n the story of Nigerian politics and society, some figures stand out not only for their positions but also for the ways they redefine service. Senator Oluremi Tinubu, First Lady of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, has long occupied such a space. Known to many simply as “Remi,” she has been called politician, pastor, philanthropist, mother, and mentor. Yet beneath those titles runs a clear philosophy: leadership is about service and public life should be anchored in compassion, discipline, and faith. As Nigeria marks 65 years of independence, her story feels especially timely. In a country where politics often inspires cynicism, Oluremi Tinubu’s journey offers a reminder that influence can be used not just for power but for the good of society.
There are weeks that weigh heavily on us, and this past one was such. The news of Somto Maduagwu’s passing — one of the bright voices from ARISE — was a collective blow. It wasn’t only the media family that mourned, nor just her family, close friends and loved ones. Every Nigerian who stumbled across that headline seemed to pause, sigh, and feel the strange closeness of it. Because beneath the bylines and television appearances, she represented something familiar: the young Nigerian woman hustling, building, shining, and hoping for more. To lose her so suddenly was to be reminded of how fragile our days really are. It also drags us back, uncomfortably, to the security situation in the country. We live in a place where “safety” is too often negotiable, where lives are cut short without warning, and where we’re forced to normalise the abnormal. To speak honestly, this shouldn’t be our story. yet it is. We cannot keep looking away. Until insecurity is treated not as a side problem but as the very heart of our national crisis, stories like Somto’s will continue to feel painfully close to home.
Just days ago, Nigeria marked 65 years of independence. Independence Day is always complicated — it forces us to hold our grief and our gratitude in the same breath. We know the struggles: the economic hardship, the governance issues, the uncertainty. But we also know the wins. Our music is the loudest in the world. Our film industry has become a global export. Our designers are dressing the world’s biggest stars. Our sportswomen and men continue to break barriers. Nigerians, against all odds, remain the most resilient people you’ll meet anywhere. That is worth pausing to celebrate.
And now, as we step into the last quarter of the year, there is also a quiet challenge here: how do we finish strong? The months ahead will demand focus, a recalibration of what didn’t work earlier in the year, and the courage to carry our dreams across the line. For some, it’s about wrapping up projects. For others, it’s about simply surviving 2025 with hope intact. Whatever your story, may this last stretch bring clarity and courage.
So, this week, we hold space for Somto and all she represented. We honour her family and the void her passing leaves. We also hold space for our nation — bruised but still here, battered but still beautiful at 65. May we find ways to keep moving, keep creating, and keep insisting on better.
And to you, dear reader, may this final quarter of the year meet you with strength, softness, and a reminder that even in the heaviest weeks, we can still choose hope.
Love,
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
For a long time, fashion has been about ownership. Buying a new dress, stepping into fresh heels, or showing off the latest bag was part of the joy. But things are shifting. With the rising cost of clothes, the pressure of social media, and growing awareness about waste, more people are starting to ask: do we really have to own everything we wear?
That’s where fashion rental comes in.
In cities like Lagos and Abuja, women are beginning to explore rental services and Instagram businesses that let you borrow outfits for weddings, birthdays, photoshoots, or even vacations. It is an easy way to enjoy designer pieces or oneoff looks without spending a fortune. Why buy a gown you’ll only wear once when you can rent it at a fraction of the price?
Brands like Rent a Dress Online Ng, Rent a dress by 207 Costume, Lacharis Bridal rental Instagram-based services such as The Wardrobe Nigeria are making this culture more visible. Lagos stylists are also getting involved, curating racks of readyto-rent pieces for clients who want to slay at parties without worrying about repeating outfits. Some even include styling as part of the rental, ensuring the whole look comes together.
Renting also solves the “Instagram problem.” These days, once an outfit appears online, it can feel worn out. Renting means you can keep your looks fresh without the guilt of piling up clothes you’ll never wear again. There’s a practical side too. Renting helps cut down on waste, giving clothes longer lives and reducing how much new fabric gets churned out. It’s a small but real step toward more mindful fashion.
Of course, the culture isn’t without its hurdles. Some people are still uneasy about wearing clothes that others have worn, even if they’re properly cleaned. Availability can also be an issue, keeping collections updated and in top condition takes serious effort. And let’s be honest, in Nigeria, owning clothes has always been tied to status. Borrowing might take time to shake off that stigma. Still, the change is happening. Whether it’s a red carpet gown, a party dress, or even a designer handbag, rentals are opening up access to fashion that once felt out of reach. It may not replace shopping, but it does give a new kind of freedom. After all, isn’t real luxury about being able to wear what you want, when you want, without being weighed down by what hangs in
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Face First: The Right Order to Apply Your Makeup Like a Pro
Start with a Clean, Moisturised Face
Always begin with fresh skin. Wash your face with a gentle cleanser to remove dirt and oil. Then apply a moisturiser that suits your skin type. Use lightweight lotion if you have oily skin and richer creams if your skin is dry. If you are going out during the day, do not forget sunscreen. This step ensures your skin is hydrated, protected, and ready to hold makeup properly.
FACE FIRST: THE RIGHT ORDER TO APPLY YOUR MAKEUP LIKE A PRO
When it comes to makeup, half the battle is knowing what goes on first. The right order not only makes your face look seamless but also keeps your makeup intact for hours, whether you are rushing to work, dressing up for a party, or heading to a wedding. Doing it yourself does not have to feel intimidating once you know the sequence. Here is a step-bystep guide to doing your makeup in the right order and getting that polished finish.
Primer
Primer acts as the base between skincare and makeup. It smooths out pores, helps foundation glide on easily, and holds everything in place. Focus on areas where your makeup tends to slide off, like the T-zone, or choose a primer that addresses your specific needs, such as mattifying for oily skin or brightening for dullness.
Foundation
Foundation creates the canvas for the rest of your look. Apply in thin layers, blending outward from the centre of your face. Use a brush or sponge to avoid streaks and make sure to blend into your jawline and neck for a natural finish. The goal is to even out your complexion, not cover it completely.
Brows
Well-shaped brows frame the entire face. Brush them upward with a spoolie, then fill in sparse areas using a brow pencil, powder, or gel. Follow the natural shape of your brow rather than drawing in harsh lines. Even a little definition makes a big difference. EYE BROW PENCIL
Eyeshadow
Start with a neutral base shade all over your lids, then layer darker tones into the crease for depth. A shimmer shade on the centre of the lid can add some lift for an evening look. Blend well so there are no harsh lines. The eyeshadow sets the stage for eyeliner and mascara.
Eyeliner
Apply eyeliner close to your lash line to define your eyes. A pencil gives a softer look, while liquid or gel liners create sharper lines. For day, a thin line is enough. For night, experiment with wings or a bold cat-eye.
Mascara
Mascara opens up the eyes instantly. Wiggle the wand from root to tip to coat every lash, focusing on the outer corners to elongate the eyes. A few coats give volume and length, but be careful to avoid clumping.
Blush and Bronzer
Bring life back into your complexion with colour and warmth. Sweep bronzer lightly across the hollows of your cheeks, temples, and jawline for definition. Then apply blush to the apples of your cheeks and blend outward. Together, they keep your face from looking flat after foundation.
Concealer
Once your foundation is set, use concealer where you need extra help. Apply it under the eyes to brighten dark circles, on blemishes, or around the mouth and nose to cancel redness. Pat it in gently with your finger or a small brush so it melts into the skin instead of sitting on top.
Highlighter
Highlighter adds the final touch of glow. Apply it to areas the light naturally hits such as the tops of your cheekbones, the bridge of your nose, brow bones, and the cupid’s bow of your lips. The effect is subtle but brightens your face instantly.
Lips
Line your lips with a pencil that matches your chosen lip colour. This prevents feathering and helps your lipstick last longer. Then fill in with lipstick or gloss, depending on your mood.
A bold red transforms your look completely, while nude or soft pink keeps it natural.
Setting Powder or Spray
This is the step that makes everything last. For oily skin, dust a translucent powder lightly across your face to control shine. For a fresher finish, mist a setting spray over your
makeup. Both options hold everything in place.
Tip: Makeup is about more than colour and brushes. It is about rhythm and order. Once you master the flow, the process becomes second nature. You can also adapt it by skipping steps when you want something quick or layering more products when the occasion calls for full glam.
WHAT YOUR GOTO OUTFIT SAYS ABOUT YOU
By Aliyah Olowoyemo
There is a reason most people have that one outfit they reach for when they are in a hurry, uncertain about what to wear, or just want to feel like themselves. Call it a comfort zone or call it a signature; either way, it says more about you than you may realise. Fashion may seem like it is all about fabrics and cuts, but there is a psychology behind the choices we make.
Your go-to outfit is usually the one you do not have to think twice about. It is what you pick when you want to look good without effort, when you need reliability in a world of constant change. For some, that is a pair of well-worn jeans and a crisp white shirt. For others, it is a flowing dress that works whether you are at brunch or an office meeting. Whatever it is, it quietly communicates how you
see yourself and how you want the world to see you.
Take the jeans-and-shirt person. This outfit usually shows a love for simplicity and a desire to keep things clean and easy. It reflects a practical mind but also a confidence in being approachable. This person is not looking to be the loudest in the room, but they are often the one everyone feels comfortable talking to. On the other hand, someone who gravitates toward statement dresses or sharply tailored sets often leans into selfexpression. Their wardrobe choice shows they enjoy a little attention and do not shy away from being noticed.
Psychologists have studied this. Clothing acts as what researchers call “enclothed cognition.” The clothes we wear do not only influence how people see us, they also affect how we see ourselves. If your go-to outfit is sleek and professional, you are more
likely to carry yourself with authority. If it is playful and bright, you may find yourself in a lighter mood just by putting it on. This is why even on difficult days, wearing your favourite outfit can lift your energy. Cultural context matters too. In Nigeria, many people have a trusted Ankara set they can wear almost anywhere, from weddings to church to family gatherings. Choosing Ankara as your reliable outfit can signal tradition, identity, and belonging.
Meanwhile, someone whose default look is athleisure may be showing how much they value comfort, mobility, and a modern lifestyle that blends relaxation with fashion. We often underestimate the message our clothes send. That black shift dress you always wear when you are unsure what to put on tells the world you appreciate timelessness and control. That oversized shirt and sneakers you cannot live without reflect ease, youthfulness, and a preference for simplicity. None of these choices are accidental. They are extensions of personality, translated into fabric. Wardrobe psychology also explains why people feel unsettled when they are forced to wear something outside their comfort zone. A person who loves minimal lines may feel as if they are in costume if asked to wear bold prints. Conversely, someone who thrives in bright patterns may find neutrals draining. Fashion is not just external decoration; it is tied deeply to identity. The takeaway is simple: pay attention to your goto outfit. It is not just a fallback, it is a mirror. It tells you what you value, what makes you feel most at ease, and how you navigate the world. Fashion trends may come and go, but your trusted outfit is where your style, personality, and psychology meet.
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SHAFFY BELLO FOR GBENGA ARTSMITH: THE OWANBE MUSE COLLECTION
Shaffy Bello carries herself with the quiet confidence of a woman who knows her power. In Gbenga Artsmith’s new jewellery collection, that power meets the brand’s craftsmanship to create a visual story about style, culture, and the joy of celebration in the collection themed The Owanbe Muse Collection.
The collection offers a dialogue between tradition and modernity.
Coral beads, pearls, and gemstone chokers take centre stage, each piece handcrafted to command attention without overwhelming the wearer. They appear alongside the label’s signature beaded bags, accessories that do more than complete an outfit but transform it.
Styled with regal damask, classic aso-oke, and contemporary couture, the jewellery pieces are more than adornment; they speak modern traditional sophistication. On Shaffy, every necklace, earring, and bag tells a story: of heritage passed down, of gatherings remembered, of women who dress not just to be seen but to be remembered.
With this collection, Gbenga Artsmith presents more than a showcase of jewellery. It extends an invitation to women, from mothers of the bride and groom to guests with a love for elegance, to step into the spotlight. With Shaffy Bello as muse, the message is clear: jewellery is not the final touch, it is the beginning of the story.
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By Funke Babs-Kufeji
Few accessories are as versatile as the scarf. With just one piece of fabric, you can change the mood of an outfit, add colour, or even transform your look entirely. From the streets of Lagos to fashion capitals around the world, scarves continue to prove their staying power by reinventing themselves in endless ways.
Scarves as neckwear remain the most classic styling choice. A silk square tied neatly at the throat adds a refined touch to workwear, while a long, draped scarf over a simple dress brings instant drama. But beyond the neck, scarves thrive as adaptable accessories. Wrapped around the head, they recall heritage and tradition while also offering a chic, protective style for natural hair. Nigerian women, in particular, have perfected the art of the headscarf, whether tied boldly as a turban or knotted simply for understated flair.
Scarves also make unexpected but stylish belts. Threaded through trouser loops or tied around the waist of a flowing dress, they add a pop of pattern and colour without the heaviness of leather.
On handbags, a scarf tied to the handle instantly personalises a look, making an everyday tote feel more polished. For those who love experimenting, scarves can even double as tops, halter wraps, or beach cover-ups proof that creativity has no limits with this accessory.
The fabric choice also shifts its personality.
A lightweight chiffon scarf flutters romantically, perfect for warm weather, while chunky knits are practical and cosy for cooler days. Bold prints bring energy, while neutrals whisper quiet sophistication. This adaptability is what makes scarves less of an accessory and more of a style essential.
The beauty of a scarf lies in its ability to be many things at once: practical, decorative, cultural, or playful. Whether knotted, draped, wrapped, or tied, it offers an opportunity to express mood and identity without saying a word. It is not just an addition to an outfit, but often the detail that makes it memorable.
5 WAYS TO STYLE A SCARF TODAY
Classic Neck Tie
Fold a square scarf into a triangle, then knot it loosely at the front. Perfect for work outfits or to give a plain blouse a lift.
Headwrap Chic
Wrap a bold-print scarf around your head and knot it at the top or side. This doubles as a protective style for natural hair while adding flair.
Bag Handle Wrap
Spiral a scarf around the handle of your handbag and tie the ends in a bow. It instantly updates even the simplest tote.
Waist Belt
Thread a long scarf through your belt loops or knot it around a dress to add colour and pattern without the weight of a leather belt.
Shoulder Drape
Let a silk or chiffon scarf fall over your shoulders with one end tossed forward. It’s simple but carries an easy elegance for both day and night.
THE MANY LIVES OF A SCARF
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PALM WINE FOR THE SOUL, CHAMPAGNE FOR THE SHOW
Drinks have always been more than something to sip. They carry meaning, status, and identity. In Nigeria, few pairings show this better than palm wine and champagne. Both appear at weddings, birthdays, and owambes, but they do not say the same thing when raised in a toast.
Palm Wine: Tradition in a Calabash
Palm wine has been poured for centuries across Nigerian cultures. It is more than a drink; it is part of rituals, festivals, and family gatherings.
To serve palm wine at a celebration is to acknowledge tradition. It is a symbol of authenticity, rooted in the soil and the palm tree itself. For many, it carries nostalgia, a link to village life, to fathers and uncles gathered under a tree, to ceremonies where elders taste it before anyone else. Sharing palm wine is communal. It is affordable, abundant, and best enjoyed fresh, which makes it feel alive and unpretentious. It speaks of belonging, of culture, of choosing heritage over glamour.
Champagne: Status in a Glass
Champagne, the sparkling import, has become a fixture at upscale Nigerian parties. Where palm wine signals tradition, champagne reflects modern affluence. To pop a bottle is to declare success. It has become shorthand for wealth, often accompanied by theatrics such as the spray at clubs, the clinking of flutes at weddings, or the Instagram post showing off. Champagne is not just about taste. It is about image.
Imported, expensive, and linked to global sophistication, it tells the world you have arrived. While palm wine is about collective sharing, champagne leans toward personal display.
Two Drinks, One Story
Both drinks often sit side by side at events, showing how Nigerians balance tradition and modern life. At a wedding, a groom might present palm wine to his bride in keeping with custom, then later raise a glass of champagne for the toast. This mix captures a truth about Nigerian life: we respect our roots while reaching for new heights. What It Says About Us
Our choice of drink is rarely without meaning. To pour palm wine is to choose heritage. To pop champagne is to embrace aspiration. Neither is better or worse; both say something important. Together, they reflect the tension and beauty of our culture, grounded yet ambitious. So, the next time you see a calabash passed around or hear a cork pop, remember you are not just drinking. You are part of a story about identity, tradition, and how Nigerians continue to celebrate who we are and who we want to be.
THE TALKING STAGE: HOW LONG IS TOO LONG BEFORE MAKING IT OFFICIAL?
Every relationship today seems to begin with the same ritual: the talking stage. It is that in-between period where two people are constantly texting, sharing memes, sending playlists, and maybe going out a few times, but no one has put a label on what is happening. You are not quite single, but you are not in a defined relationship either. For some, it feels exciting and fresh, while for others it feels like a waiting room with no end in sight.
The talking stage has become such a common part of dating that it almost feels unavoidable. People want to “see where things go” before committing. It is a chance to test chemistry, gauge compatibility, and observe how someone communicates in everyday life. On the surface, it seems like a sensible step. After all, why rush into a relationship with someone you barely know?
But the difficult part is that the talking stage does not come with an expiry date. For one person, a few weeks of talking is enough to know whether to move forward. For another, three or four months of back and forth may still feel like just “getting to know each other.” This difference in timelines is where tension often begins to build. When does it cross from taking your time to wasting your time?
The Purpose of the Talking Stage At its best, the talking stage is about building trust without pressure. You learn what makes
the other person laugh, how they handle small disagreements, and whether your values align in everyday ways. It can feel light and exciting because it is free of the heavier conversations that come with defined relationships.
However, not everyone views the stage in the same way. For some, it is a short introduction to something more serious. For others, it is a safe zone where they can enjoy closeness without responsibility. That mismatch can leave one person waiting for clarity while the other avoids defining anything.
Signs It Has Gone On Too Long
There is no fixed timeline, but most people would agree that if you are still “talking” after several months with no sign of progress, it is worth asking questions. These are some signs that the talking stage may have dragged on too long:
You are spending time together regularly but the topic of exclusivity never comes up.
You feel anxious about whether they see you as a partner or just a friend they flirt with.
You hesitate to ask “what are we” for fear of scaring them off.
You notice that they avoid conversations about the future.
If any of these sounds familiar, the talking stage may no longer be serving its purpose. Instead of being a bridge into something deeper, it has become a holding pattern.
The Role of Communication
One of the biggest misconceptions about the talking stage is that labels ruin things. In reality, clarity usually strengthens them. If you like someone and want more, asking them where they stand does not make you needy or impatient. It simply sets boundaries and saves time.
If weeks have turned into months and you are still unsure of their intentions, it is reasonable
to have the conversation. The answer may not always be what you hope for, but at least you will know. Uncertainty is often harder to live with than rejection.
Why Some People Drag It Out
Not everyone stretches out the talking stage out of bad intentions. Some genuinely need more time to decide. Others may enjoy the connection but not be ready to commit. And some may simply like the benefits of closeness without the responsibility of a relationship.
Recognising which category your situation falls into is important. If someone is honest about not being ready, you can decide if you are willing to wait. But if someone is deliberately vague to keep you hanging, that is a red flag. How Long Is Too Long?
So how long should the talking stage last?
While there is no universal rule, many relationship experts suggest that three months is a reasonable window. By then, most people know whether they want to move forward. If things remain undefined much longer, it often means someone is avoiding a decision.
The Bottom Line
The talking stage is not a bad thing. It is a natural part of relationships and can be enjoyable when both people are on the same page. But it should be a step, not a destination.
If you feel stuck, confused, or anxious, it has probably gone on too long. The way forward is through honesty. If you like where things are going, say so. If you want more, ask. If the other person cannot give you clarity, you are free to move on and find someone who can.
At the end of the day, the talking stage is meant to help you figure out if a relationship is worth pursuing. If it feels more like a maze than a bridge, it may be time to ask the simplest and most important question: What are we doing here?
To mark her 65th birthday in September 2025, Oluremi Tinubu announced a fundraiser for the National Library of Nigeria. The initiative seeks to upgrade facilities and expand access to learning resources across the country. For her, this project reflects a lifelong passion for education and literacy. By tying her personal milestone to a national cause, she underlines her view that service should remain at the centre of public life
SENATOR OLUREMI TINUBU,CON: A FORCE FOR GOOD I
n the story of Nigerian politics and society, some figures stand out not only for their positions but also for the ways they redefine service.
Senator Oluremi Tinubu, First Lady of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, has long occupied such a space. Known to many simply as “Remi,” she has been called politician, pastor, philanthropist, mother, and mentor. Yet beneath those titles runs a clear philosophy: leadership is about service and public life should be anchored in compassion, discipline, and faith.As Nigeria marks 65 years of independence, her story feels especially timely. In a country where politics often inspires cynicism, Oluremi Tinubu’s journey offers a reminder that influence can be used not just for power but for the good of society.
FROM MODEST BEGINNINGS TO PUBLIC SERVICE
Born in 1960, the same year Nigeria gained independence, Oluremi Tinubu’s life has unfolded in tandem with the nation’s own path. A graduate of the University of Ife (now Obafemi Awolowo University), she studied Education and later obtained qualifications in Religious Studies. Her early professional life was in teaching, where she cultivated a belief in nurturing others, a belief that would remain central to her later public work.
Her marriage to Bola Ahmed Tinubu in 1987 brought her into the heart of Nigerian politics, though she initially stayed behind the scenes. When her husband became Governor of Lagos State in 1999, Oluremi Tinubu emerged not only as the governor’s swife but as a visible figure in her own right. The Office of the First Lady of Lagos became her platform for championing education, health, and empowerment, long before her election to the Nigerian Senate.
PHILOSOPHY OF SERVICE
Oluremi Tinubu’s public life is marked by a guiding belief: service to others is the highest calling. As a pastor in the Redeemed Christian Church of God, her faith has shaped her approach to politics and philanthropy. She often says that power is fleeting, but what endures is the impact one has on people’s lives.
This belief translates into principles that define her work. Leadership must show compassion and focus on the
vulnerable. Empowerment is more asting than dependency, so initiatives should give people tools for self-sufficiency rather than temporary relief. And faith should be the anchor that encourages integrity in public office.
ACHIEVEMENTS AS FIRST LADY OF LAGOS
During her time as Lagos First Lady (1999–2007), she launched programs that continue to be remembered for their reach and impact.
The New Era Foundation was her signature initiative, promoting youth development, environmental health, and community service. The foundation established recreational centres, organised youth holiday camps, and ran campaigns on health and education.
The Spelling Bee Competition was perhaps her most famous initiative. It provided a platform for secondary school students to showcase their talents, and winners were given the symbolic opportunity to act as “One-Day Governor of Lagos State,” which boosted civic awareness among young people.
She also set up widows’ empowerment schemes to support women who were often marginalised in Nigerian society with skills training and financial aid. These projects reflected her conviction that lasting development begins with investing in people.
A DECADE IN THE SENATE
In 2011, Oluremi Tinubu was elected to represent Lagos Central in the Senate, a seat she would hold for three consecutive terms until 2023. Over twelve years, she carved out a reputation as one of the most consistent female legislators in Nigeria.
Her legislative record included bills on social protection, such as the Older Persons (Rights and Privileges) Bill, which sought to safeguard the welfare of senior citizens. She pushed for greater representation of women in politics and the economy, insisting that the Nigerian story is incomplete without female voices at the table. She also focused on education and skill training, lobbying for improved funding and initiating scholarship programmes for students in her constituency.
Her constituency office in Lagos became known for its responsiveness, from distributing work tools to artisans, to providing financial grants for small businesses. Her tenure in the Senate was not without criticism few political careers are but she left with a track record of focus and discipline in a chamber often marred by theatrics.
First Lady of Nigeria: A Broader Platform
When her husband was sworn in as President in May 2023, Oluremi Tinubu assumed the role of Nigeria’s First Lady. From the outset, she signalled that she intended to make the office a platform for broad national impact, not just ceremonial appearances.
Her current initiatives include the Renewed Hope Initiative, a national programme focused on women, youth, the elderly, and persons with disabilities. It aims to deliver empowerment schemes, grants, and social support systems in all six geopolitical zones. She has also launched national scholarship schemes to support students from disadvantaged backgrounds. Health outreach programmes are providing medical interventions with a focus on cancer screening and maternal health. Agricultural empowerment projects are introducing training and start-up grants for women in agriculture, a critical sector for Nigeria’s food security.Already, her office has launched interventions that mirror her earlier work in Lagos, now scaled to a national stage.
Ongoing 65th Birthday Fundraiser
To mark her 65th birthday in September 2025, Oluremi Tinubu announced a fundraiser for the National Library of Nigeria. The initiative seeks to upgrade facilities and expand access to learning resources across the country. For her, this project reflects a lifelong passion for education and literacy. By tying her personal milestone to a national cause, she underlines her view that service should remain at the centre of public life.
ACTIVISM AND ADVOCACY
Beyond structured programmes, Oluremi Tinubu has also used her platform to advocate for cultural change. She is vocal about issues like gender-based violence, drug abuse among youth, and the erosion of civic values. She argues that Nigeria’s moral compass must be strengthened if development is to be sustainable, and she frequently calls on religious and community leaders to set examples of integrity. Her voice also resonates abroad, where she represents Nigeria not just as First Lady but as a woman leader. Whether addressing conferences on women’s empowerment or meeting international partners, she blends tradition and modernity in a way that makes her relatable both at home and abroad.
LEGACY IN THE MAKING
Oluremi Tinubu’s life and work raise a larger question: what does it mean to be a “force for good” in Nigeria today? The answer may lie not only in the projects she launches but in the values she champions. In a country where trust in leadership is fragile, she insists on the power of integrity. In a culture where short-term fixes are celebrated, she pushes for empowerment that lasts.
Her legacy, still in the making, will likely rest on education, empowerment, and ethics. These are the threads that run through her work from Lagos to Abuja.
At 65, Nigeria continues to wrestle with questions of identity, governance, and justice. Figures like Oluremi Tinubu remind us that patriotism is not only expressed in politics but in the work of nurturing communities. Whether mentoring young people, advocating for widows, or shaping policy in the Senate, she has sought to leave footprints of service.
To call her “a force for good” is not to deny the complexities of her role in a political family, nor the realities of Nigerian politics. It is, rather, to recognise a consistent thread in her journey: a belief that leadership is about lifting others. For a nation still striving to realise its promise, that message carries weight.
Oluremi Tinubu’s story is ultimately about possibility of what one woman, anchored in faith and driven by service, can contribute to the national narrative.
WHY STATEMENT EARRINGS RULE
Earrings have never been just decoration. Across board they’ve carried cultural meaning, marked identity, or simply been a way to shine. From the coral bead drops worn by Edo brides to the gold hoops passed down through families, earrings have always held a special place in style. Today, they’ve evolved into what we now call statement earrings pieces that are part jewelry, part sculpture.
By Aliyah Olowoyemo
What makes statement earrings stand out is their range. They play with scale, shape, and shine. They can be oversized hoops that graze the shoulders, sparkling chandeliers that catch every movement, or sculptural designs that look like art in miniature.
Some come alive in bold colours bright enamels, layered beads, or playful acrylics—while others stick to polished metals and exaggerated shapes like cascading petals, sculptural leaves, or fan-like arcs. Whatever the choice, they’re designed to be noticed.
Precious materials only add to the impact. Diamonds transform even a simple hoop into something dazzling. Rubies bring depth and drama, jade lends elegance, while gold and silver remain timeless favourites. Jewelers know the power these materials hold, whether used in sleek, minimal pieces that frame the face or in unapologetically bold creations encrusted with stones.
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
Looking put together is not about owning the most expensive clothes or a closet full of designer labels. It comes down to consistency, grooming, and attention to detail. When done right, it creates the impression of ease, even though there is a method behind it. Here are the key ways every man can step out each day looking sharp and confident.
The beauty of statement earrings is their ability to change an outfit instantly. A black slip dress without accessories feels understated; add oversized chandeliers and the look becomes high glamour. A white shirt and jeans might be casual, but pair them with bold hoops or colourful beaded drops and you’re suddenly ready for a night out. Few accessories shift the mood of an outfit so quickly and with so little effort.
There’s also their relationship with movement. Unlike shoes or bags, earrings come alive when you do.
A turn of the head, a laugh, a flip of the hair they catch the light and the eye in ways no other accessory can. They don’t just complement, they perform.
Cultural traditions have always given earrings weight. In Nigeria, coral beads are symbols of heritage and status. In India, earrings often mark rites of passage. The Maasai in East Africa wear large, stretched earrings as signs of beauty and identity. Modern fashion borrows from these histories, remixing motifs and materials into contemporary designs that carry both global and local stories. Perhaps this is why so many people see earrings as the most personal accessory. They sit close to the face, frame expressions, and highlight individuality. Makeup may shift, hairstyles may change, but the right pair of earrings always feels timeless.
Statement earrings aren’t just adornment—they’re confidence, personality, and history woven into small, dazzling pieces. And no matter where you are in the world, that’s a style rule that never fades.
Start with Grooming
No outfit can save poor grooming. Keep your hair trimmed, beard shaped, and nails clean. A haircut every few weeks and a regular shave or beard routine sets the tone. Skincare is just as important: cleanse, moisturise, and use sunscreen daily. Healthy skin always makes a difference. RICHARD MOFE-DAMIJO
Build a Reliable Wardrobe
Invest in basics that always work: crisp shirts, well-fitted trousers, tailored blazers, and quality shoes. Neutral colours like navy, grey, black, and white make mixing and matching easy. Fit matters more than the label. Clothes that follow your shape without being too tight or too loose instantly look refined. MODEL
Pay Attention to Shoes
Shoes say a lot. Keep them clean, polished, and in good condition.
A pair of leather loafers, classic sneakers, and formal dress shoes will serve most occasions. Worn-out soles or scuffed trainers can undo an otherwise sharp look. NOBLE IGWE
Keep Accessories Minimal and Smart
A good watch, a leather belt, and simple cufflinks when needed are enough. Sunglasses should suit your face shape, not just follow a trend. Less is more, and the aim is polish, not excess.
Smell as Good as You Look
Fragrance completes the picture. Find a cologne that works with your natural scent and make it your signature. Keep it subtle. It should draw people in, not overwhelm them.
Stay Consistent
Looking polished is a habit. Lay out your clothes the night before, keep your wardrobe organised, and take a moment to check your grooming before leaving the house. The small, steady steps add up to the overall impression.
HOW TO ALWAYS LOOK PUT TOGETHER: MEN’S EDITION
Let’s be honest, many men pretend they do not care about skincare until they are dipping into your expensive moisturiser or “borrowing” that serum you swore you had half a bottle of last week. The truth is, men need skincare just as much as women do. Giving him a simple routine of his own not only keeps your products safe but also benefits you too. Think smoother skin against yours, fewer breakouts from beard stubble, and bottles that finally last as long as they should. Here’s a straightforward guide to building a skincare routine for your man.
Cleanser
Men’s skin tends to be oilier and thicker, which makes a good cleanser nonnegotiable. Encourage him to swap the bar soap for a gentle face wash. It will clear dirt and excess oil without stripping the skin. A foaming cleanser in the morning and evening is enough.
BRICKWELL CLEANSER
Exfoliator
Dead skin cells make skin look dull and can clog pores. An exfoliator, used two to three times a week, helps keep his face smooth and can even reduce ingrown hairs from shaving. Choose a mild scrub or a chemical exfoliant with ingredients like glycolic acid. THE ORDINARY GLYCOLIC ACID
Moisturiser
Moisturising is where most men fall short, but it is key. A lightweight, nongreasy lotion in the morning keeps skin hydrated without that shiny finish men often complain about. At night, a slightly richer moisturiser helps repair the skin while he sleeps. NIVEA SOFT MOISTURISER
Sunscreen
Yes, even for men. Sunscreen is nonnegotiable if you want to prevent wrinkles, sunburn, and skin cancer. A broad-spectrum SPF 30 should go on every morning, ideally as the final step. A moisturiser with built-in SPF works well if he hates layering products.
HEADBLADE SUNSCREEN
Beard Care
Facial hair needs its own care. A beard wash keeps it clean, while beard oil softens coarse hair and moisturises the skin underneath. This not only prevents itchiness but also keeps the beard looking groomed. RUGGED BEARD OIL
Extras
If he is open to it, add an eye cream to reduce puffiness and dark circles. A simple serum with vitamin C in the morning can brighten and protect his skin, but keep extras optional so the routine does not feel overwhelming.
SKINCARE FOR HIM: A ROUTINE TO KEEP HIM OUT OF YOUR PRODUCTS
STAYCATIONS: FINDING HOLIDAY VIBES AT HOME
Sometimes the best getaway is no getaway at all. With rising travel costs, busy schedules, and the desire for comfort, more people are discovering the charm of staycations taking time off without leaving their city or even their home. A staycation is not just about saving money, it is about slowing down, enjoying your surroundings, and creating a holiday vibe without the stress of airports or long drives.
Why Staycations are Gaining Popularity
Transforming Your Home into a Retreat
The simplest form of a staycation is turning your own home into a sanctuary. This could mean buying scented candles, ordering your favourite meals, setting up a movie marathon, or even trying out a DIY spa day. Little touches like fresh flowers or clean sheets can make your space feel new. The goal is to break away from your regular routine and give yourself the same care you would expect at a hotel.
Exploring Your City Like a Tourist
Another version of a staycation is becoming a tourist in your own city. Most of us overlook attractions close to us because they feel too familiar. Visit museums, try new restaurants, spend a day at a local resort, or take a guided city tour. In Lagos, for example, you could spend a day at
Travelling can be fun, but it also comes with expenses, planning, and logistics. Between ticket prices, accommodation, and the endless packing, the idea of a break can quickly feel overwhelming. Staycations solve that problem. They allow you to rest, recharge, and still return to your normal life without the exhaustion that often comes after a “real” holiday.
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or book a night at a boutique hotel in Victoria Island. The point is to step outside your normal routine and see your surroundings with fresh eyes.
Quality Time Without the Hassle
Staycations also provide an opportunity for connection. Families can spend uninterrupted time together without the stress of long journeys. Couples can enjoy romantic evenings without worrying about flight schedules. Friends can host themed nights, pool parties, or game marathons that feel just as festive as travelling abroad.
A Holiday is a State of Mind
What makes a holiday special is not just the destination, but the feeling of escape and relaxation. Staycations prove that you can create that feeling anywhere. With a little imagination, you can enjoy the same sense of renewal and fun without ever crossing a border.
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THE ART OF A WELL-DRESSED DINING TABLE
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
A dining table is more than just a piece of furniture. It is the stage where food, conversation, and memories come together. The way you dress it sets the mood. A welllaid table can make a simple meal feel special and a celebration feel unforgettable.
Start with the Base
Every look begins with a foundation. A crisp white cloth is timeless, but runners or placemats can add personality. Textures like linen give a relaxed feel while silk adds elegance. This base layer should work with your dining space, not against it.
Let the Dinnerware Speak
Plates and bowls form the canvas for the meal. Neutral tones always work, but patterned edges or textured chargers add interest. Mixing shapes, such as round plates with square side dishes, creates subtle visual appeal without looking cluttered.
Sparkle and Shine
Glassware brings light to the table. Whether you are serving water, wine, or cocktails, make sure glasses are spotless. Polished cutlery does more than serve a purpose. It completes the sense of order and attention.
The Centrepiece Story
A centrepiece should draw the eye without blocking it. Keep arrangements low enough so guests can talk freely. A cluster of candles, a row of fresh flowers, or even a simple bowl of seasonal fruit can anchor the table. It does not need to be grand to be memorable.
Small Touches, Big Impact
Details matter. Napkins folded neatly or tied with ribbon, handwritten place cards at formal dinners, or a sprig of rosemary laid across each plate make guests feel thought of. These finishing touches show care without being overdone. Why It Matters
A well-dressed table is about more than appearance. It shows intention. It makes guests feel welcomed and turns everyday dining into a moment. Food tastes better when served with a little beauty.
BEDDING MATTERS: LAYERING SHEETS, DUVETS AND THROWS THE STYLISH WAY
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
The bedroom is more than a place to sleep. It is a retreat, a private space where comfort meets style. And nothing sets the tone quite like the way you dress your bed. Layering sheets, duvets, and throws is not just about warmth; it is about creating a bed that looks inviting and feels indulgent.
Start with Quality Sheets
Think of sheets as the foundation. Soft cotton or linen in neutral tones is timeless, while subtle stripes or muted prints can add quiet character. Crisp, clean sheets instantly make a bed look polished.
Add a Statement Duvet
The duvet is the heart of the bed, providing both comfort and a visual anchor. Opt for a colour or texture that complements the room. A quilted finish or a slight sheen adds depth. Fold it halfway down or layer it neatly to reveal the sheets underneath for a hotel-like effect.
Introduce a Throw for Texture
Throws bring personality. A chunky knit draped at the foot of the bed adds warmth, while a lightweight silk or cotton throw signals breezy elegance. Changing your throw with the season is a simple way to refresh your bed without a full overhaul. THROW BLANKET
Play with Pillows
Pillows are not just for sleep; they complete the look. Start with two to four standard pillows, add a pair of shams for structure, and finish with one or two cushions for colour or pattern. Keep it balanced too many pillows can overwhelm rather than enhance.
PILLOWS
Mind the Balance of Comfort and Style
Layering is about creating depth without clutter. Every element, from the sheets to the throw, should add to the comfort as much as to the look. The goal is a bed that invites you to dive in while still looking composed.
Why It Matters
The way you layer your bedding has the power to change how you feel in your space. It can make mornings calmer and nights more restful. A well-dressed bed is not just decoration. It is daily comfort styled to reflect your taste.
