Town & Style 5.3.23

A NEW GENERATION OF HEARING AID TECH

Discover Senior Living Your Way

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by stephanie wallace

mercy

Congratulations to the health care provider! Ameren Missouri honored Mercy for its efforts to conserve energy. In 2022, the organization saved the St. Louis religion 4.4 million kilowatt hours through retrofitting, upgrades, new construction and other projects.

kaplan feldman holocaust museum

This month, the museum is launching its Impact Lab. The space will be used to explore themes like rejecting hatred, promoting understanding and inspiring change through the investigation of historical and contemporary moments of bias, hatred and genocide.

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The library received a $150,000 donation from Great Southern Bank. The money will fund a new state-of-the-art bookmobile that is expected to hit the road in the second half of 2024.

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The bank held a ribbon cutting ceremony to celebrate the completion of its Commerce Bank Tower at the corner of Forsyth Boulevard and North Meramec. Features of the 15-story glass building include a one-acre garden terrace, ground-floor retail space and a fitness facility.

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HEAR CLEAR

SLU CARE PHYSICIAN GROUP

by julia m. johnson

GETTING HEARING AIDS USED TO MEAN SIMPLY being fitted with devices to help you detect sound better. With recent advances in technology, however, hearing aids are becoming more like the multi-tasking wearables that people use to monitor their health and fitness, according to Dave Harris, a clinical audiologist with SLUCare Physician Group.

“Hearing aids are definitely moving in the direction of health data tracking,” says Harris, who sees patients at the Center for Specialized Medicine at SSM Health Saint Louis University Hospital. “They are designed to act like a FitBit or Apple Watch and can perform a variety of functions. Some makers are producing aids that can monitor temperature, heart rate and blood pressure, and they soon may be able to do things like analyze ear canal secretions and measure blood sugar.” Harris says the devices can share tracking data with physicians as well, to help them stay abreast of any changes in health indicators.

Recent advancements allow people to pair the aids with their laptops, smartphones or other devices. “The phone connects wirelessly to one hearing aid, usually the right one, and it sends information to the left side so the person can hear in stereo as humans normally would,” Harris explains. “It’s huge for people with hearing loss to be able to use both ears. The sound quality is better and more natural, and the brain processes it more effectively.”

Harris says the technology can be life-changing for children who have difficulty hearing in the classroom or adults who work in a variety of settings. For example, a judge who has trouble hearing jurors’ questions could benefit from a microphone that streams sound data to the judge’s hearing aids. “There are a lot of exciting applications for this,” Harris says.

While the availability of over-the-counter hearing devices has been expanding, it’s still important for patients to discuss appropriate solutions with a professional, Harris notes. He says an evaluation is needed for a number of reasons, including the fact that hearing loss often occurs gradually and people may not realize how far it has advanced. “By the time you actually perceive hearing loss, you are probably at a moderate level of severity and likely would not qualify for over-the-counter devices anyway,” he says. “Also, you might spend a lot of money on over-the-counter aids only to discover they are not right for you.”

He likens the situation to signing up for a gym membership without a personal trainer, so there’s no guidance on health goals or proper use of the equipment. “It’s the same as getting hearing aids without an evaluation,” he says. “Our staff can counsel patients on what to expect and how to use the technology for the best possible results.”

Harris says the practice also can assist people dealing with balance problems, vestibular migraines and related issues. Whatever their needs, patients can be certain they will receive complete, personal attention from SLUCare professionals. “We can discuss expectations, learn the patient’s preferences, then work toward the best, most natural solution,” Harris notes. “We want people to hear and feel better than they did before, and the first step is getting the right care.” &

SLUCARE CLINICAL AUDIOLOGIST DAVE HARRIS WORKS WITH A PATIENT.

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St. Louis native and Bravo TV star Andy Cohen will become a true-to-life star in the Delmar Loop on May 5 in front of the Moonrise Hotel. Full disclosure: It’s a brass star. Cohen’s already certifiable—as a beloved, Emmy-winning presence on the small screen, that is. Cohen’s honor is to be embedded in the sidewalk, one of more than 150 stars underfoot on both the north and south sides of Delmar, plaques that

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The new principal of Rosati-Kain High School, Maggie Sullivan, is not that— officially, Sullivan’s title is president of Rosati-Kain Academy. It might not have been. Last September, the Archdiocese of St. Louis announced plans to close the school at the end of the 2022-2023 school year. But Rosati-Kain, located just to the east of the Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis at 4389 Lindell Blvd., has been revived, and then some. Alumnae and parents mobilized to sustain the city’s only remaining all-girls Catholic high school by forming a nonprofit, obtaining sponsorship with St. Joseph Educational Ministries, negotiating a renewable lease with the Archdiocese for school facilities and raising the funds needed to achieve a balanced budget. Enthusiastic to a fault, Sullivan also is direct, unequivocal; she speaks with great reverence for the Sisters of St. Joseph. “They encouraged me to become a teacher,” she says. “They changed the trajectory of my life.” And what a life in education it has been: Sullivan has 25 years of experience. She comes to Rosati-Kain following a stint as assistant principal of mission at St. Joseph’s Academy in Frontenac, her alma mater (class of 1993). Sullivan is proud, beyond thrilled—in fact, she feels absolutely blessed. “This school is a mosaic of powerful, exceptionally talented women,” she emphasizes. Founded in 1911, Rosati-Kain became the first St. Louis Archdiocesan high school to integrate in 1947 and remains committed to those less fortunate: 79% of students receive some form of financial aid; 39% qualify for free or reduced-cost lunch programs. Sullivan anticipates she’ll complete her Ed.D. degree in educational leadership and learning at Vanderbilt University this summer. She taught history at Whitfield School, where she also served as social studies department chair and head of professional development. She’s taught a combination of history, English and writing at Washington U. and SLCC, as well as Clayton and University City high schools. Out of state for several years, she worked as an educator at Kent Denver School in Denver and Berkeley Preparatory School in Tampa. She graduated from Washington U. in St. Louis with a master’s in American culture studies with a research focus on gender issues from 1880 to 1940 along with the U.S. anti-lynching crusade. She received her bachelor’s in history and secondary education from the University of Missouri and was a European studies major at the University of Florida, where she worked for the NCAA Division I volleyball program. Fitness is important: A certified yoga instructor, she’s taught in Denver and in Tampa.

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describe the exploits of remarkable men and women who were either born in these parts or enjoyed success in and around here. Having rocketed to fame via producing long-running shows such as Project Runway and the Real Housewives franchise, Cohen’s star will join other notables including musicians Chuck Berry, Miles Davis, Tina Turner and Scott Joplin, actors Vincent Price, Kevin Kline, Marsha Mason and John Goodman, writers Maya Angelou, Tennessee Williams, William Burroughs and T.S. Eliot, sports greats Stan Musial, Jackie Joyner-Kersee, Yogi Berra, Curt Flood and Lou Brock, and scores of others in the arts, science, sports, music, politics, philanthropy and more. Fanfare for Cohen begins at 4:30 p.m. with a ragtime band; the induction ceremony starts at 5 p.m.

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THEODORE LINK WAS THE ARCHITECT OF THE STUDIO AT ST. ALBANS. What’s another very prominent, iconic building in the Lou for which Link was architect?

A highlight of the QFest St. Louis cinema celebration May 4 to 10 at the Hi-Pointe Theater is Jimmy in Saigon. This documentary about the mysterious death of a gay man in Vietnam, produced and directed by Jimmy’s youngest brother Peter McDowell, is for all intents and purposes a love story. The award-winning film explores the tragic death, radical life and forbidden romance of Jimmy McDowell, who was killed in 1972 after he re-entered civilian life. He was 24 then; Peter was only 5. To be shown May 7 at 4:15 p.m. at the Hi-Pointe, 1005 McCausland Ave., the award-winning film takes a hard look at whether American attitudes about foreign policy, domestic politics and sexual identity have advanced very far in 50 years—or if they actually have stagnated. Peter McDowell, who researched his brother’s life and death for a decade, will be on hand after the screening for what should prove to be a lively, intriguing discussion. This, the 16th annual QFest, presents films with LGBTQIA+ themes. Visit cinemastlouis/qfest.

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An icon of Structural Expressionism, the Gateway Arch expresses both a timeless monumentality and a contemporary dynamism. Eero Saarinen’s revolutionary masterwork, a 630-foot-tall (and wide) catenary curve, is a powerful and symbolic expression of our young country’s westward expansion, for good or ill. The story of how the gleaming monument came to be—the agony and the ecstasy, if you will—is remarkable. Architect and historian John C. Guenther lives in a former cabin near Wildwood (in Rockwoods Reservation) with his wife, Jane—since his days at Chaminade, he’s designed its additions and renovations. Guenther’s new volume, The Gateway Arch: An Illustrated Timeline, seeks to “connect the dots” of history and take readers through the key events leading to the creation of the Gateway Arch. The book takes a detailed, chronological look at the historic foundations of the Jefferson National Expansion Memorial. Enriched by historic images, it starts from the very beginning: when the Louisiana territory was controlled by France. The Gateway City’s central location has been key to U.S. history; Lewis and Clark began their Corps of Discovery Expedition

here in 1804. Guenther explores the planning, growth and evolution of St. Louis and its riverfront. He reveals the vision, determination, persistence, collaboration, creativity and engineering innovation on the part of many; indeed, the design and realization of the Arch and renovations to its surrounding grounds continue to transform how this city looks and, more importantly, how it views itself. And architecture has transformed Guenther for more than 46 years, from one day during his senior year in high school after he turned in a technical drafting assignment, which was to design a house or an addition to one. Walter Ruesch, his teacher, asked, “Have you ever thought about being an architect?” That took the young man by surprise—at first.

“Those eight words would change my life forever!” Guenther exclaims. Those words have been instrumental in helping reconfigure the home where he and Jane raised four boys. And the words would change the look of St. Louis city and county, as well. Guenther humbly realizes he is one of many; he has great respect for his peers; reverence for a few. Saarinen, of course, is one. Gyo Obata is another giant; he’s responsible for everything from directing the design of the airport’s main terminal to designing the chapel at

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Priory, which both reach for the heavens in their own ways. Guenther has quite the portfolio himself. He designed the addition to the Field Museum downtown, Chaifetz Arena at SLU, and the new Christian Brothers College (CBC) when the all-boys Catholic high school moved from Clayton Road near the St. Louis city limit to mid-county, 1850 De La Salle Drive, just north of Hwy. 40 / I-64. Those examples, of course, are just a few you may have noticed in passing. He’s also taught courses at Washington U. and written several other books, one on the riverfront architecture razed for the Jefferson National Expansion Memorial. Not bad, for starters. “It’s true what they say: If you love what you do for a living, you’ll never work a day in your life!” Guenther says. Visit reedypress.com. &

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TAKE FLIGHT

The Saint Louis Zoo is launching a new bird show! Presented in partnership with Wild Bird Sanctuary, “Winging It” will spotlight the natural abilities of native and exotic birds. The show will run on select dates starting May 6.

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LUCKY NO. 7

Happy anniversary to PALM Health! The health and wellness destination has been serving the community for seven years. To celebrate, it’s extending complimentary offerings and festivities like an Adam Foster Fine Jewelry pop-up, a pastels art class and taco specials from PALM Health Cafe through May 7.

Lime e-scooters have returned to downtown St. Louis. The relaunch of the program comes with increased focus on equity.

Lime Access provides discounts to qualifying residents, and equity zone pricing automatically discounts rides 50% if they start and end in areas that would benefit most from access to affordable transportation options.

PATTY

by patty hannum

I’VE BEEN FEELING A LITTLE CRABBY lately. Sadly, it is all self-inflicted. Still, it is always nice when you can shift the blame to a known or unknown person! So, what has me “wrapped around the axle” as my dad would say. A few things.

The Amazon app on my iPhone. I have a problem: my inability to stop ordering stuff from Amazon. I can’t tell you the last time I set foot in Target. No need—everything is available with a tap of your finger. Out of vitamins? Amazon. Out of Bounce? Amazon. Need waterproof pants for an upcoming trip? Amazon. It is too easy. I think of something, and the next thing I know, I’ve tapped the app, typed into the search bar and bought it! Usually with one click. Amazon has wisely stored my credit card information and address so I need to do nothing but hit ‘Buy Now’ and I’m done. It is embarrassing how many packages I find on my front porch. It is so bad that I look around my house before retrieving them to make sure none

of my neighbors can see me. And each month when I get my credit card bill, I am met with pages of Amazon charges. Every once in a while, I decide I am going to try and match the charges with the items I bought, but instead, I make a fake promise to myself that this month it will be different. It never is. At least at Target, I was faced with an overflowing cart and could edit my purchases. Now, I feel bad about my addiction to the app and guilty when I see delivery trucks clog up the street every day—all because of my laziness. I just can’t quit you, Amazon!

A Free Little Library thief? As regular readers may remember, I installed two Free Little Libraries in my front yard. One has books for kids, and the other is for adults. I live in a neighborhood with sidewalks so nearly every day someone will stop, take a look and leave with a book. It brings me great joy. I love to read and want everyone else to love it, too! The libraries have been in place for more than a year, and people are starting to recycle their

The Contemporary Art Museum St. Louis was awarded a $50,000 grant from Teiger Foundation’s Call for Proposals initiative. The funds will support the exhibition Paul Chan: Breathers, which will be on display at the museum next year from March 8 to Aug. 11.

books, which is the whole point … to make it self sustaining. But over the past few months, I have noticed that some people are taking five or six books at a time. I fill the library up one day a week, and like clockwork, a small group comes by and overly helps themselves. Now, rational Patty sees this as just a cost of doing business, but irrational (or the unleashed) Patty gets downright mad when I spot a car pull up and help themselves to the entire content of the libraries. I swore to Carey the other day that I was done! No books for anyone! (Yes, a very Seinfeld reaction.) Then I think, maybe they really need all of the books, and I should just stop getting aggravated. It is a fun thing for me to do, but why can’t everyone play fair?

You’re probably thinking, “Real rough life you got there.” The sentiment is warranted. Thanks for listening to me whine. I feel better, but I doubt you do.

Peace my Peeps. &

PHOTO CUTLINE: PAUL CHAN, 2CHAINED OR GENESIA AND NEMESIA, 2019.

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CHEERS TO MOM

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COVER STORY

A ONE-OF-A-KIND GIFT

THE DIAMOND BAR

by stephanie wallace

A CANCER DIAGNOSIS IS A DAUNTING prospect for anyone, but it is especially difficult to consider as the parent of young children. That’s the situation Carrie Gurley faced in March of 2022 when the mother of three was diagnosed with breast cancer. “It was like a double whammy, getting the news and then turning to see my children,” she explains. “I was used to being the strong one who holds the family together, but during my treatment, they were the light at the end of the tunnel who kept me going.”

Carrie was ready to fight. After four rounds of chemotherapy, six weeks of radiation treatment and a double mastectomy, she went into remission earlier this year. Her husband, Drew, wanted to give his wife something that would stand as a symbol of her strength and their family’s love. In order to ensure he could provide her something truly exceptional, he worked with The Diamond Bar in Town and Country to create a one-of-kind piece.

Not long after Carrie’s diagnosis, Drew approached Chris Phillips, owner of The Diamond Bar, to design a ring that could reflect her journey battling cancer. Phillips has almost two decades of experience creating custom jewelry. “I was honored to have the opportunity to create a piece that would have so much meaning,” he notes. “Drew brought in a pink spinel that had belonged to his mother to use as the center, and the plan was to add a diamond for every day from her diagnosis until her final surgery. From start to finish, the process of creating the ring took around eight months because we had to wait for the surgery to be scheduled.”

Along with 304 diamonds, the ring features 12 pink spinels as a reflection of the year of treatment Carrie underwent, as well as an extra on each side to represent her and Drew. “Chris was extremely patient and made the process a collaborative one,” Drew notes. “He listened to my thoughts about the design elements and brought his own ideas as an expert. It meant a lot to be able to create something that Carrie would love.”

To make the ring even more special, Drew had the idea of getting the white gold that would be used in the design blessed by the Pope. He worked with John Ruhlin of Giftology to connect with Matthew Kelly who was able to get the gold sent overseas to the Vatican for a blessing. “It really was a team effort to create the ring, and thanks to the flexibility of The Diamond Bar, we were able to get it done,” Drew notes. “Chris was willing to work around the timeline and other elements to create an amazing final product.”

When it came time to give the ring to Carrie, Drew worked with Ruhlin to create a special oak box. Along with holding the ring, it also played a video Drew recorded and contained cards with comments of support Carrie has received online printed on them. “The box was full of cards,” he notes. “It really showed what a journey we had been on and how this ring was a part of it. The gift was a way to mark the milestones that were being met and all Carrie has accomplished.”

On a Wednesday evening in February, while Carrie was getting ready for a night out with friends, Drew presented her the box. “I was not expecting anything, and it was a very emotional moment,” she recalls. “Drew and

our oldest daughter put so much thought into designing the ring with Chris. When I look down at it, I’m not reminded of a sad time. It represents everything I have overcome. When I was diagnosed, I was terrified not knowing what the future held. Now, I have something that signifies what I went through and how hard I fought.”

For Phillips, clients like the Gurleys are the reason he’s passionate about the jewelry business. “Jewelry isn’t a simple purchase—it’s sentimental,” he notes. “It’s often associated with big life events, so you want a piece that will always be your own, one that no one else will have. For Drew and Carrie, this ring represents so much. It’s something that they will have for the rest of their lives and pass down to their children. I’m so thankful that by creating custom pieces The Diamond Bar gets to be a part of people’s stories.” &

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COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF THE DIAMOND BAR

CHEERS

DREW AND CARRIE GURLEY WITH THEIR CHILDREN GRETCHEN, GORDON AND CLAIRE A CUSTOM RING CREATED FOR CARRIE GURLEY

FOR MOM!

by stephanie wallace

MOTHER’S DAY IS ALL ABOUT HONORING AND ACKNOWLEDGING THE MOMS IN OUR LIFE. CELEBRATE THEIR BEAUTY WITH PRODUCTS THAT WILL HELP THEM SHINE ALL YEAR LONG.

1. BUTTERCUP BLOW-DRYER drybar

Give mom the gift of a blowout—without the trip to the salon! The dryer is equipped with an 1875-watt motor that uses ionic technology to reduce frizz while drying in 20% less time. And that sunshine yellow color is sure to put a smile on anyone’s face.

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2. BACCARAT ROUGE 540 maison francis kurkdjian

Gifting a fragrance can be a little risky, but this cult favorite is guaranteed to please. The unique scent offers a balance of woody, gourmand and floral notes thanks to jasmine, saffron, cedarwood and ambergris. A bit of splurge, but it’s a great option for any sophisticated mother.

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3. REVITALIZING HYDRATION COLLECTION

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Perfect for pampering any skin, this set includes La Mer’s Crème de la Mer and Hydrating Infused Emulsion. The cream delivers healing moisture and energized repair thanks to the brand’s cell-renewing Miracle Broth. The quick-absorbing emulsion delivers all-day ultra lightweight hydration for radiant skin.

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4. ADDICT LIP GLOW OIL

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This oil works triple duty. A fan fave, it’s infused with cherry oil to protect and soften the lips while naturally enhancing their color and delivering an ultra-luminous shine. It can be worn on its own, as a primer or a top coat to add volumizing gloss.

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5. ROSÉ RESURFACING

FACIAL MASK

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Treat mom to a little rosé. This mask offers a sparkling facial thanks to ingredients like glycolic, salicylic and lactic acids, damask rose petals and resveratrol, which is derived from red grapes. The result is skin with a more even texture, clearer pores and reduced fine lines and wrinkles.

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6. THE COSMETIC CASE

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This is the perfect gift for the beauty lover on the go. This case has a water-resistant lining, a double-sided removable brush holder and plenty of storage space. Plus, there is a compact mirror included so you can touch up your look wherever you roam.

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MAGGIE HOLTMAN R.N., BSN | OWNER

Advanced Nursing Services of St. Louis

I have a strong, loyal staff of nurses, most of whom I’ve worked with for many years. Together, we take wonderful care of people. From day one, helping people has been the most important and rewarding thing to me.

FUN FACT: I take two to three hours of Pilates every week.

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ANN WROTH AND HOLLY BRY

LUXURY REAL ESTATE SPECIALIST

Gladys Manion Real Estate

We love helping the children of our clients with the purchase of their first homes and then with the sale of those first homes and the purchase of their second homes, while also following them through events like marriage and children! cook, and Holly is great at ordering carry-out!

AMANDA ALEJANDRO-STEINBACK

PRESIDENT AND BROKERAGE OWNER

My favorite part of the job is watching clients and agents save time and money through our integrated suite of seller services. Our clients sell for more in less time, and with less stress. It's a joy to make their lives easier. new things and am constantly seeking out new knowledge,

MAUREEN WALLINGSFORD

Sabrina Robb Partners | Compass Realty Group

My job combines my interests in architecture and connecting with people. While discovering their unique narratives, I get to briefly become a part of their story. Whether it is through exchanging design ideas or sharing plants for our respective rat while my brothers played hockey and still enjoy skating at Steinberg and Centene Center.

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GLOBAL LUXURY REAL ESTATE ADVISOR

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Being a luxury real estate agent allows me the opportunity to help people find their dream homes, the ability to work independently and have flexible hours.

FUN FACT: I love starting every morning walking with my black lab Holly.

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SARAH BERNARD BROKER AND TEAM LEADER

RedKey Realty Leaders

I love managing my business and providing opportunities for our clients and for the real estate agents and staff who work with me. Negotiating and strategizing the marketing of homes with my team is my favorite part of each day.

FUN FACT: I moonlight as a TV host, commercial actor and model and have for longer than I've been in real estate!

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I get to meet wonderful and interesting clients, and I really enjoy helping them navigate the current market to find their perfect home. I love that I get to see so many beautiful homes and that no two days are ever the same!

FUN FACT: I love spending summer vacations in Northern Michigan with my family.

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STACY MUEHLHER DIRECTOR OF LEASING

The Gatesworth

I've always been a passionate senior advocate. It's an honor to work at The Gatesworth because we have one of the finest independent senior living communities anywhere.

As a child, I really disliked my middle name, Lavada, but I have grown to appreciate its uniqueness as an adult.

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STUDENT STANDOUTS

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ELLA CHAMBERLAIN OF MICDS

WHEN YOU THINK OF AN INSTRUMENT a high schooler might play, harp probably isn’t near the top of the list, and that’s one of the reasons Ella Chamberlain loves it so much. The MICDS senior has been a harpist with the St. Louis Symphony Youth Orchestra (SLSYO) for the past three seasons. As she prepares to graduate this spring, she’s looking forward to the future and continuing to make music.

How did you start playing the harp?

I first got the idea when I was in kindergarten. I had a friend who had a little pink harp. My dad makes each of my siblings pick a classical instrument to play, so I said that I wanted a pink harp, too. I didn’t end up getting a pink one, but I did start playing when I was 10, and I’ve been committed ever since.

What is your favorite thing about the harp?

I like that I have so much flexibility because not many people play it. I have so many opportunities to play at weddings or with orchestras who need a harpist. If I were a violinist, I don’t think I’d be able to do as much because it’s a more commonly played instrument. It’s nice to do something that not many people do.

How did you get involved with SLSYO?

I take harp lessons with Megan Stout, and when I was a freshman, she told me about the youth orchestra and that their principal harpist was graduating. I was nervous to audition because I’d never played with an orchestra before, but I was convinced by my very adamant harp teacher. The seasons have been on-and-off because of COVID-19,

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but I’ve loved playing with SLSYO. I’m constantly surrounded by ridiculously talented musicians. There are times when you can get imposter syndrome, but it’s an amazing environment that really motivates and inspires you.

Do you plan on continuing to pursue music?

I don’t plan on minoring in music, but I do want to continue playing. I will be attending Brigham Young University, and it has a very good harp program. If I can keep playing through college, I know there will be opportunities later with community musicians or playing at church on Sundays.

What do you enjoy doing in your free time?

I’ve always been creatively inclined. I love anything to do with music. I’ve been in choir since the sixth grade, and I just enjoy making music with other people. I hope that it’s something I’ll be able to continue doing and won’t have to leave it behind in high school. I also like painting, and I learned to embroider recently. I’ve been on the cheerleading team for four years and captain for two. I helped choreograph the routines, so that’s been a passion of mine, too. &

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PARENT TRAP

by dr. tim jordan

LONELINESS

THE NATIONAL COLLEGE HEALTH ASSESSMENT in 2021 surveyed 96,000 students from 137 colleges and found 68% of women felt very lonely, and 65% felt isolated either some of the time or often. Adults aren’t faring any better. About half of U.S. adults increasingly report feeling alone, and they are spending less time with friends. So why are people today feeling so disconnected? Let me offer you four of the most common reasons I see in girls who I work with.

Poorly managed friendship drama: When a young person is excluded from their friend group or is the target of gossip and mean comments, they often ask “Why are people leaving me out?” They answer the question with their own private logic, which is usually faulty. They’ll think that maybe it’s because I’m not good enough; maybe I’m too annoying, weird, quiet or awkward; or maybe I just don’t fit in. Those thoughts become beliefs, affecting the way they behave and interact socially. They may attempt to be invisible at school to avoid being hurt again. Or they may try to keep people at a distance. Unfortunately, these kinds of strategies leave them alone and disconnected.

Feelings overload: Busy schedules and technology/social media has made it so easy to distract ourselves from our emotions today. This results in feelings building up to the point of feeling overwhelmed, and they end up leaking out in unhealthy ways. Many girls tell me they feel tired and blah all of the time to the point where they just want to stay home and sleep. They shut down and isolate themselves and consequently feel lonely.

Time on devices and social media: The parts of our brain that allow us to process other’s emotions and intentions are activated by eye contact, and increased eye contact makes us more socially aware and empathetic. It allows us to make sense of our relationships. Emotions like admiration and compassion take longer to process at a neural level. If communication happens too fast, you may never fully experience the emotions of others that would affect your closeness and empathy. Spending too much time on devices instead of in-person causes teens to miss their friend’s body language, tone of voice, nonverbal cues and emotional reactions. Thus, one major cost of too much time on social media is a lack of safety, trust and interpersonal closeness.

Haven’t found their tribe: In a recent podcast, I described girls I see as “old souls.” These are girls who are mature beyond their years who stay away from drama and gossiping and yearn for deeper connections. They have a hard time in middle and high school finding peers who match their energy and maturity. I also see adolescents who are invested in a passion that may not be mainstream. This might be things like anime, painting, crocheting or a cause they feel deeply about. These young people see the world differently and thus have a hard time finding like-minded friends. Many don’t find good friends until late high school or college when peers catch up with their maturity.

We need to help young people reframe any unhealthy beliefs they’ve internalized about themselves so that they know they are good people who deserve loyal friends. They need to learn to regularly express their thoughts and feelings to prevent the symptoms resulting from emotional overload. They need education about the deleterious effects of too much time on devices as well as boundaries about the amount of time allowed on them. We need to help old souls understand why they may be having a hard time finding deep friends and facilitate experiences where they might better find their tribe. The saddest girls I know are the ones who have no one to sit with at lunch at school and end up eating alone in classrooms or the office. Find ways to support them in finding good connections. &

TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO WORKS WITH GIRLS IN GRADE SCHOOL THROUGH COLLEGE. CHECK OUT HIS NEW ONLINE COURSE, PARENTING GIRLS: THE CHALLENGES GIRLS FACE TODAY WITH THEIR FEELINGS AND FRIENDS AND WHAT THEY NEED, AT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

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WHITFIELD SCHOOL green & white gala

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The celebratory evening benefits Whitfield School’s faculty, staff and students. Guests enjoyed a cocktail reception, live and silent auctions, dinner and entertainment, including a D.J. and dancing.

guests: Head of school Chris Cunningham, honorees Michal Kwiecien and Becky Marsh

LAURA AND JOHN CORN

MORGAN BARKER, HELENA CUNNINGHAM

CAITLIN AND LEE RHODES

DIANNA AND RON FOX

KEVIN AND JULIE KING

BRAD AND EMILY CHRYSLER

MICHAL KWIECIEN, BECKY MARSH, CHRIS CUNNINGHAM

BACH SOCIETY OF SAINT LOUIS spring is in the ayre gala

by bill barrett

The annual gala supports the Bach Society of Saint Louis’ mission to provide stimulating and enriching musical and educational experiences for audiences and performers. Guests enjoyed cocktails, hors d’oeuvres and dinner, entertainment by the Bach Society Singers directed by Stephen Eros. guests: Executive director Melissa Payton, honorary chairs Harley Smith and Veronica Hilyard, event co-chairs Jenni Gemberling

JAMES AND ERICA CHALMERS

DAN VIZER, MELISSA PAYTON

VERONICA HILYARD, HARLEY SMITH JIM AND ANNE VON DER HEYDT

JUDY BROWN, JENNI GEMBERLING

REDEFINING YOUR REAL ESTATE EXPERIENCE

RESHAPING THE MARKET

REALTY SHOP STL

by stephanie wallace

BUYING OR SELLING A HOME can be a complicated and stressful process. It’s important to have someone in your corner who you can rely on. Amanda Alejandro, owner and president of Realty Shop STL, is committed to making every aspect of the business more manageable for both clients and agents. The company, which is part of Vue Enterprises, is dedicated to reshaping the local real estate market through innovative technology, fresh thinking and comprehensive services.

According to Alejandro, it’s important that anyone looking to sell their home understand their own limited grasp of the market. “Sit down with a real estate professional early to start planning,” she notes. “Our agents don’t just sell and show homes. They are market experts, who can work with you to achieve the best possible outcome in the shortest amount of time. No two clients’ needs are exactly the same. Whether you require a quick sale because you’ve already bought a new home or you’re dealing with settling the estate of a loved one, we have every resource to get the results you want.”

Realty Shop STL offers a full range of concierge services, including in-house photography, videography and even drone and virtual reality technology for a fully integrated approach to marketing. Thanks to Vue Enterprises’ network, clients also can work with title, inspection and insurance companies that are directly connected to their agent, and this year, its new mortgage company will begin operations. “There are a million moving parts when it comes to a transaction,” Alejandro says. “Having everything under one roof ensures that communication doesn’t break down across different parts of the industry. It eliminates confusion and saves both time and money.”

Vue Enterprises’ robust ecosystem of real estate services and technology doesn’t only benefit clients. That network also ensures that agents can do their jobs to the best of their ability. With 20 years of market experience, Alejandro knows the pitfalls that can trip agents up during a transaction. “The biggest problem I ran into was the lack of communication,” she explains. “There are so many different things an agent needs to do to help a buyer or seller. You can’t waste time chasing down inspectors or mortgage providers—that can cost the entire transaction. When I founded Realty Shop STL, I wanted to streamline every part of the process. For agents, there should be no other way to do business.”

The drive and passion that Alejandro brings to her work is evident in the accomplishments of Realty Shop STL. The company is one of the fastest growing brokerages in Missouri, and she credits that success to Vue Enterprises’ unique integrated approach. “When you do business with us, you’re not just getting an agent to buy or sell a house,” she notes. “We also can help with arrangements for a loan, deed transfer and any other services you may need. We can work with you on buying or selling, renting, building, refinancing, getting insured and more. Vue Enterprises has all of the pillars you need for a successful experience.” &

OWNER AND PRESIDENT AMANDA ALEJANDRO

QUICK BITES

by stephanie wallace

AT THE BALLPARK

The Cardinals’ 2023 season is underway, and baseball lovers can look forward to new food offerings at Ballpark Village. The biggest arrival is the new location of Katie’s Pizza & Pasta Osteria. The 10,000-square-foot-restaurant is the local fave’s third location and the biggest yet. The dining line-up also welcomes Condado Tacos and Koibito Poke, an Arizona-based chain founded by former Cardinals pitcher Todd Stottlemyre.

HIT THE ROAD

The Vine Cafe is heading to the streets of St. Louis. The Mediterranean restaurant, which is located at 3171 S. Grand Blvd., launched the Vine and Dash food truck. The menu includes dishes like falafel, shawarma, fattoush salad and fresh juices. The food truck had its soft launch in April at Lamiaa Botanicals and plans to be at farmers markets and other outdoor events this spring and summer. For more information on where to find Vine and Dash, follow the truck on Instagram.

NEW OFFERINGS

The Greek Kitchen inside of the Kirkwood Schnucks has rebranded to Hungry Joe’s. The takeout location is still operated by Lisa Nicholas and Joe Kandel, and it now offers an expanded menu with pizzas and burgers in addition to its existing menu of Greek favorites. “We feel that by dropping some of our menu items which take the most time to make, we can streamline the operation,” Kandel says. “We also feel by changing to a more generic name like Hungry Joe’s it will appeal to a wider audience.”

GOOD BREWS

Blueprint Coffee is partnering with Love Bank Park, a community-led public space at the corner of Nebraska and Cherokee streets. As part of its quarterly giveback initiative, the coffee roaster will donate $1 from every pound of Tektōn coffee to the park’s $1.2 million redevelopment project. The Love Bank Park partnership will continue through May 15. Tektōn is available online for nationwide shipping and at Blueprint coffee bars. Sales also extend to wholesale partners and coffee shops where Tektōn is available throughout the metro St. Louis area.

OPENS CLOSES &

Soul food fans will want to head downtown where Tootie’s on Washington Ave. is serving up favorites like chicken and waffles, shrimp and grits and more at 1933 Washington Ave. If you’re in U. City, grab a boba tea at Sum Tea House, now open at 8501 Olive Blvd. … Kain Tayo comes to the StL from Trenton, Illinois. Located at 2700 Locust St., the restaurant focuses on Filipino cuisine. … After more than eight years in Tower Grove East, Kitchen House Coffee has closed. … Beast Butcher & Block stopped service in The Grove. The barbecue restaurant will continue to serve customers at its original location in Belleville, and it will operate a counter at St. Louis City SC’s CityPark stadium. &

FRONT & CENTER NEW JEWISH THEATRE

by stephanie wallace

IN 1997, THE JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER launched a professional theatrical company to share programming that reflects the Jewish experience. After more than 25 years, New Jewish Theatre continues to offer St. Louis meaningful experiences that enrich lives, build community and promote inclusivity. T&S spoke with the company’s new artistic director, Rebekah Scallet, to learn more.

What is New Jewish Theatre’s mission?

For me, the core of the mission is to present universal stories through a Jewish lens. That can manifest in a lot of ways. We celebrate works by Jewish authors and playwrights, focus on stories about notable Jewish people and put on plays centered on Jewish themes and values. Our products aren’t just for Jewish audiences, but the entire community. Everyone can get something from watching a show. They get the chance to walk in someone else’s shoes and have an empathetic experience.

How has it grown in its 25-year history?

The founding artistic director was Kathleen Sitzer. When she was hired, The Jewish Community Center already had a community theater, but she had the idea of taking the space and doing professional productions. Thus, the New Jewish Theatre was born. The first season there were three productions. Now, we do five, and our productions are bigger. We’re closing this season with Into the Woods, which will be the biggest musical we’ve ever done. We’re always growing and looking for ways we can resonate with audiences.

What does New Jewish Theatre bring to the community?

The J started as the Young Men’s Hebrew Association more than 100 years ago. Part of its bylaws state that the organization always needs to have a theatrical component. At the beginning, it was to help immigrants learn more about American life and give Jewish members of the community a chance to see themselves on stage. We live in very different times now, but a lot of that remains the same. New Jewish Theatre is a place where everyone can celebrate the history and culture of Judaism and the richness and diversity of the community. Tell me about your first season with the company.

I started this past August. It’s a really interesting time as we come out of the pandemic. My background is in classical theater, specifically Shakespeare, but I’m excited to get to celebrate my Jewish heritage, especially in St. Louis where my family is from. Right now, I’m working on planning my first season for 2024. It’s a fun challenge to find the right balance between familiar works and new productions. I’m looking forward to bringing some fresh playwrights and stories. The whole idea is to put together a five-play season that gives you a little bit of everything. Each production should take you on a different journey and offer a unique experience.

How can people support New Jewish Theatre?

First and foremost, we love for people to see a production. Getting more people in the door helps spread the word of the work we’re doing. Our next show is Gloria: A Life, which is about the life of feminist icon Gloria Steinem. It’s a great example of a play that fulfills our mission by telling the story of an amazing Jewish woman. The production has an all-woman cast and design team. It’s a celebration of women working in theater. Gloria: A Life will run June 1 through 18.

NEW JEWISH THEATRE’S 2023 PRODUCTION OF BROADWAY BOUND

REBEKAH SCALLET

Mother’s Day

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Celebrate the special moms in your life this Mother’s Day with beautiful handmade glass art by Kaeko Maehata! In the Craft Alliance Gallery Shop, explore a variety of locally crafted ceramics, jewelry and other items.

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Take Note

12. Art on the Square

Celebrate the 21st annual Art on the Square in downtown Belleville, Illinois. Enjoy more than 100 artists, wine, food and a children’s art garden. The event is May 19 to 21. Hours are 4 p.m. to 9 p.m. on Friday, 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. on Saturday and 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Sunday.

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13. STAGES St. Louis

STAGES St. Louis presents Elton John and Tim Rice’s timeless love story, Aida (June 2 through July 2) at The Ross Family Theatre in the Kirkwood Performing Arts Center. Get your tickets at stagesstlouis.org or call 314.821.2407.

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TOWN

THIS UNIQUE RESIDENCE FEATURES AN EXCEPTIONAL FLOOR PLAN AND EXQUISITE DETAILS. ITS BESPOKE ARCHITECTURE SETS IT APART AS

T & S HOME 110 CRANDON DRIVE, CLAYTON

by stephanie wallace

PRICE | $2,300,000

LISTING AGENTS | SABRINA ROBB, SABRINA ROBB PARTNERS

AGENCY | COMPASS REALTY GROUP

PHONE | 314.283.7590

While 110 Crandon Drive may only be steps away from downtown Clayton, it comes with all of the serenity of suburban living. Tucked away in a beautiful neighborhood, it features more than 6,400 square feet of living space with unique touches of modern luxury. Listing agent Sabrina Robb is giving T&S insight into what makes this a truly special property.

Tell me about the neighborhood.

The home is situated in the prestigious Clayton Gardens neighborhood. The area was originally home to post-World War II era ranches, but those have given way to a lot of new construction. It’s a very elegant, walkable neighborhood with easy access to all that downtown Clayton has to offer in terms of restaurants and shops. It’s also just a few blocks from Clayton High School, and there is great highway access, so commuting is easy.

What are the property’s outdoor spaces like?

The backyard is very private. The large patio is great from outdoor dining and entertaining guests. It has a stone fireplace, and there also is a hot tub.

What are some unique features of the home?

It’s a custom floor plan, so it’s a very unique house. It’s very open and livable. The home is luxurious, but it’s not so formal and stiff that you can’t feel comfortable. It has a first floor primary suite with an amazing bath. It features a steam room,

sauna, rain shower, soaking tub and custom marble work. It can compete with the most luxurious hotels or spas.

How is the home for entertaining?

It’s ideal for entertaining. The first floor can accommodate a large gathering, and it flows easily into the backyard. The kitchen has a huge center island and a separate bar area. It’s elegant enough for a formal party, but it’s also great for spending time with friends and family. The second floor has a kitchen and family room that is perfect for playing board games or holding a movie night.

What do you most want potential homeowners to know?

While it’s not an old home, it would be very difficult to build this house today. You just don’t find properties constructed from the quality of materials with high-end finishes on an oversized lot like this very often. The location also is ideal. This really is perfect for someone who is looking for a standout home. It has a unique charm. &

Douglas Properties is excited to announce that construction has begun on this 33 unit townhome development located in Olivette and in the Ladue School District. This development consists of 7 buildings with each building featuring either 4 or 5 units. The pricing starts at $649,900 and the units that feature elevators are priced at $699,900 and have three elevations of windows for an amazing amount of natural light. These preliminary prices end on May 30, 2023 so please reserve your unit now.

JOHN HABERBERGER

Lending Officer | NMLS# 1582063

Direct: 314.544.7256 | Cell: 314-412.4308

jhaberberger@midwestbankcentre.com

ONE OF THE MOST EXCEPTIONAL PROPERTIES AVAILABLE.”

–SABRINA ROBB

Delivering Seamless Real Estate Success, Across the Country and Around the Block

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98 Arundel Place, Clayton, Missouri 63105

4 Beds | 2 Full and 1 Half Bath | 2,496 SF

Spring is the ideal time to discover this enchanting century-old home nestled in the enviable, upmarket Hillcrest neighborhood. Fragrant flower beds and a blossoming canopy provide a welcoming entry, complementing the home’s attractive brick and stone facade. Flawlessly remodeled, it is respectful of its heritage yet offers all the mod-cons. Admire the warmth of timber in lustrous floors, windows, stairways and doors. Stained glass windows provide color and character. Bedrooms are opulent, light-filled and airy, the primary has a vaulted ceiling and large windows overlooking a lovely landscaped yard. Luxe bathrooms and an ultra modern kitchen are also standouts. Outside is a south-facing deck perfect for alfresco dining. Nearby, Forest Park, historic DeMun, U. City, and Delmar Loop offer endless entertainment, dining and shopping options. Walk to acclaimed schools and Washington Uni. Offered for the first time in 30 years, spring into action to secure this captivating home.

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6485 Wydown Boulevard, Clayton, Missouri 63105

4 Beds | 4 Full and 1 Half Bath | 4,168 SF

Constructed in 1922, this exceptional property boasts over 4,700 square feet and is located on a spacious corner lot within the esteemed Skinker-Wydown district. Recently expanded on the first floor, it now features a stunning kitchen and family room combination. The primary bedroom offers an en-suite bath and a generously sized walk-in closet. This residence is in close proximity to Forest Park, top-rated private and public schools, and prestigious Washington University. With its elegant living and dining rooms, this property offers sophisticated formal spaces.

Growing Native

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

Whether you’re tending a balcony garden in downtown Clayton or maintaining a sprawling yard in Town and Country, you should be embracing the native plants of Missouri. Not only are they adapted to St. Louis’ climate and soil, they feed and shelter wildlife that would not be able to survive without them. Missouri is home to more than 2,000 native plants. Here’s just a sampling of what you can plant to help nurture our city’s complex ecosystem.

butterfly milkweed

A great source of nectar for many butterflies, this vibrant wildflower also serves as a food source for Monarch butterfly caterpillars. Growing naturally in open, rocky areas, it flowers from May to September and thrives in well drained soil.

celandine poppy

You find these flowers in March through May on the wooded slopes of central and southwest Missouri. Celandine poppies grow well in gardens if they have humus-rich soil.

cardinal flower

What better flower for the StL during baseball season? The cardinal flower grows throughout wet sites in the state, flowering July through October. It requires moderate shade but will tolerate sun if planted in rich soil. Don’t forget to water during dry periods.

crested iris

These small irises bloom in April and May and attract hummingbirds. They grow well in partially shaded areas and prefer well drained soil.

golden alexanders

A member of the carrot family, this plant is host for black swallowtail butterflies. The long-lasting flowers bloom from April to June before becoming seed clusters. Unlike other native plants, it has glossy semi-evergreen foliage.

missouri primrose

Also known as a glade lilly, this plant grows naturally in glades, bluffs and rocky prairies. It flowers in May through August, and thanks to the blossoms opening in late afternoon, it’s loved by months for night pollination.

prairie blazing star

As this name implies, this plant grows on prairies or rocky ground. A favorite of pollinators like bumblebees, it grows best in average to moist soil and flowers from July to October.

purple coneflower

These large blossoms, which grow in woodlands throughout Missouri, are a great source of nectar for butterflies. They grow well in light shade but can handle full sun. Expect flowers in May through October.

SOURCE: MISSOURI DEPARTMENT OF CONSERVATION

Family Owned and Operated Since 1936

5373 Lindell Boulevard | Central West End

3 Beds | 4 Full, 2 Half Baths | Pool | 3 Car Garage

$1,899,000 | 5,912 Square Feet of Living Space

Stately, neoclassic inspired, newer construction home across from Forest Park in the fabulous CWE. Gracious circle driveway with fountain. The front door opens to sweeping staircase & 2-story ceiling in foyer, 2-story ceiling in formal LR centers around interior courtyard complete w/ splash pool, fountain & outdoor seating. Formal dining room opens to palatial, epicurean kitchen w/ large island, high-end stainless steel appliances, breakfast room w/ frplc., butler’s pantry w/ ice maker & wine chiller opens to very large family room addition & solarium complete w/ heated floor. 1st floor primary suite with spa-like primary bath w/ large walk-in shower & soaking tub. Palatial walk-in closet. 2nd floor features 2 add’l bdrms, upstairs study, kitchenette with gallery walk overlooking the 1st floor. The back yard is a tropical paradise complete w/ pool, outdoor kitchen/bar & full bath ideal for summer time entertaining. Pergola covered sitting areas, mature landscaping + 3 car garage.

North Forsyth

Clayton | $2,399,000

Swan Avenue STL City | $520,000

Woods of Ladue Lane Ladue | $1,345,000

Lindell Boulevard Central West End | $1,699,900

Salem Estates Drive Ladue | $675,000

Manhattan Mews Central West End | $319,900

Gannon Avenue University City | $519,000

202 Saint Georges Drive St. Albans I $1,400,000

303 Ladue Woods Court | Creve Coeur | $2,350,000

1123 Pinrun Drive Ballwin I $429,000

124 Lake Forest Drive Richmond Heights I $760,000

35 Granada Way Ladue I $885,000

1413 Wheatfield Lane St. Albans I $990,000

801 South Skinker, Unit 16B St. Louis City I $1,195,000

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CLAYTON Enjoy the atmosphere at Parties in the Park. Celebrating40years, PartiesinthePark runningistheStL’slongestoutdoorhappy hour.LocatedonNorth Brentwoodbetween ForsythandMaryland avenuesandheldon thesecondWednesday ofthemonthfromMay toSeptember,theevent includeslivemusic andlibations.

CREVE COEUR Hit the water at Creve Coeur Lake. There’s a lot to do at this 320-acre lake and the surrounding park. Hit the sand beach, play in the spray fountain or enjoy activities like disc golf, archery, tennis, fishing and zip lining. The Creve Coeur Water Trail offers canoeing, kayaking or paddle boarding a six-mile journey across the lake.

Getpumped at Sunrise Bootcamp. EveryotherSaturday October,inMaythrough getupand forheadtoKienerPlaza morningaheart-pumping workout.The guidedclassincludes bodyweightexercises andcardioburstschallengedesignedtoyourbody .

DOWNTOWN

FORESTPARK

Takeinamovie attheArtHill FilmSeries. EachFridayinJuly,ArttheSaintLouis lawnMuseum’sfront turnsintothe cinema.StL’slargestoutdoor Alongwith moviesonthebigscreen, pre-showtheeventincludes festivitiesandlikelivemusic foodtrucks .

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Whether it’s summer concert series, beautiful hiking trails or thrilling outdoor sports, St. Louis offers miles of green spaces and a myriad of ways for people to enjoy them. Here are just a few outdoor activities you can enjoy with family and friends as the weather warms up.

KIRKWOODPeruse fresh local produce at FarmersKirkwoodMarket. openThisbustlingmarketis

October,dailyAprilthrough butthefun isn’tlimitedtospring hasandsummer.Italso apumpkinpatchandharvestmarket inOctoberandaholiday marketinNovember andDecember.

LAFAYETTE SQUARE

Pack a picnic to enjoy in Lafayette Park. Covering 30 acres and dedicated in 1851, Lafayette Park is often considered the oldest urban park west of the Mississippi. It features a lake, garden walk, reconstructions of original Victorian structures, Revolutionary War-era cannons and iconic frog and turtle statues created by local sculptor Bob Cassilly.

SHAW NEIGHBORHOOD

Enjoy some tunes at the Whitaker Music Festival. Held on Wednesday evenings, this free open-air concert series is a St. Louis summer tradition. Visitors to the Missouri Botantical Garden are welcome to pack and bring their own picnics or purchase food and drinks on-site.

SOUTH COUNTY

Bike on Grant’s Trail. This family-friendly trail passes Grant’s Farm, Whitecliff Park and a BMX bike park, making it a great option for bike trips with the kids. Plus at 10 miles, it’s long enough for avid cyclists to also enjoy.

WEBSTERGROVES

CHARLES Playholeseighteen at Missouri Bluffs.

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This golf course was designed by legendary golf course architect Tom Fazio. Since it’s considered one of the best championship public golf courses in the state, you can expect a challenging layout combined with beautiful views.

Check out the work of local and national artists at Webster Arts Fair. Artisthestaratthis annualthree-dayevent. Thefineartsandcraft fairfeaturesthework ofmorethan80artists fromalloverthecountry. Festivitiesalsoinclude localentertainment,food andhands-onactivities forguestsofallages.

LISTING BY NEIGHBORHOOD

Chic architecture, abundant natural light and soothing neutral colors make this Central West End townhome exactly where you want to unwind after a long day. The kitchen/family room offers multi-functional space with stunning bi-fold doors that bring the outside in.

Luxury and craftsmanship in a prime Chesterfield location. This nearly brand new, one-story home offers high-end finishes throughout, light-filled rooms, beautiful wood floors and an open floor plan perfect for entertaining.

Experience the ultimate in CWE living. A stunning penthouse condo features a private elevator, 400-square-foot terrace, spectacular view, luxurious features and rooftop office for work-from-home convenience.

Maryland Ave., Ste. 100 | 314.607.5555 | tedwightrealestate.com

Serenely located on a charming tree-lined block in the heart of Clayton, this luxurious and cosmopolitan townhouse is noteworthy for its warmth, style and sophistication. The versatile layout and flow render it ideal for entertaining while still evoking the essence of home.

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4201 WEST PINE BLVD., NO. 106

4411 MCPHERSON AVE., NO. 4 $725,000

Ted Wight | Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty 8301

933 GRAND RESERVE DRIVE $995,000

Dooley Rowe Schnoebelen Compass Realty Group | 1608 S. Lindbergh Blvd. | 314.252.8520 | dooleyrowe.com

155 GAY AVE. $1,595,000

$1,050,000

This custom-built 3,620-square-foot atrium ranch with three bedrooms and 3.5 baths is in the Ladue School District! It features a gourmet kitchen, wood floors, a light-filled wall of windows and walkout lower level with rec room and playroom that leads to a beautiful wooded yard.

13161

$739,000

This 1.5-story, five-bed, 3.5-bath home has more than 4,400 square feet of living space. Notable features include a two-story great room, custom kitchen with butler’s pantry, main floor master suite, lower level with game and rec rooms, 3-car garage and low-maintenance deck with pergola and lower patio.

Mark and Neil Gellman | The Gellman Team EXP Realty | 2001 S. Hanley Road, Ste 185 | 314.336.1991 | thegellmanteam.com

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ROAD TOWNHOMES STARTING AT $679,900

Located in the heart of Olivette, this 33 unit townhouse project in the Ladue School District offers everything that you can imagine from elevators to open floor plans to luxury finishes.

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$760,000

Welcome to this classic, four-bedroom, four-bath, Tudor home! The property is inside a gated community in the Clayton School District. This distinctive home offers a blend of historic architectural detail and modern updates in a convenient and desirable location.

724 N. MOSLEY ROAD

Steve Mathes and Joe Mathes Coldwell Banker Realty Gundaker | 9651 Clayton Road | 314.503.6533 | steveandjoemathes.com

BELLERIVE FARM DRIVE

DIELMAN

Doug Cohen Douglas Properties | P.O. Box 16001 | 314.280.2041 | douglasproperties.com

LAKE FOREST DRIVE

Janet McAfee Real Estate | 9889 Clayton Road | 314.997.4800 | janetmcafee.com

HOMEWORK

DEAR HOMEWORK,

We have just finished installing a concrete terrace with a fire pit outside our dining room window. We added various plantings at its edge, but the overall effect is underwhelming and stark. Suggest something … anything!

Sincerely, —SOMETHING’S MISSING

DEAR SOMETHING’S MISSING,

I would say the main problem here is that you just stopped too soon: You neglected to accessorize!

First, let’s look at the overall arrangement of things. You have neighboring houses off to the sides, which compromises your privacy. Yet you have a long, straight-ahead view that is worth highlighting. I would re-center the modular fire pit to align with the long view and remove the neighboring houses from view with a tall evergreen hedge.

Having created an instant ‘outdoor room,’ I suggest accentuating the view axis with a new fountain framed by mandevilla plants, which will climb beautifully up trellises.

Now that the architecture of the space is corrected, we need to furnish it with comfortable and useful arrangements that will be both inviting and fill up all that bare concrete. A conversation grouping around the fire pit and an umbrella dining area will do the trick. Big pots filled with flowers and potted palms complete the accessorizing. I would include some romantic landscape lighting to extend the terrace’s usefulness well into the evening.

HOMEWORK

HOMEWORK WAS PENNED BY THE LATE PAUL DOERNER, FOUNDING PARTNER OF THE LAWRENCE GROUP. TO CELEBRATE HIS LEGACY, T&S IS PULLING SOME OF HIS OLDER COLUMNS FROM THE ARCHIVES TO SHARE.

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OUTDOOR LIVING SPACE IDEAS

From fabric options to furniture selection, there's a lot to consider when styling your outdoor living space. As an extension of your home, outdoor spaces are ideal for entertaining and relaxing. Designers Jesse Bodine of Bodine White, Sandra Cavallo of Old Silver Shed and Jenny and Kate of Taylor Hills Interiors share their best design tips for transforming your patio or porch into the perfect outdoor oasis.

1. EXPLORE DIFFERENT MATERIALS FOR WAYS TO EXPRESS YOUR STYLE. Including a diverse array of rich and unique materials creates a luxuriously layered space. With so many options out there for materials to incorporate into your outdoor design, we’ve included a few to help you get started.

Performance Fabric: The ultimate revolution in livable luxury, performance upholstery effortlessly combines beauty and function for elevated outdoor space. These fabrics are designed to resist fading, mildew and moisture while offering a sleek and modern texture for an elevated touch.

Wooden: Wood is an essential material for outdoor furniture. The best woods for outdoor use include teak, cane and eucalyptus for their immense ability to resist water damage. Incorporating your favorite wood pieces works beautifully with every style and provides a natural, organic feel to any outdoor space. Whatever wooden outdoor furniture you choose, Cavallo says the key to making your outdoor area feel inviting and comfortable is by adding the right cushions, textiles and pillows to complement the surrounding natural elements.

Wicker: Often made from synthetic materials that are resistant to UV rays, moisture and temperature changes, wicker is highly durable and long-lasting. “I like wicker under traditionally covered porches,” says Cavallo. “ I love concrete for a modern simple look, and metal works in areas where there’s not a lot of other visual clutter.” Wicker furniture also can give a more casual and coastal feel through its added texture, which can help create a relaxed and inviting outdoor atmosphere.

Mix and Match: “We like to mix and match to bring warmth, texture and personal style to an outdoor furniture set,” note Jenny and Kate. The mix-and-match method is a wonderful way to add layered interest and personality to your outdoor area. This approach invites the eye to explore your outdoor design and take note of each unique texture it has to offer.

2. STYLE YOUR OUTDOOR SPACE AS YOU WOULD AN INTERIOR SPACE OR ROOM IN YOUR HOME.

We really love the versatility we are seeing in this arena. Whichever outdoor furniture style you land on, the idea is to arrange your outdoor pieces as you would an interior space in your home. Bodine says she’s continuing to see this approach to outdoor living on the rise. “Recent styles are looking less like what we have come to expect in outdoor furniture—the frames and styles are more reminiscent of statement pieces that traditionally have been indoors,” she explains.

Modern outdoor sofas are the perfect piece to blend indoor and outdoor styles. Their sleek and minimalistic design adds a touch of sophistication to any outdoor space, making them an always-stylish choice. Whether relaxing by the pool or hosting outdoor dinner parties, the right modern outdoor sofa can elevate any space for an updated feel that lasts through the seasons.

3. LAYER UP WITH RUGS, PILLOWS AND ACCESSORIES. Layering outdoor rugs, pillows, and accessories add a ton of interest and depth as well as extra coziness. “Finishing touches, such as an outdoor rug, throw pillows and lighting, can go a long way to bringing the vision together and making the space feel complete!” Jenny and Kate say. &

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PHOTO: JEANNE CANTO

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