the Smiths enjoyed. But if, somehow, the burial process fails? At least you still have the bourbon.
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THE EMERGING OF THE MOBILE CIGAR LOUNGE
Light it up
By Jim Harris
The food truck industry is rapidly expanding, growing faster than conventional restaurants. That concept has spawned a new mobile segment in various offerings, like hair salons, bars, and music shops.
Nick Brown has a passion for cigars. In 2019, he was pondering how he could turn that passion into a viable career, when at lunch with his wife, Danielle, they came up with an unusual concept: a cigar lounge that was not conventional brick and mortar, but mobile, like a food truck. This was the beginning of the Castillo Mobile Cigar Lounge.
Thinking they could have been the first with that concept, they began researching and found that
others were doing something similar around the country, but nothing like that existed in the Upstate. After researching and a chance encounter at a wedding show, they found Aero Build in Nashville, which creates custom campers for commercial use. After creating a design for the new business, the build process began. It took six months to complete, and the lounge was ready for its first event in the spring of 2020.
The rich-looking lounge has an onboard humidor stocked with a diverse selection of top-shelf cigars, including some unique to Castillo. The owners take pride in aligning their guests with a cigar that even first-timers will enjoy. The overall goal is for a great, easy experience.
Several coffee drinks are available, brewed fresh at the events. Nick and Danielle worked with Storehouse Coffee from Hendersonville, NC., to create unique blends that pair well with their cigar offerings. The couple focuses on helping quests select a pairing that they will enjoy.
A frequent stop for the lounge has been Anderson’s Bleckley Station for weddings. While the bulk of their business is weddings and corporate events, they also do joint events with breweries and bars. Most of their events are in the Greenville to Anderson area, but demand often takes them across the state and beyond.
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Fans can keep track of the lounge’s location and schedule through Instagram and Facebook pages. On their website, www.castillomobilecigarlounge. com, the store offers a variety of cigars, coffee, and cigar accessories, plus a selection of fine leather goods, like briefcases, shaving kits and backpacks.
The popularity of the concept is growing. In Tampa, Florida, entrepreneurs have launched the Fuego Mobile Cigar Lounge. Co-owner Nate Currin had a long and successful stint as a musician, releasing five albums and touring with artists like Shawn Mullins, Blues Traveler, Neon Trees, Jars of Clay, and others. Several of Nate’s albums have reached the top 20 charts on iTunes. He’s won five International Music & Entertainment Awards, including Songwriter of the Year twice.
A couple of years back, Nate
decided to take a break from the grind of the road and relocated from his native Georgia to Tampa, Florida. A long-time cigar lover, the idea of a mobile lounge came up at a barbeque in a conversation with his friend, Adam Pruitt. The two formed a partnership, and in short order, the process was underway to create Fuego.
Like Nick and Danielle, Nate and Adam selected Aero Build in Nashville to create their custom-designed trailer. The venture launched in the late summer of 2021, with Fuego having a model similar to the Castillo Mobile Cigar Lounge, offering a wide variety of mostly boutique cigars in their onboard humidor, plus a selection of fresh hot and cold coffees and coffee drinks.
The bulk of their business is private events like weddings, engagement parties, and bachelor parties. The concept is well received, with bookings already set through late 2023.
The Fuego Mobile Cigar Lounge operates out of Tampa, Florida, and is available for events across the Southeast.
HONEYMOON AHEAD Planning plays an important part
By Alexandria Stathakis
The borders are opening again, we are learning to live with the virus around us, and the trips are being planned.
As I work through the planning on several short and longer trips, it occurs to me that the planning stage can be stressful no matter how experienced a traveler you are. With all the various resources at our disposable, my most recent experience is that all this information can stress me out if I am not careful. It’s important to ask yourself what’s most important about the trip and then some of what you worry about might not make the list. Or, alternatively, remember if you plan something and it doesn’t work out as you intended, it will probably make for a very good story.
DINING PLANS
What I have found in my planning is that reservations are becoming more critical and must be made early, especially for restaurants in destination cities. As restaurants have reduced the number of tables or have not been able to staff to the right level, they are filling up quickly. Especially the popular ones. I found it difficult to get brunch reservations in Atlanta 10 days out. Many of the good restaurants for dinner are turning to “prix fixe”(fixed price) menus with less choices and higher prices to reduce the amount of kitchen support they
need. And many restaurants now require deposits so they still make money in case you don’t show up or cancel a reservation. The food and beverage industry has had to adjust the last two years, so businesses have become very creative. It’s not all negative though because I think the outside dining options have increased, and in most cases are very nice. Newman’s Restaurant at the Orchard Inn in Saluda, North Carolina, has one of the nicest outdoor dining additions I have visited, and the food is wonderful.
TRAVEL TRENDS
Since there is still a hesitation from some to travel outside our country, the most popular U.S. destinations are crowded and booked up in advance. I understand that Disney World is as busy as it has ever been, as are many National Parks and beach locations for the summer.
The airline industry has also cut back many of their routes so
flying options are not as plentiful. I noticed this when booking a flight from Greenville, South Carolina, to Detroit. There used to be several direct flights out of Greenville, but now there are less. What all this means is don’t wait to make airline reservations if you have a specific place in mind. Fortunately, the cancellation policies are more lenient than they have ever been, so if your plans change, you are not likely to be financially impacted.
Currently I am in the planning stages for several trips. I need to remind myself to get those reservations made and quit second guessing every decision. Although it may seem overwhelming planning for a honeymoon in addition to all the wedding planning, remember that your first trip as a newlywed is meant to be a special getaway. So have fun deciding where to go and where to eat and what to do as a couple. Embrace the moment and enjoy the journey together.
The outdoor eating area at Newman’s Restaurant at the Orchard Inn in Saluda, North Carolina.
WILSON - BLACK
Katelyn Brean Wilson of Gaffney and Johnathan McDowell Black of Anderson will be wed on April 23, 2022.
The bride is the granddaughter of the late Mrs. Linda Wilson of Gaffney, South Carolina, and the groom is the son of Mr. William E. (Billy) and Mrs. Kim McDowell Black of Anderson. The groom’s grandparents are the late Mrs. Julia Place and Mr. Tommy McDowell of Anderson. He is also the grandson of the late Mr. and Mrs. Bill Black of Anderson.
The wedding will take place at Evergreen Plantation in Starr, South Carolina, and will be officiated by Craig Humberd. The food will be catered by Foster’s Main Events, the wedding cake will be prepared by Holly’s Cakes, the florals will be designed by Aimee Cromer, and the
entertainment will be provided by DJ Davis Bannister.
The bride’s gown is from Pointsett Bride of Greenville and her hair will be styled by Tiah Cash of Bella Beauty, with makeup provided by Brooke Gurley. Photography for the wedding and reception will be provided by Katie Jaynes Photography of Anderson.
The maid of honor is Brently Norman and the bridesmaids are Alicia Thornton, Sarah Woodfin and Micaela Parker. The best man will be the grooms’ father, Billy Black, and the groomsmen are Will Black, brother of the groom; Grayson Horton; and Jacob Hammett.
The bride and groom will honeymoon in Charleston, South Carolina, where they became engaged. After their honeymoon, the couple will make their home in Anderson.
announcements ARDEN ROGERS WEDS CHRIS BUNGE
Sara Arden Rogers, daughter of Mr. John Rogers and Ms. Mary Drew Rogers, married Christopher (Chris) James Bunge, son of Dr. and Mrs. Robert Bunge, on Nov. 13, 2021.
Arden is the granddaughter of the late Judge Ellis and Mrs. Nan Drew and the late Mr. Leo Rogers and Mrs. Sally Rogers. Chris is the grandson of Mr. Leonard Bunge and the late Mrs. Barbara Bunge, and the late Mr. and Mrs. Jeff Royder.
The couple became engaged in New Orleans on Jan. 30, 2021. The couple has a home in Cashiers, North Carolina, with their black Lab, Poppy.
Arden graduated from Florida State University with a BA in Humanities. She is the lodging manager at High Hampton Inn in Cashiers. Chris is a graduate of Eastern Kentucky University. He has a degree in Business Marketing with a concentration in Professional Golf Management. He is a member of PGA of America and is a golf pro at Wade Hampton Golf Club in Cashiers.
The ceremony was held at Cashiers United Methodist Church, officiated by Dr. Steve Elliott of Lexington, KY. The autumn wedding featured classic, all white florals with abundant greenery and candlelight by Kate Copeland of
La Lune Floral Company. Mr. Michael Benson and Dr. Bry Hobbs Chambers honored the couple with readings during the ceremony.
The bride wore an ivory satin gown with a beaded bodice by Oxford Street from Dressing Dreams of Hartwell, Georgia. Custom sleeves were added by Tatyana Difort of Starr Taylors to transform the gown for the fall season.
The look was completed by a beaded cathedral veil. The matron of honor was Mrs. Kaitlyn Kowalski Bryson. Miss Ariel Elizer, Miss Alston Crudup and Mr. Michael Benson served as bridesmaids. Mrs. Bryson and Miss Elizer wore velvet burgundy gowns by BHLDN. Miss Crudup and Mr. Benson completed the ensemble with coordinating suit jackets. Junior brides -
maids Eliza and Delia Mostad wore cream and burgundy velvet dresses. The flower girl, Josephine Orsborn, wore a charming white tulle cupcake dress.
Father of the groom, Dr. Bob Bunge, served as best man. Groomsmen were Mr. Tyler Brightwell, Mr. Mikal Harpster, and Mr. Sean Rea. Additional groomsmen were Mr. Walton and Mr. John Haddock Rogers, brothers of the bride. The ring bearer was Ezra Mostad. The groomsmen wore classic black tuxes by Vera Wang. Following the ceremony, a reception was held at the Village Green in downtown Cashiers. Guests enjoyed an outdoor cocktail hour before dining on a Southern buffet by Carrasco Catering. Beverages were provided by Highlands Wine Shoppe. After cutting the custom monogrammed cake by Mrs. Sugar Booger, Asheville-based band Blaze the City had everyone on their feet for the rest of the evening. There was even a surprise “Village People” performance from the groomsmen. A sparkler exit sent the bride and groom off to enjoy their mini-moon at High Hampton. The details of the day were executed by Julia Nicole Weddings and captured by Meghan Rose Harrison Photography. The couple spent their honeymoon on St. Kitts in March.
The couple got married on Nov. 13, 2021, and live in Cashiers, North Carolina, with their black Lab, Poppy.
