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Contents January 2011

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44 Departments 12 From The Editor The Power Of Words 14 Girl Time Tips, Trends, And Fancies 18 Queen City Jewels Happenings You Don’t Want To Miss

20 Money Talks

44 At Home Wendy Smith’s Mooresville Respite Takes Advantage Of Wide Open Spaces

51 Meet Our Advertisers Time Travel With Help From A Step Back In Time Vintage Boutique

Know What’s In The Cards

22 On The Move Charlotte Women Making Strides 23

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52 Health Flash What You Need To Know To Stay Well

56 Meet Our Advertisers Find Total Health With Park Road Chiropractic Health And Wellness 58 Tomorrow’s Charlotte Woman Girls And Young Women Leading The Way

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Michelle Young Hubacher Assistant Editor


Karsen Price ART DIRECTor


Cara Gracie Craver Sales Executive

Barbara Herd Business Manager

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pROFILEs 24 Top Of Mind Diagnosis Takes Laura Mercer From Business Professional To Alzheimer’s Advocate

28 Getting To The Core Iona Wilson Celebrates The Ancient Art Of Belly Dance

FEATUREs 33 Head, Shoulders, Knees & Toes Head-To-Toe Wellness


40 A Weighty Issue The ABCs Of hCG

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Six Ways To Get More Recognition In 2011 Maybe you are considering going back to college. Perhaps you’ve been pondering a job change. No matter what sort of changes you’re contemplating, author Meryl Runion says the biggest obstacle won’t come from within. Instead, the naysayers in your life stand to undermine you. Runion offers six tips for dealing with the wet blankets, gloom-and-doomers, and buzz killers in your little corner of the universe.

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consider the emerging field of prevention in dementia research to be one of the most exciting recent developments. Preliminary evidence suggests that strategies for general healthy aging may also help reduce the risk of developing Alzheimer’s, including managing your

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The Power Of Words


amilies operate in a beautiful, and sometimes very messy, state of grace. It allows each member (and siblings, in particular) to alternately wound or revive one another with their very words. When you’re little: You always cheat at Uno, cheater. The dog likes me better than you. You smell funny. Here, wanna hold this frog I found? When you’re an adolescent: I don’t like your girlfriend. I’m telling Dad you snuck into the house at midnight; your life is mine. Yes, you can borrow that skirt. And, of course, when you are grown: What did you do to your hair? You should’ve known better than to sleep with her. Why the hell are you home-schooling your kids? I love you regardless of any of it.

With a family, you get all of the things listed in rote form during a marriage ceremony: for better or for worse; for richer, for poorer; in sickness and in health. But, in the case of families, there is no ceremony necessary to remind you of the fact that what affects one affects all. And our words not only frame every moment we share, but impact us in ways we might not even realize until well down the road. I am lucky enough to have a mom who tells me I’m doing just fine as a mother. And, on the days I contemplate moving to Maine and changing my name to Tilda, that encouragement is enough to help me take a deep breath and explain yet again to my youngest daughter, “No, you cannot walk to SouthPark mall just because you want to look in the Juicy Couture 12

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store.” My father was also expressive and told me repeatedly throughout my childhood and, more importantly, my adolescence, that I was beautiful and brilliant (blinded by love, no doubt) and, best of all, worthwhile. Each month, as we work to put a magazine together, we meet fascinating women. And, as we get to know them, we also learn a little bit about the families that sustain them and are sustained by them … often with the power of words. This month, we had the pleasure of meeting two particularly extraordinary females, and both have found strength in the dialogue shared with the families who have cherished them. Laura Mercer was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s disease at age 47. She’s 51 now, and has chosen, with her husband, Greg, to work tirelessly to help educate others on Alzheimer’s and the impact it has on families. It truly is a disease that takes hold of spouses, children, and close friends. And, by simply sharing their important story, Laura and Greg are finding strength and helping others do the same. Cidney Holliday is a teen who writes — and performs — poetry as a way to process the loss of her father. She says she treasures the conversations they shared, and she moves forward with the gifts he left her. Start this year off with an intention to make what comes out of your mouth worthy of landing on someone’s heart. Tell a co-worker she is doing a great job, that you so enjoy working with her. Tell your mom you love her. Tell your teenage daughter that she is worthwhile. Do it now. And be willing to accept that you may never know just how much what you’ve said has meant to the person who is listening.









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he word January traces its beginnings to Roman mythology; it comes from the Latin word ianua, which means door. So, January basically means “the door to the year.” Important days in January, aside from New Year’s Day of course, include: National Bubble Bath Day, Jan. 8; my personal favorite, Blame Someone Else Day, Jan. 13 (but I didn’t tell you that); and National Hugging Day, Jan. 21. And don’t forget Squirrel Appreciation Day, also celebrated officially on Jan. 21.

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Seat Belt Usage Rises In The Carolinas Drivers in both Carolinas earned an A-plus in 2010 for buckling up, with drivers in both states wearing seat belts at a greater rate than the national average of 83 percent. According to AAA Carolinas, in North Carolina, drivers’ usage of seat belts increased to 89.7 percent. In South Carolina, usage climbed to 85.4 percent — up from 69.7 percent in 2005. Seat belts have been proven to save lives. In 2009, there were 1,012-traffic-related deaths in North Carolina, and 431 of those deaths involved drivers who were not buckled up. “Seat belts are the best defense against impaired, aggressive, and distracted drivers,” says David Weinstein, director of North Carolina’s Governor’s Highway Safety Program. Need a refresher course on the current ruling regarding seat belts in both states? In North Carolina, front-seat and back-seat passengers are supposed to buckle up; front-seat passengers not wearing a seat belt can be fined $25.50 plus court costs, and back-seat passengers who don’t buckle up can be fined $10. In South Carolina, only persons riding in the front seat must wear a seat belt; failure to do so can earn a $25 fine.

Addressing Anxiety In A Public Forum


have a confession: I suffer from glossophobia. (It means a fear of public speaking.) Apparently, I am not alone. Studies show that three out of four individuals suffer from speech anxiety. For 30 years, anxiety expert Jonathan Berent has been helping others learn to trade in their nervousness for calmness and confidence. In Work Makes Me Nervous: Overcome Anxiety and Build the Confidence to Succeed, Berent and co-author Amy Lemley offer the following series of exercises proven to overcome anxiety and reduce the appearance of “noticeable nervousness”:

Relaxation Tips For The Nervous 1.

Do one to two solid minutes of diaphragmatic breathing — pacing each inhale-exhale to 8 to 12 seconds. Focus on deep, steady breaths that are rhythmic, natural, and unforced.


Make a fist with your right hand and hold it for 15 seconds. Then let go and focus on the looseness for 15 seconds. Do the same thing with the left hand.


Say to yourself three times, “My right hand is warm,” pacing your statement to last for 12 to 15 seconds. Repeat with the left hand.


Say to yourself three times, “I feel the blood flowing into my right hand,” pacing your statement to between 14 and 18 seconds. Repeat with the left hand.

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Close your eyes and, for 30 seconds, visualize yourself speaking in front of the group, accepting the adrenaline, using its energy for productive, effective speaking. You are organized, passionate, engaging, and natural. You understand your audience and you own the room.

If all else fails, do what I do: Avoid podiums — and the telephone — at all costs. Work Makes Me Nervous is available from for $16.47. Visit to learn the somewhat bizarre names for other phobias.

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at a tad too much over the holidays and now can’t button your pants? Never fear, Charlottean Lauren Copeland has created the Belly Button to help your jeans fit until you’ve worked off that extra slice of pecan pie. The nifty little device is basically a button with a tiny loop of elastic, which slips around the existing button on the waistline of your pants and fits into the buttonhole, keeping your pants closed while offering a few pinches of extra room around that (temporary, of course) pooch. The Belly Button is also handy after a big meal; in fact, Copeland

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If you struggle with bad breath, try adding a tongue scraper to your daily dental regimen. According to, tongue scrapers are very effective at putting a hurting on halitosis. And while many people think that eating the wrong foods causes bad breath, in truth, the main source of bad breath comes from the back part of the tongue, which is covered with small buds called papillae. Inside these buds live small bacteria that are the main cause of bad breath. Regular use of a tongue scraper can get rid of a good percentage of these bacteria, helping your mouth feel, and smell, fresher. Keep in mind, however, that possible health concerns may be causing your halitosis. So, consult a physician if the problem persists. Tongue scrapers are more effective than brushing your tongue with your toothbrush for three reasons:

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ne of Mother Nature’s most captivating, complex, and prolific flower genera will be on full display when the North Carolina Piedmont Orchid Society presents its 2011 Annual Show, “Jewel Box Orchids,” in partnership with Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden. Hundreds of rare varieties, from the intriguing bulbophyllums to the colorful cattleyas, will be on display in the Garden’s Great Hall during the annual showcase that runs Fri., Jan. 14 through Sun., Jan. 16. “One of the greatest and most thrilling aspects of collecting orchids is the magnificent variety of flowers that are on display at any given time in the greenhouse,” says Jay Sifford,

Madame Masterpiece Rare Cassatt Painting At The Mint


xperience an early masterpiece by American painter and printmaker Mary Cassatt — known for her sensitive depictions of the social and private lives of women — at The Mint Museum Randolph, in the Jones Gallery through April 3. The painting, “Madame X Dressed for the Matinée” (1878), comes from the collection of Charlotte and Philip Hanes of WinstonSalem, who have placed it on long-term loan to The Mint. Cassatt (1844-1926) lived much of her adult life in France, where she became the only American artist — and one of only five women — to exhibit alongside the French Impressionists. “Displaying a classic such as this helps people understand the multifaceted nature of American art, one of the Mint’s major

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president of the North Carolina Piedmont Orchid Society. “Some of the most respected orchid growers in our state and region will display vibrant and rare flowers from their greenhouses in this show.”

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Top Of Mind Diagnosis Brings Laura Mercer From Working Professional To Alzheimer’s Advocate By Michelle Young Hubacher • PHOTOS BY BRAD FORTH


n many days, she cannot remember where she put her keys. She might start recounting an event that happened earlier, and, all of a sudden, she can’t find the word she was looking for. She trails off every once in a while mid-

sentence, and, if he’s close by, her husband will prompt her with a verbal nudge.

She’s highly educated, extremely bright, has had a successful career in public relations, and was a newspaper reporter before that. She is, in fact, like many women you know. Maybe she’s just like you — busy with community involvement, helping to manage a household, mothering two children — one grown, the other a college student. But for Laura Mercer, the lapses in memory and seeming breaks in reality that friends and family attributed to the stress of working 50-hour weeks or possibly exhaustion turned out to be something much more. At 47 years old, she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. Laura, now 51, and her husband, Greg Mercer, have been through a maze of medical testing and misdiagnoses that has placed the couple squarely in a position to make a difference for the many others who are struggling with similar roadblocks. “This has been quite a journey,” Greg says. “And we’ve learned a lot — about the medical world, of course about this disease called Alzheimer’s … and about ourselves.”

In Hindsight Anyone who leads a busy life — high-stress job, parenting teens or young children, running the logistics of a home and busy schedule, managing family finances — knows how easy it is to start dropping balls. Forgetting to pick someone up from practice, losing your purse or wallet, becoming distracted while working on one task

and forgetting to get back to another … it happens to all of us. So, when Laura began showing signs of forgetfulness, Greg and other family members attributed it to work stress. As a partner and vice president of public relations at Price/McNabb and then Eric Mower & Associates, Laura worked long hours in a fast-paced environment — and she was very good at her job. But during one particular business trip that required Laura to direct a media training session for clients, she became acutely aware that something seemed “off.” “I would ask a question of the client, during the training,” Laura explains. “They would answer, and I literally could not hold on to what it was they said. I covered for it by looking to my colleague for backup. I’d say, ‘What do you think about that … ?’ But I knew something was wrong.” When she returned from that trip, her husband says things unraveled quickly. “We went to dinner the night she came home, and she asked the waiter to repeat the specials several times,” he says. The following night, the couple met for dinner again, this time driving separate cars to the restaurant. Greg says that on the way home, he was following Laura as she drove past the entrance to their neighborhood. He pulled up beside her and signaled her to pull off the road, and, when she did, she appeared slightly disoriented. Soon after that incident, she woke up in the middle of the night completely unaware of what was going on around her, and within 24 hours, the couple set off on a convoluted and > J A N U A R Y

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very frustrating path to finding out exactly what was going on with Laura. “It was terrifying,” Greg says. “Seeing her have a complete break from reality like that was such a shock. The smaller incidents of forgetfulness that we could easily pass off as stress-related or a result of her being tired seemed much more significant at that point.” Almost always identified as a disease of the elderly, Alzheimer’s can be particularly difficult to diagnose in someone as young as Laura. Anyone diagnosed with the disease under the age of 65 is, in fact, classified as suffering early-onset Alzheimer’s. According to the Alzheimer’s Association, of the 5.3 million Americans with the disease, only 500,000 have early-onset Alzheimer’s. And the disease, like many health issues, manifests differently in different individuals. Laura’s seemingly rapid onset, she says, is fairly unusual.

For Laura, a diagnosis did not come easily. After a series of MRIs, brain scans, and medical exams, it was determined that she had not suffered a stroke, nor did she appear to have any kind of neurological tumor — both conditions that might explain such a dramatic break in cognitive function. After further testing, doctors began discussing with the couple the possibility that Laura was suffering some type of psychological illness, possibly bipolar disorder. This involved a several-month process of trying various psychotic pharmaceuticals, cognitive therapies, and further testing — including a spinal tap and more MRIs. Because of Greg’s persistence that the information they were getting and the treatment options presented seemed inadequate, he pushed their physicians for further testing. “I felt very strongly that something was just not hitting the mark with what they were telling us,” he says. “It was very frustrating. Laura’s symptoms did not seem to match those of individuals with bipolar disorder.” After several trips to Duke University Hospital, and more advanced memory testing, doctors finally landed on a diagnosis of Alzheimer’s. “Early in the course of the disease, the forgetfulness is overlooked by family and even primary care physicians,” explains Dr. M. Reza Bolouri, neurologist and founder of the Alzheimer’s Memory Center in Charlotte. “The T o d a y ’ s

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only determinate diagnosis is by brain biopsy or post-mortem brain tissue examination.” Alzheimer’s disease is a form of dementia, and although it is associated with the elderly, it is not an inevitable part of aging. “One of our primary goals is to let people know that Alzheimer’s disease is not necessarily a disease of the elderly,” says Lori Walker, executive director of the Western North Carolina Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association. “While more rare, people in their 50s, 40s, 30s, and even 20s can acquire Alzheimer’s.” Alzheimer’s is an incurable disease of the brain, and is the most common form of demen-

Laura Mercer and her husband, greg, are now active in alzheimer’s education.

tia. “It is a slow, progressive memory and cognitive decline that affects multiple spheres of brain function,” explains Dr. Bolouri, “including memory, language, judgment, and planning.” He says there are currently four drugs on the market to treat the symptoms of Alzheimer’s, and the earlier a patient begins taking the drugs, the better off her chances of stalling further dementia and destruction of brain cells.

Living With Alzheimer’s Now that the Mercers are off the rollercoaster ride of confusion surrounding Laura’s medical mystery, Greg Mercer says their lives

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are “all Alzheimer’s, all the time.” The couple is very active in educating the public about the disease, as well as raising funds and awareness across the region and in Washington, D.C. They were honorary chairs of this year’s Alzheimer’s Association Charlotte Memory Walk, which raised over $150,000 for Alzheimer’s support programs and research. Although Laura has been unable to work, she insists her “job” has simply changed focus. “I tell people I am no longer working for pay, but I am a full-time volunteer for the Alzheimer’s Association,” Laura says, smiling. “I’m just as busy as I ever was.” In addition to sharing a seat on the board of directors of the local Alzheimer’s Association chapter, Laura and Greg are part of a national advisory group for early-stage Alzheimer’s patients. They speak to local church groups, businesses, and community organizations about the signs of the disease, the importance of raising money to find a cure, and the imperative issue of providing support for the caregiver. They both say that simply sharing their story has been a powerful experience in relating to others struggling with the disease — both patients and caregivers. The couple has also rearranged family responsibilities. “Laura’s illness has required us to redefine our roles within the family in some fairly dramatic ways,” Greg says. For example, Laura previously handled the family’s finances. Now, Greg has stepped into that role. “It hasn’t been easy taking on the additional responsibilities. But you do your best knowing Laura would have done the same for me,” he says. “Alzheimer’s affects the entire family,” Greg adds. “Laura chose to live with the disease, instead of letting it put an end to how she functioned day to day. No, she cannot work in the job she had before. But she remains very active and focused on new things.” Part of that new focus involves managing the symptoms of Alzheimer’s and, hopefully, the progression of this aggressive disease. Laura takes almost two dozen pills a day, including pharmaceuticals, herbs, and vitamins — either

prescribed by or overseen by her neurologist. “There are several interesting options for herbal supplements that are showing promise in treatment,” Laura says. Dr. Bolouri agrees, explaining, “Anecdotal reports of vitamin E, B complex, and Omega 3 fish oil have been noted,” in regard to those supplements showing promise in slowing the progression of the disease. Laura also strictly manages her diet. “It’s very similar to a heart-healthy diet,” she explains. “I stay away from sugar. I eat very well.” And, she does water aerobics regularly. Greg says, “It turns out all that stuff your mother told you is true … eat right and exercise.” Laura also participates in activities she hopes will keep her brain activity high — needlepoint, jigsaw puzzles, search-a-word puzzles. “I can’t do crosswords anymore like Greg, but I like the word games in the newspaper,” she says. Rest is an important part of her health regimen, as well. “I always say, ‘It’s tiring being me,’ ” Laura says, with a laugh. Indeed, Dr. Bolouri explains that getting adequate rest is important for Alzheimer’s patients, because it gives them a chance to recharge, organize thoughts, and renew energy. Facing an uncertain future is not something Laura and Greg choose to dwell on. “We don’t let fear of tomorrow get in the way of enjoying the blessing of today,” Greg says simply. But the reality of what lies ahead is not lost on either of them. “In many ways, it’s harder for Laura right now, because she is aware of how the disease is affecting her,” he explains. “It’s not upsetting, just frustrating,” Laura insists. “I do get frustrated from time to time.” Keeping busy with her volunteer work has given Laura a certain peace of mind and a definite purpose. Her active role with the Alzheimer’s Association is central to that purpose. “Very soon after my diagnosis, we walked into the local chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association to get as much information as we could. And we learned just how big this disease is; how many people it impacts,” Laura says with passion. “There are so many people who need our help.” TCW

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hen January rolls around, heading back to the gym to kick-start a renewed commitment to fitness is often accompanied by a sigh of boredom. Not for Iona Wilson. She puts on wide-leg dance pants, a brightly colored hip scarf with gold

fringe, and turns on drum music to accompany a shoulder shimmy. Wilson, a self-

described “geek,” turns her attentions to a more feminine and enticing way to exercise — belly dance. Since she began the practice over eight years ago, she’s progressed from student to performer and, now, instructor. She currently owns and operates Lotus Bellydance, a dance studio in south Charlotte.

During her days as a Premier field engineer for Microsoft, Wilson works in a high-tech, leftbrain, and mostly male environment. But in the evening and on Saturdays, she heads to the Ballantyne Hotel & Lodge to teach women how to belly dance. Her students range in age from 6 to 66, and the funky drum beats and jingling sounds of coin scarves and finger cymbals can be heard throughout the gym as women learn to do the basic Egyptian steps and hip hits.

Crossing Over To The Feminine Side “At work, I’m often one of the only women in a crowd of men,” Wilson says. “Belly dancing allows me time to bring in my feminine side, which my career can’t always provide. While I encourage women to go into tech jobs, dancing helps to bring me back to center and in balance.” She relocated from Indianapolis to Charlotte with Microsoft, and first started belly

dance as a gift to her then-fiancé, Maurice. She kept it a secret for almost a year, until she took him to a dance recital where she performed. “He said, ‘Oh, my God!’ He was excited for me,” she says. “But after the surprise, I’d planned to quit.” Maurice, now her husband, instead encouraged her to keep going. “And I haven’t stopped dancing since,” she says. She was later invited to join the Magic-Hips Dancers, a professional troupe based in Charlotte. She created Lotus Bellydance in 2007, to share her love of the dance by teaching it to others. Wilson teaches a classical Egyptian dance style, but other forms, which she has learned, include American Tribal, fusion, and Turkish. The 35-year-old loves music and played percussion as a child, and belly dance allows her to bring it all together. The use of zills, or finger cymbals, and hand drums, as well as colorful costumes, contributes to the joy of this exercise. >


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iona wilson became a fan of The art — and exercise — of belly dance and now teaches classes, hoping to empower women with this ancient practice. Employing the beaded hip skirts and finger cymbals of the dance add to the experience.

“A lot of people think of pretty as dainty,” belly. It’s feminine, natural, and nourishing. find elsewhere,” she says. Kristen Bowers, one of Wilson’s students, Wilson says. “But, for the community of belly “Belly dance caters to your emotional sense, dancers, getting dressed up is about being a your inner goddess,” Wilson says. She adds says she started taking belly dance as a joke. woman and showing strength.” The dance that some of her students start out as cater- “My cousin thought it would be funny,” Bowers says. “But she quit and I itself, she says, is soft and flustuck with it! It’s fun, and a id. “It’s created for the femigreat way to meet a diverse nine physique, and helps a At work, I’m often one of the only women in a crowd of group of people.” Kirsten Fowlwoman to love her body and men. Belly dancing allows me time to bring in my er, another of Wilson’s stuembrace her curves.” dents, says she started taking feminine side, which my career can’t always provide. lessons about a year-and-a-half Loving Your Center While I encourage women to go into tech jobs, dancing ago, after ballet, modern dance, While belly dance helps helps to bring me back to center and in balance. and hip hop classes. “It’s fun,” women to tone muscles and she says, “and it helps you to stay in shape, it also helps — Iona Wilson embrace your body and what them on a deeper level by creyou have.” She has also attendating within them a sense of self-love, Wilson explains. In a society seem- pillars — closed up and tight — but they soon ed local haflas (belly dance meet-ups), where a ingly obsessed with thinness, belly dance bloom into butterflies. “They gain a sense of community of women come together to share says it’s okay to have hips and to relax your self-confidence and self-esteem that’s hard to their love for the exercise and learn new tech30

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Wilson, who is the mother of a 3-year-old daughter, says many people have misconceptions about the art and exercise of belly dancing, associating it with entertainment for men. But belly dance, in its truest sense, is a way to celebrate women. “It’s for and about women,” she says. This Middle Eastern dance stretches back to ancient times, and is believed to help women with childbirth. The mother and friends of the woman in labor would dance around a woman in childbirth to help her remember the movements that would make giving birth easier, Wilson says. Wilson danced through her eighth month of pregnancy, and feels that it also aided her to quickly restore her abdominal muscles and to rebuild and strengthen the pelvic floor. “Many students who discover belly dancing after pregnancy wish they would have known about it sooner,” she says. She believes it can even help women overcome depression and grief. She describes students who have come in facing difficult problems, and, through the movement and the exuberance, danced away grief, anger, and frustration. Wilson notes that the dance form offers women the possibility to find freedom from the world around them, and gives them a place to focus on themselves instead of their roles as mother, sister, wife, or employee. “If I come here tired from work, I dance and feel better,” Wilson says. “I just feel much better if I can dance.” TCW

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Head, Shoulders, Knees & Toes By melinda johnston


f one of your resolutions is to make 2011 a happier, healthier New Year, then read on. From head

to toe, and many parts in between, we asked local healthcare providers and other professionals for tips on staying well. No matter the body part, each pro’s advice is surprisingly similar: eat right, exercise, don’t smoke, drink plenty of water, and make time for yourself each day. Following is a more detailed description of how to take care of your many important parts. Here’s to a happier, healthier you! > J A N U A R Y

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Brain Brains benefit from workouts, just like the rest of our bodies. Cynthia R. Green, Ph.D., assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at Mount Sinai Medical Center, lists four simple things that can help keep our brains in top condition:

Hair Hair can not only make or break your day (think bad hair day), it can also tell a lot about your health. Karla Kuhlmann, owner and stylist at KM and Company Salon on South Tryon Street, says what you eat not only shows around your waist, but also on your head. Started a crazy diet or switched to fast food? Your hair can become weak, dull, and lifeless. And food isn’t the only culprit. In addition to diet changes, stopping or starting medications, stress, hormone imbalance, gastric bypass surgery, menopause, low iron, and other medical conditions can affect the appearance of your hair and cause hair loss. If that happens to you, head to your doctor to figure out the cause. In the meantime, work with your stylist using the shampoos and conditioners she recommends. Want to keep hair healthy? Kuhlmann says to drink more water and go easy on the heat. “Especially in the winter, keep your hair moisturized. Overuse of blow dryers and flat irons is a big problem,” Kuhlmann says. “Women will crank them up all the way and then wonder why their hair is scorched. I tell my clients that hair is a fiber, just like a fine silk blouse.”


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Get at least 30 minutes of aerobic exercise four to five times a week.


Look for simple ways to get out of your intellectual routine. Brushing your teeth with your non-dominant hand, taking a new route to work, or doing a crossword puzzle all help your brain engage.


Spend 10 to 20 minutes every day playing any game that requires you to play against the clock.


Connect with others in a meaningful way each and every day. Volunteer, go out for dinner with friends, or join a reading group.

Eyes Ears Avoid excessive noise. Dr. Michael T. Falcone, otolaryngologist with Charlotte Eye Ear Nose & Throat Associates, says subjecting your ears to loud noise is the equivalent of standing outside and staring at the sun — so turn the iPod down! Also, remember that the ears are one of the most susceptible parts of the body to frostbite. Put that new hat or toboggan to work when you are outside in the winter, and in the summertime, sunscreen is a must, since skin cancer of the ear is all too common. Finally, leave the earwax alone, if possible. “Resist the temptation to put anything, including cotton swabs, in your ear,” Dr. Falcone says. “Earwax is healthy for your ear and your ear canals were designed to clean themselves.”

Dry eyes? Dr. Lucy M. Yarbrough, an ophthalmologist with Charlotte Eye Ear Nose & Throat Associates, says it’s a common problem year-round and affects women of all ages. “Whether the problem is caused by exposure (not blinking enough, which causes the evaporation of your tears) or lack of tear production (common in patients with thyroid disease or in peri-menopausal women), dry eye can cause red, tired eyes, excessive tearing, and irritation,” Yarbrough says. To help with dry eye, Dr. Yarbrough suggests turning the vents away from your head — in the car, and in your home. Use artificial tears, which help keep the surface of your eye lubricated. (She says to avoid drops that claim to “get the red out.”) Take breaks while reading and working at the computer, and don’t forget to blink! If you’re still having problems, see your doctor. You may be in need of prescription medicines, ointments, or procedures that can help you with severe or persistent dry eye.

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Nose Dr. Falcone says the two best ways to stay healthy in the winter are to wash your hands frequently, and to get a flu shot. If you do catch a cold, beware of decongestants. “Be careful using decongestant nasal sprays such as Afrin® (Oxymetazoline). These can be habit-forming with prolonged use. Avoid oral decongestants if you have high blood pressure. Drink plenty of fluids and get plenty of rest,” Falcone says. Falcone also says Neti pots and other nasal saline irrigation kits are a great way to treat colds, sinus infections, and allergies. If you follow the directions on the box, they are safe for daily use. But be careful mixing the saline solution — too much or too little salt can be irritating to the nose and cause even more problems.





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Periodontist Dr. Kiya Green Dixie, of Matthews Periodontics, says periodontitis — gum disease — often goes hand in hand with illnesses such as heart disease and diabetes. How to prevent it? Brush, floss, and use mouthwash every day. “Your toothbrush only cleans the front and back surfaces of your teeth. Floss cleans between the teeth where bacteria love to hide,” says Dr. Dixie. She also recommends a Sulcabrush and electric toothbrushes. Mouthwash that has some antibacterial properties is also high on her list, but make sure to look for the ADA seal when purchasing products, as not all rinses are germ-fighters or strength-builders. >

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Breasts Dr. Amy H. Sobel, breast-imaging specialist with Charlotte Radiology, says the key to beating breast cancer is early detection. “Annual mammograms, beginning at age 40, play a central part in early detection because they can detect subtle changes in the breast before they can be felt,” Dr. Sobel says. “And while breast cancer cannot be prevented, there are things all women can do to reduce their risk. Follow the American Cancer Society’s guidelines for early detection, including monthly self-breast exams, regular clinical examinations, and a yearly mammogram. If you exercise regularly, drink alcohol only in moderation, and maintain a healthy body weight, you can also decrease your risk for breast cancer.” Dr. Sobel cautions that if you find a lump or other change in your breast — even if you’ve had a recent normal mammogram — contact your doctor immediately. Signs and symptoms of breast cancer may include a breast lump or thickening that feels different from the surrounding tissue; spontaneous bloody or clear discharge from the nipple; changes to the skin over the breast such as dimpling, inverted nipple, peeling or flaking of skin, redness, or pitting of the skin over your breast like the skin of an orange.

Feet Wear high heels in moderation, says OrthoCarolina Foot and Ankle Institute’s Dr. Carroll P. Jones, an orthopedic surgeon. “Fashionable, narrow shoes with an elevated heel cause the weight bearing to shift toward the front part of the foot,” he says. “This uneven distribution of weight, coupled with limited room, leads to problems including bunions, hammertoes (contracted curled toes), and neuromas (nerve impingement). I typically advise women to try and limit high-heels to special occasions like social events or church.” The most common foot complaint he sees is plantar fasciitis — pain on the bottom of the heel, typically with the first steps in the morning, or standing after a long period of sitting. Stretching exercises, ice, anti-inflammatory medications, well-cushioned shoes, and avoidance of impact activity will often cure the problem, although it may take up to six to nine months for complete resolution.

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Heart Sanger Heart and Vascular Institute’s adult cardiologist Dr. Cheryl Russo says each woman needs to have a “heart to heart” discussion with her doctor. “Don’t just know the risk factors for heart disease in women, know your risk factors,” Dr. Russo says. “Sit down with your primary doctor and discuss your numbers. Write them on a piece of paper in one column and the goal numbers in another column so it is very clear. Do this for weight, blood pressure, cholesterol, and glucose.” How to cut down on your risk of heart disease? Don’t smoke. If you are having trouble quitting, ask your doctor for help. Eat right. And save some time for yourself. Russo says that even if you work during the day and take care of children or others as well, make sure to carve out 30 minutes each day for physical activity.

Waist “Waist is more important than weight,” say doctors Mehmet Oz and Michael Roizen, authors of You: On a Diet. Because of its proximity to vital organs, they claim that belly fat is the most dangerous fat you can carry, and that it is one of the strongest predictors of health risks (heart disease, diabetes) associated with obesity. Their recommendation: “Ditch the scale in favor of the tape measure. Measure your waist and aim small — ideal is 32 ½ inches or less for women, and 35 inches or less for men.” >

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Knees What’s that creaking all about? Orthopedic surgeon Dr. Dana Piasecki, of OrthoCarolina Sports Medicine Center, says creaking and cracking (crepitus) is very common, especially in patients over age 30, but usually isn’t a serious problem. “I counsel patients that the noise, in itself, is not concerning unless you are regularly waking your spouse from sleep at night, as I occasionally do!” Dr. Piasecki says. “You may consider having an orthopedist examine you if the cracking and popping is associated with swelling, pain, or catching.” To keep knees in shape, especially with so many professionals spending most of the day sitting down, Dr. Piasecki recommends basic conditioning with regular periods of rest to prevent overtraining. Regular hamstring stretching and quadricep



strengthening is a must. If you do hurt your knee

Colon cancer is the second-leading cause of cancer deaths in the United States. Some risk factors are beyond our control, but others can be lowered by a change of diet or exercise. Dr. Sanjib Mohanty, of Charlotte Gastroenterology and Hepatology, says several factors increase an individual’s risk of developing colorectal cancer. These include a family history of colorectal cancer, prior colorectal cancer or polyps, increasing age, several inherited conditions, and inflammatory bowel disease like Crohn’s or ulcerative colitis. A diet high in fat and red meat and low in fiber, a sedentary lifestyle, and cigarette smoking can increase your risk, as well. Dr. Mohanty says adults should undergo colon cancer screening beginning at age 50, or earlier, depending on their risks. The goal of the screening is to prevent the development of colorectal cancer by identifying precancerous growths called adenomatous polyps, which can be removed before they become cancerous.

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playing sports or working out, he cautions not to push through the swelling or pain. These may be

Soul Two area clergy agree that a daily time-out is necessary for spiritual wellness. “We need to take time each day to reconnect with the source of our being, to connect with God,” says Rev. Dr. Nancy Rankin, senior pastor at Blair Road United Methodist Church. Rabbi Judith Schindler, of Temple Beth El, recommends taking 10 minutes each day for reflection, whether through meditation, yoga, or prayer. “We should live life according to our priorities and live intentionally and with gratitude,” Schindler says.

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Vagina Just like all other parts of the body, the female genital tract needs preventative care to stay healthy. Dr. Lisa Wilson, of Providence Obstetrics & Gynecology, says women of all ages — from teenagers on — should see their physicians on a yearly basis for pap smears to screen for precancerous cervical changes, as well as pelvic exams to help identify fibroids and ovarian masses. Young women age 9 to 26 may also benefit from a vaccine against HPV to help prevent cervical cancer and genital warts. How to keep female organs in top shape? “Maintain a healthy weight,” Dr. Wilson says. “This helps regulate the menstrual cycle and can help women conceive when they want to start a family. Do not smoke. Smoking makes the immune system less able to fight the virus that causes abnormal pap smears and cervical cancer. “Finally, women should strive to protect themselves against unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases by using condoms with every sexual encounter — especially with new and/or multiple partners.” TCW

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xercise, eat right, and … take your shots? For some women (and men) trying to lose weight, the hCG diet, which entails injecting yourself with small doses of the hCG hormone over a period of one or more months, is showing promise when traditionally prescribed methods can’t overcome a halt in weight loss. In conjunction with a low calorie diet, hCG, administered under a physician’s care, is showing promise as another tool in taking off the

pounds, especially belly fat.

the abcs of hcg The hormone known as hCG is human chorionic gonadotropin, produced during pregnancy by the placenta. It’s what common pregnancy tests pick up in a woman’s urine to determine a positive result. Richard Cheng, M.D., Ph.D., the director of Doctor’s Weight Loss Center, explains that hCG’s main function during pregnancy is to protect the fetus. “The most important factor in fetal development is energy supply (food),” he says. “To prevent fetal developmental problems due to starvation — which was common to mankind throughout history and still exists today — hCG releases the mother’s stored energy for the fetus to use. Therefore, under the influence of hCG, there should be abundant nutrients flowing in the mother’s blood, including glucose, lipids, etc.” When a non-pregnant person is given hCG, Dr. Cheng says the hormone still releases this stored energy to the bloodstream. “The dieter has to be on a very low calorie diet to allow the body to burn off the released calories,”

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he explains. “This is what I believe is the fundamental mechanism of how hCG helps with weight loss.” Don Nicholas, founder and CEO of Revita AntiAging, and Investor in Revita Medical, PC., explains, “hCG metabolizes calories from fat — up to 4,000 calories per day.” Many patients, he says, experience rapid weight loss of sometimes one to three pounds a day. While losing several pounds per day is not normally considered safe, Nicholas explains that our bodies naturally store fat reserves in case of starvation. hCG treatments mobilize these fat reserves, and the release of the fat deposits mitigates the hunger pangs that would normally be associated with a low-calorie diet. The diet gained momentum in the 1960s, when it was discovered that starving women in Third World countries were, surprisingly, giving birth to healthy babies. Researchers concluded that hCG was metabolizing the extra fat storage in the body. As the use of hCG as a diet aid has grown in

popularity, research backing up its claims has grown, as well. Peter Fotinos, M.D., Revita’s medical director, cites the fact that, in conjunction with a 500-calorie-aday diet, hCG “resets the portion of the brain known as the hypothalamus” that contains the regulatory area for hunger. This reset, he says, allows the hCG to bypass other fat reserves and go straight for the fat typically found in the belly, thighs, and buttocks. In the case of Revita patient Kim Alleva, a self-professed yo-yo dieter who wanted to lose the 20 extra pounds she’d been carrying since gall bladder surgery, the hCG option inspired skepticism at first. “Short of surgery, I’ve done a lot of diets,” she says. Karess Norris, medical coach at Urban Skin Solutions, a Charlotte MedSpa, says women like Alleva, who exercise regularly but still cannot seem to slim down, are ideal hCG patients. She says hCG can also work for people who are obese. And she acknowledges that hCG has proven successful for men as well as women.

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One such man is Jeff Lynch, a Revita client who visited the practice initially for hormone replacement therapy after chemotherapy. The chemo had left him sluggish and without the motivation to exercise. “My weight was going up, my blood sugar was going up, and my blood pressure was going up,” he recalls. “I said, ‘This better stop, or pretty soon I’ll be going down.’ ” Frustrated that his family physician, whom he calls a great diagnostician, kept prescribing additional medications for his ailments, Lynch decided to try the hCG diet. He was impressed with the research he’d done on hCG, and later, with Dr. Fotinos’ thoroughness. Every hCG patient receives a full lab panel and workup prior to beginning the regimen.

a change in eating habits One of the common responses to the hCG diet is revised eating habits. “A 500-calorie-a-day diet seems pretty austere, but for some reason, when you’re taking the hCG, you’re not that hungry,” Lynch says. Alleva, who tried hCG despite her earlier reservations, agrees. “I’m a pasta/bread person and I come from a traditional Italian family,” she says. “But I really feel my tastes have changed. I don’t even want that kind of food anymore.” Dr. Cheng explains part of the body’s reaction to the hCG and a reduced calorie intake: “hCG releases abnormally stored energy (fat and sugar) into blood circulation,” he says. Dr. Cheng notes that his patients are placed on a 50-gram protein diet with 500 calories or less, along with other recommendations of the system, and will experience an increase in metabolism. “It is estimated that a patient will burn around 3,500 to 4,000 calories a day on our system. The 3,000 to 3,500 calories-

a-day deficit will come from the abnormal energy storage (usually found in the belly area). This is the foundation of weight loss,” he says. The hCG diet generally includes a variety of specific vegetables and fruits, melba toast, and various meat options. Tea is an integral part of the diet as well, as tea is a natural appetite suppressant. “The specific foods we use [on this diet] are good for fat burning and give you essential nutrients that your body needs,” Dr. Fotinos explains. In terms of exercise, participants are encouraged to continue the same level of activity they maintained before beginning the diet. “If people are going to the gym, they should keep doing that,” Nicholas says. But, he adds, the hCG diet may provide motivation for those who have been reluctant or even unable to exercise. Alleva agrees. After her weight crept up, she admits she didn’t have the desire to head back to the gym. “But I knew once I lost some initial weight, I’d get back to it,” she says. Other considerations? “Almost every patient is a little hesitant about doing the injections, which is where I come in to coach and help them,” says Norris. Despite his job as an anesthesiologist, Lynch says he hates needles. However, he notes that the needle is small, and similar to those used by diabetics for insulin. Some practices also offer oral forms of hCG. Side effects are usually mild and may include a slight headache or feelings of hunger as your body adjusts to the diet. And, you can still experience a splurge or two. “If you keep a good diet, you can go to McDonald’s once a month or go to a birthday party and have a piece of cake,” says Dr. Fotinos. Interestingly, his advice aligns with traditional recommendations for weight loss. “If you keep a healthy lifestyle overall,” he says, “you can keep the weight off.” TCW

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Wendy Smith created the home of her dreams in Mooresville.

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endy Smith admits that what is now the home of her dreams was not love at first sight. The large, “horse-friendly” lot was a

For Sale By Owner, and Wendy, a real estate agent with Keller

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agent — ready to make a sale. “I never thought I’d live in Mooresville,” she says. As more time passed, she began to reconsider. “I spent several Saturday mornings out here, and it was so quiet,” she says. After another showing to a potential buyer, Wendy’s mind was made up. “In my head, I thought, Lady, this lot is sold.”

It took a little under a year for MidAtlantic Custom Builders to construct the 10,000-square-foot, five-bedroom, fivebathroom house — double the space of the Smiths’ previous home in Huntersville. “I wanted it to be comfortable and warm, not something you go into and think you can’t touch anything,” she says.

A Place To Call Home Over the years, Wendy, her husband Brad, and their four children have done

their share of packing and unpacking. As a real estate agent, wanderlust comes with the territory. But this time around, she says with a smile, it’s different. This is the place where she hopes her children will bring their future families home. “We wanted to build a home where everyone will congregate,” she says. The Smiths’ Mooresville home is a place of respite and renewal. For Wendy, who often works 50 hours a week and is never without her phone, and Brad, > J A N U A R Y

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a pharmacist in Charlotte, the space is an oasis. “At the end of the day, I need some peace,” Wendy says. The home marries lively entertainment areas with spots that invite you to settle in and sit a spell. Wendy was previously a commercial decorator, and her sense of style and knack for creating comfortable spaces is evident throughout the home, starting at the driveway. There, a whimsical

fountain stands friendly sentry to the stucco, stone, and brick home. Inside, a cozy sitting room — which the family has dubbed “the winter wine-drinking spot” — greets guests and provides a fitting introduction to the home’s comfy vibe. An intimate dining room is situated nearby. The open home office features ample counter space, cabinets, and storage, and a cushioned bench tucked along the hallway. The >

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is anchored by a barn that Brad added soon after the family moved in. The structure blends perfectly with the surroundings, and Wendy’s signature style shines through in the rustic chandeliers and classic outdoor chairs that make it difficult to find a reason to leave this peaceful place. When asked if she has finally found what she’s been looking for, Wendy is quiet for a few seconds. Then she smiles. “Oh, yes,” she says. “I’m not leaving.” TCW

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hen it comes to vintage clothing and accessories, Victoria Ross is more than a purveyor; she’s a historian. And when it comes to her quaint vintage boutique, A Step Back In Time, the name doesn’t offer empty promises: One step inside, and you truly feel transported to another era. The shop, located within Karen’s Beautiful Things in Victoria R oss sells vi accessori es at A St ntage clothing an the Arboretum, is home to a d ep Back In Time. collection of hand-selected items from the 1920s to the 1970s, including a spectacular head,” she says, assortment of accessories and col- laughing. “It got to the point where I was wearing a lot of vinlectible vintage jewelry. “I’m not a jeans and T-shirt tage clothing. A friend of mine type of store,” Ross says. “I’m very said, ‘Why not open your own specific about a unique look. My vintage store?’ ” That friend, Karen Holder, is items are more exclusive than you often find in consignment stores. I owner of Karen’s Beautiful Things. like to offer collectibles, but I like With a little nudging and an offer to share store space with her, Ross to make them affordable.” Items are marked with tags embarked on an adventure into that explain the date of origin the land of retail. Today, Ross is and price, and customers can ask living with stage four cancer, but Ross for insight into the item’s his- she focuses on the positive. “I’m just having a hell of a good time,” tory. Shoppers are also welcome to come in simply to learn about she says. Ross discovers her treasures the past. Ross says, “I think it’s so from a variety of sources, and says fascinating to see what you might some of her most interesting finds have looked like in another era.” Ross, who describes herself as come from her customers. She gregarious, explains that her foray admits that she occasionally has a into retail came on the heels of a hard time letting go of a new find. “I’ll wear it for a day,” she says, cancer diagnosis. “Ten years ago, I had cancer, laughing, “and then I’ll come to my senses and realize I need the and I started wearing vintage money and have to sell it.” TCW hats and scarves to cover my bald

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t’s a new year, and most of us have resolved to exercise more. As if we needed another reason to do so, the Yale School of Public Health released a new study that found women who exercise for at least 150 minutes a week may see a reduced risk of endometrial cancer, regardless of whether or not they are overweight. “This study is consistent with other studies that strongly support the association between physical activity and lower risk of endometrial cancer,” says Hannah Arem, a doctoral student at Yale School of Public Health. The association was more pronounced among active women with a body mass index less than 25, where the reduction in risk was 73 percent compared with inactive women with a BMI more than 25. Although BMI showed a strong association with endometrial cancer, even women who were overweight but still active had a 52 percent lower risk. So get out there, and get moving!


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Scribble Away A Doodle For Your Noodle


o you scribble, squiggle, and sketch while in a meeting or listening to voice messages? If so, you may find it easier to recall details than your non-doodling counterparts. This finding, published in the journal Applied Cognitive Psychology, is contrary to the common perception that doodling is an activity individuals perform when the mind is wandering. In fact, researchers suspect that doodling helps keep people more alert and reduces the tendency to daydream. In a study of 40 adults, half of the group shaded in a row of shapes and the other half did

nothing while listening to a boring phone message. Later, when asked to remember what they had heard, the doodlers recalled 29 percent more information than the non-doodlers. “This study suggests that in everyday life, doodling may be something we do because it helps to keep us on track with a boring task, rather than being an unnecessary distraction that we should try to resist doing,” says study researcher Jackie Andrade, Ph.D., of the School of Psychology at University of Plymouth in England. In short, mindless doodling helps focus your mind on the task at hand. Doodle on.

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HealthFlash The Whole-Grain Truth

Browning Up Mealtime

Gout-Ridden Skip The Soda For Better Health

There may be a simple way to reduce your risk of developing type-2 diabetes by 16 percent — swapping white rice out for the brown variety. Researchers from the Harvard School of Public Health encourage women to make the switch, because rates of type-2 diabetes, a top cause of heart problems, have nearly doubled among women in the last three decades. And don’t stop with brown rice; eating other whole grains such as barley, bulgur, or quinoa may cut your risk by a whopping 36 percent, according to research results. Whole grains are full of fiber and other nutrients because they contain every part of the grain and have not been stripped of all their natural goodness, as have heavily processed, refined grains like white rice and white flour. This winter is the perfect time to experiment with different whole grains, as they are a hearty addition to soups and stews!


out develops when blood becomes saturated with uric acid, a byproduct found in many foods, especially red and organ meats. When uric acid precipitates out into the joints and crystallizes, intense pain develops. Historically, gout has been considered a man’s disease, but more and more post-menopausal women are experiencing this debilitating disease. Research published in the Journal of the American Medical Association has shown that the consumption of fructose-sweetened beverages dramatically exacerbates the risk of developing gout in women. It appears fructose independently triggers the body’s production of uric acid, which, in

women, is kept in check by female hormones until menopause. According to researchers at Boston University School of Medicine, who gathered data from The Nurses’ Health Study (1984-2006), women who regularly consume beverages with high fructose content have a 74 percent higher risk of developing gout, compared to females who drink them once a month or less. The risk was 2.4 times greater for those consuming at least two servings of sugar-laden sodas per day. Upping the consumption of sugary soft drinks to two or more servings a day appeared to have an even bigger effect. No link was found between gout risk and diet sodas.

Sugar Low The Not-So-Sweet Side Of Soda High-fructose corn syrup is the sweetener of choice for non-diet soft drinks. But some soft drinks may contain a higher percentage of fructose than previously thought, according to a new study published online in the journal Obesity. That’s a big deal, says Michael Goran of the University of Southern California’s Keck School of Medicine in Los Angeles, because there is evidence that fructose, when consumed in excess, may have a more pronounced negative impact on metabolic health and weight gain than glucose. Unlike sucrose, or table sugar, which is a 50:50 combination of fructose and glucose, high-fructose corn syrup contains these sugars in a mix dominated by fructose. Goran’s research team collected samples of 23 different sugar-sweetened beverages and found that the drinks, with a few exceptions, had a 58 percent fructose content, and the three most popular soft drinks [Coke, Pepsi, and Sprite] contained 64 to 65 percent fructose. The American Beverage Association disputes the claims and The Center for Science in the Public Interest says further testing is necessary. Meanwhile, the Public Health Advocacy Institute argued that if such findings are confirmed, it could break federal standards preventing false and misleading advertising and labeling. The bottom line, Goran says, is that reducing fructose in the diet — especially its exaggerated use in soft drinks — could do a lot to limit a sweetened beverage’s health risks.

Cold Feet, No Sleep Warm Your Tootsies For Better ZZZs Chilly temperatures during winter’s long nights can make for some frosty feet, but keep those tootsies warm if you want to get a good night’s sleep. Women who complain of cold feet and hands may have a more difficult time falling asleep, according to a Swiss study published in the science journal Nature. Doctors from The Psychiatric University Clinic in Basel, Switzerland, found that increased blood flow to the hands and feet was the best indicator of the body’s readiness for sleep. So, if you are having a bit of trouble drifting off to Dreamville this winter, slide your paws into some comfy socks (and while you’re at it, slather them in lotion for a softer touch), pile on an extra blanket, or use it as an excuse to snuggle up to your honey and fall into a warm, peaceful slumber.


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hen considering job-related stress, studies have traditionally focused on men, and found that higher job stress raised the risk of heart disease. Now that women make up over half of the work force, it seems we are faced with some unique work-related challenges. Contemporary research presented at the 2010 American Heart Association’s Scientific Sessions focused on the unique circumstances of women in the workplace, and the impact job stress and strain has on the state of feminine health. Oftentimes, women find themselves in demanding yet unfulfilling positions, with little or no decision-making power or opportunities to think and act independently, which creates high job strain. Women who reported having high job strain had a 40 percent increased risk of cardiovascular disease, including heart attacks, stroke, and the need for invasive heart procedures, compared

to those with low job strain. In our current economic climate, women are also struggling with job insecurity, and those who worry about losing their jobs also suffer with higher blood pressure, cholesterol, and body weight. “Our study indicates that there are both immediate and long-term clinically documented cardiovascular health effects of job strain in women,” says Michelle A. Albert, M.D., M.P.H., the study’s senior author and associate physician at Brigham and Women’s Hospital, Boston, Mass. “Your job can positively and negatively affect health, making it important to pay attention to the stresses of your job as part of your total health package,” she adds.

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Smile more, and instead of sweating the small stuff, try finding a little humor in it.

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here’s something about chiropractic that Dr. Jeremy Hozjan of Park Road Chiropractic Health and Wellness wants you to know: It is not just for back and neck aches. “People don’t realize how many things chiropractic care can help with,” Dr. Hozjan says. “In order for you to be healthy, the pathway between the brain and the body must be free from interference. We make Dr. Jerem yH sure there‘s proper communito wellnes ozjan takes a who le s in his ch iropractic -body approach cation between all the parts of practice. the body.” any specific A Canadian native, Dr. Hozjan graduated from the University of nutrients that might be lacking. Using this information, Saskatchewan with a bachelor’s in kinesiology and education. he makes recommendations that After pursuing his passion for writ- could include a combination of ing and performing music (he’s a whole food supplements, herbs, bass player), he went to Sherman homeopathics, chiropractic care, College of Chiropractic in Spar- and diet and lifestyle modificatanburg, S.C. He says chiropractic tions to get the body back on track. His unique approach to allows him to utilize his background in athletic therapy, reha- whole-body health has helped bilitation, nutrition, and education. clients find relief from everything Physical fitness is an impor- from headaches to hot flashes. tant part of Dr. Hozjan’s life. He “I’ve had people come in who’ve and his wife, Dawn, are members been through the medical route and were told it is all in their head,” of the Charlotte Curling Club, and his resistance and cardiovascular he says. Whether it’s PMS, thyroid training has helped him place in two bodybuilding competitions. dysfunction, irritable bowel, or neck and back pain, Dr. Hozjan His interest in whole-body health care is why he offers clients Nutri- and his staff do all they can to help tion Response Testing, a non-inva- clients feel better fast. “My goal is to get people to wellness as fast as sive body analysis that identifies what organs are under stress and possible,” he says. TCW

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