A spin-off from the renowned Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria pageant, Mississ Universe Nigeria may be one of the newest crowns on the country’s pageantry scene, but it has already begun to carve its own identity—one that demands more from its queens than just beauty. At this year’s edition, all eyes were on Onyinyechi Basil, who emerged the winner after weeks of competition that celebrated Nigeria’s diversity and culture. For Onyinyechi, the victory was more than a personal triumph. A corporate high-flyer working with one of South Korea’s top conglomerates, she stepped onto the stage carrying not just poise but purpose.
The other evening, I was catching up with a friend I hadn’t seen in months. We laughed about old stories and swapped updates, and somewhere in between, I realised just how much I’d missed that connection. It struck me how easily friendships slip into the background when life gets busy. Romantic love always seems to command the spotlight, but friendship? That’s the quiet anchor we often forget to nurture. That’s why I’m especially excited about our piece, “9 Reasons Friendships Deserve as Much Energy as Love.” It’s a gentle nudge to remember that the friends who stand beside us in chaos and calm deserve more than the leftovers of our time. Honestly, I wanted to pick up the phone right after reading it. Maybe you will too.
Another feature that caught my attention this week is “Why More Nigerian Men Are Experimenting With Colour, Texture & Shape.” Have you noticed it? Our men are stepping out of the predictable navy-andgrey comfort zone and trying bold colours, playful fabrics, even new silhouettes. It feels like a bigger statement about freedom and self-expression. Fashion here is slowly becoming less about rules and more about personality, and I love it. But enough about me—how are you doing?
I hope you’re sleeping well, eating correctly, and giving yourself some breathing room in between the madness of the week. It’s so easy to get swept up and forget those small kindnesses to yourself. Whatever these days bring, may you find a pocket of joy, a reason to laugh out loud, and a moment that feels entirely yours.
Love,
THE EVERYDAY HABITS THAT MAKE YOU UNFORGETTABLE
Elegance has never really been about the price tag. It isn’t measured by designer labels, the car you drive, or the restaurants you frequent. True elegance is a quiet force. It’s the grace in your movements, the kindness in your words, the discipline in how you treat yourself and others. These are the little things that don’t cost a dime, yet they create an aura money can never buy. A woman who embodies these timeless codes doesn’t need to announce her presence—her presence speaks before she does. Here are the girl codes that every woman should know, practice, and pass on:
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
1. Call people by their names
There’s something deeply personal about being addressed by name. It says, see you. I respect you. Whether it’s the waiter at lunch, your driver, or a colleague you only met once, making the effort to remember names leaves a mark of thoughtfulness. People rarely forget how you made them feel.
2. Be fully present
We live in an age of distractions, where phones and notifications constantly compete for attention. But nothing says confidence and respect like putting your phone away, making eye contact, and truly listening. Presence is powerful—it tells people they matter in that moment, and that’s unforgettable.
3. Don’t beg for attention
Some women walk into a room and command attention without uttering a word. Why? Because confidence is magnetic. You don’t have to be loud, flashy, or dramatic. Selfassurance, calm composure, and knowing your worth will always be louder than any performance.
4. Polite gratitude
Good manners are never outdated. “Please,” “thank you,” and “excuse me” are small words with big impact. They soften even the hardest of interactions, elevate simple conversations, and instantly make you stand out as gracious and grounded.
5. Posture is power
Your body introduces you before
your mouth does. Shoulders back, chin slightly lifted, steady strides— posture communicates dignity and presence. A woman who carries herself with poise doesn’t need a designer outfit to look elegant; her bearing is enough.
6. Skip the leaning Walls, doorframes, and counters are not props. Leaning might seem casual, but it often reads as tired or sloppy. Standing tall, relaxed but poised, radiates strength and self-discipline. It tells the world you’re in control, not just passing through.
7. Speak with clarity
Raising your voice isn’t the same as commanding attention. Speak calmly, clearly, and with intention. A soft yet firm voice makes people lean in; it draws them closer. There’s quiet authority in being measured with your words.
8. Keep clean and fresh Elegance lives in the details. Fresh nails, glowing skin, clean hair, subtle perfume—these small things speak volumes. You don’t need expensive outfits to appear polished; neatness alone radiates pride and self-respect.
9. Respect time
Being punctual isn’t just about avoiding lateness—it’s about respect. Time is life’s most valuable currency, and wasting it, yours or someone else’s, is the opposite of refinement. Show up when you say you will. It speaks of reliability, which is rare.
10. Move with intention
Every gesture, every stride tells a story. Whether you’re walking into a meeting, setting down your bag, or reaching for a glass, let your movements be deliberate, not rushed. Intention in movement communicates confidence and grace—it’s elegance without words.
EXECUTIVE EDITOR
Former CBN Deputy Governor Honoured With Nupe Chieftaincy Title
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FORMER CBN
DEPUTY GOVERNOR HONOURED WITH NUPE CHIEFTAINCY TITLE
Former Deputy Governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), Aishah Ndanusa Ahmad, has been conferred with the prestigious traditional title of Soniya Asusu Nupe. The colourful turbaning ceremony was performed in Bida by His Royal Highness, Alhaji Yahaya Abubakar, the Etsu Nupe and Chairman of the Niger State Council of Traditional Rulers. The event drew dignitaries, community leaders, and well-wishers who gathered to celebrate the recognition of Ahmad’s contributions to national development and her Nupe heritage.
Photos by Sunny Aghaeze, MON
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TAMUNOIBILATE BOB-MANUEL AND STANLEY YOUNGHARRY TIE THE KNOT IN STYLE
The Kalabari Kingdom recently played host to a colourful celebration steeped in heritage and elegance, as Miss Tamunoibilate Disrael Bob-Manuel, daughter of the Amanyanabo of Abonnema, King Disrael Gbobo Bob-Manuel II, wed Mr. Stanley Young-Harry.
The festivities opened in Abonnema, Akuku-Toru LGA, where traditional rites and age-old ceremonies such as the bibifeand Boko Baku were performed over several days. These rites, deeply rooted in Kalabari custom, brought together founding war houses of Abonnema, prominent Amanyanabos, chiefs, families, and friends in a display of unity and cultural pride. The traditional marriage rites concluded on Wednesday, August 27, in the King’s courtyard. From there, the celebration shifted to Port Harcourt, where the solemnisation took place at St. Paul’s Anglican Cathedral, Garrison. Guests were later hosted to a grand reception at the Golden Tulip Hotel. Though the white wedding had to be moved from Saturday, August 30, to Friday, August 29, due to local government elections, the change did little to dampen spirits. Guests were treated to Rivers’ finest delicacies making the affair as much a cultural feast as a matrimonial union.
Photos by Kunle Ogunfuyi
NEWLYWEDS, STANLEY MPAKABOARI YOUNG-HARRY AND
KIO
WHAT’S IN A BAG? EVERYTHING
Abag is not just a bag. It’s a signature, a clue, sometimes even a confession. The one you carry says more about you than you might imagine — not just about your taste in fashion, but about how you live, what you value, and even the little quirks you don’t always reveal.
Look closely, and the signs are apparent. The woman with a structured tote signals efficiency before she’s even sat down. Her bag suggests calendars packed with meetings, neatly folded documents, and a refusal to be caught off guard. The one with a mini bag tucked neatly under her arm is saying something entirely different: confidence, lightness, and a night designed for freedom rather than function. Then there’s the crossbody — practical, dynamic, moving with ease from office desk to evening plans.
Trends only amplify this unspoken code. The sharp lines of top-handle bags have become a fashion shorthand for polish. Worn with crisp tailoring or a fitted dress, they sharpen the edges of a look. By contrast, the return of the hobo — slouchy, oversized, unapologetically relaxed — reflects a shift toward effortless chic. Paired with denim and sandals, it whispers elegance without rigidity.
But if the outside tells one story, the inside tells another. Open a bag and the contents sketch a different portrait. Lip glosses, a travel perfume, a powder compact? That’s the woman who’s always camera-ready, who never waits for an occasion to make an entrance. Power banks, cords, and maybe even a small notebook?
She’s the one holding the group together, charging phones, planning details, and keeping receipts — literally and metaphorically.
And those crumpled notes, stray receipts, or forgotten ticket stubs at the bottom? They belong to someone moving faster than her ability to tidy up.
The divide between minimalists and maximalists is just as
revealing. A minimalist favors the sleek baguette or crossbody — edited, intentional, designed only for the essentials.
Her bag is a reflection of discipline. The maximalist leans into a roomy tote, carrying everything from hand cream to a book.
Her style says she likes to be prepared for anything. Neither approach is right nor wrong; both reveal how women balance control and spontaneity.
In the age of Instagram, bags have also become a kind of performance. A pop of colour against a monochrome outfit turns into the entire point of the look. The everyday shopper tote is now styled as a weekend staple. Even the once-derided waist bag has found its way to brunch tables and cocktail parties, worn across blazers and dresses as proof that utility can be glamorous.
Still, the real intrigue lies in the question every bag poses: Who are you? Are you the executive who can pull a pen from her tote at a moment’s notice? The artist who keeps fabric swatches close because ideas arrive unannounced?
Or the dependable friend with wipes and gum tucked away, prepared for life’s small emergencies? Your bag doesn’t just accessorise you. It introduces you. It covers for you. It tells the world — quietly but clearly — who
BUDGETFRIENDLY SKINCARE ROUTINES THAT ACTUALLY WORK
The beauty industry loves to convince us that healthy, glowing skin lives at the bottom of a N200,000 serum bottle. However, the reality is that most people simply want clear, well-hydrated skin without spending a fortune at beauty stores. The truth is you don’t need a 12-step routine or luxury labels with heavy price tags to care for your skin. With the right basics and a little consistency, you can build a routine that works—and fits your budget—by sticking to simple tips and tricks that deliver lasting results.
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
1. Cleanse Without Stripping
The first step in any skincare routine is a good cleanser. You do not need foaming formulas packed with perfume or glitter. Affordable cleansers like gentle face washes or even black soap (when balanced with a good moisturiser) do the job. The key is to cleanse without leaving your skin feeling squeaky-dry, because that usually means you have stripped away too much oil.
2. Hydration is Necessary
Moisturiser is not optional. Even oily skin types need hydration. Look for light, noncomedogenic creams or gels that lock in moisture without clogging pores. In Nigeria’s
heat, something with glycerin, aloe vera, or hyaluronic acid can work well, and there are affordable local brands making solid moisturisers.
3. Sunscreen is Essential
No matter how much you exfoliate or moisturise, if you are not using sunscreen, you are wasting your effort. Darker skin tones may not show sunburn easily, but UV damage is real. Fortunately, there are pocket-friendly sunscreens now available locally that do not leave a white cast. Think of sunscreen as protection for your skin’s future.
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Affordable Treatments That Work
You do not need expensive serums to see results. Simple, proven ingredients like
niacinamide for breakouts and honey masks for hydration are both inexpensive and effective. Even natural remedies like oatmeal, turmeric, or papaya (when used properly) can improve your skincare routine without costing much.
5. Consistency Over Complication
At the end of the day, skincare is not about how much you spend but how well you stick to your routine. Cleanse, hydrate, protect, and repeat. A routine does not have to be complicated to give you results.
IJEOMA BALOGUN
JULIE PINNICK
CHANEL
In just a few years, Kome Osalor Fashion House has grown from a personal project into a label known for its bold style and modern take on traditional fabrics and more. At the centre of it is Onakome Osalor, a Lagos-based designer who sees fashion as identity, culture and storytelling, making waves. Since launching her brand in 2019, she has focused on creating pieces that are both timeless and contemporary. In this interview, Kome shares her creative vision with Funke Babs Kufeji, discussing the influence of Lagos, her use of African textiles, and the journey of building a timeless brand that speaks to women everywhere. No matter the age or shape.
Back in 2019, you took a bold step and launched Kome Osalor Fashion House. What inspired that decision, and what vision did you have in mind when you started?
I’ve always believed that fashion is more than clothing; it’s a mirror of culture and identity.
Launching Kome Osalor Fashion House in 2019 was my way of creating a space where Nigerian creativity could meet global sophistication. The vision from day one was to build a brand that celebrates African heritage, while also empowering women to express their individuality in bold, elegant ways.
Lagos has played a big role in your story. How would you describe the influence of the city on your design process and aesthetic?
Lagos is energy. It’s fast-paced, vibrant, chaotic, and beautiful all at once. That rhythm seeps into my work, the colours, the textures, the audacity. Lagos teaches you resilience, but it also teaches you to stand out, and that duality inspires me to design pieces that are fearless yet refined.
Your collections are known for blending bold elegance with tradition. How do you strike that balance between timeless and contemporary?
For me, it’s about honouring where we come from without being confined by it. take traditional silhouettes, fabrics, or motifs and reinterpret them with modern cuts, tailoring, and styling. The goal is to create garments that feel familiar yet fresh, pieces that could live in your wardrobe today and still be relevant ten years from now.
You’ve spoken about fashion as a language of identity. What kind of stories are you trying to tell through your designs today?
Currently, I’m interested in stories of power and femininity, specifically women owning their space unapologetically. My designs speak to resilience, beauty, and individuality. They’re for women who want to walk into a room and be remembered, not just for what they wear, but for the presence they command.
Ankara fabrics, tie and dye feature heavily in your work. How do you approach reimagining such traditional textiles for the modern fashion scene?
I see Ankara and tie-dye as living canvases. They carry history, symbolism, and cultural pride, but don’t treat them as static. I experiment with new cuts, layering, draping, and even unexpected combinations that make them feel relevant to today’s fashion-forward woman. It’s about respecting tradition while pushing its boundaries.
From passion project to fashion house, what were some of the early challenges you faced, and how did you navigate them?
The biggest challenge was infrastructure, from sourcing quality fabrics locally to building a skilled team that understood my vision. In the early days, it felt like everything was an uphill battle. But learned to be resourceful, to train from within, and to see constraints as opportunities to innovate. Those lessons shaped the DNA of the brand.
Your brand appeals to both everyday women and highprofile clients. How do you maintain that delicate balance between being relatable and aspirational?
I design with inclusivity in mind. Fashion should feel accessible, not intimidating. My collections feature statement pieces for red carpets, as well as versatile designs for everyday life. The common thread is confidence, whether you’re a working professional, a creative, or a celebrity. My goal is for you to feel elevated when you wear Kome Osalor.
What does “craftsmanship” mean to you, especially in an era where fast fashion is so dominant?
Craftsmanship is about respectrespect for the fabric, respect for the process, and respect for the wearer. It means creating pieces with intention and attention to detail, pieces that are meant to last and tell a story. In a fast fashion world, craftsmanship is our rebellion; it’s how we preserve authenticity and value.
You’ve hinted at international expansion. What excites you most about taking your brand beyond Nigeria’s borders?
I’m excited to showcase the richness of African fashion on global platforms, while also fostering a dialogue between cultures. Expansion isn’t just about selling clothes abroad; it’s about changing narratives, showing that Nigerian design belongs in the same conversation as Paris, Milan, or New York. That excites me.
What advice would you give to emerging Nigerian designers who want to build something authentic, rooted, and globally relevant like you have?
Stay true to your voice. Trends will come and go, but authenticity endures. Be patient with your growth, invest in learning your craft, and don’t be afraid to take risks. Most importantly, build with intention. When your work is rooted in purpose, it will resonate both at home and abroad.
THE BLOUSE, REIMAGINED
By Aliyah Olowolayemo
Every woman has that piece she reaches for when she wants to look like she made an effort—without actually making one. For some, it’s a black dress, for others, a great pair of jeans. But the true unsung hero? The blouse. Not the stiff, corporate white shirt we all once owned, but its more interesting cousin: softer, shapelier, a little dramatic when it wants to be, and endlessly dependable.
The blouse has always known how to play both sides. It can whisper refinement in silk or cotton, then turn up the volume in organza, satin, or anything with a sleeve that refuses to be ignored. It’s the kind of piece that doesn’t shout for attention but somehow commands it anyway. Slip one on with denim and suddenly your lazy-day look feels intentional. Tuck it into a pencil skirt and you’re office-ready with barely a thought. Throw it over leather trousers and it belongs in a bar lit by neon. What makes the blouse irresistible is how it works in detail. It could be a dramatic collar that frames your face like a spotlight. It could be ruching at the waist that does the job of shapewear without the discomfort. It could even be the kind of puff sleeve that makes you stand taller, simply because it gives you permission to. Unlike the humble tee, a blouse knows how to flatter. It catches light, it creates shape, and it tells a story without needing accessories to do the heavy lifting. This season, designers are having fun with it. Sleeves are exaggerated to theatrical proportions, collars are flirting with Edwardian drama, and bows are tying themselves in unexpected places—around waists, necklines, even wrists. Sheer panels hint at skin without baring too much, while deconstructed cuffs and asymmetric buttons make classics look fresh again. It’s proof that a blouse doesn’t just survive the seasons—it evolves with them. And here’s the secret every stylist knows: when you have a blouse doing the work, everything else can afford to be simple. Jeans, trousers, skirts—none of them need to compete. That’s the real balance: the blouse takes the lead, the rest of the outfit plays backup, and you walk away looking polished without trying too hard. There’s also the emotional lift. Fashion may be about aesthetics, but a blouse has a way of making you feel different in your own skin. A flowy satin piece can make you feel sensual without revealing anything. A crisp cotton one gives structure to a messy morning. A printed silk blouse can spark compliments that carry you through the day. It’s not just about style—it’s about the kind of quiet confidence that comes when your clothes work with you instead of against you.
Every wardrobe deserves a rotation: the white blouse that saves you in a rush, the silk one that feels indulgent, the patterned one that never fails to turn heads, and the soft, easy one that goes with denim. You don’t need twenty—just a few that know how to show up.
ONYINYECHI BASIL
MISS UNIVERSE NIGERIA 2025
Aspin-off from the renowned Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria pageant, Mississ Universe
Nigeria may be one of the newest crowns on the country’s pageantry scene, but it has already begun to carve its own identity—one that demands more from its queens than just beauty. At this year’s edition, all eyes were on Onyinyechi Basil, who emerged the winner after weeks of competition that celebrated Nigeria’s diversity and culture. For Onyinyechi, the victory was more than a personal triumph. A corporate high-flyer working with one of South Korea’s top conglomerates, she stepped onto the stage carrying not just poise but purpose. Her reign is already defined by the cause she has chosen to champion—maternal healthcare, an issue deeply personal to her and urgently relevant to Nigeria today.
In her, Miss Universe Nigeria has found a queen who embodies exactly what the platform represents: intelligence, resilience, and advocacy wrapped in elegance. As she prepares to represent the country on the global stage, Onyinyechi sits down with THISDAY Style to talk about the crown, the sacrifices, and the vision she intends to bring to life.
What was the very first thought that crossed your mind when your name was announced as Miss Universe Nigeria?
My very first thought was, “God, thank You for trusting me with this responsibility.” In that instant, felt an overwhelming wave of gratitude and fulfilment. It wasn’t just excitement or joy—it was something deeper, almost sacred. knew in that moment that this journey wasn’t just about me; it was about carrying something greater, a purpose far beyond a crown.
In that moment, beyond the crown, what did the victory symbolise for you personally?
Beyond the crown, it symbolised validation—that staying true to myself and my purpose is enough. For me, it wasn’t just a personal victory; it was proof that consistency, discipline, and grounding yourself in your “why” can truly bring dreams to life. It reassured me that you don’t need to
conform or compromise to be recognised. You just need to stand firmly in your truth.
Now that you carry this title, how do you intend to shape what it means to be Miss Universe Nigeria in today’s Nigeria?
For me, Miss Universe Nigeria must transcend beauty. She must be a woman of relevance, one whose voice carries meaning. In today’s Nigeria, where young people are demanding more from leadership and role models, believe this role is about influence with responsibility. I want to redefine the title so that it represents advocacy, empathy, and progress—being a queen who doesn’t just wear the crown but uses it as a platform for impact.
You come from a corporate world that is male-dominated, working with one of South Korea’s top conglomerates. How has that experience shaped the woman who now wears this crown?
Working in a male-dominated corporate space taught me resilience, discipline, and self-awareness. I had to learn how to own my space, speak with confidence, and never let myself shrink, no matter the room walked into. Those lessons hardened my spirit in the best way. They gave me the strength to carry this crown—not just as an accessory of grace, but as a symbol of courage and capability.
Have there been moments in your career where you had to fight harder to be seen or respected simply because you’re a woman?
Absolutely. There were times when my voice was drowned out or my competence was doubted before I had the chance to prove myself. At first, it was frustrating, but over time, those experiences sharpened me. They taught me that respect isn’t earned by being loud or combative—it comes through showing up consistently, performing with excellence, and letting your presence speak louder than your words.
You’ve chosen maternal healthcare as your advocacy, and it stems from a very personal story. How has your brother’s memory shaped the urgency behind this cause?
His memory was the spark, but the urgency comes from knowing that maternal healthcare is the backbone of any society. Losing him opened my eyes to the painful realities too many families face in Nigeria. Every mother saved is a generation preserved, and every child saved is a future secured. I carry that responsibility with me every single day, as both duty and legacy.
What, in your view, are the most glaring gaps in Nigeria’s maternal healthcare system today?
Accessibility is the first and most significant gap—too many women simply cannot access functional facilities. Then there are delays in
emergency care and a frightening lack of accountability when lives are lost. Women are forced to risk their lives giving birth, and when tragedies happen, no one is held responsible. That must change. Infrastructure matters, but accountability matters just as much.
If you had the power to implement just one immediate change to save mothers and children, what would it be?
would ensure that every local government area in Nigeria has at least one fully equipped, functional maternal care centre with trained professionals available around the clock. Access to safe delivery and emergency care should never be a privilege reserved for the few. It must be a right for every woman, everywhere in Nigeria.
Do you think beauty queens in this generation should be more than symbols of elegance; they should also stand as activists?
Yes, without question. This generation values authenticity, not perfection. A crown today cannot be just about looking elegant; it must be about carrying influence responsibly. Queens must stand for something greater, because beauty fades, but the impact you leave behind—that becomes your true legacy.
Looking back, what has been the greatest personal sacrifice you’ve had to make on the road to this crown?
The greatest sacrifice has been time and rest. Pageantry is far more demanding than people realise—it takes long hours of training, endless rehearsals, and a constant need to be present at events. That often meant very little sleep, almost no personal downtime, and sacrifices in my private life. But every sleepless night and early morning moulded me into the woman strong enough to wear this crown today.
Strip away the crown, the corporate suits, and the public expectations. Who is Onyinyechi at her core?
At my core, am a simple, God-fearing woman who loves deeply, laughs freely, and is driven by purpose. I’m grounded in humility, guided by faith, and I’m ultimately just that girl who dared to dream and refused to give up until those dreams came alive.
As you prepare to stand on the Miss Universe stage, how do you intend to represent Nigeria’s culture to the world?
By embodying the richness of Nigeria’s diversity, resilience, and creativity. Whether it’s through fashion, cultural storytelling, or advocacy, I want the world to understand that Nigeria isn’t a single story. We are a mosaic of brilliance, traditions, and voices that deserve global recognition.
Nigeria is often viewed through stereotypes. If you could show the world just one true image of your country, what would it be?
would show the image of Nigerian women. They are strong, resourceful, brilliant, and unstoppable. They are the heartbeat of this nation, the silent architects of our communities, and I would want the world to see Nigeria through their resilience and beauty.
Years from now, when people look back on your reign, what kind of Miss Universe Nigeria do you want them to remember?
want to be remembered as the queen who led with purpose. The one who used her platform to move the needle, to create tangible change, and to inspire others to dream bigger. The one who left the title richer and stronger than she met it.
Finally, if you could sit with your younger self, the little girl who could not yet imagine standing here today, what would you tell her?
would tell her: Do not be swayed by the opinions of others. Keep dreaming. Keep working. Trust the journey. Everything you’re facing—the disappointments, the struggles, even the loneliness—is shaping you into the woman you’re destined to be. And always remember: adversity isn’t a punishment. It’s a tool, sharpening you for the destiny that awaits.
I want to be remembered as the queen who led with purpose. The one who used her platform to move the needle, to create tangible change, and to inspire others to dream bigger. The one who left the title richer and stronger than she met it.
THE FEMININE TWIST: NINIE’S
ALL BOYS OUT
Wannounced ALL BOYS OUT, its first allfemale collection, it felt less like a quiet pivot and more like a declaration. For years, women have stood firmly behind the brand, embracing its menswear tailoring with the same passion as its intended audience. They borrowed the jackets, claimed the shirts, and styled the trousers as their own, often pushing Ninie to consider a unisex approach. But this collection is different—it isn’t about compromise or androgyny. It is about taking the brand’s signature structure and precision and reimagining it entirely through a feminine lens.
ALL BOYS OUT is rooted in the confidence of menswear but redefined with softness, ease, and an unmistakable sense of strength. It’s the kind of collection that doesn’t dilute Ninie’s identity but sharpens it, drawing a clear line between inspiration and innovation. Inspired by the brand’s 2020 showcase, Shades of Man, this debut womenswear line continues the love affair with timeless tailoring but infuses it with movement and warmth. Anchored in rich brown tones, the pieces carry a boldness that feels earthy, grounded, and quietly powerful.
At its core, this collection celebrates women who wear tailoring not to borrow power but to reflect their own. They are strong without posturing, elegant without fuss, and confident without compromise. Ninie’s decision to finally create for them feels like a natural evolution, a response not just to demand but to a cultural moment where women are defining strength on their own terms.
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9 REASONS FRIENDSHIPS DESERVE AS MUCH ENERGY AS LOVE
Couple goals get all the hashtags, but let’s be real, who’s been holding your hand through the drama long before bae slid into the picture? Who was there before your first date and will probably be around long after your last situationship fizzles?
Friends. The ones who know your middle name, your worst haircut phase, and your comfort food order without asking. We fuss endlessly over love, date nights, anniversaries, and “good morning” texts, but friendships quietly carry us through life. It’s time we started giving them the same devotion. Here’s why your crew deserves just as much energy as your boo.
1. They’re the Real First Responders
Heartbreak at midnight?
Career crisis at dawn? Friends are the ones answering the phone, showing up in sweatpants, and bringing snacks like it’s an emergency. They don’t just listen; they patch you back together when romance leaves you in pieces. Translation: they’re your unofficial therapists—minus the hourly rate.
2. They’re the Keepers of Your Bloopers
A lover might meet you at
chapter 12 of your story, but friends have been around since chapter one. They remember your bad decisions, your questionable outfits, and your karaoke renditions that should’ve been left in 2009. They’ve seen the bloopers and the glow-ups—and they’re still here. That loyalty deserves investment.
3. No Performance, Just Presence
Dating often feels like a stage play. You dress up, deliver your best lines, and hope you’re cast in the next episode. Friendship? It’s where the mask comes off. You can show up unfiltered, in mismatched pyjamas, ranting about your boss or bingeing reality TV, and it’s all love. That kind of comfort is rare—and worth keeping alive.
4. They Outlast (Most) Love Stories
Let’s be honest: not every romance survives the test of time. Breakups happen, divorces happen, situationships fade. But your college roommate still texts on your birthday. Your best friend from work still knows your coffee order. Many of our friendships are longer, stronger, and more stable than our romances. That deserves energy.
5. They Deserve Rituals Too Engagement parties, anniversaries, Valentine’s Day—romance gets rituals galore. Friendships? Usually ignored. Why not start celebrating “friendiversaries” with dinner, weekend trips, or even just matching
bracelets? Marking milestones reminds friends they’re not the understudy to romance. They’re the co-star.
6. They’re Your Chosen Family
We don’t get to pick our parents, and lovers can walk away, but friends? They’re curated, handpicked, deliberately chosen. They’re the siblings you actually wanted. That makes these relationships just as sacred—if not more. And like any family, they require nurturing.
7. They Keep You Honest
A romantic partner might tread lightly, but friends? They’ll tell you straight up when you’re wrong, delusional, or about to text your ex at 2 a.m. They’re the ones who call you out without cushioning
There’s a quiet revolution happening in the way Nigerian men dress. Not loud in the sense of protests or placards, but loud in the way it announces itself on the streets, in nightclubs, at weddings, and even in boardrooms. The once-standard uniform of crisp white kaftans, muted agbadas, and dark, practical suits is being rewritten. Nigerian men are no longer content to blend in—they want to be seen.
You catch sight of it in Lagos traffic: a young man steps out of his Uber, wearing oversized trousers and a kimono jacket in a print so bold it could double as modern art. You see it at traditional weddings: grooms swapping black tuxedos for emerald green velvet or champagne-toned kaftans with dramatic capes. You notice it in the airports: men in carefully coordinated lounge sets, Prada loafers, and sunglasses big enough to rival those of a Nollywood star. Fashion for men is no longer a duty; it’s an adventure.
WHY MORE NIGERIAN MEN ARE EXPERIMENTING WITH COLOUR, TEXTURE & SHAPE
the blow, because they care more about your growth than your ego. And honestly? We all need that.
8. They Make Ordinary Days Sparkle
Romance often gets the big gestures: flowers, proposals, candlelit dinners. Friends create the small joys: inside jokes that last a decade, dancing in the living room, spontaneous road trips. They turn boring Tuesdays into memories you’ll laugh about for years. That magic is just as worthy of effort as roses on Valentine’s Day.
9. They Literally Keep You Alive
Science agrees: people with close friendships live longer, healthier, and happier lives. Friends lower your stress, boost your mood, and keep your heart beating stronger. Investing in friendships isn’t just emotional, it’s biological. Forget “relationship goals.” Try “longevity goals.”
Part of this shift comes from the world stage. Nigeria is at the centre of a global cultural wave— Afrobeats, Nollywood, tech—and with it comes a heightened sense of visibility. For men, this confidence has spilt over into the way they dress. Clothes are no longer just functional—they’re a performance of identity. They’re how a man says, “I’m part of this moment.”
Social media has also played its part. Instagram, TikTok, and Pinterest are now style classrooms where men learn, unlearn, and dare to try something new. A banker in Abuja might see his peer rocking a pastel suit on vacation in Marbella and think, “Maybe I can pull that off too.” A young man in Enugu watches a designer livestream from Paris and suddenly sees himself reflected in shapes he once thought were “too much.” The feed has become a mirror, one that pushes men to stretch the limits of their personal style. It would be easy to frame this shift as a departure from Nigerian tradition, but really, it’s a continuation of it. Nigerian menswear has always been bold. The Yoruba agbada, with its sweeping fabric; the Igbo isiagu, patterned with lion heads; the Hausa babanriga, regal in volume— these were never subtle garments. They were declarations of pride and identity. What’s happening now is simply a remix. Men are fusing old and new—pairing aso-oke with sneakers, rocking agbadas with sculptural jewellery, or cutting traditional fabrics into contemporary streetwear. It’s a bridge between heritage and modern swagger.
And let’s be honest: it’s also fun. For a long time, men’s wardrobes were governed by unwritten rules about what was appropriate, what was “masculine,” what was respectable. But a new generation doesn’t care about those rules. This indifference is what makes the current fashion moment for Nigerian men so exciting. It isn’t just about what they wear—it’s about the permission they’re giving themselves to take risks. However, underneath the play is something serious. Fashion has become a tool of visibility, particularly for men seeking to carve out distinct identities in crowded spaces. A Lagos creative once told me, “Style is how introduce myself before I even speak. It’s like my business card.” In a city buzzing with ambition, standing out visually can open doors, whether you’re pitching an idea, walking into a boardroom, or just trying to be remembered at a party.
The Nigerian man is no longer content with safe. He is writing his story in fashion, and the script is vivid, textured, and impossible to ignore.
There was a time when every Nigerian dreamer with a voice wanted to be on radio. The smooth FM cadence, the thrill of jingles, the thought that millions were tuned in as you unpacked music, politics, or heartbreak—it carried a kind of magic. But that magic has shifted, and it now lives online. Podcasts are the new radio, only without the gatekeepers. No auditions, no program director telling you to cut a gist short, no station manager curating your playlist. Just you, a mic, some Wi-Fi, and an audience that might be listening in Lagos traffic, Abuja offices, or even London’s underground. That freedom is exactly why it feels like everyone you know is starting one.
For Nigerians, it makes perfect sense. Ours is a culture built on gist. We are storytellers by nature—whether it’s WhatsApp voice notes that run longer than Nollywood movies, arguments at beer parlours, or impromptu political analysis over pepper soup. Podcasting simply bottled this love for gist and gave it a platform. When Said What I Said, hosted by FK Abudu and Jola Ayeye, hit the scene, it became more than a podcast—it was a cultural marker. Their witty, candid takes on relationships, careers, and the absurdities of Nigerian life became a safe space for young listeners. Soon after came Tea with Tay, hosted by Taymesan, which felt like a warm living-room chat —unpretentious and welcoming —a reminder that not all conversations need to be polished PR interviews. These early favourites proved that Nigerians were hungry for authentic conversations that sounded like them. That hunger hasn’t slowed. If anything, it has widened, welcoming a new wave of voices. Nicole Asinugo’s Lone Wolf offers deeply personal reflections on solitude and self-discovery, while Ezinne Akudo’s Beyond with Ezinne takes listeners into more thoughtful, often vulnerable conversations that rise above the everyday noise. Each of these podcasts has its own rhythm, but collectively they show just how diverse the medium has become. Whether banter-filled, reflective, inspirational, or investigative, there is now a Nigerian podcast for every mood.
Part of the boom is accessibility. Years ago, to broadcast your voice widely, you needed serious resources. Today, with little more than a phone mic,
a free editing app, and the courage to upload, you can reach thousands. Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and even Audiomack have flattened the barriers. Suddenly, everyone with something to say feels they should say it—and in a country where many feel drowned out by louder systems, the chance to be heard is irresistible. As one Lagos podcaster put it, “My mic is my therapist. I just record and let it out. If people connect, that’s a bonus.” That intimacy, the sense that someone is talking directly to you while you wash plates or inch across Third Mainland Bridge—is what keeps listeners hooked.
But in true Nigerian fashion, there’s also the hustle. Few start out chasing money, but sooner or later, the thought creeps in: “What if this can pay my bills?” And why not? If Joe Rogan can secure a hundred-million-dollar deal, surely a Nigerian voice can strike gold too. Already, brand sponsorships, ads, and even live podcast shows are creeping into the scene. For comedians, influencers, journalists, and even pastors, podcasting is no longer just a hobby—it’s another branch of their brand.
Even without big money, podcasts are building communities. Listeners don’t just tune in; they identify, they participate, they share, and they defend their favourites. It’s why Said What I Said fans proudly call themselves “ISWIS Babes” and why Tea with Tay listeners often feel like part of an extended family.
There’s also the FOMO factor. Just like we all once rushed to open YouTube channels and Instagram boutiques, there’s now a sense that if you don’t have a podcast, you’re missing out on cultural currency. Conversations have shifted from “Do you listen to podcasts?” to “Which ones do you listen to?” and increasingly, “What’s the name of yours?” It’s not unusual to meet three people at a Lagos dinner, all of whom host podcasts in wildly different
niches—football, spirituality, or finance. The field is wide open, and everyone is grabbing their slice.
Will podcasts replace radio? Not likely. Radio still holds sway, especially in communities where smartphones and data costs remain out of reach.
But in urban Nigeria, podcasts are already reshaping how we consume conversations. And it won’t stop here. We’ll see more language-driven shows in Yoruba, Igbo, or Hausa, more serialised storytelling and investigative podcasts, and maybe even audio dramas that feel like binge-watching
Nollywood with your ears. Ultimately, the rise of Nigerian podcasts isn’t just about technology. It’s cultural. Nigerians have always been creators, hustlers, and gist-lovers. Podcasting simply gave us the microphone and stripped away the gatekeepers. And we’ve run with it—loudly, consistently, and creatively. So the next time your friend tells you they’re starting a podcast, don’t roll your eyes. Just hit subscribe. Because everyone has a story worth telling, and the real question isn’t why everyone is starting a podcast—it’s why haven’t you?
THE ACCESSORIES RULEBOOK
OF THE “IT GIRL”
Everyone knows that girl. She doesn’t just enter a room—she arrives. Her presence lingers before the perfume even does, and her look is always seamless, never screaming for attention yet impossible to ignore. It’s not about labels or price tags; it’s about the way she stitches the small details into a bigger story. And here’s her not-so-secret secret: the magic is in the accessories. Clothes might form the foundation, but accessories? They’re the punctuation marks that turn a sentence into a statement. The “It Girl” doesn’t just get dressed—she curates. She knows that the difference between looking nice and looking unforgettable lives in those micro-choices: the bag slung just so, the earrings that catch light at the right angle, the hair that frames her face like a finishing touch. So, what’s inside her playbook? Let’s decode the rules.
By Aliyah Olowolayemo
Rule One: The Bag as
Anchor
Forget the myth that a bag is just for carrying things. For her, a bag is an anchor—it grounds the entire look. Whether it’s a top-handle tote that exudes boardroom power or a playful mini perched under her arm, it signals more than style; it signals intention. Watch closely and you’ll notice: the bag is never random. It’s chosen, placed, and carried with a kind of quiet authority. Even the way she holds it says something about her.
Rule Two: Shoes Speak First
Shoes don’t just complete an outfit— they announce it. That girl knows the first glance usually travels downward. Heels with a sculpted edge, sneakers in pristine condition, sandals with a metallic glint—all spark stories before she even says a word. Compliments, debates, whispered envy… her shoes invite them all. The rule is simple: never let them be an afterthought. For her, shoes are the social currency of style.
Rule Three: Jewellery is Identity
Accessories can flirt, but jewellery tells the truth. The “It Girl” knows that her rings, chains, and earrings speak louder than labels. A stack of thin gold bands feels different from a chunky statement ring. A delicate necklace layered with a bold pendant creates intrigue without a single word. Jewellery is personal— it’s how she leaves fingerprints on fashion. No two women layer pieces the same way, which is why hers feels like a signature, not an afterthought.
Rule Four: Hair Finishes the Sentence
Clothes may set the tone, but hair seals the story. It doesn’t matter how
polished the bag is or how sharp the shoe—if the hair doesn’t match the energy, the whole picture feels incomplete. The “It Girl” understands that hair is not just hair—it’s punctuation. A glossy bob can say power, box braids can say play, loose waves can whisper ease. Whatever the choice, it is deliberate. Because she knows people will remember how she looked, but they’ll recall how her hair felt.
Rule Five: The Final Touch is Invisible
The last rule is almost intangible, yet it’s the one that lingers. Fragrance. The “It Girl” is never without her invisible accessory, that trail of scent that hangs in the air long after she’s gone. Sweet, sultry, clean, bold—whatever she chooses, it becomes a part of her mythology. But it doesn’t stop at perfume. Lip gloss that catches the light, a hint of highlighter, rings that glint as she lifts her glass—all of it weaves into the aura.
