Town & Style 1.25.23

by stephanie wallace

humane society of missouri

The nonprofit rescued 29 Lakeland terriers from the property of a formerly licensed breeder in Ozark County. After the recovered animals are treated at HSMO’s Best Buddy Center in Maryland Heights, they are expected to be available for adoption.

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Orange penguins are flocking to downtown St. Louis! The hotel, which plans to open this spring, unveiled the sculptures, created by Cracking Art Group.

stl story stitchers

The arts collective was one of 30 arts and culture organizations chosen by the CDC Foundation to create works to educate the public about COVID-19 vaccines. STL Story Stitchers’ work is featured in a special exhibit at the David J. Sencer CDC Museum in Atlanta, Georgia, entitled Trusted Messengers: Building Confidence in COVID-19 Vaccines Through Art

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To celebrate the holiday season, the Maplewood company held a toy drive to benefit Toys for Tots of Bridgeton. The drive collected more than 1,000 toys to give to economically disadvantaged children.

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COVER STORY

BRIGHTER FUTURES

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HAVEN OF GRACE

by stephanie wallace

PARENTING IS A CHALLENGE in the best of circumstances, but housing insecurity can make it feel close to impossible. The Haven of Grace is dedicated to helping young pregnant women who are facing homelessness find security and independence. Founded by St. Peter’s Episcopal Church in Laude, the nonprofit offers shelter and other critical services to new families so they can enjoy promising futures.

The population The Haven of Grace serves lives at 150% below the poverty line, according to executive director Patricia Bosman. “Being housing unstable adds additional trials that make it hard to find viable employment and a safe living environment,” she says. “Unhoused birthing people face additional burdens that can lead to pre- and post-natal complications, including low birth weights. These babies often face lifelong health and educational challenges.” By working with and supporting families facing housing insecurity, the nonprofit is disrupting the cycle of generational poverty.

“The Haven of Grace is much more than a homeless shelter,” Bosman explains. “Our cultural and trauma informed approach to programming empowers women by directly addressing the social determinants of health and the root causes of homelessness.” The nonprofit offers a variety of programs to help young families. Its maternity shelter provides services for one year to women with children under the age of five, and transitional housing offers support for two additional years. Along with housing, families receive assistance with financial literacy, behavioral and therapeutic counseling, education and employment readiness, and the Aftercare Program works with the family for up to 10 years to avoid homelessness reoccurrence.

Bosman notes the purpose of all of The Haven of Grace’s services is to empower young women to reach stability and independence. “The main goal is to focus on individual strengths and encourage participation, self discovery and eventual success,” she says. “Our programs and services support mothers in ways that change the lives of future generations and hopefully break the chain of homelessness in the St. Louis community at large.”

To make its programs possible, The Haven of Grace relies on grants and donations. This funding makes it possible for the nonprofit to serve up to 100 families annually. “We have supported more than a thousand pregnant women and their families throughout the years,” Bosman explains. “Without community support, it would not be possible to continue the work of providing Missouri families dignified shelter, transitional housing and personal growth opportunities that lead to long term positive outcomes.”

The Haven of Grace’s largest annual fundraiser is A MOMentous Luncheon. This year’s event is May 10 at the Missouri Athletic Club and will be a celebration of motherhood. “We believe that every child is a precious gift from God,” honorary chairs Dana and Ronald Redwing say. “We’re grateful to be in the position to support and work with The Haven of Grace as they help moms navigate life and understand, appreciate and pour love into these tiny beings. Everyone deserves a chance. It makes our hearts happy to help offer one.” &

The Future of Senior Living Has Arrived

“I was comfortable in my home in the Central West End and really had no desire to move. But now that I’m here, I have a new lease on life that I wasn’t even looking for—truly a pleasant surprise.”

“I just can’t imagine any place I’d like more.”

DANA AND RONALD REDWING, PATRICIA BOSMAN

PHOTO: TIM PARKER PHOTOGRAPHY

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“Songs in the Key of Love,” a musical revue featuring soulful vocal duo Illy and Horace with a crack band, three nights in February including Valentine’s Day, will celebrate relationships: good, bad and just so-so. The feel-good revue at Westport Playhouse is designed to shift the needle into the red for any couple, while leaving audiences laughing and longing, featuring familiar romantic hits such as “Got to Get You into My Life,” “Just the Way You Are,” and many, many more. (Might there be a Stevie Wonder song or two? “Songs in the Key of

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OF THE TOWNS

by bill beggs jr.

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Life” is the title of his blockbuster 1976 double LP, which we’re sure is available to stream nowadays.) With performances from Tennessee to Texas, Missouri to Maine, Horace has sung soulful ballads to Broadway standards. He has been compared to legendary artists such as Luther Vandross and Barry White. (Also, he sang “Ol’ Man River” in a production of Showboat.) A director, choreographer and songwriter working on her debut CD, Illy has a musical theater resume that includes everything from Ain’t Misbehavin’ and Showboat to the hysterical 2019 performance of Avenue Q at Westport … in the role of Gary Coleman. Tickets are $30 and are available at westportplay.com or the box office. Show dates and times are Feb. 14, 16 and 17 at 7:30 p.m. Kobe Steakhouse of Japan is offering a special dinner package that includes a pair of show tickets, a confirmed exclusive reservation at Kobe and a $100 food credit, all for $150. Reservations are available at either 5 or 5:30 p.m. Garage parking is validated at the box office, so don’t leave your parking ticket under the sun visor!

BILL BEGGS JR. HAS WORN MANY HATS AT NEWSPAPERS, MAGAZINES AND IN MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS SINCE BEFORE THE ERA OF THE FLOPPY DISC. NOW HE JUST WEARS A HAT TO KEEP HIS BALD SPOT FROM GETTING SUNBURNT. YOU CAN REACH HIM AT WRTRS.BLCK@GMAIL.COM

It’s hard to keep track of the many author events that our County Library schedules throughout the year. Here are three complimentary appearances at two different library branches—gas up today and set your GPS! Featured authors’ books will be available for purchase at each event. Thursday, Jan. 26, at 7 p.m. speaker, yoga teacher and author Becky Vollmer will discuss and sign You Are Not Stuck: How Soul-Guided Choices Transform Fear Into Freedom at the Daniel Boone Branch, 300 Clarkson Road. You Are Not Stuck is a blend of straight talk, humor and clear action steps to help reset our priorities, drown out any incessant negative voices and make bold choices. Vollmer says we all feel stuck sometimes: in our jobs, relationships, habits or when the life we’re living just doesn’t add up to the one we want. When paralyzed by fear, the solution isn’t just courage—it’s choice. Because we all have choices, we just have to be brave enough to make them. Two nights later, experience someone completely different in Ellisville. Saturday, Jan. 28, 6:30 p.m.: In conversation with StL-based artist and cartoonist Steenz, award-winning middle grade nonfiction author Steve Sheinkin will discuss his highly anticipated graphic novel adaptation of Bomb: The Race To Build—and Steal—the World’s Most Dangerous Weapon. Monday, Jan. 30, at 7 p.m., the County Library’s celebration of Black History Month kicks off two days early with The Rev. Otis Moss III, author of Dancing in the Darkness: Spiritual Lessons for Thriving in Turbulent Times, at the Florissant Valley Branch, 195 New Florissant Road. Moss, senior pastor at Chicago’s Trinity United Church of Christ and one of the country’s most renowned civil rights leaders, shares his guide to uplift spirits as The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s work for social justice continues apace.

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WHICH OF THESE ITEMS ARE NOT ARRANGED ON THE ROOF OF THE CITY MUSEUM: a school bus, a manatee, a hippo, a canoe, a praying mantis, R2D2 and C3PO, a ferris wheel, a jet airplane, a sculpture of Marilyn Monroe?

Michael Keane, who owns three St. Louis gyms—a Fit Body Boot Camp in Ballwin, another in Warson Woods, plus Phoenix A+ Coaching in St. Louis—has been in addiction recovery for five years. Keane was a scholarship recipient from The Next Step in 2020 when he was awarded funds to help him complete an additional training certification. That certification has helped him strengthen service offerings at his gyms, and now, he wants to give back by raising $10,000 for the nonprofit by March 31. A group of relatively buff men and women have pledged to walk 1 million steps between now and the end of March to stand in solidarity with people in recovery who are looking to better their lives and, in turn, the lives of their families and community. As a culminating event, the group, many of whom are in 12-Step recovery themselves, will walk on March 25 from Keane’s Fit Body Boot Camp in Ballwin to his Phoenix A+ Coaching location on The Hill. The Next Step, founded to help recovering people pay for their vocational, undergraduate or graduate education, had been operating out of donated space. The organization is about to complete its quest for its own location along Manchester Road in the county. Visit thenextstepstl.org.

LAST ISSUE’S Q & A

If squirrels are rodents, then what are rabbits? Rabbits were considered rodents until about 110 years ago, when the differences in their tooth structure led them to be classified as lagomorphs. Rabbits have two sets of top incisors, whereas rodents only have one set. So, there you have it.

REV. OTIS MOSS

STEVE SHEINKIN

BECKY VOLLMER

downtown west

Like so many other men and women at any number of coffee shops and cafés around town, the bearded man was intent at his laptop when we arrived at a Panera to chat about the City Museum, his pride and joy. But unlike any of the other people hard at work, Rick Erwin looked up and smiled, stood and shook hands. Erwin, creative director of the iconic, unique space in a converted turn-of the-20th-century building on Washington Street, once integral to the street’s halcyon days as nexus of the StL’s shoe and garment district, would argue that those days are, in fact, these days. Many of the unique pieces of ephemera that wouldn’t fit inside, or that wildly creative minds decided would look better on the roof, are atop a 13-story building. By wildly creative, we mean the oeuvre of the late artist—visionary, really—Bob Cassilly and his ilk. Erwin demurs. “I’m just fortunate to have such a team of creative people,” he says, not a touch of self-aggrandizement in his voice or body language. “Everything was in Bob’s vision,” he continues. “I had to lose my ego.” Erwin, now 46, had worked side-by-side with Cassilly beginning in 2005, and continued as museum manager for a few years after his mentor’s untimely death in September 2011—at the controls of a bulldozer while working at his next urban concept, Cementland—until Erwin assumed his present role. The museum occupies the first four floors; only the sky is above much of the urban playground. The planet’s most unusual workplace has been through several iterations of management and is now operated by Premier Parks, with fiduciary decisions in the hands of execs who have many years at theme parks, e.g. Six Flags, under their tool belts. For this and many other aspects of his job, Erwin is grateful: “I never had to put together a budget.” Accounting isn’t in his collection of brushes. In fact, he was studying for his master’s at the Art Institute of Chicago when he heard about an unusual opportunity right here in river city. Not that Cassilly would have bothered with a detail like posting it. During our interview with Erwin, both of us went off on tangents; your journalist’s notes are practically inscrutable, if not outright illegible. Erwin’s eyes sparkle as he pauses, grins, then says: “I even have the Bob mumble!” Meanwhile, his hands punctuate his speech. And it’s no mumble, by the way. He talks with unbridled enthusiasm and, yes, his lips move pretty fast. “I’m just so excited to share it!” Erwin says, arms opening wide. Alas, he hasn’t been able to find a suitable helicopter for the museum, and miles of bureaucratic red tape have prevented an actual NASA rocket from appearing on the roof. So far. Where else can you find so many installations, so much stuff to (take a deep breath)… “swing across, walk into, spin around, climb up, slide down, crawl under, jump over…” etc.? That’s quoted from citymuseum.org. &

EVERYTHING WAS IN BOB’S VISION ...

Rick Erwin

a reflective experience

Laumeier Sculpture is bringing the work of renowned Japanese artist Yayoi Kusama to the StL. Opening Feb. 11, Narcissus Garden is an immersive sculptural installation that invites visitors to traverse pathways of nearly 1,000 mirrored spheres throughout Laumeier’s indoor gallery.

THE INSIDER

seal the deal

Warm the heart of a loved one this Valentine’s Day by adopting a Saint Louis Zoo harbor seal. The adoption package includes a plush toy, personalized certificate, greeting card and more. For more information, visit stlzoo.org/valentine.

You can enjoy an exclusive showing of the new documentary Exploring Missouri’s German Heritage —along with a four-course German meal! The screening is Feb. 23 at the John B. Busch Brewery event center in Washington, Missouri. A portion of proceeds from the event will be donated to the Washington Historical society. Learn more and purchase tickets at missourilife.com/germandocumentary.

PATTY

by patty hannum

I HAVE A TOUGH TIME STAYING ASLEEP at night, so I’ve decided I need to take a trip to Ireland. That sentence will make sense.

Everyone in the world seems to have playlists on their phones. They use them when they’re walking, running, working out, hanging out at the pool—well, at least my husband does. He is a music lover from hard rock to country to the stuff which has no clear classification. Our house and pool are wired for sound. I have no idea how to use this system, but it works and sounds great! We own CDs, turntables, albums and other gadgets I am not allowed to touch. Music is important to Carey. To me, it is just something in the background that I can occasionally sing to—badly.

Anyway, I woke up around 2 a.m. and couldn’t fall back asleep. Carey suggested I use the ear pods he gave me and listen to music that would help me relax. All I needed to do was put together a playlist, and I would be ready to go.

Ha. Ha. Ha. I was going to put together a playlist? After little thought and one Google search, I came up with a list of top Irish musical groups: U2, The Cranberries, The Commitments, The Chieftains, Van Morrison, Thin Lizzy, The Corrs. All groups I liked, so with a little help from Carey, I had a playlist.

You should know that I really didn’t think this idea of listening to music would lull me back to sleep, but I was so wrong. It really was like I was a baby and someone was singing me a lullaby. It was the perfect combination of music. Some were so familiar that I could sing along, but others were new or brought out only a faint remembrance. Next thing I knew, it was time to wake up. And then it started to creep into my mind. I needed to go to Ireland again.

Now, I’m not accusing the Irish singers of incorporating subliminal messaging in their music, but within two weeks, I had the idea in

my head, “Take me to the motherland!’ What? I am heading to Florida for the next three months and then planning a cruise to Alaska. I’ve already put the deposit down on the cruise. The trip to Alaska was important to me. It is that last state that I have yet to visit. It is a bucket list item! But I kept listening to the music when I couldn’t sleep and the noise in my head would not stop.

So, Carey and I are going to Ireland! For my birthday, Carey is giving me one of those ancestry DNA kits so I know where my people are from, and well, here I come. I sure hope they are home when I knock on their door looking for a place to stay! Sure, I will have other hotel reservations, but I am going to find my ancestors. What if they are all like me and write columns for their local papers? Or are snarky? Bossy? Regardless, it will be fun. So, my peeps, be careful of the music you listen to or you will also be taking a trip to a different county. It is a fact. &

PHOTO: JOHNNY FOGG

PHOTOGRAPHY

PHOTO: ROBERT WINKELMAN

The Thompson Center for Autism and Neurodevelopment is growing! The center celebrated the grand opening of its new therapy clinic at the University of Missouri in Columbia.

PARENT TRAP

by dr. tim jordan

AN OLD ALLEY CAT watches a kitten chasing its tail round and round. She asks, “What are you doing?” The kitten replies, “I just finished cat philosophy school where I learned there are two important things for cats. First, happiness is the most important, and second, it is located in one’s tail. So, I figured I would catch it in my mouth so that I can have eternal happiness.” The old cat had learned the same things: “The only difference is that I’ve discovered that if you go about your business and do the things that are important to you, happiness will follow you wherever you go.”

Kids have been conditioned to believe that happiness is gained through externals: more friends, more toys, more likes, better grades. They’ve also grown up in a culture where the philosophy is more and faster are better, and achievement is superior to character. The end result is discontent because there can never be enough.

Kids and adults can feel empty or lonely for many reasons, so they reach for a thrill to pull them out of their funk. These experiences can distract you from your emotions, but when the short-term high has worn off, you’re back to feeling empty again, oftentimes emptier—I call this the thrill hangover. It takes a bigger thrill to pull yourself out of the funk, which results in a deeper hangover, and the cycle continues.

The way out of this harmful cycle is awareness that you are in it and then finding healthy ways to take care of your emotions. Self care options include journaling, doing art, spending time in nature, surrounding yourself with reliable friends and starting a new hobby. Experiences like these bring happiness without you even trying.

I read a story once about the eminent therapist Karl Menninger who said that when working with a depressed patient, he’d encourage them to leave his office and go across the street and be of service to someone. Getting out of yourself and giving to others brings a sense of purpose and subsequently happiness. Let me leave you with a story about the power of selfless service and happiness.

In a small village in Germany in the 15th century, there lived a family with two brothers who shared a dream of pursuing art, but the family couldn’t pay for their education. The boys tossed a coin. The loser would go work in the nearby mines and support his brother attending art academy. Then that brother would support the other one by working in the mine or selling art. Albrecht Durer won the coin toss and went off to school while Albert worked in the mines. After four years, Albrecht returned, thanked his brother and told him it was now his turn to go to school. Albert shared that it was impossible for him to go. The bones in every finger of his hands had been broken.

To pay homage to his brother’s sacrifice, Albrecht carefully drew Albert’s tortured hands. Over time, people were so moved by the painting and its story that they called this tribute of love The Praying Hands. Today, 450 years later, Albrecht Durer’s work hangs in great museums around the world. Selfless service may be the best way to happiness. Set an intention for the new year to focus on healthy fillers like being of service to move yourself from emptiness to happiness. &

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STUDENT STANDOUTS

by stephanie wallace

LUKE MOSQUERA OF DE SMET JESUIT HIGH SCHOOL

LUKE MOSQUERA HAS WHAT IT TAKES to stay calm under pressure. Last summer, the De Smet Jesuit sophomore worked as a lifeguard at a local pool, and his intervention helped save the life of a young girl. In recognition of his actions, he was awarded the Tip of the Helmet Award by the Monarch Fire Protection District. T&S spoke to Mosquera about the incident and his plans for the rest of the school year.

How did you start lifeguarding?

I was looking for a summer job. A friend told me he was going to work at the pool, so I decided to check it out. Originally, I was going to be in the concession stand, but they told me I could take on more shifts if I was a lifeguard, so I decided to try it.

Can you tell me about the incident you received the Tip of the Helmet Award for?

It was a pretty packed day, and I was lifeguarding in the shallow end. Two little girls were playing close to me, and after checking around the pool, I noticed one of them had been under water too long. I knew something was wrong immediately, and all I could think was that I had to do something. Someone was there to help me get her out of the pool, and I did a jaw-thrust maneuver, which made her cough up the water. She opened eyes and was breathing well. The paramedics arrived, and it was all good after that.

How did it feel to have your actions recognized by the Monarch Fire Protection District?

At first, I was surprised because it happened a while after the incident. I was very proud and thankful to be recognized for what I had done.

You’re a student athlete.

My favorite sport is wrestling. It’s often less recognized and talked about than others, but I appreciate how difficult it is. You really have to keep going after it and improving yourself since it’s an individual sport. You don’t get many breaks when competing. It’s hard work, but I like that about it.

You also play football. What do you enjoy about it?

I enjoy the friendships I can build out of it. Without your teammates, you can’t succeed on the field. The camaraderie is something I enjoy that I don’t really get to experience with wrestling.

Are you looking forward to anything in the second half of the school year?

The spring is my off season, so I’m looking forward to completing some service hours. I’ve been looking into organizations to volunteer with, and I found one that works with special needs kids in sports. That’s something I’m excited about.

What do you enjoy doing in your free time?

I’m in the Spanish Club, and I really appreciate learning about the different history and culture. We also make a lot of food, so that’s fun. This summer, my friends and I biked a lot. I enjoyed getting to spend time out together. &

The Cow Cocoon

Learn with Truman what a cocoon is a special, safe place where you are happy and loved Join him on his adventure to find his very own cocoon!

A book by local St. Louisans: Writers Rachel Nolen & Maria Price Illustrator Dayne Sislen

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AS PART OF ITS SPONSORSHIP, SPORT COURT HAS MADE A DONATION ON BEHALF OF LUKE TO THE WORLD FOOD PROGRAM USA.

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SUMMER CAMP LISTING

SUMMER OPPORTUNITIES FAIR

Calling all parents! The Summer Opportunities Fair is back in person Jan. 28 at Whitfield School from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. More than 75 exhibitors will be on site to help you find the perfect activities for your kids during summer break.

175 S. Mason Road 314.425.1205 fairchair@summeropportunities.org

CAMP TAUM SAUK

Established in 1946, this traditional overnight summer camp for kids ages 8 to 15 provides an amazing camp experience in a safe, nurturing and fun environment. With a wide range of land and water activities, it’s time to take a break from technology to create memories that will last a lifetime!

314.993.1655 taumsauk.com

CHAMINADE SUMMER CAMPS

Find a camp for every interest for boys and girls alike—from basketball and broadcasting to band and pottery or our week-long overnight camp! Camps have been developed to showcase the best that Chaminade has to offer.

425 S. Lindbergh Blvd. 314.993.4400, ext.1215 chaminade-stl.org/summer-camps

RECREATION COUNCIL OF GREATER ST. LOUIS

We are a “clearinghouse” for information on leisure and recreation opportunities for individuals with developmental disabilities who reside in St. Louis City, St. Louis County and St. Charles County. We also assist in paying for programs and support. Check out our website for our 2023 Summer Opportunities Guide. 314.726.6044 recreationcouncil.org

WHITFIELD SUMMER PROGRAMS

Join us for enriching experiences this summer including Camp Whitfield, Whitfield Sports Camp and a summer session that provides academic and leadership development for older kids. On the court, in the art studio and in the lab, campers are guided by Whitfield teachers and coaches.

175 S. Mason Road | 314.434.5141 whitfieldschool.org/about/summer-programs

The Recreation Council of Greater St. Louis serves as a clearinghouse for information and funding for individuals with developmental disabilities to access leisure and recreation programs and activities in the St. Louis City, St. Louis County and St. Charles County areas.

more information call

or go to our website at RecreationCouncil.org

The Council publishes an annual Summer Opportunities Guide that highlights a variety of summer activities for both children and adults with developmental disabilities.

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A YEAR OF EVENTS

Nonprofit News

1. The Haven of Grace

Join us May 10 at the Missouri Athletic Club for A MOMentous Luncheon—the hottest ticket in town! Proceeds benefit The Haven of Grace and support unhoused pregnant women and their children. This agency provides shelter and education, helping families prepare for a life of independence and success.

1225 WARREN ST. | 314.621.6507 | HAVENOFGRACESTL.ORG

2. Promise Community Homes

For 50 years, Promise Community Homes (formerly Rainbow Village) has provided safe, affordable neighborhood homes for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Starting with seven homes, it is now the largest specialty housing nonprofit in St. Louis, serving 300 adults in 86 homes.

1240 DAUTEL LANE | 314.567.1522 | PROMISECOMMUNITYHOMES.ORG

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3. Air Comfort Service

Contact Air Comfort Service for heating, water heater, humidifier or insulation services and installation to increase the comfort and energy efficiency of your home! Call for a free estimate on new equipment. 314.814.8454 | 636.345.9044 | AIRCOMFORTSERVICE.COM

4. Sport Court St. Louis

Stay fit on our backyard game courts, which provide a multiuse space for almost every sport imaginable: basketball, hockey, tennis, pickleball, volleyball and more. 636.451.0400 | SPORTCOURTSTLOUIS.COM

5. Asadorian Rug Company

We specialize in the sale, cleaning, repair and restoration of new, vintage and antique rugs.

50 WORTHINGTON ACCESS DRIVE | 314.695.5209 | ASADORIANRUGCO.COM

6. Immerse

The small details matter! Express your style with a decorative shower drain cover. Multiple designs and finishes available. On display at Immerse.

836 HANLEY INDUSTRIAL COURT | 314.375.1500 | IMMERSESTL.COM

7. Life Media

Convert your home into a smart house so you can adjust your music, TV, thermostat, shades, lighting and more with your phone or tablet.

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8. Signature Kitchen & Bath

We are proud to announce that we have added a fellow family-owned and -operated vendor to our extensive line of cabinet offerings. With 96 door styles, four cabinetry series and a plethora of finish options, WF Cabinetry is sure to include options that appeal to your specific tastes.

9701 MANCHESTER ROAD | 636.720.0451

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9. Laurie’s Shoes

Mephisto women’s walking shoes offer the best of French fashion and comfort.

9916 MANCHESTER ROAD | 314.961.1642 | LAURIESSHOES.COM

10. Clarendale Clayton

Our high-rise, luxury senior residences place you at the center of it all, offering independent living, assisted living and memory care surrounded by elegance, superb hospitality and exceptional amenities at every turn.

7651 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.789.8173 | CLARENDALECLAYTON.COM

11. Gladys Manion Real Estate

Gladys Manion is excited to welcome new agents! Christina Dent brings more than two decades of experience to Gladys Manion. She served as a co-listing agent on more than $100 million in sales in the past two and a half years. Karleen O. Hoerr has been matching clients and their real estate needs for almost 50 years. She began selling homes in the Skinker-DeBaliviere neighborhood and has expanded to the central corridor of St. Louis. Lisa Strait-Hughes is a St. Louis native living in the Parkview neighborhood with her four children and husband Brian, who is not a St. Louisan, but after 17 years, the city is starting to grow on him.

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12. Holman Motorcars St. Louis

As a family-owned business, Holman Motorcars delivers an unmatched passion for exceeding expectations through our professional staff and state-of-the art facilities. We offer new cars from six ultra-luxury lines, as well as our evolving collection of pre-owned luxury vehicles.

ONE ARNAGE BLVD. | 636.449.0000 | HOLMANMOTORCARS.COM

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GIVING BACK

Art Saint Louis

by stephanie wallace

FOR ALMOST FOUR DECADES, Art Saint Louis has been dedicated to enriching the community through the creative expression of the region’s visual artists. Along with providing artists and patrons resources, it presents exhibitions year round at its gallery in the historic Park Pacific building downtown. The nonprofit kicked off 2023 with the exciting announcement that Francesca Passanise would be taking the helm as executive director. T&S reached out to Passanise to learn more about Art Saint Louis, the local cultural community and her plans for both.

Have you always been interested in working around art?

I didn’t always know it was an option. I was not particularly encouraged to pursue the arts, but it was something I was always compelled towards, both visual and literary. When I was in college, I told myself that I knew I would be on the right track if I was working in the arts and able to express myself creatively within five years after graduating.

As a native St. Louisan, what do you think of the creative culture in the city?

St. Louis is very humble. We’re not always great about tooting our own horn, but I think we are bursting with creative energy. One thing Art Saint Louis aims to do is create a centralized community for visual art. We not only want to share resources with artists, but also make sure people are aware that we have regional voices expressing themselves and various galleries and institutions where local art is exhibited—not only in places like Midtown and the Central West End, but also in West County, southern Illinois and beyond.

What brought you to Art Saint Louis?

I’ve known the artistic director, Robin Hirsch-Steinhoff, for years. She and I have a similar opinions about how rich our artistic community is and the importance of having a centralized resource for artists. Prior to coming to Art Saint Louis, I led Webster University’s Arcade Contemporary Art Projects, which is just down the street. We shared the goal of ensuring people knew there wasn’t an arts desert downtown. I also worked with Art Saint Louis on a few projects, including serving on the jury of an exhibition. That was a wonderful experience, and I got to work with and meet so many wonderful local artists. Since the beginning of the pandemic, Art Saint Louis has been without an executive director, and

Robin has been a bit of a one-woman show. She let me know they were going to be posting the position again, and I saw an opportunity to expand on so much that has not been explored culturally in our community.

Can you tell me about Art Saint Louis’ mission? We put a spotlight on the vital contributions of local visual artists. Along with creating exhibitions, we provide opportunities for networking, access to resources and tools, and education and professional development programs. Everything is evolving at such a rapid pace, connectivity is that much more important. We want to enrich the overall region through access to contemporary art. Part of that is creating an in-person community that can connect and inspire people. It also has a positive economic impact while creating a more culturally rich St. Louis.

Why is it important to provide a bridge between visual artists and the community?

Art has the power to pull people out of isolation. It brings out what we share as human beings—it’s really about the collective human experience. Engaging with art makes us more empathetic and understanding to others. Deciding to be an artist takes courage. We want to ensure that they can thrive locally, and that means the community has to support them. We help connect artists with galleries where they can display and studio spaces where they can create. Historically, St. Louis is a much more affordable place to live and work than Chicago, New York or Los Angeles. There are a lot of opportunities here, and being a home to artists enriches our community. Plus, it opens more people to art collecting. It’s often considered something that is only for the 1%, but purchasing local art can be an enriching way to boost the economy and make a deeper connection with a work.

What do you hope to achieve as executive director of the organization?

One of the main things is to really act as a centralized hub for artists and art lovers. We currently have a listing of local galleries and museums, and I really want to make something more comprehensive. I’d like to have a directory that could be searched by region, art style and other keywords, so if you’re interested in modern textiles or Native art, you can know exactly where to go. More than 90% of membership is visual artists, so we’re serving the same community we always have. I’d like to do more to connect with collectors and potential patrons, such as creating panel discussions. Art galleries can be intimidating, and we want to break down those barriers. Those are some of my more bite-sized goals for the first year or two, but there’s a lot more I’m excited to sink my teeth into

Are there any upcoming exhibits you are excited about?

We have at least 10 exhibitions planned for this calendar year, so there is always something to be excited about. One of my favorite annual exhibits is Varsity Art. It showcases our rising visual artists in collegiate programs. While there may be some master’s students involved, the vast majority come from bachelor’s programs. It’s always packed full of interesting and fresh ideas. Maybe it’s because of my background in education, but I think there’s something wonderful about the energy that comes from a young artist who is just ready to go and knows that nothing can stop them. &

FRANCESCA PASSANISE

OF GREATER ST. LOUIS great futures gala

by bill barrett

For more than fifty years, Boys and Girls Clubs of Greater St. Louis has offered after-school, sports and summer programs to youth in the St. Louis area while also providing them a safe place to learn and grow. Guests enjoyed the announcement of the 2023 Youth of the Year and live music by The Retro Boogie Band and DJ Quinn.

guests: President Flint Fowler, Ph.D; event co-chairs Melanie and Jim Bennett, Jill and Ed Dowd, Lisa and Joe Bertain; emcee Rene Knott

SNAPPED!

FRIENDS OF KIDS WITH CANCER fashion show & boutique

The special fundraiser treats children with cancer and blood-related diseases to the red-carpet lifestyle for a day, while raising funds to support educational, emotional and recreational programs. The fashion show showcases a journey of hope, allowing survivors and patients to come

SHUNTAE SHIELDS RYAN, RENE KNOTT

NATALIE O’LOUGHLIN, STEVE AND CRYSTAL O’LOUGHLIN

SIMEON AND LAJUAN WILLIAMS

LISA AND JOE BERTAIN

RICHARD NIX JR., FLINT FOWLER

ANA CEHIC, MEGAN MULVIHILL

TARA SCHULTZ, JEN HERTEL

SHARON OBRECHT, MARY CITTADINO

CAROLINE KERCKHOFF, KELLI MITCHELL

BLYTHE MEISINGER, KEELYN DWIDRAK, SUE HENDRIX

February

2/10-2/12

Do It For Love

Saint Louis Ballet

3:30 and 7:30 p.m.

Kirkwood Performing Arts Center 314.534.1111 stlouisballet.org/doitforlove

2/23

Dessert First Girl Scouts of Eastern Missouri 6 P.M.

Chase Park Plaza Royal Sonesta 314.400.4600 | girlscoutsem.org

March

3/30

Tour De Dance

The Big Muddy Dance Company Performances start at 5:30 p.m. Grand Center Arts District 314.338.4058 thebigmuddydanceco.org

April

4/10

Frontier Night for Illumination Gala Foundation for Barnes-Jewish Hospital 6 p.m. | The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis 314.286.0602 foundationbarnesjewish.org/events

4/15

JDRF 2023

St. Louis Dream Gala JDRF Kansas & Missouri 5:30 P.M. Four Seasons Hotel St. Louis 314.302.8796 bidpal.net/dreamgalastl2023

4/15

A Night for Newborns25th Annual Gala and Auction Nurses for Newborns

5:30 P.M.

The Chase Park Plaza Royal Sonesta 314.455.6412 nursesfornewborns.org

4/22

45th Anniversary Concert

“Here’s to Song”

The St. Louis Children’s Choirs 7 p.m. | Powell Hall 314.993.9626 | slccsing.org

4/28-4/30

Swan Lake Saint Louis Ballet 2:30 and 7 p.m. Touhill Performing Arts Center 314.534.1111 stlouisballet.org/swanlake

May

5/10

A MOMentous Luncheon

The Haven of Grace 11 a.m. | Missouri Athletic Club 314.621.6507, ext. 305 havenofgracestl.org

5/13

45th Anniversary Gala “Magical Moments”

The St. Louis Children’s Choirs 6 p.m. | The Factory 314.993.9626 | slccsing.org

5/19 & 5/20

Blaze

The Big Muddy Dance Company 7:30 p.m. Catherine B. Berges Theatre at COCA 314.338.4058 thebigmuddydanceco.org/blaze

June

6/3

Illumination Gala Foundation for Barnes-Jewish Hospital 6:30 p.m. | The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis 314.286.0602 | illuminationgala.org

6/4

2nd Annual St. Louis Ice Cream Social Nurses for Newborns 1 p.m.

World’s Fair Pavilion in Forest Park 314.455.6412 nursesfornewborns.org

6/11

Picnic in Your Park

Gateway Arch Park Foundation 11 a.m.-1 p.m.

Gateway Arch National Park 314.881.2015 | archpark.org/picnic

Summer 2023

Women’s Leadership Network Celebration Luncheon

Girl Scouts of Eastern Missouri 11 a.m. | Saint Louis Club 314.400.4600 | girlscoutsem.org

September

9/14

Starburst Gala

Affinia Healthcare Foundation 6 p.m. | Stifel Theatre 314.814.8507 affiniahealthcare.org/donate

9/15-9/17

The Big Muddy Dance Fest

The Big Muddy Dance Company 3305 Washington Blvd. 314.338.4058 thebigmuddydanceco.org/dancefest

October

10/26

An Iconic Evening

Gateway Arch Park Foundation

6:30 p.m. | Gateway Arch 314.881.2015 | archpark.org/iconic

November

11/18

Winterfest 5K

Gateway Arch Park Foundation 7:30 a.m.

Gateway Arch National Park 314.881.2015 | archpark.org/5k

11/25

Girl Scouts Go: Run for the Cookies Girl Scouts of Eastern Missouri 8 a.m.

Girl Scouts’ Service Center and virtual 314.400.4600 | girlscoutsem.org

December

12/9

Holiday Concerts

The St. Louis Children’s Choirs 2 and 7 p.m.

J. Scheidegger Center at Lindenwood University 314.993.9626 | slccsing.org

12/14

Leader Lunch 43

YWCA Metro St. Louis Union Station Hotel 314.531.1115, ext. 5235 | ywcastl.org

TBD

Notes for Newborns

Nurses for Newborns 6 p.m. | TBD 314.455.6412 nursesfornewborns.org

St. DreamLouisGala 2023

Enjoy dinner, an expansive auction, and celebrate the outstanding progress being made in type 1 diabetes research.

APRIL 15, 2023 • 5:30PM

Four Seasons Hotel St. Louis

Reserve your spot today at bidpal.net/DreamGalaSTL2023 or call 314.302.8796

December 14, 2023

Union Station Hotel

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SAVE THE DATE february

2.4

SPIRIT OF PROVIDENT GALA

Provident Behavioral Health

CHASE PARK PLAZA ROYAL SONESTA HOTEL | 5:30 P.M. PROVIDENTSTL.ORG

OPEN YOUR HEART GALA

Missouri Alliance for Animal Legislation

MEADOWBROOK COUNTRY CLUB | 6:30 P.M. 314.361.3944 | MAAL.ORG

THE ROYAL TEA

Winter Opera St. Louis

THE RITZ-CARLTON, ST. LOUIS | 11 A.M. 314.865.0038 | WINTEROPERASTL.ORG

2.5

GOLF TOURNAMENT

TREE House of Greater St. Louis

TOPGOLF | 11 A.M. 636.332.4940 | THSTL.ORG

2.11

THISTLE AUCTION

The Wilson School

THE WILSON SCHOOL 314.725.4999 | WILSONSCHOOL.COM

CUPID’S UNDIE RUN

Children’s Tumor Foundation BALLPARK VILLAGE | NOON MY.CUPIDS.ORG

FALLING IN LOVE … IN FIVE COURSES

St. Louis Community College Foundation

FOUR SEASONS HOTEL ST. LOUIS 314.539.5472 | STLCC.EDU

2.18

’80S BLACK LIGHT BINGO Soroptimist of Greater St. Louis

JFK COMMUNITY CENTER | 7 P.M. SOROPTIMISTSTLOUIS.COM

2.23

DESSERT FIRST

Girl Scouts of Eastern Missouri

CHASE PARK PLAZA ROYAL SONESTA | 6 P.M. 314.400.4600 | GIRLSCOUTSEM.ORG

2.25

SUPER TRIVIA NIGHT

Miriam

MIRIAM HIGH SCHOOL | 6 P.M. 314.968.3893 | MIRIAMSTL.ORG

50TH ANNUAL SAFARI AUCTION Visitation Academy

VISITATION ACADEMY 314.625.9245 | VISITATIONACADEMY.ORG

HEART OF ST. LOUIS HEART BALL American Heart Association

THE RITZ-CARLTON, ST. LOUIS | 6 P.M. 314.692.5635 | HEART.ORG

Join us at our two incredible fundraisers to celebrate and sustain our hometown national park. Sign up for our e-newsletter and learn about our events throughout the year!

PRECISION IN NEUROSURGICAL CARE

COVER STORY

CARE INNOVATIONS

SLU CARE PHYSICIAN GROUP by julia m. johnson

FOR SLU CARE NEUROSURGEON DR. PHILIPPE MERCIER, it’s paramount to be able to differentiate a tumor from surrounding tissue during brain surgery, so advanced technology that can help him do that is extremely valuable. Mercier and his colleagues use a technique called intraoperative magnetic resonance imaging (iMRI), along with other technologies, to remove cancerous tissue without disturbing surrounding structures in the brain.

“Many people aren’t aware that tumor tissue often looks very similar to normal brain tissue,” Mercier says. “With iMRI, we can see subtle differences while a surgery is in progress so we can achieve what we call maximal safe resection, or the most effective removal of the tumor possible.” He explains that other factors like swelling or shifting of brain tissue also can make it difficult to assess a tumor’s location and size, and the technology helps to avert that issue as well.

Mercier says that in past decades, surgeons couldn’t always be certain that all of the affected tissue had been removed during an operation, so they might have to go back in later, which could introduce complications. With this advanced technology, however, they can be much more precise and help prevent later problems. “With some cancers such as those of the skin, it’s acceptable to take some surrounding tissue during a resection, but the same is not true of brain surgery,” Mercier explains. “We need to remove tumor tissue only, so we can be sure to preserve brain function.”

It’s not difficult to see why getting a resection right the first time is of such importance. “Imagine your child is in the hospital for surgery to remove a brain tumor,” explains Mercier, who practices at SSM Health Saint Louis University Hospital and SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital. “No surgeon wants to close up the site, do post-procedure imaging and discover that some of the growth has been left behind. No one wants to have to tell that to a child’s parents. We can use iMRI in conjunction with other techniques like stereotactic guidance and microscopy with fluorescent filters to ensure the tumor has been successfully removed while the patient is still on the table.”

The iMRI scanner is situated between operating rooms so it can be used during more than one procedure at a time, Mercier says. “It’s state-of-the-art technology and a critical piece of equipment for the hospital,” he notes. “When we are finishing up with a surgery and want to make sure everything looks clear, we prep the patient, put him or her in the scanner and get imaging results quickly.”

Mercier says additional reasons to use iMRI are less invasiveness, an easier healing process and faster recovery times, and its use demonstrates SLUCare physicians’ dedication to the most effective ways to treat patients. “Neurosurgical oncology has changed drastically over the past 30 or 40 years,” he notes. “We are always adding and helping to develop state-of-the-art ways to achieve the best results for patients, and our surgeons have subspecialty training that allows us to target treatment to their individual needs. Technological advancements combined with personal expertise and skill make the difference for our patients.” &

APRO NOM ICS

by

ADAM LAMBAY OF HILTON ST. LOUIS AT THE BALLPARK

FOOD IS SOMETHING THAT BRINGS TOGETHER— whether it’s grabbing dinner with friends or cooking a homemade meal with family. That’s something chef Adam Lambay understands. The St. Louis native came by his love of the culinary arts through exploring the cultures and cuisines of his Indian and German heritage. Last year, he won the Create Cooking Challenge: My Family’s Recipe, a national contest put on by Create TV.

Lambay enjoyed growing up in St. Louis, and he recalls his family taking advantage of the amenities the city offers. “We did all the classic St. Louis things: the Arch, the zoo, going to Cardinals games,” he says. “It’s hard to believe that more than 30 years ago I was introduced to St. Louis hockey. I played, and now, my son plays while I coach when I can.” Cooking was another passion of Lambay’s youth. His interest in the culinary arts was sparked by TV shows like Yan Can Cook and celebrity chefs like Julia Child. “I’d tell my mom I wanted to be one of those guys in a white coat on TV, but she thought I meant a doctor,” he jokes. “That was the beginning of me thinking that maybe one day I’d be a chef.”

That interest in cooking grew thanks to Lambay’s family. His father’s Indian heritage meant he grew up watching homemade curries simmer on the stovetop, and his maternal grandmother, the daughter of German immigrants, made comforting meals and baked goods. “I’d have beef stew with onions and garlic at her house, then come home and have beef curry my dad made,” he says. “They used many of the same ingredients, but there was something so different about them. It planted the seeds of how interesting and powerful food can be.”

In high school, Lambay got his first job in a restaurant. He started out as a busser and dishwasher, but one day when a fry cook didn’t show up, he was put to work in the kitchen. “I’m an adrenaline junkie, so I loved that I was intensely busy all the time,” he explains. “I was really young when I started thinking about potentially becoming a chef, and around 16 or 17, I knew I was going to spend the rest of my life working in a kitchen. I started asking around to figure out how I could make it my career.”

BUTTER CHICKEN DIP WITH TOASTED NAAN DIPPERS

1. Skin and debone rotisserie chicken. Shred all the meat and set aside.

2. Heat vegetable oil in a large skillet over medium high heat. Once the oil shimmers, add the cumin seed and diced onion. Cook until the onion just starts to take on a bit of color, stirring frequently. Add the reserved chicken and stir into the onions. Reduce heat to medium.

3. Add the methi and butter chicken spice blend. Stir to coat everything well. Cook for about two minutes, stirring constantly. Add the cream and cream cheese and stir

Lambay currently serves as the executive chef at the Hilton St. Louis at the Ballpark. After attending Sullivan University, he took his place in high-end kitchens, while also working as a culinary instructor and consultant. Some of his most memorable work experiences are those where he learned to better appreciate the ingredients he cooked with. “I worked with phenomenal chefs at The Brown Hotel in Louisville and learned so much about my craft and ingredients,” he says. “At Chaumette Winery in Ste. Geneieve, I worked closely with farmers, and they taught me more about what produce was in season and how I could use it.”

Lambay learned about the Create Cooking Challenge: My Family’s Recipe from his business partner, Robin Orvis. When given the task of presenting a recipe inspired by his family, he went with the first thing that came to his mind: moka, an Indian take on scrambled eggs with onions, cumin seed, eggs, tomato, curry powder and chili flakes. “It was one of the first dishes my father taught me to make,” he explains.”Growing up, my brother and sister loved it, and now, I’ve passed it on to my kids. After I won, I told my dad, and he was surprised because it’s just a simple egg dish. But it’s more than that. It’s a way to share our heritage and family history.”

Winning the challenge gave Lambay the opportunity to follow in the footsteps of his childhood icons Julia Child and Martin Yan—the latter even served as a judge for the competition. He was able to develop Adam Lambay’s Indian Inspired, a 10-episode series featured on createtv.com. Each episode takes a familiar dish like a Caprese salad or pot roast and puts an Indian spin on it. “Creating the recipes was simple—they’re all developed from things I cook with my friends and are inspired by my family,” he says. “There was definitely a learning curve to production, but by the end, my team and I were definitely hitting our stride. I’m hoping the series becomes something we can share with more people.” &

to combine. Once the cream cheese is softened and distributed evenly, turn off the heat. Add half the pimentos and the yogurt. Stir to combine.

4. Place in a casserole dish and garnish with parmesan and other half of the pimentos.

5. Serve with naan dippers that have been drizzled with vegetable oil, salt and pepper to taste and toasted in a 350°F oven for five to seven minutes, until lightly toasted but not dry or crunchy. You could also serve this with fried chapati or even papad if you’re looking for more crunch and less carbs!

stephanie wallace | photos: bill barrett

MARK YOUR CALENDAR:

by stephanie wallace

2/3 ptah williams

february

2/10-3/5 confederates

Due to the ever-changing COVID-19 situation, please check with organizer websites closer to the event dates.

2/18 & 2/19

The Missouri Botanical Garden’s Orchid Show is back for the first time in three years. See thousands of vibrant orchid blooms in nearly every color of the rainbow in the garden’s brand new Emerson Conservatory.

Missouri Botanical Garden

Included with regular admission 9 a.m.-5 p.m. | 314.577.5100 | mobot.org

2/1-2/26

the light

Presented by The Black Rep, this play follows Rashad and Genesis, a modern day couple with plenty to celebrate—a marriage proposal and the promise of a new life together. But will their relationship survive when memories buried long ago are dug up?

Hotchner Studio Theatre | $15-$50

Various showtimes | 314.534.3810 theblackrep.org

The St. Louis-based jazz pianist will play works inspired by artist Barbara Chase-Riboud’s exhibit Monumentale Pulitzer Arts Foundation | Free | 6 p.m. 314.754.1850 | pulitzerarts.org

2/3-2/5

star wars: the force awakens in concert

The St. Louis Symphony Orchestra performs John Williams’ iconic score live to film as the audience travels to a galaxy far, far away.

2/10-2/12 do it for love

The Saint Louis Ballet presents its annual February repertory program. Just in time for Valentine’s Day, it features performances that demonstrate the power of love through music and movement.

Kirkwood Performing Arts Center 3:30 and 7:30 p.m. | 636.537.1998 stlouisballet.org

2/10-2/12

clue

enterprisecenter.com

This comedy whodunit follows six guests who assemble at a remote mansion for an unusual dinner party. When their host turns up dead, they all become suspects. DaySpring’s Black Box Theatre | $10-$15 2 and 7 p.m. | 314.291.8878 dayspringarts.org

From playwright Dominique Morisseau, the story follows an enslaved rebel turned Union spy and a tenured professor in a modern-day private university who contend with parallel experiences of institutionalized racism.

Loretto-Hilton Center | $23-$92 Various showtimes | 314.968.4925 repstl.org

12/11 & 12/12

taste of soulard

This self-guided tasting and pub crawl allows you to choose your own adventure through the many Cajun flavors that you will find throughout Soulard. Each purchase includes one drink voucher and six food vouchers that can be redeemed at any of the participating establishments.

Soulard Neighborhood | $35 11 a.m.-5 p.m. | 314.771.5110 stlmardigras.org

shen yun

Take a journey through 5,000 years of Chinese cultural history, classical Chinese dance, live orchestral music, authentic costumes and interactive backdrops.

Stifel Theatre | $90-$165 | 2 p.m. 314.499.7600 | stifeltheatre.com

2/28-3/12 to kill a mockingbird

The classic novel by Harper Lee is adapted for the stage by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Aaron Sorkin. The Fabulous Fox Theatre | $29-$110 Various showtimes | 314.534.1111 fabulousfox.com

You Make Possible My Care

OFF the cuff claiborne eric rhone w/

Eric Rhone knows a thing or two about funny business—emphasis on business. The St. Louis-based entertainment mogul built his career working with his long-time friend Cedric Kyles, better known as Cedric the Entertainer. From booking gigs on HBO’s Comedy Def Jam to launching television series, Rhone turned managing fun into a successful career.

WHEN DID YOU DECIDE TO MAKE THE LEAP INTO ENTERTAINMENT? That happened in 1994. I was working at Monsanto, and Cedric had just landed a job hosting BET’s ComicView . We knew it was time to decide if we would leave our corporate jobs and really commit to entertainment. I actually quit and immediately drove to Los Angeles.

WHAT WAS IT LIKE GETTING A FOOTHOLD IN THE INDUSTRY? There wasn’t the social media that people have now to build their careers and establish their brands. In 1994, you literally had to knock on people’s doors and introduce yourself to important people. Today, networking skills like that are still important, but they are supported by technology. You don’t always have to be in people’s faces.

DO YOU CONTRIBUTE TO CEDRIC’S JOKES? Just through conversion. Most of Cedric’s material comes from experiences and observations that he’s able to craft into digestible jokes. It’s an incredible skill.

HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH THE FAKENESS OF HOLLYWOOD? There are fake people everywhere. I think Hollywood gets a bad reputation because it attracts people from all over. You can reinvent yourself because no one knows you. I don’t think of Hollywood as particularly fake because I don’t surround myself with fake people. It’s about who you’re with, not where you are.

WHAT IS THE MOST REWARDING PART OF YOUR WORK? Giving opportunities to people. There are so many people who want to be a part of this business, whether it’s in front of or behind the camera. It’s very rewarding to help people pursue their dreams. However, it also can be the most difficult part of my job. Sometimes, people fumble their opportunity or don’t measure up to expectations. You have to be able to navigate that and manage disappointment.

WHY DO YOU CONTINUE TO CALL ST. LOUIS HOME? I never intended to raise a family in Los Angeles. I saw it as an opportunity to establish a business, but St. Louis is my base. It’s a great city with great people. I like to say that each citizen is one degree of separation from each other—you can find ways to connect with everyone. St. Louis also offers benefits from a business standpoint. It’s in the middle of the country, so I can essentially get anywhere I need to be in three hours. Traveling from Los Angeles to New York takes a whole day.

YOU’RE A GOLFER. WHO’S THE BEST GOLFER YOU’VE PLAYED WITH? Ozzie Smith. Baseball players have that hand-eye coordination. They can hit a ball going 90 miles per hour, so just imagine what they can do with one that’s sitting on a tee.

FAVORITE PLACE TO TRAVEL FOR LEISURE. The Bahamas

NAME A PLACE THAT’S NOT LIKELY TO SEE ERIC RHONE AGAIN. Milwaukee

OTHER THAN CEDRIC, WHO’S THE FUNNIEST PERSON YOU’VE SEEN? Eddie Murphy—he’s the GOAT. There’s nobody funnier than him.

Read the entire interview on townandstyle.com.

HOOKED BOOKS

by patty hannum

If I Survive You

by Jonathan Escoffery

This book is heartbreaking, funny and electric as it follows the story of Trelawny, a Jamaican-American boy living in Florida. The family escapes Jamaica during political upheaval only to barely survive Hurricane Andrew. They rely on each other to survive dangerous surroundings and the nefarious workings of some assisted living franchises. If you have a family, you’ll relate to their strong bonds.

Baby Abe: A Lullaby for Lincoln

by

Ann Chandonnent

Just in time for Abraham Lincoln’s birthday! A book for you and your children to read about our 16th President. It is written in verse so it makes it the perfect book to read aloud, and the illustrations are great. You have time to get it before Presidents Day weekend.

Pivot (Apple Podcasts)

I first became aware of Kara Swisher on MSNBC, and she mentioned her podcast. Now, I am hooked. She co-hosts with NYU professor Scott Galloway. The two of them cover everything from what has happened to Twitter, the state of economy, Bitcoin, China and U.S. relations. They are smart but don’t make you feel dumb.

We Own This City (HBO)

This is one of those mini series where you begin to question what is right and what is wrong. Police officers getting guns and drugs off the streets but not playing by the rule vs. doing everything by the book, resulting in long delays and questions about the criminal justice system—until you realize YIKES! There is a reason for rules and regulations. A taught action-packed six episodes.

GET YOUR BEAUTY SLEEP

by stephanie wallace

SLEEP IS IMPORTANT FOR RECHARGING YOUR BODY AND MIND, AND BEAUTY REST ISN’T JUST A SAYING. WHILE YOU’RE SLEEPING, YOUR CELL PRODUCTION CAN INCREASE BY THREE TIMES—THAT MEANS IT’S A GREAT TIME TO HYDRATE, EXFOLIATE AND MORE. THESE NIGHTTIME TREATMENTS WILL DO THE WORK WHILE YOU CATCH SOME Z’S.

1.

100% MULBERRY SILK PILLOWCASE quince

Sleeping on a silk pillowcase can help keep your skin and hair hydrated, reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles and minimize bed head. This one is made with 100% mulberry silk and comes in a variety colors—pictured in Blush Pink.

$39.90 FROM ONEQUINCE.COM

2. DREAM ROUTINE OVERNIGHT HYDRATING HAIR MASK amika

Formulated for all hair types, this hydration mask helps combat dryness and damage like split ends and breakage. Thanks to hyaluronic acid, bio-fermented coconut water and polyglutamic acid, it leaves hair three times more hydrated in the morning and boosts moisture for 72 hours.

$32 FROM LOVEAMIKA.COM

3. PIMPLE PASTE OVERNIGHT BLEMISH DRYING PASTE innbeauty project

Breakouts happen, but with this spot treatment, you can tackle them while you sleep. Using ingredients like clay, sulfur, willow bark and azelaic acid, it absorbs extra oil, calms breakouts and clears pores. It also can brighten the look of spots caused by past blemishes.

$28 FROM INNBEAUTYPROJECT.COM

4. CICA SLEEPING MASK laneige

This hypoallergenic overnight mask soothes stressed skin and strengthens the skin’s moisture barrier for a healthier, more hydrated complexion. Made with fermented forest yeast extract, it provides deep nourishment that helps combat nightly moisture loss.

$34 FROM US.LANEIGE.COM

5. FORGET THE FILLER OVERNIGHT LIP PLUMPING MASK lawless

Along with hydrating and smoothing your lips, this vegan and gluten-free mask has been proven to increase lip volume. It’s collagen-boosting formula includes shea butter to soothe and moisturize and hyaluronic acid to leave your lips pillowy soft.

$21 FROM LAWLESSBEAUTY.COM

6.

EYE

RECHARGE + REPLENISH PRO-FERM OVERNIGHT COMPLEX tula skincare

This intensely hydrating cream replenishes the delicate skin around your eyes while you sleep. The formula features botanical retinol alternatives and soothing chamomile to help reduce the look of fine lines, wrinkles and crow’s feet.

$56 FROM TULA.COM

FOCUS ON:

BLOOD

DONATI NS

by stephanie wallace

It can be easy to forget the importance of blood donations, but January is National Blood Donor Month, making it the perfect time to consider just how important blood drives are to the health of millions. According to the American Red Cross, someone in the United States needs blood every two seconds. It’s essential for surgeries and treating conditions like cancer, chronic illnesses and traumatic injuries. We’re breaking down the types of blood donation, so you can learn more about how you can make a difference.

WAYS TO DONATE: Whole Blood

This donation includes all components of your blood like red blood cells, plasma and platelets. Your donation can be transfused as is or broken down into specific components to help multiple patients, making this the most flexible type of blood donation.

BASIC REQUIREMENTS

• Donation frequency: Every 56 days up to six times a year

• Age: 17 in Missouri (or 16 with a legal guardian consent form)

• Weight: 110 lbs.

• Health: Good health and feeling well

• Time: Plan for an hour, actual donation may take less time

Power Red

Red blood cells are the most frequently used blood component. It is typically used for surgeries, trauma patients, individuals with sickle cell anemia and anyone suffering blood loss. Red blood cells can be stored for 42 days after donation. Power Red donations use a special machine that lets you donate two units of red blood cells while your platelets and plasma are returned to you.

BASIC REQUIREMENTS

• Donation frequency: Every 112 days up to six times a year

• Age: 17 for males; 19 for females

• Weight and height: 130 lbs. and 5’1” for males; 150 lbs. and 5’5” for females

• Health: Good health and feeling well

• Time: Plan for 90 minutes; Power Red donations take around 30 minutes longer than a whole blood donation.

Platelet

Platelets are tiny cells in your blood that form clots and stop bleeding. They are used in many cancer therapies since a major side effect of treatments is low platelet count. A transfusion also can help with major surgeries, organ transplants and blood disorders. Platelets only have a shelf life of five days, so new donations are needed daily. A single platelet donation yields as many platelets as would typically be collected from five whole blood donations.

BASIC REQUIREMENTS

• Donation frequency: Every 7 days up to 24 times a year

• Age: 17 in Missouri

• Weight: 110 lbs.

• Health: Good health and feeling well

• Time: Around three hours

AB Elite Plasma

The liquid portion of blood, plasma is used to treat burn, trauma and shock patients. Plasma can be frozen and stored for up to one year. Type AB plasma is the only universal type and can be given to all patients. A single AB Elite plasma donation can create up to four units of plasma, and only 4% of the population is eligible to make a universal donation.

BASIC REQUIREMENTS

• Donation frequency: Every 28 days up to 13 times a year

• Age: 17 in Missouri

• Weight: 110 lbs.

• Blood type: AB

• Health: Good health and feeling well

• Time: Around 75 minutes

You can visit redcrossblood.org to find a listing of local blood drives sorted by date or distance. The listing also will let you know what kinds of donations the drive will be collecting, so make sure you check before going. &

At 12045 Gailcrest Lane, everything you need is right at your fingertips. Whether you’re looking to enjoy the private putting green, splash around in the pool or hit the private gym, there’s plenty of ways to keep active without leaving home—or you can just take in the gorgeous views of the two acre property. Listing agent Lizzy Dooley is giving T&S a peek inside this Town and Country estate.

What are the benefits of the location?

It’s located in the Barrington Place neighborhood. You’re in the Parkway School District and very close to the edge of Laude, so you’re right in the central corridor sweet spot. There’s amazing access to highway 40, but you don’t have to deal with any highway noise. The neighborhood has a private back gate, which is a very cool feature.

How are the outdoor spaces unique?

There are two unique executive outdoor spaces. One is the stone terrace, which walks out from the living room and provides a prime view of the property’s two acres. From the basement, you can access the pool and a covered area with an outdoor kitchen and fireplace. The yard also has a putting green.

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THIS PREMIER ESTATE IN THE COVETED BARRINGTON PLACE NEIGHBORHOOD IS SITUATED ON TWO PARK-LIKE ACRES.” –LIZZY DOOLEY, JOAN SCHNOEBELEN AND MEGAN ROWE

Tell me about the interior?

When you walk into the home, you enter a two-story marble foyer, with a beautiful wood paneled office to the right and a dining room to the left. The current homeowners moved in during the pandemic, and they had plenty of room to spread out and stay active during lockdown. Along with the pool and putting green outside, there’s a full gym and rec room in the lower level.

How is the home for entertaining?

The property is perfect for both formal and casual gatherings. On the main level, you have a formal dining room, and the living room has a big bar to accommodate guests. Plus, there’s direct access to the terrace for outdoor entertaining. In the basement, there’s a lot

of space for kids. You really can have the adults gathering upstairs while the kids hangout downstairs, and you won’t even be able to tell there are multiple parties going on. Right now, people are really looking for opportunities to spend casual time together, instead of a specific event. This home has a lot of great spaces for entertaining and everyday living.

What do you most want potential buyers to know about the property?

There aren’t very many places in St. Louis where you can find a lot like this. It’s level with two acres of extremely usable land. Typically in Ladue or Town and Country, you get a lot of hilly or wooded property, so this is really spectacular. You not only get this beautiful home, but also some fabulous outdoor living spaces.&

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Curio cabinets are back and better than ever! Say goodbye to the cherry-stained corner cabinet of your grandmother’s dining room, and say hello to these sleek, modern curio cabinet styles.

WHY A MODERN CURIO CABINET?

The curio cabinet is a perfect way to both beautifully display your possessions and keep them protected. Aptly named for what it’s intended to showcase— curiosities—the modern curio cabinet safely stores your favorite treasures in style.

CURIO CABINET MISCONCEPTIONS

Often mistaken for the ugly duckling of the design world, curio cabinets are misunderstood pieces with great potential. Modern-day curio cabinets feature clean lines, functionality and a wide range of modern colors and finishes. These cabinets come in all sizes, making them optimal for any design style.

CURIO CABINET VS. CHINA CABINET

Drawers are the distinguishing factor between a curio cabinet and a china cabinet. While curio cabinets have a complete glass front, china cabinets typically feature glass on top and drawers on the bottom. The extra visibility of a curio cabinet allows you to showcase all of your favorite accessories. Some cabinet styles blur the lines between these two definitions—the only thing that matters when choosing the right piece is to find a high-quality piece that speaks to your design style and lifestyle.

OUR TOP MODERN CURIO CABINET PICKS

Tall Modern Curio Cabinet Styles

Typically considered a standard-size curio cabinet, these modern styles are great for most spaces. If you have tall ceilings, a taller cabinet is perfect for helping draw the eye upward.

Wide Modern Curio Cabinet Styles

If you have a large decor collection you’d like to showcase and a large space to fill, consider a wider curio cabinet style.

Narrow Modern Curio Cabinet Styles

Suitable for smaller spaces, narrow curio cabinets give you the flexibility to put your favorite pieces on display anywhere. Not worried about small spaces? Try pairing them for a more customized look. &

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VASE: Bubbles Vase by Moser, $3,840 from Sallie Home

OTHER TRENDING COLOR OPTIONS

If magenta isn’t for you, Pantone isn’t the only color expert making predictions for the year. Here are some other hues to consider for a brighter 2023.

Dark green: Krylon selected Spanish Green, a deep forest hue, as its color of 2023. The shade has a deep connection to nature and pairs well with colors like gold, sandstone and copper.

Subtle blush: Pink undertones are a great way to warm up your home, especially if you’re transitioning from the stark white interiors that were popular in recent years. Blending blush with beige keeps things neutral while still adding some subtle color. These hues pair well with greens, blues and browns.

Orangey-pink: For a little more color that still leans neutral, terra-cotta hues are a great option. For contrast, pair them with blues—opposites attract after all. For a bright space, go for a vibrant cobalt or take a more subdued traditional approach with a darker navy.

Deep teal: For the last few years, colors from nature have been popular, and that’s expected to continue in 2023. Jewel-toned blues and greens are a great way to embrace the trend and energize any space. Pair them with natural elements and textures like wood and stone.

Simple greige: Greige (a blend of gray and beige) truly goes with anything, and it adds a little more warmth than other gray tones. These hues also can work with earth-tone color palettes, creating a cozy and calm interior.

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JANUARY IS THE PERFECT TIME TO TRY SOMETHING NEW, AND YOUR DECOR IS AN EASY PLACE TO START.

Major changes aren’t necessary to make a big impact. Color is a great source of inspiration, and the experts at Pantone have selected Viva Magenta (18-1750) as the 2023 color of the year.

Pantone chose the hue because it is unconventional. Viva Magenta is all about optimism, joy, fearlessness and reconnecting with the beauty of nature. “In this age of technology, we look to draw inspiration from nature and what is real,” says Leatrice Eiseman executive director of the Pantone Color Institute. “Viva Magenta descends from the red family, and is inspired by the red of cochineal. Invoking the forces of nature, it galvanizes our spirit, helping us to build our inner strength.”

Magenta may be a little daunting to incorporate into your home, especially if you lean towards a more subdued color palette. To bring the color into your design, pick a statement piece like a sofa or another furnishing, and keep the rest of the room neutral. This maintains a cozy feel with the spotlight on the more saturated hue. Pantone suggests pairing Viva Magenta with khaki, sand gray-green colors, along with pastel hues like subtle pinks, blues and purples.

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